For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
I strongly prefer girls who are warm, sweet, and feminine. Looks have to hit a minimum threshold. Being fun and curvy are nice to have, but not required. The loveliest girl I ever saw was a brunette spinner with long hair, a lot of English blush and a tenor voice. The voice seemed strange, but made her even more exotic. B cups, B ass, 5’2″, 105 lbs. Nicely curvy without going all Sophia Loren. Feminine out the ying yang, warm sweet, her friends from church were winging her (solid “I’m a good girl, I am” game, lol) Just wow! Only… Read more »
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Side by side a 7.XX and a sub 5…
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Quick!!! Somebody get Taylor some sammiches!!!!
Lena ate them all…
I appreciate pulchritude of the distaff sex in its myriad expressions.
Lol. No doubt.
Just looked at Mrs. Gamer’s picture on our wedding day. Still un fucking believable. Maybe I’ll post it briefly on my blog sometime and let you all know.
@ Blax
You’re a harsh judge, man. Both those babes are easily HB9’s. The Portuguese chick almost HB9.5 for me, but that’s the look i like…
Fox Yeah, I’m a victim of where I live, as sentient alluded to. But I’ve always had trouble with the hb scale. I just like what I like. I grew up surrounded by every kind of girl, so I usually don’t find ” traditional ” chicks all that hot…unless they have ” something else ” going for them. In my city we have a Portuguese/Brazilian section of town that is off the charts, the competition between chicks is nuclear. Then there’s the huge Indian population, and the Asian parts of the city, and the thousands of young broads that commute… Read more »
@j – Yeah, personal taste definitely comes into it massively!
I went to Vegas last year, and everyone was telling me that the standard of girls in the VIP places etc were going too ‘blow my mind’ and that THIS is what 10’s look like, but it turned out I see hotter girls everyday here in my sleepy UK town! My 2 next door neighbours are both my idea of 9’s! (That weather girl is gorgeous though!)
“Would be great to read your FRs, not just fantasies, you maniacal cunt.”
@fleezer
I like your writting. Funny and serious. Sometimes I feel I’m heading in your direction with these young SBs/hoes I’m playing with. It’s getting me out of my BP shell. I’m still amazing just how horny these young hoes are and how far I can go.
Question – how old are you?
Eight women have accused Morgan Freeman of harassment and inappropriate behavior, according to a report by CNN.
eight women? Did they all call each other up one weekend and say “hey let’s all call CNN and tell our stories”?? Is there some sort of National Clearing House where they can register and when a certain count of discontent against a particular Famous Man is reached there’s a bell that goes off and interviews are granted?
Who the fuck is orchestrating this shit in the background?
…. Cunning and pervasive.
It’s the same ol SJW playbook… “Our goal is to identify fund-eligible cases at a really early stage so it helps people find counsel who don’t already have counsel,” she added. https://rewire.news/article/2018/01/08/hashtag-legal-defense-fund-hollywood-women-give-teeth-metoo/ The legal defense fund is being spearheaded by Tina Tchen, who previously served as First Lady Michelle Obama’s chief of staff, and Roberta Kaplan, an attorney and former litigator who argued on behalf of the late LGBTQ advocate Edith Windsor in front of the Supreme Court. Funders so far include many Hollywood luminaries, including Rhimes, Meryl Streep, J.J. Abrams, Reese Witherspoon, Jennifer Aniston, and one of Steven Spielberg’s… Read more »
https://nwlc.org/times-up-legal-defense-fund/ The National Women’s Law Center is excited to announce the launch of the TIME’S UP Legal Defense Fund. The TIME’S UP Legal Defense Fund, which is housed at and administered by the National Women’s Law Center, connects those who experience sexual misconduct including assault, harassment, abuse and related retaliation in the workplace or in trying to advance their careers with legal and public relations assistance. The Fund will help defray legal and public relations costs in select cases based on criteria and availability of funds. Donations to the TIME’S UP Legal Defense Fund are tax deductible through the Direct… Read more »
