Never Take a Woman Fishing

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(h/t to Zelscorpion for the image and ref for today’s post)

Hi Rollo,
On rereading Truth to Power a very inspirational post, I wanted to hear your thoughts on men with families such as my self choosing to travel on vacation alone.

In your videos above you touched on masculine qualities men being in the driver seat around decision making. I have a wife you as with many women is cultured to try assume headship of the household with decision making even vacations etc.

She doesn’t want to travel abroad as we have a 7 month old son where as I feel there is no reason why she should worry about doing so. Anyway the crux of the issue is I am only 28 years old and having sacrificed my independence early (at 25) have a desire to travel and I don’t care about rocking the boat to make that happen.

I would love to hear some advice about the benefits of and good ways of grabbing hold again of control of our own circumstances and decisions!

Never take a woman fishing.

That’s a little idiom I learned way before I was Red Pill aware from the guy who was the best man at my wedding, and my long time fishing buddy. I wouldn’t call him a philosopher, but he was a keen observer of women’s behavior and became salt-of-the-earth wise by default:

“When you take a woman fishing you’re trying to include them in something they really don’t want to be doing, but you like it a lot. So you think ‘I like fishing and I want to include her in something we can do together’, but when you do she complains about EVERYTHING. ‘It’s dirty, I’m cold, I’m hot, I didn’t bring a water bottle, where’s the sunscreen?, there’s too many bugs, why are there so many bugs?, why do we have to hike so far to fish? can’t we just find a spot by the dam? where’s the bathroom?, etc. etc.”

“So what do you do? You force yourself to make her comfortable the whole damn time. You don’t hike, you don’t scout for the sweet spots on the river or, God forbid, you try to get her in a kayak. You end up going out after breakfast and the light’s all wrong. You try to keep them clean and close to the ‘potty’, you bait their hook ’cause it’s filthy, you untangle their reel snarls,…what you don’t do is fish. Your whole trip becomes about making her ‘like’ fishing with you and not about actually fishing and doing all the things we do when we fish together or on our own. I mean, you want ’em to like it, but you’ll never teach them to like it because you’re too busy making everything right for ’em.”

“Unless they were brought up right and they dig fishing ’cause their Dad taught ’em to like it, never try to bring a woman fishing. They gotta come to liking it on their own, they gotta want to do it on their own. I mean, look at Dodge (our dog) he don’t care if it’s cold or 4am, he’s happy to be on the trail going wherever the fuck we’re headed.”

Back in May Zelscorpion tweeted a few of the pictures from this series and made an interesting point:

https://twitter.com/Zelcorpion/status/599493741573971969

I had to admit, he’s got a point and it reminded me of the sage words of my Best Man. I think one of the tragedies of men’s Blue Pill conditioning is the presumption that they must find a way, sometimes forcibly, to become more compatible with a woman. I wrote about the paradox of compatibility a while back:

It’s very entertaining for me to hear guys reason as to why they got into yoga, or my all time favorite, salsa dancing as some means of meeting girls. I mean really, if that’s the goal you choose to devote the precious few hours of your leisure time to then I suppose a guy ought to take up scrap-booking or zumba.

If you’re picking up a hobby in order to meet women all you’re doing is attempting to Identify with what you expect your idealized woman to appreciate. If you get into something for this reason it’s not a hobby, it’s a Buffer.

Successful men don’t chase success – success chases them. Women are going to expect you to have your own uncontrived, interests, passions and hobbies established before meeting them.

When I first began counseling men in my SoSuave days many times I’d read guys telling me, “Well if she’s not into the same things I am she’s just not the ‘right’ girl for me”, as if common interests were some criteria that would trump his sexual interests in a girl. Blue Pill idealism convinces men that the “right girl” will necessarily love doing the same things as himself, but the all too common Red Pill truth is that men will have their peak experiences in life alone or in the company of other men who share the passions and interests their wives simply have no interest in.

Peak Experience

I don’t subscribe to Maslow’s theories in whole, but I do think his Peak Experience idea has merit. There will be times and achievements in your life that will stand out as significantly memorable. It’s easy to point to the experiences that should be the most significant; a marriage, the birth of a child, a religious experience, a first kiss, a school graduation, etc., you get the idea – experiences that should be the standard fare in a romanticized, idealistic sense.

