The Tyranny of Biomechanics

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Well, dammit, I had a very insightful article warming up in my drafts folder about Open Cuckoldry (it’s still coming, promise), but I felt compelled to riff on the new Pirelli Tyre calendar photoshoot first. The calendar art is replete with a semi-nude Amy Schumer sipping a pumpkin-spice latte, “tastefully” rendered in greyscale (the calling card of an ‘artiste’ as a opposed to just a ‘photographer’) and the doughy eyed stare of a comedienne who grasps the ludicrous seriousness of how her image will be received and delivered by a feminine-centric society.

I’ll be honest, I don’t much care for Schumer as a comedian or an actress, and if you read here with any regularity I’d expect you don’t either. She characterizes, with triumphantly unwarranted hubris, everything the Feminine Imperative would like generations of women to celebrate as a victory over the evil “Patriarchy” that, by design, is never entirely defeated. In a post-End of Men society, fat, goofy women will be the banner bearers the imperative will have dance on the symbolic corpse of the “Patriarchy” that will never die or be unuseful to it.

The irony here is that Amy’s naked girth is being lauded by the usual media suspects as “brave” and “stunning”. Calling a woman of this physique “stunning” is like telling the retarded kid he actually ran the football back for a real touchdown to win the big game. Perhaps Amy is self-aware enough to realize this, but her participation in her own humiliation tells the bigger story. The fact that she rationalizes her nudes as being “authentic” as opposed to ridiculous verifies this.

Now before I go much further here, I’ll remind readers that I’m entirely aware that this “groundbreaking” photoshoot of “real” women is little more than a publicity effort, nominally on Pirelli Tyres (are they a British brand?), but mostly for photographer Annie Leibovitz and her feminist triumphalisms (she also shot ‘Woman’ of the Year, Caitlyn Jenner).

Since the inception of this blog I’ve always gotten props for the pictures I select as my lead-ins to what I’m writing. This talent is really the result of my having worked in advertising and brand development for years, and having to be the de facto photographer and photo editor for more than 20 years. Trust me, I get the language of imagery, and it’s not difficult to see the train that Leibovitz is riding here.

At the launch of the calendar on Monday, Leibovitz explained that none of these photographs had been conceived with the male gaze in mind. Williams’s photo was “not a nude but a body study”, she said, while Schumer’s was a comic conceit: “The idea was that she was the only one who had not got the memo about wearing clothes.”

The ‘Male Gaze” card is disingenuous when the stated intent of the shoot is an,…

…arty soft-core ode to pinups produced by the Italian tire manufacturer,…

The Bigger Narrative

There’s a much larger story being sold here than a fat comedienne’s rationalizing her nude form as championing “authenticity” or “realness”. What we’re observing, yet again, is the frustration of women being able to optimize their inherent Hypergamy against what our evolved biology dictates for them.

I’ve written extensively on the conflict between an idealized Equalism and human beings’ evolved predilection for Complementarity. Whenever there is a new ‘outrage’ over “body shaming” or “fat shaming”, with a Red Pill lens we can see what this conflict represents: The frustration women experience, and the anxiety of insecurity they feel when presented with the prospect of not being able to optimize their Hypergamous impulses because simple biology selects them out based on their physicality.

No doubt Leibovitz believes in her rationalization that she’s shooting artful nudes without the mythical ‘male gaze’ in mind, but she knows on a visceral level the form of every nude woman in art throughout history has been rendered with the intent of replicating a beauty that inspires arousal (thus the ode to the pin-up). The simple hard-coded fact of nature is that the form of a semi-nude woman, by order of degree, stimulates the area of the male brain associated with tool use and thereby objectification. On a limbic level, sex with beautiful, arousing women is literally a problem to be solved by the male brain.

Leibovitz gets this. In fact she banks money on instigating the deliberate contradiction that human biology poses to her own (and a larger society’s) ego-investments in blank-slate Equalism. The root of this prefabricated indignation rests in women’s existential doubt of optimizing Hypergamy. That doubt conflicts with the uncertainty of establishing a social order that will force men to act and be influenced by idealized Equalism rather than their evolved biology.

