In a couple of weeks I’ll be making my first and only personal appearance this year at the 21 Convention in Orlando, Florida. This event will be unique in a number of ways. To my knowledge, this convention will be the first large-scale gathering of Red Pill writers, bloggers, podcast hosts and thought-leaders ever organized. I’m truly appreciative of Anthony Johnson in being open to my suggestions for speakers. It was a collaborative effort in this regard and over the course of this year we did our best to collect a group of speakers who would represent many different aspects of Red Pill intersexual dynamics. My only regrets are that we couldn’t fit more speakers in to the schedule and some men I highly respect were unable to attend this year.
It was my hope that this ‘new and improved’ 21 Convention might eventually be an annual Red Pill summit of sorts. This build up hasn’t been without a bit of controversy from the previous Purple Pill speakers who used the 21 Convention’s prior events as a platform for their blogs and coaching businesses. That was to be expected just as the same tired criticisms of the Red Pill were too. I have no doubt that the previous ‘life coaches’ taking issue with this event’s Red Pill turn sincerely believe they have some valuable insights to help men become ‘better men’. The problem, however, becomes one of how these coaches would direct men according to the Blue Pill preconditioning they have never been able to disabuse themselves of.
I understand the necessity these guys must feel with regards to discrediting the Red Pill as a praxeology. The dots we connect in Red Pill awareness are often at odds with their deeply held Blue Pill ego-investments and hopes, as well as a threat to their (often LARPy moralistic) “Man Up but not too much” profit model. In fact, even just the idea that the Red Pill should be a praxeology of men’s collective experiences about intersexual dynamics is enough to make them want to disqualify it. Their criticism is that, as a praxeology, the Red Pill is long on explanations and short on solutions – solutions you can presumably get by signing up for their email blasts and coaching sessions.
The praxeology that is the Red Pill is inconvenient for them because it tears away the veneer of their Blue Pill idealism about women and reveals some very unflattering truths about them and the feminine on-whole which they still largely have on a pedestal in their heads. Red Pill awareness has a way of exposing the pretty lies that make for the good marketing material that most Purple Pill coaches depend on for their livelihoods. I mean, when 80%+ of men are Beta, who wouldn’t want to buy the secret 12 point list of things a man must do to be a real man and get the woman of his dreams?
Two Complaints
There are generally two common complaints I read coming from Purple Pill life dating coaches. The first is easy, and one I’ve refuted so many times I wont bore you with repeating myself, and that’s the presumption that Red Pill awareness must be false or detrimental to a guy because it makes guys so angry with women. This is the easiest dismissal for critics because it is true; men do go through a phase of anger when they unplug from the Blue Pill illusions they’ve been so convinced of for the better part of a lifetime. And yes, some get stuck in this phase and some do become despondent because they don’t want to face the abyss it represents to them. Some go MGTOW, some turn into Purple Pill coaches themselves because they don’t want to accept the whole of what Red Pill awareness means. But most men go through this phase and come to an acceptance that there is hope in a Red Pill paradigm for them. They come to see their new awareness as a safety net and boldly embrace rebuilding themselves into better men based on this full awareness.
So the sales pitch then becomes, “Don’t be angry with women like those Red Pill guys. You can still live in Blue Pill happiness and harmony with a loving unicorn ‘Quality‘ woman by following these 5 simple steps to make yourself into the man women want you to be.”
What the Purple Pill anger critics (deliberately) refuse to get is that the Red Pill isn’t (and was never) intended to get men to hate women, but rather to inform men about the inherent nature of women so they wont hate women for what they can never be to them. This is the disillusionment that men who still cling to Blue Pill idealism can’t seem to get past – they cannot abandon those Blue Pill hopes that they believe women are capable of fulfilling for him, but the Red Pill disabuses him of. So they get angry. They get angry at themselves for ever having believed in them. They get angry for having wasted so much time investing themselves in them. They get angry, most importantly, because they realize that women simply aren’t built to fulfill the hopes his Blue Pill conditioning made him believe should be possible.
The Purple Pill coach believes that this Red Pill realization leads to men hating women. The second complaint I read from them is that Red Pill awareness gives men some license to feeling like victims. This criticism is deductive to coaches for two reasons; it serves his ‘get-rich-quick-on-the-internet-by-selling-sunshine’ man-up and do better to qualify for women blog template, and it discourages men seeking answers from becoming Red Pill aware in a way that crushes their still Blue Pill belief set.
