Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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Blaximus
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No, I told you to go and look.
Those are professional, but shitty makeup jobs. Lol.

Gals have upped their game.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Test again😕

having a bad day
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having a bad day

@j “i want men to have a chance to actually SEE what is right in front of you… do you ever just ‘look’ at girls when you are just out living your life?… and actually SEE what is there?…” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcwN9fNw7N4&t= https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmxaN8g2XNA Hideous!!!!! lol… did watching those makeup videos give you NO insight into sarging HB9+s?…lol… i mean REALLY?…lol spot the zits on Taylor Hill…lol… (6:40 and 7:36 show up pretty well…)… and did you SEE those cold sores?…(or she got burned by the crack pipe…lol)…uhhh!…lol… and notice how that makeup really emphasizes the wrinkles under her eyes…lol… we should start… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

The only ” foundation ” most men grasp is the one their house sits on.

theasdgamer
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There’s a commercial for air-spray foundation that I always enjoy watching…before and after images….

Sentient
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Sentient

FYI – NewlyAloof mentioned the “Book of Yareally” here is a link from West Indian Archie’s site:

http://www.mediafire.com/file/v97p3rhw9hanot2/Book+of+YaReally.pdf

j
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j

@HABD hmmm. I guess I don’t really mind a couple of zits on a girls face. I think if I just instantly like a girl’s face, (without makeup, Taylor Hill is still very beautiful to me) which include: the shape of her eyes, color of her eyes (for me it’s green and brown, as my #1,2, respectively), facial bone structure, full lips (not Kylie Jenner lips), I can tell she’d still be beautiful underneath the makeup. Like in @blax’s video he shared above @3:52 pm, if you pause at the the 2:55 and the 6:02 mark, those girl’s faces are… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

“holy shiiiit she’s so fucking hot, man!!!”

Lmao.

No woman is that hot really.

Just a ….

Blaximus
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Blaximus

The thing is, a lot of women want you to fall down and worship at the alter of hotness. They want you to think that of them.
Many relish it.

But…

None respect it, or love it, or submit to it. Eva.

There are special designations for the worshippers: Beta. Orbiter. Chump.

theasdgamer
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The thing is, a lot of women want you to fall down and worship at the alter of hotness. They want you to think that of them.
Many relish it.

Every woman wants validation and it’s part of a relationship. But how you give that validation can make your validation more valuable than the validation of a chump. Say you do it in the manner of a lord giving a gift to his lady vs. a chump worshipping at a pussy pedestal.

j
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j

@blax “The thing is, a lot of women want you to fall down and worship at the alter of hotness. They want you to think that of them. Many relish it.” I know broski…..Just wanna bang dem hot women Vs dem not hot women. know what i’m sayin 😉 “Say you do it in the manner of a lord giving a gift to his lady vs. a chump worshipping at a pussy pedestal”. or very simply: only compliment her when she does things for you. and reward her, when she changes her bad behavior for you. So that, she’s conditioned,… Read more »

theasdgamer
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validation is given freely, not as a reward, although generally it’s given during and after the bang…don’t confuse relationship maintenance with dog training

j
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j

“validation is given freely, not as a reward”

In seduction, validation given freely, not earned, will result in these:

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@j @HABD hmmm. I guess I don’t really mind a couple of zits on a girls face. neither do i…lol… my goal (and Blaximus’ too…) is to get you (and the other YSGs and some OSGs and maybe some OMGs too…lol) to actually SEE what is right in front of you… and the FIRST step is to SEE past the makeup… that’s actually the easiest/hardest part…lol… it’s easy bc it’s just ‘looking past teh paint’…lol… and it’s hard bc in order to do THAT you have to actually see past your social conditioning that girls are always ‘truthful’…lol… seeing girls… Read more »

j
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j

little bit of some late nite texting 😉 :

https://imgur.com/a/vbjVcya

(my last text was me setting it up for HER to invite me over, either the next few days or some time next week, rather than me initiating the meetup)

Anonymous Reader
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Trans-ageism game. Age is just a number, ya know? https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/11/07/dutch-man-69-identifies-20-years-younger-launches-legal-battle/ “When I’m on Tinder and it say I’m 69, I don’t get an answer. When I’m 49, with the face I have, I will be in a luxurious position. “Transgenders can now have their gender changed on their birth certificate, and in the same spirit there should be room for an age change.” The Dutchman said he is discriminated against because of his age, and that he encounters problems in society on a daily basis. The court is due to deliver a written ruling within four weeks. This is even… Read more »

DisgruntledEarthling
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@AR – man that fits me so well – I was discussing that just a couple weeks ago. A 40yo trapped in 59.5yo body. Tragedy. If they can legally change ‘gender’ why not age?

