Unconscious Contempt

Today’s essay was inspired by the lead image you see here and the subsequent exchange I had on Twitter about it. What you see here is a rather nebbish looking husband, I presume post-surgery, recovering from his vasectomy in bed. He is surrounded by cutesy post-it note jokes his wife left him (kind of like the notes your mom might put in your school lunch when you were a child) on a plethora of sugary snacks from the pantry.

The number of kids we’ll be having in the future – Zero

Forgive me if I Snicker

Sorry your dong got dinged

Good-bye to your swimmers

Mini Nonuts

Your berries got crunched

These are just a few of the ‘jokes’ his wife spent an awful lot of time creating.

Beta men and their wives joking about their vasectomies has become the meme du jour on all the usual social media sites where women congregate to appease their egos, gloss their girlfriends’ and commiserate about their fates of being wives and mothers. Before I dig in here I think I need to point out the utility that social media has evolved to serve in most women’s lives now. There was a time when a woman’s indignation needs could be met by daytime television, talkshows and romance novels when living vicariously through their girlfriends’ lives wasn’t sufficient. Today, women’s innate need for indignation is provided on-tap courtesy of the internet, social media and cutesy-but-insulting images of a husband are almost passé. I know, I’ve discussed this topic on a few podcasts, but it’s becoming increasingly more important for a man to understand what social media is providing to women’s nature and how their relationships are indirectly influenced by the exchanges their wives and girlfriends are having online.

I’ve seen a few of these “I got a vasectomy and my wife thinks it’s funny” social media posts before this one. Creating little post-it note jokes to apply to the snacks in the pantry might seem cute, but why is this even a thing? Why is it women/wives think it’s cute to publicly ridicule their partner about the impotence he elected to have? Amongst the Facebook and Instagram shots of her life, amongst the motivational quote memes, and among the complaints about kids, marriage and domestic life a moment of ridiculing their husband seems par for the course. And it’s all acceptable so long as the context is one of being ‘all in fun’.

Marriage today is a dicey proposition for men. I talk and write a lot about the overwhelmingly high risks of life and livelihood men should consider when it comes to how we do legal marriage in this era. MGTOW or not most men understand that marriage is basically for women now – at least with respect to the legal protections and the win-win incentives that are advertised for women. If all a woman ever did was read about marriage from social media and popular culture one would have to wonder why she would ever want to sign up for a lifetime of dealing with a husband, or the caricatures of average men, at all. The contempt for men, even in the most good natured, humorous, ways is palpable on most social media. It’s entirely acceptable, even expected, to deprecate the foibles of men in marriage. We literally can’t do anything right in a ‘female correct’ online world.

And like the “child-in-a-man’s-body” that women complain about, most of these average husbands are okay with being the butt of the joke. In fact, most are enthusiastic about their self-deprecation because they’ve been conditioned to think that doing so endears them to the women who married them and proves they’re “secure in their masculinity”.

Can’t you take a joke?

The first thing any woman, and any Beta male, will say is, “C’mon Rollo, it’s all in fun. Imagine being so humorless as not to get this? Who hurt you?” I think there’s an underlying acknowledgement of the passive aggressiveness that inspires this ‘humor’. When a comedian like Dave Chappell throws caution to the wind and does a 90 minute comedy routine that is funny as hell, but attacks the unassailable ‘correctness’ of our present social narrative we laugh along knowing the latent message of the humor. So, what is the latent message of making a man’s (elective) impotency a joke?

Imagine what the outrage would be on social media were you to make ‘cute’ jokes in the same way about your wife’s uterine ablation or tubal ligation. At the very least women wouldn’t think it was funny. No one tells women, “Lighten up. What, are you so insecure in your femininity that you can’t take a joke?” When a woman is rendered infertile it doesn’t occur to anyone to make light of it, but for a man to be neutered – and at the mutual agreement with his wife – we find the hit to his masculinity hilarious. Why is this?

I realize I’m focusing on one incident here in this image posted on r/funny, but this is an example of a larger dynamic. It’s socially acceptable to ridicule the impotency of Beta men. As I detailed in Selective Breeding, women will openly attack men’s genitals as a reflexive response to the possibility that a lesser man might try to fool her Hypergamous filters. A guy getting kicked in the nuts by a woman is always funny.

If women’s existential fear is being tricked into reproducing with a Beta male, then forcing herself to settle on a suboptimal man must inspire an inner conflict in her. There are lots of controversial self-help books published by women on both sides of this conflict. Some argue for women to accept a Beta guy and just make the best of it, others (especially religious books) argue that a woman should never compromise herself and wait for the best man (the ‘soulmate’ husband God has preordained for her) to present himself to her.

