For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
There are ” low ” libido women and men. In these cases, being a high value ma le ( whatever the fuck that vague descriptor entails ) will not help much as these people lack sufficient drive sexually.l
Sparking passion in someone who lacks it ( or doesn’t understand it ) is pretty much a losing proposition for the majority of men, status markers be damned.
Palma…
“Borders son, Garry ‘Dijon’ Bowden Jr., was accused by a client named Celia Gellert of having touched her genitalia and kissed her on the cheek during a $330 multi-hour ‘healing session’ last month.”
Blax, there are low libido men, because of low T-levels. And low libido women also–pretty much standard for women who aren’t in their estrus phase. That changes for almost all women when high value men are around. Even prepubescent girls can get a libidinous spike. (You can tell this by their behavior, especially emotional outbursts.) Men use the trope that some women are low libido in order to hamster away their inadequacies. I was reading over on your fav site Heartiste that a male stripper was shocked that a 70 year old broad was grabbing at his junk at a… Read more »
@Rc So here’s a question: what’s the purpose of “passing shit tests”? the purpose of passing shit tests is to practice the zen-like centering of your MPoO in yourself… every shit test represents an opportunity for you to become more ‘you’… i say this all the time… = girls (which wives are…lol) are just shit test generators… you know, for game practice…lol… but not kidding… and wives/ltrs (live-in shit test generators) are just an on-going convenience to you for practicing your centering of your MPoO in yourself… crawl… walk… run… run (while thinking about complicated sh*t… bc your subconscious is… Read more »
” every shit test represents an opportunity for you to become more ‘you’…”
Yep.
“Blax, there are low libido men, because of low T-levels. And low libido women also–pretty much standard for women who aren’t in their estrus phase.” No, that’s not what I am talking about asd. There are men that have a very low sex drive regardless of T levels, for whatever reason. I happen to think it’s mostly mental. They see sex like brushing their teeth or something. They aren’t that into it, but they do it because it’s a ” need ” they have from time to time. Same with some women. I’ve been around a bunch of them throughout… Read more »
@Blax
Guys don’t want to be called rapists or racist or shit all over for approaching women. Too much feminine disapproval kills a man’s passion for pursuing sex.
Women mocking men’s desires is a common passtime on these colleges I visit now and then. Sure, the moron men don’t realize that women calling you “perverted” is a euphemism for “lose some fucking weight and learn how to humiliate my male friends” but for the guys who don’t already know how to do it, more rejection sure isn’t cluing them in.
Thus, they become pheromonal Betas.
@Guerra
Women mocking men’s desires is a common passtime on these colleges I visit
This is nothing new. Our own deal Liz did it over at “Just Four Guys” (now defunct) and I dealt with it with humor and aplomb. Why can’t young men do the same thing?
correction: that’s “dear Liz”
A strong sex drive is something that is extremely hard to blunt. the stronger it is, the harder it is ( no pun ). Ask me how I know this to be true. Exercising self control, whether it’s your idea or something that’s being foisted upon you by outside forces, still doesn’t change the drive imo. A woman/women calling you name(s) won’t lessen a high sex drive. The bottom line, the ” real ” of it all, is that some guys don’t have a high/passionate sex drive. They do have ” excuses ” though, but most think that they are… Read more »
@Blax: but you have very high testosterone, don’t you? Do you know if you had that all in your life? My main problem in my life currently is my low sex drive. But I also have low testosterone. Besides my teenager years I think I had a rather low sex drive in my entire life, but I had my hormones checked out 2 years ago for the first time. But based on what I’ve read on the forums, elevating T drastically increases sexdrive in every male. So I think what you write about very closely correlates with hormones (in men… Read more »
Increasing testosterone increases sex drive if you’re a vertebrate.
