Empathy 2016

The Campbell’s Soup Company was founded in 1869. In those 147 years the company developed a reputation as a wholesome staple of brands to the point it’s been considered Americana – even Andy Warhol considered Campbell’s emblematic of the American experience.

But in the space of a 30 second commercial the Feminine Imperative and the feminist narrative has managed to corrupt, if not overtly destroy a brand identity that took 147 years to establish.

Last week I outlined how the imperative assimilated the Star Wars intellectual property and franchise; arguably another example of Americana. Monday I detailed how it is in women’s innate interests individually and in the Feminine Imperative’s interests on a meta scale to appropriate the works and fruits of men’s labors as a result of their Burden of Performance. And, once again, here we have another glaring example of the imperative’s appropriation of a storied brand identity to use as a vehicle for its narratives.

The gold of course is in the comments on the YouTube page. And as you might expect there’s a lot of predictable outrage swirling around how ‘not all women are like that‘ (NAWALT) and “wow, what a bitch.” The commercial message was even overt enough to trigger the average man to risk to consider, “flip the genders and look how this commercial reads.” But that’s just it, there is such a comfort with the Feminine Imperative in being this overt that even plugged in Blue Pill men cannot ignore the message.

What exactly is that message? In this case it’s the degree to which the imperative is comfortable in revealing truths about the nature of women. I’ve been calling attention to this comfort level for almost two years now. Open Hypergamy is almost a given at this stage. Open cuckoldry is beginning to establish a foothold in being socially acceptable, and later socially expected. In the coming years I believe we’ll begin to see an even larger degree of comfort the imperative has in revealing and reveling in innate feminine nature. This commercial, from a storied brand of comfort food no less, is the first illustration of this trend.

While this commercial and the hashtag associated are intended to shock, it’s important to understand the message that Campbell’s Soup Company is aligning itself with. Bear in mind that a board of executives, brand directors and marketing directs had to approve the message and budget needed to deliver this message. The fallback of course will be that the intent was humor, but they understand very well the latent message in the humor they will hide behind when the publicity backlash occurs.

No doubt the Jezebel set of the femosphere will either embrace the commercial’s message by parroting the trope that women hate to be men’s mothers, or they will decry it as portraying women as being heartless, careerist bitches – they just can’t win. In either interpretation the louder buzz will be as it always is, women being victims.

In a Red Pill perspective we see a lot of what we already know about women’s innate, visceral natures.

From Empathy:

Women cannot bear to see a Man experiencing negative emotions such as extreme anger, rage, fear, despair, despondency or depression for extended periods of time. You say you want to “be there” for your Man; but you cannot do it. If it goes on long enough, it kills the attraction; it sets off your hypergamy alarms; and subconsciously causes you to start hunting for a replacement Man.

A woman seeing a Male go through the above will seek to replace that Male immediately.

Women cannot listen to Men talking about or working out their dating/mating/relationship issues or problems. Women reflexively view a Man discussing such issues as “whining” or “complaining” or “bitterness” or “sour grapes” or “well, you just chose poorly, so sucks to be you” or “suck it up, no one wants to hear you bitching about it”.

As to both of the above principles; when a Male is involved, ratchet up by a factor of 5 the disdain and repulsion a woman experiences when seeing a Male do or experience the above.

I took a lot of shit from indignant women when I published Empathy. Yet here we have what was likely a half million dollar budget commercial graphically confirming exactly the premise of my post.

As a bonus this message also overtly confirms much of what I wrote in Vulnerability:

Vulnerability is not something to be brandished or proud of. While I do believe the insight and acknowledgement of your personal vulnerabilities is a necessary part of understanding oneself (particularly when it comes to unplugging oneself), it is not the source of attraction, and certainly not arousal, that most men believe it is for women.

From the comfort of the internet and polite company women will consider the ‘sounds-right’ appeal of male vulnerability with regard to what they’resupposed to be attracted to, but on an instinctual, subconscious level, women make a connection with the weakness that vulnerability represents.

A lot of men believe that trusting displays of vulnerability are mutually exclusive of displays of weakness, but what they ignore is that Hypergamy demands men that can shoulder the burden of performance. When a man openly broadcasts his vulnerableness he is, by definition, beginning from a position of weakness.

Yes ladies, I understand you’re not like this. I fully anticipate the “not in my experience” personalization each of you will attempt to adopt to placate any bad juju and your solipsistic mental point of origin. Just remember that this is the messaging your gender’s imperative is fostering. This is the message that Campbell’s Soup will stake its 147 year brand reputation on because it believes it will sell more soup.