National Women’s Law Center BoD Kim Askew Partner K&L Gates Nina Beattie Brooksley Born Retired Partner Arnold & Porter Kaye Scholer Heather Conroy Executive Vice President Service Employees International Union Stephen M. Cutler Vice Chairman JPMorgan Chase & Co. Theresa L. Davis Partner Reed Smith Natalia Delgado Retired General Counsel and Corporate Secretary Huron Consulting Group Inc. Danielle C. Gray Partner O’Melveny & Myers Anita F. Hill Senior Advisor to the Provost & Professor of Policy, Law & Women’s Studies Brandeis University Heller Graduate School Sherrilyn Ifill President & Director-Counsel NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund, Inc. Elaine R. Jones… Read more »
$100,000 AND ABOVE Alliance for Early Success Anonymous (3) Bayer HealthCare Beech Street Foundation The Annie E. Casey Foundation Robert Sterling Clark Foundation The Marjorie Cook Foundation Ford Foundation Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation Heising-Simons Foundation The William and Flora Hewlett Foundation Huber Foundation W.K. Kellogg Foundation The Moriah Fund NoVo Foundation The David and Lucile Packard Foundation PepsiCo, Inc. $50,000 – 99,999 Davis Polk & Wardwell Equal Justice Works Freshfields Bruckhaus Deringer Hogan Lovells The Charles Evans Hughes Memorial Foundation Jones Day New Morning Foundation Open Society Foundations Parker Ibrahim & Berg Paul, Weiss, Rifkind, Wharton & Garrison Rockefeller… Read more »
@Sentient
I’m sure there is no crossover between these feminazi scum and socialist scum. :/ I mean, socialists couldn’t have penetrated all these organizations, could they? And the Russians couldn’t be involved in all this, could they?
ASD
The Ford Foundation is a greater enemy than “Russia”… The West is the leader now in Equalist thinking and efforts. The inversion is complete.
Damn I do not remember how this one went down at all Lmao. I was just dancing with her (hb8) sexually, grinding. Mutual escalation. She asked where I lived. I told her nearby. Her friend was dancing with a chode. My girl asked me if I have a guy for her. I told her what kind of guy she goes for. She said tall blonde guy. I said nah. Then she said can you get us away from this guy. I said Yeah. Grab my girls hand while she was grabbing her friends hand and I moved them closer to… Read more »
Lay report: Didn’t approach for most of the night, really. Made a couple when it started getting late though. Had one set that was going well, (just went indirect and tried to be funny and stuff to DHV) but she never really showed any proper interest. I don’t think I was her type lookswise. I decided ”screw it, need to show some intent even thought she hasn’t, otherwise what happened last time will happen again where the girl leaves and i’m left wondering if ever had a shot” so I try to isolate her but she’s not interested. I move… Read more »
Oh my mate also got laid last night after like a 4 year dry spell! Love in the air last night lol
yeah I tried. Can’t remember lol. I will however, post what my pregame routine looks like for rolling solo for anyone that’s curious: ok i started watching “love in the afternoon” mainly to focus on Gary Cooper’s character after reading this post: http://www.girlschase.com/content/old-fashioned-sex-symbols-vs-modern-male-stars-what-s-difference midway through the movie, I paused and took a shower. After showering, I made myself a smoothie from the Michael Kory Fitness Cookbook (recommended. really simple recipes. 90% of what I cook come from this e-book) put my clothes on. Light blue polo shirt (J.Crew) and black slim chinos (Uniqlo) + dark brown suede chukka boots (Nordstrom).… Read more »
@Scars
good shit bro !
“I then said ”lets go back to your place for a drink since it’s so close. I’m bored of this place””
beautiful line
“so not sure i’ll be out again this bank holiday weekend”
fuck it. go solo. Bang that 7.5!
