Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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j
j
4 years ago

@Culum

2:15 – 4:50

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

@j – yeah. It’s a bit of both to be honest. It *is* easier to keep myself sexually satisfied by running through the 6s online than to go out and do cold approach. I do genuinely enjoy the process and (some of) the 6s – more than the actual sex, it’s fun to tighten up my date game and escalation (kind of like a gym bro who keeps working on his already-massive biceps but always skips leg day). But is is as fundamentally satisfying as going out, approaching a really hot girl (I have done it on occasion and know… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Culum I’m lolling… Glad you learned your lesson. “Very high energy bubbly but with a slightly manic edge.” Drugs… You spotted all the red flags in situ… So not much to say on that. As to the shakedown… Well you blew that. Hold frame. Hold frame Hold frame!!! You know what cops think of folks who come in to “clear things up”? They think they are guilty. They are not your friend. This girl was a straight whore, but an amateur… A real whore would have gotten the money strait up front. The problem with sugar sites is too many… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

Sentient – Onward indeed. I’ll probably see the funny side in a few weeks. Still a bit freaked out about potentially being the next MeToo poster-man for “older man takes advantage of vulnerable girl half his age”. If nothing happens for the next few weeks, and there’s no arrest warrant or something waiting for me when I come back to Big City in a few weeks, I think I’ll be able to chill out and let it go. As far as holding frame in the shakedown goes – yeah, that’s the decision I had to make in an instant when… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

PS – I’m wincing as I write this, but one more red flag for the record from my hooker-date, which I noticed in real time but did not take action on. I asked her name about half an hour in – not like I was expecting her full name, address and date of birth – just her first name. She wouldn’t even tell me that (she just repeated her username from the site). I teased her a bit about being “mysterious” for no reason and then dropped it.

scars
scars
4 years ago

It’s 5.30am here- Just banged one of my hottest ones yet,
FR to come tomorrow

safespaceplaypen
safespaceplaypen
4 years ago

@Culum Struan Last time I used Tinder I almost hooked up with a tranny. I will NEVER use online game again. Swore it off immediately. Learned my lesson lol But it definitely has its place In other news… Tonight I almost pulled !BUT! failed to deal with the girl’s excuses. Pulling and logistical issues are starting to become my biggest obstacles; that and not opening the 9’s and 10’s. But a useful thing @j wrote was how not approaching the 9’s and 10’s is, in a way, a form of self-admittance of inferiority. For tonight, the idea of “not wanting… Read more »

scars
scars
4 years ago

OK, so last night I was out with my model good looking friend who I talked about in one of my recent FR’S – the T.L.D.R of that night was a girl appraoched me, I ran some game on her. It was going well. She offered to buy me a drink. All going well and then my friend came over to say ‘hi’ to me, and instantly she was drooling over him and I went from fillet steak to chopped liver and the rest of the night was her desperately trying to seduce my mate. It felt bad. So, I… Read more »

Gambler92
Gambler92
4 years ago

Hey guys need your advice on my situation. I met a woman online and went out with her for the first time yesterday night. I did everything right, didn’t make boring conversation, sexualized the conversation, physically escalated and ultimately we ended up back at her place. We had crazy sex and she seemed to have a great time.I slept over and left her place this morning. In the morning, we made out a bit again and had a conversation in bed for a while. She kept on jokingly saying she would never want to see me again and that she… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

@safespaceplaypen and @scars – great work for getting out there and taking action (in very different ways). Update on my situation: Had a phone call from the detective assigned to my complaint. Very different vibe from the friendly desk cop who took the complaint who I talked to for an hour and chatted up and who was totally lapping it up and on my side. The detective didn’t particularly want to listen to anything I said. He wasn’t rude but pretty brusque and basically like “You know what the site is for right? Why are you getting mixed up with… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Gambler

“Is this a sound plan?”

For a casual sexual relationship?

No.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Culum “It also occurs to me in retrospect – I was too freaked out the night of the incident to think of this – that if this ever goes to a prosecution a good lawyer can cross-examine me and make it look like I paid her off to prevent any allegations *because* I assaulted her.” Ding ding ding. This is why cops think that people coming in to “report” something but NOT press charges are full of shit… Guilty. “It totally didn’t occur to me until I heard the detective say “then why did you pay her?”.” Lol. Get to… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Scars

Good work. Remember buying temperature is transferable.

