For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
@ IRL
P girl is Persian & #2 girl is the German. I simplified things as to de-pedastalize them as rightly encouraged here, and it’s working. From now on just gonna look at all women i want to fuck as annoying girls and truly seeing myself as the prize, which i fucking well am.
Just texted the German (who i haven’t amped it up seXually with yet):
“Not enough seXy nurses here…”
Actually, the cute young Indian doctor just came in alone and i gamed her at the end of our brief conversation, “You don’t look old enough to be a doctor…” with a grin on my dial.
Her serious demeanor, professional was instantly smashed and she burst into a big smile and said whilst leaving, “I take that as a compliment…”, which i replied cheekily, “As it was intended…doctor…” and she bounced out glowing…
I bet she doesn’t get flirted with my many patients, especially Silver Foxes like me…
Fuck, i’m feeling reborn!
“Her serious, professional demeanor…” i meant
She just popped back in with a grin because she forgot to take my chart in our seXy little moment i described before…
“I forgot your chart…” she said whilst looking at me like a schoolgirl, then skipped out. Tingles for sure for a seXy older man…
It’s so obvious that these cute multicultural young doctors and med students just don’t get around masculine men very often. Yes AWALT…
@FoX
Fuck, i’m feeling reborn!
Highest highs and lowest lows… Artists…
Re the Persian: expect shit tests and beta baits. She’s seen your beta episodes, so she’ll test you hard for that dissonance. You’ll need to amp the alpha and not fall into traps.
Like this one:
‘Haha I can wait, I wish you a sound recovery xx’
@SSF Here’s to a quick recovery from surgery. And here’s the stick (now that you’re on pain killers):Like the others have said, you’ve already done near fatal damage with your long, initiate-first thirsty therapist emotional tampon texts to the Persian chick — so now she has a good imprint of your frame (orbiter). And here’s the carrot: Your last text is an ideal turning point for a good insight to this chick’s character (if you still want to be with a potential narcissist, that is). Do. Not. Text. Her. Again. What you are waiting to see is if she has… Read more »
Cute Indian doctor just came to visit me again (3rd time in less than an hour) and enquired as to if i was feeling light headed, to which i instantly replied: “Only when i see you” Which elicited a schoolgirl giggle and big smile with plenty of eye lasering. She subconsciously put her hands behind her back (big IOI) showing me her tidy slim figure and continued chatting to me without losing eye contact. As she was leaving i asked her how her name was pronounced and she told me. I replied, “Doctor S____, that sounds very sweet, you’ll go… Read more »
Fox…
Yeah saw it.
Plus 1000 to Ajax advice… Hit reset bromeo. Waaaaaiiiiiitttttt til she texts you.
Can you? There is the test.
Get better…
Wait. ✋ wait…
Aftet het inquiry then sexual8ze
Fox: Yeah I’m ok but they want me to look into another procedure.
Her: blah blah !?
Fox: Yeah. Penis reduction
(wait a beat)
Fox: Need to get a second opinion
@ Ajax Parallax “Do. Not. Text. Her. Again. What you are waiting to see is if she has at least a real concern for your well-being. Accept nothing short of “FoX, how are you feeling? How is your recovery? Can I bring something to help you feel better?” Actually, the ideal response would be for her to just physically show the fuck up at your house with legit concern and compassion for your health, as a true friend would hopefully do for you. If she does not text anything without your initiating again, or texts something half neutral, she is… Read more »
Dude, WOW. That is the rock star attitude. Way to go, Fox. Fuckin’ Prize talkin’ right there. I’ve been there before too, man (over-investing in one ‘Ajax? Meh-mayyyyybeee’ chick due to situational scarcity). Found out the more women I threw into my bullpen, the more I completely forgot about my one-pitch-pony unspectacular tepid middle relievers. What’s more, with this kind of growing sample size, you start to organically (unconsciously) compare these girls’ personalities and energies and spend more time communicating with the ones you really enjoy hanging with, while becoming more scarce with the ones who don’t think you’re the… Read more »
@ Ajax “Found out the more women I threw into my bullpen, the more I completely forgot about my one-pitch-pony unspectacular tepid middle relievers.” Sentence of the week, ma man! I’ve just been picked up by a mate who i haven’t hung out with much (mainly due to living 2 hours apart), but who started a men’s group out here. I’ve been feeding him & the group lotsa TRM and he’s very open to it. We just had a quick chat about women & TRP before he had to bail, but i’m crashing at his crib tonight so we’ll have… Read more »
