I want to thank you if you’ve made it through the first part of this series and you stuck with it. In some respects I can see why it might be odd that I’m covering cognitive processes, however, these are really the foundational premises for so many other Red Pill intersexual dynamics, as well as interpersonal and even social dynamics between humans that they deserve some sort of fleshing out. Again, I want to stress that these cognitive processing models are ideas I’m coming to and not settled science. However, they are based on both classic interpretations combined with the benefit of what we know about the biological, evolutionary and anthropological aspects of the cognitive processes today.
If you made the connection to Freud’s components of personality models – the Id, Ego and Super Ego – in the last post you at least grasp something of the initial theory I’m building on here. Useful as they are, Freud’s models lacked anything like an understanding of how the human mind works or how it evolved to the degree we take for granted today. Freud made his best guess at these processes from an inner psyche perspective. He formed his theories from what he deduced was operating inside our heads. My belief is that his (and others’) cognitive process models evolved and developed in response to interpreting our environment and the stimuli that our senses translated to them in our formative evolutionary past. Really, all of these interpretive processes, Instinct, Emotion and Reason, are the result of our experiential lives and the many benefits they provided us in surviving and reproducing.
All of that is not to discount the internal psyche and how these processes define who we are. Freud’s model proposed the Id, Ego and Superego are components of personality, what I’m proposing is that these components are the result of evolved cognitive processes – Instinct, Emotion and Reason – that served to create these inner models which later became those components of personality. I should say that I’m not entirely sold on these Freudian components, but I can see how cognitive processes would’ve led to developing them. I propose that these components of personality, Freud’s or other’s, are the products of these interpretive processes.
The Ego is a result of the Rational (Reason) process, while the Superego is a summation of the Emotional process. Since I don’t want to veer off into the psychology lesson in all this I’ll leave this proposition for another essay, but I do want to make a distinction here; What I’m proposing in this series is that our evolved interpretive processes are the means by which we interpret our reality, which in turn shapes who we are individually, socially and sexually.
Base Instincts
Stripped down, the Id is a result of the Instinctual process and largely resides in our unconscious or preconscious experience. Instinct is reflexive, and the behaviors it prompts are directly related to our basic survival and reproductive needs. Instinct operates outside our consciousness because of the inability of the human brain to focus on the endless sources of stimulus we experience in life. As good as we’d like to think we are with multi-tasking our interpretive cognition can only process so much; the rest is pushed into our subconscious periphery and hindbrain subroutines. This is the auto-pilot part of our instinctual cognition.
Since we largely see our Rational and Emotional processes (not to mention our social consciousness) as “higher order” processes, we tend to downplay the importance of Instinct. Our Instinctive process evolved to sustain our physical survival and reproductive imperatives in as pragmatic and practical a way as would be expedient. In most respects Instinctual interpretation and cognition is, by necessity, based on immediacy. By comparison, Emotion and Reason are slower forms of cognition, and, in the case of Reason, requires a period of learning, development and internalization. As such, there is no complication of conscience or morality, nor time for rational or emotional reflection when instinctual awareness and action is necessary. All the things we call sin or immoral, unethical or duplicitous, are manifested by our Instinctual process. But so too are ennobling aspects like self-sacrifice, violence-in-protection, mate guarding and parental investment. Hypergamy is also a behavioral and psychological dynamic that is deeply rooted in the Instinctual process.
Because of all that instinct often carries a negative preconception, at least by modern standards. And thus the Id becomes the part of the human psyche inseparably connected to the instinctual process. The desire for immediate gratification, the direct, unmitigated satisfaction of our most basic needs, and the hedonistic pursuit of pleasure; all of these we associate with the Id. However, all of these basic gratifications are directed towards elements of our evolved, instinctual needs for survival and insurances of thriving in the future. Much of what we think of as impulsivity is connected to the immediate aspect of instinct, but even this often serves some latent biological or survival purpose.
Gendered Differences
In psychology 101 we’re taught to think of the Id as our ‘childish’ selves. How many times have we read in the manosphere about how men can better relate with women via Amused Mastery or relating to them like a bratty younger sister? This process, this PUA technique, is a subconscious appeal to women’s Id via the Instinctual process. When I proposed that women want a man who Just Gets It a huge part of that dynamic relies on a man appealing to a woman’s Instinctual cognition. This is exactly why demonstrating an intent serves so much better than explicating an intent. Actions speak louder than words because actions always speak clearly to our Instinctual processing. Yet one more reason I, and most of my Red Pill contemporaries, advocate for the Medium being the Message – behavior almost always appeals to instinct.
One of the questions I’m always asked by guys is, how do I know when a woman is in whichever phase of her ovulation? Usually this is prompted by some reasoned want to be able to know when to turn up the Alpha around their girlfriend’s proliferative phase and ease off when she’s in her luteal (down cycle) phase. When you look at this in terms of cognitive processes, a man’s Reasoning process wants to deductively solve a problem that is rooted in the Instinctual process. It certainly makes sense, like a lot of other problems, to use our smarts to solve that reproductive problem. The real problem is that the use of Reason is what defeats the Instinctual cognition. There are actually many subconscious, instinctual mechanisms men have evolved to determine a great deal of information about women reproductive states, but our Reason and what goes into influencing it, tends to make us discount what out Instinctive process is telling us.
