For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
Thanks Sentient – on the job
Lol was reading back posts. Page 66… Culum does Bitcoin, IAS does email saga girl, IRL does everyone he comes across … Blax telling tales, J shit talking…
Good page that and 67
@Sentient
Yeah. I really miss this community.
The sort of understanding we have of game and women is unparalleled.
Even my “natural” friend had just got himself arrested because he mis handled a narcissistic woman.
Two guys I employ are ripe to get slaughtered by the first women they meet…
It’s not good out there, and old school Red Pill and game hasn’t gained any traction.
Palma
“Even my “natural” friend had just got himself arrested because he mis handled a narcissistic woman.”
Whoa… deets?
@Sentient
deets is a whole lotta typin… I’ll do it at the weekend over cofvefee
The thing is, the core half dozen or so of us are still here, even if we don’t check in every day – and another half dozen or so check in on longer intervals – we had a bunch of people come back to say Hello a few months ago around Christmas time. There’s a real dedication to this community that we all appreciate. The reason for the drop off is a) Rollo moving to video and not posting anymore – so fewer subjects to talk about, and no more of the flow of new users who come to read… Read more »
@OldTimePoster
No, the reason for the drop off is because Rollo’s theories and the posts on here seem to be only anecdotally true from the point of view of manipulating, hooking up, dating, even marrying cluster B loonies, and frankly seems to involve an awful lot of byzantine effort.
Those that are left on here are stuck in an echo chamber of selection bias but can’t see it, instead claiming that you’re some sort of rarefied elite. As HABD would say good luck.
p.s. It would be fair to say you are a rarefied elite, an elite adept at managing cluster B loonies.
And congratulations on the enablement of yet more craziness and allowing fruit loops to pass on their genes to the next generation.
Anonlymoose
I dunno what to say to that – you’re entitled to your opinion I guess? I have no way to convince you otherwise – all I can say is I’ve personally benefited a great deal from the men in this community and the knowledge I learnt here, and that in my experience, it has proved to be an accurate model of the world around me, and had great predictive power in understanding male/female relationships.
If you have a different model of understanding male/female relationships that you feel explains it better, I’d be interested to hear about it.
@AOF
Opinions are like arseholes. Everyone has one and they’re mostly full of shit.
Proceed accordingly
Says the fellow who by his own admission appears to have married a woman with the self control of a toddler, although you seem to think her an improvement on the previous one…
@OTP Just reading the thread and can’t believe I missed your question about leadership skills for your son. I think scouts is done. Totally feminised now, run by risk adverse women, or might as well be – probably because they get sued if little johnny gets a graze. Hockey might be a possible, my oldest son is the team captain at UNI and I’m cautiously optimistic about him. But still prolly too many women – lots of fat ones with purple hair. In fairness though he’s managed to live through that everyday and shrugs them all off as nutcases. Nevertheless,… Read more »
Thanks Palma. I agree about Scouts – especially as they get older and leave the kiddy level behind. My son kept complaining it was like being lectured in school. When my son was still in it (a year or two ago), I had an old dude in his 70s come up to us at a mall when he saw my son was in his Scouts uniform and talk about how much he loved being in Scouts as a kid and tell us about all the adventures they had in the Scouts (like in the 1960s or something) – running around… Read more »
OTP
If you are looking for team sport, lacrosse is the answer… don’t have to manage ice time.
I had a bunch of posts on this a while back… very red pill and pro masculinity sport.
Thanks Sentient. Weirdly, the school has no lacrosse – it has tennis, football, soccer, hockey but no lacrosse. I’ll see if I can find a local club for him to try it out. Has anyone been on Rollo’s Substack? I didn’t even realize he’d switched to Substack and that was the reason for no blogging here until I glanced at his Twitter today. I wish he’d at least mirror the free articles here and spur some discussion and community (Rollo could you do that? It won’t take much time and you can (re) build a community here in a way… Read more »
Shoot I suggested to him to post the YouTubes after they run and that’s crickets.