Field Report At a salsa event, Sat. night. No rejections. …too many girls and not enough guys…girls go into herd mode and are more difficult to hook I got there about 10:30. Unexpectedly, got carded at the door. The guy looked surprised when he checked my Id. Said hi to a guy I know. Don’t go to the salsa event often. I know maybe one other person there. Talked to a couple of guys. There was a group of four girls dancing on the floor. One got asked to dance. Leaving three. I suggested to a guy that he and… Read more »
Ok, so some of you guys wondered why I post here and why it’s always the same stuff. I enjoy posting. Writing about my experiences is a bit of a thrill as I relive them. Makes me feel better. (Remember that autists have to deal with higher levels of cortisol.) As I think over my experiences, I learn things and learn how to respond more appropriately. I show consistent results and add data points. I show the value of lead/follow dancing. If you look carefully, you can see that there are variations in what women do. It’s good to be… Read more »
@theasdgamer Have you ever reached the the A2 Sexual hook point without dancing (your clutch) via verbal game only? Cause that would be a good Field Report YaReally: “If I was taking any of you guys here into the actual field with me, the first thing I would do is take away any of your crutches. Blaximus wouldn’t be allowed to touch any girls and would have to go to the club alone so he has no friend to build energy with. Rollo would have to eat a huge meal and dress in baggy clothes so he looks fat, probably… Read more »
J
Don’t bother with ASD. He is just going to argue now that he is getting “sexual” A2 after all. And will ignore that this can never be proven without actually having sex. It’s just validation seeking and not a real interest in understanding.
Cheat on your spouse or LTR
I fucking know you don’t have balls to do that!
@j Have you ever reached the the A2 Sexual hook point without dancing (your clutch) via verbal game only? Cause that would be a good Field Report I’ve done several, but apparently you didn’t see them. I think the reason most girls don’t reject you is because you’re expected to dance…at a salsa event lol Virtually none of the A2 things happen at a salsa event. The crowd there is much more restrained and women generally don’t move to dance close except sometimes bachata. Salsa has a high percentage of dance geeks. The Colombian girl (hb8) in my last fr… Read more »
@theasdgamer
“You know what I mean by “lit up,” right? Emotions spiking and it showing in their faces. Especially the involuntary signals that can’t be faked. Pupils dilated, More rapid breathing. Eyelids raised. Nostrils flared. Voice musical and bubbly and rambling. The girl’s RAS focused on you.”
I’d easily have a triple digit lay counts by now, had banged all the chicks that were “lit up” but failed to close.
“Cue Sentient: “But you don’t really know unless you bang her.”
good axiom
@j
The point is whether there was sexual A2, not whether a girl being lit up will necessarily lead to sex. You’re unhelpful and gave me no new info, but distracted and diverted, an emotional reponse just like a girl would do. You guys are trying to protect some supposedly PUA turf against OMG’s. I guess you feel threatened. I’m not sure why.
@J – Nice one! I tend to expect you to get laid every night to be honest lol Yeah, It was a fun night for me. I woke up pumped despite not getting lald. Some mornings I definitely contemplate stopping cold approach for a few monthts when i’ve had a night of being unable to get past the open! haha (PS – All the guys I was with were unable to really get past the open the other night on the few approaches they made) ‘sounds like a shit test to me.’ – I’d usually agree, but i’ve had enough… Read more »
“You guys are trying to protect some supposedly PUA turf against OMG’s.”
No. I’m (and Sentient (an OMG)) saying reaching the sexual hook point isn’t a big deal…even if they’re aggressively making out with you…grabbing your ass…telling you they’re sooo horny. Sexual A2 ≠ lay. You still have to deal with cockblocks, winning her friends over, LMR, resistance to pulling, fucked up logistics…aka where most guys fuck up (including me). That’s all I’m saying bro…don’t get all emotional now lol
@scars
“She was pretty but pushing 40 and there’s something magical about the younger girls who I truly desire!”
ah ok probably not a shit test
“she gave me the impression of someone who’d recently been fucked over and would probably have been more interested in my ‘nice guy’ brother who was also out with me!”
yeah you’d have to change your approach a bit. That’s good that you could tell:
http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-womens-tastes-men-change-they-age
girls that absolutely adore the fuckboi type are the under 25 crowd…which tend to be the hottest girls
j, I’m asking for serious input on why girls say that I’m awesome…this is for my book, so it’s a money question.