In Selective Breeding I made the argument that women’s existential fear is the possibility of having her Hypergamous filter (feminine intuition) fooled by a Beta male and becoming saddled with his shitty genetics for the rest of her life. This is a primal, evolved, fear for women that manifest itself, often unconsciously, in many of women’s behaviors that we either take for granted or we have social conventions that accommodate them. Decidedly gynocentric societies will legally mandate against this existential fear.

But what about women who are already married or pair-bonded with men that their evolved subconscious knows is a suboptimal choice for her? What about women who are trapped in a marriage with a guy that her hindbrain confirms is not the ‘best she can do’? How does that primal fear of being saddled with a faithful Beta manifest itself? 

He that has eyes to see and ears to hear may convince himself that no mortal can keep a secret. If his lips are silent, he chatters with his fingertips; betrayal oozes out of him at every pore.

Sigmund Freud

Unconscious Contempt

I would argue that women today have never been more comfortable in expressing their contempt of the men they married. My recent essays on Polyamory and the deconstruction of men’s Paternity imperatives have been an exploration of how a feminine-primary social order is reimagining itself with respect to how men and women will come together and form families in the future. People will claim that women’s lack of respect for the masculine is the result of generations of men not living up to some old-school ideal. That might be so, but women have no respect for the masculine, the male experience, simply because they have no need to. 

Why do women feel comfortable – to the point of taking it for granted – in expressing contempt for their husbands? We can argue the basis of where this passive-aggressiveness comes from, but why is it okay to veil this contempt in humor?

Before I get run up the flagpole for being a humorless boor let me reiterate that I’m not saying men ought to read more into things like this. My point is the bigger picture here; why do we find this funny at all? I believe it’s a form of anxiety release for women who’ve committed to a lifetime of parental investment with a man that her hindbrain knows is less than what she believes is best for her.

These images were pulled from an Instagram account called Motherhood Through Letterboards. What’s interesting about this is the contempt for fathers and husbands that bleeds through what we should probably have a sense of humor about. You can have a look at some of these to get the context, but the latent purpose of this exercise is a release of the anxiety created by women’s pairing and reproducing with men that their hindbrains cannot accept as Alpha.

Again, we talk a lot in the Manosphere about how social media contributes to the gross overinflation of women’s sense of self. It’s easy to see how women overestimate their sexual market value, and then conflate it with their personal value, but there’s more to this than just the woman on OKCupid who thinks she’s a 9 when she’s really a 6. There comes a time when that woman with the overblown sense of self must “settle” on a man who her hindbrain believes isn’t the best she could do. The metric by which she judges what is the best she can do is also subject to this ego-overinflation.

The main reason most women agonize over the question of whether she should “settle” for Mr. Good Enough is rooted in this Hypergamous conflict that usually comes at a time in her life where her SMV and her options with men are decaying. Today, the reason we see the age of first marriage being pushed later and later in life for women is due to women prolonging this indecision. She knows she can do better than the less-exciting Beta who seems like her best option in her Epiphany Phase because she’s had better in her Party Years. She also knows she can do better because social media and a constant steeping in the new Global Sexual Marketplace has convinced her she’s actually a 9, not a 6, and anything less than perfect is a waste of her potential. All of this plays on women’s primal, Existential Fear of pairing with a suboptimal mate choice – for life.

But now she’s committed. She married the only guy who would date her in that phase of her life given her circumstances. She married the Beta in Waiting, who’s overjoyed that he’s finally found his Quality Woman who appreciates his type. He’s thanking God for bringing him a woman who tells him “I’m done with the Jerks” and wants to do the ‘right’ thing now – while her hindbrain is contending with her existential fear becoming reality due to her own necessity. Now add 1-2 children into this mix (his or not) and you get this passive-aggressive manifestation of her existential angst.

Fortunately for her there’s an unending number of women experiencing exactly the same unconscious contempt for the men they married online in dozens of popular social media groups. The desire to “punch him in the face” is always tempered with “love”, humor and platitudes about relationships always being “hard work”.

End Note: Vasectomies

I feel it’s incumbent upon me to address what will be the predictable binary responses of literalist critics here:

• No, I’m not saying don’t get a vasectomy.

• No, I’m also not saying that if you did get a vasectomy you’re a pathetic loser Beta.

I will however point out that when I see stories about how a Beta husband did come to the decision to get a vasectomy there are always a lot of subconscious reasonings that go along with it. For all the notions of egalitarian marriages and self-praise for being rationally evolved above the hindbrain interpretations, on some level of consciousness a man electing to sterilize himself is a confirmation of the value he puts in his masculinity. This is why women think it’s funny to ridicule your impotency. Her hindbrain has 100% confirmation that you know your reproductive viability has no value.

