Male Control

Back in October, 2016 I wrote an essay called Sexual Zoning. In that post I explored the social inconsistencies and potential for (sometimes catastrophic) consequences for men in misunderstanding what were, and what have become, particular zones in which men and women covertly acknowledge the potential for an intersexual connection.

In the bygone Western social system, young people were expected to regularly interact with one another in controlled, regulated environments, in a way that fostered productive, long-term, monogamous, assortative relationships. This was a sort of “holistic” milieu, so to speak, where young people treated one another as potential future partners, sexual and otherwise, in a socially regulated manner, in all cases when they were permitted to interact. This was even the norm in workplaces where both men and women were present. The average man found a girlfriend through his extended family or social circle, because families and social circles were normally large.

What we have today is the complete opposite: “sexual zoning”. Some mixed-sex environments, like the workplace, schools and campuses, are made completely asexual – sterile, so to speak. No sexualized interactions are permitted to take place. This is demanded by law and expected by society. In such environments, you’re supposed to treat members of the opposite sex strictly as colleagues or professionals, non-sexual beings. (Hot men are allowed to get away with more, of course, but that’s another issue.) Other mixed-sex environments, on the other hand, like nightclubs, are expected to be full-on sexual. Everybody there knows that all interactions entail the future possibility of casual sex. It’s basically a meat market. You’re expected to hit on girls, and girls expect to be hit on by attractive men. Socializing in these environments requires action, engagement. If you want to find a partner, either just for sex or something more, you have to go there, you have to have Game etc.

The video I’ve chosen to dissect here is a prime example of how generations of men have been raised to deliberately misunderstand intersexual dynamics and at the same time demonize the conventional masculinity that so much of western culture has been founded upon. To be thorough though, really every culture throughout history has been primarily founded on conventional masculinity and the aspects that contribute to maleness.

Jonathan McIntosh finds an easy mark in the archetypal masculine characters of Harrison Ford, but there’s a very important reason the 80’s icon is so egregious to the men of McIntosh’s generation. Han Solo, Indiana Jones, etc. are all the Alpha male rogues this generation has been taught to love in terms of bravado, but to hate because they ‘always get the girl’; and they get her in such a way that it grates against all that their feminine-primary upbringing led them to believe was just this side of sexual assault.

McIntosh relates that he was part of a generation that idealized Harrison Ford’s most iconic characters, yet now he feels pangs of regret and resentment for having looked up the characters’ archetype. This is a perfect illustration of how conventional masculinity has been reverse engineered by our feminine-primary social order since the Sexual Revolution. I’ve mentioned in many prior essays that while overt masculinity is vilified as the cause of all social evils, it still remains the most arousing aspect of men for women. Boys like McIntosh saw this archetype and made that connection to female attraction, but it took generations of Blue Pill reconditioning to make them feel bad for ever attempting to adopt that bravado into their own personalities.

While growing up the message was the same Blue Pill identifying with the feminine (in fact Beta Game depends on that identification). Play nice, play equal, respect all women by default and never assert yourself too overtly or too crudely lest you risk offending her sensibilities. These are the boys who were raised by family, media and their schooling to expect a rationality that women could be expected to say what they mean and then do what they said. Yet that never seemed to gel when they would deductively see the girls they wanted, the ones who told them they wanted a ‘nice guy’ who respected them, consistently reward the asshole jerk with the intimacy and sex they thought would come to them if they followed what they were told.

In the end, Han Solo and Indiana Jones get the girl and she genuinely desires him – not because this is some odd fantasy of the writer’s imagination, but because this is (was) a standard aspect of women’s genuine attraction to men. The aberration is the idea that the attraction and affair would go any other way. Only in this feminized generation does thousands of years of male-female interaction seem at all unsettling.

So, here we have conventionally masculine archetypes – sometimes rakish, sometimes bold and dutiful – following their own path, making themselves their Mental Point of Origin, and making their mission (not their woman) their priority. Whether it was Captain Kirk, Han Solo or Conan the Barbarian the mental order was always firmly focused on the individual man and his action. Between the time of the Sexual Revolution and 2017, the Feminine Imperative has systematically erased the conventionally masculine archetype; so much so that the gender-loathing men of this generation are either appalled at displays of masculinity or they simply have no frame of reference with which to contrast it with the distorted and blurred ideas of what masculinity should mean to them.

For some ‘men’ the notion of conventional masculinity itself is rejected altogether. It doesn’t mean anything to be a man for this generation, so conventional archetypes of men are offensive.

