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Sitting here like uninvited company
Wallowing in my own obscenities
I share a cigarette with negativity
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies

Bathed in perspiration drowned my enemies
Used my inspiration for a guillotine
I fire a loaded mental cannon to the page
Leaning on the pedestal that holds my self denial
Firing the pistol that shoots my holy pride
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies

And I said “Hey what you yellin’ about
Conditions, permission, mirrored self-affliction?”

“Hey what you yellin’ about
Sadists’ co-addiction, perfect analogies?”

“Hey what you yellin’ about
Conditions, permission, mirrored self-affliction?”

Leaning on the pedestal that holds my self denial
Firing the pistol that shoots my holy pride
Sitting here like wet ashes with X’s in my eyes
And drawing flies

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Rick
Rick
2 years ago

Rollo,
Love your work, have just finished preventative medicine for the second time but would love to ask your opinions on a few things I’m going through at the moment.
Cheers
Rick

Eric
Eric
2 years ago

Thank you for “The Rational Male”. Just finished the book.

Roman Scoggins
Roman Scoggins
2 years ago

Hello Rollo, are you still doing consults. I am the perfect example of Bets Blue and I am in the process of unplugging. I’ve been following you and the red pill group for the last month and my wife of 4 years, who had been riding the clock carousel until she met beta me, told me that she wants to split. I know that tough time are ahead but believe that with red pill knowledge I will be much better prepared and will shorten my grieving.

Munir
Munir
2 years ago

Hi, Rollo I have some information about my ex-religion Islam which can help you with your new book. Send me your email here so that I can share with you these info.
Email: Lucjy_one@outlook.Com

Frank Nova
Frank Nova
2 years ago

UCLA Students Sign Petition to Put Trump Supporters in Concentration Camps

February 23, 2019
Keywords: concentration camps, diversity, kaitlin bennett, radical left, sensitivity training, ucla

Kaitlin Bennett went undercover at UCLA as Jenna Talia to ask students to sign a petition to throw conservatives into involuntary re-education camps.

[b]Not only were the students she approached ecstatic to sign it, but one member of UCLA’s student government encouraged her to change the language to “diversity” and “sensitivity training” to hide their real intentions so the administration would approve it.[/b]

Watch the craziness below.

https://libertyhangout.org/2019/02/ucla-students-sign-petition-to-put-trump-supporters-in-concentration-camps/

James
2 years ago

Hi Rollo, Just a quick one, a great push-back to the censorship has finally arrived. Its called Dissenter here is the link. https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/dissenter-extension/. Its basically an extension you add to your web browser and allows you to comment on any URL.

P
P
2 years ago

Meow Mix Commercial https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTunhRVyREU

Lars
Lars
2 years ago
Matt Obermiller
Matt Obermiller
2 years ago

Hi Rollo, The first part of this piece caught my attention so thought I’d pass it on. It rather backs up your statement about women trying to force men to abandon their reproductive strategy in favor of the female reproductive strategy. Sex: It doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means MARCH 22, 2018 • REV. DR. ROB TOORNSTRA Your spouse probably doesn’t view sex the way that you do–and that’s a good thing. When God created men and women, He did it in such a way that our differences work together to strengthen the bond between a husband and a… Read more »

Wild Horse Free
Wild Horse Free
2 years ago

Rollo, Roosh hurt me deeply. I know all his secrets. His biggest secret I will do my best to keep. This I will tell you, Roosh must be sponsored by twitter. He doesn’t have fifty thousand followers. Maybe a thousand. Roosh has lots of fake accounts. Roosh uses fake accounts to harass Anthony, Tate ,Codybroh, Most of the cccomments on his twitter are him, fake accounts. Rollo how do I stop hurting? Will telling this make me feel better no, I hurt so much. He treated me shamefully. He broke my heart. He locks my accounts on twitter. He doxxed… Read more »

Savannah
Savannah
2 years ago

Rollo, I was loyal to Roosh as long as he was loyal to me. I kept his secrets as long as he was loyal to me. I didn’t like Roosh insulting Anthony’s wife on a twitter account. I didn’t like him trying to ruin Anthony andTates business on the sly, even yours.I kept that secret as long as he was loyal to me. He hurt me more than any man has ever hurt me. I put up with insults because I loved him more than you could know. I wanted you to console me. I was in the most pain,… Read more »

Savannah
Savannah
2 years ago

I wrote that letter last Saturday because I was out of control hurting. I wanted Anthony to know who was harassing him. I someone to console me. I was wrong. I also wanted to tell someone how Roosh treated me. Telling one person how I have been treated began to ease the pain. For sure I love Roosh very much, but he valued ego more than me. I am not in pain any more. I am not hurting anymore. I am not in a deeply hurtful situation anymore. I can heal.

