Sex Debt

While the manosphere and the femosphere endlessly debate the personal merits or collective atrocities of ‘casual sex’, the so called hook-up culture (newsflash, people were hooking-up long before the last decade), and/or the sex-positive feminist definition of it, I’m starting to think that neither are really seeing the overall context within which both sides have agreed to debate – the context of the feminine primary, feminine imperative social norm.

The declared feminists, their uncommitted proxies and their sympathizers can all understandably be acquitted of this blame since they thrive in discussions that ignore the dominant feminine social context they help to create. You can hardly fault pigs in shit for their love of discussing the finer points of shit with non-pigs in the same shit. However, an integral part of a Man’s red pill maturation should include a broader understanding of the feminine primary social normative we live in today. And with that understanding it should also follow that, given time and red pill enlightened observation, a Man will begin to see the code in the Matrix and know that, win or lose, such arguments only serve the feminine imperative.

Soaking In the Matrix

I wish I could credit the quote, but I once read that “Feminism is the mistaken idea that a society can create gender equalism by focusing exclusively on the benefit of only one sex.”

As Mark Minter’s now sphere-famous comment illustrates, any debate Men have, without considering the social context of the feminine imperative, ultimately, only serves to reinforce the ends of that imperative. For example, if we engage in discussions about how best to personally or socially conduct our sexual lives (exploits or noble pursuits) and all we consider of this proposition is how best to ensure a feminine-optimal reality, it doesn’t account for a true male-primary perspective. For over 60 years, men have been so conditioned to believe that there is no context other than that which benefits the feminine that they internalize the correctness of the feminine imperative as their own.

This is the scope of the feminine Matrix; you’re literally born into it, and as Mark Minter discovered, usually only experience and/or trauma can jar a man into an awareness of this social condition. So as you can see, debating whether casual sex or ‘meaningful sex’ is more significant in the Matrix is akin to discussing which style of clothing best accentuated a particular woman. The feminine end is the same and men are never a consideration under such auspices.

Letting Go

Letting go of his prior contexts is often the most difficult thing for newly Game-aware Men to release. Letting go of the Fallacy of the ONE, letting go of an expectation of a mutually idealized love with women, letting go of prior concepts of how women are in most respects, are all very difficult transitions for men whose best understandings about women and how society operates have been conditioned for him from a feminine-primary origin.

A good example of becoming aware of this is illustrated in how men’s attitude towards sex has shifted from pleasing himself towards pleasing a woman. There is a silly, but ironic internet meme that states “Nice Guy’s finish last, because their women finish first.” implying of course that Nice Guy’s are more concerned with their women’s sexual pleasures than their own, and it’s just this ‘niceness’ that makes them better and preferred lovers. It’s only after she gets off that he’s allowed to indulge himself in a simple orgasm. Nothing epitomizes the feminine primary social normative than this base consideration. This is the root of feminisms ‘sex-positive’ referendum – she cums first.

Everyone’s Special

It hardly seems fathomable that there could’ve been a time when a woman’s sexual experience wasn’t considered the end-goal of the sex act. The carefully feminine designed Beta-Game idea being (as always) that the more a man identifies with the feminine the more attractive and acceptable he will be to a potential mate. Be sensitive to her needs, find out what she likes, do what she asks, cater yourself to her sexual pleasures and you’ll be the unique man who really understands women and therefore will be a high value man to all women.

“Do what she says and you’ll be a high value man”, became the common sense Beta wisdom. Essentially this was the bedroom doctrine of a larger social whole, only ‘do what she says’ wasn’t enough. Legions of men were all too eager to please their women first, so much so that the woman-pleasers became the norm – When everyone’s special, no one is. I should pause for a moment here, because not only does this axiom destroy the heart of most Beta chump’s concept of how their own Game should operate, but it also illustrates a larger point in that the ‘special’ guys of today are the ones who stand out by not ‘doing what she says’ and placing themselves, and the male imperative above her wants. In a world full of women-pleasers, women will sing “where have all the cowboys gone?”

However, as I stated, it wasn’t enough. As every man became special, the request of “please me” became the expectation of “please me”. The sensitivity to her needs transitioned from making him unique amongst men, to being his liability and a prerequisite of her fidelity to him – get her off or else she’ll find a ‘normal guy’ who can! The courtesy became the expectation which became the demand. This progression can be applied to every social dynamic within the feminine imperative’s purview.

