Sublimation

One question I was asked in my recent interview with Christian McQueen came from a read Cheryl:

Why don’t men find out a little info about the girl he’s going to have sex with?

Seems simple enough, right? I mean, hell, I got into all kinds of trouble for suggesting ways men might use in the vetting process of determining a woman’s suitability for a long term investment (however you want to define that). I can certainly understand the criticism. I seem to run into two extremes in this respect. On the one hand I get run up the flagpole for even suggesting men might qualify a woman for anything more than a pump & dump. The danger is too great and the more hardline MGTOW a guy might be, the more misleading he thinks my suggesting guys vet a woman is.

On the other extreme, there are the guys who tend to preemptively White Knight for themselves. In this perspective his standards (according his Red Pill awareness) require the utmost scrutiny for any woman to be considered worthy of his attention. In fact, just that he would consider a woman suitable ought to be flattering for her.

Now, those are two ends of the bell curve, but it’s the guys in the middle who, as Cheryl says, seem to give very little thought about a girl he wants to bang. This is a fairly innocuous question, but it has many answers.

First and foremost, it is biological. There are aspects about women that trigger a sexual response for men. We evaluate sexual potential and sexual availability of a woman all in a matter of seconds. He’s found out all he needs to know about a woman he wants to have sex with by whether or not he gets an erection with her. I think it was Roosh who dubbed this the boner test. In polite society this is the vulgar answer, but a man’s unconscious sexual response is the result of millennia of pragmatic and efficient evolution.

All sexual response in humans has evolved to be so autonomous you don’t notice it functioning in your mental processing. That’s one reason appealing to sexuality in commercial advertising is so reliable and ubiquitous – the response is always running as a background subroutine in our hindbrains. In our evolutionary past it served men best to hone their sexual evaluation and response to a woman within moments because anything less, any over-investment in that assessment, had the potential of his being killed by a rival for whom he might be competing with intrasexually.

Assessing sexual availability and suitability evolved to be an instantaneous and subconscious process for men because men also had the lowest investment requirement in reproduction. I often delve into explaining the mechanics of raw female Hypergamy on this blog, but it’s important to consider how women’s fundamental sexual strategy forces men’s own strategies to adapt. What we call ‘pump & dump’ now was a very pragmatic, often life-preserving reproductive strategy for men to follow in our prehistory. Since Estrus is largely concealed in human females it made sense for men to adopt a sexual strategy, and consequentially evolve a physical sexual response, based on immediacy.

Men’s sexuality is ‘always on’. Men are aroused sexually far quicker and with much less prerequisite cues and stimuli than are women. You have to work a woman up to sexual arousal. In some instances that may be an easy task (if the guy is an idealized Alpha for instance), but by comparison healthy men’s sexual response is far more responsive than that of women. You might think, “well duh, Rollo, everyone knows women need foreplay and an emotional kick (good or bad)”, but this is one of those “well duh” moments we need to review in order to understand why men don’t apply themselves more to sexual qualification of women.

Now carry this dynamic into the present. This immediate sexual evaluation and response  was a great evolutionary adaptation benefit for prehistoric men – assess it, hit it and run – but in today’s world, it’s largely a disadvantage because social and environmental conditions have changed. Our mental subroutines are the same our ancestors had, but the environment they evolved in is largely gone and forgotten. However, the vestiges of this evolution are something we need to contend with today. I think it’s ironic how ready we are to accept that our bodies process and prioritizes calories of certain foodstuffs as a result of how food scarcity in our evolutionary past made for a more efficient physical machine. Today, food is plentiful, but our physiology still processes food as if food was scarce. As a result we see epidemic obesity rates.

Mind Over Matter

That’s easy to understand, but what our social and physical conditions demand from us now is us exercising self-control over the consequences of those evolved vestiges. Largely we think a fat guy is weak for not having restraint with food and prioritizing exercise (and exercise he needed for survival in the past), but what we don’t like to accept is that our physical nature is what sets our operative conditions today.