For the record, and as boldly as I can put this, if you are Red Pill aware man and still believe you are a victim of some sort because of your previous Blue Pill indenturement to pedestalizing women or the Feminine Imperative, you are only a victim of your own lack of vision. Red Pill awareness has set you free – free from the blur and distraction that a feminine-primary social order would pull over your eyes, free from the delusional Blue Pill hopes that are only greater shackles for a man, and free from never seeing the intersexual pitfalls you were prone to fall into before. But Red Pill awareness comes at a cost; the truth may set you free, but it doesn’t make it pretty. If you have a responsibility as a Red Pill aware man it’s that you are never allowed to play the victim. You now know the rules of engagement. Play it well, change the rules if you can, but you are no longer allowed to say you didn’t know the score.
Most Purple Pill coaches know this victim complex is bullshit, so they deliberately conflate Red Pill awareness with MGTOW or the MRM or even the “flip side of feminism” in an effort to muddy the waters and dissuade men, who are genuinely hurting and seeking answers, away from the real life-changing influence that the Red Pill represents.
When I petitioned my readers to leave a testimonial as to why they thought the Red Pill represented more confidence or a ‘safety net’ to them I got much more than I anticipated from that comment thread. I had been looking for some good quotes to add to the back cover of Positive Masculinity, but what I got was over a thousand revelations about the power that Red Pill awareness has in changing men’s lives for the better. These are men who took what the Red Pill had shown them and transformed their lives with that knowledge. They did this because Red Pill awareness empowered them, gave them the tools, to implement changes in themselves and how they interacted with women and a feminized world. They did so without anger or feeling like victims, and they did so without a Purple Pill hack trying to coax them back onto the plantation and into their failed, and false, Blue Pill belief sets.
And this is what scares the coaches; that a free and open source Red Pill praxeology is responsible for more men taking the initiative and bettering themselves than anything their ‘coaching’ has been responsible for.
Personal Development
I am not now, nor have I ever been a motivational speaker, a ‘guru’ of any stripe, a psychotherapist or a personal development coach. Though I’m humbled to be counted among the Godfathers of the Red Pill, I have never claimed ownership of the Red Pill. It’s always been my belief that the Red Pill – the true Red Pill that has always been about intersexual dynamics – should be an ‘open source’ community. Decentralization is one of its strengths, but it also allows for bastardization from men and women who want to define it.
In each of my books and on this blog I’ve made things plain about my non-approach to men and their own personal development; I’m not interested in making better men, I’m interested in men making themselves better men. I am not interest in making men “Tomassi Men” or in anyway selling them on a template for what I think a real man ought to be. My life and my interpretations of it are not going to be a template for anyone else to follow. Red Pill awareness, based on the praxeology of intersexual dynamics in the personal and social realms, will save and/or improve your life, but that life has to be lived by you as an individual.
That said, of course I realize that men seeking answers will want a codified system of guidelines for their own personal development. I’m not the guy who’s going to give that to you, neither is that Purple Blue Pill life coach with the 12 point plan, neither is the motivational speaker selling you the same tired power of positivity message that’s been around since the 1930s. You are going to come up with that plan, you are going to take what the Red Pill makes you aware of and you are going to apply it to how you live your life. And you will have the satisfaction of knowing that your personal development and the successes (and failures) that came from it authentically came from your own plan and according to your judgement, not someone else’s vision or template.
I wanted to take a moment in this post to preface the 21 Convention by addressing the ways in which men come to unplug themselves from their old, Blue Pill conditioned way of life and reconstruct themselves. Reader Blaximus added this in a recent comment thread and it sums things up well:
Fourth: there is no ‘ system ‘ for teaching or learning Game. None. The process is highly individualized and virtually no two guys will learn at the same rate, or achieve the exact same level of understanding or real world application. No cheat sheets in game. You either get it and apply it and internalize it, or you don’t. It’s not about picking up chicks in clubs. That’s PUA. Game picks up chicks at a funeral. Lol. True game will be disliked by the masses.
Far too many Purple Pill dating coaches don’t want to get this in their heads. They think that because the Red Pill is a praxeology it implies it’s a cop out on developing real solutions for guys. They either don’t understand the necessity for men’s individual needs to personally develop Game for themselves, or they need a convenient dismissal of the Red Pill as ‘those angry guys have no answers’.
I have stressed in more essays than I care to recount the importance of combining what the Red Pill informs Game about with what Game informs the Red Pill about. One is the theoretical, the other is the practical, and neither is complete without the other. Yes, it is entirely vital that you, as a Red Pill aware man, get out into the field to employ the ideas, and test the practicality of how the Red Pill relates to your situation in your environment according to your strengths and gifts. That field may be a night club, or day Game on the street, in a social circle, with your wife of 10 years or in your churches singles’ group. The fact remains, Red Pill awareness is applicable through Game in a variety of environments, social and cultural contexts.
