Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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newlyaloof
5 years ago

@Enilias

While you’re trying to figure shit out, check out this site for some inspiration on what you can do on your spare time: sidehustleschool[dot]com

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

But but… I have no job… I have nowhere to take her…

https://mobile.twitter.com/navyhato/status/907651931207643136

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Re “structure” vs “routines” https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nOoMwd94wCo Two “different” styles… Same results. Ps – a structure followed more than once is a routine… Him: Nice shoes girl… Her: meh Him: But you know how they’d really look great? (cutting space and laser) Her: I bet your gonna tell me… Him: as earings… (hands on each side of her head) Her: OMG!!! I can’t beleive you just said that blah blah… Him: (rolling off) I’m just kidding. I’m really shy. I never talk to girls (back to laser) Her: Sure… Ahh haaa. Him: It’s true (kino to arm). I’m still a virgin. Her:… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

A1 to C1. ^^^^

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Culum

https://whetyourwoman.com/pickup-women/the-five-attraction-switches/

Successful Risk Taker

“so check this out… I was hanging out with my friends, we left work early and ended up hitting this bar and started drinking. I’d been interested in buying some Bitcoin as an investment – you know what that is? Well it’s this electronic form of currency, that can’t be traced. Govermnent hates it because drug dealers and arms dealers use it but whatever. So anyway we are doing shots and I decide I am going to go big in some bitcoin… So I bought it at x and do you know what happened?”

j
j
5 years ago

@Sentient

“But but… I have no job… I have nowhere to take her…”

yeahhh a couple weeks ago I was locked out of my place a couple weeks ago so I fucked a girl visiting my city, in the street. Not a dark alley. In a fucking gap separating two parked cars. (we kinda got caught so I took her to her back to her hotel room to finish the deed. A story she will never forget I’m sure). Anyways…it’s Friday night boys. Step away from the computer. Adventure is out there!

IAS
IAS
5 years ago

@j: I don’t even know how to do it inside a car (but I can guess).

More details please… The logistics (the pull too if you care to share).
I’m imagining she had a skirt and panties, and you just parted the panties to the side or pulled them partly down?

scars
scars
5 years ago

You should record infields, J. You’re a pickup beast!! 🙂
ps – I used to have a really good looking friend who had sex with so many girls in the car park after the club closed!

SFC Ton
5 years ago

Ok…… I have a small office in this down town area. Old Southern town, ain’t got much going on besides the rivers running through here, some decent pirate history and a down town area with a couple of cool ass bars and hippie ass girly shit. Even the tattoo shops are pretty fucking gay. Any rate, I have been intermittently doing some low grade flirting with this one bartender gash for a few weeks now. Still trying to get some split tail to wall off her job just to go suck my cock. Kind of the last item on my… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

“I have no clue What a1- through c whatever means”

Ignorance is bliss…

What’s up with the smoothies though…? Blax, now you…

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Pussies drink smoothies.

fleezer
fleezer
5 years ago

“Pussies drink smoothies.” I love smoothies. my vitamix is unstoppable “What a fucking pussy” I like when my wife gives me pedicures. I like soft blankies and hot chocolate with little marshmallows. write out my pussy confession and I’ll gladly sign it “I don’t think any man should die without riding a bike. It’s a singular experience and there’s nothing that compares.” I appreciate the perspective. I’ll do it right before I slam junk for the first time. gonna be a hell of a day for a 90 year old man. ” I kinda pussied out after that” one man’s… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

@ Fleez ” … I had friends that drag raced. really cool guys. they knew so much stuff about cars but they never got the panties. ever. spent a lot of weekends watching cars drive though.” Really??? I used to bring chicks to the track occasionally, and they’d get so hyped up. All of my uncles, my dad’s brothers, had race cars and even guys that married into the fam were into racing. Hmmm. racing and pussy go together like a hand in glove. I can’t fathom any of the guys I knew that raced that were hurting for lays.… Read more »

Johnycomelately
Johnycomelately
5 years ago

Looking for some advice. Been with a 38 year old born again Christian masseuse for about 2 months, she has been pushing hard for marriage and kids. Worst thing is she insinuated herself into my family deeply befriending my mother. From what I can gather she has one major relationship for 10 years and was dumped. The issue is a couple of years ago she befriended a known musician and swinger and says she’s simply friends. From her stories I gather they went out a lot of activities (restaurants, beaches, hiking, concerts etc.) and she has all his music. She… Read more »

mersonia
5 years ago

“I’d just like some clarity from a game perspective, I liked this girl but I have no interest in head games.

