The Truth About Standards

Most men never vet women for anything like long term acceptability. A lot of guys would have you believe they have high standards for the women they self-righteously allow into their lives, but for the most part this is internet posturing from Trad-Cons and ‘spergs‘ who’d like their circle of virtual friends to believe they have more options, or more learn-ed wisdom, than other men. After-the-fact rationalizations about how discerning a guy was in choosing his wife or girlfriend are a necessary insulation for men’s egos when they come into the Red Pill community. They get uncomfortable when the Red Pill Lens forces them to take a better look at their own choices.

The flip side to this are the guys who’ve already been burned by a woman, and by association the totality of Gynocentrism. They also tend to reverse engineering their lack of vetting. A wife who was once his Quality Woman becomes the bitch who turned on him – the living example of all women and their Hypergamous nature. Likewise, these guys never truly vetted their ex. In someways they may have been as equally naive about the nature of women as the guy still married and self-convinced that he’s done his due diligence in selecting the perfect mate.

Now add to all this a religious belief-set that is founded on marriages staying solid foundations of family formation and resistant to divorce (thus ensuring contentment and righteous living). Here we add another layer of self-blinding on top of men’s haphazard long-term mating strategy founded on his necessitousness. Surely a man’s true religion is the key to a loving and happy wife, appreciative children, strong family ties and quality of life? Men will always seek validation in the choices they invested their lives in – particularly in the face of realities that contradict them.

All of this is related to men’s long term mating strategy. I’ve written extensively on men’s innate mating strategy and the existential importance of men ensuring their own paternity. But just as women’s Hypergamy is a manifestation of their biological nature, so too are men’s imperatives in their own mating strategies. However, a distinction needs to be made with respect to Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks equalist comparisons with women’s strategies. Men and women’s mating imperatives are both antagonistic and complementary depending on the nature of the men and women coming together to reproduce.

Men’s innate, unconditioned, biological imperative is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. Left to his own volition, and unimpaired by women’s Hypergamous filtering strategies, men’s innate drive is to opt for variety of sexual experience.

Critics will counter with “Well, women look for variety too dontcha think?”

While there is some truth in this, women’s desire for broader sexual experience is motivated by a search for better quality in the men she has sex with, not quantity per se. Monogamy (as we know it) is really a tool for low SMV men to socially ensure reproduction and paternity (at least in theory).

For men the motivation is about quantity. Yes, men love variety in women. Yes, men would rather there be no hindrance to getting to that sexual experience with that variety. This is why pornography is ubiquitous today, and has always been a motivator for men – unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. There’s a reason why young Muslim men are promised 70 virgins in paradise if they martyr themselves. Variety and ensured paternity, even if it has to be in the afterlife, is clearly a strong motivator for men. Rockstars and religious zealots all strive for the same goal, they just come to it in different ways.

Priorities

Men are so motivated by sexual experience that it supersedes the need for food. Research shows brain cells specific to men fire up when mates are present and override the need to eat. Take this as you will, but it does reinforce the idea that for men, sex is in fact a biological need.

Left unhindered human (Alpha) males will opt for securing multiple breeding partners; in some cases sequestering them for his long-term use. Locking away harems in secured compounds is something powerful men have done since our tribalistic past. Secure mates – secure paternity with them. There’s a reason why eunuchs guarded harems. The notion that men and women were ever naturally monogamous is an idealistic social convention. True monogamy in the animal kingdom is an extreme outlier. It’s just this prioritization of sexual opportunity that makes vetting women for monogamy compete with reproductive opportunism.

Strategic Pluralism

Most men are not Alpha males. The vast majority of men in this life and in eras past only had sexual access to a precious few women in their lives – if at all. Even in social conditions that rewarded monogamy and punished infidelity men and women have always found ways to manifest their antagonistic mating strategies. As few as 8,000 years ago (post agrarianism) 1 male reproduced for every 17 females. And as few as 4,000 years ago women were out-reproducing men. Again, read and make your own conclusions, but the point is human mating strategies find ways to circumvent social conventions.

On paper, monogamy is not a bad idea. As a social convention monogamy has been a stabilizing force in human evolution, but it in no way aligns with our innate sexual proclivities. Monogamy is a sexual strategy that primarily benefits low SMV men because most men will never experience (relatively) unlimited access to unlimited sexuality outside of pornography.

In Red Pill spheres we encourage men to consider themselves the prize. I personally believe that the most important step in unplugging a guy from his Blue Pill conditioning starts by internalizing the concept of Mental Point of Origin, but why is this often the most difficult step for men? It’s hard to think of oneself as a ‘winner’ when all a guy has done is lose for most of his life. The numbers don’t add up, and all the pep rallies a guy can pay for wont account for much until the day a girl actually responds to the “new you“. Feeling good about yourself is great, but most men want a solution to their sexlessness. Remember, sex really is that important to your male hindbrain. Food < Sex, got it?