We tend to overblow these experiences because we think they should be something to etch in our consciousness; and if we don’t, well, then there must be something wrong with us for not appreciating their popular significance. Tragically it’s our negative experiences that have the most lasting effect on us; evolution has made pain something memorable so as to help us avoid potentially life-ending future experiences. But the events that should evoke lasting good memories, the ones we are taught should be significant, are often the ones we ruin with unrealistic expectations, or we build up only to have them not quite live up to the fantasy we make of them.

The Peak Experiences I’m talking about here aren’t planned, or are just loosely planned by necessity. Some of the most memorable events you’ll ever experience wont be ones that you had a forethought about. These are often the experiences we hope to recreate long after they occur, but prove impossible to really recapture. Much of what makes up our personal preferences in life come from these spontaneous Peak Experiences. Remember the first girl you got with? Remember that time when things aligned just perfectly for you to hit that hole in one?

One of the reasons I have such a passion for snowmobiles was due to a day I blew off work so I could go out for the entire day on a beautiful Lake Tahoe morning. I went on my own which is something I rarely did. It was a Wednesday so there was nobody on the trails. The snow was only a day old and I took my sled to the top of a place called High Meadows, but even this pristine place wasn’t high enough. I took off in the back country and got to the top of a peak that was as high as I dared to go alone. Once I got there I had a view of the lake that I imagine few people had experienced. Then I fell back on the seat of my sled and stared at a sky that was so blue I never thought of it in the same way again. I laid there for a long time just staring and thinking about life and living and God and the universe.

On my way down the hill I thought how cool it would be to bring Mrs. Tomassi up there so she could appreciate it too. I mean, why wouldn’t I want to share such an incredible Peak Experience with the woman I love; the woman I want to share my life with? To this day Mrs. T has only been on my sled about 3 times. She’s very self-cautious and doesn’t like the smell and sound of the engine. That might seem trivial, but no matter how much I can try to relate that experience or try to recapture it no one but myself will ever have that unique event.

Experience & Frame

When I look at the guy with his dog in these camping shots I can now appreciate them much more because I know he’s experienced that same uniqueness. When you plan an event with a woman, when you make efforts to bring her into an appreciation of something you enjoy the experience of you must remember that you are, in essence, negotiating for her genuine desire to do so.

Now, before I’m run up the flagpole for suggesting otherwise, yes I know that many men and women do in fact find pleasure in commonly held interests. I see women on the river fishing in waders and at Trout Unlimited events all the time. My point isn’t the interest itself, but rather the desire to participate in it. A lot of guys hold the belief that including their wife, girlfriend or even a girl they’re spinning as a plate in something they think she should enjoy will have the effect of bringing them closer. The inherent problem with this is the presumption that including her in it will lead to some new shared experience that will bond them both in a genuine way.

The problem with preplanned ‘date nights’ is the same problem men experience with trying to pull a woman into his Frame by insisting she take up one of his hobbies or passions; it’s contrived and feels disingenuous to her. The point of the experience becomes about her being involved in it and not the actual doing of whatever it is you do together. The vibe becomes one of him making and controlling that experience so it becomes something pleasurable for her to participate in rather than really finding some inherent reward from it due to genuine interest.

Thus you get guys who (figuratively) take their women fishing and the event becomes more about introducing her to it than actually catching fish. Guys get so caught up in controlling unpleasant variables for her that the real experience of fishing is something entirely different. They want that woman to feel the same joy he does in doing something intrinsically rewarding to him, but the truth of it is she must come to it on her own.

Always Maintain Your Individualism

And this leads us back, once again, to establishing and maintaining a positive, dominant and individualistic Frame with a woman. She must want to enter your reality for it to be a genuine desire on her part – you cannot lead her into it, she must enter it of her own volition. Spontaneity is the key. Whether it’s an ‘insta-date’ from a PUA perspective, or an unexpected twist of plans in your marriage, that woman must want to participate in that event, in that moment of her own accord.

A good test of genuine interest with a woman is less about how open she is to trying “your things” and more about how insistent she is instigating her own participation in them. The trap most Betas fall into is converting “his things” into “our things” and he compromises those previously rewarding experiences into a sideshow he hopes will bond he and his woman together.

