Field Reports

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For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.

So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.

There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.

Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.

So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.

 

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IAS: Katie Perry 2010? Pretty hot. Like an 8? But I honestly see so many hotter girls every night I go out! It’s kind of torture lol
Yeah, i’m also not a huge fan of them 2 insta blondes. Not close to the pic I posted above (at least to my tastes)

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No matter what they look like, models are a pain in the ass to deal with on any extended basis (like for more than 10 minutes).

Katy Perry and Rose McGowan have Superman Jaw Syndrome. Not my thing.

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Google Katy sans makeup.

Still feel the same?

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Stubby chubby Katy Perry circa 2010 with the competition. How ya think she feels in the dressing room?

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@kfg: true that chin irks me too. Very nice rack though. Zooey Deschanel (who looks quite similar) had a generally prettier face (I don’t like those bangs though)… But has almost no boobs. @Sentient: I know you are not a fan (I don’t like her look now BTW), but around 2010 I think she was holding very well against the VicSec models, to me she looks prettier than the majority of those in the picture. Not sure how she felt but she never seemed particularly stable mentally. @Blax: when she was younger I consider her very pretty even without make-up… Read more »

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“Zooey Deschanel” If I close my eyes she’s gorgeous. That touch of husk in her voice gets to me. You can have the rest, especially the awful bangs. “If you bring up other celebs against make up they also don’t look as pretty as they usually do.” In their prime: Audrey Hepburn without makeup and her hair down was a real cutey. The Hollywood “glamour” artists actually made her look worse. Leslie Caron, although a bit distinctly Gallic looking for my taste was another, so it’s a real shame she rarely allowed herself enough hair to let down. The Hollywood… Read more »

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“what do you think of prime Katy Perry”

6.5 tbh

“Yeah, i’m also not a huge fan of them 2 insta blondes. Not close to the pic I posted above (at least to my tastes)”

+1. good taste.

for reference, here’s prime Adriana and Alessandra, respectively:

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Adriana is constantly hot. Allessandra not as hot. Idk, I swear I.see you chicks all the time, especially at the shore in.summer, that are just as hot. I’m a sticker for makeup trickery. I immediately start ‘ looking through ‘ makeup in photographs, as well as hair dying and extentions, and I start subtracting. Some guys only care about skinny/weighs 100 pounds, but there’s more to what I consider a ‘ nice ‘ body, and it doesn’t look anything like a prepubescent boy. Having had 2 pageant contesting sisters, I have been fascinated by how boys/men react visually to certain… Read more »

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@j ”+1. good taste” I literally have like tonnes of my idea of really hot girls so close to where i live! Already been rejected by most of them lol Tried my luck for a second time with the girl on the right the other night: https://imgur.com/a/Ubsgapo Hard ‘no girl’, though unfortunately. Literally could have had TylerRSD in my ear feeding me lines through an earpiece and it still wasn’t gonna happen with her! Ran some game on the new bar girl in a bar I drink at last night and even though it’s always hard to know how to… Read more »

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” Literally could have had TylerRSD in my ear feeding me lines through an earpiece and it still wasn’t gonna happen with her! ”

Not with that attitude

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Tried my luck for a second time with the girl on the right

Luck. Now there’s a winning idea. lol

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scars, without the nonverbal signals, even with the greatest lines, your game will be shit…do you even have a clue what nonverbal signals are?

you sound very spergy with this focus on lines

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it’s always hard to know how to take IOI’s from girls who are working

If she comps you drinks, she likes you. Run some compliance tests on her beyond just getting you food and drinks.

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That’s kind funny coming from you, ASD!! smile You legit made me smile!

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@j, you like young Mila Kunis out of interest!??

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“Tried my luck for a second time”

That says so much.

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My game appears to have worked on the bar girl! Just got a friend request and a flirty message on facebook (my brother goes out with a girl who she knows so guess she got all my details from her?) – so looking very positive that I could have the Polish girl and this bar girl on the go soon. Year started slow compared to last year, but with a strong finish, I might keep up lay count! lol.

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with a girl who she knows so guess she got all my details from her?

You catching on to the whole “social proof” thing Scars?

