For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
J, maybe ask, “How many girls have you had to Next because they were too bitchy?” or “It’s easy to get laid, but the problem is avoiding getting dumped.”
j: I’ve nothing in experience so I make it up. Why not riff on the military? I don’t know anyone who’s served so probably no one here either.
@theasdgamer
Now you’re thinking 😉
I only just noticed j’s icon even tries too much. Sup playa.
Lol. Again, I have nothing at all against J. That’s my man ( no homo ) right there. plus, I am genetically incapable of playa hatin’ ( except in the case of actual pimps. I don’t consider them ” playas “. ) J had a problem and he took action to resolve it. Can’t knock that even a little bit. Props. The thing is, he’s insatiable for particular information, and adverse to internalization. Get rid of his internet access and he might wither away. The hope is that one day he will step away from Asswipe forum, or whatever it’s… Read more »
Why do so many people hammer @j? He’s following his own path, seems happy with what he’s got going on, and is a contributor to the forum of useful information.
While it may seem he lacks foresight, what guy in his 20’s has that in abundance? Sure, becoming really good at SNL’s / ONS’s does not prepare him well for LTR but seems to serve his purpose for the time being.
Yes, he trolls his detractors but I don’t get the hate.
Also, hello all, been a while!
The hope is that one day he will step away from Asswipe forum, or whatever it’s called, and go forth with internalized understanding and actual knowledge. There always comes a time when the student has to stand on his own and prosper, if he’s been well taught.
What does this look like in practical terms? What does prospering look like to you?
Aight final update on this chick (inb4 nobody gives a shit lol):
https://imgur.com/a/vbjVcya
Textbook example of my texting process, on how I meet girls post SNL (without having to “get a drink” with them out in public. Just lol @ 3 date rule), which I described here:
https://newlyaloof.wordpress.com/2018/10/22/js-game-snippets/
@Catchers
“but I don’t get the hate”.
Hey Catchers. When I speak.of ‘ prospering ‘ , what It looks.like to me is 1) not choosing to stand still in whatever one chooses to do/accomplish in lige, and 2) Seeing just what one can actually do with the short life he has. And 3) exercising your independence. Imo, this is how.men do some amazing shit. Complacency is okay…when your 60. Personally I don’t think pua is a.permanent way of life for 99% of men. So I do not ‘ hate ‘ on j, but I stress to him that the internet forum concerning pussy and pickup and all… Read more »
When I speak.of ‘ prospering ‘ , what It looks.like to me is 1) not choosing to stand still in whatever one chooses to do/accomplish in lige
Whatever you do, don’t sign any corporate emails with “Regards”…’g’ and ‘t’ are too close together…
So last night I decided to bust a move…I opened one girl with, “You wanna go to my truck?” She just sat there, a deer in the headlights…her gears turning…never said a word or turned away…lol…so much fun just messing with people…
A very lovely raven-haired girl (makeup! lol) I’ve danced with before asked me to dance…and she wanted to go to my truck…it was too late…married guy has to go home…I flaked while she was in the restroom…lol…
“Personally I don’t think pua is a.permanent way of life for 99% of men.” A pickup artist is one who uses specialized tactics to seduce women So you’re saying you personally feel that, going through life as a single man (Vs a married man), having non committal relations with women is not something you approve of for the vast majority of men? Even though you and other OMGs have gone through great lengths, repeatedly saying “I’m not telling you what you should do with your life. I just want you to think”. “Yareally said he was going to find a… Read more »
Need beg yareally to come back lol. I don’t think people value the advice that’s currently available in terms of cold approach pickup on hot young girls
ps – where is @scars and @culum. Them 2 (plus @J) seemed to be the only ones posting ‘actual’ FR’s but they’ve gone awol
You boys need to get out and develop your own FR’s. Waaay back 47 years ago I had 2 close friends,we would run the woods and fields on the edge of town with our bb guns. Some times tom’s dad would take us hunting rabbits with the 4.10 22 over under,sometimes phils dad would come out in his bathrobe and say,boys you know what’s for dinner? rubber tits and liquor,Ha Ha Ha,keep your powder dry Brrrpt theres some white gas for your mower. At school they had these huge swing sets, Mary and I were swinging side by side,it was… Read more »
Damn j, you can’t understand outside of pickup.😠
So now you want to tell me what ya said? I heard a whole months worth. We.went back and forth, a.dozen of us, with ya. I’ll tell you what I told him, I am not an.advocate for marriage. I.didn’t mention marriage. I.still say pua has a very, very high failure rate. I personally don’t care what random men decide to do with their lives. Yareally failed at his relationship attempt. Ergo he believed all men would fail, and it didn’t make.sense. That’s not rational, but fuck it, it you’re mentally soft then that’s who you are. I’m not a fan… Read more »
J has a hammer…works fine on screws…but I have a question for J (which applies to other single men, too).
