The Creep – Part 2

Just so we’re clear here, yes, I get that there are a lot of ways to take the term ‘creepy’. In last week’s essay I wanted to dig into what women claim is ‘creepy’ and how this term is really another illustration of ambiguous fem-speak rooted in how a guy makes a woman feel. Furthermore, this feeling is modified by where that man is stationed in her perception of his sexual market value (SMV).

Last week I got linked a Tweet about ‘creeps’ by Roosh (he still hates me). He had a good point, and I paraphrase,

“Creeps are just guys that go from 0-100 in sexualizing a conversation with a woman way too fast. A good PUA knows that slow and steady sexualization works best.”

Take that how you want, but I think this is definitely part of the creep dynamic. There’s a bit more to being creepy than overly fast sexualization (or presumed familiarity); we’ve got to account for a Blue Pill / Beta guy’s lack of social intelligence to understand that taking it slow should be something he knows already. And still, how can we presume this slow and steady sexualization is a proficient form of seduction when we see more Alpha, more immediately arousing men, go from 0-100 themselves and get a same night lay? I’ve done this myself more than a few times back in a time when there was no formal Game to be had. Right guy, right place, right time, and 0-100 is what a woman is hoping will happen. Hypergamy is nothing if not pragmatic.

That said, I am convinced that this over-investment, too quick, too soon is definitely part of the creepy dynamic. I’ve made the call in several prior posts that it’s part of the Beta mindset to want to bypass the arousal and attraction phases of seduction to go directly to rapport. Thus, you get a guy who shares too much way too soon and this itself is creepy for women. It’s a huge telegraphing of that guy’s state of desperation and optionlessness. There’s no mystery left about the guy (assuming the girl even had an initial attraction) and nothing left to figure out. This over-sharing is also a huge red flag to women’s Hypergamous filters; it’s an indication that a guy ‘doesn’t get it’ with regard to how to play the Game with her.

You see, this rush to get to comfort and rapport is usually because that ‘creep’ is anxious to get past the arousal phase, the sexual tension, because he has no clue what to do in that phase. It’s a real source of anxiety for him, and besides, every woman he’s ever asked has said she needed to be comfortable with a guy before she has sex with him (false). Comfort, rapport, familiarity (all of which are anti-seductive) should be where the sex begins to his way of thinking, so again, male deductive logic would follow that getting there quickly would be pragmatic.

When a more Alpha, natural, moves quickly it’s almost always because he’s working with a receptive (proceptive) woman. As I mentioned before, arousal covers for a lot of men’s deficits in Game or feelings of creepery.

The Creeps

As most readers will have probably guessed I’ve timed the release of this series to address the current Hysteria of sexual assault / harassment / rape charges that are  moving like wildfire through Hollywood first, and now through the rest of our pop-culture social strata. While it may be satisfying to see mealy-mouth self-righteous actors and moguls take a fall, it’s important to see the larger social mechanics in play here.

I wrote that essay over a year ago and I’ll say now that I’d never dreamed how prophetic that post would turn out. Criticizing this #MeToo sexual assault hysteria is next to impossible. For the same reasons no one wanted to question the veracity of the UVA fraternity rape hoax that Rolling Stone and Sabrina Erdley perpetrated – no one now wants to question the accusations leveled at the various personalities being conveniently outed for sexual assault/harassment that in some cases occurred 30-40 years ago. We are expected to believe the testimonies of women without question.

This isn’t to say that the celebrities involved didn’t do what their accusers are saying they did, it’s that we are expected to accept that this behavior is endemic in all men, and based on the same principle of believing whatever a woman has to say about it with no afterthought given to its truth or her motives. It’s one thing to presume that whenever a woman comes forward with a rape or assault claim we are expected to presume the man guilty until proven innocent, but we’re rapidly reaching a point where any claim a woman has about a man bears that same weight. When it comes down to ‘he said, she said’, what she said will hold the full weight of the law.

Our Feminine-primary social order is now repurposing this ironclad believability of women – and presumed guilt of men – for every crime a woman ‘feels’ she’s been a victim of at the hands of a man. At the same time we see sexual harassment being defined as something that even a wink from a man can convey, we also see the rapid criminalization of men  who would dare to talk to a woman they don’t already know.

When we combine this overarching presumption of male guilt with the potential crime of men dealing with a woman with the intent of establish intimacy, and then add to it the ever changing definition of what can constitute sexual assault or harassment (and with a uniquely endless statute of limitations), we begin to get a clearer picture of the direction the Feminine Imperative has for men.