I guess I reinvented the wheel then. High T in woman has all kinds of side effects though, and I don’t think Blax was thinking about Iris Kyle when talked about high sex drive women.
https://www.instagram.com/iriskyle/?hl=hu
Although I wasn’t specifically talking about high testosterone levels in men, yes, higher test equals ( presumably) higher sex drives. Women have mere drops of T compared to men, but those minuscule drops make a gargantuan difference. Of course low T can affect men’s sex drive, but I think lots of guys aren’t that low ( it’s possible because many factors seem to be devastating men’s T levels…) , or if they’d do something ( just lift bro and eat fats , much of that could be resolved. Shitty diets and lethargy will keep one in a perpetual state of… Read more »
Trigger warning: dancing is mentioned, lol @Blax Ime, most women have a higher sex drive than men think. You just have to understand how to put them in gear and apply the accelerator. This “works” for you but it’s very confused Women get lubed up when their emotions are amped. Libido spikes because dopamine is amped up and then lubing happens. Stimulating erogenous zones can amp dopamine, but so can teasing, telling dirty jokes, push-pull, cold reads, qualification, etc. Even turning a girl while dancing can do this. Example: Last night I dipped a blonde after turning her a bunch… Read more »
Spent the weekend traveling with my 2 wings, south of the border.
Will type one of my lays later, but my wing just sent this to me.
Warning: Fathers with daughters, DO NOT click this link:
https://m.imgur.com/a/lY2SMY1
?
Why shouldn’t fathers with daughters read that?
I don’t get it.
Blax “I don’t get it.” Allow me to explain… Part of the former incel, now PUA/slayer/chad self image is imagining that “most girls aren’t like that” unless that is, they are with “you”… So they buy into the “Quality Women” trope because it’s not ego aggrandizing to have a “bar slut” fuck you and get slapped and choked… I mean, she’s just a slut… But “whoa” get a “good girl” to and they feel they are THE MAN. Ego boosted… Of course little is learned about women along the way… Or who is zoomin’ who… J is still in Stage… Read more »
The women in my life that seriously tried to shame me as ” nasty ” or ” obsessed ” or ” a male nymphomaniac ” of sorts, I just chalked it up to their level of sex drive. Lol. I kept my dick out of…a majority of them .
standard shit tests, Mr. Pussy Slayer…has nothing to do with a woman’s level of sex drive…see, this is why I doubt your ability to calibrate sex drives
its often said, if you want to get a “good girl” you shouldn’t expect to find one at da club. Cause that place is only filled with bar sloots. “Good girls” stay at home with mommy and daddy, playing the violin, going to opera/ballet classes instead. Well this 20 year old girl, my wing banged in under an hour of meeting, has never stepped inside a club (there were 18+ clubs in this city) because her parents forbid her from going out at night, and yet she’s already slept with I’m guessing well over 25+ men. From what my wing… Read more »
” From what my wing sent, it looks like her parents did just about everything right, so their little angel wouldn’t become a slut.”
Negative
just messaged him asking for an update.
He ended up banging her in a motel, because the malls had security in the bathrooms.
She dresses conservatively, because otherwise her parents would get suspicious of where their little angel is going, when she asks their permission to go out.
The women in my life that seriously tried to shame me as ” nasty ” or ” obsessed ” or ” a male nymphomaniac ” of sorts, I just chalked it up to their level of sex drive. Lol. I kept my dick out of…a majority of them .
you kept your dick out…righhhht…since you obviously failed their shit tests, their legs closed tighter than Fort Knox…so you did “keep your dick out of” them, lol…and they did have low sex drives as far as you were concerned.
20 year old chick?
Who’s parents are still guard dogging?
That tells you 90% of everything you need to know right there.
Lol, when my 19 year old was born, I cut the umbilical cord, the doc tapped her on the butt ( she refused to cry at first ) and he handed her to me.
I proceeded to raise her.
At 19, I don’t worry about what she’s wearing or where she’s going or what she’s doing. I repeat: I raised her.
So it’s telling when parents are still trying to raise a 20 year old.