Full Stop

There’s an interesting conflict that arises for men when presented with thinking about sex from a more selfish perspective. Most men begin their sexual maturation with this ‘her first’ mentality preprogrammed for them. I was fortunate enough to have a very sexually experimentative girlfriend (see; slut) when I first got laid at age 17. I learned a lot about women’s pleasure by doing rather than explaining, and while that relationship had its own liabilities, this situation set me up for a very selfish approach to sex that would follow with the consecutive women I banged. I honestly didn’t think about whether a girl got off with me or not, and in fact I discovered it was really immaterial for the women who kept coming back to me.

I’d have guys (serving the feminine imperative) tell me “you gotta fuck her right or you’ll lose her” in my single-man-sex-life, but then, I often didn’t care whether I lost them thanks to my nascent plate spinning of that time. In fact, the only time it ever was a concern was when I became invested enough in one woman to actually be concerned with her pleasure, and even then it was because her pleasure enhanced the sex act for me, not due to some threat of infidelity if she didn’t get off. The girl’s genuine desire for me was present whether or not she got off – sometimes I’d make a point of making that happen, but most times it was simply a byproduct of her own desire. In either respect I didn’t view it as my responsibility, and I found that women still enjoyed coming back for sex with some regularity.

One of the few conflicts I’ve observed with Roissy/Heartiste is in this approach to ‘owing a woman an orgasm’ for her continued fidelity. The 9th commandment of poon states:

XIV. Fuck her good

Fuck her like it’s your last fuck. And hers. Fuck her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so profligately that she is left a quivering, sparking mass of shaking flesh and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, then drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning. Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. If you don’t know how, learn to give her squirting orgasms.

On the surface of it, Roissy is agreeing with the feminine imperative’s notion of the sex debt – “own her gratitude, own her love,..learn to give her squirting orgasms.” I wouldn’t insult Roissy by inferring for him what I think he means here, but there’s more to it than this. Love, gratitude, a strong emotional bond, are all byproducts of ‘fucking her good’, but it’s the point of origin of why you want to ‘fuck her good’ that is at issue.

Stop Worrying About Giving Women Orgasms

I think the operative word here is worrying. I wish I had the link available (I did search), but Roissy once had an excellent post and third party study outlining the proclivity of women to fake orgasms with high value, Alpha men, more so than lower value Beta Nice Guys. Naturally the “nice guys finish last, because their women finish first” chumps fired off their comments assuming this was some kind of validation of their Beta Game. Because they still subscribe to the ‘her first’ feminine primary doctrine as being the normative, their default presumption is that women would fake orgasms with Alpha Men because they were sexually unsatisfied with them. However, as the study indicated, the harsher truth was that women’s tendency to fake orgasm with high value men was the result of a desire to secure that man for commitment and breeding prospects – not as some feminine courtesy for a bad lover.

Naturally this is the socialized narrative women follow themselves – a bad lover gets a fake orgasm, nyah, nyah, try better next time – but when you look under the hood, why would a woman be bothered to fake an orgasm with a bad lover? You might argue that it’s to end the act, and you’d be right, but a faked orgasm is really an indictment of the Beta mindset, because he’s not worth the courtesy of faking one.

In the end hypergamy doesn’t even care if the woman is sexually satisfied or not – that’s up to her – all that matters is optimizing the best mating that her attractiveness can afford.

*Final Note: Since I know the comments will explode about the importance of a woman’s orgasm from a biological perspective, I’m not saying that a woman getting off isn’t important. I’m fully aware that a woman’s orgasm prompts her cervix to dip and ‘scoop up’ a man’s sperm to facilitate fertility. I’m also aware of the oxytocin and the chemical cocktail release post-orgasm. The point of this post is to outline the social aspect and primacy the feminine imperative has acculturated into men regarding the female orgasm.

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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Ulysses
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I think even Andrew Dice Clay once joked, “She doesn’t even see my cock till she’s cum twice.”

taterearl
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taterearl

Stop worrying about pleasing women in general. They don’t even have a definitive clue what pleases them…or what pleases them changes with their mood.

Outcome independence was one of the best things I ever learned.