Game Works, but it only works if you turn off the computer and do something. How do you learn from a book? You put it down and you go outside (and yes, that counts for my books too). Investing oneself in Red Pill awareness as a praxeology is not a cop out for coming up with real solutions – it gives men a toolset from which they can create their own solutions. What frightens Purple Pill coaches is that men’s individual solutions, often enough, don’t affirm their Blue Pill romanticizations, their pretenses of morality, or their idealistic inability to look at the abyss and find hope on the other side of it. They want solutions, but they want their solutions to be affirmed by a Red Pill awareness that contradicts their ego-investments.
When your revenue depends on not getting it it’s hard to convince a Blue Pill man otherwise.
I will be discussing aspects of this essay at the 21 Convention in just two weeks. If you are attending I’d like to take this opportunity to extend you a personal invitation to talk with me at the convention and possibly have dinner with my colleagues and I at the event. On the topic of just getting out there in the field and doing it, I know that my friends Christian McQueen and Goldmund will be heading out into the wilds of the Orlando nightlife and I will be accompanying them on at least one of these outings.
Lastly, if you are in the Central Florida area, or if you want to make the drive in for the weekend, and you really really want to attend the convention, but just can’t come up with the funds, hit me up via email, Twitter or leave a message on my About page here and I will personally see about getting you some kind of hardship discount. Remember, this is only if you’re truly desperate to attend.
See you in two weeks.
“Are you Gay” Update – Carried over from Band of Brothers It looks like she backed down as they went out together. As more background, my son is below legal drinking age and lives at home. So, while my advice was to dump her and this course was echoed in some of the comments, there is utility to the relationship: she has an apartment, she cooks for him, provides a crash pad, goes dutch on dates. He’s not ready for plate-spinning, but I am hopeful that he will get there and not be inhibited by the “he is taking advantage… Read more »
If I fell
” One of the points I was making was you had better make up your mind, before time makes it for you. The other was find a good mother or do not attempt this.”
What did you do to find a good mother?
When did you first think of creating children?
Where did time remind you of this importance?
We cannot deny the truth. There are beautiful women, and then there are makeup and plastic surgery knockoffs. Similarly, there are guys who are genetically better than the rest. Women lust after, fail to lock down, and pine for these guys. Learning game, lifting, self improvement is to us what plastic surgery and makeup is to women. Some women may see through it, just the same way we see through makeup etc. Women start on alphas way before boys know to find red pill and game. A pre-pubertal alpha will already have been fucked by the nanny.
Duke recruits men to fight “toxic masculinity’
https://www.campusreform.org/?ID=9749
BradAss87 is a Harvard fellow:
http://www.militarytimes.com/news/your-military/2017/09/13/chelsea-manning-named-visiting-fellow-at-harvard/
A properly gamed red pill beta will believe that he is trully an AF. Once they lock him down Cheupez — Well, that’s poor frame and poor game on his part, in that case. If he was really coming from his own point of origin and owning the frame, he wouldn’t let himself be locked down, and certainly not if he sensed he was in AF frame. Part of AF frame is not getting locked down, really. The issue there is that he is sliding into a different frame — let’s call it “AB” frame — where he thinks he’s… Read more »
It’s taken 7 years but…I think I’m approaching the zero fux given about approaching women and having them in my life.
I’ve built up a new rotation of 3 decent plates who so far have given me very little drama.
When one cancels or has other stuff to do one of the others steps up…
But my mindset which is more important is: I got a ton of shit to do and if you can’t make time or make it fun to be with you….next!
It’s a kind of zen like feeling.
When students Tristan and Sebastian decided that the local club, “Backdoor Manstew” was nowhere near gay enough for them, they took Duke to task.
And Duke answered with the “fight toxic masculinity” recruitment project.
LOL! I would like to see a photo line-up of the “guys” in this toxic masculinity project.
True simps, FI-stooges, black-knights, or just some guys hustling these misandrist fools for beer money.. .I’m really curious.
Been reading that campusreform site the past dew weeks. There was non of that shit going on when I graduated in 1986. What a fucking toxic environment university has been turned into since.
There’s a Whole Lotta Lulz in that Duke Men’s Project: For starters to be in it you must be “Male-identified or masculine-of-center”. I guess if you don’t know what that means you can ass them. This is from the synopsis. Someone run it through Google Translate for me wouldya: “Men doing gender equity work operate with a very specific set of privileges, often referred to as the “glass elevator” effect. Thus, The Duke Men’s Project is a space that remains accountable to the great work women and non-male-identified activists and thinkers have been doing for decades. Our space is one… Read more »
I love the old Red Pill show, “Father Knows Best.”