According to Strategic Pluralism Theory (Gangestad & Simpson, 2000), men have evolved to pursue reproductive strategies that are contingent on their value on the mating market. More attractive men accrue reproductive benefits from spending more time seeking multiple mating partners and relatively less time investing in offspring. In contrast, the reproductive effort of less attractive men, who do not have the same mating opportunities, is better allocated to investing heavily in their mates and offspring and spending relatively less time seeking additional mates.

From Why Is Muscularity Sexy? Tests Of The Fitness Indicator Hypothesis

A lot of men get confused about the masculine imperative, but for the most part I think Strategic Pluralism Theory outlines most of mens’ mating strategies. In the Pareto Principle I delved into how women separate men into different sub-groups. The popularized oversimplification of this goes something like this:

“20% of men are fucking 80% of women.”

This is a misnomer. Granted, it used to have the good intention of getting men to believe that a small percentage of guys are having sex with a majority of women, and well, it might as well be them, right?

I’m sure that was meant to be a kind of motivational encouragement for guys learning Game, but it’s effectively wrong. The reality is 100% of women are interested in fucking about 20% of guys. We can see this repeatedly illustrated in various online dating stats and the realities of what Tinder has done to the SMP. But that’s the principle, not the practice. Just because a woman wants to get with a twentieth percentile man in no way means she will be getting with that guy. The issue here is the want not the get.

The Scarcity Mentality

Most men live in a state of sexual scarcity. So to implore a man to believe he’s actually the prize, or he should consider himself the prize, is an alien thought to him. Whether he acknowledges it consciously, his hindbrain understands the realities of his present-state sexual market value and it understands the reproductive equation it’s tasked with solving in (hopefully) a prosocial way.

Any time a woman actually shows an intimate interest in a low SMV man he will instinctively overlook the “deal breakers” his rational mind would otherwise give him pause to consider. Remember, sex supersedes hunger in the evolved scope of things for men. There are no considerations for ‘red flags’ with a woman when reproduction is of more strategic importance to his hindbrain.

When I’m listening to shows like Before the Train Wreck I hear the same predictable problems voiced by young men over and over again. There are consistent red flags these man should’ve seen before committing to a woman. And as a third party to this, we’re always dumbfounded by how the guy couldn’t have seen the signs before acting or committing to a woman’s mating strategy in order to facilitate a compromised version of his own strategy. Men’s rational process (particularly young men’s) are bypassed by sexual instinct and the hindbrain realization that his breeding opportunities are few and far between.

75% of college men would agree to have sex with a (semi-attractive) female they just met on campus while 0% of women would do the same with an unfamiliar male. Most men simply do not vet women for long term compatibility. The nature of our biology and our access to reproductive opportunities makes vetting a hindrance to solving a reproductive equation. In short, most men can’t afford to miss out on breeding opportunities.

As I outlined in Instinct, Emotion and Reason, our rational process requires time to be fully useful to us. The Instinct and Emotional processes are far quicker in their assessments and immediate effect on us. While men may innately prioritize reason before emotion, Instinct beats all other processes in speed and efficiency – if not accuracy. In our feminine-primary social order we further complicate (and disadvantage) men today by teaching them that their emotional response is the “correct” one to base decisions on. We conditions men to prioritize the Emotional process from a very early age. Again, all this makes actually vetting a woman for intimate acceptability almost offensive to the average (Beta) man today.

And this discomfort with holding any standards for women to receive his intimate approval also serves women’s sexual strategy.

You Just Got Lucky

There is a social aspect that comes into play with respect to men pairing up with women. As western societies have become more gynocentric the need to establish limitations on men’s mating strategies, and the simultaneous unfettering of women’s strategies, becomes apparent. In short, men simply aren’t allowed to hold standards for women to follow. And it’s offensive for men (not women) to even suggest the criteria women might need to ‘live up to‘ for men’s consideration of commitment.

Rich Cooper’s engagement on this one Tweet should illustrate what I’m getting into here. I’ve seen other variations of this message serve as outrage fodder for local news programs. The point is that a man making even marginal requirements for a man’s investment in a woman is met with extreme hostility. If your goal is getting social engagement there’s no better way to get it than by having the audacity to tell women they should qualify to a man – in any context. The idea that there is a man somewhere on planet earth who would voice his conditions for intimacy with women is unconscionable in gynocentric society.

But why? Why do women and their ‘allies‘ become so incensed by this? Because it commits the cardinal sin of the female power structure; it removes a degree of control away from women’s Hypergamous choice. If a woman must qualify to a man – in any context – it also sins against the maxim of the Strong Independent Woman®:

Never do anything for the express purpose of pleasing a man.

Notice how hostile women become when any man would place conditions on his terms for intimacy/commitment. This is a challenge to women’s unilateral control of Hypergamy in the social order. But more so, it is an affront to women’s Existential Fear:

The Existential Fear in women is that their innate Hypergamous Filter, their Feminine Intuition, might be fooled, and by being fooled she may either die or have her reproductive potential compromised for her lifetime by bearing and raising the child of man who is a suboptimal Hypergamous choice for her – a man who exerted his will over her Hypergamous choosing filters.

