Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

16,454 comments on “Field Reports

  1. @NNN1

    I don’t have much time but I’ll reply properly over the weekend but on the hugging and kissing make sure you pull away first

  2. Palma

    “So the nurse has started to buy shit for my place and I’ve told her not to – I don’t want anything in my place, and I’m gonna throw out anything she buys. She’s giving out literally pornstar sex and She thinks I’m joking about throwing out the shit she’s leaving here but it’s gone already in the rubbish.”

    Did you remind her your a lockdown skeptic?

    Thats my trouble, they all want to lock me down and I’m already under contract.

    my biggest fear is the bidding war fallout.

  3. “Have I left out some major obstacle?”

    You already had comfort, rapport and isolation.

    Could probably turn it around with ” you were cold and my room mate had his parents over” or some such. Or maybe chance meet at a strange plac ewhere you are the familliar thing she can cling to.

  4. @NNN1

    You’re almost there… just stop cockblocking yourself… lol

    I appreciate advice on textgame : )

    Haven’t I shared this with you back in June? Still applicable.
    http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn

    light glance in her eyes

    IOI

    So as I approach the girls

    DHV if you’re rolling in ufnazed and vibe with them…

    there’s again this not well-hidden glance in her eyes

    IOI

    We talk a bit, the other girls leave

    Leaving G with you  = secret society giving you thumbs up.

    we get a coffee in the cafeteria

    IOI (she’s stayed with you)

    and go for a walk in the park

    IOI (she’s following)

    We walk down the old parkway, nobody around us, and talk some blabla. It’s half past ten and I don’t know how to sexualise just a nuance. She claims to not know the park yet,

    Yay…. adventure! Dark park, nobody else there, she’s following, tells you she doesn’t know the park yet… “let’s go deeper… take me… there” lol

    (I remember a park, summer night, past midnight, still lots of people, bushes, torn panties and a lost earring… lol… meet to lay time: a few hours)

    She missed her train already for me

    IOI x10!!!

    While we walk, she accepts incidental kino pretty well.

    IOI

    G: “It’s cold”

    “FFS, NNN1, take me already!” lol

    NNN1: “Right, you don’t even wear a cap” [while ruffling through her hair]

    Sooo… some kino? You can do it!

    She takes it pretty easy

    IOI

    maybe also a slight glance in her eyes

    IOI

    She asks: “Where do you have to go?”

    IOI “Can I come with you… I wanna come…” lol

    as she seems to want to get her train.

    To go back to what? Nope.

    I felt like she wanted to leave

    Nope.

    looking back, she might have hoped for me to take her home

    Yes.

    to help her brake out of the endless loop of videos, exercises and zoom meetings

    Yes.

    You need to get that small opportunities, for her it may feel like a shout to take her.

    Yes x10!!!

    I don’t hug her

    Touch barrier… got to fix that…

    Backwards envisioned, should it be like: 1.  Aim: sex, both branching each other in bed, my room, the dormitory.
    Now, how did we get there?
    We kissed each other, at my place or somewhere else.
    How did we get there?
    I huged her.
    Next iteration:
    Laser eye contact.
    Now, does that make sense? It would bring the following ladder:
    Step: Laser eye contact
    Next: 2.: Hugging, but not too long.
    Followed by 3. Kissing
    And ultimately sex!
    Have I left out some major obstacle?

    Yes, the cockblocker in the room… yourself… lol.

    Simple: “Hey, I have this cool X at my place, you should check it out/try it…”
    Fluff talk/vibing on the way (middle space), chill out and escalate at yours… done.

    If you can’t spot IOIs in real time, learn to actively diagnose the buying temperature in situ. Compliance is what tells you all you need to know..

    If you’re scared to escalate too quickly, break it down into steps and check her compliance = IOI. A small routine for you to try (from my FR):

    Like what, she asks. I signal her to lean in (compliance test #1). She does it, raises the eyebrows and repeats the question. I slowly put my hand in her hair and slide it down to her neck (compliance test #2). She doesn’t lean back and I go for the kiss.

    See how compliance can be tested? This is the whole thing with touching their necklace, earring etc. You take a socially acceptable half-step to touch her body. And you (both) can always back off if she doesn’t want it… without freaking out or spoiling the moment.

    IOI? Get closer. With each step. Several IOIs? Good to go for it. You can build the tension too… but eventually go for it. Then pull away first. Make her want more…

    Oh, and another snippet… on getting cold in winter… (was freezing cold, snow everywhere, late night, left my coat behind at a club) lol:

    We keep chatting and this lack of coat is pretty good actually – we keep cuddling and rubbing our bodies… to keep me warm lol. I order some basic food and flirt with the girl behind the counter. We find a quiet spot and talk about travels and stuff. This spot is half way through to my place, so once we’re done I tell her “let’s go” to keep it going. “Where are we going?” “Not far, give me your hand, we need to run, I’m freezing”. Almost there. I stop to talk to her a bit more and comment on the shops we pass by and other random stuff. I stop near my place and tell her she needs to do something for me. I’m freezing and she needs to hug me as hard as she can. Yes…. now rub your hands against my back…. now chest…. mhm yeah…. mmmm… I brush my cheek against her ear and face, and whisper to her ear how good it feels. When I move my nose close to her lips she turns away and says she needs to go home. I say fine, but let’s have a pot of hot tea to get warm. “Where?” “There’s my place, if you promise to behave and leave after the drinks, I may invite you in.” “I don’t know, I shouldn’t”. “It’s fine, I have both tea and wine, follow me, we’ll choose whatever feels better.” Done.

    Have fun and don’t overthink it…

    1. That works, thanks!
      I think back in summer it also did not work, but I propably did not feel the relevance yet.

  5. Field report / @NNN1

    We can all fail to see the writing on the wall even at my age so don’t beat yourself up.

    The RD arrives exactly on time and she has a nice bottle of wine. Quite an upmarket one, definitely not some shit so she’s spent more than she needs to on it. She has arrived by UBER and she’s outside the wrong block of flats up the road. She’s phoned because she can’t get in (all the apartments have security gates) and so I go out to get her.

    I just say hi, don’t hug or kiss or make a thing of it and walk her back into my place.

    As we walk in, I take my shoes off and she has to stop to undo the laces in her boots (army type boots 🙄) which she does and I also catch her glancing at the bedroom which is on the right as you walk in. I ignore this because this is only meeting 2, and probably lay 2 so I had decided that I wasn’t going to jump her the minute she walks through the door, I was going to continue with plan A and cook / generally chill out / take her to continue watching Netflix and then after a bit go for the make out and bang.

    Physically, she’s in perfect shape, and I mean an HB9. If she had the slightest idea what to do with make up etc. Clothing etc. She’d be a full 9, but she’s a geeky techie nerd that’s outwardly shy and doesn’t know what to do with her appearance so she’s punching below her wait.

    So I break out a couple of small beers and she’s sat there nervously while I’m cooking. We’re talking, and she’s nursing her drink, doesn’t really want to drink much. I’m like “OK”

    So we’re chatting and today she’s been on a 3 mile walk with her male “friend”, and he’s 23. They had a pub lunch earlier so she says she’ll eat something but not much, but I want to eat so I cook. I’m thinking her male “friend” is prob. Itching to bang her, and here she is delivering herself to a man 30 years older, complete with up market wine and her best underwear bc the younger guy didn’t bust a move.

    So I’m cooking and decided on poached chicken breast in white wine with Roquefort and mushroom sauce on slightly fried mashed potato with veg. You have to make the mash first and then slightly fry it in a nonstick pan and no oil. I basically eat clean (except alcohol and the odd bit of butter and cheese) when I can so it’s all done from basics and takes me about 30 minutes end to end.

    So I’ve done it and eat mine and she’s picking at hers. I laugh at her and say “you really weren’t hungry we’re you” – she really doesn’t want it so I take it out from under her nose and put it in the fridge. I might do something with the cold bits, I might not. But it’s no big deal, I shrug it off and take her by the hand to the sofa.

    We lay down, there’s a bit of a debate about what to watch which doesn’t last long because I go in for the kiss and here we are again making out, and no one is interested in the TV. This time she’s a load more confident in the make out and so again, I pick her up and carry her to the bedroom and it’s on. This time she’s shaved all her bits and is a lot more confident, though still really inexperienced and doesn’t really know what she wants / what she likes, doesn’t have the confidence or knowledge even about herself to take what she wants and get off properly.

    Nevertheless this time she’s dragging her clothes off and mine as well. She’s still really inexperienced and doesn’t want to rush it and asks if we can “take it slow”, to which I reply “of course, whatever you want”.

    This is only bang no.2 and she’s about 10x as confident than she was on no.1, so by the end of the weekend I think she’ll be a different woman in bed.

    Anyway the moral of all that ^^ was I could have just hit it the minute she walked through the door. I could have just taken her to the bedroom, that’s what she was (still is asleep in the bedroom) here for. She didn’t want the drink she had bought, she didn’t want the food, she didn’t want Netflix n chill, she wanted to get laid.

    1. @The Prospect

      “I wonder what the redpillers will say in response to this guy’s story”

      Wait ! aren’t you a “redpiller”? Have you read the best of TRM? What is your MPO?

      “If I am not wrong, is this guy the “contextual alpha” for her or does this situation indicate something else?”

      He has been practicing some self control so good on him yet he sort of looks like a boy toy.

      Self discipline is your key to freedom , practice self mastery in every move you make , in the physical moves ,in the mental moves (what you feed your brain) and in the way you guard and nurture your spirit. Learn game learn to represent.

    2. Who cares about some story on Twatter?

      What Sentient said: what have you personally done today to improve your situation?

      What will you do tomorrow?

  6. @TheProspect

    I wonder what the redpillers will say in response to this guy’s story
    https://twitter.com/jacobccfisher/status/1283115706532298752
    If I am not wrong, is this guy the “contextual alpha” for her or does this situation indicate something else?

    Never mind that shit. What have you done today that didn’t involve typing away on your keyboard to further your goals.

    A lot of people have stepped in here to pull you up and that will just stop unless you start to walk the walk and stop just talking about it.

    So name it – one thing – what have you done?

    And for tomorrow – what one thing are you going to do?

  7. @Stuffinbox

    *Thats my trouble, they all want to lock me down and I’m already under contract.

    my biggest fear is the bidding war fallout.*

    So this is the problem as you (but more especially they) get older.

    I don’t know whether you caught a comment upthread about a wealthy friend of mine and the women at his tennis club that are actually seeking to step in and get hold of him despite his marriage. Though he’s blue pill – I gave him the Rational Male but “he hasn’t got round to it yet” he is Alpha, and wealthy – so he’s the holy grail.

    Dating since divorce some 8 years ago has been one long procession of ruthlessly aggressive provider hunters. They all, and I mean all are seeking to consolidate on provisioning.

    They have to do it. The outcome of their lives depends on it.

    So I concluded a few years ago that for me, the future was much younger women. And I believed the theory that actually, they were much easier all round to get hold of provided they liked older men.

    I believed BlackDragon about the three types:

    They’re grossed out by the idea

    They’re red hot for it and fantasise about being owned by a confident older man and just don’t know how to make it happen because they can’t initiate / don’t have the confidence and no older guys even think they got a shot so don’t go there. These girls remain frustrated and get even more frustrated day by day.

    It’s either way, if the right older guy comes along they’ll go for it

    But I had substantial sticking points in my own head about getting hold of one. But I did work on it, and it’s taken 3 years. I did land one 30 year old over that time and another 25/26 year old but she was a coke head so I bounced her.

    I get the feeling that you @Stuffinbox also fulfil both AF and BB criteria, and so yeah, age appropriate women will be desperate to break your existing contract and get you strapped in to a contract with them.

    So what I’m slowly getting at is that you’re better off hitting younger. And until you know you can; I think it’s a surreal thought that it’s even possible. I mean what the fuck, a 53 year old hitting a 25 year old 9? That gotta be Jack Nicholson right?

    Wrong…

    About 25 is right for you. I think you need to be in ok shape, and I imagine you are.

    When I’ve though it through properly I’ll write up what I’ve learned about getting her into bed. Basically it was far far far easier than seducing an age appropriate woman. And I mean miles apart. I will write it up properly over the weekend, but I got a pressing engagement back in the bedroom I gotta go deal with.

    1. Palma

      Good to see you sorting your head and getting with a 25 yo.

      Broadly speaking… for the 50yo guys

      “Age appropriate” women i.e. 45+ come in two flavors…

      Divorced provider/companion hunter

      Married fuck/feels hunter

      Middle range age women 30s – baby hunter if not a single moma

      Post college to 28 – feels and experience hunter

      College and younger – feelz 100%

      23 to 25 is probably the best age range, and I’ve posted it before.

      They are on their own, the college bubble has worn off. They are paying their way. Their social circles have changed and shrunk, many have moved to brand new cities for jobs, they have jobs and much more responsibility and people riding their ass [not in a good way], they live in shitty apartments etc.

      And they are just discovering what it’s like to be a woman, not a girl.

      The biggest problem older guys have is their hang ups and proximity.

  8. PalmaSailor
    DECEMBER 5, 2020 AT 12:53 AM
    @Stuffinbox

    *Thats my trouble, they all want to lock me down and I’m already under contract.

    my biggest fear is the bidding war fallout.*

    “”So this is the problem as you (but more especially they) get older.””

    Yep , even as the Mrs. gets older she is more territorial.

    “I don’t know whether you caught a comment upthread about a wealthy friend of mine and the women at his tennis club that are actually seeking to step in and get hold of him despite his marriage. Though he’s blue pill – I gave him the Rational Male but “he hasn’t got round to it yet” he is Alpha, and wealthy – so he’s the holy grail.”

    Yep , I read that , he is in a similar situation as the women that are chasing are close to home and pose a threat to his resources.

    “Dating since divorce some 8 years ago has been one long procession of ruthlessly aggressive provider hunters. They all, and I mean all are seeking to consolidate on provisioning.

    They have to do it. The outcome of their lives depends on it.”

    Yep , even the wife has stepped up her mate guarding as she gets older.

    “So I concluded a few years ago that for me, the future was much younger women. And I believed the theory that actually, they were much easier all round to get hold of provided they liked older men.”

    Came to the same conclusion.

    “I believed BlackDragon about the three types:

    They’re grossed out by the idea

    They’re red hot for it and fantasise about being owned by a confident older man and just don’t know how to make it happen because they can’t initiate / don’t have the confidence and no older guys even think they got a shot so don’t go there. These girls remain frustrated and get even more frustrated day by day.

    It’s either way, if the right older guy comes along they’ll go for it ”

    I’ve got Blackdragon bookmarked.

    “But I had substantial sticking points in my own head about getting hold of one. But I did work on it, and it’s taken 3 years. I did land one 30 year old over that time and another 25/26 year old but she was a coke head so I bounced her.

    I get the feeling that you @Stuffinbox also fulfil both AF and BB criteria, and so yeah, age appropriate women will be desperate to break your existing contract and get you strapped in to a contract with them.

    So what I’m slowly getting at is that you’re better off hitting younger. And until you know you can; I think it’s a surreal thought that it’s even possible. I mean what the fuck, a 53 year old hitting a 25 year old 9? That gotta be Jack Nicholson right?

    Wrong…”

    I don’t have the sticking points any longer , they mostly stemmed from the crab barrel and “beta competition” that always tries to put alpha in its place.
    As @sentient says down thread it is more of a proximity thing and like your friend upthread they are to proximal as most within a 50 mile radius grew up with my kids.

    “About 25 is right for you. I think you need to be in ok shape, and I imagine you are.”

    I’ve had numerous IOI’s from these and around that mark but held off for proximity reasons.

    “When I’ve though it through properly I’ll write up what I’ve learned about getting her into bed. Basically it was far far far easier than seducing an age appropriate woman. And I mean miles apart. I will write it up properly over the weekend, but I got a pressing engagement back in the bedroom I gotta go deal with.”

    All insight is appreciated. For now I will up the Alpha and down the BB provider q’s on the strange. Gotta get the AF/BB Game turned up at home at the same time , as the candle burns at both ends. LOL

  9. @TheProspect

    I wonder what the redpillers will say in response to this guy’s story
    https://twitter.com/jacobccfisher/status/1283115706532298752
    If I am not wrong, is this guy the “contextual alpha” for her or does this situation indicate something else?

    you are wrong…lol…

    stop trying to make yourself feel better by trying to disparage other men… that^^^ dude is just alpha to that girl… no ‘context’ at all… you saying that is just trying to make it seem like that dude really isn’t ‘alpha’ bc you don’t think he is ‘good enough’ to be alpha…lol…

    as far as that girl is concerned, HE is the best genetic stock SHE can get… in this moment, at least…lol…

    questions:

    whose frame is that^^^ dude operating in?… hint – it’s not yours…lol… or the girl’s…
    whose frame are YOU operating in?… hint – it’s his…

    you need to stop worrying about other men, and get YOUR sh*t together… and this is probably the hardest concept to choke down… ‘alpha’ is when you are in your own frame… anything else is either beta or omega… (beta has some attractiveness to girls based on provisioning capacity… omega is no use to girls at all… so girls won’t even acknowledge them…)

    listen to all the great advice you are getting here… IF you really do want to improve YOUR life, YOU need to take action… = put in the effort/work…

    goal = move your Mental Point of Origin into yourself… right now it is everywhere BUT yourself…lol… (that’s why everybody can SEE it…lol… including all those real girls out in the real world…)

    to get there you need to put in some effort…

    1) read the best of series up top… i gave you the link on where to start…

    2) workout…right now… at least one of those routines that @stuffinbox put up for you…

    3) (and this is going to be the hardest one for you…) STOP worrying about other men… or whether THEY are alpha or beta… and AFTER you read those best of series, you should be able to understand this sh*t too… so you won’t need other men to tell you…

    ps. WHY are you not changing your handle?… serious question…

    good luck!

  10. @Stuffinbox / All

    There are some massive lessons here to be learned in terms of resetting your own mind.

    Now you have to bear in mind that not all younger women are equal, some don’t have much experience, whereas some have handled more pipe that ExxonMobil.

    This one hasn’t had much experience and is a “nice one”. But there are lessons. This one is a (junior) A&E Doctor. And as a sideline she’s been doing this stuff for years – Now this isn’t her, but the picture is almost identical to what got in my bed Friday night and is still there this morning which is Sunday – and we only got out to use the shower, I went to the local supermarket and we went to the Italian last night (more on both those below):

    https://imgur.com/a/neDSADU

    And for the heightists, she’s taller than me.

    But looking at it I’ve been flunking this for three years straight.

    I don’t know how much you’ve followed but I’ve been hitting town on party central and opening sets of younger women week in week out. And I’ve had IOI’s spinning off them like fireworks and flunked it every single time. I’ve even had them on video talking shit and poasted it here but nope.. I couldn’t get it anywhere. This shit, and this approach (apart from being good practice) is a waste of time:

    https://imgur.com/a/NsoasHO

    There are a number of things going on. First and foremost to split that set at that time in the evening you’d have to be Brad Pitt. And then you wouldn’t split them, you’d invite them back to your place and bang all of them. Outside of that the only thing in their heads is hitting town.

    Now I didn’t go with them to that club bc there wasn’t any point; I was never gonna make it to 6AM. If I could have made it to 6AM still standing and functioning then I would have got one of them, but by that time she’d have been so off her face it’s a dangerous move.

    Now there are gonna be those that say “your game wasn’t tight enough” and they’re possibly right. But I’d say to them, “ok, go do it, and video it like I did, bring that back and I’ll listen”. Factually, I moved to the peoples republic of ghey on the 21st Oct 2017, and moved back on the 21st Oct 2020. So I went out for 150 weekends in a straight line, purposefully let go of anything remotely age appropriate that I could have banged (probably 150 women) and got nothing apart from one go with a 26 yo coke head and a 30-35 y/o Japanese plate. In contrast after coming back here – By the 4th Dec I’d done it.

    So practically speaking although in theory you could do it if your game was tight enough there are easier ways if you’re a middle aged man.

    The next thing which is cropping up is that initially at least this one hadn’t told any of her friends she came over. Because of the Black Dragon rules (you have to be careful – not all his stuff is right) above, 2/3 of her social set are either gonna be grossed out by it, or ..meh.., and the ..meh.. ones are gonna be swayed by the grossed out ones.

    On balance my girl is gonna be shamed.. and she knows it UNLESS ….

    So… I don’t think mine notified the full board of directors with the smug declaration that she’s had the day in bed with this guy, until it could be done with enough positivity that she could nail off the information feeding frenzy with enough evidence.

    I.e. she had to have such a good time …

    When word got out what she’s done, then the sisterhood are gonna demand detail. And minute detail at that. They’re gonna sit her down with bottles of wine, they’re gonna feed her that and they’re gonna rip it to bits. Probably for hours.

    But that’s in hindsight, with her having HAD the amazing sex, with the cool guy, and it’s all been good / safe / fun / actually incredible bc she got off for the first time ever.. etc..

    That’s the opposite of societal programming which is men are shamed, dangerous, older ones are creepy, and they can’t be any good in bed bc old/gross/incompetent …

    [As a housekeeping note here, at one stage yesterday this one said words along the lines that “she wanted to try all the positions”, and I said “no you don’t, you’re just struggling to get off, and you think the answer to that will be found with different positions, but the answer is in your head, so just relax and we’ll go slower”. She said “OK”. We did and she hits the bell every time now.]

    So this dovetails where I’ve flirted outwardly with younger women. And I’ve had the IOI’s, and I’ve sexualised the conversation “don’t be cheeky young lady or you’ll get your arse smacked” – aaaaannnnnnnd that’s killed it. You can see the hamster reset in real time and they shut down / move away.

    But that ^^ approach, which works perfectly with older women dovetails EXACTLY into the societal programming above. With all the downsides, including “bad” danger, as opposed to “good” danger. An older woman that’s been round the block would pick up on the sub comms whether you were truly dangerous. This, amongst other things, is part of what the “chemistry” sorts out. The hamster is running a criminal record check on you during the attraction phase.

    So the conclusion for younger women is to fish with a net. And don’t do it consciously. You need to be in good condition, and you need to have you’re clothing and stuff straight. Really that just means not being a slob, and your clothes need to be relatively up to date for your age.

    And I think the other thing I’ve concluded is forget the A (attraction) please. With much younger women, that bit is already there. They can already feel your vibe and they already know you’ve gut stuff they want. Some of these girls can’t even get themselves off. And they’re looking at you imagining you can make that happen. So you need wholesale proximity, and then you just need to be the chilled out older guy.

    If they didn’t want older they wouldn’t be there. They do want older but can’t admit to it.

    Then, and this is the difficult bit, you need to spot the 1/3 that are super hot for you, and these are probably actually the ones that can’t make eye contact / look down (submission) immediately after making eye contact.

    Then you need to get her to a comfort location where you can DHV. You may need plausible deniability to get her alone / to your place / to somewhere you can DHV and IOD WHEN you get the first pushback and this is especially true if you’re trying to do it publicly. Inviting one girl back to help you with your colour scheme after Yoga in the lobby in front of the whole room of women will get you an “ive got a bf” whereas making small talk whilst walking next to her to the parking lot where both your cars (truck) is parked will get an “I can’t do today but I could do tomorrow at 3”

    That 1/3 woman is desperate to get it on and she’s in your proximity but her bits aren’t shaved.

    Knowing what I know now, I’d never now try that publicly, I’d invite her privately- so no one knows, and she can delete it from memory if it’s a disaster.

    Then you need an event where you can DHV and IOD, and for me cooking is ideal. You’ll have to think of something different since your contractual arrangements will scupper that.

    You also need an excuse to travel off patch. And this may sound ghey, but hot yoga. Two reasons, it’s rare and you prob have to travel miles to find one and It’s brilliant for relaxing all the bits that go wrong as we age, it’s full of all kinds of women. The older ones will make a hit on you, and you can pivot off those. There are men I know that get N after N from that.

    Then you got the yoga retreats, where you all go away somewhere for a few days..

    ** So on the trip to the supermarket mentioned above, I was walking in to get stuff for breakfast and walking out the other way was my ex wife’s new bloke. We made pleasant small talk, he asked if was skiing at Xmas and I said I’m not bc it’s gonna be a waste of time and I have too much work. We smiled and went out separate ways, him back to my ex wife and me back to a totally different day.

    ** then there was the Italian restaurant. I’m known there, and it’s old school. You’re walking into Italy when you step in there. So I walk in with the RD and the men waiters that know me take one look at her and look at me with a shit eating grin “Mr Palma” nice to see you and we get seated.

    I was there Wednesday with the nurse, and I’ve taken all the women there from years ago.

    The interesting thing was the wine waitress, she’s mid to late 20’s early 30’s and I’ve flirted with her when I’ve been there with male friends and she’s fobbed me off. When I was there with the nurse I got more attention from her but this visit was a whole different ball game.

    She greets me at the table and says “Ohhhh so is this your daughter?”. So the RD spins round instantly and says noooooo! I’m not his daughter and I’ve got a shit eating grin and making full eye contact with the waitress now. The waitress is mortified, she’s fumbling and stumbling and sooooo apologetic… but from there in the evening every time she walked past the table it was full on electric sparking eye contact and the biggest smile I’ve ever seen on her.

    1. Palma

      Yeah there is a lot to unpack. But not now. Enjoy your triumph!

      Careful with substituting one set of beliefs for another just yet.

      That feeling when – the ex’s mister and the waitress… 😆 🤣 😂

    2. @Palma, not gonna paste.

      Thanks ,that’s ^^ a masterpiece of writing. I am in agreement on most points , they require as much secret society game as if they were in my own close circle. The attraction is there and with the novice pipe fitters , LOL , the eye contact is fleeting as opposed to the “ExonMobile” competition that will get right in my face and pull back and in as they have been gamed before.

      On the hot Yoga idea , I’ve considered it before just to get limbered up ( I am in shape but still a brute) and invited the Mrs. to come along she refused on the grounds of ” too many libs” and told me to go ahead, so plausible. I need to get back to my old routine that was working great ,= working hard and going hot spring soaking regular. The accident shut me down for a long time and now that I’m back I need to pick that back up as well.

      LTR’s eat and breath on dread , Mrs. Box is on the weekly rotation to keep her tamed down in the comfort zone. I gave her some O’s sat night and as a matter of course get mine yet to keep it alive requires I have options. Also those options can’t be flown in her face and rather need to be denied.

      See if you can get RD in the rotation ( not like a Rock in the Dually as the nurse is turning into) before she is all knowed up, make your space part of her training.

      LOL , the EX’s mister , sucks to be him.

      The spaghetti server girl is in her element at work where she is top of the SMV and you topped her rating so great work man.

  11. @Sentient

    “Careful with substituting one set of beliefs for another just yet.”

    If I’ve done that I didn’t intend to.

    Fundamentally my belief set hasn’t changed, it’s still AF/BB for evolutionary reasons.

    But someone did say, the greater the age gap, the tighter the game needs to be. And I’ve never met in real life a 53 yo man that’s got with a 25 yo woman who wasn’t being paid to be there.

    I know you and a few here have done it, but we’re a minority. And the process needs to be inspected because there are the societal shaming issues. The other thing that I don’t think is a coincidence is that a load of the PUA boys time out at 40. I think Krauser is the only one still going at about 46, and he’s changed his MO I think. So there may be a bit more to it at our age than even Mystery observed during his time in the game. And that is the societal shaming – the very same thing that is pivotal in secret society game – which is the next thing I need to deal with.

    What I do think that I have is more of an understanding of the dynamic than I had. And pragmatically that will probably lead to a very different success rate in this area. Frankly, it’ll just be easier working the yoga class than it will be to work the bars.

    I don’t know if you remember the chip shop waitress from when I was working at old friends house, but I’m gonna re visit that the next time I drive by and see her on shift. It’s only takeaway now because of the zombie apocalypse so it’s going to be a fast quiet word and flirt when no one is overhearing and I’ll report back.

    1. Palma

      I don’t know how much you’ve followed but I’ve been hitting town on party central and opening sets of younger women week in week out. And I’ve had IOI’s spinning off them like fireworks and flunked it every single time.

      Well your biggest issue was never transitioning into comfort, just going “bat to the fence”. With RD – consider you met online and texted for a month right? I suspect you introduced just enough comfort. Also online is a medium that lends itself to “growing” an interaction over time.

      It is not for nothing that Blackdragon DOES NOT do cold approach, he is all online first, then pitch a meet. If we believed in Scribblerg’s exploits, he admitted to going 100% online for all those 9’s…

      Think about the A>C>S process and how it’s played out online vs in person.

      I’ve even had them on video talking shit and poasted it here but nope.. I couldn’t get it anywhere. This shit, and this approach (apart from being good practice) is a waste of time:

      https://imgur.com/a/NsoasHO

      There are a number of things going on. First and foremost to split that set at that time in the evening you’d have to be Brad Pitt. And then you wouldn’t split them, you’d invite them back to your place and bang all of them. Outside of that the only thing in their heads is hitting town.

      Well yeah… The “rhythm of the night” is a thing… and the night of the week is a thing. Saturday night being well known as the worst night for PU because expectations to GO OUT are so high and you have to deal with much more group dynamics and drama. Even RSD had to admit in some of the more candid moments that you need to be mindful of the time of the evening. Yareally wrote extensively about early in the night and girls “all dolled up” and wanting to flex, get their drink on, get their dance on tec. for a while. So you do short set, make contact, get numbers for “after party” etc. And of course you know about “golden hour” as the most likely time for pulling.

      Of course good practice makes perfect, so it’s never a waste of time. Especially for guys who have limited social skills and experience.

      I was never gonna make it to 6AM. If I could have made it to 6AM still standing and functioning then I would have got one of them

      See this goes back to my upthread comment about PROXIMITY. The hardest part about “olde” guys getting with 20’s girls is PROXIMITY. Because olde guys don’t want to be up at 2AM pulling girls, and bouncing and and and… And in clubs with music they hate, in parts of town they don’t go to etc etc etc.

      PROXIMITY…

      So I went out for 150 weekends in a straight line, purposefully let go of anything remotely age appropriate that I could have banged

      I’m not a numbers guy, you know (i.e you don’t need to make 100 approaches to get 1 lay etc.). But these really aren’t too big by the numbers… How many opens was that, how many were you really trying on vs taking the piss having fun and importantly how many opens ONCE you understood the ACS model and worked on that? It’s not all that many. Relatedly, a better approach may have been to go out 150 nights in a row… Massive experience teaches more lessons.

      I bet NOW with just this 25Yo RD under your belt you would do 5X better this weekend doing the old places…

      So practically speaking although in theory you could do it if your game was tight enough there are easier ways if you’re a middle aged man.

      Well yeah… There are easier ways. and most of those involve PROXIMITY first and foremost, then Game.

      Because of the Black Dragon rules (you have to be careful – not all his stuff is right) above, 2/3 of her social set are either gonna be grossed out by it, or ..meh.., and the ..meh.. ones are gonna be swayed by the grossed out ones.

      I think BD admitted to sugaring at least some of his lays, but whatevs… But yeah Secret Society is Secret. Until she tells her friends.

      So this dovetails where I’ve flirted outwardly with younger women. And I’ve had the IOI’s, and I’ve sexualised the conversation “don’t be cheeky young lady or you’ll get your arse smacked” – aaaaannnnnnnd that’s killed it. You can see the hamster reset in real time and they shut down / move away.

