Stalling for Time

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I was made aware of a trio of rather noteworthy stories last week all of which I found dovetail nicely on topic together. The first was Tweeted to me about the new advent of artificial ovaries and how overjoyed our feminine-concerned social order was that ‘infertile‘ women might have a better chance of conception. The report’s subtitled perspective was, ostensibly, about how making a synthetic home for a woman’s egg-producing follicles could improve fertility after chemotherapy and help women with endometriosis conceive:

Women can become infertile after cancer treatment as the ovaries and the egg-making follicles they contain are vulnerable to chemotherapy, especially for leukaemias, brain cancers and lymphomas. Removing and freezing ovarian tissue beforehand to reimplant after treatment can help women conceive, but there is a risk that this tissue will reintroduce hidden cancer cells.

Call me a cynic, but I think if a woman’s had a cancer serious enough to warrant chemotherapy I’m not sure her capacity to conceive a child is really her most important concern. A noble reasoning to be sure, but another paragraph down and we get to the real reason for the excitement:

“It may be used by women who want to delay having babies or postpone the menopause“

The method could benefit other women, too. “When fully developed, this technology may be used in women who want to delay having babies for social reasons, or who want to postpone the menopause,” says Claus Andersen at the University Hospital of Copenhagen, Denmark.

Ah yes, the Holy Grail of bioengineered gender equalism – a safe and effective means of perpetuating a woman’s fertility well beyond all reason and concern for healthy parenting would otherwise mandate. Nowhere is it mentioned, or are we to politely consider, that women’s real reasons for wanting a safe way to extend their fertility has less to do with ‘infertility’ concerns and a lot more to do with their difficulties in optimizing Hypergamy.

Earlier this year I wrote an essay entitled Assurances in which I argue that women will demand that society and science accommodate and insure their indefinite fertility while they sort out why it is they can’t seem to find the right (and Hypergamously cooperative) guy with which to start a family. I began that article by outlining the recent worker’s benefit of ‘egg freezing’ some larger companies were offering in order to entice (executive level) women to work for them – women, we are meant to presume, are so absorbed by their careers that they need to dedicate their most fertile years to their professional aspirations. All in order to stay on an equal footing with hyper-competitive men of course:

The latent purpose of developing technology to freeze a woman’s eggs, for instance, is to cheat (or give the impression of being able to cheat) the otherwise natural process of fertility that women are beholden to.

The latent purpose of every pop-cultural trend that contributes to the perception that women can realistically exceed the window of their fertility is offered as an assurance that women have more time than would be naturalistically expected to optimize Hypergamy.

Ostensibly, the message for women is the cliché of ‘having it all’ – reassuring women that they can have a rewarding career and make a significant difference in their lives and the lives of others as well as realistically having a meaningful family experience later in life. The unspoken hindbrain message is that a woman has more time to optimize Hypergamy.

I took a lot of criticism for being so presumptuous in that assertion. How dare I suggest that professional women didn’t deserve to be afforded the same opportunities men, who peak in their own SMV well after women’s prime fertility years have passed, had in life, career, and family. The thoroughly modern women of today weren’t forestalling pregnancy because of any personal misgivings or difficulties in attracting Mr. Right, these women needed to freeze their eggs to have more time to develop their careers, don’t you know.

The Real Reason Women are Freezing their Eggs

Turns out, not so much. Actually not at all,…

They are often portrayed as hard-hearted individuals who are putting motherhood on hold in order to climb the career ladder.

But women who freeze their eggs are actually waiting for a man who is perfect father material to come along.

Researcher Kylie Baldwin, who asked a group of women why they froze their eggs, said: ‘I think they were looking for a hands-on father.

‘And it was the absence of this particular type of potential father, not just the absence of any partner, that led them to freeze the eggs.

‘It’s not just about not having the right partner, it’s about having the right dad for their child.’

Interestingly, some of the women were in a relationships – but froze their eggs because they didn’t believe their partner was father material and were hoping someone better would come along.

I should add a side note here and point out the importance these women place having “the right dad for their child.” It’s so important that they’d expect a scientific miracle to give them enough time to find this very important father. However, I’d encourage my readers to compare and contrast this to the complete lack of importance men are expected to place on their own roles as the biological father of a child with regard to raising a child that is not his own. You see, while a woman will freeze her eggs in order to find the perfect hands-on Dad to breed with, men are told that even when a child is not his own he shouldn’t concern himself with his own self-importance in breeding or raising that kid.

This study was an interesting confirmation of the assertions I’d made in Assurances – Women want an assurance of Hypergamous optimization. Egg freezing isn’t about medical concerns or even professional sacrifices; egg freezing is about Hypergamy and women’s increasingly diminished ability to satisfy it later and later in life. In the manosphere and in my book Preventive Medicine there’s an understanding that women’s Party Years, the years she rides the “cock carousel”, are dedicated to the pursuit of Alpha Fucks – her prime directive is generally focused on a short term breeding strategy. Women’s entitlement extends to the point now that they demand science extend this period and assure them they will have ample time to complete their quest for Beta Bucks, motherhood, provisioning and parental investments indefinitely, or at least as long as men might be able to live up to their peak SMV qualifications.

The women were predominately middle-class and highly educated and were aged 38, on average, when they had their eggs frozen.

Mrs Baldwin, a sociologist, said: ‘I asked them about what their motivations were and I would say none of the women underwent the procedure for career reasons.

‘Instead, it was very often down to their perception that it was not yet the right time for them to be pursuing motherhood for one reason or another.’

And, as you might expect, what article about women’s struggle in finding the right guy would be complete without shaming men for their reluctance to participate in playing the roles the Feminine Imperative demands they play in order to fulfill women’s sexual strategies?

The comments about men’s reluctance to commit echo some made by one of Britain’s leading fertility doctors earlier this year.

Professor Adam Balen, chairman of the British Fertility Society, said: ‘There is a notion that young men are not committed to relationships in the way they have been in the past.

‘Childhood for some men is being extended into 20s and 30s when they’re not committing to a relationship.’

