The Best of The Rational Male – Year Six

Last weekend (August 19th) this blog entered into its seventh year, and once more it’s time to do the blog retrospective.

The Books

First and foremost last month I released the third installment in the books’ series, The Rational Male – Positive Masculinity. It’s about a month since its release now and I’ll admit it’s already exceeded my hopes and expectations. I know, everyone says that, but as I’ve learned, most authors struggle to match their earlier successes.

While this is still true of the first book (it still stands as the best seller and most popular) Positive Masculinity seems to resonate quite well with readers. I’ll admit I had some hesitation about focusing a quarter of the book on Red Pill Parenting, but this, it turns out, is exactly what’s catapulted it to a best seller in the Fatherhood and Parenting Boys sections on Amazon. For the initial four and a half weeks the book has held the number one best seller rank in Fatherhood and the number two and number five spot in  Parenting Boys. And for the first week and a half it held the number one best seller spot in Self Help.

At the risk of sounding like I’m glossing myself here, this is an incredible response when you consider the impact this book, written from a Red Pill perspective, might have in a mainstream reading world. It’s a great honor, but also a bit scary considering the social backlash of recent events. All the books continue to make inroads with men (and women) unfamiliar with Red Pill awareness, but the response to Positive Masculinity has been very promising so far. That said, the book is about much more than just parenting – which also adds to its overall appeal – so I’m hoping it will open some new eyes with regards to Red Pill awareness.

As things stand today, Sam Botta is finishing up the reading and mixing of the second book, Preventive Medicine. Sam is still struggling with medical complications due to his hit and run injuries (I’ll let him explain them in the comments), but the hope is still to have the Audible version of book two available in time for the 21 Convention at the end of September. For the audio of Positive Masculinity I’m still deciding as to whether I’ll do the read myself for this one, but my goal is to have it available in Q1 of 2018.

I should also add that the first book has seen its second retranslation. Beginning in Q4 The Rational Male will be available in Polish as well as the previous Korean version. I get a lot of readers asking for translations into Spanish and German (possibly Dutch too). This will be a priority for me in the coming year, so if you are a translator or know one who would like to partner with me to publish these translations please leave me a message on my About page.

Finally, I do have plans in the works to do a re-edit of the first book to address syntax, grammar and spelling issues. Contextually nothing will change, but once this revision is done I’ll be publishing a hardback version of The Rational Male through Barnes & Noble’s self-publishing format.

Blog Traffic

The blog continues to grow with regard to audience. 2016 had a slight decline from the previous year, and 2017 is on track to eclipse it, but the reach of The Rational Male still continues to grow.

I know Alexa.com isn’t the best metric, but it’s largely what most bloggers in the Manosphere use. These are the stats as of August 22, 2017 and I daresay these rankings are respectable for a Red Pill blog that’s never been monetized or advertised in six years. These numbers put me in good company amongst the most notable writers in the ‘sphere (as well as a few Purple Pill ‘life coaches’) and the blog continues to average just under half a million views per month. My general focus for the blog has always been as a delivery device for the message of Red Pill awareness, Game fundamentals and the unmoderated debate of intersexual dynamics. I’m pleased to see that in six years this discussion has proceeded in the same vein for all of them. Furthermore, I find it very encouraging when I’m told by Manosphere outsiders that The Rational Male is the best (sometimes their only) source for rational debate about Red Pill awareness and intersexual dynamics. I am not now, nor will I ever be interested in a Red Pill echo chamber/hug box and for six years the comment section has proven to be a ‘hot kitchen’ in which both critics and advocates can (largely) hash out the Red Pill details.

A lot has been made of free speech advocacy in the ‘sphere for a few years now. My stand has always been one about the free exchange of ideas. The only way an idea’s strength and merit can be tested is in the crucible of open debate. There are a great many Manosphere celebrities banging the gong about free speech who nonetheless block, edit and censor opinions they disagree with on their own forums. One purpose that this blog has is a free and open debate and (with the exception of spam and blatant trolling) will always be open to counterarguments.

