For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
@ Catchers
Time to show more indifference my friend.
“..Or am I so naive to miss that women will act like this with this level of attraction.”
Women will act like this when you do all of the work for them. It get’s a bit boring mostly. If she won’t chase, take it for what it is and keep it moving for the most part. Mind the Frame.
@Hank, Was the job you were offered at the beach life guarding by any chance? Because in terms of an opportunity to game women, life guarding is probably one of the best occupations to do this (I would do this myself if I didn’t have family to look after). Even in the small provincial town where I’m currently living, with a population of about 30,000 people (it’s basically the last stop before heading into nowhere), the life guards at my local swimming pool are absolutely drowning (no pun intended) in opportunity to talk with all sorts of different woman (during… Read more »
@Everyone,
I had a bit of good news I thought I would share.
Unfortunately it didn’t involve a woman in a strapless bikini and an easy lay that I managed to AVOID talking myself out of.
Rather, I was able to swim some times quick enough to allow me to start training with the local swimming team. I’m getting proper coaching, and swimming with people that were/are national and even one or two Olympic level swimmers (the swimmers there are better than me by a fair bit and I’ve some catching up to do. I see this as motivation).
Soooo…. I am at this bar watching the Redskins suck, sitting next to 3 ODD’s trolling for beta bucks. One asks me where do I live Told her I had this really sweet refrigerator box, under the overhead pass off of highway 77 and trade street. She wasn’t impressed, when she looked disgsuted i said what?!?! It’s a kitchenaide box, real high end shit. Everyone elses laughs, someone buys me a drink and two strippers loose their money hungry vibe. The blonde stripper said nice! All she had was a washermachine box. Browned haired girl asked me if I wanted… Read more »
lol you guys suck
chatted with some regulars and they convinced me to take the job
so moving here soon.
Be careful. I chatted with some guys at Rincon Beach in Puerto Rico and they tried to convince me to move there too.
There’s a ” Beach Conspiracy ” afoot!
Cathers “When I sent the original text I fully expected for her to pick one of the days and we’d make a night of it. Now we’re here…” Because “I so naive to miss that women will act like this with this level of attraction.” Fucking you is not as high a level of attraction as you think. For girls sex is easy… and good sex is easy. They are built for it and dont have to do any more work than spread. Sure they enjoy a guy who can go all Pussy Hero 4.0 on them… But what is… Read more »
“Because in terms of an opportunity to game women, life guarding is probably one of the best occupations to do this”
Every summer through college…. Good good times.
“Sure they enjoy a guy who can go all Pussy Hero 4.0 on them… But what is it they really want? What they dont control…. What they submit to…”
Not original by any stretch but the best quote of the day. Unless of course it’s a SJW surrounded by overweight geeky guys at Google. Then it’s screeching, not submission.
Interesting read
https://www.reddit.com/r/AMAAggregator/comments/6lh5d7/iama_engineering_student_who_featured_in_a_girls/
I wanted to share an experience I had. I am riding Public Transit in a group seat with 3 women, college aged, all going out for a fun and sun weekend with a friend. They are 6.5 to 7; all slim and attractive but also helped by their age as most woman are. Basically they are all girls a guy would have a go at unless he had really refined tastes. Anyhow… We are basically sitting together although I am doing my own thing but I am also listening in because, frankly, I cannot NOT hear it and I thought… Read more »
@Seraph Great report, I had seen it already in the regular post comment section. It fits quite well here. When I talk to my parents (late fifties) about what is going on today in relationships they can’t believe it. Particularly my mother, who is a rather traditional and religious person, raised very strictly. From what I read in the manosphere my dad is rather alpha, but even somebody like him has trouble believing some things. I am in Spain which probably makes things even harder, because we have experienced the sexual revolution in a much faster and chaotic way. Americans… Read more »
Recently I attended an open air festival and made out with a girl. She gave me IOIs from the very beginning (skin contact, took my hand, etc), it was easy to go for the kiss. A neighbor introduced me to her. Late twenties like me, I get a feeling she is near epiphany now… I don’t smoke but have been buying tobacco just to ask for a light. It works. I have gotten several numbers that way. In this festival I did that with a group of 19-20 y.o. girls and “refused” to leave after they had given it to… Read more »
Here you go Roused… Little something I came up with the other day. Chip Reader Game ™ So this shop keeper woman ive gamed a couple of times, pop in to pick something up. Place is uncharacteristically busy. I get in the small line to pay. See her eyes pop a leeetle bit more than usual when she sees me and I think hmmmm. My turn at the register… Lasering. What’s up? Busy huh blah blah. Mutual lasering. She rings me up. Points to the chip reader. Me: oh…. I see… Your ready for me huh… Her: titter titter… Lol… Read more »
Okay so looks like now the beach spot is out. Here’s what happened. All the issues I brought up before were always still the case, but when I talked to those regulars they spelled out how I could make it work. Basically, rent out a room at my relatives place there and then look out for rooms to share. Once I find one that checks out, I can just stay with roomates and save a ton of money and not have to sign a lease. Further, one of the regulars works for a company that has stores all over. She’s… Read more »
@hank
@ hank
https://www.slideshare.net/WongYewYip/screw-it-lets-do-it-lessons-in-life
@hank
“Success doesn’t come over night and I sure as hell went through some really hard times. Spent a few months living in a rental car trying to get on my feet. When I couldn’t afford the rental car anymore, I was forced to sleep in diners late at night catching a few minutes of sleep here and there. Incredibly, I still managed to get laid.”