J will post the video… Lol.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Safespace

“So I started thinking of good reasons, but I couldn’t think of any good ones at the moment! ”

You : come.
Her: wait where!!!???
You: shhhhhhh. You’ll see (leading)
Her: wait where bla blah
You: relax we will be right back (leading)
Her: Wait where blah blah.
You: come on. Two minutes we will be right back… (leading) just down the street to my car. Come. (leading)

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

The Departed in a good RP movie with some good game scenes… For those unfamiliar with cops… Or game… Cops exist to arrest, not mete out justice. Two arrest are as good or better than one… Cop Mindset /Game Mindset Scene: Dinner date MADOLYN (state psychiatrist) Sometimes, though, I want people to forget about their personal bullshit and do their jobs. Unsaid: Like I do. COLIN (cop) Including the criminals? MADOLYN If they don’t do their jobs you don’t have one. COLIN Me? I’d just arrest innocent people. I’ll arrest you right now. MADOLYN You’re trouble. COLIN You don’t know… Read more »

theasdgamer
4 years ago

Culum,

The whore was 100% compliant. Was this a surprise? Do you think that compliance is an adequate test for desire?

What have I repetitively recommended to test for legit ioi’s?

What ioi’s have I noted in recent field reports?

The girls in my field reports gave signals of emotional spikes that were unfakeable? What were those signals?

j
j
4 years ago

Excellent job @scars RSD Derek’s philosophy: “If every set is going good, it’s because you’re coming in too much like a friend and you’re not nearly being polarizing enough and you need to step up your obnoxiousness. In my head my criteria for success is like, if 1 out of 20 hot girls wants to talk to me, then I’m cool. Cause I can go hit up 20 hotties in a night and if like19 of them are like “jerk” “ass” “WTF?”, only one of them has to be like cool, like “that motherfucker is out of his mind but… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
4 years ago

@Culum sounds like you have had some AWESOME learning opportunities lately…lol +1 on Sentient… you know when drug girl flipped out in the bathroom?… = shit test…lol… which you failed btw…lol and at THAT point you went from a ‘john’ to a ‘mark’…lol I just don’t see how the risk/reward analysis stacks up in favour of the holding frame option though – it’s just too big a risk. yeah, kind of like the difference btwn harvey weinstein and david spade…lol Two hours pass – absolutely textbook first date with 100% compliance. lol… except for all those failed compliance tests you… Read more »

scars
scars
4 years ago

thanks @J I think I clearly had the benefit of her buying temp being spiked by my friend, although I still think I ran some of my best game in a while on her which I think I needed to do, without her being ‘worked up’ by my handsome mate! It’s a game of fine lines. If I hadn’t have met her, i’d have been so depressed on Sunday morning instead of being pumped and feeling good, because before that interaction, it was like I was a leper! Every girl I approached seemed super rude and super uninterested in even… Read more »

j
j
4 years ago

@scars “Every girl I approached seemed super rude and super uninterested in even saying ‘hi’ back lol.” Yeah I’ve been there many times where it just seems pointless at the time. Man I suck tonight lol. But yeah Derek’s philosophy is key. All it takes is one set to turn your night around. Then another set. and another then all of a sudden you’re back in the zone. And smoothly approach that 8 you didn’t had the balls to approach when you were getting rejected left and right. The past is over. Focus on the present. Do what you gotta… Read more »

j
j
4 years ago

“In game, nobody is above the process. And thinking that you somehow are, is among the surest ways to make the process extremely painful.”

https://www.toddvdating.com/why-successful-good-looking-guys-suck-at-learning-game/

Just Beers
Just Beers
4 years ago

Hey fellas, need help here. The nuts and bolts is that I’m mid-forties, got a mid-20’s yr old hottie back to my place on the 2nd date, had a great time, fun, physical, playful, really nice connection, though no sex. A week has gone by, and a 3rd date that she canceled due to being ill (believable, but no idea re: the truth, of course). We are slotted to see each other Thursday. I feel my text game vacillates from good to crap, and I am having a difficult time navigating the gap between now and then. Outside of this… Read more »

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

Oooh so many juicy comments… @WIArchie It’s not a question of “how to keep a woman” – but rather WHY? There’s no absolute answer to this… you know that. It’s something you find out, decide you want and then make it happen. Or don’t. But painting it as fundamentally frustrating is like equating interacting with girls to Krauser’s grind. Ultimately, it is YOU who make it feel a certain way. Why turn LTRs into a krauseresque? Because of her nagging and being irrational? Cause and effect. Go deeper. It is a sign of… what? You can make her aroused because…… Read more »

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

@Culum

Thanks for sharing. As uncomfortable as it may feel, it’s actually a great reference experience = something moving forward. Good stuff.

