Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@NNN1 glad you can easily spot that propaganda…lol and it does seem to be a recycled theme…lol This is what everything points to in the medium term for US foreign politics: Either you follow our containment policy or we’ll contain you… look again… the us is not pushing on other countries (russian trading partners)… nor is the eu… and that is bc they CAN’T (no actual leverage other than talking)… otherwise, they would… the saudis’ and oil partners just cut oil production by 2M barrels a day bc the russians asked them to…lol the eu (nato) is starting to break… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

there are many points of potential failure in any complex system… That’s of course more than just true. But as the system is very decentralized I feel it might not be as bad as I thought – which was total breakdown of civilization, which is still far beyond the horizon. Gas storages are actually fuller than we ever imagined this year – and no one seems to know where that gas comes from. Gas prices are down, as well as energy prices, which could be market manipulation, or just way less demand as Germany cannot buy up as much, as… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@OTP

It’s by Mr Göbbels (“Goebbels” for when HTML doesn’t spell that right), the Nazi Minister for propaganda.
Famous speach, you might want to read the whole text:

Google “Goebbels Sportpalastrede”.

BTW: What’s going on here on other posters prospects?

kfg
kfg
1 month ago

“What’s going on here on other posters prospects?”

It’s a Brave New World.
It’s too bad I won’t live,
but then again, who does?

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

@NNN1 – thank you, I will take a look.

@HABD – have you read a new novel called Wrath of the Wendigo (the one by Clay Martin – there are several books with similar names on Amazon)? I’ve just started it and one of the first thoughts that came to mind was “this would be right up HABD’s alley – it hits all the themes he talks about”. I sometimes lurk on forums for police and army/retired army “tactical” types, and it came highly recommended there, and I’m enjoying it so far.

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@NNN1 “and can your cousin’s generator run your well pump?” Ground water isn’t found very deep here, so it’s really one of that old hand pumps. Not the super-duper all-around version with all the bells and whistles – but the best version for really independently pumping your own water in any situation. And it’s in-house, so kinda frost-safe (which is important for German conditions). this is great!… having access to clean water all year is important… do you have a plan for potential irrigation needs next spring… for all those potatoes?… hand pumping all that water would be more difficult… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@OTP @HABD – have you read a new novel called Wrath of the Wendigo (the one by Clay Martin – there are several books with similar names on Amazon)? I’ve just started it and one of the first thoughts that came to mind was “this would be right up HABD’s alley – it hits all the themes he talks about”. I sometimes lurk on forums for police and army/retired army “tactical” types, and it came highly recommended there, and I’m enjoying it so far. i haven’t read that… but it sounds like a good book… none of the sh*t i… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@HABD / Sentient I mentioned potassium iodide to the current Mrs PS and apparently she’s already bought them. In the bathroom cabinet and I didn’t notice.. Separately I’m thinking about buying some and getting them delivered to Son No.1. Predictably this will cause a LOAD of drama for him – which may just make him hate me even more. I wouldn’t be surprised if she throws a tantrum, and probably throws them in the bin because “your fathers being RIDICULOUS AND TRYING TO SCARE YOU!!!!” <…. Note the 4 exclamation marks !!!!! But also, the presence of anything from me… Read more »

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Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Looks like banks are trying to limit credit, many here have completely done away with lines of credit against a house. Theg see what’s coming. People with tap that to the hilt then default and housing crashes back down.

Id go with cash purchase. And send you kid those pills and anything else.

They have to rect to you.

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@PS you know sending those iodine pills won’t lead anywhere, you know your ex-wife freaking out won’t get you anywhere, you deduced many months ago, when your son seemed coming back to you for just enough a spark of hope, that it was only to butter you up to press new charges. He’s probably indoctrinated by his wife beyond imagination. Either they feel the threat already (which isn’t out of sight, but still very far to the horizon) – then it would actually make it harder for his mother to give in for your view and stock up on iodine.… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient Thanks. They’ve been sent. When I started out in property I used to run a spreadsheet which tracked interest rates, RPI inflation, and house prices. I opened it again today – and updated it – all prices are well ahead of long term trends and due a correction – last time I opened it was errrrrr.. 2005… anyway, I’m gonna hold cash for a bit. A few months and see how it plays. I also have that lawsuit from a few years back (life throwing you lemons) which is pushing £200 if I lose. That cash is allocated bc… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN1 You may want to re think your assumptions about the ability to utilise the gas that is in “storage”: https://thesaker.is/germanys-failing-stored-nat-gas-lng-experiment/?inmoderation My comment below: So basically, what I suspected, but had not properly thought through was that the entire “storage” was basically a “capacitance” operating at a lower pressure than the “King Kong” but a slightly higher pressure than the demand from “society”. The whole thing therefore, on a moment by moment (daily?) basis is not really dependent on King Kong, but over the slightly longer (still very short term – weeks?) it definitely is. I had already thought through… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