That a Beta male would ever hold conditions for his commitment triggers indignation in women.

Even Alpha men must never put terms on their commitment; men should feel blessed that any woman would have them. When Beta men reflexively default to social self-deprecation around their wives or LTR we see this social convention confirmed. We are conditioned to feel “lucky” that a woman lowered her standards to accept a man as her mate.

This is the intersexual poker game women play with men on whole. Entitlement, solipsism, anxiety over optimizing Hypergamy, all that competes with the foreknowledge that her attractiveness will decay over time. Women’s hindbrains know that their sex appeal, their agency in achieving that optimization, is ultimately perishable. Now add to this the anxiety that a Beta male might ‘trick’ her into choosing him as a mate and you can see why the Sisterhood will rally against men holding any demands for their interest in a woman.

Men often acquiesce to the mindset that they ought to feel fortunate that a woman would ever have them. They also foster this necessitousness in other men, usually as a form of Beta Game.

This endemic sense of metaphysical gratitude is what prevents men from even considering having standards for women. It also polices other men from holding standards themselves. How dare you be so arrogant as to expect a woman to live up to your demands? Just be glad the gods took pity on you and granted you a wife when so many Incels are at home with dick in hand. Tsk, tsk.

When a man ever has the temerity to evaluate women’s worth he’s made into a pariah. Today we expel boys from school for making lists rating the girls in their classes. Meanwhile women develop apps to do exactly the same for the men they’ve dated to inform other women. In a fem-centric social order only women are allowed to hold standards. This fact is a manifestation of a larger power dynamic between the sexes today.

A list of qualities a woman should have to please a man, to hold his long-term interests, goes viral and makes the evening news. Those men then become the easy, chauvinistic, villain to hate – “Can you believe that men like this still exist?!”

Eligible Bachelors

In my last post I made mention of how women were in crisis mode about the lack of ‘economically attractive’ men today. The articles about this crisis center on the idea of “eligible” men. Even the wildly popular show The Bachelor is built around the idea of men’s ‘eligibility’ to be considered for women’s approval. Qualify. Prove your quality. Be worthy of a woman’s love. Be ‘eligible’.

A female-primary social order – an order dedicated to maintaining feminine social control – needs to ruthlessly control which man is eligible for women’s consideration. It’s never the other way around. ‘Eligible’ is a way of psychologically maintaining a superior station of value for women.

Always bear in mind, women break rules for Alpha men and make rules for Beta men. But on a social scale it helps maintain the power imbalance if even Alpha men believe the same mythologies as Beta men.

This essay is the first in a series meant to establish a hierarchy of relationship needs that men might consider to help them accurately vet the women they allow into their lives and to enact these standards.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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Hey I hate to break up your pity party. 🎉

But recall you were the one who would not give in to her demands of exclusivity. You essentially dumped her.

Knock this shit off. Go get laid.

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Reading the posts here and building on my own reply Id like to add a couple more thoughts. Being an Alpha male is a lonely world. For a red pill aware alpha male there is a real disconnect from the ovewhelming blue bill beta world that we experience, observe everyday, interac with, all the time. You actually feel quite isolated, but on the other hand you don’t mind one bit. It just makes you become more of an observer rather than a participant in a blue pill world. But also, with red pill awareness brings, I feel, a real responsiblity… Read more »

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“If you have no competence or ability then you have to fold or you’ll get your arse kicked by whatever species of beast you’re up against.”

The Honey Badger, he doesn’t give a shit.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4r7wHMg5Yjg

[I piss every time I watch this lolz]

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All men feel pain. I just compartmentalize, put it on a shelf. The past has no bearing on the future, so why let it control you?

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“Being an Alpha male is a lonely world”
I don’t agree. Just because all the soccer dads sit together and chum it up, doesn’t mean they have some super connection to each other. It’s all pretty fake to me.
Everyone’s lonely.
Women are lonely even though there is 100 “contacts” on the phone and 1000 men in the “like” inbox online. That’s why she drove up from the coast and is sleeping in my bed right now.

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@Palma Men stealing some of a kill from a lion. That speaks volumes. @Sentient You recall correctly. I proved how incongruent with my Frame I was after having a needy meltdown with her and since then, no more sex with the ex. That’s over and dead and I should have really known better, should have known what would happen. I forgot that neediness is a no-no, regardless of your history with women. You do not get a pass just because you’ve been in a relationship and had sex with them thousands of times. My mind was just not strong enough… Read more »

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Monogamy very well may not be “natural”, but the entire human social order isn’t strictly “natural” either, in the sense that it is just a collection of people who are each following their raw instincts. Monogamy is a social practice that developed among tribes for adaptive reasons — namely to cut down on intra-tribal violence relating to mating access, generate greater buy-in and solidarity among males of the tribe, both of which allowed tribes to grow over a certain size and achieve greater things (like conquering and absorbing other tribes and their space/women). Nice literature. Monogamy is an extreme social… Read more »

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He calls himself Novaseeker

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Red Pilled about the Red Pill. There can be only one.

