Imagine, if you will, that you buy a lottery ticket and you win. After taxes the payoff is $2 million. Not an exorbitant amount by today’s standards, but still quite a lot of money for the average paycheck to paycheck person. For some it may be what could be described as Fuck You Money, easily enough for most people to retire on very comfortably.
How would this newfound fortune change your life? How would it change your family and your friend’s dealing with you? Would they be happy for you? Maybe jealous? Would you be able to manage the changes in your daily routine? If you were accustomed to one lifestyle and then switched to a more affluent lifestyle would it be a good change? Or would you become someone else?
Now lets say you could possibly win $100 million if you made an almost certain bet. There were still some risks involved, but nothing that would threaten your life in the short term. How would winning this kind of money reflect on your daily routine? Would it be different than your winning $2 million? Money would cease to be an object for you for the rest of your life and likely the lives of your children, maybe even grandchildren and all you really had to do was make a smart bet that you believed would pay off.
What if you only won $1 million or $500,000, but you were only making $36,000 a year and scraping by the best you could? Again, all you have to do is look for the best opportunity to make a short term sacrifice and the money would be yours. Would you compromise your ‘principles’ (assuming you have any) temporarily to change your life in the long term more significantly?
Imagine you had a Golden Ticket that had a potential to win you $70,000 per year or if you played things right it had the potential to earn you $10 million per year if you were wise enough to capitalize on it. How would that change your outlook on life?
What rationales would that prompt you to in order to reconcile that other people might not have the same potential for cashing in –without really earning it – that you do?
Here’s your Ticket
Okay, got that in your head now? Good. Now imagine that you’re given this Golden Ticket at the tender age of 12 years old. It’s handed to you and you’re told, “Keep this ticket with you forever. You can redeem it for more money while you’re young, but the longer you hold on to it the less it will be worth. Even still, it should be valuable for most of your life if you can manage to hold on to it.” And even after you’ve cashed the ticket in you can still retain it for a time, because some people have been able to trade one prize for a larger one by taking the ticket back and redeeming it for a better prize later.
Now you begin to believe that you deserve the biggest prize because, well, you’ve been deprived of things. You’re special; special enough to know you deserve the very best after having been deprived of these things as one of a long line of people who’ve also been deprived of things – the best things – or so they’ve told you.
You could always earn some money and get the things you and your people have never been able to reliably get, at least, again, that’s what they’ve told you. You have a lot of personal potential, you’re independent, you have a lot of respectable strengths, so you know you could always merit the things you deserve. But you still have this Golden Ticket in your hand, why wouldn’t you use it? You could earn some money, maybe a lot, but it will never be as reliable or as much as the money the Golden Ticket could net you – if you know just when to redeem it.
Stipulations
All that said, there are going to be a few stipulations to this lottery, but still, they’re not as steep when you compare them to having to actually earn a similar prize.
The first stipulation: You must stay physically fit. In fact, the better you look the better your potential prize could be. As you age this potential decays, but even still, you occasionally see some people cash out their ticket for great prizes despite their age. They just had to apply themselves more in the gym to get it.
The second stipulation: You must be agreeable, accommodating, even a bit flirty. You must put forward the impression that you are someone who genuinely deserves the best prize that the ticket might offer to a special person like you. You must give the perception that the experience of you deserves the highest potential prize imaginable.
The third stipulation: You must position yourself in social situations where the potential for the biggest payout for your ticket can be maximized. Sometimes, not always, but often these settings might make you uncomfortable, but hey, you wanted to make the most of the ticket, right? This stipulation really isn’t all that discomforting when you realize that once you have cashed in your ticket you’ll be the one deciding where you live and who you’ll choose to associate with anyway. At least that’s what the lottery organizers would have you believe.
There are a few more minor stipulations, but, for all of this, you still deserve the biggest prize that opportunity might bring your way. So, while the best thing would be for you to stay in shape and be ready for a big prize, the people playing the same lottery as you – most with the same potential – will tell you none of this really matters. They insist that you just being you is enough for you to win a big prize. Or it should be.
