I Have a Secret

One of my Monday morning rituals is to check out Postsecret and peruse the week’s selection of postcard confessionals. A former co-worker turned me on to the voyeurism of this blog almost 6 years ago now. When I was first introduced to the blog and read each of these confessions (they’re not really secrets if you think about it) what struck me was the consistency and repetitions of certain themes. Granted, Postsecret selects for what’s going on seasonally so you’ll get family confessions around the holidays, sex confessions around Valentine’s Day, and the ubiquitous “my father was a no good sonofabitch” secrets around Father’s Day.

However, it’s during the off weeks, when there is no impending holiday or no important world events (like a mass shooting of innocent children) that the themes and regularity of confession really solidify when you pay attention. I’ve used a select few of these secrets as header pictures for a handful of my posts, but my secret is that I’ve made a habit of keeping tabs on a specific themes of postsecrets this year. So, from the selections I’ve collected below, see if you can figure out my secret themes,..

icheat

itgetsbetter

2ofthem

onback.somysonandfuturebabysharethesameDNA

SIze Matters

happynow

free

lakers

 

untilyoudid

PS3

PS2

PS1

Alpha-Widow1

secret

video

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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aneroidocean
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They’re all from women, save for the one random one from a guy.

ar10308
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Now that you bring up Postsecret, I think this was my very first dose of the Red Pill when I read it frequently years ago. I couldn’t believe some of the things that women wrote and the consistency with they appear.

taterearl
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I got the theme.

Women…such beacons of morality.

NiceGuyGoneCad (@NiceGuyGoneCad)
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Stuff like this explains why in almost every civilization women’s freedoms have been greatly restricted; they simply lack a moral compass, and their actions are dictated only by their immediate interests and emotional state, their solipsism making them unable to see any further. They hardly can be considered responsible for it though…and therefore, few freedoms can be granted to them. Patriarchy or chaos, make your choice.

Team-Red
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Team-Red

“I stopped taking these a week ago…”

Bitch.

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

Women will always do what they believe will benefit them, no matter what the cost to the men in their lifes. All the postcards have in common are what men are in relation to women in terms of being success/relationship objects. Bascially these postcards are hypergamy personified. Notable ones: * Sleep with an alleged raptist because of status * No interested until she heard he had a big dick * Using beta men for marriage/children/wedding while still pining for alpha It just hammers the point home that men are simply accessory objects to a woman’s life and she will never… Read more »

DJDamage
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DJDamage

With a hypergamous nature and a a spinning rationalization hamster, a woman’s goal in a relationship is purely self interest and selfish where morality often takes a back seat if it doesn’t fill her need.

michaeltx
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michaeltx

Interesting

NeotheLeo
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NeotheLeo

I dont get how the iphone is helping the wife cheat in the first one though..
(Maybe I am stupid because I even have a iphone and still dont get it)

Kepaso
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Kepaso

i don’t like reddit because it’s a nest of nerds, but from times to times i check http://www.reddit.com/r/confession to see the darker side of humans and the posts of hypergamy and hamsterism…

Rollo Tomassi
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I have no doubt that the likes of Aunt Giggles will say I’m just looking for something I want to find, or that the selection process of ‘secrets’ to publish is controlled, but the consistency of themes amongst women is to the point of being predictable.

Most secrets of men aren’t lamenting some bad decision they made, but rather missing out on what they thought could’ve been something more. As for women, the only thing I can come up with is this post:

https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/06/20/women-regret/

Danger
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Danger

Try going to textsfromlastnight.com.

That should be the number one source for unplugging blue pillers. It’s amazing the constant $hit you see women posting on there regarding their latest situation.

NeotheLeo
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NeotheLeo

Can anyone please explain how the iphone makes it easier to cheat? Please…

deti
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deti

Combine the answers from Furious and from DJDamage, and the answer is clear.

The postsecret cards are proof of the feminine imperative, plain and simple. Whatever serves the woman’s interests is the course of action to take; and the man (men) in her life are accessories and utilities.