/s

IAS
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IAS

@Anonymous Reader: re: Argentina “woman” retiree…

First I laughed.

Then I thought: that is actually quite a good idea just to mess up the system. Not sure I would do it myself if I could though…

Interesting to think about…

@DisgrutledEarthling: and then, after reading DE’s riff on it, I realized this has one particular danger Rollo has mentioned. This can easily be a step in the direction of “legalizing” certain kinds of pedophilia – a “teenager” in an adult’s body, gets legally shifted to be a legal teenager, no longer statutory rape.

DisgruntledEarthling
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DisgruntledEarthling

“This can easily be a step in the direction of “legalizing” certain kinds of pedophilia”

Yeah, I don’t know how to respond to that. On one hand that statement can be seen as the FI hand on your should making sure older men man-up to the older women and on the other the pedo aspect slippery road. Both type of people have been in existence forever and different cultures have handled them in various ways I guess.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

As a father of 2 girls, and godfather to many more, pedophilia isn’t really an FI thing in the whole. There are quite a number of dudes out there that don’t have an ” age restriction ” mentality. From my perspective, the number is high enough to signal some kind of problem. But it’s one of those things that a man doesn’t notice until he has daughters and something ugly happens with an older man that should know better. This is why I’m not a huge fan of the constant chant of ” younger, hotter, tighter ” shit in the… Read more »

kfg
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kfg

“On one hand that statement can be seen as the FI hand on your should making sure older men man-up to the older women and on the other the pedo aspect slippery road.” The issue resolves itself when you note a phenomenon which all traditional cultures have taken into account: Puberty. This worked every where and every when until late Victorian London moralists decided to fuck up (as it were) a perfectly functioning, reality based, system, over issues that, for the most part, only existed in Victorian London* but nevertheless got promoted well beyond those confines in both time and… Read more »

kfg
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kfg

” . . . a man of a particular time, place and class doesn’t notice . . .”

It has been a non issue for most fathers of daughters, most of the time.

DisgruntledEarthling
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DisgruntledEarthling

That’s why I mentioned ” different cultures” and times in my comment. Today’s culture is strict in it’s definition on sexual coming-of-age but there’s been a high level of variability in the past depending on the time and location of the culture.
But yeah, like Blax I have 2 older daughters. I struggle with this aspect in my own life.

kfg
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kfg

” . . . there’s been a high level of variability in the past depending on the time and location of the culture.”

No, there really hasn’t. It has invariably revolved around puberty. Note that the traditional marriageable age in Christian society is 12.

Sentient
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Sentient

Red Pill Truths are Red Pill Truths…

EhIntellect
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The social formalization of just-pubescent sex was created as women at any age aren’t considered freewilling actors in the sexual process. Saying they are is high-minded but benighted and tends to social decay. DISCLAIMER: I am not judging anyone here. Blax wrote about all the women he’s shagged with religious symbolism nearby as if any of that symbolism was a prohibition of sex outright. We’re supposed to fuck. It’s just recommended by certain religions to be done under certain circumstances for the best outcome for the woman, man and potential children and downstream the neighborhoods, cities……. The more you have… Read more »

boulderhead
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Is pedophilia an FI issue? If you consider that certain religions accept it as the norm as their prophet leaders did before them,and certain feminists support and promote those religions obllivios to what they represent,and certain men support those women also oblivious to their motivations. Pedophilia does seem to have FI roots.

kfg
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kfg

“Abandon those principles enough and motus in fine velocior.” In Rome legal marriage was a privilege of the aristocracy. The Plebes did not have estates, so their breeding was simply “animal” and of no particular interest to the State. It was shortly after marriage being extended to the Plebes (by Christians) that Rome fell. Our own traditions for handling such social issues is fatally broken, although our traditions are not at all what most people suppose them to be (the faux 50s having become a sort of religion), and they are not broken symmetrically. Where they give some advantage to… Read more »

kfg
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kfg

“Is pedophilia an FI issue?” It destroys the Patriarchy if it isn’t something that men oversee (by black letter law motherhood is inherently sexual abuse, so women are not held to the same standard as men, no matter the letter of the law). ” . . . religions accept it as the norm as their prophet leaders did before them . . .” I am no particular supporter of those religions, but cannot help but note that marriage there and then meant something very different than it does here and now and has no connection to pedophilia. Which does not… Read more »

j
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j

Update:

https://m.imgur.com/a/vbjVcya

“setting it up for HER to invite me over, either the next few days or some time next week”

Did I call it or did I call it?

