Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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anon
anon
4 years ago

And for an early Christmas present, Obama is dismantling the NSEERS.
(as of two days ago)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Security_Entry-Exit_Registration_System

Because he knows it (or similar) will have to be reinstated.
Can’t wait to hear the screams from the left when that happens.

kfg
kfg
4 years ago

“Think that sign was actually a photoshop job.” And posted by . . . feminists. Whose motto is “diversity is more important than your security.” It is a perfectly valid summation of the “Not Your Women” movement, and they recognized it as such. Remember, a rape is just 30 seconds out of your day: http://16004-presscdn-0-50.pagely.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/rape-30-seconds-575×438.jpg I mean, as long as it wasn’t by one of those creepy beta guys you went to school with. Rape Culture plus refugee support is the double think, feminist petard that it tried to jump and ended up hoist upon. Even some feminists are starting… Read more »

anon
anon
4 years ago

“Remember, a rape is just 30 seconds out of your day..”

LOL!
Holy Crap is that real?
I don’t think the best Onion writer could top it.

kfg
kfg
4 years ago

“Holy Crap is that real?”

The sentiment is theirs, but the turn of phrase is my own.

“I don’t think the best Onion writer could top it.”

Being number two I’m sure he’s trying harder, and I’m getting old and tired.

rugby11
rugby11
4 years ago

“but he never killed his inner Beta or let go of the BP fantasies so he marched it back enough to pander to women’s approval of it.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3w608RyPqo This is and in certain ways still a hard thing for me. I know i have done this more than once. To some extent you let yourself die a part of yourself people and the world has imposed on you. “Too many guys just want a TL;DR summation so they can get on to the secret formula that will solve their problems without bothering with how those solutions actually work.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMAmk5Rp1tk Learning… Read more »

Trent Lane
Trent Lane
4 years ago

@Rollo, @Tyler

Jesus, finally TRP (TRM) and PUA (RSD) start communicating for real.

As a guy who came from PUA and found TRP later this is one huge ass X-Mas-present for me as I can only see any form of communication and interaction between the two spheres as benefitial for all men.

So, cheers guys!

Thanks @ Rollo for your awesome essays!

Thanks @ Tyler for your awesome free content!

You both kick ass.

cheupez
4 years ago

Merry christmas to you all!

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
4 years ago

@Rollo

I thought you didn’t DRINK beer! Make it a Rational Ale.

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
4 years ago

@Rugby

So Rollo is Legolas the prissy elf. And of course Tyler is the ginger dwarf Gimly?

rugby11
rugby11
4 years ago

Yollo Comanche
Laughing with you not at you. Its all about the enjoyment in the moment and presence.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbMS_NhjVS0
Happy Holiday’s

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
4 years ago

Trent Lane
.

As a guy who came from PUA and found TRP later this is one huge ass X-Mas-present for me as I can only see any form of communication and interaction between the two spheres as benefitial for all men.

As a man who came to Red Pill / The Glasses via The Spearhead, MMSL, Dalrock, TRM with some basic Game learning along the way, pretty much the opposite of you, I cosign this.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

a stocking stuffer…

DPA Hall of Famer Jim Morrison… unbridled DPA on display…

Two of my faves…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJ9GDiYU0-I

and press play after exiting plane at LAX…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JskztPPSJwY

and a reminder of what intent masculine gaze looks like

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Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Oh yes… a reminder! DPA may not end in a long life, but in a life well lived…

SJF
SJF
4 years ago

Damn you Sentient Don’t start pandering to the masses. Jim Morrison was an outlier. He was a beautiful man. He was DPA. But he was a fuck-up. I watched the Doors movie (which just came on Netflix last month). I heard of Rollo’s exhortations of Paul Gauguin’s radical carpe diem lifestyle (witch actually sucked–I would actually hate that fucking existence that he lived–including his repertoire in E.O. Wilson’s The Social Conquest of The Earth. Paul Guguin’s life actualy did suck every moment, no matter how he tried to exceed. Not a good legacy. Paul Gaugin’s life was actually quite ugly.… Read more »

anon
anon
4 years ago

This place needs and acronym finder.
DPA?
Dread Pill Awareness?
Don’t Plan A (long life)?
Drugs Porn Alcohol?

rugby11
rugby11
4 years ago

“A libertine life is one thing. Raising children with a great wife is another.