We expect much of the same modern day self-control over our evolved sexual response too. The more noble, higher-order thinking aspects we value today are really mechanisms intended to sublimate evolved aspects of ourselves that used to be the most pragmatic and efficient means of solving the problem of reproduction and survival. Mind (or spirit) over matter doesn’t preclude the influences of these evolved motivators – nor does it (or should it) absolve men of consequences of his behavior.

In psychology, sublimation is a mature type of defense mechanism where socially unacceptable impulses or idealizations are unconsciously transformed into socially acceptable actions or behavior, possibly resulting in a long-term conversion of the initial impulse.

Sigmund Freud believed that sublimation was a sign of maturity (indeed, of civilization), allowing people to function normally in culturally acceptable ways. He defined sublimation as the process of deflecting sexual instincts into acts of higher social valuation, being “an especially conspicuous feature of cultural development; it is what makes it possible for higher psychical activities, scientific, artistic or ideological, to play such an important part in civilized life”. Similar views state that sublimation is when displacement “serves a higher cultural or socially useful purpose, as in the creation of art or inventions”.

In short, sublimation is a result of restraining those evolved aspects of ourselves and channeling that motivation and impetus to other endeavors. I think one of the key understandings that Red Pill men need to grasp is how these underlying motivators operate in themselves as well as how they affect women. Game is greatly enhanced by a real good understanding of how a woman does or does not sublimate certain aspects of herself. In fact, I would argue that since the time of the Sexual Revolution, and the social unfettering of Hypergamy, women have systematically changed how they sublimate their evolved impulses. The rise of our feminine-primary social order has been molded by how women have been absolved of the consequences of realigning this sublimation, or unapologetically dropping it altogether.

Simultaneously, this social order has increased the liability for men who cannot or will not adopt the forms of sublimating their own impulses according to feminine-primacy. As you might guess, this coincides with the Male Catch 22, men’s Burden of Performance and men being held to old order social contracts while also being expected to respect new order social mandates. Men are held accountable for any marginal lack of self-control (sublimation of evolved imperatives), while women are socially absolved of, and sometimes rewarded for a lack of control over their Hypergamous impulses.

Roissy once stated that the goal of feminism is to remove all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality. How we reward and punish either sex’s capacity to sublimate their feral natures is how this is effected.

Devil in the Details

Yet the bewilderment persists, why don’t men vet the women they want to bang more? What the question presumes is men ought to have a capacity to sublimate their sexual desire in order to make better decisions for themselves. What the question presumes is men’s sublimation should align with the sexual strategies of women and to their ‘correct’ benefit. It also presumes women’s sexual strategies are in no way intended to confuse or capitalize on a man’s value to her. I don’t mention this to be mean or imply judgement, rather that arousal and attraction don’t happen in a vacuum. I’ve made this analogy before, but,…

T-rex doesn’t want to be fed; he wants to hunt. You can’t just suppress sixty-five million years of gut instinct.
– Dr. Grant, Jurassic Park

Sexuality, families, and men did not come about because of society. To the contrary, sexuality, families, and men are what made society possible in the first place. – Pook

Men’s brains evolved to sexually objectify women. In order for this assessment to take place the mental construct of perceiving women as objects was a necessary evolutionary step. The simple truth is that it’s part of men’s neurological firmware to see women’s bodies as objects. It’s a well studied fact that when men see an arousing woman’s semi-nude body it triggers the same area of our brains associated with tool use. Sexual objectification is a survival feature for men, not a bug. Furthermore, studies show that men’s brains will prioritize sex even above food acquisition.

None of these facts absolve men of personal responsibility for their actions – however, men making less than wise decisions with regards to sex are following their evolutionary directive. Today’s women feign some ignorance of this, but what they don’t appreciate is that their own directive, the dualistic nature of Hypergamy, is not the same as men’s. And yet again we become victims of the teachings of equalism that wants us to believe men and women are the same, and as such men ought to be able to sublimate themselves in the same manner as women.