“Women control 70% of the resources in this country.”
Bud gets beat up by a guy and his dad puts him in boxing class at the local gym. My mother did that for me, too.
Mother, talking about Bud: Our Bluebeard has been going steady for a week with both Joyce and Alison. Someone needs to have a talk with him.
Father: Either that or give him a medal. [he kisses Mother]
You see the FI pushing through Mother and pushback against it from Father.
“pink pill…. Vichy Males” lolololololol
damn, wish I’d thought of that
@chopez
“there are guys who are genetically better than the rest”
And there are other guys with more limiting beliefs than the rest. Quit holding yourself back.
@ cheupez
Please define ‘ genetically better ‘ as you see it.
@ cheupez
Unless you’re genetically predisposed to those limiting beliefs, in which case double down on them.
@ Rugby11 I owe you a debt for bringing Jordan Peterson to my attention. His lectures are some of the best “soup starter” for the mind I have ever watched. “a good mother” – Beyond good fortune, there were some positive signs. She came from a large family where, as the eldest, she was expected to share and even sacrifice for her younger siblings. She had a dog that was her own. She loved that dog and kept it alive through extraordinary care for 16 years. She cared for her nephew after the death of her brother-in-law when her sister… Read more »
Red pill never made me angry, but it did disappoint me. I think the hardest part for me to swallow was that there is no status plateau, you have to keep gaming women (or woman), forever. I was lazy, and my most cherished idea was that if I achieved certain things, I could nail down a good woman and coast for the rest of my days. That last bit was this: game isn’t just how to get women, game is also how you keep them. For all that men are accused of being scared of commitment, that is because we… Read more »
@Fred F GBFC “Men doing gender equity work” Work that women want and men need to pay the bills (generaly non productive not physical). ” operate with a very specific set of privileges” No monthly flow,can’t have babies, thinking not controlled by emotions more logical and motivated by pupose rather than being “the first woman”. “, often referred to as the “glass elevator” effect.” By feminised women and men alike.Lets face it if it is scientific sit down work you have to be damn good to get paid. “Thus, The Duke Men’s Project is a space that remains accountable to… Read more »
Tarrou – the whole comment is good
“men are accused of being scared of commitment, that is because we are the ones capable of it.
We know what it entails” and “game isn’t just how to get women, game is also how you keep them” :: very good
If-I-Fell “I owe you a debt for bringing Jordan Peterson to my attention. His lectures are some of the best “soup starter” for the mind I have ever watched.” Your welcome i am glad your life has improved because of it. I owe you in the sense of building a family… Learning about the time frame and turmoil and magnificent’s of building an extensive of yourself into a physical form existence. ” To have a boy, it was said, prop up the woman’s buttocks on cushions and penetrate and ejaculate as deeply as possible. Then, hold her legs up for… Read more »
“To paraphrase Peterson again, “You are not an adult until you have a child.” 1. Concerning the kids thing……..They aren’t that great. Basically raised 3 myself without being an adult. That’s an opinion thing. “You may have a great life without kids, but it seems to me to be a continual repeat of things you did in your early 20’s. Recently, Mersonia, in one of his asshole posts said I was really stupid, but he had to go try to find a woman to bang. The plan of plate spinning till you’re dead may sound good to some men here… Read more »
Novaseeker Cheupez “. If he was really coming from his own point of origin and owning the frame, he wouldn’t let himself be locked down, and certainly not if he sensed he was in AF frame. Part of AF frame is not getting locked down, really.” Well that is artfully worded, but assuming that is not intentional – what is with this persistent FI based thinking that a guy “lets” himself get locked down? Have you ever turned on a light switch? Or turned one off? Do you not have a choice and the agency to do whatever it is… Read more »
@ Rollo Social Science finally formally recognizes the existence of the AF/BB strategy of women, it is called “the Madame Bovary strategy”. I found this while reading the newest edition of this book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mind-Her-Own-Evolutionary-Psychology/dp/0198504985 “Men with masculine facial features are rated by women as high in strength and dominance but they are also rated as lower on warmth, emotionality, honesty, and cooperativeness (Perrett et al., 1998). Most significantly, they are rated as less likely to be good parents. It seems that too much dominance may make a man attractive as a short-term mate but raises the specter that his very… Read more »
I agree. Lock down=loss of frame. Still, I believe that nature prefers that alphas beta down a bit if they are resourceful and want to use the resources to grant their children a headstart in life. They do not necessarily get locked down in the absolute sense of the word. Resourceless alphas, or alphas who don’t care to provide for their kids just hit the road and leave the woman to find her way to some BB or something. Most alphas who are locked down (ie providing for their kids) also keep a lot of side pussy going on all… Read more »
And by alpha, I mean the man who is such that women get wet when they interact with him. And by beta I mean the man a woman finds sexually undesirable…the kind of man she is not only willing to sleep with, but one that she wants to sleep with. If a woman is only willing to sleep with a man, in that moment, he is beta.
correction: …the kind of man she may be willing to sleep with, albeit not one that she wants to sleep with.
