For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
@sent – spot on with the ‘putting it out there’… that’s part of the leading that I’ve yet to see thru until the end; though I’m one more step closer to a moistened member some of the stuff I left out… – when she responds with a ‘#metoo’ (lololol) about it being a while since she had some action since her ‘husband’ has been gone so long, I look right at her and say “wow, you must be really horny” – I made a comment that she better be sure to unplug her ‘rechargeable friend’ before use, you know, so… Read more »
@Catcher’s Boyfriend territory… Complicated. The more time you spend with a girl that you’ve slept with, the more likely it is that you will both engage in different levels of couple activity. The problem with the beta bucks alpha fucks framework (one of many) is that it juxtaposes to paper tiger ideas, the hard charging take what he wants alpha, and the sniveling yet wealthy beta who trades his resources for sex. The player knows that if he sticks his p into for v AND he spends time with the chick outside of the sex arena – she’s naturally going… Read more »
Archie…. nailing it.
“Allah help you if you’re any kind of good guy with an edge or a bad boy with a streak of good.“
Awesome.
“That was his preparation, but he also made sure the chick was only coming over for one reason. And she had to dress up.”
Preparation? Im stupid. Help me.
No snark question: At what point is convincing a girl to bang without preparation? It sounds like he was thinking about it, used an algorithm. The way he talked, and I do believe him, why would he just become the guy he wanted to be? That’d obviate the need for preparation.
Maybe it’s a wording thing.
“Because for a time, she can get the rollercoaster of emotions from one place.”
Or like a whole life, for a time. Alpha doesn’t have an expiration date.
@Eh
“Maybe it’s a wording thing.”
It IS. How perceptive of you.
@Eh I read all of YaReally’s archives with my own game, experience, and eye. He’s hard to beat on actionable and specific tech So the context of the conversation between me and Catcher’s issue – he’s using a Beta Bucks approach (from the Alpha fux Beta Bux school of thought – which is super popular in the manosphere, but in the PUA world it’s weird, and the zone of the world that I come from is pointless) – He’s moving on, she may or may not sense that. – He invites her out, she declines but offers some action after… Read more »
WIA,
“…and Red Pill dudes are unaware of.“
WORD! I was completely unaware I was doing some or all the above for 24 years running now.
Thank you!
Some red pill dudes are unaware of – FIFY, lol.
Levels, levels, levels.
@WIA
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/02/impressed.gif
I think I’m going to read your last two responses a couple of times and ponder on them. Lots to soak in!
Compartments, compartments, compartments…it takes work to get a girl to recalibrate the compartment that your relationship belongs in…
…I don’t text girls much except to invite them to a party
…I don’t tell them where I’m going because they might think that’s a date
…I don’t tell them things I’m doing because cats don’t care about dog shit
…I don’t tell them about cultural shit…new restaurants…bands…I’m not their fucking cultural info page
…I don’t help them move
…I don’t give handyman advice
…if I see them when I’m out, that’s cool
…compartmentalize
…I’m the cool, dancing, party guy
@Catchers
Walk before you run, but after that know where you’re running.
@WIA: very thoughtful posts. Thanks. Great analysis.
YaReally did devote several posts to delaying the process of the girl falling in love, but he said it was pretty much unavoidable even if you do everything “right” it is going to happen and then you have to let them go, at least for a while (the Long Soft Next from Blackdragon).
For how many decades is one supposed to be able to keep this up until his life becomes a huge black hole?
* I’m kidding *
Time is a real motherfucker, and it’s undefeated.
@Blax I hear ya. Care to expand?
I know you’ve been hinting at looking beyond pick up and for us to take a look at our lives from a higher elevation. Would be interested in reading what you have to say on the matter.
“huge black hole?”
She loosened up, did she? Tell me about it.
