Field Reports

lion-chasing-gazelle

For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

3.8 45 votes
Article Rating

Speak your mind

18.8K Comments
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Nnn1

If that was the retake, see Palma and HABD after class…

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@NNN1 I keep forgetting that you are german… think like an italian dude and stop planning sooo hard…lol text updates and check-ins are great for increasing efficiency in ‘the process’… whatever that is… but that is bc it removes uncertainty and doubt… which are both necessary to spin an emotional response… girls LOVE emotional responses…lol… in fact, the more the better… bc they can end up resolving ALL that emotional tension with a p in v session with the AF stud and a mind-blowing big O… (the main reason buying temp is transferrable…) that is HOW her hindbrain ‘knows’ that… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

also… wrt new years at your parents place… on a scale of 1 to 10, how ‘boyfriendy’ is that plan?..lol. Parents estate… gotta be 11. Was out in another city, with a buddy who lives there. We hit a bar, after having had a few or more. We’re just chit chatting when a 25 yo 8 walks past us. I stop her as she’s going past and say “hey, do you know my friend Ron here?”. She stops and she’s in set. So we’re just bsING with her. Nice 5’7 slim. She’s moved back to this city. Asked her who… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient

Good story.. glad you’re still enjoying life!

Happy Xmas to all.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Great story Sentient – glad you’re back to the travelling after all the COVID stuff. I’m still dealing with other stuff but want to get back to it this year.

Happy Christmas and New Year to the TRM crew – diminished in numbers but not in quality – still the best discussion and crew on the Internet…

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

You know it’s that time of year… Merry Christmas boys… They Are ALL Just GIRLS…

comment image

Hoping to hear glad tidings soon Palma!

sentient
sentient
1 month ago

Heh in college I had a part time gig for a few months as a model scout.

https://twitter.com/YockeySlutRedux/status/1606333206780837888?s=20&t=0zvloidkhtc6_pNb031BYA

He’s not wrong!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient

There used to be a guy here up the road – used to smoke around in a Bentley reg PHOTOS

Same gig you were in, he has teams approaching women in malls / high street…

You’re good looking !! Pay munny and we’ll take photos and send them somewhere.. he was a bit of a coke head but he’d been doing it for decades.

He bunked to Thailand in the end. Think he jumped all the taxes / debts etc.. lol..

IAS
IAS
1 month ago

Happy XXX-mas everyone!

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

Merry Christmas, all!!!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Happy Xmas!

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

Yeah, merry Christmas everyone!

kfg
kfg
1 month ago

Just in case nobody’s said it yet:

Merry Christmas, y’all.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Interesting occurrence with son No.1 Background So you guys know that ex has gone for munny in court. And I’ve given a bit of detail here plus she’s repeatedly accused me of being ABUSIVE!!!!! In this latest court application Which I never was. She’s come up with various financial allegations which are half true. She says that I was manipulative because I stopped paying her monthly payment during the divorce negotiations. It’s half true. I had been paying £5400 a month for 18 months during which time she refused to sell the house. In the process of that I bankrupted… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma

So what’s up here?

The corollary to “women will share an alpha” is betas will too…

On No 1 Son… play carefully. I think you are best disengaging from the drama with mom and if anything focus on just connecting with him, maybe a news years drink, just lads, no issues, no lil Palma, no mom drama. Just a few drinks…

Long game here.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient The corollary to “women will share an alpha” is betas will too… Thanks for my Xmas head fuck… lol… that one really came from left of field. Not that Betas would share an alpha, which is obviously true, but that this particular beta, ie TimNBD is in that^ category, with me… cue the blind spot – ouch!! just hit ma head on the kitchen vent… No.1 son looks a bit strained in the photo. And why da fuck did they do it? What was the purpose? Only conceivable options are that TimNBD wants me to know he passed the… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

