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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

https://wwd.com/fashion-news/fashion-features/celebrating-henry-kissinger-6967416/ “SAN CLEMENTE, CALIF. — Henry Kissinger, sex symbol of the Nixon Administration, steps out of his office onto a sun-drenched San Clemente terrace with a cup of black coffee and sits in a white deck chair with his legs crossed. The man who has pressured Moscow, drafted State of the World addresses, advised the President to enter Cambodia and paved the road to Red China appears as something of an anachronism in his baggy, midnight blue cotton trousers, black-tie shoes, bright blue unfitted blazer, blue and white striped shirt and striped tie. “What are you trying to do? Seduce… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

@Sentient Yeah not reading any of that shit ..cause you thsts irrelevant to my point. So i’ll repeat myself cause apparently your slow. if Kissinger didnt have high status his fat Jew ass would only manage to fuck ugly fat cows even with all his “game” @blax Fames not real huh? Well sorry to break it to you, but it doesnt matter what you think is real ..its what THEY (your object of manipulation) thinks. It doesnt matter if you think you’re a sex god …if she thinks you suck in bed she’ll look elsewhere for someone who will satisfy… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

So you off the whole Kissinger sex tape thing J?

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Palma

Yeah. Learned Autism. It’s a thing apparently.

In group gonna in group…

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

That’s funny j. I’ve posted here years ago about being in a venue with Mike Tyson. Also was sitting at a wedding reception table with Michael Spinks, Butch Lewis ( massive, massive pussy slayer at the time too ) and Joe Frazier. In the 80’s and 90’s I knew friend s and guys in famous bands that sold millions of records ( still…fuck Lenny kravitz ). In 1980 I was 19 years old. I do well around ” fame”, mainly because a) I don’t think it says anything about me, and b) I’m not a chick. Intimidation is not a… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

What most young girls believe is instructive and malleable as fuck.

Never set in stone.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

What most young girls believe is instructive and malleable as fuck.

Never set in stone.

“What most young boys and girls believe is instructive and malleable as fuck.

Never set in stone.”

…gone to communism every one….

…the hand that rocks the cradle…

…separation of school and state!…

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Palma

Correct almost all of the time ( few exceptions). Herd mentality and just wanting acceptance works to men’s advantage if one can identity what’s happening in front of them.

Orbiters exist for a reason.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Yeah not reading any of that shit ..cause you thsts irrelevant to my point.

…lalalalala I can’t heeeeear youuuu…

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Truth.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

I do well around ” fame”, mainly because a) I don’t think it says anything about me, and b) I’m not a chick. Intimidation is not a good look, nor is misunderstanding what is going on with famous guys vs regular guys. That ” world ” has nothing to do with you, but there are lessons there to learn if you aren’t star struck like a little girl.😁 +1 E.g., a woman (hot PR 30-something made up and dressed for Big Game ™) once mentioned to me that a baseball celebrity was in the bar…me: “meh, I don’t follow baseball”…she… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Palma

The scenario you mentioned is a part of vetting for a man. Chicks like that need to be weeded out of contention for marriage.

If my wife disagrees with me when we are with company, she never actively voices it at the time. If she feels some kind of way about an issue, it’s brought up later in private. Rare, but it’s happened.

j
j
5 years ago

The point that me, echo, and Phil are making, which none of you emotionally driven fossils are addressing (me old. So me wise and never wrong) is that if you take away the high status of those ugly guys, Kissinger, RSD Tyler, Sean Penn (today), Price Harry (not would. He did struggle) would not score the hot tail they did. So like stop using them as examples you fucking morons (well kissenger’s fat and he still got laid like crazy? Looks don’t matter!) “What most young girls believe is instructive and malleable as fuck” …..Still not gonna fuck that Kissenger… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Lol, here we go again with the ” alignment ” bullshit argument.😁 Either you believe in ( and understand) ” game “, or you do not. Once more: ” pick-up ” is not game. The year is inconsequential. Only young inexperienced cats think that way ( hence the ‘ fossil ‘ pushback…lol). Concentration on fame, looks and wealth in relation to yourself and your mindset and ability shouts very loudly about a) not really getting what females are about in total, and b) having no understanding about game. Acquiescence. He’s better. Prince Harry😁😁😁 It ain’t about ‘ them’, it’s about… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
5 years ago