I’m sure this all seems very reactionary, but so was the questioning of Sabrina Erdley’s story about a nameless girl who was violently raped on the shattered glass of a broken coffee table by fraternity boys. Once again, I’m not saying sexual assault doesn’t happen, I’m saying that the direction gynocentrism is taking is one in which men ought to lose rights and liberties that only women ought to be the judges of.

Creepiness is a feeling women get from men who lack the social skills to ‘just get it’ that they are or aren’t into them. What this distills down to on a root level is women’s presuming that men should know better than to approach them when they are beneath their Hypergamous attraction floor. It is the criminalization of men not understanding how they fit into women’s sexual strategies. I made a case for this in The Political is Personal. The more men resist the social intents of Hypergamy, the more it will become necessary to legislate men to comply with it.

Feminine-primary social doctrine is an extension of  women’s Hypergamy.

Any deviation from this is on the part of  men is met with a cultural reprisal designed to convince or coerce men to accept their inevitable role in providing those entitlements to women. When those social contingencies fail, or become played out, the Feminine Imperative then appeals to legal legislation to mandate men’s compliance to what amounts to women’s social entitlement to optimized Hypergamy.

We’re rapidly reaching this peak Hypergamous state. As I mentioned in Male Control, since the Las Vegas shooting the narrative of masculinity has shifted. There is no more “toxic” masculinity – it’s masculinity on-whole that is toxic. As Open Hypergamy becomes more institutionalized and made a societal norm by the Feminine Imperative, and as more men become Red Pill aware (by effort or consequences) because of it, the more necessary it will become for a feminine-primary social order to legislate and mandate men comply with it.

In the Zone

Morpheus had a great comment last week that hit on what I went into in Sexual Zoning:

The term “creep” can really lead in a bunch of different directions discussion wise, but I think a really big one is “sexual zones” vs “non-sexual zones”. Increasingly, there are all sorts of places where the default presumption is that women should be “free from” male advances. Work, school, etc. In these zones, the margin for error is very small. Unless you are an objectively visually attractive man with super tight game, the odds of you being perceived as a “creep” are much, much higher. In sexual zones, such as the Friday night bar, your margin for error is higher. The default presumption is men are there to meet women. You still need to have the right social vibe and not come across as a weirdo but you have a little more room to play with.

And from that post:

I would argue that a large majority of men accused of sexual harassment or even just suspected of impropriety are men who’ve found themselves in an environment they believed was an acceptable sexual zone. We are fast approaching a time when all zones will be so arbitrary and ambiguous that every environment with sexual potential will be avoided. This will have the effect of putting women into unilateral control of their own Hypergamy. It will be a state of Sadie Hawkins world – only women will make approaches on men and only those who match her Hypergamous ideal, an ideal fostered and reinforced by a steady diet of social media ego inflation.

A while ago I read this piece about Mike Pence:

“In 2002, Mike Pence told The Hill that he never eats alone with a woman other than his wife and that he won’t attend events featuring alcohol without her by his side, either.”

Naturally the media wants to pass this off as some masculine insecurity on Pence’s part. Certainly there’s a religious reason for Pence not wanting to present any perception of impropriety – I’ve know pastor who will never have closed door meetings with women or do counseling for women without their wives present – but there is a practical side to this habit. It prevents the accusations and opportunity for anything like what we’re seeing in the accusation cycling through Hollywood today. But still, shaming the masculine is the first reflex for the mainstream media.

This Atlantic article is an exercise in deliberately not seeing the intersexual writing on the wall. This is the practical contingency for a social order bent on removing men via accusations of sexual misconduct. Yet still, for all of the inherent dangers of a frivolous sexual harassment suit at the disposal of any and every western woman, men are supposed to leave themselves vulnerable to them:

Pence is not the only powerful man in Washington who goes to great lengths to avoid the appearance of impropriety with the opposite sex. An anonymous survey of female Capitol Hill staffers conducted by National Journal in 2015 found that “several female aides reported that they have been barred from staffing their male bosses at evening events, driving alone with their congressman or senator, or even sitting down one-on-one in his office for fear that others would get the wrong impression.” One told the reporter Sarah Mimms that in 12 years working for her previous boss, he “never took a closed door meeting with me. … This made sensitive and strategic discussions extremely difficult.”

This is the social environment feminism and our gynocentric social order has chosen to establish for men and women. Men pragmatically look for ways to guard themselves against allegation, and yet are shamed for that sensibility. It’s gotten (or will get) to the point where old books “decent” behavior is too risky to engage in in the modern workplace. Powerful men must hide behind open doors, and still those men are shamed for being prudent. Why?