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Never saw a rooster kill another rooster, huh?

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Young whippersnapper

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@Palma Yes, there’s that. But that would be just bat to the fence. And then there’s Bruce Lee and his 1-inch-punch: https://youtu.be/kXwOU5HzTZQ The how: https://www.popularmechanics.com/science/health/a3093/the-science-of-bruce-lees-one-inch-punch-16814527/ Although Lee’s fist travels a tiny distance in mere milliseconds, the punch is an intricate full-body movement. According to Jessica Rose, a Stanford University biomechanical researcher, Lee’s lightning-quick jab actually starts with his legs. … Because the punch happens over such a short amount of time, Lee has to synchronize each segment of the jab—his twisting hip, extending knees, and thrusting shoulder, elbow, and wrist—with incredible accuracy. Furthermore, each joint in Lee’s body has a… Read more »

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Because the punch happens over such a short amount of time, Lee has to synchronize each segment of the jab—his twisting hip, extending knees, and thrusting shoulder, elbow, and wrist—with incredible accuracy. Furthermore, each joint in Lee’s body has a single moment of peak acceleration, and to get maximum juice out of the move, Lee must layer his movements so that each period of peak acceleration follows the last one instantly.

Yup.

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“We have to be very careful, when dealing with humans, to avoid baptizing as normal/desirable that which is merely “natural” in a sense that is determined apart from the need for stable social relations — that distorts much more than it enlightens when were are discussing an inherently highly complex social species like homo sapiens.” Chapter 26 of You Are Not So Smart by David McRaney: Dunbar’s Number THE MISCONCEPTION: There is a Rolodex in your mind with the names and faces of everyone you’ve ever known. THE TRUTH: You can maintain relationships and keep up with only around 150… Read more »

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@Palma “Anyway that’s prob not perfect math, but it’s close.” Not as close, he has also initially taken higher ground= psych advantage to appear larger, footing advantage of better traction all coupled with the fall ratio is even greater advantage. Yet the younger Ibix with the lesser curl nearly unseated and uppercut him severely. There is a possibility the elder may have lost the battle without that advantage. “The dominant beast has learned that behaviour.. either by observing other fights or trialling the behaviour…” I would expect that since the beast is uninhibited mentally and has a pair of gonads,… Read more »

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“I suppose one could argue that peace and widespread prosperity weakens the need for men to be masculine. But even if that’s true, I’d rather be living now as a ‘weak’ man than in Sparta as a strong one. “ And you are not alone in that mindset. Multi-millions of men share this mode of thinking. To embrace weakness as a man is akin to a mental disorder. Men aren’t designed for weakness. Peace and prosperity doesn’t weaken the need for men to be masculine. Men allow themselves to be weakened because of peace and prosperity, or by some other… Read more »

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And then there is this Chapter 28 of You Are Not So Smart by David McRaney. The 21 Convention, and future presidents of the manosphere, take note. And a special remembrance of YaReally… Quote: “Self-Serving Bias THE MISCONCEPTION: You evaluate yourself based on past successes and defeats. THE TRUTH: You excuse your failures and see yourself as more successful, more intelligent, and more skilled than you are. In the early days of psychology there was a prevailing belief among scientists. They thought just about everyone had low self-esteem, inferiority complexes, and a cluster of self-loathing neuroses. Those old beliefs are… Read more »

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Not trolling or promoting^ tried to load one tune and got the whole set.

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This rationalizing about the alpha/beta dynamic only confuses those guys who are still afraid to go for what they want and are constricted by their own fears, limitations and Sexual Market Value. Women understand this even though they may not be able to articulate it. They’re rather be cheated on by you with a hotter girl than have to dump you because you didn’t live up to their expectations. Recently I started plating a few girls who push for something more but are very comfortable with just being fucked but fucked well on an occasional basis than having a “relationship”… Read more »

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@thedeti You must be unfailingly “Nice” and “kind”. She can treat you however she wants. You must conform to all traditional gender roles. She can conform to any roles she wants, or none at all. What can one do when he is in a game where everybody in his team agrees rules must be constantly warped to favour the opponent team? (And that has shaped in a certain way the mind of every woman?) Leave the playing field. Or play (and pay) as little as you have to in order to secure your goals, for example to pass on your… Read more »

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@walawala

Women understand this even though they may not be able to articulate it.

There is nothing they can articulate, even to themselves. So, yes.

They’re rather be cheated on by you with a hotter girl

That’s one of the things that fills them with joy, and makes them thankful for having you with them, actually.
Like all types struggling to self-determine, they can’t respect anyone who can’t hurt them. But of course it has to happen in a way that allows them to not know it.

