The Golden Ticket

Imagine, if you will, that you buy a lottery ticket and you win. After taxes the payoff is $2 million. Not an exorbitant amount by today’s standards, but still quite a lot of money for the average paycheck to paycheck person. For some it may be what could be described as Fuck You Money, easily enough for most people to retire on very comfortably.

How would this newfound fortune change your life? How would it change your family and your friend’s dealing with you? Would they be happy for you? Maybe jealous? Would you be able to manage the changes in your daily routine? If you were accustomed to one lifestyle and then switched to a more affluent lifestyle would it be a good change? Or would you become someone else?

Now lets say you could possibly win $100 million if you made an almost certain bet. There were still some risks involved, but nothing that would threaten your life in the short term. How would winning this kind of money reflect on your daily routine? Would it be different than your winning $2 million? Money would cease to be an object for you for the rest of your life and likely the lives of your children, maybe even grandchildren and all you really had to do was make a smart bet that you believed would pay off.

What if you only won $1 million or $500,000, but you were only making $36,000 a year and scraping by the best you could? Again, all you have to do is look for the best opportunity to make a short term sacrifice and the money would be yours. Would you compromise your ‘principles’ (assuming you have any) temporarily to change your life in the long term more significantly?

Imagine you had a Golden Ticket that had a potential to win you $70,000 per year or if you played things right it had the potential to earn you $10 million per year if you were wise enough to capitalize on it. How would that change your outlook on life?

What rationales would that prompt you to in order to reconcile that other people might not have the same potential for cashing in –without really earning it – that you do?

Here’s your Ticket

Okay, got that in your head now? Good. Now imagine that you’re given this Golden Ticket at the tender age of 12 years old. It’s handed to you and you’re told, “Keep this ticket with you forever. You can redeem it for more money while you’re young, but the longer you hold on to it the less it will be worth. Even still, it should be valuable for most of your life if you can manage to hold on to it.” And even after you’ve cashed the ticket in you can still retain it for a time, because some people have been able to trade one prize for a larger one by taking the ticket back and redeeming it for a better prize later.

Now you begin to believe that you deserve the biggest prize because, well, you’ve been deprived of things. You’re special; special enough to know you deserve the very best after having been deprived of these things as one of a long line of people who’ve also been deprived of things – the best things – or so they’ve told you.

You could always earn some money and get the things you and your people have never been able to reliably get, at least, again, that’s what they’ve told you. You have a lot of personal potential, you’re independent, you have a lot of respectable strengths, so you know you could always merit the things you deserve. But you still have this Golden Ticket in your hand, why wouldn’t you use it? You could earn some money, maybe a lot, but it will never be as reliable or as much as the money the Golden Ticket could net you – if you know just when to redeem it.

Stipulations

All that said, there are going to be a few stipulations to this lottery, but still, they’re not as steep when you compare them to having to actually earn a similar prize.

The first stipulation: You must stay physically fit. In fact, the better you look the better your potential prize could be. As you age this potential decays, but even still, you occasionally see some people cash out their ticket for great prizes despite their age. They just had to apply themselves more in the gym to get it.

The second stipulation: You must be agreeable, accommodating, even a bit flirty. You must put forward the impression that you are someone who genuinely deserves the best prize that the ticket might offer to a special person like you. You must give the perception that the experience of you deserves the highest potential prize imaginable.

The third stipulation: You must position yourself in social situations where the potential for the biggest payout for your ticket can be maximized. Sometimes, not always, but often these settings might make you uncomfortable, but hey, you wanted to make the most of the ticket, right? This stipulation really isn’t all that discomforting when you realize that once you have cashed in your ticket you’ll be the one deciding where you live and who you’ll choose to associate with anyway. At least that’s what the lottery organizers would have you believe.

There are a few more minor stipulations, but, for all of this, you still deserve the biggest prize that opportunity might bring your way. So, while the best thing would be for you to stay in shape and be ready for a big prize, the people playing the same lottery as you – most with the same potential – will tell you none of this really matters. They insist that you just being you is enough for you to win a big prize. Or it should be.

It’s almost as if they want you to believe that you can dismiss all the stipulations and still make out pretty good. In fact they praise you for going against the stipulations. They complain about how unfair these rules are and that for people as deprived as themselves, and for as long as they and their predecessors have been deprived, they should simply be given the highest, best and most secure forms of the prize – all irrespective of the very minimal stipulations as they are.

This is the Golden Ticket! How dare anyone place prerequisites on us to get the prizes we so thoroughly deserve. How dare anyone make us earn our birthright. But for all this discontent, the rules of the game still apply, and the people who embrace and master the stipulations largely seem to get the biggest and best prizes. And the ones complaining about the stipulations only seem to drag down the people with the same Golden Ticket, and their prizes are usually nothing compared to the people who take the stipulations to heart.