Most guys get frustrated with Game at some stage of their learning (Reason) it. The most common complaint is “I can never hope to remember all of this shit perfectly all the time. I can’t calibrate the way I need to, or, this is all an act, when can I let my hair down and just relax with a girl?” Another common question/presumption guys hit me with is how I manage to continually Game my wife. The answer I almost universally give is that I don’t, in fact, consciously Game my wife. Rather, my success in our marriage and really all of my relationships with all the women in my life is the result of having internalized what I’ve learned from Red Pill awareness and made it who I am. I’ve taken what I’ve learned and internalized it to the point that Game became my instinctual response to women’s instinctual process.
Game is not an act for me, it’s an instinct. If you were to put a guitar in my hands today I could play it with a good degree of proficiency. I can play by ear and instinctually I anticipate where notes and chord progressions go if I’m trying to play a song I’ve never played before because I’ve been playing guitar for the better part of my life. However, there was a point in time where all of that was foreign to me. I could play by rote memorization, but playing music wasn’t instinctual. Playing an instrument wasn’t part of who I was at that point in time.
The same is true for internalizing Game. It is entirely possible for your Rational process to inform your Instinctual process as well as your Emotional processes. This interplay can work for all our cognitive processes, but as I’m focusing on instinct today I want to stress again that Rational and Emotional processes can alter the, largely subconscious, Instinctual process. I have pretty good pitch as a result of being a musician for so long. If you asked me to play a particular note or chord I would instinctively do so. What I wouldn’t do is hunt around the fretboard counting frets and string to come to it. This is the best illustration I can give you with regards to internalizing other things.
Martial arts is another good example. There are certain innate, instinctual reactions we have when we’re confronted with conflict or protecting ourselves. When something flies at our faces we flinch. When we hear a sudden loud noise we startle. These are inborn parts of our firmware that evolved in us for very good reasons. What martial arts training does is forces us to sublimate those natural instincts and replace them with more efficient instinctual responses. Again, this is the Rational process rewriting the instinctual process via internalization.
Art has always been something I’ve had an innate ability for. I have do doubt that many of our natural cognitive ‘gifts’ are in some way gene expressions. So when we see a ‘natural’ at something our rational/emotional minds tend to think of it as something almost supernatural. However, I had to learn to play music because I was determined to express myself creatively in that fashion as well, and that took perseverance and internalization of skills. I think the same can be said for guys we think are ‘naturals’ with regard to Game and women. They may have an instinctual affinity for Game. They may be blessed with good genetics. But Game can be learned and internalized down to the Instinctual level.
All of that said, there are still fundamental parts of our mental firmware that are ‘pre-loaded’ into us at birth. Shit tests, Hypergamy, mate guarding behaviors, ovulatory shift behaviors, and many more are in-loaded in women and every bit as Instinctual as breathing or eating or self-preservation. Just as there are physical gender differences in our brains and bodies, so too are their differences in men and women’s Instinctual processes. The easiest one for us to consider is in sexual imperatives. I’ve noted in many essays that only women are Hypergamous. Men and women’s sexual strategies are reflective of their differing physical and mental make up, but those strategies are also different (and often contradicting) as a result of the Instinctual process unique to men and women as well.
One of the more powerful instincts men have is our sexual impulse and as a consequence it’s one that we are taught to control the most. Hypergamy is also a product of women’s Instinctual process, however, since about 60 years ago, prosocial control over Hypergamy has become something individual to a woman. Men’s self-control over their sexual nature is something that’s been part of our upbringing for millennia, women today are just now being expected to self-police their own sexual impulsivity.
These innate gender differences in instinct are a very difficult aspect of human nature for both egalitarian equalists and traditional moralists to accept. Equalists chomp at the bit with respect to their ego-investments in blank-slate idealism. Even the idea of a gendered difference in human nature, much less a human “nature” at all (a concept most deny) conflicts with the social constructivism that forms most of their ideology. Moralists tend to think that acknowledging (much less embracing) our instinctual selves is endorsing the worst of it, or it’s some kind of license to shirk the personal responsibilities for it. And, for both equalist and moralist, accepting our instinctual natures seems deterministic in a way that conflicts with their sense of existential control.
Well, the good news for both is that understanding men and women’s Instinctually processed natures is something our other two processes (for better or worse) have an influence over. There’s a common refrain from equalists today that presumes we’ve “evolved beyond” our base instincts (if they acknowledge them at all). From moralists we’ve always been ‘higher minded’ and above our instincts, that is if we accept some ideological ‘truth’. The root of both of these presumptions can be traced to the Emotional and Rational processes influencing our Instinctive process.
I’m of the opinion that very few of us are actually ruled by our instincts, but they are always the favorite scapegoat for ideologues. As a Red Pill aware man I think it’s important to have an objective understanding of how the Instinctive process operates in ourselves and women. Denying or disqualifying the importance of instinct and why it evolved is usually one of the biggest blindspots for a Blue Pill conditioned mind.