Again, it’s childish men’s fault that women have been brought to egg freezing science. This then brings us full circle to NPR’s recent story about economists “puzzlement” over why men are leaving the workforce in droves.

“I wasn’t going to go back to work. It was almost going to just be a nice transition into retirement for me — a very early retirement. I mean, I’m only 36 years old,” he says.

And if he does go back to work, he worries about the prospects.

“Things move really, really, really quick [in IT], and I’m worried that if we can’t make it work, that I’m going to go looking for a job and they’re going to say two years out of it, ‘Sorry, brother, you don’t have what it takes to work here anymore,’ ” Rekkedal says.

Tara Sinclair, chief economist for job-search site Indeed.com, says brawny jobs are being replaced by brainy ones, and that trend doesn’t favor men.

How’s that for an interesting social cycle?

There’s a common refrain you read in both the femosphere as well as religious bloggers about the state of extended adolescence they believe men are extending today. I even wrote about this ridiculous impression of men’s clinging to juvenility in Are You Experienced.

Men forestalling their “adulthood” – a characterization that is entirely dependent on how well a man aligns with women’s imperatives – by dropping out, or otherwise not preparing to be a potential provider for a family a woman deems is at last necessary to her, are considered ‘kidults’ or extending their adolescent years. Professor Adam Balen in the egg freezing article says men are extending “childhood” into their 20s and 30s.

Ironically, you’ll find the most ardent critics of extended adolescence in the writings of Man-up-and-marry-those-sluts religious male bloggers intent on virtue signaling their acceptability to women who will benefit most from their ‘manning up’ and overlooking their Party Years indiscretions.

On the other hand, women wishing to forestall motherhood – a characterization which used to imply a woman’s entrance into adulthood – are never characterized as “extending their childhood.” Women who opt to delay marriage can always fall back on the unacceptability of ‘most men these days’ to excuse their own extension, or they are “focusing on their career.” Women can never be cast in any way other than Strong and Independent®. In fact, this is the first, default presumption we make about a never-married or never-mothered woman.

The Daily Mail article about the truths of women’s reasoning for freezing their eggs puts the lie to this presumption. Women’s latent purpose in egg freezing is to extend fertility until their ideal Alpha man arrives in their lives.

Then, of course the blame become circular on men – men not accepting the role that open Hypergamy expects them to already be aware of and accept wholesale makes him guilty of extending his childhood. Women then blame their spinsterhood on a lack of acceptable ‘adult’ men.

There is never any incentive for personal insight on the part of women, not even when she’s far past her reasonably fertile years, to say nothing of her capacity to intersexually compete with her sisters for those acceptable men. Nowhere is there an afterthought that acceptable men would actively avoid her or find her unacceptable for his own long term investment.

Advancing Gender Dynamics

Finally, we need to add to this the obscene amounts of on-tap social validation women enjoy today. I’m not the first author to recognize or write about this, but there is a very real psychological dynamic that humans in this era have had to deal with which no other previous generations had to consider. Our capacity for technological advancement has progressed so quickly over the past century (and 16 years) that human beings are scarcely capable of understanding what these advancements imply to us as a society and largely as a species.

One reason I believe evolutionary psychology will always have a place in the manosphere and Red Pill discussion is because it aids us in understanding how our minds have evolved and what we can expect from ourselves, or cultures our intersexual dynamics in the context of how we’re experiencing these technological advancements. I had a reader tell me once about how appalled his grandmother was at the idea of a sperm bank when they first appeared. Today it’s part of the scenery, but when they appeared it was scandalous to the mindset of that era’s acculturation. Fast forward from the 1960s to now; in just over half a century think of the tech advancements we have with us today that we take for granted, but our grandparents would marvel over. Now think about how those advancements are interpreted by our hindbrains in so short a time.

Communications technologies, and now a social media explosion, affect our very plastic, yet feral hindbrains in ways that our new globalizing culture can’t keep pace with. I bring this up, because it’s important to consider how women’s feral selves are affected by an instantaneous attention and affirmation that previous generations of women craved, but never dreamed of having this kind of facility with.

As the conversation is won’t to do on this blog’s comment threads, the topic du jour picked up on the merits, or lack thereof, of monogamy vs. legal marriage vs. pLTRs (primary long term relationships or ‘plural’ long term relationships as the term fits). I’ll be addressing this in the next post, but I’ll foreshadow a bit with this; sifting through one of his usually long comments, this bit from YaReally stuck with me (emphasis mine):

“But even if your Game is as tight as YaReally’s, try interesting a modern young chick in commitment. Go ahead. You’ll be in for a shock. A woman in her prime years is so high on a never ending validation train that she’s sure it will never end. Why should she commit? There’s no incentive to do so. She always branch swings to better, and better is always available before she’s even tired of what she’s got.”

You hear them say “I wouldn’t give up my social media for that dream guy”, but you don’t hear why they won’t. The “why” is what we’re up against. They are conditioned to think they will never hit the wall, Amy Schumer at 45 gets the rich doctor in the end, they have endless offers of commitment and monkey branch higher and higher up the tree in their prime.

I have fuckbuddies who’ve disqualified high status guys. and rich jacked 6-pack dudes for like one or two errors. My favorite was one who disqualified a guy because the area of medicine he picked to specialize in wasn’t EXCITING ENOUGH. So she interpreted that as him not having enough ambition. She turned him down for such a silly reason. But why wouldn’t she? She has dates lined up anytime she wants with guys as high value or higher than him around the block whenever she wants. If she takes care of herself the attention train won’t stop till 35+. Why would she want to limit her Hypergamous options by settling in her early 20s?

That’s why those girls look at you funny when you suggest giving up social media. They can’t comprehend any reason TO. It doesn’t compute.

In a globalizing culture where both science and social order is predicated on the satisfaction of women’s imperatives, why indeed would any woman believe she isn’t entitled to it all? Both technology and social reengineering have placed women into a position where their hindbrains cannot hope to interpret the experiences they afford, much less have the attention span necessary for the insight to process how they should best cope with changes they’re scarcely aware of or take for granted.