(Christian McQeen, https://realchristianmcqueen.com/2014/02/27/25-things-you-didnt-know-about-christian-mcqueen/)
@IRL I get what you are saying, but problem is I have gone out and said fuck it and and just went for it before — and it never worked. #1 issue people here don’t get is how much heath affects this. The whole “sleeping in a car” deal I can’t do, I have major sleep issues. But it is something I *will* do if I have to, once I get better. My plan once I got my heath issues sorted was to do just that — save up money and just up and move to where I really want… Read more »
Having A Bad Day And Sentient and others Warning, bit of a long uncoordinated victim puke/info dump coming – trying to process some stuff by writing it all out. Because I am going to have to have another big followup Talk with my wife either today or tomorrow and I just have no idea how to approach it – what I want to do is ask her to give me some time and trust me to figure it out – but that’s exactly what she’s worried about, that I don’t share and consult enough. Back to stuff about my wife… Read more »
@Marquis
-She also mentions (quite often) about how lately (since I’ve taken the Red Pill, not that she knows) I’ve become more misogynistic and I say all kinds of crappy things about women and I’m not the man she married etc.
“You’re right dear. I think I’ll start becoming a serial killer tonight. Don’t wait up.” Playful tone, Amused smile. She’s your adorable but bratty kid sister.
FR
A girl I asked to dance started backleading and I used an excuse of her losing contact to start walking off the floor and she was apologizing for it and trying to entice me to return to dancing with her but I just kept going and deflecting…”no problem”…”don’t worry about it”…etc., lol
A girl whom I’ve known for a couple of years got annoyed because I didn’t stay in set with her when she wanted my attention and probably my dick…GNO with bf working…lol, I like her but I got distracted
@Marquis
You’re treating your wife like she’s a man with tits…it takes a while to break out of that habit, don’t worry, you’ll get there.
Best wishes and kock ’em dead, Tiger.
Me: Too hot! Headed to x pool
Her (3 min later): Is that an imvite or are you just telling me?
Me (30 min later): invite
Her: you’ve been different this week. It feels like game playing and that’s disappointing.
Me: ? No games, lets swim
*radio silence*
Opened her w/ ping above three days after last interaction. Wasn’t willing to walk away to prove a point. Interesting she accuses me of playing games. Ball is in her court at this point.
Marquis
Because I am going to have to have another big followup Talk with my wife either today or tomorrow and I just have no idea how to approach it – what I want to do is ask her to give me some time and trust me to figure it out – but that’s exactly what she’s worried about, that I don’t share and consult enough.
In short… NOOOOOOOO!!!! Do not have “The Talk”. You cannot convince her, you can only lose. ACTIONS – not words…
@TheMarquis Strike 1: You’re in your wife’s frame. Strike 2: You don’t know what YOU want. Do NOT have this Talk. You react to her mood too much and you want to please her (make the bad mood go away). You have no clear direction. You have not decided what you want to fix in your life first. You are not thinking about yourself first. Whatever you’ll say this weekend, she’ll sense all this and she’ll bite you there. You”ll try to address it with dog logic and “fix it” and she’ll hear confirmation of her fears: you react to… Read more »
The Marquis You show some real balls and desire to improve by posting what you did. Good job on having that desire to get better at MRP and keep improving. “So..I don’t know.” No way to go through life, son. https://youtu.be/mkoPq5AOCOA I started to make some comments on your field report. But when it got to the sex stuff I got tired. The sex stuff problems is you entirely trying to fuck her in Her Frame. I guarantee you that when you get your balls back and operate in YOUR FRAME things will get better. Life is too short for… Read more »
Best of luck, Marquis. You might not think so, but to me you appear quite strong already if you can sustain both marriage and job stress simultaneously (to the point of being able to bed additional women!). I feel I would snap in that double whammy scenario.