I just don’t see how the risk/reward analysis stacks up in favour of the holding frame option though – it’s just too big a risk.

Patrice says:
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This (the whole situ really) reminded me of this lol:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEtjgDAAYCQ

Who were you in this clip? 😉

If-I-Fell
If-I-Fell
4 years ago

Well you should go into the boss’s office and have a heart-to-heart…NOT. I haven’t posted much in a while because I am dealing with a DPA-draining employment situation. I looked at the recognized advice for this situation which seems on par with dating advice, or marriage counseling. I am glad to have you guys as a constant reminder of red pill truth. Last year, I received valuable advice about attending my first professional conference and dealing with my boss who was trying to pal around with me, though strangely enough we’re not pals, imagine that. Since then, I have been… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

Thank you to everyone who commented on my drug girl situation. I’ve said it before but it makes a huge difference to be able to talk about this openly in a supportive community. Several days now and I still haven’t had a knock on my door from the boys in blue, which is good. However, I’ve crossed state lines now and I’m back in the small town so realistically if anything’s going to happen I assume it’ll be when I’m back in the Big City (or more likely, if she’s actually complained, my name will be on a database somewhere… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Culum

“I still think there is some value in having my story – aka the truth – on record ”

Go to a bus stop. Take a long look around. Converse with those waiting.

There is your “truth”. These are the finders of fact today.

Lol.

having a bad day
having a bad day
4 years ago

@Just Beers The nuts and bolts is that I’m mid-forties, got a mid-20’s yr old hottie back to my place on the 2nd date, had a great time, fun, physical, playful, really nice connection, though no sex. ‘got’… whose frame is that in?… and that ‘really nice connection’ is likely pinging her ‘boyfriend potential asd’ subroutine…lol I’m not at a loss for women. That said, I do not emotionally feel “abundant” that’s the FI pushing on you… you have plenty of girls available, so why doesn’t that translate to ‘abundance’?… are you focused on girls?… or on ‘you’?… do you… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
4 years ago

@Culum Several days now and I still haven’t had a knock on my door from the boys in blue, which is good. However, I’ve crossed state lines now and I’m back in the small town sooo, fleeing from justice huh?…lol Still sleeping badly and thinking about it all the time and waking up in the middle of the night to worry about how much it’ll fuck up my life if she even makes the allegation (a conviction seems very unlikely, although in the MeToo era, anything is possible. Even prosecution seems unlikely – the most likely outcome – if she… Read more »

theasdgamer
4 years ago

@HABD I finally realized that there is a lot of room between being a boring boy scout and actually fucking a girl…that is, a makeout is no big deal when it comes to keeping vows and is merely being friendly and affectionate as long as you keep the makeout to around five minutes or so…at least for me…that goes for married girls as well as single girls…I wouldn’t care if Mrs. Gamer had a short makeout with some guy…I’d hope she had a good time but I’d check whether it was just a bit of fun or whether it was… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
4 years ago

@ Culum Thought about your situation for days. I don’t have any answers to offer really, and sentient and HABD have done a masterful job in their replies. Just some food to chew on: getting arrested is not the end of the world. Anyone can get arrested. Being ” charged ” and ” prosecuted ” is a different animal requiring evidence ( usually). Lawyers are expensive, but a necessary evil. Cops don’t convict anyone of anything, they just try to follow the rules and guidelines known as law. You’ll find that some cops are more keen on making arrests than… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

Thank you to HABD, PalmaSailor and Blax. Even more to think about and take on board for me. Every day is slightly better. I am probably overreacting given the low risk of an allegation being made, but it’s not *that* low (we’re not talking 1 in a million) and nothing like this has happened to me before (I am not entirely a stranger to cops, but the sexual assault angle, MeToo era, the drugs/blackmail, reputational risk etc are all new) so it’s hit pretty hard especially since it’s kind of an ongoing background stress – it’s not done in a… Read more »

mersonia
4 years ago

@Culumn

OMG NOOOO IN THE METOOOO ERA WFJAPIJWPIAFHPWAIHPWIfnpawinfPiawnf

culumn none of this stuff is real for real people….everyone gets stuck on their self importance lol.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