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@aeon I’d be lying if I said I knew what comes next. But things can not continue the way they are. No one is satisfied at this point. Not women, and not men. With the exception of the very small subset of people at the very top of the pyramid, nobody is winning out there. Not really. That’s encouraging to me. In my opinion, if you suppose that Problem: nobody is winning out there (except for a very small subset of both sexes) will lead those “losing out” to find and follow intelligent solutions to improve their results… you are… Read more »

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Lmao.

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“Vickery was getting intimate with his girlfriend in a bedroom in her Fort Lauderdale home, according to the arrest report obtained by WPLG, when they heard a scratching noise coming from outside the window. Vickery went outside to go and inspect the source of the noise and allegedly found Akar standing partly naked by the window. A fight then broke out between Vickery and Akar while Vickery’s girlfriend called the police. Akar, who allegedly had a previous criminal record for prowling, was taken to the hospital after the altercation but died in the hospital from his injuries less than two… Read more »

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@TT @Aeon “I’d be lying if I said I knew what comes next.” As would we all, some of us can make an educated guess based on a interpretation of history, factoring in the modern changes. “But things can not continue the way they are.” Fortunately they never do. “No one is satisfied at this point. Not women, and not men.” Satisfaction is fleeting we all experience it, not usually while we are sitting at a keyboard. “With the exception of the very small subset of people at the very top of the pyramid, nobody is winning out there. Not… Read more »

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thankfully TT & Aeon aren’t part of the general population.

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They aren’t on the same planet.

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@AR re: considering sperm banks as a red flag Yes context matters, yet we’re talking standards to raise one’s children here. I’ve met some women in their 30’s and early 40’s who just refused to ever consider going the donor route. Those women certainly have their issues but they are not idiots and come off as solid adult humans. Those other women who are verbally careless and glib, at any age, about sperm donor options are now a no-go for me. A good vetting test after hearing such a sentiment is to seriously or laughingly ask “and raise a child… Read more »

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Great post as usual, Rollo!
I’ve been happily married for almost 20 years. I got red-pilled about three years ago. Boy am I glad I vetted my wife and had a Dad in my life that modeled how to be a man! I’ve seen way too many of my friends get raked over the coals in divorce courts. You’re the voice of sanity.

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Next essay in this series: Hypergamy doesn’t care about your vetting

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“According to Jessica Rose, a Stanford University biomechanical researcher, Lee’s lightning-quick jab actually starts with his legs. ”

No, it starts from the earth

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What happens when a girl researcher who thinks throwing a punch is just a matter of sticking your arm out real fast discovers what she could have discovered by asking anyone who knows how to throw a punch, Alex?

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Punches start from the earth?

Shit, I’m calling the gym right now. Nobody’s going to believe this!!!!

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Next essay in this series: Hypergamy doesn’t care about your vetting

Lol.
Non sequitur.

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redlight Hypergamy photo gallery: LOL @ Jeff Beta just like I did last year. As with Elon Musk’s divorces, this is proof that a man can be very rich but not at all smart about women. His new chick is going through her second divorce…child issues will be complicated…she’s over 40…not that hot…not that different from his first wife. So what’s the point? Probably the only thing he’s gaining is a girl who wants him vs. an aging girl who takes him for granted, but what’s the fix for that, again? From the pix and gossip over the last year… Read more »

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Great video

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Lol Jump and throw a punch while not grounded. Let us all know how that goes

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It’s always worked out pretty well.

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Off topic question:

Will the current national civil cold war (multiple Deep State coup attempts against the President which show no sign of abating) heat up? How should we play it in our own back yards if it does heat up?

Thoughts?

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Beers, you don’t need a surface to push off of to get force. Look at how planes and rockets work.

F (punch) = m1a1 + m2a2 +m3a3 …

hips, shoulders, legs, and arms all play a role

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“Will the current national civil cold war (multiple Deep State coup attempts against the President which show no sign of abating) heat up?”

Look and observe how people are behaving. And the trend.
The answer is yes.

“How should we play it in our own back yards if it does heat up?”

That doesn’t follow from the first question. It is divorced from that. Avoid the noise and static and keep your signals clean.

But it wouldn’t hurt to gain and preserve assets and wealth.

Thanks for bringing up a worthless debate topic. Which shouldn’t be considered debate here.
There are more pressing inter-sexual debate topics.

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“Will the current national civil cold war (multiple Deep State coup attempts against the President which show no sign of abating) heat up?”

Yes.

” How should we play it in our own back yards if it does heat up?”

Keep your eyes open and your ass covered. Avoid dead end, dark alleys. Don’t be averse to running like hell if that’s what it takes to live to fight another day. Die nobly, but only when you have decided it’s time to die and make them pay dearly for it.