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

Deti nailed it. That’s the short, simple and sweet answer.

koevoet
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koevoet

Rollo, perhaps you were just looking for something you wanted to find. But you found a whole lot of it!

After reading those, I think I’m going to need to smoke.

DJDamage
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DJDamage

To the users who asked about the Apple comment: Its easier to cheat with a smartphone because of the internet (facebook App) access, you don’t even need to worry about having someone’s number, recieving calls/texts out of the blue (especially when the significant other’s is there or if her man manages to grab and peek into her smartphone while she is away from it) and thus the worry about leaving a trail decreases. In the past a cuckhold husband could at least look into her phone bills for incoming/outgoing calls, check his wife texts on the phone or become suspecious… Read more »

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Women that have IPhones lose the ability to love by Roosh

http://www.rooshv.com/women-who-own-iphones-lose-the-ability-to-love

Leap of a Beta
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I always find Post Secret hilarious these days, but that wasn’t always the case. The last girlfriend I had and I would always sit down together every sunday and read it. Now that I’m red pill aware, I realize she was living vicariously through those secrets, where as I was disgusted by the actions of many of them. Now they’re just a good indication of the decline and how people really act – and a reminder that the people submitting these secrets are not a minority, not special, nor bad. Just normal people. They’re the girl you’re going to approach… Read more »

Lucky White Male
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Lucky White Male

” Women will always do what they believe will benefit them, no matter what the cost to the men in their lifes. ** All the postcards have in common are what men are in relation to women in terms of being success/relationship objects. Bascially these postcards are hypergamy personified. Notable ones: * Sleep with an alleged raptist because of status * No interested until she heard he had a big dick * Using beta men for marriage/children/wedding while still pining for alpha ” Interesting: This is why I have a problem with the PUA claim that “Personal Charismatic Value” trumps… Read more »

3rd Millenium Men
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LoL very entertaining!!!

Underdog
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Underdog

This post filled me up with so much rage.

Solo
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More proof that the future of game is money, status and big penis oriented nothing else matters besides those and an alpha mindset….

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

@Lucky White Male “You don’t get to the top by being a “cream puff”. You’ve get the Power Money Status because you already have a good dose of “Skittles Man”: Dark Triad.” Women are hardwired to the personality traits that traditionally achieve resources and power. Over the ages, the aggressive men that didn’t give two fucks about women wanted were the same guys commanding other dudes and having the cash. Also, the teaching of basically being an arrogant asshole is a traditonally symbol of power itself, since back in the olden times only big chief could get away with it… Read more »

Ronin
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Ronin

Check out Esther Vilar’s classic, The Manipulated Man. Written four decades ago but ever so relevant.

Lucky White Male
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Lucky White Male

Furious, Women don’t just want to fuck the personality traits necessary to get resources. Women want to fuck men who also ACTUALLY HAVE the resources. Imitating personality traits is not enough. In many cases, you can’t: because if you actually have the personality traits you have the resources. The whole thing about “Alpha Proxies” has been overblown. The Rawness has made too much of how supposedly powerful they are. He uses “Ronnie” from “Jersey Shore” as an example of how you can’t really be an Alpha today, because you have to deal with an Alpha Proxy like the police who… Read more »

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

Look man, hot girls fuck the guy that turns them on. Money isn’t shit when she has money enough money herself to live a very comfortable lifestyle. What appeals to women is the primal traits that turn them on with social domiance being the numero uno. In the past social domaniance meant that you had the money and resources. You had the thugs backing your ass that made it possible to act like a dickhead. Thus being a dickhead is attractive in it shows you have true power. Power leads to resources, Game mimics power, Game = attractive. Take DC… Read more »

M3
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I’m bookmarking this fucking post. Next time some vapid whore asks me why I don’t man up grow some balls and stop being so damn selfish for not trying a second round at marriage 2.0 I’m going to shove this phone with this page so far up her ass shell be able to see it from inside her skull.

Fucking furious this post makes me.