This is how its done boyz

mersonia
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@Foxguy148 “The problem to solve for here is that the kid will not go out with a bang, but will most likely suffer for many years due to the poor decisions women, this is a dangerous game,” Someone always gets hurts and you can’t control how things are going to play out….. You can only put your best foot forward . It’s vanity thinking that keeping them from getting hurt is the right move. ” I can still tell if the wrong woman gets a hold of him it’s over man. These two are what would be considered mysogonistic by… Read more »

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Someone always gets hurts and you can’t control how things are going to play out….. You can only put your best foot forward . It’s vanity thinking that keeping them from getting hurt is the right move. also…back to getting hurt…I got hurt in fights…got bullied…went through a painful breakup…got fired…several times, lol, I’m autistic…it only made me stronger…I learned to make lemonade from lemons…you get beat up, you take boxing lessons and other martial arts…you get better at dealing with bullies… ” I can still tell if the wrong woman gets a hold of him it’s over man. These… Read more »

echo
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echo

”…did I mention that Mrs. Gamer was pawing at my junk this a.m.? I didn’t even flirt with her. Ultra low energy game. When you achieve this level of game, post it here…lol…”

lmao.

Wanna see some FR’s from j and scars this weekend. I was reading some old posts on here earlier, and it used to be so much better

EhIntellect
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echo,

We wanna see some FRs from you. Show us your chops, Mary.

Orson
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Orson

@mersonia

“You seem like a autism writer so I won’t spend long on you… lol ..its enough dealing with SJF and ASDgamers spam.”

No one asked you to spend time on me mr. retard writer.

Jonas
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Jonas

I’m just wondering whenever its possible to save incels or they’re lost cause.

Sentient
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Sentient

There is a reason for “incel”… Most afflicted won’t overcome their reasons, because – reasons…

Orson
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Orson

how to save incels 😛

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IAS
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@SJF: props on that bench press. What is your bodyweight? I’m lifting 5 sets of 5 usually at the bw percentages: 1.5 of bw, low bar squat (deep) and deadlift 0.9 of bw, bench 0.6 of bw, overhead (not using legs) Given that I’ve been doing it for 2 to 3 years now I think that is kind of low. I started on SL 5×5, was on Texas method more recently for some months, and one of the gym trainers used to do powerlifting so I got him to make a plan (included in the membership). He put me on… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Relationship FR Mrs. Gamer wanted a little drama last night when I said that I was going out. She picked at me for leaving the cupboard door open and for leaving an empty sweetener packet on the counter. I gave her a little pushback about me picking up her mess all the time, then headed out the door. Didn’t get mad and throw a fit and didn’t say mean stuff. This a.m., Mrs. Gamer was again her sweet, flirty self. The drama probably was needed because I introduced Mrs. Gamer to the young girl who wanted to meet me for… Read more »

j
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Wanted to update this link of the very best advanced PUA material: https://therationalmale.com/field-reports-comment-page-2-comments/comment-page-99/#comment-262329 In addition to both of JP’s infields in The System, and Riker’s SS course, after having gone through Riker’s Language and Conversation course now, I can recommend it. Like other practical books, don’t just read it and be done with it. Actually go through the various examples in the course and use them infield, to make this shit really stick. This is the product, that the top PUAs over at NextASF (Bacchus, Teevster, and Kant), fully endorse. And next, is this hour long clip by Todd, that… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Fun Falsie Fodder Field Report A while back, while I was dancing with a girl, one of her falsies made an appearance out of the top of her outfit. I remembered this last night and made it part of my evening fun. It happened like this… I was chatting up a guy at my bar. Didn’t know him before last night, but we hit it off well and chatted for a while. I’ve danced with his gf before and she’s quite smoking…looks a lot like the Bond girl who was an accountant, only younger, with blond hair and smaller boobs.… Read more »

mckay
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mckay

One of the PUA icons at rooshV sealing the deal with his college day game as an older dude.