As a result of these four to five generations of progressively more feminized men we now see the confusion and disgust at conventional masculinity coming from this generation of men. We see a generation of males who have no positive association with their own gender. They become increasingly more isolated because they are convinced that anything that might be gender-exclusive to men alone is, by default, a form of misogyny. There is nothing ‘positive’ about being a man, yet for all of the misconceptions about gender being social constructs, exclusively female organizing of women and fempowerment is still viewed as beneficial; a sign of society ‘evolving’.

I recently read an article in the Boston Globe about middle aged men’s increasing social isolation. I would argue that for all of the raising of awareness about this phenomenon it is primarily generations of men’s inability to interact with other men that is at the root of this isolation. For decades now men have been discouraged from meeting with other men in any formalized fashion. Men are either suspect of misogyny or homosexuality if they get together for the sake of being men. What were seeing now is generations of men who no longer understand how to socially interact with other men.

Furthermore, when this isolation becomes a concern of women, those men are again berated for not interacting with other men in the ways that women do. Women talk, men do, but a feminine-primary social order only approves of one way for men to associate with one another – in the way that women do. Thus, we see the confusion of women that men don’t call each other up to schedule a coffee date for the express reason of conversation. Men and women have different forms of communication, but the socially approved form is only ever from the feminine context. Men interacting “as men do” – in a conventionally masculine way – is always misogynistic. Thus, we see overseers in the locker room, if only symbolically, to regulate what and how men communicate with each other.

The End of Toxic Masculinity

Dalrock had a great quick-hit post recently about how Michael Moore was suggesting that men be required by law to seek their wife or long-term girlfriend’s (or most recent Ex) signed permission to purchase a firearm in the wake of last week’s mass shooting in Vegas.

That this idea would ever be a serious consideration speaks volumes about how masculine gender-loathing has become endemic in western culture. I get that Michael Moore is a self-inflicted cuck, but all I’m seeing in the wake of the Vegas shooting is less about gun control and more about male control.

It’s no longer about categorizing masculinity as “toxic” or “hyper” – that narrative is officially dropped after this shooting. Now, any masculinity is a threat, any expression of conventional masculinity is the true problem. Suggesting that a woman’s oversight and discernment should be necessary for a man to have access to a civil right only further reinforces what I’ve been saying for some time now – only the feminine is ‘correct’ in any social discourse. Only the feminine is legitimate in exercising judgement, educating new generations and deciding which man will breed and which will not.

Think about this; what’s being suggested is that men be denied a civil right that apparently only women should legitimately have. For all the fallacious blathering of women in pink pussy hats about how they think they’re losing rights today, here we have an actual right of men being denied by women, by the Feminine Imperative.

The ‘toxic’ masculinity narrative made a qualitative distinction between a feminine-acceptable form of masculinity and a potentially dangerous form. Needless to say the accepted form always consisted of whatever aspects of masculinity that was immediately beneficial to womankind. ‘Toxic’ masculinity was always characterized as Man Up or Shut Up masculinity:

Man Up or Shut Up – The Male Catch 22

One of the primary way’s Honor is used against men is in the feminized perpetuation of traditionally masculine expectations when it’s convenient, while simultaneously expecting egalitarian gender parity when it’s convenient.

For the past 60 years feminization has built in the perfect Catch 22 social convention for anything masculine; The expectation to assume the responsibilities of being a man (Man Up) while at the same time denigrating asserting masculinity as a positive (Shut Up). What ever aspect of maleness that serves the feminine purpose is a man’s masculine responsibility, yet any aspect that disagrees with feminine primacy is labeled Patriarchy and Misogyny.

Essentially, this convention keeps beta males in a perpetual state of chasing their own tails. Over the course of a lifetime they’re conditioned to believe that they’re cursed with masculinity (Patriarchy) yet are still responsible to ‘Man Up’ when it suits a feminine imperative. So it’s therefore unsurprising to see that half the men in western society believe women dominate the world (male powerlessness) while at the same time women complain of a lingering Patriarchy (female powerlessness) or at least sentiments of it. This is the Catch 22 writ large. The guy who does in fact Man Up is a chauvinist, misogynist, patriarch, but he still needs to man up when it’s convenient to meet the needs of a female imperative.