How is J gonna avoid winning a Darwin Award?
46 years back the main competition for boys at our school was tether ball,if you could win at that you were a bad ass top dog. The girls would jump rope or hop scotch and the boys would play catch and hand ball but the crowds would gather to watch a tether ball match. It was like a fistfight with a medium,if you could bring it back from three or four wraps that was something to be proud of as the ball was really moving fast. The way to win was hit the ball so hard at an angle the… Read more »
@AR “it’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack looking for an actual FR here”. I think of this (rather than posting on Rollo’s OPs) is more a fun place to talk about chicks. Whether its seeking advice, sharing observations/anecdotes, concerns, or feedback. There are some guys here who would much rather give advice/argue, than share their own FRs. @echo “where is @scars” @scars messaged me on NextASF, that he was done posting FRs here, because he didn’t feel there was anything he could learn here about cold approach pickup. I believe he said his sticking with NextASF… Read more »
FR Last night was a good night out. The girl I dated a year ago was there with her best friend and likely still single at nearly 41. She was definitely aware of where I was and what I was doing but I didn’t pay her much attention and danced the whole night. I didn’t know she was there until her and her friend group stopped directly in my field of view 10 ft away as the crowd is waiting for the next band to start. I’m sure that wasn’t on purpose 😉 Fast forward to near the end of… Read more »
Like Friday’s girl, (not to brag) after banging here 6+ times
I’m in the thousands with Mrs. Gamer…two kids to show for it, lol…and a grandkid…you understand the point of sex, right?
I took ya’s side here (as did @scribbs), because this lifestyle was more appealing to me, rather than being “forced” to follow his path.
…scribbs already has kids…
Sedfast forum has done this since it started. Mods wanna keep modding. Little fish seeking smaller ponds. Ghey
Catchers
Think about why you didn’t act…
That why is going to keep coming up in lot’s of different ways.
J Anne my lifestyle is more appealing to me ( but I have Game and a measure of masculinity ( I think )) . Personally I think certain things as a man, but as I’ve stated 10,000 times men have to ultimately live their own lives as they see fit, and live with those consequences if they can’t make their choices rewarding over the longer haul. I only pushback against the ” no man can ” stuff. You already know why I don’t see how tactics as a long term strategy, and it has absolutely nothing at all to do… Read more »
“you understand the point of sex, right?” There was a comment on Heartiste’s (maybe someone can find it) a long time ago about how there was zero correlation between how many kids one have and how alpha you are. Like how there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate. And something about how a Tiger (or some other alpha animal) doesn’t know that banging that female tiger will result in kids, all he knows is that, he wants to fuck the shit… Read more »
” . . . there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate.”
Do we have the DNA tests?
