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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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IAS
IAS
8 years ago

@IRL: very well done, playing the whole club.

I got confused with your place though. Weren’t you married and living with your wife (or LTR)?

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@IAS

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEQfcjWAsvI

What’s the letter?

*clap* *clap*

A

Abundance

A

*clap* *clap*

j
j
8 years ago

@IRL

“Whoa so much work”

it WAS a lot of work….and that’s WHY I love it.

“LTRs look easier…”

Easier and they’re fucking awesome….especially ones that like girls too…cause that’s how these crazy stories that most people will never experience go down:

http://socialprimedating.com/index.php/2016/11/23/insanity-orgy-4-girls-same-time/

http://socialprimedating.com/index.php/2017/01/03/christmas-magic-got-pulled-three-girls/

j
j
8 years ago

@Sentient

“Interesting looking back I did not move to kiss her, just wanted to see if the command would work.”

ok Bobby Peru haha. Excellent FR. Thanks for sharing

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@j
it WAS a lot of work….and that’s WHY I love it.

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Looking forward to your comments on business, marriage, kids etc. in 10, 20, 30, 40 years.

Interested to see how things change over time.

You have your “other Red Pills” library ready yeah?

BTW, where are your takeaways from BD’s open relationships book? I know the previous edition, didn’t bother with this one.

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Sentient

Great FR, big fan of how you pace them. Another TRM dude to write a novel? Lol

Do you have your routines described somewhere? I like how they mesh with your personality and seductive tempo of your interactions. Definitely my kind of thing. Keep going out for coffee hoss… lol

BTW, what happened to the dick twitch girl?

j
j
8 years ago

@IRL “Interested to see how things change over time.” ok I should have added “right now” to the end of that statement. I am aware of the end of history illusion thing. All I can do is, do what my present self feels will give me happiness. Right now that is certainly not kids, marriage or starting a business. Like Naval said in the farnam street interview I linked: “Happiness to me is mainly not suffering, not desiring, not thinking too much about the future or the past, really embracing the present moment and the reality of what is, the… Read more »

j
j
8 years ago

@IRL

“I should have a go-to response to this on autopilot but I don’t, not enough exposure.”

How about, you say out loud “Jesus Christ. Listen lady for the last time I will not suck on your tities in this bar!”

IAS
IAS
8 years ago

@IRL: I think you misunderstood me. My confusion is not why you are doing this despite being married.

My confusion is how did you bring the girl to your place. Was your wife away? She knows and your the best choice anyway (rather share you than not have you)? You have multiple places? You were away on a hotel but referred to it as your place?

All are options that explain it.

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@j ok I should have added “right now” to the end of that statement. No, I got it the first time. I’m interested… not because I think suddenly something from my random list will become important to you and you “need to know that now(!)” because “I say so”… It’s because the thing that makes me tick is observing how brain/mind works, changes, traps itself in a PoV or shifts to a different one. What’s the path from BP to RP (of any sort, beyond TRM)? I had my first “aha!” moment (one of the Red Pills) at the age… Read more »

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@IAS I answered your question the first time. Abundance is not (only) about women. Ask yourself a different one: what motivates your question? You know what you need to do to move forward, you just don’t want to pay the price. So you get stuck on too many options. For example, Sentient suggested airbnb. Do you find the cost too high for learning new skills? Would you prefer RSD price with a (false) comfort of others holding your hand? Or “cost too high” barrier is just an excuse, a buffer to cover the fear of parachuting to a new place?… Read more »

theasdgamer
8 years ago

“I should have a go-to response to this on autopilot but I don’t, not enough exposure.”

j: How about, you say out loud “Jesus Christ. Listen lady for the last time I will not suck on your tities in this bar!”

Alternatively, loudly, with a smirk, “$500 for a blow job? No way.”