@mersonia – Heh. If by that you mean that nothing is likely to happen to me and I shouldn’t make a big deal out of this, then I very sincerely hope you are right… I also had one new thought – paying her has at least given her what she wants (from a beta perspective of course – not the alpha option Sentient et al suggested). If I’d refused to pay her, but from a beta perspective, then there’s a chance she could have been the one fuming for days about how she was cheated (by not getting paid) and… Read more »

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

@Culum Still thinking about this FI monster under your alpha stud bed and telling you to stay in the naughty beta corner? Still sleeping badly and thinking about it all the time and waking up in the middle of the night to worry about how much it’ll fuck up my life if […🐹🐹🐹🐹🙈🙉🙊🦄🐥🐥🐥…] But even the arrest is enough to fuck me up and destroy career, reputation etc.. …and then you’ll finally realize (experience) that you can handle this. Lol, maybe you’ll write a book about it. Leonardo DiCaprio will play you on the big screen. You’ll rebuild the lifestyle… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

IRL

“You’ll finally look at the world from the Position of Fuck You…”

Yes!

having a bad day
having a bad day
4 years ago

@theasdgamer @HABD I finally realized that there is a lot of room between being a boring boy scout and actually fucking a girl… that’s what all those YSGs were trying to tell you…lol that is, a makeout is no big deal when it comes to keeping vows and is merely being friendly and affectionate how’s that FI treatin’ ya?…lol… ANY girl that is doing a ‘makeout’ with you is dtf… you just have to figure out the path to daylight and then execute… as long as you keep the makeout to around five minutes or so…at least for me…that goes… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Culum First take a tip from Aaron https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qPEcDg6mUsM Second. Get ready to have your mind blown… “paying her has at least given her what she wants ” Weinstein paid Rose McGowan… Rose waited how long to come forward? Oh yeah. Two decades. Lol. There is no statute of limitations on beta. Meanwhile Jack Nicholson sleeps like a baby. Assault charges did not effect his sleep or career. https://www.theguardian.com/film/2000/may/15/news1 “According to the lawsuit, the star invited Sheehan and a friend to his home on October 12, 1996. He offered each woman $1,000 to wear “little black dresses” and engage in sex… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Culum

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Consider the blood and severed head foreplay…

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

IRL

Re Belfort re Wolfe re Bonfire of the Vanities

Excellent book about a beta getting caught in the “justice system” and getting zeroed out. And through that finally emerging as an Alpha.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Redpill must read.

Blaximus
Blaximus
4 years ago

” Egalitarian equalosity ”

Consider this as stolen.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Wisdom

“But I love being able to say things like, ‘Cunt is an acronym.’ ‘For what?’ ‘For can’t-understand-normal-thinking.’ Heh, heh, heh. ”

— J. Nicholson

https://www.rollingstone.com/movies/news/jack-nicholson-a-singular-guy-20130905

j
j
4 years ago

@Culum “I cannot honestly say that I feel like I’m “giving girls a chance to spend time with me” either” If you can make girls laugh, fuck them well, and be non-needy….you are a god to women. You’re money, baby! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlEXOzC6vqE Maybe you need to experience an epiphany to really let it sink in like me. I had this girl I only used to see only once a week, on fridays, spend the night and leave in the morning. I broke the pattern, because I traveled to south america for a weekend to sightsee and bang latinas. When I came… Read more »

j
j
4 years ago

today i have a fuckbuddy that I pretty much never text. She texts me to come over. And when I go there. I stop whatever she is doing, laundry, turn off her television and throw her on the bed, and bang her a couple times. Then go in her refrigerator and drink a can of ginger ale or whatever she has in there. in between bangs I am also making her laugh with my silly nonsensical humor and talk some red pill with her. Then when she falls asleep, I put my clothes on and leave.

dr zipper
dr zipper
4 years ago

“More good times is both my ethics and my morals,” – Jack N.

j
j
4 years ago

@Sentient

which films with Jack Nicholson do you recommend? I’ve only watched The Departed and Carnal Knowledge

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

J

Nicholson’s best role is Jack Nicholson in Real Life. He is one of the few actors whose day in and out far surpasses the fantasy on screen… Like Mitchum, McQueen,