If you liked her that means you don’t like her. Drop her like a hot potato. You don’t have interest in head games. Then don’t play em.

You don’t need no game advice mi amigo.

mersonia
5 years ago

Ahhh shit

@johny

Your the dude you came awhile back with the same problem……..Go back to the past responses cause the shit is the same bro. #Don’tbeapussyyourstillapussybro

Johnycomelately
Johnycomelately
5 years ago

Thanks, needed that yeh just dropped her and wanted clarity.

The rational male is a god send, thanks guys

theasdgamer
5 years ago

“I liked this girl but I have no interest in head games.”

Then you better avoid girls.

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

@SFC Ton Ah man, you’re my raw inspiration, you smooth(ie) fucker. I’m all ears whenever you and Blax keep nagging to push boundaries and get bigger than life. And stories are always 10x time more powerful and inspiring. “I have no clue What a1- through c whatever means” Knowing and trusting the process is important and you know that, however you label the stages: – get on her radar [check] – get her socially hooked (spike her emotions, increase your value and/or lower hers) [check] – display your experienced lover side (and maybe other attractive qualities that turn her on)… Read more »

WestIndianArchie
5 years ago

@Johnny I believe the term you guys use is “alpha widow”. But that big swinging dick made a large impression on her life. The question is really why doesn’t she edit herself to preserve your ego? Because for guys that don’t bang a lot of chicks, the idea that some chick they were banging/trying to bang would dare even mention any other male is not fathomable. How dare the bitch! *adjusts fedora* Ultimately it’s because guys take her diarrhea of the mouth as a threat. Rule #1 of responding to a chick during the initial tussle, is that her words… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
5 years ago

@IRL – good FR dude (and glad the wallet etc stuff was useful – most girls who are attracted enough don’t need it – you can just say “let’s go”, and there are also girls who are simply not attracted enough to be pulled or have sex – but there’s a very useful subset in the middle for whom that gambit is gold – and there’s no downside in using it all the time). You know your stuff, you know your Game theory, you have the experience..sometimes it doesn’t work out. You even know exactly where you made your mistakes… Read more »

SFC Ton
5 years ago

What most men don’t understand is…. women don’t like being women because their head is full of inane and insane shit.

What a woman wants more then anything else in this life is…. an escape from the crazy shit going on between her ears.

That’s the sum total of getting and keeping bitches.

The stronger your Frame, the quicker you drive out her mental worries, the quicker she spreads her legs

BUT that bad ass IRL. Tip of the hat to you my man

SFC Ton
5 years ago

House power = dangerous

Dangerous = wet vaginas

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Ton

“What a woman wants more then anything else in this life is…. an escape from the crazy shit going on between her ears.”

Solid. This is why they need orgasms so badly. The Little Death… Shuts down the noise.

IRL

Good FR. Been there plenty of times. Now you are game aware so breakdown some of the moments you think you fucked up…

They will come back to entitlement.

With Girl 2 you had full entitlement. Girl 1 you played it safe at a few odd moments.

having a bad day
having a bad day
5 years ago

ya know, that whole ‘i’m a nihilist, bc the world has no meaning… blah, blah…etc…’ that @Andy had going on a while ago really felt to me like the FI was pushing on him…hard… but i couldn’t explain it, so i couldn’t address it…

buuut…

JP brings some clarity to that issue… as well as some other great stuff…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XoXD8wISSd0

the FI is cunning and pervasive…

good luck!

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Interesting video.

Jp is being generous in saying people are 51% of what they could be.

To bad JP doesn’t really exist ( h/t Andy ).

walawala
walawala
5 years ago

@IRL. Well done. I knew how his story was going to end with the stripper fantasy.