Fuck going out solo here. I tried once. I legit pointless (with the exception of 2am club game where you look less weird lol)
And that 7.5 is gonna be tough. Been doing some stalking and pretty sure she’s getting banged by dudes that look like they should be in ‘love Island’ lol. She goes for the handsome boys! Think it’d be an insta rejection, but I will try when I see her next. Small town and mutual friends. I know usually know when and where she’s drinking!! haha
@j – I watched this before going out lol
Don’t watch this…
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kSS-S2aqmZw
I’ve seen that. I watch all their vids. Funny stuff
Went swing dancing last night. A conservative, young (mostly 18-30 y.o.) crowd. Very different from the fast crowd my country bar. Very few girls were in max war paint and few were showing much skin. Lots of dance geeks. The better dancers were older, especially an old Chinese guy who had a “don’t fuck with me” attitude like he was a boss in China. Didn’t know anyone, so I just started chatting up a random guy who was just standing by himself, watching. I enjoyed chatting with him. Later, some dance geeks I know came in. I danced west coast… Read more »
It was kind of interesting that both girls in the older dance geeks group had either ignored me or rejected a dance request previously. Both recalibrated when they first saw me. My frame had grown stronger and I had more zfg about me.
Round 2 lets go
haha classic weekend. Run “just get it” (minimal) game one night, get laid. Run beautiful game the following night, fail to close. Either way, sex talk/sex stories remains a very deadly weapon in my arsenal. Vibe with chick from last night went from “meh this guy is hilarious, fun and kind of a jerk but I don’t really want to fuck this guy tonight” to “I want to fuck this guy right now”. She literally said as we sat on the couch with her sexy legs on my lap “if there was no one here, I would fuck you” she… Read more »
@Scars / @J – Respect! Good job
Had fun gaming 2 girls at a party i was playing at over the weekend. One i’d met previously (cute blonde 30-something) and another attractive new girl of a similar age. Both with no kids, which is always a bonus. I was in good form and gamed them both hard with lots of cheeky negs, confident kino, neck sniffing, nibbling and so on. Didn’t escalate any further with either of them as they will both keep until later when I can isolate them individually. Just focused on building comfort & rapport whilst openly flirting with both (and other women) in… Read more »
@Fox
“The new girl didn’t mention she had a b/f until the next day, but also said they were having relationship issues. She was a little more reserved than the blonde”
she was reserved because she was feeling kind of guilty for getting turned on by you. If anything were to happen further, she had to make sure you know she has a boyfriend and to relive herself of those guilty feelings. “Well it wasn’t my fault, I told him I had a boyfriend. So I’m not a slut.”
@ j It is an interesting game they play, for sure. And usually always according to the script. They’re all just girls. And girls wanna have fun! I’m in the process of recalibrating my former beta bad habits (see my previous posts), so was really amping up my alpha game during the party and post party have had both girls contacting me. In fact i got 4 new FB friends from party, all seXy girls (one is married, the blonde’s friend who i’d met once before, met hubbie at party, cool guy, they want to invite me over sometime, so… Read more »
As a red pill aware man, is it possible to be satisfied in a monogamous LTR? Note: I’m not interested in mLTR, polyamory, etc. Been in an LTR with a great girl for nearly 6 months and she’s light years ahead of anyone else I’ve dated. Very low maintenance, incredibly hot, and always willing to please. Would have killed for this relationship pre awakening but now all I can do is yearn for the single life again. So then what? I go back to being single, continue to focus on myself, and entertain STRs as they present themselves? Sounds like… Read more »
Field report
If you are reading this and you are a pediatric surgeon who is engage to a physician assistant in Mobil Alabama….. don’t marry that bitch. I fucked her after 3 shots and maybe 45 mins of shit talking
@CatchersIndifference Satisfaction typically involves not living with Cognitive Dissonance. To whit: You want children with a valued added woman. She’s indifferent to having children. Spot the conflict. It’s not about LTR or being post Red Pill. (Those are false flags.) It’s about what your heart/soul wants and if your cognitive brain is in alignment with your desires. Your heart may be stubborn, but it is rarely wrong. ( BTW, do you ever get night sweats from REM dreams?) What do you want? Think about the process of getting there. We all have cognitive dissonance. And it is a burden of… Read more »
@SJF You hit the nail on the head! Continuing my assessment from my previous comment – although she is very feminine in nature I wouldn’t describe her as “motherly”. This is noticeable when she interacts with my pets – she is nice to them but I’d describe her as tolerating them more than caring for them. As mentioned previously, she derives validation from success at work (so do I) and plans to return to work after having a child. I understand how that makes sense from her perspective but if it’s up to me I don’t want our kid being… Read more »
“What do you mean “getting release from constraint”?”