NewGuy
NewGuy
2 years ago

Hey Rollo – Listened to your podcast with Pat Campbell, Red Pill 101 – Ep. 10: Cheaters & Manipulators “What’s the number one reason men cheat? According to ‘marriage counselor’ Gary Neuman, ninety-two percent of men said it wasn’t primarily about the sex. “The majority said it was an emotional disconnection, specifically a sense of feeling underappreciated. A lack of thoughtful gestures,” Gary says. “Men are very emotional beings. They just don’t look like that. Or they don’t seem like that. Or they don’t tell you that.” I 100% agree with this statement after being married for 28 years. Women… Read more »

DMR
DMR
2 years ago

Rollo, I need some help. I’m reading your first book and am in the process of unplugging. (I’m getting your books for my sons, too). I’m a retired soldier and have been married over 20 years and now am into swinging (more her than me). It’s pretty much an open marriage because she’ll hook up with other men as well by herself. It’s total hypergamy at work. I understand that now, but it’s more complicated than that. I’m trying to use your book to help me decipher and deal with my situation, but it’s so much information, I was hoping… Read more »

Mark Bonocore
Mark Bonocore
2 years ago

Rollo, I’ve been watching your videos on Red Pill and religion and am looking forward to your upcoming book. I’m a single guy and, for the past 30 years, I’ve been a reasonably well-known apologist for the Catholic Church; and so I may be able to offer you some historical and theological insights that may be helpful to your book –specifically, how traditional Christianity has been tragically re-contextualized (in ways you may not be aware of) and so distorted by the Feminine Imperative, as per your thesis. Key to my perspective is the concept that Christianity, in its very essence,… Read more »

Andrew
Andrew
2 years ago

Rollo, Several months ago, I decided that I was finished with the lying, cheating, and disrespect of my wife. As a result, I decided to start preparing to get divorced. Part of that, was preparing to re-enter the sexual market place. I didn't know about any of this stuff at the time. I was as blue pill as could be. I found your blog from some other random blog about picking up girls. Yours was one of the only sites linked on that site that was free. You have a different outlook on things than the PUA community does. Your… Read more »

kfg
kfg
2 years ago

Welcome home, Andrew. It might be a bit of fixer upper, but the roof and foundation are solid, so no worries.

Mike
Mike
2 years ago

Hello Rollo,,, new to manosphere,,,spot on what I’ve heard so far,,, Orlando sounds good,,, please contact me
mkruns@hotmail.com

Mike

engin tavsanli
engin tavsanli
2 years ago

Hi there, I live in Turkey. Getting the printed version of books are quite difficult for me, amazon adds $10 shipping fee. Is there any way to buy an electrnoic copy (kindle or google play) ? Thanks.

Rebel Yells
Rebel Yells
2 years ago

@ Rollo You say that The Village is training boys to be defective girls but that is only the half of it. The Village is also training girls to be defective boys. All you have to do is looking at these movies and television shows these days. I didn’t imagine half the nonsense they are filling these girls heads with when i was a kid and then they send them out in the world and it is a train wreck as evidenced recently by the video of the big Muslim man fighting and knocking out two girls that decided to… Read more »

Tazz
2 years ago

Damn is there anyway to contact you Rollo? Or what about Pook?

Raven Fall
Raven Fall
2 years ago

Heya Rollo, Thanks for all your writing – I’m working through your books, (on Preventative Medicine now). Insightful, awesome. I’m 50, young at heart in a way. Good life. Been with a woman for 14 years now. Not married but “committed”, no children. She’s the same age. Though I imagine I’m a blue piller going purple – in reading your work, it explains most of my past relationships, the dark manipulations I’ve always felt confused and trapped by, the inner fierceness that knows its being fucked with but contains itself to be gentler and nicer and so on . Now… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
2 years ago

Raven Fall

“How do I go about my day staying connected to this love, without expressing too much?”

Step one – put this “love” in a box, and burn it.

Step two – put your woman in a box, labeled “women”. Proceed from there.