The 21 Convention

As most of my regular readers are aware, I’ll be making my only in-person appearance at this year’s 21 Convention in Orlando, Florida, September 28 through October 1st. For more information on this event have a look at my rundown of it here. Furthermore, I’ve done a couple of interviews with 21 Convention founder Anthony Johnson about my participation and the talks I’ll be giving here and here.

If you haven’t made plans or purchased a weekend ticket I would encourage you to do so soon. The convention is getting close to being sold out, but if you have some issue with cost or you have some kind of hardship consideration and you really want to go, please contact myself or Anthony and we’ll work something out for you.

It bears repeating that I was less than enthusiastic about appearing not just publicly, but at this convention in particular. It’s always been my impression that the 21 Convention was a collection of largely Purple Pill dating coaches and not really in line with what (sometimes ugly) Red Pill awareness reveals to men. However, I’ve come to change my view of this convention in light of Anthony’s much more Red Pill focused line up for this 10th anniversary meet up. I’ll admit I had a hand in helping Anthony get what will amount to a Red Pill summit arranged. I really think this weekend will be a seminal event for Red Pill aware men and it’s my hope it will be something to help men change their lives.

This then is my very brief rundown of the 2016-2017 year for The Rational Male.

So here’s what I thought represents the best posts from year 6.

Let me know what your favorites were in the comments and let me know how TRM has helped you this year.

With humility and gratitude,

Rollo Tomassi

 

THE BEST OF THE RATIONAL MALE 2017

Interviews

Live with Obsidian & Alan Roger Currie

Mark Baxter, Ed Latimore & Rollo Tomassi

Anthony Johnson & Rollo Tomassi

Christian McQueen & Rollo Tomassi

Mark Baxter & Rollo Tomassi

 

Hypergamy

Stalling for Time

For Better or Worse

False Equivalencies

The Epiphany Phase Revisited

 

Series

The Reconstruction – I

The Reconstruction – II

The Reconstruction – III

The Reconstruction – IV

The Utility of Beta Men – I

The Utility of Beta Men – II

 

Social

The First Female President®  (Personal Favorite 2017)

Sexual Zoning

The Something Else

Transitioning

The Unbearable Rightness of Being Female

The Anger Bias

 

Red Pill / Game

Please, Breakup with Me

The Awareness

Submission

Confidence and the Safety Net  (Most Commented 2017)

Misperceptions of the Red Pill

 

Personal Development

Rites of Passage

Positive Masculinity

Teaching Slaves to Read

Family Integrity

Kill Your Idols

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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FR from moments ago Scene – airport bar. Next to attractive 40YO who is drinking a glass of red at counter, typing up RM story… She is chatting with older woman next to her. from the chat 40YO is in sales, selling IT sprockets to bigcos to SFA with in their organizations. Value add to society = nil. say her husband is…. wait for it… An undercover cop… Doggy ears perk up. Blah blah from them. Then older lady leaves. I’m considering talking to her when a dood blindsides her, whispers in her ear “is this seat taken” and she… Read more »

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Good thing not all working women fly around to business meetings and shit. Lol. I’m not really big on executrisses. Been around dozens of them, and of the ones that were married I always wondered ” who the fuck married you?”. Head of household. That’s your title period. If it’s becomes any kind of competition, you are on track for big losses. This is why having a working wife correctly is very much in line with RP. If you don’t understand what’s going on under the hood, it makes absolutely zero difference whether the wife works or not. If your… Read more »

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Blax All good “Be the man” stuff or as I would say Have Hand… But that’s still not the question. The question remains is there a RP evo psych bio case for a wife to work outside the home and lacking that… Have men just gone down the insidious path of the FI to the degree that they can’t even contemplate a wife not working as a sensible thing? Seems a 150 years ago… Or so. Being able to provide for a wife was a significant factor in getting hitched at all… Your prospects and such. And if she did… Read more »

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Patriarchy 2.0 needs to come in with a whimper… and a BANG.

