Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Loveroflife Decided I would just meet any woman anytime I liked the look of. There you go… when I went in this time, I was not looking for an interaction, I just went in with curiosity as to what might happen, open to any outcome and voila ended up on an instant date. Yep. Bobby Judge called this “testing the truth of the situation”… The “test” is the objective, the outcome. Not the result of the test. AKA “relaxing into it”… Of course you need to be able to speak “Catonese”, understand The Language of Female Seduction(tm) to be able… Read more »

wentworth
wentworth
6 months ago

18?! They’re children. Lets keep is classy. Hitting on children isn’t on 🙂

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Palma Assuming they are slim – Erin a 6 and perhaps the other two are 7’s. All very bangable. spotted an IOI off one of them, slowed down and put my arm out for the link which she complied with, got everyone to link arms and got them chatting and got myself invited to a club with them. Baller… That is the key, to start acting on the IOI in the moment [cough… Culum…] Now worst case you roll up to the club with three animated young girls on your arm… Preselection, open and forward merge sets easily with girl… Read more »

ford
ford
6 months ago

I agree with sentient. One in the middle a 6, other 2 possible 7’s. (slightly generous maybe, but around there somewhere for me)

Did you try to escalate on either? I bet @J would have just went for the instant makeout lol

When you say you ‘don’t have game’, what do you mean exactly? Have you not read or watched any PUAbooks or programs?

ford
ford
6 months ago

Cousin had her 18th B-day yesterday and going round to see her and I know that this girl is gonna be there.

https://imgur.com/a/2YQBpAT

Gonna see if I can get any attraction at all out of her!

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Ford

That the same “five-head” girl you posted before? lol

Drop the exclamation point…

ford
ford
6 months ago

”He’d have gone for – and got – the three some straight out the gate.. we know that”

haha!

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Palma No it was half past midnight and I was knackered – which is the precise reason for this current process I’m putting myself through. To get them WHEN I want them AND have logistics (including energy) to see it through, as opposed to the situation happening on their territory which are clubs at 4am. Yup. This is the Doing the Work(TM) part, that most guys wont do. They will just bitch about how hard it is… The good news it you are smart and open to learning and not an incel fagboy. so you don’t need too much reference… Read more »

IAS
IAS
6 months ago

@Sentient and others: here is a funny Game situation in multiple ways. I’m interested in acquiring an (unusual) asset with a fixed (stable) income. Palma has suggested sending two persons in to the seller to make lowball offers to attempt to price condition the seller, then I offer my amount higher than that (but lower than the asking price that I already know is negotiable). That I get. Then Palma went “You have 2 plates, send them in, also DHV for them win/win” and I was like “Uh?”. So I’m like they are kind of lefty (the plates) and don’t… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

IAS So the setup is you are going to have your plates go in one after the other to buy this thing, and then you are going to show up after and do it? Not sure if I get the set up. Regardless, bringing your plates to observe you doing something high value is definitely a plus… [do they know each other? open harem here!] Don’t worry about triggering BB. Betu Bux trigger is in how you use your money with respect to their pussy. If they are just along for the ride, no problem. If you are using it… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

“If they rub their tits at the vendor he may even take their low ball offer” “bringing your plates to observe you doing something high value is definitely a plus[…]If they are just along for the ride, no problem[…]think about it more like a display of power, like if you brought them along to see you beat the guy up.” Have them do the work for you by sending the uglier of the two first (don’t let her know this is why you’re sending her in first heh). Have him reject her by making an offer way below the asking… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

“do they know each other?”

IAS: “N=3 and N=4 are from the same social circle and know each other […] At some point I even pulled N=3 and N=4 into a triangle and we were dancing to music while rubbing our asses together (ass to ass grinding basically), they were laughing their asses off as well”.

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

“Open harem” I.e. do they know each other as IAS paramours.

j
j
6 months ago

“do they know each other as IAS paramours”

lol not yet.