There are Archetypes. But then there is You. And me who actually have mindfulness to not fuck up.”

The spiritual…

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

He he. SJF did you just finish watching It’s a Wonderful Life?

Alpha is amoral [anon DPA is shorthand for the Alpha Triad, the irreducible characteristics – dynamic passionate and authentic]

A defining characteristic of the Platinum Rule [Do whatever you want to do whenever you want to do it] life is it ends, even early, sometimes ugly, but with doing what you wanted.

I’ve no beef with Morrison. And thank god we were spared the sight of a bloated and hoarse 65 year old on a pension tour…

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KL
KL
4 years ago

“the previous social contract that held monogamous/marriage relations as a mutual benefit … that respected men as the primary Frame holder. …

Alpha is a mindset, not a demographic. …

Blue Pill today is the conditioning of men … to be instruments of the Feminine Imperative.”

This is succinct.

rugby11
rugby11
4 years ago
PorFavor
PorFavor
4 years ago

“The Red Pill, from the respect that I interpret it, is a praxeology. Simply put, it s the deductive study of human action, based on the notion that humans engage in purposeful behavior”

This is the diction of someone who has been exposed to the Austrian School (Red Pill Economics). Have you read Ludwig von Mises?

IAS
IAS
4 years ago

@PorFavor: Rollo has training in (psychology) behaviorism / behavioral psychology.

kfg
kfg
4 years ago

“I’ve no beef with Morrison. And thank god we were spared the sight of a bloated and hoarse 65 year old on a pension tour…” Jimi and Janice are also as much legends as a result of their retirement plans as anything else they ever did. Make sure your heroes are all dead, that way they can’t fuck it up. I remember as a kid wondering what Gypsy Rose Lee had ever done besides games shows that made her notable enough to be on game shows, but otherwise invisible. Slick Gracie slid out the Doors the easy way and almost… Read more »

Reb
Reb
4 years ago

If you can’t learn from a natural, how can you learn from a PUA? And what I mean by learn is being able to act the way they act. A natural is easier to learn from because he coming at it from a sincere ability to charm and seduce women. If fact naturals are the ones who introduce us to game growing up. PUA for me has always been icing on the cake. I don’t consider the red pill to be game per say. The red pill is in general The Reality of human nature in regards to sex and… Read more »

If-I-Fell
If-I-Fell
4 years ago

@ Rollo, thank you for your writings. I have been a silent reader since 2015. @ Commenters, thank you for the vigorous debate. It is a testament to the quality of both, since I have not come to The Rational Male due to injury from the “pointy end” of hypergamy. I don’t comment because my experiences may not typical or repeatable. So they may be of little assistance to the other OMGs, OSGs, YSGs or YMGs. However, in the spirit of giving back, I would like to share what may be an unusual use of TRM. I convert the articles… Read more »

Höllenhund
4 years ago

AVM seems to represent the accelerationist approach in gender politics, as opposed to the reactionary approach of religious rightists, who want to combat feminism by promoting a return to traditional morality. The accelerationist assumption is that the system cannot be reformed and the old world cannot be restored, so the way to go is to complete the destruction that feminism has started. That’s why MRAs appropriate the rhetoric of gender equality, which is something feminists preach but in practice oppose. And normies are generally more receptive to equalist arguments than to religious ones. All in all, AVM strikes me as… Read more »

Reb
Reb
4 years ago

But men and women are not equal. Women, for the most part, cannot equal men in strength of mind and body. And men, for the most part, cannot equal women in sexual value…and so on. This is still a lie of feminism no matter how you slice it. MRAs are then attempting to live according to the big lie that feminism has been selling you, when at the same time, that very lie has been disproven in real life. Traditional values are only a subset of the solutions available to men in the fight against the tyranny of The Feminist… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
4 years ago