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-14257-post-1885283.html#pid1885283

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Lol. 43 huh?

That’s too bad.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

She wanted to have sex! She was just waiting for the right guy to approach her! She was horny! She just needed a man to approach her with confidence and sexuality. All I did was say “hi”, she did most of the work after that!

My first Same Day Bang from a college campus! On my 8th approach, after a nearly 2 year break! So ironic! The Game gods blessed me again! BECAUSE I PUT THE WORK IN!”

Pua Icon, huh?

This shit is pathetic. Even more so considering his supposed experience, understanding and age.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Waitaminute…

Roosh didn’t post this shit ^^^^^

I still say ” fuck Roosh “, but he’s not flipping his shit over college girls online.

Correction.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Mersonia ” You keep saying this but don’t say how you think an individual can do it……… You want people to develop a mental point of origin and avoid pain………………” I got a few minutes before I head out to watch the Game and stuff my face full of hot wings, burgers and beer. Rollo has said the mental point of origin is useful in the same way that when you are on a plane, you are instructed that if an emergency cause the oxygen masks to deploy, you need to put your mask on FIRST before you assist anyone… Read more »

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j

@mckay Giovonny doesn’t hid the fact, that he runs numbers game [1] (aka hit on a shit ton of college girls until you find one that happens to likes older men, then close her). This is why, @lendhispeaks (also 40+ years old), asked a couple weeks ago [2] , where exactly did the older men on this blog, meet all the young girls they are supposedly banging. A few comments below his question, I listed 5 venues where you can find young chicks that go to those venues, seeking silver foxes (I mean pretend for a second you’re a chick.… Read more »

SJF
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“This shit is pathetic. Even more so considering his supposed experience, understanding and age.” There will be a bunch of decisions that you will have to make over the next 50 or so years, but starting right now, for 90% of those decisions, your first thought should concern yourself first. How will ” X ” affect me and my life. Not ” what should I do” or ” what would people say/think if I did thusly “. OK it’s fucking boring in here. So I’m going to Ramble On. And On. And On. Yep, it’s called the law of False… Read more »

mckay
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mckay

@j ”Giovonny doesn’t hid the fact, that he runs numbers game”

I know! I think maybe you’ve misunderstood my post. I wasn’t trying to mock or undermine him! He done good! And he IS somewhat of an icon over at roosh’s forum from what I’ve read. People look up to him how he can still bang the odd teenage girl in his 40’s. And game IS a massive numbers game so i’d agree with his approach anyway

echo
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echo

This is gunwitch MMA seduction game applied in a cold approach. I do tend to find most stuff a bit cringey with the vague cold reads (applies to everyone) although it seems to make up basically all of his game, so I guess he’s got faith in it

http://witch60.com/ukrainian-chick/

theasdgamer
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McKay, you need to work more on your social intelligence. Your calibration is way off.

mckay
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mckay

@asd LOL!

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Jesus.

Mind who you make an icon, and why you do so.

Standards are falling though the fucking floor. The bar is 6″ below ground.

theasdgamer
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Jesus.

Mind who you make an icon, and why you do so.

Standards are falling though the fucking floor. The bar is 6″ below ground.

You need to put the cookies on the lower shelf.

j
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j

@echo Lmao. I get those “uh doesn’t everybody?” Vs “omgggg how did you know??” reactions to my cold reads, early on when she’s not fully immersed in the conversation yet. At the start, this dude (that’s not Gun), is just firing out Gun’s material line for line lol. He does better later on when he starts teasing her about her abs, guessing his age, and the age difference. Gonna break down that ending tho, cause that shit was money. Whereas the majority of guys would have settled for the number there (“ok cool. well you seem like an interesting person.… Read more »

j
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j

@blax

I would say he’s serves as an inspirational figure rather than a PUA icon. Because he’s still out there hustling, going after the girls he wants, who happen to be 20+ years younger than him. Two things society frowns upon. Whereas most guys his age, are just following society’s LTR script.