The Agreement

Finally, and maybe most importantly, there is one last detail of this lottery to consider. In order to keep the biggest and best prizes you have to sign a very loose and totally non-binding contract that only benefits you and ensures you will continue to be paid dividends should you decide to renege on the agreement and take your ticket back to use it again. The contract can be broken by you at any time, and even when you do you’ll still receive a substantial percentage of your original prize in monthly installments and usually for the rest of of your life.

Still, your signing this contract will limit your capacity to play this lottery in the future. If you see the potential for a better prize after you’ve signed the contract of limitations you’ll be less able to capitalize on it. However, the way that the contract is written it doesn’t necessarily exclude you from winning and even bigger prize should the opportunity arise. Your ticket reserves the right to be redeemed for other prizes if you make some wise bets.

So, at the end here, we get to the larger point of this metaphor; how would this ticket change the way you live your life? How would it influence your future decisions? How would the ticket affect your personal relationships with your best friends, some of whom have tickets themselves? How would the subconscious knowledge of the ticket alter your dealings with a husband, a wife, the children you may have or your immediate family?

Would the ticket define who you will become in life?

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

377 comments on “The Golden Ticket

  1. “I now think Rollo pulled a fast one”

    Q.E.D.

    Perhaps a basis for his fourth book in fiction.

    Excellent writing Rollo. Metaphor, abstractions, what’s not to like?

  2. No harm brother.

    It’s understandable what with all of the noise/jbp talk about equality of outcomes and other stawman arguments being bandied about constantly in subterfuge.😁

  3. Nice, Rollo!

    I was really tempted to answer “yes” to the question at the end. This post lent me some understanding and even empathy for those to whom the metaphor applies. Chilling.

  4. Whenever I see the popular feminist slogan “My body my choice” I think inside of me “Your Body ok …but my choice to pump and dump you and never look back”

  5. I get bored like once a year for a couple minutes.

    Now’s one of those minutes.

    My avatar picture is from when I was flail mowing a ten-week-old field of buckwheat that I had planted for “green manure” (and to give honeybees a menagerie ). Roundup ready sugar beets are to the left of the tractor. Deer fodder.

    We used to trade “field reports” re: Whitetail Deer Habitat. Lots and lots of field reports.

    So I got off my tractor, went and climbed into a red pine and took a snapshot with my Nikon D200.

    DEER hunting starts this weekend. The early antlerless firearm season for adults and youth season for bucks.

  6. I am still amazed that no one in the manosphere speaks about this phenomenon:
    Skank whores and other sluts on the carousel who have failed to consolidate on that elusive male that, as her hypergamy dictates, she ought to lock in a long term commitment. They are consistently pump and dumped or rejected by those top men to the point that they have recognised the pattern and lost every hope, eventually turning really nihilistic and bitter towards other men who fall into the 80% of the Pareto principle.
    It has happened to me and other men several times and can’t be a coincidence. They are unnecessarily bitter, ironic or mean when rejecting a guy…you can sense it from miles away that she is deriving some pleasure from this. Like …”I am so proud that I destroyed your male ego now”.

  7. So what you are saying is that skank whores that are Alpha widows don’t want to associate with low SMV Betas?

    So what you are saying is that they are low self esteem girls that don’t want to give out their goods for free? They’d rather be with the guys that reject them.

    So what you are saying is that has never been discussed in the manosphere, right?

    So what you are saying is that in the inter-sexual marketplace, there are strategies?

    You are right.

    If the marketplace is a game? Where does that leave you? What are you going to do about that?

  8. ” It has happened to me and other men several times and can’t be a coincidence. They are unnecessarily bitter, ironic or mean when rejecting a guy…you can sense it from miles away that she is deriving some pleasure from this. Like …”I am so proud that I destroyed your male ego now”.”

    Hmmmmm……

    ” They are consistently pump and dumped or rejected by those top men to the point that they have recognised the pattern and lost every hope, eventually turning really nihilistic and bitter towards other men who fall into the 80% of the Pareto principle.”

    You certain about that?

    Really certain?

    Travel and met a wider range of people perhaps?

    Maybe don’t spend so much time around skank whores?

    Idk. I’m at a loss here.

  9. Orson

    “I am still amazed that no one in the manosphere speaks about this phenomenon:
    Skank whores and other sluts on the carousel who have failed to consolidate on that elusive male that, as her hypergamy dictates, she ought to lock in a long term commitment. ”

    This is literally 80% of thr Manosphere… 100% of autistic lonely men.

    Look… If this isn’t for you, the whole “proof of performance” thing. Just slide quietly into that goodnight… Or get better.