It may seem that I’m being unduly critical of the narrative of this commercial, but remember that this narrative exists for a reason. I have no doubt women will chime in about how it’s an exaggeration, but what message is being exaggerated? What is the message that the medium is conveying here? For as much as the narrative would like men to be sensitive and open up about their feelings, for as much as it wants men to be vulnerable, all it takes is a 30 second commercial to confirm that men expressing weakness isn’t strength, and Hypergamy doesn’t care if your Mommy made you soup when you were sick as a child – stop expecting Strong Independent Women® to be your Mommy.

Keep in mind the contradicting message this commercial conveys here. This is the same degree of ruthlessness and insensitivity that the Feminine Imperative expects from, and finds attractive in, men.

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Onder Hassan
Onder Hassan
6 years ago

This is especially true when going through a breakup. Before I understood anything about female nature, I would often wonder why my exes were so cold to me having witnessed the pain I was going through for them. It lead me to believe that they’re masochists by nature and lacking in empathy. But of course this is simply not true. Women are very much caring and empathic, so long as you demonstrate the manly qualities that they expect from you. The minute I got myself together and rose from the dumps I was in, they would often come back and… Read more »

Liz
Liz
6 years ago

Scribblerg: ” Do you have any suggestions on how to find a woman who is actually a good person, like your sister – but not your Mom, apparently? How can a man tell? How would you go about figuring this out prospectively with someone? I’ve taken to asking women about their family relationships” What I mentioned earlier about values, sex, and pleasant demeanor are key, IMO. Most other things aren’t insurmountable. A girl could be a little crazy but if she’s nice, she’s just crazy-fun. Or, she could be kind of dimwitted, but if she’s very nice and attractive that… Read more »

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Emily – Lol, this Emily was commenting in exactly the same language you do about Christianity and sex etc on the Campbells soup ad. But of course I could be wrong – there could be two Emily’s around 20 who talk about Red Pill and MGTOW and Christianity with the exact same tone of voice and expressions. Or maybe you posted a bunch of pix that aren’t you – who knows. Fyi, I didn’t share the last name at first but it’s right on the Google+ profile. And no, it’s not doxxing because they are not private pix – they… Read more »

Liz
Liz
6 years ago

Couldn’t resist looking at the photos. Sorry, Emily…If it’s free, you are the product. OPSEC keeps me from posting too much info or photos these days.

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Sun – Alpha widow, hmmm. Perhaps. However, I do think my hypothesis has some merit as I’ve heard this over and over from hot women. Many of them find their hotness to be problematic as they have been socialized to believe sexual attraction is somehow “low” or not enough. They worry if anyone actually loves them for “who they are” and say things like, “if I was fat, would you still love me?”. Listen to Emily’s rhetoric. She denigrates male sexual interest and treats it like it’s cheap. She’s looking for something more profound than that and is outraged by… Read more »

Andy
Andy
6 years ago

“I apologize, but I have a Spidey sense that your definition of “redpill style” may be skewed regarding egali-whatever-you-call-it-equal-tarianism.” @SJF I don’t know if WildMan is right, but I think we have to accept that what he’s talking about is probably going to be where society is going to try and take us once everyone realizes that gender isn’t a social construct. The internet is a big place and there is a very real possibility that the red pill is just a certain subset of personality types and have had certain types of experiences and we’re all just affirming our… Read more »

Liz
Liz
6 years ago

One more thing. Good grief then I WILL get off the internet. I just keeping thinking of more. Having a sense of humor is pretty key also. I asked Mike what he liked about me from the beginning (aside from the obvious, looks, probably 90 percent of the reason). He liked my humor…we had a good rapport, which was 180 out from his ex girlfriend who was serious and angry all of the time. He liked it that I drove a beater car (I called it the “ghetto sled”) and I didn’t seem to mind at all…in fact, I loved… Read more »

SJF
SJF
6 years ago

Andy

“Umm, sorry?”