Good luck.

Guido Salazar
Guido Salazar
2 years ago

Hi Rolo or who ever reads this, Im a listener of your books, my job allows me to do, so i had listen to Rational Male at least 4 times and Preventive medicine about 2 and a bit more. My question which you do talk about on Preventive but is still not clear, is to know what if the women on LTR get introduce to The Rational Male? will this knowledge make her aware of why she does what she does? will she “calm” down or less-shittest me? how will her game change after knowing what i know? Thank you… Read more »

EhIntellect
EhIntellect
2 years ago

Yo! Guido, “……still not clear, is to know what if the women on LTR get introduce to The Rational Male? will this knowledge make her aware of why she does what she does? will she “calm” down or less-shittest me? how will her game change after knowing what i know?” A little introduction. I went RP. Bought the books. My wife freaked out at my change in behavior. I had talks with my boys. She thought me deranged. She did her homework and checked out TRM. She read the comments and figured out I was commenting. She told me she… Read more »

TJ
TJ
2 years ago

Reading here has shown me much, but leaves me somewhat at a loss in how to apply it to a 40+ year marriage and both being in our sixties…..

Marco Vargas Silva
2 years ago

Dear Rollo Tomassi, since you are studying the male and female dynamics, from a religious approach, are you aware of the “Theology of the Body” from St John Paul II?
This book is his ultimate philosophical work, from 30 years of hearing couples confessions, analysed from the Bible and mostly from Genesis, preventing all the damage caused from pronografy and the sexual revolution. I think it will save you a lot of work and I also beleave you have enough backgroud to read it as a philosopher from a philosopher although it was writed by the Pope.

Bob
Bob
2 years ago

Thanks Rollo. Please write advice on men, the workplace, corporate, and how to proceed as a red pill man atvwork.

Chagrined
Chagrined
2 years ago

Rollo. I just finished listening to the first volume of The Rational Male on Audible. I have already purchased the other two and will begin them next. I also just ordered all three books in print form and I want to be able to read them carefully as well. Your work is truly revolutionary and as a man in his late 50s I’ve had a lot of life experience that validates the vast majority of what you say. I understand that your fourth book will deal with religion. I have had varied. Church experiences over 2 1/2 decades that include… Read more »

Jack
Jack
2 years ago

Hey Tom, I’ve been reading you to get a better grip on the state of the union as it were. I’d love to hear your thoughts on PATRICE O’NEIL, he was the only publicly known famous man talking about this in the current year, and had he not died tragically he would’ve been heralded much like Peterson. What’s your take on what he’s said?

David Dodge
David Dodge
2 years ago

Looks like another disturbance in the Manosphhere. Rollo, please keep the Red Pill 101 going. Since something /somebody is apparently trying to break up the core group, I am surprised The Ministry of Truth is not involved, or is it? This is not the way you get stronger. It’s almost like Lenin and Stalin purging their Officers just before a major war, it restrained the country’s ability to fight. Who is next?
Keep the focus on saving guys. Fight the good fight.

Gus Wolf
Gus Wolf
2 years ago

Rollo, Your writing and thinking style is similar to H. L. Mencken.
Also you dissect these cancerous patterns like Max Weber.
You have beaconed the way out for us men through these ferocious, uncompromising, and devouring waves. I am sure your work is cultivating a healthy medium for us (and women). Thank you. Looking forward to attending your talks.

Staxzz
Staxzz
1 year ago

Rollo what are your thoughts on this?

https://wset.com/news/nation-world/new-drug-to-boost-womens-sex-drive-approved-in-us-06-21-2019

With some women and their false rape accusations now a days also.

Sometimes I really think we are doomed!

Jafyk
Jafyk
1 year ago

Rollo it says your latest blog is password protected. What password? My email is roseuzo45@yahoo.com. Send me my password thanks.

Philipp Rebmann
Philipp Rebmann
1 year ago

An accolade to Rollo Tomassi and His Rational Alpha Male has been sung back in 1984 by Mina Mazzini with Piu di cosi!

Mitch
Mitch
1 year ago

👍

Verveboy
1 year ago

I thought this stuff was lifesaving….. and seeing soundgarden lyrics…. so obscure… who does that…. but its brilliant.. in its entirety.

Andy
Andy
1 year ago

Please can i get the link to subscribe to your newsletter?