We live in a new era where marriage has become disincentivized for men by the risks of capital loss in divorce that overwhelmingly favors women with cash & prizes. Now add to this the increasing ego entitlements of women to high value men. As the prospect of marriage looks less and less like a good deal for men wanting to protect themselves there comes a need for women to create ways to bypass the requirement for marriage to access men’s capital. Enter the era of increasingly more nebulous, acrimonious, accusations of sexual harassment or assault and de facto believability of women’s testimony. Exit the era of frivolous divorce (okay maybe not entirely) and enter the era of more easily accessible capital via frivolous sexual assault lawsuits.

More to come in part 3.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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“Milton Bradley ” tatted on your forehead. You become an amusement and the clock is ticking on you. Lol. Throw you out, take you back. They’re running the show ultimately.”

LOL she already stacked the deck and loaded the dice, before extending the invite to play.

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I’m not gonna list out the qualities that make up ” alpha ” because they’d have to be explained and I’ll inevitably leave out a bunch of stuff. We know what beta is, alpha is the opposite.

The most important thing in this discussion is that chicks know it when they experience it, and they are basically powerless around it.

It can be a positive or a negative depending. One thing is certain though, its rare and getting more so. Depp and Musk = beta all day long.

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” We know what beta is, alpha is the opposite.”

Cop out?

You phrased your comment with your definition and a standard definition. So you have something in mind beyond “not Beta”. So what is it?

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Apology to Blax upfront.

Is it maybe a guy that doesn’t let his mouth overload his ass? Is it? Is it? ami rite?

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Is that the “standard” definition you’re using or your own?

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I mean… I know tons of guys who are quiet retiring meek types. A few of them have even touched a girl.

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Sentient Okay. Maybe later. Too much to type on this tablet with my thumbs. And you’re correct that I do have a definite definition of the mindset in my head, and I think it pretty much to!lows other definitions we’ve seen in the sphere, except I personally don’t assign alpha status based solely on fame and money ( although they aren’t disqualifiers ) and I’m leery and suspicious of guys falling for that hat trick – which is fairly common nowadays. Imo ” alphas ” are as rare as 7 foot tall men. The biggest population of alphas are in… Read more »

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Look forward to this.

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“I think it pretty much to!lows other definitions we’ve seen in the sphere, except I personally don’t assign alpha status based solely on fame and money”

Yeah these dog logic “definitions” are sorely lacking… For one of course fame and money are effects… Not causes.

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What is alpha? Rollo posted something about what is alpha once upon a time. Maybe someone will provide a link. Oh, oh, oh, me me me. https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/02/alpha-tells/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/02/21/defining-alpha/ There are alpha traits and beta traits and most men show a combo of those which vary with time. When a man tends to show more alpha traits, then that man is alpha. Otherwise, he is beta. Musk and Depp and Pitt show many beta traits from what we can tell in the media. These guys brag on their women, which is a strong signal telling us that they lack frame control… Read more »

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Once again, Blax can’t explain because he is a Natural that didn’t have to think about his actions for the last 35 years. He didn’t have to study it over that time frame, so he didn’t prepare for the lecture that you are asking him to give. That’s admirable. From all of Blax’s comments he’s a reflection of Alpha. You know it when you see it. It’s not a problem that he can’t explain, it is a problem when he can’t spot what the difference is between Depp and Musk. Depp had been Alpha. I don’t see Johnny Depp as… Read more »

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Pretend your name was Webster… Gleen those posts and write your definition. Clock starts now…

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Pretend your name was Webster… Gleen those posts and write your definition. Clock starts now…

lol, you must have missed this…

These guys brag on their women, which is a strong signal telling us that they lack frame control and are more invested in the relationship than their women are. This is a very beta trait.

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“Is that the “standard” definition you’re using or your own?”

The standard definition looks like Greek to me.

A man with an overloaded ass is definitely beta or has a good start on it. Doesn’t prove the opposite is true for an alpha, still a good indicator.

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You know how it goes when a man fucks up his head…he loses confidence in himself and starts saying shit like “I’m lucky to have her” and “She’s too good for me.” Then the girl agrees and starts showing contempt for the man and eventually dumps him.

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“He didn’t have to study it over that time frame, so he didn’t prepare for the lecture that you are asking him to give.”

Hold up Hoss… Blax said:

““Lol, Elon Musk is in no manner an alpha ( as I understand it to be defined, which is close to the standard definition )””

Which implies he knows his own definition as well as the standard definition.

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You are giving autists a bad name…

“This is a very beta trait.”

In the post that says alpha and beta traits exist in all? This is your borrowed definition of Alpha?