@Sentient The irony here is I’m telling you this as an above average looking guy (who beat Yareally soundly in the “looks don’t matter” debate – flat heads notwithstanding HABD lol) with twice your life experience… smh lol… kinda frustrating, no?…lol… glad you came around though…lol… and thank Odin flat heads are NOT in style in [the current year]…lol… or i’d have to endure reading buffers like “yo, that dude’s a ’round-cel’ for sure!!!…THAT’s why he can’t get laid!!!”… lol… https://www.instagram.com/p/BpIsIPTAgRi/?hl=en&taken-by=steven_lyon i wonder how many guys are never going to be able to look past his ‘muscles’ to see his… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

J

Again… how did they attain “status”…???? it isn’t random (or sex tapes lol)…

I can tell Phil, echo, scars, go out because what they are reporting aligns with what I see with my own eyes….

Complete BS… You don’t go out enough and you aren’t going to places with high value older guys, so you don’t ever see it…

There is a world beyond FIT, Hunter and Baruch girls…

So you lack perspective, in time, in place, in experience, in demographics…

Junior ain’t just a cheesecake… 😉

kfg
kfg
5 years ago

“I still want to go out with scars..”

If you don’t you weren’t trying.

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Palma Not bigging it here, but I noticed a few years ago at a dinner party a contentious issue came up, in conversation and the wife of a Beta herb aligned with me to his absolute astonishment. Yeah happens a lot. You know they are two steps away from touching your cock too… sad the guys still won’t clue in though. They can’t be helped. For the lurkers the point I think Sentient is trying to make is that Kissinger built Kissinger. No one else built him and for him looks and age don’t matter. He gets laid like tile.… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

HABD

glad you came around though…lol…

lol, let’s not be hasty… the square head thing is a status signal. And looks (biological) do generate IOIs which aren’t “free”… so there.

j
j
5 years ago

So what your saying is, if guys were born without good genetics (low metabolism, asymmetrical face, short height, losing hair young, or born Asian/Indian) they should instead build their social status up and get a high status job and cool friends and THEN go talk to girls….rather than going around approaching and getting brutally rejected instantaneously by HB10s left and right because some pickup guru lied them and said looks don’t matter?

Good advice!

having a bad day
having a bad day
5 years ago

@palmasailor @habd I’ve always thought you’re a fraud. A clever one, but a fraud nonetheless. ya, i know… but here’s the thing… instead of just trying to disparage me (which is generally a main indication of defending an ideological value), why don’t you tell me why/how i’m wrong?… bc if i AM wrong, i want to know about it… the FI is cunning and pervasive… and i’m just as susceptible to its effects as anybody… and bc if i AM wrong, don’t you think you should be able to set me straight?… and if not for my benefit, then for… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

But back to J and the retard squad “proving” that old fat guys don’t get laid by young girls… with their bald assertions.

In the age-old debate, they fantasize that their points have weight.

Yup. Like I say, peel away at the exceptional and you’ll learn something.

Fuck all that hard shit…I just want to steal a few tricks so I can get laid with hotties…lessee, gotta go to the beauty parlor and the manicurist and go shopping for some fitted tees….and some “cologne”

theasdgamer
5 years ago

I’ve got sarcasm on #hardmode.

mersonia
5 years ago

I always wondered…….. serious question here………..

why are you here?

j
j
5 years ago

@Sentient “There is a world beyond FIT, Hunter and Baruch girls…” Nah. More like NYU and FIT girls 😉 @HABD I’ve recently switched sides to the looks do matter. You see I was always an above average looking guy. The reason I didn’t get anywhere with chicks was because I was clueless about women ..and didn’t really know you could get better with girls. Enter PUA. After 3 years of action from what I learned. I thought all my success was due to game. But then I became aware that girls had agendas too. I learned that I was actually… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@mersonia

practicing my humor (do you ever laugh at my jokes? serious question) and sometimes I learn things…how about you?

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

@mersonia

I’ve wondered the same. Why are you here?

BTW, I’m here for Red Pill discussion.

kfg
kfg
5 years ago

“Enter PUA. After 3 years . . . I became aware that girls had agendas too.”