It’s almost as if they want you to believe that you can dismiss all the stipulations and still make out pretty good. In fact they praise you for going against the stipulations. They complain about how unfair these rules are and that for people as deprived as themselves, and for as long as they and their predecessors have been deprived, they should simply be given the highest, best and most secure forms of the prize – all irrespective of the very minimal stipulations as they are.
This is the Golden Ticket! How dare anyone place prerequisites on us to get the prizes we so thoroughly deserve. How dare anyone make us earn our birthright. But for all this discontent, the rules of the game still apply, and the people who embrace and master the stipulations largely seem to get the biggest and best prizes. And the ones complaining about the stipulations only seem to drag down the people with the same Golden Ticket, and their prizes are usually nothing compared to the people who take the stipulations to heart.
The Agreement
Finally, and maybe most importantly, there is one last detail of this lottery to consider. In order to keep the biggest and best prizes you have to sign a very loose and totally non-binding contract that only benefits you and ensures you will continue to be paid dividends should you decide to renege on the agreement and take your ticket back to use it again. The contract can be broken by you at any time, and even when you do you’ll still receive a substantial percentage of your original prize in monthly installments and usually for the rest of of your life.
Still, your signing this contract will limit your capacity to play this lottery in the future. If you see the potential for a better prize after you’ve signed the contract of limitations you’ll be less able to capitalize on it. However, the way that the contract is written it doesn’t necessarily exclude you from winning and even bigger prize should the opportunity arise. Your ticket reserves the right to be redeemed for other prizes if you make some wise bets.
So, at the end here, we get to the larger point of this metaphor; how would this ticket change the way you live your life? How would it influence your future decisions? How would the ticket affect your personal relationships with your best friends, some of whom have tickets themselves? How would the subconscious knowledge of the ticket alter your dealings with a husband, a wife, the children you may have or your immediate family?
Would the ticket define who you will become in life?
@ rugby I never read religious propaganda of any creed.
You fill your boots and see where it takes you.
Jackpot Y chromosome evolution
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_people
@Play
A simple “I’m not interested” would have sufficed…no need to throw an invective like “propaganda.” There are many men here who have faith and don’t appreciate disrespect to their faith. But to some people, even mentioning religion in an informative sense is offensive…the problem is in the ear, not the mouth, in that case.
Well, Palma, you are welcome to keep your atheistic propaganda to yourself. XD Be respectful of others’ opinions, even if you don’t care for their opinions, if you want people to be respectful of yours.
From what I have seen, atheists are generally shitbirds who expect their opinions to be respected but shit on the opinions of people of faith.
Well, disrespectful shitbirds will get shit rained down on them. Useless wastes of oxygen that they are.
I have to admit, most people wouldn’t defend their faith…makes you wonder if their faith is worth defending.
Yes, AWALT. Yes, They Are Just Girls. But Blax you yourself have emphasized the importance of vetting. So doesn’t upbringing matter, at least to some extent in some cases?
“Bhowanee is happy and more so in proportion to the blood that is shed.”
No “Faith” is worth defending religions of all creeds are just utter crap. Control systems for weak minded people who need that shit in their lives for “guidance “ etc. Pathetic
@Play
you’re a typical foolish atheist shitbird
Blithely issuing “respect” to total randoms is about as blue pill as it gets.
You’re thinking like a stupid teenage girl.
Blithely issuing disrespect to men who can fuck you up is blue pill. (Not that you can beat somebody up over the interwebs, lol.) It’s also generally a violation of the Laws of Power unless you’re trying to provoke an attack. Why create enemies unnecessarily just so you feel good? Now that’s a very girly-girl thing to do.
I may disagree with most of Carl Marx’s ideas but he fucking nailed it when he said “Religion is the sigh of the oppressed creature, the heart of a heartless world, and the soul of soulless conditions. It is the opium of the people”.
The ultimate blue pill of existence.