Easing the cognitive dissonance. Asking here to de facto help decide how to proceed, and what to do. Not that there’s anything wrong in the asking.
Catchers
Hold up Hoss… she’s early forties?
Dude – I don’t want to end up married to her and be unable to have our own kids. That would be a nightmare! this is your future. This is how the smart money would bet.
Forget about “can I be happy”… this dog wont hunt from the get go.
http://myfertilitychoices.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Age-Factor-Graph.jpg
Magik 8 Ball Says:
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Sentient
+1
@Catchers “She has also told me that she’s never been with someone who she felt like she would feel comfortable having kids with until she met me. She just assumed she’d missed the boat due to her focus on her career” hallelujah! I found a beta provider. Whew! For a second there, I actually thought I was gonna end up a childless crazy cat lady. Told you I made the right choice, mom! “she wants to have a strong family and derive satisfaction from that connection” “She derives a great deal of personal satisfaction from her successful career.” “she derives… Read more »
@CatchersIndifference been busy… just popped in and… sing it with me, now…. “Which one of these is not like the other… which one of these is not the same…” I’m pretty I brought up kids and she hadn’t mentioned it at all so it’s not like she’s pressuring me or obsessing over kids because she’s not. She derives a great deal of personal satisfaction from her successful career. and This is noticeable when she interacts with my pets – she is nice to them but I’d describe her as tolerating them more than caring for them. … As mentioned previously,… Read more »
Catchers indifference,
She’s in her 40’s huh? How desperate for kids are you to risk the probability you’ll be saddled with a mentally retarded adult kid for the rest of your life? Time is rough on women for a reason. It’s nature telling you she’s a time bomb. Go ahead and check out the nonlinearity in that graph!
http://www.downsyndromeprenataltesting.com/maternal-age-the-chance-for-down-syndrome-and-prenatal-testing/
Time to pull your head from the sand.
lol’d @ you owe it to both you and your potential future child support payments/children…
sand
funny way to spell “ass”
Catchers
A good way to avoid not getting what you want in life is to avoid shopping in places where you can’t get what you want. No forced sales, no regrets…
Shop in places that stock what you want to buy.
Field Report with Question I went to an improv meetup…arrived half hour late…great meetup…lots of laughs and fun…more like a party than anything…and no booze,lol… …so, there was this game where two people are ad libbing some situation one of them created…riffing off of one another…each person can be replaced ad hoc by anyone who wants to replace one by saying “freeze” and tapping them on the shoulder… …one girl keeps replacing my partner (my partner varies), obviously chasing…(another girl is chasing another guy when he’s up in front, replacing his partner)…I’m replacing people at random, not chasing any particular… Read more »
Catchers One of the main reasons you’ve seen me flailing my arms at guys over the years to THINK ahead and figure out what they want in life as a whole, and not get too caught up in the bigger tighter younger smokescreen as some kind of utopia. Lol, pussy. Remember my going on with yareally and his ” plan ” for having kids ( while avoiding courts and banging other women )? He was looking for help in formulating a schematic. His mindset was all wrong, too much rsd and not enough real life experience. And he was nearing… Read more »
So, how will a player marry after 35?😂😁☺
I had my first child at 24. Did I have a 6 figure salary? No. Could I initially afford to have a stay at home wife? No. Hell, my mom wasn’t a stay at home mom.
My first kid was at 26. Ditto for the rest.
6 months is nothing. I’d never consider marriage or pregnancy with anyone after 6 months. Hard to really vet ( imo ) in 6 months for a wife or mom material.
How long does it take to do a background check? That extra time is better spent training a broad.
I’ve known guys that were in lurv and dated for a year before marrying, and every one of those marriages went nuclear. Every single one.
And the men all swear that they never saw it coming, and thangs woman became a raging bitch.
No. She had raging bitch tendencies that couldn’t be seen because too much pussy juice splashed into eyes.
Women. I mean, who can know what they’re gonna do – amirite?😀
“Man, you have some serious thinking to do.”