This post is the first in a series detailing the contrast between how our evolved biological natures conflict and cope with the changes our rapid advancement demands of us, and how our intersexual and social relations are changing as a result of it.

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Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

Why did previous generations accomplish things that are growing out of the grasp of young men today? Why do I know men in the past that bought homes, a new car every once in a while, took the odd vacation, and saved enough to raise a few kids and maybe put 1 of them through college, all while working a factory job? What is a “factory job’? A couple of cities away there’s an area by the freeway that was factories for years and years. Now the factories are gone and a pretty new mall selling stuff made somewhere else… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

. . . and, contrary to what you might hear through the MSM, STEM is already overpopulated by at least 90%. It’s all junk jobs.

“Nuh UH!” says Bill Gates as he hires another building full of H1B’s.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

YaReally & PUA gang: Quick Thursday night FR First night of Blitz..solo at Latin dance bar from previous FRs. Was decent not great. Could FEEL how rusty and out of state I was with no going out for 6 weeks..it was literally difficult to carry on conversations even with guys but I started to ease into it more as evening went on. Didn’t help that I’ve now restricted myself to 1 beer – had great fun getting drunk and letting rip in the last Blitz but it’s not sustainable – that def makes it harder to get into state. Still… Read more »

Novaseeker
6 years ago

It really is mostly technology eating the jobs. The FI-driven part is just a side show compared to what’s coming down the pipe in the real game. Yep that’s the bigger game, no doubt. No-one has any idea what to do about it, either, which makes me think we’re going to see a kind of dystopia emerge where the small percentage of techno-haves are lording over the large percentage of techno-have-nots and keeping them in line with high tech toys. But regardless of that speculation, the fact of technology obsoleting a large percentage of jobs in the next few decades… Read more »

Dunhill
6 years ago

@Rollo I don’t know if you had ever written on post or anything similar on the subject of how exactly did feminism come to rise. If you have, can you post a link? I understand you’re writing a series starting with this post, but what I never could grasp is basically, where it all began. I understand Hypergamy. I understand it’s been around since ever and what we are seeing and living through now is harvesting the fruits of decades of feminism. But where was the trigger and when? What was the tilt, the spark that set this whole thing… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Culum Nah nah nah… Not so fast man… you need to delve a bit more into what you were doing here… Another blonde HB7 – looked like she was deep in conversation with her friend facing away from me at the bar next to me but I had to be hit over the head with the approach invitation – she backed into me like 4 times in 10 minutes before I got it and opened her. What happened. How did you open? How were you positioned? How did you engage the friend? Did you lay hands upon her? Did you… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Culum

One more thing

I’ve got about 10-11 going out nights in this Blitz – the goal is cross the hump of this sticking point and do some successful leading and escalating and showing intent.

Noooooo!!! the GOAL is P in V!!! No more stair stepping… WORK on those skills by all means but they are a means to an END. FOCUS on the end.

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Dunhill

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A good place to start your backwards investigation… not the beginning mind you. But a good place to dive in.

Just remember the death part doesn’t refer to who you might initially think… LOL

gb_hill
gb_hill
6 years ago

@Sentient Regarding Frank, I get what you mean. I would say this: his personality is off. I’m guessing he’s lacking in empathy or something close. As you say in your terms he’s “inauthentic”. But… Look at how good he is in terms of results. He’s shown numerous pulls including the one video where he pulled three girls in one day. Granted its Vegas, but still that’s good. There is always the question of legitimacy with PUA infields but I see no major difference in his videos then I do with anyone else’s videos, with the exception of the best RSD… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Culum A few more things for you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQ6Q7dX0d7Q This guy here, this Michael Valmont guy. Don’t know much about him but came across these… This is pretty much my posture, tonality, cadence and introduction to kino. Pay attention to his long pauses and how “erect” he is when speaking, not leaning in..How the touch is so effortless and natural. This vid has good near instant in interaction introductory kino.. and from here you get to the more dominant stronger leading kino as the bubble forms. Very smooth. Remember the FR’s from me with tattoos? he has good examples here. and… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

GB Hill lack of empathy is interesting. I totally agree that Frank is doing good by the book stuff and is leading these girls around as a result… but still to me something is missing. It reminds me of girls hanging out with gay dudes… the gay dudes are charming, personable, big on kino etc. and girls are all very comfortable with them… I just haven’t yet seen in any of Frank’s stuff some genuine DDB desire from the girls or aggressive girl to guy kino or any making out. HABD what do you make of these vids? Odd. He… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XoeUOQdGaaE

he he… no wonder I liked this guys style…

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

@Sentient – thanks. To answer questions: The HB7 with her friend was in a group of mid-late 20s HB6-7s. She and another friend came up near me to order at the bar early on but I wimped on opening (and then I was chatting to the Asian HB6s a bit later which they probably saw). 20-30 min later, the whole group came back to the bar to order and then most of them left but HB7 and her friend (who also gave me solid EC when they first came to the bar) stayed behind to get the drinks and pay… Read more »

rugby11
rugby11
6 years ago
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kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“A good place to start . . .”

And then here:

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Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

A few more bits to consider Culum, since you are active now… you are really still just a few degrees off blowing up. So close. Mental game. Just struck immediately by this, what you are projecting even here… Then I pretty much let it fizzle out..[no kino – ed. we will get back to this], went blank on continuing the conversation and she picked up her drink and left. and focussing almost entirely on (a) staying in set and continuing the conversation to its full extent (even if it means lapsing into GLL chode talk) See? You are still focusing… Read more »

Gunner Q
Gunner Q
6 years ago

Sun Wukong @ September 15th, 2016 at 7:27 pm: “So yes, technology is eating jobs faster than the FI. It’ll eat more jobs than the FI. For the moment it’s mostly affecting men due to our propensity for doing the dirty work and society’s pushing us out of college, but it’ll eat all the women’s jobs in time.” Technology doesn’t destroy jobs, it makes possible jobs that aren’t directly connected to necessities. Example, there wouldn’t be enough men to operate the IT/Internet industry if we were still needed for manual labor. We see technology being used to replace people today,… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“Technology doesn’t destroy jobs, it makes possible jobs that aren’t directly connected to necessities.”