@blax https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-71319-post-1887700.html#pid1887700 @catchers “What I should have done was hold her hand on the way up to eat, sit closer to her while eating” nah. next time just get the food to-go, then pull her back to your place to “see your dog” in this instance. See some girls after eating, feel bloated/not sexy anymore. and kind of lose that urge to fuck. As for the friend, you should have built basic comfort with her friend in the bar, and while on the line. I mean she doesn’t want to cockblock you. She’s just there because she doesn’t want her… Read more »
There was a comment on Heartiste’s (maybe someone can find it) a long time ago about how there was zero correlation between how many kids one have and how alpha you are. …so obviously, inflating your ego is more important than winning the reproduction lottery… Like how there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate. …Ok, so you maybe understand the point of sex…assuming you’re not just using your n-count to boost your ego…but is your game good enough to be able… Read more »
“…so obviously, inflating your ego is more important than winning the reproduction lottery…” Nah. Not working more hours than I have to (just enough to support myself), being able to go where I want when I want to (no, “but J what about da kids!!!” – from da wife), no having to exercise self-constraint against my natural desires whenever I see a chick hotter than my wife (https://imgur.com/a/QV6ATma). And if I do want to sleep with another girl behind my wife’s back, I can do so freely out in public VS having to sneak around so I don’t risk getting… Read more »
FR, with some lessons learned Went to a new country bar Sat. night. Didn’t know what to expect, so I didn’t have a lot of comfort going in. I was a little apprehensive. When I got there, I found that I knew a few people, but not many. They were older. I danced with maybe ten different girls. About half were 50+. Several hotties turned me down. One mid-20s girl kept dancing near me during a line dance. Married and wanted to dance with me and learn the line dances by watching me from a close vantage point. She had… Read more »
yeah..because you’re totally successfully doing that Well, I could say that I’m successful and be lying. Or I could say that I’m not banging other broads and be lying because social media and frivorce rape. I ran into logistical issues Fri. night–girl wanted to check in with her friend before heading to my truck. I waited five minutes while she was in the restroom, then headed home. I don’t want to be out late to keep drama low. Nothing might have happened even if she went in my truck. She made a point of telling me that she was single.… Read more »
“Like how there are Chads with 50+ n counts banging hotties but zero kids to show for, VS beta bucks with a lifetime 2-n count, but did procreate.”
These are my choices? Well hell!
j, assclown guru to the PUA community.
“I waited five minutes while she was in the restroom, then headed home”. because that way, you can still tell yourself, IF only I would have waited a bit longer (you could have, Idk, talked to someone else in the bar, like the bartender while you waited for her….nobody said you gotta stand there waiting outside the restroom for her like a chode “what’s taking her so long? fuck this” lol) she would have wanted to bang. BUT GEE DON’T KNOW MAN. I HAD TO GO CAUSE I DON’T WANT TO BE OUT TOO LATE (something I never have to… Read more »
“something I never have to worry about”
As j, interminably staring at the ceiling of his childhood bedroom, obviates it.
How do we know that Chad has no kids, and how do we know that Beta Bucks has any? Just because Chad doesn’t claim any and BB does?
@kfg
“How do we know that Chad has no kids”
Well if he does, he’s not raising it or paying child support.
“how do we know that Beta Bucks has any?”
Well if it’s not his, he’s still raising Chad’s kid and working overtime now to support it.
girl: yeah but like now he wants me to go to his truck. like wtf? friend: huh? like why? girl: I don’t know. but like I don’t want to be mean to him cause he’s a nice guy. what should I do? Probably more like this: girl: This guy wants me to go to his truck? Should I go? friend: I dunno. Do you even like the guy? girl: Yeah, but I don’t know him very well. He’s kind of sexy. friend: Would you go home with him? girl: I don’t know. friend: Is he safe? [Hint: Maybe he’s a… Read more »
“Do you really want someone else to be raising your kid?” 1. I don’t recall the question being about me. 2. I do recall claiming to not be an Alpha, although that may be disputed depending on how you define it. If what you really mean is “is that a good idea?” biologically speaking the answer is yes. We would not be here and human if it didn’t work that way. I could spend hours, per page, bitching about the problems with Briffault’s book, but my problems would mostly revolve around precision, not accuracy. Virtually all of your ancestors were… Read more »
Tigers aren’t doing whatever they want to do. They are following the biological dictates of “Tiger Society”… No tiger has dropped out, hitched to SFO and now spends it’s days doing street theater.
As to why… ???
Hit it kfg…
Virtually all of your ancestors were not raised by their fathers (or even knew who they were).
highly speculative
“They don’t even have a genetic investment in the kid.”
Insert face palm here. No wonder you didn’t understand the point about the tiger.
Humans are sooo like tigers, living solitary lives and all.