IAS
IAS
6 months ago

@Sentient: not openly, if they either suspect or know they haven’t let it on.

Presumably girls are good at spotting stuff like that, but at what level I’m not sure. They probably spot the IOIs and kino I receive from the other which pre-selects me, but maybe not enough to make the leap from there to “he’s banging her as well”.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 months ago

Palma- all okay? More or less? Anything we can do to help?

Hope you’re not leaving the comments section permanently. Perhaps think about returning with a different username after some time.

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

yeah what gives Palma?

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 months ago

@Palmasailor

Not leaving but want to tie up loose ends in threads to batten down.

hope everything works out well…

good luck!

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

“^^ basically every time I encounter adversity, she steps up with girl stuff.”

Rollo has posts on Standards and Vetting… 🙂

Now just let her blow you before you go and be done with it…

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 months ago

@Palmasailor @HABD Thx.. but I’m an old scabby dog so will survive plant based bandits, plus I have cold beer.. I know what you’re gonna say but indulge me on your opinion of EEGF making a speshul journey to get me speshul biscuits (cookies) today. Serious escalation right? yep… it’s the next step on the girl game escalation ladder… the next step up from just arranging a meal or ‘sharing’… bc it’s her personal efforts to you personally and specifically… ^^ she didn’t buy anything else for anyone else ^^^ all you need to know…lol no special effort for old… Read more »

SJF
SJF
6 months ago

@Sentient

“Standards & Vetting”

Do you have a link bc my google Fu isn’t linking me to what I think you have in mind?

Wait, what???

https://therationalmale.com/?s=Standards+%26+Vetting

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 months ago

@Palmasailor @HABD ^^ everting you say is correct. Plus there’s the overt communication (when covert fails right?) Ie the verbalisation – she said: “I’m gonna do XYZ and then go to town to get you cookies” yikes!!!… (<— notice the 3!!! exclamation points…lol) get OUT!!!… the call came from INSIDE THE HOUSE!!!!…lol Last night as I finished I was leaving and I got questioned “where are you going?” yikes!!!! (<— notice the 4!!!!…lol) depending on how this was said, she was either just making small talk… OR… she (her hindbrain) is showing some possessory interest in you… based on everything,… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

HEY! hamster!!! wake up and drop that towel!!! Lolz… Palma I was kidding about standards and vetting, that is the next post in RT’s series though… Basically she is trying to make herself attractive to you… Also… this “she (her hindbrain) is showing some possessory interest in you… “ and this “I’ve lost 3 stone since divorce and can’t shift the final half stone… I’ve told her this and she keeps buying them and I keep eating them… “ can be linked… with the idea that you “stay attainable” for her… with all your stress… I expect a backrub to… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 months ago

Palmasailor

I’ve told her this and she keeps buying them and I keep eating them… and drinking cold beer.

Heh, obvious IOI is very obvious.
Agree with Sentient, you are soooo tense in the shoulders right now, even though you do not notice it. No worries! She’ll help with that too.

I’ll join with HABD: good luck!

theasdgamer
6 months ago

“No fucks given about age of consent either.”

Just remember, fifteen will get you twenty in Texas. There was this fifteen year old in Texas…lol…jk…

As to fifteen year old girls’ looks–back in the day there were plenty of fourteen year olds who looked like mature women. Even a few thirteen year olds.

theasdgamer
6 months ago

“I find older women (30+) much much easier to hook and bang than the 16-23 type girl,”

I’m not in high schools much these days, so the lower end of that range is outside my current experience…except for malls…sometimes young girls will hold my gaze…

Obviously, since I have girl friends in the 20-23 range who ask me out….

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

ASD

“Obviously, since I have girl friends in the 20-23 range who ask me out….”

“Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you are not fucking her, you’re her girlfriend” – – Rollo Tomassi

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

So some fringe social circle stuff leaking out… One woman i’ve seen around for like five years, would say hey while she was walking her dog or what not. She was pleasant enough. But nothing beyond, hello, weather etc. and moving on. 5 minutes. every three months or so. attractive. Would also run into her and a guy or girl friend while out with friends myself and again, hellos, what’s new etc. nothing much, good seeing you. so long. kind of stuff. Then maybe 8 months ago she was seated next to me at a bar, side by side. I… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

“i was holding back. Not really amped up at all”.

https://www.getroman.com/drugs/viagra

j
j
6 months ago

“Looking at it from here that’s the moment I would have”

The issue here isn’t in not knowing how to seal the deal (sentient isn’t a rookie). It’s in not feeling like doing it. I’ve read a lot of field reports here with guys getting to the red zone (softnek, culum, blax) but then for whatever reason there’s something that prevents them from finishing the job (“ehhhhhh I don’t really feel like it anymore. The validation was enough.” I still got it baby! ).

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 months ago

Palmasailor
Ex wife also insisted on throwing out an incredible collection of jackets that I used to wear out with my wing and bought me boring arse shit shirts etc…

Unless you instructed her to prune your wardrobe, that was a major shit test. “Mommy” can do that to the closet of her “little boy”…wifey gets to put clean clothing away and mend things. That’s pretty much it.

No wonder she’s your ex.

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

J The validation was enough.” I still got it baby! I think you are projecting with the validation thing. By this metric it would be more validating to go home with her, so i should have joined her invitation to do so. To me, in this instance, it wasn’t a big deal and I had second thoughts about a deeper entanglement, despite her being good looking and cool enough to be around. [interestingly part of those second thoughts come from the triggering questions about marriage and the psychoanalysis many want to do. a deeper topic to explore in another thread.]… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

“By this metric it would be more validating to go home with her, so i should have joined her invitation to do so” No. You, like the catch and release crowd here, get your validation in the form of “I still got it baby!” Catch and release: noun A cycle which sees someone enjoy the thrill of the chase, lose interest as soon as they’ve ‘caught’ their target and immediately embark upon a new search Where “catch” here, doesn’t require actually fucking the girl to get it. All you gotta do to get this form of validation is to convince… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

“Sex or an objection to sex [you didn’t solve]”

j
j
6 months ago

“You’re assuming you’re going to bang anything you encounter regardless of any further info / red flags that come to lite bc that’s what you do if you can.” If I’m talking to an attractive girl, which I’m assuming sentient’s girl was, then the only red flags that would make me go “uhh no thanks” are: “By the way I have XYZ STD” “By the way I was born a guy” which isn’t the case here. I don’t let moral compasses guide my decisions so if I get, “I have a boyfriend/husband” I’m still going for it. Let’s separate banging… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

J

“is to convince yourself you would’ve slept with her if you felt like it “

This is just more of your projection. No such claims have been made… But you can’t conceive of this not being about validation.

Palma

You’re assuming you’re going to bang anything you encounter

The formerly incel take a long time to get out of this stage, if they do at all. MUST BANG ALL WOMEN…

j
j
6 months ago

“is to convince yourself you would’ve slept with her if you felt like it “

No such claims have been made…

I don’t see how it could be any other way. Either that or she wasn’t hot enough. Because the objection/red flag (I gave 2 legitimate red flags in response to Palma’s comment) you gave for not going through with it was bogus (“deeper entanglement”).

IAS
IAS
6 months ago

@j: what about:
Chances of regret after the fact leading to, e.g., FRA?
Chances of girl intentionally or unintentionally getting pregnant?
Chances of girl getting too fond of you and changing her mind about being cool with being the side chick (or never actually intending it in the first place)?

