Exit Dalrock

This is truly depressing.

Yesterday Dalrock announced that he’s stepping away from his blog. Not only that, but he’s contemplating deleting the blog and over 10 years of what can only be described as seminal work in explaining contemporary Christianity from a Red Pill perspective.

I’m not sure what prompted this decision. I want to chalk it up to burnout, but I’m afraid that doesn’t explain the desire to erase a body of work of Dalrock’s magnitude. Everyone gets burned-out at some stage and 10+ years is a long time to sustain a blog that’s as well-thought as Dalrock’s.

I’m talking with Dal via email now and I’m trying to make sense of this decision. Several people have already begun to archive the ‘best of’ Dalrock for posterities sake, but I’m not sure this aligns with his desire to remove his work entirely.

I’ve been friends with Dalrock for 10 years and it’s no exaggeration to say that no one has done more seminal work on examining Red Pill intersexual dynamics in the context of mainstream Christianity than Dal. His blog has been the go-to place for discussing the Red Pill within a framework of Christian convictions for as long as I’ve been blogging. In fact, we both began blogging at around the same time and we used bounce ideas off each other on the old RooshV forums in a private discussion sub Roosh himself had set up for the likes of myself, Dalrock, Roissy (for a brief time) and various other Manosphere notables of that time.

When I first launched this blog I gave serious consideration to include some section or dedicated space to issues of Red Pill awareness and how religion (Christianity in main) is intertwined in it. I gave up on that idea in the early days of The Rational Male because Dalrock had so thoroughly covered what I knew then would be a necessary part of what was becoming the “manosphere“. And to be completely honest, Dalrock did it better than I had the time to invest in making it worthwhile. So I stuck to my policy of never discussing religion (or politics or race) in specific unless it crossed over into intersexual dynamics.

In these 10 years the one forum or commentariat that I participated in with regularity was Dalrock’s comment sections. I would relate the ideas he was developing to Red Pill concepts and he in turn would use my ideas to better illustrate what he was seeing transpire in Christian dating, Christian marriages, romantic/chivalric idealism and secularism transforming intersexual dynamics in a Christian context. A lot of this came to a head when he (and I) began challenging a new generation of ‘masculinity pastors’ and their own misguided ideals, and their efforts to turn the Manosphere into their pet ministries. It’s these grifters who’ll be toasting the demise of Dalrock’s blog the loudest this weekend.

When I began work on my upcoming 4th book about the Red Pill and religion my first impulse was to coauthor it with Dalrock. I asked him more than once to consider going in on the book with me, but his desire for privacy and anonymity had him decline my requests. Instead I asked if he (and various other men I respect in the christo-red pill community) would be someone I could quote and consult for the book. This he agreed to. In the new book I quote Dal’s blog quite a bit; particularly with regard to scripture and his concepts of marriage and child rearing in our brave new world of gynocentrism.

Dalrock filled a unique position in the ‘sphere. He more than myself has always been a thorn in the side of Trad-Cons & Red Pill Pastors (Warhorn) and their efforts to force-fit their old order beliefs into what the Red Pill was making more and more Christian men aware of. The Red Pill has never been a threat to faith, but it has been a threat to men who’ve built social and personal frameworks around a church culture that validates their Blue Pill conditioned lifestyles. If Rollo Tomassi points out how the Feminine Imperative has replaced the Holy Spirit in contemporary church culture and doctrine, well, he’s just a sinning PUA who can be dismissed. But if Dalrock rips back the veneer of ‘Christian Kosher’ Feminism that pervades the modern church, that’s when these guys have to do their homework.

All that’s gone now. And, potentially, all of that work is at risk of being deleted. All of the well-thought articles that held feet to fire and challenged an increasingly more feminized church (and their male feminist ‘christian’ apologists) to seriously look at itself are going away. And as I said, I’m sure the grifters are rejoicing and seeing it as a sure sign that God is at work in the Manosphere.

Blogs are Dead

I’m wondering if the age of blogging is at an end. 12 years ago blogs were the way to express ideas to a wider audience. Twitter and most of the social media we take for granted today was around, but it was certainly less endemic as it is now. Hell, even YouTube was still privately owned back then. If you wanted to build an online media brand you had to really believe in what you were doing to make the effort worthwhile. Blogging has always been a labor of love. That’s especially true today because everyone on social media today is their own Brand of Me. If all you do it curate an Instagram account with no other function than to show off how great a life you live, congratulations, you are your brand. It’s second nature to us now, but it used to take a lot more effort to relate your digital consciousness to an audience. That was what you used to blog for.

Now, even the most basic social media accounts can be ‘influencers‘. In fact it’s become so endemic that big name brands and their social media PR specialists have figured out that tween-age girls like to think of themselves as ‘micro-influencers’ and “hire” them to represent their brands for as little as a 30% discount on the product itself. As I mentioned in last week’s post, the barrier to entry has been reduced to almost nothing these days. But that ‘nothing’ barrier removes the process necessary to really develop one’s passions, or develop what one thinks about their beliefs. Content is king, but just calling it “content” reduces passions and ideas to a commodity. Are you a content provider or are you an ideas person?

The commodification of ideas, beliefs, imagination, creativity, etc. is really where this ‘sphere and countless others are heading. It’s not hard to start an online brand. Drop-shippers are all basically selling the same Chinese product, but the brand, the logo, the competition is all just a popularity contest now. Want to be a Red Pill dating/life coach? Just read passages from The Rational Male verbatim on a 5 minute video shot on your iPhone 7 and call it your original work. It’s not plagiarism, it’s content deliverables, right?

The easier things are to produce, the more real creativity suffers. Assuming most people in the future actually have original content to deliver, the process also makes them beholden to prioritize the production over the actual product. Blogs are not very good at that kind of prioritization. I was always amazed at how Roissy/Heartiste could produce a blog post a day right up until ‘his’ deplatforming last year. Most of those daily posts were just current event filler crap and C&P’ed comments from his threads, but in between it all there were the occasional strokes of genius. And those genius posts became fewer and fewer in the last 4 years.

I’ve never posted for the sake of posting. Traffic has never been my priority on this blog. Neither has monetization. The message of this blog and my thoughts have always taken precedent. In almost 10 years I’ve never written an essays for an audience. I put forth what I think needs to be considered and hopefully people can use that information to construct a better way of living with it. But in the coming decade pandering to an audiences’ sensibilities will be the only thing most content producers will focus. Audience engagement and content providing is already trumping any real discourse.

And this is the real hard thing to accept about Dalrock’s retirement and deleting himself; it’s 10+ years of real, passionate, ideas and necessary debate that’s been instrumental for men in understanding the state of Christianity, church culture, Red Pill awareness and so many other related issues:

When I think of the wholesale destruction of Dalrock’s work I’m reminded of how violent members of a conquering tribe/nation/religion are prone to destroy the artistic and intellectual works of the society they’ve overthrown. The first order of business is to erase the art, the ideas, the ‘gods’ of the defeated tribe, or to plagiarize the best of it and erase the rest. Burn the books, destroy the symbols, appropriate and assimilate the ideas; in the end it’s an indictment of the one who’s doing the erasing. I have no doubt that once Dalrock’s work is gone there will be ‘grave robbers’ lining up to distort what he built to fit their own narratives and provide them with content to call their own.