Calvin
Calvin
1 year ago

I’m in the Phoenix area would there be any future coaching set here or something online?

hopeless loser
hopeless loser
1 year ago

Dear Rollo! PLEASE LET ME CONTACT YOU fuckyoufuckoff@yandex.com – I only left an alt email because I don’t want the bluepill mainstream holding it against me! I would rather you get money I don’t have, if need be, than “therapists” getting medicaid money for their 4-5 inch penises, their unhappysex lives etc and their own start at 30+ years old (never to see a naturally perky titty in their lives in person either) “treating” me for my “depression” that, quite frankly, can not be cured by bedpost notches, just platonic relations or a “lower” or “more realistic expectation of women”.… Read more »

Obvious Throw Away
Obvious Throw Away
1 year ago

Hi! I don’t know if this is the place to ask but i couldn’t find any contact info in the entire site I’ve been a regular reader for some years, and i have to say nothing has ever helped me as much as your works But thanks aside, i wanted to ask you if you wanted your content to be translated to other languages, as i think this would be of great help to most men around the world; language shouldn’t be a limitation. I’m willing to help with a spanish translation of what would be the primordial works of… Read more »

Obvious Throw Away
Obvious Throw Away
1 year ago

I sent you an email around 2 weeks ago, in case you didn’t notice it

Frank Nova
Frank Nova
1 year ago

What happened to Benny Hill…

Seems modern political rectitude made him loose his joy of life
He seeked refuge in the bottle. It didn’t last long.

Mike
Mike
1 year ago

I read this site with great interest and I find it to be stellar. One thing though: internet is a volatile and fickle thing, and I would like the wisdom herein to persist. Not vanish by some unforseen adversity. Your books are great, but I think the collective essays on this site are heads and shoulders more important. Something about being contemporary, rather than a summary. I can’t describe it better, but books are stale compared to the ongoing and updated stream of conciousness that blogs are, hyperlinks and all. I could probably scrub the contents into an archive with… Read more »

Kazem Ardekanian
Kazem Ardekanian
1 year ago
Reply to  Mike

In agreement, these essays must be protected. They are gold.

glchoya
1 year ago

Hi Rollo, This is probably not the right place for the following post, but I don’t seem to be be able to find a way of getting in touch with you more privately, on here. I stumbled upon you in a YouTube talk you featured with Rich from Entrepreneurs in Cars, and I loved what you had to say there. That was a few weeks ago, and here I am finishing “The Rational Male – Preventive Médecine”. I find your work remarkable. Thank you! Just one thing: I wish you could have had the book proofread. It is crammed with… Read more »

Frank Nova
Frank Nova
1 year ago

https://slate.com/human-interest/2019/08/male-birth-control-man-up.html

What’s It Like to Be on Male Birth Control?
Man Up host Aymann Ismail talks to someone who participated in a study of contraception for men.

By Aymann Ismail
Aug 31, 201911:00 AM

Othello Aurelius
Othello Aurelius
1 year ago

Rollo Tomassi: You should read article in Lifeste News entitled “Cardinal Burke has ‘become too influenced by radical feminism’ “. Note also strong backlash against Burke’s very measuresd, reasonable concerns. Burke, perhaps most influential American Catholic prelate, has authority in Church greatly reduced by Pope Francis, largely for his traditionalist views. Feminization of Catholic Church since sexual revolution, including Pope Francis’ attempts to pander to single mothers, is topic very appropriate for your upcoming book. You are spot on regarding inter gender dynamics, and the Church, using ecclesiastical language, is being torn apart by this feminization of its great institution.… Read more »

Othello Aurelius
Othello Aurelius
1 year ago

Correction: Lifesite News: “Cardinal Burke: Catholic Church has ‘become too influenced by radical feminism”.

Rollo, you should discuss feminization of Catholic Church since 1960’s, when Church fell under influence of sexual revolution.

Patrick Gelpke
Patrick Gelpke
1 year ago

Hi Rollo, I would love to join your tribe. I’m 41 and an American citizen who has never lived in the states. I’m in the education business and I am currently experimenting with kids and young boys with a “red pill” lens. Is there any way I can contact you privately?