Those are “jobs” like a dollar bill is “money.”

The problem is that the problem of production has been solved, but the problem of distribution has not.

During the Depression, thousands of hungry people stood around watching food with zero market value being destroyed.

Today, acres of new cars that have never even left the manufacturers lot are fed into the recycler every year.

And we simply have no mechanism to bring the products and the people together.

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“Technology should be opening up new horizons for us. Instead, it’s being used to let Barbie pretend she’s an engineer.”

Q.E.D.

YaReally
6 years ago

@gb_hill That voice jesus lol He makes Tyler sound manly. Pretty busted face too. Never seen or heard of this guy before. Watching the first vid as I type this. The part that fucks with guys is that you can HAVE a nasally lispy gay voice like that and it doesn’t really matter THAT much if you make up for it in other ways. You have to flip X number of switches and if you can’t flip some of them you flip others to make up for it. Very technically sound game can make up for deficiencies elsewhere. Despite his… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Yareally

“Like you have to view the guy how the GIRLS view him, not how us guys view him watching him teach or watching the set from afar. ”

yeah on Frank… I agree is technically good, and leads. But I do not see genuine attraction from the girls towards him. yes he is kino’ing them but there is very little back… they are comfortable with him but no DDB eyes… all the pulls stop short of any physical escalation… no makeouts etc.

Be interested in seeing a clip of solid attraction from the girl to him.

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

@yareally @scray @walawala @pua Okay, got one text back from my mass text to try and warm my cold numbers. Interesting, since this was from the black girl from way back, many months ago. It was the one where I accidentally texted the telemarketer first lol — that chick. So interesting she hasn’t heard from me in like 3 months, yet responds. Like I said, I just sent a text that looked like a mass invite to a party. She replied that she wanted to go. Unfortunately she texted when I was busy, so I didn’t get her to call… Read more »

anon
anon
6 years ago

. . . and, contrary to what you might hear through the MSM, STEM is already overpopulated by at least 90%. It’s all junk jobs. The myth that not enough Americans are getting technical degrees has been pushed by the tech industry so foreign workers can be hired for substantially less pay. Facebook spends big money to lobby for immigration “reform” because they “can’t find enough skilled tech workers” while Microsoft lays off another 18,000. There is an interesting article about a tech company that hired cheap guest workers, for a fraction of the pay, and made the American workers… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

And it isn’t just “tech.” Science! is in even worse shape. Most “scientists” are nothing more than lab monkeys who only have jobs because the funny money is there to pay them.

And then there are the hoards who do nothing but produce “papers.”

If 99% of the “scientists” disappeared tomorrow, science might well breath a sigh of relief that they could finally get back to the business of figuring shit out.

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@Gunner Technology doesn’t destroy jobs, it makes possible jobs that aren’t directly connected to necessities. Example, there wouldn’t be enough men to operate the IT/Internet industry if we were still needed for manual labor. Largely false. It does open some new avenues, but the vast majority of the populace have no access to said avenues whether due to a lack of education or simply lacking ability. The majority of technology is not right in your face (i.e. your home), it’s hidden off in factories or warehouses you’re never in. Or it’s in your supermarket in a way you don’t think… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

https://youtu.be/7SrXcZgXsWE

Ok on this one… very weird… he actually even tells the woman he does not like kissing … he seems most authentic singing rhythm of the Night at the end…

Strange. Genuinely interested if there are any vids of Frank with solid attraction from woman to him or any make outs.

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“You can’t retrain the vast majority of ditch diggers to be technicians, let alone engineers.”

And even if you could, what would you have them working on, and why?

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@kfg

Exactly. There’s far less jobs than engineers at that point. The pay for engineers drops too low to even pay their student loans as you flood the labor market supply well beyond demand. What a great idea.

Andy
Andy
6 years ago

“Technology’s reason for existence is to unemploy people. That’s what developers and engineers like myself do for a living. We unemploy people. You can’t retrain the vast majority of ditch diggers to be technicians, let alone engineers.” I agree, but you can’t overlook the fact that it also makes shit cheaper. In the next 20-30 years virtually free energy, virtually free internet, virtually free food, and virtually free “stuff” is going to be available to everyone on earth. The purpose of life is going to change dramatically. There is no going back. Land and a few other natural resources will… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

” . . . you can’t overlook the fact that it also makes shit cheaper.”

Right. But how do you sell free shit?

Conversely, how do you just give it away without destroying the market?

“Creativity, Art, Music, Game will be currency.”

How many people on welfare are using their time to become fine artists?
How is an economy of singing each other songs going to work any better than an economy of taking in each other’s wash?

“The transition has the potential to be hellish . . .”

To say the least.

Andy
Andy
6 years ago

“How is an economy of singing each other songs going to work any better than an economy of taking in each other’s wash?”

lol, I can’t even deal with your scarcity mindset right now.

But seriously… You would have to shift your thinking from a scarcity economy to an abundance economy.

You’ve got some reading to do! 😛

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005FLOGMM/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@Andy Creativity, Art, Music, Game will be currency. I’ve had this thought before, but then I realized: look at NEETs. While people like myself would take the chance to explore, adventure, and create (so that’s how I see the end game), the majority of dudes who find themselves without a struggle or meaning just… give up. They don’t even become competitive gamers because frankly that’s really fucking hard work. (I know from watching them practice; I’ve been good friends with some of the early top players in the Quake 1-3 leagues) They generally entertain and eat themselves to death. The… Read more »

Andy
Andy
6 years ago

“the majority of dudes who find themselves without a struggle or meaning just… give up.”

How many dudes are there like me that didn’t even know that you could actually improve your social skills? How many don’t realize that there even is such a thing as self-actualization, and that it’s actually rewarding?

“It’s just surviving the transition as a species that might be hard.”

Yeah… could be bad.

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“But seriously… You would have to shift your thinking from a scarcity economy to an abundance economy.”

You’ve got me wrong. I began stating that the problem of production had been solved so thoroughly that the manufacturer just throws much of his production away.

And I’m not worried about “the future,” it’s just the next 50 years that I don’t think I’ll stop sleeping with a knife.

