The Golden Ticket

Imagine, if you will, that you buy a lottery ticket and you win. After taxes the payoff is $2 million. Not an exorbitant amount by today’s standards, but still quite a lot of money for the average paycheck to paycheck person. For some it may be what could be described as Fuck You Money, easily enough for most people to retire on very comfortably.

How would this newfound fortune change your life? How would it change your family and your friend’s dealing with you? Would they be happy for you? Maybe jealous? Would you be able to manage the changes in your daily routine? If you were accustomed to one lifestyle and then switched to a more affluent lifestyle would it be a good change? Or would you become someone else?

Now lets say you could possibly win $100 million if you made an almost certain bet. There were still some risks involved, but nothing that would threaten your life in the short term. How would winning this kind of money reflect on your daily routine? Would it be different than your winning $2 million? Money would cease to be an object for you for the rest of your life and likely the lives of your children, maybe even grandchildren and all you really had to do was make a smart bet that you believed would pay off.

What if you only won $1 million or $500,000, but you were only making $36,000 a year and scraping by the best you could? Again, all you have to do is look for the best opportunity to make a short term sacrifice and the money would be yours. Would you compromise your ‘principles’ (assuming you have any) temporarily to change your life in the long term more significantly?

Imagine you had a Golden Ticket that had a potential to win you $70,000 per year or if you played things right it had the potential to earn you $10 million per year if you were wise enough to capitalize on it. How would that change your outlook on life?

What rationales would that prompt you to in order to reconcile that other people might not have the same potential for cashing in –without really earning it – that you do?

Here’s your Ticket

Okay, got that in your head now? Good. Now imagine that you’re given this Golden Ticket at the tender age of 12 years old. It’s handed to you and you’re told, “Keep this ticket with you forever. You can redeem it for more money while you’re young, but the longer you hold on to it the less it will be worth. Even still, it should be valuable for most of your life if you can manage to hold on to it.” And even after you’ve cashed the ticket in you can still retain it for a time, because some people have been able to trade one prize for a larger one by taking the ticket back and redeeming it for a better prize later.

Now you begin to believe that you deserve the biggest prize because, well, you’ve been deprived of things. You’re special; special enough to know you deserve the very best after having been deprived of these things as one of a long line of people who’ve also been deprived of things – the best things – or so they’ve told you.

You could always earn some money and get the things you and your people have never been able to reliably get, at least, again, that’s what they’ve told you. You have a lot of personal potential, you’re independent, you have a lot of respectable strengths, so you know you could always merit the things you deserve. But you still have this Golden Ticket in your hand, why wouldn’t you use it? You could earn some money, maybe a lot, but it will never be as reliable or as much as the money the Golden Ticket could net you – if you know just when to redeem it.

Stipulations

All that said, there are going to be a few stipulations to this lottery, but still, they’re not as steep when you compare them to having to actually earn a similar prize.

The first stipulation: You must stay physically fit. In fact, the better you look the better your potential prize could be. As you age this potential decays, but even still, you occasionally see some people cash out their ticket for great prizes despite their age. They just had to apply themselves more in the gym to get it.

The second stipulation: You must be agreeable, accommodating, even a bit flirty. You must put forward the impression that you are someone who genuinely deserves the best prize that the ticket might offer to a special person like you. You must give the perception that the experience of you deserves the highest potential prize imaginable.

The third stipulation: You must position yourself in social situations where the potential for the biggest payout for your ticket can be maximized. Sometimes, not always, but often these settings might make you uncomfortable, but hey, you wanted to make the most of the ticket, right? This stipulation really isn’t all that discomforting when you realize that once you have cashed in your ticket you’ll be the one deciding where you live and who you’ll choose to associate with anyway. At least that’s what the lottery organizers would have you believe.

There are a few more minor stipulations, but, for all of this, you still deserve the biggest prize that opportunity might bring your way. So, while the best thing would be for you to stay in shape and be ready for a big prize, the people playing the same lottery as you – most with the same potential – will tell you none of this really matters. They insist that you just being you is enough for you to win a big prize. Or it should be.

It’s almost as if they want you to believe that you can dismiss all the stipulations and still make out pretty good. In fact they praise you for going against the stipulations. They complain about how unfair these rules are and that for people as deprived as themselves, and for as long as they and their predecessors have been deprived, they should simply be given the highest, best and most secure forms of the prize – all irrespective of the very minimal stipulations as they are.

This is the Golden Ticket! How dare anyone place prerequisites on us to get the prizes we so thoroughly deserve. How dare anyone make us earn our birthright. But for all this discontent, the rules of the game still apply, and the people who embrace and master the stipulations largely seem to get the biggest and best prizes. And the ones complaining about the stipulations only seem to drag down the people with the same Golden Ticket, and their prizes are usually nothing compared to the people who take the stipulations to heart.

