For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
…. And thousand dollar phones. Lmao.
@ IAS Re: stock market crash. These things go in cycles and dramatic bull markets always end in an adjustment/correction or outright crash. People get so wound up in the high numbers that they don’t bother drilling down to actually see what’s driving all that record breaking. Lots of negative stuff driving u.s. markets, but one of the biggest problems is the artificially low interest rates for a decade. Free money ( not for you though ) is fuel to the fire. Thinking people who didn’t drink the kool aid saw the housing crash years before it happened. So if… Read more »
habd, my feedback to kfg was about communication of content, not the content itself; if the aim is to teach, then filling in some of the gaps would help in that regard subsequent kfg comments did just that… dumbed it down a bit and strung the assertions along in easy to follow, gap-free logic… BAM!! his previous statements turn into eye-opening ‘I get it now!’ moments…. just trying to get that good shit out of his head and into mine sometimes a fella is just asking for clarification and it’s not some RP/BP struggle and discord going on…. that’s just… Read more »
“How do you invest?” Tools and the skill to use them. Stuff to use the tools on. In general, hard capital items I physically possess that are useful to staying alive and perhaps even living well in hard times. Note that these things are tradable items. In some circumstances they may be more valuable than gold. I also have some, fully paid for, real estate, but be aware that real estate, even fully paid for, is debt liability, and in the event of a crash, where are you going to get tenants to cover it for you? Don’t get in… Read more »
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cQNkIrg-Tk&w=560&h=315%5D
Plan B
“If you spend money, buy land”
Land can only be rented and the landlord (the state) can raise rents whenever it likes. Contrast with a car that you actually own, although you must pay for the right to drive it on public roads.
You can actually own gold…I think it was Reagan who made it legal for avg. Americans to own gold again.
Buy guns and ammo, intending to sell when another gun control rat gets elected Pres.
…. We haven’t had any new gun legislation since the ban on fully auto assault rifles. Btw, I was referring to men simply owning property so that they could better sustain themselves. Buying a condo in midtown Manhattan is counterproductive. As much as I love automobiles, if everything starts to go to shit cars won’t be useful past their last tank of gas ( unless you understand how to make alcohol and biofuels, and convert all of the rubber and plastic delivery systems ). Bikes and motorcycles would he a better bet. Even horses, if you have the space. Horses… Read more »
…. We haven’t had any new gun legislation since the ban on fully auto assault rifles. lol, wtf does that have to do with the price of guns and ammo? Demand rises with the mere threat of gun control. Buy when gun lovers are presidents and sell when gun haters are presidents…always maintaining a basic set of firearms for emergency and recreational use. Use fiat currency to obtain tangible wealth. Don’t try to load up on diamonds…everybody will do that and it didn’t help the Jews in WW2. Load up on stuff that is a pain to steal because it… Read more »
“Car engines can be converted to burn fat . . .”
Bicycles burn fat natively. Their average speed can rival that of cars, or even exceed.
Save the motor vehicles for what they are best at – hauling ass and hauling mass.
“lol @ zombie apocalypse scenarios…but maybe Kim will nuke LA”
Or the EBT system could go down.
FYI, the average car engine cannot burn crude. Please, don’t put crude in your gas tank.
Powered by chip fat: the cars of the future
http://www.planet-science.com/categories/over-11s/technology/2010/12/powered-by-chip-fat-the-cars-of-the-future.aspx
chip fat = oil used to fry potatoes
Vegetable oil burning car vid
*fiat currency -> buy guns* Never fails. Thanks for the people that actually posted pictures as opposed to the predictable 10 debate. I think this is no makeup November. That Twitter hashtag isn’t particularly kind when you look at the photos. As for the eternal, how and what newbies should learn. I’m a big advocate of why guys new to the game should do all that meathead, jock, “alpha” direct game. Let them try all that stuff out, suits, the money, the car, the six pack – and basically see if the society is essentially right. If they end up… Read more »
internal combustion engines ICE engines can run on woodgas from biomass w/ no mods; setting up the woodgas as a source is the tricky part since you have to have a burning furnace attached to the car somehow lol; wouldn’t be a problem for a generator tho gasoline and diesel can be directly derived from little more than a lightly modded crockpot, metal tubing, thermometer and plastic as the source for homemade fractionation of hydrocarbons; plastic is about the purest form of long-chain hydrocarbons you could ever hope for hydro and wind electricity is easy with modern scraps saved the… Read more »
Aaaaand, one from myth busters
“Diesel cars can be converted to run on old vegetable oil . . .”