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Onder – “A man simply has no time to bleed” – with respect, this exactly the kind of thing I’ve been decrying on this thread. You also claim women are “empathic” (I think you mean empathetic) when men display masculine traits. Uh, how is that empathetic if it’s only there conditionally? Also, to use your metaphor, how will you avoid spending time bleeding if you are wounded? What, do you think “alphaing up” is a fucking coagulant? What if you have cancer? Or are seriously injured in an accident? Or, heaven forbid, go through a depression or have a job… Read more »

77
77
6 years ago

I would love to see a post regarding the following:

http://www.vice.com/read/is-reducing-the-male-population-by-90-percent-the-solution-to-all-our-problems?utm_source=vicefbus

As well as her website:

http://www.femitheist.net/

Thank you.

lh
lh
6 years ago

@Scribbler: I guess we both know women wont change, no matter how unfair it is. I learned it the hard way when I had some serious depression and my mother tried driving me into suicide by artificially increasing the pressure on me. Even my mother wanted me rather dead than weak. My dad saved me back then. What, do you guys here really think you can be “men of steel”? There are reasons the Vikings wanted to die in battle to go to Valhalla. All you can do as man is use the days of strength to it’s fullest, so… Read more »

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

@scribblerg,
Good work on the “Emily file”.
that’s her, and, of course, she’s gonna say: that’s not me.
Beautiful sexy women, want the betas to love them for who they are, and they know, the sexy body, is for alpha use.
Ps,
Your ex was complaining about you wanting too much sex and yet, she was fucking another guy!.

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

Emily’s sexy photos are the manifestation of her “still hoping to attract the alpha tingle hawt boys “.
The hot tingle boys, didn’t want to be with her, why? Because, she is : STUPID. She thinks by being skinny(or a good Christian) is enough to get her a tingle guy who would provide for her “worthy skinny sexy .body ” .

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Liz – Thanks so much for the thoughtful reply, and yes, I can relate to having to stop posting on this site! I’m supposed to be working right now, lol – but I’m the boss so it’s tempting… Last comment was quite interesting. Humor. Indeed. The other points were mostly what I already do but your take on them is confirmatory and also has some different twists. I’ve always watched how anyone (not just women) treat “the help”. My Dad, a true psychopath and sadist, was insanely cruel to such people, and my oldest bro is similar, but not nearly… Read more »

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

Women give the “no tingle ” guy, ONE hole, when it comes to “tingle” guy….she gives all her holes.

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@LH – Wow, that’s a mindfuck. Your own Mom turning on you. For me it was sisters and a daughter – my Mom passed when I was quite young so perhaps the only silver lining of that was not witnessing her turn on me as well… Let me also be clear. I’m not saying to wallow in self pity. For me, this is all practical. I’m trying to develop an approach, a gameplan that will work for me. I’m not sitting on the sidelines either but as I’ve said – I’m honest enough now to admit I want an LTR.… Read more »

lh
lh
6 years ago

Regarding Emily I think she does usual preparations for the coming epiphany phase. It’s all downhill from here and she has to maximize the profits from it now. Maybe she is reading here because she doesn’t even know what she really wants from a man? Withholding sex is in my opinion not an unusual way for women to gain power. It’s not only about getting commitment, though this might be how she feels the lack of power. Withholding sex will weaken the man for hormonal reasons and will make it way easier to beta him. Religious chastity is only one… Read more »

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

Rollo “I imagine Emily’s “boyfriend” believes he’s found his ‘Righteous Fox’:

How about : he found his “Christian God fearing slut”.

SJF
SJF
6 years ago

“There are reasons the Vikings wanted to die in battle to go to Valhalla. All you can do as man is use the days of strength to it’s fullest, so you can just let go when it is over.” Giving up your ego in Game A mans basic motivation is to be released from constraint and experience the freedom on the other side. All masculine goals are directed toward more freedom. The typical masculine desire for freedom involves the feeling of death. Death is the ultimate masculine fear and freedom. War, which is motivated by the desire for freedom is… Read more »

newlyaloof
6 years ago

Last year was a great one in that it opened my eyes to women’s lack of empathy and gratitude. This site was the driver, so thanks to all. I remember driving home one night before year’s end and being thankful that my truck didn’t break down. It’s been having problems lately. I laughed to myself as I said, “Thank you truck,” and got to thinking that each night when I get home from work, I don’t thank my truck. It just seems stupid to do so. And thinking of that and how my wife acts, I realized that she’ll never… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 years ago

This is what I find confusing about HB#’s. That Emily chick looks very common to me. There were multiple millions of them at every mall in the U.S. over the holidays.

If I had to rate and assign a number to her, it would be a 6.5. I dont get fooled by makeup and hair coloring. ” Hot ” is more subjective than I thought. Chick in pics is cute, but that’s it. She’s still a baby…. Lmao.