“Do I actually ask my son for the beer by texting TimNBD and asking him to pass the request on?” I’d not do that, like that. Don’t cede any power to Tim. However, you can kinda get what you want – which is face to face with your son, by inviting Tim and son out. Maybe something like “Hey it’s a new year, and we are all together, round on me at xyz, start it bright”. You invite both, so assuming son blocked you Tim gets it. And it’s in your frame and you are not relying on him to… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Palma, Sounds like a good positive development. I wouldn’t overthink the angle on whether they put your son up to it etc. Maybe they did, but whatever – your goal is more time/exposure/mindspace with him and you achieved that. I would certainly not immediately jump on this and invite your son for a beer. It’s a bit high pressure for him. But it’s something you can build on. Build the “habit” of being in touch with you, even if indirectly to start with. I hadn’t thought of Sentient’s suggestion, but once I read it – you could actually build on… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@PalmaSailor that’s a great overall development with son #1… don’t overthink it…lol I also emailed son no.1 and told him that I’d dropped his present. Is also done a card telling him that his new brother was due to arrive and I’d like him to be part of that etc.. o reply from any of that. so you do have at least some contact info for son#1… So today totally unexpected I got a whats app picture from TimNBD of son No.1 holding the present I bought him and smiling and giving me the thumbs up. I replied “thanks &… Read more »

Silent Bob
Silent Bob
1 month ago

ADJ’s Twitter account seems to have been suspended lol

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Andrew Tate arrested in Romania for trafficking his webcam girls and rape. Apparently unlikely to get bail and facing 10+ years.

What do we think? I find it hard to generate any sympathy for someone who went out of his way to be an unpleasant aggressive dickhead with no redeeming qualities, and gloried in it (also the charges may well be true – he never struck me as a smooth operator). Good riddance if he rots in a Romanian jail for ten years. Karma’s a bitch.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@OTP

I wouldn’t be too quick to write him off…

Just when I was beginning to like him..

Lol.

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Tate is still a symbol of gynocentric retaliation, and a muzzling. Which was all suffer when enforced.

So there’s that. Coincidence this happens at the same time as the Greta thing?

But enough of that.

Now come on Palma…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Now come on Palma…

Ok since you ask, lil Palma was born 10.00 am yesterday but we’ve been in hospital all night…

Happy new year all!

Observations will follow about hypergamy in the context of childbirth. Once you’ve seen it with the red pill lens on it’s totally obvious.

IAS
IAS
1 month ago

@Palma:
Congratulations!

Daddy Palma, eat well and sleep well, can’t slip off your game now 🙂

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

lol… no sleep any time soon…

Congrats again old man, and props showing us all how its done in true Platinum Rule fashion.

Cheers!

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Woohoo! Congrats Palma! Looking forward to the stories of baby feeds and diaper changes at 55.

It was a chick magnet boosting my social proof when I pushed the baby round the local coffee shops in my early 30s. You can field test and report back on how it works in your 50s, and how you deal with the inevitable “is that your grandson” shit tests..

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

PS – I suggest you have his official birthday and birthday parties sometime in mid January. He will never forgive you if it always gets wrapped up and combined with Christmas

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@PalmaSailor

Congrats, man!!!!!

Hope your new son is healthy and happy… and mom and you are doing well…

Good Luck!

Centuries
Centuries
1 month ago

@PalmaSailor

Congrats, PalmaSailor! Wishing you and lil Palma all the best.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@All Thanks to all of you. Tonight is the 12th anniversary of the New Year’s Eve argument with my second wife, and it was that which created the start of my red pill journey resulting in me marrying again, for a third time a woman who is younger, more feminine, and more beautiful than my FIRST wife was when I married her 27 years ago. Leading on from that of course was the birth of my second son on the 29th December. Who’d of thought such a journey was possible for a man approaching his mid 50’s? Not me back… Read more »

Last edited 1 month ago by PalmaSailor
OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Happy New Year gang. Since Palma posted his priorities for the year – here’s mine so I can look back on it a year and hold myself accountable. Surprised I haven’t done this before. It’s the same 4 priorities I’ve had for the last few years – I call them the “4-Fs”, but the relative focus on each one varies from year to year: Family (being a good dad and husband): This is mostly on track and a question of maintaining it. Of course there are ups and downs and challenges, but it’s mostly “keep it up”. Marriage is good,… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Talk about shit tests – may Shine some light on the conduct of my ex wife. I’ve been working on a property refurbishment for a customer. She’s slightly younger than me early 50’s but overweight. She has one teenage son. It’s all been good, we have stripped the whole place and rebuilt and dealt with loads of problems with this 100 year old house. All good. She knew my wife was pregnant. I’ve never taken time off the job and Mrs PS has gone to scans etc at hospital on the bus. Original time estimate was 3-4 months and we… Read more »

