For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
So, any thoughts about game for Halloween?
I’m not saying that I moralize on “sexual” predators in the political realm. I don’t have a judgment on HW, AnthonyW or BC.
I’m just saying that the FI backing by their political ideology is not actually working. See how that works? Not very well if it isn’t kept below the radar.
@ SJF
” Definition of fiat money. Paper money or coins of little or no intrinsic value in themselves and not convertible into gold or silver, but made legal tender by fiat (order) of the government. [ 1] Fiat money is an intrinsically worthless object, such as paper money, that is deemed to be money by law.”
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Follow the game, always.
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“So, any thoughts about game for Halloween?”
I’m going to try to harvest an antlerless deer the weekend before with a bow.
it’s not often I quote myself lol ——- of course the total badass move would be for him to embrace it, “oh yeah, that’s the only way a nice guy like me can get any pussy; she has something that I want, and I have something she wants” ——– from his point of view, it *was* game to use your money/status to score pussy; whether it was or not is not the point… it was working great for him for a long time…. why would he learn RP/game as defined here? he’s too busy touching the back of a starlet’s… Read more »
@ Rollo
Man, you still have a lot of work to do.
we *all* have a lot of work to do, especially those who think they got it all figured out
no need to point out the irony; is it ironic if it’s also true?
” From a male perspective, and particularly that of an uninitiated beta male, negotiation of desire seems a rational solution to the problem. Men tend to innately rely on deductive reasoning; otherwise known as an “if then” logic stream. The code is often something like this:
I need sex + women have the sex I want + query women about their conditions for sex + meet prerequisites for sex = the sex I want.”
https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/25/the-desire-dynamic/
sorry mers, couldn’t help it
It’s cool ((They)) wouldn’t drop harvey if the public wouldn’t focus on him
Plus its working pretty well since narratives changed 99% since last week
So if everybody has to deal with fiat money, then more fiat money is not worth less fiat money? I’m not fooling myself. I’ll take more money any day. I’ve struggled with money and I’ve been successful with money. I’ve kayaked upstream and I’ve kayaked downstream. I’ll take the less resistance any day. But what are we actually arguing for in terms of agency? I thought it was Red Pill and Game. Harvey understood Red Pill in his industry. He knew how women operated. Did he not have Red Pill Agency in the Past? Have you actually saw him flailing… Read more »
short answer = Game
My reason for bringing up ” fiat ” currency is related to men getting in such a froth over something that isn’t real. That’s all. People kill and maim and do all manner of evil over worthless paper. And, people worship others who supposedly have a shitload of that worthless paper. That and understanding that when it’s said that a man is worth a bazillion dollars, that’s utter bullshit in the truer analysis. If the ” stock market ” ( lol ) crashes tomorrow, how much will warren buffet and bill gates be worth? How about Apple? Exxon/Mobil? It’s just… Read more »
@Zipper
at some level I admire him for making his ugly ass fuckable in some weird way, kinda gives me hope for my own improvement lol
Try hiring a whore. Money/resources can make any ugly mug fuckable. Otoh, Henry Kissinger was as ugly as they come and girls were always after him…and not for money or resources.
blax, that RM link is right on but it’s not in dispute that for most men that line thinking is a dead end and leads to great pain; but for this guy it worked! so what if it’s not legit RP? that’s not my preferred approach and I gather not yours as well; but try to see it from his point of view… it fucking worked! he got the pussy! in his mind, making money and status was his gift to exploit, just like those starlets with the good looks and tits; he’s not allowed to figure out how to… Read more »
“so if the only thing that matters is PinV, who is the fucking stud? I wasn’t aware that that was the metric that is the be all end all. “we *all* have a lot of work to do, especially those who think they got it all figured out” Exactly. So do the work. HW thought he had it all figured out and he stopped fucking there. Never seek a completion in life. Or you might just be sitting on your plateau. There. Holding your own dick in your hands. Just so we are on the same page, Blaximus, your cite… Read more »
The nature of women is neither ” good ” nor ” bad “, it is what it’s always been. If one pays attention and understands why attention should be paid, women are no longer an enigma in any manner
Sounds too simple to be believed but there it is. Women are not only no longer an enigma, but actually in many ways predictable.