Gas output capacity of our storages is a serious topic, I did some low-key research and it seems German storages are utilizing highly compressed gas (far more compressed than in the gas grid). So a huge portion of it will just be pressed out by itself. Nonetheless, storage utilities talk about “process gas” and “pillow gas”. Both in sum are the amount of gas that’s in storage, but only “process gas” can be extracted, which is a huge share of it and as I understand it is the capacity everyone’s talking about when mentioning storage capacity. Of course, pillow gas… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Guys, I might be going to Cancun for spring break in a few months. Well, not for spring break, but a martial arts seminar in the area around the same time. Not yet confirmed (because there are some family commitments I may not be able to miss around then). But assuming I do, any ideas on what to do and how to handle it with a crowd of college girls on spring break? Tactics, strategies, tips as an early 40s guy staying in a nice hotel (not wherever the spring breakers stay – doesn’t feel like that’s my vibe –… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

OTP

I’d be careful of the locals. Stick more to the tourists.

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

I’ll just remind myself of the Sentient maxim that it’s not age that makes it difficult for older men with younger girls, but proximity…not that that’s an issue in Cancun. Even 5 years ago (late 30s and with gray hair etc) it would never even enter my head that a college girl was a lot younger than me, but now (early 40s) I’ve started to have the occasional thought “am I too old for her” enter the head.. Speaking of which, I met an absolutely inspirational old guy at the park yesterday. I was training my son in doing sprint… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

The red pill and bet bux Got a bit of a thing going on here which is a legal matter and I wouldn’t mind opinions from the room. I’ve got a court case against me which is a lot of money by most peoples standards, and to be honest, I’ve written off the loss. Though it’s a lot of money, actually, it won’t change my life because money doesn’t buy most of what I’ve got, and the amount concerned, though a large portion of my net worth won’t finish me. Life will continue, more or less as before. What I… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma

So is this the case where these guys are representing a fund that bought an interest in your case? And they are asking the lions share of their money through cost shifting?

So the real party has pennies invested to the dollar?

Is that the setup here?

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@PalmaSailor what’s the business model for those dudes?… for all parties… do they own the claim?… or have they just funded it?… what it looks like to me is billable hours for the lawyers…lol .. which chews into any value left in the claim/business (which screws the creditors…)… and depending on their deal, the lawyers might still be getting paid… just not by you (over the limit on costs…)… and yes… usually, threat letters list what they think is going to get compliance… money, take away your kids, have you arrested, etc .. I haven’t ran into very many folks… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma

Always taking the piss 😆🤣

Writing a book about it. 😆🤣😂😹

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

They are the funders and bought the right of action against me via a deed of assignment. Details are redacted but they prob paid £1 plus a promise of a % of the win. Original party invest nil. The book is Sun Tsu attempt to move the battle because 95% of people just fold and they do this bc of a power imbalance. If you Google them The book comes up at top in the U.K. if their potential targets understood a bit more about what happens if you defend, more might do it and affect their IRR / attitude… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

And .. this always makes me laugh :

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manolete

They’ve named themselves after a bullfighter (a good one, I’ll give them that) but eventually the bull killed him….

He was “fatally gored”… didn’t die straight away…

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

The Brits do things a bit differently. We got stung by this in my old job a few years ago when dealing with something over there. Basically, in a British court case, the loser has to pay the winner’s legal fees in addition to whatever else is owed. This changes the game theory of litigation significantly, especially since it is quite common for the legal fees to be more than whatever money you are suing for in the first place. I am assuming this is what Palma is talking about – these guys are basically telling him “settle quickly, because… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma

Seem like you can settle it for pennies. Maybe yell them you are moving to Russia 🇷🇺.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient

I don’t think it’ll settle for pennies. I wish..