And all for what? Roosh has decided to erase himself recently as well. All the work he created that was so influential in the ‘sphere, now that’s traded for a new kind of nihilism. And all the usual moralist suck ups are ready to see him as the Prodigal Son. See? We were right all along. Our faith is validated and confirmed! But all the same problems that brought us to questioning that faith are still where we left them. Only now there’s no one left to point out their inconsistencies. No one’s left to identify the Blue Pill conditioning that’s prompted so many men to leave the churches. No one’s left to call bullshit! Only those grave robbers are left; the same guys who’ve been apologizing for never understanding the Blue Pill or their compromised masculinity because their faith and existence depends on it.

Blogs are dead. Long live The Rational Male.

Just to allay any concerns, no, I’m not shuttering this blog. I’m still going to be writing here and elsewhere. I’m not unpublishing anything. Maybe blogs are now a dead media, but I do my best thinking here. And yes, I fully expect some ‘coaches’ will be lifting my material to fulfill their content quotas. Just be sure to remind them where they’re sourcing it from whenever possible.

I will apologize for not posting as consistently as I have in the past, but this is mostly because I’ve been focusing on the latest book. Like I said, I don’t post for the sake of posting. I craft my essays and I don’t publish them until I think I’ve stated what I needed to state.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

429 comments on “Exit Dalrock

  1. Michael Fell, an attorney representing one of the alleged victims, said his client would be devastated by the news. “My client believes with all of her heart she was sexually assaulted,” he told the AP. “That doesn’t change what she went through.”

    😂

  2. https://www.thedailybeast.com/emanuela-postacchini-testifies-jessica-mann-was-crying-after-failed-threesome-with-harvey-weinstein

    Weinstein is a gormless slug, but I do believe he will get off.

    “Harvey was telling us orchestrations like, ‘I want you to go down on her,’ and I said, ‘I don’t know how to do that,’ and I think that I grabbed her boob,” Mann testified about the incident with Postacchini on Friday, adding that she “ran out of there into the bathroom and started crying.”

  3. https://pagesix.com/2020/02/04/jessica-simpson-says-john-mayer-caused-her-split-from-tony-romo/

    Lolz

    *In the fall of 2007, she was alone again and starting dating the former Cowboy quarterback.

    “If John texted or emailed, I would hold up my phone and tell Tony immediately,” she writes. “He knew the hold John had over me, and it was like telling your sponsor when you’re triggered.”*

    Earlier this week, she told “Today” co-anchor Hoda Kotb that she’d gone back to Mayer “close to nine times” over the course of their relationship.

  4. Manipulated.

    Your honor, I too plead guilty.

    +100 on Weinstein being a slug, but separately, a guy going too far isn’t cause for crying in the fetal position. Just leave.

    Once upon a time I failed at trying to simultaneously undress 2 girls at the same time on my living room couch. One girl was with it, the other changed her mind after I removed her blouse and was going for her skirt.

    It wasn’t dramatic. She just said ” nah, I’m not feeling this ” and she stood up, gathered her top and bra and redressed herself. No tears. No running into a bathroom. No fetal position.

    I guess I’m only capable of understanding these private things through my own lens of experience. Not excusing men that are gameless and love wielding power, but how do they find so many women that are emotionally ruined because they saw your dick or got felt up?

    This stuff, cancelling guys, has a momentum and life of it’s own now. Weinstein is the poster boy.

    Once at a company picnic ( image that ) I attended with ex wifey, a ” swinging ” couple pursued us doggedly. The hubby looked like Tom selleck and the wife looked like a higher classes stripper. We had zero interest in getting with these people, but are feelings and emotions weren’t shattered, even when the wife flashed us. People can be strange, to paraphrase Morrison.

    I never jerked off into a potted plant, but I’ve heard ” ummmm…I am not going to do that ” or ” hey, take your finger out of my ass ” or ” seriously, that hurts and I can’t breathe “. I believe I couldn’t ever be an impartial juror in these kind of cases because I still strongly believe that what’s done in private between two adults, barring actual rape and assault, should stay there. Like Vegas.

    Idk where this is headed, but the trend is bad. So will men conversely be able to have women prosecuted for teasing and blue balls? Equality, right?

    Good to see examples like the California couple in the link sentient provided. I don’t know precisely what happened and there’s no evidence other than accusations. Personally, I tell my girls not to get high or drunk around people you don’t want to have sex with because you could catch an errant dick.

    Broader swaths of society are being cajoled into abandoning common sense and decorum. Anything and everything goes until somebody gets bad feelz or pangs of regret or a sore anus. Then the heavens must fall.

  5. Blax

    I guess you missed her golden shower testimony… This is the prosecution’s witness mind you.

    “We were taking a shower together and he started peeing on me” sums it up.

    😂😂😂

  6. Hey Scott

    Nice job man.

    I really like your straight talk along the lines of psychology and your religious background, as well as quality family traditional life. Fuck Trad-Con being a pejorative name by Rollo. There is nothing fucking wrong with being married and having children and living in a community that stays 90% married. Despite the other quoted statistics.

    Because your talk it is spiritually infused. Which means it is meaning infused. Which means it is purpose and mission infused. Which means it is on point. To move forward.

    Once again:

    “Love is the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth… Love is as love does. Love is an act of will — namely, both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love.”
    ― M. Scott Peck

    Oh, and by the way, Blax–tell me if you disagree?, or you would just hold your ego above the fray of that statement…I’m not advocating for a purple/blue pill in that question what-so-fucking-ever either. Not at all. Just answer the question on the face.

    And doesn’t neglect Natural Order, nor Moral Order, nor Social Order. V.S no freewill monkey-ism. Vs. Freewill Choice that Shawn T. Smith was just saying.

    As opposed to being oppressed, and going the fuck off to come.

    As opposed to shutting down because the world order is against one man.

    Thanks Scott.

    Hah. I suspect you don’t ask yourself, like at the end of Saving Private Ryan: “Am I A Good Man”.

    Nor do I think Shawn T. Smith asks that question as a therapists.

    It was interesting to see Shawn T. Smith put out a YouTube video about Hypergamy and then go debate it with Richard Cooper and Rollo.

    I think all parties were good at having a discussion.

    And would you believe me if I said that I don’t have a horse in the game?

  7. Hello Rollo,
    I recently read your book the rationale male and it had opened my eyes. I am now trying to move from an AFC to an Alpha. and also thank you for introducing me to this online platform of the rationale male, and the book 48 laws.
    I would like to get your consultation regarding some things.

    I am 21 years old and never got intimate with a girl( except prostitutes) and never had a girlfreind. reading your book I understand I did everything wrong. what exactly is the perfect game approach while approaching women( I finished my diploma so college is not an option for meeting girsl anymore). should I approach them at the bus stop? the bar?
    and also could you give me any recommendations for books to develop my game, which is literally at a level zero at this point.
    Would really appreciate if you could reply to my humble request.
    Thank you again for writing the book,
    Jerry.

