Exit Dalrock

This is truly depressing.

Yesterday Dalrock announced that he’s stepping away from his blog. Not only that, but he’s contemplating deleting the blog and over 10 years of what can only be described as seminal work in explaining contemporary Christianity from a Red Pill perspective.

I’m not sure what prompted this decision. I want to chalk it up to burnout, but I’m afraid that doesn’t explain the desire to erase a body of work of Dalrock’s magnitude. Everyone gets burned-out at some stage and 10+ years is a long time to sustain a blog that’s as well-thought as Dalrock’s.

I’m talking with Dal via email now and I’m trying to make sense of this decision. Several people have already begun to archive the ‘best of’ Dalrock for posterities sake, but I’m not sure this aligns with his desire to remove his work entirely.

I’ve been friends with Dalrock for 10 years and it’s no exaggeration to say that no one has done more seminal work on examining Red Pill intersexual dynamics in the context of mainstream Christianity than Dal. His blog has been the go-to place for discussing the Red Pill within a framework of Christian convictions for as long as I’ve been blogging. In fact, we both began blogging at around the same time and we used bounce ideas off each other on the old RooshV forums in a private discussion sub Roosh himself had set up for the likes of myself, Dalrock, Roissy (for a brief time) and various other Manosphere notables of that time.

When I first launched this blog I gave serious consideration to include some section or dedicated space to issues of Red Pill awareness and how religion (Christianity in main) is intertwined in it. I gave up on that idea in the early days of The Rational Male because Dalrock had so thoroughly covered what I knew then would be a necessary part of what was becoming the “manosphere“. And to be completely honest, Dalrock did it better than I had the time to invest in making it worthwhile. So I stuck to my policy of never discussing religion (or politics or race) in specific unless it crossed over into intersexual dynamics.

In these 10 years the one forum or commentariat that I participated in with regularity was Dalrock’s comment sections. I would relate the ideas he was developing to Red Pill concepts and he in turn would use my ideas to better illustrate what he was seeing transpire in Christian dating, Christian marriages, romantic/chivalric idealism and secularism transforming intersexual dynamics in a Christian context. A lot of this came to a head when he (and I) began challenging a new generation of ‘masculinity pastors’ and their own misguided ideals, and their efforts to turn the Manosphere into their pet ministries. It’s these grifters who’ll be toasting the demise of Dalrock’s blog the loudest this weekend.

When I began work on my upcoming 4th book about the Red Pill and religion my first impulse was to coauthor it with Dalrock. I asked him more than once to consider going in on the book with me, but his desire for privacy and anonymity had him decline my requests. Instead I asked if he (and various other men I respect in the christo-red pill community) would be someone I could quote and consult for the book. This he agreed to. In the new book I quote Dal’s blog quite a bit; particularly with regard to scripture and his concepts of marriage and child rearing in our brave new world of gynocentrism.

Dalrock filled a unique position in the ‘sphere. He more than myself has always been a thorn in the side of Trad-Cons & Red Pill Pastors (Warhorn) and their efforts to force-fit their old order beliefs into what the Red Pill was making more and more Christian men aware of. The Red Pill has never been a threat to faith, but it has been a threat to men who’ve built social and personal frameworks around a church culture that validates their Blue Pill conditioned lifestyles. If Rollo Tomassi points out how the Feminine Imperative has replaced the Holy Spirit in contemporary church culture and doctrine, well, he’s just a sinning PUA who can be dismissed. But if Dalrock rips back the veneer of ‘Christian Kosher’ Feminism that pervades the modern church, that’s when these guys have to do their homework.

All that’s gone now. And, potentially, all of that work is at risk of being deleted. All of the well-thought articles that held feet to fire and challenged an increasingly more feminized church (and their male feminist ‘christian’ apologists) to seriously look at itself are going away. And as I said, I’m sure the grifters are rejoicing and seeing it as a sure sign that God is at work in the Manosphere.

Blogs are Dead

I’m wondering if the age of blogging is at an end. 12 years ago blogs were the way to express ideas to a wider audience. Twitter and most of the social media we take for granted today was around, but it was certainly less endemic as it is now. Hell, even YouTube was still privately owned back then. If you wanted to build an online media brand you had to really believe in what you were doing to make the effort worthwhile. Blogging has always been a labor of love. That’s especially true today because everyone on social media today is their own Brand of Me. If all you do it curate an Instagram account with no other function than to show off how great a life you live, congratulations, you are your brand. It’s second nature to us now, but it used to take a lot more effort to relate your digital consciousness to an audience. That was what you used to blog for.