@Reb “But you will often find that those trad values underscore most if not all of the Red Pill philosophies.” Uh no Reb. Red Pill is a Praxeology not a Philosophy. So when you see young, cool studs turning into old farts, Praxeology kicks in and informs their actions. Depending on their circumstances they scale back on the actual gaming and use what clout or major social capital they accrued in their youth or in all the time they ever spent on themselves and use it to sell guidebooks or other shit to await retirement age. If they actually had… Read more »

hank holiday
hank holiday
4 years ago

@sentient Hank misses… Everyone had a first, everyone started the journey the same way… Some started it just walking up to a girl and talking, hell MOST guys in history have done just this. when this is not the norm, then you need to examine the reasons why… it really isn’t magic, if you’ve not been laid by your mid 20’s there are things you are doing that are holding you back. It’s not them. it’s you. Man I miss yareally if only to have someone else to address all the wrongheaded comments here. Lets say two guys want to… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
4 years ago

….well, mersonia was a bit of an asshole, so there’s that.

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@Hank driving off yareally and scray Little boys who couldn’t play in the big leagues. YaReally also ran away from the Chateau. Don’t you see a pattern here? I’m withholding judgment about RSD appending “woowoo” to their brand. Time will tell. If RSD owners are trying to sell the company or attract more investment capital, the investors will likely require Purple Pill crap to make it more marketable. Rollo may have the inside scoop via some venture capitalist that he knows. I’d side with him over RSD mgmt. at this point. I’m withholding commitment to Rollo’s position, because, you know,… Read more »

sfer
sfer
4 years ago

Yareally always said RSD was trying to move into the larger self help domain.

anotherlawyerwaistingtime

“Natural and legal rights are two types of rights. Legal rights are those bestowed onto a person by a given legal system (i.e., rights that can be modified, repealed, and restrained by human laws). Natural rights are those that are not dependent on the laws or customs of any particular culture or government, and therefore universal and inalienable (i.e., rights that cannot be repealed or restrained by human laws).” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natural_and_legal_rights I know wiki is a crappy source but when someone doesn’t even know basics, it is a place to start. Aquinas, Locke, Burke, Paine, Hobbs, Rousseau are excellent sources for… Read more »

stuffinbox
4 years ago

@Hank Had a great gig when I was 15years old,as a floor hand fixing stripper oil wells with a gin pole rig.When we would trip a well part of my job was to lay out the sucker rod and tubing on the racks or cribs. The tubing cribs were 8ft oak rail ties set out 25ft apart,I would lay 3 tubes then chock them with 4pcs of v belt and reuse the same old rusty bent 10penny nails over and over. I could never get the chocks in fast enough to suit the boss and his method of teaching consisted… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Hank – you only need one girl to game. One.

All the rest is a buffer, snowflake… examine your motives.

hank holiday
hank holiday
4 years ago

@rollo Ya got all bent about my posting meme quotes from Tony Robins, Norman Peale, Dr. Dyer and a few other guys to compare with what’s going on with RSD, and lo and behold they’re confirmed. No, the reason Yareally left was because you accused him of being a shill for RSD and then deleted his post. He clearly spelled out the reasons he left: First it’s deleting my content without warning like he’s already done, then it’s joining the shitposting doggypile (no discussion, just memes and quote mining and misrepresentation and side-tangents and character assassinations) Posting here is a… Read more »

kfg
kfg
4 years ago
theasdgamer
4 years ago

@Hank if he’s being character assassinated all the time He wasn’t…but you’re still deep in the YaReally Matrix…YaReally was being called to account BY ME for manipulating the YSGs…and he totally deserved it because that’s what he was doing…then he got pissy and started creating unnecessary and unhelpful contention and strife, obviously attempting to draw off the YSGs to leave with him. Guess what? Lots of them left, including scray. Do you seriously think that that wasn’t his intention???? Rollo went to the trouble of creating a Forum for Field Reports and then YaReally left. Big surprise. :/ So much… Read more »

stuffinbox
4 years ago

Wow kfg,comes from the original term of gathering up peticoats and making a dramatic overexagerated exit.