A.T.
A.T.
1 year ago

Hey Rollo! I sent you an email a few weeks back- and I know that you probably get tons of emails- so it may have just slipped through the cracks. Anyway, I am 35 years of age- and I’m dating a girl who’s 24 and has some baggage. She’s recently divorced (which is a crazy story in of itself), came up in a home where toxicity is normal, was taught to have the “strong and independent” mindset from her mother (who by the way has been in a slew of bad relationships), avoids problems (ie; drink, argue her points then… Read more »

David John Esposito
David John Esposito
1 year ago

I’m curious how you view ester perel, I don’t expect her to be a male focused person, but at least a female trying to explain things about relationships and I know she gets into distance in the relationship, I haven’t dove into her outside YouTube, I realized I grew up In a narcissistic home and just been trying to “not have that happen again” at least the trauma part- but I do see elemwnts of hypergamy in how I got as the scapegoat shunned and devalued like craZy. Made me realize never to let a women shame you!

longjohn@die-optimisten.ndet
longjohn@die-optimisten.ndet
1 year ago

Dear Rollo, I’ve read many of your books and I have spent dozens of hours reading and enjoying your very well-written articles on the web site. I consider myself a proud, red-pill-aware, alpha male, and I have discussed many of the most striking points of red pill literature with my girlfriend who I am going to marry. She herself is happy to consider me an alpha male too; she’s also red-pill aware, enjoys being a woman, being feminine, and having a man on her side who carries the qualities of masculinity. My question is: What are the implications for red-pill-aware… Read more »

Lex
Lex
1 year ago

Hi master Rollo, and all involved in this amazing website Thank you for the work you have done Rollo, your book had opened my eyes and explained everything that I have been noticing in my life (my grammar at times leaves much to be desired, for this isn’t my first language). It turns out, I have not been crazy all these years. You truly deserve a monument. Having said that, if things get rough in the work that you do – I urge you to go “E. Shnowden way” and seek refuge in my country of origin [RF RSFSR] I… Read more »

Lex
Lex
1 year ago

Rollo, I have a few ideas. better if I email it to you. prototip.momentum@gmail.com just unplugget one friend, after I have been unplugged (more like.. nuked out of the matrix) for over a year.

Neil
1 year ago

Couldn’t thank you enough Rollo for The Rational Male book. I got the book and started reading it when I needed it the most. And thanks to Richard Cooper( It was his You Tube channel that recommended your book). Before reading the book I truly believed the myth of the lonely old man. I was made to believe mainstream media and family that 30 is the age when a man hits the wall. Your book made me realize that it was all part of the feminine social strategy so that they could feel better about themselves because we both hit… Read more »

Ean Lee
Ean Lee
1 year ago

In reading your books, I wonder if there is a female version, so women too can understand the choices they have made in there lives and the way I now understand my choices.
What would you recommend for women questioning there own choices?

Jafyk
Jafyk
1 year ago
Reply to  Ean Lee

I don’t think women care about the choices they make since in their opinion they are always right and how dare you tell them anything. By the time the few care to re-evaluate their choices they are usually old (too late) and only desperate men with less option will go for them. What advice can women be given when red pill essentially gives us the hack to avoid, date or use them up if they don’t serve our purpose in the smv.
How do you even know a woman is really red pill and not pretending?

Lucky Houstin
Lucky Houstin
1 year ago

Rollo … can you link the 16 commandments … Rossiy is dark and the younger gen of men desperately need this (along with your Iron Rules)!

kmac
kmac
1 year ago

the third day Im reading your book (The Rational Male) went to a swimming pool/sauna, with no intention to pick up girls, met a beautiful girl while reading your book, sat next to her, just said its a nice place to be in after a while, later told her to write down her number on the last page, she asked about the book, told her its just some man stuff nothing special, thank you Rollo!

Ruben
Ruben
1 year ago

Greettings would you like me to translate your book to spanish?. Im very fluent speaker-reader.

Pedro Costa
Pedro Costa
1 year ago

Can I translate your posts into Portuguese and post them for common benefit?

eric
eric
1 year ago

Hey Rollo

I’ve been reading your book and have a question about hb ranking.

Does women in any specific rank has her “natural” game and can you talk about this game characteristics at any rank?

The same question goes about men ranking. Is men of a specific rank should base his game upon it? I mean, if a man ranked 6… what type of game he should develop beside being funny?

Sename Adoukonou
Sename Adoukonou
1 year ago

I have been reading your posts. You talk about the burden of performance. But you are against transactional relationship. Don’t you think when a man accepts the burden of performance he automatically enters into a transactional relationship?