IAS
IAS
1 month ago

@Palma @Sentient and @everyone too… I’m a bit uneasy with some new information about past events and would like some advice on how to act or just store the information. It is with respect to a “rival” / friend I referred to as Mr. T in previous FRs, and how it connects with N=3 (and N=5). Another guy (to some extent a beta – in an LTR with a girl) basically told me that Mr. T has banged several girls in this social circle (not surprising) and that they all mentioned he told all of them: “you’re special and I’m… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
30 days ago

But I have to say it is hugely tempting to confront her the next time she pesters me for exclusivity, look her straight in the eyes, and try Mr. T line on her to see her reaction. Tell me why I shouldn’t do this please Because its gay, and presumably you also want to keep banging her…? First question: the guy is obviously alpha to some extent but I’m a bit disappointed with the specific tactic of lying to them (if he did that). That seems weak and the kind of thing that could get him “me too” eventually. Am… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
30 days ago

@IAS @Sentient has the TLDR Because it’s gay, and presumably you also want to keep banging her…? He’s right, It is gay, and it’s also an over investment which amounts to a DLV. Hypergamy has to consolidate, and you’re playing against that game, so the system will shut you down in temporary doses while it tries to do that. So it will find its own level. At a basic level it’s also a shit test for both of the men in the room bc he prob knows you’re banging her too, but I don’t think he cares. The beta chump… Read more »

IAS
IAS
30 days ago

Quick replies: N=3 I’ve been banging regularly for 3.5 years now (mid 2019). So I’ve been plating her for a while. Her banging the other guy (which I’m more and more sure each time I think about it) took place August and/or September 2020. And even if they didn’t bang, which is highly unlikely and can’t be sure, it wasn’t for her lack of trying to give him the chance (and this I am sure, because I know she was there), so it is maybe not that important of a distinction. I don’t particularly think I’m upset or jealous about… Read more »

Sentent
Sentent
30 days ago

IAS Lol brother. Your manster is taking a ride…! And this is exactly what her little games want. For you to TAKE THAT STEP and break, just a little bit. Stay strong. Double standards are double standards… I lose a bit of respect for him if his Game relies on that kind of line – I don’t think he even needs it, because they want it. But in using it and then asking them to not talk about it I also think he is setting himself up for backlash down the line. More lol 😂 there are things said that… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
30 days ago

Famous 3 lies

I won’t come in your mouth

The cheque is in the post

I love you…

Lol… oldest in the book…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
30 days ago

@IAS If you look at it, on the surface when I first came to TRM I thought I was OK with women but I wanted to understand how it worked so I could guide son No.1 bc I didn’t want him to struggle. When I first came at 44 there were women everywhere in my life but it took a couple of years for it to dawn upon me that they were all age appropriate and they all were going to want to consolidate on “commitment” fast. Plus it was getting more and more difficult to find a good slim… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
30 days ago

I mean looking back there were some priceless interactions:

Her: so what do you do for money?

Me: I’m a lifeguard in a car wash

Her: no, seriously, what do you do for money?

Me: it doesn’t matter

Her: what do you mean it doesn’t matter?

Me: you’re never going to see any of it so it doesn’t matter.

There was loads of that type of thing…

Once you’ve decided to exclude a whole section you can push boundaries and say and do things you never normally would..

It’ll be an interesting ride.

IAS
IAS
30 days ago

@Palma, @Sentient Thanks for the help, guys. I have recovered from this uneasiness before back in 2020, but it seems I was still holding onto the (small) possibility that it didn’t actually happen even though she tried to have it happen – and with the new info, that illusion is removed (which is a good thing) and it is pretty much impossible that it didn’t happen. And as I keep thinking to myself, maybe the difference is not so relevant because if it didn’t happen it was not due to her lack of trying! I’ll just keep banging N=3 while… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
30 days ago

Great insight Palma “The options are A) continue to game forever, or, B) wife one up and then you have to game her. You’re in category A, and at the moment the age appropriate are in good shape for you so you haven’t hit the reality yet. This is a good opportunity for a reset, bc let’s face it, you’re shelling the age appropriate social set like peas now really. I suggest that you take some time out and work on younger now. I suggest you hit on 24/25 year olds and get that element of game nailed, and I… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
29 days ago

Posting for resource… The old Ya site is long gone, this complication isn’t bad though

https://www.scribd.com/document/393801548/book-of-yareally#

Yep, former SJF...
Yep, former SJF...
29 days ago

YaReally always struck me as an autistic gamer..