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“Don’t be averse to running like hell if that’s what it takes to live to fight another day. Die nobly, but only when you have decided it’s time to die and make them pay dearly for it.” Ok that throws a thought into my mind. You are talking about playing not to lose. Which is appropriate to your demographic. And I’m slowly transitioning to. But not really. All these young guys. It seems to me, that in another realm. Not the political realm. Not the social realm (of two many cooks in the tribe. Too many fucking people who are… Read more »

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“You are talking about playing not to lose.”

More like playing with the assumption of eventual and inevitable loss.

“The younger and middle aged guys can get a handle on what is meaningful and what the right direction to head in is. Society may go down the shitter, but it doesn’t have to drag you down.”

That is essentially Douglas Murray’s (40 years old) advice and I think it quite reasonably good and not incompatible with my own:

Go to 40:39 if you want to just get right to it.

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Asd and Blaximus

You cannot fire a canon from a canoe. Why?

You two are playing stupid. I’ve read your reasoning for years. It’s invariably solid. Yet… You’re being contrarian, obtuse. You’re much smarter than this.

To generate force, one needs grounding. Foundation. A place from which to generate power. Equal and opposite reaction. Get it?

That’s your choice, like all the women with magical thinking. It’s unbecoming. Even the brightest, shrewdest individuals can be stupid, occasionally.

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Have you read “Fundamental of Physics” by Resnick & Halliday

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“Resnick & Halliday”

Technically correct, but colloquially bass ackwards.

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Surely a man’s true religion is the key to a loving and happy wife … ? Ephesians 5 says, that a man is to cleanse his wife’s mind so that he may present her to himself holy and without blemish. So actually the wife needs frequent good guidance and correction to stay reasonably content. It is correcting her errant beliefs that should make her loving and happy. That is why it is so critical to choose a young teachable one. Men’s innate, unconditioned, biological imperative is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. Which is why sex is commanded in marriage until… Read more »

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Thanks, kfg. I don’t see social breakdown in the cities where I live in flyover country. Not even close. Will the trouble be started by Antifa with serious provocations? Or will some blue states do a “soft” secession? Or will there be obvious assassination attempts against the President? Trump doesn’t look worried and I think that he should be. Probably advised by traitors. If the President understood the scope of the problem, he’d have many prosecutors running grand juries and he’d be talking a lot about treason. Maybe even get some “outside” people to start marches to show popular support.… Read more »

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“theasdgamer

Have you read “Fundamental of Physics” by Resnick & Halliday”

lol, “engineers”

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“To generate force, one needs grounding. Foundation. A place from which to generate power. Equal and opposite reaction.”

To generate a force, one needs to accelerate a mass. Rockets. Planes. Bullets. Grounding is optional.

To transfer energy, you need momentum and to move some mass some distance. You need velocity and sustained force.

Try standing on tiptoe and punching a wall if you don’t think you will hurt your hand.

“Equal and opposite reaction”

intuitive, but wrong

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Speaking of the madness of crowds… SJF have you seen any of the near daily proclamations coming out of Commiefornia?

https://www.jdsupra.com/legalnews/effective-january-1-2020-california-law-52114/

https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2019-10-14/california-new-protections-immigrants-laws-signed-gavin-newsom

Almost every day there is a new one.

And I’ll throw this in here as well…

Take a look at corporate decision making… In the I’m With Her, Me Too, Belive All Women (especially proven liars) era…

https://www.cnbc.com/amp/2019/10/21/fisher-investments-losses-hit-1point8b-as-fidelity-ends-500m-relationship.html

The Hivemind is on the march. Can you feel the vibrations?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AO9909uexu8

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Why you wanna say I’m being stupid?

😂

You made a statement, I refuted it based on experience. You make statements about women and sometimes I refute them based on experience.

Oh, and you can ride a.Canon from a canoe. Depends on the size of the Canon and the size of the canoe. Ever hear of the Spanish armada? Battleships? It’s a matter of scale. Nothing contrarian about it.

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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=r-ZvtGvLdlI

Lol. Technically you owe me a fucking apology, but I’ll let it slide.

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Last one.

…. Jump in the air, throw punch…..

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mHTCflUnko8

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Trump doesn’t look worried and I think that he should be. How would “looking worried” help? Probably advised by traitors. I doubt it. If the President understood the scope of the problem, he’d have many prosecutors running grand juries and he’d be talking a lot about treason. You truly think he doesn’t understand the scope of the problem he is being subjected to 24/7? If that’s true, he really is a moron. I don’t think that’s true. Maybe even get some “outside” people to start marches to show popular support. Most people who support Trump have something to lose. And… Read more »

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“Will the trouble be started by Antifa with serious provocations?” Yes, with a growing willingness for ordinary people just trying to get to work to push back. “Or will some blue states do a “soft” secession?” Some are already moving that way. “Trump doesn’t look worried and I think that he should be.” I think that’s just the way he is under pressure. His real enemies don’t have to worry when he gets hot, they have to worry when he gets cold. That means he’s getting down to business. Also don’t ignore the fact that he’s acting. Playing the role… Read more »

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Meanwhile tradcons, mgtows and white knights losing their minds over this dulcet note….

https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/dennis-quaid-engaged-laura-savoie

65YO Dennis “Coke” Quaid engaged to 26YO…
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[book cover for upcoming RT tome “Lonely Old Men”]
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Not all 65YOs are equal… Choice is yours.

