For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
Back in the day i used to hit ’em hard and score frequently. I’m just over-analysing things a bit too much now. I’ve learned plenty here confirming the true nature women, but i was pretty natural on picking up women before i found the manosphere and now too much content/discussion seems to have clouded my style…
What is FR, btw…?
@ Sentient
What do you mean, she no longer had any doubt…?
@ palma
Two convos at once. I appreciate both your & Sentient’s feedback…
FR = Field Report
She gave you an opportunity to set up something with her, logistics wise. When you didn’t make a move, she sorted you to beta.
Whenever you or her have any doubt about the other person (what they are…), well there is no doubt. They are what they appear…
Thing is, you have the connection… so as you say, up your game now and move things forward. You just have to overcome the beta memory. Which you can do over text. Just pay attention to what you are doing.
I did text her up the day on my way home which appeared to flow well. The funny thing was i got a FB friend request from a DJ Kundalini who i have never met, so it thought it was quite a coincidence re the Persian’s previous nights yoga session, so here’s how it went: FoX: I got a friend request from a DJ Kundalini yesterday. Friend of yours… Persian: Hahah, no.. I don’t know of any Dj Kundalini.. F: Trippy P: Smiley face emoji F: It was totes random… But was it… P: And you thought of me.. –… Read more »
Was busy but wanted to comment about the previous page considering ‘looks/game’: “In my experience, with very good looks, you don’t really need ‘game’” Quote from the YaReally comment I linked to Mckay on the previous page: “My best wingman was a dude who was super good-looking and I was blind to subcomms too until I learned to see all the little things he was actually doing that are proper subcomms and competing with him and seeing that when I did those same subcomms but slightly better I was getting the attention over him regardless of him have a huge… Read more »
I’ve been reflecting on things and have come to the honest conclusion that i have been kidding myself about my “alphaness” really. Just because i have been able to pull a lot of girls over my journey does not an Alpha make. Just because i ride motorbikes pretty well doesn’t make me Alpha. Just because i am forging my own sound (i have always done this) and starting to play gigs as an electronic music producer does not make me Alpha. My 2 good friends out here who i ride motorbikes with are real Alphas. They both epitomize it in… Read more »
Dress sexy. Style your hair sexy. Wear sexy cologne. Feel sexy….Now approach her. Faded western shirt. Faded black cap. Old boots. One has a very noticeable hole where you can see my white sock. Shaved head. Brut deodorant. Two broken teeth. Forty pounds overweight. Old enough to be their grandpa. But I’m still a sexxxay beastie. lol Girls still wanna dance with me. And flirt with me. Get validation from me. IDGAF about any of the silly girls, lol Now if girls act that way towards me, how much more will they show interest in you young, trim men bursting… Read more »
@theasdgamer
“But I’m still a sexxxay beastie. lol”
good shit bro!!!
@j
I’m deliberately dressing down to see where I can no longer get dance partners.
lol, I haven’t hit bottom yet
@Sentient Do any of you guys deal with pros and semi pros? Pros are great… They get right to the deal. And the hottest girls I’ve tried to seduce where pros… Semi pros… These are the trouble makers. Because they dont get to the point. They are amateurs… Dabblers… I’ve lost bangs when they spring the game.. I’ve lost bangs thinking they were pros and weren’t. HABD has said they can be turned and I believe it. NOT ‘turned’… spot the underlying MPoO expectation/frame leak in that concept… (like you are trying to scam a ‘freebie’…as a beta…) you are… Read more »
Rollo,how do you get over a girl after you thought that you completely swallowed the Red Pill without spinning plates or dating any girls? I thought that I swallowed the Red Pill about 8 months ago. However, the Oneitis has crept in my mind shortly after I nexted the last plate that I was spinning. This has now gone on for 4 days. For context, I recently dropped all the plates that I was spinning due to the fact that I observed that when I was in the ER (I literally thought that I was dying, but it was due… Read more »
@SJF Emotions…I’m putting this here because it was from my experience last night in the field even though they relate to a recent OP I found myself having some feelings with some girls and guys I was chatting with…and I was Ok with it and enjoying the feelings and rapport vibing…I was joking with a guy about how my right hand never says “no” or is on the rag and will never give me crabs. I was chatting with a couple of redheads, just enjoying their company…HB6s, but they feel like “Old School” girls…tomboys…one of them follows very well and… Read more »
JJ
Back up Hoss… Panic attack? Wtf???