No. I’m (and Sentient (an OMG)) saying reaching the sexual hook point isn’t a big deal
…as long as you don’t do anti-game, you approach, you demonstrate value, and sexualize…sure…for those of us who do a lot of approaching, getting to A2 isn’t a big deal. My book is for AFCs who can’t get to A2, especially because of fear of approaching.
ASD
So guys are going to buy a book on picking up girls where the sex chapter is what? ______
What an ending! You are going to need Bigly Persuasion…
If no one is having sex… how is anyone reaching “sexual” hook points? It’s a distinction without a difference. No sex is no sex.
[Peeling the onion, you might investigate why this is important to your ego and self esteem]
since we’re a country of alcoholic binge drinkers who can’t go out without getting plastered
Oi! Let’s make a teevee show!!!
“why girls say that I’m awesome”
lol others guys are free to offer their take on this as well, but I think when girls are emotionally charged (after you’ve spiked their emotions for a bit), they will verbalize how they feel/their attraction for you via compliment “omg you are sooo awesome *high five*” “I love you” (I’ve heard a girl say this to RSDTyler in an infield before, forgot which one) “I’m so attracted to you right now” *Doggy Dinner Bowl look*
“why girls say that I’m awesome”
It’s not what they say, it’s what they do… lol
Look, girls “out” at bars or clubs… that is a safe space. Liminal space… They can say a lot of shit, they can dance, grind, make out with guys, get fingered, make out with chicks… etc.
Because it’s not “real”.
Penis in vagina is real on a limbic level – “pregnancy danger”. This is the line. Tab A into Slot B.
The people in that TV show are a good argument against democracy.
I tried to imagine how I might games those three women at the start but I could only think of drowning or strangulation.
Sentient, my book is about using dancing to get over the fear of approaching. I need to basically game the reader to go out and try stuff and they will see it as a BIG DEAL if some girl puts their hands on her boobs. I’ll need to explain to the reader what the girl is feeling when that happens. (Reaching the sexual hook point will be the carrot to pull the reader in.) This is the first book in a series. Do things make more sense to you now? J, I think that girls are experiencing a fantasy, in… Read more »
“Penis in vagina is real on a limbic level – “pregnancy danger”. This is the line. Tab A into Slot B.” this is why we have two different n counts (kinda like a girl) total and bareback giving the bareback count is like girls giving the count of only the guys that “counted” but the difference comes when you tell her the total count she’ll be more turned on hearing that higher number, whereas when a girl gives her real actual count (never), the guy is turned off if she can’t see “you” in her panties (assuming she wears any)… Read more »
Chunky
I tried to imagine how I might games those three women at the start but I could only think of drowning or strangulation.
You got this 😉 now we’re talking.
Scars This is why you need to understand MM… Not look at it, understand it. Understand group theory etc. First part of the night we are just catching up and having a beer, and then we go to this cool little bar we heard about. I open 2 girls sitting down and ask them where’s good to go in this town. They aren’t that hot but are being very friendly and receptive which is super unusal, and then one of their hot friends turn up. She’s actually late 30’s which was a surprise (I usually only find really young girls… Read more »
@scars – I wouldn’t ”ignore/neg/iod the hot girl”. Outdated and does more harm than good. It’s good to show interest/intent. You said yourself that all of your friends who get laid lots show lots of intent. Don’t ignore what you see with your own eyes. Sounds like you were too flirty with the initial girl who you weren’t even interested in though, but it’s all cool. You should have kept it very platonic with her (knowing that you weren’t even into her) and then your ‘making a move’ on the hotter friend might have not got her hackles up so… Read more »
“Sounds like you were too flirty with the initial girl who you weren’t even interested in though, but it’s all cool. You should have kept it very platonic with her”
i.e. not shown intent… lol
“I wouldn’t ”ignore/neg/iod the hot girl”. Outdated and does more harm than good.” lol. wrong. unless you’re chasing pussy. but then all you’re gonna get is one of those kind of fucks. if you’re just going for experience/notches/distraction, great, monkey dance your ass off, but otherwise the idea that a neg is outdated might be the dumbest thing I’ve heard on here in a while. reeks of fear and lack of abundance mentality. who gives a fuck how she reacts. plus i love seeing people get bent out of shape by words, especially hot girls “It’s good to show interest/intent.”… Read more »