He didn’t break through until Easy Rider… When he was 32. He spent a decade in Hollywood before then in minor parts and living his life. This is the Legend of Jack. Not some flash in thr pan instant famous PR creation… He was Jack before the fame…

That said you might like Witches of Eastwick, Prizzi’s Honor and The Postman Always Rings Twice.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

J “Nicholson from the time they met, although they only dated briefly. “He was very beautiful. He just looked right at you … I liked him a lot … He really sort of wanted to date me but I didn’t think of him that way because I was going with Peter Kastner … Then I went to do Easy Rider, but didn’t see him because we didn’t have any scenes together … At the premiere, I saw him out in the lobby afterward and I started crying … He didn’t understand that, but what it was was that I really… Read more »

dr zipper
dr zipper
4 years ago

was perusing MM and re-caught this:

“Part of being a man of value is pursuing your dreams (D), having a
strong identity (A), and living a passionate life(P).”

yo sentient, DAP; it’s a much better acronym and could tie into ‘dapper’ somehow, like this guy

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IAS
IAS
4 years ago

@Everyone: again regarding the shit tests about feeling bad about me being married (by ESG)… It is subconsciously (or even consciously) pressuring me to divorce / break up so that she can get upgraded to gf / LTR. I guess it is obvious but I made the connection more strongly today on the recent bout. I hit her with all the “material” we discussed here, and then I just changed subject. Which she obviously noticed and asked me “did you read what I wrote” and I said “Of course”, continued the change and she bought into it and was happy… Read more »

j
j
4 years ago

This clip might not motivate anyone but i’m feeling it tonight. I first watched this documentary as a kid. Still one of my favorites. but this specific scene….I remember replaying it over and over. I could feel the passion.

“I looked around at my teammates…man these guys are the best! I need to be the best, too. I need to step up my game”

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

J

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=n7rMNU7Mpec

Ruthlessness…

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

J

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5S0wLKe7TXE

Even more ruthlessness… Lol.

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

Second attempt, this time one clip at a time:

Part 1:
https://youtu.be/IK_qU5DBlBQ

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

Part 2:
https://youtu.be/yfsgm_iNzJg

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

Meetup and dating coaches lol

https://youtu.be/PfthGaTfi4U

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

@Palma

Keep us posted. Curious to see if the makeout triggers her ASD.

IAS
IAS
4 years ago

@Palma and IRL: are you both Europe based?

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

@Palma

Nope but I might visit in 2-3 weeks or so. I’ll ping you when I’m around.

@IAS

Here and there yeah

IAS
IAS
4 years ago

@Palma and IRL: not always in the U.K. but I sometimes pass by. Kind of worried about doxxing though. How did you get each others contacts “safely”?

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

@IAS

I saw a nude guy in Palma swinging his dick and it was him… lol

BD’s community DMs.

IAS
IAS
4 years ago

@IRL: LOL.

If either of you have a reddit account you don’t mind me knowing, you could PM me there, I have a RP-related account there. When I learnt about the RP I posted a little in the MRP reddit:
IASGame

Nowadays I just post here, but I’ll keep an eye on the inbox there.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Amog defuser… Compliance test him and force a frame shift…

“Drink? Sure man. But you have to earn it. Let’s see a little dance.”

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VobbXMgd5ao

Or sing us a song, tell a joke etc.

Once he defers to your frame you’re now the amog to the group.

Yes but… A powerful frame.

Now if you just want to be more of a dick… “Kiss me first 💋 ”

Or another powerful frame “I prefer not to”…

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Amog defuser… Compliance test him and force a frame shift…

“Drink? Sure man. But you have to earn it. Let’s see a little dance.”

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VobbXMgd5ao

Or sing us a song, tell a joke etc.

Once he defers to your frame you’re now the amog to the group.

Yes but… A powerful frame.

Now if you just want to be more of a dick… “Kiss me first 💋 ”

Or another powerful frame “I prefer not to”…

Blaximus
Blaximus
4 years ago

Dude: ” buy me a drink ” Frame master : ” get the absolute fuck out of my face “. Or Dude: ” buy me a drink ” FM: ” make me “. Or Dude: ” buy me a drink ” FM: ” no can do. Your mom devastated my drink fund before I banged her in the alley “. Or Dude: ” buy me a drink ” FM: ” okay, but I don’t want to hear any complaints later about your ass hurting “. ( still don’t buy drink ) Dude : ” buy me a drink ” FM:… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
4 years ago

… ” buy me a drink ”

” sorry. I already donated to the broke motherfucker fund “.

anon
anon
4 years ago

“A cosmopolitan for the gay dude over there…”

anon
anon
4 years ago

“Buy me a drink” is a chick thing to say.

