For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
that’s not why I linked that thread. I know the quote you selected above is retarded. I linked the thread SPECIFICALLY to show you guys what Mystery’s game actually looks like. Which you are obviously going to ignore….
J
Don’t stop there man… go repost all of the old PUAhate site… you Supreme Gentleman you…
lol
^ this is what someone in denial looks like
I say looks matter – then your silly dumb brain misinterprets that to mean, ONLY looks matter.
Though you did make me lol with the link titled “JMULV has the best advice in game right now”…
Guess that ox been gored since…
“this is classic validation seeking behavior… why would he introduce himself to a girl/guy/group when they haven’t earned it?… this pings as needy…” group theory? trying to win the friends over, so they don’t sabotage the set. It’s still group theory, but it needs to be done properly. Better game. Don’t open with an IOI, which is what a smiling introduction is. Open with a cold read that allows girls to invest and earn your IOI. “Hi, you all seem kinda cool, what do you have going on?” [where you are smiling] You can even open with an introduction where… Read more »
Sure man… by linking to a story that ends
so to sum up there is no such thing as game. Looks are everything.
from a site of retards…
If looks matter, I would think it’s wise to fake it until you make it (not matter)
common sense should reign supreme. There shouldn’t be extremes, although this site AND lookism seem to have their fair share of extremists! People who think you need to look like an Armani model to get laid with hot girls? retards. Simple as that. People who think that ‘game’ is some dark Magic where you can bang 100% of the girls you choose despite being a 4ft homeless paraplegic with a wonky face if only you have enough ‘game’?? Possibly Even more retarded Fact is, ‘game’ exists in that social skills can amplify attraction. A complete lack of social skills can… Read more »
Mystery himself got 12 per year.”
That’s twelve threesomes per year. lol, jk Was Mystery seeking high-N-counts or just spinning plates and adding to his rotation? And what was the quality of his plates?
He had to do 12 breakups per year, and since he liked falling in love, that gets to be a lot of heartache.
I am able to, as @WIA, put it, “sift through the trash and find the gems”. The majority of users there that site ARE basement dwelling autistic losers as we both know. BUT there are posters who are legit. And those are the only guys I follow (I’ve said this 3 times now). The guys taking action. “Though you did make me lol with the link titled “JMULV has the best advice in game right now”…” I linked to a specific commenter’s comment on Mystery and Tyler….who also commented on that post saying, JMULV is full of shit. Krauser also… Read more »
@phillconors
thank you
“I honestly think it’s almost funny that people think you can just override someone’s free will with ‘game’.” echo, I’m not too deep a thinker so, lucky you, this is not a disquisition and take it with a grain of salt. Freewill is the ability to choose or not to choose. Freedom is the ability to act in one’s environment. The more freewill, the more freedom. The more sophisticated the sentience, the more freewill. Hence we deem minors ineligible to do certain acts as they can not freewillingly choose to do so. They are retarded in the consciousness and thus… Read more »
I am able to, as @WIA, put it, “sift through the trash and find the gems”. The majority of users there that site ARE basement dwelling autistic losers as we both know.
Really bro?
You can’t seperate good retardism from bad retardism… because there IS NO GOOD RETARDISM…
It’s a gateway drug, sites like that. Mindsets formed. A few tokes on that pipe and crazy shit starts happening…
Next thing ya know ya start telling guys to “get leg extension surgery” and shit… 😉
@Palma: many years ago, I was out with my dad and someone was commenting on penile injections for someone with no prostate. Can’t your buddy with no prostate get some injections direct into the zone that will give him some wood after one or two hours?
Not for every day, but at least he could bang once in a while.
IAS
I’m by no means an expert, but I know a couple of men that have had different methods of prostate removal due to cancer.
From what they’ve said and some reading I’ve done ( as I’m concerned about prevention), some surgeries damage nerves that are responsible/assist with erectile functions. In those cases an erection isn’t possible ( as well as great difficulty with bladder control )..
There are newer procedures that seek to minimize nerve damage, but I’m not sure how widespread they are.
I think the injection is a med called calverject ( sp?) That works by forcing the relaxation of the corpus in the penis. Maybe it could work depending on the extent of the nerve damage.