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haven’t heard anyone here actually advocating for the wife working, mostly just acknowledging certain economic realities; besides, the question as you put it above to blax makes it seem like an either/or proposition when there may be other options (not that I have any suggestions, tho); maybe your point/question is…. would it be acceptable to you as a man if there were no economic reasons for her to work, but maybe more of the ‘not being bored’ or ‘career-ish’ motivations? in my case, I could keep us all in comfort but she kept a part time law practice on the… Read more »

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It’s not that she can’t make money Doc… It’s how and why…

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“mostly just acknowledging certain economic realities;”

See this is part of the BP And FI, same logic that drives ” buy a house with a mortgage” and “take out student loans”… Cuz u know you just HAVE to!

All to weaken you.

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I can’t concede that the economic realities part is *always* not applicable, ie, it can’t always be BP/FI… I see where much of it is driven by a consumerist mindset and yes, we could all live with less gluttony and less living beyond our means but that aside, the ‘why’ a woman would still feel some need to be at an outside work environment when she doesn’t economically have to is….. driven by the hypergamous need to keep the dim fire of other options burning while she still has some doubt about the worthiness of her husband… still on the… Read more »

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@sentient – the trad-con model of the guy bringing home the bacon, while the woman is a SAHW is also called by another name… Male Nest Slave (“Anatomy of Female Power” http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf).

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@Pinelero

Thanks for putting up the anatomy of female power. KFG had put this link up before and I read some of it,today I tried to buy it on amazon only to discover it has been banned in the us home of the first amendment.

Downloaded now thanks again.

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Both Blax and Sentient make good points. I believe Sentient is merely pointing out why allow more things into your life that can go wrong. It’s sort of like would you want your wife or LTR to spend a lot of time on social media or go out with just the girls. If you want to control all aspects of her life and try to reign that in then you’re going to burn a lot of energy doing that. Social media is not going away, neither is women working. Seems like what it comes down to if you’re not already… Read more »

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@Stuffin Box: “I tried to buy it on amazon only to discover it has been banned in the us home of the first amendment.” It is not, nor has it ever been, banned. It was simply never published in the US and is out of print in England and Nigeria, where it was only printed in small numbers. So used copies are rare on the market. It’s perfectly legal, if you can find one, to possess it. Piles of totally innocuous books share the same fate. Even some very good and highly respected books. It’s a market thing. The libraries… Read more »

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Thanks for the correction, not banned rather challenged. I don’t want to be continuing a rumor.

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Roused I believe Sentient is merely pointing out why allow more things into your life that can go wrong. It’s sort of like would you want your wife or LTR to spend a lot of time on social media or go out with just the girls. It is fascinating how the FI has skewed even RP guys ideas of “what makes sense”. FI = [to paraphrase CH] Maximally restricting male sexuality while removing all restrictions from female sexuality… or something like that… And so we reflexively get to subtle shaming language… If you want to control all aspects of her… Read more »

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Doc Z

but that aside, the ‘why’ a woman would still feel some need to be at an outside work environment when she doesn’t economically have to is….. driven by the hypergamous need to keep the dim fire of other options burning while she still has some doubt about the worthiness of her husband… still on the prowl whether she knows it or not

Yes there is a strong case to be made – for the other team…

But guys, be a supportive spouse ya know?

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And so we reflexively get to subtle shaming language… If you want to control all aspects of her life and try to reign that in then you’re going to burn a lot of energy doing that. The ever bad CONTROLLING… My intent was not to shame anyone. It’s a personal choice on what you expend your energy and MPO on. Right? Controlling can be negative or positive, depends on the situation and how it’s applied. Sentient, you might have a situation where you’re better able to handle these things…perhaps I have more to learn…but I thought all this has been… Read more »

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Roused I have no doubt you did not have a conscious intent… that is my point. How subtle and deeply ingrained this whole idea has become… where men reflexively adopt a defensive position to women working… Sentient, you might have a situation where you’re better able to handle these things… This isn’t really about me… but to demonstrate my wife worked for 3 months after we were married. This was when I was 24 and had a kid on the way and had no money and limited income. And she stopped her clerical job to be a mom right then.… Read more »

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Option #1 never get married in the first place.
#2 if married never loose frame.
#3 once frame is lost pay consequences.

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JP the kitchen is her domain,let her have it for christ sakes.

Don’t unpack it,she is fuckin nuts,leave it alone,hopefully a genius like JP has vetted well and this is the best he could find,get used to it.