sjf – quoting myself again lol “so if the only thing that matters is PinV, who is the fucking stud?” I ask this not because I support or endorse it, but because it has been stated on this site numerous times as the ultimate decider of successful PUA/game (forgive if my nomenclature is inexact); I do wish to emphasize a distinction from RP holistically… RP also is much greater than just intersexual dynamics like it or not, the dude was killing it up until a few days ago; fairly unlucky given the circumstances, since I’m sure there are countless examples… Read more »
Blaximus October 16, 2017 at 7:27 pm Right again, my dear Blaximus. It wasn’t until my sexual strategy was aligned with making less money and having less in the here and now that I really started to get some in MRP Game. Paradoxical? Yes. Red Pill Aligned and Game aligned? Yes! @dr zipper You are not really reading Harvey’s subcomms. All along he wasn’t really getting what he was wanting. Friends are saying in the British Tabloids that his last marriage to the hot wife was just a business proposition. All of his exploits were try hard. There are no… Read more »
dr zipper October 16, 2017 at 7:54 pm Give me one example of where some girl actually wanted to fuck HW. Quality sex is within a dynamic of desire sex. Why not otherwise just buy sex with your $240 million? Don’t get down on this dynamic Dr. Zipper, it is well within you to just worry about your own dynamic and go out there and have masculine skill to pull women. My point is not to worry about the top down, just go about your purpose and passion and your attraction cues. You work on you. Via the community. And… Read more »
Didn’t realize I started a political forest fire. lol. I don’t know Weinstein, but rich guys I do know/have met – they don’t want to buy affection – cause the exchange of money is symbolic. They feed their ego’s by trading affection for access/money/whatever. “This woman is going to be my whore, she’s going to give up her body for things that are essentially meaningless.” I get that. It’s superiority complex. Lotta of lames like this “Choosy Provider” frame. Where the chick has to act right in order to get at his resources. Seeking Arrangement normal users and SA Game… Read more »
@zipper “so if the only thing that matters is PinV, who is the fucking stud?” I ask this not because I support or endorse it, but because it has been stated on this site numerous times as the ultimate decider of successful PUA/game I vaguely remember the context of the quote…the quote can only be applied in context. PUA/Game where desire is intrinsic and not negotiated. And probably notch count matters in the discussion…exclusive married guys aren’t players in the PUA/Game if PinV is the measure…if arousal is the measure, then maybe even exclusive married guys should be considered in… Read more »
asd – you remember it precisely because you’re the one it was referring to with regards to consummation of game cred and tried to downplay its import
@palma
Pence has CYA game…HW didn’t…the girl whisper net got going and it fucked him over…if a few guys like Rollo from the manosphere got out tweets about the reason for the HWWH being because some broads have bad feels for being ho’s or they are trying to bushwack a john for more cash, then this campaign against HW might end pretty damn quick…I don’t like HW…he’s a Hollywood leftist for whom I only have contempt…but it would be a display of power for men to start pushing back against the FI on Twatter
Killing it???? What the actual fuck?
Damn. The bar must be set so fucking low now that it’s subterranean.
@zipper
Ok, my position is still consistent then. As Rollo says, mindset is key, not PinV count.
And the count should include options like “we were naked and she was worked up and asked me to put it in but I was a boy scout and refused, wanting to wait til we were married.” Or “My husband will be out of town this weekend.”
to tell you the truth fellas, I’ve only read the headlines and glanced at the candid shots of him bitch slapping some nuns
no way am I spending precious minutes reading that shit
and speaking of lowering the bar… thanks for the input asd
if I want any lip off of you…
Bringing it back to ‘learning game’, if Weinstein had have bought every RSD product, he would then ‘know game’, but how would his interactions with girls be different/improved? Just better body-language, coming across less ‘needy’? Better passing any ‘shit tests’ that came his way?
Would he now be able to bang all of these gorgeous teenage wannabe-actresses without paying them for it or raping them?
Bought?
RSD product?
He had women coming to him. He didn’t need pua. He needed game.
He was already acting like RSD Harvey. His script was ” isolate ” strip naked, ask for massage, beg and plead, masturbate.
If he were red pill, he wouldn’t even be in this mess and plants would have been safe.
Sentient posted a few pics a while back of some fatter, older dude, may have been a famous writer of some kind that had girls all by his side because his whole demeanor and mentality was that he was a sexual stud. I hope he remembers who I’m talking about and can post more pics to see what an old, fatter dude with true game can look like.