Ok then…

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Flyshit([{|<<<<<>>>>>|}])Pepper

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VERY beta

…as in, overrides alpha traits, that the sum of traits rings up “beta.”

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And the enumerated Alpha traits are what?

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Who is the alpha?

[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwFm2cDFIvU&w=560&h=315%5D

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So, boulder, is kiel creepy?

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He looks like a cool cat to hang with. could be a little spooky,who isn’t?

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The ultimate test for alpha is wet pussy. If at the thought of the man, the pussy is wet, then that man is alpha to that woman.

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The graphic shows that women’s desire for betas decreases with age. It also shows that many young men have low testosterone. (Or else their women have made themselves too fat to be desirable.)

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wnk78TTj8to
Game save’s Lives 2017
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPyAQQklc1s

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“Our Feminine-primary social order is now repurposing this ironclad believability of women – and presumed guilt of men – for every crime a woman ‘feels’ she’s been a victim of at the hands of a man. At the same time we see sexual harassment being defined as something that even a wink from a man can convey, we also see the rapid criminalization of men who would dare to talk to a woman they don’t already know.” http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1898575/ “When we combine this overarching presumption of male guilt with the potential crime of men dealing with a woman with the intent… Read more »

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OLIVIER ZAHM — Your first love ended in disaster, then. TERRY RICHARDSON — Yeah. The first time I kissed a girl I was nine. Someone forced us to kiss, to make out. So we French-kissed. I was traumatized. I wasn’t ready. When I was young I had girls chasing me, calling my house, following me home, leaving me notes in my locker. But I was so shy. What’s that saying? “If I only knew then what I know now.” Sometimes I wish I was 13 and I could start all over. I mean, it was insane — I was so… Read more »

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You never know at the time how your experiences shape you or translate in the future… OLIVIER ZAHM — She wanted to live surrounded by nature. I can understand that. TERRY RICHARDSON — Yeah. It made sense. But for my mom to leave my step-dad was fucking radical. But she did it. She fucking did it. She rented the goddamn little house she still lives in today. I remember going up there to visit before I finally moved up there. My step-dad took me. I started punching holes in the walls, screaming, “I don’t wanna be here!” I was a… Read more »

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Cats are ot dogs… And Alphas have very different reference experiences. OLIVIER ZAHM — Did you fall in love during that time? Or did you just go from one girl to another? TERRY RICHARDSON — I was with a lot of different girls. I’d date someone for a month or two. I also had these two girls who’d come over for a three-way. But when I was 16, the drummer of the band I was in was sent to boarding school in England. He had a girlfriend named Marion, a very sexually active, very provocative, very beautiful girl. OLIVIER ZAHM… Read more »

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@Rollo: re: Gene Simmons–music soothes the savage breast but don’t do squat against cancer.

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Uncomfortable father oversharing is a cliche in commercials, further shaming of the patriarchy.

The above is EXACTLY what boys, sons should be reading. It isn’t porn, smut. It’s sympatheitic, relatable and hopefully actionable info for young men.

What guy hasn’t felt the same as Terry Richardson in love, life? I have in my own way.

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I don’t know anything about this dude Richardson, but the interview is interesting in a lot of ways and gets me thinking a little. Don’t know his age, but there was a time period that seems in retrospect, to have been brief – 70’s through 80’s, when men were more willing to push themselves to gain/have experiences ( sex drugs and rock and roll… Lol ) that no longer exists in a way. And once you go through those times, you will never ever be the same person again. Could be a positive or a negative. I’d love to go… Read more »

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“There’s a bit more to being creepy than overly fast sexualization (or presumed familiarity)…” OTJ, no need for sexualization, as I’ve written before, 90% women aren’t attractive enough, too obese, slouchy, angry (they take pride in their bitchfaces, no joke) to deserve sexualization. It’s not getting better either. Here, young women, girls throw the pejorative “Creeper” like parade candy. Now, game is critical to surviving the imbalanced, psychotic female workplace expectancy. Game satisfies a woman co-worker’s hindbrain when they shit test you on the job…not that you’d ever fancy her, and it’s dangerous bait, but Beta response is not an… Read more »

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Blaximus “And I don’t have any answers other than to keep fighting, keep standing up, keep gaining knowledge. It’s tough when there seems to be so many people and systems that just don’t like you simply for who you are and seek to control you to a point where you either come completely to heal, or you get banished. Ask me how I know this.☺ Not sure if i shared this here but got banned from a climbing gym where i live for pointing out red pill truth’s in a blue pill context… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Csg7EPXMQ6o (Men and Media) Culture alway’s win’s… Read more »