Game on a 40 year old is fishing with dynamite. Most guys her own age are aging out of shape betas. Younger dudes are usually out of reach.

dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

been a full day…. one of them where *everything* seems to work out great; one of my personal beliefs that life will give you both good and bad…and since you have to endure this bad shit, you’d better sure as fuck embrace the good when it happens got the boy this weekend and last night we packed the dirt bikes so we were able to hit the road at first light and be in the mountains riding trails by mid-morning; so we were on our last part of the ride — a new part we’ve never visited — and no… Read more »

SFC Ton
5 years ago

The Ton salutes Dr Zipper! Sounds like a bad ass day with your boy and much improvement with your head space and timing. The Ton likes But stop diminishing yourself with bullshit like this right here “now I know that doesn’t sound like much for a bunch of you guys,” because there here shit storm called life is the Dr Zipper show and you are correct, what you did is a bigfuckingdeal. “because it’s unlikely they’ve ever met a man like me” that right there is how you should think everydamnsecondoftheday. Every. Damn. Second. You my friend are the mother… Read more »

SFC Ton
5 years ago

An LTR FR The Girls got back in town yesterday. The last few days I have been telling them I found this new restaurant with amazing food, real fancy joint I took some customers to while they were touring kinfolk with Ton Spawn and Half Ton. Told them when they get back, I would give them a few hours to rest up, then our house keeper would be by to watch my sons’ while they dress up, jump in the lead sled and off we all go for a fancy supper. Well they are excited as hell. Happy to be… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Good stuff Doc.

Just be cool if she flakes… 😎

If you do text her to set a day 2, don’t be like “it’s me from the game”…
Have fun.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Field Report Showing girls’ motivations and behavior Girl #1 Was at my country bar Sat. night and saw a hottie friend I haven’t seen in a couple of years. I walk up behind her and stand next to her and whack her hip with the back of my hand. I’m not looking at her. She turns and sees who I am and yells my name and hugs me. I go to release. She hugs me again and I lift her up and she comes down and wraps her legs around me. She’s out with a coworker and the coworker’s bf… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

I enjoyed your fr doc.

walawala
walawala
5 years ago

@Doc

Opener text: “Hey smiley girl if you promise not cut in front of me in line again, let’s meet up for that drink…”

Oscar C.
5 years ago

@zipper “and I kino… this part is of particular amazement to me considering how absolutely ignorant of it I was before” Yes, me too. I did talk a lot, but never touched the girls. Not because I was afraid, just could not see why I should. This might be particularly difficult to grasp for many guys in Northern European countries where social rules about personal space are stricter. And best of luck sorting out your problems with your ex and developing a strong bond with your kid. My dad is pretty alpha but worked too much, and I don’t recall… Read more »

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
5 years ago

@dr zipper – good stuff.

Only one question – did you SOI/go man to woman/whatever you want to call it? Or in non PUA terms, did you make it clear to her you were interested in her sexually and not as a “friend” – like is she going to be surprised to get a text from you?

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Awesome FR, Zipper. Onwards and upwards!

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Ton is a prankster. Girls love to be pranked.

“Opener text: “Hey smiley girl if you promise not cut in front of me in line again, let’s meet up for that drink…””

This throws the girl off-balance…a dominance play.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

@ Oscar I think ” kino ” is great and should be utilized often by guys trying to attract women. But a guy must be comfortable in touching a chick so that it doesn’t become awkward or ” creepy “, lol at that word ” creepy “. Case in point/ mini vacation fr of sorts. On the boardwalk at the shore solo. I was looking in the myriad of sunglass shops for a pair of black framed aviators of the appropriate size for my big head. Walking down the boardwalk I spotted a darkly tanned blond teen, in New Jersey’s… Read more »

dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

follow-up to the Rockies FR above….. after she had texted me I never even checked my phone until we were about to leave the game; sure enough her texts were there and before I shut the phone off I see my boy glancing at it…. he says nothing on the ride home he’s kinda asking things like…. “so… did you make any lifelong friends while in line?” LOL, he’s gonna be more of a smartass than I am; and I’m trying to delicately be cool about the idea of me being interested in someone other than mama…. he knows I… Read more »

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

@walawala I didn’t bang #1. As Sentient said, entitlement issues (I needed that pointer, thanks). @dr zipper Props doc, good day indeed. Re texting, read this, some useful tips: https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/hall-of-fame/11662-100-method-for-meeting-up-with-girls As ijjjji says in the comments: Method A works BECAUSE you didnt message her all week! Method B works BECAUSE you never tried to meet her! (So they are mutually defeating! Most things that work has a built-in vacuum, that needs to be maintained.. Note: The texts I like to send asap and sunday night, generally apply to both methods though. These are more the ‘logistics’ of defining the com.… Read more »

mackay
mackay
5 years ago

What with some of the talk here recently about the ‘natural’ guys vs the PUA guys I want to ask something During a pickup, we are told about things like ”disqualifying yourself”, ”qualifying the girl”, ”waiting for her to show intent before we do”, ”push pull”, ”teasing’ etc etc. These are the things that are running through my head when i’m talking too a girl – trying to remember the various things I need to say, maybe even in what order etc. ​And on the more technical pickup forums, this sort of stuff is discussed at length and often referenced… Read more »

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

@mackay
Too much theory, too little practice. Your first step is to start speaking Cat-o-nese and not your own language of logic, facts and formal rules.