In the next part of this series I’ll explore the Emotional process and how it’s become the preeminent social-defining experience for us.
It IS a trick question, because the angry INCEL took all of the fire extinguishers after he set the fire. He was last heard saying “Lots of Stacys in the building who deserve to burn along with their hanging Chads”
Scribbs
https://www.instagram.com/p/BhCNHnZBN10/?taken-by=berithanna
Spell check strikes again… internationalist = intersectionalist
@Wildman – Answer you? Bwahahahahahaha. Now that’s a hoot. Keep on the track you are on son, you seem miserable, half-smart and completely deluded. I don’t even read what you say, I just know the gist. You are an archetype, a common mutation of maleness that we see here pretty regularly. Bottom line? At this point guys like are are amusement for me. As for the newer guys here trying to get their shit together, you are a “negative power of example” for them. In other words, if they want a great life they could simply do the opposite of… Read more »
Lol. Trying to diagnose Oscar on a blog, this is just so fucking pathetic. @Oscar – Want some advice? Go out tonight and get in a fight with an asshole who reminds you of me and take it all out on him. That or fuck some drunken bitch in a men’s room of some shithole bar, bareback. That will cure you of your fucking lassitude as you will feel more alive than you have in years. You are drowning in ennui cuz you have completely alienated yourself from your own masculinity – get that. You are completely at odds with… Read more »
@Sentient – I do what I do cuz I do what I do. And when I don’t, it’s also true.
CNM – your comment: – “Wild Man is just another post-modern, intersectionalist, SJW coming to feed his ego by scoring brownie points with the ‘oppressors’ and confuse the newly unplugged with his b.s.: No. I’ve already written about that here. Postmodernism is about ‘radical individualism’, … apparently free of the responsibilities of the downstream consequences that would naturally flow from the self-agency to make meaningful non-deterministic decisions, and such, is bunk. Postmodernism is the worst kind of anti-true-west (‘true-west’ as informed by the underpinnings of the western tradition – like the stoics for instance). Uptake of postmodernist theory (which has… Read more »
Eh – your discourse on virtue ending with this comment: – “Look guys…the virtues are there to not limit you but to free you from the self limiting, ultimately self damaging shit we do to ourselves. They exist to free you from this as-always-been, don’t-think-this-any-differently fucked up world.” So you do embrace the value in building a virtuous character. Good – so you are in fact now agreeing with me. As such – don’t then disagree on the same points later. Makes you look schizophrenic then (but to be clear – I don’t think you actually are schizophrenic). Also –… Read more »
@Anonymous Reader I want to accomplish what people my age already have, for the most part, some sort of relationship with the opposite sex. Hookers are fun (and way hotter than the girls I can expect to hook up with at first) but I can simply not afford them on a regular basis. I don’t need a partner for life, nor do I believe in love, I just want to get over that uncomfortable feeling I get everytime I watch a movie or read a book and there is some erotica in it. As for allergies, I have never detected… Read more »
marelius – despite what you say, Rollo has never defined bluepill/redpill differentiation, in terms of the concepts he is using in this series. Like I already pointed out to NBTM, upthread (April 24th @ 4:17 p.m.): “Now this being a redpill site, …. I’m sure Rollo will have to address what redpill means in terms of the definitions of these concepts he is outlining in this series (the Instinct, Emotion and Reason cognitive processes as informing the components of Personality, that could roughly be called, at least by some, as Id, Superego and Ego).” I have defined the bluepill/redpill differentiation… Read more »
https://www.delphiclassics.com/shop/plato/
https://www.delphiclassics.com/shop/aristotle/
https://www.delphiclassics.com/shop/epictetus/
Available from your favorite online bookseller, but DRM free when ordered direct. These are in my EDC collection. We not only have ebooks these days, but shirts with a Kindle pocket behind the patch pocket as well.
http://oc87recoverydiaries.org/delusions-of-grandeur-with-schizophrenia/
“When I went on my trip to the U.N. in the midst of serious psychosis I believed, though I was still resistant, that I was a prophet sent by God to bring peace to the world.”
https://youtu.be/Pr8IyNGAqlw
” . . . Instinct, Emotion and Reason cognitive processes as informing the components of Personality, that could roughly be called, at least by some, as Id, Superego and Ego).”
I have defined the bluepill/redpill differentiation in terms of these concepts . . .”
Q.E.D.
wildman, we can all see your hamster wheel spinning. First things first – answer my question…for it is in that answer that you will find the reasoning behind all of this dialog. It really isn’t any deeper than that, no matter what you’re BP FI trained mind wants to believe.
“I had a philosophy of light balancing out dark, good balancing evil and opposite extremes cooperating to form a cohesive whole.”
