Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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kfg
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kfg

” . . . in the past at 18 one was expected to stop being a child.” That would be 16. At the latest. Elements of this are still found in law if not culture. Operate a motor vehicle on public roads, leave mandatory schooling, take full time employment, and in some (first world) locales even get married without parental permission. The association of childhood with being under 18 only began to take hold after WWII and only became generally conceived of in that way since the 70s. More traditionally childhood was held to end with puberty and the modern… Read more »

j
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j

“expected to stop being a child”. “The association of childhood with being under 18 only began to take hold after WWII and only became generally conceived of in that way since the 70s. More traditionally childhood was held to end with puberty and the modern concept of “teenager” did not exist. That is a product of the modern High School, which was thought of more as a public college, attended by young adults seeking to become professionals, not children, until after WWI.” Expected by who? society? hmm what’s that term, where you are expected to follow the rules of society.… Read more »

j
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j
j
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j

Via r/MGTOW:

“The Red Pill is the collection of knowledge about male and female nature.

Mgtow is one of 3 main reactions to this collection:

advocate for change (MRA)
exploit the system (PUA)
abandon the system (MGTOW)”

theasdgamer
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“The Red Pill is the collection of knowledge about male and female nature.Mgtow is one of 3 main reactions to this collection:

advocate for change (MRA)
exploit the system (PUA)
abandon the system (MGTOW)”

Is Rollo doing any of these?

Centuries
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Centuries

Understands and Manages in the Matrix (Red Pill)

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

j is throwing false choice tantrums now. I swear he’s 14.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Lol. Nah, he’s doing exactly what I said young men are trained to do, find excuses to avoid being men and embracing masculinity. I never said shit about ‘ society ‘, but that’s how he filters.

Men trained men. Iron sharpens iron. Masculinity inherently understands it’s not about women and what they say. J can’t distinguish between what men are at the core, and what media and society says at any given time.

That’s the disconnect.

401k????

Point well missed.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Cue sentient’s dpa.

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

“with some hoe”

j: Biitchez man!

j
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j

“find excuses to avoid being men and embracing masculinity.”

nope….I’m just….doing whatever I want whenever I want to do It ™ 😉

Blaximus
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Blaximus

You do this after becoming a man. No shortcuts. Kids aren’t allowed to do whatever they want with good reason.

Pay the cost to be the boss.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

” Via r/MGTOW:

“The Red Pill is the collection of knowledge about male and female nature.

Mgtow is one of 3 main reactions to this collection:

advocate for change (MRA)
exploit the system (PUA)
abandon the system (MGTOW)” ”

Lmfao.

4th reaction: Think for yourself and fuck being a ” joiner “.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Clarification: PUA does not exploit the ” system ” at all.

Lol, that’s why guys think they are doing because somebody said that’s what they are doing .

PUA cooperates with the system in trade for sex in a woman’s frame. Playing dress up.

theasdgamer
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J isn’t even asking important questions.

Lol. Nah, he’s doing exactly what I said young men are trained to do, find excuses to avoid being men and embracing masculinity. I never said shit about ‘ society ‘,

That was me, as a corollary to the Platinum Rule. J used it to hamsterbate up a diversion. Excuses. He wants to take the easy way out as long as it feeeeeelz guuuuud. And he can pretend that he’s “being a man.”

Sentient
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Sentient

Blax The disconnect re J is here pretty boy looks w/ masculine traits: http://nymag.com/daily/intel/24_gossipboys_lg.jpg He simply has no idea what ‘masculinity” is… It’s more than just “masculinity and frame”. In the Vice piece, she talks about how she grew up in the 90s fantasizing about Tommy Lee Jones in MIB, Harvey Keitel in Pulp Fiction and Bruce Willis in Die Hard Goes on to cite three characters with masculine frames… and flippers of attraction switches smh… Attraction Switches 1. Preselection (implies others) 2. Leader of Men 3. Protector of Loved Ones 4. Ability to emote 5. Successful risk taker J… Read more »

fleezer
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fleezer

“PUA cooperates with the system in trade for sex in a woman’s frame. ”

this.

feminism aligns with pua

pua chads are expendable

remember…

yareally used to eat slut pussy

remember…

there are sluts with triple digit ns who do not suck cock

the bj tells much, and to quote some motherfucker…

“if she don’t suck on command she already has one foot out the door”

Sentient
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Sentient

Fleezer

A BJ tells much indeed, but her swallowing tells even more.