The Agreement

Finally, and maybe most importantly, there is one last detail of this lottery to consider. In order to keep the biggest and best prizes you have to sign a very loose and totally non-binding contract that only benefits you and ensures you will continue to be paid dividends should you decide to renege on the agreement and take your ticket back to use it again. The contract can be broken by you at any time, and even when you do you’ll still receive a substantial percentage of your original prize in monthly installments and usually for the rest of of your life.

Still, your signing this contract will limit your capacity to play this lottery in the future. If you see the potential for a better prize after you’ve signed the contract of limitations you’ll be less able to capitalize on it. However, the way that the contract is written it doesn’t necessarily exclude you from winning and even bigger prize should the opportunity arise. Your ticket reserves the right to be redeemed for other prizes if you make some wise bets.

So, at the end here, we get to the larger point of this metaphor; how would this ticket change the way you live your life? How would it influence your future decisions? How would the ticket affect your personal relationships with your best friends, some of whom have tickets themselves? How would the subconscious knowledge of the ticket alter your dealings with a husband, a wife, the children you may have or your immediate family?

Would the ticket define who you will become in life?

411 comments

  1. @SJF

    What do you have to say about this funny guy? At which phase of Unplugging he is?

    “A lot of the manosphere is the PUAsphere, who are preoccupied with man-whoring ..and even the MGTOW camp .. a lot of them have the philosophy of the “enjoy the decline” which is making the most out of the sexual licentiousness and degeneracy while you’re able!
    Only a feminist society will give these man-whores, these degenerates and these hedonists what they want in exchange for nothing practically.”

    https://youtu.be/XzdoEYoXQQM

  2. ” You telling me you’d treat a HB9 that grew up with rich conservative parents, attending Harvard University and slept with 4 guys, the EXACT same way you’d treat a poor HB9 that grew up with an alcoholic abusive father, and fucked 75 dudes at Arizona State University? ”

    ” The ivy league chick I SNL raw dogged two weeks ago, could be classified as a HQNP chick (not at all like the women Orsons complaining about). But I gotta calibrate to her (not gonna treat ALL women the same broski) because I’m pretty sure shes already in lurv with me lol. Texting me shit like “when am I seeing your chocolate eyes again”).”

    Awwww man.

    You don’t get women. Harvard, Ivy League…. you’re making rookie beta blue-pilled misjudgments. That’s a dangerous habit my man.

  3. ” You telling me you’d treat a HB9 that grew up with rich conservative parents, attending Harvard University and slept with 4 guys, the EXACT same way you’d treat a poor HB9 that grew up with an alcoholic abusive father, and fucked 75 dudes at Arizona State University? ”

    Let’s look at this more closely, because it’s illustrative and telling.

    They. Are. Just. Girls.

    What difference does it make to you re: different upbringing, unless you buy into the idea that it nullifies AWALT? How would your approach differ for the 2 women in question – and better yet, how do you know the n-count of the Harvard chick? Because she said so? Because her parents are conservative? Because rich?

    When you have Game, none of that bullshit matters because you will be better at reading chicks and gaining a better understanding of what you’re seeing right in front of your face ( and not getting thrown by money or school or any other external shit ).

    http://www.westindianarchie.com/how-to-run-delusional-game/

    Game = No woman, nor man is ” better ” than you are. Different stations, same biology.

    Again, looking for something to acquiesce to is not a good look and shitty, shitty game. You get enthralled and impressed with stuff that you shouldn’t, because at the end of the day, she’s just a chick. Your mission is to find what you like and proceed accordingly, without becoming mind-fucked.

  4. “and you really need to get off that Autism site…”

    no fucking way.

    weaponized autism is amazing. i think of it like the beam that comes out of sauron’s eye in lotr movie. you don’t want that shit focused on you, but if you know the landscape you can use it for great advantage

    i mean, look what happened to party skanks because of people like rsd guy. autism spectrum basically outed their whole m.o.

    and now i learn that wife has very desirable canthal tilt?.lol (thanks for link, Blax). add it to the list of shit my cock figured out before i knew it existed or read it on autism site

  5. “how do you know the n-count of the Harvard chick”

    Ive been around enough girls to tell. Honest signals. Dont listen to what they say, watch what they do.

    “How would your approach differ for the 2 women in question”

    Simple.

    I’d show more of my cocky zfg asshole side to the slutty chick. And as for the conservative chick, I’d tone it down (not completely eliminate it) in favor of a more charismatic mysterious vibe with a hint of ruthlessness underneath it.

    “Just be yourself” – lol

    Talior your game to your target.

