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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
21 days ago

@Sentient Out the gate as I’m in the restaurant waiting for a friend but here are some to be getting on with, now @NNN1 has to find MOAR!! Actually I was thinking of grabbing you by the hair throwing you around the bedroom and banging you til you can’t walk I never plan on a Friday I lost a leg in the war and can’t walk, so I hop. I would walk but I keep tripping over my cock so these days I prefer to pole vault I was thinking of having a unicycle race Pizza is ghey Great idea… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
21 days ago

@Sentient May be speeding up, may be slowing down… Slower is often faster. You might have to really slow it down but only after your sexualisation intentions are known. In the above example I had attempted the make out and had a kick back. I was sat at one end of that sofa and she was at the other – no bodily contact for about an hour and I went for the second make out when she was (had) calming / calmed down. ** which you know bc you poasted the mystery clip of “the other end of the sofa… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
20 days ago

@HABD Thanks for the breakdown. You’re right with the eye-contact lol. Since Palma’s book and Sentient’s breakdown I practice it when talking every time (as long as I remember to lol). Getting better, but it takes time of course. @Palma @Sentient On: “Do you feel like going for a walk in the park? We could go grab a pizza or so” Yeah, the hedges definitely are the best place to apply chloroform. Nah, the last brunette I ate pizza with smelled like garlic. You won’t be able to walk afterwards anyway. Walks are for old geezers I’m no spaghetti, fuck… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
20 days ago

@NNN1 Firstly bearing this in mind you’re doing very well: This was my first ‘date’ this year and maybe 6. or 10. total – so, yeah lol.
Probably with more practice this will work better. I didn’t actually realise that ^^ so I’ve spent a long time reading your FR, and @HABD’s reply, and he’s covered all the technical stuff I can see. On the lateness / missing the train, I’d read it differently -> you were plan B bc she was blown out by Chad. I might be right or wrong on that but anyway she was still DTF, and… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
20 days ago

@Palma At the moment there are no new opportunities along the way. I could chat up one (the Italian) on one of her Insta-Stories. She posts some sporty activities every Sunday – as reliable as a clockwork. So a month ago I replied to one on DM and that was somehow nice and I could reactivate that again. Actually I’m not sure if this was a good idea but right now it is one of the best options available. Fun fact: I did pizza in a large woodfired oven with three guys and we posted nice pictures on Insta (as… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
20 days ago

@NNN1 Set light to something in a frying pan, @IAS has just texted me and he got it spot on 2nd attempt. Post THAT on your Instagram and I think it’ll lite up with female interest. Then you can leverage that. “Hit me with your best joke and if it’s good enough you can come over for a seat at the chefs table” Go on do it just as a social experiment. If you’re a broke arse student I’ll PayPal you £20 for the brandy and butter and sugar and fruit if you run the experiment. I’d just love to… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
20 days ago

@Palma

I can still afford that lol.

Yeah, it will be fun, I wanted to do that anyway – had done flambés with my dad earlier.
You mean the thing as a story or a post?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
20 days ago

No story, no comment, just post one or two pictures of you holding a frying pan with flames 2 ft (600mm) coming out of it. Possibly a picture of the finished product on a plate. Bananas or strawberries.

See what happens. My money it’s a hotline to the hamster and all sorts of women will be reaching out to you. That’s just a wild guess. Where’s @ Sentient when you want to run a book.. lol..

Don’t reply to any comments you get before reporting back here.

Sentient
Sentient
20 days ago

Nnn1 Palma HABD Starting to feel like the FR section again 😆 [But Rollo’s new comment app sux] Nnn1 – good on yah for doing 10 responses. Commit a few to memory. Here is a good one Her: blah blah You: [stop what you are doing. Get very serious face on. Stare at her] Seriously… you did NOT just say that?!? [Wait a beat for reaction] ahhhh We can’t b friends now [and roll off… wait a beat for her reaction… if she starts defensively then] … ahhh cmere [pull her in] you’re adorable…[hug.. then push off] … but seriously…… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
20 days ago

@NNN1

Yesterday emailed me a copy of “the black flag”, and I can’t find the author but I’m 99.9999% sure it’s heartiste undercover and it’s a must read, found it here:

https://b-ok.cc/book/2957302/a0b397?id=2957302&secret=a0b397

Last paragraph of page 84

If she’s stayed with you past 15 or 20 minutes, there’s almost no chance she’ll resist some sort of contact, she would’ve left by now if she weren’t interested at all.