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Irl asd I should have a go-to response to this on autopilot but I don’t, not enough exposure.” j: How about, you say out loud “Jesus Christ. Listen lady for the last time I will not suck on your tities in this bar!” Alternatively, loudly, with a smirk, “$500 for a blow job? No way.” _______ These statements are low probability and high risk. Too easy to come off as ego protecting insults. The goal is to get her guard down and reacting in your frame. It can still be funny. If you can do a sincere deadpan delivery and… Read more »

j
j
8 years ago

haha my fuckbuddy of 2.5 years just LSNTE’ed me for basically refusing to promote her to LTR status (she is a 7 and I really wasn’t attracted to her anymore after sleeping with a couple 8s and 9s…so when she sent me this I honestly didn’t care…and don’t care if she comes back or not) her: listen…we really gotta step texting each other. i know i’m being confusing but its bc i feel differently about you every other day and its just been ridiculously long and gone nowhere. i wanna focus on someone who can show they give at least… Read more »

j
j
8 years ago

“It can still be funny.”

yeah i wasn’t trying to turn the set around. I just recommended that for self amusing purposes. Go approach another set….reapproach the bitch later when she’s in a better mood if you feel like it

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
8 years ago

Great FRs IRL and Sentient – good reading, especially since you were solo too. If I understand IAS’s question correctly, he’s not asking so much about the mentality (which IRL explained) – just IRL’s logistics. Like – were you traveling? Or do you have an Airbnb or second apartment in town or something.. BTW IRL – how old are you? Like 40s? I’m trying to focus more on being “on” even here in Small Town. There are far fewer opportunities, but I did have a new friend’s wife (first time I met her, apart from a brief hello a couple… Read more »

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Culum If I understand IAS’s question correctly, he’s not asking so much about the mentality (which IRL explained) – just IRL’s logistics. Like – were you traveling? Or do you have an Airbnb or second apartment in town or something.. Yeah it was clear, I was just a few steps ahead with the answer… because I think I know why IAS’s subconsciousness brought up this detail and I wanted to poke it a bit… lol Why do you think you both trip over your current logistics and there’s always something not quite perfect (small town, clubs, malls, trains etc.) stopping… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

IRL Five whys… Is that a thing? Holy shit that is something i developed 20 years ago… Thought it was unique lol. Palma Culum “It’s not until you’ve gone full cycle on a business that you realise that Felix is right on the equity thing.” This. Been there got the t shirt… Same with partnership… Both leave you at the end of the day – and there is always an end of the day – in a needlessly complicated position which has a economic and psychic cost. Sure everyone is chummy chummy at the start. It rarely ends that way.… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
8 years ago

@Palmasailor: I’m 38 (IRL – you’re younger than me – I’d never have guessed that). Not entirely a stranger to business. I did a tech startup with my college roommate and a couple of friends at the height of the original dotcom boom (literally out of our room). No outside funding, completely bootstrapped, profitable (barely) from the first year. Hired some people and ran it on nights and weekends even after graduation when we were all working big corporate jobs. Sold it after 5 years because a big company wanted to get into that particular niche and basically told us… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
8 years ago

Lol I just read Sentient’s post, right after explaining how my relationship with my co-founders collapsed at the end when the buyout offer was on the table..

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

IRL “Do you have your routines described somewhere?” Just spread out in FRs here and at the chateau… The “you’ve thrown a shoe at a guy” one is buried in a pre FR section post here. I’ll try to find it I think you will like it. This site is not configured to search comments easily. Mostly I stumble into stuff infield I am making up on the fly and then reuse what I see working. Maybe add a few tweaks to it. In short order you will have a solid half dozen to pull on. Ahhh Dick Twitch girl.… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

IRL “We get to talking about how she is all composedbon the outside but really acts crazy… She nods… I tell her she has hit a guy with a shoe… And she laughs and says yeah and thrown stufff… I say “i know… And I know why”… She’s like ” why why” and this is good… Will use this again and it is right i say with strong laser now as she is leaning in ” you are sending a signal…. You act up to find someone with the strength… (she is nodding) to TAKE YOU IN HAND…” She is… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

“Anyhow this is what is going through my mind as I make it up to head out… and I am committed in my mind to this action. Committed to leaving. I tell the older woman take care and start to walk past the 8 to leave. She is facing away from me. As I am approaching i kind of see her shoot her head around a quarter turn towards me then as I am right behind her she takes a half step back RIGHT INTO ME. My hands instinctively go around her waist and I squeeze her right side as… Read more »

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Sentient

Five whys… Is that a thing? Holy shit that is something i developed 20 years ago… Thought it was unique lol.

Exactly! It’s all just rediscovering ancient stuff that works. No difference in 2035.