@ CatchersIndifference First of all, Happy Holidays. And that goes for all of you guys here. ” I know you’ve been hinting at looking beyond pick up and for us to take a look at our lives from a higher elevation. Would be interested in reading what you have to say on the matter.” Okay, lemme give this a good old Essex County Shot. Background ( which you already know, but just as a prelude ): Until I started reading Roosh and Heartiste many moons ago, I didn’t really know that PUA even existed in the form that we are… Read more »
Regarding the Pimp tactic of blowing hot and cold that Blaximus mentioned? I would not be surprised if part of the effectiveness is a very nasty one: Intenisfying addiction by making the reward of taking a gamble (Sex for commitment) irregular. This is a basic principle of Gambling and human nature. Blowing hot and cold if you will or nice and dangerous, take your pick. ` That it is so effective is deeply disturbing to me morally. That women seem to crave the stone cold killer emo type so much is sad. My first love I was definitely emotionally addicted… Read more »
@Everyone: Happy Winter Solstice celebrations, Merry Christmas, and Happy Hannuka to the FR community. I appreciate the help and learning with you guys, and I try to help when I can.
IAS
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qFHgqMtUR8g
Same here. A reminder they are just silly girls.
(and don’t forget your homework upthread…)
Just a quick check in to say my question about addiction is answered in the very beginning of the thread. A very earnest question is how do I navigate this thread easily without wading through the comments clicking next at the bottom at 65 000 comments plus. Currently I had to wait for someone to comment and then bookmark that section. Even so just in the last 4 pages or so there has been a treasure trove of information in casually tossed out references. @ Rollo Tomassi: Currently I can sum up this blog and Illimitablemen in particular: My life… Read more »
And yes, someone else on this blog said that before me. Psychotherapists make their money from people defined by their memory of past experiences without yet having learned from them.
A neurotic builds castles in the air
A psychotic lives in them
A psychotherapist charges the rent
And a psychiatrist is the pusher providing the drugs to psychotics and neurotics who realise this.
Githyanki, anger and bitterness come from being lied to…disloyalty from tribe members creates that…the proper response is to recognize the lies and accept the truth…if you remain angry and bitter, then you haven’t moved to accepting the truth about biology.
There’s nothing to be bitter about that girls like cads, not dads…you were just sold the lie that girls like dads…learn to be a cad (just a sexy guy without the judgmental baggage from “cad”) and to get rid of your investment in the Blue Pill lies you swallowed.
The odd thing is that something about me is -at times- sexy to Women. And I do not dress all that sharp. I am very overweight, and I am close to 60. Yet I do get rubbernecking, IOI’s, the odd veiled approach. I have an IQ of between 115 to 130, am well read and articulate, can turn on the sense of humour, and am observant and attentive. The thing is that this gets me into trouble: Girls fall “in love” quickly, do not get the commitment they want and then blameshift, attacking my reputation. As this is a small… Read more »
Always remember that chicks don’t care About IQ so I dealing with them, it’s a non factor.
Dog logics.
https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2016/09/01/game-and-iq/
…. lol, and I learned this 40 years ago without reading it.
Intelligence is counter reproductive.
I know.
I just had to own it emotionally. The article helped.
My case is more one of dreading the reality I always suspected but could not put a finger on.
The social awkwardness of highly analytical men I can vouch for. I have lived the life.
I still feel like a fake at times.
“He was giving her another script, it wasn’t a booty call, it was an experience.” you;re a fucking nerd. this is the same place ya faild. he executed the correct program at the correct time but one thing got in his way at the end/key conversion point. nature. he couldn’t deliver the knockout punch. af catharsis wasn’t in his blood. hence his incle status when the girls eggs were the best they would get and the womb owners young and healthy to bounce back like wet rubber bands he clearly understood the framework of the system and with practice, how… Read more »
I am not a fucking old nerd. I aspire to be an old fucking nerd. But I will always be a nerd first. The end result will be a smooth old fucking nerd. Then I can die the little death. Understand that the red pill provided an explanation and gave me peace. And that is valuable. It makes me less outcome dependent for one. As a nerd I could provide straw poll statistics on the accuracy of the built in lie detector of people. Not that it matters. The Inner Game people have drills to get out of their head… Read more »
@Sentient: the homework is figuring out “At first sight” and “Rust and bone”? I only recall the overall plot of “At first sight”, I watched it ages ago. It has the roller coaster of the guy getting sight and losing again. As I recall and from the synopsis you posted, he also has his own mission. Although the woman had fallen for the guy even when he was blind in the first place, I remember a scene where the woman had rearranged stuff at the guy’s home – typical – which of course messed him up completely, being blind, and… Read more »
IAS “I noticed while writing this that both movies”… allow a woman to be seen for her “true” self… not her external beauty. [don’t get hung up on the one guy being physically blind and not actually being able to “see” her (before his vision is fixed), that is a dog logic thing that cats just don’t bother to think about] and that is what is really hot for them. Pure trust connection, not conditional. Let that soak in when thinking about girls and how they view SMV etc… Now girls do very much care about their looks… but that… Read more »
Yup.