Sentient
Sentient
29 days ago

Palma

welp… once I posted some hard core game stuff that couldn’t be refuted over there… crickets and turn the page…

Ahh the good old days – https://therationalmale.com/2016/03/20/the-price-of-nice/#comments

The comments in this ^^^ post, pure gold, aging like nice burgundy…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
28 days ago

@Sentient

I haven’t been back and checked what’s been said, I really couldn’t see the point.

@PA it so high up on that bible of his that he’ll do himself a serious injury if he falls off it.

My comments sometimes went into moderation.

I expect I’m close to being banned…

We could do with more positivity and more people in here really.

sentient
sentient
28 days ago

Yeah

I don’t know why Rollo doesn’t post his you tunes here after original air date, would provide the audience with a better forum to comment and share than one off you tunes.

Palma family all settled in now?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
28 days ago

@Sentient

Palma family all settled in now?

Yup, knee deep in shitty nappies…

Don’t want to speak too soon but sleep seems ok as well..

But then I do have a wife that’s the right age for all that… and it’s telling it’s easier now at 55 than it was at 35 because the woman then was too old.

Comparatively this one just doesn’t get tired and the last one was exhausted all the time so I was taking a lot of the strain which I’m not doing now.

He’s very calm too

https://imgur.com/a/Xg987Av

Anyway – all good!

Last edited 28 days ago by PalmaSailor
Sentient
Sentient
28 days ago

So cute.

enjoy!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
28 days ago

@Sentient

You know I was beginning to like Tate. Even the guy who works for me and is a bit of an incel loves the guy.

But I did predict that those cars would never make it out of Romania.

https://www.itv.com/news/2023-01-06/andrew-tate-four-more-luxury-cars-seized-ahead-of-court-appearance

I still think he’ll get out, even if he’s broken out of wherever they’re keeping him. But the cars won’t get out. Neither will anything else tangible he’s got down there.

I don’t like to see men zeroed out, but that’s what’s coming.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
27 days ago

@IAS – the others got you on the advice, but I just want to add one more thing – sometimes it is worth meditating (literally sitting back and thinking with no distractions) on why you have an emotional reaction to the thought that this guy likely slept with this particular girl. there could be many causes and there could be a combination of causes (jealousy cos you’re possessive of girl? Competitive because you compete with him and he nailed her? Something else?) but it’s a very useful mental exercise. This is not a perfect analogy but it’s somewhat similar to… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
25 days ago

Really interesting interview with Tates lawyer. Looks legit. Seems like there are 2 gurlz claiming Epar. One UmmMurican, and one Moldovan. He prob rejected the Moldovan and she’s just getting her own back. Assange anyone? As far as his business is concerned, women selling their coochie for munny.. what’s new? As far as “human trafficking” is concerned – bullshit. No way he’s the “bodies in shipping containers” type of guy. Little doubt in my mind the system have set him up. Yeah there’s the obvious stuff, he doesn’t pay taxes etc.. but this is a takedown because they don’t like… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
25 days ago

In 2016 I actually attended this auction with my son, old friend, and his son.

It was a boys weekend to Italy.

The system has got form for this type of activity

https://www.roadandtrack.com/car-culture/buying-maintenance/news/a31717/rms-auction-contains-434-seized-cars/

having a bad day
having a bad day
24 days ago

i’ve been waiting for this… it seems they finally isolated the mech for Da Jab ™ actually killing you if you took it… after the 3rd shot/booster it seems to be inevitable… (unless the jabs weren’t properly kept cool… per their design spec…) https://market-ticker.org/akcs-www?post=247709 karl is solid on his analysis… as long as i’ve followed him, i’ve only had some quibbles… and those were minor… and if you follow the links… and comments/links… it will fill out the analysis… if you care to do that…lol basically, Da Jab ™ causes your cells to make the spike protein by itself (without… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
23 days ago

@HABD

This has also been sent to me by a friend who is in his 70’s and also has Velcro on his shoes..