fleezer
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fleezer

“TPR is an aid to developing YOUR MPoO. It does not “guarantee” that YOUR MPoO will be “good”, or successful for you… It WILL be YOURS however.”

lol. wouldn’t trade mpoos with j for all the tea in china

fleezer
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fleezer

“but her swallowing tells even more.”

and what she swallows tells more than that…

morning load = thick, chunky, “cummy”

if she eating that at 5 am before she gets out of bed…

game her even harder because she’s a piece

news bitch on nbc, paula something, says her hubby can hit it any time he wants as long as he don’t make her late for work

but that’s not a bj

big difference

newlyaloof
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These debates remind me of this:

j
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j

“Kids aren’t allowed to do whatever they want with good reason.” Not a kid. No one decides what I’m allowed to do except me. “PUA does not exploit the ” system ” at all” Exploit – to use a situation so that you get benefit from it, even if it is wrong or unfair to do this Whats currently going on in society wrt feminism, independent womyn and hookup culture. Aight smart guy, now put 1 and 1 together. “he can pretend that he’s “being a man.”” Nope just not doing what society expects me to be and do with… Read more »

Sentient
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Sentient

J

“Allowed” doesn’t mean what you think it does.

theasdgamer
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Put the feminine Zayn malik with the super masculine Mel Gibson in front of a room of 18-21 year old girls and tell me who girls would be much rather fuck.

[opening the envelope…] “Sean Penn!”

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3826229/Meet-Sean-Penn-s-24-year-old-girlfriend-Leila-George.html

theasdgamer
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Blaximus
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Blaximus

If I wanted more money, I could rob banks or people. It wouldn’t be in my better interest if I got caught. I guess I could amass massive firepower and try to kill everyone that posed a threat… lol. ” Not a kid. No one decides what I’m allowed to do except me. ” Not true, or you couldn’t follow the dozen pua guys and forums stuff you post up. You do what you want with restrictions, false understanding, and within the feminine frame because others encourage this and it get’s you what you want, but not what you need.… Read more »

j
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j

@ASDgwker

“Just in case you were wondering about Mel…”

Cool. Nothing to do with my statement .

“Sean Penn!”

[Insert any masculine old fuck] with [Insert less masculine young pretty boy/male model] , in a room full of prime mentally healthy (no daddy issues) 18 year old girls. Who are the overwhelming amount of girls going to want to fuck?

theasdgamer
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Blax, I bet your STD count is lower than J’s.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

what the fuck is a zayn malik btw?

Lmao.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

” [Insert any masculine old fuck] with [Insert less masculine young pretty boy/male model] , in a room full of prime mentally healthy (no daddy issues) 18 year old girls. Who are the overwhelming amount of girls going to want to fuck?” Lol. Jealousy paired with misunderstanding mechanics is a feminine trait usually. Fact: You don’t really understand 18 year old girls. You understand what you’ve read. This means you are unable to distinguish fact from false guesswork. If around one, you have a script you follow,and you lack an ability to read them beyond the bedroom – meaning you… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Women of all ages settle for >I>less masculine males in the absence of masculine ones.

They still wanna fuck.

…the dildo until they run into a real man…

I keep hearing that girls want confidence…they say it…and I see them lose interest if a man lacks confidence…and I’ve seen one dump a low-confidence bodybuilder…I’ve heard them say that they have to approach a man because he lacks confidence…and she will…but she prefers a man with real confidence…

J, you’re a confidence man, not a man with real confidence because you base your idea of manhood on getting pussy. Pussy is just pussy.

echo
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echo

”[Insert any masculine old fuck] with [Insert less masculine young pretty boy/male model] , in a room full of prime mentally healthy (no daddy issues) 18 year old girls. Who are the overwhelming amount of girls going to want to fuck?”

Sean Penn vs Jordan Barrett in a room full of mentally healthy 18 year olds is a funny thought.
Penn gets killed lol

Blaximus
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Blaximus

” Sean Penn vs Jordan Barrett …” How do you guys know these people?

echo
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echo

@blax -haha! I actually knew you’d say that. My brothers girlfriend is obsessed with him so he’s the first one that came to mind lol

theasdgamer
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” Sean Penn vs Jordan Barrett …” How do you guys know these people?

Jordan is Echo’s idol. lol, even when I was a kid, I didn’t see women going nuts over James Dean, who seems emotional and effeminate to me.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

My brothers girlfriend is obsessed with him so he’s the first one that came to mind lol”

Okay, because only chicks would really concern themselves with this stuff.

echo
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echo

probably. Whatever. I don’t care tbh. Everyone seems so insecure about their masculinity in here! haha. J’s right though lol

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Insert jpg of projector here ——>

Sentient
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Sentient

Blax

“Are you homophobic or something j?”