Answer to her would be, “wow you move fast”

j
j
4 years ago

@Sentient

yeah i saw Prizzi’s yesterday. Wasn’t that impressed. Nicholson’s character had a bit of oneitis for Irene (and speaking of Katheleen Turner….lol)

http://images.totalbeauty.com/content/photos/kathleen-turner-before-after.jpeg

Time, as blax loves to say (just messing with you man)

Gonna watch Witches of Eastwick, later today

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

J

Ever see Body Heat?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IP7if61DsgM

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago
Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago
IRL
IRL
4 years ago

@Palma

You and your temper… lol

You can bring out whatever you want in people… until they trigger you as repelling husband hunters, annoying AMOGs or fucked up betas… lol… and then they are just this… so they get on your nerves and/or you check out.

I’d say slow down, pace their reality… but it would be inhibiting an important part of your personality that girls dig. Why throw out something that works? Embrace it and have fun with it. Or master (and merge) both.

j
j
4 years ago

@Sentient

yeah I remember writing that one down on my list of films to watch from this post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/2c18q6/what_are_some_good_erotic_films_that_arent_porn/

I’m gonna watch it before heading out tonight, thanks

anon
anon
4 years ago

“Don’t want to look try hard..”

Good point.
You could just say, “I’m straight” or “but we just met” or some such. (or…yeah, nothing)

gwoke
gwoke
4 years ago

IRL – Part2: Jenice has a skid mark as she is leaving (2:26)

Blaximus
Blaximus
4 years ago
j
j
4 years ago

Motivation:

j
j
4 years ago

sorry one more video. Super powerful demonstration of Boyfriend (Husband) destroyer

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkpA69Hz58A

ok now time to pregame

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

Thanks IRL and Sentient.

Is that really Palma’s book on Amazon? Just published??

boulderhead
4 years ago

First you want a drink next you will ask for a reacharound then a cigarette.

Ask Sheila , she was checking out your ass while you weren’t looking.

j
j
4 years ago

Gonna share something that I was talking to my wing with earlier Last night I actually got into into an exclusive nightclub, by walking in with two 9s I approached on the street. But I didn’t close because the train situation last night, in a way, cockblocked me. But that’s not what I wanted to talk about. So this year I’ve had 8 pulls but only closed 4. Low number. Yeah. I only go out weekends which according to Goldmund are the absolute worst days to go out haha https://twitter.com/GoldmundUnleash/status/967194461389418499 So this morning I pulled up a blank page. Typed… Read more »

M Simon
4 years ago

anon
March 3, 2018 at 8:37 am

“Buy me a drink” is a chick thing to say.

Waiter. Two tap waters please.

I could offer you more, but only if you commit to coming home with me. (see Richard Feynman – the chapter ‘You Just Ask Them’. )

Resources only after commitment.

theasdgamer
4 years ago

I could offer you more, but only if you commit to coming home with me. (see Richard Feynman – the chapter ‘You Just Ask Them’. ) Sounds like negotiating sex to me. Just do everything dutch to avoid that. I didn’t go out Sat. night…jet lag…sleep cycle is unstable and I’m running short of sleep…should be Ok by next week…Fri. night was kind of a haze…some girl’s friends were throwing her at me and I dodged because she wasn’t hot enough for me sober even if I lacked sleep…probably a 6…I danced with a 9 with a wedding ring, but… Read more »

j
j
4 years ago

I just discovered Chris Wilde’s Channel, Social Prime, yesterday via his interview with Chris Parker yesterday. Really great stuff. (I think newer guys and intermediates will get a lot of value from watching his video titled, “The secret to becoming a supernatural – what the pickup industry cannot teach you”)

But the reason for posting, is to share this link:

http://socialprimedating.com/index.php/category/lay-reports/

15+ lay reports for you guys to read for inspiration

SJF
SJF
4 years ago

@Palmasailor I read half your book today. (Kindle Unlimited.) That’s not all I did today. My son is home for a week during a break from his Masters year in Accounting. We went out to a restaurant bar with my wife for the Big Ten Basketball final and to watch golf (The Mexican golf Tournament in which Phil Mikelson won after a dry stretch at winning.) My wife and I got tired of the shit show Oscars. She’s watching the shit show now, that is the Keeping up with the Kardashians. I have a great relationship at arms length with… Read more »

theasdgamer
4 years ago

Good for you, Palma!!!!