hank holiday
hank holiday
4 years ago

@sentient @stuffinbox Hank – you only need one girl to game. One. All the rest is a buffer, snowflake… examine your motives. Right. Because you talked to 1 (one) girl and instantly gained all your skills with women off that one chick. Don’t be ridiculous. You have to talk to MULTIPLE women all while pushing your boundaries in order to become skilled with women. However, the more women you have to game, the faster you will progress. Lets say it takes 200 women to make a breakthrough in game. If you can talk to 20 girls a night, that means… Read more »

hank holiday
hank holiday
4 years ago

@theasdgamer then he got pissy and started creating unnecessary and unhelpful contention and strife Which rollo did in equal measure by deleting his post out of the blue and accusing yareally of being a shill. I don’t understand why you haven’t called out rollo on this. obviously attempting to draw off the YSGs to leave with him To WHERE? When did he ever say “hey gullible young dudes, why don’t you guys come off to me to this new site”? When did he ever link some product he wanted to sell? That’s right, he NEVER did any of that. He… Read more »

rugby11
rugby11
4 years ago

No victim mentality
http://www.veoh.com/watch/v18530452Pd8BdrrG
Emma Murdoch: I’m Anna, by the way. What’s your name?
John Murdoch: John. John Murdoch.

stuffinbox
4 years ago

Hank in my 240 sq mile fire district there are less then 1000 residents,and most of them are getting regular sex go figure.
Maybe there isn’t much else to do.

Sure everyone sees things from their own perspective,just don’t start of your day with a pre defeated atitude because of the excuses you mentioned above.
My first best guess is some gal is stalking you for sex right now as we speak and you are failing to see it because of criteria she doesn’t meet,and the fact that she can’t get your attention is noticed by others.

kfg
kfg
4 years ago

@Hank:

I don’t live in Podunk, but I can just about see it from here. Last time I was there about half the people were girls. It was hard to go out and avoid them.

Same as here, in “The Big City” (compared to Podunk, but it’s Podunk compared to a major metropolis like Peoria).

Same as where you are I reckon.

hank holiday
hank holiday
4 years ago

@stuffinbox see this is decent advice Sure everyone sees things from their own perspective,just don’t start of your day with a pre defeated atitude because of the excuses you mentioned above. Which I do. I focus on the stuff I have done, the progress I have made so far, the stuff I can already do that most guys can’t, and the fact that I am sooo close to a breakthrough on daygame. I try to focus on the positive as much as I can My first best guess is some gal is stalking you for sex right now as we… Read more »

rugby11
rugby11
4 years ago

“Remember that shit about process trumps mindset? Where’s the “field trumps all” idea fit into their new “mindset rules all” focus?” https://soundcloud.com/carolina-chocolate-drops/hit-em-up-style “Selling out” is a common idiomatic pejorative expression for the compromising of a person’s integrity, morality, authenticity, or principles in exchange for personal gain, such as money.”https://medium.com/higher-thoughts/on-making-a-living-from-your-art-without-selling-out-bb62721cf3ec#.4rllwy2bg “The example of Fairey demonstrates the limitations of applying a simple two-by-two theory as a sweeping criterion. Nevertheless, the artist’s dilemma can act as a frame for this important discussion: it unequivocally demonstrates that artists need to be transparent and accountable. They have a responsibility to forge moral alliances with employers… Read more »

hank holiday
hank holiday
4 years ago

@stuffinbox oops, heres the correct link to the instadate FR: https://therationalmale.com/2016/09/05/the-best-of-the-rational-male-year-5/comment-page-2/#comment-168711 @rollo Hank, maybe you missed the part where I reinstated the one and only post I pulled from YaReally. Right. But do you understand how that is a huge insult to just delete someone’s post out of the blue and then accuse him of being a shill? You don’t just reinstate the post and its all hunky dory. Its like you steal someone’s car, but then say “WELL I GAVE IT BACK! GAH, WHY ARE YOU UPSET?” Nah man, you gotta address WHY you stole his car in the… Read more »

Leonardo
Leonardo
4 years ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UL7brRFEe2o When Yareally came on the manosphere it was all about routines, his first post on heartiste was about routines, routines were fundamental as training wheels, scray was fed routines with a spoon when he was a baby (not putting a “lol” here, lol). What RSD thinks about that since 2008 is on that Jeffy video. It’s all about natural game now and Yareally was teaching agains RSD, he was selecting the bullshit-free parts of their new videos (luv him for this, he was going oldschool, this shit actually helps spergs.) The “woo” phase started with natural game: “drop that… Read more »