NNN1
NNN1
20 days ago

First a big thank you to all, great advice – although I’ll need some time to chew it through completly. Did the flambé with two bananas in an orange cast-iron pan. I used way too much rum (in absence of brandy lol), but why not have a fireball over one meter when you can. Made it a 10-second video for the Insta-story where I hold the pan, throw in the rum and it catches fire instantly lol. Then I exportet a frame of it where I hold the pan a with a one-meter flame, smirking a bit. No comment beneath… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
20 days ago

@NNN1 Ok I’d forgotten this because it’s been so long since any man has tried to tool me; but other men will HATE, and I mean HATE your flamboyant DHV’s and the success with women it will bring. This includes you wearing anything that’s a peacock. When I was younger it happened quite a lot. I had a bright red jacket that I used to wear out that created openings with women and trouble from men. (I’ve still got a red jacket now but). They’ll shit test and try to start fights with you. So handling other men can become… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
19 days ago

@Palma

39 Likes right now, another good friend commented on the foto (a compliment).
No comments or girls hitting me up until now lol.

While reading through The Black Flag, what do you think about his styling advice? Granted, the peacocking part is well established since Mystery, but what about Cologne? – Is it worth it and are the ones he recommends well-chosen?

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
18 days ago

@NNN1 39 Likes right now, another good friend commented on the foto (a compliment). I reckon that’s good for a man as opposed to a woman showing her tits. What’s the % man / woman on the likes, and how does this compare with other things you’ve poasted? I’m still trying to work out how to spin this. Ideally you need a photo of you doing it again with a woman stood next to you in fits of hysterics / absolutely astonished / clearly having really good fun / freaking out. You got a girl housemate right? Could you pivot… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
18 days ago

@NNN1 Perhaps flambe mustard chicken, mash, carrots. Followed by flambe banana. You buy skinless chicken breasts. Over here you can get a bulk pack of those – 8 for about £8 I wrap them in a tinfoil parcel and Chuck in a bit of white wine to keep the humidity up then you put them on a baking tray and bake them at 180 for – I don’t actually know how long, probably about 20 mins. They need to be fully cooked. Then you need to do mash potato, and for this you just slice up potatoes about 1cm in… Read more »

NNN1
NNN1
17 days ago

@Palma

I’ve posted nothing before but several stories of making pizza (in the woodfired oven) with friends.

16 of 39 likes stem from girls – so that’s at least not bad, although not the usual public comments like under many posts on Insta.

I’m going to try the mustard chicken, probably at the next party with the boys (like when we made pizza).

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
17 days ago

@If I Fell It is glitchy. It’s almost impossible to read on a mobile device, jumping around like a grasshopper on coke. Field reports is prob the right place. So congratulations on your son. He’s got it together with a job that pays enough out the gate to rent a place solo. That’s almost unheard of here, and he’s got hold of his balls so well that he’s walked from his gurrlfriend for the opportunity too. That’s even better. So you’ve done well there. How did your son react to the conversation about flambé food? I’m now fascinated by this… Read more »

If-I-Fell
If-I-Fell
16 days ago

@Palmasailor, TL/DR – felt like righttin’ Flambé Food He is overwhelmed by his new status. He has the power to be a “Rock Star” but he has not recognized his potential. I don’t think he’s ready for multiple plates or FNL’s. He’s been serial, with mega-dates lasting several days at a time. He doesn’t like a lot of drama. I think the mega-dates ended when he either got tired of the drama or had school work to complete. “Fortress Solitude” I actually had this for a month. My future wife bought a stick and couldn’t drive it. My lessons failed.… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
15 days ago

@if I fell TL/DR – felt like righttin’ Yeah me too sometimes it can clear the head. And the men I here have an outlook that’s rare. He doesn’t like a lot of drama Funny, it’s taken me this long to realise the fastest way to get drama is to avoid drama. Drama is basically the guard dog spinning up. Leading on from that actually being a young high value man is a dangerous place to be. I got a midnight WhatsApp from @a previous young poaster here last week. @SJF has been mentoring him. Long story short he has… Read more »

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
15 days ago

Palma After we met last time I just thought that my exes Power was over. I Don’t be surprised if your exes power over your son comes and goes. Think of this like waves on the beach; her power over him was near total for years, washing over him constantly. But now the tide is going out, and so while she can still pour a wave over him, each time it won’t reach quite as high. In time he’ll be free of her control, and it will be a good thing if you can spend time with him during that… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
14 days ago

@Anonymous Reader Thanks for your comments, I didn’t think of it like that. We had a brilliant relationship until he was about 15 when I was forced to relocate 50 miles away. Access should have been straightforward but she stonewalled me so I took it to court (mistake) and I got thrown out. The two female judges literally wouldn’t even let me speak so I got up and walked out. Propaganda against me must have been brutal. In the last 3+ years I probably asked to see him between 150 and 300 times, and in that time he may have… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
12 days ago

Field Report So I’ve got a bite on this Feeld dating app which caters specifically for non monogamous/ “ethical poly” and every other type of thing. They’re all sub, and they want a Dom. 99.99% of them outright say it. That’s both the women and the “men”. And it is full, and I mean full of target age women. Predominately 20 – 32. There is almost no representation much above 38, I’d say the bulk are 25. Out the gate they set your default age range at 18-71 and I didn’t change it. Anything is acceptable in this new paradigm… Read more »

Peter Pan
Peter Pan
12 days ago

I did not read all of the cooking tips here… but it looks way complicated.
My favourite date is just taking a girl to a market, to buy vegetables.
I will let her pick most of the items, and let her know it’s a test… “I wish to see if you are any good with tomatoes”, etc.
Also, I will tend to make immature jokes involving cucumbers.
Later, it’s only natural that we go somewhere comfortable to make a salad…
And in the end, if nothing else, I will at least end up with some sort of salad.

