For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
Well now OTP is gonna be triggered.
Hahaha did someone summon me? FWIW, my opinion of Trump is roughly the same as what Blax used to post back in the day during Trump’s first term. He’s a lifelong grifter, and so is his family and indeed, crypto is the latest place for them conduct their grift and extract value. I support him politically because I support many of his political policies and there are some serious Augean Stables that need to be cleaned out – not because I think he’s some kind of example moral uprightness or sterling character – I doubt he has any real principles… Read more »
@Intheshadows – no, but I’m looking at the Psychacks channel right now and taking a look. Listening to the first video and he seems to make sense in the 10 min it’s taken me to type what is below. Does it actually saying anything new or insightful? That’s not really a criticism, but more that I spent a lot of the 2010s consuming content – Game content, Red Pill content (by far the best was Rollo’s but was also some other good stuff, as well as a lot of BS and people talking nonsense). I also had a lot of… Read more »
Palma – my main response to a “flip out” reaction to a shit test is that you can’t do it often – sure, once in a long while, it can have the “slap reaction” from her that you are looking far. But it’s very easy to cross the line into being “out of control” and “not in charge of your emotions or the situation”. Also it’s easy to overreact to something when the pressure has been building over time with lots of other things. Agree with HABD and Sentient on all the other things – I don’t think you’ve handled… Read more »
@OTP
Yunno wot. Even if the Donald is a grifter, and he may or may not be. If he stops this shit where my sons could come home from school having been told they could really be girls and that they could cut off their cocks….
If he stops that ^^
And even if he does nothing else he can have whatever grift he wants with chocolate topping and bells on with my compliments.
That’s what it’s down to now.
Agree with that Palma – he has plenty of personal flaws, but is doing a lot of things that really need doing.
So young men given up on women? I sort of took it with a pinch of salt to some extent but: So, got out for a beer and a bite with son no1 recently and had a catch up. All good, he’s been regularly hitting the gym for years now, and is jacked without much fat. Plays hockey seriously at an amateur level which means training in the week and playing / training at the weekend. Apart from that he’s hitting his targets in work Q on Q and went skiing at Xmas etc.. So were there in the bar… Read more »
What’s his history with women Palma? Ex girlfriends etc?
Data Point – much younger, but my 13 year old son is the same. Doesn’t really talk about girls, not interested etc and says so repeatedly. I don’t hear him or his friends talk about girls etc (a few of them have girifriends but not many). He doesn’t have a phone so no porn either, except for whatever he happens to see on his friends’ phones (he has admitted jerking off though).
So maybe this attitude starts early..
This reads like a case study for your TRM graduation exam…lol
spot all the issues and explain them in detail… you have two hours… bonus points for citing to the relevant OP…
lol
https://archive.is/z7gJw
good luck!
@PalmaSailor
“He says none of the rest of his friends are really interested either. And they’re mostly like him.
Has it got that bad that even guys that women actually want, just step back from it?”
yep… my son is about the same age and is in the same mindset… would like a girlfriend and eventually a family but doesn’t want to put up with ‘dating’ the current crop of ‘LUG’ girls…lol
‘not worth the squeeze’…lol… literally…lol
good luck!
Palma I had a reply but it’s lost. Comments really acting strange rollo. Anyhow, your observation is accurate with this caveat – there are two groups in this SES, the Social ones and the Others. If a boy is in the Socials from high school on – parties, bar scene, groups etc. – they are baning new every weekend. Non stop. If they where NOT in the Socials, they are avoiding it. They lift, have hobbies, work work work… go out but not really to bars and definitely not to meet chicks… even though they are hanging on them/there for… Read more »
hoe timely…lol
(^^^ mistyped that… but not really wrong…lol)
https://www.breitbart.com/pre-viral/2025/01/24/americans-increasingly-saying-no-to-sex-especially-amongst-young-men/
good luck!
ps… those comments are gold…lol… TRM knowledge (evo/bio pysch…) out in the wild… even if folks don’t really know where it came from… the noticing/willingness to put it out there is getting stronger…
good luck!