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@Andy

How many dudes are there like me that didn’t even know that you could actually improve your social skills? How many don’t realize that there even is such a thing as self-actualization, and that it’s actually rewarding?

Among NEETs? None of them. But it’s not due to ignorance. It’s simply due to not giving a shit. These are men who’ve had their balls so thoroughly removed you can’t see the scars to tell they once had a gender. Very few will ever be shaken out of their malaise hard enough to even start searching for answers.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

kfg The myth that not enough Americans are getting technical degrees has been pushed by the tech industry so foreign workers can be hired for substantially less pay. Easily tested. Gross pay for engineers and computer scientists has increased how much over the last 20 years? If there’s this horrid shortage out there, pay should be through the roof, because the law of supply and demand has not been eliminated. But it isn’t. And one man I know claims the H1B scam isn’t new, companies were doing it in the 90’s, he testifies to having seen absurdly lowball pay scales… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

kfg
And then there are the hoards who do nothing but produce “papers.”

Hence replicability crisis in medicine, among other areas.

Cheer up, China is about to surpass the US in total number of papers published. That should work out well.

Anonymous REader
Anonymous REader
6 years ago

Sun wukong The majority of technology is not right in your face (i.e. your home), it’s hidden off in factories or warehouses you’re never in. The factories Blax knew of are pretty much gone. Because the same amount of stuff can be fabricated using expensive, but reliable, machines maintained and operated by a much smaller staff of humans. Robots paint cars on assembly lines far, far better than humans ever did. Custom stuff is still out there. 3D printing will be good for them. Custom services like auto painting will go on. Etc. and so forth. The young men I… Read more »

Not Born This Morning
Not Born This Morning
6 years ago

This one is worth reading…

http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

@yareally @culum @pua Had another thought If I can’t pull for an instadate, do a mini instadate. Try to do a shorter date there. So like for the mall, is much better to go to my day2 area. but if i can’t get her to go there, switch up to run a date there. if i am in a barnes and nobel, take her to the starbucks inside the store and do my day 2. Like that asian girl who flaked on me cuz bf. . .I could have walked her out to her car and had more time with… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
6 years ago

@NBTM

What are the sexual stimulants he refers to at the end? The ones that limit male bargaining power? The ones that pollute his environment?

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
6 years ago

@kfg

Ah you mean shit that conditions you to worship pussy. Ah…..yes….insidious. My visceral reactions become my worst betrayers. Isn’t that Adriana Lima?

Jay Fink
Jay Fink
6 years ago

I know guys who wanted to be a good family man but due to hypergamy couldn’t attract women. So they spend their lives indulging in their hobbies, some of which are quite youth oriented. Most are confused about the forces behind them single but their hobbies keep them entertained and pretty content with life.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

Heh. How to use Tinder for pure fun; create your own version of “the Bachelor”

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3792439/Woman-lives-streams-Tinder-date-match-invites-15-women.html

redlight
redlight
6 years ago

Stalling for Tinder

I signed up for tinder after my therapist told me it’s not just for millenials (this is why I have a female therapist, you guys never tell me this stuff), and got my first match, two questions:

1 Why do a considerable number of women have their place of work or occupation?

2. Besides my pix what else can they see about me?

I should have a STD date soon so wish me luck

IAS
IAS
6 years ago

@YaReally: I only watched that video with Tyler interviewing the gorgeous lawyer now (for me she is somewhere above a 9 – must be the cheeks, I like a certain type of cheeks). Personality is worrying though. The interview is HILARIOUS. The part where she shoves the guy out of the camera made me LOL each time I watched it. When he says 2% (for something which was almost the opposite of what she started it) and she tries to go “that’s what I said!”, and how she just doesn’t accept that nearly all of the students wouldn’t cheat on… Read more »

NewbieOnPoint
NewbieOnPoint
6 years ago

@Redlight

“1 Why do a considerable number of women have their place of work or occupation?
2. Besides my pix what else can they see about me?”

1. Projection? Probably they think you care
2. Look at your profile settings for that.

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@redlight

1 Why do a considerable number of women have their place of work or occupation?

Newbie is correct. It’s projection and pushing the Strong Independent Woman narrative. I’ve also noticed similar behavior in person from ugly/fat/old chicks when I’m out as well. They’ll be really fast to start bragging about academic and professional accomplishments to me.

Academic in particular I find funny. That 8 years you spent on the PhD does nothing for my boner, sweetheart. Shoulda spent 8 years in the gym instead.

DisgruntledEarthling
DisgruntledEarthling
6 years ago

@sun
“Academic in particular I find funny. That 8 years you spent on the PhD does nothing for my boner, sweetheart. Shoulda spent 8 years in the gym instead.”

Well, I fucked a fat chick this summer that had a PhD in english, so there’s that.

rugby11
rugby11
6 years ago

Married and life.
http://wp.me/p4tvpM-1Nle

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

@yareally @culum @othergrain @pua lol and after I write up that bit about me thinking to try and pull chicks to closer areas (across the room) if they don’t go for further ones (reaturant down the road)— then I hear julien talk about that same thing in pimp lol. guess I am on the right track. today was just *eh* mentally. tired, figured out later when I was just shooting the shit with a dude that I just wasn’t really feeling like being social today. went to mall in bad city. was trying to get my mental state right, so… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

YaReally Sentient HABD Scray Hank and the rest of the PUA gang. Sat night Solo FR Out for a couple of hours. I was out most of Fri night for my social circle event and then had to work all day Sat so I was shattered to the point of barely being able to keep my eyes open. But I thought of all you guys on TRM and figured I had to push myself to go out at least for a little while. Main focus in my mind was just pushing sets and staying in set and not letting things… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Culum

Great progress… much more for you. Later. So close.

But why did you not engage the HB7 and amp up her BT? she was hot for you?

Hit it HABD… You know it… say it….

“THREESOME!”