      But watch the IOI/IOD loop… always watch the sequencing…

      And I think the other thing I’ve concluded is forget the A (attraction) please. With much younger women, that bit is already there. They can already feel your vibe and they already know you’ve gut stuff they want. Some of these girls can’t even get themselves off. And they’re looking at you imagining you can make that happen. So you need wholesale proximity, and then you just need to be the chilled out older guy.

      well you neeeeeed A, and you can lay them with A and very little C… But Mystery says the Game is won in comfort for a reason. So it sounds like you are now getting fully on board with calibration and realizing that YOU are that cool chill guy, that YOU have A so you don’t need bat to the fence and over revving the cam…

      Years ago I likened Attraction, Comfort and Rapport to driving. A being Gas, C being Brake and R being the transmission, shifting to the right gear smoothly at the right time…

      Then you need to get her to a comfort location where you can DHV. You may need plausible deniability to get her alone / to your place / to somewhere you can DHV and IOD WHEN you get the first pushback and this is especially true if you’re trying to do it publicly. Inviting one girl back to help you with your colour scheme after Yoga in the lobby in front of the whole room of women will get you an “ive got a bf” whereas making small talk whilst walking next to her to the parking lot where both your cars (truck) is parked will get an “I can’t do today but I could do tomorrow at 3”

      https://images.gawker.com/19bfmx8h9v4r9gif/c_scale,fl_progressive,q_80,w_800.gif

      Knowing what I know now, I’d never now try that publicly, I’d invite her privately- so no one knows, and she can delete it from memory if it’s a disaster.

      Calibration, Social intelligence, Just Getting It(TM) etc…

      Hot Yoga… it’s full of all kinds of women.

      Do you recall me posing the idea of living in a penthouse on top of three commercial bays – one being Yoga/Pilates, one being Coffee / Desserts and one being a Tapas / Champaign bar (with lots of flowers…)????

      Fish with a net indeed..

      The other thing that I don’t think is a coincidence is that a load of the PUA boys time out at 40.

      Meh, they get tired, they are BP and think they find unicorns… Your energy level can dip as you get older it’s true…

      So there may be a bit more to it at our age than even Mystery observed during his time in the game.

      Mystery is back in the game..

      What I do think that I have is more of an understanding of the dynamic than I had. And pragmatically that will probably lead to a very different success rate in this area.

      THIS!!!!! ^^^^^

      Frankly, it’ll just be easier working the yoga class than it will be to work the bars.

      Best success, i.e. closing rate, is game where you are the most comfortable and all the time.

      Enjoy!

  12. Great write up @Palma. Slowing down and drawing them into your world resonates.

    Buzzing for you for this breakthrough, man.

    This trying, and flunking, and it taking time is a thing. I’ve been working on my own stuff for the last few years. And it’s only natural to default to applying what has worked in the past… only to discover it’s perfect for keeping you where you are and not moving forward. So the approach and techniques need to shift and it doesn’t come naturally. Part of the process.

    @Sentient, solid comment and great clips. Mystery is a cool cat, you can tell he’s gone deeper since Project Hollywood.

    So it sounds like you are now getting fully on board with calibration and realizing that YOU are that cool chill guy, that YOU have A so you don’t need bat to the fence and over revving the cam… 

    This^^^ It can lead to great results… if applied patiently and consistently to rewire a habit.

    The “forget the A (attraction) phase” is of course in relation to going semi-direct at 1000 rpm, getting “on cam” and going “bat to the fence”. It used to work for the young gun, same as for early Julien Blanc. Add 30 years, ignore secret society, calibration and comfort/trust, and it ruffles some social feathers (I remember a male bartender on Palma’s old turf, refusing to serve us and telling me not to hang out with this guy with a dancing monkey PUA vibe to him… lol).

    Good points from the Todd video too (copy-paste from the comments):
    4 Factors in determining your success in pulling:
    1 – How many hot girls are there
    2 – How receptive will they be to you and your style of game
    3 – How much do you make sense in the environment
    4 – Your logistics

    Let’s not miss a very important thing: Palma still talks about DHV and other attraction switches. Which is the A stuff, it’s not gone. Mystery approves. I wouldn’t worry about the language used to describe this shift. This only means that our One & Only Older Guy Doing The Work™ is still associating Attraction material with going fast and hard. Dropping it to play the Game from the place of comfort will feel like skipping the attraction stage. But it’s still there, just shifted to a chilled, toned-down space. It’s a stepping stone to rediscover A-C-S at a deeper level. Fantastic!

    BTW several years ago I wrote:

    I’d say what Julien does in pickup, after a breaking rapport opener, is that he constantly spikes the interaction with just enough calibration not to lose the girl (which in itself is comfort building that he can sense her state and is aware of her environment). He creates vacuum, she feels she needs his validation, she chases and kind of gets it but she’s never quite sure (“you don’t have to try so hard, you don’t have to prove yourself, I like you, it’s fine” followed by further pushes). It’s a constant (in a loop) emphasis on A2 with glimpses and brushes of other phases and pushing the interaction forward, with so much OMG from the girl, vacuum and chasing (“who is this guy?!”) that she can’t stop herself… until she finally gets her solid A3… released directly in her vag… lol… Last dick standing indeed… because by the time she can win him over, she’s already been through it all and they’re already isolated, so she may as well just fuck him… Note that when he overdoes his spiking (“say please god, now bark, now on your knees, now say you’re a puppet”), he gives her a more explicit A3 by saying it’s all because of something about her that makes him go OMG too…

    His method is crafted to be on a knife edge. Each strong push (easy to see) is counterbalanced with a group of small pulls (less obvious because hidden in body language, tone of voice, direction of the interaction and overall calibration… unless you see him miss it like in his rejection videos) to not fall off. Its power is in its momentum so can’t slow it down too abruptly (or at all?) into a low intensity conversation. It’s difficult to follow without practice. Usually overdone with too much monkey dancing, being obnoxious or hitting only the A2 button for too long.

    In contrast, Juggler used to run the whole game in comfort. He opened with a casual statement or question, made her feel interesting and engaged until she gave him enough to reward her for that by relating and creating even deeper connection (in a constant loop like Julien’s spiking)… balanced with progressing kino and escalation. The same principle in that one phase seems to be dominant and colors the whole interaction, but others are there too to counterbalance and keep it on track to the end goal. Pitfalls in this case? Easy to fall into the LJBF frame (too much comfort, not enough attraction).

    One great thing I’ve learned from the Juggler Method is making people interesting. Most women don’t know how to be/do it themselves. Draw it out of them and a whole new world of possibilities opens up.

    Secret society, womanese/cat-o-nese, liminal space, vibing, slowly pulling them in… it’s all under the radar. This bubble is easy to pop/ignore. As a result, women stop/don’t play along and render themselves boring or frustrating.

    This is where becoming a cool chill guy comes into play. Not in rush, knowing the girl(s) will come around in the long run. Playing the game in the middle spaces, speaking cat-o-nese, but still moving through A-C-S. It’s just the timescales that are different.

    <

    blockquote>A young bull and an old bull are standing on a hill. Looking at the field below, the young bull exclaims, “Hey! Let’s run down quickly and fuck some cows!” The old bull looks at the eager youngster and says “First, we won’t run but walk. Second, not quickly but without rush. And third, not some but all.”

    <

    blockquote>

    Great stuff @Palma, very happy to see this.

    1. Read stuff IRL. I remember your earlier post and observations re JB. His rejection real was great think it was 10 Game, perfect example of bat to the fence failing, and lack of “state”.

      Now I’m not a huge “state” guy because it excuses way too much if it becomes the main focus. But energy and positive feedback loops are real.

      I was thinking about my comment of 150 straight days vs 150 straight weekends, comparing with my travel habit of going hard 4 to 5 nights… after the first night you end up slipping into mode at breakfast… then lunch… then for a full 72 hours… just going around with a super power. Everything hitting 10x harder… and the game getting so much easier. Girls just awed and transfixed… and you floating on a self assured cloud above it all.

      It was interesting to hear Mystery and Todd both touch on energy and state in those clips… and to think about what places work better than others and why?

      Jury out but definitely some venues work better and some geography work better. For me LA, AZ and S FL are all over th top great while the NE and NW not so much. The venues are all typically similar mostly (not as much in NW), upscale lounges, restaurants with bar scenes and lobby bars.

      But the reactions very different. I’m the same in all places, same dress etc. It’s not like I’m dressed like Johnny Depp in LA. But those places, perhaps they have more cool older guys… certainly the guys are cooler who are entrepreneurs, in entertainment, real estate development etc. Vs finance, banking consulting law etc. And its common to see older guy younger girl pairings in those places. Like real common.

      Interesting

  13. @IRL

    “(I remember a male bartender on Palma’s old turf, refusing to serve us and telling me not to hang out with this guy with a dancing monkey PUA vibe to him… lol).”

    Err actually if you remember he took the money for the beer, and then told us we had to go sit down. I said I didn’t want to sit down and he said we had to.

    So I said “you should have said that before you took my money” and he offered a refund which I took and walked out.

    But yeah it got his back up .. lol

  14. @PalmaSailor

    congrats!… you are really making progress!… and props on putting up those FRs…

    @Sentient

    “Careful with substituting one set of beliefs for another just yet.”

    If I’ve done that I didn’t intend to.

    blind spots are… wait for it… blind!…lol

    I believed BlackDragon about the three types:

    They’re grossed out by the idea

    They’re red hot for it and fantasise about being owned by a confident older man and just don’t know how to make it happen because they can’t initiate / don’t have the confidence and no older guys even think they got a shot so don’t go there. These girls remain frustrated and get even more frustrated day by day.

    It’s either way, if the right older guy comes along they’ll go for it

    combine this^^^ idea with this…

    The next thing which is cropping up is that initially at least this one hadn’t told any of her friends she came over. Because of the Black Dragon rules (you have to be careful – not all his stuff is right) above, 2/3 of her social set are either gonna be grossed out by it, or ..meh.., and the ..meh.. ones are gonna be swayed by the grossed out ones.

    On balance my girl is gonna be shamed.. and she knows it UNLESS ….

    and…

    That’s the opposite of societal programming which is men are shamed, dangerous, older ones are creepy, and they can’t be any good in bed bc old/gross/incompetent …

    what purpose does this^^^ (shaming/’grossed out’/ etc) serve the sisterhood?…

    @Rollo has many OPs on this very topic…lol.. basically, meta-level sh*t testing for alpha… with provisioning for older girls as the reason… i’m sure you’ve gotten the hate stares from those age appropriate girls when you are out with a young hotty…lol

    sooo, accounting for that provisioning concept for older girls… let’s reframe… to a more consistent evo/bio/psych analysis…

    1/3 is hot for older men… (they want it bc girls like sex with a DHV man… but they need you to DHV to make it happen… bc they can’t initiate…)

    1/3 is meh… (they like sex with a DHV man… and need to see that DHV to go against the sisterhood’s basic ‘betas for older girls’ provisioning needs’ social expectation… = age appropriate…lol… bc you need to not be in that beta provisioning category…)

    1/3 is ‘grossed out’… (they want it super bad from a DHV man…lol… but need more DHV… to overcome that societal expectation… so they sh*t test more… which is what that ‘grossed out’ actually is…lol… basically, you need to overcome her programming, so going in she knows she won’t be disappointed…)

    AWALT…lol… on a sliding bell curve distro… just like always…

    good luck!

  15. @IRL

    great comment… +1…

    here’s what the girl’s hindbrain sees in those ‘bat to the fence’ subcomms…

    lol…

    aaand… the new chill ‘older man’ vibe that @PalmaSailor has finally settled into…

    lol… but not kidding…

    good luck!

  16. @PalmaSailor

    The interesting thing was the wine waitress, she’s mid to late 20’s early 30’s and I’ve flirted with her when I’ve been there with male friends and she’s fobbed me off. When I was there with the nurse I got more attention from her but this visit was a whole different ball game.

    She greets me at the table and says “Ohhhh so is this your daughter?”. So the RD spins round instantly and says noooooo! I’m not his daughter and I’ve got a shit eating grin and making full eye contact with the waitress now. The waitress is mortified, she’s fumbling and stumbling and sooooo apologetic… but from there in the evening every time she walked past the table it was full on electric sparking eye contact and the biggest smile I’ve ever seen on her.

    pre-selection in play…lol… that sh*t WORKS!!!…

    good luck!

  17. Hi guys, I am going to meet some gurlz and friends tomorrow and on the weekend.
    I reached the MM chapter about Kino and he talks a lot about canned Kino-routines. So – what are your favorite ones?

    NNN1

    1. @NNN1

      I don’t do it at all in the way it’s suggested because I think it’s creepy “pawing at them”..

      But what I do is link arms on a venue bounce. Which they love if we’ve been getting on well, and then I withdraw it at the next venue.

      I’m sure the effect is the same in that it breaks the physical barrier which is what you’re trying to do.

  18. Thanks for all your input everyone.

    Just to clarify, I meant that I need to forget about the A, not that A needs to be forgotten about. That doesn’t mean that I don’t know it’s important, it means that I overcook it. And even backing off entirely, I still won’t be able to stop really, so it’s still gonna be there. So I was talking about me, even if I wrote it differently.

    It’s no secret I’ve always been weak on comfort (I’m not actually, post bang I’m good at it. I’m weak at it pre bang), but I didn’t realise just how terminal that was, or how terribly fragile most women are. With the emphasis on fragility. It’s a bad state of affairs out there.

    I had a date a few years back with one that was about 25, and she was very cute and at least a 7, and I didn’t even NEG her, but I did play with her a bit and she said something like “don’t say that you’ll make me cry”.

    Firstly I’ve got history which means women’s tears don’t touch me. I just see them for the emotional blackmail they are. It goes back a long way, but I just look at them usually and say “you can stop it with the tears shit it’s not washing”.

    So anyway, I laughed at her. I didn’t believe she was really THAT fragile. So I’m like “don’t be daft, cry, what’s the matter with you?” Aaaand she really was so fragile that the slightest thing just destroyed her already paper thin self esteem. It didn’t really matter that it blew me out bc she was just such a wimp that I just didn’t want to know. I’m more interested in one that can stand up for herself a bit, so I didn’t go back and look at that interaction until now.

    And that’s what I’ve always gone for. Get one that’s got a bit of fire in her and get her on cam – and it’s a clear run home. And at my age now it still is a clear run home IF I can spot one that can take the pace / I don’t end up beating up cripples…even if they do look like racing whippets.. LOL…

    One of the things that has always fascinated me about women is their two sided persona. And I mean something very precise by that, which is that to the outside they are such nice girls, very nice. White outfits, lovely make up, very polite, butter wouldn’t melt, they’ve offended at rude talk. Etc. But when you get into them, they’re the most debauched things in private you could ever imagine. A properly wound up woman is way way way filthier than almost any man.

    So it starts to figure when you see all these women with all these lame soy “dudes”. I mean look at them, all they’ve got is comfort. Half the women have shit self esteem and all THOSE dudes have is comfort, so it’s a race to the bottom.

    If most beta chumps could actually fire up their wives/ girlfriends then the women concerned – if they really did “let it all go, and go for it” then they would scare the shit out of those men.

    So anyway, the penny dropped with the RD. Yes she was scared to step into my world, and yes she did push back on the initial make out. But that was just the hamster working out if this thing she was walking into was gonna get out of hand, or whether her judgement of me was correct.

    @Sentient

    “If we actually took @Scrib’s claims at face value”

    Well I was always a bit sceptical. There just seemed to be too many of them for him to also be holding down any type of job. I went on an SB site years ago and I did get mobbed but just wasn’t interested in playing that game. So I thought they were SB’s. Someone else just says that he gives it the seagull treatment in here, flies in, shits on the place and flies out, and that’s about right.

    But the thing that I realise now that I didn’t realise then was if he is getting these much younger women – that want to stick around him (as opposed to getting cash out of it) – then he wouldn’t be as angry as he seems to be. When you’re in your local Italian and she pulls her card out to pay her half, you’re not in SB territory, and theres nothing in life to be angry about.

    If on the other hand you get a taste for it but can’t keep them around without funding it then I could see you’d end up angry.

    I’m spending my days in a van with two 25 year old men at the moment. I employed them because I liked them – and I was right about them. Their tales are enlightening. One commented about staying with an ex girlfriend and that exes new bf.. but the ex coming into his room for the bang in the early hours whilst the new bf is asleep. The other one commented “CUCKED!! Lol” so It’s not over for men.. luckily.

  19. So I’ve got two more on the go.

    So:

    Plate 1 is the nurse coming over next week
    Plate 2 is the 25 RD coming over tomorrow

    I reckon I’ve got a vacancy for about another two / three of them and at that point my sub comms will be different. I’ve never before actually had abundance in contemporaneous real time of 4-5 women. It’s been 2 Max.

    One is fairly self explanatory, I was supposed to get to see her in November and I had to push it back

    https://imgur.com/a/hQBnhZg

    And one I’ve just spun up tonight:

    https://imgur.com/a/YMAh1Tx

    There are probably 5 more in the hopper that I haven’t really bothered with.

    And basically I’m going to be almost lethargic in my actions. Very comfortable – I might even have a skinny chai vegan caramel peppermint latte..

    Both of those are 40+ from online, and I will say that online is very different now to pre apocalypse.

    1. Pama

      I hope you watched these… so good. so much “small game”, calibration and chess not checkers…

      But this one here is very much for you… first 4 minutes…

      How to take those battles to A3… instead of DEFCON 1

      enjoy!

  20. @Sentient What’s DEFCON?

    @TheProspect
    What has happened? You promised to come back and report, so we wait here! Just know it’s perfectly normal to not become Mystery 2.0 in one week in Decrember. It takes time and many small steps.
    Because it may help you and bring some traffic to this:
    here’s my little report of this week.

    It’s last weekend and I plan to get back to university to meet some friends (and some prospective girlfriends). I start texting more intensively again to arrange shit when my buddy calls and tells me he and the others have COVID. One has no symptoms, the other one spends the week in bed, no taste whatsoever, hit him pretty hard.
    So I arrange a test for Monday and look forward to the positive result and thus got my inner buffer for aggressive texting. On Tuesday evening I get the result: negative! I’m happy, it’s good news – but also I need to see now, I lost two to three days to text and arrange meetups.
    Anyway, E. (target 1) is arranged for Thursday evening and G (the Italian, target 2) cancelled on my proposed Wednesday or Friday. As if it wasn’t bad enough, the shoulder rest of my violin broke down. I wanted to carry it with me, now I had to hand it in for a repair on Thursday morning.

    On Thursday morning, as I wake up, I read E.’s message: “I have so much stuff for university to do and I don’t want to have too much contact – so I will not do it today.”
    Now already in a bad mood, I text my buddy Marcus, to meetup with him instead for mulled cider.” We do it, he also invited A., a French girl. My mood clears up.

    After lunch I leave for the university – I want to stay until I finished a part of the textbook for one subject.
    An hour before the meet A. texts me: “where is the nxt bus stop to your place? Do you have flour and sugar, so we can make pancakes?”.

    I tell her to bring flour and sugar and Marcus to bring Milk and eggs. And the oranges for the cider, I brought the spices.
    Marcus arrives on time, A. does not, of course!
    twenty minutes later she calls, as she can’t find the right tower block. So we go out to reach them and there it is again: She brought some other lad, could at least have told us she would. Anyway, we get in. I let her and her lad prepare the pancakes. They are kind of ok, but not what I would expect from two french guys.

    Buuuut: The cider is good and about three bottles of wine later it’s all fun and good.

    The next day I text G. and E. again. G is pretty reserved, gives at least token resistance – but E. is willing to go for a walk in the park at 16:35. About a month ago, I wanted to never do that again, but I thought about and planned it. So, why not?

    I arrive one minute late, in bad weather, rainy snow, if you know what I mean. She walks right up to me, gives me a hug. That was the first thing I wanted to adjust with me. We walk through the snow a bit, talk some chitchat-blabla. On the stonehenge-like hill, I initiate some kino, probably lowest level – but a giant leap compared to the previous dates. We agree to go to my place for a cup of tea.
    I still failed to hold hands. I donot even know, why since I thought about that al the time. As we arrived, she sits down, right at the edge of the bank at the table. I make the tea and sit down, more blabla. I sit at the same corner on a chair, our legs touch. After a few minutes, we go out on the terrace, she wears no shoes and her socks get wet, she freezes, yet accepts it for bout half a minute. Some standing arm in arm, only a few inches between our faces.

    We go in again, she is comfortable with me touching her hair. “Is it dyed?” – “Yeah, some lockdown thing. My sister had the idea”. Blabla, she shows me a picture of her sister. I realise a red dot next to her right eye, talk about it. She seems somehow comfortable with me touching her face. As I realise this situation right here does not produce the right results, we go out on the terrace again, I slightly push her out, she complies, probably slight IOI, we stay outside there a little longer. There it was, the small window of opportunity for a kiss. But I chickened out and did not go for it. It’s like my brain stops for a second, I see what is to do, but don’t do it. And after three seconds the window closed. After about 30 minutes, she looks for a bus and slowly leaves.

    We talk about her height and so on, she talks about what she likes in a man, we measure her height, she leaves and hugs me again. About an hour later I pinged her with the few from the terrace.
    Four hours later at midnight, she replies “Yes, it looks beautiful. I think it was good I came out of my room
    today. [contend emoji]”

    For @all this would seem like a failed date, but actually it was another big progress of the learning curve, my Kino got from zero to maybe 15%, and that will be an exponential growth.
    Also, I got new ideas to produce better situations around. If you meet shortly before five, think about preparing dinner as Palma often does.
    Set up some music at home, maybe talk about it on the way home. Also it gives you plausible deniability like the cup of tea.

    Also I was right before nexting her, as an always flaky chick. Maybe this will change a bit, but who knows.
    And: go for the kiss if possible.

    So maybe this will help you, I always liked reading date reports from others.

    NNN1

  21. @NNN1

    Others can look at the dynamics of the first half and pitch in on the second if they like they’re probably better at that bit than me.

    The next day I text G. and E. again. G is pretty reserved, gives at least token resistance – but E. is willing to go for a walk in the park at 16:35. About a month ago, I wanted to never do that again, but I thought about and planned it. So, why not?
    I arrive one minute late, in bad weather, rainy snow, if you know what I mean. She walks right up to me, gives me a hug.

    proximity and her contact is a massive IOI, plus she was in time so she’s keen

    That was the first thing I wanted to adjust with me. We walk through the snow a bit, talk some chitchat-blabla. On the stonehenge-like hill, I initiate some kino, probably lowest level – but a giant leap compared to the previous dates.

    good

    We agree to go to my place for a cup of tea.

    venue bounce to a place with a bed – good – but who suggested it? You or her?

    I still failed to hold hands.

    don’t worry about that at this stage, you got the initial hug (I’ve realised that’s where I deal with it but it’s never been conscious) you need to pull back after the initial kino anyway

    I donot even know, why since I thought about that al the time. As we arrived, she sits down, right at the edge of the bank at the table. I make the tea and sit down, more blabla. I sit at the same corner on a chair, our legs touch. After a few minutes, we go out on the terrace, she wears no shoes and her socks get wet, she freezes, yet accepts it for bout half a minute. Some standing arm in arm, only a few inches between our faces.

    *aaaaannnnnnd THAT was the moment to take the bat to the fence.. lol.. gently putting your hand behind her neck and saying “it’s nice to see you” and go for the kiss.

    If she kisses then assume the close and get to a comfort location like the sofa for the make out which you take slowly and escalate to the bang

    If she pulls the mouth away then you give her the cheek kiss and move back inside leaving her with wet feet in the cold as if nothing has happened however – you need to IOD now and DHV.. where’s that flour eggs, milk lemon and sugar that should be in your cupboard at all times?

    I’m feeling hungry and I’m gonna cook some pancakes.

    Which you do competently and assume she wants some and get on with cooking them and ignore her.

    Still chat to her but pay more attention to the cooking than her. Don’t be scared of any silent pauses and don’t be butthurt about the rejection.

    I often prepare food and serve it up on one plate depending on what it is and feed them bits.

    After you’ve done that go for the make out again – if she rejects again (unlikely) you pull back again and get some Netflix and chill at the other end of the sofa to her – DO NOT make physical contact or “paw at her”

    Then after an hour repeat the make out attempt*

    We go in again, she is comfortable with me touching her hair. “Is it dyed?” – “Yeah, some lockdown thing. My sister had the idea”. Blabla, she shows me a picture of her sister. I realise a red dot next to her right eye, talk about it. She seems somehow comfortable with me touching her face. As I realise this situation right here does not produce the right results, we go out on the terrace again, I slightly push her out, she complies, probably slight IOI, we stay outside there a little longer. There it was, the small window of opportunity for a kiss.

    slight neg, not necessary but better than being a pussy telling her how beautiful she is etc.. and you had an escalation window earlier ^^

    But I chickened out and did not go for it.

    ok we’ll forgive you, confession is good for the soul LOL

    It’s like my brain stops for a second, I see what is to do, but don’t do it. And after three seconds the window closed. After about 30 minutes, she looks for a bus and slowly leaves.

    she didn’t want to leave, she wanted to be seduced by you. But never mind. At least you’re doing the work

    We talk about her height and so on, she talks about what she likes in a man, we measure her height, she leaves and hugs me again. About an hour later I pinged her with the few from the terrace.

    is this the same girl? Hasn’t she already left? you shouldn’t have even gone there with this shit. She should have been in bed by now – her height – probably a shit test depending on your height and how you handled that it was her hamster verifying which box to put you in AF or BB

    Four hours later at midnight, she replies “Yes, it looks beautiful. I think it was good I came out of my room today. [contend emoji]”

    dunno where this fits

    For @all this would seem like a failed date, but actually it was another big progress of the learning curve, my Kino got from zero to maybe 15%, and that will be an exponential growth.

    correct, you’ve learned. You just didn’t have the confidence to pull the trigger. But that will come

    Also, I got new ideas to produce better situations around. If you meet shortly before five, think about preparing dinner as Palma often does.

    *@Captain Spock has picked up that can feed into BB provisioning algo, and it probably could / does but it’s always worked for me very well. The thing I think is not to make a deal of it. No candles / flowers and shit – do something very basic that you are very competent at that you want yourself. Fuck what she wants, you’re cooking for you (not her) and she’s there for the ride so don’t even ask her. If it’s simple and basic and she’s seen you make it she’ll at least try it. So no lobster etc… that shit is far too high an investment for some random bird.

    Pizza from scratch making the dough is always excellent and they come in at about £1 all in. Perfect for the student budget and they smell incredible while cooking if you get the oregano on it right – like nothing you buy in a shop *

    Set up some music at home, maybe talk about it on the way home. Also it gives you plausible deniability like the cup of tea.

    she’s the one that needs the plausible deniability not you

    Also I was right before nexting her, as an always flaky chick. Maybe this will change a bit, but who knows.

    she wasn’t flaky, her hindbrain was qualifying you and when you got the window you didn’t hit it

    And: go for the kiss if possible.

    yes – and they’ll forgive a failed attempt, but no attempt will consign you to incel hell

    So maybe this will help you, I always liked reading date reports from others.
    NNN1

    I hope so

  22. @NNN1

    Muh… formatting..

    Anyway a final point:

    Also, I got new ideas to produce better situations around. If you meet shortly before five, think about preparing dinner as Palma often does.

    This is handled “I’m gonna cook later so if you’re at a loose end feel free to drop over and bring wine!”

    definitely NOT :

    “hey if you’re free tonight I’d love to cook for you, what do you like?”

    If that needs explaining let me know.

  23. Nnn1

    Palma left you a really good breakdown. Good to see Palma…

    I’ll add a few points

    Please please view all the Lovedrop kino videos. They are not long for this world… and they demonstrate “non pawing” technique and importantly when and how to do the take away and roll off and why.

    Kino is not about arousal. It’s about comfort. That first kiss is comfort as well.

    Plausible deniability? Studying! “Hey bri g your book and let’s study” then you have a walk (bounce and compliance) then come back and do your cooking thing… etc.

    On cooking, another great dish is a simple omelet with herbs, some toast points with a compound butter and sparkling wine. Easy, chip and a finely made omelet is a real skill.

    Plus uou should know how to do this anyway… 😆

    The real thing uou need is a kick in the ass. A push

    So here it is. Start to realize you are only going to get a couple of shots to escalate before you get put i. The friend zone. The clock is tickino.

    Go!

  24. @Sentient

    I will look at those kino movies and probably duplicate them.

    @NNN1 – LOOK at that first omelette making video ^^ – and LOOK at how MUCH attention he is paying the food and the process of cooking it.

    THAT is the DHV – PLUS he has no choice – if he neglects the cooking it’s gonna go wrong, it’s on and off the heat – stir – etc.. etc… and no he doesn’t have time to indulge in whatever inane shit the women want to talk about, so you ignore that.

    The process forces you to withdraw attention from them.

    Girl reporting back to her friends: “so there I was sitting in his kitchen and I was trying to talk to him about [insert bullshit] and I like really couldn’t believe it because he was just ignoring me and totally into cooking his bloody omelette. I really have no idea how I ended up banging him. Anyway im going over again tonight”

  25. Watched them all @Sentient

    So yesterday evening I pinged G as well and pretty soon went for the “let’s take a walk”, shortly before I nexted her as well, flaky bit** – which she denied with a picture of her girlfriend with “yeah, but I am with her right now”. Now today noon I pinged her again and she went for it, at 6:30 (my suggestion), but says she needs to be back home at 8 and thus get the train at 7:20. So I am not sure if this time constraint is true or false. I will see if she continues to care about that.
    I’m gonna meet her right at the same place as E. yesterday. I had even more IOIs from her than from E. before, so this should work. Am gonna perform the shoulder to shoulder “see that over there” and a bit more hand holding and so on.

    By the way the Kino Demo doesn’t really talk about initiating a kiss, so what about that?

    NNN1

    1. Video 4. Do the walk where uou have her hold your arm and you lead her around. This video also touches on the kiss with the “you smell good” bit. If you’ve had 3 IOIs the kiss is on. So like above when you are inches from her face just lean in. She pulls back just say you looked like you wanted to kiss me and roll off. Otherwise proceed.

  26. @NNN1

    “The real thing uou need is a kick in the ass. A push”

    Yeah ^^ this.

    Whadya think she’s there for in the pissing cold and getting her feet wet on your balcony. That shit is hardly leisure.

    It’s not rocket science – hit it already and stop ducking about.

    3x IOI’s and you’re in.

    She turns up = 1 x IOI
    She’s in your close proximity = 2nd x IOI
    Eye contact / giggly / hair flick / similar = 3rd IOI

    Take the bat to the fence and hit it – no pressure!

  27. Thanks @Sentient
    You are completly right in your remarks.
    I now know, why she wanted to be home so early: You’re not allowed outside your home after 8pm.
    As a single student, I don’t care about that, but she lives at home and her father seems to.

    Anyway, here’s the report.

    It’s the same place as yesterday, although a different girl. Right at 6:30 I walk round the corner of the palace. She walks out of the shade of the terrace, under the big balcony.

    G.: “Hi”
    NNN1: “Hi”

    I open my arms to hug her, she seems irritated for 2 ms, but complies and hugs. (Hellyeah to the former AFC in me)
    She wears a ski anorak, probably warm for the sporty girl, but not as good looking as E.s clothes – certainly no IOI.
    We walk through the park, the same as yesterday. While a small DHV story, I have her holding my arm.
    Durig the whole time she’s visibly stressed about the time. Now she talks about her (male) sports friends, maybe unconsciously to start a jealasy plotline, though I’m not certain bout this. I repeat the arm hold several times this evening and on several places the shoulder to shoulder to show something thing.