Watch this, it’s Cat-o-nese 101:
https://youtu.be/V3Z4Nq0OrrM
Try it in real life…

Sometimes assuming attraction and familiarity creates them and BOOM! you’re starting in A3.

Start touching women, cutting space, lasering and teasing them WITHOUT wanting anything from them. It will show you a completely different world you don’t even notice now…
https://youtu.be/1k59gXTWf-A
Secret place = secret society… lol

fleezer
fleezer
5 years ago

@ Dr. Zipper nice. “so sometime today, I’m thinking of texting her back something like…. “you and I will go out stargazing soon, study up” some things I’m going for… – cementing my presence on her radar by re-iterating one of our commonalities she probably doesn’t have with many others – also by sending a text that itself differentiates me from the others – short and sweet, no walls of text – assertive, presume the sale attitude – there is something about nighttime under the stars that has some sort of sexytime opportunity or implication… hard to calibrate this one… Read more »

dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

about to pull the trigger on a reply text to Rockies girl; here’s my best options on my own:

– you and I are going stargazing soon, study up
– you and I are going stargazing soon, we’ll see if you know your stuff
– you and I are going stargazing soon, will put all your bragging to the test
– you and I are going stargazing soon, we’ll see if all your bragging is true

the last one is the best, I think; will shoot it off in about an hour or so

dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

ya fleez, sending my boy home by himself is not an option, we live a ways out from the city; my time with him is finite and worth more than any split tail; your idea would have me miss the “I had a lot of fun today, this is one of the best days we’ve ever had together” moment that dwarfed anything else

the situation right now is what I’m working with so some feedback on the texting shit could be helpful

your points are valid, however, this particular context narrowed my options considerably

fleezer
fleezer
5 years ago

“the situation right now is what I’m working with so some feedback on the texting shit could be helpful”

too bad that fucking pussy Yareally isn’t here to help. this is his wheelhouse. what a pussy.

dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

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IAS
IAS
5 years ago

@Dr. Zipper: don’t overthink it. You assume the sale in all options, good. Send the shorter version, maybe drop the comma and do capitalize the I 😛

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

@dr zipper What are the next steps you’re anticipating? Not trying to run into analysis paralysis here but… http://i.imgur.com/9ycWtQu.gif Did you read ijjji’s thread (with comments) I linked above? What’s your overall strategy? You’re hinting a meet, but do you have enough interest? Think in terms of her buying temperature. If you don’t know where you are, it’s a safer bet to playfully tease a bit to probe it. It’s all about IOIs and IODs. You can include smaller compliance hoops and her responses will guide you. You could start with a non-sequitur or something playful about her. Look at… Read more »

IAS
IAS
5 years ago

@Dr. Zipper: forgot this… It may be good to set a specific date already. Look up a good night (and location) with weather forecast for the stargazing and that you are available (but not Friday night, because a stud like you is on the hunt for SNLs on Friday nights). Dont need to mention the location, as it is a surprise. Or something like that.

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

When in doubt, default to MM:
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dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

lol, you guys are sure making it hard to not overthink it

I already sent the last (#4) one a little while ago, no response; ball is in motion, let it play out, I’m done fucking with it for now

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

Good man, I like the just try it, push the envelope and see what happens approach.