Sentient – what’s the distinction between the two groups? Or the difference rather?
What I mean is – the young men in the “other” group don’t appear to be “losers” in any typical sense – they have their lives together and have female interest etc – so what makes some of them go into the “social” group and some into the “Other” group?
Just personality? Early experiences? Are introverts more likely to be in the “other” group? Etc
@OTP
13 year old boys do think girls are yuk… looks like that isn’t changing as they age lime it used to.
I just don’t have enough popcorn for the second coming of Christ, even if he is orange lol…
OTP/Palma
Well posts are getting ate these days.
I think Palmas hit on it, one group is immature well past the old normal age. They just don’t care to mix, have less Animus.
The Socials are the ones who got on it early.
So son no.1 works for a listed corporate plc. The HQ is in my local town with the office on a retail park which is also next to the builders merchants on the same retail park that I use and a small Cofvefee shop where you can park and sit in / watch what goes by. The Cofvefee shop and the builders merchants are between the town train station and the Corp HQ so I can go do the builders merchants for what I need, hang out early doors at the Cofvefee shop, do my work and watch what walks… Read more »
Test
Keep losing posts…
Short version
Seems kids today are perfectionists and they map things out all the way to thend so if they don’t see a perfect outcome “why bother”…
Probably a product of too much structured time in adolescence.
Seems “somebody” defrocked the Faux Eddie account over at PAs… Oh the 😂
@Sentient, anyone with eyes can see what Eddie is.
I don’t think there’s anything to be gained by hanging out there. 🤷
Seems kids today are perfectionists and they map things out all the way to thend so if they don’t see a perfect outcome “why bother”… The thing is though, the map doesn’t lead to the end, or of it does it’s usually a dead end. The journey exposes that the map was prolly wrong. The end is where you get to after you’ve done the journey, and it wasn’t the same end you predicted when you started because the journey changed direction. In my current business this is going nowhere near where I predicted when I started years ago. The… Read more »
I’m not seeing any of my posts being lost – weird that Sentient is. Although I still have the twitch habit from the old CH days of reflexively saving any post before hitting the “post” button, just in case…
Everything you guys are saying tracks with what I’m seeing with my son and his friends who are a decade younger than yours but well into puberty now.
I’d say “more women for us old guys” except it’s not great for our sons if they don’t get the experience they need early.
More later, gotta rush off right now
Hi everyone. A sad update from my side, I’m probably at 0 plates right now – almost a month without sex now with N3 and I may have had the last sessions with N19 about two weeks ago. My plan is to wait for V-day to pass and be more active again to see if I get new ones. I’ll put some information for analysis. N19 (other city) is simpler. There is another girl living in her city that she is now friends with. The other girl was visiting my city and came to my house and I went in… Read more »
A sad update from my side, I’m probably at 0 plates right now – almost a month without sex now with N3 and I may have had the last sessions with N19 about two weeks ago. My plan is to wait for V-day to pass and be more active again to see if I get new ones. (I’ll put some information for analysis.* V day was always a very good day to hit on women. Lots of lonely ones without anybody to buy them roses and chocolates lol… not celebrated here by the way. N19 (other city) is simpler. There… Read more »
^^ when she feels her decision to invest in me is threatened the st’s start to fly, NOT when she feels I’ll bang other women. If she thought I couldn’t bang other women she’d line up for exit. She gets off on thinking I can but she’s the one that’s “got” me. We’ve never discussed or agreed to exclusivity.
IAS
Ya had a good looooong run. e girls only can wait so long. Yu will bang her again when she meets that good committed guy.
