For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
interesting thought that just came to mind as I was assessing my night last night. Went out late (2:30 AM). by the time I hit the regular bars I frequent, all the hotter girls were gone…no motivation to hit on the 7s so I walked around. approached a NO girl actually. Made fun of her pose just leaning against the wall. saw that she had no interest in qualifying herself to me but she was starting to crack a little bit when her friend came to get her. Around 3:30, I was leaning against the wall outside drinking a bottle… Read more »
Field Report LTR Game I was upbeat Sat. a.m. Mrs. Gamer was pleasant when I first saw her Sat. a.m. despite me having gone out dancing the night before. Then she was unhaaappy–paying bills. Doing some low level drama. I slapped her butt hard when she wasn’t expecting it in the early afternoon, then went to hold her and nuzzle her. She growled at me. No surprise. I was unruffled and didn’t respond and ignored her for several hours, but maintained a pleasant disposition throughout. Later Mrs. Gamer wanted pizza. She still didn’t have a sweet disposition. She wanted to… Read more »
Was too cocky last night. Tried to bang this 8 with a 9 A.M flight to London the next day.
I bet Mary Palm didn’t say no.
Sounds like a logistics issue. What could you have done differently to get a better outcome?
build a connection via emotionally stimulating topics
Rapport-building with emotional spikes as needed…classic Mystery Method.
@theasdgamer
She mentioned that she hadn’t even packed yet, so I could have teased “psssh typical girl. everything always last minute” then hit her with a plausible denalibility “ok lets go I’ll help you pack. but we’re not having sex. because if we did you’d be really exhausted and miss you’re flight.” Her friend she was staying with had the keys to the apartment, so I’d have to win her over as well.
“Rapport-building with emotional spikes”
I guess lol. But my rapport building style is sexual stories and female psychology/anatomy..not hopes and dreams shit
Re Deepak Wayne – I can’t be bothered to search the YaReally Archive but I remember discussing him when YaReally was still around (back when Krauser first accused him of being a fake). I think the consensus was that he wasn’t a fake. He wasn’t that great and his conversation is boring (plus he’s in Europe somewhere speaking mostly to girls who are ESL) but he’s not that bad – decent body language, escalation etc. There are some pretty explicit infields from him – literally showing him with girls on the bed. Could be fake of course, but YaReally didn’t… Read more »
RE My LTR FR
Mrs. Gamer went from a “maybe” girl in the early morning to a “no” girl mid-morning to a “yes” girl in the evening. She might have done duty sex mid-morning, but I wanted desire sex.
But Game wasn’t required to change her attitude because a LTR girl is bought and paid for and will generally want to have sex with you, lol.
FR: IAS & PalmaSailor night out The opportunity for meeting Palma in RL arose so we decided to game a bit on his turf. I arrived by train and met up around 19:30, and even before we left the station I was distracted and he was already opening someone (I think it was a 2-set). It was just a warm up interaction. I thought to myself “Ok game on”. As we are exiting the station I see a lady with a very flashy jacket made of reflecting thingies. In Europe we have the EuroVision contest going on, so I told… Read more »
Hey all, looking for a family lawyer in NYC.
Never married, one son 8yr old lives with mother, separated 2-yrs, we’re living in the same building. My goal is maximum time with him.
Just sprung that they’re moving out of the building, big surprise. Just doing family counseling, considering mediator, and need legal advice.
Btw, her family’s wealthy.I’m basically a responsible service-industry worker.