Which is news so old that market and legislation have essentially negated it. You’re not much more likely to be making your own new vegetable oil than you are to be making your own gasoline.
” . . . the tricky part since you have to have a burning furnace attached to the car somehow . . .”
During WWII they were put on trailers behind the car.
“You’re not much more likely to be making your own new vegetable oil than you are to be making your own gasoline.”
which is just the way I like it, certain skills are more valuable
“During WWII they were put on trailers behind the car.”
yes, the Swedes (Scandanavians?) had more source material to work with and so made the most progress on this almost-lost tech; I’ve 75% completed my own rig — not for a car, tho
If you can’t buy fuel and everyone has a gun,why would you want to make them jealous by driving a car?
In a fully escalated scenario the best chance for survival is on foot with a bb gun,bow and arrows.
“which is just the way I like it, certain skills are more valuable”
Tools and skills.
“yes, the Swedes (Scandanavians?) had more source material to work with . . .”
All my wood gas car stuff is on dead tree, so I went to the Google to see what was online and found a Volvo, among others. Go figure:
http://krisdedecker.typepad.com/.a/6a00e0099229e888330120a7d22e6a970b-500wi
Farley Mowat lived on a diet of mice,he found if he ate the whole varmint it was balanced nutrition.
“In a fully escalated scenario the best chance for survival is on foot with a bb gun . . .”
I have more physical lead than physical gold:
“Farley Mowat lived on a diet of mice . . .”
But he was in an atypical environment. I’ll go for woodchuck. The carrying capacity of the land is not as great as many seem to think though. In Venezuela they’re already running out of rats and mice.
“The carrying capacity of the land is not as great as many seem to think”
True,the gold miners wiped out the herds of elk and deer in a short time.Elk were reintroduced to central ,CO by W,H,Pig imported from Wyoming.
“Venezuela they’re already running out of rats and mice.”
Soon they will be running short on people,not a good place to be rich or poor.
By Forrest Whitman “In 1904, “Old Mose,” one of the last Colorado grizzly bears, was killed near Black Mountain in South Park. If you’d gone elk hunting that same year you would have found the Colorado elk population reduced to a critical survival level. Colorado wildlife in general was crashing and had been for a decade. What happened is a sad story of human greed and ignorance. Wild animal populations of all kinds were hunted to critical levels in only thirty years beginning roughly in 1870. By 1904 it was assumed that the plains buffalo were extinct or soon would… Read more »
@West Indian Archie As for the eternal, how and what newbies should learn… …So where are you guys on using learning approved dating strategies before getting all Machiavelli? You mean like having women desire you because you are desirable? I’m all for it. And if I’m not not succeeding at that, I’ll go back and be a student of life to get the energy of a a man who women adore–excess free energy and charisma. I’m a big fan of The Anna Karenina Principle. (And I just got done watching that 21 convention Zan Perrion youtube video: The Fight of… Read more »
I’m a big advocate of why guys new to the game should do all that meathead, jock, “alpha” direct game. Let them try all that stuff out, suits, the money, the car, the six pack – and basically see if the society is essentially right. If they end up being happy with that, who am I to spoil their fun. I mean most guys are too scared (or too lazy) to even try the path that cultural programming tells them that they should do. GQ and Men’s Health approved! Everything you’ve ever needed to know about that path is celebrated… Read more »
@Blax and KFG: thanks for the info. I’m not on the ledge ahah. I’m on record here on being a cheapskate so I’m not consumer driven, I only got a smartphone this year (and not a 1k one). But I have some minor background concern that my savings can go down the drain in a particularly bad breakdown of the economic system. Some of you guys getting ready for the full breakdown of society! That is beyond my level of concern. I don’t think that will happen so spectacularly that we will be roaming the country side hunting rats for… Read more »