I think it’s going to be a lot over half, but I could offer pennies and just walk from the meeting.

If I tell them I’m going to go “skip”, or they have grounds to suspect that, they’ll get whatever the modern equivalent is of a Moreva Injunction, which is to freeze all my assets pending the trial so it’s not that easy.

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

Field report You know, last month I predicted I’ll rejoin the field in the first week of university, which has just happened now. Got two new roommates, both females – one less attractive, the other one solid HB 7 (although she always wears pullover like clothes, which is suspicious). Met with my Homies on Monday evening to grill some steaks, which was good fun, the HB 7 joined us, don’t know what she made of it. She didn’t drink a single glass of wine I guess, while we had more than some but then I don’t think it’s a good… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@NNN1 quick reply before you head back out tonight…lol I’m kinda angry for why this poor dudes cannot open their own girl sets instead of trying to hyjack others’. – especially as they shall not succeed on my sets, although they broke my set here. Looking back I was short of leading that HB 7 out the place to my bed, which makes it all the more pittyfull. reframe this idea… every dude that interrupts you gives you another opportunity to DHV to the girl you are with… and is an opportunity to increase her buying temp… and the opportunity… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@PalmaSailor I think it’s going to be a lot over half, but I could offer pennies and just walk from the meeting. that’s still a loss… if they accept… If I tell them I’m going to go “skip”, or they have grounds to suspect that, they’ll get whatever the modern equivalent is of a Moreva Injunction, which is to freeze all my assets pending the trial so it’s not that easy. if what OTP said about the loser paying for the winner’s costs is right, then the other side has to win to get anything in the first place… sooo,… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@HABD / all – not caught up properly but will do manana over coffee. Meantime, odds of success. Put it like this. Over about an 18 month period after 2009 I went to court once a week to try to get customers to pay for the service we had provided. That’s about 60-70 appearances which is more than most battle hardened lawyers. I had exactly the same product, exactly the same terms and conditions. According to the propaganda it should have been the same outcome 100% of the time in any court in the land In front of any judge.… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

They trial lawyer told his client he had an 82% chance of winning. The client was Gung ho to litigate.

Then he reminded him those are the same odds as Russian roulette.

🔫 [gay Chinese spy phone does not have a gun emoji 😆]

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@ HABD Muh formatting went wrong and no time to edit… that’s still a loss… if they accept… Correct If I tell them I’m going to go “skip”, or they have grounds to suspect that, they’ll get whatever the modern equivalent is of a Moreva Injunction, which is to freeze all my assets pending the trial so it’s not that easy. if what OTP said about the loser paying for the winner’s costs is right, He is right, and those costs have now been set by the judge following a hearing a month or so back. It’s almost impossible for… Read more »

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having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@PalmaSailor

“At the moment I’m focusing on what I think is a regulatory breach in their process… that would be an existential threat if I’m right.”

i’ll try to look this over again tomorrow… too busy today…

but i thought i did see a conflict/issue in the example.

good luck!

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@HABD

https://imgur.com/a/8Z4JWO2

thanks

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma Ref settling for pennies, have you seen something in their DNA I’ve missed? If I understand they took an assignment, not “funded” your case, and they are splitting some of the recovery from you with the assignor? So they are in only for their time. They use the big hammer of fee shifting to early resolve the bulk of their cases. Then they have to spend time and money. If you don’t have much of a prospect of paying them, they should be willing to forgo spending more time and money chasing you. can you shift your assets to… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
1 month ago

@PalmaSailor The red pill and bet bux Got a bit of a thing going on here which is a legal matter and I wouldn’t mind opinions from the room. I’ve got a court case against me which is a lot of money by most peoples standards, and to be honest, I’ve written off the loss. Though it’s a lot of money, actually, it won’t change my life because money doesn’t buy most of what I’ve got, and the amount concerned, though a large portion of my net worth won’t finish me. Life will continue, more or less as before. What… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Both I haven’t fully read @HABD’s reply fully yet Thanks for your input. If I understand they took an assignment, not “funded” your case, and they are splitting some of the recovery from you with the assignor? Correct, but they have funded the court fee and I think they’re funding something towards the lawyers time and the barrister at court bc they claim not to work pro bono So they are in only for their time. Not quite, they got some coats. £5-10k so far I think. Plus they’re not doing much, it’s their lawyers doing the work. They use… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