But, I’m old and shitty attituded affect the way my eyes interpret a woman’s looks.

lh
lh
6 years ago

@Scribbler: Since I’m more of a “joy of sex” guy, I prefer LTR too. But what I want is clearly the regular sex and neither obligations to me nor the illusionary hope of obligations to her. I achieved that by strictly following Rollo’s advice: operate from your own mental point of origin. And regarding women that means I want my dick happy and will stay and give her some attention as long as he is and will walk if he isn’t. I’m not trying to secure some future, I’m just enjoying what is. It all seems to come together that… Read more »

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@SJF – Fear and ego are my obstacles. Roger that. These days I keep in mind some pithy folk wisdom I picked up in AA. “Progress, not perfection”. And there was another bit in “the big book” that talks about “trudging the road of happy destiny”. As for Wild Man, I’d not tuned into his egalitarian nonsense before, and I’m glad Rollo shared his POV on what he’s got to say. I missed the previous settees with Wild, if I hadn’t I would not have wasted my time earnestly trying to reach him. As usual, Rollo has the bases well… Read more »

Stultus Sum
6 years ago

Yeah, IMO Emily seems like the conventional self-absorbed girl I see my teenage son drooling over. I hope we can get some snaps of her certain impact with the Wall in the very near future.

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

One point about Christian equalism. I was a good Catholic boy and did 10 years of religious studies. What I recall is that God created us equal in the sense that we are born without sin, and that also we are equal “in the eyes of the Lord” in the sense that he doesn’t favor any person over another. But to extend that to social egalitarianism and to use Christianity as the basis for a political ideology? What horseshit. This is just bootstrapping and post hoc reasoning. One of the worse phenomena of the internet and our feminized modern society… Read more »

SJB
SJB
6 years ago

Being your own metal point of origin has me flummoxed.

Andy
Andy
6 years ago

“Lofty, ephemeral concepts of universal justice and morality will always war with the visceral mechanics that allowed us to survive long enough to contemplate them.” @Rollo Yeah, I mean maybe I’m misunderstanding his position. I know at one point he was hoping that women’s rational thought would overcome hypergamy at a grand scale. I’m not sure if he is still thinking that.. But, as far as complementarity goes I don’t think you are that far apart. I don’t think it’s completely outlandish to suggest women might start working out and learn how to be more than a vagina in the… Read more »

IAS
IAS
6 years ago

@SJB: you should only be your own metal point of origin if you are into that kind of music…

SJB
SJB
6 years ago

@scribblerg: Agree: St. Paul’s answer explicating equality addresses the question “who can be redeemed?” Changing the question is indeed horseshit.
.
If Wildman is serious about the basis for the answer, it is time for him to move on to a new question namely “how can I be redeemed?” Yet to each his own.

SJB
SJB
6 years ago

@IAS: Guffaw. Excellent.

SJB
SJB
6 years ago

@IAS: The moment’s pop metal point of origin: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYjZK_6i37M

lh
lh
6 years ago

“self-absorbed girl”

This is female game though and quite malicious to the inexperienced. What she does is creating a frame about her “beauty”. As a man you have to choose to see her as “beautiful” or “hot” and enjoy this beauty, but for that you’ll have to enter her frame. Or you want to see through it, but then the beauty and the joy from it is gone. Every guy desperately looking for some “hot girl” has no chance here.

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“I’d not tuned into his egalitarian nonsense before . . .”

He’s taking heat for his egalitarian bent, for obvious reasons, but I have not forgotten that he initially announced with one of his hyphenated constructions: egalitarian-complimentarian.

Hence his amorphous “social grease” language which can’t be nailed down to a solid point of view.

He appears to want be a feminine equal Protestant while still being able to call himself a masculine primary Catholic. Metaphysical fried ice.

Perhaps Emily’s fiance should hand her off, as that’s basically the same schtick she’s trying to pull.

lh
lh
6 years ago

Btw: WildMan is a narcissist I bet. He doesn’t want you to agree with him, he want’s the heat of discussion.

Rabblerouser
Rabblerouser
6 years ago

It seems to me that polygamy will solve a lot of our modern day problems. As SJB said above “I’d wondered why my wife was so caring when I was hospitalized and then not-so-much when discharged from visiting nurses et al. I’d thought it was just situation fatigue—it was a long illness and subsequent recovery. Now I know: she got a great deal of attention from my care providers—the majority of whom were women. She fit herself into the herd and the herd rewarded her; once the rewards stopped the “is my beta-bucks going to put out” anxiety re-established itself.”… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“The mohammedians seem to have the upper hand over christians when it comes to intersex relations”

Because what the world needs more of is young men blowing themselves up in crowded spaces in order to meet their brides.