@jeckel – yeah, spot on dude But that’s kind of what I said in my initial FR anyway. I think i looked too thirsty and that I hit on her straight after finding out her friend wasn’t available and she saw this. I should have just remained completely non-sexual/non flirty with the 1st girl and then once I saw the hot one, been like ”You’re hot! Who are you?” kind of thing (and yeah, I don’t do the whole negging/IOD mysterymethod stuff anyway. I follow the RSD type model. Tried that stuff before but tended make them run away (from… Read more »
@jejckel nah this was the move “You need keep chatting up the friendly and receptive married girls… game them, win them over and ignore/neg/iod the hot girl and make her chase you” He was already chatting the two friendly girls, all he had to do was keep spiking their emotions, briefly acknowledge the hot girl when she joined the set, then go back to gaming the friends making the hot girl curious about him…then she’d try to jump into the conversation (“hey what’s your name?”, A2), then he could turn his attention more toward her. qualify her (“oh wow that’s… Read more »
Bringing it over from the main thread: http://www.thealpinagstaad.ch/upload/photos/_full-o_18iebft371el1c4ofc8fjh13l6i.jpg @EhIntellect How would you direct open the bar side trio above? Me? Foot tapping her: “Your Jimmy Choo’s are decent knockoffs. I can tell. They’ll do for tonight.” @Sentient I’d not look at them while striding to the empty stool to the left, place my hands flat on the bar, spread wider than shoulder with, summon the bartender, order – resolutely ignoring them, get my drink, thank the bar tender, take a sip… and wait… Force the open. when one did, and they will, quarter turn my head over the shoulder, looking… Read more »
@scars (and yeah, I don’t do the whole negging/IOD mysterymethod stuff anyway. I follow the RSD type model. Tried that stuff before but tended make them run away (from negs) or walk away (from IOD’s) rather than chase! haha) You misunderstood MM. You don’t neg/IOD girls in vacuum. You create a quasi-social circle setting in which the target becomes curious and wants to know why her friends are positive towards you (pre-selection). THEN ignoring/negs/IODs make her want to chase you and get what the friends are getting (or more). Of course negs/IODs won’t work when you try to force the… Read more »
@IRL
Yeah Sentient primarily games in lounges and hotel/airport bars. So he’s advice will come from that environment. My LRs come from places that look more like the second image.
Here’s Tyler warming up in a quiet bar without talking starting at 5:40
https://youtu.be/WYBMtAbiUqA?t=5m40s
Cats…
http://gif-finder.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/Curious-Cat-Stands-Like-a-Human.gif
Tyler.😕
@IRL
”You create a quasi-social circle setting in which the target becomes curious and wants to know why her friends are positive towards you (pre-selection). THEN ignoring/negs/IODs make her want to chase you and get what the friends are getting (or more).”
Yeah, that’s how I tried to do it, in the past. No big deal though. As was said before, there’s a million ‘models’ of pickup that are all as successful as each other.
Tyler is solid. There goes Blax, undercutting another man.
Yeah.I’m totally unreasonable.
J IRL would your approach have worked there with the girls on the right or the left? Here is the thing, you don’t know until you try it. Until you wait….. it…. out….. That cat right? But no need to be too rigid gents… My response to Eh was in context of that image. what did you see in that image? Three girls doing what? Sitting… giving off approach invites… They were not huddled together over a phone or a story, or trying to get the bartender across a packed bar… So pull that string. Horses for courses. Now keep… Read more »
You misunderstood MM. You don’t neg/IOD girls in vacuum. You create a quasi-social circle setting in which the target becomes curious and wants to know why her friends are positive towards you (pre-selection). THEN ignoring/negs/IODs make her want to chase you and get what the friends are getting (or more).
This… Reading not equal to understanding. Used to say a lot understand the why behind the how. Too many here focused on the how, and numbers game… Need to start saying it again.
Sentient, you use too many words and are delaying me from getting laid…illustrating your point.
“You create a quasi-social circle setting in which the target becomes curious” True. I’ve done this for fun: I’ll be smoking a cigar outside a bar among the other tobacco lepers. There are worthwhile girls with the group. I open them easy enough then say this…Lets play a game where we guess each other’s names. Situate them so they are between people they don’t know and have them guess the person to their left. And around n around until all the names are guessed or wherever it goes. I have no idea why girls love this game and there’s plenty… Read more »
IRL
Here is a variation you can try in a more crowded place. You’ve no doubt gotten some looks, eye game IOIs across space, like you are walking to the back past the bar and a girl gives a quick glance and away. Go try the forced open next to that girl. See how long it takes for her to engage you. It helps if you draw some attention to yourself, don;t sneak in from the blindside so she has no idea you are there. Posture, spreading out arms wide and engaging the staff are key in drawing attention.