Now, in the Feminine Imperative’s unceasing efforts to Remove the Man a distinction between a useful masculinity and a dangerous masculinity is no longer something that resonates. All masculinity, all aspects, beneficial or detrimental, are to be considered the problem:

That the problem might just be masculinity, plain and simple, is not something we’re eager to countenance. While we might be prepared to apply a little structural analysis to the situation – yes, there is something about men and the way they are conditioned that leads us to this place – we’re unwilling to draw any final conclusions. Masculinity doesn’t kill people; it’s those mysterious toxins that are to blame.

[…]But strip away the so-called toxic aspects of masculinity: the aggression, the violence, the hate, the guns, and what are you left with? Strength, endurance, a woody-scented perfume, a liking for the colour blue? Certainly nothing that need be associated with manhood or maleness. These are simply individual qualities. The only reason to code them as “masculine” is to preserve a social hierarchy that ought to be destroyed.

[…]What would be so terrible about a world in which boys were treated no differently to girls from the day they were born? In which there are no pink/blue codifications to hide behind? In which a man’s anger and aggression were considered every bit as aberrant and unnatural as a woman’s?

The problem we’re facing isn’t toxic masculinity; it’s that masculinity is toxic. It’s time we questioned even its most subtle manifestations.

Going forward this will be the narrative. There will be no distinction between misogyny, masculinity and maleness. What this author, perhaps deliberately, doesn’t want to address is that masculinity and all the associated ways our thinking and our behaviors that manifest from the biological side of our nature aren’t something that can be dissociated from us without killing us or erasing what we were evolved to be. There are no truly positive or negative aspects of masculinity, just as there are no positive or negative aspects of Hypergamy. They just are, and what makes them beneficial or detrimental all depends on the context in which they are applied. That may seem strange coming from the author of a book titled Positive Masculinity but understand that what is positive about masculinity is made so by need and by circumstance.

In a world created in the image of the Feminine Imperative masculinity itself is a horrible evil, until it’s needed to save women from rising floodwaters.

You see, for as much as the imperative would like to remove the ‘man’ from our language, our cultural consciousness, that man will always be needed in spite of the hate directed towards masculinity. This is what a feminine-primary society would have us redefine as some other term, something not unique to a male human being. But conventional, evolved, masculine strength and purpose will always manifest in men who unapologetically embrace it without an afterthought.

In my interview with Craig James we discussed men’s higher order thinking and purpose as well as our vital animal nature. You don’t separate one from the other. This is what the Feminine Imperative would have from men; a unilaterally female controlled utility-based masculinity that saves them from the worst consequences of both their environments and their decisions and simultaneously disappears when inconvenient. We hear women bleating about a lack of Real Men and the disappearance of true grit, and in the next article linked we see efforts to erase men entirely from social influence.

As I told Craig, when I’m in the squat rack I’m glad I have a feral, animal nature. It’s a survival aspect of human evolution. I’m not suggesting with this essay that men will become extinct; on the contrary I think what will help define our new conventional masculinity will largely be determined by how we express it in spite of a world arrayed against Man-kind. An equalist culture based on blank-slate equalism doesn’t see that you don’t separate the animal side of the human being from the high-order side. It is unwilling to accept that we need both; that we benefit and sometimes suffer from both.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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As a semi guess, 447 is a German man (Cologne) in his late 20’s to early 30’s who is still in the late anger / cynic phase of unplugging. English is not his first language but his second, taught for years in school. Still got some “if I did this, said this, it would mean” projection onto women that leads to confusion.

I don’t see trolling. At least not at this time.

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@447 We use Rollo’s alpha/beta mental frame meanings rather than Vox Day’s experience-based meanings…you need to be more clear “All women whores” – never wrote it. Most women are not LITERAL whores, but ” whores” for mating cues. A =/= B And B is just plain wrong. If you let them (and the FI lets them today) their basic firmware is exploitation/harvesting. Whether sperm or bank accounts. I see lots of post-menopausal women out looking for hawt guys…not looking for bank accounts and not looking for sperm either…they want feelz…they want attention…they want intimacy with a hawt guy…physiological love…it’s not… Read more »

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He blackmailed girls.

Reference?

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“…it’s not about babies all the way down @kfg”

No babies, no hawt guys, because no guys.

Which would be fine, because there would be no desire for them either.

Not out looking for a hot guy:

http://www.microscopy-uk.org.uk/mag/imgsep01/amoebaproteus450.jpg

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Nota bene: You seem to define alpha exclusivly through a female lens aka “male sexyness”.

Nota bene: You seem to define alpha exclusivly through a biological lens aka “male sexyness”.

