
Of the three cognitive, interpretive processes it is the Emotional process that people are most familiar with, and yet it’s also the most glorified when it comes to determining reality and truth. I’m probably going to ruffle some feathers with this essay – people invest a lot of themselves in their emotions. The reason for this is because for a very long time we’ve been taught to deify (sometimes literally) the importance of emotion to the human experience. We want to impart our emotions with a metaphysical quality to the point that understanding those feelings is something we expect our omniscient Gods to have a relation with. This is the mythic apex of the grandeur with which we regard emotion, but on a visceral level, the opposite end of that understanding, emotion is something very understandable and very ‘knowable’.
We interpret stimuli via the Emotional process, but we also express our emotional state through art and personal means. And this is the dual nature of emotion; it’s interpretive, but those interpretations are subjective to an individual. As such, these interpretations and expressions become part of our personality and identity. I’ve mentioned the concept of ego-investment in many prior essays. A person can invest themselves so much (ego) into personal beliefs that they become a component part of who they are. Thus, an attack on the belief is literally an attack on the ego, but’s important to point out that those investments are integrally linked to the Emotional process. Emotion is not just an important filter through which we interpret the world, but its effects often shape us as individuals. So because of this subjective, ego-investment dynamic it’s hard not to step on a few toes or challenge the emotionally-inspired belief sets by considering emotion in an objective way.
As with most other aspects of Red Pill awareness. parsing out the nuts and bolts of how and why emotions work, how they evolved and the important survival functions they serve often has a way of dispelling the magic we apply to emotions. From a biological perspective we can prompt certain emotions (or buffer them) by creating the stimuli that evokes them. We can chemically induce an emotional response. We can alter moods with drugs and we can chemically compare the endorphins released into our bloodstream when we experience the ’emotional’ effects of love, lust and infatuation. There are many studies comparing love to addiction, and the effects of a breakup being comparable to ‘withdrawal’ symptoms.
Emotion has prompted virtually all of mankind’s greatest art, music, literature and so many more cultural effects it’s hard to think that emotion doesn’t define us as a species. Emotion has started wars, prompted self-sacrifice, moves us to mercy, ensures that our children are nurtured and sees that we care and cooperate with each other. Emotion is a blessing and a curse as environment and circumstance demand, but for all of that the Emotional process is a result of our evolved biology. Emotion is firmly rooted in our evolved capacity to experience and interpret our environment and circumstances. Emotion is rooted in the physical. And while it inspires us to acts that may seem divine or diabolic the fact remains that emotion is very much dependent on our evolved capacity to physically experience it.
I begin this essay stressing this point because the concept (not the process) of emotion has been elevated to such a mythic degree of importance in our present times that it supersedes almost all other considerations in life. We’re largely taught and conditioned to prioritize the importance of our emotional states above both the Instinctual and Rational processes, so to reduce emotion to a physical dynamic runs counter to what we feel it should mean to us. Unless we’re dealing with a clinical, physical depression we rarely consider that emotion is an interpretive process. We want to apply meaning to emotion rather than see it as the evolved tool it is to human beings.
Both Instinct and Reason influence and modify the Emotional process, and like both, Emotion is interpretive and functional. If we look at base emotions we can make inferences as to what their latent purposes might be. In the first post of this series I drew the lines between the effect of oxytocin inspiring feelings of trust and caring, and how the environmental prompts that trigger this hormone have a practical ‘real world’ function. We can speculate that the instinctual prompts that trigger the oxytocin then lead to the emotional processing of the feeling of trust/caring which then prompts physical behavior (nurturing a child, etc.) Hunger is another good example. Our physical state of hunger prompts feelings of anger or discontent which then compels us to action. In our evolutionary past this anger prompt would’ve been beneficial in that it motivated us to seek/kill food.
Those are just a couple of the many different basic prompts for the Emotional process, but emotion is much more complex and nuanced than this. The Emotional process is multi-layered, so when you combine various emotional interpretive processes with emotional responses you get various new iterations of emotion which then builds into more complex emotions. While instinct is the fastest of these processes, emotion can be more time intensive. Base emotions are relatively quick interpretations (though slower than instinct), but the more complex, compound emotions take time to interpret, build and then reinterpret. Because of this compositing process humans have a tendency to fixate on the emotion itself as being of primary importance; often forgetting or dismissing entirely the stimuli that originally prompted it. Furthermore, we forget or dismiss the latent purpose of that initial emotional interpretation that caused that composite cascade of emotions.