Now, even the most basic social media accounts can be ‘influencers‘. In fact it’s become so endemic that big name brands and their social media PR specialists have figured out that tween-age girls like to think of themselves as ‘micro-influencers’ and “hire” them to represent their brands for as little as a 30% discount on the product itself. As I mentioned in last week’s post, the barrier to entry has been reduced to almost nothing these days. But that ‘nothing’ barrier removes the process necessary to really develop one’s passions, or develop what one thinks about their beliefs. Content is king, but just calling it “content” reduces passions and ideas to a commodity. Are you a content provider or are you an ideas person?

The commodification of ideas, beliefs, imagination, creativity, etc. is really where this ‘sphere and countless others are heading. It’s not hard to start an online brand. Drop-shippers are all basically selling the same Chinese product, but the brand, the logo, the competition is all just a popularity contest now. Want to be a Red Pill dating/life coach? Just read passages from The Rational Male verbatim on a 5 minute video shot on your iPhone 7 and call it your original work. It’s not plagiarism, it’s content deliverables, right?

The easier things are to produce, the more real creativity suffers. Assuming most people in the future actually have original content to deliver, the process also makes them beholden to prioritize the production over the actual product. Blogs are not very good at that kind of prioritization. I was always amazed at how Roissy/Heartiste could produce a blog post a day right up until ‘his’ deplatforming last year. Most of those daily posts were just current event filler crap and C&P’ed comments from his threads, but in between it all there were the occasional strokes of genius. And those genius posts became fewer and fewer in the last 4 years.

I’ve never posted for the sake of posting. Traffic has never been my priority on this blog. Neither has monetization. The message of this blog and my thoughts have always taken precedent. In almost 10 years I’ve never written an essays for an audience. I put forth what I think needs to be considered and hopefully people can use that information to construct a better way of living with it. But in the coming decade pandering to an audiences’ sensibilities will be the only thing most content producers will focus. Audience engagement and content providing is already trumping any real discourse.

And this is the real hard thing to accept about Dalrock’s retirement and deleting himself; it’s 10+ years of real, passionate, ideas and necessary debate that’s been instrumental for men in understanding the state of Christianity, church culture, Red Pill awareness and so many other related issues:

When I think of the wholesale destruction of Dalrock’s work I’m reminded of how violent members of a conquering tribe/nation/religion are prone to destroy the artistic and intellectual works of the society they’ve overthrown. The first order of business is to erase the art, the ideas, the ‘gods’ of the defeated tribe, or to plagiarize the best of it and erase the rest. Burn the books, destroy the symbols, appropriate and assimilate the ideas; in the end it’s an indictment of the one who’s doing the erasing. I have no doubt that once Dalrock’s work is gone there will be ‘grave robbers’ lining up to distort what he built to fit their own narratives and provide them with content to call their own.

And all for what? Roosh has decided to erase himself recently as well. All the work he created that was so influential in the ‘sphere, now that’s traded for a new kind of nihilism. And all the usual moralist suck ups are ready to see him as the Prodigal Son. See? We were right all along. Our faith is validated and confirmed! But all the same problems that brought us to questioning that faith are still where we left them. Only now there’s no one left to point out their inconsistencies. No one’s left to identify the Blue Pill conditioning that’s prompted so many men to leave the churches. No one’s left to call bullshit! Only those grave robbers are left; the same guys who’ve been apologizing for never understanding the Blue Pill or their compromised masculinity because their faith and existence depends on it.

Blogs are dead. Long live The Rational Male.

Just to allay any concerns, no, I’m not shuttering this blog. I’m still going to be writing here and elsewhere. I’m not unpublishing anything. Maybe blogs are now a dead media, but I do my best thinking here. And yes, I fully expect some ‘coaches’ will be lifting my material to fulfill their content quotas. Just be sure to remind them where they’re sourcing it from whenever possible.

I will apologize for not posting as consistently as I have in the past, but this is mostly because I’ve been focusing on the latest book. Like I said, I don’t post for the sake of posting. I craft my essays and I don’t publish them until I think I’ve stated what I needed to state.

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Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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En Feugo!

This is for you.. and your musings about the opportunities photography may offer…

Tony Kelly, Steve Shaw etc…

https://www.instagram.com/p/B7_-bz6HutH/

Life is better for some…

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@Sentient Yes, I’m OK. Very well in fact. “-Don’t get married unless you have Hand, and can keep it.” I don’t disagree. That’s a good way to state it. And I can’t imagine why some one guy wouldn’t want to have Hand and keep it. I’m an advocate for marriage. And kids. So sue me. “-Dread works. She hates it, but loves hating it and hates loving it.” Also I’m an advocate of having good solid healthy Hand. Not ham-handed Rambo. Non forced Dread. I’ve seen myself and others take it on and have it behave like dynamite. Pareto Principle… Read more »

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Lol. I’m starting to just ignore all that ” life is beautiful / wife and kids/ money and land ” bullshit. It sounds blue, all the ” value ” talk and ” happy marriage ” stuff. There are certain components needed in life for a man. There’s at minimum a baseline. My wife is 52 and were on year 23. Where I am now isn’t 100% pertinent to young men trying to figure life and women out. How I got here is. Life isn’t beautiful and wonderful for everybody, and it takes blinders to actually believe that to be so.… Read more »

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Lol back at you Blax. I never said a man’s life is easy peasy. Mine certainly wasn’t. Life is difficult. Very difficult. And that is a great truth, and once one truly sees it as such, then he can transcend it. Once that fact is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters. Which is different than being beautiful at times. Too much talk about playing not to lose. Instead of creating. Marriage and raising children is nothing but hard. But has lots of value. All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own… Read more »

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Nope . Everyone’s idea of happiness varies beyond vague superficial stuff.