FIFY

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No babies, no hawt guys, because no guys.

Lol, you need to get out more…PM women get laid–just not as much as younger broads.

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@kfg

I’ve previously discussed a married PM broad I know who I’m sure is a community bike–gets lots of casual sex.

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I was with a young guy who has a 50+ notch count watching a PM woman burn up his cell phone with messages…he later admitted banging her…and he admitted to banging other PM women

@kfg, you need to get out more

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Harvey Winstein, alpha? Dunno,ask his brother Bob. Oh, wait. https://www.yahoo.com/gma/bob-weinstein-reveals-sick-depraved-brother-harvey-weinstein-173505039–abc-news-celebrities.html Excerpt “I was also the object of a lot of his verbal abuse — at one time physical abuse,” the co-chairman of The Weinstein Co. told The Hollywood Reporter in a wide-ranging interview. “And I am not looking for one bit of sympathy from anyone,” the younger brother of Harvey Weinstein added. “I do not put myself in the category at all of those women that he hurt. But it’s a complicated situation when it’s your brother doing the abusing to you as well. I saw it and I asked… Read more »

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Failed to close italics. This is my conclusion, not part of the article linked to.

Harvey Weinstein, rage-a-holic? Looks that way. Everyone walking on eggshells around him 24 / 7 from waitresses to business partners to family – gets what he wants with a combo of bluster / bullying / money. Until it comes apart.

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“@kfg, you need to get out more”

The firmware is set regardless of fertility. Function of our living longer.

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And firmware is dependent on hardware that can run it:

http://www.biodiversidadvirtual.org/micro/data/media/18/Hydra-vulgaris-1434.jpg

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Kfg. True. (btw comment was to Asd) In respect to women it seems to run regardless of the functionality of the hardware. Set and forget. PM women still respond to game cues, albeit the degree is less marked. No baby rabies for example.

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“btw comment was to Asd” I got it. “PM women . . .” . . . are members of a sexually reproducing species, and women would not exist otherwise and there would be no sex drive at all, as per the asexually reproducing species whose pictures I have posted above, who do not build skyscrapers (nests) or social dance, which only exist because of babies all the way down to a long line of cells. ASD has been around here long enough that he should know I’m not saying something as trivial as “women only fuck to have a baby.”… Read more »

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Women’s firmware is set in AF regardless of babymaking machinery. It’s feels all the way down because that makes babies when the machinery is working and creates social connections even when the machinery is defunct which benefits the species in toto. I’ve been enjoying quite a lot of vino just now, btw.

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And some of you guys don’t understand that women’s arousal cues are based solely on their feels of being dominated by a hawt guy. Hawt guys spike their tingles, no matter the state of their babymaking equipment. It’s very easy for me to make Mrs. Gamer’s panties wet when she’s on her way to work, which she hates. PM women have the lowest T levels of any women, yet their horniness can still be sky high. It’s only because of AF. AF dominates all other motivations for girls.

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I love the color blue….it helps me deal with a woman fucking with my physiology/emotional state. Comfort! Yeah, that broad from Friday really freaked me out. Going for a walk and looking at the sky gave me loads of comfort to help me deal with autistic stress. I wouldn’t change anything…the woman was super hot…but I still had to deal with its effect on my physiology. Hence walking and looking at the sunny blue sky. A work around. Now, thinking about the grabass doesn’t bother me so much and I don’t feel the need to stim. Loading...

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I love the color blue

Someone get him a blue fidget-spinner. Soon.

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“It’s feels all the way down”

A woman’s feels are babies all the way down. The females of different species have different feels, because they have different reproductive strategies.

You drink water because you’re thirsty. You’re thirsty to make you drink water. Which is at least in your personal interest. Unlike making babies. So you have to feel like doing dumb shit like this:

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. . . just to get laid, whether you realize that’s why you’re doing it or not.

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@ Dr. Zipper “so you’ve rarely had to verbally say ‘blow me’ to a chick cuz with your game, they just know to start sucking” Ime, you don’t verbalize a great deal. If you ever notice, when things kick off sexually there’s not much talking going on. Don’t talk about Fuck Club, as it were. My rules are that you never, ever ask for sex, you never ask a chick ” Do you like that?” or ” Does this please you ” or any of that kind of shit. And yes, they will just start sucking, lol. They know what… Read more »

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Yup, I suck at teaching using the typed word.

Disagree. Maybe teaching is the wrong word, but highly effective motivator I would say.