Not really. An early 40’s woman is not motherhood material… Full stop.
@CatchersIndifference ok, got a little more time… As a red pill aware man, is it possible to be satisfied in a monogamous LTR? Note: I’m not interested in mLTR, polyamory, etc. it IS possible to be satisfied AND avoid that future divorce, buuut… you need to have a mental shift from FI/BP-infused MPoO (which discounts that^^^ stuff… = “I would NEVER leave YOU, sweetie!!!”…) to a RP-infused MPoO… = conceptually, you NEED to be a ‘pua/player’… even if you don’t actually bang any other girls… Been in an LTR with a great girl for nearly 6 months and she’s light… Read more »
@Catchers Would have killed for this relationship pre awakening Honeymoon period… but now all I can do is yearn for the single life again. …is wearing off. For her too, so don’t expect the “always willing to please” part to last forever. So then what? I go back to being single, continue to focus on myself, and entertain STRs as they present themselves? False dichotomy. You’re scenario building to match the narrative of your emotional dissonance. Take a step back and go deeper. She derives a great deal of personal satisfaction from her successful career. That’s the only life she’s… Read more »
I’m pretty I brought up kids and she hadn’t mentioned it at all so it’s not like she’s pressuring me or obsessing over kids because she’s not.
…she figures that the kids ship has sailed and that you would be aware of that, but you aren’t, so you don’t “just get it”, so guess what happens to your value with this one girl?
She derives a great deal of personal satisfaction from her successful career.
Does she have other options? Maybe she’s sterile.
@blax “So, how will a player marry after 35?” Paul Janka, Chris from “Good Looking Loser”, and Richard La Ruina. All now officially married in after banging hundreds of women in their 20s. “figure out what they want in life as a whole, and not get too caught up in the bigger tighter younger smokescreen as some kind of utopia” It’s not utopia. I know it’s a lot of work 😉 I don’t want children (Pre-RP, I honestly didn’t have any desire to ever want children (I’d be happy to be an uncle to my brother’s (who definitely wants to… Read more »
j quotes PureEvil:
He later says, that if he were to have kids, it be with a girl (definitely not early 40s lmao) who agrees to an OLTR setup + prenup marriage (which is what Ya was also exploring).
When is he moving to Brazil?
Now KJ’s can get moar validation…
http://www.newsweek.com/super-seducer-pick-artist-game-called-absurdly-sexist-843229
I think It really boils down to finding people (they are out there. just keep looking) who already want what you want, instead of forcing others to want what you want.
@Sentient I hear what you’ve saying and have thought the same. Most of the girls in my social circle and extra-cirricular activities are in their 30’s so it should be no surprise that I keep getting into relationships with older women. Fairly often there will be some girls in their late 20’s / early 30’s that find their way to the scene but I honestly have some mental blocks and FI that I need to work through to make it happen. In a previous FR I met a girl who was late 20’s that was giving me IOI’s and I… Read more »
Time. A man can’t spend the majority of his active sex life only practicing for fuck buddies and snl’s, and then snap his fingers like thanos and pull together some kind of crazy relationship based on the female’s frame 100%. And what ya was proposing out him at risk in a feminine primary frame, in hopes that the woman/women and the state would not been him over because ” promises/understanding/cool people. It’s a fantasy based on holes and dreams. Time. Give these guys used as examples some time. Let things unfold. You can definitely use Game in marriage/kids/ltr/abcdef, but these… Read more »
“A man can’t spend the majority of his active sex life only practicing for fuck buddies and snl’s, and then snap his fingers like thanos and pull together some kind of crazy relationship based on the female’s frame 100%.”
ah ok you don’t fully understand it. gotcha lol
“The men that can do this are few and far between.”
I’ll give it my best shot, mate 🙂
Comment for j re ya’s ” plan ” ( insert joker from dark night hospital scene here ).
Will be interesting if during the upcoming 21 Convention Rollo will engage with BD on this topic… If you’ve read my blog or my books, you already know the answer so this question: At what age do I always say men suddenly start wanting to settle down? 35. Gambler, following right along with the program, suddenly got tired of partying at age 36. Very, very predictable. When you devote your 20’s and early 30’s to getting laid without any thought to your long-term future, you will suddenly do a 180 to the exact opposite direction when you hit your mid-thirties.… Read more »
No. I do fully understand. I understood when ya brought it up.