    But just stop the ranting.

  10. “…. lemme think and find my solar powered calculator.”

    I’ve got my beef powered Pickett slide rules right here if you want to borrow one. You can chose between full size or the mini model they sent to the moon.

  11. “… If this isn’t for you, the whole “proof of performance” thing. Just slide quietly into that goodnight… Or get better.”

    Lotta people walking around looking for the “Skip Boss Fight” button so they can be “winners.”

  12. You must really have a low sense of dignity as men! There is no “proof of performance” when you are told to get the fuck off by some very average in the HB scale low IQ bimbo ! It’s humiliating!

    I am not saying they are all like this but lately it’s more frequent this type of aggressive ill-intentioned rejection.

  13. “It’s humiliating!”

    If you think you’re below the level of a very average in the HB scale low IQ bimbo !

    Otherwise what it is is funny.

  14. ” You must really have a low sense of dignity as men! There is no “proof of performance” when you are told to get the fuck off by some very average in the HB scale low IQ bimbo ! It’s humiliating! ”

    No frame of reference.

    umm… I mean – No frame of reference!

  15. “You must really have a low sense of dignity as men!”

    To put it in other terms, you keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

  16. I think the word dignity it’s pretty accurate! It’s more offending when impoliteness comes from a person you deem inferior than you! It’s like a squirrel beating the shit out of a lion!

  17. Orson
    There is no “proof of performance” when you are told to get the fuck off by some very average in the HB scale low IQ bimbo !

    Ok. Why are you approaching those women?

    It’s humiliating!

    Well, for a start I suggest you avoid such women in the future.
    Also learn some Game, especially “calibration”.

  18. “It’s more offending when impoliteness comes from a person you deem inferior than you!”

    If you lack dignity and take your opinion of yourself from others. What you are describing is called “butthurt.” Butthurt is never, ever dignified.

    If you want male dignity, kill the beta butthurt. Then you can “Bitch, pleeeease” all you want.

    But it’s more fun to laugh at the joke.

  19. Off topic, but kind of funny. On Mrs. Gamer’s phone I read a message from daughter Gamer, “Is Dad behaving himself?”

    XD I’m in that 10% jerk sweet spot.

    Oh, last Fri. night I was doing my usual routine at my fav. country bar. A 30ish girl asked me to dance. During the dance, she said that she had worked at the bar previously. Ah, she had seen me, but I didn’t remember her. During the dance, she followed Ok and I turned her a lot. After the dance, I told her that I wanted to meet her group. We walked off the floor holding each other’s backs and not wanting to let go. Finally, as we neared her group, she dropped her hand and I did likewise. Then she grabbed my hand and pulled me towards her group, which consisted of her bf and another male friend. We chatted a bit about where they could take dance lessons, then I left.

    The girl had a strong emotional connection to me. Fyi, an emotional connection is necessary for desire sex for a woman. Funny, she didn’t mention her bf during the dance. Obviously wasn’t having ASD problems. She was in the liminal sweet space.

  20. @theasdgamer

    “Then she grabbed my hand and pulled me towards her group, which consisted of her bf and another male friend. We chatted a bit about where they could take dance lessons, then I left.”

    “Funny, she didn’t mention her bf during the dance. Obviously wasn’t having ASD problems.”

    …because she doesn’t view you as a sexual threat, mate. Just a silly old guy with above avg dance moves.

  21. High quality not primitive, huh.

    Fucking retards don’t know how to act when talking about pussy. Struggle struggle struggle….bang! Got laid. Now talk miles of shit because, again, you managed to do something billions and billions and billions of men have done before you.

    Next there will be reddits and shit about breathing.😁😁

  22. Masculinity is hard. Masculinity is real. It’s there when a man acts justly with no reference to his feels.

    Masculinity is innate. Masculinity is by design. It has been intertwined within man from the mind of the divine.

    Masculinity is a fire, residing in the depths of man’s mold. The man who fails to feed it leaves a gaping void within his soul.

    Masculinity is rugged. Masculinity speaks words of truth. Feelings may get hurt, but men are compelled by nature to deliver swift rebukes.

    Masculinity isn’t easy; it requires discipline of self. To commit to any less is to put your convictions on a shelf.

    I’m a man. I am masculine. I proclaim it unashamed. And I do it no matter how many feminists will say that toxic masculinity is to blame.

    Masculinity is man; man is masculinity. This, my friends, is a self-evident truth that will go on into infinity.
    Craig James

  23. I was wrong that the issue isn’t addressed in the manosphere.
    After a bit of search last night I found this related post from Heartiste.