Fuck her mind and her body will follow…
Mystery – ” Beauty is common, look around here. Tell me three other things you got going for you” (crosses arms, leans back).
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JeiAyy_W_A8&w=854&h=480%5D
lol if you want to be caught up on the latest RSD gossip here you go man:
https://www.reddit.com/r/pickup/comments/7lvlcv/latest_rsd_intel_papas_current_tactics_against/
Lol. One of the links is to a two hour video of Tyler DEERing on the Todd Valentine situ.
Titled on the YouTube: ‘Power Through The River To The Mountain Of Gold – #1 Secret To “Abundance” Of Tyler’s Early Mentor’
Don’t bother watching it because it is boring. Tyler lecturing to retards. And trying to get laughs and validation like fucking-old-boring-guys-with-something-to-sell-you tend to do. Good luck with that guys.
Tony Soprano: “I got food poisoning. You don’t see me getting all fucked up…”
Here is the short version:
https://youtu.be/WbrYZmNx6mI
https://youtu.be/M1vc3Ut5mvs
Papa, Tyler, Max, Todd…. Jesus Christ, is this what passes for men these days?
Tsk, tsk.
Anyone get through that 5 hour JMULV breakdown of his method?
He’s insufferable, but some gems were in that free seminar that he put out before he caught that kidnapping charge, lol
Haven’t seen that webinar, but I remember someone sending me some of his private infields once. He’s very direct, right? (every infield was like ”Hi! Can I meet you real quick? You’re super fucking sexy. What’s your name, where you from blablabla and then he’d try to lead her back to his place in a pretty strong way)
PS – Awful few nights for me recently, so I’ll probably be chainwatching some new products soon! lol
Alpha
https://twitter.com/punishedstud24/status/946051109067673601
harsh…lol would have sufficed…not a DHV…too close to butthurt and easily triggered like a beta
@Scars
He assumes attraction.
He builds comfort on the way to the cab, lol.
He’s the epitome of Always Be Closing.
@asd yeah, if he pulled a #, he would of tweeted so. Bust.
RSD guys are funny… That lawsuit is a hoot. And that statement of Damages Papa filed… oh boy. surprised his lawyer let that go out. Usually a lawyer will write something like that, use parts of it in the motion etc. Not just thump in a Real Housewives of Social Dynamics extemporaneous missive. wow. seems Todd had amended the complaint to now also include Papa’s wifey… Bottom line, not a lot of money flowing it seems. Be very careful of any of these guys now pushing riches, wealth, prosperity…. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVb3Z-iDmJI Todd used to sell insurance… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HUVIuM-CCHk Then was giving finance… Read more »
“what.the.fuck…. Father J? LOL” 😉 Thought I’d share my wing’s LR he sent me a couple days ago from Brazil. Can’t stress out powerful it is to have a wing who is just as passionate as you are, and knows the pua lingo: “1. Christmas Eve night in São Paulo.. found like the only club open. Went in like 2/3, great club good sensory vibe but still pretty empty. Def thought of fuck this going home soon. But there are some friendly people so socialized a bit. 2. Eventually people started to showed up a bit. Tried like 1-2 sets… Read more »
Trippy FR I had been not very interested in sex with Mrs. Gamer for over a week. I flirted with her and was affectionate, but hadn’t been instigating. I had questions about Mrs. Gamer’s true level of interest. So daughter Gamer and soninlaw showed up at our house for Christmas. SIL had been sleeping in one bedroom and DG in the other with Mrs. Gamer. Both kids were asleep and Mrs. Gamer came downstairs. I flirted with Mrs. Gamer, touching her hand to my pants. She instigated, wanting to do it in the dining room on a comforter. No paraphernalia… Read more »
@WIA I had to check my other PC, but yes, that JMULV guy is who I thought he was. I actually have his product on my old PC and watched it last night. It’s weird as he his like a perfect example of what some of us were speaking about a few weeks back in regards to ‘where’s the actual GAME”?!! – What I mean is, that even in his product, he talks about opening ”Hi, I had to meet you”. His ‘attraction’ module is ‘say whatever you want” (this advice also always makes me think ”where’s the actual GAME/skill”?!… Read more »
Scars
Seriously what is going on with you? It’s been explained umpteen times the difference between MM and what you see on these vids is consistency.