In the unlikely event you were capable of fucking me up, Lol, Ton was the scariest fuck commenting here and I was ready to take him on–even if it cost me my life. He was insulting me and mine unnecessarily and it was stupid. Now fuck off and beat your bible somewhere else. You are playing chess and the game is poker. The discussion is about Game and how to behave in a social context. It has nothing to do with the Bible. Learn to control your emotions and you’ll do better. And work harder on reading your opponent. Also,… Read more »
O.B.I.T. Vetting is crucial because upbringing doesn’t always stick. Assigning certain virtues to people in general, and women specifically, based on where they live, what schools they attend, or their parents wealth/ideology isn’t always 100% indicative of what kind of chick you’re dealing with. Objectivity should remain. The superzip I commute to daily is being torn asunder by heroin and oxy. Young folks dying fairly regularly. Law enforcement and.parents, with all of the tools at their disposal, are miffed as to why/how this could possibly be taking place. A false belief doesn’t trump human nature. That’s a prominent Game rule… Read more »
@ the asd gamer
You’re married right?
You took your vows before your “god “ right?
I’m presuming your avatar stands for anti slut defence gamer? Right?
So here we find you on a Sexual strategy blog and sexual strategy is amoral, it just is, so how does your anti slut defence gaming square with your faith and your marriage before your god?
Who is full of shit here?
Who is the hypocritical shitbird?
Not me babe, not me.
Next time any of you ( especially guys new to TRM ) feel like a victim watch this video. It goes into some details about how mindsets are created and our brains and bodies get locked into negative patterns.
@Rugby, you need to watch this and NOT reply back with another link.
Ignore the background music and toss aside any bullshit notions that it’s new agey claptrap. Shit is real and men get trapped by their own doing.
https://youtu.be/3AE2j43LcR4
I’m presuming your avatar stands for anti slut defence gamer? Right?
No, “ASD” stands for “Autism Spectrum Disorder”.
I’m not faith bashing.
I don’t think that “faith bashing” means what you think it means. beat your bible somewhere else.
Now we have a whole flock of shitbirds. lol
Wasn’t that an 80’s band?
Autists lack self awareness…
Consider the below
“The ivy league chick I SNL raw dogged two weeks ago, could be classified as a HQNP chick”
Where the author misses the fact that this self classified “high quality non primitive” girl raw dogs him the very night they meet.
Autists are consumed with “how” at the expense of “why”…
The below does not adjust for “quality” or “primitiveness
Wet pussy is wet.
And therein lies the self imposed vulnerability.
Oh that’s ok then!
Carry on playing grab ass at your dance venues behind your wife’s back and praying for forgiveness or whatever it is that you Jesus freaks do to square away your shitty behaviour.
Red Pill game is amoral. Don’t confuse a bit of ass grab, teasing or dread as breaking the 10 Commandments, or whatever code moral code you live by.
Autists are consumed with “how” at the expense of “why”…
Autists can be obsessed with “why” questions. Or with the shitty way their shirts feel because somebody used the wrong soap. Autists can be obsessed about all kinds of shit.
Red Pill game is amoral. Don’t confuse a bit of ass grab, teasing or dread as breaking the 10 Commandments, or whatever code moral code you live by.
Couldn’t have said it better myself–an intelligent comment.
I don’t think that ‘adultery’ means what you think it means.
There’s a commandment–one of the Ten, “You shall not commit adultery.” Adultery always involves a married woman having sex with a man who isn’t her husband. A married man having sex with a single woman isn’t committing adultery. I’ve covered this in the past on this blog.
Blax, wasn’t Eric Crapton lead guitarist for the Shitbirds?
Mix the Red Pill with religion and you have a good recipe for some cognitive fucking dissonance.
I thought the Shitbirds was when Beck left and Page came in and tried to change the sound all up. Nothing against Page, it was just wrong for that band.
Platforms and speech
https://boldanddetermined.com/podcast-3/?mc_cid=1d6f4de0fe&mc_eid=650c4f4717
Red Pill game is amoral. Don’t confuse a bit of ass grab, teasing or dread as breaking the 10 Commandments, or whatever code moral code you live by.
your comment brings up another point, Roused. The sort of thinking that condemns a bit of ass grab, teasing, and dread is the FI pushing on you…paging HABD, paging HABD….