Thanks for any referrals ~JB
@Blax
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3dVc2btTSQ
especially @ 1:07
@IAS – I like reading FRs about “real life” meetups. It gives me some reassurance we’re not all the same person typing under different usernames and changing his writing style..:)
@Just Beers – No specific advice, but suggest you check out the resources on r/marriedredpill on Reddit. They’d probably be more clued in
Was out catching up with my best friends on Sat night who I don’t get to see much, so wasn’t really about approaching girls as much as having a laugh with my friends, but did manage to squeeze in one or two. Opened a 16 year old 9/10 beauty on the street lol. Gorgeous. She was talking too a homeless dude and I opened her. She asked me if I could give the homeless guy some money but I think I ignored that thread and just started asking her who she was and initiated kino straight away. She was somewhat… Read more »
@Scars “Partly because I didn’t sense I had any sexual attraction and so I wasn’t sure on how to best do it.” you don’t get sexual attraction from a girl by being fun + comfort (that’s hitting only the social frame + emotional stimulation key according to Gunwitch (third key is sexual arousal)). You get sexual attraction when you have a girl isolated with you, while you laser her + kino + proximity…which increases the sexual tension -> hence sexual attraction. If that isn’t enough, talk about sex. Look through Teevster’s post “My (Dream) Verbal Stack” for inspiration. “I also… Read more »
You get sexual attraction when you have a girl isolated with you yes! even mini-isolation where it’s just the two of you chatting in a club or dancing two-step…freestyle is usually farther apart unless you’re grinding, but grinding doesn’t give you the isolation where you’re in her grill…it’s being in her grill that generates the attraction… ———— Lead/follow dancing shit …freestyle won’t typically give you as much opportunity as lead/follow (salsa, two-step, ballroom, swing). With lead/follow, there’s contact (kino) and frame. You can show your ability to lead in lead/follow dancing. Leading well is a DHV. Frame! Kino! Lead/follow! DHV!… Read more »
Blax, I loved the pic of the horse at Wally World.
IAS Lot’s to learn there in that “Blondie, Stripes & White” set. From them… think about that set with the roles reversed. Also “A chubby one which Blondie wants me to frisk (which I do, possibly a mistake but I thought I shouldn’t leave the ugly friend out of it)” “You do NOT have to answer questions asked of you. In HOOP THEORY, a girl gives you a HOOP and AFCs think they HAVE to jump through it. Simply, grab the hoop FROM HER and get her to jump through it or present another hoop to HER. OR … just… Read more »
just literally pushed me
Gaming the cockblocker
“I love it when girls get physical. She must really like me.” [Amused laugh.]
She: No, I don’t.
You: “Girls like you hate it when I don’t call the next day.” [reframing and sexualizing and flirting with the cockblocker so she won’t cockblock]
ASD
Nope… That’s what got him blown out.
UNrelated…
Been enjoying this Rob “Bobby” Judge guy… Shout out to NYC homies, and that NYC way…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-gWjO4cR8JI
That is a lock in…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nK_GiB1bYb4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=frn90_hO0G8
Though I cringe at what Scars and Mckay will do with this…
Lol @ the way he hijacked the chick in the first video. Then the dissed guy just melted back into the background.😂
I shouldn’t laugh at that, but damn it’s funny on cam.
Don’t just stand next to a chick in a bar or club like a statue. Proximity doesn’t spark attraction or even ioi. I don’t know what guy 1 was saying to her, but it doesn’t matter because she got kidnapped. Let’s all hope he learned something.
@Sentient
Love the first clip. The second clip looks pretty similar to my personal ‘attraction’ style minus the cheesy 2000s pickup lines/routines.
Rob Judge. Another former RSD student that went on to form his own company:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/196710
@J – Thanks. Yeah, to be honest, I don’t think any of them were actually into me at a guess (just not their type), but still should have showed some intent and used some of them Jeffy lines, ideally in isolation. Pretty sure it would have been a rejection either way, but good habit to get into I guess
@Sentient, lol. Never heard of him. Looks like direct evolution daily style game
“Don’t just stand next to a chick in a bar or club like a statue. Proximity doesn’t spark attraction or even ioi.”
lol ya should clarify for lurkers. I just meant getting close to a girls face with amused mastery facial expression. Jeremy recently demonstrated the power of this (and kino) in the clip below starting at 6:40
https://youtu.be/tUzjsc9nE_w?t=6m40s
“the cheesy 2000s pickup lines/routines.” Lines, routines… what the words are don’t matter. What matters is you know how to deliver them and what kind of responses you’re going to get. That is the value, that is the chess not checkers. So you know the variables, you have contingencies planned for, you are unphased with what she says because you know it might come and you have a response to that thread… You come off smooth, confident, assured… passing test after test… You have your diagnostics on top of this to keep track of where you stand and keep the… Read more »
If I was a white dude, I’d totally rock that haircut.