SJF
SJF
6 years ago

@Andy “…any attempts at a top down approach to our problems isn’t automatically “blue pill” if you ask me.” It’s not. My bias for a bottoms up approach is simply practical rather than theoretical considerations. It’s more likely to work. I stopped trying to save other morons (societies) a long time ago because I’ve lost trust in societies. And I apologize for being too hard core red pill-ish, and too hard on your thoughts. It’s just that I am terrifically enthused by red pill awareness and game. At the rate i was going three years ago, I was not going… Read more »

IAS
IAS
6 years ago

@ Rollo, Blax and Scrib: I would be interested in a chart of pictures accompanied by HB ratings and I think I wouldn’t be the only one.

Maybe 3 examples of each spot of 6 throuh to 9 (in Rollo’s scale) that would be 12 pictures which Rollo could probably assemble relatively quickly for a short post. Then others could rate them in the comments which would give me (and other readers like me) a better idea of what is being talked about in Field Reports.

What do you think?

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

scribblerg “Progress, not perfection”. Fits well with “if nothing changes, then nothing changes”, that does. Incidentally, perfectionist personalities sometimes fall into the “A or F” mode – either the deal / work / course / etc. meets expectations for perfection, or it’s just tossed. This in turn can lead to a spiral of rumination that winds up somewhere in the perfectionists navel. I have lived with perfectionists, and it can be frustrating, because the perfect is always receding and the “good enough” is never good enough, so … back to the navel gazing. I can’t always get to the gym.… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

Being your own metal point of origin has me flummoxed.

Imagine yourself as a bar of gold…

Or, hmm, maybe this is a good point to post a link to Babymetal just for LOLz?

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@IAS – Truly? I don’t care about HB ratings, to each his own. 10 is perfection, unachievable, HB1 is so ugly puke comes up the back of your throat. HB5 is average. Other than that, to each his own. Men also have preferences. Me, i don’t care about big tits. don’t like big asses at all and like petite women. Audrey Hepburn always took my breath away…
http://media1.popsugar-assets.com/files/upl1/2/20652/41_2008/MV5BMjAxMDYyNzcxOF5BMl5BanBnXkFtZTYwMjQwNjI2._V1._SX330_SY400_/i/Audrey-Hepburn-Beauty-Icon.jpg

Razorwire
Razorwire
6 years ago

@scribblerg Your experience with non-profit supports what I’ve experienced as well. I’ve drifted in and out of the non-profit sector over the past six years as a volunteer as well as an adviser and have acquired that same bitter taste as you describe. Most of my experience is within the various intersects of refugee resettlement, housing, and education sectors. I thought I would find hearts-of-gold if I spent some time in that sector but I found it to be nice on the outside but dark on the inside. Most of the women are over-educated (indoctrinated) drones who are caricatures of… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

Perhaps Emily’s fiance should hand her off, as that’s basically the same schtick she’s trying to pull.

Probably that man will have to learn the hard way. If she really was sexing him up before and now is cock teasing him, then he should be asking questions of himself already. Of course, “Emily” could be just another femme-troll, too…

Roused
Roused
6 years ago

I’m with Blax in HB rating of of Emmy’s pix. 6.5 at max. She is very common. Nothing remarkable about her. The photography is awful as well. Funny, didn’t see her blue ball BF in any of the pix.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

It seems to me that polygamy will solve a lot of our modern day problems.

Only for the minority of men who accumulate a harem. For the majority, it won’t work at all.

FWIW there are already soft harems at the bottom and the top of society.

Cross Phased
6 years ago

There’s a pretty big hurdle to overcome when you are first exposed to the red pill. It’s like being pulled aside right after you’ve been conned and having the whole thing explained to you. It makes you angry, you don’t want to believe it, and you’d like to salvage some of your ego in the process. The way I have got through the bitterness and anger phase so far is just to stick with the process. Keep reading everything you can get your hands on red pill wise, but at the same time start acting on the knowledge. Lifting weights… Read more »

Longgone
Longgone
6 years ago

I.A.S.

There is a great photo-chart of HB1-9 (Scribbler is right that10 doesn’t exist.) I found it on another manosphere site, changed the name so cannot give you the link, and haven’t figured out how to post pictures here yet. A little searching will turn it up for you. Happy New Year!

Andy
Andy
6 years ago

No apology necessary. I just don’t want us to get too dogmatic.

I like what you wrote about ego death. That was a huge revelation for me as well. It looks like in RSD’s new hotseat program they try and kill the ego for each individual. I think that would be a great initiation to manhood for society.

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

@IAS: It’s been done:

http://www.returnofkings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/pictorialscale.jpg

I think the high end is seriously out of whack though, like the person who put it together had never met any really stunning women.