Over the years I’ve heard a few women say that they like bigger men, as long as they weren’t mountains of blubber. They were sexually turned on by the thought of feeling the weight pinning them down and just disappearing under the mass. Women appreciate dominant men. Age doesn’t matter within reason ( unless you only like 18 year olds specifically, ” younger ” isn’t too challenging with game and personality ) and the rule of thumb is The Bigger The Waist Size, The Bigger The Personality. Actually, I think being famous and wealthy is a handicap as far as… Read more »
Newly
Probably Rushdie.
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/09/21/article-2206929-0067DB2000000258-22_306x477.jpg
To see Hollywood done right, check James Woods…
http://www.zoso.ro/img/2011/06/james-woods-girlfriend-bikini-3.jpg
“In a reference to Weinstein, she said on social media it was “time the dominoes fell”. We are not naming the star or his accuser for legal reasons.”
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/4699662/oscar-winning-actor-caught-up-in-weinstein-sex-abuse-scandal/
Domino.
2017 was spossta be the Year of The Woman. And Hillary crowned 👑 High Priestess. Ronan’s article was 10 months in the making btw… Not a coincidence. The Trumpening pushed the Alpha Farms back to 2045. She are pushing back.
Need a prophylactic in the meantime? Learn to choke and make her beg to cum.
Two takes, Cat and Dog.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UJtB55MaoD0
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Ajj38EDq2xE
“Probably Rushdie.” Lol,…. You can’t find a better example of Hypergamy in Action than the example of Padma Lakshmi. Her memoir was a good study of that Hypergamy. Lacksmi was with Rushdie because he was psychologically intriguing and and psychologically attractive. (Not a bad combo according to Heartiste….) He was Betatized by her and their bedroom went dead. She had a great excuse for that (endometriosis), not understanding what was really going on. (Honeys, don’t let your men grow up to Betas…—It actually made Padma feel emotionally bad for a long time, until the next guy, and then she went… Read more »
Ever watch padma?
There’s obviously something ” wrong ” with her. Watch her eyes and expressions.
Any time I’ve happened across her, she gave me the creeps.
@Sentient, Rusdie is a good example, but the dude I’m talking about was maybe a screen writer. He was even married and at one point tried to get his wife to try a threesome but she hated the idea. I think there was even a video of his wife talking about her late husband.
“Any time I’ve happened across her, she gave me the creeps.”
Rushdie wrote some about her… Most narcissistic person ever come across etc.
Back to capital G game… Listen to those two Domino vids… The cat perspective is all about emotion, losing control and being taken. The dog one is all about style and stuff. Harvey was a dog. 🐕 He didn’t understand cats 🐱.
Of course she’s written about him too… ““Imagine a young woman in her twenties, who loves books and and who had published her little cookbook and in comes this guy,” she says. “I mean, he was the best thing that ever happened to me by a mile. The fact that somebody of that stature and caliber was even interested remotely enough in me to want to take me to lunch was kind of unbelievable. They met in Central Park for their first date, and ended up in bed together. “He seduced me with his words,” she says. “I was pretty… Read more »
@mackay Could RSD have saved Weinstein? No. RSD and “technical game” doesn’t fix what’s wrong internally. That’s the lesson of The Game. Style and Mystery were both seeking approval and validation, Style especially. Tyler on the other hand, was not – but the way he was presented was basically as a Robot with no feelings, all technique. They all had the technique, they had the results – but the stuff on the inside – “baseline” – was off. There was a throwaway line from Ross Jeffries about this discovery of pua being the equivalent giving children dynamite. I think they… Read more »
To square the circle – Harvey Weinstein is the equivalent of a 22 year old blonde with big tits. If she’s not “centered” or has any external controls – she can become destructive, self destructive, and generally insufferable.
This is irrelevant to HW being a trick who is being assaulted by a pack of ho’s. A crime victim might be a piece of shit, personally, but still a crime victim and the assault needs to be stopped or the gang might go on and assault someone else who has more personal value.