Fairly quiet night, but At the bar. I’m trying to get served and notice in the mirror behind the bar that there is a hot girl behind me. As I’m contemplating how to open her, she brushed my back with her phone that she is using to text. I decide to use that as my ‘in’ and spin around and say ”You just stabbed me in the back with your phone on purpose!” with a suspicious smile. She is laughs and says ”lol, did I?! I wondered why you span around. I didn’t mean too”. I say ”Yes you did!… Read more »
@Scars: You did well. Here is my breakdown. I’d say some of you guys are too much in your head (wondering if it is too soon to ask “rapport questions”). It is very important to get logistics questions in early so that you know if you should use that girl/set just for pre-selection etc. If it is too early to pull but the girl has good logistics you can either get the number to use in the same night and meet up later and then try to pull, or you can try to stick to the girl until the very… Read more »
Back on the gold thing: apart from some high tech applications which will be moot if there is a tech collapse, I’d say the value of gold is pretty much fiat and decided by market almost as much as fiat currency. Back in historic times it was only good to make necklaces and other stuff like that, or to stockpile because everyone decided to consider it valuable (because hot girls like pretty shiny necklaces and the rulers like to have happy hot girls around?). So while it is relatively scarce, it is also relatively useless. It is true that it… Read more »
@Scars The phone in the back thing was intentional she was well aware of what she was doing. Just like getting tit brushed in the back when they bwant your attention same thing. I’m thinking a line like,I have a new boost up text phone you know like boost up charge but for text only 50 of them made,my buddy is a software engineer he gave me one to test. I carry it next to my heart,I used to carry it in my front pocket but when I get horny every girl in the room phones go off at once.… Read more »
“Why would that hold for gold and not for other relatively useless markers like coins and bills of “fiat currency”, which people would also remember have been used as currency?” In the ever more likely event of a reset to electronic currency brought on by government and corporate debt default,there will need to be a fixed standard for all currency something you cannot invent out of thin air or burn in a moment. in an effort to keep what we “earned” these huge piles of printed currency can be valued at a fixed amount of material the more currency printed… Read more »
“I’d say the value of gold is pretty much fiat and decided by market almost as much as fiat currency.” The value of everything in the market is decided by the market relative to the value of everything else. Nothing has a fixed value. That isn’t what makes it fiat. It is what makes economic models, as the kids these days say, “problematic.” “What am I missing, if anything?” That fiat money isn’t controlled by the market. It controls the market, and, if it is the only legal tender, the society. Also, the value of gold. If it were to… Read more »
@Archie Have you seen Whiplash (2014)? “Talent develops itself in solitude; character in the stream of life.” (Johann Wolfgang von Goethe) “But the power of instruction is seldom of much efficacy, except in those happy dispositions where it is almost superfluous.” (Edward Gibbon) Like this joke: how many therapists does it take to change a lightbulb… “I’m a big advocate of why guys new to the game should do all that meathead, jock, “alpha” direct game. Let them try all that stuff out, suits, the money, the car, the six pack – and basically see if the society is essentially… Read more »
” . . . the power of instruction is seldom of much efficacy, except in those happy dispositions where it is almost superfluous.”
There ya go. I’m not here to “teach.” These days I leave enacting that labor to the middling former students, for whom that is their level. They actually even enjoy it, whereas if I had continued much further in that line I probably would have ended up blowing my brains out.
@scars Nice! The black chick was throwing herself at you… in Cat-o-nese. You just didn’t know how to move it forward other than caveman style “let’s go and fuck!” (which you said to her… in Cat-o-nese). She needed to feel she earned your interest (A3) and that you can babystep it for her (comfort) with enough social awareness and plausible deniability (friends saw her throwing herself at you!). You remember my last FR fuckup? I did the same… caveman style… It doesn’t look good in cats world. Re your mother and daughter(s) fetish… lol… just kidding… but break this one… Read more »
Lol@ that hat.