    Now it’s already about 7:10 and she is visibly drawn to the train station. Yet, she does not resist to a small detour through the park, passing a couple making out heavily on a bench 😉

    So on our way up to the castle, she asks me, what her (italian) name means.

    “I don’t know”
    [while flicking through her hair I describe what I see, some neg blabla about heir chin, eyes and so on]
    followed by an interesting glance in her eyes – now she realises she won’t get the train and walks on. I don’t remember, maybe I huged her there.

    The nearer we get to the palace, the more she gets stressed out.
    So we walk to the train station, next to a supermarket. Somewhere three minutes from the station, she asks if I would like to run to the station – “No” – she stays walking.
    At the bus stop one minute to the station she stops and thinks about taking the bus.
    I stop right before at a big map of the campus, pretending to look for a certain building.
    She comes over and looks as well. After some more light kino chitchat we walk on to the station – now she accepted to take the next train.

    I talk about the scenery being like in a movie with puddles and the street lighting. At the crossing of the station we stop with more blabla. I start the make-her-turning routine, she complies pretty heavily.

    As we already talked a bit about dancing, I randomly started dancing discofox with her right under that street lamp, no resistance.
    Then I picked the movie thing up again. I don’t know how, but after some kino things, where she showed compliene, I wanted to go for the kiss. As the next progress – and I’m not happy about this:
    “In a movie we would also do this” [and nearly went for the kiss] As she pulled a little back, I went back – “but we’re not in a movie”.
    G.: “we’re not right there yet” [IOI?]

    After some chitchat we went on to the station, I stopped right there, hugged her and went shopping.

    Did the omelett today, good stuff.

  28. A story of epic ASD / LMR. Reminds me a bit of N=2.

    I had kiss closed TC as reported in a previous FR at my parents’ city. She had asked if I live alone. I invited her to to visit me at my city and she accepts…

    She arrives at my place in the evening after dinner time. I was wondering whether to go for the make out right away but had decided not to. After she puts her stuff down she gets some water and a bit after I put some music so we dance a bit and I go for the kiss and she gives me the cheek. Ok…

    Night 1: Time for bed. I have a spare room with a bed and a sofa, but I pick up her bag, lead her to my bed and she goes “and where do you sleep?” and I say “Here, on this side, and you can stay on the other side”. So we are both in bed and undress to my underwear in front of her and when she is changing she accidentally shows me her ass (I actually think it was an accident), we laugh it off. She is wearing too much clothing and soon she is boiling under the sheets. I get her to remove the first top layer, try to get her to remove her trousers saying I like to feel the skin on skin, but she resists. I’ve seen her in a swimsuit and I’ve just seen her ass but logic doesn’t apply so I roll off.

    I sleep badly because she is coming halfway on top of me several times to cuddle and I try to make out but she turns the cheek etc. In the next morning still in bed we finally make out and I get to feel her boobs, she is getting excited but when I try to get her trousers out she gives me the no, so I roll off. By the way she has a huge rack, particularly for her size.

    During the day there are some make outs, some cooking, some DHVs etc. I go out to do something for work which DHV’s me to TC, N=2 and N=3 (I mentioned it to them separately), then pass by N=3’s house as she invited me for some food. N=3’s flatmate is there and I’m thinking it may be better to save more of my hard-on for TC, so I just give N=3 a “contactless orgasm” and then leave.

    TC was home alone for a while doing some studying etc. I get back home and TC asks to see a movie, I say sure, and she logs in to her Netflix. I take the lead and select one, we check it and Netflix doesn’t have it. Then she is waffling about watching some episodes of a series she watches and I go “No”, or some other movies that she has already seen and I go “Let’s see something we both haven’t seen before” and choose another movie that Netflix does have. I knew it was going to be a good movie but in hindsight I think I had a bit of serendipity because the movie we watched was super effective on her feels (despite not much romance) because of some family / daddy issues that she has.

    Night 2: Time for bed. This is hilarious (in hindsight). She says something about how did you sleep last night and I go “It is a bit hard to sleep when you keep coming on top of me” and she goes “I’ll sleep on the couch”. And I go “You don’t have to, you could just stay on your side of the bed…”. She goes again “I’ll sleep on the couch, I’m used to it” and I shrug and go “Sure, just don’t be cold”. I grab some extra covers for her. Some doubts cross my mind that I must have done something wrong but I figure that pushing her to come to sleep with me again is the wrong move. I wake up during the night and she hasn’t crawled into my bed. Then I wake up in the morning and she is still in the sofa. I go there, she wakes up, I pick her up, dump her in bed and we make out, she is eventually topless, boobs come out (quite big), flat belly, I’m naked, she starts giving me a handjob, eventually I bring my dick close to her mouth and she goes “No”. My dick slowly deflates. Reminds me a bit of what happened with N=5. No worries this time. I make out a bit more and then roll off with “Lets get breakfast!”.

    She had already mentioned she was going to meet up with some of her friends in my city. I had suggested a park close to my house but one of her friends says it is not such good weather to be outside so change of plans and she goes elsewhere for the visit. I predict she isn’t coming back for lunch and set up lunch with N=3 then some sports activity. After doing some sports we go back to N=3’s house. This time I don’t think about saving my hard-on for TC – even though N=3’s flatmate is home, I fuck N=3 in the ass and cum inside her. She loved it. I mellow out for a bit with N=3 in bed, then decide it is better to go home and shower straight away.

    Funnily enough, when I get home, TC still hasn’t returned. I smile and take my shower. TC returns a bit late, and goes also to take a shower. Maybe she was banging one of her friends. The thought of it doesn’t bother me though. I ask if she is hungry and she says not really because she ended up visiting her three friends separately and eating at each house.

    She is also initiating the make outs and coming onto me more than the previous days. She asks if she can give me a massage, I say “Sure but after we do some sports otherwise I’ll be too mellow”. We do some sports, and like what happened in my parents’ city she is literally throwing herself on top of me. We go for the massage, I strip naked and lie in bed and she rubs my back.

    After a bit I tell her “your turn”. She goes topless face down, I do her upper back, shoulder, neck, then tell her to flip over so I get her clavicles and soon enough we are making out and I’m on top of her boobs, from there I finally get her trousers off, slide my fingers inside her panties and start fingering her and now she is mine. I give her a taste of G-spot stimulation with the spidey fingers until she is extremely wet, then grab a condom so she sees it. We roll around a bit, at some stage her panties are off as well. She asks me to not be on top. I make out a bit more, open the condom, get it on and she mounts me, I go inside her and inside my head goes “N=6!”. She rides me and dances on my cock and I notice her abs are actually quite solid (it makes sense given she is a dancer but it is still a bit strange given the huge rack she has). She is riding me and it seemed to me she was going to cum so I tell her to “Cum now!” and this snaps her out of it and we laugh. I go out of her and get slightly soft so take out the condom. I tell her to lay down face up, give her some more squirting fingering and it seems she is very close to squirting but not doing it. I’m hard again so I get fingers out, grab another condom and go gently on top of her. I look at her eyes and ask if there is a problem with me on top and she says “It is ok if you are gentle”. With condom applied I go inside her gently but soon enough I’m giving it to her hard and she is loving it, her cheeks are super red. I get out of her super hard, and tell her to flip belly down. I enter her in Doggy style and then tell her to lay flat on the bed and fuck her like that until I’m close to my orgasm, I let her know I’m about to cum and this excites her even more, I fuck her really hard and I tell her again I’m about to cum, she cums and I cum simultaneously. She loved it and later told me “It is hard to cum at the same time”.

    Next morning we fuck some more. Again I had a bit where I go a bit soft and have to remove the first condom.
    Then as I’m making out and getting hard again, my tip goes inside her and she is all excited, but I stop and got the second condom on. Fuck her from the top, then again flip her belly down and fuck her deep until she cums. This time I don’t, with the condom on it is hard for me after cumming in N=3 and N=6 in the previous day.

    She left a streak on my bed from when she was belly down and super wet.

    N=3 is also extremely caring these days…

  29. @Sentient
    Jury out but definitely some venues work better and some geography work better. For me LA, AZ and S FL are all over th top great while the NE and NW not so much.

    True. You zoom out and you see the same: Western Europe vs Eastern Europe, Northern vs Southern. Then you have Japan, China, India, Thailand and the rest of Asia. Australia and New Zealand are a funny mix of ‘small town mentality’ and ‘global village’. All different venues with various pockets of flavors and angles to play.

    BTW, when out and about with family, I usually walk a few yards ahead of my wife and son as I don’t stop everywhere. So a funny thing happened in South Korea where girls were turning their heads and checking me out not knowing my wife was just in front of them… lol. I don’t get that on other continents and need to work a bit more than this. Part of the fun and challenge.

    I just cringe when guys cry on the internetz about the state of Western women, take it to the extreme and try to play on Easy Mode in Asia without developing any long term skills for dealing with female nature, scalable to any geography. Like, isn’t it part of the problem??

    Re the state thing. Indeed, putting in more work in a compressed time frame works much better for me too.

  30. @NNN1

    You’re getting great feedback. All that’s left for you is to take notes and execute.

    BTW notes will come in handy when: a) lots of this disappears, and b) your mind is ready to absorb it further at a new level… again and again.

    On the kiss thing. Here’s an excerpt from a book I’ve read with my son. I really like this book series (Way of the Warrior Kid by Jocko Willink), it has plenty of great lessons for adults distilled into a kids story:

    Finally, I got to the spot on the bridge where I was supposed to jump. I looked over the edge. HOW DID THE RIVER GET SO FAR DOWN?!?!?!

    “Okay! Let’s go, Marc,” Uncle Jake shouted up to me.

    I couldn’t even respond. I just stood there.

    “Go ahead, Marc. Jump!”

    I still couldn’t say anything. But I stepped up over the little fence along the side of the bridge and shuffled toward the edge where I was supposed to jump from. I looked straight ahead and was really thinking of doing it. Then I looked down, and I got overwhelmed and scared and I just stood there.

    “What’s the issue, Marc?!” Uncle Jake yelled up to me.

    I didn’t know what to say.

    “What’s wrong?” he asked again, louder.

    I just sat there on the little wall along the edge of the bridge.

    Then I saw Uncle Jake walking up toward the bridge, obviously coming to either yell at me—or throw me off!!!

    But when he got up next to me, he didn’t yell at all. Come to think of it, Uncle Jake hardly ever yells.

    “What’s going on, buddy?” he said in a calm voice.

    “I don’t know…,” I said. “I’m just … I’m just…”

    “You’re afraid, aren’t you?” Uncle Jake asked. But he wasn’t even asking. He knew. He knew I was scared.

    There was no point in denying it. Uncle Jake knew it as plain as day.

    “Yes,” I finally said in a quiet tone, embarrassed that I was afraid.

    Then, to my surprise, Uncle Jake said, “That’s normal.”

    “What?” I responded, shocked at Uncle Jake’s statement.

    “I said, ‘That’s normal.’ You are doing something you’ve never done before. So it’s normal to be a little hesitant. It’s called fear. It’s a normal emotion—and it’s okay.” Then he added, “Well, it’s okay as long as you can control it.”

    This made no sense to me. “How am I supposed to control fear? And how would you know? You’re not afraid of anything.”

    Uncle Jake sat quietly for a minute. Then he said, “I wish that were true.”

    “What do you mean?” I asked him.

    “Well, you said I’m not afraid of anything. And that is just not true. Fear is normal. In fact, fear is good. Fear is what warns you when things are dangerous. Fear is what makes you prepare. Fear keeps us out of a lot of trouble. So there is nothing wrong with fear. But fear can also be overwhelming. It can be unreasonable. It can cause you to freeze up and make bad decisions or hesitate when you need to act. So you have to learn to control fear. And that’s what you need to do right now.”

    “Okay. That sounds great, and I would really love to make you happy and overcome my fear … but I don’t know how!”

    Uncle Jake thought about what I just asked him for a few seconds and then said, “Okay. Well, the first part of controlling fear you have already done, and that is preparation. You have done plenty of preparation to be ready for this moment—to face this fear. Starting with dunking your head all the way up to swimming all around and back and forth across this river. You have done little jumps off the riverbank. All of the last several weeks have been preparing you for this—this jump. And all that preparation works to help overcome the fear. Imagine how scared you would be if you still didn’t know how to swim? You would be horrified. But you have prepared.”

    “Then why am I still scared?” I asked Uncle Jake.

    “Simple,” he said. “Because there is still an element of the unknown. You have never jumped off anything this high before. So you don’t know what it feels like. People are afraid of what they don’t know or they don’t understand. But you have prepared. You know it is safe. You know you are ready. It is just this last little bit of fear that has to be overcome. And you know how you do that?”

    “I have no idea,” I told him.

    “You go.”

    “Just go?” I asked Uncle Jake, now partly thinking he was just joking.

    “Yes. You just go. You see, fear lives in the moment—that powerful moment—between when you decide you are going to do something and when you do it. Once you go—once you start—you won’t be afraid anymore. You overcome the fear by going—and it is the same in many aspects of life. Parachuting. Talking in front of a crowd. Taking a test. Running a race. Competing in jiu-jitsu. The fear is in the waiting. So. Once you have prepared and trained and studied and planned, there is only one thing left to do: go.”

    “And that’s it?”

    “Yes. That’s it.”

    As soon as Uncle Jake finished those words, he stood up, looked at me, yelled out, “HOO-YAH!” and jumped off the bridge.

    Just go, I thought to myself. I stood up, stepped up onto the edge of the wall, and looked down at Uncle Jake, who had just come back to the surface and was looking up at me with a big smile on his face.

    With all my heart and lungs, I yelled out, “HOO-YAH!!!!” and I stepped off the edge of the bridge, past my fear, and into the unknown. I felt myself falling for a while, and then, WHOOOOSH, I was in the water! I came to the surface and had a big smile on my face!

    “I can fly!” I yelled. “I can flyyyyyyyyy!!!”

    Uncle Jake laughed and got out and ran up and jumped again, and I followed him—without hesitation. And then we did it again and again and again. And the fear? It was gone. All I had to do was prepare and get ready and then … I just had to take the first step—GO!

  31. @IAS

    Nicely done.

    Girls ARE agents of chaos. “They might not want to see you fail, but they just enjoy making a mess of everything” (by @Archie).

    Look how similar this was to how a customer becomes ready to buy:
    1. First thought
    2. Passive looking (learning about possibilities)
    3. Active looking (exploring possibilities)
    4. Deciding / buying (making trade offs… because when you choose one path, you don’t choose many others)
    5. First use
    6. Ongoing use

    Usually, there’s some time constraint / event that pushes people from 2 to 3 and then another one from 3 to 4 (that’s why the artificial “limited time offer” works). I’m pretty sure you can spot what made your N=6 switch gears and emotionally move through this progression ladder.

    Also, funny that PUA is often used from the PoV of a numbers game and routines pushed onto someone without even seeing it as helping a girl go through the steps above. Also, many failures from 5 to 6 where the value of ‘purchased goods’ finally shows.

    Great to see how you systematically turn it into a walk in the park with 6 girls (and counting). Hoo-yah!

  32. @IAS

    Brilliant result – absolutely brilliant.

    Only thing I would have done differently and that doesn’t mean it would have worked – and you were the one in the chair and what you did worked.

    I get her to remove the first top layer, try to get her to remove her trousers saying I like to feel the skin on skin, but she resists. I’ve seen her in a swimsuit and I’ve just seen her ass but logic doesn’t apply so I roll off.
    I sleep badly because she is coming halfway on top of me several times to cuddle and I try to make out but she turns the cheek etc.

    I wouldn’t have said “I like to feel skin on skin” – I just wouldn’t have said that. Gut feel is that pushed you back in the seduction – a free IOI is a DLV – almost complimenting her looks. And that probably created the shit tests of firstly her keeping her clothes on and secondly of her turning the cheek when you tried for the make out and thirdly her staying on the sofa night 2. You passed the sofa shit test by ignoring it. (Hamster sees @IAS says “yeah take yer impressive rack and get the fuck outta my bed if you’re not gonna fall into my frame”)

    (One step further and she’d have been out the door. The hamster is definitely trying to get you into the BB/friendzone. And you recovered it 36 hours later with an AF move – picking her up and carrying her back to the cave for a beasting 🍆🍆🍆 so well done 😎😎)

    I’d have taken the piss out of her refusal to take off her clothes. “Hey clothes in bed WTF? That’s against SOOO many laws lol”

    Now I would have pushed that back to one or two degrees (not being there I don’t know how far I would have pushed)

    Her: “are you serious?”

    Me: “yeah get em off”

    Her: “no way I don’t even know you”

    Me: “strangers sleep on the sofa – get out!! LOL”

    BUT if i couldn’t get her down to her underwear (insisting on removal of that is too far at this stage) and she wore all that in bed then i would have called it out at the cuddle attempt.

    She attempts to cuddle and I’d say “hey what is this, I’m not cuddling a LAW BREAKER!! Lol.. – get back over your own side of the bed if you’re gonna be a CRIMINAL”

    Then I’d have done a mixture of pushing her away and tickling her.

    The RD did the same thing after lay#2-3. She put a load of clothes back on in bed and I said “wtf is this – get em off it’s against the law to wear clothes in bed”. She complied but She threw that back at me because later I got back in bed after a shower wearing a bathrobe and she said “Isn’t this against the law?” To which I replied “I make the bloody laws around here” I then made out and went for another lay.

    It is worth noting for guys like @NNN1 that you actually had to pick her up and carry her to the bedroom the morning after Night number 2 and go for it. You had to bust a move and go for it.

    But as I said – you were the one actually there and so well done – double digits soon!! 🎉🎉🎉

  33. I’m pretty sure you can spot what made your N=6 switch gears and emotionally move through this progression ladder.

    “My dick slowly deflates”

    The ULTIMATE IOD…

    [Also a good book title My Dick Slowly Deflates : Musings of a Western Male]

  34. @Sentient

    *”My dick slowly deflates”

    The ULTIMATE IOD…*

    Actually not bothering with sex, or rejecting their initiation, or stopping halfway through (which I did last week with the RD – amazing though it might sound there are times where it just isn’t doing it for me and I can’t be bothered) does fry their heads quite badly.

  35. Anyone has ideas on what is it with N=5 and N=6 not doing oral? I don’t actually mind that much, I’m much more into the V.
    Although I have found it to be a rather convenient way to have my dick (slowly or not) inflate.
    A handjob also works and N=5 and N=6 both started that. N=2, N=3 and N=4 all seem to enjoy performing oral much more than a handjob.

    With N=5, which I have failed at spinning into a plate, it was likely lack of attraction / her trying hard to slot me into provider mode. I only banged her twice before the 1st lockdown, managed to get her to come over to my place a couple of times since without kiss closing.

    With N=6 I actually think the attraction is there so I’m a bit puzzled.

  36. IAS

    Anyone has ideas on what is it with N=5 and N=6 not doing oral?

    Not attracted enough. Attracted enough to face, for a lot of women fuckimg is no big deal in andnof itself, it’s how it influences other gambits she’s running that becomes the problem. And ha does are nothing at all.

    No paradox, attraction is a spectrum and BJs and swallowing are at one end and holding hands are at the other.

    1. If there is doubt, there is no doubt.

      Old joke – why does the bride smile so much at the wedding? She’s given her last blow job!

  37. I thought I’d just check in to wish all you boys stateside the best of luck for tomorrow.

    I wish you all the very best.

      1. @Sentient

        What’s happening tomorrow?

        the EO 13848 reports are due… with some agency hacks ‘needing more time’ to finish their ‘reports’…lol… they must have been common core grads…lol… at least they didn’t say ‘the dog ate my homework’…lol… at least as far as i know…lol

        aaand this from lin wood… robert’s is compromised…

        https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1339637980927991808

        i don’t think he would put this out there without proof to back it up… tooo much liability/exposure…

        aaand… looks like somebody in texas got a whistleblower phone call…lol

        https://twitter.com/i/web/status/1339633830123081730

        and this^^^ tends to support that roberts phone call/bias actually occurring… and reading further, it looks like tom fitton has the documentation to back it up…lol

        sh*t’s gettin’ real…lol

        rubicon straight ahead…

        good luck and stay safe everybody!

        1. the EO 13848 reports are due

          They will be delayed. Not just for mendacious reasons, although that’s a factor. But the ongoing exploration of voting machines and where packets went on the Internet has opened up many more issues directly related to that EO. Such as likely access of the voting infrastructure from China.

          It’s a slow motion crisis with the vast majority of people kept in the dark by the MSM. When some of it pops into the open the shock will be interesting to watch.

  38. I’ve got another one lined up from online dating.

    https://imgur.com/a/BkgCvc3

    I was going to write something about plate spinning. What’s becoming increasingly obvious is that if you get a couple on the go, they actually spin themselves to a large degree.

    Plus it seems that either lockdown has affected how some of these women are responding to online dating, or my texting is giving off sub comms because I’ve got 2 live ones on the go, and about 3 in the pipeline.

    I’ve never actually had true abundance at any one time and I think it when you get about 3 going it could turn into shooting fish in a barrel. It might just pile up at your door at that point. I’ll let you know.

  39. @HABD / AR

    rubicon straight ahead…

    If you subscribe to the mindset that I do, which is that OMB is never gonna give up voluntarily then the rubicon, which I thought was going to be today has to happen within a few days. Weeks at the most.

    He just isnt the type of man that throws in the towel. Period.

      1. Now how does this work? I thought there is just no chance anymore but starting a civil war.
        After Texas’ action run off the supreme court like water of a duck? From my european point of view every lawsuit is brushed off faster than Mystery did with a shit test 😉

  40. “Now how does this work?”

    Stay in the ring, feint and watch the opponent , throw a round house for a miss , watch them duck then feint and jab right to the chin. KO

  41. @AR

    They will be delayed. Not just for mendacious reasons, although that’s a factor. But the ongoing exploration of voting machines and where packets went on the Internet has opened up many more issues directly related to that EO. Such as likely access of the voting infrastructure from China.

    and plus that list of assets subject to confiscation is YUUUGE!!!…lol… been gettin’ my pennies together to bid on tweeter when it pops up on one of those ‘surplus .gov property’ auction sites…lol

    It’s a slow motion crisis with the vast majority of people kept in the dark by the MSM. When some of it pops into the open the shock will be interesting to watch.

    you are master of understating…lol

    good luck!

  42. @PalmaSailor

    @HABD / AR

    “rubicon straight ahead…”

    If you subscribe to the mindset that I do, which is that OMB is never gonna give up voluntarily then the rubicon, which I thought was going to be today has to happen within a few days. Weeks at the most.

    just by noon on jan 20, 2021… sooo still some time… (the EO deadline for today was for the reports to be delivered… Trump has 45 days to ‘act’…)

    and he HAS to exhaust ALL possible other options prior to pulling the trigger (<— lol… pun intended…) on that last resort… bc ‘optics’ (and the actual steps in the Constitution)…

    AND giving the other relevant players in the system the opportunity to ‘do the right thing’ is the christian thing to do… just before you hang them for treason for not stepping up…lol… but not kidding…

    the bigger issue… as if that^^^ is not YUUGE enough… is that sh*t with roberts ranting… bc when THAT comes out ‘for real’… and combined with the texas state case being denied review… really does mean the end of RoL… bc even IF biden were inaugurated, there is no longer ANY pretext of ‘impartiality before the bench… (not there really IS any more…lol… but still… there was at least the appearance of that…)…

    = no redress means ‘self-help’ will be the preferred option…

    and that includes (most importantly) the relations btwn the individual states… no redress = no reason to BE a ‘state’… = no more US of A…

    He just isnt the type of man that throws in the towel. Period.

    true dat!…lol

    good luck!

  43. @Sentient

    I wish. I just don’t see it happening.

    That’s the object of the propaganda. You give up. Aaaand it’s only ‘a little bit of fraud’ wouldn’t swing it much anyway. Nothing to see here move along.

    The OMB is just never going to give it up.

    He seeded an executive order 2 years ago so he’s seen it coming probably since 2016 when their fraud last time wasn’t enough to swing Hillary.

    He knew since then. And you don’t think he had a plan for that – a plan that would have to be so YUGE – and given what we see as the scale and depth and reach of the swamp, could it in fact actually be dealt with in any other manner except allowing them enough rope to justify his use of martial law. What else is big enough to handle a swamp of that magnitude. Not legal process, that’s for sure.

    Certainly, he had to be seen to try that route, and for it to resoundingly fail in the face of overwhelming evidence.

    Aaand he’s bought a lot of young men home to their families from places they shouldn’t be. And he hasn’t sent any young men off to die in places they shouldn’t be. Don’t tell me he doesn’t have their support.

    What are the words ? Enemies, foreign AND DOMESTIC…

  44. @HABD

    and plus that list of assets subject to confiscation is YUUUGE!!!…lol… been gettin’ my pennies together to bid on tweeter when it pops up on one of those ‘surplus .gov property’ auction sites…lol

    You really want to own that? Lol..

    Honestly, @Jack and @Vajaaaaaya in Orange jumpsuits, and zuckercuck for good measure – the explosion of liberal heads without a platform to explode on. That’s before you even think about what the effect of the removal of the endorphin hits because their validation echo chamber is gone.

    They’re gonna literally lose whatever sanity they’ve got left.

    AND giving the other relevant players in the system the opportunity to ‘do the right thing’ is the christian thing to do… just before you hang them for treason for not stepping up…lol… but not kidding…

    Being an atheist, these things are often lost on me, but as a Christian in a god fearing country, he has to “do the right thing” plus the closer they get to thinking they got away with it the bolder some are becoming.

    They do actually believe he’s “stupid”. It beggars belief. But the low level useful idiots need to believe that, if they believed he was clever they would think there was a risk of getting caught so it suits the manipulation to project him as stupid. Incidentally, it also suits him for them to believe he’s stupid.

    I forget where but an IQ of 140 was mentioned somewhere, and he let that run. but it’s loads higher than that. I never discuss it but I am way above that – merely at Mensa level, whereas he is at Prometheus level. Just because he blunders slightly and there’s the odd typo doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a colossal intellectual processing ability. He very much does – BIGLY in fact. He even stage manages his own eccentricities so his opponents underestimate him.

    They ask

    “How could he even say ‘bigly’ ?“
    “How did a dummy like that ever become president?”

    He’s just flicking boogers at them and laughing.

    He’s fascinating to watch and I love it every time he opens his mouth.

    Even at my level you see patterns that no one else sees. You see them so far ahead and take actions that look stupid to other people. I’m often called stupid. I’ve reacted in a way that looks stupid in connection with the immediate circumstances. And Trump is leagues ahead of me. He’s in a tiny global pool of truly heavyweight intelligence. People mistake education and intelligence. They’re two different things.

    Even at basic flatfoot police on the street here, they think they are the law, when in actual fact they only represent it. I expect by the time you get to Supreme Court level the illusion that you’re fireproof is probably baked in. You can go off to Pedo island and do what you want.

    Officials are apparently “stunned” that the pentagon has suspended the transition briefings. I don’t know if it was just a tactic to let them in, give them a bit of low level intel ‘barium meal’ and see where that goes

    Anyway, from an outside observers position it seems to be moving slowly, but I just think it’s extremely well planned down to allocated teams for each and every private address complete with the right size Orange jumpsuits in the back of the van.. lol..

    He’s an AMOG at a global level. No shitstain skinny decaf soy latte drinking libs are gonna turn over the USofA on his watch. No siree. And I’m just gonna love watching this play out.

    1. “He even stage manages his own eccentricities so his opponents underestimate him.”

      Wait. Doesn’t everybody?

      “He’s just flicking boogers at them and laughing.”

      The problem with really stupid people is that they’re too stupid to know that there’s such a thing as smart.

  45. @Anonymoys Reader

    ^^ yeah. Thanks. They’ve invented a tier 4 lockdown because they couldn’t call it what it is which is house arrest like the first time.

    Some of the london hospitals are “full” and are ferrying cases out to the regions where nurse works in A&E. Where she works is quiet. That’s not normal. Normal for this time of year is the accident room full, intensive care full, all the corridors leading to both rooms full of patients on trolley beds, and ambulances parked up in the car park with people in them because there’s no space for them in the building. That would be normal for the time of year.

    There’s a procession of snowflakes walking through the door with a sniffle panicking about having da’pocalypse. The process is they have to be tested which takes 40 minutes before they can be told to piss off and stop being a wimp. The vast majority of cases are asymptomatic and there’s a lot of intelligent debate that says it’s simply bullshit, but that isn’t getting airtime.

    Curiously however (according to rumours) the army have been placed on the highest level alert. Why on earth could that be I wonder.

    In March there was a backlog of 1600 routine surgical matters, and now this figure is 160,000. Consequential deaths from other causes will soon dwarf COVID which is already something like 18-19 rungs down on the list on cause of death on a daily basis.

    Bc I am a bilda I am permitted to work. For the past few weeks I’ve been going into 5-6 houses a day to conduct surveys for work and 90% think it’s bullshit. The very old people have been wearing a mask but the others have said they think it’s BS. Even a heavily pregnant neurotic woman who was OCD and insisted I did t put my bag or phone on her kitchen worktop because they were ‘dirty’ made me a cup of tea and said “take your mask off, this is all bullshit”.

    (Incidentally I wouldn’t mind opinions from the room on the sexual market / hypergamy / shagging women who are already heavily pregnant. I got a load of IOI’s from her and I actually thought she was in the mood to get laid even in her current state.)

    It’s swung online dating. The women that are in the market for a man will meet on a park bench or come direct to your house in a way that wouldn’t have happened before. Women are desperate.

    https://imgur.com/a/mvKjHwJ

    By the way, I’m just lovin Lin Wood, and his reply to 14 pages of letter before action that was landed on Sidney Powell:

    https://imgur.com/a/7Mv5Fwo

    Yeah. File your suit. Let’s get to discovery yer fuckers..

    1. IDK but when wife was pregnant it was – on a good day – a crazy hormonal surge, plus no thoughts of pregnancy.

      I’m sure plenty are not only up for it but desperately need it.

      The Richard Jewell movie is one on a short list I can’t believe they allowed to get made.

  46. By the way

    Europe begins to shut down flights from the UK.

    Unless Boris sells us out They’re staring down the barrel of a no deal BREXIT which happens on Jan 1st, so they no longer get to extract our resources. The threats, blackmail, and intimidation attempts are at a hysterical level now.

    Before anything else happens they appropriate 5% of our sales taxes across the board. That’s before the tariffs on our imported goods. Our cost of living should collapse when we get out. We buy more from them than they buy from us, and we don’t actually need most of it. But they very much do need our money.

    But there is a link between the people that voted BREXIT, and those that believe that da’pocalypse is bullshit. If he sells out on BREXIT, then THOSE people will be pissed.

    And perhaps THAT is the reason we’re under house arrest. Either BREXIT isn’t going to happen or he’ll sign a deal that sells us out and he needs a social shaming / quasi legal method of keeping the peasants locked down and compliant.

    So there’s lots going on.

  47. @PalmaSailor

    @Sentient

    “I wish. I just don’t see it happening.”

    That’s the object of the propaganda. You give up. Aaaand it’s only ‘a little bit of fraud’ wouldn’t swing it much anyway. Nothing to see here move along.

    The OMB is just never going to give it up.

    true… i get p*ssed at the ‘conservative’ blogger types that are giving up already/losing faith bc he hasn’t pulled the trigger on anybody yet… it’s like they’ve never played poker and positioned themselves (learned everybody else’s tells) for that big pot…lol…

    He seeded an executive order 2 years ago so he’s seen it coming probably since 2016 when their fraud last time wasn’t enough to swing Hillary.