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@Sentient I’m not a doubter of the madness of crowds. I’m not sure what to think of the Ken Fisher (investment king) situ. Either he should get a Louis C. K. boner award, or he just needs better metaphors/analogies for “its not all about sex..” @KFG Douglas Murray (The Strange Death of Europe, The Madness of Crowds) notes from the video: This is almost impossible to reverse. If it’s over, how does Douglas Murray live a good life if it all just winds down… Live a good life as if you thought to live until yesterday. People leading by example.… Read more »

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I forgot to add:

The Ken Fisher problem certainly shows that the madness of crowds is placing more mines in the minefield.

I don’t disagree things are harder. They just are.

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“In a way this is just more reality TV to him.” I’ll further note that this can actually be played as an advantage to him in some situations. Since he is obviously acting, presenting a persona, some of his enemies mistake that for him being insincere. Just an actor, a fake. But he’s not just an actor, he’s a con man. And when the con is on, he’s all in. That’s what makes the con effective. Call it Method Conning. He can recursively use that to con people who know that they are being conned. Conning other professional con men… Read more »

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kfg, Liz, my point is that if Trump understood the scope of the problem–Deep State, Soros (Antifa and “The Squad”), international socialists in other governments (remember Papadopoulos and Manafort as well as the Steele Dossier), blue state governors, sanctuary city mayors, the Democratic Party propaganda machines (aka faux news like NYT), not to mention the democratic party clowns–Trump would have twenty prosecutors leading grand juries. The current push started with the Obama admin when they sicced the CIA and FBI on Trump the candidate. None of what has been happening is accidental. There’s a combat plan that was produced by… Read more »

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Conning other professional con men who know that they are being conned is what professional con men do for fun. It’s their sport. That’s the “4D chess” that gets talked about.

He does almost seem to be enjoying himself.

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😂

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http://cdn01.cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/quaid-beach/dennis-quaid-laura-savoie-beach-vacation-04.jpg

Also a reminder that ” all girls today are fat, blue haired, tatted up sluts”…
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effects of aging on the human body

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61YO Andy Reid remains unimpressed however…

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Sentient I work with quite a few ” Andy Reid ” types, and most are in their 50’s. The closer I creep towards 60, the more I see that this whole aging thing ain’t no joke. But it just takes a bit of consistent, smart effort to not fall apart. Quaid looks good for 65 . Of course he doesn’t look like that younger version, but he’s not supposed to. I’d bet though that he’s stronger than the average 20-30 year old randomly picked off the street. One good thing about that young chick he’s with is that she can… Read more »

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“Trump has to screen lawyers to find prosecutors who can’t be bought or coerced and who aren’t part of Deep State.” As well as FBI and CIA personnel. Not to mention the senate. Entire large and powerful organizations that you have asserted were already turned against him. That don’t happen easily or overnight. Especially if you’re politically vulnerable. And the nation is a powder keg waiting to go off. And you don’t want it to. It isn’t even his party. It’s one he commandeered against it’s will. First term, lay the groundwork. Second term, launch the fight. First term Battle… Read more »

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“First term get reelected. Second term do your thing. That’s why the nation is a powder keg waiting go off. That’s why JFK had to be taken out when he was. Everybody knew what Bobby was lining up – for the second term.

Impeachment, impeachment, impeachment!

They’re trying to keep the landing craft from getting across the channel, because they know if they hit the beach, if Trump gets a second term, the battle is on.”
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Bravo! Bravo!

However…. Given the stakes, as I’ve said all along. Impeached or McKinley/JFK’d…

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“Quaid looks good for 65 . Of course he doesn’t look like that younger version, but he’s not supposed to. I’d bet though that he’s stronger than the average 20-30 year old randomly picked off the street.”

That flushed face isn’t just because a lack of adequate sunscreen. It’s from lack of adequate aromatase inhibitor. (…and not that there is anything wrong with that…)

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However…. Given the stakes, as I’ve said all along. Impeached or McKinley/JFK’d…

Yep. If he doesn’t get impeached and removed, the CIA will assassinate him. They’re behind the impeachment anyway (“whistleblower” is CIA).

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You know I was kidding with that caption right? The biggest difference between the young and old pic is in tan and photography (pro portrait vs Tele snap).

But yes Reids abound… Was getting a bite yesterday at a lunch place in an industrial area. The mass being supported by the average body was close to the point of failure. None of it muscle.