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““For all that men are accused of being scared of commitment, that is because we are the ones capable of it. We know what it entails. That is how we want to be loved, once and forever. And that is what women cannot give us.” In USA 18-20 September Million Parent March in Washington DC. This is a march for parental equality, against parental alienation and anyone (male, female, whatever you identify as…) can join in. Equal rights for fathers will remove one aspect of being scared of commitment. Stand with your brothers and sisters for a brighter future for… Read more »
pinelero – the pushback is expected…. however, what I find amazing is that the term “father’s rights activist” is a pejorative… as if advocating for a father’s rights is inherently a bad thing…. the rot runs deep, my friends, and the treatment for gangrene is extreme
This is the disillusionment that men who still cling to Blue Pill idealism can’t seem to get past – they cannot abandon those Blue Pill hopes that they believe women are capable of fulfilling for him, but the Red Pill disabuses him of. So they get angry. I think what’s hard for me is not so much loss of an ideal that I used to believe women were capable of fulfilling for me – when I first read about the differences in how men v women love, I grasped it immediately and knew that is true, even felt some relief… Read more »
@ Dr Z. FI hates MRA. Fathers are a sub-set of men, so the hate against MRA is extended to fathers. The FI is defending Briffaults law in a cruel and anti-children manner very bitterly.
Not all women are as extreme, as you can read on the Million Parent March page there is a lot female support for parental equality.
Anyone’s remaining blue pill idealism will be removed if you read the accounts of men on these pages and how they have had to deal with family courts ex’s.
https://www.reddit.com/r/KindleFreebies/comments/701ext/a_mans_guide_to_newborn_babies_how_to_thrive_as_a/?ref=share&ref_source=link Mitch “This self-giving that worked well under the old set of books, but is more likely than not to make one a chump in today’s SMP. The idea that realizing full manhood involves looking out for #1 has NEVER, so far as I can tell, been an ideal in western civilization- quite the opposite in fact. So this is a very dissonant aspect, when one believes in the idea that sacrifice for others is the basis of true happiness.” You have to come first in Anything you do. Not because your an asshole but because you know what an… Read more »
You have to come first in Anything you do. Not because your an asshole but because you know what an asshole is. Some part gets internalized you don’t allow anything within you to be polluted by the world.
Not to be argumentative, but does this mentality produce heroes? Does it produce great men?
I’m sure there’s some distinction that I’m not quite getting, but it isn’t at all clear.
@Mitch,The first thing an EMT learns is PPE,personal protective equipment,the premise is if you cannot protect yourself from ID’s, Biohazards , shooters ect, you won’t be there to help the patient at least not for very long. This means we need to learn to put ourselves and our wellbeing first if we are to help others. Some of the old books teachings are correct, remembering that the playing field has changed therefore the amount of CYA(cover your ass) changes with it. Things are getting to the point that a Man needs to spend more time CYA than doing the actual… Read more »
Stuffin
Good explanation- thx, that makes sense.
Things are getting to the point that a Man needs to spend more time CYA than doing the actual work
If true this is def troubling.
@ Sentient
… well, I did the ” locking “. How ’bout you? Lol.
Blaximus
Right… 100%.
Fleezer?
Aaaand
If i wanted to “unlock” 🔑 I can do THAT to…
Holy shit! How amazing – I have a choice in my own life!!!!
Lol.
Mitch
“Not to be argumentative, but does this mentality produce heroes? Does it produce great men?”
What defines a great man to you?
Who are your Hero’s?
Where do you see yourself impacted by their story?
Why does it matter to you?
Blaximus
“@ cheupez
Please define ‘ genetically better ‘ as you see it.”
Take a guess, who plays in the NBA?
Care to explain how you did it?
That’s more along the lines of Genetically Suited to a particular task. Not ” better “. I want to know how cheupez to tell me what he means by ” better “.
Mitch
“So this is a very dissonant aspect, when one believes in the idea that sacrifice for others is the basis of true happiness.”