And Deti nailed it again as usual!

michaeltx
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michaeltx

@Ronin, Esther Vilar’s book is what got me here. I was researching BPD because I could never get to the bottom of why my “childhood soul-mate”, a woman I’d been attached to since I was 13 y/o was so…crazy. Anyhow, Esther Vilar is a saint in my book. I wasn’t surprised to learn she was a medical doctor before writing her book series. Did you know her books are still banned in the USA? No library will host it and any publisher that is part of the power structure will not bring it here…and I thought we lived in a… Read more »

jlw
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jlw

You mean a small penis is a bad thing? B-b-b-but the manosphere has poo-poohed this idea from the beginning, along with the fact that height and ugliness don’t matter and can be overcome with game no matter what.

michaeltx
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michaeltx
Bwana Simba
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And Adam gave up paradise for this? Thanks Adam. Hope the fruit and Eve were worth it.

OlioOx
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OlioOx

Download Esther Vilar’s “The Manipulated Man” here:

http://www.2shared.com/document/FNyulwEI/Esther_Vilar_-_The_Manipulated.html

Jimmy
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Jimmy

I can see why you make this a weekly thing to do. It is easy to loose sight of the true underlying nature of women. I constant jolt is a good thing.

Dave
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Dave

With the iPhone you can send text messages using the Apple iMessage, which goes through Apple servers not the cell company servers. On any other phone you send using the old style text messages, which is bad for cheaters. I remember my old cell phone bills listing the number of texts sent and received for the month, plus a listing of when ALL were sent, received, and which number they went to.

All that is gone with the iPhone. No paper trail for cheaters.

Otho the Great
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Otho the Great

I’ve known many girls that own or have owned Postsecret books in print it’s demoralizing. It’s like their bible, grimoire, or revelatory code. I remember a 14 year old girl I “dated” when I was that age read it with excitement. Like: so this is how I can be!? Yippee.

Same goes for women 20 years older. Postsecret as coffee table entertainment.

taterearl
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Reading stuff like this makes me think of Matthew 24:12.

“Because lawlessness is increased, most people’s love will grow cold.”

Society unleashing and supporting women’s innate evils without the boundaries that used to protect them is going to make it hard for any man to love them. While the red pill reveals just what you are dealing with when it comes to women…it makes it very hard to even have the incentive to protect, provide, and lead them.

We have to be in the end times.

Lucky White Male
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Lucky White Male

Furious, You are a good commenter – but even DC women have a ceiling on how much of their own “money, power, status” they can get. Women are not made to excel in the workplace, and indeed they don’t. Even the “richest” single broad wants to fucking STOP WORKING if she could land a high status sugar daddy with a big cock – who most certainly has the same dark triad traits as a Skittles Man who has every David D. video. Even Gloria Steinem – the poster girl for “Female Independence” married a multi-millionaire. Surely – when you extrapolate… Read more »

Johnycomelately
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Johnycomelately

“Understand: You cannot be a broke “Skittles Man” and bang as many hot quality chicks as can the same Dark Triad man who also has Money Power Status.”

I call bullshit on this, the guys I personally know getting the most pussy are low life scum and they are banging everything from hair dressers to execs.

The monied guys I know are either working to many hours to even get bangs or are too aspy to apply game.

Martel
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“Surely – when you extrapolate outside the bubble of DC – women everywhere will drop pants for Money Power Status. In no way have any ‘Alpha Proxies’ eliminated the craving for Money Power Status in actual men.” Those cravings aren’t eliminated, far from it, and nobody seems to be making that argument. Actual money, power or status, big muscles, a great skill at something, or a big cock all inspire the tingle to a greater or lesser extent. However, through game, guys have learned how to inspire the tingle that money inspires without actually having to have money or any… Read more »

Ace Haley
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@Lucky White Male: There are only a few MPS guys anyway (just as always) so what would you have to say about that? It’s obvious women want money just like men want good-looking women. Women would be with a guy who made “average” money but wish he made more money. If we’d apply something similar to men, it can also be said a man wishes the “average”-looking woman he has could have the hourglass-figured body that 99.9999% of men are attracted to. It’s totally understandable for a woman to wish her man made more money but quite frankly, who doesn’t… Read more »

Ace Haley
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@Lucky White Male: “The PUA community is perpetuating a lie because 95% of guys in America do not have Money Power Status and do not have the IQ or potential to get it.”