In Male Space I made this point:

When the influence of feminine-primacy is introduced into social settings made up mainly by men and male-interests, the dynamics and purpose of that group changes. The purpose becomes less about the endeavor itself and more about adherence to the feminine-inclusionary aspect of that endeavor. It starts to become less about being the best or most passionate at what they do, and more about being acceptable to the influence of the Feminine Imperative while attempting maintaining the former level of interest in the endeavor.

A similar dynamic plays out when men try to open the Male Space of whatever it is they find individually enjoyable to the women they hope will share in his enthusiasm. One thing I learned very early on in my marriage was the absolutely vital importance of maintaining my individual identity apart from my wife.

The biggest mistake I made when I was involved in LTRs prior to meeting my wife was allowing myself to get caught up in the equalist idea that since both men and women were functional equals we should necessarily base our compatibility estimates on how alike we were in interests. Consequently I progressively began convincing myself that I found their interests fascinating, but in doing so I slipped into their Frame. I was too scared of losing a woman and was too necessitous to experiment with doing what I should have – insisting on maintaining my individual interests and maintaining my own reality for a woman to enter.

I was fortunate in that Mrs. T expected me to control the Frame from the start of our relationship. I’ll admit, at the time it was something very unfamiliar to me to have a woman expect me to prioritize my interests above her own, but the purpose of this was establishing a Frame she wanted to enter into. Today I adamantly insist on having a life that is apart from her, but she can enter into if she has a real interest in it. This blog is just one extension of that dynamic.

If you are to maintain a dominant Frame with a woman you must necessarily set your interests apart from her own. You must still insist on your individualized identity and the experiences that set you apart from her in order to maintain a reality in which she continually wishes to genuinely be a part of.

Ted had a great comment from last week’s thread that speaks to this:

I don’t expect my wife to be like a man with male interests. I expect her to be a human with human interests. Something deeper than pop culture anyway.

I know a little bit about a whole lot of stuff. I’m willing to chat about any number of subjects other than tech and politics. It just has to he something better than what’s on TV and the weather. I keep hearing women can do anything a man can, so let’s see some intellectual debate!

More often than not truths must be brought to women by men. It’s uniquely refreshing when women have the critical insight to look for truths, but it’s refreshing because it’s rare – and it’s refreshing when they seek them from a man who’s Frame she’s chosen to be a part of. One of the best aspects of the principle of Amused Mastery is that, if you actually have the mastery that comes from individualized experience, it makes maintaining a positive, dominant and enjoyable Frame much easier with the same woman.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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@Cave – “Infants are natural, actual, honest to god assholes…” – Just about spit my coffee through my nose on this one. Made me giggle and smile, man did I need it! Indeed, they are completely dependent and will escalate any conflict to hysteria at the drop of a hat.

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Where is the prostate cancer version of this fly fishing set up damn it?

http://www.redsflyfishing.com/Sage-Grace-Fly-Rod-Outfit-p/sage-graceoutfit-mp.htm

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Honest to God, I frickin love reading the comments here.

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@KFG – We should show that aboriginal video to that fuckstick Kevin Powell from the CNN article mentioned upthread. What would he have to say? http://www.cnn.com/2015/10/19/living/mens-movement-kevin-powell-feat/index.html

Bet he thinks they all need to be “re-educated”. He can go suck a bowl of dicks…

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@scribblerg

I’m betting he is quite used to sucking a bowl of dicks. smile

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Promises promises Fred. Best Regards

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Speaking of bowls of dicks…

I’ve often wondered what it would look like if you made a pile of dildos in front of a chick…one for each actual dick she has had.

How big would that pile be?

Or maybe if chicks had like a dick odometer reading somewhere.

Shit, this one has gone to three digits…

A dickometer.

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@scribbler: To clarify first I wasn’t criticizing you for being dominant with him when you calmed him down. It was too much for you, you are the dominant one and he actually needs your dominant frame to calm him down. Your tipping point is the point he will remember as the limit to what he can do and so he learns how far he can go. It sounds less bad if it was his idea to apologize. I still don’t think it was a good idea though. The teacher excluded him from playing and he will learn the lesson from… Read more »

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I have a 100% conviction, women don’t even like their own hobbies and interests, whatever dedication they have, can be dumped according to feelz.
I think, that is why, they don’t understand men’s dedication to hobbies and activities.