Jafyk
Jafyk
1 year ago

I believe the idea of burden of performance is an implied nature of being in a relationship. It’s part of what a woman values in a man. As men in general we have to meet this burden of performance even when we are not in a relationship. It’s a societal double standard that our core appreciation by others comes as a result of being able to meet that burden of performance. A man who doesn’t meet his burden of performance doesn’t get much respect even from other guys even in something as unimportant as playing video games within a group… Read more »

SJF
SJF
1 year ago

“Don’t you think when a man accepts the burden of performance he automatically enters into a transactional relationship?” It goes to psychological “self-differentiation”. Look that up. In red pill terms: put your oxygen mask on first. Primary in LTRs: Be attractive don’t be unattractive. You don’t give because you want to receive, or be externally validated. You do it because your glass is full and it seems like the right thing to do. The burden of performance is you being full of charisma because you have put in the work to go forward gracefully and hopefully have the wind in… Read more »

Charles Spradley
Charles Spradley
1 year ago

Hello Rollo, I have just finished reading “The Rational Male”. I picked up your book on a humble while doing some contracting work here in the Nashville area. I saw the book lying around and thought the title sounded interesting. I had it for a couple of weeks before I even attempted to read it. Then one day I decided to start reading and I must say it is one of the most profound things I’ve read in my entire life. I am 56 yrs. old and have been in countless relationships (I guess you would call me a ”… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

” . . . on some level it was disheartening to feel like I’ve been a sucker all this time . . .”

Feel dis-illusioned instead, then move forward with clearer vision.

Ri
Ri
1 year ago

I am writing to express some of my thoughts and to ask some questions. I’ve read your work here and there over the years. I appreciate what must be a big personal drive as you strive for better understanding and work to bring others along to your point of view. I don’t agree with many parts of your theoretical model of …what would you call it? …Men and women?…men vs. women? ….But I also DO agree with many of what you describe. I’m not without my own intensive and extensive interactions and observations, professional as well as personal. As a… Read more »

Jafyk
Jafyk
1 year ago
Reply to  Ri

In what ways do you mean Rollo simplifies women? I suspect it might have something to do with saying that women can’t help that they are hypergamous or that they act a certain way during their cycle because they can’t help it. I like to think that most of the time women are aware of what they are doing and probably exhibit such behaviors automatically from years of practice and being enabled by society’s expectations of them. For example, “There’s no way that little woman can hurt you”, “Look at how she’s crying. You must have really done something to… Read more »

Chagrined
Chagrined
1 year ago

Rollo, I’m very intrigued by your upcoming new book on religion and the red pill. As a former Christian, I am deeply aware of how evangelical/fundamentalist doctrines on divorce and remarriage drive many men to despair as their marriages fail. I was one such man and have a multifaceted story surrounding my experience with it in the church and with Christian women. I believe that any book covering the red pill and Christianity should address this topic, because it has the possibility to help men at their lowest point in life where they are the most vulnerable and even susceptible… Read more »

George G.
George G.
1 year ago

Rollo, not sure you written or spoken about this topic but I just listened on the radii of Court decides that man has to pay ex-fiance $50,000 for breach of Promise of Mary in Florida? Something to mention if not already.

James
James
1 year ago

My life is either unraveling or coming together, I can’t tell right now. I hooked up with a secret crush of mine who was “chasing me around” for a few months. I was busy being a drunk and spinning plates and this girl stopped being the hook up queen and sobered up about 3 years ago. She did hook me with a text message that was probably more typical of her “party girl” persona; using “no strings attached sex”, I took the bait. She’s beautiful and knows how to seduce a man. Weapons grade seduction! I deleted Facebook, Instagram, and… Read more »

Jafyk
Jafyk
1 year ago
Reply to  James

James, yes you’re making excuses and kicking her to the curb. You knew who she was and what she had done and still chose to get in a relationship with her. At the moment she admits to turning over a new leaf you kick her out. If you’re trying to lead us to believe you’re a high value man with standards by mentioning your stats (accomplishments) then why get into a relationship with a woman whom you consider low-quality by “your standards”? Now about the 2nd part which you’re asking about her motives doesn’t matter. What matters is your red… Read more »

SJF
SJF
1 year ago

James.

Post your frustrations in Field Reports instead of About.

Copy and Paste what you said here to Field Reports. To get replies.