Says the guy who claims he doesn’t have a martyr complex…
Tell us Mitch… How did mom treat dear old dad?
Anon01 –
I give you Jerome ” Spud ” Webb.
5′ 7″
132 pounds soaking wet.
I’ll see your Webb and raise (heh) you a Pat Connaughton.
@Blaximus
You either don’t understand statistics, or you ignore them because it’s better for your argument.
It’s like I say “women are weaker than men,” and you respond with “those ufc chicks can beat you to death.”
Well asd, at least you didn’t hit me with Tim Tebow. Lol.
Connaughton is a certified BEAST though. And he played QB in High School.
Anon01
I understand statistics just fine.
I don’t allow them to influence me.
I believe men are capable of much, much, much more than stats would suggest.
The sexes are a different matter. I’m talking about men. Please leave the goalpost as they are. Lol….
Mike Tyson was heavyweight champion of the world, yet he didn’t fight everyone in the world.
So…… yeah.
genetically better depends upon context
“That’s more along the lines of Genetically Suited to a particular task.”
saying genetically better as some sort of absolute is nonsense and doesn’t apply; for example, an animal is born with a pure white coat…. not so good if it needs to hide in a forest but in the arctic…. great idea!
exact same genetics is good here, bad there; no judgment, just results in context
@drzipper
“genetically better depends upon context”
Has there ever been a situation that you wished you had an extra chromosome? A recessed jawline? A micropenis?
@Blaximus
The sexes are a product of genetic differences(genes on the Y vs genes on the X chromosome). They are not different.
Please define ‘ genetically better ‘ as you see it.
……….
The Ton, mother fucker!, maybe you’ve heard of me?
Ok couldn’t resist that, but oh yes there is most def genetically better people. We see the dregs and we see the genetically gifted every day
Repeat-
” The sexes are a different matter. I’m talking about men. Please leave the goalpost as they are. Lol….”
anon01 – lol, have you ever made an argument that made sense?
Damn Blax
“Mike Tyson was heavyweight champion of the world, yet he didn’t fight everyone in the world.”
That is meme worthy… Exceptionalism attracts an amazing amount of critics though. I get it, part of that is Power of Positive thinking backlash… But really is you are exceptional, it’s just a day to day reality.
Bo knows…
Not to be argumentative, but does this mentality produce heroes? Does it produce great men? ……. Stop being a bitch. Most heroes and great men of society Ranger’ed the fuck up, grabbed their nut sack and put themselevs and their mission 1st. That whole line of thought about putting others 1st made the West great is purely the thinking of an effeminate mind. It was the desire for wealth, power, fame and conquest over other tribes and nature that made the West the greatest civilization known It’s the womanish putting others 1st that is killing the West. For smart, red… Read more »
Anon01
“A micropenis?”
Yes! Really it will micropenis itself if confronted…
@drzipper
You said genetically better depends upon context. Upon what context is eg a recessed jawline better?
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lol so much hamstering when it comes to genetics.
from one of my favorite comedies…..
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qdaw7FUJyp0&t=01m23s
anon01 – you think folks running the show are big, buff gladiator types? or maybe they have among them overweight/scrawny, small-dick, weak-chin, thick glasses types…. and these dudes would have no trouble finding hb9+ chicks because they have the power, money and status women crave…. and women don’t care about how it’s obtained
what used to work genetically in one context is no guarantee that it will in another; success/better/worse/failure is subjective and thus, subject to context
lol ok dr.
genetics only matter when you talk to feminists. After that they just become irrelevant. lol
Let’s agree to disagree. After all, we’ll both have the same genes tomorrow
anon01 – no prob…. interesting subject, though
I’m no expert in the matter and so can only go by my own experiences, mid-level reading and generally what smells right
kinda hoping kfg will show up with one of his more direct, lucid comments on it
@ Mersonia Children – perhaps you weren’t great or your 3 kids weren’t great or both. I can’t say. As with everything, “your mileage may vary”. Perhaps Blax is closer to the truth than I am. I can only share my experience. I met a guy at the conference I attended who had a special needs kid. That must be a hard road to travel. Touché – If you can do both an LTR with children and plates and do both well (or even passable), my hats off to you. I’m only trying to guide my son. I want to… Read more »
These 12 rules for success are pretty timeless:
https://me.me/i/12-fucking-rules-for-success-1-do-the-fucking-work-18320367
Ton, What the fuck are you talking about? I was under the impression you were a Ranger. Am I mistaken about that? Ranger units and individuals function by every man for himself, do they? Another ‘wommanish’ example that’s destroying the west: my grandfather. a fighter pilot shot down and captured by Japanese in WWII, also flew combat tour in Korea. Then Vietnam comes along, and of course he didn’t have to go, he’d more than done his share, his wife raised 5 kids whilst he was doing this, but he volunteers to go to Nam, because he was a highly… Read more »
IIF – “In studying red pill, I have come to realize that I am much more of an asshole and a meaner son of a bitch than I used to give credit to myself for being.” this is a good point…. learning RP will not only tell you your deficiencies, but also illuminate latent or lost RP aspects you might already possess; it helped me see many things about my own experiences and personality/character that are RP; it was good to know I’m not starting from zero and that I have something to work with; RP helps understand the ‘why’… Read more »
If you have to ask the question you wouldn’t understand the answer
So who chives greatness when there was no real reward for it? Even the 300 Spartans wanted to die in glory, to be remembered for countless generations.