So our PM has called an election and he’s got no chance of winning. Those shits never do that, they always hang on til the bitter end. Then Kate has disappeared, and I do get it that she might be very very sick and thinking GFY to public engagements, but now the rest of the royals have “cancelled engagements which may distract from the election” and that’s just BS, I’ve never heard that before. What it does mean is that it won’t be public knowledge where they’re going to be. Meantime the globalists are getting a kicking in Ukraine and… Read more »
Yeah Sentient – I don’t get it. At this point, these comments are basically like a private group chat for about 5 of us, with a few more guys turning up occasionally. That’s fine in itself – I like hanging out and talking to you guys, but it’s hardly the thriving community that used to exist here (actually, maybe we should start an anonymous Telegram group chat incase this place gets switched off at some point in the future). Palma – I often read the popular Simplicius76 Substack for an accurate picture of what’s happening in Ukraine, and coincidentally one… Read more »
Hahaha, I happened to glance at the Seeking (sugar daddy) website today (I used to be on it but haven’t been for years) and the video on the main page says “Experience Hypergamy…Successful Men and Beautiful Women..”
You know Rollo’s been really influential when that happens!
@OTP
yeah I real all that about rishi resigning blah blah blah, I just think something hardcore is gonna happen.
We done poked that bear too hard and I think he’s gonna teach us a few things. Not nuclear, but make it clear we’re within reach.
Hi Rollo, just wanted to say what’s on my mind after reading your 1st book again. I’ve read it first back in 2021, really helped me to get through some stuff, helped me for relationships in all aspects. I’m now reading player’s handbook, as you can see I’m loyal reader of books of yours.
Finally, just wanted to say that I’m going to always have an positive memory/emotion of first-time reading your book, and you really saved someone’s life, if not more. I would like to hear from you if you see this anytime soon, at least in reply.
Thank you, I’m glad you could benefit from what I do.
Pramentor – I’m not Rollo – not sure if he even reads this section anymore, but always good to have some new blood here since so many of the regulars moved on and Rollo is more active on YouTube now..welcome!
Oh, I’m still here. I check in about every 3 days or so
well Rollo if you are still around, the NYP needs a lot of help… https://nypost.com/2024/06/17/lifestyle/what-is-hypergamy-the-dating-trend-40-of-americans-do/ “Commissioned by luxury dating site Seeking.com and conducted by Talker Research, the study also found many respondents are interested in modern “hypergamy” — a form of romantic attraction where one person is drawn to another who has a higher socioeconomic status than themselves, supporting and enhancing their own life. Forty-three percent admitted they weren’t aware of the term, yet once they learned the appropriate definition, 47% said they have a positive perception of hypergamy. Nearly four in 10 (39%) believe finding a partner that exhibits… Read more »
Son yesterday: “You know Dad, I’ve noticed that Mom’s mood is too affected by emotional stuff that just happened…she was fine with me doing [something he asked permission for] last week, but she’s upset with me today for some other reason and is saying I can’t do it now”.
Me (super proud he figured it out himself): “I think that’s a great insight and I think you’ll find most women are like that, and not just your mom..”
Just thought I’d step in and thank you guys for the support and wisdom in handling son No.1. Last weekend was Father’s Day here and we’d already caught up a couple of times before that and things had been slightly strained. He’s come to the end of his studies and gotta go work now and has decided he wants to go into sales. So he’d contacted me quite close to the day and asked if I wanted coffee or beer for Father’s Day and perhaps we could go out. Then the day before Father’s Day I got a card special… Read more »
That’s great Palma.
Best thing is he’s going to be working close to you, so the contact will naturally increase over time – the logistics are good, so just a matter of keeping things up with no pressure (as you’ve been doing).
Hey Palma
That’s a great update. Boys come around to dads when the shit gets real {which explains the utter destruction of society when there are no dads}.
He’s lucky to have you and he is feeling it. All the best my man…
All So No.1 son has got his first job and he reminded me that I’d said that I would buy him some shirts when he got a job. Shirts for me = go into Londonistan, go choose some fabric in Liberty and then go to the tailor and get shirts made exactly as I want. Which is eccentric with odd stuff. For me I get odd cuffs. That means I buy a different material to the shirt itself and have the outside of one cuff made in that and the inside of the opposite cuff made from it. Plus the… Read more »
Beautiful Palma. So happy for you guys.
Boys want the rituals, the rights of passage. He’s lucky you are there for him. But he knows it.