An understanding of this emotion compositing is necessary to understand why we tend to imbue emotions with such importance and power. While base emotions are linked to the ‘fast-twitch’ Instinctual process, the more complex emotions – the ones we subconsciously craft over more time – tend to be the ones we build belief sets around. This is very important to Red Pill awareness because it explains the motivations for, and foundations of, feminine-primary belief sets of both men and women, as well as the feminine-primary social order that is a result of those belief sets.
Gender Differences
Despite all the protestations of egalitarian minds, men and women are fundamentally different. Biologically, neurologically, endocrinologically and psychologically our gender-specific differences are significant. This isn’t a revelation to my Red Pill aware readers, but it’s a radical statement for the past generations who are emotionally invested in the idea of a blank-slate parity between the sexes they’ve been conditioned to believe is true. As I mention above, an ego-investment is component part of the personality of the individual so invested. To attack the investment, the belief, the ideology, the educated-but-misinformed opinion, is to attack the person. That belief set, like the emotions that compounded to develop it, is subjective to the individual experiencing the emotions that led to it.
One presupposition that has been a part of the manosphere for as long as I’ve been a part of it is that women put “feels before realz”. In several essays I’ve made a case for women’s innate communication style being context based – women focus on how the communication makes them feel; the information conveyed is secondary. For men this is reversed; men prioritize the content (the information) of the communication and the context is secondary. I’ve written a lot about how each sex evolved into their communication priorities, but down to the biological level, per our sex, the answers can be found in how our brains differ.

There are many multivariate studies that reveal similar findings and brain imaging, and the uncanny complementarity between men and women’s brains. For the most part studies indicate that women tend to prioritize the Emotional interpretive process above the Rational interpretive process and vice versa for men. That is not to say women are entirely incapable of reason, nor does it imply that men are emotionally stunted. What I’m suggesting is that our innate, biological predispositions prioritize our interpretive processes to emotion in women and rationality in men. Women can be taught to prioritize reason over emotion and, as I’ll illustrate next, men most definitely can be taught conditioned to prioritize emotion above their innate reason.
There are also numerous studies on how these interpretive prioritization function as a result of neurological gendered differences in men and women. Women process negative emotions differently than men. Men largely lack the brain architecture (wiring) to process emotion in the same manner and with the same degree of prioritization as women do. This is simply how we’re built, but before any woman pops off about their ‘superior’ emotional capacity, bear in mind, women’s brains are not wired for the rational and spatial tasks men’s brains are more suited to. Out of the womb, a boy is predisposed to throw an object with greater force and more accuracy than a girl. And that’s just one easy illustration of the mental firmware men are born with.
None of this, however, is about one sex being superior to the other’s innate predispositions. It’s not a contest, it’s just about which disposition is better suited to a task. But still, the first inclination today is to presume women’s greater emotional capacity should be the normative in our present-day feminine-primary social order. For the past 60+ years we’ve lived in a social condition that has made every attempt to feminize men; to get them more in touch with their emotions – to condition men, despite their brain wiring, to prioritize the Emotional process above both instinct and reason.
To reiterate, women are not necessarily handicapped because the Rational process isn’t their innate, predisposed preference, but neither are men handicapped for lacking the interpretive hardware to prioritize the Emotional process as women do. That said, for the past 4-5 generations we’ve lived in a social order that has presumed a blank-slate equalist perspective of men and women. We live in a time when men not emoting like women is a disorder to be treated and conditioned. We presume today that boys are defective girls because they don’t prioritize the Emotional in their communications or their interpretive process. Today the Emotional process that women innately prefer is the ‘correct’ way for all, egalitarian, blank-slate equals to prioritize their interpretations of the world and each other with.
As most of my readers already know, I see the presumption of equalism as being little more than a cover story for feminine primacy. For several generations now, and especially since the Sexual Revolution, the pretense of gender equality has been the vehicle for female social primacy. At first it was subtle and inoffensive, but today this social engineering effort is out in the open. And with more and more empirical evidence mounting that proves the sexes are far less “equal” in nature than prior egalitarian doctrines would allow anyone to accept, we see an intensifying effort to retain the social narrative on the part of equalist. Only now it’s focused on the innate ‘wrongness’ of masculinity by demonizing and pathologizing anything conventionally masculine. This new intensive effort is only able to find legitimacy because prior feminized generations base their belief sets on the the inherent ‘correctness’ of prioritizong the Emotional process – a process that is fundamentally, biologically linked to women’s preferences in interpreting the world around them.