Höllenhund
4 years ago

@Reb

We’re in an equalist society. Pretty much everyone, feminists included, claims to be for gender equality. This is a lie, of course. If real social and legal equality was implemented, men would outcompete women in almost all areas, and much pain would be put on women. That’s why I think it’s a relatively good idea on MRAs’ part to basically hold feminists’ feet to the fire by accusing them of not living up to their own equalist ideals. Or at least it’s a better idea than promoting the return to traditional gender roles, which is a political nonstarter.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

Just quickly scanning through comments but quick one to Hank – Dude, I mostly agree with your points, but one clarification: I totally get where you’re coming from wrt to living in a place with limited opportunities. I’m lucky enough to be in an amazing Big City for 3-4 months of the year but the majority of my time is spent in a small town which sounds about as crappy as yours (and I work insane hours too, which limits time to do street game and stuff like that too). I don’t think anyone will dispute that you have fewer… Read more »

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@Hank Which rollo did in equal measure by deleting his post out of the blue and accusing yareally of being a shill. I don’t understand why you haven’t called out rollo on this. This is irrelevant to my point. Rollo backed off, anyway, so your point is moot. Did YaReally chill after Rollo backed off? Hell, no! To WHERE? When did he ever say “hey gullible young dudes, why don’t you guys come off to me to this new site”? When did he ever link some product he wanted to sell? That’s right, he NEVER did any of that. He… Read more »

SFC Ton
4 years ago

Can the cult of ya’really give it a rest?

Shit happens, let’s put on our big girl panties and move on

othergrain
othergrain
4 years ago

“YaReally was being called to account BY ME for manipulating the YSGs…and he totally deserved it because that’s what he was doing…”

FWIW, I’m pretty sure that point was irrelevant to his leaving. Show us on the doll where Ya manipulated the YSG.

Anywho, Rollo, you may be interested in this:

https://mobile.twitter.com/i/web/status/813739418624237568

Haven’t the time to watch it, but the title seems to line up with your opinion of the self help industry.

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@grain gamer: “YaReally was being called to account BY ME for manipulating the YSGs…and he totally deserved it because that’s what he was doing…” grain: FWIW, I’m pretty sure that point was irrelevant to his leaving. Show us on the doll where Ya manipulated the YSG. You and Hank are in disagreement on the point of my calling YaReally to account being part of the reason that YaReally left. Hank: “So yareally got sick and tired of always having to defend himself” Now to your second point. Grain, YaReally was always giving his defenders “attaboys” when they took his side… Read more »

Bromeo
Bromeo
4 years ago

Yareally was just a RSD puppet, posting what is now confirmed purple pill trash. He would jizz himself if he saw Tyler posting here though lol

othergrain
othergrain
4 years ago

1) This whole comment section has been using us vs. them language as soon as someone coined the OMG-YSG terminology. In multiple debates the same camps were formed more or less along those lines.

2) he gave credit to commenters who agreed with him, or were arguing the same position as him. Yeah… Machiavelli reincarnate. OMGs would *never* be caught back-patting…lol

3) “OGs have stronger frames” is a gross generalization that has been proven wrong over and over again in this blog’s own comments section. And what was it you were saying about “us vs. them” language?

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@grain 1) Sure, there has been a distinction between OMGs and YSGs and I don’t recall YaReally creating that terminology. However, the banter was lighthearted, at least from my seat. YaReally wasn’t bantering. 2) Giving credit means “yeah, we YSGs are the smart ones, not like those old fools who don’t know ‘come here’ from ‘sic em’, you’re smart for agreeing with me”…all very divisive shit…no logical argument–all divisive Frame shit OMGs backpatting? None of it was aimed at division or saying “We’re gonna leave if we don’t get our way”…just lighthearted banter 3) “OGs have stronger frames” is a… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

I entirely agree with Hank (and YaReally’s) points that RSD’s Game advice and videos and content (including the paid event I attended) are good and useful to men and that remains true despite their move to the self-help market. Even Rollo agrees with this. Rollo’s analysis above about moving into self-help is spot on though. It’s an obvious next step to expand since they’ve saturated the Game market. It’s not even a secret or anything – Tyler said as much in his comment above (where he says Todd doesn’t agree with the new direction) and it is really obvious in… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

I hadn’t seen Rollo’s last paragraph when I posted – think he edited his post. Anyway, speaking for myself, I’d do exactly what people do with MMSL now – send people to the original book and warn them that subsequent stuff has been watered down. Or in RSD terms, tell them to ignore the self-help stuff and newer stuff and focus on the older more technical videos and the stuff with infields and Game details (and the live programs focussed on pickup if they can afford it).