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The comments and the wide ranging discussion make this place truly great! Chiming in: Travelling with infants/small children – Started traveling with my daughter at 4 months. And everything you’ve heard from @liz and @scribblerg is correct. Infants are assholes and they require 10 times their bodyweight in stuff to go anywhere. That being said, if you’re determined to do it – do it. Just be sure you understand the type of trip you are getting. If you’re looking for an intellectually stimulating and relaxing, leisurely tour of art museums and historic architecture of Europe, forget it. None of that… Read more »

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@kfg : which yoga moves are dangerous in exceeding the limits of the skeleton? P.S. I think we are getting a bit side-tracked here with the salsa and yoga (which I maintain is not a female-centric activity, it wasn’t so historically before it took off big in the U.S. I think). I know that cooking gets a free pass (particularly if it is grilling meat), I would say that even knitting or similar activities would be ok for a RP male, as long as he does them in his frame and genuinely enjoys them. But maybe I’m still too Blue… Read more »

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I would argue that men today are picking up the slack from the modern women who doesn’t seem to do anything other than try to be a man these days. Need a good meal. Learn to cook. Need a shirt repaired? Learn to sew. It’s very pragmatic in a male sort of way.

I know several men that have taken over many typical feminine tasks. Universally the response is “this shit is easy”.

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“No comment on that trout? That thing was a fucking hog.”

It was impressive but I expected to see some tail. razz

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Jack Jack, I agree that it is for him to decide; not a bunch of dudes and a chick on the interweb to tell him what to do. What’s more BP? Now the counter argument is that he did ask for advice so Scrib et al gave there opinion traveling with children. I disagree that it is a binary option: her & kid or none, which seems to be the options she gave him. There are other options: give kid to Scrib or Fred for week, go it alone, take kid and leave wife. My opinion is that traveling with… Read more »

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@Rollo

I’d give my readers more credit than that, but it accurately describes 90% of the reflexive female rage-comments.

They gotta manufacture indignation somehow.

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@ NBTM ….And logically, because all such dancing is feminine primary. All romantic dancing is born of feminine primacy ideology. Lol, only in the minds of adolescent boys. Real men can lead women. Boys cannot. Reluctant as I am to say it, Insanitybytes might have a point that some men in the manosphere don’t know how to lead. I do know how to lead, so I know that some of her schtick is pure old-fashioned American bulllll-shit. Do you believe…yada…yada…yada? Oh, noes, I beleeeeeve just because Marse Rollo Jesus Fucking Christ says it. Fucking hilarious. Come up with an argument… Read more »

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EMILY ELLIPSIS by Seraph “@Liz, I got his point…” …finally after I was forced to actually read his post instead of simply reacting to the title and getting all indignant which was my intention anyway because it both satisfies my feminist bonafides but also gets me all hot and bothered emotionally. “I just don’t like the generalizations…” …even when they are then clarified and thus de-generalized in the body of the post I did not bother to read this first time. “and the way he gets his point across… …because he right about shit I KNOW he should be wrong… Read more »

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@ NBTM, whose testicles have yet to descend There are certain endeavors that are inherently predominately feminine. “Salsa” is one. Unless you just happen to love salsa regardless, which is highly unusual for a man, then you shouldn’t waste your time. When you sign up for salsa to “find a woman” you enter her frame and by doing so you sacrifice the frame you should be building and maintaining. Lol, that argument could also be used against waltz or any other lead-follow dance. Almost all lead-follow dances require a man to hold frame. Frame. Get it? Adolescent boy thinking: Girls… Read more »

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” which yoga moves are dangerous in exceeding the limits of the skeleton?”

The reverse backbends like the cobra and bridge are the ones to be particularly leery of. The spinal processes are there specifically to limit range of motion in that direction:

http://www.backpain-guide.com/Chapter_Fig_folders/Ch05_Anatomy_Folder/Ch5_Images/05-1_Lumbar_Vert.jpg

Other joints are limited in their motion by ligaments a non elastic tissue. People who are “double jointed” actually have defective/damaged ligaments that cannot hold their joints together properly. Once these become stretched it requires surgery to fix it.

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@ NBTM

The male dancer prances and moves her around like she is a prize. This is a form of worshiping female sexuality.

Lol @ hamsterized bullshit. “Prances”. lol. Moves her around. Period. The man leads. The man commands the woman what to do. Period. This is the same for all lead-follow dances. Man commands. Woman obeys. Period.