    Let me try an analogy lol (might be shit just making it up right now)

    I know they’re both former Quarterbacks (girls), but I’m sure NFL defenses didn’t prepare/practice to shut down dual threat QB Michael Vick (slutty girl) the same way they prepared for The Shieriff, Peyton Manning (conservative girl).

  6. Orson

    I am not entirely dismissive of reading MM! Depends how much you actually need this information and sometimes can be counter-intuitive.

    Since your own “intuition” has led you into nuclear rejections, you might want to re-train it. Since Mystery’s method actually works even in the face of a nuclear rejection you might want to learn it.

    Now as for sosuave, you do realize that Rollo was commenting there over 10 years ago, right? This site is a direct outgrowth of dialogs at SoSuave…

    Get off the “Toh-MAY-toh” vs. “Toh-MAH-toh” hamster treadmill. Start learning.

  7. ” know they’re both former Quarterbacks (girls), but I’m sure NFL defenses didn’t prepare/practice to shut down dual threat QB Michael Vick (slutty girl) the same way they prepared for The Shieriff, Peyton Manning (conservative girl).”

    Khalil Mack. Good game is good. Nuff said.

    ” Ive been around enough girls to tell. Honest signals. Dont listen to what they say, watch what they do. ”

    No. You haven’t been around enough of them if this is what you believe.

    ” I’d show more of my cocky zfg asshole side to the slutty chick. And as for the conservative chick, I’d tone it down (not completely eliminate it) in favor of a more charismatic mysterious vibe with a hint of ruthlessness underneath it. ”

    So you’re saying that you are multi-dimensional? lol. Understand that Game works all the time, every time, and you don’t have to carry around multiple personalities.

    That shit sounds exhausting and confusing.

    So let me ask, if ” cocky whatever the fuck ” works with one chick, why wouldn’t it work with Ms. Conservative? Tell me why exactly game has to be ” tailored ” for different chicks.

    … I kinda know already, because that’s what a lot of pua gurus push, but I wanna know what your thoughts and experiences are.

  8. Sad stuff at that lookism.net site, it reads like a reddit for socially retarded teenagers. Their definitions don’t even make sense from comment to comment.

    They basically come up with their own language to simply describe how the majority of UMC girls look and behave in public and to non sexually experienced males…

    Yeah, it’s like combining some of the worst of separatist feminism with Incel paranoia and mixing it with ingroup-slang from some nerds in the mid-high locker room. Worst thing? No way they would take any advice from a man who knows something, because they’ve worked up their own weird little worldview.

    Sad stuff. Just say no…

  9. ” You telling me you’d treat a HB9 that grew up with rich conservative parents, attending Harvard University and slept with 4 guys, the EXACT same way you’d treat a poor HB9 that grew up with an alcoholic abusive father, and fucked 75 dudes at Arizona State University? ”

    Let’s look at this more closely, because it’s illustrative and telling.

    They. Are. Just. Girls.

    I had a grandma who graduated from Columbia back in the day. She had money back when it meant something. She and gramps owned a vacation house in the FL keys and they went there every winter. Gramps bought a brand new Lincoln every year. They had some money. Gramps knew an ex-president and various big shots around town.

    Yet, I saw Gramps play grabass on Grandma as he was following her up the stairs and she ran up the stairs giggling and shrieking as she told him to stop.

    Gramps taught me a lesson. Under the hood, girls are all the same.

  10. So let me ask, if ” cocky whatever the fuck ” works with one chick, why wouldn’t it work with Ms. Conservative? Tell me why exactly game has to be ” tailored ” for different chicks.

    I was running game last night at the restaurant. The girls were _pretending_ that they were speshul snowflakes and were running down some guy they had seen before for telling stories. They called them whoppers. I ran my game and told stories. At first they pretended that they weren’t interested. Eventually, they were laughing. Girls run their own games and you have to figure out how to bust them out of their games and into yours.

    I hope J gets this, because it’s an important idea.

    Game with girls is about wrestling them and throwing them on the ground. Takedown. Mental sometimes and physical sometimes. Of course it requires calibration to know whether or not a girl is actually interested and wants you to take her down.

  11. j
    The ivy league chick I SNL raw dogged two weeks ago, could be classified as a HQNP chick

    That “Hi Quality” “Non Primitive” classification is really stupid. it’s more stupid than HB-whatever. Because it’s subjective, but adds an extra layer of complexity. Not repeatable, therefore not testable, therefore not useful.

    You should drop it. Just stop.

    (not at all like the women Orsons complaining about)

    Orson is complaining about getting blown out via nuclear rejection. All women are capable of that. All of them. AWALT. If you don’t believe this claim, you have not been around enough women long enough.

    Maybe, just maybe, part of Orson’s problem is himself.