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I might keep up lay count!

Bet I get laid more than you do. lol Yeah, there’s a point to this. “Quality” will only take you so far. Would you rather fuck a pretty girl who gives you clap or a merely attractive girl who is clean. There’s a lot of pretty skanks out there.

Button up before you dip your wick.

“She let me rawdog her.” Says so much about a young man’s low opinion of himself.

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You still banging ESG? What’s going on with that?

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You still out there bro?

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You sailing?

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i’ve only ever seen dance reports from you, although maybe you were a slayer in your younger days? What’s your n-count out of interest?
Yeah, I didn’t write that about rawdogging. I tend to use a condom lol (usually)

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Scars, I tend to fuck Mrs. Gamer frequently. That’s all I’ll admit to, lol. How old were you when you first dipped your wick?

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I was never crazy about Mila. No homo but I only watched That 70’s show for Kelso, Hyde, and Eric. Hilarious show

Hmm actresses I like that I can think of:

-Jessica Alba in idle hands
– Eliza Dushku in Bring It On
– Nathalie Kelley in Tokyo Drift (banged a girl that looked just like her)

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Culum said he wasn’t gonna comment here again till he got laid from cold approach

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I’m not interested in banging the same girl again and again personally, lol.
17 or 18 when I lost my V-card.

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@J – I neverr watched that 70’s show, but i’ve seen pics and Mila was a stunner in it, for my tastes! (i’ll have to google them other girls)

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@SJF

“The game never ends but your “Game” mentality actually does.”

No one with game actually has a “game mentality” kid….

also not responding to your copy pasta quotes

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“The game never ends but your “Game” mentality actually does.”

No one with game actually has a “game mentality” kid….”

No wonder your girls call you lazy.

If you understood what was trying to be said. Both those sentences are describing the same concept.

I could have been more clear and used the term Pick-up Game Mentality. Men change their outlook every 4, 8, 12 years.

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“I could have been more clear and used the term Pick-up Game Mentality. Men change their outlook every 4, 8, 12 years.”

Most men never change their outlook……..

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“Most men never change their outlook……..”

Often to their detriment…..

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@Sentient: still FWB with ESG. I’m pretty sure she is in love with me actually. Which is flattering but I don’t particularly want her to suffer as I like her.

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“I’m pretty sure she is in love with me actually. Which is flattering but I don’t particularly want her to suffer as I like her.”

Women rarely experience true suffering….

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“Women rarely experience true suffering….” So what? They invent emotional suffering. Which is real and true suffering, for them. Good luck with the Dog language, Mersonia. Not the dialect language of women. Once again, you are being lazy, man. Don’t even read this copy and paste from Franco, Manual of Seduction, Mersonia. Cause you are: lazy Quote: ” Woman’s Language and Seduction Of course, seduction is not only connected with genetics and the instinct to procreate. Seduction has much to do with psychology as well. Neuropsychology is a science studying the way in which our neurological structure expresses itself on… Read more »

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Next chapter from Franco, Manual of Seduction: “Woman’s Emotional States Let’s now learn a new concept: the concept of mental state. Contrary to what we might like to believe, our mental states are not constant: they change all the time. We can be happy in the morning, sad in the afternoon, angry in the evening, a minute before in love and a minute later we may hate the one we loved. Men tend to use logic to repress emotions for the purpose of keeping their mental state as constant as possible. Women let themselves go and give themselves the permission… Read more »

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“Women rarely experience true suffering….” Well my wife did ask me to fuck her good at bed-time. (No silly, not overtly), via sub-comms She suffered over the weekend with a bad menstrual period. She figured she was over that suffering. I told her to wait till morning. She refused. So I did. And she magically turned happy. How the fuck did that happen? And then I rolled over and listened to music in ear-buds. Then Amy Winehouse came on “PopRocks” singing Rebab. This song is autobiographical. Many successful musicians are haunted by their own personal demons of drink and drugs,… Read more »