Page came in and tried to change the sound all up. Nothing against Page, it was just wrong for that band.
Yeah, converting yards to metric is never pretty.
So exactly why are you here asd?
You and your wife took your vows before your god you have your faith , so what exactly is it your looking for here?
Could it be that all that doesn’t mean
shit and you know it?
Biology and evolution trump faith every time.
Deal with reality or reality will deal with you! Imaginary friend by your side or not.
Hypergamy isn’t interested in your faith so please leave it at the door when you come in here. ( not just you )
Hypergamy isn’t interested in your faith so please leave it at the door when you come in here.
Hypergamy isn’t interested in your atheistic shit, either. Otoh, the Bible warns of Hypergamy.
Wisdom will save you also from the adulterous woman,
from the wayward woman with her seductive words,
who has left the partner of her youth
and ignored the covenant she made before God
Probably there are other ancient books that cover this as well.
“her personality didn’t lend to any manner not ltr”
Yeah. Reminded me of this HB8 Mexican chick that attended Cornell. Very independent manipulative girl. I wrote a field report about her last year. From our conversations that one night I knew she was no good for ltr. And the fact that she cheated on her medical student boyfriend with me lol
“Primitive(P)
Low Inhibition</b
Low IQ
Ghetto"
"I don't know how to just be. I constantly need some type of input or stimulation usually from more than one source at the same time. It’s what I’m comfortable with and who I am"
https://www.quora.com/What-is-it-like-to-have-low-latent-inhibition
The ” hows “.
I don’t think a lot of men understand inhibitions irl.
The ” not knowing how to be ” is very common among particular generations. It’s probably why there has been an explosion of ” disorders ” being added to our lexicon over the past few decades.
On Rollo’s twitter:
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/17/fashion/weddings/before-i-say-i-do-a-word-to-the-exes.html
It’s been a while since I read something so depressive!
I am so sorry for this guy she “ended up with”.
How does it feel to be the last guy in the line?
😂😂
@asd
I enjoy checking out your thoughts on your blog now and then, but my work filter has it blocked under category of pornography… any ideas on why that might be?
I enjoy checking out your thoughts on your blog now and then, but my work filter has it blocked under category of pornography… any ideas on why that might be?
Must be all those “Girls Gone Wild” vids.
@blax
Oh and to return to your earlier comment:
“But you can get a ton of clues and pull it out of her without directly asking, and she won’t even realize what happened”
You don’t think I ask every girl i interact with if they travel, have tattoos/piercings just shits and giggles do you? lol
http://www.returnofkings.com/16837/24-signs-shes-a-slut
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bn1aUQzhTt4/
” without directly asking “
In conversation
What were the most difficult problems you faced and how did you solve them?
She where it goes while Collaborating
Are guys with tats all bikers and tough guys? Tats don’t always mean what they used to. Better to have skills than to assume.
The rok list isn’t definitive. Evidently it’s written for totally clueless guys. Like assuming all 6’9″ guys can play basketball.
Good lord that NYT listicle of ex boyfriends is depressing. Interestingly, i was mountain biking in rural Pennsylvania last weekend and stopped into a Starbucks for a coffee on Sunday… saw lots of Amish in the area i was in both days, but Sunday in the Starbucks i saw this captivating, beautiful Amish girl. I’m guessing 17-18ish. Quietly sitting and drinking a Starbucks beverage. Was kind of surprised she was there actually as i thought the Amish shunned most of modernity, and would have thought Starbucks of all places would be verboten. She was staring intently at 2 tatted up… Read more »
@sigma
search my site for “dick pic”…that’s probably what the filter picked up
” without directly asking “
Directly asking = “hey how many guys have you been with?”
“The rok list isn’t definitive.”