Markos Beers
Markos Beers
5 years ago

Hello gents, long time lurker, first post. Thanks to all in advance! Looking for advice, in a peculiar situation, so peculiar I am reluctant to give all the details. Lived together for a while, split last summer, moved down the hall (literally) 8 months ago, boy is now 7 yrs old. Never-married (no common-law in my state). Things not good from the get-go. I was (still am, mostly, though less volatile) a bundle of Alpha/Beta traits. Never kept frame smoothly. I’ll get into her later if need be. Massive family income imbalance between us. I’m independent frugal pay-my-own-way guy. She… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Beers here The game is only rigged if you let it be…you have powerful tactical options. Use standard relationship game…works with exes just like live ins…game the ex…increase your options…use Dread (don’t hide your plates, but don’t flaunt them overtly either)…flirt with her…give her comfort when needed…dog training…always hold frame and never let her trigger you to angry outbursts…she’ll give off clues if she needs drama…make her work for your validation, but be sure to give it sparingly and intermittently NB dog training 1. always give affection 2. give more attention when beast (haha) is compliant and less when not… Read more »

SFC Ton
5 years ago

I would go with

Study up for our stargazing trip.

Sets the tone as a done deal with out being stronger then your Frame possibly presents

Markos Beers
Markos Beers
5 years ago

Theasdgamer, thank you, much appreciated.

Trying to work through the anger phase, so much so that when I read “be affectionate” I immediately recognize that I’ve been cold as a form of passive punishment.

She’s had quite a few blow-ups. I’ve kept my cool, yet afterward simply want to blast her via email. Haven’t.

Being affectionate seems… hard.

Thanks again.

And best to you, Dr. Zipper! And all of your accomplices here

SJF
SJF
5 years ago

@having a bad day September 16, 2017 at 6:35 pm I’ve been living my life by that video, for forever. I was lecturing to my buddy on how you get things done over a lifetime. And my explanation was the Lost Time, The In-Between Time Matters. Every last 30 decades I did shit in between time that could otherwise been wasted as “I’m tired time”, I got wasted Time to lose, I’m going to buffer my pain, I’m not going to spend an extra 15, 30 minutes every day to try to do something exceptional. This had big, big Red… Read more »

walawala
walawala
5 years ago

@ Markos

>My question is this; should I just stay stoic and eat this, or go intelligently tactical and potentially get slammed by the rigged game? Questions please. I’m sure I’m leaving out some vital info.

Dude…this is a mess. Get out NOW. Find a way to get joint custody and find a new woman who will treat you with respect.

You’re fooling yourself by convincing yourself you need to stick around for the sake of the kid.

There are solutions. But you’re plugged into something that is only making you a slave to her frame.

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Markos

Can’t emphasize enough the importance of going out and gaming girls and having options. You want your mind occupied as much as possible by other girls. You want to minimize the amount of time that your ex spends in the apartment in your head. It will be a struggle. Having options helps a whole lot. Be very social…go to parties…meetup…whatever keeps you from being alone. Chat with store clerks, waitresses, retail clerks, men, women. Make new friends. Take up new hobbies and interests.

hank holiday
hank holiday
5 years ago

DAY — FALL FESTIVAL (warm up) Chatted up a couple, then a mom and dad with their daughter, followed by two white chicks. One is pretty good looking. Open them on grannie panties. boom. big open. We go waaay into detail on what exactly grannie panties are, technically. We establish a legal grade definition lol. Love this open. You start out already chatting about panties lol. Going okay with this group. Honestly don’t remember what we talked about here. I was out for about 8 hours total this day. Guy shows up who used to date the less pretty girl.… Read more »

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Hank Try this… Next time a girl hugs you, in the middle of the hug, tell her to kiss you under your ear…then tease her by moving your head so she can’t and she will have to end up chasing. Then do the same with the other ear. Once she complies to both of these commands, tell her, “Let’s go.” Probably she will throw a shit test at you or two. But if she just doesn’t comply, then roll off and DHV with a joke, story, etc. Once you move to instigate, a girl’s emotions will spike and she’ll be… Read more »

Markos Beers
Markos Beers
5 years ago

Asdgamer Thank you again. Fortunately, I’m in a very social line of work (fitness/coaching). Also started dating immediately, and have brought many women back to my place (again, down the hall from my son and his mother). Though I haven’t said a thing to them, the doormen know what’s been up, just by seeing the company I’m bringing with me. Was spinning two plates up until last month, with ransoms here and there… Thoughts have gone nihilistic a bit though. Trying to continue positive improvement… and I do need to socialize more, with less focus on the ladies. Thanks again.… Read more »

Markos Beers
Markos Beers
5 years ago

That should read “randoms” as in ons stuff. No ransoms

theasdgamer
5 years ago

@Markos Are you a fitness coach? What are your emotions like when you get these nihilistic thoughts? What is the context when you get these thoughts? Do the doormen talk to your ex? Does your ex accuse you of being a player? Agree and amplify. “I can’t get away from all these girls.” Does your ex say that you have a small dick? Agree and amplify. “My dick is just a weeny little carrot.” It may help you to think of your ex as a silly little girl so that you don’t argue with her like she’s your equal and… Read more »

Oscar C.
5 years ago

Nice FR hank.