In other words, the latent purpose of this social order is to force men to comply with women’s sexual strategy, irrespective of their evolved sexual arousal cues.

The ostensible want for an ideal Equalism, or a dubious gender parity, is really the cover story for the want of 100% consolidated control over their ability to optimize Hypergamy by literally controlling the sexual selection choices men are able to make for themselves.

Schumer apparently earns the label of “real” because a few rolls around her midsection are on display – because her body is less than perfect by pop culture standards. Would she be any less “real” if she didn’t allow her body to be consumed in this way? Can’t all bodies count as “real”, no matter what they look like and who lives in them and whether or not they choose to show themselves – clothed or naked?

I find it interesting that an out of shape Vin Diesel is ridiculed for his present physique, or that ‘Dad Bods’ are sardonically described as ‘sexy’ while the over-the-shoulder giggles ensue, but what I don’t expect is for these men to be held as a physical ideal in women’s estimate. There are no photographers, male or female, shooting artful nudes of overweight men, normal “real” men of professional accomplishment, or middle linemen for exclusive calendars. Firemen with rippling abs sell very well, but “real” men? Not so much.

However the difference is that men don’t expect women’s choices of what physically arouses them to shift in favor of their physiques based on expected societal shifts. In fact, we don’t even expect women not to laugh at a naked Seth Rogan or Jonah Hill. The automatic impression is to laugh at them because they don’t come close to women’s physical ideal, so the presumption of intent must be humor. Yet we are expected to perceive a naked Amy Schumer as “real’, “authentic”, “brave” and “stunning”, and to do so with genuflection, devoid of laughter and ridicule.

The uncomfortable truth is that women have far higher, far more static and far more stringent physical ideals for men than men will ever have for women when it comes to basic visceral arousal cues. Yes, I understand there are more variables to attraction than just the physical, but we are talking about representing physical ideals in photos and calendars here. Firemen and Sports Illustrated swimsuit models are the standard order for a reason – evolved, practical, efficient biomechanics that have made us what we are today, not pop-culture stereotypes.

T-Rex Wants to Hunt

T-rex doesn’t want to be fed; he wants to hunt. You can’t just suppress sixty-five million years of gut instinct. – Dr. Grant, Jurassic Park

Sexuality, families, and men did not come about because of society. To the contrary, sexuality, families, and men are what made society possible in the first place. – Pook

These are some excellent examples of the conflict I’ve described above here. The Equalism of Annie Leibovitz – the dubious societal idealism that hopes these fundamental, biological underpinnings can be overridden by a self-defined higher order cognitivism – will always lock horns with the T-Rex that represents human biology. Annie and the rest of the prophetesses of gender equality are only, symbolically, trying to feed the T-Rex of evolved gender dynamics in the hopes he’ll stay in the paddock, behave himself and only occasionally put on a good show for the customers.

However, even in the hopes of that a contrived, idealized gender Equalism will ever pull the teeth of the T-Rex, the same evolved need women have for Hypergamous certainty informs the concept of what that ideal “equality” should look like. The T-Rex is women too.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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@Liz: “It’s clearly a demographic thing.”

Of how much more readily women will admit it these days.

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What if your prostate enlarges and you have trouble emptying your bladder and waking up in the middle of the night having to pee?

The train is fine. Really.

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kfg @Liz: “It’s clearly a demographic thing.” Of how much more readily women will admit it these days. That, too. But I suspect there’s a diff in other ways from 25 years or more back. It’s really interesting to think about why Deen would be so popular with the under 25 women. These are the women who are submerged in affirmative support via social media, have beta orbiters a text away, and yet they apparenlty are subbing to a site and buying DVD’s? What are they getting from Deen’s porn that they don’t get elsewhere? I do believe that’s what… Read more »

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AR: “It’s really interesting to think about why Deen would be so popular with the under 25 women. These are the women who are submerged in affirmative support via social media, have beta orbiters a text away, and yet they apparenlty are subbing to a site and buying DVD’s?”

