For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
Hank the hilarious part about this I remember last year when I wanted to do a bit of text game in addition to going out, in order to do even more work, and you were telling me to drop the numbers. Yup… because they became a buffer and you’ve gotten virtually no numbers since then. it wasn’t – as you know – toss them don’t ever do numbers. It was great you have some numbers, toss them and go forward with cold approach. Build your skills. Build an abundance mentality. This is a very magical place you live in… I… Read more »
Hank I’ve been posting more FRs here than oscar here by far. Yet he is moving forward, making out with strange girls. Dealing with issues infield. HINT HINT Its just the usual sentient. If you have success, you must be working hard all the time. If you aren’t having success, then you must not be working at all. You think working hard is walking around avoiding uncomfortable situations… Those hours don’t count. So it isn’t that there are no girls, its that it is very difficult to meet them. Ding DING. So here we have some truth. There are girls… Read more »
@Sentient You closed space…you were chasing…which is fine as long as she gets a turn to chase you and you go back and forth… Didn’t see where you DHV’d other than opening her…no preselection bonus…no playing with her emotions…solid nonverbals convey a lot of value, tho I didn’t pick up on any sexualization or teasing. I shake my cup and say “well come grab a coffee with me” Compliance testing was lacking. I’m sure you know to do baby steps first, then something with more commitment like a coffee. “Coffee or more walking?” Either choice, she is complying. If she… Read more »
@hank
“yeah I basically have no money”
Are you fucking retarded? What the fuck are you spending your money on? Do you want to stay in this shit town forever?
Tell us what the health issue is so you can get helped by one of the health dudes on here or shut the fuck up about it.
@Hank: “. . . I remember last year when I wanted to do a bit of text game in addition to going out, in order to do even more work, and you were telling me to drop the numbers.” No. What you wanted to do was come here and publicly vacillate about whether you should call the dead numbers or drop them. Well yeah, that’s what you should do, either call them or drop them. I too advised you to drop the numbers, not to discourage you from running text game, but to remove them from your head space so… Read more »
“Tell us what the health issue is so you can get helped by one of the health dudes on here or shut the fuck up about it.” “It has been obvious for some time that you have issues deeper than game that you need to take care of, but whenever that gets pointed out you go into your “I done dood it all/I dindu nuffin” routines.” I swore to myself that if I could just sit back and not type anything someone would come by and say it 50X better than I could. I wasn’t disappointed. That being said, there… Read more »
@Sentient: true on the self-ejecting part. Taking a small DLV to be able to stay in the set you can turn it around and you can frame it (like “she talked you into it” aha).
It is “chasing” a bit, it is just the alternative is even worse. Kind of like those guys that say even approaching is going into the girl’s frame… But if you don’t even approach and open you won’t generate many opportunities to pull girls into your frame anyway.
@Hank, ever seen these?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rfxqO6okNIE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnD-PiEKwLw
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWZUyPr-igM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hS0xZ9jZ2WA
J
Nice. Hank is lucky to jave a guy just put it out there no sugar coating. When you get older you realize that.
IAS
“It is “chasing” a bit, it is just the alternative is even worse.”
As you develop, as you are, you start to realize a lot of “rules” aren’t rules. They are training wheels. Reframe and plough is no different from going in for a kiss and getting a cheek or handling lmr… Intent is high value depending on the frame.
@j
Tell us what the health issue is so you can get helped by one of the health dudes on here or shut the fuck up about it.
done that. talked to forge the sky who knows a lot about health stuff about it a bunch late last year and early this year. did all his suggestions, none worked.
Are you fucking retarded? What the fuck are you spending your money on? Do you want to stay in this shit town forever?
above — medicines, supplements, heath stuff, as well as other basic expenses.
@Rollo
There’s quite a few videos on Vujicic’s marriage. You might find them interesting from TRM’s perspective. I hope the guy can handle hypergamy. He’s a tough cookie, but… this kick from life is not easy to take…
@IRL: given how it worked out for Stephen Hawking (arguably comparable), I’d say it is highly likely that Vujicic’s marriage will openly break down some years down the line… The wife will keep getting attention from other men, it will probably be too tempting.
@Sentient Culum A little game snippet. My Cat-o-nese is just a little rusty, no kidding…lol Anyhow I find myself on a beach. Decide to go for a pre dawn walk and watch the sun come up. Out strolling with a coffee in hand. As the light just starts to come on I hear footsteps about 10 feet to my left and there is a tall slim blonde with a rocking body overtaking me. Yowza… did not see that coming. she is walking at a faster clip and passes me. she has a very very sexy wiggly walk to her, cat… Read more »
HABD
Pretty spot on .