@PalmaSailor props! on turning it around with your son… it should only get better from now on… quick point though… End of the event is the bill which is low 4 figures for 4 shirts which surprised him, and I pay in cash. we both know that you got that cash from selling your unvaxxed sperm on ebay…lol… buuuut, have a plan to explain it… bc… On the way back in the car I’m remembering his mother going through my wardrobe 25 years ago and throwing out all of my really nice stuff leaving dull grey crap. And I’m thinking… Read more »
@HABD It’s a 6 month arrangement where they took everything as a bullet payment and that was it. The 6 months was really to give them time to square it all off. In theory I could get a job at Goldman Sucks on a squillion and it should be ok but I doubt that’s ever been tested to that level. In the context of my day to day expenses and what I’m earning / vs what ma costs are it’s not a big deal as a one off. If I did it daily it might flag. My ex wife’s Range… Read more »
Back in ancient times, Rollo would have a blog post about this…
@Sentient
That was a lifetime ago…
Red Pill Data Point – I left on a business trip (rare these days) and the wifely dread was off the scale – textbook I know, but I still get a kick out of seeing the Matrix.
Also Sentient – I adopted your suggestion from years ago to wear the “Hedge Fund Gigolo” look and it works really well and can adjust to many venues, depending on whether I leave the coat on or off etc. Really suits being a middle-aged-in-shape-dude with graying hair too
Rock on 💪 OTP
His stuff is getting closer and closer to home.
I grew up here
https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1921482/bushey-triple-murder-kyle-clifford-found-police-update
Jeez – what was the motive? Was he involved with one of the women he killed or something?
Been reading the old pages… P 142 – the Coof hits!
And our boyo PS is the first to succumb… Always out in front!
So so the new baybee is due in August and the current Mrs PS has decided on a home birth. That means we gotta rent a birthing pool etc. That’s obviously not covered under our NHS and so we gotta get a private midwife and they’re few and far between. That means we pay for that direct here. So this couple come as a pair and they only do two customers for any given birthing period, which I think is a month. << that shit is defined by their insurance I think. So one is older and that’s at least… Read more »
The hatred for “men” is really growing, becoming something common, not exceptional circumstances. You see it it a lot with young gals today, “man” or “male” is a pejorative term. It’s become that much a part of the language and kulture.
Please tell me she smashed up her car… lol
Was it really that she hated men Palma? I mean, maybe she does, but I get the feeling you probably put out a bit of a “in your face” vibe in person and she may have found that offputting (the age gap relationship probably didn’t help either, but I suspect a younger woman would be more okay with it than an older one having it shoved in her face that she can’t compete)
Sooo..guys, why would anyone try to assasinate Trump? Actually that’s not true – I can totally see why some deluded crazy loner type who has watched too much MSNBC would try it because he thinks it’s saving humanity and it’s like shooting Hitler in 1933. But I don’t see why any kind of organized Deep State type venture would try it – it’s madness. First, they probably have better ways of finishing him off and second, it’s a lose/lose option – either Trump survives and gets a sympathy wave and landslide election victory (as is likely now), OR he dies,… Read more »
Well a lot of glory in bringing down the Trumpenfuhrer… Just look at any comment section, the absolute seething rage he isn’t dead.
They are setting up a false flag ‘retaliation’ killing to get rid of Biden… since he won’t go voluntarily…
Trump gets killed or not… it just provides plausible deniability for a revenge killing of Biden…
Win win for the Deep State ™… assuming they can pull it off…lol… they do seem to all be dei hires…lol
good luck! we’re all going to need it…
@liz
They’re tapping your phone lines and stalking you .. lol
@HABD
If they’re gonna clear Biden out, easier to do it with muh…COVID! And that avoids those pesky kids missing the shot and hitting his ear.
Although that approach doesn’t incite the RAGE!!!!! That a shootin would. Instead they get SYMPATHY!!
Evens politically in my book.
Pretty spectacular lapses of security. I for one believe it at face value, that’s just a reflection of how shit everything is run these days especially with women political appointments.
Bizarrely the miss gives them more of a chance than a hit. That shit would have people in the streets.
Palma
Been reading the old posts…
Page 157 – “Aaaaamd now I’m ruined …. lol….”
Cheers!
@Sentient
Old poasts were different times. Shame. It’s like the FI won.