Anyhow

https://www.instagram.com/p/B3u__Z7gqhg/?hl=en

Anyhow… 57YO Lyon says “come at me bro”…

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@theasdgamer Off topic question: Will the current national civil cold war (multiple Deep State coup attempts against the President which show no sign of abating) heat up? [shaking… shaking… flip!…] magic 8 ball: Outlook good. How should we play it in our own back yards if it does heat up? don’t be a liberal/progressive for the last 3-5 years…lol… but not kidding… (at least with ANY public proclamations/exposure/associations (including any business/organizations that are ‘progressive/liberal’)… and including being a family member of one… or a staff member of one… or a family member of that staff member…etc) [shaking… shaking… flip!…] magic… Read more »

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Only a few weeks back the military wanted to leave Syria, and now that ISIS is defeated the troops are “ashamed” and “horrified” about leaving. Overnight.
And somehow people forgot what was just said yesterday.
Jedi mind tricks?

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@kfg

gratitude is essential for happiness… and i try to practice everyday…

but i’m not seeing very much evidence of it in the general population… people are wound pretty tight…

They’re trying to keep the landing craft from getting across the channel, because they know if they hit the beach, if Trump gets a second term, the battle is on.

and if trump doesn’t get that second term, the battle is on too… it’s just different terrain… as well as non-state actors coming online…

good luck!

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“Jedi mind tricks?”

Darth Bernays.

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Just Beers
You cannot fire a canon from a canoe
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Who in the hell gave “Darth Bernays” a down vote?
That was brilliant. lol
Ah well..
have a good day folks
-Liz out

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“However…. Given the stakes, as I’ve said all along. Impeached or McKinley/JFK’d…”

Nah … get re elected and start a war with Iran/North Korea.

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@kfg

That Murray guy is a homo that believes in female rights. What the fuck would he know about defending your country?

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I felt that Steve Lyon reference coming.

That’s highly motivating. Think I’ll spend a few minutes stalking his Instagram ( in a masculine way…no homo😁) .

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He could start a war with Iran right now… Congress supports it, it’s not part of his agenda.

“Yes, with a growing willingness for ordinary people just trying to get to work to push back.” — kfg

The reference…

https://twitter.com/tyIerzilla/status/1185278788197896192

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“That’s highly motivating”

makes you push back from that second IPA at lunch…

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“That Murray guy is a homo that believes in female rights.”

So is David Starkey, but he still called out the execrable Laurie Penny for the jumped up public school girl that she obviously is. It was glorious, especially if you are familiar with his normal British academic demeanor.

“What the fuck would he know about defending your country?”

I don’t know, but that’s not what he’s doing. He has joined Peter Hitchens in documenting it’s death. The advice he gave was personal, not social. Take what is good, leave the rest.

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“Men’s innate, unconditioned, biological imperative is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. Left to his own volition, and unimpaired by women’s Hypergamous filtering strategies, men’s innate drive is to opt for variety of sexual experience.”

Rollo compulsively equates lower nature impulse with voluntary action.

Volition is willful. Biological imperatives aren’t.

Rollo does this purposely as his RP pseudo-science logic would quickly unravel.

As long as man or woman both can’t choose, they both are held harmless for their actions. Right?

Whateva.

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As long as man or woman both can’t choose, they both are held harmless for their actions. Right?

You still cannot discern the difference between description and prescription after several years…why? It’s a problem that leads to logical errors such as:

https://infogalactic.com/info/Straw_man

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Men’s innate, unconditioned, biological imperative is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality

Learnt Red Pill from you. But don’t agree with these shits anymore.

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LOLZ

Did not see this view from above…

https://twitter.com/Micycle444/status/1185397533276852224

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@kfg

I understand. Also Starkey could kick Murray’s ass handily.

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@Sentient

That was enjoyable to watch.

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“65YO Dennis “Coke” Quaid engaged to 26YO…” “People reported that Savoie also received a master’s at the University of Notre Dame and is currently working towards earning a Ph.D. in accounting at the University of Texas at Austin in their McCombs School of Business with an expected 2021 graduation date.” “According to People, Savoie graduated as valedictorian from Pepperdine University. During her time at the school, she reportedly dated actor Jeremy Piven.” lol she come with: pepperdine = 50K/yr X 4 = 200K Notre Dame = 50K/yr X 2 = 100K PHD = 50K X 5 = 250K 550K in… Read more »

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@HABD Maybe pull a Talleyrand/Clinton…speak what people want to hear privately…leftists hear leftist narrative…rightists hear rightist narrative…wait for the right moment to declare and take action. I’m sure that the leftist spooks (CIA/NSA/whateva) have spies and agents in the White House. McKinley plot and gathering intel. RINO (leftist repubs) fifth columnists are prepared. e.g., Romney/Ryan/Rooney There have to be a few leftist generals/admirals who would try to use troops to stage a coup. Anti-Trump foreigners are a wild card and will likely help the spooks. Likely the foreigners are mid-level spooks. Maybe Putin/Xi. Trump needs prosecutors to go after corrupt… Read more »

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“think of all the fresh new pussy you could buy in nevada for half a million bucks…”

Tell me again why I would wanna pay for pussy? Or why Quaid would?

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