Bit on this point, since we have some comments on this “chasing” bit… What do you see as the next step here…
‘ Just Get It ™… = just handle it with subcomms and not overt…”
?
@Sentient, HABD: I actually got this one. HABD with the just get it and not overt in that situation is, you don’t even say anything about changing your mind, no “I guess I will walk a little bit more”, you just do it with the “Frame” that this is what you want all along. Which actually it is, because you want the bang not the coffee. It is kind of subtle but basically HABD Frame is “I know this is the way to the bang” instead of “I kind of wanted the coffee but you convinced me to stay with… Read more »
Lololol. I don’t know if this is true or not about the RSD Todd departure from RSD (guess we need to stop calling him “RSD Todd”), because there is so much flying around in terms of misinformation and rumours in the pickup community.
But this was a post on a reddit thread about the Todd departure and too funny not to share:
https://www.reddit.com/r/PickUpTorrents/comments/6txn5r/heads_up_real_social_dynamics_has_kicked_out_rsd/dlpgk7m/?st=j6hspzbm&sh=7906d3aa
Huh? Why isn’t it displaying the post? It’s still up on Reddit – not deleted. Anyway TL:DR: (Allegedly) RSD Papa shared his wife with Todd. Then asked Todd to share his girlfriend. Todd asked girlfriend (who is into threesomes etc) but she was like “no way, not Papa”. Then Papa’s wife kept going back to Todd and his gf for threesomes etc and final straw was Papa discovering a picture of Todd’s cock as the wallpaper/background on his wife’s phone following which he kicked out Todd. (Rollo – feel free to delete if you think it is inappropriate to share… Read more »
I feel a bit like YaReally when he was basically tracking and commenting on various Julien and Roosh controversies for our benefit, only I’m doing it now with the Todd thing.
Latest: A new Todd Valentine channel has been created 2 days ago with the message “The Truth is coming out very soon. Stay posted”. No other content.
Could be fake of course, but interesting..
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCav7uQuVfl0D3FtnKVBTX7Q/about
IAS – yeah you got it.
Culum – LOLZ at Papa… If your girl wants to “share” herself with another guy, she’s not your girl…
But of course these open poly arrangements work… lol.
Sentient and Others. Thank you to everyone who took time to respond to my post and give advice and share experiences. I’m always touched when the men here take the time to help strangers and each other, and I hope I can pay it forward some day (any married men need advice on opsec when sleeping with other women? :)) I will swing back and address the detailed advice I received, but I wanted first to post an update on what’s happened since, because I don’t get to check back and read here every day. I did NOT have The… Read more »
TheMarquis http://pixel.nymag.com/imgs/daily/vulture/2015/gifs/leo-toast-9.w529.h352.gif Outstanding! whenever you have doubts, now just come back and read your FR. Everything, everything is there. Damn man giving me flashbacks… The biggest Blue Pill lie told is that you can’t have everything you want. You can. You can have amazing sex with a wet and wanting wife, with the mother of your kids, a freak in the sheets and lady on the street… and Girls on the side… and whatever else you want. You are the master of your universe. http://arttechteacher.com/myblog/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/powerogskull.gif But…. your universe also revolves around you. If you fail to pursue the Alpha Triad… Read more »
Sexual dominance
The best way to get an unruly pit bull in check is to grab them by the scruff of their neck and pull them into you/ posistion them where you want.
It’s the same shit with women. Bitches are bitches after all and I ain’t yet meet one that doesn’t get the good kind of chills when you grab a hand full of hair and gain head control
@TheMarquis
You’ve got it man. Now just keep going. Life is like riding a bike, you stop and you fall off.