Marquis
I’ll hit your essay tomorrow….
Catchers
Look how you slipped right into her frame with Invite…
And it got worse.
And her comment about games is pure projection.
Think about how you could of answered differently.
“I get what you are saying, but”
http://www.ericberne.com/games-people-play/why-dont-you-yes-but/
” . . .“qualify” her as the Pick Up Artist (PUA) types say – if I understand right that basically means showing a girl why you think she’s special and what you like about her in particular and acknowledging the investment the girl has made in you?”
@Sentient The key would be to give an answer that wasn’t either of the choices she provided or to not answer at all. Why am I telling her where I’m going if I don’t want her to join me? She knows that. Could have ignored her response and lead towards the original message more. Better alternatives: “both” “?” “… (no response)” ” *send a pic from poolside* when you getting here” What I want to share with her is what you aptly pointed out and that’s her projection onto me. Here’s what I want to say / text but will… Read more »
“both”
“Yes” is more ambiguous.
@theasdgamer
Back leading infuriates me to no end! Another form of it is during a faster song when you send them out for a spin and they decide to spin “on their own time” or half time essentially.
I usually lean in and ask them, “Oh … I thought I was leading this dance … ” and they then comply for the rest of the dance after apologizing.
Congratulations on making dancing a declarative statement. Don’t let them back leading steal your excessive free energy.
You got this.
@blax @culum @habd haven’t officially called back to turn down the job at the beach, so its still open. but I wanted some more input on the move, and if I stay, some new things I should try. I’ve been wobbling back and forth between what to do, although I keep coming back to turning down the job. The good thing about the beach spot is that its touristy, and will have a lot more of my type of people…but only during the spring/summer. Right now its gonna slow down, and from the words of people who’ve lived there most… Read more »
@SJF
When a girl is chasing you and apologizing and you’re holding frame and not getting butthurt, but are maintaining your vibe, that is a massive DHV and the best play. Next time you will be friendly to the girl and she will have to qualify herself to get a dance with you.
It was late and I’m sure the girl wanted a bang and was probably DTF. Not hot to me, tho.
FR It was interesting that a girl I had previously taught to dance didn’t introduce her bf to me until after I had danced with her last Fri. night. I complimented the girl on her following–she’s a natural follow and very feminine, sweet, eager to please, etc. and she was thrilled to hear me say that her ability to follow well bodes well for her value in a relationship. Of course, girls don’t follow equally well with all leaders and she just may have a crush on me and only follow me well and may lack confidence with other leads.… Read more »
@TheMarquis – good luck dude, it sounds like you’re juggling a lot of balls in the air at once. No immediate thoughts except to echo what they all said. It looks like you are taking action with the working out and other matters, so just keep going.
@SJF – You know I think you’re great dude, but I just had to LOL out loud at reading that you of all people found TheMarquis’ post too long and got tired before getting to the end of it.