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(Sorry couldn’t find a cartoon with Blax running around his wife’s car lol)

Apply to your mind/brain and prosper.

SJF
SJF
8 years ago

Palmasailor I finished your book. Great Red Pill reading. Excellent from the heart writing. By give you a review, I assume you meant on Amazon. I’ll give it a go. But I’m not great at expressing my thoughts in writing. And I find it hard to relate to a world that has a lot of divorce, cunty women and cruelty towards children. You seem like a well put together man, but totally outside of his head. I’m the opposite. If you could give me a few thematic points to make in a review on Amazon, it would help guide me… Read more »

IAS
IAS
8 years ago

@IRL: schooling me (and ahead of me) again. Thanks.

I’m stuck on not wanting to spend money “on girls”.

Abundance indeed.

SJF
SJF
8 years ago

@PalmaSailor “It’s not a great form of literature, and I didn’t do it for money. I was prompted to do it by a few RP friends and I thought that there should be some stuff out there that shows women’s true nature.” You can stop saying that first sentence anytime now. It is quite excellent in its flow and in the content. You made the right decision to not edit it. It is written in a strong masculine flow state. Do not be apologetic about it. It serves no purpose. And it is a goddamn gift to other men who… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

IRL

One clarification on your FR. So you pulled the one who was getting thenclit rub by the other dude?

mersonia
8 years ago

His autism level is showing lol

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@IAS
I’m stuck on not wanting to spend money “on girls”.

WHY didn’t you write “spend money on myself”?

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Sentient

Same girl. They were dancing, he was behind her and moved his hand to her underbelly with fingers at the level of her vag. Saw it in a flash from a distance so don’t know what happened between then and when they separated again.

IAS
IAS
8 years ago

@IRL: so let me try… 1. Why isn’t it spending money on myself? I’d just stay home, if it was me (instead of paying an entry fee for a club, or paying an AirBnB close to venues to have better logistics for a pull). 2. Why don’t I just stay home then? There aren’t girls to practice. 3. Why don’t I want to spend money to practice and improve then? I’m not consistent enough, would get expensive with not much to show for it. Afraid I’d get too frustrated if I fail to pull after going “all in”. 4. Why… Read more »

SJF
SJF
8 years ago

@IAS

You are dealing with a Gumption Trap.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gumption_trap

EhIntellect
8 years ago

@EsCher

“I lost my frame probably?”

If you have toask, you have. But no matter. You’re in the right place.

There’s a lot of uncertainty, timidity in your words. But no matter, either. Stick around here then look around yourself and watch the RP truths.

No need to act just yet. Just observe hypergamy and get out of your woe-me self-immersion for awhile.

EhIntellect
8 years ago

“I don’t want to lead a shitty shallow life…”

Those are your shitty, shallow words, not others. You hug them like a baby blanket since you’ve arrived.

Feeling blue as you’ve painted yourself in a corner?

No snark: What are you going to do different today, something you’ve learned here perhaps, that’ll change your course?

EhIntellect
8 years ago

Not doing something self defeating, just not doing that is something too.

Think of the old PUA saw: Be attractive, not unattractive.

See it’s not all action, it’s also just stopping getting in front of your own success.

EhIntellect
8 years ago

There’s a habit in ones formative years to look around and find a job, woman, friends from what’s immediately available, what’s presented as pathways to success, maybe happiness, maybe both, but a lot of this comes from others opinions of your options. You assume those options as it and then you are essentially yoked to someones plow…you don’t like it and there’s enough carrot to keep you going, but damn…if there was another way… There is. Stop looking externally for validation of whom you are. I mean you gotta know yourself and adapt all you choices that effect you based… Read more »

EhIntellect
8 years ago

And the shit will fly.

You’ll start shedding layers of social conformity but by bit and your closest friends, family will fight that change tooth and nail, the change required for your freedom as then they lose power over you.

At first they’ll call it a stage and you’ll get a warning, if you stay the course at some point they’ll call you mentally ill.

Just watch.

EhIntellect
8 years ago

Laters.

SJF
SJF
8 years ago

@EsCher “You’ll start shedding layers of social conformity but by bit and your closest friends, family will fight that change tooth and nail, the change required for your freedom as then they lose power over you.” Do yourself a big favor. Read Palma Sailors book. It outlines Red Pill Aware truths that he would have wanted to understand when he was your age. He’s a great example of keeping Frame and being in his own Point of Mental Origin. You need exemplars and mentors in your life. Men that are successful in navigating Blue Pill infested waters. You can avoid… Read more »

SJF
SJF
8 years ago

You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.