To all intents and purposes even his family think he’s mad, but he does have an IQ of 160+, he invented an early peripheral for the first generation apple Mac, and he’s also the only person to have flown down for our wedding in Montenegro..

We get on well and I take him seriously.

https://drtrozzi.org/2023/01/09/pentagon-controlled-covid-19-from-the-beginning/

What do you think?

having a bad day
having a bad day
22 days ago

@PalmaSailor @HABD This has also been sent to me by a friend who is in his 70’s and also has Velcro on his shoes.. To all intents and purposes even his family think he’s mad, but he does have an IQ of 160+, he invented an early peripheral for the first generation apple Mac, and he’s also the only person to have flown down for our wedding in Montenegro.. We get on well and I take him seriously. https://drtrozzi.org/2023/01/09/pentagon-controlled-covid-19-from-the-beginning/ What do you think? i don’t think he (or Sasha) is wrong wrong…lol… i just think they have some social conditioning… Read more »

liz
liz
21 days ago

In the military, it’s not just the grunts who received mandatory jabs. Every high ranking officer lined up for them too. Not likely they would jab themselves with a known bioweapon. Those are folks I know well enough to say for certain, yes they took it (a couple of retired 4 stars, and many 3, 2, 1 stars. Yes they took it, I have no doubt).
The IgG4 link was interesting.

having a bad day
having a bad day
21 days ago

@liz In the military, it’s not just the grunts who received mandatory jabs. Every high ranking officer lined up for them too. Not likely they would jab themselves with a known bioweapon. the jabs were ‘sold’ as the antidote to the bioweapon… which was c-19… the fact that there were other players… with different agendas… (little fauci mengele… evil billy gates (spits)… etc…) upstream and between the concept of the jabs and the actual shot into the arm was not widely known… at least by any normies…lol.. and the actual idea of using just the spike protein without the viral… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
21 days ago

@HABD Got this from the friend referred to above: Of course there is also the high probability that the globalist world government is far more advanced than we realised. Thus national politicians already only operate by permission of the cabal, and if the wrong ones are elected, they will be replaced by a puppet (Bolsonaro, Trump -> Lula, Biden) or assassinated. In this view, the USA has long been simply the military global enforcer for the cabal. So some people are seeing it perhaps. Yes we are unjabbed here. Unf. I think my eldest son is jabbed. Thee is nothing… Read more »

Last edited 21 days ago by PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
21 days ago

@HABD

here

https://imgur.com/a/KHjFEBX

I didn’t cut it off because he did t want to come to the wedding. I cut it off because he hadn’t used it since 2018. He has another phone and refused to give me that number. He can email and has my number. And I can email him which he doesn’t reply to.

I just said “I’m not paying for something you haven’t used for 4 years”

liz
liz
21 days ago

A lot can change over time. Give it time. I was an only child from Dad’s second marriage and he was 50 at the time I was born. He met Mom in Italy when he was a squadron commander over there. It was kind of strange for his kids (they were 14, 16, 18 when I was born). Mom was much closer to their age than his. Two brothers and a sister in the middle. Anyway, the story with my older brother isn’t good (RIP), but I am pretty close to my sister and closest to the younger brother. He… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
19 days ago

Thanks Liz

stuffinbox
19 days ago

@Palma Been awhile, congratulations on your red pill journey and your new family. family is forever, we can’t ignore it or wish it different.. I could write volumes on the relations with the men in my family, I’ll spare you all the pain. The male model father has been jacked by the blue pill idealism that permeates commercialized society few men if any ever measure up to the BP scale. For the most part we (fathers) are busy providing as best we can and are unable to protect our children from the constant barrage of propaganda that further separates us… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
19 days ago

Palma

Echo Stuff’s sentiment. You keep the door open, he’s got to come through. He will get to a point where he gets red pilled by “events” and you will be there for him, which is more than most Dads.