Which would also include opening herself up to junk mail, targetted advertisements, and lots and lots of SPAM.

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@Wildman – Very honest and i’ve gone through the same thing. I realized I was way to ego invested in my worldview when it came to getting laid and how women are, even after conceptually accepting the Red Pill. I also had to confront how I didn’t feel like I was the prize as an older guy…

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” Deen’s showing some kind of personal connection, along with some degree of dominance, and the under 25 millennial girls are going wild? Gee, what could that mean? What factors could be involved? ” Not buying it completely. But, anything’s possible. I’d heard of this guy, but I’d never seen his vids. Since the debate over him and his ” stardom ” broke out, I porn-googled a few of his scenes. I guess I’m too old for porn. : ( Sucks to be me. I just don’t see anything special about this guy. I don’t think as many women are… Read more »

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Here is the very latest on Twilight: Wedding On Hold: His Family Unsure She’s Right For Him http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/12/03/fka-twigs-rob-pattinson-wedding-marriage-delayed-family-on-hold/ Yes, this incredibly jacked up guy (can you see his muscles?), was the star of the Twilight series. In December 2008, he blamed the lack of modelling work on his masculine appearance: “When I first started I was quite tall and looked like a girl, so I got lots of jobs, because it was during that period where the androgynous look was cool. Then, I guess, I became too much of a guy, so I never got any more jobs. I had… Read more »

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Wild man -” well I’m 56 so maybe being older has something to do with it. Like I don’t see any reason to try too hard – seems sort of beneath me. I don’t want to sound condescending about it but I don’t see the point, if I gotta try too hard it’s not worth it, – giving up some frame – that is going to make me feel a little less secure – might lead to some anxiety – who needs that? – the lady needs to realize I am qualifying her too – if she can’t get that… Read more »

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redlight,

Heh. Chicks, go figure.

They, evidently, are easily driven mad by fantasy.

I attribute most of this to the sad lack of true masculinity, along with a feminine primary social media. Everyone takes what ” girls ” do and think way too seriously. That too, fueled by the FI friendly media and marketing machines.

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@Yacrazy,
I know a friend of mine have a 4 inch long cock, he had tiny testicles too and LOTS of hair, his girlfriend loved small cocks, she told him all women LOVE 4 inch long cocks.

Ron jermy was the most popular sought after guy in the real deal too, women loved him. I suggest every guy should strive to look like him.

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@Yareally

It happened that a Fox caught its tail in a trap, and in struggling to release himself lost all of it but the stump.

At first he was ashamed to show himself among his fellow foxes. But at last he determined to put a bolder face upon his misfortune, and summoned all the foxes to a general meeting to consider a proposal which he had to place before them.

When they had assembled together the Fox proposed that they should all do away with their tails.

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Impromptu James Deen results so far….

5 responses

Everyone is referring to this guy.

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I was also informed that he is not a porn star because he’s been dead, like forever.

The quest continues.

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Keyser @8:36 pm is a cut n paste of his previous comment here:

http://therationalmale.com/2015/11/15/dont-hate-the-beta/comment-page-7/#comment-129099

reruns

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Srib, That was the meanest shit I have ever read launched at you. Uncalled for. For what I know in my life and from what you have written, I can feel your pain. There is just to much hate on this site and contributors need to help each other more. What do you want, that is most important, in the life that you have left? I would say it is reconnecting with your daughter? Then post that and ask for help. See what happens. Hopefully these smart guys on this board can help, btw being cool won’t. Do not put… Read more »

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…6 more ” who?” responses re: James Deen.

Total=11 idk’s

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@redlight,
Thanks so much for finding that comment for me and the rest of the Yareally fan club.
Now more commenters would read it.

Ps,
That was my plan , dipstick.

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Bingo – correct response given by 5’5”, 200 lb female security guard. ” Porn guy “.

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Shit. Okay, I’m accidently triggering a James Deen Google search.

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@Blax

Lol. For science!