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kfg
kfg
5 years ago

That one belongs in the hover hand Hall of Fame.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Play About STD’s how you going to vet for that? she can be a seemingly “good girl” with a lowish n count but if her last partner was an alpha player fucking every hot club ho in town who’s doing the same thing then how’s your vetting her going to protect you? You can rule out hookers and many girls with vetting as being high risk by talking with people about them. Does she make out with multiple men in the bar? Fail. Does she get tipsy? Fail. I don’t see any way to find out a girl’s n-count and… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

@ Yollo All I’m saying is that a man must try to maximize all aspects of his life and himself. Master his domain. I’m basically in the ” looks matter ” camp, but I also abhor 1 trick ponies. Money, muscles and looks are not the end all – be all. These things can become comfortable crutches. Men have to develop themselves to be able to withstand the loss of any of these thing, while still standing strong. A man has to be immune to any destruction by any woman. I was destroyed early in life ( pre 20’s )… Read more »

Lost Patrol
Lost Patrol
5 years ago

“Age: 31”

DingDingDing!

@AR – every time I see one of these chicks now (and I know some in person) I think of your once-upon-a-time comment about “29.99 years old”. It really is a magical age for women. Mostly not in a good way.

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
5 years ago

@Blax

LOL. The quest for the grateful woman continues.

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Come on Playdontpay… Don’t you see you are white knighting for the FI? This bullshit about honesty and coming clean etc. Is completely at odds with living life as you want to. I.e. Platinum Rule – do whatever you want to do whenever you want to do it…

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Blax

I’m basically in the ” looks matter ” camp

Looks matter for naturals.

Looks matter if you wait on girls to look at you before you approach.

Looks cause girls to expect more of you than if you were plain.

Looks matter for the first ten seconds that a girl sees you.

Good game can overcome a looks deficit.

Top game makes looks irrelevant. Poster boy is RSD Tyler (Owen Cook). & Henry Kissinger.

http://www.henryakissinger.com/

Ajax Parallax
Ajax Parallax
5 years ago

“We need men who will grow up, know up, and show up. Who will fight for romance and commit quickly and stay indefinitely.” Lulz. Jesus, I thought this was a woman’s Instagram post and not some dude named “Dale.” This is my favorite part: “…commit quickly and stay indefinitely.” Nice game plan, Dale. The exact opposite of sage advice. Sigh. The cemeteries are full of your fellow blue pill men who also believed they would stay in their women’s feelz-addled minds indefinitely. As if you were in charge. The dangerous pretty little lie: the belief that all of your sacrifices,… Read more »

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

“That one belongs in the hover hand Hall of Fame. Mr. Hover Hand said: “In Italy, they call it Peter Pan Syndrome. I call it immaturity and selfishness.” And also: “We need men who will grow up, know up, and show up. Who will fight for romance and commit quickly and stay indefinitely. To turn their hearts toward children and work to raise them well.” That guy is going to find himself running full tilt into the Peter Principle (which is quite distinct from the Peter Pan Syndrome), otherwise know as Blue Pill men rising to their level of incompetence.… Read more »

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
5 years ago

“Looks cause girls to expect more of you than if you were plain.”

I thought Red Pills were up for a challenge.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
5 years ago

kfg
That one belongs in the hover hand Hall of Fame.

Cover up her lower face and look just at her eyes. Do her eyes look like she’s smiling?

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
5 years ago

@Rollo

I like that 3rd one.

Ajax Parallax
Ajax Parallax
5 years ago

Hilarious, most certainly. Ah, that reminds me. I recently sat down at a coffee shop to have a cup of coffee with a mixed group to discuss some legislative business regarding some officials we were dealing with. The post-wall divorcee do-gooder next to me was puzzled by a change in one of the official’s last name. “I noticed from her emails that Jessica has a different last name? “Yeah, she got married,” said the other post-wall. Her reaction was priceless. She slumped a bit and smirk-sneered: “Ohhhh, too bad. If it was because she was going back to her maiden… Read more »

ollieoxenfree1
5 years ago

@ConstrainedLocus

And this is why Feminism and the FI will ultimately fail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dGdfPtW56fo

“Real power is something you take.”

Lost Patrol
Lost Patrol
5 years ago

These are examples of the kinds of “hilarious” cakes Dale’s wife will be enjoying in roughly 7 years:

A lot of those cakes feature the actual death of the man as a theme, with bonus pools of blood. I wonder if a man could reverse that idea on his own divorce cake and also stay out of jail that day.

DisgruntledEarthling
DisgruntledEarthling
5 years ago

and also stay out of jail that day
Thinking of the same thing… Hate speech anybody?

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

How would design a job for yourself where you got to hang out with the hottest models, cool musicians and just create what you wanted to every day? Would you start by taking up a coke and heroin addiction? Would you try and fit your square peg into the round hole everyone else was? Would you think of burying your t shirt in the backyard because it was scratchy? Dynamic, Passionate and Authentic shout out to blowing up designer Christian Benner… http://headlinesandheroes.com/upload/undefined/CB_6.jpg Some inspiration…. https://www.instagram.com/p/BQMfmfhAGF1/?taken-by=christianbenner ” I still questioned why couldn’t I be like everyone else. I then finally excepted… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

some more…

https://www.instagram.com/p/BSXaGDSD8x9/

CB philosophy

https://www.instagram.com/p/BRuHGeGj3-q

On Doing the Hard Work…

https://www.instagram.com/p/BRgVWI2jF3f

The place following a DPA path tends to lead to… a place of your own making…

kfg
kfg
5 years ago

“Real power is something you take.”

People I point that out to are generally not amused.

Boxcar
Boxcar
5 years ago

Cheryl, Haven’t you ever had an interaction with a man that was just flirty and fun? Where the sexual vibe was memorable, but the content of the conversation was not? That is what men are aiming for when picking up women, because it is what women expect. It’s a mating dance that occurs on the level of emotional “chemistry”… For some women, it is probably more rewarding than the sex itself. I am sure that many men would *prefer* that they have a normal wide-ranging platonic conversation that ends in sex. Of course, it does not work that way. For… Read more »

rugby11
rugby11
5 years ago
theasdgamer
5 years ago

I am a positive advocate for intelligent risk taking in pursuit of your DPA mission. I am also a positive advocate that those who fail to execute due diligence in their risk taking will positively fuck up their life. How’s that for positive thinking?

Dizzle
Dizzle
5 years ago

Any notion you can vet a chick is folly. The oneitis that brought me to the RP was known to at least 250 people from my social circle. I had social proof by the truckload, and everyone else said how nice she was, and how she hadn’t had a boyfriend since she divorced 8 years ago. I’m pretty sure that she had them fooled too. I’ve never seen anyone turn on a dime like she did, zero warning. And I have lots of history with really damaged people. By all means, vet away – but don’t stop vetting either. The… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

she hadn’t had a boyfriend since she divorced 8 years ago.

This was a red flag to anyone who vets…

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

sauceryQueer – stop pushing your inane Creative Writing 101 bs here… you idjit.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
5 years ago

I try to do the same on my website (click on my name to visit my site),

Say “Hi” to CEO Nicolic on your way out.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@ Dizzle

Any notion you can vet a chick is folly.