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

I luv @J. ( the preceding statement has been rated non homo )

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 months ago

Halloween vid that should be scary for girls, especially those over 30.

j
j
6 months ago

@IAS None of these “chances” you presented affects my decision of whether or not to pull a girl home this evening. FRA? I never (and neither should anyone else who knows what they’re doing) spend a second thinking about (nor fearing) a girl accusing me of raping her after I fucked her. That’s boogeyman manosphere shit. unintentional pregnancies? Majority of girls I fucked via SNL (19-28 years old), have all been without a condom. Zero pregnancy scares to date. As Chase wrote in a recent article over at GC, “if you go around dropping loads into random girls you pick… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

Lol, of course, I agree with Sentient and Palma. More on that later tho. IAS Sup man? Chances of regret after the fact leading to, e.g., FRA? Never had this, although once on vacation my 1st wife said I raped her because I kicked the bathroom door open and threw her over my shoulder and tossed her in bed and was ” rough “. I ( jokingly ) told her to stfu, and we had a good laugh. Chances of girl intentionally or unintentionally getting pregnant? Yeah, gotta watch out for this shit. I think a lot of guys mistakenly… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

Aight so we agree FRAs are bullshit. And we agree the chances of unintentionally knocking up a chick are incredibly low (only 2 pregnancy scares in your 25+ years of banging chicks. And I’m assuming they weren’t girls you picked up on the very first night you met them (this applies to K too. She may express interest in wanting to have kids now via her, “you make beautiful girls” comment, but….I know @22 she’s had numerous sex partners. Whether they were one night stands, social circle hookups, boyfriends, she still ain’t pregnant. None of them may have expressed the… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

@ J Lol. K has had sex, a couple of bf’s and some other shit, but she hasn’t had a whole lot ( cock carousel ). Granted, she might get there one day now that she lives in Brooklyn as opposed to rural Maryland, and her parents are farther away. And no, ” speed ” ain’t my thang. Lol. Quantity and quality. But I don’t care what anybody wrote, biology works and a chick can indeed get pregnant with one shot. I have heard too many times over the years about guys knocking up some random ONS. Unless your swimmers… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

Most of what I understand about FRA’s come from the stuff I’ve been reading over the past few years, but I’ve never experienced anything remotely like that. I’m not sure what these guys are doing, or how they choose, but in some circles it seems to be a ” thing ” now.

j
j
6 months ago

“now that she lives in Brooklyn as opposed to rural Maryland, and her parents are farther away.”

uh oh…lol

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

“uh oh…lol”

…. yeah, I know.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 months ago

The problem with @j’s analysis (I had a longer post on this a few months ago but my google-fu isn’t up to finding it) is that ignores the concept of EV. That is to say, an analysis of risk like this (FRAs, pregnancies, STDs, whatever) has to take into account not just how likely the risk is, but also how serious it is. The more serious it is, the more important that it be mitigated even if the absolute chances are relatively low. Sure, the absolute chances of getting an FRA are pretty low. The chances of a pregnancy scare… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 months ago

@Palma, No I agree with you (I also loved that movie as a kid). I was addressing a different point with @j. Sentient decided to eject for some reason unknown to his conscious brain. He just perceived it as “not feeling it”. Which is a perfectly valid reason. The actual underlying reason could be anything – maybe subcomms implying she’ll turn into a bunny boiler, maybe she’s not hot enough..whatever. Certainly, once I nailed my online dating skills I’d go on like 5 day business trips and once I’d slept with a woman/women on night 1/night 2, and was no… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

Fletcher Cox ( ironic name ), habitual line stepper😂

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KftzM3QJQJY

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EnvnCdPxuhQ

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Kids today…

And we agree the chances of unintentionally knocking up a chick are incredibly low

I have a friend who is a trial lawyer. He tells worked up emotional people they have about a 17% chance of losing at trial, do they still want to go ahead with it? They all say yes.

Then he tells them those are the same odds as Russian Roulette, do you still want to try the case? And most say no.
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Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Palma / Culum “Which is why he posted it here. To analyse that. It wasn’t validation, it was to understand what happened and why.” Really just thought it was interesting. The whole thing, from the little ioi’s spread out over the months, to how she reacted when put on the spot, how I sat there and said almost nothing for an hour… just increased the kino and intensity… all that kind of stuff. and yeah some ruminating on the ending and really how it makes me feel when they start asking what I consider “personal questions”. That is the real… Read more »

disgruntledearthling
disgruntledearthling
6 months ago

The chances of a pregnancy scare if you’re regularly barebacking and coming inside young fertile women are actually not that low (but that’s a separate discussion).