I wear that Mugler Angel cologne at least once a week. It’s my fave too, but there are a few different scents that are all good as well.
Lately women comment more on Creed Aventus, but Tom Ford tobacco vanille makes them.come in close.
Then, you gotta have some shit to say.😁 get their nose? Steal their heart.
@Scars “I don’t think any of them were actually into me at a guess” ok then why would 3 girls (unless their hands were handcuffed to the bar, they have freedom to walk and talk/dance with any other guy in the bar) chat with a random dude that have zero interested in for “a good hour” hmm? “should have showed some intent” show intent via eye contact. watch the Rapid escalation clip by Liam Mcrae on YouTube. “Pretty sure it would have been a rejection either way” You don’t know unless you try, mate. And read the advice ijjji left… Read more »
2010 21 Convention talk…
I think i’ve got all of them fragrances lol. I’m addicted to buying aftershaves. Must have about 40 bottles
Cosign what sentient ways about delivery 100%.
I.don’t have a real fr, but more of an interesting observation from the weekend that I’ll try and lost up later. Lol, my wife and daughter chimed in while I was chatting up a yound, hot, high heeled Asian chick.😂 lotsa fun.
@Blax
Creed Aventus had been my go-to cologne for 2 years. Recently purchased Pineapple Vintage Noir Intense, which is a cheaper and smoky version of the current Aventus batch.
IAS
Oh yeah
Stripes is probably a bit too shy for that,
Eliminate this kind of thinking…
I got another makeout (not a big deal to most of you guys but this is the 4th woman I make out with)! I’m struggling to keep it short (aha that’s what she said – no just kidding). I joined (kind of infiltrated) a [sports] event (sport I’ve done a bit in the past). I was really hungry and seriously considered just going home to eat, but I wanted to know if the event was staying there etc. I wasn’t even particularly planning to game girls! As I got there the event was basically over but then they announce there… Read more »
“A yound”??? What’s a yound?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hu8tX2BAD1k
New Yawk…
Props to the wingman in the 2nd Rob Judge video.
He’s swoops into distract her protective friend. Nice.
Blaximus
Don’t just stand next to a chick in a bar or club like a statue. Proximity doesn’t spark attraction or even ioi.
Proximity is how many girls send an IOI. Men who are brainwashed BP AFC’s do that and expect it to work the same way on girls.
@AR
“Men who are brainwashed BP AFC’s do that and expect it to work the same way on girls.”
It DOES work..for non-AFCs. Gunwitch on the right way to “hover”:
https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/hall-of-fame/9795-some-clarification-on-pre-approach-hover-ras-paimai-etc
IAS You sexy beast… Props on your FR. Strong attraction to carry over to the next day. This “Actually I didn’t even think about it at the time which is quite a fail” Don’t sweat it. You do you. What you enjoy, when you want… On this… Now I’m not sure how to play it. I gave her some messages on night of the makeout (she sent me the picture) and today, in the morning after the makeout day. Technically I could catch a train and meet her at her city, but that is a) chasing b) she lives with… Read more »
wait for her to do it of her own initiative.
Yeah…. No.
Didn’t realize you need to be registered to view the link I just shared. Reposting: “The hover is a trick to make her think she is noticing you first, that simple. I stole it from women, when they stop in front of you and pretend to be digging through their purse or texting. That is how chicks open guys. Anyhow, you can do the same, and it makes opening and hooking way smoother. First I have to tell you how it works in her head, so you get why doing it is worthwhile at all. They did a study on… Read more »
Then, you gotta have some shit to say https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1SCOimBo5tg It’s amazing how you can speak right to my heart Without saying a word you can light up the dark Try as I may I could never explain What I hear when you don’t say a thing The smile on your face lets me know that you need me There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall You say it best when you say nothing at all All day long I can hear people talking… Read more »
J
The principle is fairly simple though,
It’s even simpler, you can “force” opens. One of my standard methods. Walk up to the bar, address staff, orde, have good alpha posture, body language etc. – stay off your phone – and resolutely do NOT look over at the girl(s) next to you. Just wait… they will try and eye code… just wait… eventually they will open you with something…
and you are off…
Now in a case where they don’t open you, well then you just revert to standard indirect open…
I was out walking this a.m. through a residential area. On the sidewalk coming towards me were an early 30s blonde, two toddlers on vehicles, and two Chocolate Lab pups on leashes. The boy waved at me and I waved back at him. Then the pups came bounding up and jumped up on me and I petted them a while. Made some boring chat occasionally with the broad…”How old are the pups?” and “Labs?” and “You need four leashes”…I was a real blabbermouth, lol. Crouched facing the pups and occasionally turning to briefly face the woman. She was continuously blabbering… Read more »
I forgot to add that I ended our little rendezvous. And I really enjoyed petting the pups.