I think the correct construction is homophyllic…

But i defer to J and Echo’s superior experience in these matters.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

” I think the correct construction is homophyllic…

But i defer to J and Echo’s superior experience in these matters.”

Oh shit…. Lmao.

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

“When I don’t cum inside them, as I’m about to unload, I make her swallow.”

This is Howard Hughes queerness, piss-in~jars idiocy. He’s such a fraud even his lunacy isn’t believably original. Gamma has never known no equal as j.

j best not leave now, my material is getting better by the day.

When j shows us his casino-top lair protected by the militant LDS, maybe I’ll take some of it back.

j
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j

@echo

“Everyone seems so insecure about their masculinity in here!”

Legit. When they wrong all they got is retarded insults. Old man cope. Sad!

Anonymous Reader
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Anonymous Reader

Wait a minute, Sean Penn is still alive? Learn something new every day…

Blaximus
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Blaximus

” When they wrong ….”

Lol. Still waiting for that day to come.

Sentient
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Sentient

This phrase

“Everyone seems so insecure about their masculinity”

Is only ever said by the Queer, or soon to be Queer…

Just look at the formulation for starters.

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

“Retarded insults”

Youngster man-child takin’ the high road now.

The end begins.

theasdgamer
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J is correct that you can get laid as a pretty boy. And girls will ooh and ahh over pretty boys because that’s the socially correct thing–after all, men like pretty girls so girls should like pretty boys because equalism. But, the question is, does the window of attraction last very long? Does it last long enough to raise kids to adulthood? Because if it doesn’t, that doesn’t bode well for your kids. None of us older guys feel the least threatened about our masculinity (well, maybe Blax does, a little bit, because “#notahomo”…shit-eating-grin). I’ll relay an appropriate FR here.… Read more »

j
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j

@theasdgamer

“The guys’ looks aren’t what keeps the girl’s interest…it’s his ability to lead…she’ll talk commitment being important, but it’s more about leadership….”

Yup no disagreement. Looks aren’t as important in LTRs as SNLs (which is what I’m interested in). After the SNL, you gotta have strong Relationship Game.

mersonia
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@theasdgamer

“. The point her is that I chose the more “hands on” masculine route rather than the less “hands on” feminine route to fill the tires. It took more time and was a little more trouble, but that was part of the fun for me. And I was pretty sure when the tires were full because of the more readable gauge.”

And you still have to ask for permission to use her car lol.

theasdgamer
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@J

The pretty boys are getting dumped over and over…or the girls start acting up to test leadership and then the boys Next them because the boys lack confidence and leadership ability.

Young women know I’m married and still hit on me…maybe they are looking to be plates that I spin? Maybe they want the leadership I bring, even if there’s no commitment? They sure as hell aren’t gonna get me to divorce my wife.

kfg
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kfg

“I drove Mrs. Gamer to her event and came home and took care of the tires, then returned in her vehicle to pick her up.” The correct order was to fill the tires and then drive her. After that the next best was to drive her out, return home and then fill the tires just before you left to pick her up. The accuracy of the gauge is irrelevant if your procedure precludes accuracy. When filling at a gas station measure the pressure before you leave home, measure again with the same gauge when you get to the station. Subtract… Read more »

j
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@theasdgamer

“then the boys Next them because the boys lack confidence and leadership ability”

Aight so point them to Rollo’s material or at the very least try and Red Pill them yourself. Show some leadership, yo!

theasdgamer
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The correct order was to fill the tires and then drive her.

I drove Mrs. Gamer to her event in my pickup because of time.

@j

There are plenty of pretty boy players in the bar, but the blonde was more interested in me. A LTR is out and she knows it. And I’m no pretty boy. So why the interest?

theasdgamer
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@j

Aight so point them to Rollo’s material or at the very least try and Red Pill them yourself. Show some leadership, yo!

That’s not the sort of convo to have on a Fri. night at a bar. I’d have to get their numbers and invite them out for a beer and shooting the shit during the week. Maybe I’ll do that. I expect to hear the “I get pussy, so pussy validates my argument” sort of shit.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

” Aight so point them to Rollo’s material or at the very least try and Red Pill them yourself. Show some leadership, yo!”

Lots of young men resist leadership unless it is gynocentric in some fashion.

The exceptions being young men that join the military of their own accord, and complete basic training.