  12. From a pure strategic POV:

    For prime Vick, the best strategy would be to assign Mack as the QB spy because of the threat of Vick torching you all day with his legs if you don’t watch out for him.

    For a pure pocket passer like Manning, you’d ask Khali to do his thing (pressure the QB/sack the QB) but you’d also want him to drop back and help with the pass coverage since Manning’s not gonna beat you with his legs.

    “You haven’t been around enough of them if this is what you believe”

    Oh I should just ask her?

    Hey man you dont gotta like the way I game girls but imma keep doing what I do (Inb4 “thats not game”- lol. Results are results broski).

  13. ” Hey man you dont gotta like the way I game girls but imma keep doing what I do (Inb4 “thats not game”- lol. Results are results broski).”

    Lol, you’re absolutely right about that. It’s not that I don’t ” like ” anything. I just question why some decisions seem to make sense to you ( and sure, getting laid helps cement those decisions as the correct ones….but the thing is – girls fuck. They do. all the time when it suits them. So it’s interesting to me to see guys make it complicated and technical when it really isn’t ).

    ” Oh I should just ask her? ”

    Nah. A chick you just met or are gaming for the super fast pull/lay, you cannot tell by anything she says, or what you see. She has that advantage somewhat. It’s in the longer term that you can suss out what’s what. You don’t ask her stuff like that if you really want to know. But you can get a ton of clues and pull it out of her without directly asking, and she won’t even realize what happened.

  14. All women are capable of that. All of them. AWALT. If you don’t believe this claim, you have not been around enough women long enough.

    I got a nuclear rejection from Mrs. Gamer when I first approached her. Everyone in the nursing unit was watching at the time, lol. I went over to where she was standing and watching me flirt with the other nurses and she just turned her back and didn’t say a word.

    AWALT.

  15. Seems to me many a girl didn’t get the full message. They’ve been throwing tickets at me since I was 17… like it was more of an EBT card, or something.
    I fucked up and ‘bought a cow’ for about 10 years, but luckily for me when shit was getting real and coming apart she wisely found an even bigger sucker in the 30+ ‘slightly used’ market.. 🤣😂 So I got off easy, thank God.

  16. We as men need to understand that in reality it is us that have been handed the golden ticket in life!

    And if you’re not a real man you will trade your ticket for a parasitic woman that will fuck you over so hard that your dead ancestors will feel it.

    Or you can live the life of male privilege that was your destiny before you became brainwashed by egalitarianism.

    Up to you.

  17. So how will you live your life now that you realise that you have been holding the “golden ticket” all along?

    Mindset change or ……….

    Only a fool continues the same behaviour but expects a different outcome.

  18. @Play

    A simple “I’m not interested” would have sufficed…no need to throw an invective like “propaganda.” There are many men here who have faith and don’t appreciate disrespect to their faith. But to some people, even mentioning religion in an informative sense is offensive…the problem is in the ear, not the mouth, in that case.

  19. @gamer

    I don’t respect any faith, why would you be entitled to that from me or anyone else?

    Perhaps the problem is in your ear.

  20. Well, Palma, you are welcome to keep your atheistic propaganda to yourself. XD Be respectful of others’ opinions, even if you don’t care for their opinions, if you want people to be respectful of yours.

    From what I have seen, atheists are generally shitbirds who expect their opinions to be respected but shit on the opinions of people of faith.

  21. @oops

    I just said neither you or your faith are entitled to my respect.

    I won’t be keeping anything to myself. If I choose to say it you can suck it up or get over yourself.

    IDGAF what you think of me, it’s not important.

  22. Yes, AWALT. Yes, They Are Just Girls. But Blax you yourself have emphasized the importance of vetting. So doesn’t upbringing matter, at least to some extent in some cases?

  23. You’ve never done anything to earn my respect gamer.

    And I never expected any respect from you because I haven’t done anything to earn it from you.

    That’s the difference.

    Blithely issuing “respect” to total randoms is about as blue pill as it gets.

    You’re thinking like a stupid teenage girl.

  24. No “Faith” is worth defending religions of all creeds are just utter crap. Control systems for weak minded people who need that shit in their lives for “guidance “ etc. Pathetic

  25. Blithely issuing “respect” to total randoms is about as blue pill as it gets.

    You’re thinking like a stupid teenage girl.

    Blithely issuing disrespect to men who can fuck you up is blue pill. (Not that you can beat somebody up over the interwebs, lol.) It’s also generally a violation of the Laws of Power unless you’re trying to provoke an attack. Why create enemies unnecessarily just so you feel good? Now that’s a very girly-girl thing to do.

  26. @Playdontpay

    That’ll be gamer respecting your opinion in the same way he expects you to respect his.