Reb
Reb
4 years ago

Yeah The Doors were the shit back in the day.

Hey YC. Leave the heavy lifting to God. Save the PUA for the weekends. Your soul will become a lot less tortured if you heed these words.

Reb
Reb
4 years ago

To put it in the simplest terms possible PUA = Self Expression. From Rollo to Pook to Mystery to Krauser to RSD to that new fag PUA some of you love on, they are all trying to sell you on the idea which is that you must be able to express yourself to your woman if you want that glory.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

@Rollo – re when the RSD shift begins to contradict their previous groundwork: I don’t know. It’s a judgment call. It hasn’t for me (yet) – I’m willing to wait and watch, but I’m also open to changing my mind and saying that they’ve crossed the line. You appear to think they have, and that’s a personal decision – everyone’s line is in a different place. On the YaReally RSD video thing: let’s not go overboard. I’m a total YaReally fanboy, but I can understand why you and others started thinking he was an RSD shill – he did post… Read more »

mersonia
4 years ago

@ASDgamer “Lol, the old guys kicked his ass when he dissed our women. Then he pussied out. The old guys may not pick up women, but we have a LOT of experience gaming our wives. Not that much difference between gaming old women and young women. YaReally’s response was that old women aren’t worth gaming. Very disrespectful. Also, irrelevant to our point.” …If you really think your kicking ass on a comments section on the rational male. You should re-evaluate your life. It’s great that you have a lot of experience gaming one woman. If you’re happy you won mate.… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
4 years ago

Rollo Great, but at what point does RSD or Tucker Max or Athol’s shift begin to contradict their previous groundwork? At what point to they disavow their previous material in favor of the more profitable Tony Robbins shift? Sometime next year, maybe before summer, is my guess – based purely on other purple pill men like RooshV, and Athol Kay. Monetizing “relationship coaching” seems to pretty much require catering to women. Even John Gottman, who did real sciencey work on the differences between how men and women react to conflict, wound up catering to women after he got married. Which… Read more »

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@mersonia “YaReally tried to AMOG the OGs and got his ass kicked.” You’ve posted this a lot this comment thread. All it really shows is that you view this as some kind of battle between two different groups instead of one group of individuals trying to better each other and help other understand viewpoints and different perspectives. Nice try at a reframe, but you fail. An attempted AMOG and resistance to the AMOG attempt creates a battle. Of course, YaReally instigated the battle. There weren’t two different groups doing this…just YaReally. The YaReally Cocksucking Squad CHOSE to see the battle… Read more »

mersonia
4 years ago

@Rollo “Ya got all bent about my posting meme quotes from Tony Robins, Norman Peale, Dr. Dyer and a few other guys to compare with what’s going on with RSD, and lo and behold they’re confirmed.” Nah… Most of us we’re really disappointing that you were shitting on Mystery because he has issues and was having a twitter breakdown over not being able to see his kids. [Dodge. Were they accurate comparisons to what RSD is selling? Owen himself plagiarized Dr. Wayne Dyer.] Which is really shitty for someone who wants to help men. [Deliberately misinterpreting what’s already been settled.… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
4 years ago

@Reb

PUA=How to get what you want out of your local peer group despite women being taught they deserve whatever they want without having to merit any of it, and men being taught you’re just some other dick to compete with.

Fixed it for you.

You can thank God for me later.

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@mersonia

There is a difference between gaming old and young women.