spy, you got the right feedback, just not what you wanted to hear
@Sentient: I know you are right, but I think I lack the abundance mentality to pull that off. My first thought was “What if I go there (spending the time and money) and don’t pull, I’ll feel awful” :/
IAS
“What if”…
That’s what motivates no? Bobby Judge’s 21 talk upthread… What if = “finding the truth”…
No downside. Just find the truth. A powerful frame.
Of course ESG was full of “what ifs” too and yet?
Push it. Learn. Move forward.
I lack abundance says the married guy with a mistress…
Lol.
”Though I cringe at what Scars and Mckay will do with this”
I LOL’d, but I cringe at what anyone on this whole site will do with that lol
@Sentient Lurv your posts but this here we need to address… Ahh I was hoping for some challenge. This one here though is just poor wording on my part. There are two interesting aspects of IOIs. Both overlap and influence each other in a feedback loop. There’s a girl that gives IOIs. And there’s a guy who receives or observes IOIs. Two parts of equation and the reason why Game works in the first place. Intersexual dynamics. 1) IOIs as indicators of how ready a girl is. It doesn’t matter if it’s you who’s getting them in the moment. They’re… Read more »
@Sentient
Why do you think looks can’t be earned? You were fat and now you aren’t afterall. Was that “free”?
It goes deeper than that (fathers, pay attention):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oX3AlUYRZIQ
(Interestingly, when I mentioned this to a plate, she admitted she’d had huge problems with posture at school and had to fix it later – all because of very early developed big breasts which she was trying to hide between her shoulders… social pressure gets everyone…)
And a bit lengthier lecture with more focus on facial beauty, distortions and how to develop an attractive face:
j It DOES work..for non-AFCs. Gunwitch on the right way to “hover”: Sentient It’s even simpler, you can “force” opens. One of my standard methods. Walk up to the bar, address staff, orde, have good alpha posture, body language etc. – stay off your phone – and resolutely do NOT look over at the girl(s) next to you. Just wait… they will try and eye code… just wait… eventually they will open you with something… Yeah, sure, and “just be yourself” is the A #1 way to Pick Up Girls, right? Give me a break. Neither Gunwich’s “hover” or Sentient’s… Read more »
@AR
There is an alpha and a beta way to do something. I was simply presenting the alpha way…
Here is the recent text transcript when i set up the “date” that’s generated quite a bit of discussion in the post feed. Thought i should bring it here and reside more in FR as it’s what i’m most interested in. Note that this convo was very free flowing, text after text for an hour or so until i let it go at the end as i felt it had well and truly run its course… I invite a brutally critical appraisal please, line by line, gentlemen… FoX: P, i have a track in a show on June 2. Like… Read more »
@PUAs I’d like to get your take on something. A girl I know went with another girl looking to pinch guy friends (she said). I was outside the bar on the patio talking to the guy who hawks taxis. The girls came up and I turned around. One of them took off and the other told me that she was gonna pinch me, but I had turned around before she could. We started walking back to the bar. I gave her shit about being in 6th grade. I told her that I was sure she had done grabass before and… Read more »
@SilverFox You said you wanted brutal honesty, so here goes. The Persian drew me out — I recognize and know her kind and I have some nasty scars to prove it. Hate to see you wasting your time, but if you insist … First, from reading that exchange, you are wading into the deep end of being her male girlfriend. Way too chatty and “problem-solving.” Suggestion: Send no more than five-word responses — and try to limit to one text response for every two texts she sends. i.e.: FoX: I hear you. Maybe u should come visit me. Change of… Read more »