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@Forge

Yeah. I’m living proof that science should be left to scientist.

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@Waco – Thanks man, But I’m confused, did you actually read what I wrote? Is it too harsh for your to accept? My daughter’s gone. She doesn’t see me as her Dad. We didn’t have a fight, there is nothing to mend, she’s just not interested in having a relationship with me on any terms. When I discovered this, yeah, then we had a big fight but her attitude and behavior towards me preceded all that and was on the decline to this point for over a decade. Listen, she got married in August, didn’t invite me. Are you getting… Read more »

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“I’m only 5’8″ but I can’t tell you how many times women I’ve been with are surprised when that fact comes out. They tell me “you aren’t short” and most guess my height at 5’11” lol. Just like your muscles.

My old GF used to get offended when I’d buy size small t-shirts. I’m a trim guy and don’t do baggy. But it conflicted with her image of me. Hah, I had a good 5 inches on her and she loved feeling small.

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Lol….oh shit.

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” . . . women’s porn usually is text based, it’s stories that strum emotional cords (chords, too).” Except for the final scene, which was added after the movie was already in the can to try to save it, Casablanca is 100% chic porn. That’s why I like the “inferior” remake (same director, story by Hemingway, script by Faulkner, weepy Bergman replaced by cynical Bacall) better. It’s about as close as you’re going to get to Bogie being matched with an equal. Bacall (sarcastically): Give her my love. Bogie (ha ha only seriously): If she was wearing that, I’d give… Read more »

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“Chicks be crazy.”

This is what men, through all of recorded history until about 1990, thought was an ideal male form:

http://www.lib-art.com/imgpainting/3/9/7993-theseus-and-the-centaur-antonio-canova.jpg

Contemporary culture is batshit insane.

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@Liz “You could probably (in a joking way) saying something like, “So you’re saying I have poor taste?”” Heh, clever. I feel like I’ve used a variant of that one before, it could be good for a giggle and blush – if she’s not actually all that insecure, otherwise we run into the issue YaReally hits on. @YaReally “Try complimenting them on their other attributes instead of their looks. Don’t try to boost their self esteem about something they’re insecure about, shift gears and pick something they’re proud of where they’ll accept your compliments. If you had a small dick… Read more »

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Right Said Fred:

Richard had come out as bisexual in 1991 to The Sun. Richard’s long term partner, from the early 1980s until the early 2000s, was Stuart Pantry, a BBC make-up artist. At the end In 2007, Richard said “I have never described myself as completely gay”

so you would get along fine with him

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@redlight – Ylvis – didn’t know there was this Ylvis thing – 2nd time today you giving me stuff that I am getting a big chuckle out of. Thanks for that man!

I watched 3 Ylvis vids now, since I saw you post above. Why are the Norse hitting the sweet spot of the current cultural lunacy? (the Swedes apparently think the Norse are dense in the head, or so I have heard from a Swedish lady I know.) Not so fast! This Ylvis is my new favorite thing (for today anyway).

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Scribblerg “Keyser both. They have infantile ideas about our world and politics ”

You know what scribblerg….delete all the books you read about politics from your brain, and start reading about Real Politik. AND start reading the memoir of politicians ، believe half of what they write, and viola! .(just ask kissinger)

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@redlight,
The last time I was told by a woman that I was gay for not responding to her advances, and this is the second time.

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Gentlemen, we can’t fight here

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UAeqVGP-GPM

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@ky

try to get out more

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Rollo, if your next article is about Open Hypergamy, you might like this:

http://youtu.be/tXhEJGtQTds

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next article is about Open Cuckoldry, but that’s Rollo’s baby, not mine

for nsfw visuals:

https://www.reddit.com/r/hotwife

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ScribblerG: Sorry that your situation with your daughter is that bad. She has burned her bridges with you, gotta let her go for now. Children suck. You are likely to give more than you get, that is just the way it is. She could have offed herself or ODed even with an intact family. Children in their 20s are often very self centered and self focused and don’t grow out of that until 30 or so quite often. I am aware of parental alienation. It’s something I worry about with my small children. My ex left me for someone she… Read more »

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Oh yeah guys, hit the gym.