“highly speculative” The state exists into the historical period. Aristocracies married first cousins, and even siblings, to deal with it. It was the only way The People could accept their hereditary legitimacy. The People were never certain of their paternity. While they did marry, they did not do so to form nuclear families and a person, man or woman, might “marry” a dozen times in a dozen years. This formed maternal lineage extended families. Which has allowed certain people to falsely cast this family structure as Matriarchal, ignoring the fact that the women still existed under the authority of men.… Read more »
“highly speculative” The state exists into the historical period. Aristocracies married first cousins, and even siblings, to deal with it. It was the only way The People could accept their hereditary legitimacy. The People were never certain of their paternity. See, as a boy, I had this plaque on my wall signifying that I was a junior member of the Society of the Mayflower. Maybe there was no marriage in the British Isles in the long distant past, but this is hardly relevant today or for recent recorded history…certainly, going back to the origin of Christian societies…fourth century Rome…for the… Read more »
Let me mark this hallowed occasion on my calendar:
Today asd actually said that a thing that happened in the past doesn’t have relevance today.
How can this be?
Men still run shit, right up until right now. During western slavery, even in the U.S., Make slaves had zero say, legal or otherwise, concerning their ‘ mate ‘ ( as marriages weren’t state sanctioned, nor did society recognize such pairings ) or their children. Segments of ‘ historians ‘ have misidentified slave culture as matriarchal, and in fact the only control was solely exercised by the state and the master who was granted rights via codified laws. Man still in charge. ‘ husband ‘ can go kick rocks. Don’t have to go back to mayflower for examples. Fast forward… Read more »
” . . . this is hardly relevant today . . .”
Because biology is obsolete.
Do you even remember your premise?
“Women gonna woman, but it still doesn’t matter as all ‘ power ‘ still granted and enforced strictly by men.”
The harder the anthropologists look for a matriarchy, the harder they fail to find one.
” . . . this is hardly relevant today . . .”
Because biology is obsolete.
Do you even remember your premise?
yes, but as regards marriage and the rearing of children, this was culture, not biology…reproduction is biology…laws about marriage are cultural
“Anonymous Reader”
November 18, 2018 at 2:50 am
Imitation is a form of flattery. But not a very good form. Pick another handle.
“a long time ago about how there was zero correlation between how many kids one have and how alpha you are.”
j: Some website has spoken so we must never revisit this. I need all the validation I can get so I’ll make it up if needed.
Oh. Well, then it’s settled.
“Nigga straight up don’t give a fuck.”
Said only by the lilliest of white suburban teenagers.
Good morning.
@j
thanks for the tips – did you read the situation the same way I did?
@sentient
I’m guessing it has to do with MPoO and to focus on what I want with confidence as opposed to wondering if it’s what she wants or not.
Alpha is too hard a concept for men, particularly young men, to understand. Alpha can be ” not giving a fuck “, or not. Alpha can be remaining single and banging chicks forever, or choosing not to bang chicks at all, or marrying with no plans for kids, or having kids…. see where I’m going? The tendency to constantly point to and only see things in the extreme is incorrect and false. Alphas are in the prison system, homeless shelters, corporate boardrooms, the corner store – mimdset, not demographic. As someone is very fond of saying, ” get this “.… Read more »
Look at it like this: fact- most sex is being had by non alphas in the woman’s frame. Sex does not denote alpha at all. Women are attracted to alpha, but the majority of them cannot define it. Sometimes they get fooled by false advertising because emotion/woman.
This is What partly drives the ” women cheat, divorce and take your shit/kids ” fear originates. Sex cannot bestow alpha on any man, you’re still whatever you were before, while getting sex. Women cannot define you – or shouldn’t.
Catchers
On reading the situation – that’s why you have to make a move. Ya don’t know till ya know playa!
Seriously…
Once you start making a move then you find out “the rest of the story”… Keep watch on the IOI/IOD loop and compliance. Kino as a diagnostic… And be prepared for some recalibration when you just a move.
MPoO? Possibly. Self focus? Always good.
But Keep thinking about it. Could be self worth.
Blax
If only there was a better definition of what “is” Alpha?