j
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j

@mckay “game IS a massive numbers game” It’s not. Being an approach machine until you find a girl who went out the mindset of “i’m gonna go get some random dick tonight” IS numbers game. On any given night, there will be a number of DTF girls (YES girls), Maybe girls, and NO girls. The girls that came out for dick, WILL get dick. So screening EVERY girl until you find one of them is relying on fool’s mate, really. And if that’s your strategy, you’ll be disappointed and go home with dick in hand more times than not, simply… Read more »

mckay
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@j
”On any given night, there will be a number of DTF girls (YES girls), Maybe girls, and NO girls. ”

Exactly. That’s what i’m saying

Sentient
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Sentient

screening /= Game

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Right. Any man can just go ‘ approach ‘ 50-100 women in any given day and hit paydirt. They just have to realize that’s a way to meet their objective and destroy any anxiety related to getting massive rejections. Game is not ever about the numbers. When younger, I used to rely more on high numbers when I’d wake up in the night and realize I wanted sex before noon, lol. But it didn’t take very long to get that I could Game 5 chicks and get satisfaction, rather than approaching 20 chicks to read their mind. Game makes up… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Young chicks dig maturity because young guys usually don’t have it yet. Maturity brings along competent leadership. But you have to be old like Dean Martin or Bob Hope, not like the guy behind the walker. Zoglin quotes former Hope writer Sherwood Schwartz on Hope’s womanizing in the late 1930s: “We’d go to a hotel, I swear to you, outside his room were three, four, five young, beautiful girls, waiting to be picked by him to come in . . . He was a star enjoying his stardom.’’ Several of his love interests met untimely ends. After he crowned the Welsh beauty… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Lol. No.

EhIntellect
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“Young chicks dig maturity because young guys usually don’t have it yet.”

The capacity to endure pain increases with age. The capacity for pleasure to satisfy decreases with age. Though increasing pain never becomes pleasure, increasing pleasure soon becomes a pain.

mersonia
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@SJF “OK it’s fucking boring in here. So I’m going to Ramble On. And On. And On.” …gay and you wonder why no one takes you serious… “There seems to be something missing there, to the OMG’s and Old Wise Guys. It’s subtle. That’s why Blax is calling bullshit. There is something missing. There is nothing wrong in the execution, but there is something missing in the long term pursuit of mission. Once again, there is nothing wrong in that guys execution, it’s just that he is rejoicing over a short term goal. That’s the subtlety. It’s a false gods… Read more »

mersonia
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@Blaximus

idk what your response had to do with the question

echo
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echo

””On any given night, there will be a number of DTF girls (YES girls), Maybe girls, and NO girls” Yep, it’s the mark manson thing of game being played on the maybe/yes girls only (Not the ”no girls”) PS – finally got a wing who is super into actually approaching (he’s into mysterymethod) and went out with him on Saturday night to game. Fun to see how other people compare and hopefully some interesting observations going forward. (i’ve always basically gamed on my own as none of my mates do cold approach). Last night I noticed he was good at… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Mersonia

Evidently you must want an autumnal Meade or something.

mersonia
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@Blaximus

nope……….just a actual response how one is suppose to actually develop their mental point of origin since someone said they were doing it wrong ( the person the question was directed too.)

A response to the question ….not someone talking about mountains….

EhIntellect
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Speaking of mountains…

“how one is suppose to actually develop their mental point of origin…”

Mental point of origin lies in what one values. Example: If someone incessantly and facilely writes about methodizing a natural human experience, and then makes some bank from it and/or gets laid, and he thinks everyone should do it that way too, well, then his MPoO is in that method, not the experience.

Sentient
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Sentient

Re Vice “article”

If you guys put down your pee pees for a minute, you might realize she is actually attracted to frame and masculinity.

palmasailor
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@echo

Go in behind him and say you’re his probation officer / he doesn’t get out much and take the lead from him etc..

I used to do the opens and burn some turf and my wing would come in, calm the waters and we’d do a double comedy act then venue bounce the pair.

The comedy act between you takes over temporarily from gaming the girls and they are just spectators while yiuntwo have fun Male banter.