Tom
Tom
6 years ago

Hey Culum, 1 thing you could practice is deflecting the “job qualifier” test. This is especially important after one has partially fallen into her frame by answering other qualifying questions. It’s field-tested that responding directly to a girls enquiry about your job will put you into the provider category in her brain. I usually deflect with humor. “I’m a hand model. My latest work was modelling Bad Kitty collector rings” or “I’m a matchstick quality control inspector. I check them all before they get picked up by the matchstick girls to sell on the street.” Note the references to “Bad… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Culum Reminds me of this situation… https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/09/17/the-ugly-reality-of-open-relationships/#comment-616759 But by pressing and not stair stepping, you learn. Good stuff. So some thoughts: It was like nothing for 5 minutes and then about 4 times in two minutes (literally while this was happening in the same two minutes I heard one of the girls tell the other one “Why haven’t we been approached by any guys yet? Just remember this quote when you do you next 1,000 opens. They are OUT to be opened. They WANT you to open. Now you still NEED to bring the game, they ARE judging you, but… Read more »

walawala
walawala
6 years ago

@Hank “Going out with a stranger”….is a shit test…

I get this from time to time…they want to be lead.

I agree and amplify: “Yah, I’m a bit shy, so be gentle…”

Just ignore that and plough on. Some will say no, but you’ll be surprised at how many say yes.

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

And a word about this ” I asked about her tattoo and she was telling me it was in memory of a dead family member etc.” seriously a ton of tattoos, especially faces you don’t recognize, are for dead friends and family. If you get an uptempo answer no biggie, but you will often get a really sudden serious soft sad response… DOWNER… IF you are not prepared to handle it, it may tank your set.. However you need to realize that grief is a strong emotion, and strong emotions are good, and strong emotions with you as the trigger… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

one bit missed… after the hug share about someone you lost and then go into what you think they are doing now, what happens after death… good bit. Then work out of it.

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

He he… That old CH thread had a bit i wrote that may be of use to some young guys here – stuck… trying to figure out how to get life rolling… For the young guys – the key to having this life is having some freedom to make real choices in your 20’s instead of having “choices” foisted upon you. You calling the shots in YOUR life = Alpha. Step 1 – AVOID DEBT. Debt is completely debilitating and will set you on a path to betadom. You can’t have a solid frame if you are always forced to… Read more »

YaReally
6 years ago

@Culum Struan Good shit dude. “I even fluffed an easy PAIMAI approach invite.” Got a routine opener for when girls pAImAI you yet? It’s gonna keep happening and you’re gonna keep blanking lol The point of having default routines is that when you can’t think of anything to say or what to do you can just default to them. Something as simple as “hey where’s good to eat around here?” would have blown those two wide open. “PLUS stuff: Did not stare at my phone at all (except to check the time) and did not drink at all.” Props for… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Yareally

Again this looks and feels great.

This was a single set 40YO waiting on a Uber, no friends.

YaReally
6 years ago

@Sentient
“This was a single set 40YO waiting on a Uber, no friends.”

Ooops, skipped the quoted paragraph and didn’t realize you were talking about that second set. Ya, that one was grope-city lol

Bromeo
Bromeo
6 years ago

Met RSD Madison downtown Toronto while sarging last night lol. Pretty chill dude, had his entourage there filming/pictures while he opened sets on the street. Think he was doing a bootcamp, had a group of random guys following him around.

Bachelorocles
Bachelorocles
6 years ago

According to the Gynocracy’s Doublethink, immature = selfish = not serious = lacks ambition = boyish = peter pan syndrome = refuses to grow up = a rational man’s rational refusal to enter into an alimony contract and become a pack mule competing endlessly at a soul crushing job to support a woman’s biology, competitive consumerism, and leisurely lifestyle.

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

@yareally @culum @habd @scray @blax @forge @walawala @pua FR Theme of this one is to have more faith in myself. Push further. Had a 2 set that was game, but didn’t push in the same venue so flaked later. Should have just gone with them right then. However, NOT pushing there also resulted in me being able to approach more sets, so I learned more and got more overall experience. Lessons learned either way. At day 2 area. 2 set at cafe sitting outdoors. Blakc girl and white girl. Never approached at an outdoor area like this. Opened on drug… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

So if it reallly becomes a thing for 30-something women to have an egg extraction and freeze in the service of their open hypergamy it’s bound to filter down to their younger sisters in the uppper 20’s. A more covert alternative to AF-Beta Cucks, perhaps. This looks to me like corporate bait-and-switch on the women. “Sure, freeze some eggs then come work more hours for us, you can always be a mother later on”, except that declining SMV and MMV is a reality no matter what. Therefore every year means Mr. Right is less likely to show up. Anecdote: a… Read more »

stringerbell
stringerbell
6 years ago

@yareally @scray @walawala continuation of my text game with HB6 and HB7 and a new chick I met at the bar (HB7) on Friday who loved me (i feel like i had to pull some rabbits out of some fucking hats) 1) HB6 had come out to party and had a great night except I probably pushed to hard for to come up in an uncalibrated way at the end of the night so that might have flared up her ASD and made me look rapey. I texted her platonically the next morning about some adult soccer leagues she’s in… Read more »

walawala
walawala
6 years ago

@Stringerbell, rather than giving you a breakdown. Of your text game which is way too long, try hard and eager I’ll share two examples of my most recent text game. Example 1: 32 year old cute hb7 met at a party and flaked on me then started opening me. Me: hey xxx I’m back In town this week let’s meet up for drinks. What’s your shift? Her: hey! Yes we can hang out some day I’m off wed thur Me; let’s meet xxx 630 wed So far it’s just logistics and assuming the meet up.Now here’s where she shit tests:… Read more »

rugby11
rugby11
6 years ago
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rugby11
rugby11
6 years ago
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Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

@PUA Gang – YaReally Sentient HABD etc Catching up on replies to my last FRs @walawala – yeah that’s the kind of thing I’m talking about re 130am opening girls – so basically you’re saying something provocative and then escalating off there with minimal verbals and leading/dominance/kino subcomms. Yeah that’s what I am working on. @Hank holiday – see below, I’m basically gonna try to pull every girl for SNL as you suggested – I think that’s a great idea (not read your latest FR yet – just going out every day means I barely have time to go out,… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