@ IRL Since discovering that there was a world of pickup, I’ve come to understand that a lot of guys do need some sort of guidelines to get started in approaching women. Else we’d be beset by dudes awkwardly molesting random chicks and going to jail ( where they’d be the target of pickup themselves ). Not enough emphasis is placed on dudes that are learning being more widely social. I think that’s key. You learn how to be more social by being more social… With everyone and anyone, everywhere. Don’t self limit to bars and clubs or dozens of… Read more »
Field Report (for dance geeks only) Venue: swing dance bar (I have been dancing country) Four items of interest 1. I dipped a girl while in skater’s hold (right arm behind her back and leading her left)…have never done that before and it’s a bit tricky…she came out of it with a dazed look like her world had just been rocked. 2. A married woman out with her husband (45ish, short haired and not my type) was very warm and friendly and self-deprecating and wanted to dance but she quit as soon as her husband returned to his table, lol.… Read more »
Always enjoy that Street Attraction guy’s infields…
“treat your immediate environment as it it where your own house party”
Look at the conversation on the train and compare their group with the rest of the train… LOL Once you start being dynamic in these environments, it’s such a huge DHV. remember that. people are watching…
Reminder from one of my favorite state songs to loop when out gaming…
“Life’s just a cocktail party on the street”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BjQYQ5p2Ko
Mick would wear that hat… 😉
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/01740/1980-emotional-res_1740007i.jpg
@scars 3 things on the don’t kiss her thing I talk about, @IAS has it right: “Black girl: go for the kiss halfway and back off. That proves to yourself (and to her) that you had the balls to put yourself out there and is better to make her chase you without giving her the closure of the kiss (which can work against the pull).” “the whole time I could sense some resistance and she was shit testing me a fair bit and I wondered whether i’d read her attraction wrong.” lol shit tests are a GOOD thing. You gotta… Read more »
hi @j Yeah, that’s why in my FR from a few weeks back, I made sure to stress that I used breaking rapport’ tonality when I asked the girls name after I opened, although in my fairly recent FR where WIA said that i’d ran civilian game (rapport questions after opening), I maybe forgot to stress the breaking rapport tonality that I used, so maybe it wasn’t an error afterall in that particular interaction, and she just wasn’t into me had fun last night, though. Keep thinking about them daughters, though! the 23 year old and the 18 year old… Read more »
she looked like
https://imgur.com/a/i6Ued
Looks like the teller at my bank yesterday.
@blax
I see what you did there lol
@Scars Commit to your Julien/Max style. Commit. That’s what’s wrong with a lot of guys getting into this, they want to kitchen sink their game. Little bit of this and a little bit of that. Get some religion! Max n’nem don’t care about the stuff that I focus on at all. They get results though. And that’s ultimately because there are lots of ways to skin a cat. And half of the time, the cat wants to get skinned for its own reasons. So if the Julien/Max style is your model of game, go whole hog. Going back two FR’s(?)… Read more »
FR time for me. I’m at my Latin dance party. I’m organizing a concert so I DHV the room of hotties announcing it. I speak slowly and in low tones emphasizing “amazing DJ, AMAZING NIGHT AMAZING everything”. Immediately following…after a 2.5 year ghosting and silence my crazy ex nervously approaches me. “I want to buy a ticket to the concert” she blurts out nervously. Ha…so this is how nexting feels. I realize she’s super nervous and struggling so I decide to run game on her: Me: “One? Buy ten, I need the money”. Her: Blah blah blah Me: The dj… Read more »
Funny watching girls in my social circle compete for attention. Hottie sitting next to me was leaning towards me and angling her legs my direction the whole time until I paid attention to the girl on my other side, and then the hottie moved away. The hottie didn’t talk to me the rest of the time and pointedly didn’t even say good bye to me when I left–she said goodbye to other guys leaving when I did, tho the other girl did tell me and only me goodbye. I enjoyed the show. I was slightly obnoxious and teased the hottie… Read more »
@ IAS To me, a man has to keep in the recesses of his mind that ” systems ” are man made, and as such as vulnerable to failure or collapse. Abundance and ease fools the brain. Sometimes we get a small taste of the flip side. During hurricane Sandy I was without electricity for 5 days. I was fully prepared and made out quite well, but after about the third day I saw people starting to break a little. their phones were dying, no supermarkets or outside food sources, no banks or ATM available… Some started cracking just a… Read more »
Damn, the above sounds a little depressing to the uninitiated, so let me follow up with this thought – men are built to be tested and stressed. That’s what makes us mentally and physically stronger. Fuck what the FI says.
Men create, destroy and recreate. That’s our history and evidently our purpose. We are either up to the task or we are replaced.
Better? Now, carrying out the biological imperative of having sex with the female doesn’t seem at all daunting. We are built for that shit. Pay no heed to the fiat pussy system feminist try to institute.
…. Julien won’t make the cut. Lol.
@Blax: Fiat Pussy LOL.
That should be the next car model name (Fiat even likes model names starting with P).