  27. @gamer

    In the unlikely event you were capable of fucking me up, that still wouldn’t make me respect you.

    True respect can’t be extracted under threat.

    Now fuck off and beat your bible somewhere else.

  28. I may disagree with most of Carl Marx’s ideas but he fucking nailed it when he said “Religion is the sigh of the oppressed creature, the heart of a heartless world, and the soul of soulless conditions. It is the opium of the people”.

    The ultimate blue pill of existence.

  29. In the unlikely event you were capable of fucking me up,

    Lol, Ton was the scariest fuck commenting here and I was ready to take him on–even if it cost me my life. He was insulting me and mine unnecessarily and it was stupid.

    Now fuck off and beat your bible somewhere else.

    You are playing chess and the game is poker. The discussion is about Game and how to behave in a social context. It has nothing to do with the Bible. Learn to control your emotions and you’ll do better. And work harder on reading your opponent.

    Also, just because I have faith doesn’t mean that I won’t enforce my boundaries. Your
    English tolerance of faith-bashing won’t fly in an American context; Rollo’s an American.

  30. O.B.I.T.

    Vetting is crucial because upbringing doesn’t always stick. Assigning certain virtues to people in general, and women specifically, based on where they live, what schools they attend, or their parents wealth/ideology isn’t always 100% indicative of what kind of chick you’re dealing with. Objectivity should remain.

    The superzip I commute to daily is being torn asunder by heroin and oxy. Young folks dying fairly regularly. Law enforcement and.parents, with all of the tools at their disposal, are miffed as to why/how this could possibly be taking place. A false belief doesn’t trump human nature. That’s a prominent Game rule for a good reason because it drives home that without vigilance, one can be subject to awful shit regardless of station in life.

    You vet to get past all of those outer accoutrements. You disregard all of the ” stuff ” to see the person and how their mind works. Most people can’t hide who they are successfully under the correct scrutiny. Emphasis on ” correct “.

    I often talk to the ” boss ” ( be has too many titles for me to pick from, but he owns the business through inheritance) of.my multinational company. We chit chat a couple of times.a.week. We’re the same.age, but we don’t have a whole lot in.common otherwise. He was.born into wealth, and attended the ” best ” schools, and travels the world mountain climbing and shit.😁

    He’s a decent enough guy. He’s nothing like his father who ran the company for 50 years prior. People bow and genuflect and have a level of fear about him. I talk to him like I talk to any other man, especially one I’ve been around 20+ years. One thing I do know is that his business mindset is 180 degrees from his father’s. If the company has ever been vulnerable to financial shenanigans, it is under his leadership. His last name is demonstrative of absolutely nothing.

    When I had plates, one of my favorites was a ” high hb ” ( lmao ) multi millionaire wall street chick that I’d known forever. I knew who she was, but nobody else in her ” new life ” had a clue. She came up under difficult circumstances and put herself through too schools by hustling however she could. Her success with one of the street’s big 3 was because she was mostly amoral and loved to hustle people. Girl was ” on ” 24/7.

    I asked her how she managed to be so successful running with the big dogs, and she told me that basically they will believe anything as long as your credentials as correct. That stops them from digging or even paying a lot of attention.

    Out of all the women I’d known, she is the one most likely to.commit mass murder, lol. Downright driven and 100% ruthless. Even though I’d known her most of her life, and she was one of the sexiest, beautiful, funny, smart/intellectual women I’d known, her personality didn’t lend to any manner not ltr or beyond. That frustrated me to no end, but it is what it is. She would have been most likely to cheat and divorce. It’s her mindset.I

    So yeah, when I see examples of men pinning their hopes on anything other than what they can dig into to gain understanding, I sound the alarm. Her parents, her upbringing, her education, wealth… That’s a fraction of who She is or who She might be under certain circumstances and pressures.

  31. @ the asd gamer

    You’re married right?
    You took your vows before your “god “ right?

    I’m presuming your avatar stands for anti slut defence gamer? Right?

    So here we find you on a Sexual strategy blog and sexual strategy is amoral, it just is, so how does your anti slut defence gaming square with your faith and your marriage before your god?

    Who is full of shit here?
    Who is the hypocritical shitbird?

    Not me babe, not me.

  32. Next time any of you ( especially guys new to TRM ) feel like a victim watch this video. It goes into some details about how mindsets are created and our brains and bodies get locked into negative patterns.

    @Rugby, you need to watch this and NOT reply back with another link.

    Ignore the background music and toss aside any bullshit notions that it’s new agey claptrap. Shit is real and men get trapped by their own doing.

    https://youtu.be/3AE2j43LcR4

  33. I’m presuming your avatar stands for anti slut defence gamer? Right?

    No, “ASD” stands for “Autism Spectrum Disorder”.