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And the songs just keep rolling: What Brooks claims to be in this song: bitch, lover, child, mother, sinner, saint. Bitch Meredith Brooks I hate the world today You’re so good to me I know but I can’t change Tried to tell you But you look at me like maybe I’m an angel underneath Innocent and sweet Yesterday I cried Must have been relieved to see The softer side I can understand how you’d be so confused I don’t envy you I’m a little bit of everything All rolled into one I’m a bitch, I’m a lover I’m a child,… Read more »

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And then we can come upon a song that can be appreciated in the masculine. Always be running or lifting. Rather than be Layne Staley’s bid to be overcome heroin addiction, it can be a rallying cry for masculine self-improvement, esp. the lyric of no more hiding blind spots, disguising truths: No Excuses Alice In Chains It’s alright There comes a time Got no patience to search For peace of mind Layin’ low Want to take it slow No more hiding or Disguising truths I’ve sold Everyday it’s something Hits me all so cold Find me sittin’ by myself No… Read more »

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Re: beautiful actresses

Forgot about these two Spanish beauties:

– Aracely Arámbula in Abrázame muy fuerte
– Barbara Mori in La Mujer De Mi Hermano

Aight that about it lol

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@SJF

………..like I said not reading your copy pasta …….when you develop some form of original thought… or semi original thought get back to me.

“Women rarely experience true suffering….”

So what? They invent emotional suffering. Which is real and true suffering, for them.

………………………………………………….You have no real experience ….

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fairly attractive, i’d say.

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Tusk is a big time slayer

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@SJF, some top-notch comments there. Thanks.

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“To become an expert seducer you need to learn to put logic aside…”

To be a expert at anything, logic, reason, knowledge hobbles.

Understanding>Knowledge

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fairly attractive, i’d say.

You talking about the girl or Tusk?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCM-8t8FULY

rolling up and hoping for an instant massive IOI /= Game

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@echo I prefer this dudes infields, but tusk is good too.

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paused at 14:28….”hot” lol

I skipped around a bit, but it looks to me like he’s just winging it, really. Giving a more [gay] friend to friend vibe than man to woman. And then the cringe self-invite to her apartment at 31 minutes. 100% she’s gonna flake on him.

There’s not a lot of good infields on youtube, but this one’s my favorite at the moment (the chick isn’t a 10/10 hot either but he’s game is rock solid):

https://youtu.be/FgDXFSHU7rA?t=119

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@ j solid game? lol high pitched, whiny voice -1 (you can fix this) apologizes in his open -1 (shows lack of inner frame…low value) only occasionally faces the girl +1 he doesn’t even realize that he doesn’t need to apologize -1 (never overtly apologize unless you are caught red-handed in a serious gaffe and the girl asks for an apology and even then use it to extract compliance…”I understand how you feel and I hate it that I’m such an asshole…please forgive me”) the dude understands that he can leverage previous connections…this really only works if the girl is… Read more »

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@Theasdgamer “solid game? lol” Rock solid. Watch past the first 5 minutes and see for yourself. Or do you also have ADHD in addition to ASD? “high pitched, whiny voice -1” yet Aaron voices is deep and manly and he gets nowhere with his girl. Focus on the big picture. “apologizes in his open -1 (shows lack of inner frame…low value)” There is a difference between a social “sorry”. and a legit “sorry”. Like how guys open with “excuse me (“WHAT??? ALPHA MEN NEVER SAY EXCUSE ME, THEY JUST TAKE WHAT THEY WANT!!!”) , do you guys have a cigarette?”… Read more »

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I wonder what the average age of these guys that post these infield videos online is. This stuff is mostly targeted at young ( teens through early twenties) yes? It seems like infield vids are usually posted by guys in their 30’s or older, that have been into pua for a fairly long time, but by that age they should be better than their posting shows. All they are doing is talking to chicks and saying they got a same night lay. But there’s not much in the interaction related to take as far as I can see. What’s being… Read more »

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yet Aaron voices is deep and manly and he gets nowhere with his girl. Focus on the big picture. You don’t get it. A man’s voice should be musical, not merely deep. Varying tones. Musical. Not whiny. Not monotonously deep tones. Musical. The same is true of a woman’s voice, although it will be an octave or two higher. A man’s voice should not be whiny. But obviously the dude’s voice wasn’t a turn off for the girl. The girl was likely DTF from the get go because he ignored her previously and she’s so insecure. Her perceived relative SMV… Read more »