Very assertive Palma! When I get this right, by all the evidence you linked to here, you want to take this to the next level of escalation – which is exposing their business model as illegal. Which reminds me of other conflicts. I think it’s pretty similar in Germany, regarding who has to pay the lawyers to get to your rights… Dad runs a micro renting business, renting out 7 flats across the road. Every few years a renter will fall behind on payments (which are not even high btw). Last time it took us about 9 months to get… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma I think you’d need far bigger scale to influence their image. Outing a part of the company to the public is a scam everyone involved is in on, i.e. all their private round investors, board, bankers etc. They say they had something like 1k cases, so they aren’t touching millions of people. Indignation is so last century anyway. While it may be too late to practically move any assets, giving them a convincing show might call the bluff. Combine with giving the boots on the ground guy or gal an easy path to a “win”. Use that old Palma… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient So far I’ve offered nothing. The judge allocated £10k in that fee allocation for negotiations but if we don’t do it that way, that isn’t spent and so it’s £10k less on my downside. My position is so far they can make an offer recognising their litigation risk without needing a “round table meeting” and take it from there. “Round table” = they bash the table and try to intimidate and that’s not going to end well… lol… especially since I have mentally written off the downside. There’s a long way to go yet and they will stop to… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Posted from PACE

https://gab.com/Wodanseye/posts/109238892531461543

The end of feminism is in sight.

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Here you go Rollo

https://twitter.com/coldhealing/status/1585642130621763584

Let that sink in

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

and Gisele loved Brady so much she just couldn’t stand to see him hurt…

https://profootballtalk.nbcsports.com/2022/10/28/report-tom-brady-gisele-bundchen-divorce-to-become-official-today/

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient

The end of feminism is in sight.

Muh… what do you expect from a woman that wears white knickers under a black dress….

Lol…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Meantime at twatter this dude needs to get back to his Husband & Wife…

Lol…

https://twitter.com/michaeljknowles/status/1586096593274490880?s=61&t=n6lHBA5zxpwB_45p8NgmvA

Perhaps he can learn to code… oh wait..

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

So the patriarchy / protection of the father is still alive and well in some parts of the world. My newborn will be entitled to Russian citizenship at birth which means a Russian passport / obligation to do national service in Russia etc.. and everything that goes with that. If the current Mrs. PS was a single parent living in the U.K. then it would simply be a question of her bowling up to the embassy and a passport would be issued. But because she’s married, as the father, even though I’m not Russian, I have to give consent or… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

Field report Been to the campus barn last Thursday, apparently more people were attending it that week than were before. So when I arrive the queue is already around the corner and I decide to stick to the outside bar (without a queue). There I meet a two Homies, later some others and we get in line (their friends already queued up long before, so we sneak in there). After two hours of wait my positive energy was already, but shortly before I was to just head home, we got in the barn. Now in there I didn’t meet that… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

Little update, shortly after my post she suggested to go for billiard, I say “would be okay, but it stopped raining now – so either you know another seasonal pub or I suggest wel’ll go downtown und have a good coffee there.” Her I know some at [other part of town], but somehow I’d prefer the coffee 🙂 I guess we can start off with the coffee (both at 11:00am) Me: optimal (11:09) So we’ll meet at xyz place. (1:10 pm) She [Thumbs up emoji] sounds good (1:30) My plan against fucked up logistics is now to go for that… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago
Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

NNN1

If she shows up at your place, she’s down for it. so don’t spend too much time diverting her interest with food and movies…

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN1

My guess, you’ve probably got this done by now..