So go do whatever. Try it. Not for a night or a weekend. Try it for 6 months. Then come back.
You guys are all “well i went out last night and tried this on one set and it didn’t work” and looking for something else. Go do it on 200 sets. Go out 4 nights or more a week. Do the work.
@scars I co-sign Sentient’s last post. After doing 200 sets and putting yourself out there 4 times a week you’ll begin to realize that you’re thinking and analyzing this way too much. Some nights you’ll approach a good looking girl with something basic like, “Hi, I had to meet you.” and she’ll be hooked right then and there. In fact you may never need “game” to get laid if you put yourself out there. Just be a normal, affable guy that can hold a conversation, make a girl laugh, and have logistics wired tight. You will surprise yourself. Good luck.… Read more »
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEW_n1922vk
There’s @Blaximus @ 1:30 🙂
@scars “Apparently this ‘method’ has gotten him like 750 hot lays. But it appears to be pure ‘numbers game’ as opposed to ‘game’ itself?” yeah he reminds me of one of my first wings a lot. He also claimed to have a high lay count when I met him and liked to brag about it. What I realized from going out with him a lot, was that the girls that lay count consisted of mostly 5s and 6s (which I assume is the same with JMULV despite him claiming he bangs hot women all the time) His game wasn’t good… Read more »
@J, yeah, I think i’ve seen his infields from that ‘Occams Razor’ thing, although I think I have a different product on my PC . But every infield is the same. Open girl. Hold her hand on intro. At this point she sometimes ejects and the set is over. Otherwise, he’ll ask her name/age etc, tell her she’s cute, say it’s his friends birthday (pretty sure he says this in every infield) and then invites them to his place for a party. I always wonder though whether sometimes just getting her girl back to their place actually leads to a… Read more »
JMULV:
https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-pickup-artist-too-sleazy-for-pickup-artists
and a couple of instructors for his former company “Efficient Pickup”:
https://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local/San-Diego-Efficient-Pickup-Rape-Unconscious-Woman-Gaslamp-335042701.html:
@scars “I always wonder though whether sometimes just getting her girl back to their place actually leads to a pull for lots of these PUA’s (even RSD in some infields to be honest). Occasionally in infields where there is like zero kino and it just seems like friendly chat, yet she goes back with him, I get the impression that the girl legitimately thinks she’s going too a party, and when she gets there and realises nothing is happening she must be like ”Well, fuck this! Bye!!”” Yeah my wings pull girls often but fail to close after they try… Read more »
Occamd Razor is just a spin on screening… GLL been there “Make eye contact with a girl and smile. (ideal, but optional) Walk up to her. Say whatever you want. “How you are tonight?” “I know this is random but I thought you were attractive…” “Hi.” Immediately or within 10-15 seconds, introduce yourself and reach out your hand to shake hers. Continue to hold her hand indefinitely or at least for a little longer than a normal handshake would call for. From that point forward, continue to make “small talk” or normal conversation. (small talk = who are you? where… Read more »
“Screening game is OVER… Look good, minimal game, minimal verbal IS OVER, I don’t know if it will come back or not but 2017 was finally were screeners are done…(go to good looking loser channel and see the last time he made a video)… When i mean they are done it means, yes they can get laid but not consistently like a year of 2 ago, you can thank the death of clubs and tinder.”
https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/general/317515-my-2017-epiphanies-all-the-stuff-i-learned-this-year
and speaking of GLL, took a look at his twitter…what the fuck is this guy doing LMAO:
https://twitter.com/GoodLookingLosr
J
“yes they can get laid but not consistently ”
This has always been the rub of not following MM…
“and speaking of GLL, took a look at his twitter…what the fuck is this guy doing”
Selling supplements…
Julien is selling transcendence…
Tyler is selling….