Peter Pan
Peter Pan
12 days ago

While the salad date looks simple and ad-hoc, there are a number of important frames and precedencies being set: It’s not a traditional date… No awkward sitting in a restaurant I am not spending any money on the girl (except for the ingredients) I am not spending any time on the girl (as I would have done the same things anyway) I am being healthy… No junk food for me… but maybe just a little cheese on top I am knowledgeable about this… I can and will talk about vegetables and their benefits I have high standards… The ingredients must… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
12 days ago

Palma

Solid solid plan mate. Love how you are marching up the logistics and practicalities, which are most often the biggest obstacle.

Respect the “rhythm of the night” as Julien used to say…

She’s kryptonite… 😆

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
12 days ago

@Peter Pan

You haven’t studied game have you.

Do you want feedback? Because that ^^ process doesn’t work reliably does it.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
11 days ago

The show so far.

She’s using her correct name on What’s App so she’s either legit and advertising for what she wants or she’s going to try to be an SB.

https://imgur.com/a/sckxJoM

She’ll get no validation by text from me, and I won’t let her drag me into sexting – though her reply timings indicate she’s chatting to loads of men.

So it’s a meet or nothing

NNN1
NNN1
11 days ago

@Palma

Congrats – feels like a solid evening. Success with that!

Now, why do her response times indicate her texting multiple men – while they don’t imply the opposite, aren’t they pretty direct?

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
11 days ago

Looks like a bit of Borderline personality who is bidding for SB status.

The fishy has already nudged the lure a time or two. Maybe you can set the hook.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
9 days ago

@Anonymous Reader / All Just had dinner with my son again. The major difference this time was he greeted me with a huge grin and a hug (at his instigation). There was no defensive body language. We didn’t get drunk this time. The conversation was good and about loads of stuff. We didn’t arrange another week but I’ll give it a week and hit him up again. His mother still dropped him, and collected him. Da’pocalypse has fucked with his driving lessons which over here is a lot more complicated than it was when I got a licence in Florida;… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 days ago

Palma

Great stuff. He is only going to rely on you more and more as he continues to grow up in the world and get out from under her apron.

Uber has an option to add a family member to your account so you could do that and he’d have full mobility and jot have to ask for rides or pay etc.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
8 days ago

@sentient Thanks. He had that on my account a couple of years back but he pulled away from it and says he’s on his mother’s account. He also had a bank bard of mine for paying for travel but that expired in the midst of it all. I might actually re instate that in case of “emergencies”. I’ve been providing him with an iphone however at some point over the last few years he’s obviously got another one with another number that I don’t know because there’s no activity on the one I provide apart from calling me and incoming… Read more »

Sentient
Sentient
8 days ago

Palma

I’d offer the uber “no strings attached”, i.e. he can use it whenever for anything, not just seeing you. Under the guise of corona messing up his license. Then when he passed his test work out a car situation.

The more freedom he has the better.

The key though is uou make the decision and set it up and then just tell him he can use it whenever. That we he doesn’t have to “decide” to accept your offer which would put him back in the middle.

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
8 days ago

@sentient

Thanks – I’ve just ordered him a credit card on my account for emergencies

I’ll do the Uber thing as well and wrap it up together “during covid” until he gets his licence

Anonymous Reader
Anonymous Reader
1 day ago

Supposedly 80% of the UK has gotten a vaxx injection, yet Covid cases are surging?

What ever happened to “herd immunity” that was supposed to already be here?

So Palma, is it gonna be another lockup?

NNN1
NNN1
23 hours ago

@Anonymous Reader As new mutations make the virus more infectious the share of vaccinated population needed to reach heard immunity goes up. At some point more infectious mutations could even make herd immunity unreachable, as the vaccines would not be effective enough. UK also is kind of europe leading in terms of mutations, other countries like Germany (as I live here) have the formerly British mutation dominating and cases decline dramatically. Thus, live starts up here again. Obviously, India seems tougher in it’s mutant breeding and ’cause UK always imports world-leading biotech (lol) they will take either more vaccines or… Read more »

PalmaSailor
PalmaSailor
10 hours ago

@Anonymous Reader So Palma, is it gonna be another lockup? We’re still not fully released from the last lock down. Furthermore the date on that has been pushed back by a month. This is all about control now and nothing else. More than a few of us think that we’ll never be allowed to be free (to the extent we were) in our lives again. Ie lockdown will never be released. Mandatory enrolment to the drug trial, tracing your every move 24/7 and ultimately the abolition of cash and a whole load more shit Orwell could never have even dreamed… Read more »

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