Then they want to become part of it

EhIntellect
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@ palmasailor

Would you riff off each other extemporaneously or did you have some kind of first 5?

palmasailor
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palmasailor

@Eh It was generally a riff but there were some structured parts but these only arose from previous riffs that had worked Generally we’d reduce it to ridicule Lines included : “I know what you’re thinking, is it really him or is it a cardboard cut out?” “Ignore him, he’s a lifeguard in a car wash and I’m his probation officer” My wing was welsh, and I used to claim he lived behind the gasometer- not sure what the US equivalent of one of those is All of that stuff can go if for miles into ridiculous territory – problem… Read more »

palmasailor
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palmasailor
Sentient
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Sentient

.just a actual response how one is suppose to actually develop their mental point of origin

now Mersonia… You know about The Platinum Rule right?

Do what you want to do, when you want to do it.

This is a reliable way to develop your mental point of origin…

j
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j

@Sentient “she is actually attracted to frame and masculinity”. 5:05 – 5:15 Watch this chick’s instant honest signals reaction to Julien’s comment about who’s the oldest guy she’s ever been with: https://youtu.be/S0SJjINRZmU?t=305 ….you think the author of the Vice piece would have instantly reacted the same way lol? It’s more than just “masculinity and frame”. In the Vice piece, she talks about how she grew up in the 90s fantasizing about Tommy Lee Jones in MIB, Harvey Keitel in Pulp Fiction and Bruce Willis in Die Hard…..while all the other girls her age were fantasying about these guys: https://thoughtcatalog.com/rob-fee/2013/11/the-40-biggest-teen-heartthrobs-of-the-90s/ –… Read more »

theasdgamer
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Do what you want to do, when you want to do it.

This is a reliable way to develop your mental point of origin…

Maybe expressing a corollary would help…

Don’t give a shit if what you want to do might violate society’s expectations.

Example: I go out dancing without Mrs. Gamer. This violates society’s expectations. I don’t give a shit about those expectations. Do I get quizzed about why Mrs. Gamer isn’t with me? Of course. Weekly. “Mrs. Gamer doesn’t like to do threesomes.” “Mrs. Gamer doesn’t like to see me dancing with other women.”

Blaximus
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Blaximus

I admit, I always get a kick out of what younger guys use to define ‘ masculine ‘ currently. The definition always centers around something feminine -like. Women.Don’t define masculinity, they react and are drawn to it biologically.

Ignore the gynocracy approved stuff.😂 those are media driven fads.

You.want to be timeless and authentic. No stress that way.

That’s why Carey Grant would be able to pull across generations. It’s also why the backstreet boys don’t.

j
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@blax “That’s why Carey Grant would be able to pull across generations”. …..which included men: https://nypost.com/2016/08/08/inside-cary-grants-secret-life-with-men/ “It’s also why the backstreet boys don’t.” Cause they’re all married now…..think they lost interest in going out to slay new girls, since they already fucked a shit ton of girls during their youth, like you. Now young girls fantasize about whoever are the new masculine pretty boys (no clue…..ask your daughters….but I doubt it’s the masculine cast members of “The Expendables” (yes there are young girls who still get wet for Sly and The Governator (if you’re an old guy, target those girls)….but… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Oh yeah, imitation isn’t flattering irl. Don’t look to copy. This is why younger women will bang much older men ( that aren’t using walkers or using cpap machines and oxygen tanks ). An older man’s best bet is to be mature and never try hard to act young and ape what younger guys do. Authenticity. Maturity. You’ve earned this. I had a field report months age that I didn’t write up because I stopped doing that here. I shouldn’t have though. It’s about the 21 year old I’ve mentioned here a year or so back, that is determined to… Read more »

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Blaximus

J My daughters have seen a ‘ different ‘ kind of generational masculinity up close and personal from birth. Sure, they find the latest flavor of pretty boy in the media ‘ hot ‘, but they don’t look for that irl. It’s eye candy. It changes every month or every year, depending on what media is driving now. I.schooled them about ‘ media ‘ from very young. Re: Carey Grant, you miss my point. Idc if he was hanging out with and fucking kangaroos, the point is that he portrayed a non feminine ideal of masculinity, which is absent with… Read more »

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Non feminine driven ideal, as in not what women ‘ way ‘, but what they ‘ do ‘.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

The WordPress gods are collaborating with.spellchecker against me.