@Sentient turns out I managed to recover it somehow (not 100% sure how – may I just hanged in there long enough). We did it on V-day almost after a month without, and it seems mostly back to “normal”. I don’t think this is settled by any means and I’m not very happy with the lack of reliability, and quite high volatility (don’t know how else to phrase it). I can easily tell I’m much happier in these days after banging N3 again. I’m also not sure I even want to try to get N19 back. I’d rather just have… Read more »
What isn’t acceptable to me (I don’t think this is me failing a ST) is basically telling me that now she will suffer if I have others but she really wants a particular guy to visit / wants to visit him. I don’t get how that is me failing a ST. That’s a double edged sword, hurts you both ways. She knows because you told her in word or deed. and that is the ST fail. Standard stuff really. As Palma said be like ” You’d make a great couple I hope you have lots of babies” and then act… Read more »
Dealing with a wife who is disrespectful to the kids, doesn’t cook, and wants no sex. She is a liar and is very sneaky. The only time she’s concerned with my well being is if she thinks I have left the house. She is very vengeful and she recently found out about a fling I had. My question is if you are not showing any concern for me or this relationship am I supposed to keep paying the bills for you and your children and get nothing for myself? She doesn’t work although she is looking… and consistently talks shit… Read more »
Hi Sean
Firstly welcome. We need a bit more information – give us a bit more about the situation and how it’s progressed.
Also
am I supposed to keep paying the bills for you and your children
Are they her children or your joint children?
@IAS It’s easy to underestimate your journey. It’s worth contemplating and reconciling your level of game. Simply put you’re in drug dealer territory. The only men who routinely bang women who know those men are banging other women regularly (and swallow that) are for the best part drug dealers. You don’t even see it at fame level. Fame level is usually BB on bucks steroids. Once you flipped that with N.x and owned it you were the most alpha thing she’s ever encountered. No one else even came close. You were boxed off as Chad. Of course there are the… Read more »
Yo guys – I go away for a few days and I see a new post from Rollo! Wow. IAS – can’t add much to the other guys but you’ll be fine. Sean – In addition to what Palma said – check out the old “Dave from Hawaii” post on the old Heartiste blog (including the comments and followups). Great starting point for a guy in your position. The blog is now deleted but you should be able to dig up the archived version somewhere (if you can’t find it, post here and I’ll try to find it on my… Read more »
Sean
As Palma said, give some more detail. How long you been married, what is your relationship experience and dating/sex experience prior to marriage. Where are you generally, i.e. Indian city, European town, urban America etc. How many kids ages and if they are yours or not.
Gang – question for the brains trust – any suggestions for events/activities/stuff to do just to get my socializing muscles going again? Doesn’t even specifically have to be about Game or hitting on women – although that would certainly be a bonus. I used to go out a lot with a social group that grew out of a professional association pre COVID (a lot of my social circle stories are from there) and also used to do a lot of martial arts (mostly men but it was something) and also go out a fair bit with wingmen from Game groups… Read more »
@OTP
Rowing is full of women of all ages, but mainly younger. I’d go do that again. Plus you’d shape up.
My fitness is actually one thing that I have improved a lot recently – much easier to be disciplined with food and exercise when I am not going out and socializing at all – cooking for myself at home, eating clean etc. I lost 20 lbs towards the end of last year (admittedly I’d put on a lot over the summer so it was just back to the long term average) and continuing to lose more slowly and I can now do multiple sets of dips for reps and several clean pull-ups – all of which would have been utterly… Read more »
what about transgender women .Mtf that look like tens. do they have hypergamy like a biological women.Im refering ro the ones that only have top surgery with their male part still intact? I want to fuck a trans woman, I wont lie. The feminine ones that are basically chicks with dicks . What do you guys think about having game with a sexy tranny? Im serious, call me gay or whatever if tou want to but I feel this is a good topic to bring up unless its already been brought up and I missed it
Don’t be a fucking moron.
Idk OTP, plenty of opportunities to socialize just getting coffee and hitting a happy hour. Don’t over complicate things
@OTP
Just open your eyes, they’re everywhere you look.
The planet is half filled with them. More are more are great fat hambeests but there are still the slim better ones.