I don’t think anyone gains from that.
I still maintain that if Rollo starts writing here again, the discussion will revive – we just need more people here and for some of the old guard to come back. Otherwise it’s just like 5-6 of us checking in here every couple of days, which is fine – we have some good talks but there’s not enough traffic or volume. As for violence/civil war, there would certainly have been unrest and protests if the sniper hadn’t missed, but (as I saw someone mention online) for actual civil war you need an actual organization to oppose the state and that… Read more »
@PalmaSailor @HABD If they’re gonna clear Biden out, easier to do it with muh…COVID! And that avoids those pesky kids missing the shot and hitting his ear. Although that approach doesn’t incite the RAGE!!!!! That a shootin would. Instead they get SYMPATHY!! Evens politically in my book. that’s bc you are a normal human…lol… sympathy is based on empathy… = not possible for leftys… their whole religion is based on ‘othering’… with them as ‘better than’… they are ALL about the hate… RAGE!!!!! is the only way the left can motivate their base… @all https://www.zerohedge.com/political/blueanon-watch-one-third-democrats-believe-trump-faked-assassination-attempt-conspiracy three points pop out for… Read more »
HABD
Well a large fraction of the right think it was faked as well…
@OTP As for violence/civil war, there would certainly have been unrest and protests if the sniper hadn’t missed, but (as I saw someone mention online) for actual civil war you need an actual organization to oppose the state and that simply doesn’t exist yet. that^^^ is based on the idea that you need to have a ‘parallel .gov structure’ before you can get to the ‘civil war’… it’s also based on the reality in most of the rest of the world (where that historical analysis/doctrine comes from…) that access to guns/ammo/.mil training is hard to come by… not so in… Read more »
@Sentient HABD Well a large fraction of the right think it was faked as well… i know… normalcy bias is a b^tch too…lol… those folks on the ‘right’ REALLY don’t want to face the world we’re actually living in… it really would be traumatic… just think about finally realizing (and accepting) that the .gov that you live under is willing to and does jail and kill their political opponents… which includes you… with NO recourse… an actual Trump assassination would likely leave those same people believing that he ‘faked his own death to avoid ‘losing’ to biden’…lol… but not kidding…… Read more »
@HABD [there is no way a normal photo op photog cranks their camera that fast… fast enough to freeze a bullet in the air…] You got me on ma slightly nerddy subject. Them boys gonna be cranking a D6. And that’s munching 14 fps full time and you just pull what you want from those shots. Back in the day when I had !!!!!MUNNY!!!!! I had a D2x which was lite years inferior and I regularly got the photographer gig at friends parties and you could catch literally every munny shot, and since were in the outback of bumble fuck… Read more »
And I know a bullet is moving faster. A lot faster. But if you’re not totally zoomed in and it’s moving at 150 off feet per second, it’s still odds on someone will get that shot.
Ken Rockwells summary of the D6
You people know who you are. If you shoot Nikon for a living, you need the D6 to stay competitive with all the other guys shooting the same thing. Those two extra frames every second are two more opportunities you lose if you’re shooting with the old D5.
Yeah this ^^
So, since everyone is here chatting, I’m going to continue the trend and post my first Field Report in a while. I mean – nothing actually happened but it’s still useful to write it out. I know I have let the Game stuff go on the back burner – too much other stuff to do with family and stabilising finances, but I am still on it and I promise you guys I will get to it. I am going on vacation shortly, but when I come back my main takeaway is that I need to incorporate going out into my… Read more »
Oh and PS – I don’t really travel for work anymore, but I could easily invent some work trips and have several days of hardcore Gaming whenever I want (it won’t even be an invention actually – I could setup actual meetings if I am going somewhere – it’s just that the meetings are likely to be marginal and not worth the cost/hassle if I am going just for work purposes). But there’s no point until I can consistently open and get into conversations at home and get over my mental blocks – otherwise I am just wasting time and… Read more »
OTP
If you are just looking for practice, work coffee and lunch into your regular day. Much easier.
Chicks are where you find them.