Show me one movement of 25 year old and younger men that doesn’t involve sports or video gaming.

I’ll wait here.

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

“Aight so point them to Rollo’s material or at the very least try and Red Pill them yourself. Show some leadership, yo!”

j: Im’s a loser who like to distract the conversation!

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

Until proven different j is a acne-plagued, just-graduated-still-in mama’s-house, chubby, PUA-site-addicted, boy-band-hating, daddy-issued chump.

“One can fool some men, or fool all men in some places and times, but one cannot fool all men in all places and ages.”

kfg
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kfg

“I drove Mrs. Gamer to her event in my pickup because of time.”

There ya go.

j
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j

“Lots of young men resist leadership unless it is gynocentric in some fashion” Yeah they gotta ask for help then they’ll listen. They won’t listen to unsolicited advice (like me). So my advice (lol) to @theasdgamer would be to prop the guys first on all the girls they pull. Then be like “how many girlfriends you got fighting for you?” If they like “they don’t want a relationship with me 🙁 ” (aka they WANT to keep those girls around post bang but can’t) THEN help them out. “The exceptions being young men that join the military of their own… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

” lol majority of those guys are mad beta wrt women tho”

Good thing the world actually doesn’t revolve around women, or that soldiers won’t face battalions of chicks on the battle fields.

j
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j

@blax

Yup. thankful for those brainwashed blue pill betas 🙏

theasdgamer
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J, maybe ask, “How many girls have you had to Next because they were too bitchy?” or “It’s easy to get laid, but the problem is avoiding getting dumped.”

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

j: I’ve nothing in experience so I make it up. Why not riff on the military? I don’t know anyone who’s served so probably no one here either.

j
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j

@theasdgamer

Now you’re thinking 😉

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

I only just noticed j’s icon even tries too much. Sup playa.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Lol. Again, I have nothing at all against J. That’s my man ( no homo ) right there. plus, I am genetically incapable of playa hatin’ ( except in the case of actual pimps. I don’t consider them ” playas “. ) J had a problem and he took action to resolve it. Can’t knock that even a little bit. Props. The thing is, he’s insatiable for particular information, and adverse to internalization. Get rid of his internet access and he might wither away. The hope is that one day he will step away from Asswipe forum, or whatever it’s… Read more »

CatchersIndifference
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CatchersIndifference

Why do so many people hammer @j? He’s following his own path, seems happy with what he’s got going on, and is a contributor to the forum of useful information.

While it may seem he lacks foresight, what guy in his 20’s has that in abundance? Sure, becoming really good at SNL’s / ONS’s does not prepare him well for LTR but seems to serve his purpose for the time being.

Yes, he trolls his detractors but I don’t get the hate.

Also, hello all, been a while!

CatchersIndifference
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CatchersIndifference

The hope is that one day he will step away from Asswipe forum, or whatever it’s called, and go forth with internalized understanding and actual knowledge. There always comes a time when the student has to stand on his own and prosper, if he’s been well taught.

What does this look like in practical terms? What does prospering look like to you?

j
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j

Aight final update on this chick (inb4 nobody gives a shit lol):

https://imgur.com/a/vbjVcya

Textbook example of my texting process, on how I meet girls post SNL (without having to “get a drink” with them out in public. Just lol @ 3 date rule), which I described here:

https://newlyaloof.wordpress.com/2018/10/22/js-game-snippets/

@Catchers

“but I don’t get the hate”.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Hey Catchers. When I speak.of ‘ prospering ‘ , what It looks.like to me is 1) not choosing to stand still in whatever one chooses to do/accomplish in lige, and 2) Seeing just what one can actually do with the short life he has. And 3) exercising your independence. Imo, this is how.men do some amazing shit. Complacency is okay…when your 60. Personally I don’t think pua is a.permanent way of life for 99% of men. So I do not ‘ hate ‘ on j, but I stress to him that the internet forum concerning pussy and pickup and all… Read more »

theasdgamer
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When I speak.of ‘ prospering ‘ , what It looks.like to me is 1) not choosing to stand still in whatever one chooses to do/accomplish in lige

Whatever you do, don’t sign any corporate emails with “Regards”…’g’ and ‘t’ are too close together…

theasdgamer
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So last night I decided to bust a move…I opened one girl with, “You wanna go to my truck?” She just sat there, a deer in the headlights…her gears turning…never said a word or turned away…lol…so much fun just messing with people…