@Guywhofell “Children – perhaps you weren’t great or your 3 kids weren’t great or both. I can’t say. As with everything, “your mileage may vary”. Perhaps Blax is closer to the truth than I am. I can only share my experience. I met a guy at the conference I attended who had a special needs kid. That must be a hard road to travel.” Nah….I’m pretty great …..If I can be honest . The kids were great. The whole parent thing isn’t that amazing. People say it’s the greatest thing in the world but nah its not. All my four… Read more »
mers – thanks helper, glad you put it in bold, really keepin it real yeah bro
cheupez
Learning game, lifting, self improvement is to us what plastic surgery and makeup is to women.
No. It’s not. You are still resisting, even buffering.
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Fred Flange Batter Up There’s a Whole Lotta Lulz in that Duke Men’s Project: It’s like something out of Brave New World mind-melded with Mao’s Cultural Revolution. This is a way-out-there mutiple sigma version of some stanard crap on college campuses now. Still think it’s a good idea for young men to go to college? Choose real carefully. Now, this should implode in a rather spectacular fashion one way or another. If it was near me, I’d be sorely tempted to infiltrate it just to bring the triggering. A couple of boys in dresses with makeup and girls in pants… Read more »
@cheupez
lolz
Epic job trolling Blax and Ton…Ton trolled Blax earlier, too
I enjoy the world of oxidation-reduction…physical compression/expansion…push/pull…maybe I should explore a career in detonation
Her: What kind of work do you do?
Me: BSU
Her: Baptist Student Union?
Me: Nah, blow shit up
“Bald Men Perceived As More Attractive, Dominant, Study Says”
http://philadelphia.cbslocal.com/2017/09/14/bald-attractive-dominant-study/
What’s with the AMOG fest guys? “If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War Based on the comments of If I Fell and Dr Zipper, and Sentient, my thoughts are: I have no reservations about chastising my self for my former Betatization. That was mere ignorance. Ignorance is easily overcome going… Read more »
Rollo, Love the blog. For me when I read what you write, I feel like a little autistic kid getting wrapped in a warm weighted blanket in a quiet room. It resonates in my head and brings order to chaotic thoughts. When I read this post I was inspired to do some research on what I felt would be masculine topics from various blogs and coaches. What I found was stunning. I already know that most of the people I meet have no real idea what this world we live in means and our role in it. Let alone accept… Read more »
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me-sonja, we were just discussing fucked up genetics tell us more about those 3 kids — 2 of which were retard — you raised without being an adult; definitely not the norm so the possibility of your experiences skewing your perceptions towards the fucked up direction seem quite high; you can’t have both a childhood and raise children at the same time, so you’ve definitely been fucked in that regard; and now you’re fucking qualified to give advice lol “…I know tons of guys with a LTR with children and plates….” :: lol, translation: as a professional layabout, I believe… Read more »
Mersonia
Have to hat tip a GGGR reference…
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MItbV1o26Vg&w=854&h=480%5D
@Dr Zipper @ mersonia
Nailed it!
As if baby sitting,can prepare a guy for 9mo with a pregger,weeks of false labor and no sleep,catering to her cravings,then seeing that birth come out naturally as part of your own immortality. This will motivate most men to buckle down and take care of business.
@Blax, Sentient That scene deserves a longer roll. It’s straight up Red Pill. Snapping Betas out of their fog. Exemplifying Alpha. https://youtu.be/GrhSLf0I-HM But Ricky Roma wouldn’t sit for that shit. “Are they all here?” Blake asks snide manager Kevin Spacey at the outset, and is told “All but one.” The missing man is hotshot salesman Ricky Roma (Pacino). “Well, I’m goin’ anyway,” Blake decides. Truth is, Mamet had to write the scene without Roma in it, because Roma—as viewers know if they’re familiar with the play, the movie, or just Pacino in general—would never sit still for this shit. Dave… Read more »
if that GGGR scene makes you squirm and feel uncomfortable, it’s cuz you’re choking on the RP
blax
“kinda hoping kfg will show up with one of his more direct, lucid comments on it” Genetically speaking, the bacteria are the most evolved and the tardigrades are the badasses of the known universe. As a general principle genetic fitness is always relative to the environment. A spread of genetic traits makes a species more robust, because it will have individuals better suited for survival in a greater range of environments. There’s more than one breed of working dog because no one is “better.” Each has its specific strengths, paid for with corresponding weaknesses. A terrier is to small to… Read more »
As if baby sitting can prepare for raising children for a couple decades into adulthood. Well. The tough talk is strong. And Plans for The future: “Nothing new, besides, no one’s interested in something you didn’t do” If Mersonia wants to be part of a male only space, he could be a little less-of-a big dick. He actually said some good stuff once or twice. But only once or twice. Male spaces are a meritocracy. Maybe he can stand up and say some stuff which is meritorious for the tribe. And in mentioning Tribe, I’m referring to Red Pill and… Read more »
More of a Talladega vission.
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Ok, gentlemen. I have a situation I need to inquire about on behalf of a friend who thinks he’s red pill. I’m also curious because if one is indeed red pill aware then this can work right… The situation is that my friend met 2 webcam girl in Colombia one of them is 22. He plans to meet up with them with the goal of making one of them his wife. I tell him to hold up that you can’t turn a hoe into a wife. He says webcam girls are not hoe… o..k. The question then becomes if a… Read more »
zipper: genetics is blah blah blah
anon01: nope, it’s bleh bleh bleh
zipper: why are you stupid? it’s blah blah blah
anon01: let’s just forget about it, dummy
hey kfg, what do you think?
jafyk, start here
https://therationalmale.com/2017/08/28/mitchs-red-pill/
read all the comments…. better get started
The notion that Red Pill can’t be “taught” runs counter to my experience. Just because 99.2% of dating coaches are blue pill, doesn’t mean it’s impossible to be a red pill dating coach. What about GoodLookingLoser? He’s a red pill guy who teaches guys how to actually get laid Every other source of information about picking up chicks has been worthless compared to his website, GoodLookingLoser.com You don’t think it would be possible to work one on one with a guy to help him understand evolutionary psychology? And then improve his physique? Then increase his assertiveness? Then improve his style?… Read more »
“tell us more about those 3 kids — 2 of which were retard — you raised without being an adult; It’s hard to read when your smashing your keyboard huh…… Like I said above the 3 kids have nothing to do with the 2 special ed kids that were assigned to me in high school (I just threw that in there because IFIfell was wondering about retard kids(It’s different the 2 retard kids were alot more stressful in the 4 hours a day I watched them than about 3 weeks with my regulars. On another note both the special kids… Read more »
“I’m also curious because if one is indeed red pill aware then this can work right…”
The Red Pill may be a safety net (to not fuck up so badly), but nobody said it it will promise you a rose garden.
Ha ha Dr. Zipper I read that post but I think you miss the point. We generally say here that women are neither good nor bad.
So, answer the question cos I think it doesn’t matter the type of woman as long as you’re red pill aware and can apply it consistently because in the end any woman is capable of wrecking a man. No?
@ K
Describe how an orange tastes. I’ll wait……
I mean, most people have eaten an orange and they know what it tastes like. But what if you ran into a guy that’s never even seen an orange?
” So, answer the question cos I think it doesn’t matter the type of woman as long as you’re red pill aware and can apply it consistently because in the end any woman is capable of wrecking a man. No?”
No.
Any woman is liable to attempt to wreck a man. It goes by degrees. Only a man is capable of wrecking himself, or allowing himself to be wrecked. If you’re red pill aware, you already understand this much.
@SJF
If Mersonia wants to be part of a male only space, he could be a little less-of-a big dick. He actually said some good stuff once or twice. But only once or twice. Male spaces are a meritocracy. Maybe he can stand up and say some stuff which is meritorious for the tribe.
If you don’t like something I say scroll on. I think blax ignores most of my shit. It’s not that hard to scroll on
@Jafyk
Are you part of the recent onslaught of confrontational 12yo’s?
Lol. I don’t ignore ya Mersonia.
I actually think you’ve had some very strong posts lately. Credit where credit is due.
I only ignore you when you troll.
Usually a ” troll ” is a couple of sentences. You’re doing paragraphs, which means your having a dialog. If I don’t like what you’re saying, I read and keep it moving.