when the student is ready the teacher appears…

having a bad day
having a bad day
18 days ago

@PalmaSailor @HABD Got this from the friend referred to above: Of course there is also the high probability that the globalist world government is far more advanced than we realised. Thus national politicians already only operate by permission of the cabal, and if the wrong ones are elected, they will be replaced by a puppet (Bolsonaro, Trump -> Lula, Biden) or assassinated. In this view, the USA has long been simply the military global enforcer for the cabal. So some people are seeing it perhaps. ya… it IS starting to sink in…lol… out in the real world, i see this… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
11 days ago

interesting post…

https://wilderwealthywise.com/the-silence-of-the-zoomers/

just like it was ripped from the pages of TRM…lol

good luck!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
11 days ago
OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
11 days ago

Man it would be so ironic if that clown Tate was the one to actually start a mass movement towards masculinity and not Jordan Peterson or Rollo or anyone else. two recent anecdotes from my life: Lost my temper with my son on the street (he was being whiny and complaining about something else right after he begged me to buy him a book he wanted and I did). I ripped the book out of his hands saying “you don’t deserve this” and threw it away over a bunch of people’s heads on the street. He got a real shock.… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
10 days ago

@OTP “Man it would be so ironic if that clown Tate was the one to actually start a mass movement towards masculinity and not Jordan Peterson or Rollo or anyone else.” as long as it starts… “two recent anecdotes from my life: “Lost my temper with my son on the street (he was being whiny and complaining about something else right after he begged me to buy him a book he wanted and I did).” girls are just the biggest child in the house…lol… and all kids are all always pushing those boundaries, yo!…lol “I ripped the book out of… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
10 days ago

lol… do you even read here, bro?…lol… your wife remembered EXACTLY what happened…

did you ask your wife if that was her hot friend with the big (hand gestures…)?

Heh heh heh…

OTP missing a trick…

I refrained from reminding my wife that this was the same friend who started an “innocent” email chat with me

Defensive… 😉

Glad you didn’t say it… always the same… Agree and amplify, cocky funny, steal the frame etc. or if in doubt, say nothing…

Sentient
Sentient
10 days ago

Speaking of silent zoomers, where’s our NNN1 boyo at?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 days ago

I’ve not caught up on comments. But I will. Thanks to you all for your thoughts on my son. Got railed in the family court yesterday. Looking at it, I did get cut some slack by the judge who did at least read my statement this time. I’m on my own as usual. Ex wife turned up with lawyer, Fat brother, fatter sister in law, and fat Tim nice but dim who apparently has had prostate cancer. He’s walking like a cripple. I dunno. They all looked at me like I clubbed to death a small furry animal. They all… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
10 days ago

“Speaking of silent zoomers, where’s our NNN1 boyo at?”

probably trying to stay warm…lol

good luck!

Sentient
Sentient
10 days ago

Congrats Palma on cutting things off for good with ex. Become mates with Tim, and keep sending him pics of you and wife and lil Palma. That will continue to burn her ass… lol And no-one is gonna shout at you, we’ve been saying the boy will come around when life smacks him hard enough, just keep the door ajar… Great stuff on the business. I’ve been doing the same, got a staff going for the first time in forever. It’s slow going at the start as you need to explain the why as you go on explaining the how… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
10 days ago

@PalmaSailor

props!…

and +1 on ALL of @Sentient’s advice/comment…lol

and i see folks are wrapped pretty tight lately, too… it seems to spin off into that hate response faster than usual… and ramps up a LOT faster as well…

i think a big part of it, is Da Jab ™ …

(in addition to all the other sh^t going on in society/world…)

that concept of increased death/injury bc of that is sinking in at the mass unconscious level right now… and sloooowly bubbling it’s way up to mass conscious comprehension…

good luck!

having a bad day
having a bad day
9 days ago

my bad…lol…

@NNN1 is probably digging that bomb shelter…

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11674127/Russia-blasts-blatant-provocation-Putins-puppets-call-Bundestag-NUKED-tank-deal.html

dude, if you check in here, with wood heating AND a bomb shelter… just remember to hold out for those hb8 twins…lol… and maybe their hotter younger sister/cousin too…lol

good luck!