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“I smirked because even being banned made the transition to the red pill worth it… ” The idea of liminal space (h/t Sentient) is important IMO as change isn’t fixed. We actively, sometimes passive agressively, enter insecurity as where we are now is intolerable. RP provides guidance through that space. In this way knowing RP does make the journey easier. I was trying to get at this thought earlier but was unclear. On liminal spaces: “People lose jobs they held for decades, get divorced after many years, or have to walk away from family due to a lifetime of little… Read more »

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“RP provides guidance through that space. In this way knowing RP does make the journey easier.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=meK0G3o9mPw
Thank you for that.
https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2017/11/21/same-advertising-message-different-culture/

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Charlie Rose. Watched CBS this morning to see if Mr Rose would be there. He’s suspended or whatever, so no dice. But what was fucked up imo, was his coworkers on camera basically turning on him and throwing him under a slow moving bus. Just last week the LOOOOOOVVVEEEDDDD Charlie. Laughing and being flirtatious. But now its time to close ranks so fuck Charlie. In a perfect world, men too would close ranks on a distinction between a Weinstein and everybody else. Every day someone else will be accused of ” touch ” and making someone feel ” uncomfortable ”… Read more »

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“Am I now supposed to believe and accept that women can no longer grasp that men like women and possibly touching them…”

Not you. The other 80%.

Here’s a personal analogy. 80% of men are being convinced an Operational License is better than an regular one.

Men are allowed to work and work only. It’s critical for FI system integrity.

The FI collapses, women wail, when men flee. Rollo’s floodwater example is apt.

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As far as on-screen friendships, there as legit as most pick-up videos.

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“That said, I am convinced that this over-investment, too quick, too soon is definitely part of the creepy dynamic.”

Here’s OTJ flirting, taking it slow, something I’ve done for years:

Me: Hi I’m Eh, your name?

She: I’m Cassie.

Me: Pause…..Cassie, huh? My high school locker neighbor was named Cassie. Cassie (give her a last name close to yours). Don’t tell her this but I had a puppy-crush on her.

Haven’t got in trouble with that one…yet.

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It’s official. CBS has fired Charlie Rose. PBS still deliberating.

Next up to bat: Rep John Conyers.

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Am I now supposed to believe and accept that women can no longer grasp that men like women and possibly touching them, so much so that immediate actions must be taken against all men everywhere?

27K for not having sex is quite the incentive for those women who have put out every month for their BB husband who still does not have a solid retirement plan. Pretty sure that’s what women are grasping.

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Need some input guys (Unrelated to topic): Background: Early 30’s, dated for a few years, spinning plates off dating apps and sarging venues. Really liked one plate and let others go. LTR: In a LTR (7months) with a fairly smart introvert, has her masters in health industry and works in a hospital. Relationship is going good, have had minor issues raised that were worked through. Most of these were on her end from a place of insecurity, I was pushing too much on the alpha side and making her chase too much, also her not being able to figure me… Read more »

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…. whoa

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“My issue is when it’s those moments when I am telling her something about what happened with my friends….” Hi Bromeo, I submit stage 2 of betaization. Check it out: Seeking Communication “Open up to me, please.” Once a woman has tested the male, and is relatively sure that he is strong enough to serve her purposes, her concern begins to revolve around making the man serve her exclusively. Many men who are relatively strong and pass the tests of the first stage, fail to understand the meaning of this second stage. This stage is extremely difficult for the average… Read more »

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@ Bromeo Hey man, people much? ” Does this seem like its intentional or habitual? She has accepted the fact that it is rude and that she is going to make an effort to not do it anymore, and from how she responded it seems it’s just how she operates, which would definitely be bad in the long term as its annoying as hell.” So let me get this straight – You pointed out the interrupting thing, she acknowledges that it’s ” rude ” and that she would try to stop doing this, and you find it annoying as hell?… Read more »

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Scorecard +1: Charlie Rose

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Eh

everything isn’t a beta shit test.

Have you not ever met someone, male or female, that displays the behavior that Bromeo speaks of above?

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For fuck sake
http://variety.com/2017/biz/news/john-lasseter-pixar-walt-disney-animation-studios-leave-of-absence-1202620923/

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Girls do love the playful chase. Less is more.

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“So let me get this straight – You pointed out the interrupting thing, she acknowledges that it’s ” rude ” and that she would try to stop doing this, and you find it annoying as hell?” Sorry, think I wasn’t clear there, I would be annoyed if this continued and wasn’t fixed in the long term. “Well, people have differing tolerance levels. 7 months in and now you’re starting to ” see ” things. I think lots of couple/people go through something like this, and for some it’s devastating, lol – ” I don’t understand why he just can’t put… Read more »

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What makes sense to me must make sense to you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h8N3EztyOoA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Yb4npSI5rk
“Enter the era of increasingly more nebulous, acrimonious, accusations of sexual harassment or assault and de facto believability of women’s testimony. Exit the era of frivolous divorce (okay maybe not entirely) and enter the era of more easily accessible capital via frivolous sexual assault lawsuits.”