We’ll never know for certain what a girls actual lat count is, but if she’s ticks off 5 or more of the signs on that list…well it’s a pretty good sign shes got a n count higher than 5.
Blainr
Second observation is odd as well i went to a high school reunion and no one was happy with themself’s i got to a dace in DC and women are not hitting the wall but are alone anyway’s. It weird to me. It’s a pattern of SJW stuff that has leaked into so much if not everything ive been using to get social in person and fail forward.
” We’ll never know for certain what a girls actual lat count is, but if she’s ticks off 5 or more of the signs on that list…well it’s a pretty good sign shes got a n count higher than 5.” Lol. I love you man. Food for thought ; most men can never really know the average woman’s true count. Especially guys that pick up women in bars and clubs, but it can also extend to church picnics. I know a guy that married a chick I used to bang almost regularly, and he ” confided ” in me that… Read more »
“So the signs aren’t as reliable as they used to be” Nah still very reliable. You keep making the mistake of saying if she has ONE of the 24 signs on that list it doesn’t automatically mean she’s a slut (“tattoos dont mean what they used to”) I said, if a particular chick exhibits at least FIVE (hell maybe even 4 lol) of the signs, you can be 100% certain she doesnt have a low n count (not ltr material) Let me pull up 5 of the most “innocent” signs on that list: 1).Broaches the topic of illegal drugs (even… Read more »
Lmao. Okay mane.
Evidently it depends on where one lives(?). Marijuana? Really? DJ’s? Artist? Tan? Where I live and in surrounding areas, there are these things called ” Tanning Salons “. they appear to be quite popular. I wouldn’t know for sure…. Party College is a definite maybe. Maybe all of this is true in Florida or something, where people seem to be ” off ” in many ways, lol. But I disagree still, that the list is in any way definitive, even if it’s 4 out of 5 or whatever. Learn. Learn to read them. That way you won’t marry the librarian… Read more »
I’m not Blaximus, J, but I’m pretty sure his entire point just whiffed right over your head.
Just saying.
I’m not Blaximus, J, but I’m pretty sure his entire point just whiffed right over your head.
BSA (Blaximus Spoiler Alert)
J, pretend that you’re playing poker with a girl for money. How would you know when she’s bluffing and when she has a good hand?
There are all kinds of ways to fish info out of people without relying on some bogus set of “rules.” If you have a little expertise, the mark won’t even know that she has been fished.
” How would you know when she’s bluffing and when she has a good hand?”
He’ll ask her and check her hair color and tan status.
Orson On Rollo’s twitter: Maggie’s wedding confessions Everyday the red pill truths keep coming… A quick search and it seems she is about 31 years old. So another one hits the wall and settles on a beta bux agenda. Shit’s going to get real for this beta bux in 7 to 10 years, I feel bad for him. She really waxed on about being banged by the Israeli soldier for 10 days straight…before settling on her husband, to whom she says “The man who told me he loved me after four months, and didn’t give up on me when I… Read more »
“Learn to read them. That way you won’t marry the librarian with a 200 n-count.” From the lookism thread you dismissed: “This is the so-called faux-HQNP, think of hipsters or any artsy movie- the whole purpose is to emulate the sophisticated/seductive/exceptional spirit of the authentic genius. It’s pretty apparent the adjustment of the outer signalling doesn’t suffice to create the HQNP complexity – it’s just not there, cause HQNP is the ultimate expression of the spiritual, intellectual, moral and aesthetic purity. Personally speaking, I don’t differentiate between faux-HQNPs and sluts: If I had looked at the Facebook/Instagram page of this… Read more »
you could, because you can’t read.
We call em “fake innocent”
Why it matters to be able to read people. Plus Beta thirst is real.
https://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/article218723835.html
Make sure that gold ticket is real gold, not fools gold.
And even pyrite can turn out to be pywrong.