Pray tell, what is that? Something to do with social media? They both have twats…old women don’t have menses. Old women can get lit up just like young women…the buying temp of old women can be red hot…it has nothing to do with a monthly bolus of testosterone…it has to do with a man demonstrating high value and spiking a woman’s BT.

mersonia
4 years ago

@Rollo [Dodge. Were they accurate comparisons to what RSD is selling? Owen himself plagiarized Dr. Wayne Dyer.] Everything in the self help community is regurgitated information son. Like I said “Nah… Most of us we’re really disappointing that you were shitting on Mystery because he has issues and was having a twitter breakdown over not being able to see his kids. Which is really shitty for someone who wants to help men. Whenever PUA does anything you don’t like you just go into character assassinations ” oooh mystery is he really suppose to be da goal of PUA …. Tyler… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
4 years ago

@mersonia “Also for the people who don’t think love exist lol ( it does)” Nobody gives a shit if love exists or not. At least nobody aught to. It simply is what it is, and it simply is one of two things to guys who JUST found out the score: 1. What you give a man who isn’t your first choice, and you keep telling him that’s what you’re giving him. 2. What you give a man who IS your first choice, regardless what he is FREE to think of you. I know who I want to be. No I… Read more »

EhIntellect
EhIntellect
4 years ago

“There is a difference between gaming old and young women.” Yeah, gaming young women is easy. I pulled two young 20’s from their bf’s last week with that stupid “I’m an elf” opening. Same club, serially. I led them 6′ away with the locked pinky swear and chatted til the bf. hustled back to mate guard. One bf even friendly fist-bumped me after he led his girl back. I don’t even care about the girl. I was bored. “…other than the fact that men can be raped financially.” So true. Then again, money loses its value marginally and for most… Read more »

mersonia
4 years ago

@Yollo Calm down Tiger “Nobody gives a shit if love exists or not. At least nobody aught to. It simply is what it is, and it simply is one of two things to guys who JUST found out the score:” “I know who I want to be. No I DON’T GIVE A DAMN that love is real. I care what it takes to get it, which means love isn’t free. There’s requirements.” The contradiction was real. “What the hell do you think this is? Fucking Robin Hood? Even Mystery just uses guys with the understanding they’ll co-operate to get laid.… Read more »

mersonia
4 years ago

@Rollo

Nah I’m just honest.

I love you and your work ,but if you cant even think about what the red pill/manosphere looks like to people outside of it . People who stumble upon heartiste ,vox ( i still kind of like vox) etc. first …. then I don’t know what to tell you

My points were solid and you can’t respond is all

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
4 years ago

@mersonia “The contradiction was real.” I know. These dizzy broads…..These dizzy chodes…….These idiot, scrub men trying to be “themselves” around me… and me never respecting it so they hate me or try to get my attention…….It’s almost like there’s observable principles to this sort of thing that you can learn for your own benefit. “That’s a negative mindset man. If everyone thought like that…..smh wow” I know, it’d be difficult to convince women you have a social life. It’s what scrubs pretend they have on facebook. In reality it’s only possible between people who connect. I’d rather connect to what… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
4 years ago

Lmao…..

Boy it’s getting warm in here. Where’s the ice tea?

mersonia
4 years ago

You addressed none of my points….Because obviously you can’t. Your whole point this whole time is “You’re upset because RSD is in the process of jumping the purple pill shark and it’s increasingly something you can no longer defend.” WHEN NO ONE GIVES A FUUUCK. I could give two shits if rsd goes full blue pill and makes money that way. If Owen gets married and his wife is an life coach I don’t give a fuck From the outset RSD was never an red pill organization like roosh who advocated for the red pill so if I they sell… Read more »

mersonia
4 years ago

@Ehintellect Yeah, gaming young women is easy. I pulled two young 20’s from their bf’s last week with that stupid “I’m an elf” opening. Same club, serially. I led them 6′ away with the locked pinky swear and chatted til the bf. hustled back to mate guard. One bf even friendly fist-bumped me after he led his girl back. I don’t even care about the girl. I was bored. Yeah. Easier and harder I guess it just depends on the guy. Alot of older guys do have way stronger frames than the paper thin ones of the youth now days… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
4 years ago

@Blax

Sorry meng. I’m too ref to know how to hyperlink things.

mersonia
4 years ago

For anyone interested Since I only read like 3 rp blogs

BD just posted a good article. Older and Younger guys will most likely like it since it has alot of truth. On both sides of the spectrum

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/12/26/young-men-dont-want-man/

mersonia
4 years ago

I only read like 3 rp blogs but Black Dragon Posted a really good article.