  8. “Love is the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth… Love is as love does. Love is an act of will — namely, both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love.”
    ― M. Scott Peck

    Oh, sorry.

    I forgot that that is the shit that makes Rollo’s 20 years of other not very well put together men go paranoid defensive about.

    Call it a shit test.

    I’m not angry or defensive. And I still claim sexual satisfaction. Which is a low bar to otherwise claim things are fine in the broad spectrum of life. High five. Life is beautiful. It really fucking is.

  9. Sjf
    😂😂

    I don’t know what the question is supposed to be, so I’ll just say some random shit.

    I don’t care at all about ” trad con ” or anything that labels people into tight fitting pigeon holes.

    No man alive and breathing will ever convince me that my ego is somehow a bad thing. It’s kept me alive and prosperous and allows me to do anything I can think of for all of my adult life.

    I guess I can agree that love can be spiritual for some men, but it’s not for me.

    I don’t really care if a group of folks stay married 90% or whatever because the world is bigger than where one lives and tunnel vision is a choice, but a bad look.

    I’m not a ” tribalist ” mostly, because lots of folks try to use that as a power source for division and ignorance. Wall themselves off then tell each other how awesome they are and how fucked up everyone else is, or how they lack.

    Cherry picking life.

    No thanks.

    I have ” morals ” and a code. My morals and code don’t say anything about another’s morals or apparent lack thereof. It is what it is.

    If a guy is comfortable living life sans ego, because it caused him grief somehow, then good for him, but the lecturing about the evils of the ego? 😂 miss me with that.

  10. Sentient
    Weinstein is a gormless slug,

    IMO he’s working on an Academy Award level of acting. Watch him tottering into court on that walker, it’s a flawless performance.

  11. @Blax

    Ego is very good. Ego is how you make choices. Ego is also how so-called spiritual people go fasting for 70 days and don’t die. Cuz they aren’t pussies, hardy har har!

    I remember when words used to just be adjectives dammit.

  12. Hi Rollo and all brothers here!
    I have a question for you, it has been in mind for a pretty long time and I havent find an answer yet.
    Why do some women have castration fantasies? Maybe because they unconsciously want to take out the unfit men from the gene pool? Or they take pleasure in inflicting pain to male (maybe some past trauma) or both?

  13. Sukhraj – go to the Field Reports section (see link top of page) and post your comment there. In fact if you work your way backwards through the pages you’ll find plenty of advice for newbies (search for “YaReally” in every page of the thread going backwards and you should find the newbie advice posts).

    But in essence the advice will be – read some basic stuff about Game (not too much or you’ll end up focussed on theory instead of action), and then go out and practice talking to girls. That’s about it. Post Field Reports of your interactions with girls and we will try to help you.

  14. Ego is how you make choices.

    Please clarify so your words are not taken out of context. Do you mean that rational thought is not used to make choices and that it’s all ego? Should Rollo change the site to The Ego Male?

    The word ego is being bantered about here sorta like how the word “analytics” is with the NFL. Often you hear and read pundits or armchair QBs, complain or praise analytics and don’t bother to explore just what are analytics and how they are part of the game. Nobody is really talking about what the hell the “ego” really is and it makes the discussion watered down. The ego needs to be better defined as its being used ambiguously.

  15. “The ego needs to be better defined . . .”

    Sense of self. Hence all acts of self-preservation are functions of ego.

  16. “Sense of self. Hence all acts of self-preservation are functions of ego.”

    When used as a noun, “ego” also implies reality testing. And mediating between the mind and the unconscious.

    Each man tests reality in their own individual way. Just because someone creates a theoretical framework, doesn’t mean its workable for all. Or that all should work it that way.

    Or that you live in a vacuum without other principle characters.

    Self-preservation is self limiting at times. And other-limiting at times.

    I have ” morals ” and a code. My morals and code don’t say anything about another’s morals or apparent lack thereof. It is what it is.

    Is that why Dalrock exited?

    No one is lecturing about the evils of ego. The ego is the mediator. The moral code is in the mind. And no one is prescribing another’s code. …But advocating to have one. That takes into consideration others. Unless you only want to self-preserve.

  17. Ok let me explain.

    The Rational male is all about self-promotion.

    But Spirituality is all about integration with all else that exists.

    Therefore, in many spiritual traditions, Ego ends up vilified.

    But Ego is what we “start with” as far as mind develops.

    Also You NEVER actually lose it. You simply change what you do with it.

    Therefore, Ego is sort of like your “look”.

    You can have the appearance and trappings of success but still have no MPO.

    Therefore, you can also have “Spirituality” and yet be nothing without it, which makes you a worthless hypocrite. Unwilling to see the world from outside yourself.

    Because if YOU COULD SEE yourself from the outside, you’d be able to note what others see in you.

    But Too many people pursue selfimprovement as a way to tell others “Ok Faggits I’ve done the work now bend over I need ta fuck. Also You’re stupid and I’m smart dur dur dur dur dur.”

    So they miss the forest for the trees.

    They use Ego even though they claimed to try to connect to the very origin of Ego.

    It’s not about making the Ego your enemy. Its CERTAINLY NOT about rolling in essential oil and making Polyamory themed quips with your “Enlightened vaping buddies.”

    It goes like this:

    I am. You are. We are. The world is. We are the world. We are everything. I move, YOU move. We move. The world moves. The universe is vast and we are small. The universe is vast and WE ARE VAST. We are the universe! And that means we are eachother.

    From a purely evopsyche standpoint, spirituality is a manual on how to handle potentially hostile situations. Which is why it always turns political.

    But too many manly men wanna say “Shuddup bitch you’re here to fuck and that’s that.”

    Yet 40 year OMGs are on this forum.

    Also too many pussy nerds that don’t wanna lift go “I’m triggered! You’re hereby excommunicated!”

    Yet many nerds try to “alpha up” and some succeed and start selling courses.

    So ya caint ween!! Unless ya buy my course or join my discord.

    Unless you’re actually SPIRITUAL. And can flex the EGO. Spirituality is about teaching you to use the mind.

    That’s it. When you can use your mind, Magic is easy.

  18. Don’t the Pussyhat Posse end up calling The Rational Male “The Male Rationale” anyway?

    They don’t get it either.

  19. I am. You are. We are. The world is. We are the world. We are everything. I move, YOU move. We move. The world moves. The universe is vast and we are small. The universe is vast and WE ARE VAST.

    Not all are vast. Some are only partly vast. Some are frankly half vast.

  20. Yollo Comanche
    Don’t the Pussyhat Posse end up calling The Rational Male “The Male Rationale” anyway?

    Do not know. Do not care. Better things to do. Arguing with the emotion-ridden is a waste of time.

  21. “. . .Spirituality is all about integration with all else that exists.”

    Spirituality is about focusing on spirit, whatever that is. When viewed through a universalist religion it may well take the form of being about integration with all else that exists. When viewed through a personal savior religion it will take the form of, ya know, personal salvation.