Wildman: “Perhaps the sentiment of – ‘All my greatest failures resulted from acting on my superego’ is better said as ….. ‘All my greatest failures resulted from acting out of a mindset whereby Id/Superego were not fully enough integrated in the Reality function, – the Ego function’. “
kfg – your Q.E.D. reference. You are doing that again. It could insinuate several different intended meanings. Too vague. Therefore a weak criticism (or was it even a criticism?). It reeks of obfuscation of the worse kind .. the purposeful ‘lack of clarity’ kind (maybe so unclear – you might now say that ‘purpose’ has nothing to do with it – hahaha). Obfuscation by way of diffusion. Entropic. Do better. Eh – “When I went on my trip to the U.N. in the midst of serious psychosis I believed, though I was still resistant, that I was a prophet sent… Read more »
“. . . was it even a criticism?”
By definition, no. It refers to a criticism.
Oscar I want to accomplish what people my age already have, for the most part, some sort of relationship with the opposite sex. Hookers are fun (and way hotter than the girls I can expect to hook up with at first) but I can simply not afford them on a regular basis. Ok, what’s your plan to accomplish this? What steps have you taken towards this? What further steps will you take in the future? This isn’t esoteric knowledge that you need. I don’t need a partner for life, nor do I believe in love, I just want to get… Read more »
Oscar and WildMan might want to comprehend that to win they might want to know who’s side they are on. Under Pressure David Bowie, Queen Mm ba ba de Um bum ba de Um bu bu bum da de Pressure pushing down on me Pressing down on you no man ask for Under pressure that brings a building down Splits a family in two Puts people on streets Um ba ba be Um ba ba be De day da Ee day da – that’s okay It’s the terror of knowing What the world is about Watching some good friends Screaming… Read more »
SJF – your comment: – “WildMan white knighting for the FI”. I’ll try one more time. You are still not understanding what I am telling you and others here. What I am saying is there is such a thing as human nature. For instance, though the postmodernist contention that everything is relative, is a worthy viewpoint in many respects, nevertheless, one cannot ignore that human nature is inclusive of a drive towards ‘striving’, which requires that we derive meaning from our circumstances, so as to instill the goal- orientated behavior, the ‘striving’, as per our ‘design parameters’, (said ‘design parameters’… Read more »
Dear Rollo and fellor Redpillers,
I know there are lots of Blue/Red Pill music out there once you’ve got the Lens; however, this song is interesting to me because it is overtly telling us about hypergamy, a-and here’s the catch: it’s sung by a woman! I mean, that’s pretty rare, isn’t it? Even if it’s meant as a satire, women shaming each other, or whatever, I think it’s a gem. So here it is:
https://youtu.be/2BUWyTPiceA
Whoops, that’s not it, sorry!!! Damn phones.
I meant this:
https://youtu.be/o-nr1nNC3ds
@Anonymous Reader What I have done to improve: I started lifting last summer, and also went out a lot, doing many approaches. Ever since I always try to strike up casual conversations with women everywhere I go, waitresses, desk clerks, etc. When I go out now, I look for potential conversations with girls all the time. My problem is that I am caught in a perfect storm of lack of financial independence and sexual inexperience, at an age (late 30s) in which you are not so young anymore. My interests have always been around politics, history, etc. but studied law… Read more »
http://thesmokinggun.com/sites/default/files/assets/anikawitt18x.jpg
Gives new meaning to “bang”!
http://thesmokinggun.com/documents/crime/guilty-plea-in-stashed-gun-case-482903
“FOMO is the cancer of our age.”
Social media has a way of making people feel they are missing out. Mostly because it only offers partial information (a small window and specifically the window they want you to see) into their lives. Most people aren’t honest online…not even to themselves. Take everything you read with a heaping cupful of salt.
@oscar #1 thing I want to stress for you is to pursue your passion for politics, even if it is just a side hobby. I think that will solve most of your problems. Read on for why I believe that, and some ideas of how you can get involved in politics. (this was awesome to write because it actually gave me a lot of new ideas of what I can do) I hope now the weather is getting better I will have more venues. I go out with friends, but they have had their relationships already and are not so… Read more »
Oscar, your biggest problem is your social fear…you are smart…figure out how to fix that…
e120 – your link to Courtney Barnett’s ‘Pedestrian At Best’ – I don’t know anything about this artist, but yes – that is very interesting. To my mind, what we have going on now in the western culture, particularly among the younger set, with respect to music/art/video etc. – is more or less a doubling down of riffing on these postmodernist themes, that were already present among the artists of my generation (I’m in my late 50’s). Now I do appreciate that. What I get from alot of it (the older stuff from my generation plus the newer stuff) is… Read more »
@Oscar C.