Winston Churchill

newlyaloof
8 years ago

@IRL / Sentient..

IRL, I decided to make a decicated page so I could more easily find Sentient’s posts. I don’t have all of them, but this is a good start:

https://newlyaloof.wordpress.com/2016/12/02/sentients-dynamic-passionate-authentic-framework/

newlyaloof
8 years ago

“dedicated”

SJF
SJF
8 years ago

EsCher

When you go to college this coming year, what are some of your goals besides keeping your head above the water academically?

Do you realize the the first semester is a whole brave new world? You get to start with a clean slate? No one knows the old you. A social homestead principle (Under the homestead principle a farmer putting unowned land to use gains ownership over it.)

Think of the possibilities of a whole fucking new start. What are you going to do about that?

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@IAS

Start with a low level goal and a simple plan you can follow on a regular basis… starting from now.

It should be similar to gym routines that help you avoid doing random stuff and wasting time, make you feel good that you accomplish something each day, and slowly lead you to a bigger goal you don’t have to worry about in the moment.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lkduXkQ-8kc

http://puamore.com/wiki/newbie-mission/

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Palma Am I better starting text game now and risking it will run out of steam before I can close, or ignoring until next week when I could give her: Hey Picasso, want wine? And then follow up fast with a real life meet? You are talking about two approaches that ijjjji described here (note his advice not to make plans in advance = cold feet): https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/hall-of-fame/11662-100-method-for-meeting-up-with-girls Effortless way: -Avoid communicating entirely, until next friday/saturday night. -Then text something like “Hi Im at bar X! You?” Fast way: -Converse (text or phone-call) with girl WITHOUT hinting for a meet. Just… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
8 years ago

@PalmaSailor – not complying with her demand to move was the right decision. It was a shit test (similar dynamics to the “buy me a drink” test). You don’t say how you ended things with her – did the conversation stop after she moved over to get attention from some orbiters? As for text game, it’s not that hard (one thing lots of online game taught me was to nail text game). Basically go to the YaReally Archive, and there is an entire subsection on text game – click that and read through it and follow it. There is also… Read more »

EhIntellect
8 years ago

Palma, Hi. When she’s essentially ordered you to stand by her…good call not jumping at it…though you could lightly say “Woah, down girl.” or such, enough for others to hear that you and she are friendly, but you remain in control. Her reply or subcomms will indicate her hindbrain intentions. She’s got then a couple options. Either place you in the probably Alpha range (scary sexy), or put you in not Beta range which is not what she’s used to and is unclear how to proceed because guys usually show their colors fairly early with Beta subcomms, none of which… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

IRL

“draw me with a bigger penis so that I could pretend I’m not shit in bed etc.”

laughed…

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 years ago

@palmasailor +1 on IRL’s analysis… Anyone got any tips on VYW text game? I went out last night to a group Meetup – don’t all laugh really feeel that FI hand on your shoulder… this idea/concept (that we would laugh at the topic) is a form of shaming yourself (expecting other men to laugh at your actions to meet your sexual needs = FI in play)… i never laugh at anything like this… both bc i recognize and hate the FI in its many forms… and bc girls are where you find them…lol but it was ‘arts & crafts’ and… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Culum others “@PalmaSailor – not complying with her demand to move was the right decision. It was a shit test (similar dynamics to the “buy me a drink” test).” See this is interesting. I don’t mind losing a pawn if it sets up checkmate. Chess not checkers right? The key is recognizing her move and then using it to your advantage. You can also retake the frame via the “yes, but” process… So you appear to agree but get some other compliance from her first or during the process. In this case perhaps something like having her move to where… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Palma

Whoa…

Softball pitch broski and you whiffed

“my cat was fantastic”

and no pussy rejoinder?

See how quick she bailed after you hit her with stanard invite? And offers no other options to you?

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

My cat was fantastic

Come on guys…

Come up with five responses that aren’t in a scarcity or beta or FI frame.

Go!

