Hypergamy doesn’t care,..

Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a Father you are to your kids.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how you rearranged your college majors and career choice in life to better accommodate her.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how inspired or fulfilled you feel as a stay-at-home Dad.

Hypergamy doesn’t care that you moved across 4 states to be closer to your LDR.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how ‘supportive’ you’ve always been of her decisions or if you identify as a ‘male feminist’.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the sincerity of your religious convictions or aspirations of high purpose.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about those words you said at your wedding.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how you funded her going back to college to find a more rewarding career.

Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a guy you are for adopting the children she had with other men.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your divine and forgiving nature in excusing her “youthful indiscretions.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about your magnanimity in assuming responsibility for her student loans, and credit card debt after you’re married.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “he was your best friend.”

Hypergamy doesn’t care about the coffee in bed you bring her or how great a cook you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about all those chick flicks you sat through with her and claimed to like.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how well you do your part of the household chores.

Hypergamy doesn’t care about how much her family or friends like you.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you think you’re a “Good” guy or about how convincing your argument is for your sense of honor.

Hypergamy doesn’t care whether the children are biologically yours or not.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if “she was drunk, he was cute, and one thing led to another,..”

Hypergamy doesn’t care how sweet, funny or intellectual you are.

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you “never saw it coming.”

 

Add your own, I’m sure there’s more,..

Published by Rollo Tomassi

Author of The Rational Male and The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine

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brilliant as just truth can be… reality mocks itself hahaha

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Already banned, two comments and gone. Wow is that twat sensitive. I suppose the young ladies must be sheltered from every slight deviation of her fairy-tale orthodoxy. Either that or she feels any criticism of the beta male is a direct insult to her “man.”

What a shame, women need guidance even more than men these days. Stingray? Warm up your throwing arm. QB1 just threw her fifth pick.

Matt

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To comment there or to start my own? I’ll get banned just as quickly as you. I had so many comments running through my head and all I read were the list of ten things, not the post itself. I was going to argue, then didn’t see the point. The thing is, the men she is attracted to are alpha (meh, for the most part). She just absolutely refuses to call them that as all alphas are cads in her book. She absolutely won’t call a man who is dominant with those traits she listed an alpha. There are too… Read more »

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Start your own. Just save your best comments and repost them. Works for me.

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I meant start your own. And it’s only a half-hearted suggestion. You aren’t masculine, the naked self-assertion typical of bloggery is not in your nature, and I like you that way. Yohami has good advice for a compromise position. Repost what you’ve already written, comment on what’s around you (like that recital anecdote you recounted in another post), and see what kind of audience/commentary you draw, what conversation you facilitate/inspire. That aged hag has quite a following despite her gross errors of assumption. You might not get as many visitors, but those you get will be dedicated. You are not… Read more »

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Our elders know that they are UNABLE of cooperation of their own choosing. That they must be FORCED to cooperate. Agreed, which is why I said, “[T]hey like to be pressured, and they are built to be forced.” All of this bravada about women wanting “the horror, the horror” … no. In their fantasy romance novels, where kindness and ravishment co-exist, maybe. But one hour alone in the real Hobbesian “state of nature,” the hell on earth of her perpetual rape, and she’ll insist the granddaughters of her granddaughters’ granddaughters remember what their obedience purchases for them in protection. Our… Read more »

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Rollo, you should do a whole post on what women “say” they want in polite company and what they really want when it comes to real time action. How they LOVE if their guy is packing is just one gold nugget of a mother load of it’s not what she says she likes but what she actually likes evidenced by her actions. Hypergamy doesn’t care what she says. Hypergamy cares what she does.

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I ‘m seriously considering it. Thank you, both.

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No, hypergamy does care about this, but by then its too late.
Today’s hypergamy does not care, tomorrow’s does.

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You know, and male sexuality doesn’t give a rip about many of those things either … she pigs out and makes herself ugly to you, none of those much matter. Mind you, most men will tolerate graceful aging, but that’s not the point.

Question: what if you are on the other side of hypergamy? I.e.: her husband has betaized, she wants something attractive to her and she’s finding that in you.