” you kept your dick out…righhhht…since you obviously failed their shit tests, their legs closed tighter than Fort Knox…so you did “keep your dick out of” them, lol…and they did have low sex drives as far as you were concerned.”
Asd would like to by a clue for 200 Alex.
its often said, if you want to get a “good girl” you shouldn’t expect to find one at da club.
Well it’s said, but it’s said by idiots…
my trigger warning, was aimed at “MY little girl would never do that” fathers.
Also said by idiots…
What are you hoping to convey here?
what happened to evo/bio/psysch? What happened to AWALT?
The fuck is going on here now…?
J, a girl who intends to be chaste will avoid sexy guys…that may mean staying out of clubs or it may mean avoiding obvious players when they go to clubs or it may mean not talking to men they don’t know when they are in clubs. The girl has to buy into the program herself before you know whether the parents “did it right.” Mrs. Gamer’s father did it right. She was a virgin when we married. Mrs. Gamer and I went in groups to clubs when we were dating, but she didn’t talk to any men who weren’t part… Read more »
its often said, if you want to get a “good girl” you shouldn’t expect to find one at da club.
You can always spot the “good girls” at clubs–they are gay as hell.
This one’s for you asd. Brooklyn in the house…lmao. There’s a lot of us that were living a veeerrryyyy different experience in life than you could imagine.
Oh, and of course you don’t have a clue who the guys is ….
what happened to evo/bio/psysch? What happened to AWALT?
AWALT is about biological wiring which training can circumvent.
Friends don’t let friends say retarded shit.
ok. let’s dissect this shit here – ” J, a girl who intends to be chaste will avoid sexy guys…that may mean staying out of clubs or it may mean avoiding obvious players when they go to clubs or it may mean not talking to men they don’t know when they are in clubs. The girl has to buy into the program herself before you know whether the parents “did it right.”” Wrong. What you are describing is something that isn’t real. Girls do not need to avoid sexy guys to remain chaste. They don’t need to stay out of… Read more »
Lol at j. He baits the OMG’s with “warning….”
He’s too insecure to let his life be judged as is without warning labels.
“My wing….”
Exotifying sex is gay. Exotifying someone else’s lay btw…..Ace and Gary Super gay.
Blax, I fingerfucked maybe ten girls before I actually fucked a girl when I had just turned 19. First few happened when I was 15. Maybe another five or ten until I married. None of them in clubs. One was a girl in the apartment complex who invited me into her apartment fifteen minutes after I met her in the pool (EE cups on her, lol). I have significant sexual experience far different than incels. I’m not arguing that I have banged as many broads as you have. But that doesn’t matter. Girls often chased me my whole life…I have… Read more »
ASD
AWALT is about biological wiring which training can circumvent.
Until it can’t, which is why it’s AWALT.
The stupid shit you post about your wife being trained on the one hand and wanting to bang her doctor on the other should be illuminating for you. You were lucky your wife’s doctor didn’t act, and undo her “training”…
Blax, virgins are significantly less likely to divorce than women who have had as few as two partners. Virginity deserves a premium.
You never married a virgin, so you don’t believe these statistics.
Fucking solipsism, lol.
some guy called “Rollo” posted something like “girls make rules for betas, and break rules for alphas” or such… Guess which category “training” is effective with?
Wonder where he got this idea?
Sentient, your analysis is sometimes fucking retarded. You minimize the effectiveness of training, which experience shows can be effective. Are you being cucked behind your back or something?
ASD
I don’t expect you to believe that, but J and Sentient are pussied up and won’t call you out on your bullshit.
Call Blax out on his bs? You are killing it today…
How can you even write shit like this and hope to be taken seriously?
I’m not arguing that I have banged as many broads as you have. But that doesn’t matter.
Isn’t your N 1 or 2? and Blax’s several hundred?
“fingerfucking”… wtf????
ASD
which experience shows can be effective.