Scribbler: As herself, rather than the studio version, she was absolutely adorable:

comment image

I’ve been known to describe my ex #1 as Hepburn’s younger, blonder, prettier sister. For all I know, the description might even be accurate.

scray
scray
6 years ago

@IAS it’s been done: http://www.returnofkings.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/pictorialscale.jpg @everyone else Obviously my take on vulnerability is different. Women don’t like guys who must be pitied or who can’t take care of themselves. Nobody does. Displaying vulnerability isn’t the same as that. I’ve gained a lot of attraction just talking about shitty choices I’ve made or embarrassing moments I’ve had. I hooked up over this weekend doing this shit. How? To oversimplify: I said it with a light smirk: you don’t need to pity me. I have my issues, but that’s just who I am. People trust you faster and like you more if… Read more »

scray
scray
6 years ago

@kfg

lol jinx

lh
lh
6 years ago

Regarding ego I have mixed feelings. On the one hand letting go of your ego is indeed a great source of freedom as SJF said. But then ego is important too. I’ll quote Ron Dennis, an extremely successful man, on that matter:

And then there’s ego. Ego is a core ingredient of ambition. Ambition and ego are close bed-fellows.

http://www.motorsportmagazine.com/halloffame/ron-dennis/lunch-with-ron-dennis/

IAS
IAS
6 years ago

Thanks for the chart, that was helpful and a good effort by whoever compiled it (but less helpful than I expected, which I guess Scribblerg totally called it).

It is very subjective, I would rearrange a few of those pictures and I don’t particularly find any of the 9s (maybe 3 of them) “extremely attractive”.

This is a bit off-topic, but does anyone else notice if they have a thing for similar faces, I sometimes feel like I got “imprinted” when I was a teenager (or earlier).

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@KFG – We have a lot in common. And yes, the high end of that SMV chart is way off. I never agreed with it beyond average. But then again. I’ve fucked some 9.5s and married the homecoming queen/prom queen *** not such a great decision fyi ***. I also think that if you used this chart, Emily is clearly an 8. If I was in court, I’d use it as evidence against Tomassi’s rough judgment, lol. But then again, he’s picking from hotties in Vegas. Same deal in LA, go down to Venice beach any time and you’ll find… Read more »

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Razor – Dude, that was an epic comment. Crikey. This – “I also see it as a graveyard for reality, natural law, and truth. In many ways, a kind of leading edge of the FI that foreshadows the kind of wasteland that the SMP may become. The craving for alpha is thick in the air but the refusal or inability to produce the kind of femininity that Alphas respond to naturally creates the dissonance and discontent that we see elsewhere. They all use the vernacular of the perpetually aggrieved. It got old, quite quickly.”

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Rollo – Come on tell us, would Audrey Hepburn make the cut as a pour girl?

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Rollo – And another thing, Emily has quite a “cranston”, I thought that was your thing?

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 years ago

IAS
This is a bit off-topic, but does anyone else notice if they have a thing for similar faces, I sometimes feel like I got “imprinted” when I was a teenager (or earlier).

Neuroplasticity would strongly suggest that you were indeed imprinted at a younger age. It should also be obvious that neuroplasticity explains Alpha Widows at least to some degree…

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@Razorwire 100% completely and totally agree. My mother worked for a non-profit for a while as CFO. The level of infighting, self-serving narcissism, self-righteousness, incompetence, and cattiness that surrounded her was astounding. The few men in the office were beta in the extreme. The female CEO wound up pushing my mother to leave (after my mom turned the place around so well that the FBI came trying to recruit her for forensic accounting) simply for the fact that she didn’t fall in to the pecking order properly. To this day when a woman tells me she works for a charity,… Read more »

Bromeo
Bromeo
6 years ago

Gotta agree with Scrib, solid HB 8. Anyone giving lower than that is trying to look cool or is factoring in her personality which in that case would drop her to minimum HB7.

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

Audrey!
Not into mousy women.

Chump No More
Chump No More
6 years ago

@scribblerg

Is it merely coincidence that Emily Charland’s youtube site has been ‘scrubbed’ and your links no longer work? I think not!

Snotty-nosed young’ins and their be gross misconceptions of internet anonymity be way too funny!

Bromeo
Bromeo
6 years ago

Renee’s arms look way to skinny, same with her torso. Still solid HB9, if she gained another 10-15lb in the right areas she would hit HB9.5.