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@Blax

That’s exactly the problem. Some people only find happiness and nobility in the suffering of other people. The secret is right there.

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They can disown that all they like. The result manifests itself all the same.

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@SJF I was unsure really how to respond to your “show em the love comment” However at short notice last night @IRL turned up for a night out and a few beers and it’s probably the first time I’ve been able to talk properly about guard dog spin up with someone else who has experienced it and in his case defeated it. I’ll leave him to comment on what he had to to to control it as it’s not for me to say, suffice to say that by the time he recognised it for what it was it had got… Read more »

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Actually she’s not fitness testing, shit testing or compliance testing, she’s vulnerability testing.

From her point of view it’s her vulnerability that’s being tested, that’s why its more likely to happen when you’re up against it because she feels the pressure you’re under and so she has to ping to see if you’ve still got what it takes to protect her.

It’s also why in the case of overtly weak men they have no interest in they don’t even bother to test at all.

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Great comments Palma

Her vulnerability is proportional to your fitness.

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Excellent observations, Palma. Sentient Her vulnerability is proportional to your fitness. Inversely proportional. More perceived fitness -> reduced vulnerability. Getting betaized means less perceived fitness -> increased vulnerability. Other times of increased vulnerability: Sickness or other health issue that is out of the ordinary. Deliver baby, especially the first one. Early signs of menopause or “perimenopause”. A combination of comfort and alpha is needed in these situations. I’m sure there are others I didn’t think of. When her hindbrain is insecure, as Palma noted, the search for a branch to swing to will begin and this is not necessarily a… Read more »

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From the outset women are consciously aware of the power they have over men. When I had a more substantial business and used to socialise regularly with late 20’s early 30’s attractive women they all laughed about their control over men. I don’t know if this will convert to American: Girl 1: my boyfriend isn’t doing xyz Girl 2: you dumbass, you know you should have given him the patio treatment Girl 3: duh? Girl 2: yer, if you lay them properly to start with you can walk over them for life. All girls laugh… Basically if you blind them… Read more »

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@Palma: funny, one of the “mottos” of Athol Kay purple pill Married advice was that one could get “Laid like tile”…

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@Palma. I have overheard similar conversations…. In an office workspace no less. Women can be derogatory about men, in the office and it is laughed off. Reverse the gender and the men would be standing in front of HR. I know it is about being your own mental point of origin but I find the more I learn the more nihilistic it feels. I have never been married and then zeroed out but I am reconsidering my life decisions. 1: Become MGTOW. I am partially as I don’t want to get married but I do actually like women. That choice… Read more »

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@Widside – I can’t reply properly because I’m about to go out on appointments. Gay – where I live I get hit on by gay men all the time. Well presented 50 yo man usually = gay bc most in their 50’s look like a bag of shit. Would get a phenomenal amount of sex. Problem is – I’m not gay. You have to do the journey and conclude – they’re not in any control of it. Its genetic programming to ensure survival of the species – thats all. Then you can move on to getting what you want with… Read more »

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Really take control of your life, learn some game, stop being scared of women and go forth and fuck as you wish.

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Gay – where I live I get hit on by gay men all the time. Well presented 50 yo man usually = gay bc most in their 50’s look like a bag of shit. Would get a phenomenal amount of sex. Problem is – I’m not gay. 😂😂👍 I am constantly amazed at how men my age dress and how little pride they have in how they present themselves to the world, not just women. Just a little thought and effort is required, even if you’re wearing jeans and a t-shirt. Find clothing that fits. Try everything on before buying.… Read more »

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@wildside

How old are you?

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@Blax

There’s another thing, I think that actually a lot of women Over 40 / my age are really put off by the way I dress.

They conclude I’ve too many options / player / and they’re seriously filtering for provisioning.

Bear in mind by this age if they’re single the carousel has ejected them. They didn’t voluntarily leave it.

They’ve had plenty of AF / probably still got one on the side somewhere.

You see quite respectable women going with total slobs and the bloke hasn’t got any game, it’s just that the women are quite confident that “he isn’t going anywhere”.

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@Palma. I be 52.