    He knew since then.

    i actually think he knew all the way back when he was tweeting at roberts about the obamacare sh*t…lol

    And you don’t think he had a plan for that – a plan that would have to be so YUGE – and given what we see as the scale and depth and reach of the swamp, could it in fact actually be dealt with in any other manner except allowing them enough rope to justify his use of martial law. What else is big enough to handle a swamp of that magnitude. Not legal process, that’s for sure.

    true… and most people can’t seem to understand THAT… or if they do, they gloss over the system’s process (Constitution) to address THAT issue and go right to ‘armed uprising’…lol… which might come to pass, but that’s at least three steps beyond where we are right now… dunning-kruger isn’t just a lefty thing…lol

    Certainly, he had to be seen to try that route, and for it to resoundingly fail in the face of overwhelming evidence.

    AND… IF it works, it’s a LOT less damaging to the country and resolving that lefty/righty divide…

    Aaand he’s bought a lot of young men home to their families from places they shouldn’t be. And he hasn’t sent any young men off to die in places they shouldn’t be. Don’t tell me he doesn’t have their support.

    ohh, he’s got support alright…lol… i was just talking to a person at a local weekly ‘trump support ‘gathering’ ‘… they set up on a bridge overpass… with flags and signs… during the hour for the rally, the highway traffic under the overpass was about 2% honking (truckers were about 4/10…lol)… and the local traffic/and folks coming off the freeway was around 20-30% (total) honks/waves/thumbs up… and there was only 2-3 ‘flip-offs’…lol… the rest were just doing their confused sheeple thing…lol… and it’s been like that since the election… if anything, the support is increasing…

    What are the words ? Enemies, foreign AND DOMESTIC…

    yep… and ‘domestic’ = treason = hang ’em high!!!…lol… but not kidding…

    good luck!

  48. @PalmaSailor

    @HABD

    and plus that list of assets subject to confiscation is YUUUGE!!!…lol… been gettin’ my pennies together to bid on tweeter when it pops up on one of those ‘surplus .gov property’ auction sites…lol

    “You really want to own that? Lol..”

    yep…lol…

    and given my capital acquisition efforts were successful (i found 57 cents in change in the couch cushions…lol)… i think i’ll at least be competitive in the bidding…lol

    Honestly, @Jack and @Vajaaaaaya in Orange jumpsuits, and zuckercuck for good measure – the explosion of liberal heads without a platform to explode on. That’s before you even think about what the effect of the removal of the endorphin hits because their validation echo chamber is gone.

    They’re gonna literally lose whatever sanity they’ve got left.

    yep…lol

    “AND giving the other relevant players in the system the opportunity to ‘do the right thing’ is the christian thing to do… just before you hang them for treason for not stepping up…lol… but not kidding…”

    Being an atheist, these things are often lost on me, but as a Christian in a god fearing country, he has to “do the right thing” plus the closer they get to thinking they got away with it the bolder some are becoming.

    ya, i think that’s all part of the IFF process in play…

    They do actually believe he’s “stupid”. It beggars belief. But the low level useful idiots need to believe that, if they believed he was clever they would think there was a risk of getting caught so it suits the manipulation to project him as stupid. Incidentally, it also suits him for them to believe he’s stupid.

    I forget where but an IQ of 140 was mentioned somewhere, and he let that run. but it’s loads higher than that. I never discuss it but I am way above that – merely at Mensa level, whereas he is at Prometheus level. Just because he blunders slightly and there’s the odd typo doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a colossal intellectual processing ability. He very much does – BIGLY in fact. He even stage manages his own eccentricities so his opponents underestimate him.

    @Blaximus said once that he was a conman that conned other conmen…lol… gotta be sharp to do that… and i don’t think @Blaximus was wrong… i remember back in the late 80’s/early 90’s when he roped in merv griffin and took him to the cleaners…lol…

    They ask

    “How could he even say ‘bigly’ ?“
    “How did a dummy like that ever become president?”

    He’s just flicking boogers at them and laughing.

    He’s fascinating to watch and I love it every time he opens his mouth.

    ya… and i happen to like making up my own words…lol… it makes communicating interesting and fun…

    Even at my level you see patterns that no one else sees. You see them so far ahead and take actions that look stupid to other people. I’m often called stupid. I’ve reacted in a way that looks stupid in connection with the immediate circumstances. And Trump is leagues ahead of me. He’s in a tiny global pool of truly heavyweight intelligence. People mistake education and intelligence. They’re two different things.

    yep… but not to liberals…lol

    when i got diagnosed with mensa, i just went to the test along with one of my friends who wanted moral support…lol… during the ride there, she was giving me sh*t about how much smarter she was, etc… so, instead of just giving her a ride there and hanging out, i took the test… i still remember she got a 96%… and freaked out when i scored top half… it was retarded…lol

    then, after college was done, i would get invited to ‘dinner parties’ where everybody was sooo uptight about their brain power (i used to hang out in liberal-land…lol)… i think i got invited bc they had me pigeon-holed as just a construction dude… and when i would show up in my beat-up steel toe boots and dirty jeans/shirt from working all day, since i lived in the boonies and didn’t have time (and didn’t really give a sh*t… = no social awareness..lol) to ‘freshen up’…lol

    they would freak out not being the ‘smartest guy in the room’…lol… and it ALWAYS came up…lol… it’s like they couldn’t wait to measure their d*cks…lol…

    but i didn’t know that then…i was sooo socially clueless…lol… and it would always come up the same way, like some version of ‘it’s sooo hard being me, bc i’m sooo smart’…lol

    and then me (wanting to be empathetic and not realizing what social dynamic was actually going on bc of the aspergers) i would go ‘wow, me too!’… you know, trying to connect…lol…

    then, the disbelief… and then they melt down…lol… and i didn’t have a clue why…lol

    Even at basic flatfoot police on the street here, they think they are the law, when in actual fact they only represent it. I expect by the time you get to Supreme Court level the illusion that you’re fireproof is probably baked in. You can go off to Pedo island and do what you want.

    it can be like that over here, too… i think district court judges are alot like that… maybe not the pedo sh*t (as far as i know…lol) but drinking and driving, etc…

    Officials are apparently “stunned” that the pentagon has suspended the transition briefings. I don’t know if it was just a tactic to let them in, give them a bit of low level intel ‘barium meal’ and see where that goes

    Anyway, from an outside observers position it seems to be moving slowly, but I just think it’s extremely well planned down to allocated teams for each and every private address complete with the right size Orange jumpsuits in the back of the van.. lol..

    He’s an AMOG at a global level. No shitstain skinny decaf soy latte drinking libs are gonna turn over the USofA on his watch. No siree. And I’m just gonna love watching this play out.

    i missed out on going long on popcorn futures…lol

    good luck!

  49. @PalmaSailor

    (Incidentally I wouldn’t mind opinions from the room on the sexual market / hypergamy / shagging women who are already heavily pregnant. I got a load of IOI’s from her and I actually thought she was in the mood to get laid even in her current state.)

    pregnant girls are HORNY…lol… and they generally don’t get much attention from men…

    good luck!

  50. @HABD

    when i got diagnosed with mensa, i just went to the test along with one of my friends who wanted moral support…lol… during the ride there, she was giving me sht about how much smarter she was, etc… so, instead of just giving her a ride there and hanging out, i took the test… i still remember she got a 96%… and freaked out when i scored top half… it was retarded…lol

    then, after college was done, i would get invited to ‘dinner parties’ where everybody was sooo uptight about their brain power (i used to hang out in liberal-land…lol)… i think i got invited bc they had me pigeon-holed as just a construction dude… and when i would show up in my beat-up steel toe boots and dirty jeans/shirt from working all day, since i lived in the boonies and didn’t have time (and didn’t really give a sh*t… = no social awareness..lol) to ‘freshen up’…lol

    they would freak out not being the ‘smartest guy in the room’…lol… and it ALWAYS came up…lol… it’s like they couldn’t wait to measure their dcks…lol…
    but i didn’t know that then…i was sooo socially clueless…lol… and it would always come up the same way, like some version of ‘it’s sooo hard being me, bc i’m sooo smart’…lol

    Hilarious

    I only went to the test because my math teacher at school came in one day pissed because he was rejected. I went with a mate to see if we could get in just to piss him off. We did and it did. Lol.

    And you’re a construction dude 😂 not you too.. I had you down as a systems analyst or something.. hilarious

    So over here they do black tie dinners hosted by People like Clive Sinclair (who never buys a round) and Mark Serbriakoff (son of victor) and other members are Cambridge dons and intellectual elites, and me a hairy arsed salesman / builder, and also some nude (what were page 3) models.

    They were fun – You ever seen a nude model intellectually chop up a Cambridge don..? It’s an interesting dynamic. A woman who makes her living getting her Tits out is brighter than a man who makes his living with his brains. 😂😂Getting hold of them in the london social scene 25 years ago was like shooting fish in a barrel. None of the chumps or the chads could take the pace, and those women who are truly intelligent (as opposed to brainwashed by virtue of a non degree) needed conversation and frankly they needed a mental battering as well as being “valued” for their brains.. lol..

    As far as Trump conning the conmen, that’s probably just a fact of life in the most aggressive real estate market on the planet if you want to survive. I was eaten alive by city of london bankers, they’re very good. They align your managers with your personality and your social class and they use that to create trust before they fleece you. 2008 was an eye opener, the banks went into outright bandit mode, it was outright poker street fighting.

    Interesting comment ref the pregnancy. She was super super uptight, and the husband was super hen pecked. I’m going to be in 4-5 houses a day going forward in my own business. So I’ve no one to report to (I’ve sacked old friend from the “partnership” which caused him a total meltdown – but it had to be done. I’m too old for passengers), and I’m in the mood for it so I’m going to hit on anything eligible and I’ll report back.

      1. @Sentient

        So I’m just thinking through the younger woman thing right now. For a long I have totally bought in the the ACS theory and the DHV – IOD – IOI loop and everything to do with that.

        What I do think is different is that you have to back off on the verbal innuendo / sexualisation etc.

        Looking at it, I’ve been blowing up getting proximity and isolation when I’ve had enough IOI’s to take a bath in. I’ve just scared the crap out of them. They really do want it, and they want the experience, but some of them at least are petrified they won’t be able to say stop. So it is all about comfort.

        Just need to take it a lot slower, and I think absolutely no sexualisation, and just a straight forward invite over with plausible deniability. So we’ll see how that works out.

        @HABD

        There are others thinking the same thing.

        This from a relatively unmoderated U.K. site. Note though that the poaster does say his previous two comments were deleted.

        https://imgur.com/a/W7QH3rB

  51. @Sentient

    So I’m just thinking through the younger woman thing right now. For a long I have totally bought in the the ACS theory and the DHV – IOD – IOI loop and everything to do with that.

    What I do think is different is that you have to back off on the verbal innuendo / sexualisation etc.

    Looking at it, I’ve been blowing up getting proximity and isolation when I’ve had enough IOI’s to take a bath in. I’ve just scared the crap out of them. They really do want it, and they want the experience, but some of them at least are petrified they won’t be able to say stop. So it is all about comfort.

    Just need to take it a lot slower, and I think absolutely no sexualisation, and just a straight forward invite over with plausible deniability. So we’ll see how that works out.

    @HABD

    There are others thinking the same thing.

    This from a relatively unmoderated U.K. site. Note though that the poaster does say his previous two comments were deleted.

    https://imgur.com/a/W7QH3rB

  52. @Palma
    I thought about what you said, needing only comfort than you once needed attraction.

    Might this be ’cause of lockdown? – Like, most women have not even half the social contacts than before.
    Given the differences in psychology, could it be, they are hit harder by this than all her orbiterst together?

    So, they are just desperate and feared and you making contact (like, still being alive) with them is a bigger DHV than ten storys about your private jet.

    You might now be seen as the last man standing and they have significantly less other options.
    Usually, they would just hit downtown the next evening and had 10 lads to their feets. Now, we hit WhattsApp and have 10 women to our feets.

    Now obviously, given I’m even below Rookie status, my learning curve this year was steep, thus also improving my experience.

    Maybe @Sentient can elaborate more on this. But maybe this is different in Europe, as we had way harder lockdowns and I’m not even sure if it’s actually legal to go for a Tinder-date in the park.

    By the way, is playing an instrument (like a violin) a good DHV? Like, from my small experience, there are some aspects, I can easily DHV with:
    1. Writing articles for a blog with more than 1Mio readers
    2. Frequent travels to the US and linked contacts.
    3. Playing in an orchestra.
    4. Running and awards linked to that.

    Also, tales and hints about my social circle seem good.

    So, does that list make for good DHVs or am I likely misinterpreting their reactions?

    1. “Playing in an orchestra.”

      No. Trad band fiddler. 19th century “rave” music. Reels, hornpipes, jigs, polkas, etc. Girls don’t want to listen to art, they want to dance.

  53. Palma/NnN1

    What I do think is different is that you have to back off on the verbal innuendo / sexualisation etc.

    Sexualization is confusing. Like kino, guys think of sexualization as arousal, but it’s really not. It’s mostly comfort.

    You want to present to her initially as a sexual being, a sexual threat NOT her friend or dad.

    So Mystery’s classic DHV story (nnn1 pay attention) hits on this while also flipping other attraction switches. The one about driving to Florida with his stripper gf and in the middle of a blow job they blow a tire etc.

    The point is he presents as a guy with stripper gf who isn’t afraid to talk about sex. But it’s not targeted at the girl, to arouse her. Pre-election and frame setting.

    You can also sexualize a ton with layering, closing distance and picking up on her subcomms and feeding them back, as subcomms – very powerful demonstration of “just getting it”. Hard to explain but its that little mutual smirk where you can both say “what?” And know you are thinking the same thing.

    My first game aware pickup, she was 26 I think. I remember we were in comfort, isolated but at the bar, bubble forming. I’m just layering her and looking through her as she’s going on about something and she suddenly stops. Says “OK I can’t do this” something like that and I’m inside going uh oh and say “what?” And she says “I can’t keep talking to you, it’s too sexual” and I’m now inside thinking oh shot you creepy perv. I say something like “how does that make you feel” just out of instinct but alarms were ringing inside.

    And she looks down, chin down, the just lifts her eyes, full DDB and breathes “it’s hot 🔥 “. BOOOM

    Every game tenet, evo bio/psych etc. became true after this experience. Funny it was my first one lol…

    I’ll circle back.

    Meantime came across this great resource

    https://whetyourwoman.com/how-to-practice-pickup/my-routines-collection/

    1. @Sentient

      this^^^… and eye contact is the gold standard…

      Every game tenet, evo bio/psych etc. became true after this experience.

      for me, i still had at least ‘some doubt’ that it (the evo/bio/psych etc) was true… until i started to spot those ping window ‘invites’… being able to see that hamster workin’ its *ss off trying to get its girl laid is really seeing behind that curtain…lol

      just had one last night…

      was out christmas shopping with one of the kids and was just walking along the store isle… locked eyes with a super hot late 20’s/30’s girl (who was just ‘lingering’…lol)… although it was kind of hard to actually tell how hot she was bc she was masked up…lol… but she was done up/dressed up… and her body was rockin’ and what i could see was hot… and her big dark blue eyes were gorgeous… and for the literally 10 seconds we were eye locked together (while my kid was looking at something), there ‘was no doubt’…lol… got a chubby from that actually…lol… and then my kid took off into the busy store, so i just smirked at her, shrugged and left…lol

      good luck!

      1. Okay, here are some routines to choose from. Remember, just pick ONE from each of the first six categories to start. Once you’ve mastered the attract phase, then you can choose ONE from each of the last categories. Make your life easy. Keep it simple.

        PHASE ONE: ATTRACT

        A1 OPEN. (Reason for talking with her)

        For your opener, you can go either direct or indirect. The indirect openers are a little longer. My personal favorites are direct. Short, sweet, right to the point. Try on different ones for size and see which fits you best.

        Again, I’ve given a lot to choose from, but JUST PICK ONE opener. Practice it five times in the mirror, and five times in the field. THEN you can try another opener. Don’t have five different openers, for example, swimming in your head at once. When you see that hot girl you don’t want to be confused. You just want to GO.

        Direct

        I. My Personal Favorites
        I’ve got this rule that whenever I see someone attractive I have to say hi.
        You look kinda cool, so I just wanted to see what you were like.
        You look fun/friendly/interesting. I’ve only got a sec, but I wanted to come over and see what you were like.
        II. Lance Mason’s Openers
        ::: MOVIE MOMENT ::: (The pauses create a lot of sexual tension)
        I saw you over there and… You are really… Really… …. …. Beautiful. I just had to come over and say hi. Who are you?
        ::: BACK POCKET OPENER :::
        Hey, do you have the time (touch her on wrist to stop her from looking at her watch and pivot so you’re standing next to her now)…actually I really came over to flirt with you. Is that bad? (Banter)
        2. Indirect

        I. Style’s Opinion Openers
        ::: JEALOUS GIRLFRIEND :::
        Hey, let me get your take on something. I’ve only got a sec but I’m trying to give my friend over there advice, but we’re just a bunch of men–so we’re really not qualified to comment on these matters. (She: what’s that?)
        Okay, it’s a two-part question. Imagine you’ve been dating this guy for like three months and he doesn’t want you to talk to a male friend of yours. Now you guys are just friends and nothing would ever happen. What’s the appropriate response? (She: I’d probably break up with the guy I’m dating.)
        Okay, makes sense. Now what if this guy was someone you used to sleep with? Does that make a difference? (She: Well, I’m friends with some of my exes, but others I can’t be friends with. So, it depends.)
        Okay. The reason I ask is my friend has been dating this girl for like three months and she doesn’t want him to talk to a female friend of his. They haven’t seen each other for years and they really are just friends. The problem is if he stops talking to his friend, he’ll resent his girlfriend. But if he continues to talk to his friend, his girlfriend will resent him. (She: Something like that happened to me once…)
        Wow, you guys are like from the View. (She: Laughter)
        So, how do you all know each other? (She: Response)
        I wonder which one of you is the black sheep. (She: Laughter and Response)
        Hey, before I go I couldn’t help notice your ring. Do you always wear a ring on that finger?
        (go into Rings, neg while doing it, then qualify)
        ::: CHEATING :::
        There was this article in Esquire magazine that asked different people what cheating was. Well, let me ask first. How would you define cheating?
        (go around the group)
        It’s Fascinating that a basic concept like cheating, everyone’s definition of it is different. My answer is it’s not being honest with the other person. In other words, you could go and have sex with someone else and as long as she’s okay with it, it’s not cheating. If your girlfriend said okay to have sex with her friend, it’s not cheating because you had a mutual agreement. So, cheating is not being honest, being deceptive, and breaking an agreement you had with another person. So, for someone else, just talking to another girl at a party could be cheating, if she didn’t want you to and you had agreed. Or, staying touch with an ex. That’d be cheating if she asked you not to and you said okay.
        II. Mystery’s Openers
        ::: OCEAN’S ELEVEN
        We’re celebrating like it’s the end of Ocean’s Eleven
        ::: GIRL FIGHT ::
        Hey did you see the fight outside?
        Two girls were fighting over this guy. And the two girls that were fighting were both taller than him, it was the craziest thing. One of the girls was being held back by a guy, and I’m not sure if the guy who was holding her back worked there or not, but it was like two against one. The girl who was being held back, her blouse ripped open and her boob popped. Normally I’d be like, “Hey, how YA doing,” (Joey from Friends voice) but in this case (make grossed out face) it was a saggy, baggy boobie, like from National Geographic. It was just wrong.
        Anyway, that girl ran off and the tall girl won the little guy. Good for her! I talked to him afterwards and I was like, “What the fuck happened,” and he said “Horhay.” I asked him to spell it and he was like, (in French accent) “jjjee,-ee-oh-ar-jjjee-ee.” (Pause) That’s not “Horhay” that’s fucking George. You can’t pull wool over my eyes. That’s a (pointing) deal breaker name right there.
        Like if your name was Olga, I don’t care HOW good looking you can make yourself in a day, I couldn’t date you. Beatrice. Maud. Gertrude. Helga? I don’t even want to know your name just in case. I mean everything’s going fine, just keep your mouth shut. (Smile)
        III. Brad P’s Banter Openers
        ::: HORSE GIRL:::
        I have to ask. Do you like horses? I thought so. Okay, check this out. When I was in the third grade there was this girl, and she loved horses. She loved them more than anything. She used to draw horses all over her binder, she’d be making horse noises, she’d be running around the schoolyard galloping. We used to call her “The Weird Horse Girl.” (She: So why are you telling me this)
        Well, you look JUST like her! (She: It’s not me)
        You know what? I’m 90% sure it’s not you, but if it was me, I wouldn’t admit it either. So, just in case it’s you—and I’m not saying it’s definitely you—but just in case it’s you and you don’t want to admit it, I just want to say I’m sorry (She: Sorry for what?)
        Sorry for all the times I used to make fun of you. See, back in school I was one of the cool kids and I was a bit of a bully and I used to make fun of the The Weird Horse Girl. NOW, I feel so bad. I feel so guilty. I’ve been going to therapy and my therapist says I should find this girl and right all the wrongs of my past, so I just want to say I’m sorry and see if you’d EVER forgive me. (She: Yes)
        (Hugging her) Oh my God you are so cool! I can’t believe you turned out to be cute and cool. This is like the craziest thing!
        ::: LAST NIGHT’S LAY:::
        You look familiar. Have we had sex? Oh my God! Yes, it’s you! It’s so good to see you!
        Hey, listen, sorry I haven’t called. Been kind of busy. My, um, phone, um, stopped, um, working and my tire got a flat, and my dog ate my homework. But tell your friend I said hi and that she was great too.
        It wasn’t you? I could have sworn it was you. You look just like this girl I had sex with last week—actually I can’t quite remember what she looks like, I was kind of drunk…No, I’m pretty sure it was you.
        ::: ONE LINERS :::

        You’re the third cutest girl here!
        Hey watch out for these girls here. They are professional pick picketers! They’ll steal your phone and purse.
        YOU and I are STUNNING! But MOSTLY me!
        I have to compliment you. You’re very reasonably attractive (Only say this to 9’s and 10’s)
        To a Short Girl: You’re the Tiny Dangerous one here! Gotta watch out for you.
        My mom told me to come to the club and find a nice girl. You’re the perfect girl to take home to my mom!
        To a Girl SUPER dressed up: You’re the most stylish girl here! I bet you’re a shopaholic.
        Stop looking at my ass whenever I walk by. It’s JUST. NOT. COOL.
        Let’s go steal a car.
        A2 ATTRACT, part 1 of 2. (Banter/Neg with Appreciation/Smile)

        This is THE key to attraction. Hands down.

        Do this within your FIRST TWO SENTENCES. It sets the tone right away. If you wait too long to banter/neg, it will be harder to do it down the line, because it might seem out of character. The beauty of the Brad P openers is you’re bantering right from the get go. Mystery’s Girl Fight and Style’s Jealous Girlfriend have banter lines built into them, too.

        I’m giving you a shit-ton of lines to choose from. They go great with the direct openers I gave you above… with the possible exception of the Movie Moment opener.

        Buuuuuut, again, just pick ONE banter line. Practice it five times in the mirror before going out. Then practice it at least on five different sets out in the field. This one routine here will completely transform your game. I know it did for me.

        Also, KINO when you say your banter line. Kino and banter aren’t separate. They’re one. Kino here would be something like a light tap on the arm or hand before you deliver the banter.

        I broke the banter lines into five different characters. That’s where the humor comes in. The words themselves are kind of funny, some aren’t at all. The real humor comes from how you say the words. From how you act out the character.

        Also, each character has a sexual charge to it, because the underlying character in all the banter lines is you’re the dominant one and she’s cute. You’re the sexual selector, and she’s chasing you.

        When you banter, honest-to-God ACT OUT the character, as if you’re pretending to be him… or in some cases her.

        Again, I know I sound like a broken record, but I want to drive this point home… PICK ONLY ONE LINE AT A TIME.

        Don’t make the mistake I made and try to learn all of them at once. It will end in tragedy, I promise.

        Pick one line, practice saying it in the mirror as a cocky guy, or a hot valley girl, or a principal. Then go out in the field and practice it on at least five sets. That’s the way I learned. There’s something about practicing banter with another human that drills it into your bones.

        Once you feel like the banter line is natural, THEN you can learn another line. This is like learning another language. How to speak Woman…

        Remember, learn just ONE line at a time.

        Okay, here goes.

        Banter Lines from Lance Mason, David DeAngelo, Brad P, Mystery, and Style

        I. The Judge (Judge Her)
        What are you doing in a bar for godsakes? Can’t you find a nice normal guy? Are you desperate?
        Wait. You’re a republican, aren’t you.
        You girls are BAD girls. I have to watch out for you.
        You guys are trouble. I can already tell.
        I don’t know about you yet.
        She looks sweet and innocent but something tells me she’s not.
        Part of me wants to stay here and talk to you guys and part of me wants to run as fast as I can.
        Let me see you flirt. Wow, now that was terrible. It actually made me go gay for a second.
        That’s it, I’m going to talk to those more interesting girls over there.
        Oh my God you guys are like Charlie’s Angels. You can be Drew Barrymore, you can be Lucy Liu, and you can be Bosley (to the target) – Lovedrop
        Did you know that 93% of all women masturbate in the shower? (their response) Do you know what the other 7% do? (they say no) Oh. So you’re one of the ones…who…(nod knowingly) – Brad P.
        Did you know that when you sleep your heart actually stops for 45 minutes every night? Option A. She believes you: No you dork! You know, you just failed the smart test. I don’t know if I can hang out with you anymore (smile of course to soften) OR Option B. She doesn’t believe you: You know what, you just passed the smart test. I think you might be smart enough to hang out with me. – Brad P.
        II. Cocky Casanova
        1. I AM GORGEOUS
        Don’t look at me like that. You’ll get hypnotized and start thinking naughty thoughts.
        Stop it! You’re looking at me like a fat kid looks at a cheeseburger.
        Stop looking at me like an ice cream cone. It’s creeping me out.
        I’m not just a slab of hot young beefcake. I’m a feelings man. I have feelings you know.
        2. STRAIGHT UP, I’M AWESOME
        Come here. I’ll let you stand next to me for a minute.
        It’s ok. I’m just a sexy man.
        I used to be too modest. But, I worked at it, and now I’m perfect.
        I’m not sure if you’re aware of this, but I’m sort of a big deal around here. (Imitate Will Ferrell from Anchor Man)
        No autographs please.
        3. YOU’RE NOT MY TYPE
        Note to self: Do NOT date this girl.
        I can already tell, you and I are NOT going to get along. We’re too similar. If I hung out with you I’d be bald with all the hair I’d be pulling out of my head.
        I can already tell. You and I would NEVER get along. So don’t even try hitting on me.
        Too bad you’re not my type.
        You’re not my type. Your boyfriend must be a really cool guy.
        You are so beautiful, it’s a shame you’re not my type. It’s weird. Logically I know you’re a pretty girl. But I don’t feel for you the way I do with girls I’m into. But we have such a good conversation.
        You’d make a good friend.
        I don’t think I’m your type (she: yes you are) But I’m really weird (she: I like that) Yeah but sometimes I’m just like a little boy.
        Man I would be such a horrible boyfriend. I’d probably cheat on you, never shower, your heart would be broken. You should go for that guy over there. Let’s go talk to him right now.
        We definitely should not get to know each other. You’re too much of a nice girl for me.
        It’s too bad that you (pick a random quality of hers, like she has blonde hair) because I would totally get together with you.
        Go talk to that guy over there (the most dorky guy there). He’s perfect for you. Want me to introduce you? Because I will…(walking towards him)
        (look her up and down) You can’t have me.
        I’ve eaten girls like you for breakfast. You don’t scare me.
        4. I LIKE YOU… KINDA
        That’s it. I’m making you my new girlfriend. Wait. Can you cook?
        I’m making you my new girlfriend. But on Tuesdays only. You’ll be my Tuesday Girlfriend. And if you’re good you can work your way up to my Friday Girlfriend. That’s where the real fun begins.
        Oh my God you are so CUTE! I’m going to take you home in my little pocket and ask my roommates if I can keep you. Wait. Are you housebroken?
        That’s it, we’re getting married. We’re gonna fly to Vegas tomorrow and get married… by a midget Elvis. You’ll be Catwoman, and I’ll be Batman. It’ll be awesome.
        You know what I’d do with you? I’d totally dress you from head to foot in a red… PVC… Devil outfit. With horns, pitch fork, tail, and of course the bitch boots that go up to your thighs with the five inch heels. Now your friend here (the target because everyone wants to be the devil), I’d dress her head to toe in a white, PVC angel outfit. With a halo, fuzzy wings, a harp, and the bitch boots that up to your thigh with the five inch heels. And then we’d roll through the club with one on each arm and we’d make all the girls jealous. And whenever I’d have to make a decision, I’d let the two of you fight over which one is more fun. And whichever is more fun, we’d do that. (Tyler Durgen)
        You know what I wanna do with you? I want us to go to the beach together. You’d wear a nun’s outfit and I’d wear a priest’s outfit and we’d hold hands and make out in front of everybody. And everybody would be like, “what the fuck?” It’d be awesome. -(Style)
        You know what? I’m gonna take you back to my place tonight. I’ve got a…Honey I Shrunk the Kids machine. I’d shrink us down to the size of Ken and Barbie dolls and we’d swim and explore my fish tank. And we’d find magical new lands and have amazing adventures. (Love Drop)
        You know what I’d do with you? I’d dress you up in black leather head to toe because you’re the bad one and I’d dress you in white leather head to toe because you’re the good one. Then I’d take you in my space ship, we’d travel the galaxy, and you’d be my space princesses. And then when we’d come back to earth we’d make all the girls jealous. (Mehow)
        That’s it. I’m in love with you. Now what?
        You’re way too sexy. Get out of here. No really… go!
        5. WE’RE BREAKING UP!
        I’m sorry this had to come our here tonight, but it’s over between us.
        That’s it. I’m demoting you to my Tuesday girlfriend. But if you work hard enough you can become my Friday girlfriend. That’s where the real fun happens.
        I’m breaking up with you. You keep the cat. I’ll keep the CDs.
        6. ARE YOU GRABBING AT ME?
        Did you just go for a feelsky?
        Hey, hey, hey. Hands off the merchandise. This shit ain’t for free. That’ll be forty dollars, missie.
        Stop, don’t touch me. I don’t even know you.
        Lady I’m not going to make out with you! I have a girlfriend! Jeez.
        Will you PLEASE stop touching me? (She: Oh, I’m sorry, I didn’t know I was touching you.) Well you did. And if you’re going to keep doing it, I’d appreciate it if you’d touch a little Lower. (She: Touchy touchy) Yes, I don’t like being touched. So keep a foot or so between us please. Smile
        So, this is the part where you grab my ass.
        7. OH YEAH? WANNA FIGHT?
        You think you can take me? Let’s take this outside.
        III. Valley Girl
        Quit looking at my chest. My eyes are up here!
        I swear all you girls think about is one thing.
        At least buy me a drink first.
        Stop treating me like a mindless piece of meat.
        I’m not just a piece of meat. I have feelings. I’m a feelings man.
        I wore my old briefs tonight to make sure nothing happened.
        I need lots of trust and comfort first.
        Easy there, hardcore. I’m dainty. Be gentle.
        Why are girls always so logical? Why can’t they just feel and be in the moment?
        I’m CUTE! Not smart.
        You’re getting me all emotional. I promised my friends I wouldn’t go home with anyone tonight.
        You’re my new BFF! Best Friends Forever!
        Uh, whatever.
        You would.
        You would say that.
        I’m putting you in my friend’s zone.
        I’m leaving you for someone richer and older. My inner-woman is too high maintenance for you. -Style
        Um, I have to go to the bathroom.
        What’s that stuff they put in people’s drinks? (Roofies) Whoa! Roofies? I was going to say vodka. I put vodka in my drinks. I don’t know what the fuck is up with you guys. I cannot trust you girls. Do not leave me alone with these girls. This is a little creepy. -Lovedrop
        IV. The Authority Figure
        1. I’M YOUR TEACHER — DETENTION
        You’ve just earned yourself detention. Go to the Principal’s Office!
        2. I’M YOUR EMPLOYER — HIRING OR FIRING YOU
        You’re fired!
        You’re hired. I’m making you my new assistant.
        You’re off the island!
        3. I’M YOUR POLICE OFFICER — YOU’RE IN TROUBLE
        I’m giving you a ticket.
        4. I’M YOUR FATHER — SPANK!
        I don’t know who your boyfriend is, but he is NOT spanking you enough. Don’t look at me. I’m not doing the spanking. I’m just saying you need a good one.
        Bad Girl! Go to my room.
        I think someone needs a time-out.
        No more love for you. Tough love is all you get from here on out.
        V. The Innocent Victim — She’s Sexy or Putting The Moves On YOu
        You’re bad. You’re making me think impure thoughts.
        I think I need permission to talk with you.
        Quit corrupting me. We’re wholesome people here.
        My mom definitely wouldn’t approve of this.
        VI. Negs
        1. NAME CALLING
        You’re such a brat.
        You’re such a dork.
        You’re such a Power Puff Girl.
        You usually hang out at the library, don’t you.
        You’re like my little sister. Lovable, but a little annoying.
        So, how long have you been a crack head?
        So, what was it like living in the half-way house?
        Ok, little drunk girl.
        Dear Diary, Renaissan is such a jerk… (fill in with her complaint) (After you do something she dislikes and she complains about it.)
        (If she curses) Uh-oh, turret syndrome. (Imitate: Shit, fuck, mother-fucker)
        You are such a nerd…at least you’re nice
        You would look so cute… with a mowhawk!
        You are so bad at being pretty.
        Check this girl out. She’s amazing, and so bright and funny. Would you believe she’s never had a date?
        You know what I love about you? Absolutely nothing.
        2. OBSERVATIONS ALA MYSTERY
        Nice nails, are they real? Oh. Well. I guess they still look good.
        You have the cutest crooked smile.
        Your nose wiggles when you laugh. Ha! There it goes again!
        Nice hair, did you dye it? And you dyed it to that?
        Nice shoes. I bet they were beautiful when they were new.
        Do you always wear that lipstick?
        I thought I loved you, then you pulled your straw out like that. That was the most gross thing. You probably pick your toe nails.
        Ew, you spit on me.
        There’s something in your teeth.
        Delicate shoulders, slim waist, birthing hips (and smile)
        3. REACTING TO HER BAD BEHAVIOR
        Man, you can dress her up but you can’t take her anywhere.
        How do you roll with this girl? Is she always like this?
        You’ve gotta get her out of the library more.
        Did you forget to take your medication today?
        Where’s your fun switch?
        Is she always like this?
        How do you guys roll with her?
        Does she have an off button?
        Wow, she poops words. I should have brought my raincoat.
        What’re you doing? Jeez. You must’ve drove your parents crazy.
        Alright, you’re losing me. (turn away) – (say if she says something weird after a DHV spike)
        Did you just wake up?
        Oh I get it. You probably act like this all the time and probably get away with it too, but I don’t buy it. You probably act like a bitch and convince people you are a bitch because so many dorks hit on you. But I bet you’re actually a really nice person. I bet you’re really loyal, and you really care about your friends and family, going out of your way for them. You’re like a piece of hard candy that’s rock hard on the outside, but at the center is soft and sweet. (Brad P)
        4. NON-VERBAL
        Squint.
        Put a finger up in her face while she’s talking so you can hear the other person talking.
        Body Rock Away
        Roll off.
        Here hold this for me. (Then turn back and talk to someone else)
        Mimic her
        Stick your tongue out at her