    I’m not faith bashing.

    I don’t think that “faith bashing” means what you think it means. beat your bible somewhere else.

    Now we have a whole flock of shitbirds. lol

  34. Autists lack self awareness…

    Consider the below

    “The ivy league chick I SNL raw dogged two weeks ago, could be classified as a HQNP chick”

    Where the author misses the fact that this self classified “high quality non primitive” girl raw dogs him the very night they meet.

    Autists are consumed with “how” at the expense of “why”…

    The below does not adjust for “quality” or “primitiveness

    https://i2.wp.com/i45.tinypic.com/33elrae.jpg

    Wet pussy is wet.

  35. Oh that’s ok then!

    Carry on playing grab ass at your dance venues behind your wife’s back and praying for forgiveness or whatever it is that you Jesus freaks do to square away your shitty behaviour.

  36. Red Pill game is amoral. Don’t confuse a bit of ass grab, teasing or dread as breaking the 10 Commandments, or whatever code moral code you live by.

  37. Autists are consumed with “how” at the expense of “why”…

    Autists can be obsessed with “why” questions. Or with the shitty way their shirts feel because somebody used the wrong soap. Autists can be obsessed about all kinds of shit.

  38. Red Pill game is amoral. Don’t confuse a bit of ass grab, teasing or dread as breaking the 10 Commandments, or whatever code moral code you live by.

    Couldn’t have said it better myself–an intelligent comment.

  39. @Sentient

    Having read MM that chart now makes perfect sense.

    For some reason despite its simplicity I just didn’t get it until I’d read Mystery.

    I think I need to read it at least another twice for ALL the pennies to drop.

  40. I don’t think that ‘adultery’ means what you think it means.

    There’s a commandment–one of the Ten, “You shall not commit adultery.” Adultery always involves a married woman having sex with a man who isn’t her husband. A married man having sex with a single woman isn’t committing adultery. I’ve covered this in the past on this blog.

  41. I thought the Shitbirds was when Beck left and Page came in and tried to change the sound all up. Nothing against Page, it was just wrong for that band.

  42. Red Pill game is amoral. Don’t confuse a bit of ass grab, teasing or dread as breaking the 10 Commandments, or whatever code moral code you live by.

    your comment brings up another point, Roused. The sort of thinking that condemns a bit of ass grab, teasing, and dread is the FI pushing on you…paging HABD, paging HABD….

  43. @Orson

    That’s where JBP struggles with his book on rules.

    I’ve written but not published a book on his book.

    The closer he gets to where he should see red pill truths the more he appears out of his nose having disappeared up his arse in a kind of infinite loop.

  44. Page came in and tried to change the sound all up. Nothing against Page, it was just wrong for that band.

    Yeah, converting yards to metric is never pretty.

  45. So exactly why are you here asd?

    You and your wife took your vows before your god you have your faith , so what exactly is it your looking for here?

    Could it be that all that doesn’t mean
    shit and you know it?

    Biology and evolution trump faith every time.

    Deal with reality or reality will deal with you! Imaginary friend by your side or not.

    Hypergamy isn’t interested in your faith so please leave it at the door when you come in here. ( not just you )

  46. Hypergamy isn’t interested in your faith so please leave it at the door when you come in here.

    Hypergamy isn’t interested in your atheistic shit, either. Otoh, the Bible warns of Hypergamy.

    Wisdom will save you also from the adulterous woman,
    from the wayward woman with her seductive words,
    who has left the partner of her youth
    and ignored the covenant she made before God

    Probably there are other ancient books that cover this as well.

  47. “her personality didn’t lend to any manner not ltr”

    Yeah. Reminded me of this HB8 Mexican chick that attended Cornell. Very independent manipulative girl. I wrote a field report about her last year. From our conversations that one night I knew she was no good for ltr. And the fact that she cheated on her medical student boyfriend with me lol

  48. The ” not knowing how to be ” is very common among particular generations. It’s probably why there has been an explosion of ” disorders ” being added to our lexicon over the past few decades.

  49. @asd

    I enjoy checking out your thoughts on your blog now and then, but my work filter has it blocked under category of pornography… any ideas on why that might be?

  50. I enjoy checking out your thoughts on your blog now and then, but my work filter has it blocked under category of pornography… any ideas on why that might be?

    Must be all those “Girls Gone Wild” vids.

  51. Are guys with tats all bikers and tough guys? Tats don’t always mean what they used to. Better to have skills than to assume.

    The rok list isn’t definitive. Evidently it’s written for totally clueless guys. Like assuming all 6’9″ guys can play basketball.