What I experience might be, I don’t know, something similar to […]
…to being stuck between ‘being zeroed out’ and ‘having everything you need’. Both states put you in the Position of Fuck You. But you’re stuck in the middle with mediocre something. Not bad enough is the enemy of great.
http://www.brandingstrategysource.com/2018/03/growth-strategies-for-risk-averse.html
Meant to link the opening pic only
Well now we have to post The Gambler…
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=y6yCmdIkw_E
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FE_2VEWvEH8
And my Juan Badel story on the prior page still stuck in link mod Rollo…
And still no answer from Wildman…I simply cannot figure out why he is wasting his time peddling his rehashed existentialism on this particular blog. Clearly what he’s about is NOT what we’re about. Why the trolling, Wildman? Imma take a different approach, for my personal benefit, of course. I came to this blog to figure out how to restore my intersexual life with all women in general, and my wife in particular, to a level that resulted in personal satisfaction, with a very heavy emphasis on sex, but with an eye to improving my daily casual interactions as well. After… Read more »
e120 this song is interesting to me because it is overtly telling us about hypergamy, a-and here’s the catch: it’s sung by a woman! I mean, that’s pretty rare, isn’t it? Getting less rare as hypergamy goes open. I duno if I’d call that so much about hypergamy as just a girl singer giving a dope slap to all the blue-pill-beta-soyboys. The chorus is where the message is: Put me on a pedestal and I’ll only disappoint you; Tell me I’m exceptional and I promise to exploit you; Give me all your money and I’ll make some origami, honey; I… Read more »
@marelius
Thanks for sharing your story. Sounds a lot like mine but I didn’t know any better and blew it up. Frankly, she wasn’t worth it and me being a 6 in the SMV (on a good day) I guess she wasn’t worried about me leaving. It was a shocker for her.
although much less often as I begin to see some of the more subtle ones for what they really are
Care to share some of the subtle ones if you remember?
marelius – I liked what you said there quite alot. A man in control of his circumstance. His circumstance as it really is, with awareness as to the boundaries of that control. You are probably internalizing much of the redpill message in a wise way. I think many here are not though. Who that be in your gravatar icon? Is that a pic of a bust of Marcus Aurelius? You identify with that mindset? If so, ergo: wisdom. But if you have closely followed the convo here about the underlying cultural currents that inform much of the discussion here ….… Read more »
Who that be in your gravatar icon? Is that a pic of a bust of Marcus Aurelius? You identify with that mindset? If so, ergo: wisdom.
Wisdom comes by action and reflection, not by verbal masturbation…post your FR showing that you have acted and reflected, or go away.
Wildman, “But if you have closely followed the convo here about the underlying cultural currents that inform much of the discussion here …. you too would come to the conclusion that many here have not processed all this via a wise lens.” You have such striking insights, but can’t seem to use them to your or anyone else’s benefit. If you HAVE read all of Rollo’s material (I seriously doubt that BTW), then you are the worst offender of your above observation. See Matthew 7:5 You should stop prattling about and start reading for understanding. Read without presumptively challenging what… Read more »
Asparagus Gamer
https://youtu.be/2I3NgxDAiqE
Asparagus Gamer
Woman with wisdom loses it badly
https://youtu.be/wJQoxdSFTJ0
Asparagus Gamer
You don’t hit in your country club! Wow… Change your profile picture. Not the tiger for dead… Tiger is just like this
https://youtu.be/iAAnGD5lTYE
I didn’t say that. God! Intrusive thoughts! I didn’t send the previous comments. Don’t confuse me with that creature.
” You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” A bit unfair marelius – no? From what I have gathered, here are the reasons why people freak out at me here – it’s because I have presented these basic facts: Despite the fact it is not hard to see that the redpill knowledge base presented here and at other similar blogspots, is more or less accurate, which has always been known in any event, but yet nevertheless it isn’t that difficult to also… Read more »
…. troll posting Bollywood vids. Not from Massachusetts.
No take some responsibility. We don’t need to be that wise to live the fullest life. It’s just obsession.
No not me not me… I’m a calm boy…
I read in MSU
@hank Thank your for the detailed replies, I appreciate the effort you put into them. I think that the possible schizoid diagnose I was given by the the psychologist I visited a couple of months ago might be on target. Here you can check it what it is about: https://www.reddit.com/r/Schizoid/ However, getting at the core of your post, I already did what you suggest. I was already myself for several years, most of my life actually. And my parents never ever forced me into a degree or activity, so everything I have done was chosen by me. But the problem… Read more »
Oscar C
Hats off and Hand-shake.
Wildman how will any of that sh!t help anyone, yourself included, to get laid more? Answer my question…
Wild Man
Nerd in the class. Rollo the teacher. I’m out. I feel affected by the virus too.
@Wild Man
“I expect more”
You shouldn’t be asking why Red Pill answers to your questions are so varied without also asking what’s causing Red Pill’s answers to be so varied.
You would arrive at the truth you are seeking then.