Let me fix this:

“Any notion that I can vet a chick is folly.” hehe

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

“How’s that for positive thinking?” Pretty darn near perfect in my book. Paradoxically, to most observers, I’m able to live by glaring contradictions that nonetheless make perfect sense – at least from a purely rational male red pill perspective. (I honestly can’t remember the last time a cognitively dissonanant thought didn’t roll of me like a raindrop of a back of a duck with teflon feathers) For example, I’m simultaneously the most starry-eyed idealist and the bitterest of cynics, a seemingly impossible conflict. But this is because I tend to believe that with effort, intelligence and consideration, nothing is impossible,… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

“the su descends”

ollieoxenfree1
5 years ago

In order for sublimation to work a person would have to internalise a deep seated goal and be persistently working towards it. I’m not saying this could eradicate the need for sexual release. Nothing can do that. But it would provide the foundation on which to perform sublimation.

In the following clip J.R. Ewing’s stated goals are to own\control Ewing oil and destroy Cliff Barnes. Even though he finds out he’s been betrayed, he doesn’t allow any personal feelings to cloud his analysis of the situation. Note how J.R. vets Sly for loyalty and candour after the event.

Ajax Parallax
Ajax Parallax
5 years ago

As for “any notion you can vet a chick is folly”

@Dizzle wrote

“The oneitis that brought me to the RP…”

“I’ve never seen anyone turn on a dime like she did, zero warning.”

-Please see the first line above for your answer to the second.

Continuing…

“And I have lots of history with really damaged people.”

-Sounds like your vetdar is broken. For quite some time.
Hopefully your new RP POV is getting that fixed.
No judgments here. Ask me how I know.
Vet away, gentlemen. It has way better odds of preventing dis-ease than the flu shot.

Dizzle
Dizzle
5 years ago

Sentient: She had dated a lot, so she said. Super shy, kinda odd lady. I’m not interested in anything conventional. Like I said, I was blue pill AF – when she dumped me, I woke up after I figured out what happened. It wasn’t my BPD ex wife, but her replacement that put the spotlight on my White Knight tendencies. Most people aren’t self aware of shortcomings, much less have the desire to suffer through the change and get themselves right. I was too old to be unplugged at 46, but I also wasn’t ready at 45. ASD: Maybe. I… Read more »

Dizzle
Dizzle
5 years ago

I might have Guy Disney, but I had an advantage that I was naturally alpha. But my parents will be married 50 years this fall, and I just didn’t get it that after 20 with the BPD I was headed to frivorce

So I doubled down on the blue pill, and decided to betaize myself. Decades of conditioning and a obsolete set of books got me the wake up call I needed.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Diz

We’re all about self-improvement here. Dizzle 2.0! Complete with vetting radar!

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

In fact, I would argue that since the time of the Sexual Revolution, and the social unfettering of Hypergamy, women have systematically changed how they sublimate their evolved impulses. The rise of our feminine-primary social order has been molded by how women have been absolved of the consequences of realigning this sublimation, or unapologetically dropping it altogether. File this under what the fuck, that red pill sure tastes bitter. Guaranteed to be fake and/or psychotic/BPD/Cluster B: http://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/angelina-jolie-married-129778 Sources exclusively tell In Touch (Angelina Jolie) the 41-year-old A-lister has a new man in her life — and they’re already talking about… Read more »

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

It’s odd (not really, it was prescient) but The Smiths musicianship (which I totally missed in the 80’s) with the genius riffs on guitar by Johnny Marr, speak of “burn the DJ” which is a metaphor for in 2017 the Feminine Imperative and the music that “they constantly play”.

Burn the DJ. Burn the FI.
Burn the DJ. Burn the FI.
Burn the FI.