  52. Good lord that NYT listicle of ex boyfriends is depressing. Interestingly, i was mountain biking in rural Pennsylvania last weekend and stopped into a Starbucks for a coffee on Sunday… saw lots of Amish in the area i was in both days, but Sunday in the Starbucks i saw this captivating, beautiful Amish girl. I’m guessing 17-18ish. Quietly sitting and drinking a Starbucks beverage. Was kind of surprised she was there actually as i thought the Amish shunned most of modernity, and would have thought Starbucks of all places would be verboten.

    She was staring intently at 2 tatted up hamplanets, one with pink hair, gabbing at the counter… and i swear, she gave just the briefest of shudders, almost a jolt, and then opened up her bible and began reading.

    Second observation…. back in dc, and its amazing and thoroughly depressing to me how many young 20 something and even 30 something women i see each morning walking their fucking dogs… no children, no strollers, no husbands, but strolling along with dogs on leashes and carrying shitbags. Or cooing and oohing and ah’ing over each other’s dogs like they were babies. It’s so weird.

  53. ” without directly asking “

    Directly asking = “hey how many guys have you been with?”

    “The rok list isn’t definitive.”

    We’ll never know for certain what a girls actual lat count is, but if she’s ticks off 5 or more of the signs on that list…well it’s a pretty good sign shes got a n count higher than 5.

  54. Blainr
    Second observation is odd as well i went to a high school reunion and no one was happy with themself’s i got to a dace in DC and women are not hitting the wall but are alone anyway’s. It weird to me. It’s a pattern of SJW stuff that has leaked into so much if not everything ive been using to get social in person and fail forward.

  55. ” We’ll never know for certain what a girls actual lat count is, but if she’s ticks off 5 or more of the signs on that list…well it’s a pretty good sign shes got a n count higher than 5.”

    Lol. I love you man.

    Food for thought ; most men can never really know the average woman’s true count. Especially guys that pick up women in bars and clubs, but it can also extend to church picnics.

    I know a guy that married a chick I used to bang almost regularly, and he ” confided ” in me that she was a virgin. Even though I never concentrated on SNL’s-Fast pulls-ONS stuff much in life, I have hammered plenty of random chicks unexpectedly, and there’s no logical reason anyone would ever know, or why they would ever confess to being bent over and railed in the cafeteria at work, or a late night subway platform romp.

    Because women are no longer proficient at being seductive, there’s a lot of sexual posing going on out there. The hair dye thing? Lol, I know young chicks that dyed their hair some odd color just because it’s a ” thing ” now. I know chicks that curse like sailors because cursing is everywhere now in society. Same with tats and piercings. So the signs aren’t as reliable as they used to be, but their signals, outside of what their lips profess, are as bulletproof as ever.

    Oddly, when I had plates or was going out daily looking for some chick to bang senseless, I gave not a single fuck about their n-counts at all. Wasn’t important because I wasn’t looking for wifey of my kids material. So the talk of ” how to tell if she’s a slut ” stuff is laughable and strange to me.

    Why care?

    Still, it’s a good skillset to develop – being proficient at reading people in general and women specifically. But first ya gotta drop prejudice and conditioning so that you can see.

  56. “So the signs aren’t as reliable as they used to be”

    Nah still very reliable. You keep making the mistake of saying if she has ONE of the 24 signs on that list it doesn’t automatically mean she’s a slut (“tattoos dont mean what they used to”)

    I said, if a particular chick exhibits at least FIVE (hell maybe even 4 lol) of the signs, you can be 100% certain she doesnt have a low n count (not ltr material)

    Let me pull up 5 of the most “innocent” signs on that list:

    1).Broaches the topic of illegal drugs (even marijuana) without prompting

    2). Is “friends” with DJs, promoters, or other small-time pseudo-celebs

    3). Is an artist, or a wannabe “model” who has done “photo shoots

    4). Has an even, nice tan that she maintains

    5). Went, or goes, to a known party college

    By themselves you can’t really be sure, but together…yup shortys a little hoe.

  57. Evidently it depends on where one lives(?).

    Marijuana? Really?

    DJ’s?

    Artist?

    Tan? Where I live and in surrounding areas, there are these things called ” Tanning Salons “. they appear to be quite popular. I wouldn’t know for sure….

    Party College is a definite maybe.

    Maybe all of this is true in Florida or something, where people seem to be ” off ” in many ways, lol. But I disagree still, that the list is in any way definitive, even if it’s 4 out of 5 or whatever.

    Learn.

    Learn to read them.

    That way you won’t marry the librarian with a 200 n-count.

  58. I’m not Blaximus, J, but I’m pretty sure his entire point just whiffed right over your head.
    Just saying.

  59. BSA (Blaximus Spoiler Alert)

    J, pretend that you’re playing poker with a girl for money. How would you know when she’s bluffing and when she has a good hand?