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZT5l_mGIcTA
“Naturally the media wants to pass this off as some masculine insecurity on Pence’s part. Certainly there’s a religious reason for Pence not wanting to present any perception of impropriety – I’ve know pastor who will never have closed door meetings with women or do counseling for women without their wives present – but there is a practical side to this habit. It prevents the accusations and opportunity for anything like what we’re seeing in the accusation cycling through Hollywood today. But still, shaming the masculine is the first reflex for the mainstream media.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6C-16N2fgEQ

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True, not everything. smile

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“Hi Bromeo, I submit stage 2 of betaization. Check it out: Seeking Communication “Open up to me, please.” Once a woman has tested the male, and is relatively sure that he is strong enough to serve her purposes, her concern begins to revolve around making the man serve her exclusively. Many men who are relatively strong and pass the tests of the first stage, fail to understand the meaning of this second stage. This stage is extremely difficult for the average man to detect. It is instinctually and often unconsciously masked by the woman as a purely innocent attempt to… Read more »

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@Bromeo how’s negotiating that desire workin’ for ya?…lol… still getting bjs on the reg?… does she initiate sex at all/ever?… if the sex is still good, that’s a better tell of where you are in LTR land than her interrupting you… although, if that interrupting has just started, and wasn’t her communication style from the beginning, it MIGHT be an indicator of you getting betaized (mostly it pings as a frame test…)… if i were you, i’d be more worried about Most of these were on her end from a place of insecurity, I was pushing too much on the… Read more »

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So let me get this straight – You pointed out the interrupting thing, she acknowledges that it’s ” rude ” and that she would try

“HEY! Look at that squirrel!… i love squirrels!…”

lol…

good luck!

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Have you not ever met someone, male or female, that displays the behavior that Bromeo speaks of above? We autists tend to interrupt when we participate in convos involving 3 or more people…not so much when it’s just two people…determining convo breaks is difficult for everyone, but especially for autists. One workaround is to mostly keep quiet…that’s my standard fare. Another is to get control of the convo and make everyone comfortable just listening to you…RSD Tyler is an example of this. Gotta be willing to tolerate some misbehavior by people…I’m learning that currently. And how you enforce your boundaries… Read more »

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“how’s negotiating that desire workin’ for ya?…lol… still getting bjs on the reg?… does she initiate sex at all/ever?… if the sex is still good, that’s a better tell of where you are in LTR land than her interrupting you… although, if that interrupting has just started, and wasn’t her communication style from the beginning, it MIGHT be an indicator of you getting betaized (mostly it pings as a frame test…)… if i were you, i’d be more worried about” No issues with desire, she initiates all intimacy. interrupting didn’t just start, its been there, that’s why I’m leaning towards… Read more »

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“Gotta be willing to tolerate some misbehavior by people…I’m learning that currently. And how you enforce your boundaries is important…I try to do so humorously and graciously and people tend to get the message and my stock skyrockets with them because of how I enforce my boundaries as well as because I enforce my boundaries, which is pretty rare.” This is big, I definitely made a mistake going overt. I should have brought it up at each instance and used game to get the point across. I don’t think this thought ever crossed my mind because of how stunned I… Read more »

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I think you are one of the more patient ones. Unfortunately for me, I lack tolerance. If a woman does something that gives me a gut feeling that I may not enjoy the date, I usually just scatter. Sometimes I just leave without saying that I have gone. That’s just me. I think the subconsciuos subcom with that lady is: what you are saying is a bit boring; change of topic please or may be what you are saying makes me uncomfortable so please lets not keep on that subject. If it bothers youn listen to your gut.

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@Bromeo

Sounds normal, She could care less what you are saying, when she does pay attention, what is she interested in?

My guess is something that concerns her, if you wan’t to have a convo talk to the guys, if you want to give her ammo talk to her.

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Sentient Now that we have reset the goalposts AR, if you want to score a tap in I’ll put the ball dead center on the three yard line, pull the keeper and let you take a swipe… If you want to say Red Pill is important (but not essential) in managing a relationship with a woman… Well crack at it son. You score! Musk is BP Alpha. Pretty much what I’ve been saying for a while now. That didn’t hurt too much, did it? In other words, while Dynamic, Passionate and Authentic may be necessary, they are not sufficient. Red… Read more »

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AR

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I gave you a tap in and you flubbed it… 😢

“Pretty much what I’ve been saying for a while now.”