Who is buying in the bigger question.
From the ‘2017 Epiphanies’ link I shared above: “As for my epiphanies, I’m not sure what value anyone would get from hearing them, since they’re pretty much only valuable to me or anyone at my current level. That being said, I noticed that seduction (and the sex, too) is a lot more enjoyable when I’m working new concepts or really driven and fixated getting inside a particular chicks mind so I can adjust and figure out specific verbals / actions I can use to bed her. . . compared to when I’m detached, running through the same old process and… Read more »
Not quite a master. A ” Master ” doesn’t see ” sex ” and ” concepts ” as being even remotely related.
But one can become really good at pickup that way.
It’s like artificial intelligence. Nuance gets lost because of the artificiality quotient.
http://78.media.tumblr.com/3afe5236a62f65067e5ce71f8b8125d3/tumblr_inline_n6thtz3eVp1s82f8u.gif
@J A couple of abstract thoughts on seduction: “That being said, I noticed that seduction (and the sex, too) is a lot more enjoyable when I’m working new concepts or really driven and fixated getting inside a particular chicks mind so I can adjust and figure out specific verbals / actions I can use to bed her. . . compared to when I’m detached, running through the same old process and getting autopilot lays.” The guy is not really understanding his own dynamics and his process. He’s basically saying that when he’s not cock-blocking himself cognitive and mentally, he can… Read more »
@Scars I have no idea what these other dudes are talking about. On J. Mulv. You know how a lot of people say that pick up is basically sales (it’s not) – JMulv seems to have taken that idea literally. He uses sales language, “overcoming objections”. In the sales context, a way to beat someone’s objective on price paid right now, is to shift the focus to 1) convenience, 2) cost over the long haul 3) features of the expensive model over the cheaper one. Basically acknowledge the objection, maybe even argue for the objection itself – but then introduce… Read more »
Went out with my friend last night who is trying to get back out there after breaking up with his long term GF of like 10 years. Was nice to see that i’m not the only guy who seems to get flat out ignored/rejected off the open, lol (even though I felt really bad for him as I could see it hurt/shocked him!) I almost never see another dude cold approach in person where I live, so this was one of my first times in like a year to actually watch someone else attempt to do what I try to… Read more »
@SJF
I usually skip over long tracts of quoted text, especially the RT ones – I just don’t have the patience. But somehow I started reading the Frailing extract and it got me hooked. This is essentially what I’ve been doing with my young gf who is remarkably very psychologically mature for her age and has been “teaching” me to listen to her more actively.
I’ll have to break down and buy the damn thing after all…
@scars I opened 2 stunning 18 years olds and sat with them. (open was lucky you didn’t just sit there…that’s good…your statement shows that you thought that the girls were the prize and you weren’t…you haven’t really accepted your masculine identity…you see pretty girls as the prize instead of you being their prize, so you saw the open as a lucky break for you…instead of a lucky break for them… What would Gamer do? With an amused mastery grin (make that your poker face), I would say, “Uh oh, looks like the neighborhood has just gone to shit. Tell me… Read more »
@disgruntled earthling It is currently $9.99 at Amazon in Kindle version steps I-V. It does require a lot of patience to get through. A lot. If you get the Kindle version there is a glossary at the end. Don’t forget to refer to it frequently, as he does have some made up terms that aren’t intuitive in meaning. They are placeholders or abstract words. The book isn’t specifically about relationship game. Overall it is a model to control your reality, so Reality doesn’t control you. Again, you can’t always get what you want. And that’s OK. But if you try… Read more »
SJF “Via Game, we came to realize that if the relationship really was a complex game, and we were interested in not squandering it, by god, we were going to be good at that game.” Out at an event with the wife. She is in a group of4 or five women. Three are her friends. One of the other women (divorced) shares she just got a tattoo in solidarity with her college age daughter. One of them suggests my wife get a “tramp stamp” which of course she has no idea what that is. Other woman explains it’s a tattoo… Read more »
“I was looking over a bunch of past interactions and noticed a section of the approach-to-lay process where my game could be a bit tighter, so I’ll be looking forward to working on that in 2018.” So Bacchus’ (the guy I quoted) aim in 2018 is to focus on finding ways to speed up the tradition ‘open-hook-emotional connection-physical connection-close’ Mystery Method model. (these days most (not all but most) of my open to close interactions are like 20 minutes (it’s not screen game because I tick off the 3 keys in Bacchus’ model (described at the bottom of this post)… Read more »
@guys going out
Extremely good video to watch before heading out. I was hesitant to go out tonight cause it’s really cold out but fuck it. Let’s fucking do this!