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Guys speak differently than they have in the past. It’s a function of feminized society. Like wearing tight skinny pants and shit.😁

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Like wearing tight skinny pants

…cuts off circulation to the balls and they shrink…

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” . . . tight skinny pants . . .” . . . which are more often than not hip huggers, which are more overtly feminine than skinny (and even skirts) is. Skinny, tight, hip hugging capris makes a man look like he’s been stealing clothes from his kid sister, and this isn’t merely an matter of fashion, but of anatomy and biology. Men and women are built differently and display different sexual cues. When women first started wearing shitkicker pants they were only made for men and the fit on women was horrible, so they demanded and got pants… Read more »

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“It seems like infield vids are usually posted by guys in their 30’s or older, that have been into pua for a fairly long time, but by that age they should be better than their posting shows” Agreed. Most puas on youtube suck. All my wingmen (all of them under 7 years experience), would have recorded a far better infield than the one Aaron just posted. The best would have fucked her that same day (if she was his type). “All they are doing is talking to chicks and saying they got a same night lay. But there’s not much… Read more »

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“It’s a function of feminized society. Like wearing tight skinny pants and shit”

haha yeah look at these feminine skinny pants wearing virgins:

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@ j

that video is a perfect example of what I was talking about. These guys are fairly femine in their actions and dress, but it’s fairly accepted now and most young people don’t know anything but this ” style “. this has been a victory for feminism because those motherfuckers play a very long game.

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[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0KXQ9UknPQ&w=854&h=480%5D Marc Anthony is not particularly handsome, he’s not overly groomed, and he doesn’t do anything ” skinny ” besides the fact that he is extremely skinny himself. Every concert I’ve been to of his in the past 20 years, he has a real, full band that blows the roof off the building, and chicks scream until they lose their voices. A few years back I went to see Pitbull, with Enrique Iglesias as the opening act. I enjoyed Enrique because he can actually sing a little, but the contrast in masculinity between him and Pitbull was blinding….to me.… Read more »

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@blax

Young guys dress this way (fuckboi style) and style their hair a certain way because young hot girls like it. And it’s far more aesthetically pleasing to the eyes than the baggy clothes of the 90s (I don’t wear skinny jeans FYI. Slim it due to my thunder thighs).

When this style goes out of fashion, the next generation of young guys will dress whatever is the new style. And then the old generation will predictable shit on the new generation. That’s how it’s always has been.

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” When this style goes out of fashion, the next generation of young guys will dress whatever is the new style. And then the old generation will predictable shit on the new generation. That’s how it’s always has been” Lol. I agree. I am not as masculine as my father, and he is not as masculine as his father, nor his grandfather or great grandfather. Each generation seems to be ” less “. It takes a long time living to actually see this in action ( hence the ‘ shitting on ” ) and by then it’s too late to… Read more »

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Interesting with Marc Anthony. He’s ugly according to several of my female family members but he was married to Jennifer Lopez while she was still in her prime. Now he’s dating some 21 year old, while 49 year old Lopez is with ARod (who notoriously dates older women…and was caught fucking escorts) who is far more handsome and masculine looking than Anthony.

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I call Marc Anthony ” Skeletor “. I too have heard many women say that he’s not handsome, but it doesn’t matter.

But it’s a good study. A-Rod is a super beta chump that has zero personality ( and never has ). Even with a quarter billion bucks, his lack of masculinity still shines through.

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I forgot, Marc was also married to a Miss Universe winner.

Ugly, skinny motherfucker…..lmao.

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Only one man in the history of the world has been able to pull off skinny jeans:

https://giphy.com/gifs/robert-plant-rzoaXjptq6zIY

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From Rollo’s twitter feed, “duckface” is over, the new thing for selfies is “sex dolling’.

Examples.

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Who says there is no culture in the current year?