I guess I am at that juncture in life when I am evaluating who I am as a man. Too be honest I am free to do what I want in life. No kids. No ex who has bled me dry. Good friends. Great health. In shape. All my own hair and teeth. So, in that way I am a lucky man.

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Wildside “What triggered this is not just reading about the decline of the Manosphere but a 7 month pregnant woman I had an encounter with in work. It is her 2nd baby and she is a married career woman. Over confident and ’empowered’. She thinks she is awesome. Utterly obnoxious. Always talks about herself and her husband, throwing in derogatory comments, but it is obvious he is blue pill and she dominates him. Example: ‘Our daughter is very well spoken. I am glad she does not have a Scottish accent like .’ ‘ wanted to cuddle and watch a movie… Read more »

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@wildside

I thought you were older.

I’m 52 as well and was writing a longer reply to you. I’ll get it finished from the pub tonight.

I’ve decided against getting involved in anything “long term” and there are reasons why.

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^^ I’ve gotta deal with this dreaded up four legged bat thing as well..

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@Palma. Thanks Palma for taking the time. Much appreciated Older! Hahaha. Actually I’ll give the 7 month pregnant shrew some credit. She was prompting me if I was married, girlfriend, kids and age. I told her shit and she said ‘I’m 34 so you must be about my age’. I’ll take that. @Wahoo. I agree with that. You can see her upbringing has been with a beta father who treated her like a Princess and a feminist over compensating mother, ‘Don’ t you ever listen to any man. You can be anything you want to be and just as good,… Read more »

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There’s another thing, I think that actually a lot of women Over 40 / my age are really put off by the way I dress. well they are attracted but know they won’t be able to use their typical methods of control or gain your interest so try and opt themselves out in an ego preserving way. This guy is 55 in this pic… This isn’t a photo shoot, it’s an on set snapshot. Once Upon a Time in Hollywood is a good watch to see two cool, older guys hanging out. This guy is 52 in this pic This… Read more »

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This guy is 55 in this pic…
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And that girl is being paid to be with him.

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Wildside “@Wahoo. I agree with that. You can see her upbringing has been with a beta father who treated her like a Princess and a feminist over compensating mother, ‘Don’ t you ever listen to any man. You can be anything you want to be and just as good, or even better, than any man’” We are in agreement on the fear from her hind brain. This is the thin layer of the onion. The thick layer is why does this bother me. 1; Threat to livelyhood,competition ect a; I give to much weight to her words. The reason I… Read more »

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@Sentient This is some random chump on what looks like a building site. https://imgur.com/a/iOlTYGk He’s getting proximity https://imgur.com/a/kwm6GRf He’s losing it on a couple of points but it’s getting closer and closer. He’s always maxed A and done no C. I think with anything mid 30’s upwards it’s all about the C now because as you say they pre emptively disqualify themselves with him. Less and less eye contact as he’s aged , but only recently he’s realised more and more are looking down as they walk past rather than having the confidence for a second look. There was an… Read more »

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Palma Yep that guy can pull it off. Because he is trim and SMILING… Don’t overlook the smiling, having fun. Way too many guys look like they just shit their pants or got a cancer diagnosis. Girls want to have FUN. Less and less eye contact as he’s aged Yeah, but the girls are socially conditioned as well. This guy should enjoy just knowing that the whole rope a dope, laying back then BAM! with the personality and game is going to be far far greater impact because it is not anticipated/expected… I think of it as Venus Fly Trap… Read more »

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Wahoo McDaniels Does this woman have this much power? No but I have been programed from an early age to recognize what is no longer there. This is why she bothers me,or why her type threatens me. Another word for “programmed” is “brainwashed”. You have a network of neural pathways that’s embedded in a couple of brain centers that were put there by reference experiences. They don’t have to be there, they don’t have to affect you. Remember Blaximus explaining how he slowly de-sensitized himself to heights? The same principle applies here. You can deprogram yourself. Or you can pay… Read more »

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@AR ,thanks for the tips, actually what I wrote there was to help @Wildside work through or identify the root of the problem. That helps to work through it proper visualisation helps as you say.

Understanding why the conditioning happened in the first place is also crucial.

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@Wahoo, @AR. Thanks men. Could not agree more about the visualisation. Instead of getting frustrated with women’s entititlement and inability to observe beyond their universe, to just treat them like a bratty little sister.

Just having a bit of a brain fart lately. I’ll be back on track soon.

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@Sentient

He thought about toning it down a bit but at the end of the day that wouldn’t have been “doing what he wanted to do when he wanted to do it” so he didn’t.

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@wildside “I do want to be in a committed relationship with a woman who does not have BPD” On the face of it that seems like the ideal, because otherwise you have to constantly game and get new women in rotation which takes a lot of work. It probably is ideal for those men that got the TR2 from new and have kept it serviced, looked after, and have a lot of history with it. The problem is that the choices you’re making with women on the market at our age is that it’s like rooting through a car boot… Read more »

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Y’all too cool to love these hoes???