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
9 days ago

Thanks guys, it was an entertaining couple of moments, both of them. My wife is usually terrible at hiding her emotions and she didn’t show anything that would suggest she remembered the earlier incident (when I told her about the email saying hello a couple of years ago, she didn’t say anything, she just kind of looked surprised and picked up her phone to text the friend) but I guess she still could have. Palma – it sounds like an emotionally draining day but ultimately a huge win. Even if you paid over the odds, getting that mental burden off… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 days ago

@Sentient Congrats Palma on cutting things off for good with ex. The court was Tuesday 10AM and after the hearing her lawyer got hold of me and we had a conversation and I settled. That evening I thought I’d overpaid by £10k. But as we speak it’s Friday AM here and between the court and him now I’ve made enough sales to cover what I think I overpaid by, and in a few more days closing like this I’ll have the whole settlement covered. Become mates with Tim, and keep sending him pics of you and wife and lil Palma.… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
9 days ago

The “system slowing down” thing predates COVID but that made it worse. In my city, I started noticing my local area was noticeably dirtier (more litter etc) starting around 2015ish. Around 2018ish (pre pandemic) I remember posting here about how people were getting very aggressive in discussions in the main discussion group I frequent (other than this one) for my job – it was all “you’re with me or against me” with no room for agreeing to disagree or seeing the nuance in situations (even 5 years ago, HABD replied saying it’s a symptom of resources getting scarcer and people… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
9 days ago

@OTP Thanks guys, it was an entertaining couple of moments, both of them. My wife is usually terrible at hiding her emotions and she didn’t show anything that would suggest she remembered the earlier incident totally expected… her hindbrain is still in control…lol… she can let her emotions out/expressed when it’s not a total threat to her provisioning… Wife was telling me she’d had coffee with a (single mom) friend recently and my wife had mentioned my son may have autistic tendencies and Friend asked if I was autistic, saying I spoke like I’d learned how to communicate from a… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 days ago

@OTP The “system slowing down” thing predates COVID but that made it worse. true… In my city, I started noticing my local area was noticeably dirtier (more litter etc) starting around 2015ish. Around 2018ish (pre pandemic) I remember posting here about how people were getting very aggressive in discussions in the main discussion group I frequent (other than this one) for my job – it was all “you’re with me or against me” with no room for agreeing to disagree or seeing the nuance in situations (even 5 years ago, HABD replied saying it’s a symptom of resources getting scarcer… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 days ago

@PalmaSailor Yeah they can’t keep up the “Russia losing” narrative for much longer. And people are beginning to question it. nah… once they get those couple dozen new tanks over there, how could the Ukies not win by spring?… lol… If that ever does fully surface it’ll get nasty. Right now it seems there’s even more aggression towards the anti vaxxers because the vaxed are saying we should have warned them lol… so it really could get bad because we were the pariahs. ya… my response to that sh^t is always… “ya, why did big tech want to kill you… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 days ago

Palma Yeah that was it. so busy now had to expand though. Truly feminine women will never want to lose their beauty. You don’t have to do anything more than raise an eyebrow or give her a little squeeze to keep her on her toes. And you being you will take cre of the rest because she wont ever want to lose that. Change you – yes, but not lose you. lol And she’ll stay like that through the next bunch o lil Palma’s… My mid 50s wife still wears the same size clothes from her early 20s and herd… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 days ago

In other news

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11679471/Connecticut-investment-firm-banker-46-jumps-death-rooftop-bar-Times-Square.html

As s[on as I saw it, knew divorce, zeroed out…

Keep doing what you do Rollo [and start making blog entries!!!]

having a bad day
having a bad day
8 days ago

@Sentient In other news https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11679471/Connecticut-investment-firm-banker-46-jumps-death-rooftop-bar-Times-Square.html As s[on as I saw it, knew divorce, zeroed out… dude’s dead… and he’s basically an afterthought… they still try to make it about some random girl…lol although, given the fact that he filed, and the kids are old enough (for no child support…)… i’m thinking that there is likely something else going on… buut BP is… BP…lol bc he was running his own finance firm (and he looks to be the only general partner… officially any way…lol), he was probably getting stretched… and his main client base was lower middle market… in emerging consumer… Read more »