    That’s not the first time I have experienced savage put downs by unattractive women both irl and on Tinder. Some lower smv women prop up their self esteem by being bitches to men who approach them because in some way it must allow them to feel like they are emulating the behaviour of women with higher smv and like they have choices (ultimately they don’t). Higher SMV women have less to prove to themselves and others.

    That last paragraph gets to the heart of the matter. Quite often, LSMV girls will act bitchy toward men, even high value men, because this is their only chance to feel, for a very short moment in the sun, the thrill of being an in-demand hot babe with the consequence-free privilege of rejecting suitors left and right. The LSMV girl is, through the egoistic palliative of her phony bitchiness, playing the role of the beautiful girl with tons of options and the self-entitled, my-shit-don’t-stink attitude that goes with all those options.

    https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/06/15/why-less-attractive-girls-act-bitchy/

  24. @Palmasailor

    I don’t rule out the miscalibration in approach though I doubt it’s the only variable at play. Sometimes the bitchy attitude and malicious intent is already pre-installed and she is just waiting for you to do the approach so she can shoot the venom.

    I remember a story a girl I was dating told me once: She used to frequent a bar in Paris where she would dress like a peacock to get the attention of a habitue who never would flirt with her. Despite her constant peacocking around him …this guy wouldn’t even stare at her or pay any attention at all. She got some form of Oneitis from being ignored and would visit the bar just to be seen and hopefully approached by this man. She didn’t care about fucking other guys and would reject scores of men approaching her every night. Her rejection mode was pre-installed!

  25. Orson

    “Sometimes the bitchy attitude and malicious intent is already pre-installed and she ”

    She? I thought you were talking about yourself.

    “I remember a story a girl I was dating told me once”

    And the lessons of that are lost on you…

  26. The best move is to laugh and say “What makes you think I was interested?” and turn your back on her. Start counting down the seconds in your head, because there is a high probability that she will start pursuing you.

    Just be careful, because if she is truly a skank whore, you don’t want to have anything to do with that, and once a girl wants to fuck you, it’s my experience that she will usually find a way to convince you against your better judgment.

  27. Apropos of nothing in particular beyond the passing of an age, Mary “Spitfire Girl” Ellis of the British Air Transport Authority and first female commandant of the RAF and perhaps the most all around experienced pilot in the world when she was one of three women selected to fly the Gloster Meteor jet fighter died on July 24, age 101.

  28. “Some lower smv women prop up their self esteem by being bitches to men who approach them because in some way it must allow them to feel like they are emulating the behaviour of women with higher smv and like they have choices (ultimately they don’t). Higher SMV women have less to prove to themselves and others.”

    agree.

    two early 20s girls i know. both obsessed with guys. they constantly talk about guys and their plans with regards to handling them

    girl 1: “guys are like, obsessed. they’re all snapping me because she (point to friend, girl 2) won’t respond”

    girl 2: “oh yeah, I never respond. and people are like why?, and I’m like, uh, because you’re some weirdo I only ever met once trying to snap me”

    girl 1: “we have to go to the bars in uptown on friday. they guys near uni are all broke and they’re so obsessed and they just like, hang around, and like keep trying, even when we ignore them”

    girl 2: “yeah, we have to go to spot #1 and see Chad, and then spot #2 and see Evan and spot #3 to see….

    facts:

    girl 1 is an already chunky 5.5 slob with horrible ink and tons of issues

    girl 2 has some kind of fucking degenerative nerve disease and wears these fucked up leg braces that hook into this back brace. without that shit she would be a doughy 4.5

    both totally unfuckable yet have guys hounding them at every bar and snapping them and inflating their egos to massive proportions while chad, evan and brock won’t even acknowledge they are actually females

    they think they have options. it’s quite insane.

    and if the one with the robot legs is rejecting guys for entertainment/ego prop, just image the thought patterns of some aggressive hb6, or the in shape hb6.5, or the “successful” hb7…

  29. @fleezer

    “both totally unfuckable yet have guys hounding them at every bar and snapping them and inflating their egos to massive proportions while chad, evan and brock won’t even acknowledge they are actually females

    they think they have options. it’s quite insane.”

    Accurate assessment of how fucked up is the dating market today!

  30. “they think they have options. it’s quite insane.”

    Yeah truth. Last Friday I was trying to make sure my girl (7.5)’s friend had a guy (one of the first thing my girl asked me when I approached her was “do you have a friend for my friend”?). Thr friend was a chubby short big titty 4.5. Eventually this 7 approaches her and begins flirting with her. His game isnt that great but I’m like whew she has a good looking guy now (she said she likes tall white guys). Guy excuses himself to go to the bathroom, then my girl asks her friend “do you like him” shes like “nah”. So when the guy comes back she’s like nah and the guy leaves. The friend sees my girl likes me and asks her “are you ok”? My girl says “ya” they hug and then she leaves.

    She’d rather go home alone then bang someone wayy above her SMV. Lmao.

  31. Lol at Reddit.

    Awalt is better understood after grasping the underlying mechanics of women. Once you.so this, you will see awalt, and that it’s by degrees – from raging all the way to barely perceptible.

    Instead of looking to debunk, guys should – as yareally used to preach – field test it.

    Also understand this: if a guy has had very little exposure to a larger sample of women over his earlrlife, all of the ” concepts ” will be confusing, confounding, and most likely misunderstood.

    I learned this reading along in the sphere.

    Not getting Awalt is exactly how men get caught off guard. It’s part of how a.lot of guys have a tendency to stop paying attention and falling off their game. Then boy oh boy, do they bitch up a storm.

    So if I.run.across.a.guy questioning network security, when.he’s never set foot in a.state of the art IT center, his questions are quaint. If he runs out and ” reads ” a bunch of shit and uses that to decry solid methods and practices, then obviously he’s a fucking moron.😁

  32. @j

    NAWALT is what blue/purple pill guys or trad thots utilise to hide the fact that hypergamy is more like a subconscious drive. Your NAWALT unicorn remains in this modality for as long as her hypergamy remains dormant.

  33. “Those wide navy seal shoulders were half of the game.”

    Even if that is so/stipulated, what about the other half?

    What are you going to do about that? Wait for the right girl to present herself to you?

    Orson, quick question: Have you ever read The Mystery Method?

  34. @j

    Opening up that reddit link I spy in the first paragraph:

    To answer this i’d like to quote Mark Manson, a former dating coach

    A blue pill conservative feminist is quoted in a reddit article that claims NAWALT.
    Might as well link to PragerU.

    I laugh.

  35. “Ok. Why are you approaching thosewomen?”

    “Travel and met a wider range of people perhaps?

    Maybe don’t spend so much time around skank whores?”

    Hmmm what did they mean by this?

  36. J

    Eventually this 7 approaches her

    HER? what kind of fresh fuckery is this? Guys are NOT on the HB scale J…

    Really you need to start growing up.

  37. J

    As far as my comment about spending time around ” skank whores ” ( which is telling of mindset in itself ), is that some.chicks let their dream flags fly with zfg about how they are perceived.

    Usually men they won’t fuck tend to harshly label them in some manner.

    My broader point, if you’d pay attention, is that every single woman has the potential to be a ” skank whores “. Awalt. This includes every woman I know, as well as my mom, wife and daughters.

    Potential and degree.

    There’s nothing mysterious or baffling about women. Ignition/fuel systems on modern cars are more mysterious than any woman could ever aspire to be.

    This is why I consistently ask if while guys are out there approaching all this chicks over many years, are you learning anything? Prefect opportunity… Or you can still be baffled and miffed.

  38. @SJF

    No I haven’t read M.Method. I watched a bunch of videos from him the other day and have mixed feelings about as I am of the opinion that a guy who has internalised rep pill knowledge should be able to develop his own game!
    I wasn’t particularly blue pill before coming here with an exception of a LTR with a nasty BPD where I ended being omega! My father and oldest brother were quite alpha type of men and I was an avid reader of Marquis De Sade. Also when younger my hero was auteur porn star Rocco Siffredi….a very masculine and naturally alpha type of man!

    I think my break up from BPD ex brought me to the red pill and the manosphere and a thread I found in SoSuave after a google search! Anyone know who this guy is and what book he is talking about?

    https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/your-bpd-girlfriend-is-terrified-of-losing-you.212084/

  39. This is why I consistently ask if while guys are out there approaching all this chicks over many years, are you learning anything?

    I think that J carries his learning organ in his pants.

  40. @theasdgamer

    I actually think you are the stupid fuck here!
    I have had my share of women either before or after the red pill! I also know in real life many natural pussy slayers who know nothing about faggot MM or the red pill!

  41. “Guys are NOT on the HB scale”

    guys are on the “how badly can he fuck me up” scale, not purely physical but all life wise

    7 = probability is good that some damage will occur but will not approach significance

    she was itching for 8+ that night

    translation: “I know he’ll beat up my pussy, but will he cross the line? let’s find out”

    really not knowing if she gonna get choked out in an alley = tingles

    instability is a factor girls screening for in short term fux chads as instability = more opportunity to emotionally manipulate a high T guy who normally wouldn’t put up with her shit?

    when it counts, don’t give an inch

    my way or the highway is the only way

  42. Orson

    I am of the opinion that a guy who has internalised rep pill knowledge should be able to develop his own game!

    If you are the only one who speaks your language, good luck with that…

    Game is the decoded female language of seduction…

  43. I actually think you are the stupid fuck here!
    I have had my share of women either before or after the red pill!

    How long have you been in a relationship and are still having sex? That’s the measure of how good your game is.

    Read MM. Or stay stupid, Idc.

  44. “I am of the opinion that a guy who has internalised rep pill knowledge should be able to develop his own game!”

    Oh, Really?

    By using masculine inductive and deductive reasoning?

    Red Pill is awareness. Game is practice. The reason the manosphere was invented was to swap notes among guys about both. And to help with process.

    The Game (Neil Strauss’ book) and Mystery method was process founded on awareness of inter-sexual dynamics based on field work and PUA tactics.

    art·ist·ry

    noun
    creative skill or ability.

    synonyms: creative skill, creativity, art, skill, talent, genius, brilliance, flair, proficiency, virtuosity, finesse, style

    Mystery studied the underlying dynamics of seduction going back to Cassanova. He knew why things work in seduction. He didn’t just make things up by trial and error, he distilled a lot of knowledge and put a large group of men in place to test it.

    What’s one of the underlying themes in Robert Greene’s Mastery? Get a mentor.

  45. Last night I was at a bar sitting with a bunch of old ladies. It was a group meetup. I didn’t know them, but I was paying attention to their signals. I told some mild stories from my youth and these women gave me some IOD’s, which I recognized in the moment. I just stayed chill and shut up and looked around. They restarted the convo and I told some more stories and riffed off of some stories another guy told and the girls were giggling and laughing.

    The event organizer asked me for suggestions for a meetup and I told him about a cool vinyard in the area.

    I left early while I would still be missed. The event organizer checked with me as I was heading out the door to see if I had a good time. It was an Ok time and was useful because I got to practice my convo, which was why I went to the meetup. Considering that I was jet lagged, the evening was a rousing success.

    (Oh, Blax, no dancing at the bar, so I wasn’t relying on my dancing ability.)

  46. @Blax
    “There’s nothing mysterious or baffling about women. Ignition/fuel systems on modern cars are more mysterious than any woman could ever aspire to be.”

    In fact they can be even simpler, more like working an on/off switch or a volume-control knob. But there were plenty of times I couldn’t even tell one from the other, or I’d lost the remote.

  47. @blax

    “that somechicks let their dream flags fly with zfg about how they are perceived”

    Ya..so we agree… Not All Women Are Like That

    The ivy league chick I SNL raw dogged two weeks ago, could be classified as a HQNP chick (not at all like the women Orsons complaining about). But I gotta calibrate to her (not gonna treat ALL women the same broski) because I’m pretty sure shes already in lurv with me lol. Texting me shit like “when am I seeing your chocolate eyes again”).

  48. J

    But I gotta calibrate to her

    Don’t confuse social mores and environment with biology. Girls may act a certain way but under the hood they are the same.

  49. “Girls may act a certain way but under the hood they are the same.”

    You telling me you’d treat a HB9 that grew up with rich conservative parents, attending Harvard University and slept with 4 guys, the EXACT same way you’d treat a poor HB9 that grew up with an alcoholic abusive father, and fucked 75 dudes at Arizona State University?

    Yeah. Parents/childhood/environment matters.

    Ever heard High Self Esteem vs Low Self Esteem girls? Yeah. Gotta Calibrate your approach to the girl u manipulating gaming.

  50. @SJF

    What do you have to say about this funny guy? At which phase of Unplugging he is?

    “A lot of the manosphere is the PUAsphere, who are preoccupied with man-whoring ..and even the MGTOW camp .. a lot of them have the philosophy of the “enjoy the decline” which is making the most out of the sexual licentiousness and degeneracy while you’re able!
    Only a feminist society will give these man-whores, these degenerates and these hedonists what they want in exchange for nothing practically.”

    https://youtu.be/XzdoEYoXQQM

  51. ” You telling me you’d treat a HB9 that grew up with rich conservative parents, attending Harvard University and slept with 4 guys, the EXACT same way you’d treat a poor HB9 that grew up with an alcoholic abusive father, and fucked 75 dudes at Arizona State University? ”

    ” The ivy league chick I SNL raw dogged two weeks ago, could be classified as a HQNP chick (not at all like the women Orsons complaining about). But I gotta calibrate to her (not gonna treat ALL women the same broski) because I’m pretty sure shes already in lurv with me lol. Texting me shit like “when am I seeing your chocolate eyes again”).”

    Awwww man.

    You don’t get women. Harvard, Ivy League…. you’re making rookie beta blue-pilled misjudgments. That’s a dangerous habit my man.