JJ
You trolling broski?
Swallow that red pill again. Lot of things you are missing.
JJ:
There’s a book entitled, “What got you here won’t get you there”.
It has an image of a guy who is at the end of a ladder, and the next rung of a higher ladder is out of reach.
If you want life success (relationships with people who actually care about you is a pretty key one, among others) look at the people who have that in real life, and see how they do it. You might even ask them and they’ll tell you.
I’ve known people who have been shot at in hot zones and kept their cool, been chased by sharks when spearfishing and never dropped that bloody fish, but had a panic attack just sitting in a boardroom meeting thinking “what the fuck am I doing here? Is this going to be my life?”.
At any rate, I’ll leave now before Sentient tells me to shut the fuck up.
Anon
And what do you think of such “persons”?
Damn. I thought you were going to post “shut the fuck up” and was set to copy and paste my Jinx 123. Do you want an honest answer? I don’t think you’d believe my honest answer, and anyone can make bullshit claims on the internet. As a general rule, though, I will agree most people don’t understand panic attacks and it’s probably not a good idea to tell a “plate” (as the title would indicate there’s not much of a relationship in the real sense) you’ve had a panic attack. Typically if a person is in a power position they… Read more »
Blah blah blah…
No answer.
Pointless.
I did answer.
First, I pointed out the fact that “badasses” do have panic attacks. It happens, and has nothing to do with whether a person is “manly” or not.
Then you asked what I thought of such “persons”. Well, the answer should have been obvious in the first statement.
To spell it out:
I don’t think anyone hands in his man card in for having a panic attack. I don’t think any less of a person for having a panic attack.
Your husband have panic attacks?
I had a panic attack over you two arguing. :/
Anon
“I had a panic attack over you two arguing” – ASD
See what I mean… ?
@theasdgamer “I’m deliberately dressing down to see where I can no longer get dance partners.” I don’t recommend this ‘deliberately handicapping yourself’ shit. I think everyone should take pride in the way they dress: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0XTL31RMiP8 “Forty pounds overweight.” I was fat in 2016. not overweight but fat. and it certainly didn’t help when YaReally wrote about girls not caring if you are fat or not, so I was like why worry about it lol. I did get results. But all those big macs, and whoppers made me a really lazy motherfucker. Making a conscious decision to dress like shit or… Read more »
“I was fat in 2016. not overweight but fat. and it certainly didn’t help when YaReally wrote about girls not caring if you are fat or not, so I was like why worry about it lol. I did get results. But all those big macs, and whoppers made me a really lazy motherfucker. Making a conscious decision to dress like shit or eat like shit, just to prove you can still pick up girls (“see guyz looks don’t matter!!!”) is really stupid in my opinion.” It’s more so just for getting rid of limiting beliefs to help inner game and… Read more »
@mersonia
“It’s more so just for getting rid of limiting beliefs to help inner game and what not”
agree:
https://twitter.com/Stud________/status/992567396446633985
“it’ll be detrimental because 97% of you don’t have actual game.”
cool bro. so what is “actual game”? (we still waiting on your definition of alpha too 😉
“Just like ASD gives terrible advice that will only help people who fit in his little niche(which is no one.)”
Lmaooo
“Also you type like a fat dude”
yup
“leagues”
lol. Says all you need to know.
“cool bro. so what is “actual game”? (we still waiting on your definition of alpha too 😉”
lol damn. totally forgot I was suppose to write up alot of shit…. … I got you guys no worries
Gotta make myself a list
….