A very lovely raven-haired girl (makeup! lol) I’ve danced with before asked me to dance…and she wanted to go to my truck…it was too late…married guy has to go home…I flaked while she was in the restroom…lol…

j
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j

“Personally I don’t think pua is a.permanent way of life for 99% of men.” A pickup artist is one who uses specialized tactics to seduce women So you’re saying you personally feel that, going through life as a single man (Vs a married man), having non committal relations with women is not something you approve of for the vast majority of men? Even though you and other OMGs have gone through great lengths, repeatedly saying “I’m not telling you what you should do with your life. I just want you to think”. “Yareally said he was going to find a… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
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Anonymous Reader

If this section was meant for readers to find FR’s and learn from them it has long ceased to be useful in that sense, it’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack looking for an actual FR here.

echo
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echo

Need beg yareally to come back lol. I don’t think people value the advice that’s currently available in terms of cold approach pickup on hot young girls

ps – where is @scars and @culum. Them 2 (plus @J) seemed to be the only ones posting ‘actual’ FR’s but they’ve gone awol

boulderhead
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You boys need to get out and develop your own FR’s. Waaay back 47 years ago I had 2 close friends,we would run the woods and fields on the edge of town with our bb guns. Some times tom’s dad would take us hunting rabbits with the 4.10 22 over under,sometimes phils dad would come out in his bathrobe and say,boys you know what’s for dinner? rubber tits and liquor,Ha Ha Ha,keep your powder dry Brrrpt theres some white gas for your mower. At school they had these huge swing sets, Mary and I were swinging side by side,it was… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Damn j, you can’t understand outside of pickup.😠

Blaximus
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Blaximus

So now you want to tell me what ya said? I heard a whole months worth. We.went back and forth, a.dozen of us, with ya. I’ll tell you what I told him, I am not an.advocate for marriage. I.didn’t mention marriage. I.still say pua has a very, very high failure rate. I personally don’t care what random men decide to do with their lives. Yareally failed at his relationship attempt. Ergo he believed all men would fail, and it didn’t make.sense. That’s not rational, but fuck it, it you’re mentally soft then that’s who you are. I’m not a fan… Read more »

theasdgamer
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J has a hammer…works fine on screws…but I have a question for J (which applies to other single men, too).

How is J gonna avoid winning a Darwin Award?

boulderhead
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46 years back the main competition for boys at our school was tether ball,if you could win at that you were a bad ass top dog. The girls would jump rope or hop scotch and the boys would play catch and hand ball but the crowds would gather to watch a tether ball match. It was like a fistfight with a medium,if you could bring it back from three or four wraps that was something to be proud of as the ball was really moving fast. The way to win was hit the ball so hard at an angle the… Read more »

j
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j

@AR “it’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack looking for an actual FR here”. I think of this (rather than posting on Rollo’s OPs) is more a fun place to talk about chicks. Whether its seeking advice, sharing observations/anecdotes, concerns, or feedback. There are some guys here who would much rather give advice/argue, than share their own FRs. @echo “where is @scars” @scars messaged me on NextASF, that he was done posting FRs here, because he didn’t feel there was anything he could learn here about cold approach pickup. I believe he said his sticking with NextASF… Read more »

CatchersIndifference
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CatchersIndifference

FR Last night was a good night out. The girl I dated a year ago was there with her best friend and likely still single at nearly 41. She was definitely aware of where I was and what I was doing but I didn’t pay her much attention and danced the whole night. I didn’t know she was there until her and her friend group stopped directly in my field of view 10 ft away as the crowd is waiting for the next band to start. I’m sure that wasn’t on purpose 😉 Fast forward to near the end of… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Like Friday’s girl, (not to brag) after banging here 6+ times

I’m in the thousands with Mrs. Gamer…two kids to show for it, lol…and a grandkid…you understand the point of sex, right?

theasdgamer
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I took ya’s side here (as did @scribbs), because this lifestyle was more appealing to me, rather than being “forced” to follow his path.

…scribbs already has kids…

Sentient
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Sentient

Sedfast forum has done this since it started. Mods wanna keep modding. Little fish seeking smaller ponds. Ghey

Sentient
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Sentient

Catchers

Think about why you didn’t act…

That why is going to keep coming up in lot’s of different ways.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

J Anne my lifestyle is more appealing to me ( but I have Game and a measure of masculinity ( I think )) . Personally I think certain things as a man, but as I’ve stated 10,000 times men have to ultimately live their own lives as they see fit, and live with those consequences if they can’t make their choices rewarding over the longer haul. I only pushback against the ” no man can ” stuff. You already know why I don’t see how tactics as a long term strategy, and it has absolutely nothing at all to do… Read more »

j
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j

“you understand the point of sex, right?” There was a comment on Heartiste’s (maybe someone can find it) a long time ago about how there was zero correlation between how many kids one have and how alpha you are. Like how there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate. And something about how a Tiger (or some other alpha animal) doesn’t know that banging that female tiger will result in kids, all he knows is that, he wants to fuck the shit… Read more »

kfg
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kfg

” . . . there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate.”