Leaves are falling all around It’s time I was on my way Thanks to you I’m much obliged For such a pleasant stay But now it’s time for me to go The autumn moon lights my way For now I smell the rain And with it pain And it’s headed my way Ah, sometimes I grow so tired But I know I’ve got one thing I got to do: Ramble on…. And now’s the time, the time is now To sing my song….: October usually starts my busy season of being all in on socializing. It’s always been tough for… Read more »
@WestIndianArchie – interesting point. I would agree that RSD couldn’t have helped Weinstein in the sense that learning about false time constraints and the importance of isolation, or the escalation ladder or whatever in terms of technical game stuff wouldn’t have helped him (and he wouldn’t have been willing to learn about it anyway). His problem is deeper on an attitude/mindset level. But the *practice* of Game (or “outer game” or whatever you want to call it) in the sense of cold approach pickup can build social skills and character in people who don’t have it (ie, “outer game” can… Read more »
Mini-FR to see if we get this section back on track (personally I prefer to keep the other discussions on the main posts, instead of in our FR section). Activity site for something I was going to do 1st time, waiting my turn. 2-set there only one of the girls was doing it that day. The other was doing it another day elsewhere and was kind of scared/undecided to do it. I joke a bit about sunscreen as they have red cheeks. Then I spot one of them has colored spots on her arm and I go “Are you painting… Read more »
@Culum I get the sense that Harvey had social skills, general interpersonal skills. The job he was doing wasn’t about technical merit, but more about relationship building and networking. You don’t really go to school to do what he did, unlike say accounting. He makes his money on making connections, meeting people, winning their trust and admiration, etc. To bring in another example, most comedians have excellent social skills. The job is understanding the “social temperature” of a room of strangers and then knowing enough about how people behave and think, and then subverting their expectations. But comedians are historically… Read more »
@IAS – 1) “I tried saying it will be on your phone you can just delete it later, but she says “I’m very shy” so I didn’t push it and change subject.” Here, I would have changed the topic of conversation from the phone to her being shy. “Shy you say? ” Then follow with “I Bet” or “How shy?” – Something that suggests she’s lying, or that you see her mischievous side. Or, you could have complimented her with, “Ooh, a girl that doesn’t like selfies…tell me more…” Or you could have been “offended”. The move was basically not… Read more »
it’s come up on my end a few times recently so that must be a sign for me to find out more…. what type of cologne/smell-goods do y’all use? never really messed with smelling pretty, just clean via non/minimal-fragranced soap and shampoo, so I’m fairly ignorant on the subject ideally it should be part of something I already do, like a soap/shampoo and not have to dab on anything, but that may not be an option also, price isn’t much of an issue unless we’re talking thousand dollars an ounce type shit, then I might balk subtle would be nice…… Read more »
@Dr. Zipper:
Science says – Vanilla.
@dr zipper: looked at your comment utility; kudos — it’s clever and elegant.
@zipper Look at the list here and select a couple of colognes that interest you (you can do further research on the specific cologne by typing into google “ fragrantica [cologne name]” and reading the comments on the forum): https://guycounseling.com/best-cologne-men-list/ After picking a few, go to http://theperfumedcourt.com and get samples of the colognes your interested in. Then just sample each and see which scent you like best on your body. Then buy it on amazon. Everyone is different so testing it for your self via samples oppose to blind buying based on what internet commentators say is “the best cologne”,… Read more »
“what type of cologne/smell-goods do y’all use? ”
http://media.vintagecotton.com/shirt/179/sex_panther01.gif
And when I cant get that, Bay Rum.
@WIA: thanks.
@Everyone discussing smells: what about deodorants? I don’t like showering in the gym, and because of that I’m often sweaty and I have to imagine, fragrant, on public transport (as well as during the exercise). I like to call it “Eau de IAS”.
I don’t like using extra stuff (no cologne here), but I guess even on a basic social level, and particularly so for pick-up, a deodorant might be in order. Although I imagine for some targets, sweaty and smelly is even the superior choice, that won’t be the high probability play in general.
IAS
GLL swore by certain colognes… It was part of his stack too, if the girl didn’t comment on it first.
Him: You smell nice.
Her: thanks
Him: now you’re supposed to say I smell nice too.
He did the same routine with looks.
IAS
https://www.amazon.com/LInstant-Guerlain-Homme-Deodorant-Stick/dp/B001JZNXIQ
Shower after exercise, and use some manner of deodorant when going out in public. Please and thanks. Lol.
https://www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/look-good/134843-cologne-question
comments from Sentient’s link: “I got Jean Paul Gaulthier Le Male for a long time already but i never use it because i dont like how it smells… i also see a lot of good reviews on this cologne but i think it smells like sweet shit” “I’m not a huge fan of Armani Code I just think it’s too “light smelling” and nothing special but my roomate has it and I wore it two days ago to work and got compliments like Sli described.” “the most important thing about cologne is that YOU enjoy wearing it.” This all comes… Read more »
Sweet Shit? That may rival Sex Panther.