Craiger247
Craiger247
5 years ago

Another wonderful article written by the FI… https://www.yahoo.com/news/m/ce755182-b0ec-3b98-b639-9e1d5ce0b98a/ss_why-i-won%E2%80%99t-date-hot-women.html for those of you who don’t care to read, here is the gist…basically, this successful man could have any girl he desired, and dated all types of women (conveniently younger and hotter), yet he found their youth/beauty were empty, they were vapid and had. Obviously this article is click bait for a dating website for those of you not familiar with such articles,never the less, it shows how the FI is always at play, trying to pretend that spinsters who are well into their 30’s are just a “diamond in the rough”… Read more »

DisgruntledEarthling
DisgruntledEarthling
5 years ago

Hehe, the 19yo I’m seeing is anything but vapid. She’s smart, perky, good humored, likes to laugh, great tits, and a little butt that could kill. What else do you need in a woman?

mersonia
5 years ago

@Disgruntled

“What else do you need in a woman?”

“great tits, and a little butt that could kill.” The rest really doesn’t matter.

Craiger247
Craiger247
5 years ago

@Disgruntled @Mersonia Its just funny to me how older women just dismiss what men like, or could possibly like that doesn’t agree with their sexual strategy. Again, the article was 100% click bait, but the message from the FI was still in there loud and clear. The notion that younger women are vapid, uninteresting, etc, and the real jewels (because they’ve yet to be discovered because those stupid men are wasting their time on young hotties) are older women is actually the exact opposite from real life. From a person who is single, who goes out very often, who meets… Read more »

cheupez
5 years ago

Among all ego defense mechanisms, I think sublimation is the worst form of self deception, so deep and beautiful (and dangerous…) self inflicted lobectomy magnus/maximus. “Civilization?” When that guy finally gets to see his murder!-the!-fucking!-beta! cake after his wife has marched him through the divorce court and gets the most unreasonable settlement against him, he still thinks that love exists, loses his house, money, children, is supposed to live in his car… Man! Some things really tick me off. It is when you think you are past denial and anger then something like this instagram mind fap gets posted; it… Read more »

gregg
gregg
5 years ago

“Furthermore, studies show that men’s brains will prioritize sex even above food acquisition.” That´s the problem of married guys and young hormone driven men. If you have experienced variety of young hotties and you are over 40 with many things to do..level of hormones decrease. You are no longer such sex obsessed slave as you used to be. Many times the young woman you are with is more sex obsessed than you! You have to escape the situation, you just do not want it..this night. I am prioritizing good dinner, sleep and rest over sex with young woman regurarly, while… Read more »

rugby11
rugby11
5 years ago

Rollo
http://wp.me/p10w4n-4Y2

SFC Ton
5 years ago

Why don’t men find out a little info about the girl he’s going to have sex with?
————–

The most important thing to know about her is if she is does she fuck well.

Every thing else is secondary

Tom
Tom
5 years ago

> He’s found out all he needs to know about a woman he wants to have sex > with by whether or not he gets an erection with her. I think it was Roosh > who dubbed this the boner test. I have an old-timer friend who said it was a name before Roosh even existed on the internet. Apparently it was a reaction to the 1-10 scale that guys have traditionally used to score girls. He said he heard it in the 90s, and saw it being used on the grandaddy of all seduction forms, alt.seduction.fast, back in Usenet… Read more »

Tom
Tom
5 years ago

@kfg
> “Real power is something you take.”
> People I point that out to are generally not amused.

The first rule of Fight Club is . . .

kfg
kfg
5 years ago

@Tom:

Tell it to them, kid. If they weren’t whining about how they aren’t Fight Club champion I wouldn’t have to say something to try to shut them up.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Ton

The most important thing to know about her is if she is does she fuck well.
Every thing else is secondary

As long as a woman has pr0n star skills, her having AIDS doesn’t matter.