A womans brain gets imprinted by her experience,together with her biological predisposition for certain things,like a bitch dog that once she has a litter her whole personality changes and she becomes vicious selfish and controlling get used to it.

Egalitarian Equalism is a myth.

Next you know JP’s wife will be a victim of his constant analysing her and caring too much.

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LOL on the current topic of discussion. The wife working or not depends on circumstances. And might be arbitrary depending on those circumstances. I think the argument is like: “should I eat macaroni salad with a fork or a spoon. Or perhaps a knife”. Depends on a persons skill level and personal feelings about the experience. That beings said, I’d work extra to have a wife stay home and raise the children as best as possible in a Dr. Laura Schlessinger kind of way. She’s into red pill parenting with a mother and father being complementary but different. (As an… Read more »

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Men in blue don’t keep us safe

They keep the shit bags safe from us

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This is something that sums up why i really enjoy the game rugby
http://masculine-style.com/im-not-gentleman/

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As for the statue deal, going to be funny when they have to start pulling down statues of black slave owners. Or MLK has to go because he wasn’t fond of tye gays marrying I’d start agitating for that right now if I was better at sort of thing just to fuck with them. Well that and I don’t want to see their monuments pulled down. That’s some straight up Taliban type shit right there And they will really shit bricks when it comes to monuments put up by former slaves to honor the folks who owned them and cared… Read more »

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“Men in blue don’t keep us safe…”

That was satire…

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First time poster, long-time reader, throughout the last two years of a disintegrating relationship (no marriage, one son), which ended a year ago… Where shall I post questions? Here? Field reports?

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Thanks Rollo, for all of your work. Like most here, I’ve been connecting that dots over the years, just not as well and not as industriously as you. Thank you.

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@Rugby11 Re: Neurofeedback video… Neurofeedback (administered by Rachel Ragsdale in Denver, CO) has been the least invasive among the mix of effective medical breakthroughs that are the reason the narration of “The Rational Male – Preventive Medicine (Volume 2)” audiobook will be available on Audible before The 21 Convention.

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Satire? I think The Girls have some earnings made out of that……

Also only philosophy I read and seemed helpful were the Stoics

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I miss you Sam

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@ Roused and Sentient …. and anyone else that can get anything from it. I’m never going to explain to a woman that she’s doing something that I don’t like or care for, at least not outright verbally. Observe them closely as their words combined with their actions will give you a very clear picture of who they are. What’s the real time variance between word and deed? I used to disagree with yareally ‘s pronouncements that all girls at a certain age can’t ever, under any circumstances, become untethered from endless social media bullshit ( along with the mandatory… Read more »

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The Atlantic? You mean my back 40?

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To be Red Pill is to recognize that though women are fully capable of rational thought, that is not their default setting. Any Red Pill man who vets a woman with the intention to marry her does so fully aware that if an opprtunity her hypergamy cant pass up presents itself, she will take it on and hamster it away after the deed. He will never find out.

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All a man can do is try to place things such he makes himself as much of a hypergamous optimal he can, and as much as he can minimize occurence of other opprtunities.

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“Sentient” Repeating a question that has already been answered: RP case for wife working. Platinum rule. Good enough for you? Probably not. Ok, more words: If a man deems that his Mission requires his woman to work outside the home for money, then he should make it so within his own parameters of safety. Vetting, full evaluation of his Mission, re-evaluation when he deems it necessary, etc. and who are you to tell him otherwise? Starting up the first Church of Sentient, maybe? Your solipsism, your “mah way is th’ ONLY RAHT way!” is showing. It’s one of your bad… Read more »

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Rollo,

For what ever reason, your second book does not link to your authors page on amazon. It might be worth fixing amazon gives you the tools to do so.

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QUESTION

I believe that one of the main ways that male’s jockey for status with one another, beating down their fellow male into a supplicating beta orientation, is by making commands.

How do you deal with an alpha who AMOG’s you by saying “do this. do this. do this”?

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https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanPeterson/comments/6wgca1/might_is_right_ragnar_redbeard_audiobook_all/?ref=share&ref_source=link

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“How do you deal with an alpha who AMOG’s you by saying “do this. do this. do this”?’
You demonstrate without the intention of explicating your intention’s.