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@77 Miss Femtheist is the hilariously perfect distillation of the feminist end game that 1) openly acknowledges the hatred encouraged for all but the upper echelon of men despite the cries of “equality” and 2) calls for actions that would not “finally” achieve equality but would put men in a position of dominance. Indeed, the observation has been previously made that in countries where male:female ratios are significantly below 1.0 (.6 to .7 in some war torn places) the women are feminine, subservient, and utterly deprived as a class. At her .1 ratio, women would be slaves to the men.… Read more »

Andy
Andy
6 years ago

“I’ve gained a lot of attraction just talking about shitty choices I’ve made or embarrassing moments I’ve had. I hooked up over this weekend doing this shit. How? To oversimplify: I said it with a light smirk: you don’t need to pity me.”

@scray
I think the vulnerability we talk about is expressing it with the expectation of sympathy.

I wonder if it is different for a woman in an LTR that relies on your strength and provisioning? I doubt there would be much benefit in doing that with someone that already trusts you.

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Chump – I didn’t even bother checking but I assumed she would do so. I took a second look and on second thought, I think Rollo’s right, she’s barely a 7. I was just horny last night, lol. The one pic is sexy for sure but I went back and looked again and she’s actually a “butta face” girl. She’s funny-stupid though. Even though she’s hidden the incriminating pic, she doesn’t realize that since the link it will still post on the page. @Emily – Hint, if you delete the photo then the link won’t work. Here’s a video Emily… Read more »

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Rollo – Renee, 9.5 for sure. I just happen to prefer small women, but I’ve been known to climb tall women like a tree!

Striver
Striver
6 years ago

Similar faces: Yeah. I had a high school crush, and any woman with reddish brown straight hair, certain complexion and facial features, will trigger that. I find lots of other types attractive, but that type is another level. Personal thing.

Audrey Hepburn does nothing for me. But she’s sort of an extreme type. Never cared for Monroe either.

Liar & Fraud
Liar & Fraud
6 years ago

Fyi it is doxxing, or at least it isn’t a nice thing to do and Rollo should remove your post. Why? Because even though the photos were public I had no intention of making them public. Some of my old photos are just backed up into google photos. I had no idea you could see them since I disabled the option to see the photos. They were supposed to be private. You found them somehow, but I asked my friend and he said he couldn’t see any photos. So my intention was to keep them private, and I would be… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

“That’s not me.”
“Stop looking at me!”

“So my intention was . . .”

. . . the road to Hell.

newlyaloof
6 years ago

@Emily, you know that sinking feeling in your gut today from getting outed today? It ain’t pregnancy pains, but it should be. I suggest you pack up your bag, concentrate on making babies, and leave all the rational thoughts and debates about men to us men.
Good day now. Bye bye!

zip
zip
6 years ago

Emily, you just lied about being not that photogirl.

I hope you will be forgiven. I’ll have my gay cousin-priest pray for you.

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@Emily – So you lied at first, got it. I can’t delete them otherwise I would. But you can just delete the photos from Google+ and the links will no longer work. I won’t be offended if Rollo deletes the post. Fyi, just to be clear, the selfie in the mirror in your bra and underwear was posted to G+ intentionally cuz it also had a caption that you added about you “working on your abs”. You were sharing them with a friend and thought it was “your little secret”. Was that friend your BF? Lol, any guys here want… Read more »

Fred Flange, red flannel jammies
Fred Flange, red flannel jammies
6 years ago

From one Vice article to another…

Hey kids! Don’t you know misandry is Hip and With It? And you should get used to it because you deserve it? Can’t handle it cos your #masculinity too fragile?

https://www.vice.com/read/the-year-in-male-tears

For the record, I agree. Let us get used to it. If we’re as bad as they say we are, at least we should resemble that remark.

Liar & Fraud
Liar & Fraud
6 years ago

No no, look, I don’t know how to use google plus, youtube just forces me to use it, but I did turn off the option to view the photos tab from the settings. If I go t o my channel I can’t see it. So you did something shady to access my photos.

I don’t mind you guys being mean to me, but this was way too far.

Razorwire
Razorwire
6 years ago

@Scribblerg Thanks. I just lol on the inside whenever I play with the nonprofit kids now. I’ve given up the professional part as it was just too frustrating. But I still volunteer a lot. Mostly hands-on stuff, which just gets the girls all spun up that there are actually men, aside from the diverse ((invisible mexican)) men who fix things around the office or on project sites, that can actually handle equipment and create things. These birds are so deep that, other than the few guyliner rockers who make the drippy music they like, they believe creativity is cornered by… Read more »

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

@Emily: ” . . . youtube just forces me to use it . . .”