Dreamer
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Dreamer

I remember RooshV had a post on this. Anyone remember it?

xsplat
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A general shift towards selfishness is the fundamental alpha shift. However as Rollo mentioned, there can be greater pleasure when the girl is having greater pleasure. Through our mirror neurons we can get off on her getting off. I think it’s a good habit to be able to have fine sexual control, and to be consistently able to bring the girl to heights. It’s good habit for reasons of personal hedonism, as well as for reasons of controlling the woman outside of the bedroom. I don’t subscribe to the notion that it’s fine for the guy to come first most… Read more »

PeterLeBrocke
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PeterLeBrocke

Strictly biologically speaking coming soon for a man is the logical thing to do and why we come easily with new hot women.

However if you are slow to get off you are displaying pre-selection. That you get many new women all the time and that it doesn’t excite you.

This has filtered through into the matrix so that everyone thinks a man is a loser if he comes quickly.

YaReally
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YaReally

lol. Just lol. You guys make my job so much easier with articles like this, so thankyou lol

[I know what you’re thinking, and I agree, but I’m delving into the social aspect of this, not the PUA applications.]

The Shocker
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The Shocker

Well, it’s finally happened. Hallelujah. I’m hooking up with a hard 10. Tall, flawless blonde, just moved to my city after living in NY and Miami. Basically fell in my lap since her plain friend is hooking up with my friend. It’s funny, the line that hooked her was when her and her friend came up to dance with me as we were leaving a party, and I jokingly said, ‘i only dance with 10’s.’ They both still remember that. I positioned myself early as a jerk, and it just so happens she broke up with her last bf because… Read more »

Dillon
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Dillon

It starts early.

Circumcision over time desensitizes receptors so it longer for a man to finish. Ladies like it so we do it.

Solo
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All I say is this

Women who I have made “orgasm” many a time stuck around, women who I haven’ tend to leave very swiftly

why is that?

semi-srs question

Rollo Tomassi
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Rollo Tomassi

Depends on if that’s a result of your performance or if it’s due to her own inability to get off. I agree with what you’re laying down here, but my focus isn’t arguing the merits of getting a woman off, but rather the self-concern guys have about doing so. I know how to get a woman off, but I’m not some special unique sex god, because a lot of other men know how to do the same. That’s the point I’m getting at. In my single days, I didn’t even concern myself with making the effort, and the girls I… Read more »

Sam Spade
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Sam Spade

Thank you for this post. I agree totally. I will add that the less I’ve cared about getting a woman off, the better the sex was – for me anyway. I won’t say “the more frequently she got off” because a) I don’t really know and b) again I don’t care. I DO know that it resulted in them coming back for more. When I was younger I thought “female orgasm = Sam Spade Sex God.” The result: Supplication and way too much effort. I.e. the expensive flowers and chocolates of the bedroom. As I became more dominant in the… Read more »

Solo
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^^man, sometimes Rollo I’m lazy, don’t get me wrong I love sex like the next man, but these girls now a days their on some other stuff. All the women I meet lately are on some “50 shades of grey shit”. Tie them up, massagers/toys/whip cream/dirty outfits/domination/sex texting exerme/slave shit (Im her master she is my slave etc). So when you bang a woman like that,each time she expects something grand. It’s fun but fucccccccccccck I don’t have the time after a long day I just wanna hit it real quick and go to sleep with these women regular sex… Read more »

Sam Spade
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Sam Spade

PS: This is yet another dynamic bastardized by Hollywood. How many scenes have we watched where the guy is getting off and the woman is bored, rolling her eyes, and disappointed? Usually it’s to illustrate that she’s with the wrong guy or not into him. The one time I can remember where I saw it flipped was in Forgetting Sarah Marshall.

necorochi
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DUDE you fuckin just PWNED IT write there, my es-girlfriend was faking her orgasim but she must of wanted to breed with me pretty bad.

Rhino Tingley
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Rhino Tingley

That XIVth rule is the only one I have any trouble with. Reading it again, I was surprised to see that it does not suggest that it’s a way to keep your hot chick, as I remembered. What does “fuck her good” mean ? Fuck her good for her pleasure, or for yours ? Roissy’s text speaks only of the pleasure of the woman, so I can only presume that he means fuck her the way she likes it. I personally don’t believe a man can be fully satisfied if he is too preoccupied with a woman’s pleasure. And hey,… Read more »

Sauce of Appleseed's on a Mushroom
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Sauce of Appleseed's on a Mushroom

Fucking women.