http://www.natashayi.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/insta-bike.jpg
Re the quote above, Einstein spinning plates lol
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/einsteins-theory-of-infidelity-6095778.html
http://discovermagazine.com/2006/oct/einstein-infidelity
got two job opportunities now. working on online dating and social circle now. figured out my first trial run of online dating went way better than I thought. all my direct messages to girls failed (cuz I did the faux pas of a shirtless pic plus boring profile plus incongruent message). However, as I checked the email, I noticed I got 10 emails for a request to meetup in the 24hours I had my profile before I deleted it. I’m going to make a new one, using what new things I’ve learned, and go from there. Its still gonna be… Read more »
FR with a question Was at my country bar last night and a guy said that he ran gogo girls and promo girls. Think he was a pimp? Serious question…don’t know how they operate. He said that we should get together later and it would be a good time. He talked about titty bars and where they are in the area. Well dressed white guy in his fifties with a fifty-ish oriental girl as his escort. I danced 6-7 dances in two runs with a late ’30s blonde spinner, maybe 5 ft tall. She pressed for extra dances…she said “I… Read more »
LOLOL – update on the RSD Todd saga, RSD Tyler has just released a video hashtag “Brotherhood” making both Todd and Papa look stupid (the video features his two sons fighting over the same cookie and playing Todd and Papa’s roles):
@Culum: that video is hilarious. What genius.
But I’m biased, as I have always liked the Cookie Monster…
For completeness:
Last night was quite productive. I made out with another girl, and I could have gotten laid. Funnily enough the LMR was on my part. Girl was sort of cute-looking, slightly chubby but not disgustingly fat by any means. However she had some sort of problem expressing herself, like a stutter, but not just that. She showed me her Facebook and posts where full of misspellings, not typical ones but more of those a slow person would make. She did not know her phone number off the top of her head, she had to actually look for it in the… Read more »
Papa rsd…
Make no mistake, Papa in seizing all Todd’s income streams is not playing around he is trying to kill him.
Tyler is trying to reframe and keep Todd’s audience.
When you have a kid coming you don’t forget people tried to kill you off.
@Oscar: well done man, keep it up. You are improving fast.
Oscar, great progress…. your posts are much different now than they used to be: far less buffering and more action; getting out and trying stuff instead of just reading about it can be very difficult; for the sake of anyone reading looking to do the same, what helped you make the change?
@Oscar: I think you are already better than me at game but I just noticed something… Having to go to a vending machine to buy condoms is amateur hour… You could lose a lay due to a sub-optimal logistics issue like that (girl can snap out of arousal state and go into logic mode). Believe in yourself enough to carry one or more with you! If not always, at least when you go out at night for gaming! @Sentient: I don’t think there was any wife sharing involved, that story is funny but sounds really fake. Todd’s gf is pregnant,… Read more »
@ IAS Thanks; I am going out a lot recently, focused on chatting girls up. And yeah, the condom thing was a fail. I am taking them with me now 🙂 @ zipper I agree. And you ask a very good question there. I think the answer is that I knew something important was missing. Everytime there is a sexual reference of some sort I felt cut off, just like when I was 10 or 12. Because lack of sex means that you remain symbolically a child. That’s why it is so insidious. So here we are, late 20s, no… Read more »
Not done a FR since I got laid a few weeks back Went out last night so thought i’d do one again. Was out with my male model looking friend which always gives the night a different dynamic, lol First open was a ‘warm approach’ – (I later found out that she was into me!) Me an my friend were talking to his ex GF and her friend was lingering around so I got her in on the conversation. I made some playful assumptions about her and she was cracking up laughing. She then told her friend ”he’s funny!”. I… Read more »
IAS
The red pill lesson in this is watch what they do not what they say.
Money talks and bulshit walks.
Good lesson to learn.
The goal of the interaction is to fuck her.
“As the rush of adrenaline and euphoria intoxicates you, the hardest part is to not lose sight of the process. Get lost in the moment but think 3 steps ahead”
https://youtu.be/lgMVkoTBm0g
Have a good example of this last night. Maybe I’ll post the LR later if i can piece back the night
FR
Background…I danced with a girl…she asked me to dance…girl made out with her bf in the bar on my visual periphery…when I looked, she caught my eye and held it as she was kissing her bf…seems weird to be doing that…anybody have any theories about why she did that?
Last night her bf wasn’t around and she was wanting to dance and chat me up…I happened to be chatting up a bouncer when she was leaving, but I was in her way…when I stepped out of the way, she came into me for a hug…
Fair play to the fellow in the video, but Jesus wept, the hipster girl is an idiot, an abject fucking idiot.
How the hell does she manage to say “psychedelics and an Indian spiritual teacher that communicates through hugs” (or words to that effect) with a straight face.
I would have asked at this point if she wanted to accompany me to the toilet, and when asked “Why?”, respond with “To bog wash the horse shit from between your ears.”