Field Report The night started off slowly…not many people in the bar…I danced with a hot blonde and got several rejections…I chatted with a bouncer and some guys I knew. I told them I was gonna be a grandpa. Found out Christmas Day when my daughter and son in law gave me a mug that said “Grandpa” on it…daughter made the mug. After midnight I joined a girl (a petite brunette maybe 35 yo well made up to look HB7) and several guys. One of the guys (maybe 25 y.o.) had his hands on the girl and another guy came… Read more »
Am I the only married guy that all this shit happens to? I don’t see it in other field reports.
Emotional stimulation -> does she feel positive emotions
any emotion is good, but you will have more success if you create a rich landscape of emotions in a girl…or even create a fantasy…such as “getting away” with fucking in a place where you might get caught…or a romantic fantasy where you are a knight rescuing a princess from a dragon…or where you whisk her off to an island paradise…or where you bring her into a spy fantasy a la “True Lies”
forward to 1:00
“such as “getting away” with fucking in a place where you might get caught”
ya did that this Friday actually. Fucked a girl outside in the freezing cold around the corner from the bar. I was hailing a cab for us to go back to mine but she said “no can we go somewhere else nearby” because she left the person she is staying with for the weekend in the bar for a quick rendezvous
Cockblocking blocked FR I was dancing with a sweet girl about 1 a.m. NYE…she was pretty drunk and I haven’t seen her drunk before…figure it’s a one off…we were having a good time…two consecutive dances…when another girl tries to interrupt our dance and lead her off…I fended off the cockblocker by taking her arm off my partner’s arm…my partner was pleased…my partner wanted yet a third dance, so we did…she was cuddly…I then returned my partner to her gf…her gf was pissed at me, lol… …I’ve never done that before and was pleased that I was able to recognize what… Read more »
Re-posting a LR from here: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-11951-page-175.html A lot of the posts on that thread are garbage notches (either HB6s from Tinder/Bumble or ‘drunk girl’ notches from night game) but this LR was from a formally “socially awkward Indian engineer” dude. I enjoyed reading it and think it serves as a good inspiration for newbies/lurkers: “Background: I’ve spent the past 4 years or so trying to raise my SMV, going from a socially awkward, badly dressed engineer to someone who can get laid. This notch felt like the culmination of all my efforts. I’m in India for my best friend’s wedding.… Read more »
Good stuff J.
– SMV level up
– aware of the social dynamics
– figured out the logistics by going to her place
– making her work for it
– showing virility with the dancing (and very good and underrated point about choreographed dancing looking weird)
Given the constraints this was a great job.
Lack of Calibration FR About 1:30 a.m. I went over to ask a girl I know to dance…HB8+…5’8″ brunette with hair down to her butt and could be a model…I thought she had a bf…she was talking to some guys and no bf in sight…I approached, she looked my way while one of the guys was still talking…probably had been watching me approach out of the corner of her eye…I held out my hand and said “wanna dance”…another guy she was talking to also asked her to dance almost the same time…maybe a little before I did because he saw… Read more »
Here’s a tip to add what I said before for testing for Testosterone/Thyroid issues if you have energy problems. Take fenugreek seed. It will spike your T levels and make you feel better. You should still get tested for those things, however, the fenugreek is a quick, cheap way to see if you may have testosterone issues, so its something to try. Add to that fact that hormones in general are a very tricky subject — what works for one guy may not work for another, the same way that one guy would be just fine working off 2 hours… Read more »
Supplements will not fix test levels if they are low. See an endocrinologist, preferably one that deals with male hormone issues specifically. Pricey though, but there’s no magic testosterone supplement that’s gonna raise test significantly.