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@Palma My guess, you’ve probably got this done by now.. Right! We met mid-afternoon downtown, I arrived five minutes early, she was already there, had texted me fifteen minutes before scheduled time where she stands. Short hug and walked off to a decent coffee shop. We had some coffee and she had a piece of cake – and she even paid alltogether afterwards, pretty nice! Anyway, so we walk on, my city has that nice cog railway (functioning like a metro). Next stop a little place on top of the city, nice few and so on. Her instand comment: “Wow,… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Congratulations NNN1 – great work. I hadn’t realized you were only N=1 till now! Your FRs sound really good for someone who was N=1 till yesterday! How old are you? I was a virgin till 23/24 myself.. As you get better, you’ll learn what Sentient said – most of the stuff you were doing is fluff (doesn’t mean its’ bad – if you enjoy hanging out with her and making omelettes – go for it – just remember it is not necessary to sleep with her) and you could just do things a lot faster if you just go by… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN2 Congrats !!!!! Well done !!!!! Now is not the time to take apart what happened there, you just need to enjoy right now… But it does need taking apart because there’s still much to learn, and you need to be able to achieve that on your terms and when you want it. Let us know when you want to take it apart. She was prob. Ovulating, so no idea whether you’ll be able to hit her up again soon, as her karma may change like a light bulb and she won’t want a round 2, or she might. But… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@OTP just remember it is not necessary to sleep with her) and you could just do things a lot faster if you just go by the vibe Yeah, my gut already told me we could really just hit it now, it just felt right in the process somehow… But yeah, I’m sure you’re right. Shortly after I had read your post I’ve texted her again. But it might be an idea to keep her around for a bit just for practice if you can Are you kidding @Palma? – of course I’ll take it as long as it works, not… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN2 Just remember it is not necessary to sleep with her) and you could just do things a lot faster if you just go by the vibe 
Yeah, my gut already told me we could really just hit it now, Yep.. it just felt right in the process somehow… It was But yeah, I’m sure you’re right.
Shortly after I had read your post I’ve texted her again. But it might be an idea to keep her around for a bit just for practice if you can Are you kidding @Palma? – of course I’ll take it as long as it… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 month ago

re Rollo’s Twitter thread:

“Simp” is carny slang from the turn of the last century. It’s short for “simpleton,” i.e. a chump, an easy mark.

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

Right now you’re the equivalent to the broke pool boy. You’re giving off enough alpha that she wants to bang you and she made it happen. Her hindbrain forgave your youth and made the moves for you To be honest, that first part about alpha vibes feels like a good achievement right now, lol. Of course, my technics of seduction are still far from good enough. You don’t think she’s got a whole load of men chasing her at her corporate that she won’t touch? Lol… Are you kidding? – Of course she has, when that company would really be… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
1 month ago

Not just the alpha vibe @NNN1 – more importantly you can take credit for actually closing the deal and doing it. I’ve literally lost count of the number of times I’ve had women throw themselves at me and I messed it up (weirdly I was dreaming last night about one such instance from high school!).

Actually taking action and closing the deal is rarer than you think even if the woman is interested – good work for doing it.

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Nice work NNN1

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Nnn1

So Sunday afternoon it is. And she confirmed that, so I need to figure what we’re gonna do then.

She’s almost 30? Dudebro, she’s a fuck buddy. Keep it at that, she’ll be around for nSA seconds with the guy not in her social circle.

Sotake Palmas advice, just bang her when she shows up, then have a drink and let her split. Don’t bother with any of the activity stuff.

Just hit her up for periodic boots calls big stud…

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@Sentient Until now I went with that (and not going to change). (I texted Palma this at first directly) as you said, she texted me Thursday evening, “Hey, are you partying at the [party barn] ?” I answered Friday morning: “Hey, I’d never ever do that…😘” [obvious sarcastic meaning in German] She went like “😂why not?😉” “Maybe I was there😉” [No answer from me] This morning she texted: “What do we wanna do tomorrow?” Right now and 9 hours later I told her: “Hey C., just come over at 4 and bring a bottle of white wine.” Her instant reaction:… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@HABD, SENTIENT, OTP, NNN2 Thanks for your feedback and taking the time to give me input on the legal case. I don’t know, sometimes I think it would be wise to take a certain course of action, but my personality, and perhaps even ego investment won’t let me. Sometimes I’ve over ridden that and generally I’ve regretted it. In this case I think “fuck em”. And as I look at it more closely, and as we get closer to the trial I keep seeing why I consider poker tells, the other side are shitting it, they haven’t read any of… Read more »

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PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

I’m thinking about wether I could try to get some nice activities from her

Anyone want to see if you can get @NNN2 to see the light here?

I don’t think he can see that what she gets in the bed is the prize..