Well Biden is getting me now…
Thanks Sentient. Yeah I’m not really looking to close in my home city – it takes logistical planning in advance. And I know I’m good at escalation and closing anyway and I have sex with my wife already and if I want a change, I can spin up some variety online (which I usually do 1-2 times a year by doing online dating again). What I am going to do (in fact have started already) is to just get out of the house consistently and just open and get into conversations with girls and have fun interacting – that’s what… Read more »
OTP For example… I had an early evening client call, so a little time to kill at happy hour. Stop by a place, bar almost ful but not quite. Two “age appropriates” having drinks next to a solid 7 younger woman. 2 empty stools next to her, then others at the bar on either end. I come in and take the stool right next to her, using the “palma shuffle” and complaining to her they pack in too many stools, with some kino to her upper arm. She has bright eyes. Turns out she just turned 32. Good 7, in… Read more »
Interesting one Sentient (that whole setup btw is basically my goal – to go out and engage in that kind of interaction very regularly before I even think about going back to closing etc). I’ve noticed that you’ve become a lot more lax with your OpSec than when I started posting here years ago (you give your number out to girls in the city you live in etc). Is that a conscious choice to be more “out there”? As for the specifics, I think the overall meta is very clear – she is interested and doesn’t care that you are… Read more »
OTP Yeah on opsec, just started to happen more during covid. The AA’s where just there having drinks, they didn’t know the girl. I could gather from similar situs at least one would have been difficult, so not worth the bother. You sent your message before you went back to the bar, but was her reply sent immediately (ie, before you returned to the bar), or afterwards (after you left the bar for the second time and her trying to persuade you to come back a second time)? Sent before but her reply was after I left again, so either… Read more »
PS#3 is officially due on the 16th, no sign yet!
Wife and I went away for a nice hotel weekend (left the kids with friends who live nearby). Did not leave the hotel – wife put on the good lingerie,she initiated sex, much sex was had, and a good time by all, and she thanked me for making the weekend possible. She said it almost felt like sleeping with a different man (because I’ve put on muscle in the last few months and shape is changing, although I still have quite a bit of fat to lose). Way better situation to be in than a decade ago or whenever I… Read more »
@Sentient
@IRL made the pilgrimage for morning Cofvefee and look what he bought:
https://imgur.com/a/L8DnSQq
Your 5 minutes of fame start now!!
Lol that is fucking awesome! Love you bastards. Can’t wait to hear the good news
And give my best to that guy IRL. Been too long
Hahaha, forget the baby – I want one for myself!
Hope all is well with the lil PS3 and family.
Hi Liz
Yep it’s all semi madness..
https://imgur.com/a/uIja1f5
@PalmaSailor
Congratulations!!!
Hope everyone there is happy and healthy…
Good luck!
Congratulations Palma! All right gang – I’m looking to drive a bit more traffic back here, even if it is just the regulars checking in more often. It’s time for me to get back in the swing of things as described in earlier posts. From next week I’ll be going out a couple of times each week (even if it is just an hour after work in the bars) and restart cold approaching. I’m targetting 10 opens each day and getting into the conversation (depending how many women are around etc). If it’s a big night in a club can… Read more »
@OTP
Get back out there and go for it!
Report back and let us know how it goes.
Hey guys Just checking in really reference no.1 son. You all know the history which I won’t repeat and I still don’t have a phone number so we communicate by email – and to be honest I’ve put an alert on my phone and it’s as good as texting. He must have done similar because he answers almost instantly. So he got the job in sales and sometime back I’d said that we’d buy him some shirts when he got his exam results and a job. We went and got those 8 weeks ago, and he got the call from… Read more »
In real time realising he’ll be breaking one of the rules of power=
Never outshine the master.
He’ll be the best dressed guy on the block.