Oh and Catchers – yes, of course the “invite” reply was the killer. If the attraction is strong enough you didn’t have to reply at all – she would have re-engaged. If it was a bit weaker, you could have replied but not directly answered her question – something like Sentient’s “We’ll see how you play your cards” line. Or About how she’s gonna look good in a swimsuit with you (assuming the sale). Or what the pool is like. Really, *anything* other than falling into her frame and directly answering her question. And then you completed the self-sabotage by… Read more »
@SJF – You know I think you’re great dude, but I just had to LOL out loud at reading that you of all people found TheMarquis’ post too long and got tired before getting to the end of it. Heh/ LOL Dude; It’s all fun and games until she goes indifferent on you. I haven’t become indifferent yet. I’m not so as I seem to be. I’m quite an inscrutable mastermind in real life, I’m not lying, I got tired, real tired. Genius with autistic traits is still Genius. Esp. fucking a hot looking wife. Like Jenny. Without the interloping… Read more »
@The Marquis Oh God, I started reading your post and stopped after 2 pages worth. This was exactly me a while ago. I’m single now. The only thing that might logically hold you back from dumping this wife is your young children. But there’s ways to cope with that. Everything else except the sexually relationship with your wife is unimportant. If you don’t have good frequent sex with her then you basically married your friend and things will never get better. The other poster who wrote about slapping his wife’s forehead with his dick has got things right. I do… Read more »
@Culum Struan Thanks Prior to ever spending time with this girl I felt like I had a good grasp on acting on attraction, getting a number, going on a couple of dates, becoming intimate. I knew that my game at the next stage needed work and as painful as it’s been I’m learning a ton so I appreciate everyone’s help. I’ve never encountered these recent scenarios with any other girl that I’ve ever spent time with especially at this stage in a relationship. When we were texting the last exchange I was sitting in traffic on the way to the… Read more »
Didn’t read the FR bit. Only glanced at the first bit about the girl. If you want to pick a fight with her (by which you presumably mean you want to practice holding your frame under pressure, show her you can’t be moved, plus give her an emotional rollercoaster) you don’t do it by text and you certainly don’t do it by talking about projecting and engaging with her that way. You are better off to do it by saying no to her about something. More outrageous the no is the better. Or say something outrageous and let her flip… Read more »
@hank For what it’s worth… “Success is simple. First, decide exactly what it is that you want in life. Most people never do this. Second, determine the price that you are going to have to pay to achieve it, and then resolve to pay that price.” (H.L. Hunt) – Create a bullet point list of everything you want to do, need to do, think you should do (e.g. fix your health, leave your town, earn more money, build a sustainable career path, buy groceries, clean your ass crack). – Decide which one and only one item from your list to… Read more »
@Culum Struan I take your point and I know in my gut that what I want to say would not be helpful. Was walking through best-case scenarios in my head given that open and even that wouldn’t bode well. Early on in relationships I always ask a new girl what her biggest fear is and most often they reply, “being hurt”. Given this, I think she’s playing not to lose rather than playing to win. Playing to win requires a lot more vulnerability and taking bigger risks than the alternative. Cannot say I’m not doing the same thing although for… Read more »
Catchers You are in a growth phase. Good news bad news though. Good news – you are speaking some rudimentary Catonese… She is picking up on that, hence the “games” bit. It’s well worn ground for her. Bad news – you still just know a little bit. You are still asking where the bathroom is when she is saying why do you want the bathroom? So… Going back over the text thread, cause this is a key key point you need to grasp for all girls going forward, you see how you slipped into her frame. But…. The proposed alternative… Read more »
Catchers “I’d like to text her, “done projecting yet?” and see where that goes.” noooooo….. Start over from whatever her next contact is. May not be one either. Cool. “Early on in relationships I always ask a new girl what her biggest fear is and most often they reply, “being hurt”.” Lolz. You take this at face value, dog thinking. This is half the story. The other half is “being hurt, and I like that”. Girls are always engaged with the guys that hurt them because they are feeling something with those guys… And only guys they really like can… Read more »
Catchers
You are trying to claim. Most Bestes Boyfriend Ever status by using dog logic. Will never work.
@ TheMarquis I’m sorry I didn’t get around to you before today. Some thoughts I have for you – I would’ve advised you to put off any kind of ” talk “, but it seems that ship has already sailed. But here is something I think is of the utmost import : Stress You’re juggling a lot of stuff currently. Too much stress is not your friend and won’t be helpful. Remember that the biggest hindrance to our being happy usually resides right between our ears. Most forms of stress are not useful in acquiring happiness. There’s nothing at all… Read more »
Hank
You are one of the community here. But don’t go all Heaven Knows I’m Miserable Now.. Because it’s like unbecoming
https://youtu.be/TjPhzgxe3L0
I’ve been going on the fact of I’ve never been so alone. But I’ve never been so alive.
I reconnected with my wife by being my own so alive person the last ten years. I’ve never been so alive.
https://youtu.be/RZ8wVKPUN_g
Life is beautiful.