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Yolo,This is where they bring you.

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“They dedicate their lives
To running all of his
He tries to please them all
This bitter man he is”

This here is where he fucked up. I wonder how many of the people he tried sucking off were Rational Male readers……

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If my mind were split, I’d feel like I need to play two roles too….

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“Our problem is not that we aim too high and miss, but that we aim too low and hit.”
— Aristotle

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@Palma. Thanks for taking the time and penning a well thought out reply. You totally understand how I am feeling. With us being the same age, I can see we are similar in many ways. A lot of what you are saying rings true with me. I have 4 close friends but 1 is divorced with a child and the other 3 are MGTOW without realising it. I envy them in a way because they are happy with their lot in life. They love sports, music and work. The simple things. They don’t even think or talk about women. They… Read more »

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@Rollo. Being a musician you may like this. There is a lot of feminist rhetoric in there fueled by her own experiences. Yes, we know this goes on but Masculinity is not toxic because of it.

https://www.getintothis.co.uk/2020/02/women-in-the-music-industry-vs-the-madonna-whore-dichotomy/#more-170971

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There it is, right there, ‘Until a female promoter pointed out the issue; some men don’t have the capacity to feel desire and show respect’.

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@wildside “That says a lot to me coming from men who are indifferent to women and take life for what it is.” They’re not indifferent to women, they’re indifferent to the women they think they can get. If it turns out that I can’t up my game and get with the women I want, then my indifference to women that I can get will mean I leave the game. Once you’ve had and realised what desire sex is you can’t do Escorts. Out an N of over 200, probably half were “good in bed” that just means that I was… Read more »

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@Palma. I never thought of it like that. My friends are indifferent to women because they don’t attract women. So, I can see now they have just checked out of the game. Yeh, Escorts was a dark period. Many men get suckered into that game and believe there is genuine desire and feelings because they repeat visit the same woman. I almost fell for it myself. Those women are very good at emotional manipulation, it is their job after all. As much as they say they understand what men want, sex with Escorts was always sub-par because as you said… Read more »

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Palma making excellent points. Personally I’d never consider going without female contact because I enjoy it. I think that plays a nice role in Game and how men see women. If in fact women are only a collection of holes and hair and tits and a face, you won’t ever really get that much satisfaction out of interaction with them. Lol, I run into that same ideology with friends of mine that can’t understand how I get so much pleasure from working on cars, as they only see them as utilitarian machines used solely to get from one place to… Read more »

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😂 I’m still losing the spellchecker battle.

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I am constantly amazed at how men my age dress and how little pride they have in how they present themselves to the world, not just women. Just a little thought and effort is required, even if you’re wearing jeans and a t-shirt. Find clothing that fits That seriously reminds me of Jordan Peterson reminding young men to make their bed and clean their room. Grown men can’t dress themselves properly? You don’t have to be exceedingly dapper, just put in some effort to look halfway decent. Why does Blax have to remind guys of this? Not knocking Blax, it… Read more »

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Wildside My take. Game takes years to acquire mastery over. Be mindful of too many outside influences from women and folks around you, as your goal is to attain better understanding, not to be halted and distracted by the latest article or fem tweet on social media. There are billions of women in the planet and they aren’t all reading along with the latest anti-man shit floating in the ether. Game allows you to interact with any woman you want to without dragging any baggage along. That baggage is a game killer. I believe that if game is internalized, a… Read more »

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I believe ultimately men want more than just sex. I used to leave, feeling emotionally shit, less of a man and ultimately £100 poorer. So, I stopped. If I want sub-par sex with emotionally unavailable and damaged women Wait, WTF! Stop the presses! You mean you don’t want a Stepford Wife who is a robot you can train or program? You’re willing to work at a relationship and possibly consider her a sentient human being who may have a soul? Aren’t they just a wet hole (IF you turned her on) to pump and dump? Dude, are you okay? Waiting… Read more »

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@Wildside Ultimately the vast majority of commentators, Rollo, Jordan Peterson, Pat Campbell / most previous on Red man group, you name any, 99% of them are in some type of “committed” relationshit. They’re talking about all this shit while they are personally in a resource transfer structure. That means they’re doing stuff on an ongoing basis for the benefit of the woman, or, it means they can’t get out of the situation without a payment. Probably substantial. See Briffault’s law. Whether they get what they want out of that structure depends on their game ability. See some of the TR2… Read more »

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Roused ” ps…Blax, do you love your wife and find sex with her to be mind blowing and incredibly satisfying?” Yup, I love my wife very much. She’s very loveable. Rolling into year 23, ” sex ” is still great and I still ” chub up “, lol, just observing her going about her day the same as I did when we first got together. Just yesterday she had an appointment with a physical therapist, and I offered to go with her because I was home and I enjoy going out with her, even if its something mundane like an… Read more »