Not for chicks, for your life.

+1
No time for gym? No money for gym?

Try this: http://hundredpushups.com/
Even back when I was working 50 + hour weeks with a one hour
commute each way (that’s 12 on, 12 off) I could have done this much.

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Better yet, 20 pushups, 20 inverted rows. 20 dips, 20 pull ups and 20 squats. It’s all you need to conquer centaurs. You can do them all during the commercials of one half hour TV show a week if you do them with maximum intensity.

The only excuse is fuckarounditis.

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Hey Rollo what are your thoughts on cheating wives getting exposed? https://youtu.be/7-nYCOSDXXk

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@Wild Man “I have to admit something about all this PUA makes me uncomfortable and I have to start to consider that might have a lot to do with my own issues of identity.” This. It’s your ego trying to protect itself. One of the hardest parts for new guys, especially older guys coming back into the game, is that they have all these shitty mindsets and bad wiring and bad habits, or even habits and mindsets that WERE good when they were younger and in a different stage of their life but are obsolete and hold them back now,… Read more »

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Comment in mod (so many fuckin URLs lol), watch this space!

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“Bingo – correct response given by 5’5”, 200 lb female security guard. ” Porn guy “.

Thanks for doing this casual poll. The results are turning out pretty much exactly how I’d expected. The only woman i know who watches a lot of porn has gender diasporia. But she’s thirty, not twenty.

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Found a link to this newspiece on Deen in an Elle article:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bxzjEKJJ60

So glad (for the jillionth time) I don’t have daughters. Good grief.

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@Liz “Good grief.” I don’t know about that Liz. If you take the porn out of the equation that is James Deen, look at him in the video and he seems charming. He, in the newspiece seems to breezily pass the shit tests thrown at him in a Corey Worthington, …Umm, Sorry?….. type of way. Look at his eye contact when talking to the interviewer. His confidence when he is talking to others.It is quite engaging. You can see why a young girl/woman would gravitate toward a James Deen. Besides the porn, of course, I could see my 23 year… Read more »

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Thanks for that Dr. Phil vid. The looks of indignation from the HB5’s and HB6’s in the first segment are priceless! Appreciate what you post here. It helps many of us.

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Saw that Nikki Glaser carp after South Park. Felt nothing but pity for the orbiters she put on blast. Now they’re humiliated for posterity – didn’t feel faked.

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That link is fucked up. Men parading their cuckoldry for red dot upvotes? Wow. Just wow. How blue pill do you gotta be to that to sit right with you as a man?

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“I don’t know about that Liz. If you take the porn out of the equation that is James Deen…”

I wouldn’t say, “good grief” about a daughter liking to watch a nice, charming dentist drilling teeth.
Porn IS the equation. Particularly since it looks like his fan base is comprised of a bunch of 15,16, 17 year old girls. No, I would not like my daughter to be a porn star subscriber at that age.

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Not his entire fan base, but a good portion of his fanbase should’ve said, above.

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Somehow this is appropriate I think:

https://www.facebook.com/malcolmstewart32/videos/1652168638358189/

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“Porn IS the equation. Particularly since it looks like his fan base is comprised of a bunch of 15,16, 17 year old girls. No, I would not like my daughter to be a porn star subscriber at that age.”

…….and James Deen’s surprising advice for those teen fans:…..”Umm, turn 18 and buy porn…..”

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@Keyser – Keep posting and emitting you neanderthal rhetoric, it just confirms who you are. Funniest? Criticizing me for reading books. Or trying to make some assertion about Kissinger, what, do you not think I don’t realize he’s a war criminal and a scumbag? I could school you on that for 5000 words without looking up a thing if you like, starting with the Paris Peace talks in ’68 and the Nixon campaign.