I’ve always had JPG get numerous compliments. Cologne is affected somewhat by body chemistry so it will smell a bit differently from man to man. But if you think a fragrance smells like sweet shit, then avoid it. And remember that less is more. I happen to strongly believe that men, especially young cats trying to gain the affections of random female strangers should have a fragrance arsenal of some sort to draw from. Chicks on average are much more attuned to ” smell ” than you are. Imo, your fragrance should only be detectable at closer range ( although… Read more »
@Blaximus come to think of it, “Blaximus” would be a good names for a cologne. “Swampy Ass” not so much.
I’ve worn different colognes, but none got any noticeable reactions other than Bvlgari. Had a hot female coworker really dish out the compliments on that one.
re smells… Science says – Vanilla. i tried that once… dabbed some vanilla extract behind my ears… all THAT got me was a bunch of fatties following me around the mall asking me where i was hiding the ice cream…lol… sooo, just to help out dr zipper… i decided to jump into the fragrance game… my NEW and completely ORIGINAL scent is… wait for it… The Natural ™…. lol… i had to steal two of Blaximus’ grungy, sweaty post-workout t’s… (@Blaximus – ya, THAT’s where they went…lol… sorry, bro, but i needed them for the scent analysis…lol) now, after analyzing… Read more »
@Blax: fair enough, neither do I… But I really don’t like public showers, and then I have to lug around wet clogs and towel… Probably some germophobic dislike. So I just go home and do it. Am I alone in this? @j: thanks, seems to have good reviews, although it seems on the expensive side. Ideally it would be something that cancels “bad” scent, not something that adds a “good” scent to disguise… @Sentient: I kind of did that once… Without cologne. I had showered before going out, got way past the hook point, took a whiff at the neck… Read more »
@IAS
I recommended that one because I thought you just wanted to smell good without a cologne. To cancel bad smell, I recommend the Mitchum unscented Anti-Perspirant & Deodorant.
The roll-on version. Not the stick.
@ HABD
@all
i want to improve my ‘blog-ability’… sooo, how do i post memes?…lol… but serious question…
thanks…
@dr zipper
can’t beat vintage…lol… and i’ve heard 1966 is a GREAT year…
https://www.ebay.com/itm/Hai-Karate-Cologne-4-oz-1966-Leeming-Pfizer-Opened-Bottle-Nearly-Full-6030-/311976481225
note- this bottle is NEARLY FULL…lol…
and reading between the lines… with RP glasses on… dude used it ONCE for prom… got his date pregnant (can’t argue with success, yo!…lol) and never “needed’ it again…lol
good luck!
Images? Just the full path ending in gif or jpg.
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laconic texting 2017. Girl from latest FR: j: j (lol) her: hey 😉 next day (saturday) her: when can we play again? next day afternoon j: soon last night j: screenshot of a page from My Secret Garden (Newbs read this book!) on the thrill of almost getting caught just now her: kissing emoji her: what are you doing tonight? j: busy tonight. we can play tomorrow night (buddy has couple of tourist girls he picked up staying at his place couchsurfing tonight and he invited me over) her: sounds good to me Game them properly. Fuck them well. Texting… Read more »
hmmmm It’s like if a girl knows a camera is around A girl has super abilities to not focus on great game etc….
Re: Cologne Overall smell profile – you/your sweat + soap + shampoo + conditioner + hair product + deodorant + laundry detergent. Fall/Winter – Spicy/Woodsy Spring/Summer – Citrus/”Clean” In terms of strategy – go with whatever is most popular – go with the newest (smell like no one else) – go with whatever is most expensive (because guys are cheap when it comes to cologne) Trying to figure out what meshes with your overall smell profile – good luck with that dude. You’ll be nose blind after the first two spritzes at @ Sephora. On the fence about wanting to… Read more »
@Rollo
where did the comments go?… i have a pretty good idea, but just checking…
good luck!
1:11:31 – 1:22:00 Powerful shit:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qo3Z5SIu5PQ&t=5028s
“Women give you a great gift. Don’t be mad about the gift. Enjoy the gift. Don’t be hung on to “this is who I am”. No, if anything, women are leading you to become who you are. and who you are is just a loosen up dude whose just chill and fun and enjoying the moment. That’s YOU.”