Not at all… Read the words I used… Important but not essential to a relationship with a woman…

Just look at all the BP Alphas… Look who falls on Musk’s cocka next… Lol.

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“I like how I am being defaulted from a place of BP from the get go.”

Nah. Just getting to know you.

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Bromeo… So 7 months is now a long term relationship? Huh. Look man at everything she said in her defense… All about her her her her… You have some work cut out for you. “literally mid sentence and she mentions something completely irrelevant.” And instead of going into a whole who shot John recasting of the episode you act in the moment how you feel. “Hey Princess Talkalot… Big Chief has the talking stick! Shhhhhgg.” And go right on. Oh yeah she will be super pissed the first few times… But it will work and when you respond to her… Read more »

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Heel.

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Introvert women don’t drip drip emotion. They tend to internalize it until it is outsized from where it came.

Noting small irrelavamt contradictions, interruptions in conversations is an indicator she is spinning up. Ignoring it leads to more.

Introvert women want emotion too. Awalt.

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Proclamation. Let it be known that the Friday immediately following Thanksgiving Day shall forevermore be celebrated as a National Day of Contrition whereby white beta male americans will sit in sack cloth and ashes and apologize for their thoughts and action of a sexual nature directed towards women. After a period of solace and reflection they may then proceed to continue to clean up from Thanksgiving and having completed that finish raking the leaves, in those locales where leaf raking is required, and when all their work is completed immediately bestow upon all women above the age of consent in… Read more »

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Not at all… Read the words I used… Important but not essential to a relationship with a woman…

Oh, that wasn’t a typo? Sure, any man with enough money can have a relationship with a women, Craig’s list is full of them, the Bunny ranch makes bank off of them, Sugar Babies live off that…so what?

Just look at all the BP Alphas… Look who falls on Musk’s cocka next… Lol.

You’re saying that “money game” is game? Seriously?

Those goalposts have wheels so you can move them around, right?

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Blaximus Am I now supposed to believe and accept that women can no longer grasp that men like women and possibly touching them, so much so that immediate actions must be taken against all men everywhere? Gtfoh with that madness. It’s just wizard-burning season. I already pointed you to the Salem witch trials and the Communist Chinese self-criticism sessions. This is not new, it’s an older game just repackaged. Conyers is an interesting one, because he’s not the same as Weinstein, Franken, Rose, etc. in that he has a longer history of doing stuff rather than just talking or hacking… Read more »

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Point to anything I said about money?

BP Alpha does not mean “money”…

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EhIntellect Introvert women don’t drip drip emotion. They tend to internalize it until it is outsized from where it came. Noting small irrelavamt contradictions, interruptions in conversations is an indicator she is spinning up. Ignoring it leads to more. I’ll cosign that, and Sentient’s Big Chief’s Talking Stick too. Because a combo of “words piling up behind the dam” and contempt for man / men could explain this. Caveat: That parallel interrupt-because-squirrel-oh-what? talking style is pretty common in girls, with some variation across cultures. A lot of high school and young college girls do it, again in some social circles.… Read more »

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How Bitcoin actually works:

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accused serial man ass grabber Kevin Spacey –

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Co-founder of Pixar, director of Toy Story and Chief Creative Officer of Disney Animation Studios, John Lasseter, has confessed to being a serial social hugger and is on “leave of absence.”

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@boulderhead “Sounds normal, She could care less what you are saying, when she does pay attention, what is she interested in? My guess is something that concerns her, if you wan’t to have a convo talk to the guys, if you want to give her ammo talk to her.” Thats the thing, its not always an issue, there is no real pattern if its related to her or not. I cant purely have convo’s with jus the guys, what’s the point of being in a LTR if you cant have some kind of connection. @sentient “Bromeo… So 7 months is… Read more »

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Female target of a Struggle Session managed to record and release it, accused of creating an unsafe space by playing a bit of a Jordan Peterson talk to her college students:

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@Bromeo There is a pattern,you haven’t seen. She works things happen at work, this is on her mind front and center for a period of time. With my LTR, 12 to 24 hrs. After her cool down, she is interested in what and how I’m doing. She may have other issues, the introverts or shy types have skeletons in the closet too. At first the main purpose of an LTR may be getting out of the ONS game, cutting down the friction of plate spinning or Luuuv.. The game changes, it never goes away. The bonding comes through shared experiences… Read more »

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@boulderhead “There is a pattern,you haven’t seen. She works things happen at work, this is on her mind front and center for a period of time. With my LTR, 12 to 24 hrs. After her cool down, she is interested in what and how I’m doing. She may have other issues, the introverts or shy types have skeletons in the closet too. At first the main purpose of an LTR may be getting out of the ONS game, cutting down the friction of plate spinning or Luuuv.. The game changes, it never goes away. The bonding comes through shared experiences… Read more »

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@Bromeo

Wow “spare no details”. I contend that women don’t understand men’s communication, we are more straight forward but see the world from a different perspective. Straight talk I think isn’t even interesting to a woman. Shit I never tell her about my day unless something extraordinary happened. At least you don’t have to look at her every morning,LOL.