1. Emotions chick write up
2. Why emotions chick write up is relevant.
3.xxxx(im forgetting something)
4. what is alpha thing
5. Actual Game
6. Why OMGs are consistently crush conversations where an individual is attempting to find ways to crush a limiting belief ( even if they aren’t that great of ideas)
Go out and crush it for me tonight @J!
I’m staying in. Was out last night. Made like 15 approaches I think. No luck
Maybe out tomorrow night again
So last night I was chatting with an out of town old black dude in my bar and saying how I’m deliberately dressing down and he says that that’s the style now and actually that’s working for me, lol. Color me…skeptical. No other guys in the bar are wearing shitty duds like I do. So I tried not using toothpaste to see if that made a diff…brushing without using paste…no change…I didn’t have minty fresh breath…I might try boogers next…lol… …apparently Mersonia doesn’t like it if I’m crushing my own limiting belief…or at least testing it…I’m going to a non-dance… Read more »
Just like ASD gives terrible advice that will only help people who fit in his little niche(which is no one.)
Yeah, my niche doesn’t fit me any more since I gained 20 pounds…
@ palma “It takes a lot of balls to look in the mirror and admit to that…” If we can’t be honest with ourselves then who can we honest with, hey… Man, it was good to get back out there and into it, lovely women of all ages everywhere. I was back in my element. I just love attractive women (what man doesn’t) and long ago accepted that i’ll always be a pussy hound. But at 52 i really do want to hook up with someone who i’m very attracted to and want to hang out with as well as… Read more »
Ended up popping out just for an hour just to at least keep up some social momentum. Need to go out as much as possible if i’m going to get anywhere close to last years laycount which isn’t looking likely at all. Think I used up all my luck last year!! First approach was a cocktail bar as 2 girl in front of me were waiting for their cocktails. 1st appraoch of the night and so I felt very stifled. Literally felt like I was at a job interview lol Opened them and asked if they’d been waiting long and… Read more »
@ASD Good job in overcoming your firmware. Sitting there on the liminal (threshold) boundary between conscious competence and unconscious competence. You’re a grown man with lots of reference experiences, needs, beliefs and your own constructed identity. In a liminal space the trick is to move forward (without certainty) in order to be able to to choose among all the the infinite number of things that present to you in the dance hall. Question your beliefs because they might be wrong. http://liminalthinking.com/nine-practices/ I’m brief here because I’m brief here because I’m on my cell phone. For you, dancing in a liminal… Read more »
I asked her what one she was gonna get and she told me.
I asked her what one she was gonna get me and she told me.
fify
Dressing down is your safe space. It would take a lot of effort, time and money and chip away at your ego investments to dress up.
Well, it would especially take spending some money, but I’m a cheapskate…maybe I’ll get some new boots and a new shirt.
@SJF
I tried opening up to people…talking with two, no, three young women about my pregnant daughter…talking with a guy how I fucked up being nice and it caused me to abandon a social circle…told him I could fix it, but the juice isn’t worth the squeeze…he liked that expression…
…it was interesting how the comfort level grew…people started opening up to me…somehow I sidestepped the testing phase where people expect me to test them…whether or not comfort works in seduction, I like comfort…so I generate comfort for me…
@scars “Pretty much as I finished the story, she got her drink and said ‘bye”” celebrate this man. You approached! first set of the night to me is about just getting it out of the way, “alright lets keep going” and not falling into a downward spiral of getting really stuck in your head and second guessing yourself. “I think she was telling him in Italian that I wasn’t her type, and after a few mins he said ‘nice to meet you’ basically and they ejected” because “Wasn’t able to ever really make it fun/interesting though” Girls sleep with guys… Read more »
“Why OMGs are consistently crush conversations where an individual is attempting to find ways to crush a limiting belief ( even if they aren’t that great of ideas)” Because they know that bad ideas about overcoming limiting ideas are . . . limiting ideas. It’s important that your ideas about limiting ideas are accurate. The OMGs aren’t simply crushing ideas to crush ideas. They are trying to direct ideas into actually productive directions. “Man will never fly” is a limiting idea. “Man will never fly by waving his arms around really hard,” isn’t a limiting idea. It’s a real limit.… Read more »
@scars “Need to go out as much as possible if i’m going to get anywhere close to last years laycount which isn’t looking likely at all.” Nah don’t do that you’ll burn out, mate. My laycount isn’t as high as dudes who go out 4-5 times a week (night game + day game) + banging 6s on Tinder/PoF, Bumble. and that’s cool. As long as I’m improving and going for girls I’m actually attracted to Vs “ehh she’s kind of cute I guess” it’s all good. Write down your sticking points and come up with possible solutions to them. Review… Read more »
kfg, your fashion sense is discussed by girls from coast to coast.