Cue Blaximus.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

The fact that the forced open will only work for guys like me or @Sentient but not for an ugly fat fuck like @theasdgamer. wth is a “forced open”? And how does Preselection fit into it? Idk, pretty girls open me all the time….get handsy during the open…brush their tits against me when there’s plenty of room to pass…I don’t mention it because it happens so often that it’s not remarkable…so I really don’t get your point…and I’m not ugly and have a “dad bod”…not obese…I’m old and I’m bald…I move like I’m around 40 and I show plenty of… Read more »

EhIntellect
EhIntellect
5 years ago

Palma: “You need to redline your internal assholeometer.” HABD: “THIS^^^ is straight up FI/BP/social conditioning” Good enough time as any for an FR. I’m good at being a dick. It’s not a complement but it was my only m.o. for a long, long time as I buffered a lot of my insecurities, fear, by IDGAF behavior. If I feared it, I’d ignore it and do it anyways, to hell with the consequences. Well, well, well, did I get a response to it; sometimes good (I’ve shed my beta-hood, my kids and marriage are in a really, really good place…which is… Read more »

mersonia
5 years ago

Nah…..

,gamer

“I’ve wondered the same. Why are you here?”

Someone who actually knows what they’re talking about(me) needs to be around so this doesn’t turn into a bigger circle jerk……..

HABD is doing a great job though so I’ll prob just leave it to him.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

“….even when you do everything right gamewise, still get obliterated. ”

wtf???

Lies!!! Lies I tell ya!!!!

Lmao.

j
j
5 years ago

@scars is a good dude. I’ve chatted with him privately. He just struggles with opening due to his sub par looks. Once he gets pass the opening tho, he’s just as good as the best of them. I recommend meeting up with palma, so he can see how talented @scars actually is .

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

“Someone who actually knows what they’re talking about(me) needs to be around so this doesn’t turn into a bigger circle jerk……..”

….says the lazy fuck who hasn’t ever made a comment worth any red pill insight…..

If you had any balls, you’d exit a so-called circle jerk first thing…..

Feel free to define why you think the commentariat is a circle jerk before you GTFO.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

j I’m trying to avoid the ” looks ” thing because it gets out of hand sometimes, especially when guys start pointing to what somebody said in a forum * grins *. Game can trump looks. Master Game will practically always trump looks. There are levels of competency. These levels are strengthened over time. most guys are clueless about Game, so no matter what they say of do, their results are not due to doing everything right ” gamewise “. PUA isn’t foolproof, as many fools will attest to – lol. Again, your wing should concentrate on getting his skills… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

EH

““What’s your go-to song?” At that point he relaxes a bit and talks about himself and apologizes for busting on me. “

This is how you AMOG…. You know you’ve done it properly when the guy shows his belly.

Nice!

A weak frame goes to a frame battle… a strong frame doesn’t see a frame battle.

an “aesthetic” frame…. lol doesn’t exist…

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

I like Mersonia.

Why do you think he should gtfo sjf?

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Meanwhile

Handsome, rich, famous – and gameless – James Franco suffers…

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/james-franco-schoolgirl-star-opens-3484759

How about that…

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

may have lost an interim post

Consider this – https://www.drphil.com/videos/man-fakes-being-celebrity-to-prove-societys-obsession-with-fame/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYU1a0lTTTw

Perception is reality… until reality catches up… (Franco)

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

@ SJF

Mersonia didn’t used to say much. I think he strategically participates now, and that’s good.

Just like j has his ways of understanding ( based on other people’s understanding…lol ), I enjoy his participation and even when I don’t want to, he says shit that makes me think in order to reply.

It’s a plus for older guys to chop it up with the younger cats.