Great to see you out there making progress.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Hank, it’s past time to start having sexual intercourse with some of these chicks. Don’t wait for one to pull your dick out of your pants. Wrong frame.

Get a solid logistics plan in place and pull. Rinse and repeat.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

… When all the banter and giggling stops, vaginas are tested and stressed.

j
j
5 years ago

@hank “If I could spike the girl a bit more, then find I way to pull the girl away from the guy, I could poach her and run off.” “Thing was, this guy admitted it was the first time they went out, so they had zero history. Wouldn’t have had much resistance to pulling her away” Throw a girl at him. Then isolate her “hey guys we’re gonna get a drink. We’ll be right back” then walk with her away from them. Then once they’re out of sight, grab her hand and leave with her. When she says “i thought… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Blax

“Get a solid logistics plan in place and pull. ”

https://youtu.be/C_pYT2pVgFg?t=399

@6:40 to end…

“As you can see, you don’t have to be witty, or you know, really really interesting to be able to pick up a girl”

Newly – some after work streetgame examples…

newlyaloof
5 years ago

@Sentient, I’m on it. Thanks. It’s true what the dude said about “I had to stop you or I won’t ever see you again.” I can clearly remember the times I buffered out and never saw the girl again. Speaking of buffers, went for a quick outside break today and asked myself which steps to take down to the lobby level. Stair #1 takes me right down next to the exit and I don’t have to “deal with” small talk from the guards. Stair #2 takes me right in front of their desk. I was going to take #1 because… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

I should point out in that clip Jan is fucking around running bare minimum game. He is trying to be boring and a bit awkward while doing the minimum – initiate, isolate, escalate…

Hank has lost the focus… the BE Ruthless aspect. Since girls love feelz… until they are gone, you have to act on the feelz… otherwise you’ll get “Nice to meet you!” and a dick in hand…

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

@Markos Beers,

Anon01
Anon01
5 years ago

@mackay
“Personally I try to cram everything into each interaction to better my chances”

No.

Watch rsdjulien’s pimp+tengame(they can be found online, “free”).

“which ones are actually ‘needed’/vital, and which ones are not generally required?”

Tengame specifically answers this question.

Oscar C.
5 years ago

Here we go again…

“Colin and I have a wonderful relationship. Great kids, no financial stresses, careers we love, great friends. He is a phenom at work, fucking handsome, attentive lover, fit, and generous to everyone, including my parents. My life is good.” Yet Priya is having an affair. “Not someone I would ever date—ever, ever, ever. He drives a truck and has tattoos. It’s so clichéd, it pains me to say it out loud. It could ruin everything I’ve built.”

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/10/why-happy-people-cheat/537882/

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Colin sounds like he’s a lot of things. But she left out ” beta “.

anon
anon
5 years ago

“Yet Priya is having an affair.”

Interesting choice of pseudonym the writer of the article chose.
It’s a pop cultural reference I doubt anyone else here would know.
Comes from the Fae Fever series.
Priya is the term used for a woman who is turned into an extreme nymphomaniac by a Fae prince.

Markos Beers
Markos Beers
5 years ago

IRL Something may be wrong with my phone, nothing showed up from your last post. @walawala: thank you for your response. Think you gave me some good reminders and points. I gave up my relational frame: that’s lost forever, and if I cannot maintain my own internal frame living next door, I should move further. The goal with my own space is to show my son an alternative way of living/being, and be the “solid” parent as she continues to live a manic life. I intend to do this by living by example, living the life I’ve wanted for myself.… Read more »

Markos Beers
Markos Beers
5 years ago

IRL it came through, thank you! Aaaaaaaand I have some work to do…

Culum Struan
Culum Struan
5 years ago

@anon – nothing so subtle I think.

Priya is a common Indian name, and this woman is Indian-origin, I assume (the article calls her “the child of immigrants”) so the author picked an Indian pseudonym for her.