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@j – Girl on the right your type or nah?
https://imgur.com/a/DjhgJvy
I approached her last night but I wasn’t remotely her type lol. (done the usual ignore then backturn thing). Living in a small town, I can find the facebook of every girl I try it on with really easily! Got a date tonight with a girl whose number I got a while back so fingers crossed

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@scars

beautiful face, but it’s difficult without seeing her ass and body.

does it look like this?

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or more like THIS?

https://www.instagram.com/p/BnSK4T4jfAd/?taken-by=christina_belanger

Also, don’t like her hairstyle.

Here’s a chick my buddy insta-dated a couple days ago with two different hairstyles:

shit hair: https://www.instagram.com/p/BnSXQy4FO4k/?taken-by=honeyandhotstuff

sexy hair: https://www.instagram.com/p/BVnLuocFzs8/?taken-by=honeyandhotstuff

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J, I ran into one of those yes girls…she was quite drunk and hit me with a shit test about being old right away, then her hands were all over me and she was telling men who surrounded her that I was her date. Later, as I was leaving and she was less drunk, she was next to me at a light and waved enthusiastically at me and shone her flashlight at me. A hot girl I’ve danced with before asked me to dance after midnight and didn’t expect me to know her name. I noticed a redhead’s hair color… Read more »

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@theasdgamer “we discussed men who stare all night but are too afraid to approach”. There was actually an interesting discussion on NextASF a couple days ago, of actually NOT approaching girls and just kind of standing next to them while ignoring them….looking aloof and unimpressed…which is what hot girls tend to do in clubs: https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/night-game/329009-the-strategy-of-purposely-ignoring-girls-in-nightclubs?p=329055#post329055 Whenever I’ve been in the same venue as a famous pickup artist, this is actually what I see them doing. It’s their bootcamp students, the ones who are actually going around mass approaching girls lol. It’s not my preferred strategy, but it’s worked for me… Read more »

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“actually NOT approaching girls and just kind of standing next to them while ignoring them….”

See my posts on “forced opens”

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Men ” hit the wall” @50 doe.😁 There are lots of guys that don’t take care of themselves regardless of age. I see 20 somethings that look like warmed over shit sometimes. I also see plenty of older guys holding up just fine. Watching young cats trying to figure it out is entertaining. Steroid talk and all that. Work out even semi regularly for 40 years and don’t eat shit good and see how you can look in your 50’s-60’s and even 70’s. It’s not hard nor is it magic nor does it cost money. You just have to love… Read more »

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Scars
I approached her last night but I wasn’t remotely her type lol.

You were Not In Her League, eh?

Buffering. It’s not useful.

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@j

“Lookism.net” is “The Forefront of the Coping movement“.

What is the “coping movement”? Words matter. “Coping” is a passive, rather feminine word.

Should men be coping, or should they be doing something else?

@Blaximus
I know some middle aged fat men. They started out as young fat men. Wonder what they’ll be 20 years from now?

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@Anonymous Reader: if middle age means 50+… 20 years from now many of them will be dead.

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@Anon
”You were Not In Her League, eh?”
Unfortunately not lol. She’s into handsome dudes! Very much my type, though.

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That’s not a league, that’s a preference. Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really. The overriding preference is for masculinity.

If you can’t challenge them…

That ” back turning ” thing is harsh though. You get to choose whether to try and smash that ( sometimes not worth it because she’s telegraphing that she’s a hitch for whatever reason ) or to just keep it moving..

No harm, no foul, no loss.

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Bitch, not ” hitch “.

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That ” back turning ” thing is harsh though. You get to choose whether to try and smash that ( sometimes not worth it because she’s telegraphing that she’s a hitch for whatever reason ) or to just keep it moving..

…a teasing backturn isn’t harsh…and who’s to say that women don’t like a little harshness in a man?…on Stargate SG1, Amanda was saying goodbye to the geeky scientist and hugged him and he noticed that she liked him…and she responded that she actually was more attracted to him when she didn’t like him….a Red Pill nugget in a sitcom….

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Yeah but these guys are on the clock. They’re trying to condense and compress interactions to score a lay.

More generally though, the back turn isn’t a huge deal, if you are trying to meet and get to know chicks. But under time constraints it might be a different story depending on social skills level ( …. Damn, now I’m thinking like ‘ them ‘ ).