Which lie? The belief that a man can get women if he’s broke? Plenty of broke men out there get women. Typically, they’re the “thug”-types. Either that or they’re “chubby-chasers.”

“So PUA’s can’t sell product if they say that.”

What product are you referring to? Isn’t their product online for free? I’ve never heard of people having to pay to read about PUA.

Ace Haley
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@tatereral: It’s probably gonna be the start of a new era but at the same time, maybe not. With more brainwashed men coming through every year, it’s hard to envision a future where the majority of men stop protecting and providing for women even with how family courts are. I get that it’s in their nature but I don’t get how many times men have to stick their heads in a furnace head first to realize that they’re gonna come out with burns. It reminds me of this: “Two monks are washing their rice bowls at the river bank when… Read more »

Retrenched
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Retrenched

This post should be required reading for 14 year old boys, to give them some idea of what they’re going to be dealing with for the next 60+ years or so.

John Galt
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John Galt

Michael – that alimony represents more than 50% of his GROSS income! After taxes, he will be lucky to clear 30% net (after deducting the alimony expense on his return). Oh, and she took the house. Reason #1,438 to not ever marry.

http://www.denverpost.com/ci_22208636/alleged-newtown-killers-mom-got-more-than-250

Martel
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@Galt: On the bright side, his alimony payments will be going down.

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

@Lucky White Male I guess in my city, everybody I know has decent money plus a respectable job and I see these guys do so poorly with women when they are decent to good in most every other category. The across the broad defiect is that they all have no game and most anti-game. I also agree with your statement ‘high value women do not sleep with low value men no matter the time of day.’, however what I think is that competition is so rough that Game is an absolute requirement or at least don’t anti-game. Money and status… Read more »

Good Luck Chuck
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Good Luck Chuck

Anyone who says wealth/status/power aren’t important never had any.

If you ever get to experience it for yourself you will understand.

nek
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nek

I think LuckyWhiteMale has the right idea about the “aloof” guy and the power/status guy being the same guy. Someone on another blog was explaining it like this: There’s a chicken and the egg thing going on with regard to game. Guys weren’t “aloof” and then women became attracted to them. Women were attracted to them and that’s why they’re aloof, due to options. Assholish behavior is the default behavior of men. This changes in life only as we begin to organize ourselves, whether conciously or not, into a hierarchy. Guys at the top can continue this behaviour because they’re… Read more »

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

@nek That is such bullshit. Women respond to aloof because of: 1) You are not responding to her beauty which signifies that you are a man with options because so many desperate losers get flustered and try to win her over with beta game. It’s pre-selection 101. You are displaying you don’t need her because you have your sexual needs taken care of. 2) “Assholish behavior is the default behavior of men” – with other GUYS unless they weak and subservient or brought up to be a ‘nice guy’. With women that are attractive most guys I know revert to… Read more »

greenlander
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greenlander

Its easier to cheat with a smartphone because of the internet (facebook App) access, you don’t even need to worry about having someone’s number, recieving calls/texts out of the blue (especially when the significant other’s is there or if her man manages to grab and peek into her smartphone while she is away from it) and thus the worry about leaving a trail decreases. In the past a cuckhold husband could at least look into her phone bills for incoming/outgoing calls, check his wife texts on the phone or become suspecious when she recieves unsual calls late at night but… Read more »

Dillon
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Dillon

@ Lucky White Male and FuriousFerret There is no rule as to what women want because they are all different. Any rule you come up with only limits you. Women want the perceived next step from where they are. Because perceptions are different for each, the next step is different for each. A rich/or poor woman who feels poor will seek richer man. A rich/or poor woman who feels rich will not be seeking richer man. Most women can tell if you are a natural or faking it. Just like most men can tell what a woman actually looks like… Read more »

Dillon
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Dillon

@ greenlander

Good for you. You did come out ahead, you just don’t realize it. Imagine if you had caught an std, made her pregnant or fell in love.