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lol blax, thank you sir, always a good read

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“YaReally hit me with this often over the span of years, lol. Yup, I suck at teaching using the typed word. I’m more accurate and deadly live.” It’s not at all teaching via word (typing) vs. live (demonstrating). Your demonstrating comes across live and clear in your trying to explicate. We all know what is going on here Blaximus. You don’t suck at typing at all. It’s the archetype of the learned Mastery vs. the archetype that you are at Natural Mastery. The only difference is that you learned it at an earlier age and can’t deconstruct for the newbies… Read more »

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSirxzq3Jl4&feature=push-u&attr_tag=hE8S_rt0m3FMuud1-6

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Blaximus
Your writings here have gotten me into a much more stable place as a man. I appreciate your work and all the humor. You have pointed me out of my own bullshit sad mindset into something more something real and tangible as well as focusing on what i have control over.

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Anonymous Reader October 17, 2017 at 11:32 am As a semi guess, 447 is a German man (Cologne) in his late 20’s to early 30’s who is still in the late anger / cynic phase of unplugging. English is not his first language but his second, taught for years in school. Still got some “if I did this, said this, it would mean” projection onto women that leads to confusion. I don’t see trolling. At least not at this time. _______________________________________________ Unplugging and/or “what to say to women” is no longer interesting to me. Getting girls is no problem. (You… Read more »

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@ Blax

I always imagined you as Mr Still Yo Grandma 😂😂😂

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STD-related cancer news


A Silent Epidemic of Cancer Among Men

Within days, he had been diagnosed with a deadly form of cancer caused by a virus that he probably caught while in college, decades before.
Mendelsohn, now 48, is the classic victim of head and neck cancer caused by HPV, the human papillomavirus. A new study out this week shows there’s a silent epidemic of HPV-related cancers among men.

A team at the University of Florida, Baylor College of Medicine and elsewhere found that 11.5 percent of U.S. men were actively infected with oral HPV betweenhttps://www.msn.com/en-us/health/healthtrending/a-silent-epidemic-of-cancer-is-spreading-among-men/ar-AAtEruQ?li=BBmkt5R&ocid=spartanntp 2011 and 2014

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Gentlemen, attend! Here is your latest primer on asexual zoning, c/o Instapundit and some TV chick writing in the Guardian:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/oct/16/a-simple-list-of-things-men-can-do-to-change-our-work-and-life-culture

N.B: the whipsawing in her directions for men to do “better”: stay away from women and say nothing, but if someone else gives some woman grief in your presence you have the duty to man up and white knight rescue her because [reasons]. Then I suppose, having earned your White Knight “I’m A Weiner” trophy, you are to dutifully fuck off again.

PS: she still won’t fuck you.

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@ rubgy

Thanks man.

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… geeezzzz

I meant @ rugby. ( one of those spelling dayz )

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Guy who called in to Mark Steyn today sounded a little like Blaximus. Hmmmm?

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@Fred Flange
That Guardian list is so predictably smug. She might as well have added, “And don’t expect any list on what WOMEN can do to make things better.”

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For the second time since first coming here over the past few years, I had a male “friend” decide to end a two decade friendship with me because I don’t buy in to feminism and wouldn’t use the first male friend’s preferred “gender neutral” pronouns. The self-hate is kind of amazing to watch in these guys. As with the first one, I reassured him that I’m not angry. He’s welcome to come back with no hard feelings but I’ll never bend on my views to please a friend. The best friends I have are guys I disagree with on a… Read more »

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PS: she still won’t fuck you. Unless, of course, she tells you she wants to fuck you, as the Esquire article’s author explicitly stated at the end of her article. The zoning is clear. Betas, know your fucking place, don’t touch us, don’t ask us out, don’t talk in our presence … just do your work and shut the fuck up. Alphas, we’ll let you know that we’re open to you fucking us, so it’s all good. Now, I’m not complaining about this — it’s just how things are. It’s something men need to be aware of and adapt to,… Read more »

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Actual rape, not just an accusation, in ” civilized ” society ( western version ) is not ” alpha ” behavior. that boystown shit in omaha begs to differ. rape, especially man on young boy, seems to be the behavior of some of the world’s top dogs Manipulation for sex is not alpha behavior. all human behvior is manipulation. alpha is the guy who figures out the way to get into the most panties. some guys pump their muscles. some guys pump their wallets. give it a name. it’s all the same. get the sperm in the wet hole any… Read more »

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@ my man Fleezer –

Real quick

US Population 2017 – 325.98 Million (Estimated)

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…. fuck

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That’s better.