I was wondering for a clarity of hypergamy, my take on it, it’s like 2 phases, the menstrual cycle, where the alpha fucks beta bucks and it’s depending on hormonal time, then the 2 nd phase is the life span, that’s the 15 onwards ? Is that correct please? Also I wanted to drop a weird one, so, I love rollo the original , and rich coopers directness, BUT if I’ve had a run in or my and kids have with an abuser, I liturally can’t stomach rich, need rollo to inform me, it’s like ptsd . Learning red pill… Read more »
OTP They really are everywhere and doesn’t matter where or when. Happy hour is super reliable. BUT you have to make some effort. Recent – Come in somewhat early to HH. There is a whole bar, mostly empty, with used glasses on most of it. An older women on one end, and a slender high 7 on the other. You have to go and sit near the 7… even though there is all this empty space. Take a seat one empty stool away. from there, you have to open. easy peasy. Anything “hw is your day” etc. just get it… Read more »
Hey guys – sorry been away for a bit – dealing with all kinds of (mainly) financial issues, but came back to check in today. Will catch up on posts now – seems to have been a fair bit of activity in the last few weeks (well, fair bit by the standards of 2025 anyway).
A huge amount has happened but I just don’t have the time to check in. Firstly @OTP nothing has changed. So a number of things. First – o was having dinner with son no.1 last month and he was telling me that he was out with a couple of guys and they were in some bar and there was this group, 2 gurls 2 guys and one of these gurlz looked super bored / pussed off so son no.1 approached the group and is chat chat and asks how they know each other and super bored girl says they’re all… Read more »
@OTP (mainly) financial issues I get it that you’re a total Crypto believer, and of course you know my position which doesn’t really matter. The thing that does matter is the raw math of trying to live on a pile which is also your investment “wedge”. It is fucking hard to make that stack up. And that’s why when people go to alone in business they’re often doing all sorts of jobs, Skyving on work time. When I first started in property I was on someone else’s payroll for a straight 2 years before the beast was even close to… Read more »
Thanks Palma.
I think I have managed to sell a small property I’ve had for a long time but couldn’t sell for various reasons, which should give me some stability and a year(ish) of runway (once the deal goes through but it shouldn’t be a problem now I think).
Then the goal is to stabilize finances in the breathing space that gives me, whether in crypto or back at my old career (where I could probably get a job, but no way at the lifestyle level we’ve had for the last few years since I got into crypto)
Whew
Blax! The real Blax? Good to see you man! Hope all is well – we don’t have much discussion here these days but it’s good to see the old gang check in from time to time (and as I keep promising, I am going to return to Field Reports once I’ve sorted out these pesky financial issues). And I took up boxing in the last few years and whenever I spar some guy in his twenties, I think about you posting once about sparring guys half your age in your mid 50s…(and I’m in the best shape of my life… Read more »
Hey all just checking in. Loads to report really but one thing has really stood out recently and it’s reference the age gap dynamic shaming. I’m going to be 58 in October and Mrs PS is 30 in July. I’ve met when she was 25. So online and these age gaps are subject to huge drama and shaming, mainly from “age appropriate” women, however, in person the very same demographic of women are totally different. Today I was at a customers house, he’s a high end banker, and she’s a schoo, teacher. Both roughly 50, 3 kids etc.. So I’m… Read more »
Palma, maybe the socio-cultural winds are changing…
Just shooting the breeze here Business is getting to the point where I have a very good reputation in my chosen areas. These have morphed into three technical areas of construction where there is a big demand and very little truly qualified (and I mean by experience) supply. I have 2 guys, one better than the other but weeds nearly at the point I can buy a 3 rd van and double the inventory. That’s trained ability to install to a high standard. I now have 60 legitimate very good detailed Google reviews with pictures. For some time I’ve been… Read more »
So this is interesting, because I used to see this behavior a lot in my old job/career (not so much in crypto). Customers who think they already know exactly what they want and “just need a little help”, only they don’t have the experience or expertise to understand what they are asking or the problems they will cause. It’s exactly the same thing (even worse now with ChatGPT giving them the illusion of knowledge without the experience that underlies it). I didn’t see a gender split btw – was pretty even between men and women. My approach was much the… Read more »
Palma
It’s the mark of successful businessmen to pick and choose who they want to work for. Very common in many professional disciplines.