Glider
Glider
5 years ago

Not one mention of toxic feminism as the root cause of the pathetic, self absorbed, narcissist current generation of soft Westerners…

theage.com.au/comment/the-generation-brought-up-on-selfesteem-is-struggling-20170413-gvk4ng.html

Roused
Roused
5 years ago

“I am prioritizing good dinner, sleep and rest over sex with young woman regurarly, while this this woman sleeps next to me. Other days I enjoy it. There is more in man than only sexual robot..married, sex obsessed guys forced to bang the same old beast for years or young, sex starved guys with high level of hormones may not experience it, but – fuck your share, live with your share, enjoy variety, experience women…have something other to do and be past forty/fortyfive. Magic is lost.” To each their own. But, perhaps you’re not enjoying the varying levels of sexual… Read more »

rugby11
rugby11
5 years ago

Rollo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uiD6bnqpJDE
Went to see my nephew today my sister had him apologize for doing a male thing. Im very much concerned they are trying to do the same thing to him that happened to me.
Thank you for your blog.

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Cheryl
Cheryl
5 years ago

Stuff inbox, now if I had the answer to that question it would be amazing. But of course I don’t . If I did would you take my word on it anyway? I really wasn’t condemning any practices you guys use. How could I,I’ve never been In your place.

Cheryl
Cheryl
5 years ago

Boxcar , I have experienced that sexual chemistry. It’s a great feeling. You are right about women enjoying the “dance”. I always think it’s too bad that tension goes away. (Also know it doesn’t have to). As for the wide range conversation, some of us do like it. Some of us just want to sleep with you. Although we are conditioned to repress that, so it’s conflicting. As far as the waitress. I’m thinking she was trying and being that she was in her workplace there was no way to let you know other than subtle flirting (unless she was… Read more »

stuffinbox
5 years ago

Cheryl

Rollo dedicated a post to answering the question for you.If it was an honest curiosity and question you would then have read the answer and absorbed the knowledge presented,now you could answer your own question.

Since you cannot I surmise rudeness in the form of a why don’t guys do this or that,sort of like a comedy skit.

Cheryl
Cheryl
5 years ago

Stuff that makes no sense to me. You are the only one being rude here. I get it now. The main goal is to Fuck her. Great ..most women already know this . If a man asked this same question ..I’m sure your answer would be totally different. It’s not fair to say the question was rude.

Cheryl
Cheryl
5 years ago

Stuff, I think men don’t vet better or I wouldn’t even say the word better. I would say longer, because they really don’t care. Or honestly don’t want to know. Why should they. If there is no other motive than to sleep with her;why do I care ? And that’s fine maybe they both don’t care. All I was saying was don’t act surprised later on.

Yollo Comanche
Yollo Comanche
5 years ago

@Cheryl

The “main goal” isn’t to fuck her. The “main goal” is to get her to think she’s talking to someone who’s better than her. So you can fuck her, and get her to think you’re doing HER a favor.

THAT’S what hypergamy IS. You can’t vet as a man without controlling for hypergamy. Which makes vetting a fundamentally different process for guys as apposed to the filtration process that it is for gals.

Cheryl
Cheryl
5 years ago

Yollo..my question has been torn apart to mean something different than what I meant it to be. I agree with you on all parts . (Just don’t tell her the word favor)

stuffinbox
5 years ago

Cheryl

There you have it.Not to bad for a dyed in the wool and doesn’t know it feminist,with full on solipsism butting into the mens locker room….You are alright kid now run along while we shave our faces.

M Simon
5 years ago

The qualification for a long term investment in a female?

She wants you so bad nothing else matters. Other GFs? An obstacle not a disqualification. etc.

i.e. she needs to have oneitis for you. And you must do the usual Game stuff to maintain her attitude.

So far 43 years and 4 kids.

I never let her forget – “you can be replaced”.

Sri
Sri
4 years ago

“…In fact, I would argue that since the time of the Sexual Revolution, and the social unfettering of Hypergamy, women have systematically changed how they sublimate their evolved impulses…” Actually it’s gone a step back to what it used to be, now expressed in an institutionalized manner. It’s something that many blue pill men have long forgotten, that while society may have changed, women’s are still fundamentally instinctual creatures and their hypergamous instincts are no less difficult to overcome than a man’s instinct to masturbate. In fact I’d argue that this was the very reason why religion was invented. Religion… Read more »

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