A lot of the younger girls are using the Plan B pill as a method of birth control. Heck, I saw it on the shelf at Walmart…
Someone of that age I know also knows she has Gonorrhea, but keeps spreading it to different Tinder guys while ‘she gets around to treating it’…

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Game example http://datagenetics.com/blog/february22016/index.html “According to the internet (so it has to be true), there is a variant of the Russian Roulette problem that is commonly asked as an interview question. It goes like this: “Let’s play a game of Russian Roulette. You are tied to a chair. Here’s a gun, six chambers, all empty. Now watch me as I put two bullets in the gun into adjacent chambers. I close the cylinder and spin it. I put the gun to your head and pull the trigger. Click. You’re still alive. Lucky you! Now, before we discuss your résumé, I’m going… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

https://www.nba.com/nets/brooklynettes-dancers

lol where dem HB8-9s at???

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
6 months ago

disgruntledearthling A lot of the younger girls are using the Plan B pill as a method of birth control. Heck, I saw it on the shelf at Walmart… Every drug store has it now, not just in the college towns. Pretty sure it’s something a girl has to go get a pharmacist to unlock, but that’s not a huge deal. She can keep her eyes on her shoes the whole time. Someone of that age I know also knows she has Gonorrhea, but keeps spreading it to different Tinder guys while ‘she gets around to treating it’… “Gets around to”,… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 months ago

@Sentient That is the real interesting part for me, it happens over and over. sooo, you recognize that it is structural… and not a personal one-off… Still trying to figure out if it they’re validating themselves i.e. she thinks “she’s so special/hot/whatever” a married guy wants her or they are trying to slot themselves into a female pecking order or maybe it’s something else. Still trying to figure the words to describe the question actually… It’s very odd, but a common situation. how about the last token beta bait/sh*t test for AF… before they go all in?… good luck! Loading...

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

” lol where dem HB8-9s at???”

Same places they’ve always been.

As I’ve said numerous time, 8-9’s aren’t common, 6-7’s are plentiful. Most guys get 5-6 and think they’re hitting a jackpot.
Same as it ever was.

theasdgamer
6 months ago

Girls at the hotel have been hitting on me…one is always hanging around me working as long as possible in my vicinity…another looked at me and told me some sh*t about “taking what you love”. (Blax wouldn’t like her–she’s too skinny.) But I’m just their girl friend…barely talk to either one…just being polite… …it seems that southern girls don’t try to hide their interest when they first see you (white/hispanic/black)…I get sexy smiles in the south that I don’t get in the north…not saying that northern girls are any less sexual, but they seem to hide showing their sexual interest… Read more »

dr zipper
dr zipper
6 months ago

after just meeting her the night before, here’s a next-day text to me commenting on how far I got with with her:

“…. I should never have allowed that, but it felt good ….”

that sums it all up right there, fellas lol

theasdgamer
6 months ago

lol @ Palma…”explain”…girls typically haven’t a clue why they like a man…they’ll say all kinds of sh*t, but really, they haven’t a clue…a girl, talking about her ugly lover will say, “He has a cute grin.” Really, however, he’s just very masculine and confident and not insecure and enforces his boundaries

You pay too much attention to what women say.

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

Huh??? What??? Yo, engage them and pull the answers out while blowing past the fluff. Game son. You can ” ask ” her if she likes older men 10 different ways in a 10 minute conversation without ever saying ” older “, she’ll answer you 10 different ways, and a pattern ( along with a fairly accurate representation of the truth ) will emerge. Try this next time a girl smiles at you😁 , start talking to her and midway through, start moving around/back and see if she adjusts to maintain she contact and proximity. They do all kinds of… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 months ago

LOL – just lol at the Millionaire Matchmaker on that app. All I noticed was that she looks like a man and something about “wanting an alpha male”.