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Co-founder of Pixar, director of Toy Story and Chief Creative Officer of Disney Animation Studios, John Lasseter,

Some pretty deep pockets right there. Not to mention political influence. First Conyers, now Mouse House, this is getting more interesting by the day. Every irresistable force eventually runs into an immovable object, but aside from Trump and Moore I don’t see one yet. Perhaps that there is a clue…

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“Sentient”

Anonymous non reader…
Point to anything I said about money?

The context being Elon Musk…

BP Alpha does not mean “money”…

…it is obvious to any sentient person.

The Red Pill / Glasses are necessary. Money, fame, prestige, sharp suits etc. not so much.
Elon Musk makes this dramatically clear. Now, hurry up and move your goalposts again.

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If you’re going to be in any kind of ” relationship ” with a woman, you must understand how to communicate with her so that you can actually get salient points across. This is a little bit different than Gaming them. This, is part of the next step my friends. Game can help you out in relationships with women, but Game can’t do it all and make you understand some key points. An issue that I’ve found when conversing with younger chicks is that they have a very, very short attention span when involved in standard conversation that is just… Read more »

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@Bromeo The more I think about it from an evolutionary standpoint, equalism is telling her to ask about your day, evolution is shutting down her ears. 20000 bc : Split asks ” how was your day honey?” Shaft answers “It was going good till head got his nose bone bling stuck in a bush, then that mastadon ripped him wide open. Wee could see all his corpuscles and some blue stuff. We put it all back in him but he made a croaking noise like this crooaaaaccck, thats it babe married or not this bone is coming out of my… Read more »

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“Wow “spare no details”. I contend that women don’t understand men’s communication, we are more straight forward but see the world from a different perspective. Straight talk I think isn’t even interesting to a woman. Shit I never tell her about my day unless something extraordinary happened. At least you don’t have to look at her every morning,LOL.”

Haha, the spare no details thing gets me every time, I just work and go to the gym most days lol.

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Co-founder of Pixar, director of Toy Story and Chief Creative Officer of Disney Animation Studios, John Lasseter, Some pretty deep pockets right there. Not to mention political influence. I haven’t been keeping up with all the Creeps, lately named for their crimes of the ofttimes distant past; but when I happen upon a new one, he always seems to look like some version of Weinstien/Lasseter – basically, the second guy in the OP cartoon. http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/gi/World+Premiere+Disney+Pixar+Finding+Dory+Red+HXXTLe4DNrfl.jpg The moral is to not look like this. Appearances count, and not just in baseball. Do what you have to. This is not the lean,… Read more »

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Female target of a Struggle Session managed to record and release it, accused of creating an unsafe space by playing a bit of a Jordan Peterson talk to her college students:

Right on schedule.

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When actress Natalie Portman heard the mounting allegations of sexual assault and misconduct in Hollywood, she said she considered herself lucky that she has never been personally assaulted. Then she recalled “100 stories” of being sexually harassed and discriminated against during her own rise as an Academy Award-winning star, which are just as inexcusable but have been long ignored, she told entertainment website Vulture. “I’ve had discrimination or harassment on almost everything I’ve ever worked on in some way,” she said. “I went from thinking I don’t have a story to thinking, ‘Oh wait, I have 100 stories.’ And I… Read more »

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0 to 100 in 10 seconds flat. Only a woman can do this. Political Correctness aside, scientists need to do more research on the female brain. The survival of humanity depends on it.

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This whole thing is very instructive since we are all witnessing this right now, in real time. And right now, you see zero males in any numbers mounting any push back whatsoever, and every male you do see is in full agreement that there’s a massive problem with ” men “. You want to know why the FI is so successful? Keep watching the conga line of guys getting pilloried over past harassment and ‘ assault ‘ and then notice the absence of men even publically attempting to support and defend even ONE of the accused. Just one. Men melt… Read more »

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…. I wish I could grab Charlie Rose and fly him out to the Arizonan desert and get him high for a few days.

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