Bogdan
Bogdan
1 year ago

Rollo, I am currently reading your books. It opens my eyes. I am on the PREVENTIVE MEDECINE and reading about the ovulatory phase. There is something I am wondering about. Here almost every girls are on the pill. How this affects their behavior ? How it affects their feminity and reproduction desire ? I searched about and I understand that it regularize their hormones. There is no more ups and downs. How is this regularization of hormones impact us as men ? Their desire of reproduction\feminity is reduced, But our desire isn’t. Is this why they keep a monopole on… Read more »

Bogdan
Bogdan
1 year ago

Ok so the pill is not influencing that much as the time of life girls are in. Ok, good to know, knowing the bigger picture helps navigating the waters. Just improving game without the bigger picture is confusing. Connecting dots, really a eye opening book. Good job and thanks.

Jeff
Jeff
1 year ago

Check out on YouTube- ‘SoulPancake- How old Is Too Old For One Night Stands?’ Just in the first 10 secs of the video she says she doesn’t want anymore one night stands BECAUSE she’s almost 30 (epiphany stage) and she’s ready to settle down (had plenty of alpha seed; ready for beta male security).

Ish Sarwar
1 year ago

Hi Rolo,

I got your audio course, The Rationale Male. I really enjoyed it and learned a lot. A lot of interesting points and would highly recommend it.

G-Game Playbook
G-Game Playbook
1 year ago

This is a fantastic blog, even in this so called ‘new age’ there will remain an appetite for essays and deeper discussion!

John
John
1 year ago

Hard Times make Strong Men > Strong Men make Good Times > Good Times make Weak Men > Weak Men make Hard Times >

Rafael Remy
1 year ago

Hello,

we need rational male translated into German. Urgently!

I could do the job with my friends. Especially part one first.

Thanks,
Rafa

Gunther
Gunther
1 year ago

I have a great direction you could take for some new material. How do I email you?

Slyrcik187
Slyrcik187
1 year ago

Hi Rollo, I’ve been borderline-obsessed with gender dynamics for the past year now, especially from a psychological/behavioral perspective that allows for application in the field. I especially enjoy your perspective since I studied Psychology and Social Behavior in college and transitioned my career from Applied Behavior Analysis in K-12 education to pursing my passion for art/design years later (slight reverse parallel of your career path stated in the book). I’ve read 2 of your books now and what I find most interesting is how its confirmed the many notions I’ve had at the back of my mind but could not… Read more »

Slyrcik187
Slyrcik187
1 year ago

@PalmaSailor

I didn’t mean discuss the Rational Male books with open-minded females, but to discuss Fathers’ parental rights (or lack thereof), male reproductive contraception, and the declining education of boys as a result of the Feminist Imperative especially since they have sons, which would raise their concern for men’s rights.

And yes, do not talk about fight club…as also mentioned in the The 48 Laws of Power.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
1 year ago

I didn’t mean discuss the Rational Male books with open-minded females, but to discuss Fathers’ parental rights (or lack thereof), male reproductive contraception, and the declining education of boys as a result of the Feminist Imperative especially since they have sons, which would raise their concern for men’s rights. “Have sons” and “concerns for men’s rights” don’t go together, because of the 4:1 ingroup preference women have. Women generally don’t deal in abstractions. If their son gets falsely accused of sexual something, they likely will get fired up. But the abstract concept of campus kangaroo courts ruling about “consent” in… Read more »

Blaximus
1 year ago

My manhood and my rights are non-negotiable and not up for discussion.

Slyrcik187
Slyrcik187
1 year ago

@PalmaSailor and Anonymous Reader

I hear what you’re saying. Thanks for the input.

Dan Starry
Dan Starry
1 year ago

Rollo, I would like to have a convo. Recently red pilled by son. Ironic . Been married almost 29 years. Would love some input, besides get divorced, But that may be an option on the table. Happy to donate to the cause.

Kill da beta
Kill da beta
1 year ago

Reynolds was relieved to get to the end of a dark chapter in his life after his relationship with Del Busso turned sour when it was revealed that the 30-year-old had faked several pregnancies and fabricated other tragic life events as a way to ask Reynolds for money

https://amp.nine.com.au/article/3e40d68c-2db9-4df8-9c72-d85cc54e87cf

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
1 year ago

@Kill da Beta

Very interesting article, you should put that link in a different thread.