Wow. I guess I was being hopeful, but sometimes this place can resemble a soap opera when it comes to tired victimhood zero progression storylines. Maybe this will resonate with the incels, virgins and frustrated YSG posters and lurkers, since the OG message to relentlessly pursue your passion as men (that has absolutely jack-shit to do with hawt young HBs and their golden vaginas) still falls on frustrated deaf ears. Yea, verily, I say unto you, do this with all of your heart, all of your strength, all of your mind and all of your soul and the pussy has… Read more »
Yollo Comanche – your comment: – “You shouldn’t be asking why Red Pill answers to your questions are so varied without also asking what’s causing Red Pill’s answers to be so varied.” Good point. And I do wonder. But … to speculate upon why people think the way they do?, Choose beliefs and avoidances the way they do?, Why the diffuse is accepted when more precision is probably available, if only the right questions were entertained? etc, etc. – man – is it ever easy to error that way, about speculations around other people’s motivations.. The people need to work… Read more »
“Wildman how will any of that sh!t help anyone, yourself included, to get laid more? Answer my question…” Marelius – like I already said ….. fucking isn’t really the issue, …. that not be hard to arrange that, but let’s say something like sexual rapport ….. I think many here are meaning more around that type of thing (sexual rapport or intimacy) than just fucking. But nothing against fucking. Fucking is good. Very very good. So to answer your question – what I said won’t help with that (fucking) – but so what? – that not be a ‘real’ issue… Read more »
Where it’s on topic so you don’t have to try to hijack other blogs by telling people who are on topic that they’re doing it wrong because they aren’t talking about what you want to talk about:
http://voxday.blogspot.com/2018/04/the-suicide-of-west.html
@Ajax and to add another cool YSG story, how about the player the Browns’ took in the second round: Nick Chubb. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gaV0yB1pX4k After an impressive Freshman campaign, he was projected as a lock as a future 1st round pick. Preseason Heisman favorite heading into his sophomore season and then this happened: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yOw3y-dMdoo He tore his PCL, MCL, and LCL all in that one play. Could have been all over for Chubb (the injury ruined Marcus Lattimore’s football career) but the guy didn’t quit. and came back from the gruesome injury to become the SECs 2nd all time leading rusher. The… Read more »
Ajax
“all spun up in FRs about getting blown out by HB9s, gaming two-sets, memorizing routines, spending hours and hours blah-neg-blah-question opener-blahing four days a week in bars and clubs until the wee hours?”
To be fair… No one here is doing that. And more is the pity.
The Browns are where football dreams go to die.
@oscar
on schizoid/introversion:
http://yareallyarchive.com/2013/6/#comment-heartiste-449609
for the following link, scroll down to where @Titanium writes “If you were a hermit before, I’m guessing you’re an introvert?”
https://therationalmale.com/2012/12/17/i-have-a-secret/comment-page-2/#comment-13626
@oscar I was already myself for several years, most of my life actually. And my parents never ever forced me into a degree or activity, so everything I have done was chosen by me. You’re still choosing based on what others think. Getting this job is important because it is something very valued here. See what I mean? None of this is what you want, because you want to work in a field pertaining to politics or history. If Briffault Law applies, women choose. And if women choose, you have to conform to the lifestyle/activities they like. You can have… Read more »
Bot alert. Bot cleanup alert on aisle Newly.
Wild Person 1) There appears to be no good evidence that women are in possession of less capability around the exercise of self-agency, normatively, vis-a-vis men. Well, yeah, except for the entire modern Sexual Market place, the Cock Carousel, the ever increasing percentage of frivorces filed by women (used to be 60%, now 70%, in a few years 80%), the entire phenom of “morning after regret ‘rape'”, and the fact that women’s hindbrains respond to Game with. Not to mention Nigerian princes routinely conning widows out of their money. You exhibit woman-level solipsism; if you can’t see something, it doesn’t… Read more »
@J Chubb, another great do whatever it takes YSG work ethic. “ESPN’s Mark Schlabach published a story on Friday that recounted Chubb’s recovery process in impressive detail. “Nick is an outlier,” Georgia director of sports medicine Ron Courson told Schlabach. “He’s genetically gifted. He has a tremendous work ethic, and he’s as mentally tough as anyone I’ve ever seen. I’m not surprised he’s back.” Chubb’s recovery included a combination of several activities that people wouldn’t generally think are involved in the rehabilitation of an All-SEC football player. The junior running back ran on a treadmill underwater, had experimental blood-flow restriction… Read more »
AR – you are mixing up causal relationships somewhat here. Frivorce, and morning after regret rape framing, happens because it can, because FI, which in turn is upheld by way of some of the pervasive double-think that has gotten into the culture, by way of strains of postmodernism, that informs not just the FI, but many other fucked-up imperatives. Also thinking women are less agentic, and therefore deserving of special treatment around ‘less responsibility for their decisions’, plays right into protection of the FI, self-unaware-white-knight-style, like I was pointing out to SJF upthread. The SMP, the cock carousel, are more… Read more »
AR – you are mixing up causal relationships somewhat here. Frivorce, and morning after regret rape framing, happens because it can, because FI, which in turn is upheld by way of some of the pervasive double-think that has gotten into the culture, by way of strains of postmodernism, that informs not just the FI, but many other fucked-up imperatives. Thanks for agreeing with me. At the practical, real world level, women don’t have to have agency. This is your cue to spill a thousand words on the topic of “ought! ought! ought!”. And there is the Milgram stuff 1. Old… Read more »
Wild Person
On the feminine solipsism. Good point. that’s tricky I agree. I have given that alot of consideration. I think men can tend to have this solipsism too.
Unintentional ironic humor is the best ironic humor.