I can’t even kiss women on the lips anymore. I don’t have to. I know where there mouth has been and will go.

Orgasm? You want to cum? Use a vibrator or let’s fuck. Simple as that.

Sauce of Appleseed's on a Mushroom
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Sauce of Appleseed's on a Mushroom

their*

OhioStater
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OhioStater

Hmm. I think Roissy found a study that orgasm is a woman’s subconcious letting her know the guy is an acceptable mate. She might hook up with a guy because of logic, or because of emotion, but that is the final test.

Hero
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Hero

Roissy isn’t writing about only pleasing the woman. What he’s getting at is to let your emotions run and jump into the deep end of the pool, so to speak. We all know that woman hate a bore. Boring men are sedate and cold. Fun men are fiery and passionate. This goes along with rule IX. Connect with her emotions. Both rules don’t mean you need to be emotional like a woman or to only please a woman during sex. These rules help you to remember to have a depth of feeling and experience that a woman will find interesting.… Read more »

jarl
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jarl

The main point should be not to focus on anything. Getting all in your head when you bang a girl makes it boring. You have to turn off your brain and just go into wild ape mode.

Ashley Pariseau
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My philosophy has always been that each individual is responsible for their own orgasms. Since a lot of it has to do with the state of mind, it would be irrational to blame someone for not getting you off. If one does not think the other is “doing it right” then it’s also their responsibility to communicate what they want and need sexually.

Simon Corso
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Simon Corso

“Feminism is the mistaken idea that a society can create gender equalism by focusing exclusively on the benefit of only one sex.” The quote ( or something close to it ) is from The Amazing Athiest . Or at least, he takes credit for it . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-Nw3zyYpvs He’s too whiny and beta to be an icon, but I agree with most of what he says here. Exception being that I think of women as equals. My real problem with feminism is that it has given women all the choices,rights, privlledges and power but it asks for none of the responsibilty… Read more »

Balloonanona
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Balloonanona

That’s the issue I personally have with having found & understood certain if not all aspects of what game [theories] I’ve read; it’s made me hyper-aware & seemingly whiny to myself (like Artaud or Nietzsche accordingly), however it awakens – literally – every body in my presence and pulls them into my frame of view. But that power play, it goes back. Like a vibration, in using oneself as a tool, one becomes one who is used by others. Like a conduit. Game teaches men how to be a conduit for reaching a woman’s state of mind. That’s as dangerous… Read more »

FuriousFerret
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FuriousFerret

For women, they want hot sweaty awesome sex because sex on tap is a given. For men, they are preoccupied with actually finding someone decent looking to have sex with. So when the respective genders talk in their own gender circles about sex it comes down to what each gender values most. For men it revolves around who is getting laid with decent women. They could give a shit about the mind blowing simultaneous orgasms and tantric frog position. For women it’s about whose having mind blowing fucking because everyone pretty much assumes that there is sex going on. They… Read more »

Good Luck Chuck
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Good Luck Chuck

I am a sex god. No, really, I am. Somewhere along the way I picked up the ability to make women feel REALLY GOOD in bed. So much so that I’ve had “referral business”. But guess what? It don’t mean shit. A man’s orgasm (because it accompanies ejaculation) is a biological necessity. A woman’s orgasm is for the most part a biological luxury. Hypergamy and a woman’s biological imperative don’t care whether or not she got her rocks off. It isn’t necessary to conceive and it certainly isn’t necessary to provide for the welfare of the child after it is… Read more »

Joe
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Joe

Women only get my orgasm as a treat or reward.
Even if there is sex 3 times a day, every day, only cumming once a week keeps me hungry and focused.

Mr. C
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Mr. C

I have a theory about the sometimes elusive G spot.