This is just getting funny now. I actually like pressing Keyser and ADS’s buttons…

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@SJF – Indeed, imperturbability is quite important. It results from becoming your own point of mental origin and being socially intelligent. For me, I’ve had like one actual argument in the past 1.5 years IRL. People here who think I run around sorting everyone out or getting into conflict because I punch idiots around here rhetorically are confused. I use aggression to suit my purposes, and no, nothing said on this site has caused any aggravation for me in a long time. I do find that I’m more aggressive than ever at times now though. It’s interesting, one of my… Read more »

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Re: Deen – I think many beta/Blue Pill men axiomatically feel shame and inadequacy when they watch porn as they see what they never get. It reinforces their sense of failure and hence is destructive to their identities. Interestingly, I cosign what YaReally has noted about how porn has evolved. Whereas in the past it was so stilted and plastic, today it’s amateurs and young women from all walks of life give it a go when financially desperate. I fucked a girl who did three porn movies for a while. She told me afterwards and I went and watched them.… Read more »

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Remember guys, girls just want to have “fun” – read as “cock”.
http://cdn.uberhavoc.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/bizarre-brides-weddings-grooms-20.jpg

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I tend to agree with scribbler yet again. Porn hurts guys more through a demonstration of what they’re not getting, not from seeing attractive/ripped guys or huge dicks. It’s the demonstration of the fun they might be having, that they can’t get, that really fucks guys over. Men biologically *need* sex, it’s not even a question. But getting sex from women requires social development that is not automatic in men. So when you give blue-pill guys who have had anti-masculine values shoved on them their whole lives, the same visual stimulus their body says they need, they’ll substitute. It doesn’t… Read more »

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@ YaReally

I’d like to know what you use text for with <25 yos. What do older women use text for? Hookups mostly, I think, along with random social stuff they are doing, based on what I've seen. Ok, why do I care what older women are doing, lol? Some are in my social circle and I'm curious.

@ Liz

As long as we're talking about pron and your 300 lb carcass…

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It’s like we know that availability reduces their value so much.

For me I don’t think it’s even that. It’s the same reason I won’t date strippers: you have to be mentally broken to be in porn or a stripper. I’ve never met a chick who did either that wasn’t buried somewhere deep in Cluster B psychological territory.

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Personally, in this last year I’ve gotten way more mileage out of just trying to give value to every person I meet and interaction I have. That right there will make your social circle’s growth explode and put the game on easy mode. Just kill your ego. Stop listening to that little voice that demands validation from all external sources and is constantly worried about what the world thinks. Ego is threatened by giving other people legit credit and compliments and seeing their strengths. If you just go around building people up….it’s like Johnny Appleseed, except, like in 40 year… Read more »

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@Liz “Porn IS the equation. Particularly since it looks like his fan base is comprised of a bunch of 15,16, 17 year old girls. No, I would not like my daughter to be a porn star subscriber at that age.” lol tons of girls are having actual flat out sex by age 15 these days. Sex is so not taboo anymore and all their role models in the media are super sexual, why WOULDN’T they? Go feminism lol That’s why James isn’t really phased by young people being interested in sex, he knows when the reporters ask they’re asking from… Read more »

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@Ya – Yeah, I was only focusing on the porn, not the camgirls.I haven’t looked into it that closely but your technology forecast is spot on. I do disagree with one point. My friend was socially destroyed by guys and girls for doing porn, recently. There is a huge social stigma for doing porn. She’s been trying to date and have a BF for 3 years since and every time when they find out, they bail on her. The occasional mean girl will post something about her porn career with regularity, it’s quite common for porn stars to go through… Read more »

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@ YaReally That’s also why when people are like “oh, YaReally you just want to jump from girl to girl, what about if your prostate enlarges… Heh. From Web MD: All his life, he slept like a stone. But now, there’s an annoying trip to the bathroom every night, sometimes once or twice a night. For most men, these nightly bathroom runs may be the first sign of an enlarged prostate. Other symptoms may include trouble starting a stream of urine, leaking, or dribbling. And, like gray hair, an enlarged prostate is a natural by-product of getting older, doctors say.… Read more »