I’d say what Julian does in pickup, after a breaking rapport opener, is that he constantly spikes the interaction with just enough calibration not to lose the girl (which in itself is comfort building that he can sense her state and is aware of her environment). He creates vacuum, she feels she needs his validation, she chases and kind of gets it but she’s never quite sure (“you don’t have to try so hard, you don’t have to prove yourself, I like you, it’s fine” followed by further pushes). It’s a constant (in a loop) emphasis on A2 with glimpses… Read more »
Lol Julien not Julian
LR 10 pm wingman informs me he won’t be joining me tonight. staying in with his fuck buddy. I text one of my own fuckbuddies but she’s still out of the city. Text exchange: j: what are you up to her: i’m in [another city]still lol (i could have left it here but last week i texted her she was still in this city. didn’t ask when she was coming back so I wanted to spike briefly to avoid a pattern of what are you doing – doing blah can’t – repeat) j:damn i just wanted to have a nice… Read more »
keep it up @j! lol – i love it
Oh, was there much in the way of qualification?
(Based on my last FR, that’s something I need to add – ‘make them think I want them for qualities other than their looks, so ask if they can cook and pretend that’s important to me or whatever)
@Scars: on J’s FR, the girl shit tests him by leaving and he doesn’t chase. When she comes back (clear IOI / A2) he rewards her (A3, male-to-female interest) by inviting her to go upstairs, dancing with her again etc. Having her come with him when he leads her is a hump she must jump through to get J, as he had very clearly demonstrated when he didn’t chase her. A3 doesn’t have to be rigidly a “qualifier” question. Note he also did Comfort before the sex (and a bit during the LMR she had). @J: she wasn’t drinking, well… Read more »
With qualification, a lot of the time it kind of takes care of itself as a result of running ‘normal guy’ conversation once she is attracted and you don’t need to get too in your head and be like ”OK, I’ve done that step. Now I need to ask her if she can cook and reward her with an IOI” or whatever. You might ask about her hobbies or something naturally (like normal guys might do), and later on when you escalate, she’ll tell herself (without you having too) that all of the stuff she spoke about and told you(that… Read more »
Nice FR, j
@scars So for qualification part, I don’t “ask her if she can cook and reward her with an IOI”. What i’m looking to do is make her defend/qualify herself (react) to me. Put them ‘in the box’ thing @walawala observed: http://yareallyarchive.com/2015/4/#comment-heartiste-662123 And this part @IRL wrote on Julien’s game above: “He creates vacuum, she feels she needs his validation, she chases and kind of gets it but she’s never quite sure (“you don’t have to try so hard, you don’t have to prove yourself, I like you, it’s fine” followed by further pushes).” So I’ll ask her about something. she… Read more »
A basic example from my FR, I asked her if she wanted to have kids. “she said yeah” I said let me guess 4 kids” she was like whoa how did you know that???” (just a random guess lol) I said, “I can just tell by the way just by the way your dressed” (obvious lie, but now this has got her ‘in the box’ questioning herself if she’s a basic bitch or not)
“putting her in the box” = mental version of MMA’s “having her in a hold”….goes back to grappling with a girl mentally/physically/socially and dominating her = giving her masculine cues…girls REALLY want to lose the match
IRL Great points. I don’t grasp why some of these guys are having so much trouble simply understanding what is going on with MM and RSD “forms” of game. If you are one of those guys reading just go back and watch the Julien blow out vids up thread… It’s not that you can’t lay with RSD type stuff at all… You can get laid a lot with just massive attraction spiking and leading. What you wont get is rock solid consistency. Mystery was all about playing for 100% consistency. The goal was 5 for 5. Five girls YOU chose,… Read more »
5 for 5
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-6534.html
Keep slaying them girls, @J! FR’s are fun to read!
Oh wait… The RooshV forum has checked in… Lmfao. 😂
@J
Did SHE get the orgasm too? If so, I’m wondering how that Goldmund line helps with that. Interesting.
Girls don’t orgasm?
@Blaximus, u got me. Funny as hell!
New channel I saw
@mackay The guy doesn’t know what indirect game is. Would not recommend. A quick perusal of his video titles suggest that he’s gonna sell you on the Blue Pill approved way to pull chicks. Which of course, him being a good looking guy, works for him. He basically describes a neutral question scenario (that if anything builds comfort, but not attraction) and then the guy suddenly switches to “mack mode”. He delays showing his direct interest in the chick. That’s what regular guys do. That’s not indirect game, AT ALL. The problem for him and most guys new to the… Read more »
@Stuff in Box Sorry I didn’t respond sooner. “I learned is that the mirror can be a spooky sight for anyone,male or female. In this respect we are all the same,kfg’s girl is likely self concious about her freckles,scars” Good game! I’ve found that having big mirrors in my living room or in my bed room – tends to appeal to her narcissism more than her insecurity. Insecurity, Narcissism? Tuh-may-toe, Tuh-mah-toe? >At some level she is self conscious about something,so holding eye contact with amused mastery works >to build comfort in a non judgmental way,if my eye wanders or stays… Read more »
@SJF
What? Haha?