“Nice activities” are beta buxy and will shut this down / dry her up in a millisecond.. you can do “nice activities” but only if you want to do them and on your own terms.. and only AFTER sex..

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@Sentient is spot on: she’ll be around for nSA seconds with the guy not in her social circle. If you play this right you’ll be banging her for the next 5 – 10 years in between (probably even during) all the beta chumps she’s trying to consolidate on… and will be her booooyyyyfriends in the meantime. The boyfriends will come and go, but you can remain constant. She’s gonna say she can’t see you bc she’s got a “serious bf” and you say: “hey I’m so pleased for you, you’re a great girl and you deserve to be happy –… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma

You’ve said yourself the courts/judges are the wildcard. Thats the area of risk outside of your control.

That’s why settlement on terms you can live with makes sense. Trial should be used for cases you can’t settle.

Do some probability analysis and put dollar figures to the various outcomes.

Nnn1 listen to Palma.

NNN1
NNN1
1 month ago

@Palma
That sounds all good, I think the spin behind the activity part got lost in translation.

you do need to keep her around for practice on that front right now I suspect
True, that’s probably the first and foremost reason here.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

@NNN1 Yeah it probably did get lost in translation to a certain extent. But you’ll be programmed and brain washed from everywhere else. Probably no man you will ever encounter will tell you to dispose with the niceties and take her straight to the mattress. You’re only going to hear that in here. For most men it is unthinkable that this is even possible, and they will ALL tell you that you should plan some type of “nice date” to impress her… etc… if you expect anything from her.. So watch not to slide into that. Pragmatically where I’ve had… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
1 month ago

Watching the twatter thing play out is gonna be fascinating.

I got 206 likes so far and I don’t even have any followers… lol

And, correct me if I’m mistaken, but right now thee is no one in the twatter offices, they’re all on lockout…

https://imgur.com/a/48W2pJX

Sentient
Sentient
1 month ago

Palma

😆

stuffinbox
1 month ago

“Anyone want to see if you can get @NNN2 to see the light here?” @NNN2 I’ve been following along your frs and first off good going man, big changes leaps and bounds. The first thing that struck me was when she #2 asked if you are a gigolo. Thoughts are she has met a few players, she is epiphany cusp, she is toying with you. You were situational alpha = best immediate choice , true betas are taking shots at her constantly but keep in mind there is her alpha ideal that she can’t materialize, that fantasy obsession unobtainable .… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
29 days ago

Palma, It seems to me that you are trying to decide between fighting and settling. You have a good idea of how much you stand to lose if you fight and lose the case. As far as I understand, you don’t have an idea of what you could settle for, since you have not met the other side to talk yet. I don’t see how you can make a rational decision without having a settlement number to compare against the “fight” number. So I would suggest meeting them and seeing what they offer and what you can negotiate, and then… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
29 days ago

@OTP I’ve hit them with this. Without Prejudice save as to costs. Thank you for your recent email. Its actually quite amusing when you refer to what the judge said at the hearing given that you were not there. I’m very grateful to the judge for his attention and directions. My previous suggestion that I would attend a meeting was out of respect for the judge but you immediately interpreted it as an indicator that I would settle. It was not any such indicator. I’m not expecting your client to arrive at a reasonable figure, I’m expecting them to use… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
28 days ago

Haven’t got too much time till the next exkursion today, but to wrap up what happened on Sunday before it all vanishes in my memories: She arrived a bit late, five minutes after 4 (four o’clock was the scheduled meet time) she texted me she’d be boarding the lift (of my dorm) and then came into the door. With a bottle of wine that I carefully inspected (standing in the door in front of her) before I said “Just gonna put that in the fridge”. While that she had gone into my room and put off her shoes and coat… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
28 days ago

Compliance Appendix to the week’s field report: I was kinda sick on Monday and am still coughing more than what’s good. Anyway I went to the campus barn Yesterday evening, ’cause I was kinda walking by anyway and my Homie was there as well. Usually the Tuesday nights are attended very poorly, but this was different. Lots of people, the room nearly stuffed. So I sit down with my two Homies and keep chatting with another dude I know kinda well. Didn’t even put off my thick winter jacket, I need to keep myself warm for I’m still kinda sick.… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
25 days ago

😁😐

having a bad day
having a bad day
25 days ago

Blaximus!!!!!!

Welcome back, man!