Centuries
Centuries
8 days ago

It seems probable that whether intentional or unintentional that Tate pushing his social media into Greta’s social media and others, quite possibly will result or resulted in a lot of the BP getting pings of his content due to the algorithms pushing content to max out engagement in the various platforms. I presume that roughly 10 to 20% of the BP that receives that content will have reason to adsorb or even absorb the content due to their precarious circumstances. So yes Tate could be a catalyst of the content that RP communities has generated including the Godfather’s.

having a bad day
having a bad day
7 days ago

looks like those Deep State F^ckers ™ are trying a full court press on Putin…lol https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11683647/Is-preparing-nuclear-war-Health-body-publishes-list-medicines-nations-stockpile.html https://www.who.int/news/item/27-01-2023-who-updates-critical-medicines-list-for-radiation-and-nuclear-emergencies most folks will survive a nuke exchange… (and if you don’t believe that, just look at the assumptions in that^ who doc… and that’s for a direct hit on a mid-sized city (2Million)…) this whole situ reminds me of one of those clueless libs at yellowstone… out of their car to try to pet the ‘nice’ teddy bear (grizzly)… lol sooo, have a plan… water, stored food (more than you think you could ever possibly need is still not enough… and don’t forget… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
6 days ago

@HABD Still haven’t caught up on comments But that concept of increased death/injury bc of that is sinking in at the mass unconscious level right now… and sloooowly bubbling it’s way up to mass conscious comprehension… From this morning (Saturday) Weekends I get up leave Mrs Ps in bed and walk 200 yards to the town centre for Cofvefee, usually scratch ma balls and catch up on shit / do nothing at all. Walking back and checked in with the rental agency to see if they have a larger flat in our block. Agency woman asks if baby has arrived… Read more »

Centuries
Centuries
6 days ago

@Rollo

Good work holding the fort down on Dr. Pill and representing the truth under an onslaught of BP delusion

Keep up the good fight Rollo – you are saving men’s lives – mine included – your contribution far exceeds that which the others on that show can ever match

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 days ago

@PalmaSailor

have you tried putting the crib mattress at an angle to stop the reflux by physics?…

good luck!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
6 days ago

@HABD YEAH. That hasn’t stopped it. It’s gravity defying vomit right now. But it appears to be reducing. By the way, our state child support paid to all parents of children up to the age of 18 is about £100 a month. This will be paid to me provided my income doesn’t go over £60k a year in which case it doesn’t get paid. So I’ll never see that. But at the current exchange rate the Russian govt will pay her a bullet payment of £7,000 for having a baby which can’t be drawn in cash but can be used… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 days ago

@Palma

what’s mom’s diet looking like?…

good luck!

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 days ago

the voice in my head told me to check btw…lol… but not kidding..

good luck!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
6 days ago

@HABD

Very good as far as I can see. I cook it all. Poached salmon veg, mash, chicken, breakfast smoked salmon poached eggs.. all that sort of thing all from scratch. Nothing out of a packet, ready meals etc don’t exist in our house.

Nothing junk, too spicy etc…

She’s tracking at 1700 calories a day, some days just under and is now 3 kilos from her pre pregnancy weight.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
6 days ago

Yeah that voice lol…

She said yesterday that he’s taking a LOT of milk. If he were on formula she said he’d be obese by now. His growth is tracking aggressively ahead of the curve.

The brother she’s got that’s in prison is over 2 metres tall though.

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 days ago

grain carbs or peanut butter?…

good luck!

having a bad day
having a bad day
6 days ago
having a bad day
having a bad day
6 days ago

oh yeah…lol

good luck!

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 day ago

Was just rereading some old notes of my FRs and the replies here from the gang (specifically from when I did HABD’s 400 Opens In A Weekend challenge a few years ago). I’d forgotten (not forgotten mentally but forgotten the feeling of how much fun that was – to do it, to learn to get better and closer towards my potential and come back and share it here with you guys and learn even more from the breakdown). I wonder how much of social and subcomms skills I’ve let my body and instincts forget by focusing on other stuff. For… Read more »

1 178 179 180
18.8K
0
Would love your thoughts, please comment.x
()
x
%d bloggers like this: