Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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Puss In Boots
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Puss In Boots

Culum Struan, thanks for the advice….here i a FR: sorry about my poor english. Me: Hi, you look good, hva did you eat? She: hmm burger. me: aha så this is the secret for a hot body, the reason I m aking is my little sister has a really flat ass, like a flat TV, så i call her flat TV, and she want the same curves as you:) she: haha you are so bad. me: thanks for noticing my good qualities, by the way I can see you have beautiful nails, are they real I start knio her hand)… Read more »

Puss In Boots
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Puss In Boots

Sentient, hi, yes, times, but after manny dates….

Puss In Boots
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Puss In Boots

Sentient, yes manny times…but after manny dates…..I can not kiss closs while pick up

Studentofthegame
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Studentofthegame

@ Culum Struan I definitely agree with you. In fact, when I came here I thought it was going to be great since the city is filled with gorgeous women and it is ideal for learning and practicing Game. In my first few weeks here, I met some Indian and Asian people here who played the victim card and droned on about this city and Central and Eastern Europe being racist. That stuck in my head and I know this has been killing my vibe. Before I met these guys, I banged a white girl in my very first week… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Culum I am so happy when you’re commenting…( no homo ) ” The obvious corollary to this of course is that the image you present shouldn’t reinforce the stereotypes about your race (I seem to remember Blackdragon had a some blog posts about this covering different races of men). According to Blackdragon, white guys (in the West) are essentially “blank slates” and can define their own image. Minorities have to be careful not to reinforce the stereotypes about them – so black guys should be careful not to come across as “gangsta”, Indians should not come across as “nerdy dude… Read more »

palmasailor
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palmasailor

Trump flag at the Brexit rally

Just saying

https://imgur.com/gallery/ESlilex

Culum Struan
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Culum Struan

@Blax – thank you! (blushes)! @Puss in Boots – I don’t see anything wrong with your sexualization there. I may not have done it the same way but you clearly had attraction and some level of compliance. I think mainly you just need to slow down. Even your rapport/comfort stuff felt more like attraction to me, and she clearly wasn’t ready for you to go into seduction. You CAN have superfast 10 min pulls and the like – but they involve a lot more screening for DTF girls and when you find a girl who is receptive you sexualize and… Read more »

Puss In Boots
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Puss In Boots

@Culum Struan. Thanks for the feed back. It was night game in a club, but you are sying somthing instresting when you say “I think mainly you just need to slow down. Even your rapport/comfort stuff felt more like attraction to me, and she clearly wasn’t ready for you to go into seduction. I think your attraction stuff was fine but you could have more comfort and gotten her qualifying much more to you and solidified the connection (if you had, she wouldn’t have flaked on the number).” My questiois, how would you build more komfort and connection? is connection… Read more »

j
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j

LR First night going out in 2019. My wing and I arrive at the first club. And immediately notice the unusual empty line. Usually at this time (11:30PM) there is a good amount of people standing on line. So this worries us. Maybe its not worth it tonight, but we take our chances anyway. In front of us are two chicks visiting from another city for the weekend. My wing opens them, as I’m not feeling talkative right now. The fact that both of them were HB6 and HB4.5s didn’t help either. I notice the HB4.5 kept looking over at… Read more »

CFGauss
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CFGauss

Not sure if this is the correct place for this but…

https://www.ibtimes.com/why-prince-harry-cant-tell-meghan-markle-no-amid-royal-family-drama-2751030?utm_source=quora&utm_medium=referral

If the reality is even close to how this is reported, this should be a required case study for anyone interested in inter-gender relations.