I think you’re more of a hardcore dodgegirl aficionado than I am, although I’m proficient at the sport.
I think that old guys dump on young guys’ beliefs because we’re assholes at heart.
“Question your beliefs because they might be wrong.”
Once I thought I was wrong, but it turned out I was right.
“Once I thought I was wrong, but it turned out I was right.”
Except
that one time all the time(s) when you thought that you couldn’t deal in and with emotions. You can. And you do get to choose.Good job, ASD.
@KFG
Thanks for the clarity, man.
Except
that one timeall the time(s) when you thought that you couldn’t deal in and with emotions. You can. And you do get to choose.@SJF
I don’t recall ever saying that emotions are always a hindrance, but I’m just well aware of their potential problems. Sometimes they line up with my mission, but not usually. If they line up with my mission, I have to suspect that I’m getting some mission creep, lol.
@ASD
They line up with a girl’s mission, so there’s that. To be used for advantage.
Not letting your emotions rule you. Heh, understanding your emotions. Not suppressing them, but having discipline to suppress as needed.
And Ruling her emotions for your advantage. (and before some retard thinks that is: you know, patriarchal misogyny, when a man is in charge, most often the women benefits, whether it be AF or BB. It’s to her advantage.)
Being skilled at using a whole palette of emotions. Which you seem to be doing well, better and better.
” . . . your fashion sense is discussed by girls from coast to coast.”
I’ve dipped my feet in the Atlantic, gotten in a car, and kept going until I dipped my feet in the Pacific. Naturally I got to “show myself” to girls along the way and I have no doubt they talk about it the whole way, from the extreme north to the extreme south.
And someday I hope to get west of Dodge City.
Gamesters, respond to her shit tests and fix his game:
The PUA made a lot of mistakes Rating her a 9. Don’t do that without a neg which leads somewhere. Didn’t get enough IOIs. Didn’t lead her enough. Didn’t qualify her. Her: “You’re not that tall are you?” Him: “Yeah, I have trouble reaching the car pedals.” A&A Her: “I rate you a 7.” Him: “Really? I was expecting a 3.” A&A Her: “Are you single?” Him: “Yeah, girls don’t like my baby carrot. It’s small and orange and a little moist.” [looks at his cock] [His evasiveness over his status pinged her danger circuit.] So he should follow this… Read more »
Classic good looking guy overgame… He had solid ioi and A2 he needed to quailify her more and when he sorted logistics just number close and move on. Whenever you are “arguing” with a girl you are digging a trench. Yeah Yeah your dog brain is telling you you are just explaining – no doubt a crucially iportant distinction – but to her it’s all arguing or negotiating. Change course and switxh it up on her, have her qualify or talk about herself… “you seem”… As Paul Janka would say you don’t need more than a few minutes if the… Read more »
I’d focus on her heels and hair (didn’t watch vid.)
“Those heels look uncomfortable. You a masochist?”
No: “In and out they look dangerous painful…you ever use them as a weapon? You got a violent streak?
If she says no…I’d say “No, huh? Just what a psychopath would say. Anyways put your number in here.”
Her hair: “Your hair’s kinda all over the place. (Grab a little a rub it in my fingers) You need a better conditioner/your stylist is underserving you.”