So today we look at men as if they’re stunted and ‘wrong’ for communicating with other men in a way that prioritizes information before how it makes them feel. We still today implore men to get in touch with their feminine sides – the last vestige of Car Jung’s bastardized and now disproven animus theories – but pity men for lacking the hardware to emote ‘correctly’ like women. We don’t teach boys emotional control because in our emotional-prioritizing social order anything that looks like control seems like masculine oppression of emotional expression. Instead we create new, more intense, ways of discouraging men of ever embracing or “getting in touch” with their masculine sides. We discard masculine discipline for emotional pretense. We teach boys at younger and younger ages to fear and despise their innate masculine selves. We create programs to cure masculinity as if it were a health crisis. This effort will only intensify as gender differences become more and more unignorable and the social engineering of the last 60 years becomes more obvious.
As a basis of that cure is the fundamental presumption that interpreting our world through the filter of Emotion should supersede or entirely disqualify the Rational interpretive process. As you might guess, men’s innate predisposition is to interpret our world through Reason. Today we live in a world where feelings trump both instinct and reason. This is why the current generation makes the Emotional process and their feelings more important than any other consideration – they are the cumulative result of having prioritized women’s emotional preferences above all else, while simultaneously engineering consecutive generations of feminized men to facilitate it for the last seven decades.
In the next and final installment in this series I’ll be addressing the Rational interpretive process and how we might imagine better future generations based on seizing and instituting a social order founded on masculine reason.

So wait, AF is only for rationalizing single moms?
Guess I got more reading to do.
Blaximus, AF without BB creates rationalizing single moms, doesn’t it?
Didn’t say AF is “only” for anything. There is no need to create a conflict where there is none. AF shows up all over the place.
“The woman who go AF first are limbic, rationalizing single moms.” BB isn’t security per se. It’s provisioning for her and kids. AF is what keeps her close. Her limbic side desires that sexual affirmation of maximized AF. Women divorce thier men rarely for AF deficiency. They chase them until they can’t keep up…then settle for BB and think of the AF while fucking him…until her hindbrain demands ferile copulation. Then she’s betaized him enough to plan a GNO. OH! An acquaintence came back recently from a family vacation states away. The wife THE VERY SAME DAY flew back to… Read more »
@Just Beers
It is alpha fucks all the way man,she will go beta bucks when she hits her epiphany stage and stay with it till it runs dry buuuut AF will still rule her desire,that will be who she fantasizes about when she closes her eyes during sex with her BB.
Also the state of the afairs in media constantly tell her she isn’t safe, this combined with her upbringing that lacks for self control pushes her Hypergamy to new highs.
Ever try cutting your woman off emotionally but still extracting angry sex out of her..or something like that…and not tying it to anything but the sex…no dinner, no cuddle, you cum first and pull?
That’s how ride or die girls are made you know.
Mrs. Gamer paid for an expensive dinner for us and the kids Sat. night. She hit me up for sex as soon as they left around noon Sunday. I don’t think she was angry, though.
As Hypergamy goes her limbic brain doesn’t so much recognize the 6 fig salary,so much as it sees the confidence 6 figs provides. Confidence is key to attracting females AF is as AF does.
Single moms are made both ways,mainly due to her failed upbringing to be responsible for her apparatus.
Eh,
I may be buffering a bit. I see your points. I’ll think about it.
Boulderhead, I can agree that single moms CAN be made both ways. Single mothers obviously fail to maximize AF/BB. Just seems the latter is the one the really blew it on when they opened up their snatch to have a kid.
JB,
The latest rise in single motherhood is due more to feminism taking constraints off of young women,while at the same time giving them more control over selection and conception. They are irresponsible and most give little thought to the long game, instant gratification is #1.
I know many men my age that are raising their grandchildren or paying the rent and groceries for their indiscreet daughters.
This rests on the villiage as well, as we all have heard it takes a village to raise a child,the girls know better meme has gone to far.
Eh, didn’t she maximize BB in that scenario, and now doing AF and possibly going Eat Pray Love eventually?
So, BB first. Isn’t that what drives the FI? Seems it’s ever been safety/security first.
Isn’t the FI cultural drive meant to imbed maximal security for women so they can AF without consequence?
This is more a thought experiment a bit. Like you said, though, I might not have things right…
@JB, as I understand it, single moms are in the process of fulfilling their evo psych “destiny”. The AF “drive” is to get pregnant from the best Alpha sperm she can find. Once accomplished, move on to plan BB for provisioning, or leverage the FI to self-provision.
Boulserhead, you bring up village, which is a big loss for us.
There is no replacing it. As much as I enjoy JBP and TRM (Rollo), there seems no proper replacement for the cohesion of 70-100 individuals who share the same values, living in the same place, dependent on each other.