  52. ” You telling me you’d treat a HB9 that grew up with rich conservative parents, attending Harvard University and slept with 4 guys, the EXACT same way you’d treat a poor HB9 that grew up with an alcoholic abusive father, and fucked 75 dudes at Arizona State University? ”

    Let’s look at this more closely, because it’s illustrative and telling.

    They. Are. Just. Girls.

    What difference does it make to you re: different upbringing, unless you buy into the idea that it nullifies AWALT? How would your approach differ for the 2 women in question – and better yet, how do you know the n-count of the Harvard chick? Because she said so? Because her parents are conservative? Because rich?

    When you have Game, none of that bullshit matters because you will be better at reading chicks and gaining a better understanding of what you’re seeing right in front of your face ( and not getting thrown by money or school or any other external shit ).

    http://www.westindianarchie.com/how-to-run-delusional-game/

    Game = No woman, nor man is ” better ” than you are. Different stations, same biology.

    Again, looking for something to acquiesce to is not a good look and shitty, shitty game. You get enthralled and impressed with stuff that you shouldn’t, because at the end of the day, she’s just a chick. Your mission is to find what you like and proceed accordingly, without becoming mind-fucked.

  53. “and you really need to get off that Autism site…”

    no fucking way.

    weaponized autism is amazing. i think of it like the beam that comes out of sauron’s eye in lotr movie. you don’t want that shit focused on you, but if you know the landscape you can use it for great advantage

    i mean, look what happened to party skanks because of people like rsd guy. autism spectrum basically outed their whole m.o.

    and now i learn that wife has very desirable canthal tilt?.lol (thanks for link, Blax). add it to the list of shit my cock figured out before i knew it existed or read it on autism site

  54. “how do you know the n-count of the Harvard chick”

    Ive been around enough girls to tell. Honest signals. Dont listen to what they say, watch what they do.

    “How would your approach differ for the 2 women in question”

    Simple.

    I’d show more of my cocky zfg asshole side to the slutty chick. And as for the conservative chick, I’d tone it down (not completely eliminate it) in favor of a more charismatic mysterious vibe with a hint of ruthlessness underneath it.

    “Just be yourself” – lol

    Talior your game to your target.

    Let me try an analogy lol (might be shit just making it up right now)

    I know they’re both former Quarterbacks (girls), but I’m sure NFL defenses didn’t prepare/practice to shut down dual threat QB Michael Vick (slutty girl) the same way they prepared for The Shieriff, Peyton Manning (conservative girl).

  55. Orson

    I am not entirely dismissive of reading MM! Depends how much you actually need this information and sometimes can be counter-intuitive.

    Since your own “intuition” has led you into nuclear rejections, you might want to re-train it. Since Mystery’s method actually works even in the face of a nuclear rejection you might want to learn it.

    Now as for sosuave, you do realize that Rollo was commenting there over 10 years ago, right? This site is a direct outgrowth of dialogs at SoSuave…

    Get off the “Toh-MAY-toh” vs. “Toh-MAH-toh” hamster treadmill. Start learning.

  56. ” know they’re both former Quarterbacks (girls), but I’m sure NFL defenses didn’t prepare/practice to shut down dual threat QB Michael Vick (slutty girl) the same way they prepared for The Shieriff, Peyton Manning (conservative girl).”

    Khalil Mack. Good game is good. Nuff said.

    ” Ive been around enough girls to tell. Honest signals. Dont listen to what they say, watch what they do. ”

    No. You haven’t been around enough of them if this is what you believe.

    ” I’d show more of my cocky zfg asshole side to the slutty chick. And as for the conservative chick, I’d tone it down (not completely eliminate it) in favor of a more charismatic mysterious vibe with a hint of ruthlessness underneath it. ”

    So you’re saying that you are multi-dimensional? lol. Understand that Game works all the time, every time, and you don’t have to carry around multiple personalities.

    That shit sounds exhausting and confusing.

    So let me ask, if ” cocky whatever the fuck ” works with one chick, why wouldn’t it work with Ms. Conservative? Tell me why exactly game has to be ” tailored ” for different chicks.

    … I kinda know already, because that’s what a lot of pua gurus push, but I wanna know what your thoughts and experiences are.

  57. Sad stuff at that lookism.net site, it reads like a reddit for socially retarded teenagers. Their definitions don’t even make sense from comment to comment.

    They basically come up with their own language to simply describe how the majority of UMC girls look and behave in public and to non sexually experienced males…

    Yeah, it’s like combining some of the worst of separatist feminism with Incel paranoia and mixing it with ingroup-slang from some nerds in the mid-high locker room. Worst thing? No way they would take any advice from a man who knows something, because they’ve worked up their own weird little worldview.