The whole topic of prostate cancer arguably doesn’t belong here. So I’ll spare everyone a lot of text. If Palma’s mate has already been cut on, his options decrease but still exist depending on variables. That needle thing works for men (not all) but requires planning. If he hasn’t been cut on yet, then there’s a list of things he should consider. Second opinion, second opinion, second opinion. Some tumors are so ugly that the choice is “get cut, or die in 3 to 5 years. Or sooner”. I know a man who had one of those. Other tumors are… Read more »
Back to that whole “lookism” retarded echo chamber. Those men are confused and ignorant. They don’t understand even a little evo-psych. The unspoken assumption? Women’s attraction works just like men’s. This is stupid. It’s worse than “just be yourself”, it’s that bad. Men are more visual. We look at women. We are attracted by visible features. Men’s porn tends to be pictures (still or moving). Men have a wide range of things they are attracted to; just look at what porn sites offer: fatty, skinny, shorty, supertall, no boobs, huge boobs, lots of hair, no hair…just for starters. Men are… Read more »
The other thing that is foolish and even retarded about “not her type” is the ignorance of women’s actual nature that is revealed. Rollo has linked in the past to studies that show quite clearly how women’s need for male companionship shifts over the monthly cycle. Athol on the old Married Man Sex Life site suggested that married men should chart their wife’s cycle, and calibrate the degree of Alpha to Beta accordingly. More Alpha during the window around ovulation, more Beta comfort around shark week. There’s plenty of reports by men out there on this topic. So if a… Read more »
@AR “men operate on a “would you fuck her” mentality women operate on a “would you NOT fuck him” mentality this is what women mean when they say personality matters it only matters AFTER she’s already found you attractive or at least NOT unattractive because for women, unattractive men are just background noise in life of course good looks and status can halo a shit personality but that’s the catch, the guy has to literally DISQUALIFY HIMSELF by being aspie or something but if she puts you in the “NO” box (aspie, incels, ethnic manlets, etc) no amount of game… Read more »
“the biggest flaw in the women are less visual than men is that those studies were done in the 50s back then, that could be legit smaller communities women weren’t working relied 100% on the man to bring in the $$$ sleeping with more than 2-3 guys made you a whore would be outcasted from the community people married @ 18-21 years old its easy to see how back then a 10/10 could say “well he’s ugly, but I don’t want to be thought of as a whore and based on his confidence, outgoing behavior, and strong social skills he… Read more »
@J The biggest thing you missed out on by starting later in the dating scene is what I like to call the shotgun ceremony. My first one was with this older girl ,16 and I was 14, her bedroom was garden level in the front yard,so I could walk right up at any time and visit. We were talking one night when the front door opened up and her dad started shooting in my general direction(her parents drank alot) I hid around the corner and listened to the bullets hit the fence next to me. The next fond memory was… Read more »
A R
Funny you mention it, but I’ve taken curcumin -turmeric for years now. Good stuff.
Back to that whole “lookism” retarded echo chamber. I have a FR about that. At my bar last night was a body builder. Girls were drooling over him and telling me. I was telling them, cool, go introduce yourself to him. “I’m too shy” which translated means, “I want to see if he has the balls to approach me and face potential rejection.” He walked past us (when I happened to be chatting with one of the girls) all night and she commented and wondered what he was doing. “Trolling you with his body.” She found that annoying and lost… Read more »
biggest flaw in the women are less visual than men is that those studies were done in the ’50s
lol, women’s attraction is controlled by her midbrain and the human visual area of the brain is in the cortex…
…so, obviously, women have evolved a visual area of the midbrain since the ’50s…
j quotes some retard: “If she puts you in the NO box…” Then she’s saying NO at that moment, 10 days or 10 hours or 10 minutes later her mood might change. Or it might not. Depends on a lot of things, including how you react to that. J. Those are retards. Blue-pilled retards. Provider-game types. Use your own brain and your own words, stop quoting ignorant blue-pillers. “the biggest flaw in the women are less visual than men is that those studies were done in the 50s Ah, no. The brain scans are less than 5 years old. Plus… Read more »
Went out last night with 4 friends to see if we could creep out any girls on Halloween. At the bar and my friend is doing what he calls a ‘warm up’ set on a couple of old birds! After a few mins they eject/blow him out and sit down by themselves. My friends all go out to smoke but it’s cold so I decide to stay inside and do my own attempt on the old girls. I open with ”Where’s your Halloween costumes?” (also planned to use ”What are you supposed to be?!!” for when girls were dressed up… Read more »
Plus who buys all the romfic? What percentage of PornHub subscribers are female?