The only possible replacement for it, however insufficient, is personal responsibility… yet this is a dog solution. The reason why it’s insufficient is because half the population is cats.
JB, Have a read of this. https://therationalmale.com/2012/12/19/the-epiphany-phase/ “The Epiphany Phase I’ve previously described this phase as a parallel to men’s feminine-redefined midlife crisis. This is a precarious time for women, usually the years between 28 and 30, where she makes attempts to reassess the last decade of her life. Women’s psychological rationalization engine (a.k.a. the Hamster) begins a furious effort to account for, and explain to her reasonings for not having successfully secured a long term monogamous commitment from as Alpha a man as her attractiveness could attain for her. Even women married prior to this phase will go through… Read more »
Hitting the wall is not so much about finding security as much as fulfilling the drive to procreate with the best DNA (alpha). The anxiety enters as she realizes that she can no longer compete for the best Alpha against the 22-26 y.o.’s with higher SMV.
JB
“There is no replacing it. As much as I enjoy JBP and TRM (Rollo), there seems no proper replacement for the cohesion of 70-100 individuals who share the same values, living in the same place, dependent on each other.”
I would replace it with teachers men and women with unplugged red pill understanding.
The current “Village” is a lose lose for all involved in the long run.
Marelius, so you’re saying it’s the opposite, that it’s AF first.
I don’t see it re: actually having children. Women are AF until epiphany only because they feel safe enough to wait, and/or establish their careers more. If they didn’t have the societal safety net, they’d have to choose differently.
Now, of course, their getting bitten, as the men have now made adjustments to modern women’s behavior.
I see social media and the FI as the smoking gun that fired the bullet(s) that killed “the village”. The previous generation had private organizations, such as church and scouts, to deliver the village services of old, as suburban sprawl overran the village. Today those organizations have been co-opted and can no longer provide those services, even as our kids make connections via social media, with no clear, positive, rational, masculine role models IRL. It has devolved to the point that a father must take it upon himself to wrangle up a group of like-minded men if he wishes to… Read more »
.marelius
You have a good grip on reality. this is what I see also.
@JB – I think you are confusing the “conscious” strategy of career minded women, as empowered by the FI, with the evo psych drive that is behind all women’s motives – whether they are aware of them or not. What I and the others are describing is the underlying drive and motive and what you are describing is their conscious plan.
Just Beers, Yes she did max out her BB and autokilled whatever AF exists. Her hindbrain tooled him into a Dorian Gray picture; Only her hindbrain-heart sees his grotesque unattraction and her forebrain tests that. Hence Boulderheads description is spot on. She doesn’t respect the copious wealth, she respects the moxy…btw I’m sure he ever had it…he’s been nepotisticly advanced and she, though attractive, was low hanging fruit. Keep in mind in married with kids there to be some BB. But BB is a gremlin, do not feed or water it. Neglect it and it will serve you as nature… Read more »
Romance
https://bit.ly/2IlGMDo
Never give up
https://bit.ly/2IiQoPf
BB isn’t anyone’s Friend and if you really appreciate your self and not the ego that pollutes so much of what we do and create well appears to have then a toll on me being able to engage and re create myself.
@ Just Beers I’m working this stuff out myself. I don’t see it anyway other than AF first. After reading through TRM and others this year and looking at my marriages and those of my acquaintances, I can not see anything other than AF first. When thinking about this, the memory of the 6 foot black rat snake that slithered at an incredible speed in front of me on my property, comes to mind, I instantly froze in a life and death type fear and for a brief time had no control over my actions, it was a very primal… Read more »
I also attended the Jordan Peterson lecture with my son. The comparisons between Rollo’s work and Peterson’s have already been kicked around enough that it’s not necessary to do so again, for me anyhow. The idea that JP is a bridge to the red pill has traction. Each individual responds to stimuli, information and calls to action differently depending on their circumstances, age, MPO etc…If a 23-year-old isn’t responding to red pill information, or his father lacks the superb skills some of you have and has fucked things up earlier in the boy’s life then one must try whatever works.… Read more »
Thanks Boulder, Eh, KFG and Maurelius for reviewing all this with me. Think I’m starting to see where I may have some crucial things backwards. I’ll have to look at more stuff.