I have no idea what you’re talking about.
I wrote off Zan Perrion back in the alt.seduction.fast days.
@IRl Haven’t seen it, but love J. Jonah Jameson/Schillinger It starts with where you think guys that come to the game are coming from. When this whole “discuss meeting girls online” thing started, most guys were in an era where you could get a date. I had a GF prior to game, and had no problem getting dates. It was called “fast seduction”. Because the problem for the guys in the 90’s was they would have to take a chick out forever and fork over lots of money in order to have sex. IF ONLY WE COULD SPEED THIS UP.… Read more »
@Mckay, i’ve seen loads of Tusk’s vids. As a brit, i’m always interested in how different cultural factors can effect how one should game. The fact that we don’t ‘tend’ to talk to strangers here like how they do in every place in the US i’ve ever been makes me think it’s daft to not consider the potential difference in application of various stuff. But yeah. From what i’ve seen, Tusk follows the London day game model and is very direct. He actually claims to do the same with night game with great success But yeah, he’s a good looking… Read more »
@WIA LOL, thought I was helping you make a point,guess not. maybe your point was everyone has differing taste Idk. My personal 10 these days is the least dishonest 7 I can find. Not really photo material. Eye contact with out the smiling eyes “amused mastery” can be creepy,we wan’t rather to be disarming. One trick if she gets weird about it is to lead with a nod or point to something amusing. On the mirror thing if a woman freshens up in front of me verses going in private,this is a sign of disrespect,next. Thinking on it more girls… Read more »
WIA, Man, you giving me flashbacks to Teh olden days when pussy flowed like wine. Lol. I’ve never read all of mystery… Yet. Sentient and Yareally pointed me to a bunch of his free content online though. And I’m trying to understand the whole Rsd thing, but… I struggle to get past the immense cornballness. It’s hard to watch for too long and it just seems 1) too complicated and 2) too minimally single-minded. But that’s what its supposed to be. Its just that I hate being ” sold “. There are no fucking ” secrets ” to this shit,… Read more »
@blax “I’ve never read all of mystery… Yet”. And you never will. “And I’m trying to understand the whole Rsd thing” You’re not. According to you, you need this mysterious “real” game to fuck and maintain bitches. you’ve already made it perfectly clear to us, that what RSD teaches isn’t “real” game, so your not willing to put the time and effort to really understand the whole RSD thing. No problem man, you got your beautiful HB10 chick already man. Congrats “Solid game has no flowchart. You master being social by being social.” Yup. And there lies the secret, newbies.… Read more »
Blaximus Oh yeah, the 70’s through the 90’s I think was the pinnacle time for game. Kind of doubt that because… I/we said whatever we wanted to chicks, or anybody else for that matter. …just about any game would work. Money & a sharp suit did the job. Charm did the job. So actually, it was pinnacle time for not having any Game at all. No surprise that all the “Just be yourself! Find a nice girl! It’s easy!” Tradcon doofuses all got married back in the 70’s or 80’s, long before hypergamy really got off of the leash. They… Read more »
@j
Blax: “Solid game has no flowchart. You master being social by being social.”
Yup. And there lies the secret, newbies. Now go off and….be social!
@j let’s try this again
Blax: “Solid game has no flowchart. You master being social by being social.”
Yup. And there lies the secret, newbies. Now go off and….be social!