@Hank: we can’t decide for you. You identify the excitement of going to a new place being a motivator for going. Risk aversion and fear of change are real things (and you should not feel ashamed of having either), try to evaluate what is leading you to staying and what is leading you to going. Health seems to be your primary concern (which makes sense to me) but I thought that changing to the new job and getting insurance coverage was your best shot of handling that in the short-term. You also mention “long-term being better” with respect to your… Read more »
@hank
“And that is just what tends to happen. You take things for granted, and then they’re gone. You think you can always write that book, or climb that mountain, or whatever, and then you realize the window has closed”
[…]
“Cultivate a habit of impatience about the things you most want to do. Don’t wait before climbing that mountain or writing that book or visiting your mother. You don’t need to be constantly reminding yourself why you shouldn’t wait. Just don’t wait”
http://www.paulgraham.com/vb.html
Marquis In particular I don’t know how to move forward with the sex life stuff and take the lead. It just feels like an unpleasant chore because I can’t be my natural (sexual) self with her. You move forward by moving forward. Start by having the kind of sex YOU want to have. Whatever that looks like. Don’t think about her. I won’t – I can’t – let my son (or my daughter for that matter) grow up thinking mom has the final say. Good so don’t. And use this to motivate you to get through the inevitable conflict which… Read more »
Gang, LR from me after a while. It was an online one on current business trip. Utterly routine, but was good to get laid after a break. 24 year old Asian HB6. It’s getting to where I can run this routine in my sleep. Still have a couple more days to go on this trip. I actually had a later night Tinder girl scheduled to come round afterwards but I just didn’t feel like it. Usual..opening kino, she presses tits into me with hug (checklist ticked), sit near each other on chairs (not ideal because she can’t snuggle in, but… Read more »
@culum @online dating
More details later on things, but any tips on online dating stuff? just using Pof right now…and just to supplement going out. but like, what to first message the girl, profile info, name, etc. trying some of the same stuff i used on a fake account to practice this stuff 2 years ago, but a lot of the stuff that worked then isn’t working now.
@Hank – too much for one post. Suggest you start with one of the better guides to online dating – Blackdragon’s ebook is good (I read the paid version 2-3 years ago) and so is RSD Jeffy’s Execute the Program (I haven’t seen the paid version, only the free RSD videos), plus both RSD Max and RSD Madison have some good (specific) videos about Tinder (including good ideas on photos etc). Buy Blackdragon’s ebook if you can – it’s the cheapest of this lot, but if not he has quite a bit of advice on his blog. I don’t exactly… Read more »
Also, *early* in the YaReally Archive (like 2015 or even earlier – probably 2011-14), before he went off online dating/Tinder, there is some great advice on texting and online dating. Just remember that some of it is out of date (it’s even harder now).
*yawn*. Another day, another online LR while traveling. Second in two days (again, I had a couple more girls lined up – if I’d felt like it I could have had 2 or maybe even 3 lays in the same day, but honestly I prioritized getting a good night’s sleep before work and hitting the hotel gym over more lays. HB6.5, late 20s, slim girl. Career girl. Not stupid..had a good 45 mins of chatting post-bang in bed..she was up for another round but I wanted to sleep so I kicked her out. Honestly, I could copy the previous night’s… Read more »
Nice Culum. The difference is you are leading. Not the time. You could go half hour… Just watch the signs.
Good stuff. Roll it forward.
Aaaaannnnddd. You feel totally entitled to these 6s… Remember that feeling. It works the same on younger hotter…. Awalt baby.
Like… “let’s go” can work on a 8 that you lock eyes with and approach with the same mentality.
Remember the feeling. Let it imprint. Then whenever you feel it, act.
I mean right in the moment… Minute.
@SJF
Thanks for the songs (Third Eye & The Smiths), they truly speak to me.
That coda however… “life is beautiful”? jeez man, it was when I was 10. Now I have suicidal thoughts every other day. I wonder if girls can smell it or something, despite getting good reactions here and there.