“Intake” and “screening” clients is high value.
Your instincts are spot on, they will be nightmares.
@Sentient
They don’t always come in this shape but this is one of them. I just don’t want to know. At the moment the only solution I can think of is to ignore. Though I would really LOVE to tell her why I’m not playing. Perhaps I should, but she’ll go mental. No publicity is bad publicity right?!?! lol..
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2275678/amp/Harrods-forced-apologise-remove-non-gender-neutral-books-Twitter-users-blast-luxury-department-store.html
Field Report – After a LONG time. I think Palma still checks in regularly – Sentient, HABD you guys still around regularly? IAS, Blax, et al too? I’d forgotten how long it’s been or how much I enjoyed this. Went to the dentist. Nowhere near my best – toothache, swollen mouth, horrible sleep, hadn’t shaved in days, wearing gym clothes etc. Receptionist: Friendly black chick, maybe 25, decent body and features – maybe a 6. Chatted a bit as she gave me forms to fill out – I was in pain and doing NOTHING – wasn’t even thinking of hitting… Read more »
OTP
Still around… For what idk.
But there you go, just go out and do you, be aware …
Next step, take out phone, open contacts “you seem kind a cool, we should grab a drink sometime” hand phone to her…
@OTP I think they’re literally starving for male attention. I recently got a project, young ish couple, 2 young kids (one baby) and we need to do some works and some of that is to dig out around the outside of the house because the earth level is too high. I told her this part of the job they could do and it would save them ££. She said that I should quote for it because her husband said he could do it but she thought it wouldn’t happen. Ie he couldn’t dig a ditch. We got the OK on… Read more »
@OTP
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KTdFszcZp-I
lol…
good luck!
@PalmaSailor “I told her this part of the job they could do and it would save them ££. She said that I should quote for it because her husband said he could do it but she thought it wouldn’t happen. Ie he couldn’t dig a ditch. We got the OK on the job except the dig out – she said that her husband isn’t “emotionally ready” to give us the go ahead on that bit.” finally faced with actually accepting that your wife has torn up your man card and giving up any pretense of being masculine enough to use… Read more »
Thanks all three of you guys! The days of waking up and checking TRM comments right after my work emails to see the responses to my latest FR are gone, but I still check in here a couple times a week at least. It hardly takes any time and the habit is muscle memory at this point. I come back because you guys and the rest of the community here changed my life vastly for the better and there’s no group of men quite like it anywhere. And while I made huge leaps forward in the early years, I feel… Read more »
@All… Good to see you all again. I’d messed up my imgur account somehow but this about emotionally ready man.. And I’ll say again that the bar has never been lower out there.. anyone who has the slightest interest should be picking women off the streets like picking up litter. It’s that easy and there’s so much thirst from women. It seems to men to be everywhere and literally easier than it’s ever been for those that know how and want to do the work. https://imgur.com/a/mZy8TPE We were on another job recently and the customer had a slightly overweight daughter… Read more »
@All… Good to see you all again. I’d messed up my imgur account somehow but this about emotionally ready man.. And I’ll say again that the bar has never been lower out there.. anyone who has the slightest interest should be picking women off the streets like picking up litter. It’s that easy and there’s so much thirst from women. It seems to men to be everywhere and literally easier than it’s ever been for those that know how and want to do the work. https://imgur.com/a/mZy8TPE We were on another job recently and the customer had a slightly overweight daughter… Read more »
@HABD “finally faced with actually accepting that your wife has torn up your man card and giving up any pretense of being masculine enough to use a shovel really is going to be ’emotional’…lol” Yeah. But it’s worse than that. She’s discussing it with another man. That’s the really bad bit. Disloyal at the very basic stage and you can see how that could move to despising him very fast. A podkabluchnik for sure. The guys toast. He’s the embodiment of why 5 minutes of Alpha is worth more than 5 years of beta. It’s so clear to those that… Read more »