Do we friend this hypergamy or run from it?

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No one is as cruel as individuals from a group of young girls.

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Hypergamy is very, very stupid….

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First rule of hypergamy: you do NOT talk about hypergamy

Michael Singer
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Lol…Here is are the death blows.
– Hypergamy has a expiration date
– Who ever commits hypergamy will have hypergamy occur to them ( law of reaping and sowing).

Its a great lesson to learn, my only regret is not knowing about it sooner.

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Actually, hypergamy, as a psychological construct, lasts a lifetime for women. Even the 50+ Cougar crowd will self-convince that “they’ve still got it” in an effort to pacify their hypergamic impulse.

While there’s no expiration date for hypergamy itself, there is most definitely an expiration date for a woman’s capacity to capitalize and optimize hypergamy.

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Hypergamy doesn’t even care what it is about at all. The term and phenomenon can be seen generally as a woman’s tendency to ditch someone in order to gain the next “best deal” available, be it sexual, social or financial. Reminds me of that young chick at work who was put under my mentorship a year ago as a newcomer. She was outgoing and rather actively ignored especially by other women at or under 10 years her senior so I got mainly to be the one that she was in contact with daily. She tried to get me flirting with… Read more »

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Hypergamy doesn’t care about truth. Or justice.

And hypergamy doesn’t care about White Knights, it just uses and discards them.

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Hypergamy doesn’t care about feminism.

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Holy shit, this makes my red pill boner hard. Not the reality of hypergamy, but the awareness of it.

And of course, hypergamy doesn’t give two bits of a shit about the red pill, blue pill, purple pill, or The pill

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on the other note, alpha male is waiting to get dumped, just got free pussy for awhile, no investment anyway and was cheating on the side while she assumed he was exclusive. lesson one: always pretend exclusivity if necessary, but never do it no matter what..

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Hypergamy ceases to exist when people stop shaming sluts. When they are shamed, they are less likely to say “yes” when propositioned, making it difficult for men to get laid just by asking. Men, on the other hand, have no such consequences and are more likely to say “yes” when a woman propositions them, making it easy for women to get laid just by asking. When women are shamed for being sluts, they try not to act slutty, but when they do, they make up for it by doing it with an extremely attractive man. Men are likely to say… Read more »

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Reblogged this on JustBeAManAboutit – How to "Just Be A Man About it" in a Post Feminist World and commented:
Great post I missed from Rollo…it woukd behoove you gentlemen to take heed to these wise words.

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Guys this situation is just as bad for females then it is for men.. Think about it.. if a Female is younger say 23-25 masters degree plus, taller 5’7 or so, good looking, plus comes from a rich family.. Then she will need to find a Rich guy with equal education that is at least the same height as her when she wears high heels.. 5’9 and at least average looking not fat.. If she is so lucky to find this guy, this guy will now he is rare and if she messes up 1 once there will be 50… Read more »

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Hypergamy works for me. I focus only on my looks and money, never on my partner. I just check if I can have them. If they’re not very interested, I work on my looks and money and check in a year or so and usually then it works better. For example I had this guy and he was a lil bit too cute for me and I had no proper job. Now I did bunch of surgeries and gym and diet, I moved up from being weak 7 to being 8-8.5 and I have a house and a nice car… Read more »

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Hypergamy doesn’t care she use to juggle dicks like a circus act and fuck 6 ways until Sunday, and that you are the “Simp” that took her in and forgave her. Once her family finds out Hypergamy doesn’t care!!

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Hypergamy doesn’t care if you love her.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about being your soulmate.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about your sacrifice.
Hypergamy doesn’t give a goddamn about you unless you can make her vagina tingle.

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Hypergamy doesn’t care how hurt you are.

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Come on guys, look at the bright side. the cup is half full here. if hypergamy doesnt care about all these things then that means that you dont really have to do ANY of them. sure a lot oof you find it difficult to adapt to the reality, start acting like pompous pricks and all that. but these couple of things are a lot easier and less stressful to do than all the shit you used to do. the hard part isnt being confident or arrogant or telling a woman to suck or go home. the hard part is accepting… Read more »

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How in the hell am I 6 months from my 40th birthday and this is the first I’ve heard about this!?! Holy dog shit! It all makes sense now! So does the argument I had with my girlfriend yesterday about her wanting “more” when she didn’t even define what the hell “more” meant!