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

“Why do you think he should gtfo sjf?” Cause I think he’s the dick in the room. Wouldn’t be picked for the Walking Dead group. What the hell good is he for moving forward? Because he doesn’t contribute to the cause. Never once discussed Red Pill. All he ever does is whine like a bitch. Like I tried to say earlier and my comment may not have gone through, I’m having a problem when discussing shit with guys that are negative about life, liberty and the pursuit of fucking girls. I get the sense he’s pissed there isn’t more PUA… Read more »

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

“It’s a plus for older guys to chop it up with the younger cats.” Yeah, but your definition is chop it up is different than mine. The biggest thing that I see in younger cats is that they can’t see the value in the reference experiences that older uncles might have had in their five decades. (More to life than scoring pussy, more to red pill than that. Red Pill goes deeper.) And don’t understand that “successful” older guys can be looked to for answers. (Dismissed out of hand, good luck with that. Would you dismiss anything your grandfather said… Read more »

EhIntellect
EhIntellect
5 years ago

Mersonia is poorly fed. That’s his issue. Don’t blame him. My paroxysmal bachelor life requires a lot of thought. Mersonia does this full time.

To wit: I went food shopping today. After 5″ all I had was 2 six-packs, wine and a bag of pistachios. My mind was elsewhere until I recalled my boy’s wisdom: “Dad, booze ain’t food”.

That kid is smart.

having a bad day
having a bad day
5 years ago

@j @HABD I’ve recently switched sides to the looks do matter. You see I was always an above average looking guy. The reason I didn’t get anywhere with chicks was because I was clueless about women ..and didn’t really know you could get better with girls. Enter PUA. After 3 years of action from what I learned. I thought all my success was due to game. it was…lol… but more importantly, it was your MPoO… we covered this in that big looks discussion a couple years ago… the overall idea is that to the extent that you think that ‘looks… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

James Franco: Do you have a bf?

She: Not when you’re around. [hehe, got her to destroy her own bf; probably was Franco’s intent]

The “gentleman” schtick is to fend off criticism. He’s cocky and arrogant and fun. Gameless? lol

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Would you dismiss anything your grandfather said out of hand Blax?

…and uncles…but Blax had relationships with relatives he saw and sparred with and there was nonverbal communication…we have none of that with mersonia…so, apples and oranges…

…I agree that mersonia is a dick, but so are you, lol, and it’s O.K.!

Back on Franco, his game is pretending to be Beta, but he’s very engaging and somewhat aggressive. His personality comes out on screen. Kind of like Nicholson, who is known to actresses as “The Pole”.

IAS
IAS
5 years ago

@HABD: thanks, you talk my kind of language (and your analysis makes perfect sense). The sister is also not living here, from what I learnt yesterday, not sure about the friend. In any case it is moot other than a learning experience (and that I had some fun). She accepted my FB request, and I opened strong with: “Hi, did you also get sucked off yesterday?” she replied relatively fast “What do u mean?” “mosquitoes” (her bites I saw yesterday while doing the activity, mine swelled super nasty actually) she goes “I got a lot lol” I riff back on… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

@Sentient “Handsome, rich, famous – and gameless – James Franco suffers…” Publicity stunt for his upcoming movie at the time, Palo Alto: https://hollywoodlife.com/2014/04/03/james-franco-instagram-hoax-young-fan-lucy-clode-movie-palo-alto-trailer/ He pulled of the same shit for his movie, The Interview, the following year with the “Sony Hack” publicity stunt. I mean just take a glance at Franco’s girlfriend history….not as impressive as DiCaprio or Jeter’s list but still. Currently dating the beautiful Isabel Pakzad, as a 40 year old dude….I think the dude has game. @blax “Master Game will practically always trump looks”. dude with 6/10 game and 9/10 looks will beat dude with 8/10 game… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” dude with 6/10 game and 9/10 looks will beat dude with 8/10 game and 4/10 looks. ”

Facepalm.

j
j
5 years ago

@HABD “I learned that I was actually a lot of these girls ideal type, was this before or after you got some game?…lol…” before. Like I said in another post, I was approached by chicks before PUA, invited to shit, “cool” kids sat around me during lunch assuming I was cool, in high school before they knew I didn’t have the personality to match my looks. Then all the attention stopped. “did he (or both of you together) figure out a way to deal with this situ, since it happened over and over?…” yeah I’ve tried several times to go… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

@blax

Game isn’t the be all and end all. There were other factors that contributed to your success with women, besides your game:

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theasdgamer
5 years ago

but self amusing isn’t his style

double facepalm…

…I just got back from Wally World…lots of females trying to catch my eye…most were somewhat-hot or hot MILFs…I was walking around kind of tall and bouncy with an expression like I knew a fun secret…nonverbals…bet your asian friend has crap nonverbals and can’t carry off Amused Mastery ™…I know a super ugly asian (lots of acne scars) who can carry it off and he’s popular with women.

kfg
kfg
5 years ago

Things I learned from that “article”:

They put all their money into graphics before they had the copy proofed.