@all Decided not to take the job. was worth it either (a) if I could have stayed with relatives, because then I could go down, check the place out and still be able to leave and ditch the job in a few weeks if I hated it, but also have several weeks to get acclimated to the new place…very important working off my bad heath, have to take it easy. Then, I would have plenty of time to find a good roommate. Or (b) I was moving to one of the bigger beach cities that have more options and are… Read more »
ah damn, but that just reminded me, there is a great holistic doctors office place around here I should go to. anyway, still have relatives that can help pay. biggest expense is the sleep study, but insurance doesn’t pay for hardly any of that anyway. I should be able to get that done in a month. my hope is that will pinpoint an issue that I can address. It doesn’t have to be 100%, but just improve things. So it becomes an annoyance rather than the serious impediment it is now. Then I can start going to that holistic clinic… Read more »
http://img.thrfun.com/img/025/495/heath_bar_l2.jpg
@hank
If money is tight and you’re dreading the Winter season…why not try out Latin America? I went to Mexico City for a 3 day weekend in February got laid twice (could have a third time but got really drunk lol) Life is short man. hate to see you struggle. The U.S. Dollar will take you far…
http://www.mylatinlife.com/blog/2017/2/1/the-best-cities-to-live-in-latin-america-in-2017
http://www.mylatinlife.com/blog/2017/7/21/dada-room-the-best-way-to-rent-a-room-in-latin-america
http://www.mylatinlife.com/blog/2017/2/22/how-to-work-in-latin-america
@blax
lol
Believe it or not, I just can’t help but comment. I might bore you guys to death cutting and pasting a “short” chapter out of Reality Transurfing on the subject of health. Believe it or not, this is not a concrete recommendation to Hank. It is entirely abstract theory in regards to one’s health. Reality Transurfing is an entirely abstract instruction manual on putting the energy of all of life to work for you, mainly by getting you not to trip yourself up. It totally applies to all of Game and to success of your goals in life by what… Read more »
@hank Thanks for your words. I am actually in that same situation, late 20s and almost no sexual experience to speak of. I started having suicidal thoughts like 4 years ago, and they have been on and off since then. Right now I won’t do anything foolish, but somehow I have a sense that I won’t make it till old age (funnily when I was a kid I wanted to reach 100 lol). My parents have my back, but they won’t be there forever. My dad says I am heavily depressed and that I should look for help asap; he… Read more »
you can grind out through feeling like shit all the time with nothing to look forward to for a lot longer than you think”.
…………..
Hell yeah. Not only the grind of proving yourself in various military try out but the hell of being married.
Keep grinding brothers, life’s a bar brawl, every time it punches you in the face you got to step up and hit back harder
J Hank doesn’t want solutions, he wants problems. For a year he’s posted that there are no girls around and a few places to go out. Yet here he admits he is in a 100k city surrounded by 100s of other k’s… And there is a college in there. Reality is he’d rather bitch and moan and preserve his image in his head that he knows game instead of going out and doing the hard work and getting better. There is no place with a line up of single sets of perfect girls… 100k people is 20x more than one… Read more »
Oscar has the ballz to go out and Act and has been having success as a result.
Good work O. You got this.
http://www.hookingupsmart.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Univ-of-Michigan-girls.jpg
Millions and millions of under 22 girls heading off to college right now.
@Sentient, referring back to Hank, I read a tweet recently that, paraphrased, read, “Armchair Rep Pill PUAs have read all the material and know all the theories, but they are basically like Black Belts who’ve never fought anybody.”
Newlyaloof.
Exactly. The shame of it is they remain trapped by their ego.
Newly
Had a buddy tell me about this little roadside shack way out in the country he went to back in high school. Place was a speck not even a blinking light. So they are drinking and chatting the girls in there and he asks what they do out there in the backwoods. And she says ” pretty much just drink and fuck”… Lolz. They kept going back there.
One girl is enough for one guy.
@Sentient (and @KFG if you are here): I don’t get the point of your post about the roadside shack, much less the conclusion which is against spinning plates and such. About the Sharon Stone (in her prime!) remarks in the main thread, you guys are really picky 🙂 Maybe it is just the locations I’ve been in, but I haven’t seen basket full of girls at “Hollywood pretty” anywhere (haven’t been to Hollywood though). I find it hard to imagine you see that kind of quality in quantity in a “backwater mall”… Since I started paying more attention and writing… Read more »
A little game snippet. My Cat-o-nese is just a little rusty, what with summer being mostly family time. Anyhow I find myself on a beach. Decide to go for a pre dawn walk and watch the sun come up. Out strolling with a coffee in hand. As the light just starts to come on I hear footsteps about 10 feet to my left and there is a tall slim blonde with a rocking body overtaking me. Yowza… did not see that coming. she is walking at a faster clip and passes me. she has a very very sexy wiggly walk… Read more »
@Sentient – thanks dude. It’s just a very relaxed, calm feeling..like, I’d like to have sex sure, but I don’t care either way. Day 3 HB6 I didn’t actually lay – got her to the room and isolated and making out and groping tits etc but I knew right from the start that she wasn’t turned on enough despite saying early on I’m very dominant etc. The conversation was sexual, but not sexual *enough* etc. That’s part of the fun really – 100% results get boring – 80% off online dates is enough to still keep it a bit interesting..but… Read more »
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@Sentient (and @KFG if you are here): I don’t get the point of your post about the roadside shack, much less the conclusion which is against spinning plates and such.