    2. Breaking up this thread, full post too long https://whetyourwoman.com/how-to-practice-pickup/my-routines-collection/

      My Routines Collection
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      TABLE OF CONTENTS:

      INTRODUCTION
      PHASE ONE: ATTRACT
      A1 Open.
      1. Direct
      2. Indirect
      A2. Banter/Neg (part 1 of 2)
      1. Banter Lines
      2. Funny Stories
      3. Kino
      4. Contingencies
      A2. DHV (part 2 of 2)
      1. Your Passion
      2. Observations About Her
      3. Super Optional “Bubble Gum” Routines
      A3. Qualify (part 1 of 3)
      1. What’s Beyond Your Looks?
      2. Are You Passionate?
      3. What Abilities Do You Have?
      4. What Interests Do You Have?
      A3. Statement of Interest (part 2 of 3)
      A3. Isolate or Number Close (part 3 of 3)
      1. Isolation Close
      2. Number Close
      PHASE TWO: COMFORT
      Create an Emotional Connection
      PHASE THREE: SEDUCTION
      Setting a Romantic/Sensual Mood
      1. Romantic Questions
      2. Ross Jeffries’ Patterns
      3. Sexual Subjects
      Going for the Kiss
      Extract to Seduction Location
      END GAME: FOREPLAY AND SEX
      CONCLUSION
      INTRODUCTION

      PLEEEEEEEASE don’t overload yourself with routines. No, no, no. I have before and it sucks. You just get… Paralysis.

      You need six things for an indirect approach to go well.

      A reason for talking with her

      A reason for talking with her
      Banter within your first TWO sentences. Communicates “I’m not trying to get you”
      Initiate a topic of conversation that gives value to her
      Qualify her.
      State your interest in her.
      Either isolate her or make plans for a Day 2
      The first six things take just a few minutes. Your goal? Qualification. Get her one-on-one as soon as you can. Once you’re one-on-one, take your time. This is where the game is really played. One-on-one, you need three things.

      Create an emotional connection
      Kiss her… but don’t make-out yet (during Comfort)
      Invite her to a “sex location” (C3)
      Don’t move to sex too soon. Take a few hours to get to know her. And the kiss is comfort-building. Keep the sexual tension alive by not making out with her yet. The focus is getting to know her, not sex. There’s basically one thing you need once you’re in private with her.

      Foreplay and give her orgasms. Alone in private, NOW you can make-out. But still tease her and build anticipation. Seduction happens in the mind. The more she wants it PSYCHOLOGICALLY because she can’t have it all yet, the wetter she becomes. The wetter she becomes before you stick your dick in her, the closer to the edge of orgasm she already is. (S1 – S3 Seduction)
      Attract first, create an emotional connection second, and seduce last.

      Couple of things before I get to the routines, and how you can fill out this structure.

      Have a “reason for talking to her” when you approach. If you don’t have a good reason, she’s gonna wonder “why are you talking to me? What do you want from me?” If you have a good reason (for example, she looked cool and you wanted to say hi), she’ll know WHY you went up to her to talk, and she can relax.

      After you banter, appreciate her. Soften the “play fighting” with appreciation. Too much disinterest and you push her away. Too much interest and it’s too close for comfort. Calibrate your disinterest with interest, as well as your interest with disinterest.

      Make sure to qualify. If there’s a mistake budding pickup artists make, it’s not to qualify. The funny thing is, qualification is MORE important than all the attract crap. Don’t get me wrong, the attract crap is important, but they’re just stepping stones to get to qualification.

      And APPRECIATE her after you’ve qualified her, too. That appreciation is THE bridge to isolating/closing her.

      Okay, that’s a lot of stuff, I know. And I started this whole shebang saying don’t overload yourself with routines. And it’s true. So, to start out with, just pick six really quick, simple “gambits” for your attract phase. Again, it’s six things but taken all together, attraction happens fast–a few minutes at most.

      Pick:

      a reason for talking with her (i.e. an opener)
      a banter line joined with appreciation (do this IMMEDIATELY after your opener–within TWO sentences)
      a DHV (statement about–who you are)
      a qualifier (question about–who is she?)
      a statement of interest
      a way to isolate/close her.
      Don’t forget to qualify.

      If you get to qualification with five different sets in one night, you’ve mastered the attract phase. Now you can move on to practicing comfort. Add three more routines that:

      creates an emotional connection
      kiss close
      extracts her to the seduction location
      Practice up until foreplay. Once you get to foreplay, study how to give women orgasms. Take things step by step.

      Congrats. You’re a pickup artist to contend with.

    3. Funny Stories… VERY, VERY OPTIONAL! In place of a banter line you can tell a funny story to make her laugh. But stories are way longer and kinda cumbersome. You really don’t need them. Banter lines do the trick faster and they’re more interactive. Interactive = way better.

      These stories work only if you ACT THEM OUT. I know I keep hammering this point home. But the humor comes in the personality beneath the words. Make these stories visually fun, expressive, emotional. Act out characters whenever they speak. Also, make sure to check in with your audience, so it’s interactive.

      I. The Restaurant
      Get this. I was at this restaurant having lunch, the waiter walks past and I say, “Hey man, can I get the check?” And he’s like, “It’s been already taken care of.” Has that ever happened to you guys? Well, it’s never happened to me. So I say to him, “Who took care of it?” And he says, “I can’t tell you.” So, I’m like…right, one of my friends must be fucking with me. So I look around and I see some couples…some business lunches…and THEN I see this guy smiling at me from across the way. And I’m like, great. So, I go over to him and I’m like, “Listen, I appreciate it, I’m really flattered, but it’s not going to happen. I’m not GAY (goofy, dorky voice).” And he looks me straight in the eye (do weirded out look) and say, “I have no idea what you’re talking about.” I was so embarrassed. – Lovedrop
      II. Wrong Number
      Do you ever answer phone calls you don’t recognize? Don’t you think sometimes it’s a mistake though? Cuz I totally made this mistake last weekend. I get this phone call and it’s this chick. She’s like “Hey is Renaissan there?” I say “Yeah, this Renaissan.” She’s like “Oh my God, this is Melissa you’ll never believe what happened to me today.” She totally shoots off into this whole story about her day. The whole time I’m thinking, “who the fuck is Melissa?” And so finally I had to stop her and was like “wait a minute how do I know you?” And she’s like (frustrated) “Among other things, I meet you at the bars over the weekend.” I was like, it’s still not ringing a bell. She goes: “Well, do you even remember FUCKING me?” So, now I’m like holy shit what happened here? “Wait, who did you say you were calling?” This is Renaissan. RIGHT?” “Yeah. Renaissan who?” “Renaissan D. RIGHT?” “Noooo-ho-ho. You’ve got the wrong phone number.” Cuz, you see Renaissan D is my really good friend who apparently likes to give my number out to girls he never wants to talk to again. But I’ll tell you though… I know he wasn’t ready for the phone call he got because I gave her the right number. Bam.” – Joey from Pickup 101
      III. Revolving Door
      What should a guy of for a woman at a revolving door? Well, get this. I’m at Neiman Marcus, right? And I’m kinda walking up to a revolving door and in the reflection I see this really hot girl walking up, and I’m like “Oh my God I wanna open the door.” So, I’m pushing the door and I kind of get stuck in the compartment behind the girl. And I’m pushing the door so I’m like (demo dry humping her) Anyway, the door opens and she kinda stumbles out (act out stumble out) and she like (pause, weird look) “Um, am I like supposed to tip you are something?” Anyway, I got 20 bucks out of it. Not a bad gig. – Lance Mason, Pickup 101
      IV. Bisexual Thug
      Did you just grab my ass? Everyone keeps grabbing my ass. Get this. I’m out with my friends having a kick-ass time and I meet this girl that I totally hit it off with. One of my friends walks up to me and whispers in my ear (exaggerated “watch out” voice), “Hey man, I think she has a boyfriend and he’s standing over there.” I turn to look and I see this HUMUNGOUS 250 pound guy. Bald head…and he does not look happy AT ALL. His arms were folded and he’s eyeing me, looking me up and down, like this (demo) while this girl is all giggly and touching my arm (demo)…and I’m FREAKING out. So I go back to my friends and later that night I walk past the two of them and I overhear the girl say to the big guy, “Hey, there goes that guy.” And I hear this HUMUNGOUS guy say in this REALLY effeminate voice, “Too bad. He was thooooo cute. Go hurry up and find me anotfer one.” – Style
      V. Accidental Threesome
      Have you ever had a threesome? Well, I had my first one last week. Get this. This girl took me home and I wake up at like 4 am to take a leak. I crawl back into bed to cuddle with her and the next thing I know this guy and girl are screaming at me, “What the fuck are you doing feeling up my girl?” “Ahhhh! Rapist!” I was disoriented, so it took me a few minutes to figure out what had happened. I had crawled into bed with my girl’s roommate and her boyfriend. It was my first threesome. And let me tell you it was fantastic. – adapted from Cosmo magazine
      3. Kino. Do within 30 SECONDS of opening, with Banter. Again just PICK ONE.

      Touch her arm, step back, banter. (Example: “Hey you guys seem fun.” Touch arm. “Wait.” Step back. “You’re Republican, aren’t you.”
      High Five or Knock Fists a girl if she says something cool.
      Fun Handshakes and High Fives
      DOWN LOW: Slap me five. To the side. Down low. (Pull hand away) Too slow.
      DRUNK GIRLFRIEND HANDSHAKE: Do you know the San Diego handshake? Ok hold out your hand (slap each side of the hand then knock fists) But a little more loose. Loosen up. Go like this (horse-like blowing out of air and shake) Good job Ok go like this. (Do handshake again) But not so hard. It hurts. (Do it a third time) That’s cool. Do you know the L.A. handshake? Okay, go like this. (shake hands, curl fingers together, thumb lock, knock fists) Nice. Okay, do you know the NY handshake? Make a fist. Now go like this. (bump fist from top, then from bottom, knock fists) Very good. Okay, now go like this. (put out forearm, squiggle each other down each other’s forearms) Again. (Do it a second time) Now one more time? (Do it a third time.) (She: what’s that? I don’t know. Some drunk girl showed me that. (She laugh but Back turn/roll off like you don’t care) (-Love Drop)
      SAN FRANCISCO HANDSHAKE: Here’s the New York Handshake. Now do you know the San Francisco Handshake? This is how they actually shake hands in San Francisco. (Two air kisses on either side of her cheek) (in a really gay voice) Oh my gawd! You look FANTABULOUS! (Spin her around maybe?) Have you lost weight? We so have to go shopping together. You’d buy me the best cashmere sweater ever! That’s actually how they shake hands in San Francisco, I swear to God.
      Spin Moves
      STEAL HER SEAT: Wait, so go like this for a sec? (put out your hand so she puts her in yours) Now stand up? (Stand her up) (Steal her seat/sit in her spot) Oh! Just kidding. I can only stay a sec. Hey, stay close. Now, get this…(story, trivia, DHV game)
      SPIN MOVE: Here go like this (take her hand, lift it up, and spin her around) Very nice…I bet you were a ballet geek OR Very nice, very graceful. That’s what you get for being good. (she: what do I get for being bad?)
      Hugs
      HUG TEST
      Okay we’ve been talking for like 5 minutes and I have to see if you give good hugs or not. Otherwise I’m going to have to stick you into the friend zone. (She hugs you)
      B -.
      (Hug her so both your hearts touch)
      So many of us hug without our hearts touching. A true hug is when your hearts touch. Now that’s a hug. A +.
      Okay, that’s enough. Get off me.
      Daring Kino
      SPANK HER ASS
      PICK HER UP
      Kino Test: The kino test is HUGE. It’s like asking a question. If she answers yes, then take a step further. Then break it off first. Don’t wait for her to do it. Always leave HER wanting more. This is the dance of seduction.
      KINO TEST #1
      You’ve made the girls laugh. When you’re about to leave (a.k.a. “false takeaway”) reach out your hand and see if she takes it.
      If she takes your hand, squeeze it. If she squeezes back, STAY!
      KINO TEST #2
      Here’s another trick. After the handshake, slide your fingers off her hand. That way it’s no longer a “business as usual” handshake, but a sensual one… in a subtle way.
      Get your ass back in the set, qualify her dammit! “Are you a creative person?” You can then test her “creativity” by isolating her within the set and doing something like the Cube on her.
      If she’s slow to go for the high-five, she’s probably not attracted yet. Continue with your takeaway and leave. You can come back later. When you do, demonstrate value to her friends. If you’ve won over her friends, you’ll probably win her over, too.
      KINO TEST #3
      Here’s another kino test. Let’s say you high-five her instead of shaking her hand. If she complies, don’t release her hand yet. Instead, take her hand that’s still in yours and put it behind your back, out of the view of the others.
      Squeeze her hand. If she squeezes back, move your fingers to her fingers and play with them. This is EXTREMELY sensual. And the best part is it’s discreet. If she doesn’t move her hand away, she’s definitely attracted. Throw her hand away and roll off.
      As always, you’re balancing interest with disinterest here. It also shows you have self-control.
      4. Contingencies. It’s good to have a few contingencies prepared. You’ll hear the same old questions over and over. And the same shit tests. And the same interrupts. And the same whatever else. It’s good to be prepared, so you’re not thrown off guard by any of these patterns that WILL come up.

      I. What do you do?
      I’m a glorified bum.
      My passion is… (fill in whatever your passion is… speaking EMOTIONALLY rather than factually)
      II. Where are you from?
      From the glimmer in my father’s eyes.
      Well, my mother is Caribbean and my father is Italian. It’s funny because Caribbeans are know for their incredible carnivals, and Italians are known for food, wine, festivities, the fine things in life. And I turned out to be a bookworm. Go figure.
      III. What’s your name?
      Justin…Timberlake.
      IV. How old are you?
      I’m 65. Let me order. I get the senior discount.
      V. Do you have a girlfriend? (Credit: Brad P)
      No (ashamed, sad). I have 8 girlfriends (happy like a 4 year old)! Yeah it’s no big whoop, it’s not big deal. They all get together and swap recipes so they can learn how to cook my favorite food. But I’ll tell you something—and I don’t usually do this—but I’ve been searching for a ninth girlfriend. And I don’t know you very well yet but I have a really good feeling about you and I want to know if you want to be my ninth girlfriend. Right now. (she wants to be #1)
      I know, I know. I’ll tell you what. I NEVER do this, so please don’t tell anyone, but I can make you #6, right now. I’m making you #6. (she still wants to be #1)
      You know what? I can make you #3, but that’s my final offer. Final offer. (She accepts)
      Hey guys, I don’t know if she told you, but we’re boyfriend and girlfriend, so I’m going to spend a little alone time with my girlfriend. We’ll be back in a little bit.
      VI. You’re short.
      Yes I am. Great things come in small packages.
      VII. Will you buy me a drink?
      I’d be happy to. But let me get to know you better first.
      Why don’t you buy me a drink?
      I don’t even know you yet.
      What, do you go around asking all the guys this?
      This is moving too fast.
      Oh my God! Are you trying to get me drunk?
      VIII. Will you hold my purse?
      You gotta be kidding me you just asked me to hold your purse. Do I have to give you the look?
      IX. Any other demand
      Before I do that, give me at least one compliment.
      X. I have a boyfriend.
      Maybe he can make us breakfast in bed.
      Cool. Anyway…
      That’s cool. I have an uncle that has 5 cats. 4 blue ones and 1 red one. He dyed them blue and red. You should check it out sometime. Anyway…
      XI. Do you say this to all the girls?
      Yes, you’re the 512th person I’ve said this to today.
      XII. Does this make me look fat?
      Yeah I wasn’t going to say anything.
      XIII. She says something egotistical:
      I’ve eaten girls like you for breakfast.
      XIV. Any Shit Test.
      Cute.
      Anyway.
      Whatever.
      The capital of France is Jupiter.
      7+3=947.
      Do you always wear that lipstick? Anyway…
      XV. External Interrupts
      Introduce me, it’s the polite thing to do.
      XVI. Internal Interrupts
      Hello I’m talking here. Jeez. Is she always like this?
      May I finish my sentence first?
      XVII. She Gets Distracted
      Hey ADD Party’s over here.
      Hey, Party’s over here.
      XVIII. Extreme Rudeness
      Oh, that was weird.
      Wow, that was rude.
      Wow, you’re really snotty, aren’t you.
      Anyway…
      XIX. Playful Questions
      I just figured out where you’re from. The Congo! (or whatever obviously is opposite to her nationality)
      I bet I can guess your major. Underwater Basket Weaving.
      I bet I can guess what you do. (Cold read her)
      XX. Playful Compliments
      You are so adorable…it’s sickening!
      Oh my God, you’re a ballet dancer? That’s so cool! …I can’t even talk to you right now.
      You are the shit…too bad you’re not my type.

    4. A2 ATTRACT, part 2 of 2. (Introduce Who You Are a.k.a DHV)

      Again, pick only ONE! Are you sick of me saying this yet? Practice it five times to commit it to memory, five times in front of the mirror to get the delivery right, and five times out in the field. Master just one. Then you can move on and learn another.

      I know I’m giving you a lot of stuff here, and it can be overwhelming. But remember it doesn’t mean you gotta learn em all before you go out. You only need ONE solid DHV, followed by one solid qualifier.

      Okay, so where are we so far?

      So far, you’ve opened, you’ve bantered, and you’ve softened your banter with a little appreciation. For example, to soften your banter you could say something like “you guys seem cool. You don’t mind a complete stranger coming up to you and bantering.” Or whatever you come up with.

      After you’ve done that, now it’s time to ANCHOR that attraction with some substance. She’s probably asking herself now, “who is this person?” Answer it. In other words, introduce who you are to her. Some examples.

      Tell Her What Your Passion Is. Below is my own personal passion. Obviously fill it in with your own.

      My passion in life is writing. And I can’t think of better way to have stuff to write about than to go up to complete strangers and talk with them. Are you a passionate person? What lights you up?
      2. Make An Observation About Her. These are great because you’re showing value but IN TERMS OF HER. Help her and her friends have a good time. Show your personality by taking the spotlight off yourself.

      ::: THE RINGS ROUTINE :::
      I have to ask before I run. Do you always wear a ring on that finger? (OR if she’s not wearing rings) Do you usually not wear any rings?
      The reason I’m asking is the finger a person chooses to put a ring on says something about their personality. Someone did this on me and I don’t how much truth there is to it, but she nailed me down pretty good. The fact you wear a ring on that finger (OR that you wear no rings) says something fascinating about you.
      Here, let me see your hand. Back in ancient Greece, each mound represented a different god. And a person back then would put a ring on the associated finger to honor that god. (Save the finger she has a ring on for last)
      For example, the thumb represented Hades, the god of the underworld. He was one of the few gods that lived separate from Mount Olympus, just like the thumb is separate from the other fingers. So, someone who wears a ring on this finger is independent and doesn’t like to follow other people’s trends. Instead, they like to make their own.
      The index finger was Zeus, and he was the king of the gods. And just like when a mother is scolding their daughter (act this out), someone who wears a ring on this finger has an inclination to take charge.
      The middle finger was Dionysus, the god of wine and partying and having a great time. And just like this finger represents something that’s not G-rated, someone who wears a ring on this finger has a little bit of a wild side.
      The ring finger is one of the coolest. This was Aphrodite, the goddess of love. And you can look this up, it’s true. This finger is the only one that has a vein that goes straight to your heart without branching off. (demo line going from finger to her heart). So anyone who wears a ring on this finger is actually making a direct connection with their heart. That’s why to this day we’ll wear our wedding ring on this finger.
      Finally, the pinky finger was Ares, the god of war. And you’ll notice a lot of mobsters will wear their ring on this finger. Someone who wears a ring on this finger has some inner turmoil or conflict within. They like to fight. And if you had given someone a pinky ring back then it mean “fuck you” or “go to hell.”
      And for someone who doesn’t wear rings, like me that meant you were aligned with Hermes. He was one of the most mischievous of the gods. And he was the one that flew from Mount Olympus to earth. So, someone who doesn’t wear rings is open-minded, loves to travel, likes to be helpful, but has a little bit of a mischievous side. And that’s definitely me.
      So, you are…
      Is there any truth to that?
      So, what about you. (Qualify) – Style
      ::: THE BEST FRIEND TEST :::
      Okay, I have to ask. How long have you known each other? (She: answers)
      See I knew that. (She: how?)
      Well, for one, you have the same exact smile. And for two, well, let me just give you the test. I’ll give you the Best Friend Test. (She: agrees)
      Do you use the same shampoo? (They look at each other first)
      You don’t even have to answer, you already passed. You looked at each other before even answering the question. You just did it again. And again.
      See, if you weren’t close, you’d keep eye contact with me. But when two people have a connection, they make eye contact first, even over something as mundane as shampoo.
      You guys are awesome. Too bad I’m taken though. (or whatever disqualifer/neg) How do you guys know each other? – Style
      ::: EYE ACCESSING CUES :::
      I just learned this cool thing. What’s amazing is you can learn whether someone’s lying or telling the truth by reading their eye movements. For example, if you could take a vacation anywhere in the world, where would you go?
      The reason I asked you is because I wanted to see how your eyes moved. We all favor different directions when we think about something. People who are visual will look up for a picture. (demo)
      People who are logical, like lawyers and accountants tend to look to the side when they think. (demo)
      People who live in their emotions, or who learn by touch, look down when they think. (demo)
      You are a — person because you looked —
      The thing is, we use them all at different times, depending on what we’re experiencing. But you can tell a lot about how a person thinks by what direction they favor the most.
      Return to topic of their ideal vacation, connect then qualify… – Style
      ::: C & U SMILES :::
      Smile for me again? Ah, you have a U Smile.
      The U Smile is when you smile and your teeth go straight back into your mouth like a horse. It’s perceived as unfriendly.
      The C Smile is when you smile and all you see is a row of pearly whites in the front. It’s perceived as friendly.
      Brittney Spears has a C Smile and Christina Aguillera has a U Smile. And if you ever look on the cover of like Cosmo or Glamour, you’ll see the girl always has a C Smile.
      I heard about this girl in L.A. who took the theory so seriously that she actually had her teeth surgically removed so she could have a C Smile. She wanted to become a Pop-Star and thought that would help her chances—L.A. girls are crazy anyway.
      But you have a U Smile. But don’t worry, I still think you’re hot–in that short school bus sort of way. – Style
      ::: BRAD P’S PALM READING ROUTINE :::
      (Bend her wrist, so multiple lines show) One line means you’re a virgin, two lines means you have average sex experience, and three lines means you’re a super sex expert, sex guru, sex ninja. And you have like 12 lines.
      By looking at this, I can tell that you’re great in relationships, you make a great girlfriend. And right now you’re kind of dating around, seeing a few different guys, and the weirdest thing is happening to you. You tend to go on one or two dates with a guy, and then you think that you like him. After two dates, you lose all attraction for him and you don’t know why.
      Now by looking at this, I can tell that you have a very good sense of humor. It’s kind of an off beat sense of humor. Okay, do you see this line that intersects with it? That means sometimes you don’t get the joke. Like has your friends ever asked if you have blonde roots?
      Okay, now this is your life line and you have another line that’s parallel to this. Now by looking at the parallel line I can tell what you were in a former life. You were a mermaid/unicorn/butterfly/lady bug/horse/or any other female friendly animal. Now your life line is really long. You’re going to live to be very, very old. But there’s a split in it. Now what this is, is this is a near death experience. You’re going to go into the tunnel, you’re totally going to see the light, and then you’re going to come back and the world is going to look a lot different to you. It’s going to be a real intense experience.
      Now, a little further down you have another cross and what that is, is that is a life changing experience. Okay, hold on, hold on, (close eyes) I’m getting a vision, I’m getting a vision, I’m getting a vision. Okay, I can see it. (open eyes) You’re going to meet a handsome, caramel-flavored man when you’re in you twenties (or however old she is). It’s going to be a life-changing experience. I can’t quite make out his face but he’s wearing (describe what you’re wearing) and standing in a bar. Oh, it’s gone. I lost it. I’m sorry. But that’s your future right there.
      3. VERY VERY SUPER OPTIONAL. Honestly, I shouldn’t even put these in. You don’t need any of these silly routines. They don’t create attraction. They’re just entertaining filler, like bubble gum or soda or a magazine quiz.

      They’re useful only if you’d like something to multiple thread with. That is, if you see one of the girls in your set losing attention, you can bring her back by throwing one of these goofy things out there. But seriously, you don’t need em.

      I. Trivia with Numbers (used to multiple-thread)
      1. ::: 9’s :::
      Okay here’s a piece of useless trivia. How many 9’s are there between 1 and 100. It’s actually 20. Because you have to count 90, 91, 92, 93, and 99 you count twice. – Mystery
      2. ::: DAYS IN A HUMAN LIFE :::
      Okay, here’s a sobering fact for you. How many days do you think there are in an average human life? Don’t try to do the math or anything, just tell me the number that you think it is. 28,000. Isn’t that sobering? It just goes to show how limited our time on this earth is. Makes you ask what you’re doing with your life, doesn’t it. My passion is… What’s yours? – Adapted from Mystery
      3. ::: CONSECUTIVE DAYS :::
      Here’s a brain teaser for you that I couldn’t even get. Can you say three consecutive days without using the words Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, or Sunday? Answer: Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow.
      4. ::: ESP :::
      So, do you believe in ESP? No, yes…? Well, let’s try a little experiment. I’ll see if I can read your mind. Pick a number between 1 and 4. Don’t say it outloud, just think it and I’ll try to read you mind. Ready? Was it three? Was it really? Okay, let’s up it up. Think of a number between 1 and 10 and I’ll try to read. Don’t say it out loud, just think it. Was it seven? It wasn’t? You’re shitting me. C’mon. Well, that’s why ESP is bullshit. Last try. Think of a number between 1 and 1. Don’t say it out loud, just think it… – Mystery
      5. ::: THE LYING GAME :::
      Okay, let’s test to see how good of a liar you are. This is the Lying Game. It makes it a little fun if get a wager involved. How about a dollar? Okay, these are the rules. I’m going to ask you 5 questions and you have to answer each one of them wrong. If you get one right, then I win. But if you get all questions wrong, then you win. Okay? 1. What’s the color of my shirt? 2. What city are we in? 3. What month is it? 4. How many was that? 5. Man, you’re good at this. Have you played this before? OH! I got you! Gets ‘em every time. If you ever want to get a free drink, this is how you do it. Oh, and by the way, for playing you get to be part of the PEN15 Club. Here (write PEN15 inside her forearm) Go ahead and read it. (It’s supposed to say “penis”) I swear, everything that was funny in seventh grade is funny again as adults. Why is that? – Style
      II. Jokes, Unanswered Questions, and Trivia: (used as filler)
      1. Bad Jokes
      8 9: Why is 6 scared of 7? Because 7 ate 9.
      AIR & SEX: Why is air a lot like sex? It’s no big deal unless you’re not getting any.
      POPCORN: What did the baby corn say to the mom corn? Popcorn.
      PENIS IMPLANT: Yeah, I don’t mean to brag or anything but I got a bit of plastic surgery done, and it went really well. Yeah, well it cost a lot of money, but it was totally worth it. Well, it’s a secret. Ok. I got a penis implant. (Proudly with the feeling that you’re enormous now) I’m 4 inches now. -Brad P
      2. Unanswered Questions
      CONGRESS: If con is the opposite of pro, then what’s the opposite of progress? (congress) Exactly.
      ONE HAND CLAP: What’s the sound of one hand clapping?
      3. Useless Trivia
      ELVIS: Get this. Did you know that Elvis dyed his hair black? Guess what his natural hair color was. Blonde. (Well, dirty blonde) No one really know why he dyed his hair black. Some say it was because he was a big admirer of Roy Orbison, others say it was because his mother dyed her hair black, and still others think it was because he thought it would bring out his blue eyes more. In any case, can you imagine the man who revolutionized rock n roll, the king, as a blonde Beach Boy. Just doesn’t seem the same. See this? All natural. What about you? Oh, cool. And you changed it to that? – Adapted from Mystery
      CUTTING ONIONS: Did you know that if you chew gum while chopping onions, it stops you from crying?
      ANIMALS: Elephants are the only mammal that can’t jump. Kangaroos can’t walk backwards. Penguins are the only bird that can swim, but not fly.
      THE THREE MOST TOLD LIES: What are the 3 most told lies? The first is, the check is in the mail (or we’ll call you) The second one is, look this is only going to hurt a little bit. And the third one is, “oh come on. I’m not going to come in your mouth.” -Lovedrop

    5. A3 QUALIFY, part 1 of 3

      In my humble opinion, qualification is more important than DHV. It’s the turning point of the attract phase. Get to the turning point as soon as you can so you can move the story along. And get to the turning point within 3 – 5 minutes. Sometimes you can even open with a qualifier… if she shows signs she’s interested before you approach. Without qualification you won’t get to the next phase, you won’t be able to connect with her.