@hank – where is the sex? Where is the makeout? Where is the lasering and cutting distance? You can *do* this.

anon
anon
5 years ago

Ah, thanks CS.
Thought I was in on a strange little secret LOL.
Please disregard.

SFC Ton
5 years ago

I am done with Hanks FR until he smashes more ass then words typed

SFC Ton
5 years ago

Random FR Meet an older gash like 3 weeks back. She is 40 and not worth a billion, US, so we talked bikes some. She needed a place to service her softail….. ; ) and wants so fairly extensive custom, work done. any rate told her about my shop, what a service would cost etc. She asked for my number to schedule a service and work out a plan for her bike Hadn’t heard shit from her but today I get a set of nekkied photos from a random number. Not all that unusual, not all that bad looking for… Read more »

dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

oscar – neat article, fairly presented… too bad they don’t know the answers can be found on this site still some good quotes “Human beings have a tendency to look for the truth in the places where it is easiest to search rather than the places where it’s likely to be.” “there is always a suspicion … that one is living a lie or a mistake; that something crucially important has been overlooked, missed, neglected, left untried and unexplored; that a vital obligation to one’s own authentic self has not been met, or that some chances of unknown happiness completely… Read more »

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

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Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

Oh, pic for anon.

dr zipper
dr zipper
5 years ago

“…today I get a set of nekkied photos from a random number. Not all that unusual….”

LOL

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

@SFC Ton
Hahaha, money

Re “escape from the crazy shit going on between her ears”, “little deaths”, pranks etc.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjZer1-8dEo

They’re all just girls… lol

/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/ OOOOOOOO

Sentient
Sentient
5 years ago

Culum

Anon is just projecting…

“It’s a pop cultural reference I doubt anyone else here would know.”

#deadbedroom

theasdgamer
5 years ago

“…today I get a set of nekkied photos from a random number.

Fuckin bitches have no discretion. I screen girls as to who gets my number.

“Mr. Gamer, please tell the court why all these girls send you photos of their naked bodies.”

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

huh? Naked girls are against the law?

Since when?

theasdgamer
5 years ago

Family court, Blax…smh

SFC Ton
5 years ago

Everything is against the law when you are guilty of husband’ing while beta

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

” Family court, Blax…smh”

What????

wtf???

Lmao.

anon
anon
5 years ago

You’re cranky Sentient, I know just what you need.
Go fondle the hundreds of old guy DPA photos you have lying around.

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

“Mr. Gamer, please tell the court why all these girls send you photos of their naked bodies.” “Oh, yeah, they’re very friendly here, I’ve noticed that too… Girls… *shakes head*… So what’s for dinner honey?” Don’t hesitate… lionesses can sense it… you can’t half-ass it… The other night I was showing photos on my phone to my wife when suddenly a little banner displayed a female name that just messaged me. Her: who’s texting you this late? Me: a friend Her: don’t you want to read the message? Me: why? I’m doing something with you now Her: maybe I’d like… Read more »

Oscar C.
5 years ago

@ IRL nice passing of the shit test @zipper The late Bauman has some interesting reflections here and there… that quote is one of them. I agree that with RP lenses it does resemble a portrait of hypergamy; however he is also describing the famous “FOMO” (Fear Of Missing Out) so typical of modern society. Particularly with regards to sex, I think that a lot of our expectations have been shaped by all the media we have consumed throughout our lives. It is not at all an artificial desire unlike consumerism, but the ways in which we expect it to… Read more »

IRL
IRL
5 years ago

NAWALT (lol) commenter Rachel has two blogposts on how she and her friends are hit on by a bunch of guys with no game on every possible occasion. Another glimpse into a young girl’s world:

https://avnrachel.wordpress.com/2015/05/27/its-a-sext-message/

https://avnrachel.wordpress.com/2015/12/28/french-pick-up-methods-dating/

Don’t be one of those guys.

Blaximus
Blaximus
5 years ago

@ IRL I literally laughed my ass off reading that chick’s first post and didn’t bother with the 2nd. There’s a huge surprise waiting for her in the future when she becomes invisible. I always find some ” younger ” chicks hilarious in how the approach and perceive the SMP. ” ohhhh, I’m such a special snowflaker that many guys just creep me out when they try to show interest.. “. Lmfao. I know 2 devastatingly beautiful 20 year old that are busy demolishing the club scene in the tri state area, and over the past year or two I’ve… Read more »

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