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@Roused. Each man is his own island. I was raised from a young age by my grandmother and lesbian sister. I have always wanted some sort of emotional connection with women. Saying that I did go through a pump and dump phase in my 20s. It does not mean I can not be Red Pill. The Ukrainian women I mentioned earlier that have been love bombing me. I recognise it for what it is and it is red flags a plenty to me. 5 years ago I would have went with it and got ditched 6 months later, with a… Read more »

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@Palma. Interesting. ‘Briffault’s law maintains that “the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.” Today we would say “relationship” rather than “association.” Pretty much hypergamy. Yeh, Peterson is having a bad time at the moment. The egalitarian left destroyed him on Twitter saying how much he deserves it, like he is guilty of genocide. ‘Brainwashing young men’. Ego investment at its most potent. There is no difference between the left and the right they would both cleanse the… Read more »

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Sigh. Forrest for the trees.

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“Today we would say “relationship” rather than “association.”

Repeat after me :

Relationship = Resource transfer structure.

That’s where it is if you’re k selected.

You need to be r selected. That means desire sex irrespective of any resource transfer structure.

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@wildside “Today we would say “relationship” rather than “association.” Early today I was in the coffee shop on my laptop planning the day. An unknown woman walked up to me and asked directions to somewhere. I ran the “man test” on it. i.e. would I have done it if a man had asked. On the basis I try not to be a piss poor individual and it wasn’t a vulnerability test from a woman I was seeing I gave her directions. She got the benefit of the directions and I didn’t get a thank you. It was an association not… Read more »

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https://www.barstoolsports.com/blog/1845858/rich-guy-jon-peters-says-he-married-pamela-anderson-after-she-proposed-via-text-message-paid-off-her-dollar200k-debt-then-she-dumped-him-12-days-later Blax – another for your vetting program… The corollaries: Briffault continues with these three corollaries to his law: Even though a woman has accrued past benefits from her relationship with a man, this is no guarantee of her >continuing the relationship with him. (Translation: What have you done for me lately?) If a woman promises a man to continue her relationship with him in the future in exchange for a benefit received >from him today, her promise becomes null and void as soon as the benefit is rendered. (“I will gladly pay you >Tuesday for a hamburger today.“) A… Read more »

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so Once Upon a Time in Hollywood was loosely based on the Burt Reynolds and Hal Needham Brodeo. I remember Cannonball Run and Smokey… Imagine those guys winging each other. https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2019/07/once-upon-a-time-in-hollywood-leonardo-dicaprio-brad-pitt-friendship Needham Early years Needham was born in Memphis, Tennessee, the son of Edith May (née Robinson) and Howard Needham.[1] He was raised in Arkansas and Missouri. Needham served in the United States Army as a paratrooper during the Korean War, worked as a treetopper (an arborist who performs tree topping services),[2] and was a billboard model for Viceroy Cigarettes while beginning a career in Hollywood as a motion picture… Read more »

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Desire sex? Does that mean women are just seeking sperm to satisfy their hypergamous destiny? Or maybe they are just horny and DTF? Sometimes we really get caught up in being pretentious about defining shit here.

So a woman can’t just be fucking for her libido? Damn them womenz and their hypergamy! For fucks sake, sometimes a woman is horny, maybe ovulating, and just wants to get fucked. Please try and tell me none of you guys are EVER like that (sans the ovulating lol).

Anybody that doesn’t think women are sometimes just horny and want to fuck are full of it.

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The news of Dalrock is disheartening.

Regarding blogging as a whole, it could use a rebranding. Blog has always been a dorky sounding word.

I suggest the word “essay” and referring to yourself as Essayist and Author Rollo Tomassi. The site’s subtitle could read “Essays on Red-pill Praxeology”.

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@Roused

“Does that mean women are just seeking sperm to satisfy their hypergamous destiny?”

No. It means they’re seeking YOUR sperm.

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Hal Needham is a hero of mine. So is Burt, but in a different way, lol.

The moment Hal became my 17 year old self’s hero forever starts at 3:15.

I remember almost going into cardiac arrest in the theater. Fucking balls. Single take.

As semi cheesy as the movies kinda were, I was and still am a huge Burt and Hal fan. Hal inspired me to break more suspension parts on cars than even steve did in bullitt.

I really dug Once Upon A Time in Hollywood, but the article makes me dig it even more.

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@Palma. Aaah got ya. That’s a pretty excellent and accurate psychological observation of human nature.

Of course there was IOI. It goes without saying smile

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Roused ” Desire sex? Does that mean women are just seeking sperm to satisfy their hypergamous destiny? Or maybe they are just horny and DTF? Sometimes we really get caught up in being pretentious about defining shit here.” Lol. Easy man. I’m not 100% on the whole seeking sperm thing, but admittedly I believe that under certain circumstances, there are women that are looking to get knocked up by particular men for multiple reasons. Sometimes it’s as simple as seeking money for support, or actually seeking ” genes “. I think saying women ” just ” do sexual stuff for… Read more »

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@Palma

“Today we would say “relationship” rather than “association.”