A man’s reasons for getting a vasectomy may be valid and in some ways empowering for him. I imagine there’s at least some confidence to be derived from knowing you wont be held responsible for any “accidental” pregnancies. I get why men would opt for it, but the way a woman’s feral brain interprets a man sterilizing himself is what I’m getting at here. You may think, “Well, I don’t give a damn what women think about it.” Fine. Totally valid, but I’m outlining a woman’s instinctual response to a man permanently preventing his own reproduction. There is a subcommunication underneath this decision that denotes emasculation, and this is what women resent.

In some ways I see wives celebrating their husband’s vasectomy for reasons that have nothing to do with improving their sex lives. In the original Twitter thread I had men tell me that they got a vasectomy at the suggestion of their wives, believing it would lead to greater sexual frequency (or any sex in a sexless marriage) only to admit that it never improved anything for them. So, why the goading to get a vasectomy? The dots I keep connecting are a subconscious desire on the part of women to geld a husband to ensure he never reproduces with other women. It’s almost like a service she’s doing for the Sisterhood. She’s making sure that her mistake never becomes any other woman’s mistake.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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“Rich guys are a population that’s abused a lot.” Playing the victim is everything the Red Pill is not. It does not matter if he is rich or poor. That is playing into the FI A ‘rich guy’ could choose to not bang a ton of women or play safe. The thinking that 20% of women are out to get knocked up being the reason to get the snip is a bit short sighted. Learn to identify and evaluate that 20% of women and avoid. A man In his 30s and 50s is no longer an irresponsible teenager. There are… Read more »

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“Why is it women/wives think it’s cute to publicly ridicule their partner about the impotence he elected to have?” Your intentional conflating of sterilization with impotence is repulsive. Vasectomies can be reversed, or sperm can otherwise be extracted, as long as the testes are properly functioning. I got a vasectomy after the second (and both planned) child. Why? To avoid the risk of my (now ex-) wife intentionally “accidentally” becoming pregnant. Yeah, I knew the game, even then. My best decision ever, and it saved me a ton of child support money and prevented me from creating a hostage that… Read more »

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Rollo’s post is about contempt, not vasectomy per se.

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😂 This is some crazy shit. I mean, I get it, ” I didn’t want ( more or any ) children, but it’s the reasoning that’s atrocious. ” I didn’t want her/wife ” trapping ” me into child support, so I surgically altered myself to stop her “. Who frame this is? So women do the same? Any of them sewing their vaginas shut? What I’m hearing is : I don’t understand the mechanics of sex and I have zero sexual control ( and proud of it) and I am easily manipulated by women using my uncontrollable sex drive against… Read more »

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…. Muh money😂

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Blax Redlight left out the more choice morsels from that 2017 article… Alex, 37, already has two kids with his wife, but the health care administrator got a vasectomy late last year specifically so he could fool around — no strings attached — in the Hamptons. The downtown Brooklyn man and his spouse of 10 years are in an open relationship, but he almost screwed things up last summer when he got stealthed by a comely Russian model he’d met at dinner in Southampton. During sex, the woman pulled off his condom. “I asked, ‘WTF?’ ” recalled Alex. But he didn’t… Read more »

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Lol, that pic speaks volumes in itself.

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“If a court orders that your wages be garnished to satisfy any debt except child support or alimony, a maximum of roughly 25% of your net wages can be taken. For unpaid child support, however, up to 50% of your net wages can be garnished, and up to 60% if you are not currently supporting another dependent.”

Pretending we don’t live in a FI society does men a disservice

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There are upshots to this social situation though. Living in Quebec, where feminism was really ardent in the 70s and 80s, the “pink” men (Vichy males for you) are solidly implemented here. Now, after 30 years of these pussy whipped men roaming around and thirsting for women, you totally see the effect of red pill attitudes on the same women. They are so tired of soft men. Case in point, I accidentally spilled a whole pint of beer on a girl I was speaking with. Instead of being angry at me, she vented her anger on her boyfriend in front… Read more »

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marquisdestade I accidentally spilled a whole pint of beer on a girl I was speaking with. Instead of being angry at me, she vented her anger on her boyfriend in front of the whole bar for full 5 minutes, Habitual comtemptuous behavior on her part. I’m sure he’s used to it, too. Whether she blabbed about it later on social media is an open question. John Gottman’s research on relationships was solid in the 80’s and 90’s, that is when he wrote his “4 horsemen”. “Contempt by wife” is one of the four conditions that means a couple will either… Read more »

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Speaking of contempt, there’s been considerable research (and pseudo social-science) on eye-rolling — supposedly a grave warning signal in a relationship