It’s effective until it’s not… Which is what experience actually shows.
Are you being cucked behind your back or something?
Listen, my wife isn’t (and never has) gone to a BoB… What’s up with that? What level of cuckery is that…???
[this is an interesting side bar btw – the rise of the dildo – jump in others]
asd, are you going in on me? ( 10 laughing emojis here ) ” Blax, I fingerfucked maybe ten girls before I actually fucked a girl when I had just turned 19. First few happened when I was 15. Maybe another five or ten until I married” Okay, good for you. Remember what I said about ” different lives “? I’d never fingerbanged a girl until after I’d had sex. I cut out the middleman. I can’t be specific because decades have passed, but I’d hazard a wild guess and say that by the time I was 19, I must… Read more »
” Blax, virgins are significantly less likely to divorce than women who have had as few as two partners. Virginity deserves a premium. You never married a virgin, so you don’t believe these statistics” I can’t….. You’re right. It’s true. Neither of my wives were virgins when I married them. I am guilty as charged. I’ve banged a few virgins, but I didn’t see what the huge deal was. They turned out to be…wait for it….just girls. All of them. So in your world, if a super beta marries a virgin, she’s less likely to divorce him? Explain. And use… Read more »
What’s a ” BoB” ?
I recall a discussion about it here years ago, but I don’t remember.
“Is that a ” church ” thing? That virginity stuff? ” No it’s not. Well it’s not as ASD defines it. Keep in mind I am not judging just laying this out as best I can. Virginity is a means to an end. Women (and men) who use their bodies with a certain respect get more from it over time and sex isn’t dirty, it’s useful and fun and the products remain mysterious. The “thing” is, a guy should be serious about himself and that includes cherishing his sexuality, its use, and the products. Fucking with zero intention to have… Read more »
“My style is a blend between Coquette and Charismatic. Your style is The Rake. This is gonna mean shit to you because you haven’t bothered to read the book.”
….
( I agreed with this when I was 12. Lol )
BoB – Battery Operated Boyfriend
oh lawd.
“At least he not banging on that he trained her to be a virgin though intimates a shit ton that he does.”
Having a daughter who is a virgin at 35 is mighty strange. That’s a fail for a patriarch.
Once upon a time I had a lion, but just my luck, no sooner than I had trained it to eat cheap hay, it died.
I am a fiddler, and therefore a rogue. Rogues don’t do style. They do what works.
“Having a daughter who is a virgin at 35 is mighty strange.” Oh shit! ASD has some quiet contemplation coming. Damn. Well, no point in lamenting yesterday’s failure. Yesterday doesn’t exist. This is the way out of dysfunctional thinking: Humility is not believing one is less than he is. That’s masochism. Humility is understanding one’s weaknesses and strengths clearly, no more, no less. No aggrandizing, no false deprication. It affords unbuffered functioning to make untrammeled-vision choices IRT. It’s similar to using accurate military intelligence to execute a battle plan. ASD uses his own hyperinflated ego as his G-2 department. He… Read more »
I find that premarital sex or premarital cohabitation that is limited to a woman’s husband is not associated with an elevated risk of marital disruption. However, women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship have an increased risk of marital dissolution.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00444.x
Lots of divorce statistics here
https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
LR Saturday. Its my last night here. I’ve been here since Thursday evening. And I’ve already banged one girl, my first night. I’m here visiting with my two wings, from NY. We’ve just spent the day, eating lunch, then heading into the more artsy fartsy neighborhood of this city we’re visiting. In the Uber, on the way back, both of them appear to have Tinder dates, they’re scheduled to meet later tonight. If things don’t go as planned, they tell me they’ll join me. The club I want to go to tonight, from what I’ve read, is the top club… Read more »
Hey! That looks like a field report. How did that get in here?
kfg, you been snoozin’ again?
It’s effective until it’s not… Which is what experience actually shows.
Chasing the circle again?