…the point being that women are more imagination-driven and fantasy-driven than visually oriented
Went out last night to my country bar…wearing a badge and cuffs I bought at Wally World with a red kerchief stuck in my back pocket…a nice looking Chaps shirt and Levis and boots and a nice western hat. Regulars were there and I made the rounds. Accused a woman bartender of being mad at me last night…she denied it–said she never got mad..I said I’d cuff her later…she flushed and grinned…long game prospect…it was fun messing with her… I danced with a bunch of girls…finally reached a four-set of late 30s/early 40s who were kind of drunk…danced with all… Read more »
Scars
Lol
Just lol…
Only other move I could think of here was to just grab her and ‘go for it’ and try to kiss her! But my instincts told me that it would be a guaranteed painful rejection. (i’d also previous tried to ‘test the waters’ by kind of picking her up as she was sitting down, but she kind of pushed my hands away a little and didn’t want that to happen so I backed off, but that told me that going for a kiss was likely super low odds). At the end of my dances with the broad who was rapt… Read more »
@scars “I know that 98% of the time it’s a hard ‘no girl’ who, no matter what I try, basically ignores me, and it does kill my ego/confidence for future appraoches, so I tent to float around hitting on 7’s” So hit on the 7s. And then bring her near a hotter girl. Dance sexually with the 7, so the hot girl can see the preselection. Smile and nod (“sup?”) at the hotter girl when you guys make eye contact. Put your arm around the 7 and tell her ur gonna go say hi to your friend over there (the… Read more »
“I also danced with a 22 y.o. HB8 blonde who was “out of my league”
“Haha yeah guise, I would have EASILY fucked her if I wasnt married”
Nice work, J. Keep up the good work!
Everyone wants to be black but no one wants to be black. lol
“Pulled a chick last night that hadnt been fucked in a couple months.” So Scars and other guys wanting to know how to pull chicks would enjoy you detailing how you pulled her. And you leave those details out all the time, right? Why did you not detail how you pulled her? You didn’t even mention details about how attractive she was. Go figure. “Haha yeah guise, I would have EASILY fucked her if I wasnt married”</i. Clinically retarded comment in light of Lendhspeaks asking exactly how to meet chicks like that. ASD detailed how he interacted with her and… Read more »
@SJF “Cause I think he’s the dick in the room. Wouldn’t be picked for the Walking Dead group. What the hell good is he for moving forward? Because he doesn’t contribute to the cause. Never once discussed Red Pill. All he ever does is whine like a bitch. Like I tried to say earlier and my comment may not have gone through, I’m having a problem when discussing shit with guys that are negative about life, liberty and the pursuit of fucking girls. ” “Plus, I got ego investments and he thinks my OMG comments are shitty. So there’s that… Read more »
“Who hurt you lol.” Who, me? No one except you. I got a pain in my butt cheek. I’m fully in Acceptance that you are a dick on this blog. You can’t get along with other males in a group. Oh, and did I mention that you are lazy and never contribute, except for snark? You say you are here to correct comments said in error by your snarky snark. Perhaps you are correcting things for your own personal Domain Dependence. But who knows, you never comment about yourself. Except those couple times you said you were lazy and your… Read more »
@Scars well done, you are improving. I laughed too LOL.
@J very well done.
@SJF “And you leave those details out all the time, right? Why did you not detail how you pulled her?” Tbh, I think LRs are stupid cause I forget a lot of the little details during the interaction. Like for this one, I was actually thinking about writing a full report. But then I found myself struggling to remember what we talked about at the beginning, that hooked her in, and told me, “we’re going to the dance floor. You can come with us?” It was something about me misinterpreting that she was a stripper. from her halloween costume. Then… Read more »
because he just focuses on the 1st half of the seduction. Which is easy. Getting chicks attracted/making out. sure, getting A2 is easy…but wait…let’s remember the context…old guys can’t get attraction…A2…because of the 50 yo male “Wall” due to lack of looks…that was your claim, remember? Maybe, just maybe, things aren’t quiiiite like you say for 50 yo men. Remember about the HB8…I didn’t chat her up or ask her name or want a hug afterwards…despite being an excellent follow, she only got one dance from me and she’s seen me at the bar and I have Preselection going and… Read more »
@IAS cheers. It was fun lol
@echo @habd (only) What sort of IOD is good in that situation? IODs are usually just the opposite of IOIs…lol… ok, that probably doesn’t help you as much as you wanted…lol IOIs (works both ways btwn you and her…) – smiles – eye contact -proximity/personal space (how close you are) (shift closer) – body orientation (which way are you facing – directly at her = high IOI v ‘away’ (backturn = directly away = high IOD/no IOI) – touching IODs – stop smiling – look away (scan room for hotter/more agreeable girl) – shift your weight ‘out/away’ (can/should be as… Read more »
her: then why talk to me?