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Hypergamy doesn’t care whether you live or die.

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Hypergamy doesn’t care about her either.

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Love it Rollo. Still as relevant as ever.

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someone wrote “Hypergamy doesn’t care if you fool around on her”, I’m not too sure about that, I think a man fooling around/cheating on his woman/wife/gf has an effect on hypergamy – I think it somehow communicates higher status on the man’s part, that’s why so many women stay with their husbands that cheat on them several times instead of leaving them to find another more faithful husband – if Hypergamy is essentially the pursuit of a higher value male, a cheating husband is communicating a form of higher value to his wife

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And if you’re an Alpha, you won’t care about losing her, which will make her more likely to try to come back.

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Hypergamy no longer cares because the consequences are minimal. Hypergamy has been unleashed and released by its enablers; feminism, capitalism and all those that stand to benefit from societies that are unquestioning, bewlidered and consumption driven with populations that are kept in check by cryptofascist kleptocracies posing as democratic governments.

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Hypergamy doesn’t care about civilization or history. Hypergamy doesn’t care about keeping the world above a state of tiny warring villages, hypergamy should be violently repressed with real penalties for those who attempt to practice it. Too bad for civilization that it is now a “right” whose influence will bring about a new dark age. Too bad…

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so what does hypergamy care about?

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Hypergamy is seen 90+% in men while “upgrading” their wives; and only <10% in women for "upgrading" their men. Yet it gets called out disproportionately as a thing women do…

Geese and ganders. Geese and ganders.

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The men are not practicing hypergamy unless the men are marrying into a higher socioeconomic class. Websters dictionary defines hypergamy as: marriage into an equal or higher caste or social group. Typically trophy wife marriages involve a younger more sexually attractive female from a lower social class marrying a relatively less sexually attractive male of a higher social class. This is the most classic and blatant occurrence of hypergamy all of which is fundamentally nothing more than legal prostitution. CV”s comment “Hypergamy is seen 90+% in men while “upgrading” their wives…” makes absolutely no sense. The comment is extremely idiotic.

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Hi Rollo. We would like thank you for this article and your others on Hypergamy. Especially for the poetic way in which you present “hypergamy doesn’t care”. We just created (and launched) a motion graphics Hollywood-style trailer and wish to thank you for the inspiration.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGsjgO32B1c

We attributed the inspiration to you and link back to this article.
A thousand thanks.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGsjgO32B1c

We attributed the inspiration to you and link back to this article.
A thousand thanks.

MGTOW.com

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Rollo – Hypergamy *does* care if you’re bitter so can be shunned after being identified as such.

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As soon as guys finalize this in their heads, the better off they shall be!

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Hypergamy doesn’t care if you visited her in prison.

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Hypergamy doesn’t care how many years you spent investing in her.

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Hypergamy doesn’t care about the Scientific Method.

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Awesome.

And hypergamy doesn’t care when after reading these distilled gems you say:
“Well yeah, that happens to the other guys — but you & me babe, why — we got a special thing going here.”

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Hypergany doesn’t care if you get falsely acused in 2017’s metoo hysteria

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you lose your job, family, friends, reputation due to false acusations

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you end up suicidal due to Hypergamy’s destruction of your image and livelihood

Hypergamy doesn’t care if you are innocent

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Hypergamy doesn’t care how much you cried when she left!!!

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Hipergamy doesn’t care whether you know how to spell

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Hypergamy doesn’t care if you wished to get one more chance to become a better man for her before she f*cked someone else
Hypergamy doesn’t care whether you cry or get angry on her infidelity

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Kate Middleton Reportedly Felt Meghan Markle “Used Her to Climb the Royal Ladder” and Told Her So at Christmas:

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/amp25744837/kate-middleton-felt-meghan-markle-used-her-climb-royal-ladder/

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