      Qualification is more important, in my opinion, also because it makes her invest. DHV you’re doing the work, in qualification, she works. Besides, you get to learn about her. Along with DHV, qualification creates mutual self-disclosure. Again, it begins a connection with her, yet challenges her at the same time.

      Qualification is basically banter/neg in question form. It’s not just a comfortable “get-to-know-you” question. There’s an edge. It’s like an interviewer wanting to see if a candidate makes the cut or not. Same thing here. Does she make the cut for you? You’re evaluating her. It implies you’ve got high status, and it makes her work to convince you she’s “good” enough for you.

      The community makes a big deal out of negs/DHV. Banter is the key to attraction. But so is qualification. What’s your goal when you approach? Banter first. Then get to qualification. By the way, you can qualify within the set or you can do it in isolation.

      As always, I’m gonna give you a ton of qualifiers, but guess what? You only need to pick one. Amazing, right? Credit goes to Mystery for most of these. Pick the one that sounds like it fits your personality. Here goes.

      What’s Beyond Your Looks?

      What makes you unique?
      So, what have you got going for you besides your looks?
      Is there more to you than meets the eye?
      What are your three best qualities?
      There are lots of beautiful women here. But more important than beauty is a positive outlook, a curiosity and willingness to grow (or fill in three qualities that are important to you). Outside of your good looks, what would make someone want to get to know you better?
      Who are you?
      What type of character are you?
      Are you adventurous?
      Are you fun?
      Are you spontaneous?
      2. Are You Passionate?

      Are you a passionate person?
      What are you passionate about?
      What lights you up?
      If a genie came along and you could be POOF anything you want to be… what would you choose? And don’t say princess.
      What’s something you could do for hours?
      What’s something you enjoyed doing when you were seven?
      If you could be famous for anything, what would it be?
      What’s the one thing you can’t say no to?
      You know, a lot of people say they’re going to do a lot of certain things, but when it comes down to it, it’s just talk. Are you like this?
      3. What Abilities Do You Have?

      What talents do you have that would surprise me?
      Can you cook?
      Can you dance?
      4. What Interests Do You Have?

      If you could choose any art to do, what would it be and what would it be about?
      If you could wake up anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would it be?
      What would you do if money were no object?
      Is there something you’ve dreamed of doing for awhile? Why haven’t you done it?
      If you came across a genie one day and he could give you any wish, what would it be? And don’t say I wish for more wishes.
      If a genie gave you a million dollars, what would you do with it?
      What do you want to be when you grow up? And don’t say princess.
      A3 STATEMENT OF INTEREST, part 2 of 3

      Oh my God I LOVE this girl!
      You know what? You’re actually pretty cool. I’m curious about you.
      Are you single?
      A3 ISOLATE OR NUMBER CLOSE, part 3 of 3

      Isolation Close

      (To her friends) Hey guys, I’ve been kind of mean to your friend. Is it okay if I talk to her for a sec? We’ll be right over there. (kino: lead her by the hand or put her arm on yours and lead her to an isolation spot in the venue.)
      (To her) Hey, check this out… (turn your back so you’re just facing your target instead of the whole group and do something like the cube. Mini-isolation. Credit: Lance Mason)
      2. Number Close

      We should totally hang out sometime. Let’s exchange info and we can grab a cup of tea. (After you exchange numbers, don’t leave. Talk for a bit. You could even call her right there and then on the phone and flirt.) Hello, this is the sex god. Man, I just met this great girl. She’s really cute and smart and I’m really excited about meeting her. (Whatever. Make her laugh, then hang up and make a date) So, when are you free? (Set up the date right NOW to avoid phone game later. Ask what HER schedule is like. Don’t constantly offer up days that she can say she’s not free on. Now you can jet. Talk a few minutes after you exchange numbers, and it’ll avoid buyer’s remorse for her.)
      I’m having such a great time but I gotta get going. We should totally get together again because I love talking with you. What’s the best way to get a hold of each other again? (Note: the word “because” increases the chance of her complying. Doesn’t even have to be a good reason. Just adding the word “because” in there makes it more likely she’ll agree.)
      PHASE TWO: COMFORT

      CREATE AN EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

      DHV/Emotional Connection. These can be done right after you qualify her, during the attract phase. For example, Style’s Eliciting Values routines works great as a followup to the question “what are you passionate about?” But you can use these in isolation too.

      ::: STYLE’S EV ::: (Taken from “Rules of The Game,” by Neil Strauss)
      Hey, as long as we’re talking, let’s do something interesting. Someone just did this with me recently. It’s a great, quick way to get to know someone. In fact, a lot of people don’t even know this about themselves. (What’s that?)
      It’s just three questions. It’s easy, and it’ll tell you what really drives and motivates you in life. (That would be cool. What’s the first question?)
      The first one is: If you had to choose one thing you need to have in your life in order to feel like life is worthwhile, what would it be? [OR name something you really enjoy doing.] (She answers)
      Okay, if you have {worthwhile thing} in your life, what kinds of things does that allow you to do or experience? [OR Describe your perfect experience of {worthwhile thing}. Either the best time you had doing it or your ideal scenario of {worthwhile thing}]. (She answers)
      Okay, imagine a time in the future or even now hen you have {worthwhile thing} in your life. And this enables you to do {use her words to paint a picture of worthwhile thing}. How would that make you feel inside? (I don’t know) You smiled as you were imagining it. What was that feeling you got inside? (names feeling)
      Yes, that’s it. {Feeling} is your core value. In other words, it’s what really motivates you. Some people say they want to be an actor, and they think it’s because they want to be famous. But the truth is, what they really want is to feel {feeling}. And it’s funny, because when we were talking about imagining it earlier, you actually felt it for a second. It was really cool. (She: Yeah, I did)
      Awesome. We fulfilled you life goal in five minutes. You can die now. (She laughs). But seriously–and this is the real lesson–whenever you have to make an important life decision, whether it’s about a job or a guy or a friend, just ask yourself if it brings you closer to that feeling. If it does, then you should pursue it. If it doesn’t, then you should move away from it. (She: Wow, that’s really interesting)
      That’ll be fifty dollars. I don’t do this shit for free you know.
      ::: ROSS JEFFRIES’ “INSTANTANEOUS CONNECTION” PATTERN ::: The words in caps are words to emphasize slightly. They are “embedded commands” for a woman to feel those feelings.
      Have you ever felt an INSTANTANEOUS CONNECTION with someone? Like maybe as you were there, looking at them, and you started to LISTEN INTENTLY, it was like there was a CORD OF LIGHT going from you to them? And as that cord began to GLOW, WITH THE WARMTH of that connection, maybe you were even able to IMAGINE A TIME IN THE FUTURE, say six months from now, still FEELING THAT SENSE OF INCREDIBLE CONNECTION, and LOOKING BACK ON TODAY as having been the start of it? (She: Oh yeah)
      See, I think it’s so funny how some people can JUST DO THAT and LET IT HAPPEN because for me it takes longer. But I do find that in the course of an evening, as you REALLY LISTEN to someone, and you START TO RECOGNIZE those values in them that you hold so dearly for yourself… WITH ME that’s when you can MAKE THAT CONNECTION and FEEL THAT GROWING BOND.
      2. Emotional Connection. This is the meat and potatoes of emotional connection. A lot of comfort is normal but interesting conversation, but to create an emotional connection it can be very helpful to sprinkle one or two of these routines.

      ::: STYLE’S “SECRET SELF” ROUTINE ::: (Taken from “Rules of The Game,” by Neil Strauss)
      You know, a lot of people try to repress the parts of themselves they don’t like. But that never works. When you try to repress something, you’re basically pushing it down on a spring. Eventually, it’s going to release full force and take over your personality. It’s interesting, because a friend recently did this psychological test with me, and it taught me that instead of denying the parts of yourself you don’t like, there’s a better way to handle them. (What’s that?)
      I’ll tell you what. I’ll quickly do it with you. It’s just four questions. But for it to work, you have to be totally honest. (Okay)
      The first question is the toughest. What’s the part of your personality that you like the least? This is the part of yourself that you don’t like to show other people–your secret self–which maybe you sometimes even wish you could get rid of. (She says a negative trait)
      Okay, if you could give this part of you a name, what would it be? For example, a friend of mine said his problem was that he was too controlling, and he named this part of him Dexter. (Okay, I’ll call it —)
      Good. What does {name} look like? Describe her features and what she’s wearing. For example, my friend said Dexter was a red baby, floating in the air with a pitchfork and a forked tail like a devil. (She gives a description)
      Okay. Now here’s the key question. That part of ourselves that we don’t like probably once had a purpose that no longer serves us. So if we give it a new purpose that’s helpful to our lives, we don’t have to repress it anymore. For example, when my friend did the exercise, he had to find a useful job for his controlling nature. And since he’s an actor, he made Dexter his manager. So Dexter helps him rehearse, gets him to the set on time, critiques his performance, and drives him to make the right choices about his career. Another friend of mine had an anger problem, but now he uses that energy as his personal trainer in the gym to make him work our harder. So for {name}, what job can you give her that would be constructive to your life rather than destructive. (She give her a job)
      That’s perfect. So {name} cam be your {job}, and help you with your life rather than hindering it. It’s a pretty amazing exercise. I think we need to talk about something shallow now, though, like reality TV.
      ::: THE CUBE ::: (Adapted from The Pickup Community)

      Have you ever done the cube? It’s a personality test. Once you do the cube, you can never do it again. It’s rumored to be of ancient Sufi origin. There’s no right or wrong. I’m just going to ask you to imagine a few things, and I’ll tell you what they mean afterwards. Cool?
      Imagine a landscape. And in the landscape there’s a cube. Do you see the cube? Is it big or is it small? Is it on the ground or is it floating in the air? Is it transparent, can you see through it or is it solid? Any particular color or design?
      Ok, add to this a ladder. See the ladder? Where is it in relation to the cube? Is it tall or is it short? Is it easy or hard to climb up it?
      Now, picture some flowers. Do you see a few or a lot? Where are they? Are they all one kind or different kinds? Okay, describe them. What do they look like? What color are they? And when you see them, what’s your first thought? How do they make you feel?
      Okay, add a horse. See the horse? Where is it? What’s it doing? What does it look like? If you gave me three words to describe the personality of this horse, what would they be?
      Okay last thing. Add to the picture a storm. See the storm? Is it violent or gentle? Where is it? Is it faraway or close up? Is it fucking shit up or is it more quiet?
      Do you want to know what all this means? I just made it up. It’s a joke. Are you mad? (laughs) No, I’m kidding. It actually means something. (joke ala Style)
      Answer Key:

      Cube : represents you. The bigger the cube, the bigger your ego. If the cube is transparent, you are open to others, you don’t hide anything from your friends or family. If you cannot see through the cube, it means that you are a private person and don’t talk much about yourself.

      If the cube is made out of something solid and strong, it means that you are a strong person. If it is soft, it means that you can be easily influenced and you are emotional.

      How you think about the cube represents how you think about yourself. A cube which is on the ground indicates that you are down to earth, while a floating cube shows that you are a dreamer. If you see the flat side of the cube, you have a shallow personality, if you see the cube in 3D, you have a deep personality.

      If the cube is in the centre it means that you like the attention and you like to be praised.

      The color of the cube represents your personality. In general, if the cube is light you are a positive person and the darker it is the more negative you are. However it may not always be so, you should always pay attention to how you feel about the color. If you like the color then you are a likeable personality, it the color seems cold to you, you seem distant to people.

      Here is a general guide to the cube colors:

      Black can represent the dark side.
      White symbolizes innocence and a non-judgemental personality.
      Red is the color of dominance and power.
      Yellow color of the cube shows that the person loves attention. It also represents playfulness and optimism like the sun.
      Green represents compassion.
      Blue represents knowledge and calmness.
      Purple represents luxury.
      Brown shows stability. Brown is the most common cube color among men.

      Ladder : The ladder represents your ambitions. If it’s easy to climb you might feel your ambitions are easy to attain, hard to climb and you might feel it’s difficult. Tall ladder is high ambitions, a low ladder is low ambitions. If the ladder is far away, your ambitions might feel distant, close to the cube and it’s attainable.

      (The ladder can also represent your friends. The closer the ladder to the cube, the closer you are with your friends. If the ladder is leaning against the cube, this indicates that some friends are relying on you or expecting you to act according to their wishes.

      If the ladder is far away from the cube, it may mean that you either have no friends or you don’t consider their friendship important to you. You either mentally or physically like to distance yourself from your friends. The more rungs the ladder has, the more friends you have.)

      Flowers: Flower/s : The flower represents your children. If the flower is close to the cube, that means you are close to your children. Many flowers or no flowers represent whether you want lots of children or none. What you feel about the flowers indicates how you might feel about having children.
      Horse : The horse represents your ideal partner and how you behave in relationships.

      If it is a wild horse, it means that you give freedom to your partner, if the horse is tied it means you want to be in control and you always want to know where your partner is and what he/she is doing. If the horse is tied to the cube that shows that you are a very possessive person.

      The distance between the cube and the horse shows how close or distant you are in relationships. How the horse behaves also shows what kind of partner you would like to have.

      If the horse is running or does not stand for long in one place, it means that you want to have a partner that would like to travel, would be full of energy and would always be involved in something. If the horse does nothing but stands or eats, it means that you want to have a partner that likes to be at home and rarely travels.

      The look of a horse can also indicate the physical features of your ideal partner. The better the appearance of the horse, the better looking partner you would like to have.

      Storm : The storm is the problems in your life and how you deal with difficulties in life. If it is a big storm, then you always try to make a drama out of something. If the storm is small and far away from you, it means that you are a calm and positive person and you don’t like being angry and try to quickly shift your mood if you notice that anger gets activated in you.

      The storm can also represent current problems in your life. If, whilst seeing storm in your mind’s eye, you think that it will stay there for a long time, you think the same way about your current problems.

      If you see a big storm, it means that you currently experience big problems in your life. The proximity between the storm and the cube also shows how intensely these problems affect you.

      Isn’t that cool? How accurate was it?

      ::: THE PSYCHOLOGICAL TEST :::
      Wanna take a psychological test? I’m gonna give you the psychological test to see how screwed up you are. (Notice the neg) It’s just four questions.
      1) What’s your favorite color and three reasons why. Like what do you like about the color? What adjectives would you use to describe it?
      2) If you could be any animal, which would it be and three reasons why. Like what are the three things you like best about the animal? How would you describe it?
      Okay the next two you have to use your imagination.
      3) Imagine you’re in an all white room. No windows, no doors. Just you alone in this white room. What are three feelings you’re feeling. First things that come to mind.
      4) Imagine you’re waist high in water, any pleasant water that comes to mind. What are three feelings you’re feeling.
      Ready for what it means?
      1) Your favorite color is the impression you give off to others, how others perceive you.
      2) The animal you picked is who you are, how you really view yourself.
      3) The white room is how you feel about death. Have you ever heard of those people who had a near death experience? You know what they say they saw? Exactly, a white light. And when you die you have to do it alone, and there’s no escaping it. That’s why there’s no windows or doors. So your answers make perfect sense.
      4) The water is how you feel about sex. In psychology they connect water to sex, probably has something to do with the exchange of bodily fluids. But anyway, that’s how you feel about sex.
      Pretty cool. Then I go into a story about how I first learned this test. My freshman year in college, my roommate’s aunt who was a professor of English gave us this test. And for the last question I said I just want to keep going further and further. I was so embarrassed. Can sometimes lead into a discussion about sex, death or their personality…
      ::: FOUR PERSONS :::
      I gotta share this really cool thing with you. Are you into personality tests at all? Well, there’s this theory by that there’s basically four types of people in the world. We can find out which person you are. It’s three basic questions.
      Question #1. Do you consider yourself to be more introverted or extroverted? For example, if you felt like you had to recharge your batteries, would being alone recharge your batteries or would you prefer to be out among people?
      Question #2. Do you consider yourself to be more emotional or rational? For example, if you had a major decision to make, would you get out a piece of paper and write out pros and cons, or would you go by what your feelings told you?
      Question #3. Think back to one of the best relationships you had. It doesn’t have to be with a boyfriend. It can be with a best friend or a sibling or a parent or whatever. Got it? How did that person make you feel? Powerful? The center of attention? Smart? Valued?
      Okay, what I’m going to do now and tell you the four persons. And tell me which one YOU think you are. Not what others might say you are. But what you think you are.
      I’ll draw a square on a napkin with a line down the middle vertically and through the middle horizontally. At the top I write: RATIONAL. At the bottom I write: EMOTIONAL. On the right I write: EXTROVERTED. On the left I write: INTROVERTED. Top right quadrant: Red, Top left: Blue, Bottom left: green, Bottom right: yellow.
      The first person is called “Red.” These people make the best CEOs. They like to take charge and be the boss. They’re not afraid of confrontation. They can be a little arrogant and pushy and assertive but they tend not to be the best listeners. Their key emotion is to feel powerful. Red is power. They’re Rational and Extroverted.
      The second person is called “Blue.” These people make the best psychoanalysts and professors. They enjoy studying and reading and knowing and analyzing. They’re more calm. Sometimes they can be a little indecisive. Their key emotion is to feel intelligent. Blue is like the sky, abstract or bird’s eye view. They’re Rational and Introverted.
      The third person is called “Green.” These people make the best poets and artists. They’re more the peacemakers. They don’t like confrontation, but like to get along. They make the best listeners. They’re supportive, and don’t like to be the center of attention. They tend not to be super assertive, and can get taken advantage of. Their key emotion is to feel valued. Green is associated with peace. They’re Emotional and Introverted.
      The fourth person is called “Yellow.” These people make the best actors. They’re the most fun people. They like to be the center of attention. They’ like being in the mix of things and feel excited and inspired. They can get distracted a little easily, their attention goes wherever the most excitement is. Their key emotion is feel important or the center of attention. Yellow is like the sunshine. Bright and happy. They’re Emotional and Extroverted.
      Yellow is the complete opposite of Blue. And Red is the complete opposite of Green.
      Okay, out of all those, which one do you think you’re more like? Again what YOU think, not what others say you are.
      (Point out how their answers to the first three questions match which person they picked.)
      So, here’s the thing. The theory says we’re all born with a temperament, and we lead with that one. But we actually have all four colors in us. We also have a secondary personality. Which do you think is your secondary color?
      So, your third is probably…
      Jung thought your secondary can never be your opposite. In the rare case that it is, you’re either crazy or a genius. But your object in life is to integrate more of the fourth color with your primary. So, if your primary color is — that means you need to integrate more of the (fourth color). For example (list some of the characteristics of the fourth personality). Jung would say once you do that, you become a more whole, integrated human being.
      Isn’t that cool? Now, which one do you think I am?
      Oh my God, we’re totally compatible! We should get married right now.
      ::: THE QUESTION GAME ::: (Taken from “Mystery Method,” by Mystery, and I put in my own questions as well as questions from “The Book of Questions” by Gregory Stock)
      Have you ever played the Question Game? Well, there are RULES…
      Rule One, you ask a question, then me, then you, and so on, back and forth.
      Rule Two, you have to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Like truth and dare because I don’t know how weird you really are. (Notice the neg)
      Rule Three, you can’t ask the same question that’s already been asked.
      Rule Four, you have to ask questions that let skeletons out of the closet. Take advantage of our anonymity.
      Oh, and Rule Five… you go first. (She: That’s not fair!)
      (The following are some possible questions. You can create your own of course. You probably don’t need more than 10 questions.)
      How many boyfriends have you had?
      Tell me a secret.
      If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
      If I were to look in your DVD player right now, what would I find?
      If you were down what would you watch as your comfort food movie?
      If I were to look on your iPhone, what would I see on your playlist?
      What is your most favorite place that you’ve visited?
      If you had to get away from it all, just to get settled down, where would you go?
      Ever had a rough breakup?
      Ever been to the ER?
      Ever performed on stage?
      When did you first get drunk?
      Can you cook?
      What’s your favorite food?
      What’s your favorite store to shop in?
      If I could grant you any superpower, what would it be?
      If you could be invisible for a day, what would you do?
      If you had a penis for a day, what would you do?
      If you could kiss any of your girlfriends, who would it be and why?
      If you could fuck any guy here, who would it be and why?
      How long should a girl wait before having sex?
      What’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?
      You know, when a guy first fingers a girl he usually only uses one finger, but the girl almost always asks for two, sometimes three. Do you think a guy should start off with one finger or two?
      If you woke up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?
      If you could take a one-month trip anywhere in the world and money were not a consideration, where would you go and what would you do?
      Let’s say you’re all alone and you have no fear of being laughed at or looked down upon by others, what sorts of things would you do?
      If you were as outgoing and uninhibited as you want, what would you like to do?
      You’ve been given the ability to travel to any period in history, where would you go? Would you do anything to change the course of history? Would you come back?
      You’ve been given the ability to travel to any period in the future, where would you go? Would you do anything to change the course of history? Would you come back?
      Let’s say a millionaire will donate a million dollars to you or to a charity of your choice IF you step—completely naked—from a car onto a busy downtown street, walk four blocks, and climb back into the car. There is absolutely no risk of bodily danger. Would you do it? It begs the question how comfortable we are with our bodies? What’s the big deal about being naked—that’s how we were born.
      If you were to wake up on a warm morning by yourself in the nude and were going to laze around the house, how long would you wait to put clothes on? I think it’s great when a woman is comfortable with her body—there’s nothing sexier or confident in the world.
      If you could choose anyone in the world—living or dead—to be your dinner guest tonight, who would you choose? What about as your friend and as your lover? Which begs the question, what do you look for in a friend that you might not want in a lover? And what do you seek in a lover that you haven’t found yet, or that you had once but want to find again? (…And also, what did your last boyfriend not get about you?)
      If you could script the basic plot of the dream you’ll have tonight, what would the story be about? Or, what would you want your dream to tell you tonight?
      Would you like to be famous? In what way?
      You’ve just found out that you’re going to die next year suddenly. If you knew this, is there anything you would change about the way you’re living now?
      If a genie came along and poof could make you be anything in the world you wanted to be (without fear of failure—rock star, supermodel, whatever) what would it be? And don’t say princess.
      If you could choose any art to do, what would it be and what would it be about?
      What would you do if money were no object?
      Is there something you’ve dreamed of doing for awhile? Why haven’t you done it?
      If you came across a genie one day and he could give you any wish, what would it be? And don’t say I wish for more wishes.
      If a genie gave you a million dollars, what would you do with it?
      What do you want to be when you grow up? And don’t say princess.
      What’s your favorite Disney movie?
      What was your favorite children’s book?
      Who was your childhood idol?
      Have you ever wished you were of the opposite sex? Which do you think has it easier in our culture, men or women? And what do you think is the main difference between men and women? Is the difference inherited or learned?
      Have you had satisfying sex in the last three months? If so, what made it good or less than good? Or, what’s the best sexual experience you’ve ever had? What makes great sex for a woman? I’ll tell you what makes great sex for a guy—enthusiasm. Not just a girl who lies there like a dead fish. But a girl who gives it her all, who really gets into it, isn’t afraid to make noises, scream, let loose, be uninhibited, willing to experiment…there was this survey done on guys that asked what they would like to see their woman do more of. One of the top 3 or 5 things wasn’t anything kinky at all but something as simple as a girl letting her guy go down on her. That letting loose, enthusiasm really turns us on. I’ll tell you, there’s nothing sexier in the world for a guy, than a woman in ecstasy?
      Do you believe in any sort of God? If not, and you found yourself in a life-threatening situation, would you still pray? What about angels and spirits? Do you believe in these at all?
      If you were going on a long trip, would you roll your clothes, fold your clothes, or just throw them into your suitcase?
      In conversations, do you tend to talk or listen more? What kinds of things do you usually talk about, or like to talk about?
      Does the fact that you’ve never tried something before increase or decrease its appeal to you?
      (These are my personal turn-offs) Do you have tattoos?
      Do you smoke, drink, do drugs?
      Do you like horror movies?
      What’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?
      Who was your best lover?
      What was your best sexual experience?
      What was the one thing your last boyfriend didn’t get about you?
      What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
      What is the greatest disappointment in your life?
      If you could change anything about the way that you were raised, what would it be?
      What is your most treasured memory?
      For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
      What do you fantasize about when you masturbate?
      Have you ever been attracted to a woman?
      How often do you masturbate?
      What’ do you like best about sex?
      What’s your favorite position?
      3. Your Grounding Story. This is part of the meat and potatoes, too.

      ::: YOUR GROUNDING STORY ::: Credit: Mystery
      When your girl asks “what do you?” your Grounding Story is the response. Instead of saying something factual like “writer” or “doctor” or “waiter” you can tell her a story that helps her relate to you better. It grounds your identity to her reality.
      Well, when I was little I wanted to be… (Tell stories and ambitions as a child)
      When I was a teenager (What may have changed in adolescence… maybe an obstacle to overcome)
      Now I’m a writer and where I’m going next (what I’m doing now and what I want to do next, what I ultimately want to do).
      A trick I learned from Mehow: at each story point in the way, ask about her childhood, her teenage years, where she is now and where she wants to go. This makes is interactive, and you get to learn about her.
      Also, Lance Mason has a great variation on this. Instead of telling the story factually, you can tell your Grounding Story in terms of a metaphor. For example, comparing your life to a caterpillar in a cocoon on the verge of breaking free. What does your life feel like? What image is it like, an image anyone can relate to?
      4. Pre-Empt Last Minute Resistance. To avoid last minute resistance later down the line in the bedroom, set the right frame early on during comfort. Also, if you want to let her know you date multiple women, let her know early on during comfort.

      ::: THE WORD SLUT IS BULLSHIT ::: (Improvised, based on Lance Mason)
      The word slut is such bullshit. There’s no equivalent word for a guy. Call a guy a slut and it’s like a compliment. For a girl it’s degrading. I think it’s awesome when a girl doesn’t play by those outdated standards. A girl who’s spontaneous and adventurous. There’s nothing sexier in the world.
      ::: DATING MULTIPLE WOMEN :::
      BANTER. Banter that you have multiple girlfriends, or lots of girls chasing you. See Brad P’s “Eight Girlfriend” Routine for an example. It’s listed under “V. Do You Have a Girlfriend?” in “4. Contingencies” in A2 Attract, Part 1 of 2 (Banter)
      I’M POLYAMOROUS. (Credit: Joshua Pelletier from “How to Date Multiple Women”)
      You: “How did your last relationship end? (Ask pen-ended questions about her last relationship)
      She: “Oh, he was jealous. It ended. Whatever.”
      You: “I don’t have that problem anymore because I changed something about the way I’m in relationships now. But yeah… I remember what that was like and it completely sucks!”
      She: Talking about jealousy, fear, lying, apathy, or selfishness.
      You: “You know that doesn’t happen in a polyamorous relationship. Have you ever considered just being polyamorous with guys that make you feel that way?”
      OR… You: “That guy over there seems to be digging you. You want me to introduce you to him? Seriously. You can hookup with any guy you want to. I’m polyamorous. I’m completely comfortable with that.”
      She: “What is polyamory?”
      You: “Well, poly means many and amory means love or lovers, so polyamory technically means I have many loves or many lovers, many girlfriends at the same time.” Sometimes I might add “I have many girlfriends or many lovers, and if I meet someone not comfortable with it, I don’t date them. I am completely open and they all know about each other ahead of time.”
      If she’s not cool with it, then you don’t date her.
      7 POSSIBLE OBJECTIONS
      Objection #1: “I could never do that.”
      Response: “You know, it’s not for everybody, but if you ever meet a guy who’s confident enough as a man, comfortable enough in being polyamorous and who’s actually really good at it, then I highly suggest you try it out. I really think you should. It’s one of the most amazing experi- ences. A lot of women that are dating me are doing it for the first time. They haven’t done it with any other man though some of them have other guys that they’re dating and that’s awesome. There aren’t a whole lot of guys that know how to do it right, but if you ever run into another one, I highly suggest you try it out.”
      She: “Okay, yeah, I’ll try that out” (they will),
      You: continue talking as if nothing has changed.
      Objection #2: “Are you sleeping with all of them?”Response: “Well, yeah, most of them. I mean I’m not going to date them and then depriving them of sex. But we also agree to have a complete 100% protection rule. We always use protection. But, yeah, I’m sleeping with most of them.”
      Objection #3: “What kind of girl would actually do that?”
      Response: “Girls like you, girls that are confident enough, comfortable with me, and trust me. They’re no different than you or some of the other girls in this place. Most of the girls with me are polyamorous for the first time. They don’t have a lot of experience with it outside of me. But for some reason, they are just really comfortable with me.”
      Objection #4: “Do they all know about each other?”
      Response: “Absolutely. It usually comes up in the first five minutes of talking to a girl. And they’re completely comfortable with it. I can tell pretty quickly if a girl is comfortable with it or not. It’s very important that if she’s not comfortable with it or she’s not interested in learning how to be comfortable with it, then I don’t date her. I don’t sleep with her, nothing.”
      OR: Do they all know about each other? Yeah, of course, they do and if they don’t, I don’t date them at all.
      Objection #5: “So you’re cheating then?”
      Response: “Well, no, I’m not cheating. These girls all know about each other and they all know that I’m sleeping with others. They are all completely cool with it.”
      OR: “No one is cheating. There is no cheating. You cannot cheat. If anyone tried to cheat they wouldn’t be able to because there is no commitment, so there is no cheating.”
      Objection #6: “So you never want to get married?”
      Response: “Of course, I want to get married. I definitely do. But the girls that I’m dating are not the girl I am going to marry. They’re just not the one for me. I’m not going to settle for anything less than absolutely perfect for me. I don’t think they should either. Neither of us think that we’re right for each other, long term, and we’re both very honest about that. Someday I will meet a girl that is perfect for me in every way. I hope I get married to her.”
      OR: “No, I don’t ever want to get married. This is perfectly fine. I’m very happy with this lifestyle and the girls that I’m with are very happy and someday they’ll probably get married and they’ll leave and that’s okay.”
      Objection #7: “What kind of girls are these girls?”
      Response: “Well, they are from all sorts of walks of life. There’s a girl that I’m dating that’s a profes- sional kite boarder. She’s really athletic. There’s a girl that I’m dating that is in poetry school. There’s a girl that I’m dating that’s a barista. There’s a girl that I’m dating that’s a doctor at a hospital. There’s a girl that I’m dating that is a stripper, one that’s a hippie, and another that’s a poker dealer at a casino.”
      If you don’t have any girlfriends: “Are you sleeping with all of them?”… “No, not all of them”, is perfectly fine. “What kind of girls are they?”… “The girls I’ve dated in the past are from all walks of life.”
      4 REINFORCEMENT TECHNIQUES
      • #1. Ask her opinion of other girls: “What do you think about that girl?” “Do you think she is cute?”
      #2. Fish for jealousy: “That girl is hot.”OR: Approach another girl with her: “Hey we were just talking about how cute you are.”If she get jealous, bad sign. She won’t be okay with you sleeping with other girls.
      •#3. Don’t be available: “Hey, I won’t be available to hang out until Thursday.”If she ever asks you to cancel plans, this is a problem. Reinforce polyamory: “I don’t cancel plans for you but I’ll around Thursday night. Remember this is a polyamorous relationship. I’m still here for you, but on my own terms.” If that doesn’t work, run. You’ve got a jealous girl.• #4. Don’t build rapport too fast: Get things sexual fast. THEN build rapport. Too much rapport before sex can lead to hurt feelings, confusion or anger. Keep the emotional connection mellow, until later.
      AFTER SEX:
      It’s okay to cuddle and connect with her. But connect like a friend, not a boyfriend. Keep things light with some fun banter, or go into normal conversation or light rapport, not the deep rapport.
      DON’T make any plans with her. She can tell you about her problems, she can ask your advice, she can share what is going on in her life, but once she starts trying to talk about her future with you, cut it off. Make it clear that this relationship is not shifting into monogamy.If you can, let her stay. Have breakfast. If she needs a ride, give her one. Once she leaves, keep searching.
      5. Kino. Kino gradually becomes more intimate in comfort. Push the boundaries slightly, but not too much. More specifically, move from touching her on the arms and hands to her legs.