FR It’s just pass midnight I’m at bar with my wing, we’ve been warming up for 30 mins or so then he tells me he’s fuckbuddy is coming to see him. I decide to bail when she comes, leaving me by myself. I walk to another bar, need to warm up again. not in state. I see a HB7 and I think she looked my way, either way I approach her. Its a mixed set (dynamic looks like some dude approached two girls and is talking to his target but making sure to keep the other girl (HB7) in the… Read more »
@j: thanks for sharing. That video, I laughed so much at this exchange: “You have to put it into perspective, projects do they ever take priority over a drink with a random stranger in the street?” What a stupid question, and she ate it up. And when he mentions he is into psychedelics she goes: “Really? Cos I have the freshest, nicest…” laughed sooo much. Your LR, masterful. If I ever had gotten that far I’d just have self-ejected on the cab. Massive shit test when you got to your place, but you turned it around and then at her… Read more »
@J – great LR, especially the calibrated persistence at the end (have you seen the Julien advice in TenGame about how when you find out logistics early in the night you should always pre-seed a casual comment about how “oh yeah a friend of mine lives around there..he’s having a party at his place” – so that you can use it later if needed in situations like yours? It’s perfect because you don’t HAVE to use it, but you can if needed). The early bit about being alone and rebuilding your state was good too – that’s my main sticking… Read more »
RSD Saga continued – a former RSD intern who now has his own pickup company has released the below video where he basically breaks down how RSD shares revenue with instructors etc and says the whole Julien “most hated man in the world” controversy in 2014 was manufactured from scratch for marketing purposes and made millions for him personally and for RSD (Julien himself said in a subsequent video that the CNN interview which ended was basically a setup, but this is the first time I’ve seen anyone suggest the whole thing was deliberately created). Of course this guy is… Read more »
Oh and @Scars – good FR dude, just keep going out there. I know how validating it is to start getting those IOIs after either not getting them or not noticing them for years. Enjoy them, but remember you have to start taking action on them too, and not just sit back on your laurels. Oh as for the indirect vs direct opener thing. I posted a bit more about it a few pages back in this section but basically a direct open forces the girl to make an instant decision about you – it’s asking for a lot of… Read more »
” . . . the whole Julien “most hated man in the world” controversy in 2014 was manufactured from scratch for marketing purposes . . .”
I’ve mentioned a few times before that the RSD guys go to “bootcamps,” but that those don’t have anything to do with pickup. They have to do with how to do this sort of thing.
@Culum “This is the first time I’ve seen anyone suggest the whole thing was deliberately created” It’s possible. Julien is a big fan of Ryan Hoilday author of “Trust me I’m lying” who is notorious for this kind of thing: http://observer.com/2017/02/i-helped-create-the-milo-trolling-playbook-you-should-stop-playing-right-into-it/ Here’s a quote from an interview with Julien and Ryan discussing the scandal from another article: “My public image had always been extremely provocative and based on shock marketing, and all of my fans know not to take any of it too seriously. This video segment played right into that, and I added some of the footage of my… Read more »
J
Nice example… Pulled the old “Magellan”…
I do not remember how I open the girl this LR is on but we start dancing.
IOI?
Few questions. What did she look like? And how long did it take from the time you left the club…?
To me, as a hobbyist, both go a long way to “juice being worth the squeeze”.
@Sentient
To me, as a hobbyist, both go a long way to “juice being worth the squeeze”.
I danced with a couple of girls who are excellent follows…HB6s…lots of prettier girls…but they are oriented towards being submissive and this means a lot. I danced with another who looks more masculine and she also followed very well, so masculine looks don’t necessarily mean a masculine disposition.
@Sentient
“What did she look like? And how long did it take from the time you left the club…?”
23 yr old HB8. Amazing body. Beautiful lips. soft tits. Flexible. I wouldn’t go through this much effort for anything below this HB rank.
Cab ride to in front of my apartment was 5 mins. Then 15 min cab ride to her apartment. 10 mins building comfort on stairs outside of apartment and about 5 min inside apartment dealing with LMR making her horny on her bed until we start fucking.