AR – you be slippery. Yes the Milgram stuff is old. That’s what I said. I do read extensively. No I haven’t looked at the original papers, but other’s commentary on those experiments – so what? Your comment – “Thanks for agreeing with me. At the practical, real world level, women don’t have to have agency.” I agree that the FI tends to make it so women can more easily avoid responsibilities stemming from their decisions, more-so than men. So we more or less agree on that – good. Do you agree what the primary causes are for that, that… Read more »
AR – your comment: – “Unintentional ironic humor is the best ironic humor.”
Are you implying that I believe only in the reality of myself? Hahaha – oh man – that is rich. Triple irony of sorts! (given you apparently believe in lower capacity around the exercise of self-agency among women).
http://psycnet.apa.org/buy/1964-03472-001
The Browns are where football dreams go to die.
LOL. Wasn’t always like that.
http://pbs.twimg.com/media/CsptzxbXEAI07Rr.jpg
Hye, Oscar , speaking of motivation and anhedonia [1]: here is a classic piece of 19th century American literature, a short story.
Does any of this story apply to you?
http://www.bartleby.com/129/
If you prefer not to answer, it’s ok…
[1]https://infogalactic.com/info/Anhedonia
Wild Person
No I haven’t looked at the original papers, but other’s commentary on those experiments – so what?
Q.E.D.
Wild Person I agree that the FI tends to make it so women can more easily avoid responsibilities stemming from their decisions, more-so than men. So we more or less agree on that – good. Do you agree what the primary causes are for that, that I outlined (post-modernistic shite, plus pretty much all men, including the more superficial redpillers, being in a state of being conditioned to accept this feminine responsibility avoidance as par for the course, for various reasons, inclusive of the reason I gave with respect to the more superficial redpillers)? “Most responsible teenager in the house”…… Read more »
Wild
https://bit.ly/2HBwjjf
From 21 #10 yesterday —
Machiavellianism, or ignorance, predominantly?
Scorpions or bumblefucks?
Behavior is driven; but is it conscious?
Is it:
“I’m going to get knocked up with Hank; Herman will think it’s his”
Or:
“Jeezus, can’t believe I’m pregnant — again! Better bed Herman quick-like . . .”
Of course it is a mix, but what predominates — your take/experience/opinion, if any.
Or does it even matter.
@Anonymous Reader
Thanks for the story, it looks great. I’m printing it to read it more calmly; I will comment later on it.
@ajax I don’t really see how anyone here can relate to Baker Mayfield or Denzel Ward. Even if Mayfield is undersized, he has still has the talent to be good at football. What Ward lacks in size, he makes up for it by having freakish athletic ability with a near 40″ vertical and nearly a sub 4.3 40. There’s a reason Ward went 4th overall, Mayfield is a flashy pick in a draft where no quarterbacks really stood out. Baker is slow, but you don’t have to be a speedster to be a good quarterback. He had all the tools… Read more »
@Rollo This looked like something you might use in a post… University of Texas to Treat Masculinity as a ‘Mental Health’ Issue “Treating masculinity as if it were a mental health crisis, “MasculinUT” is organized by the school’s counseling staff and most recently organized a poster series encouraging students to develop a “healthy model of masculinity.” The program is predicated on a critique of so-called “restrictive masculinity.” Men, the program argues, suffer when they are told to “act like a man” or when they are encouraged to fulfill traditional gender roles, such as being “successful” or “the breadwinner.” Though you… Read more »
First thought after reading the article: Making emotional or artficially emotionalized communication primary is very useful for ruling alphas/super-omegas and women: No rational arguments or debates needed to control betas – “beta feel, beta do”. No pesky debates, no strong families, no rules that favour order, moral or healthy, pro-civilizational collective interested. Just atomized, feely “guys” who put the beta-work in but don’t get beta-rewards out, as those are consumed by the ruling class (sexually and economically) In the setting of (really) unlimited ressources (compared to real, absolute individual needs ofc, not relatively speaking as pure wishes/demands are always infinite)… Read more »
If Briffault Law applies, women choose. And if women choose, you have to conform to the lifestyle/activities they like. You can have a very strong frame but that is not enough. ——————————— 1. You forgot something: Women choose according to stupid, stone-age imperatives that are useless to us as a species because intellect & technology “evolve” faster and with superior power than biology. That is why any civilization with a strong impact and/or long existence SIMPLY RESTRICTS OR ABOLISHES FEMALE DIRECT SEXUAL CHOICE. Or, as we witness in Europe today, are overrun by tribes who still do that and thus… Read more »
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If Briffault Law applies…
It doesn’t.
@J
“The Browns have been shit since they came back to the NFL but we’ll see if these guys (and the guys they picked up in the offseason) can help the Browns make the playoffs.”
Are you an actual Browns fan who is willing to admit it? Or just enjoying the shit show known as the Cleveland Browns?
I’m a transplant to the Brownie world. Luckily we have the Cavs (for now) and Tribe.