Might be back soon
Interesting take on Jordan Peterson by Vox Day in an interview by Alex Jones. Both of the latter are disturbed by Jordan Peterson’s Existential Relativism (because they are devout fundamental Christians) and Peterson’s philosophy of fear (making him similar to Aleister Crowley and Western Esotericism). But also that latter characterization makes Peterson more aligned with the philosophy of “Do what thou wilt”, which guess what?, is recursive to the oft repeated (by Sentient) Platinum Rule. Interesting. I disagree with the alt-right take that this leads to Jordan Peterson being a puppet of the Left, but it does point to Peterson… Read more »
Real quick pro tip: give no shits about how some people label themselves, and kind how the acceptance of labels effect you. ” devout Christian ” means absolutely nothing at the end of the day. What individuals actually do vs what they say and profess from their mouths is what counts.
Devout Christian? Prove it. ” Man “? Okay, how we’re getting somewhere because all men are fallible and subject to fuck ups. No matter the label, AMALT.
Fuck the labels.😁
I give a shit about how Vox Day and Alex Jones are devoted to the Alt-Right because it helps judge them and take into context what they think about Jordan Peterson. Vox has some good points about JBP being a longstanding depressed person with an agenda and being an existential relativist. As well as having a philosophy of fear because of the constant constraint of potentially being the target of malevolence in society. His book tour talk is spiked with the horrors of the Nazi’s and the Stalinist era and it has always haunted Peterson so much he found solace… Read more »
because they are devout fundamental Christians
@Blax
Pro tip…labels are used for a reason…they have meaning…SJF isn’t using the labels to designate “freedom from sin”, but in terms of theology…as in, “did the miracles of the Bible really happen?”
JBP doesn’t believe that miracles did happen and people that SJF would label “devout Christians” would believe the contrary…I’d have used the label “Bible-believing Christians,” but that’s just me.
But what does it mean to have a ” belief” if it’s not practiced? Imo, that renders that belief as usda grade A bullshit as far as how it affects my perception. Labels can be useful in some cases, but the first tenet of uncodified Game as I learned it was ” thou shalt not ever be a sucker “. I’ve met men who denigrate and deny the ” alt right ” , but harbor almost the exact same ideals and beliefs. I’ve also met very, very few ” Christians ” that actually follow the teachings of Christ, but pay… Read more »
Roused “His failed suicide attempt presented an opportunity to begin the work that was desperately needed. I so wish circumstances had been different. The grief has been intense. Seeing my son so incredibly unraveled and in such dire circumstances was unnverving at times. I was able to quickly take the actions needed to almost physically dragging him to get professional help. It has not been easy, but it is not a burden.” Don’t let the darkness win… be in a neutral environment allowing things to come up let him ask questions open yourself up doing something engaging. “My son and… Read more »
But what does it mean to have a ” belief” if it’s not practiced?
So, have you practiced resurrecting yourself?
Labels can be useful in some cases, but the first tenet of uncodified Game as I learned it was ” thou shalt not ever be a sucker “.
I agree. Foolishness is a sin, per Proverbs. And self-labeling is often deceptive, as you indicated. But, in context, SJF wasn’t talking about people self-labeling; SJF was applying the label himself to others.
I figured you were saying, “Don’t fall for the wool fleece cloak; it might be covering a wolf.”
Maybe we’re not that far apart.
So, I’ve been pondering this question of innate differences for a while. What I’ve realised and what made everything click was something Jordan Peterson said. That the differences between men and women amount to at best 5%. But said that translates to a whole lot in reality. NN Taleb mentioned the difference between x and f(x), the difference and the effect that difference has on you. E.g. the likelihood of an earthquake happening is unlikely. But the likelihood of it happening and killing you is close to 100%. So should you be precautious? Yes It’s sort of the similar concept… Read more »
https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/what-makes-you-happy-it-depends-on-what-gender-you-are/news-story/3981b25e40f206c312772be42e12a842
More brain-difference-stuff, evidence for
Jordanetics.
So, if I’m getting it… When men thought process things (on the day-to-day) through emotional cognition, women see him as weak and pathetic (I.E: men are readable bafoons/idiots). But when a man’s thought processing is rational (of reason), he can be seen as strong-minded, stoic and intelligent. Yet this is the complete opposite when actually communicating with a woman… When a man tries to work with reason to make a woman ‘see the light’, he’s insensitive and moreover manipulative if she see’s his argument as counter-supportive of her emotional ideal. But if the guy plays to her emotions in a… Read more »
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@Belukin – sure it does. They’re just at an earlier stage in the process. It’s like saying American men in the 1920s wouldn’t accept all the stuff that goes on now – of course that’s true, but they started the process by letting women vote etc (as Sentient will tell you).
Similarly, would Saudi Arabia (or whoever you care to name) accept what happens in California in 2024? Of course not..but make no mistake they are on the same path – just a few decades behind (eg, even Saudi started allowing women to drive a few years ago)