/sarcasm off
I/we said whatever we wanted to chicks, or anybody else for that matter. Lol, if your nonverbal signals are solid (eye contact/posture/elevated nose/amused mastery smile/cocky grin), sure, you can talk about the weather and make them labia lubricate. —————————- …just about any game would work. Money & a sharp suit did the job. Charm did the job. So actually, it was pinnacle time for not having any Game at all. No surprise that all the “Just be yourself! Find a nice girl! It’s easy!” Tradcon doofuses all got married back in the 70’s or 80’s, long before hypergamy really got… Read more »
@All Frame @Game show no weakness. As the world situation gets more volatile,hypergamy ramps up incrementally. She is looking for a man with backbone now more than ever,not to the point of being an asshole mind you,enough to laugh shit off. The younger party years woman presents a peculiar challenge in that she is all go girl and princesed up empowered or whatever,she has to put on an act but her squirlcage still spins on the same power as ever. Maybe this is where RSD or MM work better I don’t know and will probably never find out,looks weak to… Read more »
@kfg
Lmao
@Archie @SJF What? Haha? I have no idea what you’re talking about. I wrote off Zan Perrion back in the alt.seduction.fast days. Can’t say I have any idea of what I was talking about there either. Umm, Sorry? But it was fun writing it down at the time. Could’ve been the Willie Nelson, could’ve been the wine…. (A line from the Bobcageon song from The Tragically Hip.) I was taken by Zan Perrion’s talk at the 21 convention (mainly, get your act together an don’t drag your feet on having agency in life), but while I was out deer hunting… Read more »
It’s ok to like kittens btw.
“There just happen to be people like that. They’re blessed with this marvelous talent, but they can’t make the effort to systematize it. They end up squandering it in little bits and pieces. I’ve seen my share of people like that. At first you think they’re amazing. Like, they can sight-read some terrifically difficult piece and do a damn good job playing it all the way through. You see them do it, and you’re overwhelmed. You think, ‘I could never do that in a million years.’ But that’s as far as they go. They can’t take it any further. And… Read more »
While the guy is gone she starts singing John Denver You fill up My Senses (Annie’s song) to me while looking into my eyes with a pleading look she stops in the middle and softly places her hand on my wrist and says “I love a man with strong hands and wrists” then she finishes singing to me as the guy enters with the beer. No fucking shit. Hitting on you in front of her man is so disrespectful…was the bitch drunk? Married girls flirted with me while I danced with them this weekend. Their husbands were at the bar,… Read more »
“Hitting on you in front of her man is so disrespectful…was the bitch drunk?”
Tipsy at least,she could walk and wasn’t slurring her words,her back was turned to his direction. Rudeness is rude in front of or behind his back just saying,don’t want any part of that. If he didn’t think she cared he would be much better off. She does care he is weakened,not for his sake only in a solipsistic way. How it effects her.
It’s ok to like kittens btw.” I never got that memo. And I’m not a big fan of them. 1/3 of dogs and cats give me asthma. Without encounters with them I have zero asthma. My wife’s collection of cats is down to two, from a high of five at one time. Only one of the six she’s had since we’ve been married gave me asthma and it ran off about 25 years ago ( and I had nothing to do with that event.). I’m not a fan of them. I tolerate but don’t actually like them. I can tolerate… Read more »
“It’s ok to like kittens btw.”
I love kittens – especially with a bit of Jack Daniel’s BBQ sauce.
Kittens are good for catfishing,tie the toy on the end of your line ,practice casting and reel in across floor I catch one every time.
“Hitting on you in front of her man is so disrespectful…was the bitch drunk?”
Why is hypergamy so hard to deal with in the wild?
There is no bro code… Amongst cats.
Deal with it.
I’d bang my best friends wife tbh… Because it really has nothing at all to do with him.
That’s how it works.
@ j Luv ya man, and I’m not even trying go explain then origins of Game here because Game now means something else in the pua community and the manosphere. And that’s all I’m pointing out. Now dudes in the pua realm only speak of pimp game ( never having seen or having known 1 single pimp..) Or Gaming chicks which is only one aspect of ” real game ” ( yes, there is real game and its not mythical or mysterious at all ). I understand , as anonymous reader points out that there was/is a need for men… Read more »
“I’d bang my best friends wife tbh… Because it really has nothing at all to do with him.
That’s how it works.”
Till he says it does,get after it,let me know how it works out for you.
KFG’s Monty Python video ended and this was next up:
https://youtu.be/Lpkfd9HGuaU?t=631
Starting @10:30. Silly shit.
@Blax “Luv ya man, and I’m not even trying go explain then origins of Game here because Game now means something else in the pua community and the manosphere. And that’s all I’m pointing out. Now dudes in the pua realm only speak of pimp game ( never having seen or having known 1 single pimp..) Or Gaming chicks which is only one aspect of ” real game ” ( yes, there is real game and its not mythical or mysterious at all ).” Yeah being black…… Game is widely considered something else….. though I would say its similar the… Read more »