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” I cold approach all ages…all body types…all SMVs….all genders just women, lol.” For one of us older guys, you certainly have the “no homo” thing down, complete with self-depricating, “ha ha, only serious” tag of plausible deniability. Give it up. Saying “Jeeeeeezus, this weather is crap,” to some guy you pass on the street is a cold approach, and who knows, in a year or three that guy might turn out to be the best friend you ever had. Cold approaching isn’t about getting laid, it’s about developing a broad spectrum of power, based on social proof. Which, as… Read more »

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kfg, put on your party hat…that was a gag…sure, I talk with men I don’t know…just can’t please some people

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Liz on young women who sub to Deen’s website:

Which would also include opening herself up to junk mail, targetted advertisements, and lots and lots of SPAM.

So?
That’s the norm for a lot of people now, right?

So? So what?

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@KFG – Yeah, KFG, get in line, the master was speaking…

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@KFG – I mean, he hasn’t fucked another woman since before the Mac was launched, but hey, just shut up and salute goddammit!

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@scribblerg Talked with a lot of strippers in the past, mostly through friends that were dumb enough to date them. I don’t hit up strip clubs. Doesn’t interest me. 100% of them were loopy as fuck with issues out the ass. That developed in to me giving the advice to any friend looking to date a stripper to just not do it. I realize there’s exceptions to any rule, but if a particular profession attracts that many headcases it’s a good rule of thumb to just avoid them and look elsewhere. I expect most porn starlets to pretty much fit… Read more »

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@ scribbler

I mean, he hasn’t fucked another woman since before the Mac was launched, but hey, just shut up and salute goddammit!

Classified.

So nice you’re thinking about me.

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@Sun – Wow, dude, thanks for the brutal honesty. What you say makes so much sense, i’m trying to read you via only some comments I read and have no idea where you really are at. After a lifetime of self-loathing and rage at myself, wow, i can relate. For me, the dive I took deep into my soul earlier had me finally face this squarely. What I saw was this: – It wasn’t true. The things I hated myself for were not real. It was essentially a loss of perspective. – They mostly still were a reflection of my… Read more »

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Did you make your own videos with the porn star?

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For children and women, any attention will do…

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@ Sun

I don’t get it. If you’re being funny, why are you angry? Aren’t you being funny because you’re having fun?

And the frustration…are you setting your mission as getting laid or just making some improvements?

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@ scribbler

For children and women, any attention will do…

lol, nice comback

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@ Sun Wukong

“You seem pretty awesome to me, truly. ……. but just know that some of us out here wants what’s best for you and are rooting for you.”

I’ll damn sure cosign that.

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@ASD Gamer: Q.E.D., lol. Bear in mind as well that the reason I so seldom directly address the person whom I am quoting is because my comment is not primarily intended to edify them, but is aimed primarily at the more general audience up in the peanut galleries. You just be my springboard and shit. @Sun (direct address used to distinguish my following comment from that to the Autist}: “But women as a group? Eh… I wish there weren’t so many fatties . . .” For the sake of the general social atmosphere I agree, but there is a certain… Read more »

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For those who are politically-inclined, I posted about Barak Obama’s Beta Game to reduce the power and influence of the United States in which I posit that, contrary to critics such as Rush Limbaugh, Barak Obama is not incompetent and is achieving his goals.

https://theasdgamer.wordpress.com/2015/12/04/barak-obamas-beta-game/

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@Sun & @Glenn

Co-sign me to the Self-loathing and rage club… been there, done that. At some point you have to forgive yourself and move on.

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some of us out here wants what’s best for you and are rooting for you.”

I’ll damn sure cosign that.

+1

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@Rollo: off-topic, would you want to ask Milo Y. anything? He is doing an “Ask me anything” on Reddit next week.

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@ kfg

Saying “Jeeeeeezus, this weather is crap,” to some guy you pass on the street is a cold approach, and who knows, in a year or three that guy might turn out to be the best friend you ever had.

Cold approaching isn’t about getting laid, it’s about developing a broad spectrum of power, based on social proof. Which, as it happens, will tend to get you laid in the long run.