SJF
SJF
4 years ago

PalmaSailor “Apart from the man to man talks I’d be interested to know what do you do with your son?” In retrospect, the key to my son’s development was living in a good community of homogeneous families. Within our community, which my wife and I actively chose 20 years ago and which we have wholeheartedly participated in with dynamism, passion and authenticity 90% of family parents stay married. It’s just the way it is. Second, competitive team sports like your son’s rugby was very important from the age of 9 until 18 years old for my son. Lot’s of other… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
4 years ago

LOLOL, Richard “Gambler” La Ruina is releasing a Super Seducer game for PS4.

Needless to say the female reporter at The Verge doesn’t like the game and thinks it is inappropriate in the MeToo era (to be fair Gambler’s videos – except for that eye contact one YaReally always linked – have always been a bit shit – like what was the point of all the bored models he had in them?)

https://www.theverge.com/2018/3/5/17062064/super-seducer-game-me-too

PS – Palma, bought your book today, going to start it soon – should be interesting.

j
j
4 years ago
theasdgamer
4 years ago

I was listening to Lorrie Morgan’s “Five Minutes” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45dxjoN1QBo The song is both a shit test and a comfort test. You look so disbelieving At my suitcase by the door My taxi’s on its’ way I can’t take it anymore Lately you’ve forgotten What loving me is about Well, now you’ve got five minutes To figure it out Chorus: You can start with please don’t leave me And end with I love you And if you’d only kiss me The way you used to do You could see a miracle come true Don’t pay attention to the girl’s hamstering about… Read more »

fleezer
fleezer
4 years ago

for anyone worried about the “moral” implications of running Game, I’d ask if you’d read any abortion stories women never have, and never will, have anything resembling what could be called morals the rationalization hamster handles everything for them, so do whatever the fuck you please with them and never, ever, ever listen to a fucking word they say about anything that has to do with morals, ethics, standards of conduct, or what’s fucking “right” be sure to fuck them all up the ass extra hard too. 5/6 will lick their own shit off your cock when you’re finished how… Read more »

fleezer
fleezer
4 years ago

“But I do know, without a doubt, that I loved that child for the six weeks that it was in me. I was a mother for six weeks. And no one can ever take that away from me.”

Ya talked about them like they were pitbulls

pitbulls aren’t nearly as fucking sadistic as your average western “edumucated” cunt

the entire world revolves around them. nothing, not even murdering the child they loved for six weeks, will shake them out of this mindset

proceed accordingly

j
j
4 years ago

fleezer
March 5, 2018 at 11:10 am

fellow psychopath here. and I approve this message.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

J The FR at 9:17AM – well I would have kino’ed earlier in the interaction. He might have shorted out some of his waiting time. Kino is a good diagnostic tool. Culum Here is a little vignette… not because it’s good, but because it’s an example of what you should be doing all the time. No big deal. Either way. No big deal. No game on/game off… Just a charming sexy beast making his way through the day (i.e. you). At the airport 11AM. Have about an hour and 10 to my flight. Take a walk around the terminal, come… Read more »

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

FR (weekend brain dump) It starts at a high end bar maybe an hour before crowds hit the bar scene. I don’t do this often so it takes me a while to warm up. I leave my coat at the entrance and sit by the bar between 2 sparkly blondes and a loud group of 4 or 5 girls. I order a drink and some random guy hits on the sparkly blonde further away. The one next to me just sits there looking elsewhere and waiting. Easy, just tease her that her GF lied to her, is hetero and has… Read more »

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

@j
March 5, 2018 at 9:17 am

Whoa so much work, LTRs look easier…

IRL
IRL
4 years ago

Lol, ok just pulling your leg…

Funny story.

Sentient
Sentient
4 years ago

Great FR IRL. Great example of building momentum and leading.

I’m 5’10 btw. If I was 6’3″ I’d be insufferable and probably dead.

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