Enjoy

Blaximus
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Blaximus
palmasailor
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palmasailor

@CFGauss It’s utterly alien territory to her. She’s in the establishment machine and she’s their bitch now which will be driving her nuts. She has duties she has to perform. Difficult for a narcissistic snowflake. This won’t end well for Harry. It’ll be worse for her. The Royals don’t pay off ex wives. They’re old hands at it. I don’t know how much money Harry has but it’s not much and he can’t get to the proper money so she definitely can’t. She’ll get an old house somewhere to raise the kids on an overdraft just like Fergie. Thinking about… Read more »

SJF
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I skimmed the field report of J. I didn’t actually pay attention. I do recall that J. fucked a girl with no condom in a bar. And then he ran like a band on the run. That sounds like fun. For a moment about sex. And a bid for validation. By others. Nothing wrong with that as a rookie. Well played. It took me a while, a long while for my red pill buddies to convince me: I’ts not all about sex. I’m almost there. (I reconstructed and fuck my wife three times a week. It’s good. I don’t need… Read more »

SJF
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So, by the way, glad you are here J.

You are a good role model for a 27 year old.

We hope you are a good role model when you are 33, 35.

Good luck to you.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

SJF Remember, these younger guys are on a much different timeline/schedule with life. I don’t think anybody really knows how all of this is going to shake out in the end. To me, 27 is old. It’s too old to get started kinda, but I guess guys can get a late start at life – but it’s going to be much harder for the bulk of them. But I will tell you, one thing I’ve learned over the past 10 years is that it is damn near impossible to convince a 25 year old man to actually do stuff to… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Age thing as grandpa… Blax, playing foster dad to your granddaughter is both fun and a pain. It sucks to not have time to do all the shit I would like, but priorities. I’m gaming my granddaughter like it’s nobody’s business and it’s a blast and an education. Even at less than a year, a baby girl is still a girl. Being a grandpa at 45 is a whole lot easier than at 60. And you get to see your great-grandkids. That’s a whole lot easier to see from my perspective now than it was at 22. And I got… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Society tells everyone they don’t have to grow up.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Makes better consumers.

Can’t sell $1,000 phones to <real adults trying to do shit.

SJF
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I was on fire/ignited at 27. If I can do my math right, that was 1988. I had gone to a super good undergrad college. It didn’t cost so much in these days dollars. I went to med school. During my last year in med school, I accidentally left my dome light on in my car in the dead of winter in the last year of med school. I called security at the hospital to jump start my battery. I sat there for 20 minutes watching shift change on the quad. 40 nurses walked by on the way to going… Read more »

SJF
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@ ASD

Awesome dude.

I can’t wait for grand kids.

Not too far away.

palmasailor
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palmasailor

@Blaximus “It’s too old to get started kinda” This^^^ I can remember 27 too. I had bought my first place a few years earlier and it was a wreck. It had no heating so there was ice on the inside of the windows and I was so broke that one night I only had £5 and I had a date. All my underwear was shot and a set of new boxers was gonna wipe out my £5 so I threw them out and went commando on the date. I think I told her the story and I banged her. I… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Palma YES!!! That’s a key point you have about energy that I forgot to include. The endless energy of youth. In my late teens and twenties, I could work 7 days a week, 12-14 hours a day ( doing all kinds of stuff ), and still bang all night without being wrecked the next day. It’s a blessing, one a man can’t appreciate until he gets older. Now I’m in a made where I have no interest at all in burning the candle at both ends. The upside to being busy when in my twenties was that I didn’t have… Read more »

Puss In Boots
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Puss In Boots

He everyone here…. i wonder if you know about any gaming book ot game methond based on the red pill? The rationale male explance the theory, but what about the practice?

palmasailor
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palmasailor

@Blax

“I could work 7 days a week, 12-14 hours a day”

Well that’s two of us that understand then.

When starting my property business I was working a full time job, then another full time job getting the business going out of hours.

That went on for at least 3 years until the business could support me.

In 2008 I lost my shirt and at 39 I had to go back to the work rate I was doing at 29.

It wasn’t pretty, was very touch and go and I nearly didn’t make it.