Weird isn’t it? After all these years, he’s turning out just fine and is developing a good relationship with you? It’s that thing Sentient often says about boys going to college and thinking their dad is dumb and finishing college adn getting their first job and realizing maybe their dad knew what he was talking about after all.. Looks to me like you’re doing all the right things – no pressure, but being there etc. Just a question of continuing and enjoying. I know it feels a bit like “why is all this going so well – is it going… Read more »
Palma That’s awesome. This is one of the few rights of passage we have left with our boys, kitting them out. My son sought me out over the summer (they are about the same age) wanting to prep his wardrobe for post college. They know ZERO so they appreciate the guidance . Look you already 3D printed him, so no harm finishing the job… Lol. It’s great at this stage they are “coming back” to us and appreciating our experience. Wait till you blow his mind with some of your wilder stories… 😂 At the other end, my Dad has… Read more »
Guys, don’t go anywhere, I’ll need the advice in a decade when my son is that age! Just reminds me how long I’ve been hanging around here and how valuable it’s been – I remember Sentient posting his son was a pre-teen when I first starting hanging out here (or perhaps Heartiste, but same difference). Anyway, I did as promised and went out and did my first weekly session of approaching. I don’t really think of it as “daygame” – somehow that brings to mind guys machine gun approaching women in malls with “I thought you looked stunning and wanted… Read more »
that’s all most guys do if they go out at all – nightgame is very unpopular for some reason
You know why, night game is the real deal get them to sign on the line that is dotted ego killing field. 😂
It’s so fucked up reading articles from 15 years ago and they spell out exactly what you see happening day by day with your parents, with your girlfriend, at college, at work, with your friends, with everyone. It’s so fucked up. You have no idea how disheartening it is to have these all of these live events happening in real time, knowing exactly where they’re going, and all the help you find is from a community that is already gone. I caught up too late to the game, but I guess I’m lucky just for being able to hear the… Read more »
Jagermeister – welcome to TRM! I can’t bring back the community (and still don’t understand why Rollo doesn’t crosspost his articles and videos here, so that he can own the community created instead of YouTube/Substack) but there ARE about 4-5 of us who check in here regularly, and another 2-3 who check in more rarely. If we get something to talk about (part of the reason I am restarting my FRs) and get a few more people..this community can still be revived – 10-20 regular posters is enough for an active community. You can find all the old content still… Read more »
So heads up … ma employee, let’s call him @ScoobyDoo has decided to start to get serious about understanding women and how to get what he wants. As a rough outline he’s late 20’s had a few GF’s but they’ve ended fairly badly with him getting hurt. He’s actively avoided women for as long as I’ve known him however if you drop him into an interaction he’s able to step up and actually may be fairly close to a natural. I may have to write up a field report where we all went out with his dad and I got… Read more »
Thought I would try to fill in some blanks and add more detail sooner rather than later… As my dating history goes I’ve had a few LTR’s but looking back now I never really took any of them seriously. Maybe the girl I lost my V plates to but again, how serious is a relationship between two 17 year olds? Not very. In my late teens early 20’s I was out and about most weekends but would never pull but never really tired to. I was active on some of the online dating apps and would manage to secure a… Read more »
welcome welcome ScoobyDoo…
PS method isn’t bad at all, just a longer runway perhaps.
I’d say you already had a date or two. And dog walking gives you plausible deniability and reasons to continue.
So I’d wait until the next time she calls and be ready to take charge of the situation… go walk the dog where you can isolate he and have a drink and while doing that start gaming her through the steps (A C S), so when you get back to her place it can “just happen”. Assumes she lives alone? Know your logistics up front.
Hello Rollo Help Me!! (I am trying to solve it using your books and my updated understanding) I am 34 years old man now. I am USA right now getting my green car working in a job learnt investing and want to do real estate investing and travel world. I have read 4 books of yours in order. Now I am reading the 5th book (players handbook) A brief about my history…. I am from India wanted to go to usa for studies, didn’t have any girlfriend, totally nerd and a beta. (I will go with words in book in… Read more »
@ScoobyDoo Thought I would try to fill in some blanks and add more detail sooner rather than later… good plan!…lol… and props on taking action… @PalmaSailor is a great resource for you… but the rest of us here can weigh in too… As my dating history goes I’ve had a few LTR’s but looking back now I never really took any of them seriously. Maybe the girl I lost my V plates to but again, how serious is a relationship between two 17 year olds? Not very. In my late teens early 20’s I was out and about most weekends… Read more »
@Hans Hello Rollo Help Me!! (I am trying to solve it using your books and my updated understanding) I am 34 years old man now. I am USA right now getting my green car working in a job learnt investing and want to do real estate investing and travel world. I have read 4 books of yours in order. Now I am reading the 5th book (players handbook) A brief about my history…. I am from India wanted to go to usa for studies, didn’t have any girlfriend, totally nerd and a beta. (I will go with words in book… Read more »
Scooby & Hans – welcome, great to have new posters. Comments below for both of you. Scooby – Palma and Sentient giving you great advice. Just remember that while all of us regulars here agree on the basic principles, we all have different personalities and therefore slightly different opinions. In your case, it is abundantly clear that she is interested in you making a play for you – almost certainly has you pegged as BB and therefore her next boyfriend (hopefully) and is desperately dropping hints to get you to make a move. Therefore the “pure Alpha” move would be… Read more »
@HABD does she ask for more money to move to a better place?… LOLLLLL Yunnow that just reminded me of when I operated the call centre in Moldova. I had this fixer down there who was an alcoholic ex RAF helicopter pilot who had married a woman down there. He knew the script but even he didn’t protect us from the Mafia but I digress. He got us invited to the British Embassy to celebrate the queens birthday, meet the ambassador etc. he got on well with the ambassador and he said it was because he cleaned up all the… Read more »
@PalmaSailor
ya… that’s a pretty common scam… both formally and informally…
good luck!