When a woman is sufficiently aroused her vag area will become so engorged with blood that the tissue of the g spot area becomes more distinct and “active”

Arousal (what is going on in her head) is the complicated part, the rest is just physiology and friction.

peoplegrowing
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Not that Rollo needs my support in any way, but I can say, as a woman, I love feeling like my boyfriend is getting from me what he wants. I found that, as much as I expected the candlelit romance and slow seduction to be more successful orgasm-wise, it’s when he’s just jack hammering me because he’s hungry for it that I get off it the most. Then, when he does choose to specifically try to give me orgasms (and succeed :P) it’s “about me”, but it’s about HIS desire – HE wants to get me off because HE thinks… Read more »

Mark Minter
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Roosh addressed this. He said stop worrying about about both, giving her orgams and you having one. http://www.rooshv.com/it-doesnt-matter-if-she-orgasms-or-not “For guys all that matters is the end, but for girls it’s the process. As long as she gets into it and can say, “I’m getting fucked good and this feels great,” then you’ve done your job. Sure if you make her orgasm on demand you’ll definitely hear from her again, but it’s not necessary and just too complicated to worry about. Keep in mind some girls barely know how to make themselves orgasm! ” Naomi Wolf is writing a book called… Read more »

Alpha Mission
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Biologically the female orgasm exists to entice the male orgasm, and to be optimally receptive to his seed. The female orgasm is there to make a man orgasm. If you’re gonna cum, just do it.

xsplat
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I read on the Rooshv forum today someone claim “I have a small dick and I’m lousy at fucking, but the women keep coming back, so it doesn’t matter”.

There is no logical connection between the fact that the girls keep coming back and that “it doesn’t matter”.

Attractive traits are additive. Just because one particular trait is not a deal breaker doesn’t mean it won’t give you a relative advantage or disadvantage.

Rollo Tomassi
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Rollo Tomassi

My philosophy has always been that each individual is responsible for their own orgasms. Since a lot of it has to do with the state of mind, it would be irrational to blame someone for not getting you off. If one does not think the other is “doing it right” then it’s also their responsibility to communicate what they want and need sexually. As I would expect from a woman, this is a nice, self-indicating personalization, but it does nothing to address the larger issue of this social convention. The problem with men rationally communicating desire with women is that… Read more »

Jake
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Jake

Women are not as orgasm-driven as men. The root of this thinking is projection. Men think our orgasm is the most important part of sex to us, so it must be the most important thing to women, right?? Wrong. To men, sex is an orgasm. To women, sex is an experience. Of course, there’s really no reason not to be good in bed, if you see it as part of being the best man you can be. If you see it as “I need to give her orgasms or she’ll leave me”, then you are playing with a beta scarcity… Read more »

peoplegrowing
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Women are not as orgasm-driven as men. The root of this thinking is projection. Men think our orgasm is the most important part of sex to us, so it must be the most important thing to women, right?? Wrong. And this problem is perpetuated by media stereotypes that orgasm is the most important thing to women. That is to say, men make this mistake perhaps due to brainwashing and perhaps due to projection, but then, an enormous number of women make the SAME mistake about themselves based on Sex and the City/Cougarville, etc. tropes – “We’re going to have sex… Read more »

Emma the Emo
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Emma the Emo

Seems true. I don’t really need orgasms during sex, but I can choose to have them when I want… Gotta say a man worrying about the woman’s orgasm would put pressure on her, a very bad thing.

Danger
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Danger

Thank. Fvking. God. …..for this post. I cannot tell you how many women I have fvked for only my pleasure, and they still want me over and over again. Not because I made them orgasm, but simply because I was the masculine man they wanted. Listen up men. Sometimes she will orgasm. Sometimes she will not. In the end, it is about who she desires. And if she desires you over other men (meaning you have been maintaining the proper frame), then the rest will take care of itself. She does NOT need to orgasm every time you have sex.… Read more »

herpderp
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herpderp

“Gotta say a man worrying about the woman’s orgasm would put pressure on her, a very bad thing.”

Ah yes, now when the wimminz don’t cum, they feel bad about themselves instead of projecting that onto their male partner. Complete Bullshit. So when the woman whips out a vibrator after you’ve had sex, because princess didn’t cum, instead of making the man feel bad, this act actually makes the woman feel bad. Complete Bullshit. Hamster Overdrive Warp Speed Engaged.