So, who will you end up fucking? Your new best friend? I’m not in a hurry to sign up…

lolz

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@Ben – No, I’ve never made a video of me having sex with the girl who did porn, nor with any other woman. I don’t do pix or vids, that’s just not my thing. Girls send me naked pix though, of course. She sent me tons. Fyi, she wasn’t a crazy chick at all, very grounded actually. Just not very sophisticated, very selfish and desperate for cash.

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@KFG – At all costs, do not edify me…Lol. I do so because it helps keep a thread easier to track.

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some of us out here wants what’s best for you and are rooting for you.”
I’ll damn sure cosign that.

-1

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@scribblerg

” Girls send me naked pix though, of course. She sent me tons. ”
…..lol

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@ASD Gamer: “So, who will you end up fucking? Your new best friend?”

Autism, confirmed.

@Scribbler: “I do so because it helps keep a thread easier to track.”

That is often true as well. Bear in mind that the “general audience” does not include any identifiable individual. It’s a purely abstract, statistical concept that is mostly comprised of people who do not comment.

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This sort of communication is kinda bizarre.

We speak into a void, and the void answers with small and disembodied voices.

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Thanks, guys. Doin’ what I can.

@Andy

http://i2.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/237/988/ea3.gif

Your hate only makes me stronger. Keep it comin, sweetheart.

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“Liz on young women who sub to Deen’s website: Which would also include opening herself up to junk mail, targetted advertisements, and lots and lots of SPAM. So? That’s the norm for a lot of people now, right? So? So what?” So what, indeed. In the 90s, it was considered a funny, razzy-style gag gift to sign one’s friend up for some ‘pervert of the month’ mailing list where he or she would get lots of porn junk mail. Junk mail they couldn’t get away from. It would follow them for months and years. And when they’d go on trips… Read more »

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“I just didn’t think any normal person would elect to do something like that intentionally.”

Welcome to the new normal, and if you think it’s strange now, just wait another 10 years when the under 12s hit adulthood. Most of those kids are already fucked beyond repair.

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@Sun Wukong

I think you have a major asset that you should start leaning on in the field, man.

You are super honest with yourself. Don’t lose that.

What are you doing right now to improve your situation, out of curiosity?

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“Welcome to the new normal, and if you think it’s strange now, just wait another 10 years when the under 12s hit adulthood. Most of those kids are already fucked beyond repair.”

That hits home pretty hard.
So, I guess my future grandchildren will be born from some twelve year old girl who is probably getting it up the ass as I type?
Excellent new world. Happy days. Kind of reminds me of the new economy.

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@Sun Wukong

“As for gaming fatties and uggos, I think I’m just tired of them as a group. It’s not anger or hate, it’s just a complete and utter lack of interest in even practicing on them.”

Now everything makes perfect sense.

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“So, I guess my future grandchildren will be born from some twelve year old girl who is probably getting it up the ass as I type?”

Always a remnant. Might have to look for a suitable mate for the boys.

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Liz In the 90s, Let me rewrite that for you: Twenty plus years ago Duzzat help with your perspective? You and Toto and everyone else are not in Kansas anymore. it was considered a funny, razzy-style gag gift to sign one’s friend up for some ‘pervert of the month’ mailing list where he or she would get lots of porn junk mail. Junk mail they couldn’t get away from. Well, see, Liz, there’s these other ways to deliver things now. There’s a company called “Federal Express” that specializes in putting packages on people’s doorsteps for a fee. There’s another one… Read more »

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So, I guess my future grandchildren will be born from some twelve year old girl who is probably getting it up the ass as I type? Maybe. Maybe not. Whatcha gonna do about it, besides wring your hands? Either way, the world is what it is. It’s not the 1980’s with furtive VHS rental from the private room in the back, porn is ubiquitous and amateur cam-porn has become so big in the last few years that it’s apparently affecting the bottom line of the California porn industry – anything that they can do and charge for, someone is likely… Read more »

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