Men come in two types:

1. Asian with accents
2. Privileged

j
j
5 years ago

I’d bet bigly money he’d steal any girl you’re talking to. He does fuck hot girls (spanish, asians, europeans…only struggles heavily with american girls). He just has to deal with a shit load of rejections because his foreign asian accent and asian face immediately turn off a lot of girls:

http://media.giphy.com/media/NLnrOsIUXtWlW/giphy.gif

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” Game isn’t the be all and end all.”

SHREIK!!!!!!!! BLASPHAMY!!!!!!

No young Skywalker, all is Game. Grasp you do not power it has. Stronger than Force and Infinity Stones that shit is. Turns men into Gods.

In other words game does a man good.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

That chart… lol, that is opinion, not fact. I’ve heard this opinion lots in the pua and sphere.

It’s teaching guys to be ego invested in the face of reality and a woeful misunderstanding of women – ALL women, regardless of race or whatever.

How do I know this…..

Hmmm……

j
j
5 years ago

…..it’s like talking to a retarded wall…..lol

theasdgamer
5 years ago

According to J’s chart, looks includes Preselection. Well, duh, if we define looks as Preselection, there’s no argument.

What is “is”?

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

I had a Chinese friend when I was in my teens. He had a heavy, heavy accent. For a long time I had trouble understanding him, until I got him to relax and slow down his speech and it’s patterns. Problem was, he spoke English with Cantonese inflections ( I didn’t get that at te time, but listen to someone speaking any form of Chinese language, and you can see the inflections – which matter a lot in that language -that I’m talking about ). Once he slowed down and understood the way native English speakers spoke, he was much… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

His alpha style does intimates some girls.

“His awkward, faux-serial-killer style intimidates some girls.”

fify

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
5 years ago

I learned from that chart that SJW’s are getting into pickup in Vancouver, BC.
That should turn out just great.

I especially like the idea that “looks” and “preselection” are the same thing. Shouldn’t “looks” include “money” and “status” as well?

Maybe time to create a site called buffism.net. where doofi can moan all day about how only men with a 6 pack can ever hope to have any success with girls.

Or a site called moneyism.net…

Need to charge for these things. $5 to see the Egress page…

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
5 years ago

…..it’s like talking to a retarded wall…..lol

Irony.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

…..it’s like talking to a retarded wall…..lol

Irony.

Makes me want to get plastered.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

j Okay mane, let me see if I can get you to understand what I know. Yes, girls always found me attractive, and they were very vocal about it. I’ve already gone into detail about how I couldn’t see what the fuck they were talking about as I was painfully skinny and almost scrawny in my eyes. So that ” talk ” did nothing at all to my own vision of how I saw myself. K? And yes, girls weren’t very resistant to sexual advances or fucking, if they were inclined to do so. Yet, I was determined to fix… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

@blax “Once he slowed down and understood the way native English speakers spoke, he was much clearer even though he still had a hell of an accent.” “You gotta strengthen what’s perceived as your weaknesses. You can’t be low in attractiveness and hard as fuck to understand” He speaks clear english. Very slowly and deep voice. He’s very wealthy, so his purchased the best products and watched multiple videos on training your voice. You can clearly understand everything he’s saying. There’s no, “What?? What did you say??” It’s just the Chinese accent. As soon as girls hear it and see… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

“Last minute resistance and/or flake? Never seen it”.

THAT *IS* LAST MINUTE RESISTANCE YOU DOPE!