you: you look like you have the best personality out of your group…
you: … buuuut… I could be wrong [look around].
-proximity/personal space (how close you are) (shift closer)
…yeah, rings a bell for me…a blonde friend likes to be deep in my personal space…so deep that it makes me a little uncomfortable…obviously an IOI when I think about it…thanks, HABD, you’re always bringing value…
go get ’em!
– show that you are not socially retarded… (assuming you’re not…lol)
…and the jury’s out on me because autism…sometimes brilliant, sometimes people walk away, lol, but I’m always having fun and they always come back for more…
…was thinking about another blonde…she always comes back for more and she is very smart (the mind of a 40 yo woman) and practical and does her makeup like a pro, lol…good rapport and some chemistry, but she’s with a guy who’s a friend of mine, so, she’s off limits for me…even if they’re uncommitted…but nothing ever stays the same, lol…
@HABD
“and if that guy^^^ with all the new zits had a BOOST in confidence bc of it, would THAT boost/impact his success?…”
Cystic acne:
Would be an all-time TRM Field Report if you (or any other brave reader) would field test this.
Retarded is retarded.
Plenty of 16YO dudes in high school with acne. Getting laid.
Not without mad pua skillz…😂
“Plenty of 16YO dudes in high school with acne. Getting laid”
rub 1 pump/5mg all over their face (not just a few zits on the forehead)
when I was in high school (private and public), the guys who banged the hottest girls, were the jocks (basketball, football, and baseball) and good looking D+ ‘class clown’ students.
None of their faces looked as bad as the imgur image shown above. The guys who DID look like that, tended to be the ones usually dress like this:
and they reeked too!
“Don’t know who you are but autism writing tells me enough.”
Ah, you do read my comments then. Enjoy.
I recall you’re the Discovery Channel pair-bonding commenter. Good choice.
Quack.
J
So, your 100% positive that nobody got laid with zits or without being a jock or class clown?
You’re positively certain without doubt?
j slaying it IRL opening girls with Clearasil tips and tricks, daddy anger, high school alienation and fatso issues.
Though what he speaks with authority here is how to fuck women.
By all means, do go on j. I’m rapt.
@Sentient her: then why talk to me? you: you look like you have the best personality out of your group… you: … buuuut… I could be wrong [look around]. SOMEBODY’S been paying attention…lol… good luck! — @j @HABD “and if that guy^^^ with all the new zits had a BOOST in confidence bc of it, would THAT boost/impact his success?…” Cystic acne: Would be an all-time TRM Field Report if you (or any other brave reader) would field test this. lol… i know what acne is…lol… so basically like @scars’ ‘Zit Girl’… but a dude… without heavy makeup…lol… oh! wait!…… Read more »
I, for one, don’t understand this ‘go get cystic acne’ and see how it will kill your sexual strategy.
Why would someone try to look worse to prove that looks do matter?
Are you trying to say you had untreated acne and weren’t getting laid before and it ruined you or someone else for getting laid?
Last time I checked, acne is treatable. Esp in males. But what do I know about it?
Totally different than the talk about Mindset, Competence and Confidence.
Lot’s of HS athletes have acne.
Well, if they have acne, I hope they don’t go to j’s high school.
J’s acne wasn’t on his face–it was in his brain, lol. (Just giving you shit, J)
Oh, wait, someone here had a story about a guy with acne who worked for him getting laid, right and left.