J
That clip from 1:20 to 1:32 is good. Momentum is your friend…
““Women give you a great gift. Don’t be mad about the gift. Enjoy the gift. Don’t be hung on to “this is who I am”. No, if anything, women are leading you to become who you are. and who you are is just a loosen up dude whose just chill and fun and enjoying the moment. That’s YOU.” See, this is why RSD get so far up under my skin at times. But I haven’t watched the video just yet, so I’ll reserve full judgment for now and only disagree with what’s written up above. Women can’t lead a man… Read more »
@blax
context for the part I quoted 1:19:00 – 1:20:00
“Game them properly. Fuck them well. Texting becomes easy.” Girls lead me to adopt this mantra. I was never a fan of texting/coming up with witty shit to get them to come out on a Day2 simultaneously competing with hundreds of other guys messaging her on tinder/instagram/facebook. So I changed that by running hardcore RSD game and going” bullet to the head” for the SNL or bust/no number exchange. I didn’t get texts back from girls I fucked my first year of going out so they led me to invest in figuring out how to become a sex god. Now… Read more »
Blax J
So ya in a way those successes/failures with girls lead me to become who I am today.
Yeah it’s just trial and error. Just a different question of what you may be trying and what the errors are over the guy who’s tried roses and BFF’ing and being nice.
Another slice, “don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do”.
But yeah – that section from 1:20-1:32 is perfect for guys who have trouble escalating…
“Game them properly. Fuck them well. Texting becomes easy.” Girls lead me to adopt this mantra
Biology/Game/Figuring out girls causes you to adopt this strategy.
@sjb – thanks, glad you like it; let me know of any bugs/suggestions/comments/etc.
Since Halloween is approaching, let me drop an old YaReally classic for the group… Halloween is coming up, literally THE sluttiest time of the year with not just NO consequence for girls to be slutty but MASSIVE SOCIAL PRESSURE to BE slutty, and you can open EVERY chick with the EASIEST opener in the WORLD built into the holiday: “Hey, I like your costume” (or in my case “lol wtf are YOU supposed to be?” lol) And for a month afterward you can ask what they were for Halloween too. But don’t just ask, QUALIFY THEM on it. Instead of… Read more »
@j, thanks for posting the vid. As long as I’ve seen these vids from various people, I’d think I’ve seen it all, but this vid went over something quite important that I’m sure newbies won’t fully absorb. That part about some newbies actually needed to fail so that they can get that incident under their belt and see that it’s not as scary as the mind makes it out to be. Seems counter-intuitive for the coaches who are trying to teach people how to succeed would actually encourage them to fail, but it’s quite a clever tactic for people that… Read more »
https://www.reddit.com/r/stupidslutsclub/comments/77lo1t/your_fav_lil_jessie_chow_hittin_yall_up_for_a/
https://twitter.com/FirstTake/status/921350534241669120/video/1
“I’d rather have 1 for 6 and play, then go 0 for 0 and sit on the sideline”.
Powerful mindset. Reframe everything as a good thing. This is the attitude that will carry you through the night. Remember this clip when you’re out there getting rejected (it will happen if you push yourself hard enough).
@j Sad but true cartoon. At least the girl with the Reddit thread told her current BF about her past. I have never shared the hypocrisy of hating sluts while wanting to have sex with them, but I certainly struggle to understand such level of debauchery. Anyways, whatever rocks her boat. And about RSD, I have to agree with him, but I love the RP contradictions at play again. On the one hand, have a strong frame. On the other hand, “don’t be hung on to ‘this is who I am'”. Haha what a mindfuck. Yesterday night I tried the… Read more »
Hello guys, I really need your comments and feedback about my situation. I used to be a typical AFC until a year back, when I discovered Game. Since, then I have gradually internalized the mindsets and have been working on the basic principles of Game and it has been paying me rich dividends as I have gone from never having been on a date since high school to having gone on dates with around 20 girls since I discovered Game. Almost all of these have been through online dating and a few girls I met at work and one at… Read more »
@Gambler92: focus less on that one girl and keep gaming others. You made several mistakes with that one. You should not have rearranged anything for her anyway, and even worse that you were butt hurt after she flaked and told her about it, in a clear DLV (whether the niece thing is true or not doesn’t matter). She didn’t ask you to rearrange anything, your problem if you did. Anyway, shit happens. Learn from it and it should happen less often in the future. It seems to me she could have had a bunch of ASD up because you took… Read more »
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Thanks for the advice. I just want to know since, I acted butt hurt about this do I say its fine or something like that or just keep quiet and hit her up maybe 2 weeks from now?