Thanks @Culum – You’re right about acting on IOI’S. I like to think that if she wasn’t with a guy, i’d have approached, but if i’m honest with myself, i’m only about 65% sure that I would have! I think it’s because i’ve never really been so blatantly checked out before by a fairly hot girl and in my head I was probably scared about opening her, and then her instantly losing the attraction that she had for me if I didn’t live up to expectations! (if that makes sense) and was kind of content with the validation. Also the… Read more »
There was the First Council of Nicaea…. and then the Vatican Council of 1869… where so much was said about so little…. and then circa. 2017, a random meeting between a chubby balding chap and a young female hipster, where almost fuck all was said about nothing. I’ve watched the video that J posted several times now, and I was momentarily struck dumb almost every single time. The bit that makes bends my dog logic 180 degrees, is the narration just after he kisses the girl, and he says something like “there is nothing like connecting with a girl you’ve… Read more »
Chunky Monkey
“this must work more often than not?”
All pick ups that succeed look pretty much the same.
Where are you on understanding Mystery Method?
okay may have found the solution to my problems here. still have to work out health, but I may have the solution to the lack of venues/events and girls I like…and can actually turn the lack of shit going on to my advantage. online stuff is still shit. it won’t really work out until i can get some better pics and a better profile. i watched a lot of jeffy’s videos on the subject, so i know exactly what i need, i just don’t have the right pics. even then i aint as purdy as he is, so i probably… Read more »
also emailed forge about health issues, so we’ll see if he can help me out in that area…just a reduction in symptoms would make a ridiculous difference.
@Scars – don’t feel bad about it. You did great. When it’s not something you are used to, and you’ve worked up to the point where you are actually getting those IOIs, it’s absolutely fine to revel in them and enjoy them for a bit. All I was saying is that it’s important not to plateau at that point enjoying the validation high (or at a later point if you open a set and it’s going well and they are enjoying your company and you plateau there because you want to preserve the good feelings and not escalate and risk… Read more »
Re: tell all video
Dudes need to practice before they get on camera. But if that guy is getting 7’s on a regular, he’s worth listening to. Pretty boy pickup artists rarely have much to say.
@Sentient, My understanding of Mystery method is that it consists of 9 stages, which in total take about 7 hours: A1, A2, A3, C1, C2, C3, S1, S2, S3. I think A1 is your introduction/opener, which can be literally anything, an observation, question, or even a direct admission of interest, or a subtle neg. if the girl’s SMV is much higher than your own. A2 is the DHV story to get the girl hooked, and A3 is where the girl starts to show interest and you can then demonstrate some interest yourself. I’m a bit sketchy on the comfort sections… Read more »
@chunky “I’m guessing the “I like psychedelics” line was a DHV because the girl was into that too, and it seemed to hook her (that was a good guess on his part).” It wasnt a random guess. He noticed her necklace figured out her value system (Necklace -> India -> artsy hipster girl -> very likely into psychedelics/weed) and tailored he’s game to that. Ya on value systems: “People wear their value-system on their sleeves a lot of the time. A guy rolling up in a BMW in a tailored suit is telling you his value system places money up… Read more »
Good FR + Textgame
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6uo048/fr_papi_takes_her_virginity/
“The counter-intuitive nugget of wisdom I gleaned from this, is that when you’re talking to a girl what you say doesn’t have to be particularly interesting, or even relevant, just remain at ease and keep talkin.”
Yes, I can confirm this. Intense eye contact has also worked wonders for me recently.
For me dressing well seems to put you on their beta bucks track so they want to play the good girl
Dressing like poor White hillbilly biker trash keeps you in the alpha fucks track
Chunky monkey “A2 is the DHV story to get the girl hooked, ” Nope. A2 is Demonstrating High Value. Period. It is not a story. It is not a routine. It can be a story. It can also be holding eye contact, alpha body language, passing shit tests, abundance mentality, having the owner of the bar come shake your hand, having 2 cute girls say hey and hug you, IDK like mayne doing some complex dive or mastery swimming stroke perhaps? So… When you START in A2… Like when a girl opens YOU… You really fuck it up if you… Read more »
“Yes, I can confirm this. Intense eye contact has also worked wonders for me recently.” Go figure. Guess what you are doing differently that you didn’t do previously? What was your mindset before and after you developed the Super Power of Mr. Laser Eyes? Hint: It had to do with internal Mindset. “For me dressing well seems to put you on their beta bucks track so they want to play the good girl Dressing like poor White hillbilly biker trash keeps you in the alpha fucks track” Of course it keeps you in the Apex Alpha Traxs. That’s what Apex… Read more »
SJF you’ve really been on a role man. wow
the return of the larpgawd
@J, That’s interesting what you say about understanding someone’s value system, because it ties in with some information I was reading in respect to women finding “dark triad” traits highly attractive, and also other text regarding narcissists who disarm their victims by pretending to “mirroring” their values. @Sentient, Meow indeed! Thanks for the information on the run there, also a good illustration of the importance of the “why” and not just the “how”. @Oscar, The last time I consciously tried intense eye contact (can’t remember where I read about it, it wouldn’t have been here as it was in my… Read more »
“it ties in with some information I was reading in respect to women finding “dark triad” traits highly attractive, and also other text regarding narcissists who disarm their victims by pretending to “mirroring” their values.”