Repeat after me :

Relationship = Resource transfer structure.

That’s where it is if you’re k selected.

You need to be r selected. That means desire sex irrespective of any resource transfer structure.”

UH OH. Missing critical info.

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@Palma or Sentient, could have been either at this point.

“twu wuv”

Whoever it was wouldn’t have said it unless they felt it.

Don’t worry, you two, the work is almost done.

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So a woman can’t just be fucking for her libido? Damn them womenz and their hypergamy! For fucks sake, sometimes a woman is horny, maybe ovulating, and just wants to get fucked. Please try and tell me none of you guys are EVER like that (sans the ovulating lol).

Well that horny/libido thing has a way of leading to sex, which has a way of leading to babies.

Go figure…
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@Sentient

I love babies. Especially ones that look like me.

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Lots of good stuff to unpack here…

https://www.washingtonpost.com/crime-law/2020/02/12/he-moved-into-his-daughters-dorm-targeted-her-roommates-sex-trafficking-prosecutors-say/?outputType=amp

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To repay him for supposed harm and property damages, one female victim began working as a prostitute at Ray’s behest in 2014 through at least about 2018, authorities say. According to the indictment, he took the majority of her earnings, totaling more than a half-million dollars.

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Wtf?

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Strange. No mention of ” Fathers ” in that wapo story. Why was a grown ass ex com allowed to stay in a dorm? Guess it doesn’t matter. A half mill prostituting, huh? Yeeaaahhhh no, I’m reading this stuff much differently. The legal system is being perverted and paralyzed without the common of common sense. This guy was some kind of svengali. Nah, just a violent asshole. Fathers are supposed to deal with violent Assholes. They’re also supposed to have relationships with daughters that preclude this kind of alleged nonsense. So label me suspicious for the time being. My daughter… Read more »

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Lots of good stuff to unpack here…

Cult 101 stuff. Gonna be interesting to see the names that come out, given the demographic of Sarah Lawrence students.

Say, remember NXIVM?

This is an article from last May, it’s an example of cult stuff that leads to a
https://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/ny-cult-commitment-ceremony-oral-sex-20190521-5wqddh22jjfghk7mrdd757espe-story.html

She wasn’t thinking of herself, she was in “protect Keith mode”. Hmm. “Ride or die” girl?

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Blaximus Why was a grown ass ex com allowed to stay in a dorm? College admins are often pathetic and easy to intimidate and/or manipulate. A half mill prostituting, huh? Yeeaaahhhh no, I’m reading this stuff much differently. Article says her standard rate was $8,000 per night. I guess everything costs more in NYC. It would be really interesting to see the list of her customers. This guy was some kind of svengali. Nah, just a violent asshole. Pretty obviously both, plus he had connections in various places, maybe including NYPD. Fathers are supposed to deal with violent Assholes. They’re… Read more »

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This guy was some kind of svengali. It’s an interesting story, particularly how they are going to charge this guy. Looks like a bunch of Federale white knights and feminists who “just can’t even”… “How do you explain the situation to a college administrator in a beautiful, pristine office? It’s a big ask,” she said. These kids couldn’t object to this guy because the offices in the admin building were too pristine? lol “College is supposed to be a time of self-discovery and newfound independence — a chance to explore and learn, all within the safety of a college community,”… Read more »

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*Things became more difficult for Daniel when Larry took a deeper interest in his sexual education. One night, Isabella came out of the bedroom and began kissing Daniel on the couch. At first, he thought Isabella was acting on a crush, but a few weeks later Larry ushered the two of them into the bedroom, instructing Daniel and Isabella to have sex while he watched. The sessions became regular, and Larry would sometimes participate. He made it seem as if his presence were part of Daniel’s and Isabella’s journeys to clarity. Once, Larry invited Chen, his friend the landlord, to… Read more »

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^^^ that just about kills off the looks / ( height – I bet he’s not 6’ ) / age debate…

Where’s @J when you want to take the piss out of him..

😂😂

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“Within days of his release, Larry Ray moved onto Sarah Lawrence’s campus. He planted himself in the common area, cooking steak dinners”

Cooking huh 😏

“Larry was of average height and overweight”

Can’t be true surely ?

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Palma

New opener – “let me help you with your journey to clarity…”

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“let me help you with your journey to clarity…”

Yep, I come from a long line of bean farmers that have trodden that path through the field and over the horizon, imagine you are a cube in a field ……..

Really interesting I’m actually in the pub right now with low self esteem barmaid talking about her reconciling her lack of a father figure.