I’ve been meaning to ask you whatever happened to that wannabe drug dealer kid? Did he listen to reason and straighten himself out?

good luck!

NNN1
NNN1
24 days ago

Field report: On Wednesday my Homies and me had a little party and we had some fun there. The girl who made that Halloween party and whose distant friend I banged afterward was also there and kinda instantly asked wether I “had a date”, I shrug it all off in an unserious way, chat with her later. Good girl to have deep conversations, but no real sexual vibe there – we probably know each other for too long. Anyway on Thursday I rejoined the campus barn with my Homie and we’re both kinda sick still. We join his sports group,… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
24 days ago

@NNN1 By now which is past date 2, Sunday girl is gonna start shit testing you. When r u next seeing her? Tomorrow? Something like changing the arrangement to suit her, like you gojng her place – is a shot test. This will be the hamster trying to box you off into BB, so must’ be rejected / passed by you. Reply with… “No, I’ve got plans for you young lady.. If you’ve been good, you can come to my place as usual, And if you’ve been EXTRA GOOD you can bring some desert wine…. Beaune de Venise, or Royal… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
24 days ago

Royal Tokaji

Good to see you Blax .. hope you’re well

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
24 days ago

Blax, man! Welcome back – you came back to see the site redesign and new picture of Rollo I bet!

We could use you posting more here..get some of the old gang back

Sentient
Sentient
24 days ago

Nnn1

Don’t be so quick to seek greener pastures. You need to put in the work. That’s what makes you better.

Jason aka Apoc
Jason aka Apoc
23 days ago

On my previous posts, months ago, I shared with you my lack of success with women and my situation being a 26 yo teacher. I haven’t approached as I said I would, but something happened recently. I got my first score with a student, out of nowhere. It’s been a revealing experience, and a great progress in the field, and that’s why I’m sharing here, with people who somehow care. One day I had a class with this 21 yo cutie (she’s a 6.5, pretty smile, good tits, not a great body, but still arousing). The next day getting out… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
23 days ago

@Jason Probs on that. It feels like a long journey to me, probably to you too as well. It starts with another mindset, it goes on by internalising that new character of you and it’ll go on with applying it more and more. Field report appendix: Went to a wine tasting on Friday, with my father and we had some great fun. In the middle of the tasting we grabbed a plate with some snacks and stood to the next free table. Right next to a hot young woman, guessed she’d be around 30, still HB 7. And actually she… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
22 days ago

@Apoc Great work. It’s obviously not ideal for a number of reasons. But I don’t even have to break it down – I think you know from your LR what the key points were and how this girl actively threw herself at you and you just about still managed to make it happen. But you’ve DONE it. Give yourself a slap on the back and enjoy the sex – particularly about how you got over the initial problem (happens to everyone sometimes) and went on to bang her several more times. Enjoy your success, don’t get one-itis or settle for… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
22 days ago

@NNN1 *Now she didn’t get that Sauterne and I gave her some shit for that” Good on the other hand it’s really difficult to get anyway Good, the bitch will have to work for it. Anyway, She had three options, Beaumes de Venise, Royal Tokaji, or Sauternes. It wasn’t a money thing, they all price in at about £15 for 37.5cl… It was about putting her to work and keeping her in your frame, plus she’s probably never drunk desert wine, and definitely not with a flambé. It’s about imprinting emotions. I don’t know why, but last week I really… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
22 days ago

In fact

Good, the bitch will have to work for it.

I got €10 that says she’ll get a beta chump at work to find her a bottle….

Who wants to run a book?

Sentient
Sentient
22 days ago

Totally see it. Some guy will spend 8 hours coming up with flights…

NNN1
NNN1
22 days ago

Good, the bitch will have to work for it.

Yep, thinking about taking her downtown to show her where she can get one…
Of course only to teach her where to get the real thing, definitely not including me paying for that,

I got €10 that says she’ll get a beta chump at work to find her a bottle….

Probably, yes. – We could even make it three or four AFCs in for that there, just guessing of course.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
21 days ago

@NNN1

Yep, thinking about taking her downtown to show her where she can get one…

Have another think about what you’re trying to achieve here..