  22. O/T

    I feel vindicated ( though never looking for that ) in my stance over many years that Roosh has no actual game. I always maintain that TIME REVEALS ALL.

    https://www.rooshv.com/game-is-for-fallen-women

    Roosh wrote volumes and volumes of truly stupid shit over the years, and how he’s going to elevate stupidity to soaring heights.

    He never understood Game outside of the PUA version, and even that one he got very wrong.

    How does a man that claims so much knowledge wind up with mostly nothing and still finds himself making major life shifts at his age? How??! How the fuck is this possible if this stupid motherfucker actually knew wtf he was talking about and was capable of walking the walk?

    Ahem.

    He just have run out of Euro countries to Bang.😁

    I will admit that watching the path Roosh has fallen down over many, many years is extraordinarily satisfying. I never saw what so many saw in him.

    I hope he continues to write until he takes his final breath. I won’t be reading that garbage, but others will until he flip flops again and again. Claiming religion late in life is a last refuge, mostly reserved for hard case fuck ups.

    Let’s get him gift cards to Sandals are Us.

  23. Sense of self. Hence all acts of self-preservation are functions of ego.

    That’s a start, thank you. I asked because off the top of my head I can’t provide a really good explanation of what the “ego” really is. Not a fan of copy pasta so I thought maybe the brighter minds on here would post something.

    My initial thought is that ego is neither good nor bad and that it’s a part of our conscious mental apparatus.

  24. Blaximus
    https://www.rooshv.com/game-is-for-fallen-women

    That’s a lot of pedestalizing for such a short essay. He’s getting chewed on in comments, however, and some of the best bites are in religious terms.

    Agree with Blaximus about RooshV’s “game”. I’ve said before here and elsewhere that RooshV’s “game” as revealed in his Bang books was just “dark stranger from out of town” game, which is not all that different from “hundred Euro notes hanging out of your pocket” game. It worked in he short term, in a unique time / place. In other words, RooshV’s like the guy who goes to the casino, has a good run on the roulette or dice table, then declares that his “system” is a sure winner. Uh, no. You got lucky, that’s all.

    The trouble with Roosh’s latest version is pretty obvious: he hasn’t actually bothered to read the Bible closely, and he’s not paying any attention to the patriarchs (legit title) of his church. He needs to drink a lot deeper of his religion, or just back off. As it is, he’s cruising into churchianity – which will make him some money, no one goes broke in the short run that way, but in the longer run it might fail.

    Another attempt at monetizing the Red Pill fails.

    Kinda frustrating to see a shallow man like RooshV still getting attention while a serious thinker like Dalrock hangs it up.

  25. AR

    Agree.

    Society has been conditioned to think less and play more. We’re also mostly conditioned to pay attention to people not worthy of paying attention to.

    Anyone claiming Christianity should actually read the bible a dozen times, in different translations, but Roosh hasn’t bothered. He’s looking for a mentor and a crew and some customers.

    Same as it ever was.

  26. @Roused

    “My initial thought is that ego is neither good nor bad and that it’s a part of our conscious mental apparatus.”

    That’s a great start. It’s also a great way to get excommunicated by the brigade.

    Although it’s looking now like they don’t really wanna fight.

    It looks more like they don’t want trouble for the damage they’ve done in the past.

  27. “My initial thought is that ego is neither good nor bad . . .”

    Dynamite was invented to save lives by stabilizing the volatile.

  28. Not the sharpest chisel in the drawer. Ego has to be smashed to some degree in order to affect change as in addiction behaviors. ie; alcoholism, plumper porn addiction,drug addiction etc.
    As in a death and rebirth, withdrawls are hard to beat as the ego cries out in pain and resists change. -paradoxically the ego is also a large part of motivation to step out and get things done.

    Spirituality and religion can both be used to mentaly masturbate the ego in a hipocritical fashion or just to nt carry guilt.

    If the hen party wants to criminalize and eradicate masculinity the ego is the place to start. The main results will be negative as me lose the motivation their ego provided.

  29. Let’s now peer into the TRM mind of Rollo:

    Paranoia strikes deep
    Into your life it will creep
    It starts when you’re always afraid
    You step out of line, the man come and take you away

    We better stop, hey, what’s that sound
    Everybody look what’s going down.

  30. Leggo my Ego
    Let’s now peer into the TRM mind of Rollo:

    Whoo, boy! My “old hippy detector” just activated.

    Whoever you are, this one’s for you.

  31. Leggo My Ego!before you read TRM , set up an obstacle course to your device. Then chew gum and walk at the same time if you make it there go ahead and read.

    Caution social psych isn’t for men with tunnel vision,they may wind up in prison.

  32. @Anonymous Reader

    Why is it bad to call it what it is? It’s self promotion. It’s chasing cars and money much of the time to appeal to people who demand that you have it much of the time.

    Just saying “Hypergamy” isn’t some cure-all salve that absolves you of the task of needing to learn how breakfast makes it to your table.

    There’s a meeting point between Ego, the chick, You, and the rest of it all so you can work your mojo.

    To say it isn’t like that is dishonest at best. Willfully misleading other people while calling them gay for caring at worst.

    And then when someone says that, they try to make the snake eat it’s tail again by saying everyone is polyamorous by nature.

    Ok even if it were true, which it isn’t, why do people NEED it to be true? I’ll tell you. It’s so they can always philosophically run to somewhere AND giggle as they do it. They go “Nya Nya! You can’t judge me! Go back to school! Get a job! Get more money! Only THEN will I suffer the humiliation of validating your own point of view with a half-hearted response.

    If you can’t run away giggling it doesn’t count as running away. That’s their ethic.

    So there’s people that want shit to mean whatever they want it to mean. These people chase clout and chase titles to earn the right to cow other people.

    This is all vanity.

    This is all the Crab Bucket.

    Whoever can see past it gets to chill at their favorite level of the crab bucket or escape it all together.

  33. @Roused

    The Woke Brigade.

    Basically Pacifists.

    They want to prevent wars by mutating people philosophically, which is damaging as hell.

    But then “Real Pacifists” come along and say “that wasn’t real Commu—durrrr——-I–mean——–Pacifism.

    Also they REALLY believe in shit like Alchemy and other things that basically inform them that people are like little ingredients in some master scheme.

    I’m serious. It’s not altogether harmless. They’ll do anything to escape the criticism of people who are at their own level of attainment.

    Also they have very weird notions of what Karma is.

  34. Yollo Comanche
    Why is it bad to call it what it is? It’s self promotion. It’s chasing cars and money much of the time to appeal to people who demand that you have it much of the time.

    Lol. No! No, it’s not that. Not at all. What does “mental point of origin” mean to you? What does Sentient’s “Platinum rule” mean to you? “Do what you want so you can appeal to people who demand that you appeal to them”? Lol!

    Examples:
    If Blaximus wants to go chase down a 1969 Plymouth Road Runner in “Super Bird” configuration, it’s not to appeal to anyone, it’s because he wants one. For his own reasons. Because “Mopar rules!” or something.

    If Rollo wants to go get, I dunno, some turbocharged snow machine it’s not to appeal to anyone, it’s because he wants to go really fast on trails.