SJF
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“He everyone here…. i wonder if you know about any gaming book ot game methond based on the red pill? The rationale male explance the theory, but what about the practice?” Manual of Seduction by Franco: How To Meet And Bed Hot Women Kindle Edition by Franco (Author) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B018YAGH4A Heh, This book for men concentrates on teaching you the art of seduction and keeping women attracted to you while in a relationship. If you are a single man looking for the perfect woman, this book will help you understand women’s psychology and the steps necessary to have women interested and… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Field Report for autists; warning, some dancing is involved It’s hard for us autists to read social cues and I’ve described my own difficulties reading them. Things can get better, though, and my experience last night demonstrates that point. I arrived at my favorite bar about 11 and proceeded to do my usual of chatting up some people I know and greeting others and getting hugs from others. I danced some and was chatting with a guy when a girl I didn’t recognize came up to me and asked for a two-step dance. I asked her if we had danced… Read more »

Puss in Boots
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Puss in Boots

SJF…. thank you for the answer…I will read that bokk

Studentofthegame
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Studentofthegame

@ Culum Struan Thanks a ton for the advice. This conversation with you guys has been more helpful and relatable than most PUA products I have watched. I live in a Central European city which has a population of around 2 million plus a fuck ton of tourists that visit the city throughout the year, and I am not that very distinctive as there are Asian and brown people here, so I don’t think that is a problem. Despite that, I don’t generally spam approach. I have never been socially uncalibrated, in fact, if anything, my problem is that I… Read more »

TheMarquis
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TheMarquis

Sentient and SJF thank you, the comments are much appreciated. SJF, you are spot on, she has been saying things recently like how I just “decide to do things without consulting her” and how she feels like a kid asking for my permission to put things in the calendar for herself etc, and basically she wants to be consulted more about things I decide and wants to make joint decisions and discuss things. I’m assuming this is the the “communication” ploy you’re talking about. Although this isn’t new – she has been saying this kind of thing for years, predating… Read more »

theasdgamer
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And my inner game is not very strong

It’s not your fault. (Makes you feel better, doesn’t it?) You were propagandized to believe that men are inferior to women. The bad news? It’s very hard to get rid of that femcentric programming. The good news? You CAN get rid of the programming. Now you have every opportunity to lay around being lazy and feeling sorry for yourself. Or you can get to work and improve yourself and grow the fuck up. The choice is yours.

Studentofthegame
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Studentofthegame

@theasdgamer

I am not here to complain and I am very well aware that I have to take action (which I am doing btw) to get to wherever I want to be. What I am discussing on here with Culum is what I struggle with and the KIND of actions that would be best suited to overcome the issues I am facing.

If you have any suggestions in this regard, I would appreciate it.

theasdgamer
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Student, my recommendations are: 1) Know yourself; study the advantages of being a man relative to women, especially a traditional, masculine man. Muscles. Strength. Risk-taking. More energy. More stamina. Maybe more intelligent than women. Know your weaknesses and how you can improve. Remember, the easiest person to fool is yourself. Look to others to help you avoid fooling yourself even if your ego takes a blow. 2) Improve yourself. If you want help here, don’t be afraid to admit your weaknesses. Expect to receive blows and become tough. 3) Study women’s behavior. Watch their body language and facial expressions when… Read more »

Bryan Nash
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Bryan Nash

Hey. Recently Red Pill aware, unfortunately in my 40’s. Thanks though. You’re right, you see it everywhere once aware. Just saw a Prudential commercial claiming: “4 out of 5 women will have to be responsible for their finances.” Ha. What a travesty.

Sentient
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Sentient

Marquis -Even better, a couple of weeks ago we had a really good session and she came multiple times. After that she clung to me and pretty much wouldn’t let go for a while and said “that was the best sex I’ve ever had..I didn’t even know I could do that”. She was “glowing” for ages after that. Even the next day she randomly brought it up and said something like “no man has ever made me come like that before”. Keep in mind she’s saying this after we’ve been together for TEN years… Competition dynamic is very close. Very… Read more »

Sentient
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Sentient

Marquis

And a sliver of “Fuck HIm Back Into Orbit”…

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