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How do you deal with an alpha who AMOG’s you by saying “do this. do this. do this”?

“No thanks, you do it”, is one option. Probably won’t end right there though, so keep that in mind. Lots of men here know how to deal with an issue like that, but they’ll need a little more info if you’re really looking for advice.

Good one Rugby.

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Tom No one, be it and alpha or any other male, can make you ever do anything without a great measure of cooperation from you. Just think about that for a while and let it sink in. Guys can say whatever they want. It’s just words until it becomes a threat. Words are words. A command that’s ignored or rejected is just words that fall flat. Conceding that another man is somehow better without him having proven it to you in some manner is a suckers game. Don’t ever play. Don’t let ” social status ” mean more to you… Read more »

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If I had my tablet handy, I’d post up the ” get your shinebox ” scene from Goodfellas….. or even the ” funny how?” Scene.

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“Get your shinebox” from Goodfellas

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“Funny..how?”

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Hello. I’ve noticed that the website “the rawness” has been taken down. Does anyone have a copy of the articles that could be shared? It was really insightful stuff. Thanks in advance.

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Hello Gentlemen, It’s good to be back here reading your insightful, intelligent, funny, actionable posts. I’ve been away for awhile. Glad to see Rollo’s blog and books doing so well. Congratulations sir, and I sincerely thank you from the bottom of my purple-but-slowly-turning-red heart for your work. I am now eating my previous words about this being ideological and cult-like. lol. Some might remember that I was the eponymous subject of one of Rollo’s posts on purple pill, and the ensuing discussion about whether I was setting myself up for slaughter in marrying a Ukrainian I’d met online. I (basically)… Read more »

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I meant to also say that I have learned a ton from you guys, and really appreciate the time and energy that many of you spent last fall trying to get me to get my head out of my ass. What can I say, I need to learn the hard way. Truth is, though, you guys were so vehement about it, that it definitely helped me to keep myself in reserve and react a bit more strategically to her.

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@Mitch – welcome back. I didn’t engage much with you last fall but I remember the discussion well. I’m sure others with more relevant experience will be along soon with more actionable advice (although even I can tell you you should probably see a divorce lawyer just with a view to protecting yourself as much as possible and to know your options – and take this as a wake up call to know you have to improve yourself to be the man you need to be to lead your marriage – assuming you want to make this work instead of… Read more »

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@reloaded

This link is working.

http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf

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Mitch welcome back… I’ve mostly held my ground, but made some fairly key concessions in the spirit of playing fair Such as what? describe these “concessions” [danger word right there… lol] she has, in actuality at this point, zero leverage in this relationship LOL. Contract negotiation? she clearly has the means to leverage her pussy… errr… position. I don’t believe she was actually interacting with this guy with any conscious intent to find someone else, Irrelevant whether it was conscious or unconscious… result is the same. but clearly she thinks about it, and is willing to “play” with the idea,… Read more »

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@Mitch “I don’t believe she was actually interacting with this guy with any conscious intent to find someone else, but clearly she thinks about it.” She at this point has,figured you out,what she can get away with,and is looking to maximize her options,on a conscious level,what she may not have done is made a decision YET. You need to take measures now to cover your ass,and move her out.Keep in mind that everything she says and does is designed to keep you in check ,in the dark. You need to look at this woman like a serial monogamist that has… Read more »

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Rugby

re “Burden of Performance”… Weaponized Altruism

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Tom

How do you deal with an alpha who AMOG’s you by saying “do this. do this. do this”?

Give some examples… from just this snippet… It’s probably not an alpha saying this…

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Mitch On the whole EE mail order bride thing… here is a snippet of a FR you might find interesting… So I’m amused like OK here we go let’s see how long it takes for her pitch etc. But I can spend some time hanging with what turns out to be a true 29yo EE model. So we get to chatting and my frame is like granite she is a nobody to be physically…lol. I am in full yeah your pretty thats cool but what else ya got mode. And she is loving it. We get into an hour convo.… Read more »

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Weaponized Altruism…
Didn’t think of it that way.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDmPcSWE0WU
Suppose if guilt and shame or virtue signaling is involved than it’s being a white knight

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I am glad that TRM is going strong, and I would like to thank Rollo and all the regular commenters here for their contributions. Both posts and comments have been very important for me this summer.