Tobin Rote
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Tobin Rote

Nah, not caring about her orgasm is purely pragmatic. Why? Because women are all-over-the-map in that department: Some will coming before you get their pants off, others require a 20 minute vibe ride in total silence. (And yes the latter have self-esteem issues about it.) The ones in the middle might be a little tricky. I see this all the time on the Internet, some guy will be bragging about how his girl comes like a machine gun. In reality, its 10% him, 90% her. It’s not that good sex isn’t important. But IME the bar is pretty low. If… Read more »

3rd Millenium Men
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Love your writing Rollo but not sure I agree with this one… It CAN be totally alpha to make her come first. And then they become obsessed with you. Having a girl say “where the fuck did you learn that?!” is one of the most gratifying things I’ve ever heard. It’s all in the frame you set. http://3rdmilleniummen.wordpress.com/2012/09/24/1303/ As a girl described a guy she rated 12 out of 10… he insisted that I come before him, each time. 3MM: Something I highly recommend, and always seek to do. You’re able to concentrate on her pleasure. It also shows you’re… Read more »

krauserpua
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I have to keep reminding myself of the subtle capture of the feminine imperative. I feel bad if I lead a girl on then dump her, but then remind myself of all the hundreds of girls who’ve led me on without the slightest pang of guilt. Alls fair in love and war. For as long as women have the vote, they have to take their lumps like men.

Dick
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Dick

I had a sleep sex episode one time. I woke up, barely, spooning my girl. I had a rager going. She made the appropriate noises and did the tell tale slight leg spread. I was still mostly asleep but somehow managed to climb on. I slammed on her for a few short minutes, completed my task and immediately fell back to sleep. Definitely not my best work. I’m sure I was the only one who finished. When the morning arrived, I awoke with her wrapped around me and holding me tight. I was thinking to myself, meh, everyone is entitled… Read more »

GeishaKate
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GeishaKate

@krauser: Something you wrote struck me. I believe in the idea of Pay It Forward. I don’t necessarily need to help someone who helped me (they probably don’t need it); I turn to someone else who needs my help and they help the next person. I don’t, however, think this concept of Dump It Forwards works. I don’t know whether you have anything to feel guilty over and I’m not going to be judgemental of you personally, but I feel treating others badly because a third party treated one badly is not right. It doesn’t hurt the person who hurt… Read more »

peoplegrowing
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I stated, almost exactly a year ago, that I’d give up the right to vote to see our male/female relationships sorted out right. I don’t like being punished for what past women did. This is just a larger example of the example you gave. I think if we want to see any progress, we have to be willing all the time to stop thinking and acting in this cycle. I agree with you in theory, but I think the men here will say, and I will agree, that it needs to be women to take the first step. Men have… Read more »

Rollo Tomassi
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Rollo Tomassi

@Krauser,
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/08/12/the-difficulty-of-gaming-women-by-age-bracket/

36 to 38 year olds

She is at peace with her spinsterhood and her failure in the dating market. She will acquiesce easily and gratefully to sex with very little game, as long as you don’t look like a grandpa. Her expectations are so low, it will be a challenge to disappoint her.

If you are prone to guilt, you might feel it when you inevitably dump a woman in this age range. Don’t. Remind yourself that her past is littered with her insouciant dumping of many beta men before you. You are merely an alpha agent of righteous karma.

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anonymous12
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anonymous12

“@Krauser,
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/08/12/the-difficulty-of-gaming-women-by-age-bracket/
36 to 38 year olds”

Rollo, he does not fuck 36-38 years old – I would mind them.
He’s damaging 20-25 years old – that’s ugly as shit.

Anonymous
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Anonymous

>“Do what she says and you’ll be a high value man”

A few months ago, I went to a prom and met a group of girls who talked about their classmates. They were slandering about one beta guy in class, how he’s such a weirdo etc.

“What’s so bad about him?”, I asked
“He always does what you tell him to do”, they replied in a dismissive tone of voice.

It’s stuck in my head ever since.

viclenser
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Getting to this a little late, but I love finding new (to me) articles on your site, Rollo. I’m going to come across a little crass, because I don’t know of a more gentle or eloquent way to say this. Also going to be a bit personal. In my bedroom, it’s shut the fuck up and do what I say. I don’t need input. I don’t accept input. If she tells me what to do or even makes a mild suggestion, I’ll often do the opposite and establish my dominance in some way. I’m not going to insist that this… Read more »

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