The blind spot spanned the Atlantic.
Hoping and wishing and dreaming without ability due to lack of viable practice.
Simple really.
J
Re “best shot”…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVNPK2UtUfU
Careful…
@blaximus
Kids.
lol
Expand, please. Am I being unrealistic? Has that ship sailed?
“She’s gorgeous, supportive of my personal goals, low-maintenance, high sex drive, pays her own way, and takes great care of me.“
That’s a small investment for her big payoff. Women who lead her type of life aren’t interested in taking care of you or anyone but themselves.
Why isn’t she off the market already?
Catchers
I was responding to j. That’s why I clarified because I didn’t want you to think the comment was for you.
Fail on my part.
“Expand, please. Am I being unrealistic? Has that ship sailed?” For you no. But kids at her age are about her legacy not yours. You’ve got much more future potential than her that’s why she’s covertly full court press on all the benefits of children with her. She loves you up as cover for her selfishness in years past and to come. She won’t be a good mom as she’s never been vested in motherhood as a natural instinct. Motherhood isn’t a hobby as she and a lot of working women treat it. A kid isn’t a possession to be… Read more »
I have two acquiatence examples of exactly the situation your in., catchers. The woman will change after the children arrive and she will expect you to continue to follow her lead as you are doing now.
You are witnessing your own personal frame collapse.
Catcher –kids are massively over-rated. Sure they are fun to watch grow up and you are like a god to them when they are really young. Yes, they will be a burden financially, but you really didn’t need a sports car or a vacation house anyway. When they are teens they will assert themselves as independent creatures and be a pain in the ass. My first wife never gave me kids. My second wife and I had kids around 39 years old. I never once regretted not having kids for 39 years and just resigned myself, very peacefully I might… Read more »
Depends. I have 2 daughters, a sports car, a ” luxury ” ( lol…marketing) sedan, 2 classic autos, a home in jersey, a home in Puerto Rico on a beautiful mountain top, a dog, cat, bird and numerous fish, massive insurance policies, flush 401k’s, one daughter completed her masters, one starting college this year, I carry currently about 3-4 thousand in outstanding debt. It’s not so much about kids draining your resources as of his about your long-term planning and ability to earn and move forward, taking them along for the ride – a ride you would have went on… Read more »
@IRL
That’s the only life she’s known and she’s spent the last 20 years building it. What you expect of her is to abandon everything that defines her own worth and self-reference, something that feels like the meaning of life. She won’t be able to transition from this to a stay-at-home mother without feeling worthless, unfulfilled and frustrated. Guess who’ll be blamed for FORCING her to leave her career and limiting her freedom, you misogynistic pig?
Ugggggh the truth hurts
@everyone
I appreciate the replies – very eye opening. Thank you
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bf7a8Drgnh2/?hl=en&taken-by=julienhimself
May be a requirement to go bald to work at RSD now…
Next RSD instructor
“DO THESE EFFECTIVELY HIDE MY THUNDER?”
@Sentient: LOL. As an Analrapist, he is already very good at analysis…
https://www.instagram.com/p/BjJWTbSgfVM/?hl=en&taken-by=rsdtyler
Copying Terry…?
following fashion…?
The only right answer on this thread (and of course its from a man):
https://twitter.com/kem_winnerz_A/status/1001941678322831361
Lot of “being broke/not having a successful career” replies as women’s “real” biggest nightmare instead.
https://twitter.com/thefaceberg/status/852248764899180544
Last year, I actually banged (regrettably) a careerist chick in her mid 30s. VP of marketing of a big bank corporation. Did not change the fact that she was still a 6.5 lol…credentials. Anyway, after we banged, I knew that I didn’t want to see this chick again. She got on her laptop next to me and opened up an excel file…wanted to get some work done then order food for us to eat after. I wasn’t interested. Seeing her plug in numbers and shit, and being that I didn’t give a shit about this chick, I read this post… Read more »
oh shit, I forgot to reply to this. “When they are teens they will assert themselves as independent creatures and be a pain in the ass. ” And your wife is gonna fuck the mailman/ups guy/ cable dude/pool boy…. etc. I was warned about this Crazy Teen Revolt when I was younger, before I had kids. Didn’t see a whole lot of it around me, I didn’t rebel against my parents, nor did my siblings, but I was assured that it was gonna happen and that it was to be expected. I encouraged my kids to assert themselves, because closed… Read more »
So what you are saying Blax is that as a parent you shouldn’t let your children do anything that makes you dislike them?