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People like that are not easily manipulated and controlled for the gain of others.

The term for these people is – Free…

Freedom, true freedom, is the most dangerous thing in the world.

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” I dare anyone to get in the room with him and tell him to his face that he’s a beta pussy beggar. no fucking way. you can only get away with intimidation like he did, for so many years, in such a butthurt and whiny industry… if you’re some kind of fucking baller. and he was.” This really caught my eye. C’mon fleez… U serious? Lol, I’d get in a room with harvey with one hand tied behind my back and a pillow taped to my other hand, tell him he was the biggest fucking pussy on earth and… Read more »

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alpha is the guy who figures out the way to get into the most panties. some guys pump their muscles. some guys pump their wallets.

So, tricks are the most alpha. [facepalm]

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alpha is the guy who figures out the way to get into the most panties. some guys pump their muscles

looks don’t matter

lol @fleez

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@ all Just for informational purposes, and Rollo can weigh in if he’d like, but don’t drink the kool aide about fake motherfuckers having real, true masculine power because they happen to have a) Money or b) some kind of ” status ” or ” position “. A beta bitch is a beta bitch always. Unless he changes somehow. Remember what I’ve said about CEDING POWER?. People in positions of power and/or authority are usually still just people with all of the shortcomings that go along with it. Stay clearheaded if you want to see the man behind the curtain.… Read more »

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lol @fleezer

peddling the bullshit higher and deeper…you’re on a roll

puas are one thing because they get the bang within an hour through manipulation.

because basic biology is somehow “manipulation” and PUAs have skill to do the biological mating dance…

but fleez has more BS to peddle…

it’s all quid pro quo. all of it. everything between men and women is ultimately a transaction.

There is no meeting of the minds between an alpha and a woman…there is no transaction in basic biology…it’s just desire-based sex

fleez is trying to fool himself into thinking that buying sex makes a man an alpha

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Harvey is a gameless, non-red pilled delusional super beta.

There’s a Wayans movie hiding in there: Super Beta as a working title.
Sign Gary Busey to play Harvey. See if Jaleel White wants face-on-screen time.

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Ok so he’s a super-beta. He got to fuck hot bitches without asking anyone else how to do it. So as far as anyone who doesn’t care about the Red Pill is concerned, he’s the man. There’s also the whole being a fat ugly guy that has tons of Beta’s waiting for THEIR shot at douchery.

Can we at least admit he’s a “role model” for game-apostate Beta Male Champion? lol?

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Shit, you can call anything ” cut-throat “. The cut-throat fashion industry or the cut-throat miniature railroad enthusiast industry.

That reminds me, at the local fairgrounds I spent some time with the model railroad fans.
One man was very Dynamic in his presentation of the greatness of that hobby, he was truly Passionate about it and clearly Authentic in his fondness for model railroading.

His fat wife sat in the corner wearing a Model Railroad hat and enthused with him. It was good to see. But still Blue Pill as all get out.

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Can we at least admit he’s a “role model” for game-apostate Beta Male Champion? lol?

Harvey Weinstein is a great bad example of the “how not to do this” type. Is that what you mean?

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@Anonymous Reader

“Harvey Weinstein is a great bad example of the “how not to do this” type. Is that what you mean?”

I keep forgetting game is secret, sorry.

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Yollo…. Geeezzz….

Low standards and expectations from life and manhood.

But pussy!!!

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@Blax

Says you. I don’t know if I’ll ever be a millionaire(One thing at a time). But if I did become one I doubt it would hurt my game. Might change what I represent to women somewhat. But I’m already not a queef thanks to Rational Male. Also, I never said I was the terribly profound type.

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awareness and adaptation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=futftQNhRtk&t=3s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9pyvNqMvSs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hCNN0B7saE
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I keep forgetting game is secret, sorry.

Stop babbling.
Money is not Game.

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Sun Wukong´s “men who roguishly grin as they break these new rules are almost universally loved by those around them” is the moral of the story. It´s even the lesson of the original video. (just go see the channel, once you see the bugger´s face, all´s clear and you just have to feel sorry for him).

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One man was very Dynamic in his presentation of the greatness of that hobby, he was truly Passionate about it and clearly Authentic in his fondness for model railroading.

You never know where those wild and crazy model railroaders will turn up next.