Flaking /= LMR

j
j
5 years ago

bottomline is, if I had your upbringing, I very likely would have never touched any PUA material. I’d look down on it like most people, and I’d be right there alongside laughing at all the coping incels trying to make up for a lost childhood….

theasdgamer
5 years ago

you changed and worked on yourself because you wanted to control how you were perceived…….by……………them.

notreally…their perceptions informed him of a lack within himself…and blax wanted to be the best that he could be…for himself…

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” So you didn’t do it for yourself. You did it because you wanted to fuck THOSE girls. You changed who you were to have a chance to get those girls. ” Zooommmmm. My point flew over your head. ” Really? you didn’t see Ya ever preach about inner game….hell go look at the graphic again, under the “game” category – Mindset/Inner game” I’m not talking about any of that. I said inner strength not inner game. There’s no such thing irl as inner game. ” because you’ve fucked hundreds of girls in the past. That’s the goal of game… Read more »

mersonia
5 years ago

On another note….. I love me

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” bottomline is, if I had your upbringing, I very likely would have never touched any PUA material. I’d look down on it like most people, and I’d be right there alongside laughing at all the coping incels trying to make up for a lost childhood….” If you had my upbringing, there wouldn’t have been any pua material. … I’m kidding. Looking down on people and laughing at them is no part of Game. It’s actually not even really a part of being a grown man, but it happens. Often. My upbringing taught me lots and lots of stuff that… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

“I said inner strength not inner game.”

you say tomato. I say tomahto

“In my world last minute resistance is something very different.”

Last Minute Resistance – is her putting the responsibility for sex on you. “well it wasn’t my fault. I told him I have a boyfriend”.

“My dad never had a ” sex talk ” with me”

they taught you how to be a Man.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Looking down on people and laughing at them is no part of Game.

Yes, looking down on people is Anti-Game. But good-hearted gibing is very much part of Game.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

there were all of these voices from the past answering my questions.

Mom and Granny and “Uncle Playboy” (the mag) for me. Friends who told about stories about players they knew. An uncle’s example (a major player) as he interacted with the family. What relatives said that a departed uncle said. Girls who pinched me in 6th grade. Things a college gf said. But not my dad.

questions answered

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” Last Minute Resistance – is her putting the responsibility for sex on you. “well it wasn’t my fault. I told him I have a boyfriend”. ”

Last minute resistance is her pausing for a moment as you relive her of her pantily constraints, saying ” I shouldn’t be doing this “. The responsibility is supposed to be yours, in your frame.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” they taught you how to be a Man”

Truth, but they couldn’t do it for me. My dad taught me to drive, but he didn’t drive me to work today.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

I forgot an important voice…my mom’s step-father…he taught me about interacting with men…called me “half-ass” and checked to see if I knew my heine from my elbow…he’d draw a picture of a heine and an elbow and ask me which one was my heine…I always got it wrong, lol I dearly loved that man and we lived next door to him while I was growing up…good times…grilling steaks…massaging his scalp (he thought it would help him keep his hair)…changing the oil in the car together…working with him in his tool area in the garage…him smoking a pipe…arguing about ideas and… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

“I shouldn’t be doing this “”

You: I know this is crazy *proceed to keep going*

Again. her putting the responsibility on you. just another variation of LMR

“My dad taught me to drive, but he didn’t drive me to work today”.

Teach a man to fish…..

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” You: I know this is crazy *proceed to keep going* ” Lol. Never had a conversation remotely like that. My point about teaching is that 1) you must be willing to learn, and 2) you still have to do the work. That’s your responsibility. People ” ;learn ” shit that they never put into real practice all the time. I haven’t started a fire with flint and kindling for over a decade, lol. And all of those goddamned squirrels in my neighborhood are still breathing. A woman should never be allowed to ” put responsibility ” on a man.… Read more »

EhIntellect
EhIntellect
5 years ago

@ j “if I had your upbringing…” “My dad never had a ” sex talk ” with me…” Really? That spineless are ya? How far back and how broadly you gonna indict the dead, generations? FFS, you don’t understand as you prefer first to be understood. You’ve completely invalidated everything you’ve claimed here about your prowess from the beginning, now and forever….well…tomorrows another day. Pray you see it. Feel free to let the scales fall. A little Chapin to salt your beer, man-boy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUwjNBjqR-c P.S. Ho’w that fertility cucking goin’ for you? Just one of your lays. Not all of… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

“A woman should never be allowed to ” put responsibility ” on a man”

– But I just met you!
– But you’re married!
– Your girlfriend is right there. She can walk any minute on us
– I don’t think this is a good idea. What If somebody finds out?