How can you even write shit like this and hope to be taken seriously?
I’m not arguing that I have banged as many broads as you have. But that doesn’t matter.
Isn’t your N 1 or 2? and Blax’s several hundred?
“fingerfucking”… wtf????
You’re not tall enough for this ride.
some guy called “Rollo” posted something like “girls make rules for betas, and break rules for alphas” or such… Guess which category “training” is effective with?
Rules isn’t training. I don’t see Will and Rollo having any disagreement.
You know, Blax, one of the key diagnostic tests for autism is how a person responds to society’s morals about sex. I was never incel, but I was celibate. Just voluntarily because of autism. But those strictures can be broken. IAS and I have both done it.
So your saying that you’re shocked that I could make out with a girl for months without having sex is silly. Expecting someone who is autistic to act like he isn’t is silly.
“You’re not tall enough for this ride.”
Explains nothing.
“I was never incel, but I was celibate.”
Same difference.
“Rules isn’t training. I don’t see Will and Rollo having any disagreement.”
Invoking Rollo explains nothing.
If you can’t explain yourself with words, and projection flip your ignorance back you lose credibility.
Morty, of Rick and Morty fame describes/explains a way to not be so unattractive, as a person, parent, child, partner, Red Pill style:
https://youtu.be/jl17CYYSzUw
http://tvquotes.co/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/CeI3eR9.gif
Lots of “Red Pill” men need to go to the Billiard Room and get a clue. It’s not popular here that virgins are less of a divorce risk, but studies bear it out. And all women have to be trained if you are going to be in a LTR with them. Vetting alone won’t get you where you want to go. And you have to have the skillset if you want to train women. All unpopular ideas here and all true. Lots of PUAs/old farts here are still very Blue Pill. FYI, the “Coquette type” in The Art of Seduction… Read more »
“I was never incel, but I was celibate.”
Same difference.
yeah, just like manslaughter is the same as first degree murder
it’s about the will to do or not do
You also aren’t tall enough for this ride.
Murder. Manslaughter.
Somebody still wound up deceased.
@ j
Good LR. Have fun mane.
” Popular ” has nothing to do with the discussions at hand. My questions remain as they’ve always been, ” what do you actually know? First hand? From long term observations and experience? It’s difficult to help young men if all you have to offer is ” studies “. I’ve read a lot about how to assemble a nuke. It doesn’t mean I can actually assemble one, or teach someone with the correct ingredients to do so successfully. Reading and understanding a thing is normally only 50% of the equation. Any pua will tell you it’s a waste if you… Read more »
“it’s about the will to do or not do” You willed yourself celibate but finger banging and making out was willful. O.k. You sound like the regretful dissembling guy who sucked trucker dick in a rest stop. “I didn’t want to but he kept sticking it in my mouth. I didn’t choose to and it doesn’t make me a faggot.” So what’s your excuse now? I’ll eat all the bananas I want and no one will ever call me a banana eater. You knowingly passed on all that pussy and now regret it here as you’ve no extant playa chops… Read more »
It’s effective until it’s not… Which is what experience actually shows. “Test all things.” Relying on your own experience is frequently a fail. That’s why we have disciplines like law, history, and science to help us test the facts so that our own solipsism doesn’t blind us. How would you test a woman’s training? How would you ever know whether it was successful or not? Because you banged some broad that was supposedly well-trained? Therefore no training works? Seriously? smh Some people haven’t thought about how to know what’s real and true. And another thing. I don’t buy evo-psych bullshit.… Read more »
…..lmfho
….smh
Vetting evidently is difficult to grasp in full, but if you attempt to ” train ” a woman you haven’t bothered to vet, you’re basically pissing into the wind. Vetting will expose any extant training or lack thereof. It’s simply calibration. Vetting shows you where you need to begin to train a woman in an LTR. This should be obvious to anyone who has ever vetted a woman before. Question: how is it possible to gauge the ” look in a woman’s eyes.. ” without having taken that signal to completion? one night stands completion means completion and no more… Read more »
” love shows in behavior…facial expressions are part of it…prolonged chasing is part of it…submissive behavior is part of it…desire to fuck is part of it…is a girl “lit up” when she’s around you and trying to get your attention?…that could be either love or lust…how would you distinguish between the two?”