Rockstar Rod Stewart Revels in Model Railroads, Obsessively Detailed Yet Hidden From Sight

http://www.organizingla.com/organizingla_blog/2014/07/rockstar-rod-stewart-revels-in-model-railboads.html

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“One man was very Dynamic in his presentation of the greatness of that hobby, he was truly Passionate about it and clearly Authentic in his fondness for model railroading. ”

This is not a definition of blue pill to me at all. To some, it’s certainly not the height of coolness compared to other activities, but a man’s activities do not define alpha or beta… it’s your demeanor. Dynamic, passionate, and authentic to me this guy rocks.

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“Dynamic, passionate, and authentic to me this guy rocks.”

Exactly… what you see is the girl being attracted to him. whether he is BP or RP is irrelevant to this.

And it is a mistake to believe BP people can’t be happy.

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Blue Pill isn’t about DPA…Blue Pill is about being deceived about women’s nature.

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“Blue Pill is about being deceived about women’s nature.”
That is where mainstream and men who need help collide. The burden of performance for me is the ability to master the awareness of not just your nature but her’s. Internalizing the nature of their period’s their “morality”
Being able to to appreciate the pain the hardship’s of being a male without complaint or criticism or condemnation.
That’s the importance of performing that get’s people into the red pill. Living your truth while confronting all your pain. Taking responsibility for everything you have control over.

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Anyone use Raya? http://www.refinery29.com/2017/08/168186/raya-dating-app-review Also… Alpha Widow “I’ve never loved anybody like I loved Wilmer and I still love him,” Lovato tells viewers, even sharing the exact date she first laid eyes on the actor. “I met him on Jan. 11, 2010. I thought ‘I have to have him,’ but I was only 17 and he was like, ‘Get away from me,’” she jokes, though she adds: “When I turned 18 we started dating. I think it was love at first sight, we connected on a level that I’ve never connected with anybody before, he was just my rock, my… Read more »

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Exactly… what you see is the girl being attracted to him. whether he is BP or RP is irrelevant to this. Yes, but it depends on whom one wishes to attract. The model railroad guy attracted a fat wife — maybe he’s happy with that, who knows — it’s possible he is. You don’t need very much game or even much DPA to attract an unattractive woman, really, so there’s always that option. If you want to attract a woman who is attractive and who has quite a few male options (or many of them), you’d best have something other… Read more »

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Playboy has jumped the shark. Or is it #metoo?

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Oh and Hef…. turnin’, turnin’, turnin’!

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re: Playboy

Well, this was obviously coming, to anyone who had his eyes open.

Within 10-20 years, any straight man who refuses to date a “woman with a penis” because she has a penis will be considered like a KKK member in terms of bigotry. After all, “a woman is a woman” and you’re just a bigot if you don’t agree that she’s just as much of a woman as a “woman with a vagina” is, or if you refuse to date her because she has a penis (you homophobe!).

This is just the beginning of that. Watch.

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After all, “a woman is a woman” and you’re just a bigot if you don’t agree that she’s just as much of a woman as a “woman with a vagina” is, or if you refuse to date her because she has a penis (you homophobe!).

http://www.irishexaminer.com/remote/snappa.static.pressassociation.io/assets/2016/01/08000131/1452207045-21999769e97059cffa0dd8f57e783c23-1038×576.jpg

Time to die.

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sent – interesting pic… if you haven’t already, go see BR 2049 to see the next step… metaphorically, of course

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you’d best have something other than model railroading to be dynamic, passionate and authentic about. Chess? http://izquotes.com/quotes-pictures/quote-sometimes-girls-write-me-one-girl-in-yugoslavia-sent-me-a-whole-slew-of-love-letters-i-don-t-know-bobby-fischer-228942.jpg After the eighteenth game, Bobby began to emerge from the groggy lull of the hot-pot era. He had found two (count ’em) two gorgeous Icelandic girl friends. The girls were both seventeen years old. Inga was tall, slender and blond with long legs and a pleasant girlish figure. Anna was somewhat shorter and bustier. The romance had begun for the girls when they first saw Bobby’s picture in the paper. “He’s so handsome!” they had agreed. One day they waited several hours in… Read more »

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Doc – thanks – planning on this weekend. Original has sooo much going on.

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Doc I was looking at that Raya app, and was going to jokingly suggest you write a #Fuckboi or #Bull app… the precursor to the Alpha Farms of 2045. alas ground is already broken in this area… Behold Feeld Feeld was founded by two people who inspired each other to change the world’s outlook. Ana wrote Dimo a love letter expressing her secret desires and the fear they evoked. Dimo was both hurt and inspired, and instead of writing back, he created Feeld – a space where people like him and Ana can meet like-minded humans, open to the flickers… Read more »

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So much going on in Dick stories.