    If kfg wants a rack full of computing consisting of hot-stuff overclocked top of the line AMD CPU’s with fastest peripherals possible, it’s not to appeal to anyone else, it’s for some purpose he’s had in mind for a while.

    I could go on. Should be clear by now. Rollo doesn’t keep this site up to appeal to people who demand he have “a brand”, you really, really should know that. He didn’t write three books with a fourth on the way to appeal to anyone, he wrote them for men like you, me and whole lot of others. We should be grateful for that. I know I am.

  35. Yollo,

    Hey man, I think weed is great and all ya know, but dude, lay off it a bit. Your messages are coming off a bit sideways and incoherent.

  36. Look, Yollo, it’s like this. you don’t want to get into a situation where she don’t love you, she loves your automobile…

  37. “If kfg wants a rack full of computing consisting of hot-stuff overclocked top of the line AMD CPU’s with fastest peripherals possible, it’s not to appeal to anyone else, it’s for some purpose he’s had in mind for a while.”

    True enough, but I haven’t been able to come up with a purpose I’d want to go anywhere near.

    Take a Ryzen 7 4700U, give it 4 gigs of on die VRAM and a PGA package. mATX motherboard with 10w TDP mode support, two NVMe slots and USB4/Thunderbolt. Case with a USB4/TB port on the front panel.

    Endgame. After that I’ll just be watching for how much smaller and more efficient they can make it. The Raspberry Pi 4 is just a transitional hint of things to come.

    In 20 years we’ve come a long way from Thunderbird with a Voodoo card being the hottest thing anybody had ever seen in a desktop and yet still not nearly enough.

  38. @Anonymous Reader

    No anon….HE DIDN’T.

    But tons of other people. Sheep, no MPO. ECT. They DID. That’s what THEY would have done with 4 books.

    They were waiting for a muse/suitable legacy figure. A person they could rely on to emulate while fathers were allowed back into the culture.

    This whole thing(this whole culture) is debating whether self-destruction is necessary for the perpetuation of social motion.

    The queefs….Some of them are sorry for what they did. It’s hope. Real hope. It’s finally here!

  39. Roused, Yollo has more of an idealistic modern education understanding of sociology. That seems unrealistic to an older man with an experiential understanding.

    I find it odd that he sees hope in some video or other.

    Yollo would you please be more specific.

  40. The Superbowl half time show had several overhead shots of the stage—a large illuminated circle with a smaller plus sign at the edge—like the symbol for woman—nah, couldn’t be. Women in cages breaking free, stripper poles, pelvic thrusts. The NFL proclaims the year of the woman—again. And what a woman, old, but still got it, using that weaponized crotch, silver and gold, center of attention. Stop it! Stop ogling you perverts! You are disgusting! You are a serial sexual assaulter! She worked hard for that promotion. You stole it from her. But, she just got a text saying she got a better job. Ahhh, hypergamous dreams!

  41. @wahoo Mcdaniels

    About hope???

    Sure. I’ve been hanging out with Hedonistic Stoners only to find out they want more out of life than being at eachother’s mercy due to knowing what eachother “used to do”.

    They learned that there’s connection, closeness, and then there’s the shit THEY foolishly expose eachother to.

    Also. I’m former Kung Fu.

    I found a Bhuddist energy worker. We shared philosphy(I’m Reprobate Dao) and he realized he’s a hypocrite and his Dogma is no substitute for the power channeled BETWEEN living beings. His female coworkers were all over me, he was aloof toward them. And is VERY judgmental toward them. But I think he found connection with me because I was able to show him that I could see what he could see that he thought was wrong about them(which I actually agreed with). He was so far removed from the women’s emotional reality, yet logically he was able to perceive that women can often deny aspects of themselves like men do. He used a factual truth to completely discredit women. Sound Familiar?

    I suggested that his approach to the existence question was misguided. That Ego might be what he was missing. That Detachment is not always useful. It’s half the equation.

    That he’s not stuck on one level of the Crab Bucket. And he never has to completely leave it.

    That he can use his talents to traverse the Crab Bucket if he were a respecter of people like I am.

    And he taught me that gentler words can be a useful tool in dealing with people who just happen to be SCARED SHITLESS of you.

    That’s the hope I see. That the feedback loop that the queef/Chad behavioral frame relies on is showing itself to me.

    How’s that for non-experiential?

    He’s trying to win against “Chads” by being “Pacifist”

    He realized he underestimated me.

  42. Yollo,thanks man.

    “Sure. I’ve been hanging out with Hedonistic Stoners only to find out they want more out of life than being at eachother’s mercy due to knowing what eachother “used to do”.”

    So they are different,just like everybody else with the exception that somehow they can survive in an altered state of reality. As if they don’t have to work for a living but still face the same social conflicts and hope to transcend them rather than work through them. OK

    “Also. I’m former Kung Fu.”

    I knew that,from reading you.

    “I found a Bhuddist energy worker. We shared philosphy(I’m Reprobate Dao) and he realized he’s a hypocrite and his Dogma is no substitute for the power channeled BETWEEN living beings.”

    You must have a lot of free time! and funds!

    ” His female coworkers were all over me,”

    No doubt you RP sorcerer.

    “he was aloof toward them. And is VERY judgmental toward them. But I think he found connection with me because I was able to show him that I could see what he could see that he thought was wrong about them(which I actually agreed with). He was so far removed from the women’s emotional reality, yet logically he was able to perceive that women can often deny aspects of themselves like men do. He used a factual truth to completely discredit women.”

    This is the outward appearance of giving women too much credit or expecting too much from them.

    “Sound Familiar?”

    This has been a thought from time to time.

    “I suggested that his approach to the existence question was misguided. That Ego might be what he was missing. That Detachment is not always useful. It’s half the equation.”

    That he’s not stuck on one level of the Crab Bucket. And he never has to completely leave it.

    That he can use his talents to traverse the Crab Bucket if he were a respecter of people like I am.”

    Upon awakening to the connections of power between people and learning to circumnavigate those entanglements without positive or negative cause and effect, we now come to your next line of the objective view of others fear of the unknown, Myself having given no sign.

    “And he taught me that gentler words can be a useful tool in dealing with people who just happen to be SCARED SHITLESS of you.”

    Works for me.

    “That’s the hope I see. That the feedback loop that the queef/Chad behavioral frame relies on is showing itself to me.”

    Chad needs to believe in something, the struggle for survival happens at all levels.

    “How’s that for non-experiential?”

    Iv’e had those experiences, the one I was refferencing that is lacking is the drawing of sustenance directly from the mother or earth,wind,fire and water.

    “He’s trying to win against “Chads” by being “Pacifist””

    He realized he underestimated me.”

    The pacifist approach doesn’t work well, I have underestimated you as well.

  43. Yollo,wahoo is pronounced the same as hua hu and was a nickname given to me by a friend and coworker, for my continuing reference to daoist teachings on life 27 years ago back.

  44. @ Wahoo McDaniels

    Read his last post again. It’s full of secret society, social collusion, literary overkill, simmering indignancy, self-indulgency, messianic prophesizing and a litany of his own paranoid self-references.

    That’s Jim Jones stuff.