@catchers ok re-reading: “The friend says she’s hungry” “near the end of the night” I skipped these two details when I responded to you. See I had a similar situation to yours a while back, with getting food to eat after getting these two girls out of the club with a wing. They were saying they were hungry and we looked around for a place that was open, then settled for a 24/7 dinner. and then as they ate, we saw the attraction go down. and they weren’t about it anymore. But we had met then in the middle of… Read more »
Alpha, FI and such are observations of intersexual dynamic. They are not the dynamic. Any human conceptualization of natural law is always incomplete. Science is not nature. This is why PUA fails most if not all of its adherents as it reduces human nature into an algorithm. People aren’t mathematics. Reading half a story twice isn’t the whole story so when j offers yet another slick iteration of someone’s experience it’s always served with more sizzle than steak as to step outside his comfort zone is too threatening. People are often doubting Thomases and can believe only what they can… Read more »
@blax The question wasn’t about sex, it was about the point of sex i.e. kids. And like I said, number of offspring does not denote how alpha one is. Similar to how in professional sports, how many championship rings one has does not denote how great a basketball player [how Alpha in our case] you are (Robert Horry has 7 championship rings, while Charles Barkley has 0, by that logic, Horry was a far superior basketball player than Barkley. Well then why is Barkley in the Basketball Hall of Fame and Horry isn’t?) I didn’t say the tiger IS Alpha.… Read more »
j: “Expendability is a DHV.”
j: Here, hold my beer and let me show you Alpha.
j should practice what he preaches.
J Not only did I.see the movie, but I actually know Alvin Spearman irl ( he’s not white…lol ). And his.wife and daughter. Idc how much the web tries to insist that alpha is always about how much of a fuck one gives, or how violent they are. Idiots too do dumb and risky shit. People with certain mental issues don’t ever give a fuck either. Extreme. Redefining incorrectly. So you really believe that ” not thinking ” about consequences is alpha? Every alpha just never cares about consequences or anything? Every one? Every alpha is subject to ending up… Read more »
Re shit in face scene.
I understand the dynamic behind it. It ain’t alpha.
It’s foreign to you, so in searching to define by extremes ( or heartiste), it appears to solely be about alpha not giving a fuck.
That’s not what it is.
“not thinking ” about consequences is alpha”
LOL.
It’s j’s slipshod approach to life.
He doesn’t care about consequence as he’s done nothing of consequence. All trash talk, no chops. j has zero idea what he Blax is taking about. If he did he’d be back to square one incel without posing as da bomb. Oh no, what would j do then??
j makes all this shit up.
Lights on, no one’s home.
Blax, you are truly a man of good faith. If anything j should drop the canard of Alpha and all else and start there.
“Risk taker” by itself is not an attraction switch.
“Successful risk taker” is…
@blax “that bengal tiger will not think. He won’t discern between fucks given. He will react in instinct.” Yeah that’s what I’m getting at. Not thinking. Pure instincts. and as you say, “people develop a form of instinct based on prior experience”. Like when people ask you, WHY did you do that, and HOW did you know that was the right action to take at the time, you shrug, I don’t know. I just felt it was the right thing to do at the time. This is the goal of PUA with women. To operate at the same level of… Read more »
@Sentient
“Successful risk taker” is…”
Right.
I was gonna link to this comment I just saw on CH’s post:
“Women’s ginas btw don’t just want “break all laws and rules” for sons (and thus fathers), they want sons who can do that successfully, without getting caught, that is sneaky seductors who can maximize their pumping-and-dumping by breaking all laws and rules and GETTING AWAY WITH IT.
That’s why most women’s ginas tingle for smooth uncaring-jerks; even if a minority of women’s ginas tingle even for thuggish uncaring-jerks”
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2017/06/14/defining-zero-fucks-given/#comment-887814
Lol. AI.
Women being attracted to murderers is instructive about some of them. It doesn’t correlate to men as a whole. Again, it’s not about them.
Ok – if you are weary of Tiger Talk, limited understanding and defensive ego protection…
Try this…
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v3AKt3ntgdU
WIA and some bois kicking it. Old Skool stuff for expanding minds.