http://i.imgur.com/wapKQVX.gif
Chunky at some point, not now but after you are having some ruthless success via understanding Mystery’s method, you might look into NLP.
“at one point looked coyly at me and then stuck her tongue out. ”
Aaargh…. Dogs. Come on man.
Chunky
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FLJZTYyimj4
Spot the DHVs… And observe laser and holding frame. Up to 1:30. Then its lols.
Aight I got some time so I’ll run through some stuff real quick while I my nieces destroy the house @Hank “hes talking about all this shit and I’m like, okay, how do you actually BUILD those social networks?” I thought this is what you’ve been trying to do. Meet people…. everyone you know knows someone else. ” Awesome bit, was **exactly** what I am looking for. Basically it enabled me to want to “game” the girls around here and use my dislike of them to my advantage. There is a strategic reason, but at its core its really all… Read more »
@SJF
“What was your mindset before and after you developed the Super Power of Mr. Laser Eyes?
Hint: It had to do with internal Mindset.
If you want to make universal red pill comments rather than just DHV in an AMOG fashion, you gotta do better than that. ”
You have no idea what your talking about
but you mean well…..well jacking yourself off doesnt help others i think
@ASD
“Was at my country bar last night and a guy said that he ran gogo girls and promo girls. Think he was a pimp? Serious question…don’t know how they operate. He said that we should get together later and it would be a good time. “
Ask him.
@Oscar
“if you want to have sex, you have to be sexual.”
You got it dude. If you don’t atleast subcommicate that your a sexual being then you get no sex time.
All the RSD todd stuff is a waste of time.
There’s so much game material out there . ( same stuff just mm rehashed)
I’d give a dollar to anyone who could find a new game tactic. …..( why do you think everyones moving to inner game/ self improvement)
Game happens in the field ….whatever field theres chicks (unless your gay and you like men or you dynosexual like asd said he was)
Get out your head.
Good post on Hank Mersonia. Credit where due.
“The game doesn’t start till you play to win . ”
So true. All the coulda shoulda in the world don’t matter.
Binary. P in V or bust…
I went out yesterday and talked to several girls. One of my favourite openers right now are tattoos. A girl had a tattooed G clef on the back of her neck so I asked her if she was a musician, and kept plowing a bit after that. Tattoos that include numbers are particularly inviting to ask about their meaning. When girls turn to ask whether I have any I always laugh and point to my hairy arms as a justification. [Related to this, I would like to know your thoughts on body hair. I have a lot and always thought… Read more »
Oscar
“I have a lot and always thought there was nothing wrong with it”
Basically whatever “it” is… all that matters is how you feel about it. If you thinks it’s awesome it will come across. If you are embarrassed or uncomfortable, that will too.
In a small holiday town. Wife and son stop by at a local grocery shop to get water and ice creams. I sit down on a bench separated by a promenade but facing the shop. My legs stretched forward, arms over head. I relax in the sun just watching people passing by and coming in and out. There are three girls in the shop, late teens or early 20s. They circle in and out a few times and when they all get what they wanted, they come out. I can’t hear them yet but they move my way. As they… Read more »
Sensitive Much?
Married game means having one foot on the beta provider path, that’s legit and how it should be, but the single guys hunting strange want to be far from that provider track. Most especially when they make good money
Nothing makes a hard core cock hound pretend to be a good girl then thinking she can nice things from a beta, even when she does plan on fucking him and if an ugly mother fucker like me, facial scars and all can get put on the beta provider path any man can
@mersonia Now we are getting somewhere. Autistic people usually make a big deal out of this. No, the “big deal” was two fold. Firstly, that I have few targets to game on because I don’t like very many of the girls around here. So its a pain to approach them. I bomb out because I have zero intent to bang them, so it comes off as robotic. But using luke’s approach of intentionally friendzoning them, I *can* do that, because (at least at this point) I dont want to bang them, but I *do* want to friendzone them. So I… Read more »
“You mention getting out of my head. Okay, whats going to help me do that?”