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@ Sentient Indeed, Demi Lobato is an Alpha Widow. It is the same case for Selena Gomez, some years ago there was a post about that: https://redpillpushers.wordpress.com/2014/09/20/ruined/ “She [Selena] is the perfect modern example of someone that will never be able to be a faithful and loyal wife. She is currently 22 years old, smack dab in the middle of her prime, cute as a button, and could command the attention and commitment of almost any man that she wanted. So what is she doing? She’s giving her best to her on-again, off-again, Bad Boy boyfriend.” “Selena is ruined. Thoroughly… Read more »

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“Chicks with dicks” was a fetish easily found in the Village Voice and other screeds in the 80s and 90s. Guess now instead of print ads or a PlayPersun centerfold you can find ’em in Strawberry Feeld forever. (C’mon you know that one was coming) Won’t link it but there was already some anti-TERFer trans-bint screaming on Tumblr that any hetero dick-swinger man who wouldn’t sleep with zir was a Mailed ShowVanMist or something, who should be ashamed of his manhood, and geez I must admit zir has a point there, I’d be pretty ashamed of myself too if that… Read more »

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Feeld translated “Ana wrote Dimo a love letter expressing her secret desires [I want to fuck other guys, and maybe some chicks] and the fear they evoked [That Dimo would not be available to pick her up from work and do her food shopping and listen to her talk about that bitch Wendy]. Dimo was both [butt] hurt and inspired [terrified that he would lose her forever and ever and aver], and instead of writing back, he created Feeld [Cause nothing, nothing at all says Beta Love like some heavy Java and code monkeying… perpetual panty wetter] – a space… Read more »

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As for the comment about Rod Stewart, he doesn’t count because he’s an internationally famous rock star, something which has much more to do with his history with women than his model railroading does, I’m sure.

It’s just a hot tip for the train guys when doing their approaches. “Rod Stewart does model railroading too, same as me, if you didn’t know.”

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Likewise for Neil Young, also a model railroader.

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“Every three years, Model Railroader puts me on their cover, which is better than Rolling Stone.” – R. Stewart “It’s a wonderful, wonderful hobby, I don’t know why people laugh at it. Jools Holland is a big model railway man, as is Phil Collins, Neil Young, Frank Sinatra Jr., Roger Daltrey.” I don’t think it matters the specific thing that brings out The Passionate; just get one or two or three things in life that take you over like a demon possession; you’ll know it when it happens… it’s a gift and I truly pity those who can’t or haven’t… Read more »

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40 years after hearing this, it still pops into my head when I hear ” Rod Stewart “.

https://www.snopes.com/music/artists/rockstar.asp

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I’m not gay, I just do it cuz I like the taste

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“This is what the Feminine Imperative would have from men; a unilaterally female controlled utility-based masculinity…”

Basically, women want men to be horses.

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Yah, chess is super competitive and Bobby was like the best on the planet, competing with other men, and it was well publicized, and he was famous. Not some neckbeard who is passionate about the model trainsets in his basement. Not the same thing at all, really. DPA, yes, but it isn’t 100% subject neutral. Of course if you’re already a famous rockstar like Young, Plant, Stewart … go right ahead. On “feeld”, oh my. Obviously a cuck app if there ever was one. Then again, Dimo is probably one of those guys who now gets off on his own… Read more »

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Having options is not necessarily alpha…I think one of the things about alpha is not so much as how many options (plates) they have but how they relate with them. One of the more subtle characteristics of a beta plate relationship is that the plates spin the beta and not the other way round.

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@rollo but anyone can chime in and before anyone discredit this watch the full video about how feminist are pretty much damage control for globalist. One point was really interesting and would love your opinion on. Alex and Millie imply that because alpha men(not beta) are not white knighting women anymore that women are turning to lesbian man hating feminist for help. To fully get the context I recommend fully watching the video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXOnYRA5eoE&t=1257

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yes, nova, rock stars are bad examples just from a statistical point of view

I’ve seen some of the pua/game vids that show even the blandest, uninteresting subject to girls can be ‘sold’ by the right delivery, with the right game, no? I’m no expert, still trying to DHV with my chess victories but not there yet lol

just what is that missing ingredient then? what makes DPA work? salesmanship?

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