YaReally Sentient HABD Wala Hank and PUA Gang Short FR re Sunday night. Solid, nothing spectacular. So, solid but not spectacular Sunday night. 4 hours solo – Latin dance club (before it got too loud), then street game and several other bars including some new places. Decent but not great crowd. My main goal for the night was to keep opening AND STAY IN SET AS LONG AS POSSIBLE (ideally till the girls leave), while focussing on my subcomms/laser/leading. Did pretty decently. Opened almost all the sets that came within reach (while I was standing at the bar). Wimped out… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 years ago

Culum But I think Sentient is still right – she WAS protecting her married friend but the level of aggression and emotion she showed suggests that she was ALSO pissed off that she wasn’t getting attention like she normally does and that she’d lost out on me (I’ve run into mother hen cockblocks before, although not often – it’s usually much more clinical – it seems to be rare that the *cockblock* gets so emotional). I suspect the 7 would have acted the same with or without kino because she was watching the subcomms. and you blanked her on the… Read more »

Tom
Tom
6 years ago

Hey @Culum, Perhaps I can reorient your thinking on this value thing. When you say “if she anyway gets my subcomms of having a high value job” This is actually something to be avoided. When you’re out and meet a girl looking to be bad on a GNO, the only vibe you want to project is “Lover” No “Provider” what.so.ever. Remember that what chicks want is to be dominated. The way you show your Lover alphaness is by leading and dominating. When you answer her very first question, you enter into her frame. That’s submission, not dominance. And it’s definitely… Read more »

cheupez
6 years ago

A page for feild reports would be nice. I think the focused attention that comments would otherwise pay to the original post tends to get lost amidst lengthy feild reports.

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

@culum nonono don’t plan to stay out 4 hours, plan to get laid lol. You see how the focus there is different? You win by just sitting around and doing nothing for 4 hours otherwise. Having a goal of “I must get laid” means that you have to PUSH YOURSELF INTO UNCOMFORTABLE SITUS to win will MAKE you progress. You need to listen to the section in juliens PIMP about pulling. Yes the gun to the head is from him. You don’t need to worry as much about stack, you get enough IOIs. What you need to do once you… Read more »

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

so trick on asians need a phone that was made outside the stone ages lol A good way to get over their resistance to me pulling them is to be able to SHOW them pictures of me out with other people, especially girls, and ESPECIALLY asian girls. I can work that into my DHVs, show them some pics from my phone. Then later on, if I know this chick is good, leave her with my phone to look through a picture album while I walk away for a few minutes (bathroom break, whatever). Like mystery says, if you TRUST a… Read more »

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

@cheupez @rollo

I second the idea for a separate section for FRs…but because I think the regular comments distract from the FRs lol.

rugby11
rugby11
6 years ago
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1975 Time
http://www.springfieldspringfield.co.uk/movie_script.php?movie=stepford-wives-the

Über-Morlock: Who are you to question 800,000 years… of evolution?
Alexander Hartdegen: This is, this is a perversion of every natural law.
Über-Morlock: [grabs him by the throat] And what is time travel but your pathetic attempted to try to control the world around you? Your futile effort to have a question answered? You think I don’t know you, Alexander? I can look inside your memories, your nightmares, your dreams. You’re a man haunted by those two most terrible words: What if?

SJF
SJF
6 years ago

@Rollo Any chance of a private messaging plug-in for WordPress? I don’t know how that would work or if it could get ugly. I do know that I have achieved some of my best bottoms up masculine self improvement in both virtual and IRL communication with other guys. In 2015, the best work I ever did was communicating off-line with Scribbler and Forge. It was actually life changing in its import. Imagine how little guys here communicate about their actual circumstances and behind the the scenes goings on because they are “afraid” of public revealings. Imaging how guys that resonate… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 years ago

@Culum

“Just how much practice did you do to be able to see that the first time around??”

I think it really clicked for me when I finally added that last 10 lbs to my bench press…lol…

stop thinking too much…

as always my boys phineas and ferb got my back with an example for you… ‘sherman’…lol…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&persist_app=1&v=Zuli8Cy1_lw

good luck!

theasdgamer
6 years ago

FR A married broad calls me at home on my landline…I normally ignore the landline, but it kept ringing so I picked it up and she was on it…I freaked out, lol…what if Mrs. Gamer had picked up the landline…she was in the house…married broad wants me to meet her and her husband and friends to dance…I tell her I’m going somewhere else but let her whine and insist that I come out…married broad tells me that she’ll only dance with me…I have a date with Mrs. Gamer that night, so I had to come up with a plan to… Read more »

redlight
redlight
6 years ago

me August 2015 “On the weekend I was discussing Billy Bob Thornton with my oldest daughter. She felt that BBT was the love of Angelina Jolie’s life, and the relationship with Brad Pitt lacks something. I replied that BBT was the boyfriend and Brad the dad, and she agreed. In our terms, BBT made Jolie an alpha widow, and Brad is the BB cuck raising children who are not his, and some who are supposed to be his. Women don’t understand why Brad, an alpha in most movies, accepts being a BB and pussy whipped.” TMZ reports Jolie filed for… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

@Rollo – one vote to NOT have a separate FR section please. This isn’t a discussion forum site, it’s a community based round your posts and I think there’s a lot of value in having a single discussion that everyone reads and contributes to. Even the guys who don’t normally respond to FRs sometimes do, and even people like me and Hank who write a lot of FRs respond to other topics – I don’t see the benefit of segregation – for the same reason that everyone agrees that nested comments are a bad idea – you start to spin… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

YaReally Sentient HABD Hank and PUA Gang Less said the better about Monday night. Just a bad night solo. Stayed out for a long time but just started drinking, got in my head, bad state..all that. Did a fair few opens though, and felt comfortable solo, so that’s a positive. Also didn’t look at my phone (except in the smoking area because I don’t smoke). Got the odd approach invite but not as much as usual – maybe cos state was so bad. Details are basically irrelevant. Just this: my plan for the rest of Blitz (less than a week… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“TMZ reports Jolie filed for divorce on Monday”

And the reason is – he was acting all like the kids were at least part his. Angie baby ain’t havin’ none o’ that. Obligatory accusations of Pitt being a bad and dangerous man to keep him from getting joint custody.