I always have a keylogger running when I think a girl might want to use my computer for email/facebook so I don’t get any surprises.

Plus passwords are great for future entertainment.

(good to know my ex is actively looking to upgrade her current bf)

YB
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YB

I love PostSecret. My fave was the woman who felt guilty for making her husband break up with his mistresses.

Plural. *amused*

Days of Broken Arrows
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Days of Broken Arrows

I want to go on record as saying what Lucky White Male said is not necessarily true. From experience, I’ve learned that women will definitely pay attention when you have a position of power and money. They just won’t necessarily sleep with you. Anyone can take a woman on an expensive vacation or buy her things. Closing the deal is a different matter. Money and power these days signify something different than they once did — my guess is that they now set off the “competitive” trigger in workplace-oriented women instead of the romantic trigger. Maybe Roll can expand on… Read more »

YaReally
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YaReally

lol PUAs had our own “Post Secret” in the form of sharing Field Reports with eachother. Most of us, especially when we started out, would do a debrief with the girl after banging and ask her stuff like “When did you first decide you wanted to fuck me?” and ask about their previous sexual partners etc. and we’d post that stuff in our Field Reports. So when you have a thousand FRs where the girls are all like “I knew when you did (consistent action through all the FRs)” you can go “okay, so that’s something women respond to.” We… Read more »

YaReally
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YaReally

@Martel “We used to assume that having something going for you was what turned women on, but not necessarily. We’ve since discovered that you can be that badass without having to actually be good at much of anything else.” lol this. I’ve said it since I started posting on the Manosphere, it’s not the money itself that turns women on or half the computer nerds I know who stockpile their savings because they have no social life would be getting laid like crazy, and women would be visiting the bank just to rub their cooters on piles of money. “if… Read more »

Bugboy
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Bugboy

To everyone who’s incensed here: For goodness sakes, WHY? Women have gotten pissed at us for years for being so “shallow” as to never look past a woman’s looks. This is their version of the same thing. So fuck it, get your sex, and whatever else you get is gravy. If you really can’t get love anymore…well, that is a shame, but that’s that. Will this mean the end of civilization, as Roissy so often likes to posit? Well, this and other things, yes, probably, but we’re not going to solve that, and another civilization, of sorts at least, will… Read more »

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Marellus
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@YaReally.

Can you recommend any good PUA sites ?

Adam
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Adam

“To everyone who’s incensed here:
For goodness sakes, WHY?”

Because men’s lives are ruined and our social system facilitates it.

Men liking women for looks is nowhere near damaging as women lying to/cuckolding/raping perfectly good men for their resources.

Adam
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Adam

@LuckyWhiteMale

One of the most common cuckolding motifs is of the bored trophy wive fucking the pool boy while her rich/powerful husband is at work.

Alpha fucks beta bucks.

JS
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JS

“Women will always do what they believe will benefit them, no matter what the cost to the men in their lifes.” Currently, yes. But not historically. It is feminism with its you go girl! being drilled into their head that is so socially destructive. The next phase of game has got to be how to restructure society to make it function again. Personally, I think we’ll end up back with something like the 19th or 18th century morals. Morals are ways people prevent social problems: the human wreckage that is the result of hypergamy is a huge problem that needs… Read more »

twan
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twan

Rollo. i unplugged 4 or 5 months ago. i’ve read each post since. this is the first time a post has ruined my day.

Thasswhatimtalkinbout
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Thasswhatimtalkinbout

Love Postsecret. Check it every Sunday night when it updates.

I don’t get why so many guys here are upset by what the girls reveal. But then I never put girls on a pedestal. I always knew they’re as capable of scummy behavior as any male.