….thinking
Is it even worth it to try and explain anything else to this guy?
You’re alright asd. Clueless mostly, but alright.
https://www.thisisinsider.com/billy-porter-wore-tuxedo-dress-oscars-2019-2
I wonder how long till they put Michael Jai White in a dress??
YouTube ” Michel jai white djvlad never wear a dress “.😂 he spoke on it recently.
Brothas been dragging tuxedo-dress dude to death.😂
There’s a movement afoot to get men, but black men specifically ( I’m looking at you Tyler Perry) to stop appearing on camera in fucking dresses.
I have to hand it to you Blax. You’ve vetted twice as many wives as I have, so I defer to your vetting experience.
Why does virginity matter for marriage? Divorce statistics show that if a woman has only one partner, including her husband, when entering a first time marriage she has about about a 15% chance of getting divorced. By contrast, with 2+ partners, a woman entering a first time marriage has about a 37% change of getting divorced. But how does this relate to virginity? After all, you can have sex with your fiance before marriage without elevating your divorce risk. The problem is for the woman, not the man. Sometimes engagements are called off. If one is called off, all of… Read more »
@theasdgamer: Rollo has written about this correlation between virginity, or more general, N-count of the wife, and chance of divorce (or even general happiness in life). I agree with his theory that it is mostly about whether the wife has been alpha widowed by someone else rather than the actual N itself. Even a guy that is fairly beta has a good shot at being the “alpha” to a wife with N=1. Only a guy that is quite alpha has a passing chance (if at all) at being the “alpha” to a wife with N=100. One may wonder why an… Read more »
“I don’t buy evo-psych bullshit.”
It’s an observation of life. It isn’t the whole story. It can be if one chooses to remain within that context. The more accurate and adherence to that accuracy, the easier to move beyond.
You know, “building your house upon sand is a bad idea” stuff.
What’s above is qualified by what’s underneath.
EI, I was trying to figure out how to respond to you about your assertion that I regret not fucking some broads. No, I don’t have regrets over not fucking broads. I’d probably have gotten them pregnant because my fertility was very high when I was young. And that would have complicated my life in a not good way. I regret being a douchebag to my gf one time. She broke up with me over that and over me not fucking her. Maybe she thought I was gay, idk. But when I was at her house a few years later,… Read more »
“I don’t buy evo-psych bullshit.”
It’s an observation of life.
Very similar to what you get from viewing Rorschach ink blots. Projection of what you expect to see. No real testing is involved.
Asd, please define ” lit up “. You refer to this quite often, but I’m not sure what you’re talking about.
Is it because a woman smiles and is friendly, you see her as ” lit up ” and interpret this as sexual?
“And that would have complicated my life in a not good way.” There’s too much in one sentence retarded to pass up. 1) Children are not complications of life. Retards think this. Apply your standard to your granddaughter. 2) And you’ve been smashing it since, right? Look ASD, there are basic principles, universal principles of life. One is to be fecund. You’re daughter frustrated it to her present lament…but realize you frustrated it too long ago, and reinforced it in celebrating her professional achievement. Buffer-blame the son-in-law all you want, it was your misguided desire to see her excel in… Read more »
Asd, please define ” lit up “. You refer to this quite often, but I’m not sure what you’re talking about. Is it because a woman smiles and is friendly, you see her as ” lit up ” and interpret this as sexual? There are other cues as well…how warm is the smile…does she smile so big because she can’t believe that you’re actually paying attention to her…are her pupils dilated…are her eyebrows raised…does she seem a little shy or insecure when you’re around…are her cheeks a little flushed when you’re around…is her speech halting because she’s nervous being around… Read more »
So, EI, do you have kids by multiple babymommies?