“By all means, do go on j”. can’t give out all the secrets, homie 😉 I’m sure you do just fine satisfying your wife’s worn out pussy. “lol… i know what acne is…lol…” ah ok so backing down from the challenge. I hear ya, wouldn’t to deal with that shit either tbh. “So, your 100% positive that nobody got laid with zits or without being a jock or class clown?” Nah. I just recall the ones who were the banging the hottest girls at both schools I attended (in case “well u didn’t go to private/public”). “Lot’s of HS athletes… Read more »
Objectively, this doesn’t make a whole lot of sense.
“I’m sure you do just fine satisfying your wife’s worn out pussy.”
As always, keepin’ it classy! It’s just that deep insight into the intersexual dynamic which secures your place in the poosyslayer hall of fame. Such wit, such wisdom.
Keep it up! Go team PUA!
J
“ya. what’s your point? ”
Try thinking. Give it some time. It may feel strange at first.
What is it ( actually I know ) with pua and the worn out pussy thing?😂
“Why would someone try to look worse to prove that looks do matter?” It’s the mating call of the masochist loser. Rather than be better they double down on failure to prove that failure sucks. They get off on their own misery. Example: A failing political partisan will say: “Well then, fine, we’re losing, now the presidency is the other guy’s, I’m not gonna try anymore btw, you other guys are in for it as politics sucks and you’ll realize this too once you control the levers of power, it’s a shitty job I didn’t want anyways and me failing… Read more »
IOW j doesn’t like himself much right now and much what he does here is pitiful posturing. It’s unhealthy and a guy can fake it only so long IRL before he loses it.
me: the guys who were banged hot girls at my high school, were jocks and good looking class clowns that had shit grades (so not all class clown were pussy slayers). you: lot of HS athletes (I was a HS athlete. Didn’t help me get laid. was still shy as fuck around girls) have acne https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Jock @blax “( actually I know )” yes, tell us all how 50 year old pussy looks and feels exactly the same as 19 year old pussy. @eh Rather than be better they double down on failure to prove that failure sucks” page 106: Sentient:… Read more »
So what can we learn here?
“you: lot of HS athletes (I was a HS athlete. Didn’t help me get laid. was still shy as fuck around girls) have acne”
Perhaps having acne wasn’t a problem? Perhaps being an athlete wasn’t a problem? Perhaps being “shy as fuck” was a problem?
Hmmmm
“Me: HELL NO, playa. I’m not fucking up my flawless skin and going back to eating shit just to prove something ..i fully intend on looking like that 56 year old guy I shared in the previous page when I reach that age.” Work, work, work, argue, argue, work, work.work for it….or chose a different path. Look, ya got self-admitted daddy issues and they get in the way of clarity. Why tangle with a bunch of geezers who you claim don’t know what it’s like to be a kid these days? How does that make you better? Don’t answer that… Read more »
Hey J., Robert Greene was talking about you in Chapter 4 of his new book: Quote: Toxic Types Although each person’s character is as unique as a fingerprint, we can notice throughout history certain types that keep recurring and that can be particularly pernicious to deal with. As opposed to the more obviously evil or manipulative characters that you can spot a mile away, these types are trickier. They often lure you in with an appearance that presents their weaknesses as something positive. Only over time do you see the toxic nature beneath the appearance, often when it is too… Read more »
Your childhood and your acne did you a grave disservice. You should work to overcome that. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BJLX414/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 And then this, the summary of Chapter 4: The Superior Character This law is simple and inexorable: you have a set character. It was formed out of elements that predate your conscious awareness. From deep within you, this character compels you to repeat certain actions, strategies, and decisions. The brain is structured to facilitate this: once you think and take a particular action, a neural pathway is formed that leads you to do it again and again. And in relation to this law,… Read more »
J, why don’t you believe that you’re awesome no matter whether you fuck new girls or not?
yes, tell us all how 50 year old pussy looks and feels exactly the same as 19 year old pussy.