To me, Postsecret is full of regret, fear, cowardice. Women who can’t/won’t screw up their courage to go after what they want. So many wasted lives full of lies. Which makes them tragic.

tacomaster
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tacomaster

I work in a female dominated field, nursing, and hear a lot of similar stories like the postcards on PostSecret.com. I’ve never heard any of my colleagues admit to cheating on their husbands but one in particular complains about how bad their sex life is on a nearly weekly basis (they’re newly married of just a few years in their 20s). I just listen because I’m sure any comments on my part would be misconstrued as sexual harassment. One of my close friends admitted to me that she hates being married with two kids. After some questioning, she has admitted… Read more »

me
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me

http://postsecretarchive.com/2012/08/i-have-one-night-stands-because-it-makes-me-feel-loved/ Comment:Tom McG # 08.30.2012 13:35 You are NOT a “whore.” You want to be loved. “Whores” are angry. Try to open yourself up to those around you; your friends. Let THEM love you. If you let them love you then you will learn to love yourself and learn how to accept the love you are SO VERY deserving of. There may be someone who loves you right now but you can’t see it because you think you aren’t worthy. You ARE!!! Look how courageous you are to admit to us, and more important, to yourself that you are “one… Read more »

twan
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twan

a girl i used to bang in college tells me constantly that if i still lived in america that she would already have cheated on her husband with me. awesome and depressing at the same time, because as she puts it “he’s a good husband and father”.

Rollo Tomassi
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I think one of the more uncomfortable revelations of the digital age has been the confirmation of what most betas suspect is true about women, but have been too conditioned to allow themselves to believe it. I was going to say Postsecret is mild in its revelatory influence next to say the proliferation of millions of voluntary self-shooter girls and the gallery sites, but I changed my mind. When you look at a post-pubescent girl flashing her tits or more in the bathroom mirror a beta can dismiss it by thinking it’s just a youthful indiscretion, but Postsecret is actual,… Read more »

Martel
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It feels like this post made the red pill sink in a little deeper or something. There’s nothing concrete that’s new here, but it feels more raw. Anyhow, part of what’s bugging me is how obvious some of this crap should have been, I’m not just talking about things like the frat experience in the first post on my blog. I’m a big fan of literature, and this stuff was known to the great writers of the past. But in the Matrix, we’ve discounted the genuine wisdom as simply outmoded custom. I bet almost every time “The Taming of the… Read more »

taterearl
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“It feels like this post made the red pill sink in a little deeper or something. There’s nothing concrete that’s new here, but it feels more raw.”

We are just seeing how far the rabbit hole goes. And it was also in front of my face too and I didn’t see it. Nothing like that gets by me anymore.

Rollo Tomassi
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“To see what is in front of one’s nose needs a constant struggle.”
– George Orwell

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Forever Unrustled
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Forever Unrustled

Post Secret is the convergence point for the two defining drivers of the female experience, narcissism and masochism.

All of the attention, none of the social shaming while retaining rationalized self-flagellation concerning hind brain decisions “for the betterment of our species”.

BPaul.
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BPaul.

@Martel RE:”It was right in front of my fucking nose and I missed it.” No doubt, as I have become atune to it through this blogs help, I have noticed my past GF’s were ones that chose me, meaning I really needed no Game. This is how I believed the Beta me was I was doing well with women. The reality though is that I had things women of lower status wanted, hypergamy at work. As I have found through my ONEitis, I have been trying to bend the spoon for the poon I wanted. Only now have I realized… Read more »

Titanium
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Titanium

That is messed up.