Addendum to my convo with the “model”
I asked her if she wanted the white picket fence…nope, she tried that and it was a disaster…1.5 years before marriage and 1.5 years until the divorce
https://digitalcommons.wku.edu/ijesab/vol2/iss1/13/
https://examine.com/stacks/increasing-testosterone/
“See an endocrinologist, preferably one that deals with male hormone issues specifically.” That’s oxymoronic, Blaximus. Even your endocrinologist reverted to the fact that you were toxic. And too masculine. Go figure. See a Urologist. Endocrinologists as a group are in the FI collective. Even the male endocrinologists, most are feminized and with treat you like piecework. God forbid a female endocrinologist. (Can’t have scary overly testosteronized males roaming around in the Matrix, can we?) You raise a question of how to improve your Test levels?: you’ll get an answer: “Don’t worry. You’re fine.” Endocrinologists are more worried about solving “real”… Read more »
“The problem with most guys is excess levels of stress. Exhibit #1 in this regard is Hank Holliday.
Do not have stress. It is a huge handicap in the realm of the masculine. ”
Stress happens when you are not living the life you want
https://twitter.com/thefaceberg/status/947908406148440064
when you choose ‘should’ over ‘must’
https://medium.com/@elleluna/the-crossroads-of-should-and-must-90c75eb7c5b0
The key is to realize that “being ‘successful’ in other peoples eyes isn’t always a good thing, nor does it always lead to happiness.”
Top comment of this post (Hawk_Chops’ comment):
http://www.cracked.com/blog/dont-know-what-to-do-with-your-life-its-not-your-fault/
and just live the life you want
https://www.amazon.com/How-Found-Freedom-Unfree-World/dp/0965603679
@ j
Great stuff. I’m pretty, pretty sure I read Harry Browne’s book decades ago.
Could have been a life changer among the thousands of other books.
You have to search far and wide for self help books and not all of them are bullshit.
Great link to the Cracked article also…
Thanks for your contribution to the community, rock star talent, you.
@Rollo: Happy 2018.
Have you considered my request to change the link of the “Field Reports” button on the top bar?
Changing it to this:
https://therationalmale.com/field-reports/comment-page-2/#comments
would save a lot of time.
That dangerous times is shit.
I just opened 3 22-24 y.o. at the gym with the simplest pickup. They all responded witj smiles, immediately pulled off their headsets and thanked me when I broke it off.
Fuck brothers. I hope one of yall’s are free to bail me out this weekend.
“thanked me for taking to them at the end of the convo.”
That’s better.
@EI
Yeah, I was in Wally World with Mrs. Gamer and saw Hot Mama and chatted with her and she thanked me for stopping to chat.
We are the prize.
“That dangerous times is shit.”
This is the best timeline
I seriously need to tone me down.
5 colleague wives dancing with me….really?
I’m gonna get fired again.
@EI
If women get too worked up, just cool ’em down.
@hank
looks like my post didn’t get passed the mods so i repost it here without links (site + title)
r/streetwear – “a list of good fashion guides”
onpointfresh – check the links under the ‘buyer’s guide’ tab
As for grooming, I like the products listed here:
Buzzfeed – “essential grooming products guys need right now”
and last but not least, here’s a couple of good Instagram accounts I follow for inspiration:
@cpeterspiano/
@thenortherngent/
More than 4 links will mod.
I seriously need to tone me down.
5 colleague wives dancing with me….really?
Dancing is only quasi-sexual. The dance floor is a safe zone. You probably don’t wanna go grinding on your colleagues’ wives, tho, or go off and chat somewhere with them away from their hubbies.
I danced with my sister in law, brother in law’s wife, other in laws, a household maid at the in laws house, groups of girls in a bar, wives and gf’s out with their men, etc. No big deal if you play catch and release.
>blockquote>”I seriously need to tone me down.
5 colleague wives dancing with me….really?”
“You probably don’t wanna go grinding on your colleagues’ wives, tho, or go off and chat somewhere with them away from their hubbies.”
You probably want to chat with the hubbies and tell them that they are so lucky to have such an extroverted and vivacious wife. The opposite of boyfriend destroyer Game. Husband build up Game.
You probably want to chat with the hubbies and tell them that they are so lucky to have such an extroverted and vivacious wife.
Making the woman the prize. Hawking the Blue Pill.