It’s that easy and there’s so much thirst from women. It seems to men to be everywhere and literally easier than it’s ever been for those that know how and want to do the work. I’m just gonna share a little story here about a good friend of mine. He’s quite attractive, 22 but looks more like 25 or 26. He’s got a. the looks and b. also knows how to talk to women. I actually know of many times when he chatted with HBs and they complained to their friends afterwards why he wouldn’t go further. After years of… Read more »
@NNN1 – welcome back. You’re the guy in university right? Hopefully you have a ton of field reports to tell us 🙂 @Palma – yeah, it’s crazy how so many young men are simply not trying. My data point – my son is a lot younger (early teens) but also just doesn’t seem too bothered about girls at all. Even when a girl of the same age is trying to get his attention etc. He’s in a boys school so doesn’t interact too much with girls but still..I hear very little from him even about his friends and girls etc… Read more »
@NNN1 Because in the old times, there just was no buffer like that and sooner rather than later boys and girls had to start interacting with each other in real life instead of rotting in front of their screens at home, dreaming about meeting someone online. My dating experience started before there were mobile phones or screens. In my house there was one tv screen in the living room and it had 3 channels and my dad decided what we were going to watch. It was that, or go to your room, or go out. The sum total of women’s… Read more »
Dallas girls weren’t Tinder by the way. That was what would now be called cold approach, or talking to girls as we’d call it before online dating.
Talking to girls still works like it has done since the dawn of humanity and like it will continue to do despite all the billshit.
@NNN1 – you might read all this and think “it’s so hard now”, but just to add to what Palma said – it’s actually the opposite. It’s EASIER now for you, and there are MORE opportunities, because there is a LOT less competition in the real world and women are starved for male attention – IF – and this is a big IF – you push through the initial weirdness and your friends discouraging you etc. Being a pioneer is always better – by definition, it means there are greater rewards for those who are willing to do what the… Read more »
I’m still checking semi regularly 🙂 The knowledge and support from this website and from the FR sections and small community here contributed significantly to make my life better. I might as well add a quick update. I managed to turn around the situation with both N3 and N19 such that I’ve kept both of them spinning for some more months, but the consistency isn’t where I’d like. I haven’t quite figured out if I can really salvage N3 for the long term, which I would like to do in general, but considering the inconsistency and depending on what she… Read more »
@IAS You’re doing well to contain the rotation over this period of time. The question is what you want. Your options really are to stick with what you’re doing and replace any plates that fall off or if you like one of them then you may need to consolidate on that otherwise inevitably some will move to a BB for provisioning. Even if they move to a BB then it’s likely that you would still be able to bang them fairly frequently but I’m not sure if this is what you want. When I took the time out it was… Read more »
Hey IAS – glad you’re still checking in.
As Palma said – what do you actually want? It would seem that the logical next step is to be prospecting for new leads to replenish the harem – why aren’t you doing that?
Palma – the most important question is – did you smash one or both the Texan women? You clearly have a smartphone so it can’t have been that long ago – sometime in the last 15 years?
@OTP
I’ll pull the exit file. It some time circa 2011 and the one on the right
Good reminder…
I’ve never actually seen EWS although I know the concept roughly. I really should remedy that – that scene was fascinating and Kidman is a great actress. Reminds me of the time many years ago I had my first BJ in the restroom after an online date and the woman thanked ME for giving her that rush and that experience of being pulled in there. Cats are not dogs etc. Later in the summer when some immediate issues are dealt with, I am thinking about implementing a suggestion a long-ago pickup coach told me (well over a decade ago –… Read more »
You should watch it… her monologue is in reply to Cruise giving an evo bio lecture on guys being “different” than women, spread their seed, while women want security and pairing… she’s on the floor at the beginning of the clip because she is doubled up in laughter at his thinking about women. Cruise is great as well as the Perfect Beta Bux Dr, who thinks he is alpha.
Amazingly red pill movie. Another favorite scene from it
Got to find the whole dance scene… from the beginning. Used to be out there
This is it!
The best open… so good. So much game going on.