As for the other woman, surely that’s just all the guys messaging her for an easy lay (and if she’s new to the app she probably gets more visibility).

Did you not even get a notification your picture was deleted? Aren’t there other men with shirtless pictures?

kfg
kfg
6 months ago

” . . . something about “wanting an alpha male”.”

That something was wanting an alpha male at work but a beta at home. A hunter/warrior who asks for her enthusiastic consent to be dominant, now and again, when it suits her.

There used to be a term that was so common and so well understood that it became embedded in English common law as a proper legal term:

Spinster.

theasdgamer
6 months ago

“You can ” ask ” her if she likes older men 10 different ways in a 10 minute conversation without ever saying ” older “, she’ll answer you 10 different ways, and a pattern ( along with a fairly accurate representation of the truth ) will emerge. Try this next time a girl smiles at you😁 , start talking to her and midway through, start moving around/back and see if she adjusts to maintain she contact and proximity. They do all kinds of shit that belies their words.” Lol, the pattern only emerges if you have eyes to see. You… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

Palma

“Amirite?”

Yes. She is putting it all on you because she told so she can never be at fault. It’s. A big lol.

The play is to just go forward as if he doesn’t exist or exists only in an abstract sense. As things firm up you can refer to him as “her boy” from time to time. Like “your boy can buy you dinner”…

j
j
6 months ago

yeah with girls with boyfriends the idea is you want to frame them as low value by highlighting the things these girls want, that their boyfriends don’t provide. Them flirting with you, despite the fact that they’ve told you they’re taken, hints at something missing in their lives. Your job, as a seducer, is to find out what that certain something (could also be multiple things) is. And have her see that you can provide what she desperately wants. Be that, adventure, passion, multiple orgasms etc.,

j
j
6 months ago

@palma

Oh ya. I watched the 2000 British film, Gangster No 1, with Paul Bettany before heading out to the bars last weekend. It’s definitely up there with Goodfellas and Scarface as one of the coolest gangster movies I’ve ever watched. Strong recommendation.

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

“have her see that you can provide what she desperately wants” Have FR from the other night on this exact topic. Which was verbalize along the lines of “with you (me) I could have everything (everything being open hypergamy with her husband and family and me as a naughty side). Wrapped in shit test I’m still puzzling over… Won’t get to until Monday… Palma On the bartender IF you can set the frame that you both know it’s a pretext, which J is alluding to with “specializing”, then yes do that. Because that covers everything I.e. it shows you as… Read more »

theasdgamer
6 months ago

fyi, I have a new post on my blog about an alleged crime by the President. In it, I show how one might use Game to answer political questions.

ford
ford
6 months ago

@J – Experience LMR for, I think the firts time ever in maybe 40 or so lays. I honestly thought it was just something that happened to other people and not me lol I was gaming some young (20?)Russian girl. I mentioned her in a prior FR. She was the girl who recognised me from tinder and I gamed her for a bit and we danced and made out but she wouldn’t let me come back with her So I bump into her agian last night, and she was the one doing the chasing. A few times I was chatting… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

” a few weeks back about being out with my slayer friend and we were gaming these 2 teenage 9’s! “

Lol @ the explanation points.

2 teenage 9’s huh?

Not one, but two nines.

Is it fashion week or something where you are?

j
j
6 months ago

@ford “Does she tihink i’m a pussy and I should have at least pushed harder this morning?” Yeah. And by “pushed harder’ I mean tell sex stories WITHOUT sexually escalating on her. What we wanna do here is get her sexually curious via the stories to want to actually experience what these other girls got to experience with you. Tell the stories in a way where your not trying to turn her on with them. Your just sharing something funny that happened to you recently (the story you tell doesn’t have to be recently. Like if your telling her a… Read more »

ford
ford
6 months ago

@ j -cheers – I had a flashback, and I tihnk the fact that I couldn’t remember her name on the walk back to her place might have played a role, tbh!! (probably the last thing she wanted to hear after telling me she’s never had a one night stand lol)

I think its’ dead with her now, but i’ll try to remember the sex talk stuff for the next girl!