It has to be your fault. She doesnt want to be responsible for the sex happening because then that means she’s a slut (bad feelz). Pretty common when pulling girls fast. Not really a big deal lol

theasdgamer
5 years ago

It has to be your fault. She doesnt want to be responsible for the sex

You’re hearing her in dog-o-nese and forgetting to interpret. She is asking you to lead her into a liminal space. You have failed to create the liminal space.

HABD would explain it with lots of FI references. lol I offer bare bones….

All this talk about fault and frame and responsibility is just something I wouldn’t wanna step in.

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

J didn’t you say you used to be fat? On this… but self amusing isn’t his style, he likes going strong direct eye contact. His alpha style does intimates some girls. They like it….because I do see them smiling….until they see his face. Just bad game. and makes no sense lol How do they smile at his eye contact but not see his face? if the girl doesn’t immediately tell him to fuck off or shoves him off when he grabs her hand, this is what happens. He immediately introduces himself to her friends, but they (guys and girls) are… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

@Sentient “didn’t you say you used to be fat?” ya. In 2016. You can go back to my comment where I first mentioned I was fat. To give you a picture, this is what I meant by I was “fat”: when I broke my collarbone. I couldn’t go to the gym so I ended up getting fat from overeating. Then after a couple of months, the doctors said it was safe to go to the gym, I didn’t have the motivation and got lazy, because I had fuckbuddies that didn’t mind the fat but didn’t like it either by refusing… Read more »

having a bad day
having a bad day
5 years ago

@j ok, i think i have your Asian Wing ™s’ issue sorted… i’ll lay it out so you can coach him… I’d bet bigly money he’d steal any girl you’re talking to. He does fuck hot girls (spanish, asians, europeans…only struggles heavily with american girls). He just has to deal with a shit load of rejections because his foreign asian accent and asian face immediately turn off a lot of girls: AWALT…lol… and if he can bang hot ‘non’ ‘american girls’, he can bang hot ‘american girls’… the ONLY change is HIS perception… girls are girls… what is probably happening… Read more »

echo
echo
5 years ago

@habd (only) What sort of IOD is good in that situation? You open her with ‘who lies more, men or women!?” (or whatever opener you reccomend) She looks a bit repulsed at your face and ignores you or backturns for example, you just turn your back to her too (IOD) and hope she engages you instead of walking away? Or maybe you neg her about something she is wearing (IOD) and hope she engages instead of just grabbing her friends arm to save her or whatever? I know from your convo with someone else (scars or j, maybe?) that if… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

“Damn you went deep on Franco lmao….I’ll give you this one. “

Not really.. this has all been covered before [file under “E” for Experience]

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/04/06/james-francos-terrible-horrible-no-good-very-bad-text-game/

HOWEVER, more importantly the implications of “this one” are what vis a vis Game & looks/status/money?

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

“PS – i’m seeing this debate everywhere at the moment on seddit and RSD, although it’s less of a debate”

You know what “Confirmation Bias” means?

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Echo

“although I honestly think it’s almost funny that people think you can just override someone’s free will with ‘game’.”

You and every girl ever… “That would NEVER work on me!!!”

theasdgamer
5 years ago

lack of an IOD is NOT an IOI… (usually…lol)

If the girl has high SMV, she will often indicate her interest by not walking off, but continuing in the convo.

this is straight up failure to work the group…lol… = fail at game…

You open the girls in the group in whom you aren’t interested and let the hotties stew and make them engage you first. I usually ask the less attractive women in a group to dance first…. If the girls have selected you for an unattractive girl, you have to adjust their thinking….

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

“Other way to sort the debate would be for PUA’s to wear super realistic ugly latex masks. I’d bet my house that NONE of them would be able to bang hot girls if they looked like a 1/10 lol. Game would count for NOTHING lol. PS – please don’t use Tyler as an example of ugly. ”

How about Neil Strauss?