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and take this as a wake up call to know you have to improve yourself to be the man you need to be to lead your marriage – assuming you want to make this work instead of just dumping her – after all you need to walk the path of self improvement anyway or you’ll run into this problem with any woman you date) Culum, thanks, that’s exactly it. I realize now that my looking in EE for a woman was partly about me taking a shortcut to getting a hot woman, not wanting to put in the work to… Read more »

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@Mitch, when is the last time you drove home from work, turned your vehicle off and said, “Thanks for getting me home today”? Answer: you haven’t. And once you realize that as far as hypergamy is concerned, we are no different than a utility, a vehicle to get women places. You think she gives a rat’s ass about all the stuff you’re able to provide her? You think her cooking all these meals is traditional femininity instead of it being putting oil in her vehicle (that vehicle being you)? You think you can outsmart hypergamy after you gave it power… Read more »

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Mitch

So there are a lot of constraining psychological factors,

Yes – but on your side…

If she sucks another guy’s cock – but does so in a traditionally feminine way – that matter?

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@Mitch, but if you choose to stick it out, I’d suggest finding the pdf for Sex God Method and start using it asap.

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mitch – respect for coming back here and being so brutally honest about yourself; it’s difficult to show up, drop your pants and let everyone have a turn at you… the anonymity here is what makes that possible for many men, me included having a high empathy level can be crippling for a man, it’s been that way for me anyway; I’m usually very sensitive to another’s feelings and have at times made choices that were more for the other person’s feelings/needs than what was best for me; it’ll be used against you unless you keep it in a cage,… Read more »

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Mitch Rugby “The online photo that got me was of her looking absolutely feminine and stunning, with an expression full of steely strength and smoldering passion that said “I dare you to take this on.”” https://www.springfieldspringfield.co.uk/movie_script.php?movie=philadelphia-story-the Dexter: But whatever he is, toots, you’ll have to stick. – He’ll give you no out as I did. Tracy: – I won’t require one. Dexter: I suppose you’d still be attractive to any man of spirit, though. There’s something engaging about it, this “goddess” business… something more challenging to the male than the more obvious charms. Tracy: – Really? Dexter: – Really. We’re… Read more »

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I’m usually very sensitive to another’s feelings and have at times made choices that were more for the other person’s feelings/needs than what was best for me; it’ll be used against you unless you keep it in a cage, and only let it out for those worthy of it

In a covert contract world of dog logic… this is how things go down… The Golden Rule is what?

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@Mitch “Yep! Though I also believe that she is not conscious of this.” She is conscious enough to be in contact electronically (that you know of) skype (they know what each other looks like) and maybe more. “She comes from a very good family – good as in parents and brother and adult son are really good people and alot of mutual love and respect”. Her good family was brought up in a different era, without skype and mail order brides.Just the fact that she has an adult son points to a number of things like failed relationship,hitting the wall,already… Read more »

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You see Mitch speaking as a good promise keeping family man,my best option for mom ,sisters, daughters is to get them married off to a good responsible promise keeping family man.

“Preventive Medicine”maps out the rest of the psychology that the brides have.

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” Not that anyone gives a rat’s ass after all my bullshit . . .” You’re wrong about this, as well. “I don’t believe she was actually interacting with this guy with any conscious intent to find someone else, but . . .” . . . a woman’s sexual strategy relies on deceit and manipulation. To an extent that she must deceive and manipulate herself for it to work. She must believe what she says, at the time she says it for the hamster behind the curtain not to become visible to her target, so it must remain, to some… Read more »

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Sentient, holy shit. Excellent mirror. Idealism draining away. Sad emoji.

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“What women want is for men to say “Oh. Right. Your prerogative. Yes dear.”

Until he does this^ then it is dead bedroom and shit tests galore until the next possible optimisation of hypergamy.