Sitting… giving off approach invites… Here is what I see a lot of in these situations. Dudes rush in to engage!!!! The girls mildly engage, maybe even laugh a bit and have some fun, usually ask the guy to buy them a drink and ALL THE WHILE scan past the guys at the rest of the room… They have the power. The guys never really bounce them. They run their speils and are gone, replaced by the next wave of guys… Be conscious of the power dynamic, don’t give your power away too easily. A valid knock on Mystery Method… Read more »
IRL
from that same FR of yours in that crowded chaotic club.
Another part of the club. I notice a tall older guy. He’s good looking, well dressed and groomed, stands there in a dominant pose observing the dance floor, unaffected and slowly sipping his drink. I think “hell yeah I’ll come over to say hello to Sentient” lol.
I notice a bunch of girls positioning themselves close to him, giving him IOIs and AIs.
“No place looks like the second lol”
wine bars perhaps? kind of like the Bar Veloce’s in NYC or just about any bar before 10 pm on a weekend.
“I notice a tall older guy. He’s good looking, well dressed and groomed, stands there in a dominant pose”
good luck to any short ugly fucker trying to make the Forced Open work for him lol
Fuck those short ugly fuckers
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R0lcTHBvaeU
“You misunderstood MM. You don’t neg/IOD girls in vacuum.” why not? girls are annoying. girls are stuck in their own heads. girls can’t drive. i neg bitches all the time and that has nothing to do with trying to fuck them. if a cunt is being a cunt somewhere, I’ll tell her to her face. i’ll call little girls twats to their faces. why? because they are. if every interaction is within my frame then there is no such thing as a vacuum. “You create a quasi-social circle setting in which the target becomes curious and wants to know why… Read more »
@fleezer i neg bitches all the time and that has nothing to do with trying to fuck them. Exactly. Meet Judi, Steph’s cockblock (1:50): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7H4X4GzmFk Now. Yeah, I know what you’re saying. My natural buddy is like that. He creates this assholish aura around him and girls can’t help themselves but react to him (note: does not equal fuck him). He’s at the border of being a total ‘chav’ and somehow smart/posh. A very intelligent daredevil and a total prick. If someone pisses him off, you can read it on his face and see in his actions pretty quick. He’ll… Read more »
Well, both of the chicks i pedastalized haven’t enquired as to how my operation went post op (it went fine BTW), so i’ve nexted both of them. No contact from the FoX, nothing. Fuck ’em. You guys were right and knew it deep down anyways in my heart of hearts. Good lesson of having an abundance mentality instead of one of scarcity and believing it, which i now do. Just had Mystery Method delivered and enjoying it very much. I’ve pretty much rolled like this over the years when successfully gaming girls (often much younger than me by 10-15 years)… Read more »
fleezer
Cool stories bro. I get it that when girls hook, it’s a solid submission for years. But what’s the conversion rate from your solid frame marketing to signing on the line that is dotted? Maybe that’s not the point, but let’s be clear about it.
I have no idea why girls love this game and there’s plenty of laughs as people get closer and closer to getting it…hints are dropped…I really don’t care what turns up…there’s always one girl super excited to get the name and she’ll hog the turns.
Been away on business recently, but came home to meet a friend at a bar. I open the first hot girl I see who is at the bar. Opinion opener. She engages. I go into a DHV story that was going to be about my model ex girlfriend who I saved from someone (”Hey, check this out! I was driving through inverness last year….”), but almost straight away, she’s got this look on her face like ”Why are you telling me this?”. I can see this in her eyes, but no sure whether too address her expression. Like i’m coming… Read more »
Hey! I’ve been hijacked. Flattering.
@McKay: I’m far from an expert but you are missing something. You don’t need to hide your intent, it is helpful to show intent, it just needs to be at the right time. In the case of your friend, he probably went in “warm” after the girl smiled at him or something similar, so it was ok to show intent. The point is that you shouldn’t go to A3 (your Male to Female interest) before her A2 (her Female to Male interest). You need to calibrate a bit to her IOIs, she at least touched you, the “no touching” line… Read more »
“Hopefully this make sense to you”
It wont.