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is vasectomy detectable by casual female “inspection”?

if not then females have no way of knowing a man’s “status”

somebody could invent an implant that would open/close vas by secret remote device and then start an outpatient business where red pill fathers get their sons inplanted at 13 and then the boy can take it out anytime he wants after age of majority. something tells me they’ll leave them in because they like controlling who get their genes and when

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Sorry, but it comes back around to vetting and mpoo. eye rolling? She’d better not let me see it. Berating? Ohhhhh hell naw. Even a ” fuckbuddy ” or casual occasional sex partner needs to get that the flippant disrespect is never going to be a part of the program. Ever. There are way too many women in earth to tolerate this behavior. Dismissal will be eminent. Re: child support. Lol, we’ve been here before. Take care of your kids and stop trying to weasel out of it because of your feelz. Avoid court rape by choosing better and demonstrations.… Read more »

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I believe Athol Kay said contempt was virtually unrecoverable from.

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I’ll share the experience I am going through right now. I met my ex when we were both 23 years old (we are both 38 now). We had 2 daughters. After my youngest was old enough to go to school my wife went back to work and later found out she was having an affair with her boss. So I packed my shit and left. This was a little over 2 years ago. (I stayed with her for a few years to try and make it work). We have stayed friends and still see her and my daughters at the… Read more »

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“Don’t accept contempt-by-wife, even as it becomes normative on the larger world of social media.” “I believe Athol Kay said contempt was virtually unrecoverable from.” ” I actually found that in turning things around in LTR game, it was actually quite easy to remove contempt more-so than other behaviors. By doing just what AR states. By not accepting it. The trick is being conscious and aware that it is happening. Not unaware, non-self differentiated, and co-dependent. Shit testing and putting him to work are often coated with contempt. And it’s the doing it over and over and over that kills… Read more »

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If: “I stayed with her for a few years to try and make it work.” Then: “She flipped out and said that if I had any kids with her that she would file for child support and come after me in every way she could.” “So I don’t know if it is so much as to “not letting another woman make the same mistake” but to me I feel like she is mate guarding me.” lol mate guarding you like a plantation owner guard his human chattel. she care only for work capacity and consistent income potential as evidenced by… Read more »

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somebody could invent an implant that would open/close

lol. Especially the remote.

Something like that really was tried last century, though, to make it easily reversed.. Human tissue tends to grow all over the valve. It gets stuck.

But lolz. “what are looking for honey? The remote? Isn’t that it over there by the computer?”

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con·tempt
/kənˈtem(p)t/
noun
the feeling that a person or a thing is beneath consideration, worthless, or deserving scorn.
“he showed his contempt for his job by doing it very badly”
synonyms: scorn, disdain, disrespect, deprecation, disparagement, denigration, opprobrium, odium, obloquy, scornfulness, derision, mockery, ridicule, disgust, loathing, detestation, abhorrence, hatred, contumely

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Get your sperm frozen before you get snipped. Not necessary to disclose to anybody. Then sit back and wait for hoe to claim you knocked her up.

That look on her face when you tell her you’ve been snipped…. priceless…

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I had vasectomy a year ago and that has been the most amazing peace of mind I have given myself. I have a daughter and she is 11. Did it after swallowing the red pill when I became single after a 10 year relationship with a single mother (yeah my Beta’s days lol). Am free now and have kept it a secret from every woman I have dated.

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IAS ” @Blax: you recently wrote (in a different comment) a story about a girl holding onto you as you ejaculated inside her (without your consent). Do you mind rewriting?” Okay I got time, so I’ll give the long(er) version for context. Met this gorgeous chick that worked in the corporate office of a company I worked for. I had to go there weekly for meetings and such, and to grab the paychecks for my staff. I flirted with her relentlessly, as she was one of the most beautiful women I’d ever seen up close. Lol, it’s like she wasn’t… Read more »

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@Nikolai

I think the purpose of the gelding is not for the sisterhood, but to prevent his resources being shared with future partners. Those resources are the main thing offered by the beta, after all

That’s illusion. You can’t trap resources. Your money will fund many women’s wellbeing one way or another. And stagnation is never ever a strategy.

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I had vasectomy a year ago and that has been the most amazing peace of mind I have given myself. I have a daughter and she is 11. Did it after swallowing the red pill when I became single after a 10 year relationship with a single mother (yeah my Beta’s days lol). Am free now and have kept it a secret from every woman I have dated.

Don’t worry dude. You’re still the beta you’ve ever been.