Because surely others will too, then.
“I was warned about this Crazy Teen Revolt when I was younger, before I had kids.” “With Rebel Cool, status came not through wealth and striving to become a “man in the gray flannel suit,” but in the amount of scorn you got from the dominant culture. The more you didn’t give a f**k about what mainstream society thought about you, the more status you gained from your fellow nonconformists. If wearing a leather jacket, riding a motorcycle, and listening to rock n’roll upset your parents and preacher, that was cool.” https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/men-status-the-rise-and-fall-of-rebel-cool/ It’s because rebelling isn’t “cool” anymore. Everybody wants… Read more »
SJF Nah, having a decent relationship in my mind doesn’t have anything to do with whether your kids dislike you or not. I’m wasn’t concerned with my kids liking me because my mission from their first breaths was a different one. Ime, your kids trust you, so the easy part of raising them the way I see it, is to not intentionally break their trust and hold 90% of your daddy frame, lol. Growing up my dad was absolutely phenomenal in my eyes, and in many of my friends and families eyes – Guitar playing, race car driving, 6ft 4″… Read more »
@ j First heard this song when I was a tender 12-13 year old – [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lhRN6qbizAQ&w=1280&h=720%5D And even back then, it struck a chord with me and made perfectly good sense. Status. Status isn’t real and only exists in the mind. That’s the way I have seen it for as long as I can remember. I also understood that like money, status can be a tool as there are lots of people that will do anything to constantly strive to achieve some mythical ideal. Status is the same now as it has always been, only the targets shift. Fickle… Read more »
Sorrow Pink Floyd The sweet smell of a great sorrow lies over the land Plumes of smoke rise and merge into the leaden sky A man lies and dreams of green fields and rivers But awakes to a morning with no reason for waking He’s haunted by the memory of a lost paradise In his youth or a dream, he can’t be precise He’s chained forever to a world that’s departed It’s not enough, it’s not enough His blood has frozen and curdled with fright His knees have trembled and given way in the night His hand has weakened at… Read more »
@blax “since most of them are locked out of actually attaining ” status items ” they substitute even more fakery in it’s place – social media” +1 Instagram allows average dudes to create a false/fake reality of their day to day life by displaying these high status items to attract women they’d never approach in real life (I don’t have an Instagram account, but from what I’ve read online, those guys that do approach these girls in real life, all they do is run basic game then exchange Instagram accounts and let that fake world do the work for them.… Read more »
@blax “since most of them are locked out of actually attaining ” status items ” they substitute even more fakery in it’s place – social media” yep. Instagram allows average dudes to create a false/fake reality of their day to day life by displaying these high status items to attract women they’d never approach in real life (I don’t have an Instagram account, but from what I’ve read online, those guys that do approach these girls in real life, all they do is run basic game then exchange Instagram accounts and let that fake world do the work for them.… Read more »
@Blaximus “So what you are saying Blax is that as a parent you shouldn’t let your children do anything that makes you dislike them?” You missed my thinly veiled reference to JBP’s Chapter 5 in 12 Rules For Life. The them in the statement refers to the parents not raising little monsters that can’t socialize in real life because they were coddled, or neglected or not disciplined. Parent’s not liking their kids. Because they turn out to be shitty little kids and then shitty adults. It’s an incredibly richly detailed chapter on not killing young kids ages 3 to 7… Read more »
I’m not as articulate ( normally ) as JBP, but I figured a lot of stuff in real time, in real life.😁
I do hope he can help people/makes with his message before the fame monster consumes him fully.