Let those with ears hear… and the rest can go fuck themselves… lol
Behold bloodthirsty murderous Alpha!
https://me.me/i/748350
Try this again…
https://www.theonion.com/kitten-thinks-of-nothing-but-murder-all-day-1819588260?utm_medium=sharefromsite&utm_source=theonion_copy&utm_campaign=top
Protect your egos lolol
@Rollo: new comments plug-in is great, it is possible to go to the last page of comments easily. Thanks!
Not sure how much I like the “read more” thing, but it may be better than it was for scrolling past some long comments I don’t want to read, even if I have to occasionally click to “open” one that I do want to read.
In any case, going to last page easily is top 🙂
Let’s see….
Sold!!!
Field Report tl;dr 1) not sure about the message from one girl, 2) pretty sure about the message from another, 3) branch-swinging girl 1) a girl friend I know was at my fav. bar & wanted a hug and said that she was there with her bf, but didn’t introduce him, so I introduced myself to him; she wouldn’t dance with me, but she danced with a younger guy…she has swatted my butt in the past several different nights and I butt-bumped her on the dance floor and she pushed back…I asked her where she met the guy and she… Read more »
@Palma Good fun man. Good to be out with you again, even if only virtually. On this: I thought I’d let it run so I walked to a different area in the club. I really thought he’d out done me and so I headed to the karaoke room You do realize it’s the same here: So he looks away from me and just walks out. That’s it – he just fucks off! Guys relying on what always works/-ed for them and expecting shit to just flow. When it doesn’t click immediately, they assume “that’s it” (or justify that “bitches in… Read more »
latest Bacchus Field Report from nextasf: ”Thursday night. I’m walking in the rain. Heading towards a semi-popular college bar. Frankly, I’ve had a rough time lately. Found myself in an intensely, emotionally-charged situation with a girl. Unfortunately not the pleasurable, or sensual combination of emotions that I find enjoyable. It had left me feeling angry, emotionally trapped, and on the brink of becoming domesticated. I’d even lost control of my own emotions a handful of times. My solution was to cut the girl out of my life. Not a particularly easy decision to make, and it seemed I’d been spending… Read more »
In research it is difficult to get negative results published: “We hypothesized A, B and C but it turned out to be all wrong, don’t try this at home!” isn’t a career builder. Here is Neil deGrasse Tyson essentially providing a negative field report. “How Not To Get Anywhere With Women” and worse. Men who want to get #MeTooed, this is how to do it…reading this text is like standing on a street corner, watching a bad driver heading into a clogged intersection against the light, it’s just a slow-motion wreck. https://www.facebook.com/notes/neil-degrasse-tyson/on-being-accused/10156870826326613/ Don’t try this at home. Or anywhere else.… Read more »
Ok, I’m an OMG, and I haven’t been to the club scene in a very long time. This weekend I went to a company party where a few of the girls I work with convinced me to go to a club at about midnight afterwards. Within 5 minutes of being there, I had a couple of large ladies start hitting on me, one of which, probably a HB3 in her 40’s started grinding against me, grabbed my hands and putting them on her boobs, asking me “Where have you been all my life?” I was thoroughly grossed out, and made… Read more »
Sigma
Serious question. Is this normal behavior for women in clubs now?
No different from 1985… 😉
@Sigma: part of it was very likely that you arrived in the scene with a bunch of girls, i.e. you had pre-selection, which is the most significant Demonstration of Higher Value.