ASD
Grammar then logic then rhetoric. In that order, skip no steps.
Apply that figurative formula to your Weltanschauung.
We can dance if we want to.
We can leave your friends behind.
Cause’ your friends don’t dance,
and if they don’t dance, well they’re
no friends of mine.
https://www.bing.com/search?q=safety%20dance%20youtube&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&ghc=2&pq=safety%20dance%20you&sc=8-16&sk=&cvid=B1AB6AA9A5244088BE5393E37C8F37FD
Men without pants, er, hats
I lurve ya Blaxie…what you got going works for you…pretty cool!!
different strokes…
don’t worry, I won’t be asking to hold hands with you in the shower, lol
@asd
I’ma click your site.
Hope it helps, Yollo. Calibration is an essential game skill, even/especially for game in the larger sense.
hey all, first thank you all for your commentary last week. Crazy busy at work so couldn’t follow up. Hope to do it soon about some of the points at least. I’m back with another question. Things go somewhat better in the sense that I still fuck up (impressive how ingrained some behaviors are), but way less often; fewer fights, less bitterness. So, after a nice evening we go to bed; I initiate without anticipation and she is all for it. That’s an improvement, but here comes the very shitty part: as I was about to come, she tries to… Read more »
RC
We used the pill,spermicide,condoms and IUD’s at various times. Sex is power? whatever that means sometimes she will do different things to get what she wants out of it. Sounds like more of a frame grab like see who needs who the most.
You are doing good and getting somewhere with it,first it’s no sex then sex with control the next step is frame grab after sex. See rolodex.
Time for dread game,up your DHV with some solid social proof from other woman in a casual way.
@Palma Sailor:
Quarter million views. Zero likes or dislikes. Comments disabled.
RC,Here is a link ,this guy explains it better than I ever will.
https://therationalmale.com/2015/11/03/christian-dread/
@wahoo, thanks i wasn’t aware of that post.
Regarding the frame grab, are you saying she’s doing this consciously?
RC
At this point you shouldn’t worry about her reactions. Just get into fucking her how you want to and observe changes in her behavior. Avoid discussing her reactions.
And it’s ok if she feels distance from you at times. It’s part of the package.
“I don’t believe now (as I used to) that it’s only about her worry for unplanned pregnancies. Long run, I think I see this is about her not seeing me masculine enough or worthy enough and that’ll require time and work that I’m putting into.” I think you’re over-thinking. You don’t know. I’d use occams razor. It certainly was rude of her. I’d make fun of her. She pushes you out of her vagina? Jack off and come on her without the condom, or in the condom and wave it at her and tell her that felt good. Agree with… Read more »
Rc
“Regarding the frame grab, are you saying she’s doing this consciously?”
Can’t say for sure but I think you now have her attention and she will run her experiments to try and return things to “normal”. Frame.
Also in that dread link are two more golden dread links.
“Regarding the frame grab, are you saying she’s doing this consciously?”
It doesn’t matter.
She wants her power back. Just stick with the script.
Handle the shit tests Like a Boss. Start watching “Like a Boss” videos on YouTube. They are elegant and they Flow.
I was walking out of the Trump Hotel today through the atrium in the Benjamin bar with my wife on the way to lunch at Old Ebbit Grill in D.C.
A couple feet away at a table was Andrew Tate with buddies. I wanted to shout out, but momentarily couldn’t remember his first name. Should have just shouted out: love you Tate. You do good work!
But lunch was beautiful.I walked away feeling good.
Question for the group, is a red pill woman a faithful housewife from the 50’s?
A red pill woman is a woman who solipsistically maximizes her hypergamous needs
A faithful woman from the 50’s is a woman whose hypergamous needs were met by being faithful in her marriage.