Patricio
Patricio
1 year ago

Hi guys. I found a newspaper article today about a woman wanting an open marriage. To me looks like she’s tired of her beta husband and wants some alpha in her life. Wants her cake and eat it. I’m interested in views if people on this site and Rollo if he can find time. Would make a good blog post. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/relationships/asked-husband-open-relationship-agreed/ I asked my husband for an open relationship and he agreed For author Tova Leigh, sex within her (happy) marriage wasn’t enough. So how have they made it work? When the nurse from the breast clinic called and said… Read more »

abed abasi
abed abasi
1 year ago

The second book for E version isn’t available on Amazon…why?

Derko
Derko
1 year ago

Hi Rollo I’m a big fan of your work. I would like kindly to ask you your take about work and money. We are sold the idea that work=money, we are sold the idea that to get married and to have a happy life we need to work. It feel like an employment imperative to control people and play safe while you can get fired in a second. The red pill is about piercing through the veil of the pervasive ideology of the feminine imperative. Do you think a red pill for the employment imperative is needed nowadays to help… Read more »

Mark
Mark
1 year ago

Hey Rollo. I’d lie a consult with you. Just to go over some things and get some clearity.

Flo
Flo
1 year ago

Its World-History whats happening right now in California!

The gigantic pandemic lie starts to break dowm, a physician from the US is sick of it all, he stepped up, speeking, representing thousands of physicians,from all over the United States.
Share this information like your were crazy! This Information has to reach the whole planet! Every day that vanishs puts more and more sorrow on mankinds shoulders!

US Dr. Jeff Barkey stands up for: “…thousands of physicans whose voices are beeing silenced…”

Fin
Fin
1 year ago

Hi Rollo, have recently finished the Rational Male audiobook which i enjoyed but I have a question about one of the fundamental principles expressed in the 2nd chapter on Plate Theory. You advise to be covert not overt when expressing an intent to be non-exclusive and not to indicate explicitly that you’ve got other plates until a point where competition anxiety manifests to the where shes switches to being overt and somewhat acts out. Also, in a later chapter you say to avoid at all costs being overt about non-exclusivity and that it should be implied from behaviour. What is… Read more »

kfg
kfg
1 year ago

“Would being overt not pre-select out this headache in the first place?”

Sure, by pre-selecting you out of the desirable to women pool.

“What is the advantage of this in comparison to being overt and explicit with strong boundaries from the get-go?”

Women hate overt communication. They don’t want to do it and they don’t want to receive it. Does not this exchange sound familiar?:

Him: Why are you mad? What did I do?
Her: You know perfectly well what you did!

Kshitij
Kshitij
1 year ago

Hey Rollo, thanks for sharing your precious knowledge with us. But I had a question regarding game. How can we improve game? Is cold approach the only way, or if there is an alternative then please share.

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
1 year ago

Kshitij

Suggest you take Game questions to the Field Reports section.

https://therationalmale.com/field-reports-comment-page-2-comments/comment-page-153/#comments

TXB
TXB
1 year ago

I understand the fourth book is almost done. Just for fun, check out “Dark Matter 2525” on Youtube. It’s all about religion. Thanks for the knowledge .

Drapetoman

Drapetomania was a conjectural mental illness that, in 1851, American physician Samuel A. Cartwright hypothesized as the cause of enslaved Africans fleeing captivity. Contemporarily reprinted in the South, Cartwright’s article was widely mocked and satirized in the northern United States.

Romeo Sakakibara
Romeo Sakakibara
1 year ago

I had my first contact with your work about 2 years ago and since then I have been studying it systematically, what has been very good for me. The observations that you have been made about inter-gender relationship dynamics over all these years make perfect sense to me and I have been, also, connecting some dots and making some observations. One of these my observations has to do with some Brazilian youtubers who do not understand (or do not want to understand) the Red Pill as a praxeology. So, they end up mixing it with self-help messages (Tony Robbins and… Read more »

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David MacGlashan
David MacGlashan
1 year ago

Rollo, I was watching to a red pill you tube video today and it brought into focus the profound effect your book has had on me. A year and a half ago I went looking for reasons as to the issues I was having with a 34 year marriage, bought your book (Audible) and thought you had written about me. As I listened I acknowledged mentally “that what I did wrong and that what the outcome was”. This was a bitter pill to swallow, and I’m not sure I have fully taken it yet. However it did explain how I… Read more »

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