Ricky Schroeder’s wife has also filed for divorce – to go all Eat, Pray, Love.

theasdgamer
6 years ago

@Culum

Got the odd approach invite but not as much as usual

I think that you’d be better off ignoring approach invites just like you’re better off without alcohol…relying on approach invites is a crutch…I see them sometimes, but I never look for them.

theasdgamer
6 years ago

Hey YaReally, if you pull a girl into a bathroom for a bj, is that sex in the shitty?

Fred Flange and his Free Speech for the Dumb
Fred Flange and his Free Speech for the Dumb
6 years ago

That Brad Pitt’s a beta is no surprise, most actor-types are, having to be all sensitive and shit. But Beta Brad in particular is just Not There. Like Jane Fonda (forget her Ho Ho Ho phase, I mean as a person). When not playing a role there isn’t much actual personality there as to either of them when they speak as themselves. Like Peter Sellers used to joke, “There is no real Me. I had it surgically removed years ago.” BTW as our ex-hubby contingent well knows, “abuse” allegations are S.O.P. in big-money divorce cases, some additional ammo to get… Read more »

hank holiday
hank holiday
6 years ago

@culum few things firstly, you don’t NEED physicality AT ALL. Only do it if it feels appropriate to you…and the situ. But you got that married girl’s friend on your ass when you got physical, lol, then she wouldn’t leave you alone. I’m sure yareally will agree with me here, but I actually don’t like to use physicality much. It amplifies things a bunch, but it has a lot of drawbacks. I would save it for when you are 100% solid on logistics and especially when in isolation with girl. Otherwise, physicality is just too obvious and is a red… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

Culum Strain 1. No more drinking. It’s expensive, it’s a crutch and it means I lose my alertness and ability to observe and think clearly. Need to learn to operate without it. One beer probably won’t make a difference but a clean break is easier. So ZERO alcohol for the rest of Blitz Week. Ginger ale. You can drink ginger ale and no one knows what you have. Social proof that your’e not on the water wagon but you remain clear headed. On behalf of my great uncle and his brother, who closed many a sale even when it meant… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

kfg And the reason is – he was acting all like the kids were at least part his. Angie baby ain’t havin’ none o’ that. Obligatory accusations of Pitt being a bad and dangerous man to keep him from getting joint custody. Y’know, the femm-frivorce playbook is so standard that it should be easy, even trivial, to write up a rule-based AI that would file the false accusations, briefs etc. Just need a GUI to intake the relevant names, addresses, bank account numbers, etc. Divorce-in-a-box. No need to get any white shoes involved. Demand is guaranteed for the next decade… Read more »

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

Stefan did a video on the Pitt-Jolie breakup. I’m not much no pop culture and I always found Jolie to be a skanky, overacting, low-talent boor, but I found this video interesting He comments on Jolie’s collapsing sexual market value – makes me wonder if Stefan lurks here on TRM? Jolie had a mastectomy and ovaries removed to as a preventive against cancer. Not much of a woman left there… [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8eJpe1wlAw&w=560&h=315%5D But Brad is upgrading to what exactly? Cotillard doesn’t look bad. http://celebrityinside.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Marion-Cotillard-Body-Measurements-Figure.jpg Sure, she looks great from a distance but she’s 40. He keeps picking up these broads… Read more »

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Sentient – Loving your FR analyses. I’m so frikkin’ busy with biz that i can’t keep up but the recent ones were just so strong (as were Ya’s and others too). But your’s just jumped out at me. @Dunhill – A man named Fourier, a 19th century French philosopher is believed to have coined the term feminism, in like 1810 or something like that. He also co-invented the term socialism, of the Bentham, Bismarckian variety. Shocking, most people don’t know communism is a form of socialism, yawn…You might also read Engel’s essay on the family, published around 1870 I think.… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“– makes me wonder if Stefan lurks here on TRM? ”

I wouldn’t be surprised. It’s a reasonable surmise that he reads Alpha Game Plan, as he’s had Vox Day as a guest on his podcast a few times recently.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 years ago

@Anonymous Reader – thanks ginger ale is a great idea I’ll try it tonight. @Hank thanks dude, I think you’re right, but overall I just want to simplify stuff for the moment to blast through my current sticking points. Hence overall “makeout goal” and then in the moment I want to focus on opening as many girls as possible (preferably not situational openers standing next to her at the bar – that’s my comfort zone) and then just talking and running my script (including the kino Julien recommends). You’re right physicality isn’t required and laser will do the job –… Read more »

fleezer
fleezer
6 years ago

“The rich guy gets rich and girls tool him and toss him aside like that French girl tooling Jonah Hill, a guy who worked his ASS off to be successful, who’s been in some of the funniest fucking movies (Superbad is an epic movie), and even got skinny again and it doesn’t matter, he goes on TV and gets raped in front of a world-wide audience by some no-name chick that’s going to hit the wall in a few years.” lol. worked his ass off? didn’t his daddy do the books for GNR in the 90s? nice fucking intro to… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 years ago

@Culum “even though I’m 36 and gray haired and it may trigger cockblocks if I try it on a young girl).” nope…those are just shit tests bc the cockblock wants the D too…lol… how’s that FI/social conditioning treating you?… “But I’ve been practicing cold approach in 2016 and it’s hard to engage those skills – it feels like I’m starting from scratch again a new context.” how’s that FI treating you?…lol… sooo, it’s ok to mack on girls within the social construct of “date”… (bc potential provider relationship…) but not as a “player” (with NO provision potential in sight)?…lol… still… Read more »

Lost Patrol
Lost Patrol
6 years ago

On the other hand, women wishing to forestall motherhood – a characterization which used to imply a woman’s entrance into adulthood – are never characterized as “extending their childhood.”

They are now! Rollo readers should grab this one and run with it – my opinion. Use at your own risk, no lifeguard on duty, etc.

Should be fun though. I’m throwing this concept out there every chance I get. Why are you extending your childhood Sally?

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