The point about the shack is there are girls everywhere.. and they act like girls. even in the remote rural countryside… there are girls. You don’t need XXX,XXX populations…
And you only need one means you really can only fuck one at a time anyway (be practical)… You don’t need to cycle through XXX sets to find your one…
IF you know what you are doing.
@IAS – I think the point of Sentient’s roadside shack story was to address Hank’s concerns.
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I find it hard to imagine you see that kind of quality in quantity in a “backwater mall”…
Been to Clemson, SC?
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@Sentient – so what was the better play there? You’d have just said “Okay, I’ll walk a bit more with you and then we’ll swing back for coffee” and kept walking and come back?
Culum…
Yeah. just “well I could manage a leeeeetle more walking… Not too much though!” and step. Continue to build attraction, she gets a smidge more comfort, the sun comes up a bit more (lol) and just assume coffee on the way back. Not even mention it. Just walk to it.
Like she talked you into it…. lol
@Culum: I imagine by then he already screwed up, he needed to calibrate better and figure out it was too early to “pull”. Backtracking after the “pull” is a losing proposition. @Sentient: I don’t know enough of U.S. college culture, but that looks like a “spring break” or some other sorority/fraternity outing. You can indeed find more “Hollywood hotties” in colleges/university settings (partly due to the age advantage, but I suspect there are other factors contributing to that). And even then, from that picture, the ones closer to the camera all seem quite a bit inferior to Sharon Stone in… Read more »
“Place was a speck not even a blinking light.” One of the places I lived growing up didn’t have a crossroads to put a blinking light on, or pavement on the road. Kids up near the top of the road had to walk more than a mile to get to school. Not to the school, to the bus stop. Bus couldn’t pass the road. Then after school they had to walk back again. That was the tricky part, especially in the dead of winter. But there was a 9 on that road. Not much drinking, but a fair amount of… Read more »
@Oscar C. “I don’t want to visit any shrink though because that always leaves traces, and I have heard awful things regarding anti-depressants.” Both ~1h of exercise per day and med diet have been shown in randomized controlled trials to improve depression. Also, you don’t have to take anti depressants if you see a psychotherapist. In any case, at minimum you should have someone that you can openly talk about this if you ever have suicidal thoughts. – – – – – – – – – – – @Culum Struan “PS – guys, have you seen RSD Todd has quit/been… Read more »
“…..they deleted everything todd related….”
don’t even know what the fuck this is but removing evidence of existence is all the rage these days
next it’ll be his monuments and statues lol
“Todd’s business with Real Social Dynamics was dissolved due to a difference in vision with how Todd wanted to do business with Real Social Dynamics.” –Papa
Minutes ago.
“Minutes ago”+Time zone gap
Maybe I need more coffee.
“difference in vision”
lol
IAS ” Backtracking after the “pull” is a losing proposition.”
I’d check that assumption. A guaranteed losing proposition is self ejecting.
IAS You can indeed find more “Hollywood hotties” in colleges/university settings (partly due to the age advantage, but I suspect there are other factors contributing to that College is a stocked pond. But how does the pond get stocked? The good looking girls head to spawning grounds… so the young egg bearers from places like Greenwood (Population 23k) get funneled to places like Clemson for the opportunity to find seed and fortune… [Greenwood’s very own Miss January 1995] And if they don’t get what they want in college… they funnel to places like Atlanta and the nicer bars around Buckhead…… Read more »
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Playboy_Playmates_by_birthplace#United_States
Marietta, MS Pop. 200. minus one.
Hank….it’s not for everyone bud
@j yeah I basically have no money so a trip to mexico is not even remotely an option. and if I had anywhere near that amount of money, I’d just save up for a bit longer and then permanently move to a place I wanted to live in. @oscar My dad says I am heavily depressed and that I should look for help asap; he says wanting to kill yourself due to lack of sex is not believeable all the sucide bombers beg to differ lol I don’t want to visit any shrink though because that always leaves traces, and… Read more »
Okay, been reviewing my stack and found all my routines and topics and stuff. That helps majorly to have a long list of things that I can just spout out at anytime. Made some improvements to them as well.