Yes, lead-follow is inherently romantic and inherently quasi-sexual. Nothing necessarily feminine about that.

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@ NBTM

“Leading” on a dance floor does not = leading in life.

Leading on a dance floor means giving (physical) commands, holding frame, planning, being observant of those around you, including floor traffic, moving yourself, protecting the woman, etc. Very similar to life. This is why people in times past found social dancing so helpful as training for life with a mate.

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Shaking my head a little bit at the Salsa/Yoga back and forth…

Guys…

The point was to do the shit YOU like because you LIKE it…

Don’t do shit you DON’T like because you think chicks LIKE IT.

Not sure how the discussion went so sideways on this with a smart crowd like we have here.

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Yeah, I just wanna dance and fish now.

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…or dance with fish?

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@Blaximus

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ha Ha Haaaaaa. Right on mothafukin time.

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Was thinking about this in a slightly different way. Things that are dear to you, you must keep some distance away from them. Anytime a woman expresses genuine interest, or even just slight interest of trying to find out something about you, they’ll never seek to learn about what’s dear to you or something you love doing without considering how to someway use it as a control mechanism, or a stick it to you mechanism. If it’s snowmobiles or motorcycles, you can take her riding occasionally if she actually likes it. But you need to somehow keep the idea in… Read more »

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I have two kids and when they were young they were my hobbies, Family is first…Sacrifice… Little League, flag football,, Irish dancing (daughter) Disneyland, etc. Any idiot taking a “me” trip with kids deserves a thorough ass kicking. When the kids are older and on their own, then you can have some time for yourself and hobbies. If you are smart bring your ltr along, tone down the trip so you know she will enjoy it and you both can have fun. She will be grateful and probably not want to ever tag along again….And if you actually have a… Read more »

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theasdgamer –

I knew you would be extremely threatened by what I wrote.

Oh well, at least you have dancing to self qualify.

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Regarding the actual post, I think the issue is important on both a micro and macro level. On the macro first, the Bull Burr riff someone posted above has a very valid point, one which the selfie girls at the baseball reinforces. Women tend to invade male spaces and activities, and co-opt them for their own self interest. They will do so without any regard for the actual point or culture or concept or original intent of the male space, although they will (sometimes) pretend to pay it homage at first before they take it over. Did those girls LOOK… Read more »

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@theadsgamer. Not sure why your throwing Rollo under the bus. I get that NBTM pissed you off. Why do you care? You like dancing and your good at it. I wish I was good at it. My old man, God rest his soul, never talked about dancing, but every family wedding he was Fred Fucking Astair. He moved women around the dance floor like he owned the place. He learned in Germany during the Korwan war. He was really good. I told him that once, he said “Eh, dancing is like working, every man should know how to do it… Read more »

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Here’s the snow surfin, btw, if you watch a few of my videos you could see why my wife does not go fishing with me…..

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@theasdgamer “Men, don’t be this guy (I’ll call him ‘P’). Superficially masculine. He beds women quickly, but they dump him first. P is very buff and in his prime at 30 Y.O. He lifts weights and has a great body. Copy P in doing that. P wears T shirts and lifts his shirt to let women get a peek and the women just about orgasm. Gasps and squeals. Very sexual. P grabs women’s attention quickly. P tells sexual stories and amps up women’s emotions very effectively. Copy him in doing that.” I know your kind. You are a dancing boy.… Read more »

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Wacokid
I kindly suggest you read RP Parenting II. Even Scrib might have words to say about “sacrificing” for your kids. Best Regards

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No bullshit. I really, really frickin love reading the comments here. Makes my day.

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“Not sure why your throwing Rollo under the bus. I get that NBTM pissed you off. Why do you care?” I know why. It is because dancing is not fucking and he cannot stand it. He wants to be fucking, wants to have been fucking, would rather be fucking than dancing. But he is afraid. He is outraged at himself for this fear as other men’s success or his preception of their success exposes his personal difficulty to himself. He attacks these men attempting to destroy the disparity within himself as their superior sexual persona inadvertently exposes his weakness to… Read more »

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Hey theasdgamer,

I have a resolution for us.

You stick to the dancing. I’ll stick to the fucking.

Fair enough?