    Rollo quotes himself within that piece as he can’t find anyone who’ll corroborate his work except a website that is now defunct.

    Honestly, step back a minute and ask yourself how is any of the above helpful? Teaching men to maintain a defensive crouch with women is Rollo’s advice. That’s paranoia.

    Have you read Rollo’s There Is No One piece? I just did. Who in their right minds generalizes penguin sexuality onto humanity? Who in their right minds believes that trash? That guy Rollo is mentally ill.

    Moreover, Rollo admitted recently he is paranoid about his ideas. He said it himself.

    Dudes, Rollo is a pied piper.

    I can’t get to sleep
    I think about the implications
    Of diving in too deep
    And possibly the complications
    Especially at night
    I worry over situations
    I know will be alright
    Perhaps it’s just imagination
    Day after day it reappears
    Night after night my heartbeat shows the fear
    Ghosts appear and fade away

    https://youtu.be/RY7S6EgSlCI

  45. @Eh er ah Lego my ego, Ya I can see your point.

    “Read his last post again. It’s full of secret society, social collusion, literary overkill, simmering indignancy, self-indulgency, messianic prophesizing and a litany of his own paranoid self-references.

    That’s Jim Jones stuff.”

    The webs are writing to keep triger words off the radar radar, popularity comes at a price.

    “Rollo quotes himself within that piece as he can’t find anyone who’ll corroborate his work except a website that is now defunct.”

    He quotes himself to take the credit where it is due.

    “Honestly, step back a minute and ask yourself how is any of the above helpful? Teaching men to maintain a defensive crouch with women is Rollo’s advice. That’s paranoia.”

    Don’t take the defensive stance,just learn the truth and how to live with it.

    “Have you read Rollo’s There Is No One piece? I just did. Who in their right minds generalizes penguin sexuality onto humanity? Who in their right minds believes that trash? That guy Rollo is mentally ill.”

    Totaly have read it a few times and couldn’t agree more. Lost many good men to whores playing the soulmate role just to fuck around and clean them out of funds.

    “Moreover, Rollo admitted recently he is paranoid about his ideas. He said it himself.”

    You should be about your own ideas as well, it couldn’t hurt.

    “Dudes, Rollo is a pied piper.”

    He does have a catchy tune.

    “I can’t get to sleep
    I think about the implications
    Of diving in too deep
    And possibly the complications
    Especially at night
    I worry over situations
    I know will be alright
    Perhaps it’s just imagination
    Day after day it reappears
    Night after night my heartbeat shows the fear
    Ghosts appear and fade away”

    Sounds like the human condition of a responsible man.

  46. If-I-Fell
    The Superbowl half time show had several overhead shots of the stage—a large illuminated circle with a smaller plus sign at the edge—like the symbol for woman—nah, couldn’t be.

    Sure could be, and it was: sign of “Venus” from astrology. Not accident, part of the show, part of the “year of the woman” bit.

    Women in cages breaking free, stripper poles, pelvic thrusts. The NFL proclaims the year of the woman—again

    Yep. Never forget that they are all girls. So, “Grrlpower” but “Lookit ME!” at the same time. White Knights are content because “respect WOMEN”, girls get to show off in a safe way, men get to ogle in an abstract way. People who want to get upset find something they can get upset about.

    Something for everyone! Especially the girls, who get something sorta like fried ice.

    Fried ice. All about the fried ice.

  47. @Eh, “Seek and ye shall find” means to me that we find what we are looking for or we confirm our bias to further our own agendas.

    The taking of another mans insights and observations to an extreme is a red flag on ones own agenda. “First remove the mote from your own eye then you may better help your brother remove the speck from his.”

    You need to accept responsibility for your own actions, caused by reading between the lines for your own agenda. There are some however that should take things quite literally and never will due their differing ego attachments.

  48. @ wahoo McDaniels

    “Lost many good men to whores playing the soulmate role just to fuck around and clean them out of funds.”

    Call them whores and you get whores.

    “You should be about your own ideas as well, it couldn’t hurt.”

    How so and when?

  49. @Eh Lego My Ego,

    (“Lost many good men to whores playing the soulmate role just to fuck around and clean them out of funds.”)

    ‘Call them whores and you get whores.”

    I call them that past tense,previously they were my friends “soul mates”they called them the one and got whores.

    (“You should be about your own ideas as well, it couldn’t hurt.”)

    “How so and when?”

    When you trigger complete strangers to protect your wife from you,If many men are telling you your new interpretation of alpha may be off a bit. When you blame your actions on a blogger.
    When you find yourself under arrest for dui.

    ” an alcoholic is an extreme example of self-will run riot ,although he usually doesn’t think so.”

  50. Leggo
    Read his last post again. It’s full of secret society, social collusion, literary overkill, simmering indignancy, self-indulgency, messianic prophesizing and a litany of his own paranoid self-references.

    Don’t see that in Rollo’s essay on Dalrock. Do see that in some commenters.

    Projection at work. Do you have anything positive to add to comments? Or are you all about tearing men down?

  51. Lego My Ego

    (“You should be about your own ideas as well, it couldn’t hurt.”)

    “How so and when?”

    The how so part I will answer with a question. Why do you think it is that AA’s 4th step (made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves) starts out by making a list of resentments,then goes on to identifying ones own part in it.

  52. Totaly have read it a few times and couldn’t agree more. Lost many good men to whores playing the soulmate role just to fuck around and clean them out of funds.

    Yes, men need to be aware of not only their intent but of their potential partner. After that this is simply a tit for tat. Guys bang girls all the time gaming or telling them they luuurv her and she drops panties. Then they pump and dump. Whatever, they can do what they want. Smoke’em if you got’em.

    But this drumbeat of those Whoooers! How dare they pretend to be our soul mate! How dare they run off with cash and prizes. All the while da womenz are saying to each other that so and so just wanted to fuck me, he didn’t really love me. I let him fuck me for weeks, then the asshole dumped
    me for that bitch Brenda.

    Muh soul mate, she dumped me!

    Tit for tat.

  53. Roused ,you are comparing apples (getting married to a soul mate the oneitis) to oranges (telling a girl anything just to get a SNL or ONS) . Don’t buy it man “there is no one”.

  54. “There is No One” is a way to make one reader happier in failure. Hey Blue Valentine. The protagonist of that movie was a self centered loser… Picture that.

    Going forward, one man knows not when he bumps into and fucks a valuable soul of a girl. To whit: you cannot predict the future. You can act to improve your future.

    It’s pandering to the masses. And the masses have issues.

    It’s grandiosity. Putting your self in a protective cocoon. A glass box.

    To not invest. In others.

    Falling in love fades. Falling in love is a trick the evo-psych plays on you for sure. It’s hormones and it is actually a collapse of your ego-boundaries. And then fades. And then gets picked up later by free will and love. Choosing every step of the way. To go out there and make each day.

    Rollo’s ego was beaten to a fucking pulp with his BPD chick.

    And he picked himself off the ground, met his wife and the rest is history. And then he chose moment to moment the choices he made. And guess what those were? And why they were?. Hint: because it was a valuable thing to do. To invest in his wife and child. How the fuck did that happen? To love his wife and child.