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It’s all so tiresome, to be a man nowadays requires so much work and dedication for little reward, and at the end of the day it can all be taken away by small little mistakes. It’s not worth it it now to have a family, which is a shame to say, because the work it requires from a man in the know is just tiring. Women’s standards keep going up, and they don’t come down, men are getting pushed out of everything they enjoy, men are demonized simply for being men by all facets of life, and you can’t even… Read more »

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@Blax: thanks, I vaguely remember she had “stealthed” you (apparently that is the term for removing the condom without one of the partners noticing), but it wasn’t quite that. In any case, if I have fucked them a couple of times, then I start to go in raw, and either put a condom in before going in for the finale, or come somewhere on the body (away from the vulva and I then wipe them up and take them to a shower). There are some risks, STDs aside, focusing on the pregnancy risk – one of which is the “rodeo”… Read more »

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Jack

“It’s all so tiresome, to be a man nowadays requires so much work and dedication for little reward, and at the end of the day it can all be taken away by small little mistakes.”

Really bro?
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Meanwhile ADJ is retweeting five month old tweets about Rollo and a reporter…

😂😂😂😂😂

What a fag…

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“I had vasectomy a year ago and that has been the most amazing peace of mind I have given myself”

Have you analyzed why you didn’t have peace of mind before, perhaps that’s the real question you should be asking ?

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unconscious contempt:

sondland: “i remember the first girl i kissed”

also gordon sondland: “the gordon problem? that’s what my wife calls it.”

congressional room full of pussies laugh heartily

this motherfucker can’t buy his way out of female contempt for all the hotels in the world lol

in terms of know your enemy…

all these swampers are fucking pussies. move aggressively on them at every chance. they make big mistakes when challenged. they are empty suits. treat them as such and move past them with the contempt they yearn for

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Should have got himself snipped. Those red pill truths can be difficult to internalize. lol

https://www.breitbart.com/2020-election/2019/11/20/dna-test-confirms-hunter-biden-father-arkansas-baby-court-docs/

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@fact

Rollo also highlighted the child support issue by retweeting this article:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7708081/Hunter-Biden-father-Arkansas-womans-child-paternity-testing-confirms.html

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To all those whining about hard hard it is to be a man today, and I got a vasectomy because “reasons” Yes, it is hard to be a man – always has been. Then guess what – life really gets tough…you die! Sucks to be you!! Seriously, there are plenty of options today if you don’t want to be man….see you local doctor, especially those in any liberal leftist controlled urban areas……they’ll be happy to make you not a man, and the government might even pay you to do it! But to voluntarily deselect, in essence, what makes you a… Read more »

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What this article just screams is that men need a reliable fertility control ‘pill’. It is an absolute disgrace and scandal that we spend so much money on “women’s health care” and next to nothing for men’s. Right now, our only two options are either getting snipped or wearing a hat, both of which have their problems. While not having as great an impact as the pill did for women, a MBCP would be a game changer because it would work against women’s hypergamist instincts. The men who used it would be by definition the alphas who would have something… Read more »

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Vasectomy and Loss of Frame (or continued degradation of frame) or From Unconscious Contempt to Conscious Contempt I shared this story 2 years ago, but it’s a good one. So, this couple, Mr. & Mrs. S, was “caught” by pregnancy and got married. She supported him by working while he finished school. So, he owed her “forever”, because she kept his baby and she paid for his education. Fast-forward about 10 years – They have a boy and two girls. My son used to play with their son. We were superficially neighborly, and, from time-to-time, my wife would look after… Read more »

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Prof Woland While not having as great an impact as the pill did for women, a MBCP would be a game changer because it would work against women’s hypergamist instincts. Nope. Look, we’ve been over this before. Hormonal contraception in men screws with the endocrine system even more than in women, because men crank out sperm cells all the time, 24 / 7. Vasalgel may or may not be easily reversed. “Game changer”, nope. Put on your Glasses – women do something with rules for betas, and something else with rules for alphas – alpha is still situational even in… Read more »

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This is a finer-grained variation of contempt.

https://apnews.com/2b962a7218d949ee84963d91f370edec

First wife, second wife, stepchildren, feminism – all there, and the man at the center of it probably has no real clue what’s going on around him.

Put on The Glasses and read with care. The contempt is simmering just under the surface in both girls.

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Female contempt for men is part of everyday life and most of it is thinly veiled as humour. The female office manager says to me ‘Typical man. Does not listen’. It’s laughed off by her peers. It does not bother me. I don’t acknowledge it but I know what it is. Switch the gender dynamic or reply with ‘Oh, I am actually listening it’s just that what comes out of a woman’s mouth is mostly white noise’ and I would be in front of HR so fast. Openly passive aggressive contempt (not shit tests), from women about men, is part… Read more »

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yep.