Sentient, I wonder why you say that IAS’ advice won’t make sense to McKay? I had the same thought, but I couldn’t really tell you why I came to that conclusion.
@Mckay “Opinion opener. She engages. I go into a DHV story that was going to be about my model ex girlfriend who I saved from someone” Transition into the story. don’t just spill the story outta nowhere. that gets the “why is he telling me this” type of reaction. find hooks in your story that allow you to give you an excuse to tell your story. Like in your story you said you were driving through Inverness, Scotland. Ok. ask her where’s she from. She tells you. You can make a silly comment/cold read (“make a face like your in… Read more »
marelius but I couldn’t really tell you why I came to that conclusion. Charitably, he imbues deliberate obtuseness cause his mind is made up. He is not interested in learning in good faith. Personally the whole thing reads like he copied his shithatneverhappened.txt file to grind his ax… These forums attract odd and often broken birds, it’s a thing. Just look who comes and who goes – and then look at who engages, tries shit, accepts responsibility, tries again, calibrates, adjusts, perseveres, builds on successes. Mersonia would say most are autistic… Like seriously if you were having success with “direct”… Read more »
Marelius
There is a lot of this mindset as well…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7Ddmf8VNDQ
They feel best when losing. That is the payoff. Hank and Softek are poster boys.
@Mckay “one of them just moves towards me” IOI “and asks how I know my friend. I tell her.” No reason to tell her right away. Spike her emotions first. “oh he’s my ex-husband. He’s trying the whole “attracted to the opposite sex” thing now. I’m just here for support”. then she’ll laugh, and ask “no seriously how do you guys know each other”? then tell her. “I know that I need to show disinterest though and not show any intent” No. just keep talking to her. If you had done what I did above, that’s 3 IOIs. you can… Read more »
@Sentient
nah I honestly think this chart (I personally don’t find it helpful) you and others post here, just confuses the fuck outta the newbies like Mckay/Scars that has them thinking “wait. am I suppose to IOD here???” “How do I DHV now? Tell another story??”
Comment from Hacker News on Learning:
“At work, I rarely understand what someone’s talking about when explaining or demonstrating something new to me. So I invariably say, “Stop! Tell me what to do and I’ll do it.” […] I never teach by lecturing or writing (except here one the internet, of course); I always make the student do it while I tell them what to do. This is the only real way I’ve ever been able to assure myself that they’ll remember.”
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=8771952
The chart provides a general schematic usble in any general situation. The point is to understand what’s supporting the “Tell me what to do and I’ll do it.” Give a fish vs. teach them to fish.
Robert Greene: ” “Actually, your past successes are your biggest obstacle: every battle, every war, is different, and you cannot assume that what worked before will work today.”
Agreed, ej, examples help newbies…though most of these guys have been here waaaay too long to play newbie.
The irony is the chart (page 144) was posted because guys were saying the book to long and the A-C-S model was too complex to grasp.
How will one find the right porridge?
@j
”Scars that has them thinking “wait. am I suppose to IOD here???”
Ahhh, Don’t drag me into it! haha. I’m passed all that stuff. I do RSD/EvoDaily game instead so don’t worry about that sort of thing.
PS – Thoughts on the girl on teh right?
https://zackscracescars.vids.io/videos/489adebb171be2c7c0/29649572_350262845463437_5797847572018102272_n-mp4
“If someone pisses him off, you can read it on his face and see in his actions pretty quick.” i am better calibrated than the majority of women out there. caused butthurt at uni when i destroyed every girl in class on facial expression test. every single one of them disputed the results, saying, “in real life I’m a much better judge of other’s feelings and emotions”. lol. no, you’re not. you’re totally solipsistic, passive aggressive and ineffectively manipulative if you can’t use your pussies. and you barely pay attention to anyone at all. i’m not autistic spectrum like some… Read more »
Morgan Freeman Accused of Sexual Harassment by Multiple Women
Eight women have accused Morgan Freeman of harassment and inappropriate behavior, according to a report by CNN.
In total, 16 people spoke to CNN about Freeman, eight who claim to be victims of either sexual harassment or inappropriate behavior, and eight who said they witnessed Freeman’s alleged misconduct.
http://variety.com/2018/film/news/morgan-freeman-harassment-inappropriate-behavior-1202820911/amp/
When I’ll be accused too?