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
8 years ago

“your pussy looks tired” “+5 points for the saucy look. -10 points for the badly shaved pussy” ..etc..etc. More generally, don’t let the conversation go sideways. I’ve evolved to a much more “less is more” texting style from the days I’d ask girls their fantasies on Whatsapp and get them masturbating for me. But there’s nothing inherently wrong in a longer text conversation – just make sure you take it somewhere – emotional spikes, sexualization etc. My read is that she did like you when you met her and she still likes you now, but the longer you leave it… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
8 years ago

I am an internationally recognized expert pussy judge. Cat ladies all over the world look to my expertise with all manner of pussies. Hence, I’ll be the final authoritative judge.

Blaximus
Blaximus
8 years ago

… Multiple triggers engaged…lol.

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Blax coming in with a hemi, blown and intercooled… Maybe on the bottle too…

EhIntellect
8 years ago

Cat jokes…

Fantastic pussy cat? Hell no. No frisky treat for you. This one’s here is fish flavor too.

You’re easily entertained, like a kitten. Here’s a ball of yarn.

I’ll pet your fantastic cat, but your cleaning your own litter box, dirty girl.

Your fantastic pussy is better if you’d get that stupid cat picture out of the way.

Fantastic cat? Hell no. Check that pussy for mange. That scabies shit is contagious.

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Blaximus
I am an internationally recognized expert pussy judge. Cat ladies all over the world look to my expertise with all manner of pussies. Hence, I’ll be the final authoritative judge.

Oooh I’ve heard about you:

http://truthfeed.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/judge-pussy-hat-01.jpg

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 years ago

@palmasailor

@HABD

I shrugged most of it off.

generally a great idea… but next time, instead of shrugging it off, what would happen if you pushed through that inertia?…

How old are you?

why?… is being twelve tooo young for giving advice on the interwebs?…lol

good luck!

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Palma

Your mind is fast and you act on it which is why you’ve been so successful in many areas and ahead of the curve. But hear him out. Slow down to spot the nuances and tweaks HABD is trying to point out. It is the little things we shrug off that may hold the key to progress.

Sure, keep your attitude when out and about, but shift gears when reading feedback from fellow RedPillers. A bumpy ride for the ego indeed.

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

Sentient used to put up these photos at CH (and i think he’s done some here too)… for game practice… the FIRST step (which is true for any RP exercise) is to actually SEE what is in front of you… THEN engage with a plan… maybe he should start that again, bc it was actually a great exercise…lol

+1

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Sentient

Blax frame-grabbed all attraction switches at once, so I’ll park the cat challenge for now, can’t think of anything new (maybe something accusing her of being a bit forward and re-framing it as her trying to get in my pants).

But this (from the previous page):
The goal is to get her guard down and reacting in your frame.

I finally watched RSD Madison’s infield that Archie linked in one of his recent OPs (starts at 1:11, then continues at 7:44 and the final bit is at 23:56):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uiR72_uRaLI

Want more of that next time! Solid.

Blaximus
Blaximus
8 years ago

…. Dag

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

The feedback you dont ask for is often the best.

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

So this evenings adventures went such. Heading to a post event reception. Run into a client… Have two drink with him. Get to reception as it’s fizzling out. Roll into lobby bar. Single cute girl call 6.5 at bar. Blow up to her (cough Culum) and start some banter. Barman knows me so he’s johnny on the spot with my usual as i bust her chops over the chips they serve. I knew in 1 minute this was pretty solid. She was a feisty redhead just my type. So nice when they play there parts… So I’m grooving into kino… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
8 years ago

Sentient – did the married chick call you?

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Culum

Haha… No. I never expected her to either.

It’s all in the moment then it’s gone. Some think it never happened.

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

I’m making good choices… Lol still lolling at that. What a memoir title…

Blaximus
Blaximus
8 years ago

What would we do without psychology today making simple shit overly complicated and inserting the dreaded ” ego ” into every possible scenario?

Males struggle every day, and the popular ” advice ” is to watch your ego. Ego ain’t the issue, the issue is many men won’t consider multiple avenues of advice. So the struggle is real and continuous as answers abound.

” take what is useful, discard that which is not ”

Bruce Lee.

theasdgamer
8 years ago

“The pussy reference was way too try hard. +1 for effort, but you’re playing catch up” with a football official gif

Blax is more the high energy cocky/funny guy playing direct game and I’m the low energy amused mastery guy playing indirect game

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
8 years ago

Note that even if that article is spot on about the psych behind someone giving advice, it doesn’t change the fact that the advice may well be *right*, regardless of the motivation behind it..