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Should have got himself snipped. Those red pill truths can be difficult to internalize. lol

Here’s a pic. Hunter Biden on the right, Lunden Roberts on the left.
Looks like a nice, normal girl, eh?
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Hunter Biden…..
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Broken Record Department: So, Hunter Biden busts nuts inside this Arkansas chick. She gets pregnant, and tells him he’s the father. He denies. Because he doesn’t feel like it…or something. DNA test bursts his bubble. I wonder is he flabbergasted and will make haste to get a vasectomy? Gee, how could any of this be avoided? So he gets married last month, after giving baby momma the stiff arm, and she heads off to the court system. Does this really, really seem all that odd or unwarranted? Is she a bitch for dragging him into ” The System “? Is… Read more »

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Blaximus
Arkansas woman, 28, sues Hunter Biden for child support claiming he is the father of her 10-month-old baby who he ‘fathered during his relationship with his late brother’s widow’

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Have you used the word Jews even once on this blog?

How much do you want to be all of these are Jews joking about vasectomies, when in fact they don’t get them, and plan on having many more children?

Remember the prime imperative of Jews: have large families, prevent large white families, promote race mixing.

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Off topic but related to an older discussion we had here: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/46113727-scarred LOL Reviews: Riveting from the first moment I picked it up. Sarah, a friend and a person I respect very much actually indoctrinated me into the program in this book. I bowed out after a time. But can absolutely see how this could happen. Or: What a joke this book is. Please save your money. Dont give this lady anymore money to live her lavish lifestyle. Don’t give her anymore attention for her story. So much self-flagellation and pretend remorse. You seem like you are trying to glamorize… Read more »

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‘Heyyyyy we gonna make babies!!”

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Guys, get this. There is a certain class of woman these days who is overtly angry at the low quality men they are forced to choose from. Consider the aspect of hypergamy that has all women aiming for the top 20% of men – they will always be disappointed. Even after they get married and become mothers. The trapped feeling, the overwhelming sense they can do better plagues them. They are also proud of their libidos, a funny hypocrisy as if I was open in most settings about my sexual behavior I’d be shamed. Older white men are not allowed… Read more »

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And it’s @Blax for the win. “So women do the same? Any of them sewing their vaginas shut?”

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@Blax is on fiyah! Hunter Biden a victim? Giggling. Also, a “playah” is a guy who IS reckless with his dick you idiots. But still, the only way a woman can get pregnant is if you cum in her during the small window every month in which she is fertile, if she’s not on birth control. I have barebacked most of my life, I’m quite capable of pulling out and sticking my dick in my partner’s mouth when I’m ready to finish.

I like being reckless with my dick. You guys should try it, it’s called “being a man”.

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From Canada (which now has a Minister of Middle Class Prosperity) the latest Jordan Peterson:

https://nationalpost.com/opinion/jordan-peterson-why-the-western-emphasis-on-individuals-is-the-ultimate-in-intersectionality

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@ “reckless” scribs

Frank Fartley, a psychologist at Temple University, says that many pregnancy risking men have what he calls Type-T (as in “thrill”) personalities: “Sex can be quite boring because it’s such a routine, and this is a way to make the routine more interesting. These can be risk-taking, stimulation-seeking people.” According to this theory, some Type Ts become Rock Stars or Mafia hit men, while others settle for banging Stacy from Safeway.

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@scribblerg

AMOG fail.

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@sp gp Sorry, no one can understand what you’re saying with that giant circumcised cock in your throat. But seriously… fuck off. “The Joooooooooos are behind it all” is about the dumbest thing a person can still believe. “Vasectomies are a Jewish conspiracy…” sure pal. Never mind that an ethnic group cannot be collectively responsible for anything, or that non-Orthodox Jewish birth rates are lower than the national average (about 1.86 vs 2.03 in the US – though you’ll probably disregard those as “tainted figures” because it doesn’t fit your retarded worldview – “the Joos” probably manipulated those numbers, right?… Read more »

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Just throwing in another chunk of gynocracy……

In the State of Washington, a married man needs permission from his wife to get a vasectomy. Of course, no such permission is required for an abortion…

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What about the first guy looks “nebbish”? Does Rollo look like Rambo or something in comparison? I think if you put them both in the ring, it would be pretty even, or slightly tipped in the snackman’s favor.

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So, how many men took to the streets or even mildly objected to lawmakers?

Any cars get burned/turned over, or horses punched?

http://www.people.com.cn/mediafile/pic/20110617/95/8724674011225090235.jpg

Maybe sports teams should legislate, to get more involvement in outcomes.

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In the State of Washington, a married man needs permission from his wife to get a vasectomy. Of course, no such permission is required for an abortion…

That’s right. Beta males should just be treated like this, more harsh rules to come.