Days of Broken Arrows
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Days of Broken Arrows

I want to point out something semi-related. Actress Anne Hathaway was recently photographed without underwear. Matt Lauer made a snarky comment asking her about it while interviewing her. The interview was linked to the Fox News Facebook page and the consensus was that Lauer was “rude.” Think about that: Hathaway is a serial exhibitionist (there are countless pics of her many see-through tops) who has done nude scenes. Yet asking her about this was rude?! This was Fox News. That means we’re at a point in our society where EVEN THE RIGHT WING men and women of Fox are so… Read more »

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The One Reason
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The One Reason

Just reinforces Everything. Last Saturday night through red lenses, let’s see: A) Flirting with a willing girl who was texting her BF at the same time, wanting him to come and get her. Seemed strained in mutual texting, at one point she referred to him as her “ex” (“As in E and X?” I asked and she nodded), then she told me to come and dance. In the end, a “happy end” and he was coming to get her, we parted. The C-block girlfriend would have seen to it anyway, but still, slipping with one’s txt game can be dangerous… Read more »

Johnycomelately
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Johnycomelately

If I didnt believe in the feminine imperative before, the latest Aunt Giggles post (with another banned reply) put it to rest.

Apparently a man is the scum of the earth for simply noticing his girlfriend’s hot sister, parsed with this post about real female behaviour and it goes to show women expect absolute moral behaviour from men while they get a free pass.

L.V.X.
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BPaul your comment resonated with me.

The Other Jim
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The Other Jim

This stuff is priceless and not just the postsecrets but the comments as well; “I’ve slept with seven guys. None of them has cared about me…. Vanessa # 12.15.2012 22:516 I have 27 under my belt. I believe 26 never cared about me. Including the one I lost it to at 14. I am 21 years old and finally found a man who cares about me more than I ever thought possible. Don’t give up hope.. Theres one who will care.” I seriously doubt the beta in question, lucky guy #27 actually knows about the other 26. Sadly, none of… Read more »

Kate
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Kate

@Martel: Roxana, Sister Carrie, McTeague, Gone with the Wind, Lady Chatterly’s Lover, etc.

L.V.X.
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Check this out: http://yayayagetarty.blogspot.com/2012/07/who-is-labanna-babalon.html

This is what I talk about what I use the word “Babalon” for the Scarlet Whore.

These are the women in this generation. Doubtless in 15 years she’ll be married and have kids.

Retrenched
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Retrenched

“Doubtless in 15 years she’ll be married and have kids.”

Nah, by then she’ll already be divorced and receiving alimony and child support.

Days of Broken Arrows
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Days of Broken Arrows

Thanks for the above link to that feminist blog. Needless to say, you can’t leave a comment. Feminist blogs are closed doors or echo chambers.

However, the comment I would have left would have been: when women aren’t conventionally attractive, they come up with gimmicks to market themselves in an alternative way. This is one.

Good Luck Chuck
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Good Luck Chuck

Having a friend who bangs supermodels in his mom’s basement doesn’t prove your point. Neither does the six figure banker who hasn’t had sex in three years.

Game and wealth/status/power are not mutually exclusive. Game is nothing more than imitating the behaviors of high value men. If you can successfully learn game, you can get laid. If you manage to BECOME the high value man, you can have a pussy fountain at your disposal.

If you ever have the opportunity to walk in those shoes, you will understand.

YaReally
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YaReally

“If you manage to BECOME the high value man, you can have a pussy fountain at your disposal.” No shit, no one disagrees with that. Let us know when your next rock concert with 100,000 fans cheering for you is. Or when you start your own porn magazine and have a mansion with naked chicks frolicking together in a grotto. Or when the next James Cameron movie you’re starring in comes out. While I wait for you to achieve that (ideally before you’re 30 so you can enjoy it, hope you don’t get hit by a bus the day after… Read more »

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

@Chuch Just no. You have to think in terms of subconscious behavior. You are too damn analytical. If you are dweeb that has somehow fallen into wealth/status/power, once the woman sees the true you and decides to date/marry you, you are simply a ‘beta bucks’ man. The primal attitude and the physical looks is what gets a woman to WANT you. Want you, not the resources, you. This is because for most of human history being a man of ‘champion/alpha mentality’ and the good health physical ques signified that this man was going to be the leader of the tribe… Read more »