EhIntellect
8 years ago

@ Palma

How many TRM Alphas does it take to answer a question?

A dozen. One to answer it, eleven to love on themselves.

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Palma My comment was general, applies to all. Usually if you don’t smash there are reasons. We all can say we didn’t really want to etc. But we know we would have banged a girl we engage with if we could have. The fact we don’t just proves there are things we either missed or acted incorrectly on. The point here I thought was not to be “right” on an anonymous board bit further mutual understanding and learning. So I don’t stress opinions or advice and generally am not defensive or try to correct the record unless it’s to clarify… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Eh man hang with us we’ll teach you bibles of truth…

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rxTHeNHEG7M

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 years ago

@palmasailor @HABD Because your analysis came across as frantic and try hard. damn!… that came off all wrong then… i was shooting for obnoxiously pedantic… just like always…lol Like someone young whose read the theory but lacks experience. hey!… that sounds JUST like me!…lol You also made a lot of assumptions. i only make two assumptions… and that’s true for any FR posted here… 1) that putting up a FR is a request for feedback on the interactions/emotional support (that you’re not crazy being RP in a BP/FI world)… and 2) that any man posting is actually trying to ‘get… Read more »

IRL
IRL
8 years ago

@Palma What sort of childish snark is this: “but you’re probably right, making little pattern things is much more important to you/your life than getting laid by a ’22 yo solid hb8’…lol… or at least that’s what her hindbrain is thinking right about now…” You forgot “those grapes were really sour” and other strokes! Hahaha Rollo’s Acing the Test: Part of the male experience is giving your friends ‘shit’, ribbing them, messing with them and otherwise talking ‘shit’ with them. If you’re in a fantasy football league you probably get that “smack talking” has been raised to an art form.… Read more »

dr zipper
dr zipper
8 years ago

hey palma, what’s with the alpha20 link? maybe I missed it, but do you recommend it or found it helpful?

EhIntellect
8 years ago

After reading HABD, my egomania kicks in.

I’m at work, the FI is on my shoulder. This sucks. Trapped, alone with my narcissism.

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 years ago

@Sentient Get the elevator she’s all no this is it. You can’t come up. We make out some more in the elevator then I leave her. She’s all I’m not leaving till late tomorrow we canget together again. were you just toying with this chick, or did you really not spot this (hindbrain request for you to ‘Just Get It’ ™ ) in real time?… good luck! — @IRL The value isn’t in the feedback but in the way your mind reacts to it and that you get a chance to catch the FI conditioning red-handed. Your personal opportunity to… Read more »

SJF
SJF
8 years ago

@IRL, Palma PalmaSailor is a tough cookie with a shitload of pride. “It’s even more than that because we poke each other to help identify sticking points. That’s why we go beyond answering the initial question. Dog logic can’t be dealt with dog logic. Go deeper. I’ve been getting poked by my red pill buddies with sharp red pill lenses, with really, really sharp sticks this past three months. And I won’t let myself Buffer even when it hurts. And it invariably leads to more Anti-Fragile-ness. Sometimes Jordan Peterson’s Rule #9 might hold water: “Assume that the person you are… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

HABD No I wasn’t playing. Doesn’t come across in the FR her last few protests were pretty strong. Her eyes were getting wide if you know what I mean. Like maybe she found herself on a ride with no way off. Just prior to the elevator she said she needed to pee i went me too let me use your bathroom gambit and she was noooooo no no… She knew that wouldn’t work. So what would you do at that point. She had some putatively plausibly deniable reason to let me up and shut that down. then through out the… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Eh

“Trapped, alone with my narcissism.”

Yes but you’re in the best company…

mersonia
8 years ago

went to eat with hb 8-9 chick I know…………..never eaten with her before

sat their and watched her slather mayonnaise on the sandwich she got……….

got up went to the restroom and contemplated my whole life while trying not to throw up and left through the back exit…………….

I can’t look at her the same ever again…..

mersonia
8 years ago

never been so disgusted in my life……………

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 years ago

@EhIntellect

After reading HABD, my egomania kicks in.