The wisdom of Ovid Though she might not give, take what isn’t given. Perhaps she’ll struggle, and then say ‘you’re wicked’: struggling she still wants, herself, to be conquered. Only, take care her lips aren’t bruised by snatching, and that she can’t complain that you were harsh. Who takes a kiss, and doesn’t take the rest, deserves to lose all that were granted too. How much short of your wish are you after that kiss? Ah me, that was boorishness stopped you not modesty. Though you call it force: it’s force that pleases girls: what delights is often to have… Read more »
@Sentient You know looking at that scene where he takes her drinks her champagne takes me back. It’s 5 years ago this November that I met Mrs PS. Before that I used to meet them in a certain pub and time entering so that I walked in straight behind them, greet them as they were looking round and walk them to the bar and order two glasses of champagne without even asking what they wanted to drink. Then there was the venue bounce along a road full or bars, and by the 3rd bar is was taxi to mine. This… Read more »
That’s hilarious Palma. When I was doing my heavy online dating pre-COVID, I had a similar routine. I also started with 2-3 bars, but eventually got good enough that one bar was enough. Although for the venue change/bounce benefits I invariably met them nearby and walked them to the bar instead of just meeting at the bar – similar psychological effects of going on a journey together etc. But every step was so choreographed it was crazy – not because I needed a memorised script but because it was just the shortest, most efficient route to getting laid. Like literally… Read more »
Have any of you guys seen the Netflix show Adolescence? Seems to be a lot of panic around it – did I post about it a few months ago? I can’t remember. Anyway seems to be about some Eliot Rodger (remember him?) incel type who kills a girl and it’s about the aftermath of that. Full of all the typical stereotypes and handwringing about toxic masculinity. My son is probably going to watch it at some point (think it’s going to be screened at his school), and I was thinking if I should just ignore it unless he mentions it… Read more »
@ OTP It was in response to that situation where that kcalb Muslim stabbed those little girls literally hundreds of times because halla told him to do it, but they couldn’t to a show like that so they cast a white kid. I haven’t watched it and I’m not going to because i don’t have a TV thats plugged in, and even if i did then I wouldn’t watch it. Suggest you just tell him it’s propaganda. Hindus have plenty of experience of being attached by a certain belief set if I’m not mistaken. I think the Sikhs stepped in… Read more »
Oh I hadn’t considered the connection to that atrocity. The show came out soon after that didn’t it? I’m sure they started filming the show before the murders happened, but I assumed it became a priority to promote it afterwards and make it a household name.
And yes indeed, Hindus have had quite a few religious conflicts with the people you mention.
I’ll tell him it’s a reaction to that incident..makes sense.
Came across this old comment. Worth remembering
https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/#comment-9088
@Sentient
“Came across this old comment. Worth remembering
https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/#comment-9088 ”
+1…
I just looked this up in The Red Pill Dictionary… that was the definition of hypergamy…lol
good luck!
https://nypost.com/2025/07/14/lifestyle/single-women-resort-to-stealing-mens-lunches-to-get-their-attention/
So there’s that happening… Lol
@Sentient It doesn’t surprise me. I honestly don’t know what women are going to do because there’s no doubt that objectivity a large proportion of men have left the market. We’re out less these days but we were out earlier in the week for Mrs PS 30th birthday (yeah it’s coming up to 5 years) and there were two groups of women out all done up. Men, zero. It was a small time venue with a mid offering suitable for families with small kids, so nothing exceptional. We’d eaten and I walk to the bar to get the bill and… Read more »
Anarchy in Europe as North African and Middle Eastern gangs senselessly terrorise innocent victims Although you have to walk the internet right up to SkyNews AUSTRALIA to get this information. Interestingly enough, especially southern Germany still is quite calm (as is Swiss, Austria and Eastern Europe), especially in the countryside. Since a few years some of my friends’ parents hesitate to go downtown in the evening. (the more elite ones) Interestingly though, the females my age don’t hesitate about that – but who knows. As to Palma: In the meantime we have a situation here where some days 1000 hostile… Read more »
I actually think now resources are gonna get more important – being able to live in the good part of town, affording a decent (private) school, especially avoiding the ghetto-like school districts.