Serious question. Is this normal behavior for women in clubs now? Girls are still flirty. Spanking, grabbing ass, incidentally rubbing their tits against you, incidentally palming your crotch, incidentally palming your ass, nipping your ear while chatting with you. One of them put my hands on her tits on the dance floor. Others have wanted me to grind on them. A couple have jumped up and hugged me as they wrapped their legs around me. Girls are just flirty. It’s all fun. They don’t even have to be drunk. I can’t say that any large/ugly women have ever done this… Read more »
“Serious question. Is this normal behavior for women in clubs now?” @Sigma Step back and look at yourself, the entire scene, from a third person perspective. Were you obviously single and not seriously accompanied? If so, that lowers her inhibiton. Were you dancing with anyone in particular? If so, that raises her inhibition. Was anyone, not the fugly, dancing with YOU in particular, really into you? If so, that raises her inhibiton. Was that woman or women dancing with you pretty? If so, that raises her inhibiton Did you give the fugly the time of day (btw, that’s all the… Read more »
earnest…..not erstwhile
Well I did have a couple of HB7 and 8’s playfully grabbing my arm, brushing against me, and leaning on me at the party. One HB6 started putting her hands under my coat saying she was “looking for my name tag.” This was all good and fun, flirty and all. But I was shocked by how aggressively the one HB3 pulled me to her and had my hand in a death grip with my palm pressed against her tits. It was kind of a new experience for me. I have never had a girl invoke such feelings of revulsion in… Read more »
“determined to prove that I belonged to her.”
Comfort test, guard dog spin up? Did your wife mention sex?
Good FR, btw.
@EhIntellect
LOL. No, that was a euphemism for “she fucked my brains out, while screaming ‘you belong to me!'”
Nice!
Good stuff, Sigma!
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some random encounters… Haven’t been out of my city much, some game bleeding out in the backyard. Went into the market, passed an 8 in an aisle in an animated phone convo. Thought about interrupting her, but passed. Got on line, she is in front of me, still on the phone. She has a couple of things. day later I’m at a bar. Some 55YO is nearly begging me to do something to her. I’m really just mocking her sad life but it’s winding her up. she squeezes me when I’m talking to another guy, back to her, and when… Read more »
Went to my new bar Sat. night. I walked in and saw a late 40s woman seated whom I haven’t seen in over a year and I walk up to her and stand next to her, fairly close and say ‘hi’…the girl looks up and immediately asks me to dance, then recognizes me…we dance and she comments about how she has to remember how to dance with me…a couple of hours later, she is leaving with a scraggly old dude…I see them and wave ‘bye’ as they walk and do likewise…the girl stares at me quite a while as she… Read more »
She says “Look we are going to have a nice time and get along and all but then you’re going home to your wife…. I’m not doing that”…
…that’s good because I have friends but avoid home-wreckers…implying that she’d be a home wrecker if she doesn’t take the out of being friendly…agree & amplify…
@Sentient: interesting bits indeed. @Everyone: I have some mini-FRs. Work trip, about one week. Go to do a hobby that I’ve been doing (Palma knows) two times. The group in my city has a girl which is from the city I’m visiting in this work trip. I do get asked if I know her, I do, some social proof. I DHV a bit (foreigner in a work trip also helps raise the interest it seems). I need to get more used to say I’m a potato farmer or “Guess” instead of just giving the answer right away. Dog logic. Anyway… Read more »
IAS
How would Mystery engage a two set?
Part 2: Another session (the one that ends with dinner). There are more girls around. One of the guys from last session was already there when I arrive. Then 2 girls and a guy arrive and engage and play with them trying to say something not so easy to pronounce in their language. Laughing all around. My 2 targets from last session arrive. In fact this time we need to change venue, I rapport break a bit and go with the guy from last session instead of with the 2 girls (I’m rejoining them anyway). The girl that comes on… Read more »
@Sentient: he would befriend the non-target, but I had that done. I think they are/were both into me. In fact in the first session, as she had arrived before, secondary target was the first I engaged. Main target arrived when I was already playing with the secondary target.
IAS
See “jealousy plotline”…
Palma
bitters… there are many types. Just a few shakes in a glass of tonic and ice, garnish with citrus of your fancy (orange is good). Almost 0% alcohol diluted like this. But looks like a drink and the barman makes it up like a drink…
Palma I guess you need FB to access that link. IAS MM “PAWNING With women of particular quality, it’s often necessary to demonstrate preselection when gaming them. Before you open a set with a 10, for instance, you may first open an adjacent set with a 7 or 8, attract her, and put her on your arm. She is now your good-natured pawn. With this demonstration of preselection firmly in place, open the set with the 10. It should open easily due to your high perceived value. Your approach is also much less threatening with another woman on your arm.… Read more »