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The more I read, the more MGTOW is trying to sell me his goods. But, I love women. The way they move. The way they smell. Sex is amazing with a woman who you find extremely hot. Life is too good to ignore. We all only have one and it is short. MGTOW blame politics, women, religion, society, the system, kittens and everything in between for men getting a bad deal in life. Boo hoo. Suck it up. That is the beauty of the The Red Pill and TRM it helps you understand yourself as a man but also understand… Read more »

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That Washington consent reference appears false. Source?

What do invitations look like to a V Party?

https://www.wsj.com/articles/its-a-vasectomy-party-snips-chips-and-dips-with-your-closest-friends-1500830029

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Brosectomy

😂😂😂

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“The pitch: Doctor’s orders are a perfect excuse to watch the NCAA basketball tournament in its entirety.

“Ready for some wife-approved couch time? Have your vasectomy on a Thursday or Friday. Then you can recover over the weekend while watching some great games!” said a Urology of Indiana advertisement ahead of this year’s March Madness.”

Zeus… 🔥🌋🌊🌠⚡ NOW!!!

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” Her entire view of men is based on utility.” – Scribs

At the core this is all women, except maybe your mother. Some women just put more layers on top of it , make no mistake whether it’s genetics(Alpha) or Beta(Resources).

Once you internalize this a man, it becomes much easier and you can actually begin to truly enjoy them and accept them for what they are.

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Definitely your Mother as well…

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“ The dots I keep connecting are a subconscious desire on the part of women to geld a husband to ensure he never reproduces with other women. “ Agreed, but why? “It’s almost like a service she’s doing for the Sisterhood.” I think there is a simpler explanation to part two, to lock him and his resources down. Him having a child with another woman is a threat on multiple levels. One, Ego. The thought of him knocking up a hot younger girl is almost unbearable to their ego. But also security, for herself and her children. She doesnt want… Read more »

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My sister was a domineering cunt. When I was weak, she tried to set herself up as an authority in my life. When I became strong, she calmed down and tried to play up to me, but I hated her stupid ass(How dare she put me to the test?) so I set her up to get rid of her dumb ass because she was a liability to my newly constructed identity. I grew pretty weary of her constant shit-testing and constant need to be included in my life. How’s this related to this gelding phenomena? Simple. Women are not only… Read more »

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Türkiye’nin Tüm Şehirlerinde Nakliyat Yapanlar https://www.nakliyatyapanlar.com olarak nakliye ihtiyaçlarınıza çözüm üretmektedir.

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Reposting after accidentally posting it to an old article; in response to a recent tweet from Rollo’s thread about the new book, Gender Moasic by Dr. Daphna Joel: “I came across research suggesting that tiny neuronal stuctures called spines in the hippocampus, a brain structure involved in memory, are denser in female rats than they are in male rats. But in rats that received electrical shocks, which cause them stress, the sex difference is reversed: The spines are dense in males and sparse in females.” –Dr. Daphna Joel In other words, even when male and female brains appear to be… Read more »

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Or Mosaic, as the case may be. Either I’ve had way too much coffee, or not nearly enough. I’m not sure which.

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If you ignore it, it goes away!

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54 year old attorney friend of mine was dating a 27 year old he never wanted to get trapped so he had a vasectomy. She quickly dumped him. On another note vasectomies are not always free from complications despite what you hear. I think there was some nerve damage from mine

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@2444

Do NOT tell her you had a vasectomy. A woman can have an abortion or stop/start taking birth control without telling you.

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Spice girl Mel B:

“In an ideal world, you’d have this person there for your emotional support, you’d have that person there for your intimacy”

https://news.yahoo.com/mel-b-multiple-partners-111631984.html

edit:

“In an ideal world, you’d have this person there for support, you’d have that person there for sex”

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Spice girl Mel B:

“In an ideal world, you’d have this person there for your emotional support, you’d have that person there for your intimacy”

Open hypergmay https://therationalmale.com/2014/08/07/open-hypergamy/

Used to be a little less open. Here’s a short story that is relevant. The author was born in 1885 and died in 1933.

http://fullreads.com/literature/i-cant-breathe/

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Social media is propping up an already irrational system, to be sure. It’s already been stated in the thread a few times (49ers, etc) so no need to further explain that part, But its not just SMV. The shared FB page I have with my wife is just meme after meme of ridiculous lies and half truths aimed at propping up the self-esteem of women on every dimension out there. Here’s just one example. As a profession, nursing is absolutely dominated by women. Still something like a 1:10 ratio I believe. It is crazy how many social memes there singing… Read more »

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Scott
The shared FB page I have with my wife is just meme after meme of ridiculous lies and half truths aimed at propping up the self-esteem of women on every dimension out there.