Do we have the DNA tests?

j
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j

@blax https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-71319-post-1887700.html#pid1887700 @catchers “What I should have done was hold her hand on the way up to eat, sit closer to her while eating” nah. next time just get the food to-go, then pull her back to your place to “see your dog” in this instance. See some girls after eating, feel bloated/not sexy anymore. and kind of lose that urge to fuck. As for the friend, you should have built basic comfort with her friend in the bar, and while on the line. I mean she doesn’t want to cockblock you. She’s just there because she doesn’t want her… Read more »

theasdgamer
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There was a comment on Heartiste’s (maybe someone can find it) a long time ago about how there was zero correlation between how many kids one have and how alpha you are. …so obviously, inflating your ego is more important than winning the reproduction lottery… Like how there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate. …Ok, so you maybe understand the point of sex…assuming you’re not just using your n-count to boost your ego…but is your game good enough to be able… Read more »

j
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j

“…so obviously, inflating your ego is more important than winning the reproduction lottery…” Nah. Not working more hours than I have to (just enough to support myself), being able to go where I want when I want to (no, “but J what about da kids!!!” – from da wife), no having to exercise self-constraint against my natural desires whenever I see a chick hotter than my wife (https://imgur.com/a/QV6ATma). And if I do want to sleep with another girl behind my wife’s back, I can do so freely out in public VS having to sneak around so I don’t risk getting… Read more »

theasdgamer
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FR, with some lessons learned Went to a new country bar Sat. night. Didn’t know what to expect, so I didn’t have a lot of comfort going in. I was a little apprehensive. When I got there, I found that I knew a few people, but not many. They were older. I danced with maybe ten different girls. About half were 50+. Several hotties turned me down. One mid-20s girl kept dancing near me during a line dance. Married and wanted to dance with me and learn the line dances by watching me from a close vantage point. She had… Read more »

theasdgamer
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yeah..because you’re totally successfully doing that Well, I could say that I’m successful and be lying. Or I could say that I’m not banging other broads and be lying because social media and frivorce rape. I ran into logistical issues Fri. night–girl wanted to check in with her friend before heading to my truck. I waited five minutes while she was in the restroom, then headed home. I don’t want to be out late to keep drama low. Nothing might have happened even if she went in my truck. She made a point of telling me that she was single.… Read more »

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

“Like how there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate.”

These are my choices? Well hell!

j, assclown guru to the PUA community.

j
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j

“I waited five minutes while she was in the restroom, then headed home”. because that way, you can still tell yourself, IF only I would have waited a bit longer (you could have, Idk, talked to someone else in the bar, like the bartender while you waited for her….nobody said you gotta stand there waiting outside the restroom for her like a chode “what’s taking her so long? fuck this” lol) she would have wanted to bang. BUT GEE DON’T KNOW MAN. I HAD TO GO CAUSE I DON’T WANT TO BE OUT TOO LATE (something I never have to… Read more »

EhIntellect
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EhIntellect

“something I never have to worry about”

As j, interminably staring at the ceiling of his childhood bedroom, obviates it.

kfg
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kfg

How do we know that Chad has no kids, and how do we know that Beta Bucks has any? Just because Chad doesn’t claim any and BB does?

j
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j

@kfg

“How do we know that Chad has no kids”

Well if he does, he’s not raising it or paying child support.

“how do we know that Beta Bucks has any?”

Well if it’s not his, he’s still raising Chad’s kid and working overtime now to support it.

theasdgamer
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girl: yeah but like now he wants me to go to his truck. like wtf? friend: huh? like why? girl: I don’t know. but like I don’t want to be mean to him cause he’s a nice guy. what should I do? Probably more like this: girl: This guy wants me to go to his truck? Should I go? friend: I dunno. Do you even like the guy? girl: Yeah, but I don’t know him very well. He’s kind of sexy. friend: Would you go home with him? girl: I don’t know. friend: Is he safe? [Hint: Maybe he’s a… Read more »

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