    Sad stuff. Just say no…

  58. ” You telling me you’d treat a HB9 that grew up with rich conservative parents, attending Harvard University and slept with 4 guys, the EXACT same way you’d treat a poor HB9 that grew up with an alcoholic abusive father, and fucked 75 dudes at Arizona State University? ”

    Let’s look at this more closely, because it’s illustrative and telling.

    They. Are. Just. Girls.

    I had a grandma who graduated from Columbia back in the day. She had money back when it meant something. She and gramps owned a vacation house in the FL keys and they went there every winter. Gramps bought a brand new Lincoln every year. They had some money. Gramps knew an ex-president and various big shots around town.

    Yet, I saw Gramps play grabass on Grandma as he was following her up the stairs and she ran up the stairs giggling and shrieking as she told him to stop.

    Gramps taught me a lesson. Under the hood, girls are all the same.

  59. So let me ask, if ” cocky whatever the fuck ” works with one chick, why wouldn’t it work with Ms. Conservative? Tell me why exactly game has to be ” tailored ” for different chicks.

    I was running game last night at the restaurant. The girls were _pretending_ that they were speshul snowflakes and were running down some guy they had seen before for telling stories. They called them whoppers. I ran my game and told stories. At first they pretended that they weren’t interested. Eventually, they were laughing. Girls run their own games and you have to figure out how to bust them out of their games and into yours.

    I hope J gets this, because it’s an important idea.

    Game with girls is about wrestling them and throwing them on the ground. Takedown. Mental sometimes and physical sometimes. Of course it requires calibration to know whether or not a girl is actually interested and wants you to take her down.

  60. j
    The ivy league chick I SNL raw dogged two weeks ago, could be classified as a HQNP chick

    That “Hi Quality” “Non Primitive” classification is really stupid. it’s more stupid than HB-whatever. Because it’s subjective, but adds an extra layer of complexity. Not repeatable, therefore not testable, therefore not useful.

    You should drop it. Just stop.

    (not at all like the women Orsons complaining about)

    Orson is complaining about getting blown out via nuclear rejection. All women are capable of that. All of them. AWALT. If you don’t believe this claim, you have not been around enough women long enough.

    Maybe, just maybe, part of Orson’s problem is himself.

  61. From a pure strategic POV:

    For prime Vick, the best strategy would be to assign Mack as the QB spy because of the threat of Vick torching you all day with his legs if you don’t watch out for him.

    For a pure pocket passer like Manning, you’d ask Khali to do his thing (pressure the QB/sack the QB) but you’d also want him to drop back and help with the pass coverage since Manning’s not gonna beat you with his legs.

    “You haven’t been around enough of them if this is what you believe”

    Oh I should just ask her?

    Hey man you dont gotta like the way I game girls but imma keep doing what I do (Inb4 “thats not game”- lol. Results are results broski).

  62. ” Hey man you dont gotta like the way I game girls but imma keep doing what I do (Inb4 “thats not game”- lol. Results are results broski).”

    Lol, you’re absolutely right about that. It’s not that I don’t ” like ” anything. I just question why some decisions seem to make sense to you ( and sure, getting laid helps cement those decisions as the correct ones….but the thing is – girls fuck. They do. all the time when it suits them. So it’s interesting to me to see guys make it complicated and technical when it really isn’t ).

    ” Oh I should just ask her? ”

    Nah. A chick you just met or are gaming for the super fast pull/lay, you cannot tell by anything she says, or what you see. She has that advantage somewhat. It’s in the longer term that you can suss out what’s what. You don’t ask her stuff like that if you really want to know. But you can get a ton of clues and pull it out of her without directly asking, and she won’t even realize what happened.

  63. All women are capable of that. All of them. AWALT. If you don’t believe this claim, you have not been around enough women long enough.

    I got a nuclear rejection from Mrs. Gamer when I first approached her. Everyone in the nursing unit was watching at the time, lol. I went over to where she was standing and watching me flirt with the other nurses and she just turned her back and didn’t say a word.

    AWALT.

  64. Seems to me many a girl didn’t get the full message. They’ve been throwing tickets at me since I was 17… like it was more of an EBT card, or something.
    I fucked up and ‘bought a cow’ for about 10 years, but luckily for me when shit was getting real and coming apart she wisely found an even bigger sucker in the 30+ ‘slightly used’ market.. 🤣😂 So I got off easy, thank God.

  65. We as men need to understand that in reality it is us that have been handed the golden ticket in life!

    And if you’re not a real man you will trade your ticket for a parasitic woman that will fuck you over so hard that your dead ancestors will feel it.

    Or you can live the life of male privilege that was your destiny before you became brainwashed by egalitarianism.

    Up to you.

  66. So how will you live your life now that you realise that you have been holding the “golden ticket” all along?

    Mindset change or ……….

    Only a fool continues the same behaviour but expects a different outcome.

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