So went Rhodesia
Palma five years! That’s crazy. Big one for RD at 30, shit tests inbound!
@Sentient Palma five years! That’s crazy. Big one for RD at 30, shit tests inbound! No serious shit tests in a long time, but then I’ve survived bankruptcy, re housed us and cut a deal with the landlord to refurbish the house the way we want it and he’s paying. Continuing to observe the rules of Poon. For the record there has never been a birthday or Xmas card or present. She gets a “happy birthday” and sex… which is the same that I get. On balance I think it’s as on cam as it could be, but we’ll see.… Read more »
https://x.com/LindyTasteful/status/1946258163495272944?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1946258163495272944%7Ctwgr%5E%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fnypost.com%2F2025%2F07%2F20%2Flifestyle%2Fwhy-single-men-arent-approaching-women-in-person-anymore%2F
Lol
The biblical verse referencing seven women for every man is Isaiah 4:1. This verse speaks of a future time when there will be a severe shortage of men, leading seven women to seek marriage with a single man. The women are willing to provide for themselves, but desire to be associated with the man’s name to remove their social stigma of being unmarried. Here’s a more detailed explanation: The Context: Isaiah 4:1 is part of a larger prophecy in Isaiah that discusses the consequences of sin and God’s judgment. Specifically, Isaiah 3 describes the arrogance and vanity of the women… Read more »
So, I spoke too soon on shit tests. When they come, they tend to be nuclear. Normal day at the office, k.3 son has been crying all day, more teeth. I get home early but have to fo put again as I’m recruiting and have to meet a guy in a local coffee shop with turned into a bar. Out of the house 1.5 hours, back by 6pm. She calls and goes nuts about 5:30. Meeting is o er I head back. I get into the house ready to cook, and the kitchen floor is a bomb site. She’s probably… Read more »
Palma That’s hilarious. Yeah HABDs spag bol situation. Crunching through the debris while you go about your day. She’ll next try to invite the kids safety to drag you in. I’ve found recently that laughter at these stunts is really effective. My wife did something a few weeks back , don’t recall the specifics but I do recall I started to laugh. And not just a little chuckle. One of those times when you start and they really go on as the absurdity wells up. Near to tears. And then I did nothing else. No explanation, engagement on it at… Read more »
Just got back today from family holiday and catching up.
I have to say – when you get out of the big city craziness and stop looking at the news – life is still pretty good even if the world as a whole is going down the tubes. There’s still good people and good families out there living good lives and staying out of the craziness as much as possible.
Also – @Mersonia – welcome back, long time no see
Catching up on messages now. @Palma – I don’t do online dating anymore. Not worth the security risk even if the juice was worth the squeeze (which it isn’t, irrespective of the security risks). The odds are just stacked against men on the dating apps and it’s just not worth it. Last time was last year sometime and even that was the affairs website (and even that has become 10x harder to get any results, even compared to 2021 or whenever I first started using it). Other than my wife, I occasionally go – in person – to some swingers… Read more »
Palma – how’s the fallout been from your version of the spag bol incident? I have to say (weirdly, considering how much pressure we’ve been under) – I haven’t had much shit testing lately. We’ve had financial trouble for months and recently some family medical issues and stuff and there have been some outbursts but nothing terrible. Now that I’ve said it, I suppose an epic test is coming… I really am feeling a lot more positive after my holiday and spending time with friends and in a real community – it really made me realise that for all the… Read more »
@PalmaSailor After a bit I’m finding it quite funny that I’ll go to work tomorrow and she’ll have to clear it up. Thinking of @HABD’s pollock…. yea… that battle of wills lasted a while…lol Thoughts? just like clock work…lol here’s a recent FR from me… took son to the university for his local housing options… he finally decided to go back to school, since he wasn’t getting any good job offers… toured a few options with wife and son… no on-site girls on display… mostly was quiet residential ‘roommate’ housing options… which were all just slightly tooo far from campus….… Read more »