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I have a 100% conviction, women don’t even like their own hobbies and interests, whatever dedication they have, can be dumped according to feelz.
I think, that is why, they don’t understand men’s dedication to hobbies and activities.

After the kids were born, my wife continued to play competitive sports year around, a lot of dedication went into it. Teammates were a mixed of married and not, some lesbians.

And now back to salsa dancing, already in progress

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@theasdgamer has claimed that my testicles have yet to descend. This is of course projection.

For a reflection on his condition scroll to about the 10 min mark,in the following YouTube video….

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pnyoqxcLRmo

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Seraph, ” I see how many women walk around now with sports jerseys, sports caps, etc, many now changed to colors more female friendly (pink?), and I say to myself, “there is NO way that many women really give a rats ass about sports. This is all a way to either meet guys or to keep tabs on the guys they are already involved with…”” Back n the day I used to bounce at a strip club. Wanna here something funny? On Sundays guys would show up at kick-off and I would lower the music and turn the monitors on… Read more »

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@redlight –

“..And now back to salsa dancing, already in progress”

Damn. Didn’t see that coming. You owe me a cup of coffee since you caused me to spray that last gulp.

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NBTM –

” You stick to the dancing. I’ll stick to the fucking.”

Okay. No more coffee drinking while reading the comments here.

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Seraph – ” I think, at their core, women are insecure about men discovering they can have an interesting life apart from them, and do what they can to hide that from men. If the men ever realized it…well, there goes some major leverage.” You are onto something here. I’ve been with women who were jealous over my cars, my guitars big time, even my audio equipment. ” ..If you paid as much attention to me as you do to your _________” was a cause for immediate dismissal. Insecurity or jealousy or some bastardized combination of the two. Highly, highly… Read more »

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LOL

The Authur Greenleaf Holmes YouTube is a great laugh…

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@Seraph, I didn’t post a detailed argument because I don’t think this article, or any other on the ‘manosphere’, deserves one. Neither does Rollo’s audience, apparently, since most of them just followed up his dull essay with misogynistic comments about women who were bad at fishing. But by the way, when did he ‘degeneralize?’ When did he state the fact that our hobbies are primarily a result of our upbringing and culture, not just – or primarily – our sex? I mean, that’s a fact, and it’s why girls from say, rural Texas (such as myself) will largely be interested… Read more »

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I has edumacationz and I make plenty-o-moneyz…

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^Real mature.
I never claimed to make a lot of money. I’m 20 years old

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Well looking who’s here, demonstrating that she is ignorant of NY, as well.

http://www.iloveny.com/things-to-do/outdoor-adventures/hunting/#.VihGl5dVH-c

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And let the record show, your Honor, that calling the essay ” dull ” exhibits a sad lack of understanding and brings into question basic reading comprehension. And furthermore, speaking to certain women in a condescending manner is quite necessary under particular conditions. I contend that the jury has no other logical recourse than to find you GUILTY of proving all of that which has been spoken of, by barging in here and polluting a man’s space by flailing about and waving your arms in a ” Look at meeeee!!! ” fashion. You are hereby sentenced to 90 days in… Read more »

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@20 years old? Ohhhh. Okay. I’m sorry.

What are you wearing?

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I have scars older than her….

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Ha ha ha someone nailed! Emily is back!! Sir, have a drink on me!!

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So Emily, if you’re not a feminist, why do you get so butt hurt about the articles or comments? What’s it to ya?

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I have scars older than her parents. I’m wearing socks older than her.

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@kfg
Hey look who didn’t get the point!
The hobbies people have is a result of their upbringing and the society they live in. That was my point. And if NY was a bad example, take San Fran or London or some other city. Although, I do doubt that the average NY guy has ever used a rifle, but I could just be generalizing. Hah

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you’re on fire blaximus.

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@Emily “I’m willing to bet my life on rank lower in education and income than the average American.” Assume nothing. This knowledge and the anger or disappointment that comes with it spares no economic strata, race, ethnic background, religion, age, etc., These attitudes, insights, realizations, angers, and such are completely nondiscriminating just as bigotry itself infects all. Not to imply that we are bigots. There is much truth revealed here. I earn well into six figures annually and I’m well educated. Probably a significant portion of participants here are also. It is good that you are young and can read… Read more »

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I’m starting a crowd-funding drive to buy Emily a clue.