Centuries on Maggie A quick search and it seems she is about 31 years old. Wow, who could have seen that coming, eh? Lolz. Golden Ticket, right there! The thing to remember: she’s pretty typical of an urban, UMC girl in her “path to marriage”, the unusual part is writing an essay for the NYT. We could take this girl out to flyover country and with a little coaching walk her through the typical church, and she’d be catered to & fluttered over as the leadership stormed at men to “manUP! Marry this beautiful, beautiful girl!”. The kind of girl… Read more »
I was just saying about Florida…..
https://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/article218723835.html
weird shit always happens in Florida. I go visit family there, and I try to get in and get back out as soon as possible.
@Centuries I bet her n-count is much much more high than she likes to admit in that article. “While I hoped each of these guys were the one at some point, I’m so lucky they weren’t. Thank you for having everything they lacked.” At this point the hamster was spinning so fast that his soul departed from his body. This Freudian slip we translate with red pill lenses as this: While my hypergamy hoped to secure long term commitment from my alpha fux guys I am so unlucky that I failed ….but now that I hit the fucking Wall I… Read more »
@J
Do girls whom you aren’t fucking tell you all the sordid details of their life?
Not to speak for J, but I don’t think he actually knows a lot of women outside of sex, and he doesn’t have any female friends, so there’s no reliable way for him to gather this kind of intel.
He’s in a live fire exercise.
When I want to know something about plumbing, I never sought out a baker to ask. I’ve learned more over years about feminine nature, from interacting with actual females. Guys helped initially, but the brass tacks stuff came straight from the horses mouth, and by observation over a very long time.
“I don’t think he actually knows a lot of women outside of sex, and he doesn’t have any female friends”
[attractive] women are for sex. Men are for friendship.
” [attractive] women are for sex. Men are for friendship”
Lol. Like I said.
They will always be a mystery to you, that you will consistently misjudge and misunderstand. Reddit will fill your head with gobeldy gook. the amazing autist at lookism will just continue to make shit up and slap each other on the back at their brilliance.
And there will be no true way to discern which woman is which.
But they might have killer tans.
@Blaximus
I was just saying about Florida…..
https://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/article218723835.html
weird shit always happens in Florida. I go visit family there, and I try to get in and get back out as soon as possible.
!!!?!?!?!?…lol
let THAT secret society shit STAY secret, yo!…lol
good luck!
@blainr
1) “She was staring intently at 2 tatted up hamplanets”
Hamplanets! That’s my new world for the day. Is that some species of Pennsylvania land whale?
2) It could be worse — they could be out walking their cats. At least dogs can provide someone with a sense of structure and purpose they might otherwise be lacking.
AR “The Beta AFC who’s marrying her is setting himself up. I feel like sending him copies of Rollo’s books as wedding gifts.”
What might also work is if a buddy sent him a couple links like,
https://therationalmale.com/2012/07/18/the-wall/
https://therationalmale.com/2017/03/15/the-epiphany-phase-revisited/
Funny thing there are multiple women all with the same name all getting married in the same time period. He’ll have to figure it out himself.
Hey Blax, Sentient, Palma: “They will always be a mystery to you, that you will consistently misjudge and misunderstand. Reddit will fill your head with gobeldy gook. the amazing autist at lookism will just continue to make shit up and slap each other on the back at their brilliance.” Riffing on Mystery Method, Krauser has a new post that explains the void of the current state of PUA videos that are making the rounds. Krauser has an essay about Cargo Cult Daygame. (Off topic: Krauser and BlackLabelLogic are solid MBTI INTJ’s. So am I. Myers-Briggs is frequently mis-interpreted as an… Read more »
” Go figure. How the fuck did that happen?”
Lmao. It happens because I’m an old hand at this shit and since I like J very much ( most of the time ), I try to get him to think more deeply.
Now, I gotta read the krauser piece because I normally don’t read him. But didn’t he write the deep conversion stuff too? Pua’s laughed their asses off at that one.