j
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@blax “She is ssxy, and fairly bright and young, but she doesn’t flip my switches that way and now she ‘ feels some kind of way ‘ about that. 😂😁😂 I’m not that dude. She’s never encountered anyone that didn’t been over backwards. She hasn’t encountered a mature man not enthralled with her ass/age combo”. Since you said “dancer”, rather than “cheerleader”, I’m going to assume the NYC sports team your referring to is the Knicks. And looking at their current roster…..all of them have def been ‘passed around’ once or twice lol. But the reason she’s determined to bang… Read more »

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fleezer

FR hb6 pawg 24 yo online (i do this every few months to stay current and try stuff on throwaways) got the address for meet 1. this happens often. these girls are fucking crazy (again, whenever they say, “I don’t do that”… lol. they do when it’s right) she didn’t know my name. nothing. just one pic and a cock pic asd? none. liked talking about fukcing. good to go after two location changes in under an hour (I was embarrassed to be out with a 6, but that ass was poppin. felt like fucking rising pizza dough) summary: did… Read more »

EhIntellect
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This j and Mersonia Please never, ever leave playas. You guys are everything I need for a PUA parody screenplay parody. Judd Apatow, call me bro! One moment all “game, yo!/I’m killin it!/y’all are dick sucking autistic fags and TRM hasn’t done shit since scray left! Allow me do a slick breakdown of your latest pickup failure without really offering anything insightful but my delivery has sizzle, and uh did I mention I’m well traveled and go to a lot a cities and fuck exotic bitchez and am not in any way chubby or insecure or prone to teen angst.”… Read more »

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J

Not the Knicks.

The main chick has been a ‘ cheerleader ‘ for a NYC team for 2 years now.

Wrt to women wanting what they can’t have or whatever, the conversation is a gigantic factor = Game. This isn’t a case of ” I’m young/hot 🔥, why doesn’t he want me? “.

Guys her age don’t know what I know.😁 .

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Put it like this: she comes in with expectations based on last experience, and encounters something she’s never heard/seen before, and all that ” I’m so not ” shit flies out the window.

Dudes don’t have the internals to shut some of that solipsism down long enough for the chick to listen, think, feel and recognize on an.unexpected ( for them ) level.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

It ain’t about them. Ever.

j
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@blax

“This isn’t a case of ” I’m young/hot 🔥, why doesn’t he want me?”.

Nah it’s def part of it. Even if you don’t want to acknowledge it.

“the conversation is a gigantic factor = Game”.

“Guys her age don’t know what I know”

yup. you’re a member of the secret society/you “know the dance” as they say

j
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@eh

every time I see your posts this is all I picture:

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lol

sorry young girls don’t find you desirable anymore, mate 🙂

EhIntellect
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j: hot bitchez yo!

EhIntellect
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Why does j even reply to me, honestly? I don’t address him purposefully but he feels compelled to reply.

My differential dx: He’s invertebrate, knows it, as he can not stand without his uninspired hackneyed PUA exoskeleton.

EhIntellect
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@ Blaximus You’ve nothing to prove by posting an FR. Your gut instinct is correct. As interesting as it was, these certain other guys wish nothing to gain from your FR. They won’t believe it, maybe will give you a sycophantic nod, faux analyze it, but they will never, ever reconstitute themselves here at this venue. It’d be too shameful. They’re terrified of the real deal. They’d rather ape some video. It’s why I write only that which is believable. The off-the-wall shit I keep to myself now as it really doesn’t matter as it helps no one, doesn’t contribute… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
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Anonymous Reader

Time for a repost of Hey, Violet’s educational video on the issue of ‘Guys My Age’?
Yeah, it is because it will be new to some men.

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Anonymous Reader

I remind myself that Bromeo hasn’t been seen here for quite a while.

theasdgamer
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“Don’t know how to keep me.”

“Pussy is just pussy.” That’s what girls are looking for. Someone who doesn’t put too much value on pussy, especially on one particular pussy, but also just on pussy in general. Because they know it’s readily had…pretty much at will. Which means that the man with that attitude is high value.

Blaximus
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Blaximus

Many young males lack direction, foresight and purpose. ” youth ” has been extended into a man’s early thirties now, when in the past at 18 one was expected to stop being a child. And guys accepted this because easier. As an older man you can be accused of ‘ shaming ‘ or expecting a guy to ‘ man up ‘ , as having been redefined by the FI as being centered around the feminine interest objective. Checkmate. Biology is stubborn though. Ignoring burden does not make it go away. Men are built to attain knowledge, create and perform. Concentration… Read more »

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