DeepakWayne trying it on with some ropey Brit girls in his latest vid 🙂
(won’t let me post youtube link on this site)
I like watching infields with Brit girls. I enjoy noticing the difference in how naturally less receptive and talkative they are. US girls seem to have been bred to be polite to strangers lol
McKay
I like watching infields with Brit girls. I enjoy noticing the difference in how naturally less receptive and talkative they are.
You see what you want to see.
Did you even watch the video a few posts up by IRL?
i’m talking about normal looking guys and not models like Tusk.
I’d bet my savings that Deepak would have gotten a much much better reaction from more talkative girls if he made that same appraoch in the US on an American girl. He even seemed a bit shocked himself lol – He’s used to people talking back.
His posture is weird too… he misses a good opportunity to lock in against the railing and focus her on him. Also could have used momentum and after intros started walking with her in the direction she was headed.
IDK who this guy is, maybe he has better infields. Infields create performing monkeys too many times.
McKay
Go out yourself and do some daygame or street approaches. Then you will know.
Then i’ll know what? I have done some daygame approaches, but mainly still sticiking with nightgame attempts
And yeah, I don’t think Deepak is considered a good PUA from what i’ve heard.
Although he also doesn’t have the advantages that people like Max and Julien have, so in terms of game, hard to properly compare
Got any recent lay reports for us @J?! 🙂
@McKay DeepakWayne trying it on with some ropey Brit girls in his latest vid 🙂 Are you talking about this? https://youtu.be/ryG19K66Rq4?t=1195 I can’t really listen to him yapping, complaining and focusing on his minority complex for too long, so I jumped straight to his infield at 19:55. Some ropey Brit girls?! Dude, he’s boring. The only funny bit is when he tells them “soo…. ummm… we are not able to stimulate you”. Damn right lol. They wait for him to come up with something stimulating for more than 3 minutes. When they don’t get that and leave, he goes butthurt… Read more »
IRL, here’s my read based on that chat 1) She doesn’t want you to go to her place: there’s stuff there you shouldn’t see. Either another guy, or she has been doing experiments with zombies. Or maybe she’s just closing the door to a ‘just sex’ type encounter (how old is she? is she a recovering slut?). Regardles, it’s a ‘wall’, just discard it for now, look for the opening. 2) When she throws the opening, it has a false time constraint (all time constraints are fake) attached to it, it’s also of the relationship type “Her: So… it’s a… Read more »
Thanks Yohami, good to see it from the outside
( @all, I asked for feedback on https://therationalmale.com/field-reports-comment-page-2-comments/comment-page-76/#comment-246135 )
@IRL: I read answers by others on the way down but I had noticed these on my own. a) He goes in and goes out of her personal space seemingly at random. I don’t think he was calibrating it properly. b) He generally failed shit test after shit test, not bad fails most of the time but not passing them. The trash line (from him) was good but then he dropped the ball. The height line, and him trying to neg her on the heels in a reactive fashion was also bad. The pick-up line and reverse pick-up line exchange… Read more »
@IAS He goes in and goes out of her personal space seemingly at random. I don’t think he was calibrating it properly. Why was that bad? It was ballsy and yet less invasive than kino. He didn’t stay close for long, pressure on pressure off. You should try it. What he missed/didn’t calibrate to though was her unfazed reaction (strong frame = don’t qualify, don’t ‘frame clash’, just disarm/bypass). So he didn’t use it as a diagnostic tool. Not a big deal, he sunk it with other things. extra points for Nah, he just needed to not fail (even ignore)… Read more »
@IRL: it wasn’t necessarily bad but it seemed to me a bit like pecking. At some points it seemed like she had her head back kind of to keep the distance, but it isn’t clear as her head is blurred.
He did kino her on the handshake and she didn’t let go for a while, at the start.
Point noted on not needing to nuke everything (which is bad), but the short shit test is such a classic, I think it is better to blast her there. I think she wanted to get nuked on that one.