InscrutableMasterminds are that by design. And Deep Conversion? Straight up being comfortable in your own skin. Operating in your own great mental point of origin. Deep conversion is bringing your girl into your frame. Straight up Rollo, straight up Blaximus. Straight up L8TR game. Dare-say Deida proto-Red Pill Deida. Deep conversion in L8TR game. Go figure. What could go wrong? The abyss, and one’s fears. That’s what. Girls” firmware wants to be led by a non-ambivalent masculine male. Desire is instilled in a polar masculine frame. With her in a defensive crouch. She is not into self-serving 50/50 safety and… Read more »
LTR game
Women smell better to men when they are most fertile.
https://www.swissinfo.ch/eng/sci-tech/hormonal-research_women-smell-best-to-men-when-they-are-most-fertile–study-finds-/44391866
http://www.unibe.ch/news/media_news/media_relations_e/media_releases/2018/medienmitteilungen_2018/scent_of_a_woman_what_makes_it_attractive/index_eng.html
Well; I’m just shocked I tell you … shocked!!!
Palma
Hurry up and read this before Rollo wakes up and has a Jungian shit-fit:
https://personalityhacker.com/personality-development-tools-the-car-diagram/
ENTP’s, known to be good at flirting and seduction. I have two buddies that are ENTP. Both started very Blue Pill. One raced to embrace Red Pill and straightened his shit out quick with his girlfriend. The other lagged in triage but still does fine for himself.
@Palma,
ENTP here as well. Shit, you’re not left hand as well are you?
The personality hacker info is helpful. I’ve learned how to calibrate much better having a clearer picture of my strengths and weaknesses, especially in social settings when ENTPs overt thinking can sometimes be obnoxious to others.
The best mental model for Game is it’s not just a skill, but a language.
The more fluent you are the better you will do.
But a language is not a lifestyle or a life.
@PalmaSailor I’m going to riff a bit more on the Personality Preferences stuff. In the OP: “How would this newfound fortune change your life? How would it change your family and your friend’s dealing with you? Would they be happy for you? Maybe jealous? Would you be able to manage the changes in your daily routine? If you were accustomed to one lifestyle and then switched to a more affluent lifestyle would it be a good change? Or would you become someone else?” Make no mistake that I’m a Red Pill enthusiast. So are my buddies in my tribe. We… Read more »
I know that too Palma. You have a super-power that way. What I’m getting at is a way to minimize your weaknesses by knowing your blind spots, through preferences and personality functions. Your weakness can be made less weak, esp. under times of stress, or in Liminal Spaces. The utility is to understand your weaknesses. Mind you, I discovered some of these functions and weakness in our red pill group of guys, by the process of continually field reporting. We would have a round robin of emails, texts and conversations. We figured a lot out by Field Reporting and getting… Read more »
One more thing. MBTI doesn’t stand up to empirical scrutiny at all. So what? “As a probabilistic heuristic it serves a different purpose, the goal is not that it is repeatable the goal is that it works for the purpose you are employing it.” –see below Hence my enthusiasm. It can work. It did for us. And definitely did this over and over: “A second major reason for learning MBTI is that by understanding your own patterns and modes of thinking you can supercharge your self-development. The types and functions all have a tendency towards certain patterns of self-destructive/non-efficient behavior.”… Read more »
From the previous page… on “fake innocents” via rooshvforum: “Some years ago, I was dating a girl for about 6 months who claimed to have only been with three guys before me. Of course in hindsight there were plenty of red flags, but this was during my more naive years. I was smitten and I considered her a keeper. A few months into the relationship, while she was sucking my dick she took out her camera and asked to take a photo of my dick so she could look at it when I wasn’t around. I didn’t see any harm… Read more »
Only pix? No vids? No double-selfies? Heh. Yawn. This stuff is not rare, and it’s gonna get more common, I predict. Every year or so a furor erupts somewhere, often in a reddit, because some man who married a special pwincess in twu wuv happens to find an old vid, maybe even on VHS, from her past. Usually there are multiple men (he’s not one of them) involved with her, often there are sexual activities that she won’t do (anymore) and he winds up pouring out his heart to other men about how betrayed he feels (he is, because he… Read more »
All we need is a reliable male contraceptive that does not diminish sexual pleasure and this whole fucking bullshit house of cards will come tumbling down, amirite?