I was first locked out of, and now have lost my YouTube Channel.
Because YouTube cannot force me to use Google+.

Protip: Abs are made by staying out of the kitchen. Hiding cookies and beer in the living room is cheating.

lh
lh
6 years ago

Don’t worry about deleting it, emily. The dirty old men have seen it all already. And look: you’re still alive and talking.

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

Emily finally delivers a punchline that makes having her here worth while?

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Can we start ignoring her at this point? Plzkthx.

Stultus Sum
6 years ago

Emily, it’s imperative that you firmly close the gap between your nose and chin. The excuses are just embarrassing.

Sun Wukong
Sun Wukong
6 years ago

@kfg

I was first locked out of, and now have lost my YouTube Channel.
Because YouTube cannot force me to use Google+.

Why do you insist on victim blaming? Don’t you realize she’s the victim here, you insensitive clod?

newlyaloof
6 years ago

If the shoe was on the other foot, Emily would be sending all of Scribbs info to the social network authorities and urging people to find out his employer and get him fired.

That’s what separates us from you Emily. We’re happy enough just being wiser than you and seeing you beg, “It’s too big! Please let me rest a bit!”

lol!

IAS
IAS
6 years ago

@Anonymous Reader and @Striver:
Thanks. It isn’t just me and I wasn’t going crazy and imagining it.

Striver: you had Oneitis for that highschool crush, at least temporarily?

In my case I wonder if I already had the imprinting earlier and the highschool crush Oneitis just consolidated it.

I think it is related mainly with cheek bones in my case, but I also eventually noticed I have, for example, a hair color preference. But the face structure preference is stronger in my case.

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

Emily, “but I asked my friend and he said he couldn’t see any photos.”

Why didn’t you ask your “bf”?
See, sexy photos for alpha “tingles”, not for Christian bf.
Poor devil, why doesn’t he get to see them? Oh, forgot, he has to marry you first .
Did you know that Jesus can see them and he’s very upset with you.

kfg
kfg
6 years ago

” . . . she’s certainly not Insanity.”

Give her 40 years.

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 years ago

Emily,

NOTHING on the net is EVER truly private. Take it from an IT professional, and conduct your life accordingly. It’s a myth, privacy.

Rousedone
Rousedone
6 years ago

Thought this was a hot kitchen….??? guess poor Emily couldn’t stand the heat. I realize there are reasons to reply to poor Emily and her appeals for help. Poor thing just put it all out there and didn’t realize that social media is SOCIAL. Sorta reminds me of her retarded comments about girls drinking and how they aren’t responsible for their actions. Ok, Emily, now that you’ve cried poor me and got the owner of this site to DELETE a post for you could you grow a pair (you pick which pair) and now finally shut the fuck up? You… Read more »

Roused
Roused
6 years ago

Blax, thanks for reminding us nothing is truly private. +1 on the IT gig, been there and done/do some of that.

Nothing is private.

Emmy, take some time away from Jesus to read up on cookies, SSL, spoofing, Trojans (no not the one your boyfriend is using with other girls) and other obvious things related to how privacy does not exist. Ever heard of Google Analystics or IP tracking? Didn’t think so.

Just like pussy should have a warning label so should a web browser.

scribblerg
scribblerg
6 years ago

@All – Listen to Emily. I’m going to break this down because a person’s character is revealed under stress and her’s is shit. 1. Sure, YouTube forces Google+ onto you but… 2. It does not force you to upload photos to it. You set up a Google+ profile and added a bunch of photos. This was all intentional, none of that happened without you knowing it. 3. It also does not force you to add a caption that says “I’m working on my abs” which is what the bra and panty photo had underneath it. 4. You then lie and… Read more »

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

Emily, “I don’t mind you guys being mean to me,”
Because coming here (coming as coming to this blog) allowed me to explore the true meaning of “tingles” that my bf wasn’t generating(he actually believed my bullshits), and you guys, exposed my wild side and my bullshits .

keyser Soze
keyser Soze
6 years ago

Emily on December 28. At 4:30 pm:

“I usually dress very modestly. But I’m not going to cover my whole face and body just so men show some fucking decency. And yes, you ask any woman if she has been catcalled (verbally abused) on the street and she will almost certainly tell you she has – often daily. If I go downtown it’s pretty much certain I’ll be catcalled.”

bob bitchin
bob bitchin
6 years ago

A guy goes to sleep and wakes up to this. Wow. Emily is unveiled. Pretty damned funny. I wonder which Door she’ll take?

@scrib: nice

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