      Touch her leg with your leg
      Touch her leg with your hand
      Lean in to smell her while her arm is in yours for example, “Man, you smell so fucking good.” Then back off, “You know what I’m not even in that head space” OR “Mm, Mm, no, none of that now.”
      Dance
      Kiss

    6. PHASE THREE: SEDUCTION

      SETTING A ROMANTIC/SENSUAL MOOD

      In my experience, you don’t need any of these routines to kiss a woman, except for the triangular gaze. You can actually go for a kiss within 20 minutes of meeting her! If you’ve been doing kino all along and she’s laughing and having a great time, she wants to be kissed. Just don’t make out… yet. Break off the kiss first. Keep the sexual tension alive. The kiss is simply comfort building. Save making out and foreplay for when you’re alone.

      So, really these routines are just training wheels. Again, if she’s laughing, talking with you, giving you her attention, you can lean in and kiss her. But if you don’t feel comfortable doing that yet, here are some ways to keep your mouth moving while you make the move. Again, the most important routine here is the last one… the triangular gaze. And remember, be the one to break off the kiss first. Keep her chasing.

      Romantic Questions. These questions can shift the conversation from casual to romantic.

      BEST BOYFRIEND: Who was your best boyfriend and why?
      LAST BOYFRIEND: What was the one thing your last boyfriend didn’t get about you?
      MOVIE ACTOR: Which actor do you find most attractive and why?
      LOVER VS. FRIEND: What do you look for in a lover that you don’t look for in a friend?
      IDEAL DATE: I was reading about this romantic date and it was amazing. Imagine this: you’re out with a man you really like and find really attractive. You are sitting in this gorgeous outdoor restaurant, overlooking a lake. The autumn colors are just perfect. The air is fresh and smells so great, you feel like you don’t even need to eat, just sit there and breathe that sweet air. Anyway, that’s how the book put it. And you have this incredible date as the sun goes down over the water, the stars come out and then the moon rises, and the two of you feel so connected, so in love, you know what I mean? What would you say is your most romantic moment ever? (Credit: How to Succeed with Women, by Ron Louis & David Copeland)
      ATTRACTED: What does it feel like when you’re really, really attracted to a man?
      IN LOVE: what does it feel like when you’re in love? How do you know when you are in love?
      KISSING: What’s your favorite thing about kissing?
      2. Ross Jeffries’ Patterns. You don’t need these. But they can set a woman’s mood for sex beautifully.

      ::: DISCOVERY CHANNEL :::
      I was watching the most interesting show on the Discovery Channel about roller coasters. They were interviewing this guy who designs rides for amusement parks and he said there are 3 things that go into designing one: you need excitement, safety, and fascination.
      Excitement: You know that first long, slow vertical climb on the roller coaster? You can feel the adrenaline pounding through your body as your body shudders with anticipation? The closer you get to the peak, the faster your heart beats and the faster your breathing moves. You’re scared as hell but you also feel this growing excitement, like this tingling in your stomach. And when you reach the peak, you surrender to the drop and scream with excitement.
      Safety: At the same time you have to feel safe and secure, so you can trust that being on the ride, you’re not going to get hurt. You have to know that this roller coaster is so secure and strong and safe that you’re not going to get hurt. You feel so totally safe and secure that you can let go. It’s the comfort and safety that allows you to feel excitement.
      Fascination: Lastly, if you want to get back on the ride and do it again, you’ve also got to feel a sense of fascination and unpredictability. This ride has to have so many twists and turns that you don’t know what’s going to happen next, but you know it’s going to be good. As soon as you get off, you just want to climb back on and take it again and again, multiple times.
      ::: BLOW JOB :::
      Step one: Compulsion vs. Anticipation. I find it so interesting that whole subject of how people connect with their desires and their hopes and dreams. You know, it reminds me of this article I was reading about compulsion. And it got me to thinking about the differences between compulsion and anticipation.
      Step two: Define Compulsion. Compulsion is when you do something without even thinking about it. Like, you ever find yourself just reaching for the refrigerator? And before you know it, your hand is already on that door handle and you’re looking in the refrigerator and you stop and think, “Oh my God, what am I doing here?” Well, that’s an example of compulsion.
      Step three: Define Anticipation with 3 Examples. But anticipation is where your mind anticipates pleasure before it actually arrives.
      Example 1: Bath/Shower. For example, you ever come home from a really rotten day at work? All you can think about is dropping every stitch of clothing and climbing into that steaming hot bath or shower. And before you can even get in, you can already imagine that heat working its way through every part of your body. And then there comes that actual moment, that moment of sliding in, where you just release completely, and let that pleasure take you completely.
      Example 2: Chocolate. Or another example might be… do you like chocolate? What’s your favorite kind of chocolate? Well, do you ever get a piece of chocolate; instead of eating it right away you save a piece, you put it aside and you think about it all day long. You think about what it would be like to put this in your mouth, where you tease yourself, you hold it right in front of your lips. ANd you begin to imagine the soft, creamy texture against your tongue. You imagine that first moment where that first molecule, sweet, touches your taste cubs. YOu imagine that moment where you just… wrap your tongue around this and there’s this explosion of pleasure, like an orgasm, in your mouth.
      Example 3: First Kiss. The other example I can think of is, have you ever been with someone and you both know there’s a real attraction here but you don’t say anything? There’s that moment where you stop talking and you just lock eyes with that person… and you know there’ something about to happen. You begin to… imagine that first wonderful kiss. You imagine that first soft brush of the lips. So soft you’re not even sure you’re kissing yet? And then there comes that moment where you do begin that first kiss and there’s that jolt of electricity that just goes shooting through you?
      Step Four: Conclusion. See, I think what happens is that the conscious mind can go down into the unconscious and come back with all these… idea and fantasies… and thoughts. See, being very intellectual, I used to think all my thoughts came from above me, but now I know so much of the important thoughts come from below me, Debbie, because you’re coming from a much deeper place from inside your mind.
      ::: BLAMMO :::
      Step One: Discovery Channel
      Step Two: Instantaneous Connection
      Step Three: Sub-modality. See, everything in the mind has a structure to it, even the experience of connecting with someone. I learned this really cool things about NLP, a form of psychotherapy that was mixed with hypnosis back in the 70s. Okay, check this out. Think about someone you really like for a second. Got that? Now point to where you see that person in your mind. Okay now think of someone you don’t like that much, maybe someone who’s made you feel bad about yourself. Now watch this. Take that picture of the person you don’t like and try as hard as you can to move it over into the place in your mind where you see the person you do like. See that? It doesn’t want to move, right? Because you need a way to sort out who your really like from who you don’t. Isn’t that cool?
      Step Four: Visualization. Okay, now here’s something else NLP developed. It’s called visualization. See if you can remember a time when you were feeling exquisite pleasure in your body. Look at yourself as if you were on a movie screen. Can you see yourself? Okay, now instead of looking at yourself, enter into your body as if you were there. See the colors you’d see, the scents you’d smell, the sounds, the tastes, the feel of your skin. Now, the second felt more real, right? This works great in everyday life. Because focus on negative thoughts, and it puts you in a bad mood and creates a negative reality. Focus on positive thoughts, and it lifts your spirits and creates success.
      Step Five: Anchoring. Now, here’s the final piece to NLP. It’s called anchoring. If you want to snap out of a bad mood, this can help. Have you ever heard a song that had good memories associated with it, and instantly you’re there in that good memory. Same idea. You combine a great feeling with a sound or touch. Repeat that sound and touch and you’re supposed to feel those feelings again. So, here, let’s try it out for shits and giggles. Close your eyes. Feel that exquisite pleasure in your body again, as if you were there in your body. See how what you saw, hear what you heard, feel how it felt. Just feel wonderful. Take all the time you’d like. And when those feelings of exquisite pleasure reach their peak, lift your thumb for me. (Touch her on inside of wrist or elbow) Perfect. And just hand on for a minute to how good it feels. Great. Okay, open your eyes and look at me. Close your eyes again and put your mind back into that place. Let your mind go. Surrender to how good it feels. Feel how wonderful your skin feels, smell the lovely scents, taste the tastes, hear the sounds. As you feel those feelings build and they reach their peak, lift your thumb for me. (Touch her on the same spot) Great. Hold onto those feelings as you open your eyes and look at me. All right, now the third time is the magic time. So, close your eyes again and allow yourself to enjoy that experience so deeply. Notice how every inch of your skin feels. Notice every sound, whisper, sigh, whatever sound you hear, every feeling, and all the things you’re seeing, the colors. And as it begins to reach its peak, life up that thumb and let me know. (Touch) Great. Now hold onto those feelings and really enjoy them. Open your eyes and look at me. Now, as I said the idea behind anchoring is when you combine a feeling with a touch or a sound, and when you repeat that touch or sound, you’ll feel that feeling again. So, if I were to say to you, you know, I fund that when I spend time with someone, and I really start to feel that sense of incredible connection, maybe then you can feel just perfect (Touch). And that feels great, doesn’t it? Isn’t this interesting? Isn’t the mind really cool?
      Step Six: In Love Sub-modality. Now notice something else. You ever just fall head over heels in love with someone? As you’re remembering that time, point to where you see that picture. (Touch) So watch… as you think about that space remember his voice… and allow his voice to come from that space. It’s like the warmth of his voice, the deep, rich warmth of it just starts to penetrate your consciousness, and spread all through your body. As your heart beats faster and your breathing increases, the warmth just heats up into a fire. A fire spreading through your chest and down through your belly. A fire pounding and pulsating all through you, down to where you really long to have it go. Until that desire for him just becomes utterly overwhelming and you just surrender to it completely.
      ::: LOVE VS. IN LOVE :::
      Have you ever thought about the difference between attraction and being in love?
      Could you say they take place in different settings? Attraction is what you experience in the presence of that person. But falling in love is when you’re not in that person’s presence. For example, remember a time when you just totally fell for someone. Remember what that feels like?
      So, what may have happened was you spent some time with him, had a great time, and when you went home, you thought about him. You list all the qualities about him that you like. Then you get that feeling, right in the pit of your stomach that starts to spread out and you feel those feelings of love for him. Can you feel that as I describe it to you?
      And then here’s the kicker. You start saying his name out loud, bringing it up in conversations with friends, dance around the house, singing his name… hehe
      It’s almost like falling in love is a process. And when you do that process with someone, and let it happen, that’s when the magic takes over, the magic we’re all really looking for. The real magic is when it happens instantly and you know it right away. That’s an incredible feelings, right?
      ::: RELATIONSHIP VALUES :::
      Phase One: Eliciting Her Relationship Values. What’s most important to you in a relationship? (She: Mutual admiration). That is an important one. How do you know when you have mutual admiration? (She: examples, experiences, stories, feelings) I agree… that’s a powerful one. Well, what else is important to you in a relationship? (She: sense of humor… NOTE: this is a quality, not a value. Steer her to values) Well, I know that’s an important quality fir a person to have, but what does a person’s sense of humor allow you to experience that you wouldn’t otherwise experience? (She: fun and enjoyment) Of course… why be with someone if they’re no fun? And what has to happen for you to know you’ve got fun and enjoyment with someone. Do you have examples? (She: examples, experience, stories, feelings) Wow.. that would be great to be with someone like that. Well, what else is important to you in a relationship? (She: trust) Wow… that is an important one. How do you know when you have trust with someone. (She: examples, experiences, stories, feelings)
      Phase Two: Ranking values from MOST to LEAST important. Of those three values, mutual admiration, fun, and trust, which is most important? If you could only pick one, which one would it be? (She: fun and enjoyment) Well, I could see that. Of mutual admiration and trust, which is more important? (Her: mutual admiration)
      Phase Three: Later on (Hours or weeks later). I think we’ve got the start of something here, and I think it’s based on fun and enjoyment, trust, and mutual admiration. Isn’t it a wonderful thing to experience?
      And BE that need she wants fulfilled.
      3. Sexual Subjects. These will get a woman thinking about the pleasures of sex within normal conversation. Best to wait to bring these up after you’ve created an emotional connection with a woman.

      ::: STYLE’S “NANCY FRIDAY” ROUTINE ::: (From Rules of the Game, by Neil Strauss)
      Women are so much more fascinating than men. For example, there was this professor in the sixties who wrote a book and said that women were incapable of sexual fantasies. (She: That’s not—)
      I know, exactly. Obviously it’s not true. So this woman named Nancy Friday wrote a book in response called “My Secret Garden.” And to disprove his theory, she interviewed hundreds of women about their sexual fantasies. Where men’s fantasies are handed to them on a silver platter and encouraged, making most of them pretty much the same, women live this much more exciting and varied fantasy life. I think this is because women’s sexuality is often repressed when they’re found. They’re told “That’s bad.” So their sexuality is held back, and eventually starts to flower in dynamic, wonderful ways. (She: That’s interesting)
      Yea, so Nancy Friday interviewed these women who were basically in relationships where they have even had oral sex and had sex only in the missionary position, and they had these wild fantasy lives. So she says that a woman’s mind is like a house. And each room contains a different fantasy. There’s the anonymous sex room. There’s being with other women, being watch by an audience, being dominated, being a prostitute, or even transforming during sex into something or someone else. Obviously not every woman has all these rooms in her mind. Like, for example, when you’re alone and thinking about something that gets you excited–and it doesn’t have to be anything you’ve ever done or would ever do in real life–do you think about something that’s in one of those rooms, or something completely different? (She: I guess–)
      It’s funny. A lot of people think things that get them excited but actually want them to remain just fantasies. Like, I dated someone whose fantasy was to be on stage strapped in stirrups in this mechanical device, while these robots had sex with her and an auditorium full of doctors in white lab coats watched. (Pause) And, no, we never did end up doing that. (She: Describes her fantasy)
      That’s interesting. It’s amazing. Women can have all these different kinds of orgasms–vaginal, clitoral, blended, full-body–and usually they can have many of them, back to back. While a lot of guys only get this one little release that isn’t nearly as pleasurable. So you’d think it would be women who chase men for sex and not the opposite.
      Change to a nonsexual topic to allow her to think those thoughts…
      ::: NY TIMES ARTICLE ON FEMALE DESIRE ::: (Based on January 25, 2009 article I read in The New York Times Magazine by Daniel Bergner)
      I just read the most fascinating article in The New York Times about female desire.
      3 females scientists tried to figure out how it works. Scientists. FEMALE scientists. Here’s the problem they were tying to solve.
      There was this experiment done where straight guys and girls and gay guys and girls watched the same videos of: straight couple having sex, 2 guys, 2 girls, naked girl doing aerobics, naked guy walking down beach, bonobos having sex. Their desire was measured objectively and subjectively. Objectively the guys had an apparatus over their penis to gauge swelling. Girls had a plastic probe in their vagina to measure blood flow and moisture through their walls. Subjectively, the guys and girls had to rate how aroused they were after watching a scene.
      Guys were straightforward. Subjective and objective measurements matched. Sexual orientation matched. No arousal at the bonobos.
      Women were a whole different ball game. Their genitalia reacted more to the bonobos than to the naked guy walking. They reacted more to 2 girls than 2 guys. Not only that, the lesbians said their desire was low for the straight couple, but their genitalia said otherwise. The straight girls said their desire was low for the lesbian couple, but their genitalia said otherwise.
      Why did their vaginas differ from their words? And why they get turned on by bonobos?
      One scientist thought it was because women’s desire is actually in their minds, not in their bodies. Their bodies were more like an evolutionary mechanism to detect sex. The naked man who was not erect didn’t give off sex signals, but the bonobos did.
      The second scientist argued women’s desire happens through emotional connection or intimacy, not sexual preference. That explains why women didn’t respond according to their listed orientation. Women’s orientation transcends labels.
      The third scientist said women’s desire is narcissistic. Her desire comes from being desired. This explains why the naked woman turned her on more than the naked man. She imagined she was that desirable woman, and the thought of being desired aroused her. This also explains why the #1 sexual fantasy women have is to be raped or dominated. Because the man desires her so much, he loses all control for her, and this turns her on. As well as she gets to be dominated.
      The conclusion? No one knows what women want, not even women who are scientists. But that’s exactly what I love about women. They’re a mystery to be solved. They are desire itself. And they want a man who knows how to allow her let go and just unleash her desire.
      GOING FOR THE KISS. You can kiss her within 20 minutes. The kiss is just comfort building. I’m repeating myself, but these routines are just training wheels. You don’t need them, except for probably the triangular gaze.

      ::: STYLE’S “EVOLUTIONARY PHASE SHIFT” ROUTINE :::
      Oh my God you smell good, what are you wearing? (She tells you) Oh my God that smells good. (Smell her near her shoulders up toward her ears) It’s funny because animals when they mate, they get all the information they need about someone just from the scent. Scent tells us so much. And I don’t think we guys value it enough. A woman’s sense of smell is 40 times better than a guy’s. And the animal part of us is actually wired to respond when someone smells us.
      And the thing I miss most about having hair OR the thing something I really love is when someone reaches up and grabs your hair and just pulls it from behind. (As you say this, go up the back of her neck, get a good chunk, pull it back fairly hard) It’s great because you’ll notice that lions, when they’re mating will actually bite the back of each other’s manes and they’re wired to respond to this. Or cats will pick each other by the scruff of the neck.
      What’s fascinating is that the parts of your body that bend the most have the most nerve endings and the parts that you see the least are the most sensitive, like behind the elbow (touch behind her elbow), the knee (touch behind her knee). I don’t know if anyone’s done this to you or not but if you bite the crease in there it’s the best feeling in the world. And next time you’re with a guy you should have him try that. (She: Why aren’t you trying that?) Okay, what the hell. (Bite her inner elbow. Take a big chunk of skin and bring it slowly and firmly together. She gets the chills)
      You know what the best thing in the world is? Is biting on the neck, right here on the side of the neck. This has to do with the fact that it is where the jugular vein is most exposed and since most sexual fantasies have to do with submission and vulnerability, it sends all the fantasy signals flying. Bite my neck. (50% of the time she won’t. If she doesn’t…) Okay. (Turn away for 5 seconds) Bite my neck. (She’ll bite your neck) Oh my God on a scale of 1 -10, that’s a 6. Here’s how you bite. (Bite her neck) Okay try again.
      Triangular gaze, and kiss.
      NOTE: You don’t need all this preamble. It’s just to keep your mouth running in case you’re nervous. You can cut right to the triangular gaze and the kiss.
      ::: I’M TRYING SO HARD NOT TO KISS YOU ::: (Credit: Style and Mystery)
      God, I’m trying so hard NOT to kiss you right now. Stop looking at me like that. (If she holds eye contact or looks down shyly, go for the kiss.)
      ::: TRIANGULAR GAZE :::
      Push hair out of her eyes or touch necklace
      For one second each, look at her left eye, then her right eye, and finally her lips, and back to eyes. Blink slowly, look deeply, and shut up.
      For the kiss, go 90% of the way, and let her come other 10%.
      Don’t kiss too long. Keep it short, sweet, and light. Leave her wanting more.
      EXTRACT TO SEDUCTION LOCATION.

      The best way to extract her is by first “bouncing” her to another venue. Invite to go to the bar across the street. Or get pizza or something. When you enter a new place together, you get that “couple” feel. Once she moves to one new location with you, it’s more natural to invite her back to your place. Bounce her first. That’s the best way to invite her up.

      I wanna show you my . Just for a sec. Then I’m kicking you out.

    7. END GAME: FOREPLAY & SEX

      Smell her hair and neck for like ten minutes without kissing or touching her. Creates massive sexual tension. (Credit: David DeAngelo)
      Style’s “Evolutionary Phase Shift” Routine could work here too.
      David DeAngelo’s “Two Steps Forward, One Step Back.”
      Take two steps forward, and stop.
      Continue where you left off, push the boundaries a little further, and stop.
      Continue where you left off, push the boundaries a little further, and stop.
      Until you get to sex.
      Vin DiCarlo’s “Escalation Ladder.”
      1. After making out with her, kiss her neck and ears. These areas are immensely sensual for a woman.Here’s a cool move while you’re kissing her. Reach up her neck, grab a fistful of her hair and pull it from behind. Massive turn on for her. Probably has something to do with your dominance, and her submissiveness.
      2. Next, lift the back of her shirt up, and touch the skin of her back.
      3. Lift the front of her shirt up and the front of yours so the skin of your stomachs touch.
      This is such a gorgeous moment. The first time your skins touch, it’s like ahhhhhhhhh. And it turns women on A LOT.4. Now you can start kissing her stomach and her sides, and slowly move up her body.Or lightly run your fingers down her body. Either way take your time and savor her body. Here’s some things you can do.
      Take time to smell and enjoy how wonderful she smells. Isn’t the way women smell amazing? David DeAngelo once recommended just smelling a woman for 10 minutes straight without touching her. Creates FANTASTIC sexual tension.
      Caress the parts of her skin where her clothes touch, like the skin next to her bra strap, or where her skin touches the top of her panties. Immensely sensitive.
      As Style says, the parts of the body that bend the most have the most nerve endings, and the parts you see the least are the most sensitive. So touch her, caress her, lick her, even bite her behind the elbow, behind the knee… you get the idea.

      You can also take her shirt off and feel her tits here. But warning…
      …save kissing and feeling up her tits for LAST. And save sucking her nipples for ABSOLUTELY last. Kiss or lick around her nipples before kissing or licking her nipples. Most guys dive in for the nipples first. Distinguish yourself by saving them for last.

      After her shirt comes off, feel up her ass.

      Her pussy is now a step away.

      Stimulate her pussy from behind, rather than from her front.

      This is Vin’s genius idea. He points out every guy who goes for sex, moves in from the front, but it’s easy for her to resist. Moving in from her ass is unexpected. And damn effective.

      But don’t dive straight for her pussy. Start by touching the area around it first. Then you can start fingering her from behind. Once she starts panting and moaning…

      …finger her from the front. Take off her panties. Get her turned on so much that she’s begging for you to put it in.

      The only thing I would add to DiCarlo’s plan, is DeAngelo’s “two steps forward and one step back.” Escalation to sex doesn’t have to be this linear. Stop and smell the roses along the way. In fact, definitely do this. It feeds sexual tension, and her desire.

      Even though she’s begging for you to put it in, you don’t have to. In fact it’ll turn her on if you don’t yet. Penetrate her when you’re ready. And penetrate her inch by sweet tortuous inch, making her ache for your cock for however long you can control yourself.

      She’ll be so close to the edge of orgasm before you’ve entered her fully that by the time you slide your entire length of you cock inside her, it probably won’t be too hard for her to surrender to the drop.

      Put a pillow under her pelvis or lift her pelvis somehow.

      source: cosmopolitan.com

      It makes it easier to hit her G-spot with your cock. Oh, and have plenty of condoms.

      While you’re in her, take the lead. Pull her hair. Suck her tits. Vary the strokes and speed–fast, hard and shallow, slow, soft, and deep. Stop and continue later. Talk to her. And most important of all, be PASSIONATE as all hell.
      Make sure she has an orgasm before you do.
      After you’ve both cum, hold her afterwards. Either share the silence or tell her how beautiful she is.

      “Afterglow” by Alonzo Adams

      Obviously, giving her great sex is a whole other topic. Where your opener was dominated by words spiced with kino, sex is dominated by kino spiced with words.

      But just as kino and words aren’t separate in the first step, they’re not separate in step seven. David Shade once said your most important tool isn’t your tool, it’s your voice. So, talk. Make sounds. Stimulating her mind as well as her body is one key to great sex.

      CONCLUSION

      I know I’m beating a dead horse here… but just pick six really quick, simple “gambits” for your attract phase to start.

      Pick:

      a reason for talking with her (i.e. an opener)
      a banter line joined with appreciation (do this IMMEDIATELY after your opener–within TWO sentences)
      a DHV (statement about–who you are)
      a qualifier (question about–who is she?)
      a statement of interest
      a way to isolate/close her.
      Practice each gambit five times to memorize it, five times in front of the mirror to get the delivery right, then five times out in the field. This will get the gambits into your bones. Then you can learn a new one, and go through the same process again.

      If you get to qualification with five different sets in one night, you’ve mastered the attract phase. Now you can move on to practicing comfort. Add three more routines that:

      creates an emotional connection
      kiss close
      extracts her to the seduction location
      Practice up until foreplay. Once you get to foreplay, study how to give women orgasms.

      Congrats. You’re a Casanova. Better than that, the going through this whole process will change your life. I know it did for me.

      And do me a favor. Let me know how it goes for you. Best of luck.

      Your Buddy,

      Renaissan

  54. @PalmaSailor

    @HABD

    There are others thinking the same thing.

    This from a relatively unmoderated U.K. site. Note though that the poaster does say his previous two comments were deleted.

    https://imgur.com/a/W7QH3rB

    that sh*t is not all that hard to see…lol…

    and given the depth and breadth of the corruption in play, i’m kind of surprised there’s not more censorship tbh… but i think there are sooo many people starting to see and understand what’s going on AND speak up that there are just not enough censors to keep up…lol

    And you’re a construction dude 😂

    it was even worse for them, bc i was actually just working in warehouse jobs during that time (i think i still have my union card somewhere…lol)… i wasn’t actually up to ‘construction dude’ level in their eyes… it really was a ‘flowers for algernon’ experience for them…lol

    good luck!

  55. @NNN1

    @Palma
    I thought about what you said, needing only comfort than you once needed attraction.

    Ok I’m talking about me. And you and me are different cases. You need to stick with you and follow the rules of the game. So do I, but I have different re programming to do.

    Might this be ’cause of lockdown? – Like, most women have not even half the social contacts than before.

    I think it could be.

    Given the differences in psychology, could it be, they are hit harder by this than all her orbiterst together?

    Yes. And the type of chump that’s an orbiter is also probably running scared of da pocalypse.

    So, they are just desperate and feared and you making contact (like, still being alive) with them is a bigger DHV than ten storys about your private jet.

    Under the current circumstances it hits at the very least the “risk taker” cue.

    You might now be seen as the last man standing and they have significantly less other options.

    The only man standing with the balls to actually meet

    Usually, they would just hit downtown the next evening and had 10 lads to their feets. Now, we hit WhattsApp and have 10 women to our feets.

    Its feeling like that yes. I have another tonight.

    Now obviously, given I’m even below Rookie status, my learning curve this year was steep, thus also improving my experience.

    You’re doing ok

    Maybe @Sentient can elaborate more on this. But maybe this is different in Europe, as we had way harder lockdowns and I’m not even sure if it’s actually legal to go for a Tinder-date in the park.

    I’m in the U.K. and I don’t care. But I’m not going to tell anyone it’s a tinder date lol… but you’re entitled to daily exercise right? Just like in prison..

    (By the way, is playing an instrument (like a violin) a good DHV? Like, from my small experience, there are some aspects, I can easily DHV with:*

    I’ve never done it but I reckon a guitar would be better

    1. Writing articles for a blog with more than 1Mio readers

    No too nerdy

    2. Frequent travels to the US and linked contacts.

    Yes, adventure stories

    3. Playing in an orchestra.

    Not unless you’re Simon Rattle

    4. Running and awards linked to that.

    Sport is good

    Also, tales and hints about my social circle seem good.

    Depends on your social circle – you need to be regarded as the leader

    So, does that list make for good DHVs or am I likely misinterpreting their reactions?
    Like

    Some are good some are bad!

  56. NnN1

    1. Writing articles for a blog with more than 1Mio readers
    2. Frequent travels to the US and linked contacts.
    3. Playing in an orchestra.
    4. Running and awards linked to that.

    You need to remember that D is display or demonstration of high value. An act.

    Plenty of awesome guitar players are killing it with girls – while they are onstage. And later back in the crowd they are just guys…

    Now what is a major part of their killing it onstage? Preselection from the other girls…

    Demonstrated.

    So your DHV story needs to convey things you aren’t actually doing. A Mystery DHV story would look to hit the five attraction switches:

    Preselection (this is 80% of all attraction. You read the book yeah?)
    Leader of men.
    Successful risk taker. Successful…
    Protector of loved ones
    Willingness to emote

    So think about how you can work the switches into a conversation around the things in your list… versus just spitting facts. I write for a blog blah blah. I play an instrument…

    Have a story, work in your ex etc.

    Now another major display of high value is how you speak with her, kino, laser, handle shit tests, social proof in the room etc…

    HABD/Palma

    Lol. Da pocolypse…

    At the local. Bar is pretty empty. A 5/6 alone at a side table. Pretty drunk. I see her look over a few times but mostly she is on her phone. Me at the empty bar.

    Later the waiter comes to the barman and says she’s pretty wasted, stop serving her. The manager – little soy guy – comes out to speak with her and get her an jber. She gets all indignant, starts making a scene.

    They aren’t equipped to handle it. She won’t pay her tab. Then pays but won’t sign her card etc. She gives me a look here and there while this is going down.. It becomes clear this is being done so I can come over and get involved. At one point another waiter comes over and says said she came here to hook up. Lol

    I ignore. Sip my drink.

    Finally Soy persuades her to leave, he starts to lead her out. She takes a step, turns around and motions me to follow with her finger and mouths “let’s go” to me… she waits outside for five minutes. I don’t move and eventually she walks off…

    1. She takes a step, turns around and motions me to follow with her finger and mouths “let’s go” to me…

      Obviously not used to being turned down / ignored / anyone saying “no”. Always time to learn.