The term “chick crack” is overused, but IMO it really does apply to FB.
Because dopamine hits are dopamine hits are dopamine hits.

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got a vasectomy 15 yrs ago…. still think it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I don’t share this with women…

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Nice to Know Mikel jones.(Why the diminutive j.? Why not Michael? formally? Sounds like you are a rogue…)

Either you are a good at Improv.

Or you have upper scleral Sanpaku.

You devil, you. Barring stress or fatigue…

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sanpaku

Otherwise, if you want external validation. (i.e. you brag. You go guy…and go for it…)

Go shooting stuff.

How you doing in general? For frame of reference?

Thanks for commenting.

Tell a story here. Don’t just jab at having a vasectomy and sward stabbing.

Heh. How powerful are you?

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Scott Social media is feminine dominant. There is nothing true or logical to be found there in the whole. It’s the crack cocaine for females, and no attention should be paid to it’s addicts past the informative value. Technically it should be a ” no man’s ” land. I remember the 70’s and 80’s when music/radio was the medium used for women to push that super strong audio meme, and social media is just that on steroids. It’s mostly a losing proposition to look for appreciation from a larger group of unknown females. Men do what men do without concern… Read more »

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Here’s just one example. As a profession, nursing is absolutely dominated by women. Still something like a 1:10 ratio I believe. It is crazy how many social memes there singing the praises of nurses as if they are Gods gift to the working world. I have never seen a meme about how awesome plumbers are for making sure there is no human waste inside the house. Or roofers for keeping the weather off our heads. But my God, you cannot escape nurses telling the whole world how awesome they are, constantly. FB isn’t a window into the word, it’s a… Read more »

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@Scott
“It is crazy how many social memes there (are) singing the praises of nurses as if they are Gods gift to the working world.”

And that’s long been true of teachers too, even as education increasingly careens off the rails — e.g. the literature curriculum dumbed down with mediocre feminized “voices.”

I have highly dedicated female nurses and teachers in my family, but they and all the others operate in a framework (and a civilization) made possible by men.

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And speaking of social media, google Sam Dyson and read how Major League Baseball is investigating a player for domestic abuse — based not on some tangible evidence but on two bizarre Instagram rants from an ex-girlfriend. (The Yahoo story has 1000 comments and surprisingly most call BS on her)

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Scott

“I have never seen a meme about how awesome …”

Because no one cares Scott. These aren’t heroic acts. Well check that, beta care. But that’s it.

Move along.

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Some gold in here their is

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Stumbled across a channel on tube called coach red pill. Anyone have any insight/opinion on the history of the dude on the channel

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A street puppy is dying near my house without food, without its mother. I’m feeling really sad for the puppy because everyone is seeing it, nobody cares. My question is, am I dominated by estrogen rather than testosterone?

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“I like being reckless with my dick. You guys should try it, it’s called “being a man”.”

“I like being reckless with my dick. You guys should try it, it’s called “producing cannon fodder for America’s wars”.

or maybe

“I like being reckless with my dick. You guys should try it, it’s called “producing workhorses to support retiring boomers”.

fify

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@Johan Leibert

You can help by helping the puppies of your choice, and shooting people who don’t help those puppies.

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More about Hunter Biden and his babymomma from a prominent New York newspaper.

https://pagesix.com/2019/11/27/hunter-bidens-lunden-roberts-was-stripper-at-club-he-frequented/

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More details about Hunter Biden’s babymomma. She may be an Arkie but she was stripping in DC.

https://pagesix.com/2019/11/27/hunter-bidens-lunden-roberts-was-stripper-at-club-he-frequented/

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This was a great listen

Culture and media and Speech breaking into truth with art and rebellion a male rebellion of connection in turbulent times.

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Johann, It’s like this : you’re estrogen dominant because you see a dire situation and the first response you have is ” feeling sad ” , then feeling some kind of way because ” others ” aren’t doing anything. Men and women both have estrogen, but men and women do not react in the same emotional manners. If , for instance, you’d have said ” it made me angry and I sprung into action, fuck those other people ” then I would guess that you’re not estrogen dominant.. Degrees make the difference in thought and action. You might have said… Read more »

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she posed to him the ultimate, irrevocable shit test.
and he failed it.

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Blax

The puppy died last night.

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Man of action: Sees something he doesn’t like (assuming it is fixable or worth fixing) and does something about it.
Man of inaction: Sees something he doesn’t like and says, “Someone should do something about that”
Ton is a dog lover and I guarantee-damn-tee he wouldn’t watch a puppy die in the street. It’s not an E thing, we have more hormones than just T and E.

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Good answer liz

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