    There are all kinds of ways to fish info out of people without relying on some bogus set of “rules.” If you have a little expertise, the mark won’t even know that she has been fished.

  60. ” How would you know when she’s bluffing and when she has a good hand?”

    He’ll ask her and check her hair color and tan status.

  61. Orson
    On Rollo’s twitter: Maggie’s wedding confessions

    Everyday the red pill truths keep coming…

    A quick search and it seems she is about 31 years old. So another one hits the wall and settles on a beta bux agenda. Shit’s going to get real for this beta bux in 7 to 10 years, I feel bad for him. She really waxed on about being banged by the Israeli soldier for 10 days straight…before settling on her husband, to whom she says “The man who told me he loved me after four months, and didn’t give up on me when I didn’t say it back right away.” Guys if she can’t even say i love you, next her asap, not only are you not her alpha, you aren’t even her best beta bux.

  62. “Learn to read them.

    That way you won’t marry the librarian with a 200 n-count.”

    From the lookism thread you dismissed:

    “This is the so-called faux-HQNP, think of hipsters or any artsy movie- the whole purpose is to emulate the sophisticated/seductive/exceptional spirit of the authentic genius. It’s pretty apparent the adjustment of the outer signalling doesn’t suffice to create the HQNP complexity – it’s just not there, cause HQNP is the ultimate expression of the spiritual, intellectual, moral and aesthetic purity. Personally speaking, I don’t differentiate between faux-HQNPs and sluts:

    https://i.imgur.com/lj9L31O.jpg

    https://www.tattoo.com/wp-content/uploads/files/u8050/mermaid_tattoos_designs_ideas_pictures_24.jpg

    If I had looked at the Facebook/Instagram page of this artsy fartsy FB I had before I fucked her, I would bot believe she was the nasty hoe she really was. Gotta interact with them. Another Norwegian girl that was taken to the Hampton by chodes because she was soo beautiful was told me, “my roommates always talk about boys/fucking guys but they don’t even know ive fucked more guys than all of them – she felt safe to reveal that cause secret society. Another girl had guys sending her cute messages because she looked like the girl in the first pic. Little this this fucker and the other chode thst send her flowers to her apartment know she was a huge slut.

    You cant be fooled by a 200 n count slut pretending to be a “good girl”. C’mon now.

  63. Centuries on Maggie
    A quick search and it seems she is about 31 years old.

    Wow, who could have seen that coming, eh? Lolz. Golden Ticket, right there!

    The thing to remember: she’s pretty typical of an urban, UMC girl in her “path to marriage”, the unusual part is writing an essay for the NYT. We could take this girl out to flyover country and with a little coaching walk her through the typical church, and she’d be catered to & fluttered over as the leadership stormed at men to “manUP! Marry this beautiful, beautiful girl!”. The kind of girl that tradcons love, love, love to pedestalize.

    She’s understating her N, obviously. No matter, if any of her past leaked out she could just be contrite and “reformed”. Who dares to not Believe The Woman especially if she leaks out a few real tears?

    The Beta AFC who’s marrying her is setting himself up. I feel like sending him copies of Rollo’s books as wedding gifts.

    This is why married men, all of them, need Game. Most especially men under 35.

  64. @Centuries

    I bet her n-count is much much more high than she likes to admit in that article.

    “While I hoped each of these guys were the one at some point, I’m so lucky they weren’t. Thank you for having everything they lacked.”

    At this point the hamster was spinning so fast that his soul departed from his body.
    This Freudian slip we translate with red pill lenses as this: While my hypergamy hoped to secure long term commitment from my alpha fux guys I am so unlucky that I failed ….but now that I hit the fucking Wall I am lucky to find provision and commitment (those “everything” fuckboys lacked) from beta bux you!

  65. Not to speak for J, but I don’t think he actually knows a lot of women outside of sex, and he doesn’t have any female friends, so there’s no reliable way for him to gather this kind of intel.

    He’s in a live fire exercise.

    When I want to know something about plumbing, I never sought out a baker to ask. I’ve learned more over years about feminine nature, from interacting with actual females. Guys helped initially, but the brass tacks stuff came straight from the horses mouth, and by observation over a very long time.

  66. “I don’t think he actually knows a lot of women outside of sex, and he doesn’t have any female friends”

    [attractive] women are for sex. Men are for friendship.

  67. ” [attractive] women are for sex. Men are for friendship”

    Lol. Like I said.

    They will always be a mystery to you, that you will consistently misjudge and misunderstand. Reddit will fill your head with gobeldy gook. the amazing autist at lookism will just continue to make shit up and slap each other on the back at their brilliance.

    And there will be no true way to discern which woman is which.

    But they might have killer tans.

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