NNN1
NNN1
20 days ago

Have another think about what you’re trying to achieve here.. I don’t really know… She asked for confirmation for us meeting Saturday evening this week (“So what’s the plan? Saturday eve?”) and the next day I texted: “Exactly that!”. I guess I’ll tell her to show up here again, bang her here and then go do something I want to do. Of course I could also just bang her here and cook something I feel like doing. And then I could do a combination of all of these, but I don’t know – I feel more like having her take… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
20 days ago

And more shittests, just as you predicted. I shrug them off or agree and amplify where I deem funny. Depending on the situation it was easiest to just ignore them and give no answer at all – when in bed just go for a makeout (worked perfectly well till now) Also she kinda loves to be called a little girl lol. Our social circles are not connected but through one girl’s flatshare (those with the Halloween party), her flatmate is in this affairs social circle. Now that social circle seems to be super interested in the affairs intimate life, my… Read more »

Steven
Steven
20 days ago

My wife in past 6 months has become not so interested in sex . She’s 55 and I’m 52. I’ve approached her couple times with what she seems to have an excuse. I know she’s stressed at work and sometimes she drinks and when she’s had to much she becomes more wanting to fight and cuss me out .. We have had sex twice in 6months , I agree most is my fault cause I’ve let her get away with disrespecting me . Before marriage we had lots of sex .. Is this hormonal on her cause I’ve heard her… Read more »

OldTimePoster
OldTimePoster
19 days ago

Steven – welcome to TRM. As a starting point, tell us some more details about you and your wife – what is your experience with women? Is this a recent change? Etc I’m guessing you need a lot more background information before you fully understand what is going on. Start with Rollo’s first book, The Rational Male (or read some content from the Best of Year One posts at the top of this site), and you may also want to read the “Married Man Sex Life Primer” by Athol Kay if it is still available on Amazon Kindle (not sure… Read more »

Steven
Steven
19 days ago
Reply to  OldTimePoster

I have t always had good experience with women. Wasn’t until after my second divorce , both cheated on me that I started learning and researching bout problems I had with relationships.. Women had always cheated on me and I had seen read flags but ignored them . I found Robert Glover who wrote “ No more Mr. Nice Guy “ and realized this book was what I was doing wrong the whole time with relationships . My dad had passed when I was 19, so I had lost confidence a lot in my self .. I’m always reading and… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
19 days ago

[Yep, thinking about taking her downtown to show her where she can get one… Have another think about what you’re trying to achieve here..] The object of the exercise was to put her to work / make her do something to qualify herself to you. It wasn’t expensive but it did require effort to find what you want. So she can’t buy her way out of it by blagging a bottle of £200 something on expenses supposedly for a customer – which is easy for her. She has to work at it. It’s not about the money. Except it’s so… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
19 days ago

The object of the exercise was to put her to work / make her do something to qualify herself to you. It wasn’t expensive but it did require effort to find what you want. I guess telling her to wear a nice dress would also work, right? That’s what I think I’m gonna do this time, maybe coupled with bringing a good white wine. The girl isn’t yet good enough on the wine here. Regarding the shittests: Her asking how many girls I’ve had before, wether I had one this week. Things like that. I didn’t answer – well, once… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
19 days ago

NNN1

Re your AFC homies… I they are homes it will be

Jealous> irritated> angry > resigned> expectant> proud.

Eventually they will take delight in NNN1 doing another one. Share in your success.

NNN1
NNN1
17 days ago

New report, met that older girl again on Saturday. In the week she suggested we could go out this week, her paying the food, me paying the wine – which I suggested earlier on. (don’t wanna spend much on girls, ain’t that guy) So to not loose the frame I told her to wear a nice dress and show up at my place beforehand (which definitely is a bigger detour for her) She agreed to that without any resistance, probably got her ‘gina conditioned on meeting that hawt student anytime she sees the campus. Anyway I banged her pretty straight… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
16 days ago

Nnn1

Great stuff. This is going to be a great learning experience for you.

A woman’s biggest sex organ is her mind. Fuck her mind and her body will follow. This is the go to resource

https://archive.org/details/sex-god-method-2nd-edition.com

Also be worth watching 9 1/2 weeks

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8bNCMcQ_moo

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
16 days ago

@Sentient

Good resources.

I wasn’t actually sure what to advise on that.

Sentient
Sentient
16 days ago

The gold is in the 9 1/2 Weeks comments

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