@IAS
I guess you’ll have to try it and find out yourself 😉
IRL Lurv your posts but this here we need to address… She gives him free IOIs for his looks The concept of a “free” IOI – no matter what they are derived from i.e. even other than looks… Though usually this is put in the Looks = free IOI context. There is no free lunch (or munch)… No IOI is “free”… They are all “earned”. They may be earned in different ways… they may even be earned in ways we have no idea about – but she does. IOI = attraction via some stimulus she receives/feels. Could be look, could… Read more »
Test Postasdf
Deepak – if you are making infield content to showcase your game skill, why would you jump cut at the point you “give” her the number? I mean it’s already weak to be giving her your number.
Masterclass in anti-marketing here.
“Moving targets, beta blockers, Mom… persistence and cool triumph…” good example of ‘door in the face’ on that video i probably would have gone to “ugh. clingy. your mom’s enjoying your lazy ass being gone. I’m sure she doesn’t need to talk to you EVERY day, (into phone) right mom” (gotta go for the blow out or mom will categorize as beta – she’s used to her daughter’s boyfriends fucking her little’s girl’s brains out in her bedroom so gotta up that) and why always fucking coffee. so lame. that girl is a fucking slob. he should have negged her… Read more »
@Sentient @IRL @Scars
Free IOIs Vs Earned IOIs 2:20 – 4:00
https://youtu.be/oNLhG_K8Bcs?t=2m20s
8-10 = Free IOIs (“just standing there”) (aka passive)
4-7 = Earned IOIs via DHV (preselection, social proof, leader of men) (aka proactive)
Whoa…..
J
Perpetuating the myth… [sigh]
Why do you think looks can’t be earned? You were fat and now you aren’t afterall. Was that “free”?
But no matter, as I said it’s a red herring anyway… Free and earned… IOIs are IOIs.
“You were fat and now you aren’t afterall. Was that “free”?” ya I worked at it. Nobody should be fat, even if you can still get girls (according to a former coach, RSD Luke has the worst game of all the current instructors 1:48 – 2:20 https://youtu.be/6ZzI8Irj0tM?t=1m48s and like I said previously, one should take pride in how they dress. but that doesn’t mean go from total schlub to Brooks Brothers ocbd/blazer wearing dude like Carell’s character in Crazy Stupid Love: Keep it simple. Evil Stifler recommends black pants, black t-shirt, tennis shoes, hair gel, brush your teeth, smell good.… Read more »
1-10 for men that may be the gayest thing i’ve seen on here and i’m not even sure gayest is a word and I abused the shit out of myself, ate every fatty organ thing i could, drank everything i could… and i still wasn’t fat except in the cock her: ‘no. you seriously look like neo” me: “plus I got a fat cock” her: “okay then. good to know. I’ll keep that info in my back pocket” fact: girls like it up the butt. they like to feel like a wishbone about to be snapped facct: if she’s hot,… Read more »
@fleezer
“and I abused the shit out of myself, ate every fatty organ thing i could, drank everything i could…”
wow ur like so kewl
“and i still wasn’t fat”
Ectomorph. Nothing special:
https://www.muscleandstrength.com/articles/body-types-ectomorph-mesomorph-endomorph.html
Hard to believe Deepaks style of game has gotten him some of the results he’s claimed! He often opens and talks about a girl he knows who he was just with and then goes on about her (his friends) job, his job, culture differences and then ”you look like you don something creative” (pretty sure he actually used that lines on both girls in the recent infield!? haha) etc. My reaction is always the same as them Brit girls – i.e – ”Is there a point to this?! What do you want?! Can we go now!!??” lol But in some… Read more »
Excellent infield from Chris Wilde today (note the fashion sense 😉 ) starting at 16:40
https://youtu.be/UNVrZ9yt6tI?t=16m40s
be persistant and close. “cause it’s fuck or walk. You close or you hit the bricks.”