…actually, a woman who has had kids has a pussy that pulls on you kind of like a really strong tongue…after she has had an O…funny, menopause doesn’t seem to affect this…
Some of the pages that I cut and pasted from Robert Greene’s excellent book “The Laws of Human Nature” got double pasted inside the blockquote. Some of the paragraphs are redundant. And I apologize to Mersonia to going above his head on that cut and paste, he knows what he needs to do to continually be lazy and piss his bitches off. Scroll baby scroll at insightful shit. And I apologize to J. if he doesn’t know what the fuck that is all about….. We all know what is going on here with him. And he doesn’t care. Which is… Read more »
I walked to Starbucks wearing my old T, old shorts, small backpack, and floppy “Trapper John” style hat. A hottie got to the door about the same time as me, but a little before. She held the door open, said, “Here you go,” and smiled a warm smile. A normal amount of investment based on average looks. I replied, “Thanks,” and smiled a minimal smile, holding her gaze just right. Minimal investment, but a little investment. I sat down near her with my back to her (push/pull). I went to do my coffee near where she was sitting. She didn’t… Read more »
“Perhaps being “shy as fuck” was a problem?” ya bro. We’ve been though this many times. That’s why I didn’t get laid despite being just as good looking, as guys who were banging the girls I wanted. Once I learned how to talk girls into sex (or at least “not fuck it up”), I started getting laid. BUT I already had the looks (not male model tier looks, but I’m not exactly someone girls would be embarrassed to be seen walking around in public by her friends). Looks matter (not listening to another word from @HABD on this matter, until… Read more »
“your wife’s worn out pussy”
hahahah
that escalated quickly!
“. We’ve been though this many times. That’s why I didn’t get laid despite being just as good looking, as guys who were banging the girls I wanted. Once I learned how to talk girls into sex (or at least “not fuck it up”), I started getting laid. BUT I already had the looks (not male model tier looks, but I’m not exactly someone girls would be embarrassed to be seen walking around in public by her friends).”
So those acne faced “not shy as fuck” high school kids getting laid then? What about them?
“don’t get a dopamine hit with every girl they add to their n count (or at least not anymore) ”
Once you stop validation seeking this goes away. You can still enjoy a new girl, and sex. But the dopamine addiction goes away.
In older times this was called “maturing”.
Consider J that you and your ilk – the late virgins – suffer from an arrested development. It manifests as acting like a hormonal 15 YO boy. With work you can get past this. It won’t come from an Ah Ha moment though. That capacity for reflection is lacking. No it’s the same as it ever was, hot stoves and burns…
“My childhood was shitty tho.” It shows. It really shows. And it is predictable. You are responding in a backlash manner to that. (hence the clinical retard and autist cat calls. You got blind spots dude.) “This pua shit, is just something ((I)) very much enjoy.” That’s certainly what they all say. Up until 50. Or 45 or 37, when time creeps up in a dark alley. Because of a rebound phenomenon from when younger. Relax and understand your motivations. And get a grip on your future. Robert Greene is on to you. Don’t bother with reading my excerpts from… Read more »
“Consider J that you and your ilk – the late virgins – suffer from an arrested development. I love reading books when then confirm my biases. Or at least everything I’ve always done right to get to where I want to be. Yep, on to Chapter 6 Elevate Your Perspective: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0525428143/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0 The Law of Shortsightedness It is in the animal part of your nature to be most impressed by what you can see and hear in the present—the latest news reports and trends, the opinions and actions of the people around you, whatever seems the most dramatic. This is what… Read more »
Oh, yeah, remember that girl I wrote about whom I saw at Starbucks? I think she was a high school student.
J I’ve had enough of these ‘ discussions ‘ here with guys that talked a lot about things they had zero experience in, yet tried to speak with authority. In my eyes, it always brought them down a few pegs. Many of those authorities are no longer around. When you’re finished getting ‘ dopamine hits ‘ from pussy..😂😂 a( that shit right there is PRICELESS!!!! ) and you start growing up some, maybe you’ll start to gain some understanding and he wary of fatigue safety off your mouth/fingers. Unlike you, I have had ‘ 50 year old pussy ‘, as… Read more »
Blax “As/if you start forming yourself into a mature man, watch how much shit you speak about subjects you aren’t adept in, less real men consider you foolish. The world will excuse youthful idiocy up to a point, but don’t go skipping into your 30’s-50’s spouting nonsense because it ‘ sounds good ‘ to the intellect of a 15 year old. Many of us here have already seen it, the guy in his late 30’s with no real direction or accomplishments and millions of words that were insightful and inspiring, yet ass backwards and silly at the same time.” Cosign… Read more »
”I walked to Starbucks wearing my old T, old shorts, small backpack, and floppy “Trapper John” style hat. A hottie got to the door about the same time as me, but a little before. She held the door open, said, “Here you go,” and smiled a warm smile. A normal amount of investment based on average looks. I replied, “Thanks,” and smiled a minimal smile, holding her gaze just right. Minimal investment, but a little investment. I sat down near her with my back to her (push/pull). I went to do my coffee near where she was sitting. She didn’t… Read more »
@J
“yes, tell us all how 50 year old pussy looks and feels exactly the same as 19 year old pussy.”