@Sentient: back to Blondie, White and Stripes set… I get the hoop thing (and kind of hesitated in real time in the “frisk her” situation). I also get that I further antagonized the cockblock, I was trying to game her too, but not correctly it seems. It would be good to antagonize the target(s) instead. I guess I could have introduced myself friendly to the cockblock (like arm around her, say my name in her hear) and give shit to Blondie instead would have been the better moves there. When I wrote “Stripes is probably too shy for that” was… Read more »
IAS ” I guess I could have introduced myself friendly to the cockblock” Watch Bobby and the chode blow out above… Uses old line “your friend and I like each other, you ok with that”… “Although I think I could have played to it somehow, I don’t know how though. Ideas?” You and me against the world… Establish connection and use social pressure to your advantage. Clip out there, think Yareally posted it. Bride to be in a diner. Point is also never introduce these kinds of judgements… Too early and don’t move your game forward. She might’ve grabbed you… Read more »
@FoX You crave for company (even look for a soulmate in a woman) and you’ll accept anything from a girl just to keep her engaged in an interaction. “Ok”, “thanks”, “good”, “bad”, “meh”. This one gives you enough to keep you around, not enough to demonstrate she’s invested. Look, even this “G: I believe in free, sounds nice” is neither a Yes nor a No (very much Cat-o-nese). She’ll go if it suits her in the moment (as Palma suggested). The medium is the message. It’s not that you think you’re trying to cheer her up and invite her over.… Read more »
Fox Oh boy… That string bummed me out. You have a lot of work to do in advance of the meet. That does not read like a girl that is coming to bone. at least not you… maybe some piano player she meets when out with you (lemme guess, ex played piano?). You need to change course else ^^^ No contact. None. Zero. Let her open the thread back up first. Then switch off from the “Patient Heartbreak” theme… None of this ‘Hey little pup, how ya feeeeeeling today???” BS. You need to build attraction and sexualizing… and keep that… Read more »
@Gamer IDK if the girl is interested in you sexually, or if she has put you in her LJBF Tampon drawer, and you haven’t provided enough background to tell. However, it sounds as if there is an established relationship between you and her, so I seriously doubt there is any overt sexual tension driving the conversation. You say that autism makes it difficult to read signals. I assume this means what it says about signals that you sense, and actually do exist (valid observation), but suspect it also means that you sometimes “overthink” yourself into imagining a signal that did… Read more »
As to the texts themselves… for future reference. Think about how you could have redone the entire thread… Good practice for you. Actually come up with stuff and rewrite this… Start from the start… Why would you open with a direct, pleading request to come to your show? Start with some banter… then segue into you have this awesome show coming up… DON’T invite her yet… keep working on building attraction… then circle back around to the show a few times, see if she will invite herself along (ijjjji from Sedfast 100% guarantee no flake method). If she doesn’t then… Read more »
@IAS Blondie, the queen bee of the set, was used to calling the shots. She didn’t do anything for you. Girls like that made Mystery introduce negs and qualifiers. Engage the friends and exclude/neg the target. Don’t validate her until she earns it. If she wants you to do something, tell her to do something you want first. She doesn’t, IOD her. She does, reward it. The “you and me against the world” line/frame is great. the “frisk her” situation Blondie: Frisk Chubby! You (turning to Chubby): Those horny kids [shaking your head]. Is she always like that when you… Read more »
“Since you don’t intend to cheat on Mrs. Gamer, and she doesn’t seem to mind your flirtatious ways, stop worrying about what those girls are thinking they might or might not want to do with you in private. You will NEVER know. Just stick to MRP advice, which you clearly know well and are good at.”
+1
https://youtu.be/zkFt5V09HzU
@IRL Breakdown of that Russell Brand clip by The Thin Man via NextASF: “He walks on in full state… Draws a shit test from Woopie with physical game, not sitting down, and then mirrors her movements with full EC… I am guessing there is breathing and NLP going on here. He immediately makes a comment about his pants being to tight… Implying attraction and drawing attention to his crotch. Passes a shit test from Joy Behar about Karl Marks with exaggerate and joke style technique, plus mouth spam… Topic hopping open loops. Joy is not done with him and brings… Read more »
@IRL: Re: Blue, if I had a bit more time here I would make a move to visit, you guys are right as usual. Re: Blondie – I don’t see how Blondie was making fun of me there. I understand the hoop on frisking the chubby one (and spotted in real time, but thought it was the best move to do it then). Re: Brand… He is a master of Social Dynamics IMO, I had seen that (and some other) videos of him… Not everyone likes his style but even just the sheer speed at which he can come up… Read more »
Great advice from Sentient @May 16, 2018 at 7:18 am.
I don’t offer any text advice cause I don’t text girls I’ve never banged. Self imposed constraint to SNL only. Sometimes that means passing up HB9s wanting my number. oh well lol…
Also, I never text girls after I’ve banged them anymore..kind of make them do all the work. They just invite me
“J”
“heyyy”
“are you going out?”
“what are you doing tonight?”
…less headaches. more time to focus on other shit
Is he a ‘game denier’ or is he right?:
http://aaronsleazy.blogspot.co.uk/2012/09/an-rsd-escape-story.html
I wouldn’t worry about Orlando Bloom. His girlfriend history is impressive. Quick google search tells me he’s the newest member of Dicaprio’s Wolf Pack/Pussy Posse
http://metro.co.uk/2018/01/15/leonardo-dicaprio-orlando-bloom-continue-surprising-bromance-flirt-models-morocco-7231965/
Denying rsd is not denying Game.😠
@j That Chris Wilde clip… I dunno man. Last Dick(s) Standing™ approach. Leading and pushing the interaction forward is one thing, getting a girl to chase you is another. They didn’t flip all her switches. A lot of pressure on pressure off and yet not much vacuum to suck her in. She was just going along with a minimum dose of enthusiasm. They seduced only half of that girl lol. I know it’s enough and getting her isolated on a bed, then kissing, then sucking her nipples was probably sufficient to babystep her arousal beyond the point of no return… Read more »
Marelius, I know you mean well, somewhat, but you clearly don’t understand autism even a little. My problem is missing signals; my problem is not misunderstanding what signals mean. My social intelligence is at least up to par. Guys at the bar come looking for me for validation/energy. All sorts of guys. Bouncers. Cool guys. Wannabes. What you and most young guys don’t get is AWALT when it comes to sexual wiring. Single girls, married girls, AWALT. YaReally didn’t think that women bonded for life, so you young guys don’t have your story straight. (Btw, YaReally pretty much always confirmed… Read more »
@IRL “They seduced only half of that girl” look at the part 24:08 – 24:40. listen to her voice. her silence. That’s an “It’s On Moment”. (aka time to pull) What I most liked about the clip is actually getting her up the apartment. If you’ve read any of Chris Wilde’s LRs you’ll notice that once he gets the girl into his apartment, he has no problem banging her. I’ve lost a couple of lays through the years just on this last step: actually getting the girl to walk inside my place/her place. The lines: “If you want to leave… Read more »
@IRL Example from one of his LRs: “Her: Come I’ll take you back to your turn. Me: Nah, I don’t wanna go home. Her: You can’t come with me. Me: Why not? Her: I am not that kind of girl. I want to see you again. Me: But we don’t need to do anything. Her: If you come now, we won’t see each other again. Me: Of course we will. I can come now and we can also meet in the week. I hug her. Me: We can go and cuddle and you can sleep like this on my chest,… Read more »
@theasdgamer “There is no part of pickup game that is not part of married game except cold approaching new girls.” !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ““no” girls? same married girls can be “no” girls from time to time” she’s already fucked you hundreds (thousands?) of times…”NO” married girl is different from “NO” HB9 chick who has zero history with you and is only basing her opinion of you based on the way you approached her/your looks….completely different dilemma “LMR? same (if the couple is separated for several months, the first instance of sex can be awkward, like for military couples)” she’s already fucked you…no… Read more »
Post again… Very powerful mindset. https://youtu.be/N3Tg__kFrus?t=1438 From 24:00 “Change your motivation. Change it to just one thing. Finding out the truth.” “[on a hot girl] The only thing I see, is… there is truth in that situation. There is a truth about her… You have NO idea. Until you approach her, you don’t know that truth” ASD will never know the truth… Used this mindset recently. At a meeting of group I was helping, my last meeting, saw a woman I hadn’t seen in a while. She moved here a few years ago and I used to see her with… Read more »
“is a waste of time when you can just find girls that are into you and fuck you.” “The brainwashing is so strong that you ignore these guys who tell you “dude stop approaching so much and watch for the girls that want you to approach” – you think that it’s “chode” or that they are just taking what they can get.” I will give you an example of one of my wing. Good looking guy. muscular. gets girls coming near him, he used to approach them after seeing that girl wanted him to approach her, but he’s confidence is… Read more »
j, you’re making it more complicated than it is. ““no” girls? same married girls can be “no” girls from time to time” she’s already fucked you hundreds (thousands?) of times… …AAAAND she’s also said “no” thousands of times…is it easier to say “yes” or “no”?…depends on her emotional state…just like that HB9 you just met… “NO” HB9 chick who has zero history with you …who has no history of saying “no” to you nor seen all your fuckups and times when you were weak, so it’s easier for the chick you just met to say “yes”…I’ve seen lots of guys… Read more »
“There is no part of pickup game that is not part of married game except cold approaching new girls.“ I cold approach new girls often…with the wife there. I call it “conversation” or “ice breaker”. @J I do understand your point though. There’s really no pressure for me to get to the bang as in my marriage the sex is plentiful. You’re in a different state of mind and judge others upon your burden of performance (overcoming LMR, ASD). That’s natural to do so. Then again, there’s really no for ASD’s wife to sleep with him anymore as she’s got… Read more »
“You can hope, or live in reality”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7HwmSX92ZY
“it’s not really consistent. “ – enter Mystery, stage left.
@EI
“There is no part of pickup game that is not part of married game except cold approaching new girls.“
I cold approach new girls often…with the wife there. I call it “conversation” or “ice breaker”.
Lol, smartass.
Then again, there’s really no for ASD’s wife to sleep with him anymore as she’s got her provisioning married or divorced.
You’ve got things bass-ackwards. I’m the pool boy. Mrs. Gamer does the provisioning. Like the old joke:
“What do you call a musician without a girlfriend?
Homeless.”
@Eh “why would any woman continue to desire sex their husband, sometimes often and willingly” I don’t know. Complacency maybe. Theasdgamer is good enough. A woman in her 50s/60s knows that risking a stable relationship for some young 24 year old stud is not worth it and highly unlikely (shudder at the thought of banging a chick over 50 lol). I’ve read on the internet that women are also quite “risk-averse” “when it is in their financial and sexual benefit to look elsewhere?” Now, a newly married post cock carousal woman (30s). I’d would worry about looking elsewhere once she… Read more »
ASD – My question wasn’t about whether pinching my butt was sexual, but about the intuition thing. You didn’t answer my question, but basically told me to fuck off. I wonder why? To use your own words: spy[ASD], you got the right feedback, just not what you wanted to hear …you clearly don’t understand autism even a little. My Nephew is 27, Asbergers all the way down. Very familiar with him and his habits/preferences/advantages/disadvantages for MANY years. I know from whence I speak. ASD, the key shortcoming you have is N=2. And that was many years prior to TRP. You… Read more »
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“A woman in her 50s/60s knows that risking a stable relationship for some young 24 year old stud” O.k. You see it as a good-enough provisioning thing, and we’re not including kids in the mix, which ups her divorce leverage a lot. Why do young unattached women fuck? Alpha motives and beta motives, too, I assume, unless you’ve got another idea. The alpha motives elicit more desire sex than the negotiated beta motives and there’s not much difference in women’s sexual desire mentalities at any age group. If a girl of any age could fuck a hotter guy but doesn’t,… Read more »
@SolitarySilverFox
That text exchange was painful to read. All I can add to what other men said is:
She’s making you into her emotional tampon, or her new gay friend. Don’t be those things.
https://twitter.com/thefaceberg/status/995832132151918593
https://twitter.com/Stud________/status/995840560085786624
… there goes my fr/observation.
Thanks asd.
Lol.
Good News for today: Got super strong IOI ( smiling, waving ) from chick today as I was stopped at a red light.( in the rain no less )
Bad News: She was an at least 40+ year old 6.
Final thought: I will never go without pussy.
Lol.
@marelius My Nephew is 27, Asbergers all the way down. Very familiar with him and his habits/preferences/advantages/disadvantages for MANY years. I know from whence I speak. …and you show why you don’t know shit from shinola about the Autistic Spectrum. Asperger’s isn’t even a diagnosis any more. Autism is a spectrum of things. Women’s autism is very different from men’s autism, in most cases, for example. From the American Autism Assoc. website: Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a developmental disorder that causes issues with communication, social, verbal, and motor skills. The most important thing to know about autism is that… Read more »
Hey Blax, has Mrs. Blax ever been a “no” girl and you flipped her to “yes”?
“why would any woman continue to desire sex their husband, sometimes often and willingly” I don’t know. Complacency maybe. Theasdgamer is good enough. A woman in her 50s/60s knows that risking a stable relationship for some young 24 year old stud Lol, Mrs. Gamer could easily get some old rich fart if she wanted and she would never have to work again. She has been out with me dancing and it makes her feel insecure. Mrs. Gamer sees all the nuances of the young women who dance with me. All of the things that Marelius tells me that I might… Read more »
I’m 56. Be 57 in a couple of months.
Don’t short-change me. I worked hard as fuck to get to this point.
autism speaks AS v HFA
po-tay-toes po-tah-toes – whatevs
Just remember, you were asking for external references/reviews. In reality, you were seeking validation from your “tribe”. Didn’t get validation as expected, just refutation. Beta protests result.
By all means, don’t believe me. I am just some highly sophisticated chat ‘bot typing somewhere on the interwebz. My comments should mean NOTHING to you. Rethink your alpha status in the real world, not just as confined to the make-believe TRM blog posts, and bouncer/bartender “paid pros” that are your current and only references.
Through dancing, I’ve done kino on thousands of women.
Oh boy… If touch is not only socially acceptable (like a formal or polite handshake) but also required as in a dance, it’s not “kino”…
Please… just stop.
Since I have cold approached to ask thousands of girls to dance, I can comment expertly on that.
Potatoes, tomatoes
@j ”ok then why would 3 girls (unless their hands were handcuffed to the bar, they have freedom to walk and talk/dance with any other guy in the bar) chat with a random dude that have zero interested in for “a good hour” hmm?” I know man. I guess I just meant I felt like they thought I was fun and likeable etc, but I didn’t sense actual ‘attraction’ like I have with every girl i’ve actually banged from cold approach. Like all 10 girls I fucked last year I knew before I escalated that I was very likely ‘in’.… Read more »
ASD – I never meant any disrespect to you, or anyone else that is on the spectrum. My nephew is an outright genius in his own right and excels at many things well enough to indeed have superpowers relative to me and the rest of the mere mortals. Social cues/body language analysis is NOT one of his superpowers, however. Peace to you.
As for turning ” No ” wives into ” Yes ” wives, I have never had to experience that. I have experienced the ” Can you hold your horses for a minute…”, ” I have a 103 fever with the flu..”, and ” can’t we go inside so the neighbor on his back porch won’t be looking at my tits?”. Many times, men allow marriage or ltr’s to drastically change them and the way they think and see things sexually. They become some truly boring dudes, but they can’t tell that this is the case. It’s like they become resigned… Read more »
@ ASD The others speak for themselves of course. I’ve wondered why you post your FR’s. There generally the same as previous posted. No bust on the FR itself, though this far along there’s no one here that has any answers for you…if that’s what you’re seeking with your FR inquiries. Your analysis of others FRs is good. Then you invariably segue into your dancing or night life or kino or ASD…kids stuff, IMO. You ever mentor anyone IRL? I’d like to hear those stories. You’ve got much more to offer than petty battles with J. If guys question you,… Read more »