Thank you old time poster. I just needed some confirmation because I am in continuous learning. That’s the first girl I had sex with however I have been with 3 girls but only sleeping but no sex. And now in states I have been to many massages to practice. I am reading 5th book now. Is the mystery method explained there?
I unblocked her in 2023 after 6 months because I was talking to 1 girl which didn’t went well, because of loneliness, I called my friends, but they all are married now and became beta (they were beta before) they are busy finding schedule just to talk to me and that too after 1 week of my old, missed calls. I can talk to my brother but how long. Suddenly, I started hearing beep sound in my ears for few days because i work in manufacturing plant and I got frightened and due to that loneliness, I unblocked her. Yes,… Read more »
I’m glad @ScoobyDoo is in the game as it’s forcing me to keep mine tight and I’m slacking I think. I was out earlier in the week on my own at the IVY which is a mid end / tried to be upscale bar. After work, just wanted an hour on my own + 1 cold small beers. Just some time out. With no grief and I didn’t want to talk to anyone. Sat at one end of the bar and a woman and a guy at the the other end of the bar and this woman is bitching loudly… Read more »
Ok so when is a shit test not a shit test. I’ve taken a sort of months paternity but not really. I’ve had to work a bit but not like I did and today I had to go back to work. That meant I left at 6 and was out all day and after that I had to go do a currency deal with a friend because I am le bankrupt exchange rates are shit. So I had to do a deal. So I came home at about 4, all was good and I said I had to go out… Read more »
@PalmaSailor “and a woman and a guy at the the other end of the bar and this woman is bitching loudly about the service charge saying shouldn’t be a service chg etc..” sh^t test… which YOU passed…lol… you could have probably just grabbed her hand and walked her out to your van…lol and see that pre-selection in play when you go back…lol “The guy with her apologises to me and I leave and get in my van which is parked outside.” like a f’n primate documentary…lol… but instead of that silver back, you got some loud shirts and boots…lol “I… Read more »
but instead of that silver back, you got some loud shirts and boots…lol
I wasn’t even wearing them, I was in some shit dirty garb from work
– which does have the company logo and my name and phone number on it.
Which in itself is out of place. Everyone else in there had got dressed up for the occasion, I only rolled in because by accident there was a parking space outside otherwise I’d have rolled further up the road to a bar nearer another parking space.
Palma Ok so when is a shit test not a shit test. Some examples – “Oh hey I broke a dish, be careful down there, I’m dealing with these monsters” “Thank God you’re home, I broke a dish, dealing with these two. Can you clear it up I’ll be down with them ina bit” “Sorry about downstairs, this afternoon has been nuts, can you watch them while I clean up” “Sorry about downstairs broke a dish. Could you help me out, clear it while I get them ready?” Etc. There is some recognition that shit ain’t right, she is a… Read more »
@Hans
I started hearing beep sound in my ears for few days because i work in manufacturing plant
Get some ear protection
Yes, she keeps telling me that she wants to move to a place near her office or buy a new house for her but then tells me that it will cost more money.
Get rid of her, look in the mirror and sort your appearance and get more / new friends & hit the gym.
Thank you for assessing me and letting me rethink my life. I hope I can also help somebody in future here in field reports.