Men’s looks discussion…gay Ok, gonna practice my storytelling. (Thanks for the segue, J.) I was at wally world, grabbing nibbles. (Is that gay enough for ya, fleeze?) Saw a mommy in yoga pants from the rear. Dam fine ass. Her 7ish boy ran off pushing her cart and she wasn’t paying attention. Later, as I was passing her (attractive girl, no makeup), I remarked that I saw the kid run off with the purse. Her comeback was she knew where he lived. [I smiled as I walked past.] She continued, “He’s a handful.” [She gave me a big smile.] Time… Read more »
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ASD Your ASD is acting up. This is where not actually escaliting on girls retards your calibration. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. There is such a thing still in Teh Current Year as normal social interaction. For now… You say Hello to someone. They say Hello back. It does not mean it was an IOI anymore than any of the responses Depak Wayne got to his boorish interregation. Sidebar – “He’s a handful” You: that’s what people say about me… Actually two handfuls… What? Oh get your mind out of the gutter perv… Really I have a small… Read more »
Sentient, is kino escalation or not? Why do you suppose that Mrs. Gamer tries to pretend that I don’t go dancing? Why do you think that I don’t escalate? Whatever gave you that idea? And why do you think that I can’t tell the diff between mere politeness and girlish excitement? The girl stopped and grinned big, lasering me as I rolled past. Was I bringing some fun into her life, maybe? (Remember, she was wearing yoga pants. That’s a subtle advertisement. At least, PUAs should take it as such.) Shit, man, lol. I’m not saying that I had her… Read more »
Blax, I’m a lot scruffier than those pics. But still chillin like a villain.
“Chris Wilde video”
HORRIBLE body language
Was too cocky last night. Tried to bang this 8 with a 9 A.M flight to London the next day. Ran really solid game (my verbal game has improved a lot) used a lot of contrasting (http://www.girlschase.com/content/attract-her-harder-nlp-contrast-technique). Hugged her and kissed her head as she left with her friends. Interesting way I told her she was beautiful. I said “damn you look a lot like my girlfriend uhhh I mean ex-girlfriend hahaha. She was very beautiful but I have a lot of bad memories about her and you just reminded me of them.” Imo, one of the cutest things girls… Read more »
Last night at my stomping ground, a girl friend came up to me after I turned around from chatting with a guy friend and said that she was gonna pinch my butt, but I had turned around. So I gave her shit about being in 6th grade. And I said that I was sure that I was the 16th guy she had planned on pinching that night. She said that I was “speshul”, lol. Girls are so predictable once you have game. She pinched me later anyway, lol, and I returned the favor. I asked her to dance later and… Read more »
Admittedly, in all my days, I’ve never asked a girl to go to my truck. Maybe because I only used trucks for work, but that’s neither here nor there.😁
Admittedly, in all my days, I’ve never asked a girl to go to my truck. “Truck Game.” Coming to a bullshit store near you. that’s neither here nor there. He’s over here, he’s over there, that demned elusive Pimpernel. NB Commenting is a great way to improve your improv, if you work on it. That’s one of the ways I use commenting. Just bringing the party wherever I go….in a self-improvement sort of way… Oh, yeah, a victory last night. A guy who has been insecure about me dancing with his fiancé gave me the thumbs up to dance with… Read more »
Matt Forney reviews Palma Sailor’s book:
http://www.returnofkings.com/172112/the-divorces-of-a-fat-dad-aged-44-1-4-is-a-poignant-look-at-modern-marriage
O/T ( a different kind of pickup..)
CT Fletcher, one of my motivational examples for how shit can go very, very wrong, and still be overcome, recently had a heart transplant. He was supposed to be dead 11 years ago.
When is a man down? When he gives up and lays down. Don’t ever forget that no matter how you may feel.
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zSj2In5QBcI&w=1280&h=720%5D
Eliminate can’t from your active vocabulary.
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImQIbMBdfnw&w=1280&h=720%5D
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWW-5Q_EzKM&w=1280&h=720%5D
Do the work, and do it for yourself.
Now, back to our regular program.
Grandpa Mule lives!
Fortunately.
Dancing to juicy j. On br break.
With 5 girls….3 hot…2 not.
Go RP now y’all.