Nothing apparently.
@Hank Holliday
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@Hank “Firstly, that I have few targets to game on because I don’t like very many of the girls around here. So its a pain to approach them. I bomb out because I have zero intent to bang them, so it comes off as robotic. But using luke’s approach of intentionally friendzoning them, I *can* do that, because (at least at this point) I dont want to bang them, but I *do* want to friendzone them. So I come across as congruent. This goes back to the whole working on social skills…… You should be talking to everyone. There’s nothing… Read more »
JESUS CHRIST LAWD HAVE MERCY HOLY SHIT!!!!!!!! I can’t believe that I COSIGN every fucking word mersonia just typed out. Great, great stuff mersonia. Damn, I’m not even trying to find someone to bang and reading what you wrote made me want to go out and game chicks right now. ….and lobster. I realized I want lobster and I’d better get out and get some now. Hank, my bro, I’m not really big on political correctness and whatever excuse people use to talk shit about other folk, lol, but I’ll just say a few words and leave it alone while… Read more »
I read and reread @mersonia @ Hank and not only can I find nothing wrong but I still don’t have a craving for lobster.
Guess I’ll have some pork.
Mersonia posted a value added comment.
How the fuck did that happen?
Hope he doesn’t go back to his usual shit-posting.
Even I can give props to him. Mersonia: you get merit points. You have ability to not be the dick in the tribe.
You gotta admit you got in in you to do better at commenting.
@hank, bro – can I suggest something for you to try? Next weekend, go to one of those 100k population cities near you, find a nightclub, and on just two nights- Friday and Saturday, go out to a club (or the nightlife area) and approach every girl you see and try to get her to fuck that night. If you fail with the first (for any reason – she walks off after one minute, or you lose her 10 mins in or anything really), then go to the next girl and try again. Keep going till 30 mins after the… Read more »
Lay report – nothing to get overly excited about, though Ok, out last night . We go too a bar and it’s fairly slim pickings. My AA has become quite extreme recently which makes me sad. I just can NOT open at at the moment. My friend opens a set by asking her about her drink. Fair play to him. They kind of join us and one of the girls asks my name. I immediately ‘switch it on’ and I’m being silly, talking to her and asking her questions as if i’m suspicious of her and it seems to hook… Read more »
FR from the bar We had the Mayweather fight so the place was packed. Best Mayweather fight I have seen in I don’t know how long but it was good to see him be offensive for a change. Much better then him being a little bitch for 12 rounds and winning by decision, for those slamming the Irish kid, notice how McGregor stepped into the ring and how Mayweather didn’t get into the octogon……. Any rate, much larger number of women in the bar then most folks would have expected, almost half of whom had to be Latinas, which is… Read more »
I pretty much have one opener, “hey darling”
Might follow it up with buy me a drink and a wink, well ain’t you a sight, does your momma know you’re…… pretty much any random thing.
Just get them to talking
Shit…. Any rate, stop comparing yourself to other dudes, most of whom probaly don’t have a bigger n count and good job my man! Keep improving brother but take time out to enjoy the wins
Scars
Damn son that is what we are talking about. Outstanding. Playa!
Process everything… same shit different girls going forward.
And don’t sweat the open!
If Hank was serious he’d note that all of the virgins and incels who showed up here have gotten laid in few months of working at it.
A poor craftsman blames his tools… and parents… lol
first bit was early in the day. went to a local bar with an outdoor area. chatted up people inside, but not getting much. so many of these bartenders suck, so unfriendly. outside, chat with two set. guy is cool, very enthusiastic. talk to another bigger group. i share my story of when i jumped into a group here and they thought i was there cousin. they think thats funny as shit…i was much more solidly in that group than I thought at the time because when i later left the bar, i remember hearing off in the distance all… Read more »
@Scars
Well done. The “lesbian” thing and her 5’ness would have made me move on – at the same time, I want to get that conversion badge.
fuck yeah boy right after I leave restaurant, see a lone chick sitting at a table in front of a grocery store. Here you go culum: I just saw she had a cup from a restaurant I frequent. I say: “They have one of those around here?! What?!” she says “Oh no, its way far away. I just got it earlier today.” and then we talked for an hour lol. just random chick in front of a grocery store. she of course is not from here. she **is** from a place I’m seriously considering moving to, and she gave me… Read more »