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Thank you thank you All

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@Stuffin Box:

Swedish Women 2016:

We’re not your women. We don’t want your protection.

Swedish Women 2017:

Where have all the Swedish men gone? Do they mean to leave us without protection?

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for those interested in the clip above

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gXRw45jyIsE

also “The Philadelphia Story” [not the petition to remove Frank Rizzo’s statue] is an outstanding red pill film. Highly recommend for this, beyond the glimpse of part of America that has nearly been eradicated [Main Line, manner of speaking, carriage, etc.].

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxSdB2L-Ffk

“I’m going to build you an ivory tower with my own two hands”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WCl3EnHnm_c

“Golly! … golly… moses…”

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dr zipper “having a high empathy level can be crippling for a man, it’s been that way for me anyway; I’m usually very sensitive to another’s feelings and have at times made choices that were more for the other person’s feelings/needs than what was best for me; it’ll be used against you unless you keep it in a cage, and only let it out for those worthy of it” Very true for me… It gets worse if you do not learn how this will harm you with age… newlyaloof https://www.scribd.com/document/317641132/Sex-God-Method-2nd-Edition-pdf http://bit.ly/2wWRWYS kfg Protection is a virtue that is observably giving… Read more »

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Mitch So now I need to figure out what to do. FIrst off, good on you for returning. A lot of men would be too proud or afraid of criticism to do that. Second, welcome back. Don’t panic. Do. Not. Panic. Don’t get butthurt, either. If you want this thing to stay intact, panic and/or butthurt will not work. If you are going to send her back, that decision needs to be made in a calm mindset, so again panic / butthurt are negatives. Now then, if she’s Skyping like that there’s hypergamous branch swinging in the air. Before I… Read more »

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“Sentient”
Don’t worry some guy will be along soon to rationalize that she needed to fill her idle time… and it’s totally RP to have your wife on social media… He won’t however be able to make a evo psych bio case for why this is in your interests… lol.

LOL @ your butthurt.

Get busy telling Ton and Blaximus “Yer not doin’ it my way YER DOING IT RONG!”.
Yeah, you’ll do that real soon.

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A little difficult to say welcome back Mitch. Your the one one that brought me from lurker to commenter. There are no unicorns you was warned and now it’s oh shit what have I got my self into ? I told you about my friend that went to China and got a wife and 6 months later he’s trying to sell her to me for a discount. He just want to recoup his money so he can go back and buy the perfect unicorn. Well I think I told you about it anyway. Good luck and thank you. You got… Read more »

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@Keith there’s a new thread all about Mitch, FYI.

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On 08/28, I received a “teaser-come-back-and-see-us-facebook-style” email from Linkedin. The subject line: “Here’s why you need a work spouse.” Opening the email there is a picture of a black man wearing eyeglasses and speaking while gesturing with his left hand showing a wedding ring while not making eye contact with the woman. The plain-looking white woman, above and to his right is watching him while holding an iPad. The caption reads, “Half of employees who had a ‘work spouse’ felt more strongly connected to their company.” Now from a red-pill perspective, the “work spouse” part and the more connected to… Read more »

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@ Rugby11

Sometimes when I feel I have a pretty lousy job, I remember the people who must clear the venues of the sleeping and comotose individuals who sat through an entire Sarah McLachlan concert. Then, I feel somewhat better.

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AR LOL @ your butthurt. Get busy telling Ton and Blaximus “Yer not doin’ it my way YER DOING IT RONG!”. Yeah, you’ll do that real soon. Well to even register butthurt one would have to be wrong. Since I’m not, there is no chance of that happening (despite the fact it wouldn’t happen anyway because “That’s who I am and your… nothing.”). The challenge was is there a RP case (evo bio psych case) for a woman to work outside the home and we got back: 1. Crickets. 2. Defensive rationalizing with a side of shaming. 3. Blax’s very… Read more »

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Does this webpage have the latest posts by Rollo, or is there a different site with his latest? Thanks.

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This the main site for RolloTomassi articles. He takes a while to write them, as a result they are longer and better thought out than the average androsphere blogger. The current one is The Golden Ticket.
He comments on his twitter feed as well, the link is in the sidebar.

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