You can.hang bang a chick that night, but you can also bang half the town or more over the long haul.

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@Anon
”You were Not In Her League, eh?”
Unfortunately not lol.

Whoosh!

There’s part of your problem.

She’s into handsome dudes!

She’s “into” pinging for Alpha.

Paging Having A Bad Day. Paging HABD. Helpling call…

Very much my type, though.

Well, then…what?

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Very much my type, though. Well, then…what? Very much up on a pedestal then, you place her. Good luck with that. Not that you can get everything you want. You can’t always get what you want… But if you try sometimes you just might find… You just might find…. You get what you need, oh yeah….–Rolling Stones Don’t you know how thirst works in someone with a fever? It is nothing like the thirst of a man in good health. He drinks and is no longer thirsty. The sick man is happy only for a moment, then is nauseous; he… Read more »

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Couple of solid posts by @realrob (lookism’s top slayer) confirming my post-lay texting advice I discussed a couple OPs ago (https://therationalmale.com/2018/09/26/body-language/#comment-263108): – https://lookism.net/Thread-Interesting-statistics-from-my-lays-these-14-months – https://lookism.net/Thread-How-much-depression-in-males-due-to-females-breaking-their-heart-do-u-think-exist?pid=3645542#pid3645542 some quotes from the threads: “Rule: After sex, do not, ever, under and circumstances, be the one initiating contact after u have fucked her. I never put in work after the initial meet up, never. If we exchange number, I NEVER text first, I let them do it, and when they do, I know for 100% they are interested and after that they are super easy to get out. Dont pursue, attract. Look at it… Read more »

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Wild Night Is Calling Van Morrison As you brush your shoes, stand before the mirror And you comb your hair, grab your coat and hat And you walk the streets trying to remember All the wild nights breezes in your memory ever And every thing looks so complete When you’re walking out on the streets And the wind, it catches your feet Sets you flying, crying Ooh wee, a wild night, is calling, alright Ooh wee, wild night, is calling All the girls walk by, dressed up for each other And the boys, do the boogie woogie On the corner… Read more »

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@scars @j – Girl on the right your type or nah? https://imgur.com/a/DjhgJvy I approached her last night but I wasn’t remotely her type lol. (done the usual ignore then backturn thing). Living in a small town, I can find the facebook of every girl I try it on with really easily! do you ever actually SEE what’s right in front of you?…lol… that^^^ girl is REALLY insecure…lol… (and i’m assuming the ‘butterflies’ were photoshopped in…lol… otherwise, even MORE insecure…lol… think about how long it takes her to get ready…) did YOU even notice the 2 zits on her chin that… Read more »

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@habd I know she’s not your type, but I thought she was hot, personally. (Lots of the guys ’10’s’ on rooshvforum are my 6’s and I guess it goes both ways lol). But yeah, she’s not amazing. I just posted it because it’s funny how i can easily find the pics of most girls that i approach due to living in a small town. I approached her with good sub coms and stuff but lots of young girls are just as superficial as us guys tbh. Was an opinion opener, and then a a tease when she basically said she… Read more »

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@HABD Thank you for your comment allowing me to clarify a bit more. On what exactly I do with regards to texting girls after fucking them. @newly feel free to archive this, post-lay texting shit. “even if you text that second example AFTER she texts first, i’m betting she ghosts you ASAP…” “you will also tend to lose girls that you could have converted on… especially if she is a popular girl (high HB#, yo!…lol)” I thought that was obvious. I don’t (and I’m pretty sure @realrob doesn’t) send girls anything remotely close to your second example. That’s advice for… Read more »

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“the 2 curls on her right side are likely to draw your eye away from that huge zit on her left cheek”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAQ8VLLkYm0

lol

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@j I just happened to see your comment. I create a page for you, but just know that I miss a lot of stuff here at TRM. I only post and read when I can.