The one that got away Steady 7 to my tastes: https://imgur.com/a/j4eeD1f

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

I’m asking 19-25 year old chicks about dating ” older ” men. I see the pattern developing similar to this :

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1ECkQl3veLE

But there’s more to it than the initial responses, which is usually the case.

theasdgamer
6 months ago

“2 teenage 9’s huh?

Not one, but two nines.

Is it fashion week or something where you are?”

Beautiful women tend to have beautiful women as friends.

” the takeaway from all the shit is: dont escalate until you can tell she’s too turned on to want to stop you.”

A woman’s primary sexual organ is between her ears. If you want to turn a woman on, escalate her primary sexual organ.

Tease, titillate, confuse, amuse, and tease–but never explicate.

IAS
IAS
6 months ago

@Blax: rules for betas, broken for alphas.

Or should I say…

In before Blax goes (holding EC)
“Oldest guy you’d date”
“How old are YOU?” (batting eyelids)

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 months ago

Dude. You know who you are. Get Rollo to delete that last post, like now-ish.

It took me exactly 6 minutes to find the story.

PS – LOL. It’s pretty funny. Don’t worry, it’ll die down but just take proactive steps now like you’ve been taking.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 months ago

PPS – Don’t worry too much. I found it because I’ve read most of what you’ve posted here. Without that background the connection is much harder to make. But still, better safe than sorry.

Sentient
Sentient
6 months ago

It is funny. I think I came across that article as a “trending” item the other day and there was a line in it that made me think of “our guy”…

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 months ago

Get Rollo to delete that last post, like now-ish.

+1…

then just come back (with an even different name) without the acknowledgement…

we’ll figure it out…lol

good luck!

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 months ago

@HABD

Glad you figured it out!

what i mean is, delete all of this new barnaclebill comments… then just come back and don’t reference any of your prior stuff… we’ll figure out who you are… make a clean break…

good luck!

Some Other Guy
Some Other Guy
6 months ago

Brain Trust Thoughts? Very specific question on motives,this is not a “how do you bang” question. Being brief… So with the married situation… went no contact, stopped replying to texts. a few weeks go by, she contrives a reason to resume on some neighborhood bs. Interesting that girls chasing texts look like beta guy texts, she’d ask a question referring to whatever slim info about my life she knew i was going to do like “How was XYZ??” I’m Joe Friday, super straight and few words “Good, thanks” she responding to this kind of stuff with “Oh great!! I’m so… Read more »

aaaSavage
aaaSavage
6 months ago

Field report. Was out this weekend to a pub to see a band, had a plate that was going as well. I was getting IOI’s from several women deliberately dancing up against me and giving me eyes. Feel like it was preselection in play. My question is what is the best way to get another woman’s information when you are already out with another woman. It is a small place and hard to sepaerate from plate. Suggestions?

NS*
NS*
6 months ago

Savage

Tell the target to go to the bathroom and write her number down on a cocktail napkin. Then she can slip it to you.

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
6 months ago

Presumably the woman is asking about the number of affairs mainly as a kind of investment test – she is so into you, it’s like a hurdle she’s holding up for you to jump. Not qualifying in a bad way but a good way – she’s so into you that she wants something from you to show how much you like her back if that makes sense – that you’re not too far above her. It so happens to be this, but it could have been anything. Tricky to see how to give her what she wants now after she’s… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

@Not-Sentient when you do things like this with girls: “I would periodically move my leg against hers, briefly. she never moved off. eventually our legs were pressed side by side, and once and a while i’d scratch my knee and just graze her leg while doing so.” “Slide my hand up between her legs and just rub her pussy lazily while she keeps on talking” “we chit chat a second then square up and make out. slide my hand up her dress and finger her a little” “I just say “maybe I just like you” and she feels my chest… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 months ago