    Choosing and acting in a LTR is an active decision, every moment, hour, week, 4 weeks, 4 months, 4 years, etc.

    And guess what? If a long term relationship is not right? Choose what is right. Enough about AFC and Betas. And being zeroed out. If something is worth maintaining, it’s worth maintaining with the truth and with right action. And not whining, not with ego investment and not with stepping on your dick with compartmentalized grandiosity. But with doing better. For you and for her.

    Why not? Because you will be divorce raped and zeroed out? YGBFSM. Go ahead and play not to lose. How’se that working out for you, lately.

    I. I. I. Me. I. Me. I. I. I. I. Me. Me. Me. Enough, we get it, we all know who you are.

    It’s why happiness always seems out of reach, why love seems elusive or complicated. And sometimes why other people get hurt.–The Last Psychiatrist

    That last quote is how I used to be. And it was self limiting. Me in a glass box with my ego, and everyone around me as objects.

    “A little egomania isn’t a bad thing, especially if it spurs you to be better at whatever you’re supposed to be better at. Thinking your the best kid on the playground is not nearly as destructive as thinking you’re the only kid the playground. If you don’t believe me, try it.

    But you think you’re the best? Good. Get to work.

    A little True Humility (look it up.. and see if you disagree..) wouldn’t hurt to make you even better. And keep your relationships even better. Valuing others, while you prop your ego up, up and up. It’s not antithetical to your purpose and mission. And you can try to prove the opposite. You can test beliefs even if you don’t believe they are true. Act as if they were true and see what happens. Esp. if what you are doing now isn’t actually working.

  55. wahoo Mcdaniels said:

    #######################

    Don’t buy it man “there is no one”

    Says only the cynic. Suicide is the cynic’s only sacrament.

    Keep pushing that rock uphill. Rollo’s collapsing empire requires it.

  56. Roused
    Tit for tat.

    Looks like you’ve regressed to the Average Frustrated Chump stage. Too bad. Try reading Rollo’s books. Might help you get back up to speed.

  57. “Looks like you’ve regressed to the Average Frustrated Chump stage”

    Lol

    The go to coin in the realm.

    YGBFSM.

    Not hardly.

    What about you AR?

    You’ve never told of your situation.

    Where are you are and what are your bona fides?

    Besides talk?

  58. Leggo

    Wahoo says: Don’t buy it man “there is no one”

    Says only the cynic. Suicide is the cynic’s only sacrament.

    Bitterly trolling is not very manly, is it?

    “There is no one” because humans are not ideal entities, incapable of perfection. There is no perfect girl or man, therefore no perfect match, therefore no “one”. Many religions understand this, too bad you don’t.

    What is your purpose here now? Can you explain it in a few sentences ?

  59. Looks like you’ve regressed to the Average Frustrated Chump stage. Too bad. Try reading Rollo’s books. Might help you get back up to speed.

    😂😂😂😂😂😂

    Come on man, you can do better than that.

  60. @Roused @SJF @ Eh leggo, I admire your male loyalty. Represent dudes!

    Oh ya this is rollos blog,” There is no one there are some good ones and some bad ones but there is no one”

  61. kfg
    The Raspberry Pi 4 is just a transitional hint of things to come.

    ARM cored processors keep creeping up the food chain. I’m certain that every phone handset and every new tablet is based on them. Yeah, ok, “Snapdragon” but what’s inside? Apple wants to have their own CPU fabbed for tablets but it’s just their own glue wrapped around the ARM core, although not necessarily Cortex.

    There have been a few attempts at massively parallel ARM based supercomputers but…not quite there yet. There are Intel cores that really do have two program counters, so true multi processing can happen (assuming no cache contention and no bus contention and…and..) but ARM isn’t quite there. Yet.

    The latest Intel shrink ran into troubles, and quantum effects really are lurking out there, so Moore’s law is looking shaky. There is a physical end state somewhere for systems, absent something gnarly like “working desktup quantum” or whatever.

    Wait, you don’t wanna be a miner? Seems like an ideal backup task, along with SETI.

  62. That’s pretty funny AR. A good laugh.

    Not as big as someone thinking there is a “One”, but pretty big.

  63. “The fundamental presupposition exists as descriptions of metaphorical substrate|” — “Jordan” “Peterson”

  64. Yoohoo McDaniels

    You have no fucking idea how little AFC is going on here. Some of us are not that struggling.

    Lots that come here are.

    Some of us don’t have shrew/harridan wives and girlfriends.

    Protect ideas all you want.

    Seek truth in the eye of the beholder.

    Preach narratives all you want.

    Be pejorative all you want. AFC, Blue Pill, Purple Pill…

    The proof is in the pudding.

    It’s not about the awareness. It’s about the proof of the tactics.

    Did you ever wonder why PUA is flaming out? And why Rollo has so many enemies? (Of which I am not one…)

    It’s because it is too artificial. Wanting all Order and Precision.

    Rather that go with the flow of Adventure and Mystery. (No, not Von Markovick, but he’s good too..)

    You notice, that in a good way Sentient and Blaximus embrace the adventure and the mystery of life. Free form. But then try to codify it into Order. Thus destroying it for the un-intitiated.

    So they are left at grasping at straws. And needing instruction. Over and over.

    Rollo can’t possibly come on his own blog to comment or dialog, or respond to criticism once in a while. Calls for neglect of his blog comments….You’d think he would moderate the commments, once or twice. The excuse is he is tire-lessly writing a book on Red Pill religion. Trying to connect dots. Red Pill and Religion? Like fighting dragons. No wonder it’s taking so long. Watch what you wish for. That is a hard fucking subject. But you don’t need me to say that.

    And he lives at home with his beautify wife and with his child becoming an adult at college. +1000.

    I’m grandiose too.

    And stirs the hornets nest of how dealing with women sucks. Based on demographics. There is a big field of discontent out there. To pander to.

    Life is actually quite beautiful with LTR’s and children.

    Not like a misanthropic wasteland. With no getting married and having children for the win/loss.

  65. kfg
    A sprocket makes the shaft churn.

    Yah, then the sprocket gets wet. Next…something’s always wrong…and then…

  66. Wahoo McDaniels
    1331811.26332 years to vet every woman on earth for one minute12 hrs a day.

    Nah. Just use intuition. Just “know” which is ye olde The One soulmate.
    Same thing women do with their astrology, really.

    That’s how truly special men can know it’s real, y’see. Like astrology.

  67. Did you ever wonder why PUA is flaming out? And why Rollo has so many enemies? (Of which I am not one…)

    It’s because it is too artificial. Wanting all Order and Precision.

    Nah… It’s because kids today want an ‘easy button”. They don’t want to do The Work(tm) so they buy into the Lookism narratives or try the latest Magik Inkantation and when that doesn’t work they go Black Pill and MGTOW…

    Rollo has so many enemies? Really? It’s like maybe 10 dudes who are regressing before his very eyes…

    Ivant Throne, that psycopath Ninja Body builder… lol Gone. AJ “I have a gay look about me”… gone… George “Sucking Cock Does NOT Make You Gay” Bruno… as irrelevant as ever. Bitch Muscles… lol 9.4K “followers” for Teh Prezident…

    Rollo’s counts are over 54K.