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kfg

Emily is woefully mistaken. I shot 2 rats on the lower east side a couple of years ago.

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“Hey look who didn’t get the point!”

The point is that you’re a proven liar.

And here is what most of NY looks like:

http://www.adirondack.net/images/fall-view-adirondacks-heilman.jpg

And what average rural New Yorkers look like:

http://www.petersenshunting.com/wp-content/blogs.dir/7/files/teen-takes-monster-new-york-black-bear/image_resize.jpg

http://www.doaoutfitters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Tresspass-Hunting-Fishing-SG-NY-003.jpg

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NBTM,
With all due respect, you’re asking a tree not to be a tree.

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@The Lawyer with a Visceral Time Problem:

Which is obviously going about things the wrong way; it takes force to make a tree be a dining room set.

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“With all due respect, you’re asking a tree not to be a tree.”

True. Similar to “barking up the wrong tree” as with theasdgamer.

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Kfg lol point taken and yes there is a chance that the tree may become a table. But it is more likely that even faced with reality the tree will remain a tree. The problem with my analogy is unlike a tree, our tree can resist becoming something useful. So it may never become a table unless it wants to become a table.

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@Not Born This Morning Thanks, but I’ve been raised too well to be influenced by this red pill bs. The woman who support you guys here have some severe self esteem issues, I don’t. You guys can say what you want to me, stupid, ugly, feminazi, etc etc, doesn’t matter to me cause none of it’s true. Well, obviously no stats exist for average education and income level of ‘manosphere’ readers (though it would be an interesting study!) My reasoning is that the insane misogyny here must have some source, and I feel that this comes from lack of attention… Read more »

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“Which is obviously going about things the wrong way; it takes force to make a tree be a dining room set.”

And we fuck up a tree to make the dining room set but with women we…..never mind.

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@Blaximus: “What are you wearing?”

Hahaha….my sentiments exactly!

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See the tree is resisting becoming something useful. And doesn’t even realize it is confirming Rollo’s essays by its very resistance.

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@Emily

It is not what you fear, now you reveal you are limited by your own bigotry. You are denying yourself an opportunity that your current BF and brother cannot offer.

You must first ask yourself why you are here on this blog and sincerely try to answer that question as honestly for yourself as possible.

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Geez. It’s almost like one or more of us predicted the return of Emily.

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@anotherlawyerwastingtime

You may enjoy “Ode to an Extremely Provocative Knot Hole” by Authur Greenleaf Holmes.

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@Emily: “They sell to you the idea that you can change your life and ‘get girls’ while at the same time reinforcing your preconceived notions that most of us females are worthless.” No….they don’t sell that ‘product’. Women are not worthless…We love them, but if anything what we come here to do is learn to love you AS YOU ARE, and, most importantly, to love ourselves first! Furthermore, though you are not worthless, you, however, ARE predictable. As Kfg & many here pointed out, and, as we all expected, you are back… You are also solipsistic and completely unaware of… Read more »

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@Not Born This Morning
The opportunity to be surrounded by angry misogynists? No thanks.

Why am I here? It’s cause you guys were insulting a Christian blogger I started following recently and the people there mentioned Rollo.
Thats it.

@Is This Thing On?
Well, Rollo posted a video of back when him and I went fishing so I had to reply again smile

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To give credit where credit is due, her hang time was respectable.

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NBTM, Thank you for introducing me to AGH! That was too funny!! Especially the part about another man in his hole!! Good stuff! I shall be watching/listening to more of his stuff.

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@kfg: Hahaha…Duly noted bruv…duly noted!

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@Emily You are new to Rollo’s writting, so bare with those of us who have been her a while. Here is what is really amazing. You are not the first woman to come in here, invading male space, as it where. What you don’t yet see, if you ever do, is how totally predictable your behavior is. Every woman that comes in here follows the same patterns. What is really interesting is that you will follow these paterns regardless of how many of us point them out to you beforehand. It truly is remarkable. As kobayashi says above, we don’t… Read more »

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You guys are too nice to the tree. But who am I to deny you if you dream that knotty young tree is a beautiful dining room table worth possessing.

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Emily
“”and I feel that this comes from lack of attention from us(due to AF / BB ) And we don’t really give unsuccessful men much attention(much pussy, unless, he’s got tingle).
I could be wrong though(but I’m not). Sociopaths are generally more(tingle generating) wealthy than the average(beta boring) person( like my bf).
Either way I highly doubt real (boring) men like my( no tingles) bf or(white night) brother hold the opinions you(sexy)guys do.