I’ve had both and yeah. maybe there’s a difference. But I’d not place any judgment on it. I’ve had fat 19yo pussy and didn’t like it.
I usually don’t comment on this page but serious’y, @J, you’re going down a path from which there is no coming back. Disappointing.
“My childhood was shitty tho.”
Oh really?
http://www.mcclatchydc.com/latest-news/article24437893.html
j,
Article takeaway: Accept you are going to die. Close your eyes, clear your mind and fill it with your demise.
Open your eyes. Now whatcha got?
If you do it right you’ll be surprised.
My vote for J’s next read:
https://books.google.com/books/about/A_Child_Called_It.html?id=doyjAgAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&source=kp_read_button
“Dave Pelzer was beaten and starved by his emotionally unstable, alcoholic mother. This book covers the early years of his life and is an affecting look at the horrors of child abuse and the determination of one child to survive against the odds.”
@J The comments about having a bad childhood aren’t meant to be derogatory towards you. Or be disparaging. They are meant man to man to give you insight on your behavior. For your own good, if you want insight. Not for us to get off on pillorying (attack or ridicule publicly) you. The comments about bad childhood are meant to point out that you are over-reacting in adulthood to your childhood experiences and the experiences that your mother and father gave to your psyche. It means you might have work (than the next guy) to do in the next ten… Read more »
At some point on the journey to responsible ( because like it or not your best thinking got you where you are today ) adulthood a man has to separate the good things his parents or mentors taught him from the bad. Realize they did the best they could ( didn’t flush him ) with what they had to work with and make the best he can with what he has to work with. I think saying I had a rough childhood would be bragging a sort of look at me now how Ive overcome oppression or something. Damn I… Read more »
SJF, “It means you might have work (than the next guy) to do in the next ten years. And know who you are and your motivations along the lines of what Blax was trying to say. And which you might not resonate with. Overcoming a bad child is not easy. Just ask you know who on TRM. It doesn’t come naturally.” This is the road to freedom for everyone, to find what truly drives them and their motivations, hard work. Scott Peck’s the Road Less Traveled is a good start, it has been useful to me. Our childhood drives a… Read more »
@j Looks matter (not listening to another word from @HABD on this matter, until he takes the challenge. He’s one of the best commentators on game related discussions on this site and field report breakdowns, but I side with LM side here). makin’ too much sense for ya, huh?…lol… even IF i did do that challenge (which i’m not going to…lol… bc i STILL… even in my mid-50’s… get zits (big pus-filled/bleedy ones) ALREADY… when my diet goes to crap… and no, it doesn’t seem to matter when interacting with girls… but then why would it, when i can see… Read more »
“Overcoming a bad child is not easy.”
Attention TRM visitors: Please DO NOT feed the North American man-boy (Homosapiens Petulantus). He requires a strict diet of mortification.
J’s addiction to process and detail and argument isn’t to understand the SMP, women, himself or whatever. All his problem are between his ears, childhood and all.
Btw, j, if you are a psychopath as you claim (lol) 1) you’d not admit it and 2) nothing, absolutely nothing past, present, and future would rattle you. Including zits.
“Like the type 2 diabetic ,the PUA wakes up one day wondering why the bitches are all a mess,and there is no pleasure in them.” j actually shames me for wanting to have a meaningful (for the purpose of jointly raising a child) monogamic relationship with a young low n-count woman and for being unable to find one because the young ones are on the carousel and the only ones available are the post-wall damaged goods. His sole concern is dipping his cock in pussy juice (though only his condom gets wet lol) with an infinite number of women. Until… Read more »
@Orson:
There is no practical difference between you and J. Just because you are looking at opposite sides of the same coin doesn’t mean you aren’t playing exactly the same hard case game.
But some people have to look at their guts spilled out all over the sidewalk before they realize that they’re better off keeping them in their abdominal cavity.