I’m at work, the FI is on my shoulder. This sucks. Trapped, alone with my narcissism.

or, you could, you know… listen to that other guy… the MI… sitting on your other shoulder…lol.. and call it MPoO in yourself… which (absent those FI pejorative labels…) is what it really is… then focus on your mission…and take some action…

good luck!

@Sentient

So what would you do at that point.

with those subcomms… same as you… i probably would have gone for a bj in that second alcove though…lol

good luck!

Blaximus
Blaximus
8 years ago

Lol. The internet cracks me up every day.

Blaximus
Blaximus
8 years ago

Palma

Relax man. If you put up a FR, guys are gonna weigh in. That’s what this section is all about. No need to get offended.

j
j
8 years ago

hmm I guess ‘sorry I was in the shower’ got too mainstream lol

https://www.instagram.com/p/BQsdIUDDO4k/

j
j
8 years ago

“got up went to the restroom and contemplated my whole life while trying not to throw up and left through the back exit…………….”

https://imgur.com/gallery/JrnpZSc

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

This was funny today. Having lunch at a bar counter. On the radius so from where i am sitting if i turn my head a quarter left I’m looking straight at a 7.5 who is facing the guy next to me. So she is facing me as well. She looks. I hold her gaze. She shifts her focus to the guy. Looks back at me i hold her gaze. Sometimes i look at the tv above me. Then look back at her. Whenever our eyes meet i hold her gaze. She is having lunch with her dad. He is quarter… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Little bit left out from last night. All day saw this 8 at the event. Came round the corner after cocktail hour and she is there waiting for elevator. So i go up to her and instant strong vibe. She says I saw you earlier. I say I saw you see me. So she laughs at this and it’s instant strong laser. We exchange names. The elevator comes and goes lol. I comment on her outfit, sharp pantsuit with cropped pants and heals. She says she just bought it and spreads the jacket open showing a little gapping at the… Read more »

j
j
8 years ago

fucked my first milf of the year. nothing particularly interesting to write about. will go back to gaming younger girls tonight….it honestly felt like I was gonna break this poor girl’s body last night….21 or 42 years old…I fuck them all with the same speed and intensity…

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

J – We all must tend to the herd…

Burden.

This old porch is just a big old red and white Hereford bull
Standing under a mesquite tree in Agua Dolce, Texas
He just keeps on playing hide and seek with that hot August sun
He’s sweatin’ and a-pantin’
‘Cause his work is never done
Ah, no
He’s got them cows and that red top cane

REK – poet

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Another night… Short fr. Sat next to an 8 model/ actress at lunch. At a bar. She was on break from hostessing around the corner. 23. Been cheerleader 2 etc. In a few things. Very beautiful. She just had 30 minute break and was using it to gulp down half a bottle of white wine. Very cool girl. Just used this to to work on being inured to beauty, warm up. Have agood convo she splits. Sweet girl. More just a playful chat. She’s trying to make her way in the industry. Later i hit happy hour and sit next… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Somewhat redeem myself in the terminal. Spy a solid 8 buying grapes. Follow her to where she sits. Sit across from her. Open her about her flight pillow. Chat. Says she lives in Vegas. Ask her if she is in entertainment. She is a surgical resident. 1st year so like 26 or 27? Lol perfect unintentional neg. I tell her to be fair it’s not like she is 300 pounds. She laughs. Then i say but you have to have the skills on the pole yet. So going good. I tell her to come sit next to me so we… Read more »

j
j
8 years ago

“Smokeshow, brainiac, accomplished and pleasant as a plum. She’s out there boys.”

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/02/15/hypergamy-sluts-and-smart-women/

😉

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

J Put the 1976 version of The Last Tycoon on your movie list. It’s slowly paced, but the cinematography is delicious. Relax into it. DeNiro, back before he became mentally ill, puts on a a tour de force of Small Game – alpha posture, body language, laser, intensity and the firm look. Also get some Mitchum thrown in, old fucker nearly steals every scene his in. The power of voice. Nicholson makes an appearance but as I said before his movie roles are not at all like his real life role. Enjoy! ttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FIGm0YdXotI https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PT4120g3_To How to tell a DHV story…… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 years ago

Ingrid Boulting is amazing.

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Rivalled by DeNiro’s blazer…

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