As for gaming other girls, you’re right I am still in scarcity I have just two other girls I am seeing and both of them were out of town for two weeks and I was really frustrated this weekend so ended up acting needy and trying to force things.
@Gambler92: I don’t know what is the highest probability play with that girl. I suspect 2 weeks from is maybe a bad time, if she was ovulating when the date went well she might be on her period then. If she were to re-initiate contact you would be in a good position as she is reaching out, but that is unlikely to happen – best odds for that to happen is you game several hot girls and have some fresh new stuff in Instagram to DHV and make her feel like she is missing out; but do that because you… Read more »
@Gambler92 – welcome, pull up a chair and join the conversation here. As long as you keep taking action and reflecting on it with advice here, you’ll keep doing better. It’s difficult to assess the importance of ASD and makeouts etc without knowing where you are since you keep saying it is “conservative” etc. No need to give any information that can identify you, but just revealing your country should be okay (but entirely up to you). As for your date – I think you did really well for your stage of development. The blowjob in the restroom after 1… Read more »
@IAS @Culum Struan Thank you guys so much for the advice. Just to update you guys, since I appeared butt hurt and hadn’t quite replied to her last text, I just messaged her back an hour ago saying “that’s okay, hope your niece is doing fine” and added a joke about her bad babysitting skills because she had told me she was babysitting her niece on Sunday. She replied and actually gave me a call and we spoke for 15 minutes. She explained to me what had happened and that we shouldn’t try and make dates on weekdays again and… Read more »
@Gambler92: remember AWALT still applies, even in societies that are on the surface very conservative women break the rules for alphas. “Holiday in Goa” style (I know about that from a movie “Outsourced”, not sure if it is actually used there). Keep gaming others and let that Red Pill slide all the way down. You should be scattershot / shotgun, not sniping one at a time. Anyway, about the target currently on your sniper scope (which you should swap for the shotgun)… If I interpret correctly, she phoned you after you teased her, and suggested an alternative. I also think… Read more »
Don’t remember who asked about going up and showing intent immediately (going direct oppose to “hiding your intent”) and how Mystery Method was outdated. Think it was @phil conners or @mackay. Anyway I was looking through the archives and found this comment by YaReally that does a great breaking down split second DHVs and adds to what had been already said here on showing intent by @HABD, @IRL + others: “That’s why in Mystery Method (which again is the breakdown/reverse engineering of what HAPPENS in all seduction/attraction, not theory/guesswork) you don’t make a Statement of Interest (Male to Female interest,… Read more »
@j @Archie Could you give a breakdown of a Field Report of mine…where the interaction is in terms of MM? 12:30 a.m. Fri. at my country bar…been dancing with fifteen different girls…one has moved close to me while dancing. I ask a 30ish blonde to dance and she’s Ukrainian and very drunk…between the loud music and her accent, it’s very hard to have a convo…she basically just leans on me while we walk…at one point, she takes my nice cowboy hat and puts it on her head…I stop walking and just stare at her…not smiling…she stares back…not smiling…I look at… Read more »
@IAS Nope, I haven’t been paying for her drinks. On our first date we did have a lot of drinks but she paid for her drinks and I paid for mine. You are right, even I got the feeling that if the logistics were right she would have been DTF on the very first date. But she stays with her mom and sister and they were calling to check up on her and it was quite late so she wanted to head home. Yes, I do know where I want to go with this or any girl, I want to… Read more »
YaReally has written a lot about this (obviously you need to adapt for your cultural reality). Literally go to YaReallyArchive.com and look at the subheading – I think it’s called “Lover vs Provider” or something. Basically you need to say it explicitly (that you’re not looking for anything serious etc) AND you need to back it up with your actions. You can also joke around about stuff like you don’t have a heart and you don’t do romance etc. The main thing most guys get wrong is even if they say (early on) they don’t want anything serious, they slowly… Read more »
@ASD “12:30 a.m. Fri. at my country bar…been dancing with fifteen different girls…one has moved close to me while dancing.” ^I’m not sure what this has to do with what is below 2) “I ask a 30ish blonde to dance and she’s Ukrainian and very drunk…between the loud music and her accent, it’s very hard to have a convo…she basically just leans on me while we walk…at one point, ^^Trying to have a drunk ESL chick that’s 30. The only convo you need here – who she came with – how she got here – what’s happening the rest of… Read more »