Martel
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Ferrett & YaReally: I genuinely respect both of you (YaReally, your analysis of that guy’s texting situation a while back at Heartiste was beyond genuis). However, Chuck is a LOST CAUSE. I don’t think either of you could have made your points more clearly or logically. Everybody reading this with a brain cell and a half is in agreement with you. Chuck’s responses are inane and repetitive. He insists that you’re saying that game completely and entirely supplants tangible forms of success, and you’re not. He thinks that financial success inherently means that somebody has game, and it doesn’t (although… Read more »

obviously oblivious
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obviously oblivious

I want YaReally’s opinion on dry spell’s. I seem to get down when I’m not having many, or (for me, mainly) exclusively one deluded thought of being with a chick – I truly have a hard time balancing multiple women, it’s draining to me. Circumstantial, I know. But it’s shitty after experiencing the majestic set’s and setting of truly gaming women. And I haven’t read much, maybe I should read some real PUA stuff? Involving lack of resources. Or entire changes of character. Don’t know what else to explain. Or, here’s two examples: two girls offered for me to stay… Read more »

Good Luck Chuck
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Good Luck Chuck

If you had ever been in a position to see it for yourself you would know that you don’t have to have 100,000 fans cheering for you and you don’t have to be Hugh Hefner to have a fountain of pussy. All you have to have is social status that stems from something that perpetuates itself (something that doesn’t require you to embellish your average life), and enough money to create a logistical advantage. The six figure schlubs you guys like to refer to have money but they don’t have status. Money can improve your status but unless you make… Read more »

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

@Good Luck Chuck The problem is that your status has to be above and beyond the norm. So in the DMV (DC-Maryland-Virginia), almost everybody I know has a good job and money. In Adams Morgan or U-Street, no girl gives a fuck about your great job and the six figure salary you make. The same girls that go to U-Street are the same women walking around NOVA or DC. Social status and pre-selection are king but the problem is how do you get that rarified air of having that status. As YaReally has pointed out you have to be a… Read more »

Rollo Tomassi
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This may come as a shock for most, but I know Chuck IRL and I can unequivocally say that he isn’t the troll you think he is. I understand his perspective, and trust me it’s nowhere near as absolute as people want to make it out to be. I’ve been at liquor promo events for my brands with Chuck in the past and when I’m in my professional element I can understand exactly where he’s coming from. Having social recognition for something that even marginally implies affluence is a form of DHV in that it subconsciously conotes status and preselection.… Read more »

Miserman
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What I see here is pretty common now that I’ve taken the red pill. Women abhor judgment and violence against themselves but celebrate judgment and violence directed toward someone that they judge should suffer violence. Women esteem the ability to have a child as equivalent to God having the ability to create an entire universe and view the pain of childbirth as equivalent to the sufferings of Christ. Women believe men are cheating on them if men so much as look at an image of a woman in a bikini and yet women want to be the woman in the… Read more »

YaReally
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YaReally

@Martel “However, Chuck is a LOST CAUSE.” I don’t actually expect to convince him specifically of anything. I post the argument up mainly for the lurkers reading this who read his shit and go “ahh yes, this one post confirms my wrong world-view so I’ll ignore all the other evidence that doesn’t confirm it and stick to playing the victim card!” @Good Luck Chuck “All you have to have is social status that stems from something that perpetuates itself (something that doesn’t require you to embellish your average life)” I think the disconnect is that you think we’re out there… Read more »

YaReally
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YaReally

P.S. Wording it as “And you will fall for it” (insert evil laughter with thunder and lightning) was just for dramatic effect lol The reality is most of the time it isn’t a “trick”, I’m legitimately interested in getting to know the people I talk to and the bond we form is an actual one and I really am into our conversation because I like people in general and I’m always interested in making more friends and networking and everything. Learning cold approach pickup taught me that it’s fun and interesting to meet new people in general (I was a… Read more »

Martel
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@YaReally: Are there any specific Mystery videos you recommend on learning how to work a crowd? I used to have that magic, but I didn’t know why I had it, so I lost it and want it back.

itsme
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@miserman

once you fully accept that women are illogical, emotional, contradictory creatures, it makes dealing with them so much easier.

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