      Somehow this reminds me of the authoress of “Sex and the City”. Looks like she managed to stick the landing about 1.5 years ago.

      https://nypost.com/2019/07/27/sex-and-the-city-creator-talks-vaginal-rejuvenation-and-finding-mr-bigger/

      Not quite in lottery ticket odds, but sort of getting there.

      Her divorce had been going along all amicable, until she found out that her ballet dancer husband had been having an affair with a ballerina. Then it all hit the fan. I like how she retreated to Sag Harbor with her girlfiends. It’s somehow just right out of a late SATC plot.

      https://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/sex-and-the-city-author-candace-bushnell-regrets-not-having-kids-says-she-was-truly-alone

      1. Candace Bushnell has no shame admitting that she nearly shelled out thousands of dollars for the Mona Lisa — a vaginal laser-rejuvenation treatment that has become a cultish obsession among the city’s most privileged.

        “Here’s the thing: If I was going to do it, I was going to have to do a before and after,” the 60-year-old author told The Post. “So I was going to have to find someone to have sex with as, you know, an experiment. If I’m just going to spend $3,000, I want to know if it really works or not, OK? But I couldn’t find that person.”

        Lol. At 60 she couldn’t find a dick…

        This girl was mid 30s

        Image being 60 with no kids and needing vag reworked… cock carousel 🍸 🍹 🍸 🍹 🎠 indeed…

  57. So this “new variety” that allegedly exists apparently has not yet been gene sequenced, and so far I cannot find any details regarding how it is different from any other strain of the Coof.

    Frankly, I’m wondering if this new Londonium variant is really all that varied, or if the powers that be are just slamming Christmas down as a punishment for Brexit.

  58. @Sentient

    Lol. At 60 she couldn’t find a dick…

    Have you looked at most 60 year olds. Honestly, you can’t find wood there.

    It’s a place you never want to be.

  59. @Anonymous Reader

    Frankly, I’m wondering if this new Londonium variant is really all that varied, or if the powers that be are just slamming Christmas down as a punishment for Brexit.

    Not sure it’s a punishment exactly, but a manipulation or excuse.

    Not many of us trust anything anymore

  60. I got £1 that says it happens on Xmas day.

    Going live with the rebirth of democracy on the birthday of Christ.

    That got his style written all over it.

    Who’s running the book?

  61. Morning boys

    Happy Boxing Day

    In some sort of order

    1 – OMB gave new AG Geoffrey Rosen permission to use classified information in indictments

    2 – almost certain that Adam Bennett Schiff has been arrested despite news blackout – I’ve checked it on a couple of databases. Feel free to fact check:

    https://infotracer.com/arrest-records/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=arrest&utm_keyword=los%20angeles%20county%20arrest_e&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIjer4rq3r7QIV6-jtCh3vFAa9EAAYASACEgI6GvD_BwE

    3 – Rumour that AT&T got the contract for something to do with Dominion machines, and errrrr where are they based… let me think.. oh yeah.. NASHVILLE.. who’d a thunk THAT! I mean a totally random XMAS day explosion from a bomb in an RV right outside their offices.. damn what a coincidence.

    https://imgur.com/a/VX6BCNO

    Looking forward to new year!

    1. Quietly waiting for the call to reassertion of a vote well cast.

      While it is sad that some lack the fortitude to venture out and certify their wishes . if that be the case they may also not be here to reap the benefits granted by freedom.

  62. @Sentient / All

    Lol. At 60 she couldn’t find a dick…
    This girl was mid 30s
    Image being 60 with no kids and needing vag reworked… cock carousel 🍸 🍹 🍸 🍹 🎠 indeed…

    This is how bad it gets for them as they age..

    This one was advertising on lockdown sceptics for a date.

    Some guy hits her up publicly but she checks his profile and he’s just looking to hookup. So she blows him out publicly.

    I text her privately via the forum and say we should change numbers and pictures and I put her number in my phone and do nothing with it. I spotted her picture and she’s slim and ok looking but .. nah..

    Now there is a mugshot of me on my what’s app so when you load my number you see my face / top of my body.

    https://imgur.com/a/2APced9

    Then on Xmas day at 7.30 AM I get a what’s app.

    Some guy she’s never spoken to, and I haven’t made contact after we change numbers and the first thing she does on Xmas day is text me.

  63. On the personal front , yeah started taking responsibility for my own room and my own stuff, the workout video shared by @stuffinbox was quite cool, and feeling a lot better after practising it for about 3 weeks now.
    Also persuaded Mom successfully and increased my daily protein intake.
    So overall this month was a lot better in my personal experience compared to other months of this year.
    BTW anyone else from Asia?

  64. @TheProspect

    On the personal front , yeah started taking responsibility for my own room and my own stuff, the workout video shared by @stuffinbox was quite cool, and feeling a lot better after practising it for about 3 weeks now.

    props on this!!!…

    taking the first step is the hardest thing to do… now it’s just a matter of continuing the process… and putting in the work…

    Also persuaded Mom successfully and increased my daily protein intake.

    most mothers want to help their offspring have a better chance at survival… and procreation…lol… but not kidding… that is just wired in…

    So overall this month was a lot better in my personal experience compared to other months of this year.

    and you doubted us?…lol…

    we’ve all been there… and put in the work to get better/overcome the FI/BP social conditioning… and are STILL working on it… it’s a perishable skill set… but it’s like riding a bike… once you’ve done it, you can still do it… and getting back to the level of mastery that you want is just based on how much effort/work you put in to rebuild your timing…

    BTW anyone else from Asia?

    maybe, but finding RP buddies IRL is hard… and this RP sh*t is universal… so we can help you answer any questions… and we have enough cultural exposure/understanding to deal with any situ… just gotta ask… and put in the work… do you sense a theme?…lol… and reading the best of series will help you understand everything you need to know… how is that going?…

    and now back to pushing you again…lol

    really search your ‘bias’/belief set for the answers to these following questions…

    (this will start you being able to identify your limiting self-beliefs… which is one of your main goals when you are processing through your FI/BP social conditioning…)

    Happy new year from South Asia to everyone visiting this webpage.
    As the in-house pessimist , I gotta dampen the vibe ….

    first, why have you not changed your handle?… seriously… what benefit does the FI get from you thinking of yourself as a ‘pessimist’?… and how does it hurt you?…

    second, why have you not changed your handle?… seriously… bc you just glossed over that^^^ question… bc it was uncomfortable to think about…lol

    third, why did you gloss over that question again?…lol… but not kidding…

    fourth, what benefit do YOU get from ‘dampening’ the vibe?… hint – NONE!!! (<— note the 3!!! exclamation points…lol)… sooo, who does benefit from a ‘dampened vibe’?… hint – it’s the FI…

    Hence have a look at this article from a Indian feminist
    https://theswaddle.com/arguments-against-feminism-research-data/
    Hope Rollo enjoys it.

    feminists are just girls who unconsciously (or consciously, if they are honest with themselves… but when does that ever happen with girls?…lol) know that they do not have the high SMV needed to arouse/attract the men they feel entitled to… ie the top 20% of men…

    then their solipsism kicks in, and they project THEIR arousal/attraction cues onto men… sooo, since they are aroused/attracted to successful men, they project that if they get ‘credentialed’ and ‘accomplished’… they will be able to ‘get’ a high SMV man…

    if you read the best of series, you will know that doesn’t work… and why…

    See you guys later.

    i hope you do stick around… but do try to actually figure out WHY you have not changed your handle to @TheProspect…

    really try to feeel that FI hand on your shoulder…

    good luck!

  65. @TheProspect

    Happy new year from South Asia to everyone visiting this webpage.
As the in-house pessimist , I gotta dampen the vibe ….

    This just stood out, and I was wondering how you would describe your 5 closest friends? The people that you hang out with most of the time.

    So I’ve had a friend, and I’ve referenced him here, Old Friend, he with the EEGF. So I cut him loose before Xmas. We were very good friends and we were working on a business.

    When I got to the final analysis I concluded that I didn’t like the way he was operating in the business, that he would take more from it than he contributed, and it would be 10 times as hard to build the thing dragging him versus going it alone. So I walked out, I’m going it alone and he has gone berserk. There was no easy way and no negotiation. And I’ve lost a friend.

    But it had to be done, And yes I am that ruthless, and no I’m not going to carry a passenger, or effectively build a business for someone else even if they are a “friend”.

    Within 7 days of cutting him off and doing it my way – the speed of customers coming in and my projected profits are about 3x my “share” of the way he wanted to do it, and that’s at a fraction of the effort working with him would have been.

    So @Prospect, look around you at the people you associate with and ask if you want to be like those people or whether you have to clear some out and change your inner circle to become the man you want to be.

    What are they bringing to you, and what are they taking from you. It might not be obvious.

  66. @TheProspect

    LOL at the “feminist” article , as if she is worth having a discussion with. She dreams of having the significance to inspire an argument.

    Props on taking responsibility for your space , diet and physical education . HT. You are an inspiration to young men worldwide.

    Now as @Having A Bad Day alluded to, it’s time to take responsibility for your head space. Yep time to evict the FI matrix.
    First step identify the program and conditioning then put something positive in place of it.

    Get that negativity out of your head.

    @Palma, I was surprised when you took a partner in the first place , it has never worked well for me in the end.

    Sometimes partners can give a boost to the initial startup but most lack vision and think it’s gonna be easy money. LOL

    @AR , don’t run out and invest in Preparation H UV 50 just yet. LOL

    @All Happy New Year!!!

  67. @Stuffinbox

    @Palma, I was surprised when you took a partner in the first place , it has never worked well for me in the end.

    It never worked well for me either and I already refused his first approach. I told him I’d didn’t want to end up his bitch and rejected it. He didn’t give up and kept pushing. His infrastructure could bring huge volumes so it was an attractive proposition and there should have been defined roles.

    He was pushing me to do it because I’ve the technical ability, I had nothing else on because of da’pocalypse and so I agreed.

    When I got into it I realised that his infrastructure was fucked bc da’pocalypse and what was really happening was the new thing was propping him up. He was desperate for a blood transfusion to keep his massive infrastructure going until da’pocalypse passes, and it was my blood. The thing needed massive volumes at razor thin margins.

    He was going at a berserk rate, and screwing the last £0.01 out of everything. The pressure on me reflected that – and for what exactly?

    He was leveraging the personal relationship to extract resource from me. He’d rationalised it was fair and in my favour but it was anything but.

    By now I’d done all the qualifications and accreditation’s to undertake the work and access gubbermint funding so my phone was / is blowing up with customers that want the much more profitable end of the service.

    He wanted to chip the wages of the installation staff that we had put on the payroll prior to Xmas (because we had to train them) which really really pissed me off.

    Anyway – I walked – outwardly he’s gone berserk at me, and word from the inside is that he’s had a total meltdown.

    I’ve paid the installation staff personally, and I’ve been quoting on work all through Xmas.

    Anyway I’m planning on having a good new year, and I wish everyone here a good new year as well!

  68. @Palma, but really @TheProspect

    Glad to hear from you again. I already thought you gave up.

    “This just stood out, and I was wondering how you would describe your 5 closest friends? The people that you hang out with most of the time.”

    I had this discussion with myself in class 10 (or do you say grade 10?).

    In class 7 I realised there were not many friends and they did not bring the best besides one I’ll call M.

    So I tried to hang out with the cool kids, you know the ones with girls and sports and fascinating lives (for a 14-y.o.). And the first months it felt perfect, because I was able to rationalise away every action against me.
    But gradually I realised I was cheating on myself, because I was what I would now call the omega of the group.
    I was never invited at their parties and they always brushed me off. At some point I concluded I’ll not put up with that shit anymore and walked away. I started hanging out with others who shared my social status somehow and stopped caring about the others.

    Next we started throwing our own parties and gradually talked about them in school. So we built a social circle around that and that brought us status.
    Gradually I also worked on my life. But the first step was cutting out people who dragged me down or hindered my success heavily.

    I am still friends with M, although he seems not so upward directed, he’s a good and a fair person. He’s not holding me down, but encouraging me to go upwards. We discuss a lot and have fun and drink, like we just did this afternoon / evening.

    Now, obviously it was hard to leave what I had as I did not know if I was going to be successfull finding other friends beforehand. I actually needed the “kick in the ass” of a one week school excursion to another city. I realised I had no roommates with this “cool kids” and needed to find others – so I found them elsewhere. I just quit contact with them. And started to hang out with the “lesser” aka less high status dudes who were real friends. A year or two later, their girls were happy to visit our parties and that’s been all that counted.

    Now up to that point we had interesting discussions and so on and we realised girls at the table dramatically changed the atmosphere (in a way we didn’t want). So we cut them out on our regular meetups and only had them for bigger events.
    I actually was pissed off back then of their group dynamics and everything. Now at university I handle this shit differently and it’s great as well.

    Now – why do I tell you? Partly, because it is nice having some discussion in this forum. I’m also in the german PU-forum, but they are not even close to helping you but tell you “fix your inner game” or “PU is
    easy, don’t take it to seriously” as much as “You don’t trust yourself kissing her? Well, go back to kindergarten ;)” and that’s it.

    Here you get real help and without @all you guys I would still sit at home not knowing how to text up a girl.

    So @TheProspect: Reflect on the guys you hang out with, one good low status friend who you can call up and really interact is likly worth infinetly more than ten lads who only condone you. Reflect honestly (in both directions) on what you have and find ways to deal with them. Writing your thoughts out here is good for honest reflection as you have someone who takes you seriously and as much as you get some honest comments.

    @Palma: Congrats for leaving the EU. Fare well GB, I hope you’ll do better so that guys here see how much of a swamp Brussels actually is.

  69. @Palma

    “Anyway – I walked – outwardly he’s gone berserk at me, and word from the inside is that he’s had a total meltdown.”

    Splitting the sheets is a necessary evil.

    Been in that fight before , some time later a random neighbor grabbed the guy and pulled him of his private property then proceeded to beat him into submission. Berserk doesn’t work well nor does being a chiseler.

  70. @All

    quick FR…

    talked to the same dude about the trump ‘gathering’ this last weekend… sides are getting more polarized…

    higher percentage of honks/waves/thumbs up… AND more people on the highway (going under the bridge) were honking than last weekend…

    buut, also more flip-offs/derogatory shouts (rolled down windows)/etc…

    tensions are high…lol…

    everybody have a safe and have a happy new year!

    good luck!

  71. @Stuffinbox

    So sometimes the American doesn’t translate that well. Chiseler? I take it that’s chopping someone’s money and paying less than they’re due? As far as him going berserk – he’s not physically dangerous, he just lost his mind because it’s all collapsing in front of him.

    And the link you posted. You busted me – how did you know lol?…

    They’re tightening on the green agenda. They’re already doing it with rental, you can’t even put it on the market unless it’s a certain category. To achieve the goal they have to uprate almost every single house in the U.K. and almost no one is qualified to do the work. Oh wait….

    So I’ve been off and done the qualifications to assess that efficiency – and I’ve done the additional survey qualifications so I can survey that – and I’ve done two more qualifications so I can install all the insulation within the house. It’s usually different people that have all ^^ that.

    that article didn’t say that Rishi is giving away £10k per house to do the work. If you’re employed he gives you 70% of £10k but if you’re not working or get any benefits (including child benefit which almost anyone with children get) he pays all of it.

    To get it you have to go on the gubbermint website and do a 1 page application which is simple and you have to upload a quote from an approved installer. They give you a handy link to “find your local installer” and there I am – there aren’t many others. And if you’re not approved you can’t get paid.

    when the job is done the gubbermint pay me direct almost instantly.

    Even if you wanted to enter the market, no one can actually tell you what you need to do end to end to get ALL the qualifications and systems to get paid. You have to beat through the maze.

    So yeah I’m expecting a good new year..

    @HABD

    It’s got to be getting quite hot when Lin Wood is saying this type of thing:

    https://imgur.com/a/hHPsdes

    I mean he’s either taken total leave of his senses and needs locking up bc he’s flipped, or he actually has evidence of some bad stuff. And for a guy like Lin Wood, at his age, who has made a pile of $ and was going to retire – to call out somebody that senior – with that type of allegationI think he’s got the evidence.

    This actually is coming up against a time line and shit has to move fast now.

    1. I don’t see a date on those tweets, but Lin has dropped the rhetorical question and explicitly stated that Epstein is alive.

      1. “I don’t see a date on those tweets, but Lin has dropped the rhetorical question and explicitly stated that Epstein is alive.”

        Lin Wood
        @LLinWood
        ·
        Dec 30, 2020
        My information from reliable source is that Roberts arranged an illegal adoption of two young children from Wales through Jeffrey Epstein.

        I think we can all agree that Epstein knows pedophilia.

        If only Jeffrey Epstein was still alive . .

        Lin Wood
        @LLinWood
        ·
        Dec 31, 2020
        I am fully aware of the onslaught of attacks being made against me based on my revelations about Chief Justice John Roberts. Before attacking me, maybe fair-minded people would first ask Roberts to tell the truth.

        Or ask Jeffrey Epstein. He is alive.

      2. He’s said it more than Rhetorically, he’s said it directly as @Stuffinbox has quoted below. I’ve only just caught up on his tweets. He’s going super religions in every tweet so he’s either lost it, or more likely he has a plan and evidence to back it up.

        If the latter, it’s gonna be a far reaching list.

        OMB didn’t attend his own New Years do, he flew back to D.C. – I suspect he had a lot to do and needed to get on with it.

        1. The thing that gets me is that Lin is also tweeting that he knows how far out on the crazy limb it looks like he has crawled, and is challenging anyone to come try to knock him off of it.

          1. One way to look at that is a counterattack would legitimize his claims to a degree ignoring or laughing at won’t.

            And another way is he has no proof to back up his claims so plays with calling folks out to challenge him rather than post the proof.

            Curious. I’m skeptical. Trump had an amazing ability to keep a worthless bunch of self promoters around him. Bannon and Mooch for example.

          2. @Sentient kfg

            One way to look at that is a counterattack would legitimize his claims to a degree ignoring or laughing at won’t.

            defamation law exists for this exact situ ..lol

            the absence of a counter attack (lawsuit) is an indicator of veracity…

            especially when an ATTORNEY is baiting the highest judge in the system…lol…

            And another way is he has no proof to back up his claims so plays with calling folks out to challenge him rather than post the proof.

            “naked shorting” against a 90% bullish market?…lol… surely you jest…lol

            and ‘crazy town’ is not a defense…lol

            there are also professional ethics rules that he would be violating if he can’t back up his comments… and all those bar associations/ ethics boards are usually liberal…lol…

            pretty sure naked shorting is not going on…lol

            good luck!

  72. @Palma

    LOL, I had no idea. Thought I was giving you a tip on a fast horse and you have already placed the same bet.

    We went from UBC to IBC to IRC to ICC in my life time. Now in one county the roof is r38 under 2012 and next door the trusses are all energy heel for r48 under 2015 . We have been building stickframe since the white pine era and the steam sawmill so changing and adding is not a big deal and common practice. Sleepy joe ( if he can get away with the fraud) will try something similar with susidised commercial upgrades and the bar will be set high.

    IDK about Lin , he reads to me like he is on prednisone or some corticosteroid , mainly cuz of the religious cast of it. I would love to see some swampers get their just deserts.

    1. Lin appears to be defaming, slandering and libeling people outrageously, particularly Roberts and Kemp, while stipulating to it publicly.

      “. . . the absence of a counter attack (lawsuit) is an indicator of veracity…”

      Keyword: Discovery

  73. @KFG

    The thing that gets me is that Lin is also tweeting that he knows how far out on the crazy limb it looks like he has crawled, and is challenging anyone to come try to knock him off of it.

    Now he wants to arrest @VP Pence – I didn’t see that one coming. But Pompeo would be the type of guy with the balls to take on the system if Pence doesn’t have the stomach for it.

    https://imgur.com/a/4MKLB9r

    @Sentient

    Curious. I’m skeptical. Trump had an amazing ability to keep a worthless bunch of self promoters around him. Bannon and Mooch for example.

    Cannon fodder? / Useful idiots. Allow them to be the focus of the opposition tactics and then swap them out last minute?

    @HABD

    defamation law exists for this exact situ ..lol
    the absence of a counter attack (lawsuit) is an indicator of veracity…
    especially when an ATTORNEY is baiting the highest judge in the system…lol…

    I can’t see it being naked shorting. Pfffft… I mean even with the evidence, it would have to be soooo. Nailed on, and I mean so nailed on… and remind me, what did happen to all the video footage from paedo island.. rumour was it was never found..

    Epstein & Maxwell gone states evidence and under protection somewhere? Not that would be an OMB chess move.

  74. My doodbros

    The more I think about it the more Lin comes off as a useful idiot of the left rather than a restorer of GEOTUS.

    Naked shorts are all too real. Quintupling down… think back, the list is long. Jesse Smollet for example.

    Considering what is at stake, which is everything. If YOU had any evidence that Epstein was alive (just one remarkable claim) why on earth would you play this silly long term game of “sue me so I can show you”. Credible exposure of just one of these wild stories would galvanize critical support ahead of 1/6.

    Sadly, not passing the ha ha test.

    *Disclaimer – full on 100% Trump supporter since he came down the escalator. Not blackpilled…

    Trump has never really had a true “inner circle”, he’s had an incredible array of goofball promoters or approved handlers…

    Manafort… Pence… Sessions… all of his Chief of Staff appointments etc. Etc.

    Even Flynn, darling of late, screwed the pooch first off by lying to Pence.

    Now Lin as a usefull idiot… that makes sense. Net him gonon and spin wilder and wilder stories which fizzle out- even if true – because everyone is laughing and mocking and NOT giving him an outlet. Now to be sure, even IF he got into discovery, if this was all true, how do you think the presiding judge is going to rule for him?

  75. The other thing on Lin

    If you think the MILITARY is going to ride in and save the day because they love the constitution so much… 😆

    They are quite happy with the current system, look at the veto overide…

  76. Field Report

    So the RD went back to Moscow before Xmas for various reasons – she’s had to go back to the Russian health service who are still employing her for a few reasons that are too boring to discuss.

    There wasn’t much fanfare and we haven’t been in touch much. By her own admission she got slightly “clingy” before she went.

    There’s been almost no texting, and no goofy stuff. I don’t think there was even a happy Xmas on Xmas day, I’ve stepped back.

    So I got a text after Xmas “do You have any plans this weekend?”

    I replied “no, we’re locked down, why are you thinking of coming over?”

    Her “yes, but how long can I stay. 3-4 would be ideal as I have to go back to Moscow next Thursday”

    Me “ok it’d be nice to see you, up to a week is fine, but after that I want my space back”

    Then nothing for a few days and then a text saying she’ll be landing at 12.15 tomorrow (the 1st)

    So the flight landed yesterday and she got a taxi to my place which is 20 minutes from LHR.

    From my living room I can see out to the front gates, and this is really the reason for the field report, I saw this blonde with long flowing hair with a spring in her step striding towards the entrance with this hair blowing behind her as she was walking – head high. I had to double check it was her. Her demeanour was totally, and I mean totally different to the slightly nervous girl that didn’t appear to have much confidence a couple of weeks ago.

    When she got through my front door I threw her bags on the floor, picked her up and took her to the bedroom where sex was totally, and I mean totally different to when I’d initially met her. She was almost a totally different woman. Or perhaps what had actually happened was she felt like a woman as opposed to a girl.

    In terms of sex, Her confidence has completely and utterly changed since our first meet, she’s almost a totally different woman.

    It’s actually quite an astonishing turn around. After our first round when she arrived she said she had to text her parents to tell them she was in London. She’d come straight from a night shift before New Year’s Eve, which led to a New Year’s Eve party and then straight to London for 5 days of nothing but sex. Then she went to the airport, and despite the government banning flights to London bc da’pocalypse, the state airline, Aeroflot is still flying the route. Go figure.

    We focus on what good sex and intimate relationships can do for men, but we don’t really focus on what it does for women, and this has bought home to me exactly how badly women need it as well.

    1. 23 to 26 is the best age for most women. This is where on average today, they do become women and own their sexuality, face big girl problems for the first time etc.

      And they also discover, they are NOT in control. It’s the window to date outside their HS and Uni peer group.

      Doing Zeus’s work Palma 💘 😻 💜

      Also I bet she got a zolt being back around Russian women… comp anxiety.

      1. The contrast is quite astonishing really between her and western women (most of the women I’ve ever known).

        There’s not an ounce of fat on her – I’m cooking mostly, and I generally eat clean myself (except cold beer lol) but she’ll have the steak and veg and no carbs.

        Then there’s make up – she doesn’t own any. None. And she doesn’t need it.

        No perfume – she doesn’t need that either.

        The entire travel kit comprises a toothbrush and a small bottle of something or other that’s found it’s way into to the shower.

        Then there’s femininity – despite being an A&E doctor she’s totally feminine and just wants to curl up with physical contact.

        She’s perfectly happy just curling up with me either in bed or on the sofa in silence for the whole day – which is something I can’t actually ever remember doing.

        Travels very lite, just a few clothes and a MacBook and a phone. Everything spotless and well cared for – viz the similar age “kids” I’ve seen about the place with a MacBook that’s had the shit batted out of it, in one case I said to the guy “you didn’t pay for that did you”.

        It’s an experience that’s for sure and I’m glad I took the red pill.

  77. There might be some truth in this.

    https://lamecherry.blogspot.com/2021/01/lin-wood-going-about-lords-work.html?m=1

    I’m not buying the “he’s just gone nuts” theory, and god knows how rich he is, I mean what was the fee on the Covington kids alone?

    I don’t believe he’s naked shorting, and I don’t believe he’s nuts, and I don’t believe he’d risk the sort of warfare including financial annihilation at his time of life that would follow if he didn’t have the evidence.

    Somethings up.

  78. Boris announcing another lockup — er — lockdown for Air Strip One?
    Which phase is this? Phase 5? Phase 6?

    Will Aeroflot still be flying there?

    Los Angeles has some kind of quarantine period of 10 or 14 days for travelers arriving from out of state. Should be completely easy to enforce, of course.

    When this insanity dwindles away, I expect a huge pent up demand to hit the world from the 20-somethings. Like the 20’s or the 70’s.

    I plan to adjust my expectations accordingly.

  79. @AR

    Boris announcing another lockup — er — lockdown for Air Strip One?
    Which phase is this? Phase 5? Phase 6?

    It was widely mooted as being Tier 5, but he hasn’t bothered with that, he’s just shut the country down again.

    Will Aeroflot still be flying there?

    No they’ve stopped. And they’ve stopped flying people out as well. British Airways have stopped flights to Russia as well.The RD had 2x flights out booked, one with Aeroflot and one with BA as a backup. Both cancelled. Right now she is stranded here and has to take a flight out via Paris and for that she needs a negative test. So she’s going for that tomorrow.

    Underneath all of this, as of the 13th December our gubbermint are paying the wages of 9.9 million people via the “furlough scheme” which has been extended.

    1/3 of the entire workforce is doing nothing and has been getting paid since March. And to be honest I haven’t noticed any difference. The furlough scheme is being used by .gov type offices to pay .gov type people – and no one knew what most of them did anyway, and no one is missing them.

    When this insanity dwindles away, I expect a huge pent up demand to hit the world from the 20-somethings. Like the 20’s or the 70’s.

    Don’t hold your breath, certainly from a U.K. point of view this isn’t stopping anytime soon, and I can’t see the real agenda. But there is one, and I can usually see it, but right now I can’t. Potentially they’re going for UBI, potentially there’s something much bigger going on and they want us all scared into submission.

    1. Right now she is stranded here and has to take a flight out via Paris and for that she needs a negative test.

      Love in the Time of Corona… forget the Oops Pregnancy. Now it’s the Oops Positive!

      Love wins!!!! 💘 😻 💜 💛 💘

      And stay tuned for “come with me if you want to live”

      https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=m6z4yiq4_K8

  80. @Sentient

    “forget the Oops Pregnancy.”

    She just got her period so that’s out the window. And considering I didn’t even ask about protection.. 🤷‍♂️

    More interestingly I’m losing / have lost interest in sex with her. Twice now I can’t even get Wood, or if I had Wood, she fumbles around so badly that I lose it. For instance I’ve never had a decent blow job. She’s fumbling, and I have already told her what to do last time she tried and I’m telling her again – and she doesn’t do it. And 🤷‍♂️ I lose Wood. (Incidentally that has totally messed with her head – especially when I just shrug it off as “not important”).

    I know she’s here for experience etc.. but I can’t get into her in the same way I get into other women, it’s as if she’s got the bit of her brain that allows her to enjoy sex and all the rude thoughts that go with that closed off.

    On top of that she can’t do anything else – so I’m doing all cooking etc..

    She’s checking out tomorrow which is just as well as I’ve had enough of her in my space – Until probably next time.

    1. So what you’re saying – for the blackpillers 💊 – is a 25 YO girl is inexperienced… she hasn’t had 100 Chad cockas…?

  81. @PalmaSailor

    yes!…

    an old-school case study!…lol

    @Sentient

    “forget the Oops Pregnancy.”

    She just got her period so that’s out the window. And considering I didn’t even ask about protection.. 🤷‍♂️

    she may… or may not… have this handled… she might be a doc but evo/bio rules are still in play…lol… and her hindbrain has ONE JOB…lol…

    More interestingly I’m losing / have lost interest in sex with her. Twice now I can’t even get Wood, or if I had Wood, she fumbles around so badly that I lose it.

    wellll ok, her hindbrain has one MAIN job…lol… it also needs to work past its whole BB provisioning default algo to get it done though…lol

    did this change for the worse at some point?… i’m betting it went from ‘i wanna be a slut for you but i don’t know how’ to ‘good girl… who would NEVER do THAT’… at some point…lol

    if what seems to have happened actually did, you just went through a whole ‘marriage to an AF who turns into a betaized provider’ in a couple of weeks…instead of a couple years/decades…lol

    For instance I’ve never had a decent blow job. She’s fumbling, and I have already told her what to do last time she tried and I’m telling her again – and she doesn’t do it.

    sh*t test…

    solution = get up some porn on the computer (<– pun intended…lol) with a good bj for the example and have her follow along… rinse and repeat… til she can go off script…lol

    easy, peasy…lol…

    (note – have HER find and pick the porn example of what she wants to do to you… you could actually set this up as homework for her…lol)

    And 🤷‍♂️ I lose Wood. (Incidentally that has totally messed with her head – especially when I just shrug it off as “not important”).

    aaand there’s the sh*t test fail…lol… which likely leads to more ‘good girl’ inhibitions…

    why wouldn’t getting a good blowie (note – that <— is not even saying a ‘great’ blowie) be important to you?… why wouldn’t her being able to please you be important to YOU?…

    which leads to… whose frame is that^^^?… (hint – not yours…)

    I know she’s here for experience etc..

    frame?…

    but I can’t get into her in the same way I get into other women, it’s as if she’s got the bit of her brain that allows her to enjoy sex and all the rude thoughts that go with that closed off.

    lol… do you even read here?… this RP sh*t is ALWAYS in play… ALWAYS…lol…

    maybe it’s my ‘spergyness, but i can’t unsee this sh*t… ever… that’s what leads to that RP malaise that i was talking about a while ago… i can make accurate predictions, but i don’t have anywhere to hide from reality…lol

    On top of that she can’t do anything else – so I’m doing all cooking etc..

    BB is an actual thing, you know…lol…

    sooo, essentially she is the princess on vacation, being taken care of/catered TO by YOU… and she doesn’t even have to come through with a good blowie?…lol…(<– pun intended…lol)

    She’s checking out tomorrow which is just as well as I’ve had enough of her in my space – Until probably next time.

    make a plan, work the plan…

    good luck!

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