She really needs to conclude that.

It’s the lack of any father figure and lack of any masculinity that’s leading these girls to older men.

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Re Sarah Lawrence College

“Titsworth is an all-girls dorm and was also named for one of the College’s founding trustees.”

lolzlolzlozl
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“It’s the lack of any father figure and lack of any masculinity that’s leading these girls to older men.”

+100

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A psychological evaluation of the family members commissioned by Teresa’s lawyers and submitted to the court characterized Larry as “literally impossible to evaluate” because “he is able to manipulate and control almost any situation in which he finds himself, including a psychological interview with a forensic examiner, no matter how experienced that examiner may be. Mr. Ray is very good at what he does.” The report went on to say that Larry “can be utterly charming and one can be disarmed by his childlike simplicity and smile. But Mr. Ray is no child; he is a calculating, manipulative, and hostile… Read more »

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“A psychological evaluation of the family members commissioned by Teresa’s lawyers and submitted to the court characterized Larry as “literally impossible to evaluate” because “he is able to manipulate and control almost any situation in which he finds himself, including a psychological interview with a forensic examiner, no matter how experienced that examiner may be. Mr. Ray is very good at what he does.” The report went on to say that Larry “can be utterly charming and one can be disarmed by his childlike simplicity and smile. But Mr. Ray is no child; he is a calculating, manipulative, and hostile… Read more »

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“no matter how experienced that examiner”

Public sector can’t afford good people because the pay is shit.

Anyone any good goes private on the other side of the argument.

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Felicia, the eldest of the three and a Harvard graduate, had a medical degree from Columbia. She had started her residency in Los Angeles when Larry began calling her regularly. … Felicia abandoned her residency program and moved in with Larry. They quickly began a romantic relationship, often talking about marriage and having children together. Larry has referred to both Felicia and Isabella as his wife. Larry has a long history of manipulating women. According to multiple people who knew him in the 1990s, it was common for Larry to offer sex with his girlfriend (he had a long-term girlfriend… Read more »

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it just gets better and better……

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Well that horny/libido thing has a way of leading to sex, which has a way of leading to babies.

We all know that most sexual intercourse does not lead to babies. So the image of the stork is cute and all but doesn’t address the point that a lot of hetero sex is not about making babies.
@Palma, I’ve had plenty of sex with multiple women and only two actually wanted my sperm for a baby. Most in fact absolutely do not want to get pregnant.

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No babies, no sex.

“Most [women] in fact absolutely do not want to get pregnant.”

That’s why they want to have sex.

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“a lot of hetero sex is not about making babies.”

You’re right.

You’re either r or k selected.

What the sex is about depends on that.

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“I’ve had plenty of sex with multiple women and only two actually wanted my sperm for a baby. Most in fact absolutely do not want to get pregnant.” That sounds about right. That’s why I have 2 kids instead of 200+, lol. What I believe, is that if you keep banging them and you have the qualities of a masculine man, they will start thinking…and start feeling. They don’t have a lot of control over that whole feeling part as much of it is hormonally driven. Like orgasms. Ever watch a chick cum so hard she 1) burst out laughing… Read more »

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“I think it takes more than a bang or two before she starts wanting the creampie special”

lol.

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We all know that most sexual intercourse does not lead to babies.

Yeah but her body, and yours cupcake, aren’t as woke. The body… Will play the odds.

You know Evo bio is a thing right? This is why “muh Hypergamy” is a thing…

Right? Do you even TRM bro?

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Some wise man wrote

“Don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do”

Girl: “Strong independent, don’t need no man, career, lean in, reproductive rights, no babies”

[Goes about having sex with numerous men, sometimes “forgets” things… Like contraception, and his name]

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@J

It’s good to see you. Outstanding.

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Vid of Clarice Drury confessing to poisoning Larry Ray. Obvious sleep deprivation just for a start.

By the way I believe she’s the purported $8,000 / night girl. She must clean up real good.

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8 grand.

For pussy/sex.

Motherfuckers got waaayyyy too much cash out there.

She should be allowed to keep charging dudes 8 grand for snatch, but those dudes need to be apprehended after the act and beheaded.

They’re too stupid to live.

/end rant

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It’s the lack of any father figure and lack of any masculinity that’s leading these girls to older men.

Yeah, it’s obvious once you see it. After that you know it almost immediately on sight.

Flip side:
Here’s what masculine men are like to those girls
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“Unless she’s forced to. Briffault’s law hangs on a few loose assumptions, the biggest is that a female can always define the nature of the exchange. That’s not an endorsement of rape, but it is an observation that males have historically had the option and the power to forcefully make an “association take place”. Read Alpha God by Hector Garcia and Promiscuity by Tim Birkhead.”

I’ll say it again, for the first time in 2020 ( happy new year ) –

The only power women exercise over men is the power men cede to women.

Period.

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