@AR cool. Ya. All Women want to fuck alpha males, shit test, etc., but..there ARE girls with low n-counts and girls with high n-counts (…or has every hot girl on the planet fucked at least 50 guys?). The former make good potential wives/long term girlfriends (dat vetting yo!) that you can feel good about investing you’re hard earned resources in. The latter (including high n-count sluts pretending to be low n-count girls) are nothing but fuckbuddy material and nothing else. “can’t make a ho a housewife.” I saw the ivy league chick again last night. (she actually insisted I use… Read more »
“….that you can feel good about investing you’re hard earned resources in. ..”
DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!!!!!
resources = your sperm/golden ticket (children and the costs associated with having them) + time/money (you gotta spend your hard earned cash for all them dates/spontaneous trips to Puerto Rico, right? or do you split costs (or even more alpha….make her pay for the entire thing) with your wife every time lol?).
….shit you don’t gotta worry about livin’ the player lifestyle.
LEX
All we need is a reliable male contraceptive that does not diminish sexual pleasure and this whole fucking bullshit house of cards will come tumbling down, amirite?
Well, I dunno. Maybe walk through that a bit, show me how it would work in real life.
For example:
Step 1: something reversible vasectomy something
Step 2: Lots of average men choose to use this stuff
Step 3….?
I don’t see anything that would affect hypergamy, or women’s independence, but maybe I am missing that part.
@Anonymous Reader
I think that one of the strongest leverage points that hypergamy has is pregnancy / offspring – forcing beta bucks to be provided. He has to “man up” at that point, as the expression goes, which mean pay up. If a man can reliably guarantee that he will not create pregnancy, he can maintain his freedom from being coerced into this position.
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The former make good potential wives/long term girlfriends (dat vetting yo!) that you can feel good about investing you’re hard earned resources in.
Totally!
For sure when you find your soulmate, the Quality Woman that you can completely invest your oneitis in without any fear, it’s obviously time to discard your own frame and step all the way into hers…
No doubt about it! What could possibly go wrong?
OT, but not entirely irrelevant, my new favorite saying:
“The S in IoT stands for Security.”
https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/88x74n/is_a_vasectomy_necessary_to_prevent_female/
LEX I think that one of the strongest leverage points that hypergamy has is pregnancy / offspring – forcing beta bucks to be provided. First of all: Women can be their own betas. Daddy State is also available. What percentage of women who pushed a baby out in 2016 were unmarried? Just saying. He has to “man up” at that point, as the expression goes, which mean pay up. If a man can reliably guarantee that he will not create pregnancy, he can maintain his freedom from being coerced into this position. Second of all: So a girl that you… Read more »
Oneitis – Attraction towards a single potential partner to the exclusion of other possible partners.
http://www.yourdictionary.com/oneitis
Sorry @blax, but according to AR, you got a bad case of Oneitis…
but seriously…where do you see me saying doing LTR activities (dates/spending $$$ aka shit you wouldn’t do with a slut (unless you got a scarcity mindset) with a low n-count girl give you license to act beta now?
” (you gotta spend your hard earned cash for all them dates/spontaneous trips to Puerto Rico, right? or do you split costs (or even more alpha….make her pay for the entire thing) ” Funny. Since you ask though, the last 4-5 trips to PR was paid for 100% by my wife. In fact, the last few bigger vacations were paid by her as well. She will usually ask me to block out ” X ” dates from work. I don’t see things in what’s considered ” traditional “. I earn resources as a matter of living and needing to get… Read more »
@Anonymous Reader I think you are cherry picking outlier examples. How often does this actually happen in real life? There may be *examples* of men paying for children proven not to be theirs, but surely a genetic test is good enough for the majority of court cases.
” but seriously…where do you see me saying doing LTR activities (dates/spending $$$ aka shit you wouldn’t do with a slut (unless you got a scarcity mindset) with a low n-count girl give you license to act beta now?”
Mindset.
Understanding.
Motivation(s).