Hey,Emily, why the hell. You’re not with your boyfriend and giving him some “ATTENTION” ( if you know what I mean ;-).

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@Is This Thing On? What? Our responses to misogyny are predictable? No way?! Well, Black people would have very predictable responses for the KKK. Oh please. If that WAS the case I’d leave you alone. I like traditional men too. But I’ve read about a dozen articles around here and Roosh’s website and they are all full of objectification of women, hatred of older women, encouragement of pedophilia, justification of rape, nostalgia for hypergamy, laments about times you could control your wife, discouragement of commitment, double standards towards promiscuity, hatred for american women, among other things. Unlikely. I don’t frequent… Read more »

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@Emily,

I thought you were leaving?

(Grin)

I loves being right…

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@Rollo
What a nice person you are! If she really is bipolar and suffers from depression (doubt it), then maybe you should shut up about it? Stop bullying her.

Kind of creepy that you know about that site.

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Emily is evidence of why I need to dial in my asshole game.

Comes back for another dose of indignation right on schedule. Seriously, Rollo, she flicks the bean every time she sees the banner at the top of your site. Bet she reads your book to at least get angry masturbation out of you since she can’t get angry sex.

Women aren’t dumb. They’re just predictable as shit.

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@Emily

Stop bullying her.

She comes here of her own free will, threatens to kill men and let them rot in her attic, then cries victim when dudes call her out on her bullshit. PROTIP: it’s not bullying when the dumb bitch brings it on herself. She likes it, otherwise she wouldn’t keep coming back for it. But you obviously know exactly what I’m talking about, otherwise you wouldn’t be back here again would you, sweetheart?

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Emily dear, you’re fast running out of male shaming tactics that simply do not work here. You are completely out of your depth and just embarrassing yourself; but it is entertaining.

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@Rollo,
After reading the 7ways, I here by, announce my conversion.
I’m a Christian now. LOVE it.

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^^
God, you guys are delusional af. It’s remarkable.
“Asshole game?” Good luck with that. lmao

I came back cause I didn’t want you guys to get away w the crap you said about me. That’s it.
And I highly doubt Insanity said anything like that.

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@emily

It was on here, as part of the cut n’ paste from her blog:

Any man running around attempting to reduce women to nothing more than easily discarded sexual receptacles is inferior. He is morally, intellectually, and mentally inferior. He deserves to be tossed out, thrown aside, relegated to the rubbish heap, and his very DNA to be evicted from the gene pool forever. If it were my choice, he’d be nothing more than compost for my rose bushes or perhaps a bad smell coming from my attic.

https://insanitybytes2.wordpress.com/2015/07/21/mentally-fragile/

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^ Thanks redlight.
Buuut with regards to what the above poster said, what insanity wrote is a) not a threat and b) only directed towards men who are ‘attempting to reduce women to nothing more than easily discarded sexual receptacles.’
And I agree that these men should be sent on a one way trip to Mars.

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@redlight,
Wow, what a testament by Insanitybytes,
Sieg hail mein Fuhrer.

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It’s amazing how viscous women can be.
Sending a man one way to Mars ! Or to the attic.

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One last comment!

One of Emily’s comment on the other blog, was about her boyfriend was watching porn!.
Why? , I think, he should be sent to Mars.

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@ NBTM, court yester

Lol, that was beer and IPA talking. Feel free to believe what you want, I’m sure you have a great future.

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Aaaaand we knew that Emily couldn’t keep her tits out of here.

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@ atticus

Not sure why your throwing Rollo under the bus.

Meh, I’m just being a little picky with him.

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The “buff” men intimidate you as they are fucking the day lights out of the girls you want but cannot get. So you pretend to yourself that you are more superior morally and that dancing is better than fucking anyway.

IDGAS about buff boys like you. I don’t play on the all boys’ team.

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Hey theasdgamer,

I have a resolution for us.

You stick to the dancing. I’ll stick to the fucking.

Fair enough?

I was busy dancing and fucking.

Lol at feeling threatened by boys who play on the all boys’ team.

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@ NBTM

I’ll stick mine in girls, you can have the boys.

Fair enough?

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