But it’s here:
https://newlyaloof.wordpress.com/2018/10/22/js-game-snippets/

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@newly

lol thanks bro ❤❤❤

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@scars @habd I know she’s not your type, who said THAT!?…not me!…lol… but I thought she was hot, personally. (Lots of the guys ’10’s’ on rooshvforum are my 6’s and I guess it goes both ways lol). i thought she was really cute…lol…my point was that YOU need to actually SEE what is right in front of you…lol… in spite of the FI propaganda to the contrary, girls are not some mystical creatures…lol… and none of my pointing out her flaws was denigrating her ‘hotness’…lol… just trying to give YOU some perspective…lol But yeah, she’s not amazing. don’t run down… Read more »

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@j

So it’s a combo of not initiating contact first AND not hinting for a meet that gets me repeat business.

sooo, you’re saying that not hinting around at meeting her (not chasing/your frame) when you text her AND invoking leprechauns are effective at getting repeat bidness?… got it!…lol

good luck!

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@Blax drops another jewel.

“Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really. ”

I hope y’all are taking notes even though the discussion seems to go to the typical places

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It’s kinda typical for young girls to basically blank you if they don’t think you’re hot. You can try negging her or whatever, but they’ll tend to just walk away. I saw an article on the Guardian online talking about ‘how to beat a PUA’ or something, and it basically tells girls to just turn their back/walk away if some guy who they aren’t into approaches them. I think they’ve all read the article! lol

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I saw an article on the Guardian online talking about ‘how to beat a PUA’ or something, and it basically tells girls to just turn their back/walk away if some guy who they aren’t into approaches them.

That’s funny stuff. Did they copy some old article from 25 year old teen girlzines?

That “backturn/walkway” is just an attempt to set frame; who chases whom?

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“Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really.”

Scenario: 1:30 A.M at Da Club

3 set of HB8s standing around the bar, holding their Vodka Tonics, while engaged in a meaningless discussion amongst each other. All secretly hoping somebody attractive approaches them:

https://www.instagram.com/p/BRSCvFqgJ0u/?hl=en&taken-by=steephwef

You:

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You: Thinking to yourself “Damn those girls look fire. Alright 3 second rule. Time to approach! Here we go” *roll up, and proceed to open over the shoulder like Mystery said you should, with strong vocal tonality and strong eye contact*

Hey guys. Do you…

3 set:

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Fin.

lol.

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3 second rule?

Over the shoulder?

Strong eye contact?

Nah. Game.

Should be –

You: Not thinking to yourself….anything specific. Stay out of your head!!

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Just making fun of Mystery Method broski…. She may “prefer” tall muscular white men with blonde hair and blue eyes, like Hemingsworth, Pitt (in his prime), and Efron…..but she will give….lets say, the dude in my avatar, a chance to game her when he approaches her….because he passes her looks threshold….even tho he’s not her ideal/”preferred” option….If he fucks up or bores the fuck outta her (according to Gunwitch you need to hit 3 keys during an interaction in order to fuck a girl: social frame (“is this guy socially OK to fuck?”…he passed the looks threshold…so yeah) , sexual… Read more »

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J “Just trying be real….” Keep trying? It’s actually a little painful to have to relate experiences to Autists who will ignore everything their hyperfocus isn’t focused on. For non Autists… Sitting at a resort bar recently, three trolls take stools. None over 5 8, all sporting various degrees of BELLY and that unmistakable “J” look… Early 30s… Large noses with scruffy beards etc… Not a muscle between them… Oh yeah and a Elisha Cuthbert in her prime look alike 20 YO in a thong… Lol She was so hot I had to observe the dynamic… When she got up… Read more »

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@Sentient

“Early 30s… Large noses with scruffy beards etc…

Not a muscle between them…”

Losers

“She was so hot I had to observe the dynamic…”

“he said “go ahead… I want to watch the guys”

uhh?????

“And she just sat out there 20 feet away and played with her phone all alone. Nobody approached…”

come on now! Don’t you think you’re a little too old to still have Approach Anxiety?

“a Elisha Cuthbert in her prime look alike 20 YO in a thong…”

I mean if we’re talking Elisha in ‘House of Wax’ then you bet your ass I’d approach her

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I’d take that bet.

The point you are trying to ignore remains however.

Focus on the exceptions, that’s where you run into Exceptionalism.

Not on retardism.com, where circle jerks jerk jerkily.

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