PS – lolling https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/04/06/james-francos-terrible-horrible-no-good-very-bad-text-game/#comment-547993

theasdgamer
5 years ago

She looks a bit repulsed at your face and ignores you or backturns for example, you just turn your back to her too (IOD)

Or tell her friend, “I’m sure her farts smell minty fresh….” [as you display amusement and confidence]

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

IAS my previous comment “Ping her, flirt with her a bit, get that vibe going again DON”T FORGET THIS, sniff out logistics without being to overt then slide in an invite “let’s grab a drink” and the later the better.” Some thoughts She accepted my FB request, and I opened strong with: “Hi, did you also get sucked off yesterday?” she replied relatively fast “What do u mean?” I was like YES! Boom there was a spike… You see it? “mosquitoes” Uh…. Dog logic answer… Better would be to PLAY this out some more. don’t be so eager to answer… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

“what is probably happening is that he places a much higher value on girls that he perceives as ‘american’… and so his subcomms change bc he is putting them on a pedestal…” yes very true. I think it’s from living in China for so long. Social conditioning has Chinese men believe American girls are the best of the best. His taste in women is very different in mine because of that. Like when I’m talking to a meh American girl, and I go back to him, he goes “why did you leave that set???” I’m like “huh”? lmao. So that… Read more »

newlyaloof
5 years ago

Channeling YaReally’s Halloween Ghost… Halloween is coming up, literally THE sluttiest time of the year with not just NO consequence for girls to be slutty but MASSIVE SOCIAL PRESSURE to BE slutty, and you can open EVERY chick with the EASIEST opener in the WORLD built into the holiday: “Hey, I like your costume” (or in my case “lol wtf are YOU supposed to be?” lol) And for a month afterward you can ask what they were for Halloween too. But don’t just ask, QUALIFY THEM on it. Instead of “So what is/was your Halloween costume? Oh, that’s a cool… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

J “It’s not because he is a PUA, but because he is a 6’5″ money and status maxxed semi-famous tv persona, with above average face and yea… game” Simply false… Mystery grows with every retelling… 6’4″ is most common. Mystery was an UNKNOWN weirdo forum guy when he started Project Hollywood. He didn’t become “famous” [ever see him at awards shows, or such? Endorsements? Etc… NO] until AFTER The Game was published by Style in 2005… Papa put the money up for the Project Hollywood house… Mystery had none. The TV show was in 2007… Don’t believe the retardism site…… Read more »

echo
echo
5 years ago

@J – Fame game. I quite like Russell Brand, but he couldn’t get laid when he was in Hawaii and admitted on his radio show ‘i’ve not been getting any ‘how’s your father’. Nobody knows who I am out here!!” lol. He banged a couple of ‘Page 3 girls’ when her arrived back home though! 🙂 ”https://lookism.net/Thread-Rage-beckster-pua-scammer-along-with-mystery-scammed-me-in-a-Barcelona-bootcamp” Damn, that’s interesting. Krauser said that Beckster is one of the biggest frauds in the industry, so it checks out. What happened to Mysteries 5/5? With his game he should surely never be getting blown out and stuff, despite his advancing years. Almost… Read more »

j
j
5 years ago

https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2620896/bio

Erik Von Markovik

6′ 5″ (1.96 m)

“Sooper hot 5’8″ Tyler when he was “slaying”… lol”

Not true from multiple reports:

https://redpilltalk.com/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=14566

“Tyler himself personally told me his count is under 50, a good portion from social circle”.

“Neil Strauss’s book “The Game” indicates that Tyler and Papa stayed in their rooms making websites, and rarely got dates. Mystery himself got 12 per year.”

https://pancakemouse.wordpress.com/2018/01/07/jmulv-has-the-best-advice-in-game-right-now/#comment-107

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

https://lookism.net/Thread-Rage-beckster-pua-scammer-along-with-mystery-scammed-me-in-a-Barcelona-bootcamp

TLDR – social retard with looks hard on pays $1800 for something he doesn’t believe in – and is shocked, shocked i tell ya – that it didn’t work. And that he could have got it all online, which he knew beforehand…

Teh Grapes, they are sooooo sour…

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

The mindset of said social retard, in his own words…

“Imagine a ugly fat woman, there is no way in the world most normal males would fuck one no matter how good her social skills are, no matter how much top level “game” she has. Its exactly the same for women. “

“Q”ueist of QED’s…

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