Briffault’s Fallacy The Myth of Matriarchal Prehistory My first encounter with the theory that prehistory was matriarchal came in 1979 in a class titled “Minoan and Mycenaean Greece.” While on site at Knossos, our professor—an archaeologist with the American School of Classical Studies in Athens—noted that the artifactual evidence on the island of Crete pointed toward Minoan society being matriarchal. I don’t recall much of what he said in defense of this assertion or what he meant by “matriarchal.” All of this is overshadowed in my memory by the reaction of the other members of the class to the professor’s… Read more »
The Myth of Matriarchy: Why Men Rule in Primitive Society There is little doubt that the public’s interest in primitive matriarchies has been revived. Suddenly magazine articles and books appear attesting to a former Rule by Women, as well as to an archaic life-style presumed to differ radically from our own. Because no matriarchies persist anywhere at the present time, and because primary sources recounting them are totally lacking, both the existence and constitution of female-dominated societies can only be surmised. The absence of this documentation, however, has not been a deterrent to those scholars and popularists who view in… Read more »
ASD – My take on Briffault’s Law is that is governs whether or not a relationship will be established between a specific man and a specific woman. I don’t think it was ever intended to be a societal concept. That is to say that the existence or non-existence of a Matriarchal society has absolutely no bearing on the validity of Briffault’s Law. Consequently I have to disagree with your assertion that Briffault’s laws doesn’t apply. Clearly UT thinks it applies, or they wouldn’t be counseling men to change their underlying nature so as to kowtow to what women think we… Read more »
“So what have you done to improve your life in these same past five years that Mayfield was given to work with?” a lot. “If you sat down and had a beer with him, how much sympathy do you think he would show for your years-long self-pitying reasons for your lack of career success and getting laid?” this 20 something mayfield has millions from young athletic performance? perfect. while he was drilling and lifting and eating and studying playbooks for the last five years, I was too. does the team sports stuff he was studying apply to broader life? absolutely.… Read more »
@Roused
Born and raised in New York, so I’ve been a Jets fan since the days of Chad Pennington, so I empathize with the Browns.
“The Jets, because of all the changes in the front office and on the coaching staff, have never been able to develop or grow their own Jets culture fully. When teams evaluate short-term or measure themselves on the win-loss record after each year, they never develop a consistent product. They become like the adage, “We are lost, but making great time.””
https://www.theringer.com/2017/5/18/16045322/new-york-jets-problem-with-success-rex-ryan-todd-bowles-187962898623
…but thanks for letting us take Darnold 😉
Brifault’s Law does not imply matriarchy.
Hypergamy implies Brifault’s Law.
From TRM twitter feed: http://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-10-16/why-women-are-ditching-men-and-choosing-the-single-life/8993692
Her instincts aren’t telling her single life is better…just writing the article as man bites dog gives credence women do not want the “single life” how described, no matter how men are supposedly holding them back. In an attempt to redefine women’s options away from some AF/BB combination of man, the article supports the idea that men in any form are restricting.
Women get seriously messed up trying to square MSM and cultural expectations (the new feminine superego) and their id.
@Eh From the article: “Single women maintain really strong friendship groups throughout the course of a lifespan so they have lots of people to rely on,” she said. Not “friendship groups” but “male orbiters and gay friends” and not “to rely on” but “to be completely dependent on their support”. Behind every single “strong independent woman” stands at least one male being at her beck and call. Meanwhile, what do they repeat themselves? Behind Every Successful Woman Is A Tribe Of Other Successful Women or… Behind Every Successful Woman Is Herself LOLzzzz When you hear that, ask for their number… Read more »
I don’t think it was ever intended to be a societal concept.
Briffault would differ.
The only reason that women get to choose sometimes is because of men’s generally low status relative to women and because of beta thirstiness. Alphas choose between women and women choose between betas. That’s how the SMP works.
Think about women going to see rock stars backstage…who gets to choose? Pick me, pick me! Is the voice masculine or feminine?
Using Preselection in Game is about improving your options so that you get to choose more attractive partners.
Of course, there’s some back and forth as to choices, but I’m speaking in general terms.
For “The Only Truth to Women is Emotion” file
https://twitter.com/THR/status/990233190953517056?s=20
Don’t feel it = not real.
Women want to face criticism just like men… But not on their looks…
https://twitter.com/morningmika/status/990587330959478784?s=20
What comes after parody and farce?
@ Sentient
Then again…Feel it = Real
It’s a coding design worth exploiting. Hence dread is a powerful tactic. If she feels your SMV rising, it’s rising, and other women will sense that too.
ASD – Backstage at a concert is not relevant unless you are a rock star – which you and I clearly are not. That is a red herring in your argument. You are deluded about how women go about responding to men IRL and WRT getting their (sexual) needs met. Gaming is about understanding this and using it to your benefit. In your FRs you play cat and mouse, but never move the girl to the point where she has something to lose (pregnancy/slut-shaming/etc.) So, even though you think you see them, she never exposes her true intentions to you.… Read more »
@ASD: “Think about women going to see rock stars backstage…who gets to choose? Pick me, pick me! . . .Using Preselection . . .”
Read what you wrote, carefully.
Sentient
April 30, 2018 at 10:27 am
“Women want to face criticism just like men… But not on their looks…”
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Thanks, ace!
Now know where been amiss and need to Double Down . . . 😁