Did any celebrity stand up against #Me_too movement?
Did any celebrity stand up against #Me_too movement??
scars: I just flip switches randomly until I find a girl who is DTF…I don’t need to understand women
cue Sentient’s facepalm
scars, neither one is my type
I could have guessed that @asd! haha
@scars
7.5
@scars
my type
In IRL’s two pics May 23 @ 8:43 am
blonde in center of crowded bar pic
brunette 2nd from left in quiet bar pic
I would dance with your two girls, tho, but they wouldn’t arouse my interest…if they got really keen on me and were sweet, warm, and feminine, that would change things
@j – Same 7.5. I really want her though. I’m gonna hit on her on Saturday lol
7.5?
I’d say you see the wide range of the 6 between them.
+1 Sentient
Yeah, if she’s a 7.5, I owe my wife an apology when I said she was a 7.5. Evidently she’s a 9.
7.5 -8.
http://portuguese-american-journal.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/sara.png
And I don’t even like Portuguese chicks.
Indian 8. Lol.
http://im.rediff.com/movies/2017/mar/24chitrangda1.jpg
Blax, that chick looks about like the Colombian broad I danced salsa with last Sat. Plenty of lovely girls were there, but I have more fun at my country bar…plus, I met the 22 y.o. hb9 and danced with her. Her only fault was that her hair was too short–kind of a page boy. I got some intel on the broad who another broad led away. A guy who lives in the same apt. complex as the DJ said that he saw her going to the DJ’s apt. all the time. And the broad who led the first broad away… Read more »
lol you old guys….
girl on the left in @scars video is def a 6. The other chick however:
nice face (hence 7.5), youth, wild personality, and great ass. would bang multiple times
I don’t like blondes (dirty blondes are cool tho) so @theasdgamer’s girl doesn’t motivate me to want to approach/game her (I coincidently run my best game on chicks that I’m really attracted to)
Blax’s Brazilian chick has a beautiful eyes, nice face….and a pancake ass…pass.
Blax’s indian chick (7.5) would bang, but has nothing on late 90s/early 2000s Aishwarya Rai
wild personality, I’ve got a girl for you J… Awesome personality…. lol Scars girl has a pretty face, but basically the same body as her friend. I’d stipulate to a 6.9, based on the scant evidence here. But really – she is short, a bit pear shaped, no tits… Personality he says… Scale 10 – 9’s that hit your personal preferences – skin, hair, eyes, tits whatevs… 9’s – exist solely on looks. Models, kept women, trophy wives… 8’s – Hollywood and Porn pretty. Hot but have to do something else… Act, sing, dance, strip suck cock on film… etc.… Read more »
@Sentient
lol I’m serious man. I screen for personality. I hate talking to boring chicks. I can instantly tell we’d have a lot of good times in and out of the bedroom. I’m also not a tits guy myself, so I don’t negate points for that. Short girls are cool. Lot of positions I can do with them, that I can’t do with taller chicks. Pear shape is accurate. Still, to me, solid 7.5
@ j I love you in the most non-homo way possible. Lol. Thing is, the HB scale in practice is very much dependent on a guy’s personal tastes. So that shit gets skewed like a motherfucker most times. I’m not a huge fan of blondes either, but I have a friend that’s a natural blonde ( rarer every day…) and I can tell that she is gorgeous, but I have no idea what ” HB ” to assign to her. Most guys here don’t care for ass, lol, so my ideal wouldn’t match 90% of commenters. A girl doesn’t have… Read more »
This.
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bqvT_Wt4pPI&w=854&h=480%5D
J I screen for personality. Personality is critical. It just does not show up on a visual scale. Cause – visual scale. Sorry Blax. I hope guys bang whoever they want. But let’s hold on to reality and not grade inflate. Fit her to the distribution. But bang away in the meantime. You will find girls that just do it for you… It’s cool they may be a 6 objectively. Chemistry is real too. She may have other things that you enjoy… techniques… submissiveness, meatball recipes… etc. I loves me a nice 26YO 7… no doubt. But I’m not fooling… Read more »
And before an autist jumps in with some “pointy elbows’ snark…
HB rank is one of the great guy conversations that can never end. Right there with Porsche/Ferrari or Ford/Chevy…
Sorry again Blax!
one last shot and I’m out.
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sq7ACfninEg&w=854&h=480%5D