@Some Other Guy welcome!… always nice to get more participation from new guys…lol Brain Trust Thoughts? Very specific question on motives,this is not a “how do you bang” question. Being brief… So with the married situation… went no contact, stopped replying to texts. a few weeks go by, she contrives a reason to resume on some neighborhood bs. on the AF part of her monthly cycle, no doubt…lol Interesting that girls chasing texts look like beta guy texts, she’d ask a question referring to whatever slim info about my life she knew i was going to do like “How was… Read more »

j
j
6 months ago

“Anyway the drama potential here near your home seems to be sky high. Why bother?”

+10 points to Team Don’t-Get-Married!

https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/4670da4b-abbb-4355-97a2-a9a6c3bfb83f

NS*
NS*
6 months ago

Not J

Those are two different women.

And you missed the part about the “vibe”.

Thx

dr zipper
dr zipper
6 months ago

props to the naturals, you illuminate some of the dark corners like nobody else can perhaps I can speak more to those trying to change themselves with bits from my own personal journey (still far unfinished); maybe my breadcrumbs can help in the same ways I needed help and found much of it from this site… thanks to all for that I used to visit this site with great regularity, following the articles and commentary, finding kinship and wisdom freely given but not always easily parsed; I’ll never forget a comment about TRM becoming ‘comfort food’ and then I realized… Read more »

IAS
IAS
6 months ago

@SOG: I’m with Culum. Why bother?

The number of affairs is like girls asking how many girls you slept with. Standard shit test. You can giver her a hoop yourself.

Blaximus
Blaximus
6 months ago

Woman asking married guy how many. Married woman wants sex specifically, but is trying to gauge if you will be a risk to her own marriage. Is he a rookie? Will he make things complicated and problematic with some form of needy behavior? Will he get angry for whatever reason and blow my shit up? Or has he engaged in this enough to get the rules ? Other possibility: she’s running through her imagination that this could be more than garden variety affair, and is trying to figure out where you might stand , amicable or nah. Have you routinely… Read more »

If-I-Fell
If-I-Fell
6 months ago

Serious Question:

Where did the pages and some of the comments go?

I was looking to download more Field Report pages. I had downloaded page 140. The 99th comment was Blaximus is calling Ford a “Child molesting piece of shit.” Comment 100 was from J, but it used to begin with “She also regularly talks about her bfimilar age kids”, but ends the same. These comments are now on page 136 and the final page is 137. What gives?

IRL
IRL
6 months ago

@HABD you forgot to mention to This Other New Guy Who Escalates Left and Right And Leaves It At That (TM) that hamsters can get frustrated, annoyed, irritated etc. and make a u-turn. I think you should write a piece on de-escalation 101. Like, before one of the girls with a brushed stomach, caressed leg, squeezed hips and kissed lips happens to have nothing to lose and creates more drama to feel important/alive. Looks like the stats are building up… luckily for our King Midas, the married ones w/ kids seem to have a safety valve (something to lose) built-in…… Read more »

IRL
IRL
6 months ago

@If-I-Fell

Shhhh…. house unmanaged manages itself 😉

Some Other Guy
Some Other Guy
6 months ago

IRL

Nice comments as per usual.

” Looks like she’s used to getting what she wants by escalating frame battles.”

True dat. Which is why breaking is important. There is a psychological game competent as well.

Some Other Guy
Some Other Guy
6 months ago

Where them Ocelots at?
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Why bother?

Complex indeed.

Why Bother = ((Does one live life, does one shackle one’s self?) * (Slippery Slope Is Slippery + Cool, Fun Women, Energy)) / (Where is Authenticity? + How does one get here?)

something like that. Not sure on the math.

SJF
SJF
6 months ago

@If-I-Fell

A popular commenter here had a little public problem related to a business deal. So he deleted all his comments. And that is why the contraction occurred.

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