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2016/12/26/young-men-dont-want-man/

It has good stuff from both sides of the spectrum and would probably help both the YSG and OMGs understand stuff better ( Though i hate those termms)

Im probably banned by now though so w/e

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@mersonia

Older women usually have Higher ASD and need more comfort but its situational.

What do you mean by “older”? If they’re over 40, they’re usually DTF…aggressive.

mersonia
4 years ago

@ASD

I consider Women above 30 older. From my experience I can’t say much about over 40 because I haven”t attempted to fuck many women over 40 …or any that I can recall.

I worked at a gym as a kids activities manager and dealt with 100’s of MILF’s not sure if any where over 40 because I didn’t ask the ages of any of the females . So yeah can say 40+ not my area of expertise

mersonia
4 years ago

Blackdragon posted a good article about younger guys that would probably help the omgs and ysgs understand each other better ( kind of ( still hate the terms ysg and omg)) I posted a link to it but they all got lost in mod.

SFC Ton
4 years ago

Being unhappy about a lack of access to your kids isn’t a big deal. It fucking sucks and happens to countless men. Countless men struggle with it too

Going on Twitter and dumping your purse all over the place makes you a pussy.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
4 years ago

Regarding John Gottman, I just saw in a little section of the Wiki page on him that he’s on his third marriage. The current wife kept her own name, and she’s the third. This put Gottman in a whole different category, now he looks a whole lot more like the “divorced guy who started trying to figure out what the heck happened”, and maybe he didn’t get it right immediately either. For being divorced twice he’s arguably more balanced than I’d expect.

SJF
SJF
4 years ago

One thing I like about SFC Ton and Rollo and their Red Pill writing their dedication to never having lost masculinity, or their exhortations for recovering a lost masculinity. Masculinity is a life force that is complementary to the life force that is Femininity. When either is diminished human nature (and evolutionary psychology) and what got us here in the first place is mocked. Rollo’s brand is The Red Pill. And to a certain extent The Red Pill is about reclaiming and valorizing masculinity. And being un-apologetic about it. Purple pill is about making women the focus of your efforts.… Read more »

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@mersonia

Good link. BD is always an interesting read. I’m planning on posting about how men shouldn’t live in and/or be controlled by their feelings. It’s tangentially related to BD’s “Man Up” post.

hank holiday
hank holiday
4 years ago

@asdgamer @mersonia @rollo All it really shows is that you view this as some kind of battle between two different groups instead of one group of individuals trying to better each other and help other understand viewpoints and different perspectives. But maybe for you this is some kind of battleground where you can imagine yourself being a spartan and curbstombing people over the internet. Yup this sums up all of this. None of these guys are really interested in resolving things, or reaching out to others. They are interested in keeping their narrative. Its always “RSD bad, person say good… Read more »

SJF
SJF
4 years ago

Mersonia: “I’m probably banned by now though so w/e”

I’ve seen that type of statement before. It is usually said by a commenter in an extinction burst.

No one is interested in “Whatever….” Life’s too short for that shit.

@Mersonia

Why are you here? Where do you come from? Who are you? Where are you going?

A new year is coming up. Try posting substantive comments. Or at least important, meaningful, or considerable and engaging thoughts.

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@Hank

your whole yareally shill narrative and all.

Please find the location where Rollo called YaReally an RSD shill. (I know that Rollo called mersonia an RSD shill.)

You can’t even admit that YaReally ABANDONED the YSGs. (Sure, my writing was hyperbolic and bantering.) Why can’t you admit it?

kfg
kfg
4 years ago

“Its like China drives a bunch of tanks through russia, and then is surprised when russia attacks them.” Ya, really, the nerve of Rollo waltzing into this place where he’s a foreigner and trying to exert authority over Ya Really’s comment section like he owned the place. Holy inversion of reality, Batman! “It’s the monetezation that requires purpling things up, maybe?” Look. How the hell do you expect me to be able to build a financial empire around fitness if all I can do is sell you a set of barbells, which will circulate on the used market For.Frickin’. Ever.… Read more »

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