    Roosh? do I even need to point out what he’s up to? lol

    The truth always shows out in the end. Fags can fag along in the meantime. But the day of reckoning is nigh.

  68. @Sentient

    I agree with all the 21 Con Anti-Rollo guys being fags. And retards at that. I’m not talking about that.

    If I could lay it out on the line. And if I could stipulate something up front: It’s not for the faint of heart. And keep in mind it’s in a demographic. Kids, don’t try this at home…

    But some of us would have our son’s and daughter’s get married and not think that they would fail.

    My daughter got married last year. (So did Sentient’s.) It is retarded to think my son shouldn’t because it might fail.

    And those of us that are married and have children won’t let our selves devolve into anything less than regular desirable sex.

    But not rely on ham handed MRP tactics (unless so desired on the part of the man and having it work out fucking great!!!)

    Why not just get married and have kids like Rollo or Sentient or Blaximus, or SJF, or EhIntellect and live life fine.

    Or not have the ham-fisted dread of BluePillProfessor.

    Or not have to have ham-handed Dread of the ghost of Roused Christmas past? Who flipped a switch because he didn’t need it. Oh, and because he has, wit, natural charm, fit-attractiveness and a preternatural ability to figure shit out?

    Without pouring out Dread.

    Keep in mind, this is not a criticism of Rollo, except that his com padres would advise sons to never get married, there is no possible benefit. Nor has Rollo spoken of MRP game in forever.
    And leaves it to Sentient and Blax, which is beyond the normal curve, in the tails…

    I’m not complaining. I’m campaigning.

    And let’s get Rodney King in here ” cant’ we all just get all along?”.

    I don’t think so.

  69. This case was a topic at Dalrock’s last fall. It looks like sanity has prevailed in the latest court case.

    https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/news/texas-mother-of-7-year-old-boy-with-gender-dysphoria-loses-second-court-case

    Looking around the web I see that this was an in-vitro fertilization. That’s a lot of time and expense to get a child or two, only to turn around and frivorce. I wonder if she filed when the boys were…4 or 5? I also wonder what part of the Cluster B world she resides in.

  70. “Nah… It’s because kids today want an ‘easy button”. They don’t want to do The Work(tm) so they buy into the Lookism narratives or try the latest Magik Inkantation and when that doesn’t work they go Black Pill and MGTOW…”

    But there IS an easy button. Abracadabra motherfucker!

  71. Roused ,you are comparing apples (getting married to a soul mate the oneitis) to oranges (telling a girl anything just to get a SNL or ONS) . Don’t buy it man “there is no one”.

    Dude, I was riffing on the whiny bitch commentary about those durn whooers. FFS. I could give a fuck about the same tired rants regarding soul mates and the one. That shit has been beaten down and kicked. It’s the whiny bitch attitude from guys that is more tiresome to read than about the evil bitch women out there who are plotting to steal your fortunes. I’ve been there and done that, it serves no purpose and is wasted energy.

    AR comments that I’m regressing. Thanks for the laugh dude, you know it right? You’ve got a keen insight to everything in my life, right? You dumbass, just shut the fuck up about me until you actually know what you’re talking about.

    What’s up with this sycophant worshipping and holier than thou knee jerk reaction about Rollo? If Rollo doesn’t like something I have to say then he can say for himself. Don’t be his little bitch. The idea behind this website, or so I thought years ago when I first arrived, was that it was a place of discussion, debate and support. Not a dogma driven worship of any one person or concepts. Guys riff on fellow commenters all the time. For a while I thought Blax and ASD were going to rip each other’s virtual heads off. But lo and behold, someone challenges the author and site owner? Hell, I’m NOT even challenging the site owner/author, I’m challenging the idea that it’s forbidden to debate or discuss some of these ideas that are being tossed about like axioms proven by years of scientific research.

    The “social” sciences and psych are messy, just like humans. There are no perfect humans just as there is no “one.” It’s self-defeating and cynical as hell that the negative aspects are regurgitated over and over in the meat grinder. Is life really that bad? Fear, uncertainty and doubt is rampant here. The world is not a scary place, it’s actually pretty awesome.

  72. SJF

    You OK? You seem to be beating this “get married” and “Anti-Dread” drum quite a lot recently. I’m not sure why…

    The evidence is quite clear:

    -Don’t get married unless you have Hand, and can keep it.

    -Dread works. She hates it, but loves hating it and hates loving it.

    I have yet to see the RP field report “my wife left me because so many other women want me”…

    “Yollo”

    Is this the old Yollo or some impoaster?

    You’re right though, they’re “doin it wrong.”

    There not even “doing it”, therein lies the problem.

  73. @Sentient

    Yes, I’m OK. Very well in fact.

    “-Don’t get married unless you have Hand, and can keep it.”

    I don’t disagree. That’s a good way to state it. And I can’t imagine why some one guy wouldn’t want to have Hand and keep it.

    I’m an advocate for marriage. And kids.

    So sue me.

    “-Dread works. She hates it, but loves hating it and hates loving it.”

    Also I’m an advocate of having good solid healthy Hand. Not ham-handed Rambo.

    Non forced Dread. I’ve seen myself and others take it on and have it behave like dynamite.

    Pareto Principle the bottom 80% are prone to fuck it up.

    At the risk of Love and other things.

    Heh, I mentioned Love in a red pill forum. How the hell did that happen?

    And I’m open to debate.

  74. Lol.

    I’m starting to just ignore all that ” life is beautiful / wife and kids/ money and land ” bullshit.

    It sounds blue, all the ” value ” talk and ” happy marriage ” stuff.

    There are certain components needed in life for a man. There’s at minimum a baseline. My wife is 52 and were on year 23. Where I am now isn’t 100% pertinent to young men trying to figure life and women out. How I got here is. Life isn’t beautiful and wonderful for everybody, and it takes blinders to actually believe that to be so.

    I mean, you can float through life at more advanced age thinking that everything is no big deal, but that message is sorely lacking and mostly disingenuous if you’re trying to speak to those who aren’t where you are.

    It’s a big world. Lots of moving pieces.

    Understand that all your comfort can be stripped away and shattered. That’s when the real work begins if you haven’t deluded yourself and are up to the task.

    OR…

    You could get lucky and die in ignorance. Happens every day.

  75. Lol back at you Blax.

    I never said a man’s life is easy peasy. Mine certainly wasn’t.

    Life is difficult. Very difficult. And that is a great truth, and once one truly sees it as such, then he can transcend it. Once that fact is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters.

    Which is different than being beautiful at times.

    Too much talk about playing not to lose. Instead of creating.

    Marriage and raising children is nothing but hard. But has lots of value.

    All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. Happy families share a common set of attributes which lead to happiness, while any of a variety of attributes can cause an unhappy family.

    And the last thing I would ever advocate for is ignorance or delusion.

  76. @Blax

    That’s exactly the problem. Some people only find happiness and nobility in the suffering of other people. The secret is right there.

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