For the past three years of The Rational Male there’s been a consistent presence in the comment threads of guys seeking advice for particular situations with regards to Game. Whether it’s fine tuning certain aspects of Game or a larger consensus of the guys participating in my comment threads it’s become obvious there’s a need for a dedicated page and comment thread to address these Field Reports.
So I’m instituting this page for exactly this. If there is some urgency to have members of The Rational Male community analyze your particular situation feel free to hit anyone up in the comments of my current post, but please refer them to your particular field report with a link to your comment here. I’m hoping this will alleviate the mass of posts for field report analysis and Game specific insights piled into the main blog post for any given week.
There will be some rules for this “forum” as such. I ask that you only keep your comments to addressing the field reports at hand and save your larger theoretical stuff for the main posts, or if relevant, keep the “bigger scope of things” posts to being as succinct as possible. There will be no moderation in this comment thread (spamming excepted), so realize it will be a very hot kitchen before you post. I will impose no restrictions on video links here, nor will I limit links to various, but pertinent articles.
Understand, this is an experiment for now. It’s likely this comment thread will exceed thousands of comments. I’ll be instituting new comment plug-ins for wordpress to deal with this in the future, but I may archive this page the the posts and refresh this page in the future as well. If this gets cumbersome I may simply institute a dedicated forum-style sub-site of The Rational Male to accommodate for Game specific questions.
So have at it, post your field reports and feel free to comment on the ones you have some particular insight for. Be forewarned that it’s likely things may get a bit salty at times and I expect a lot of back & forth with debate and disagreements, but that’s what this thread is for – to hash out Game particulars for your given situations.
Echo
fairly attractive, i’d say.
You talking about the girl or Tusk?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCM-8t8FULY
rolling up and hoping for an instant massive IOI /= Game
@echo I prefer this dudes infields, but tusk is good too.
@scars
paused at 14:28….”hot” lol
I skipped around a bit, but it looks to me like he’s just winging it, really. Giving a more [gay] friend to friend vibe than man to woman. And then the cringe self-invite to her apartment at 31 minutes. 100% she’s gonna flake on him.
There’s not a lot of good infields on youtube, but this one’s my favorite at the moment (the chick isn’t a 10/10 hot either but he’s game is rock solid):
https://youtu.be/FgDXFSHU7rA?t=119
@ j solid game? lol high pitched, whiny voice -1 (you can fix this) apologizes in his open -1 (shows lack of inner frame…low value) only occasionally faces the girl +1 he doesn’t even realize that he doesn’t need to apologize -1 (never overtly apologize unless you are caught red-handed in a serious gaffe and the girl asks for an apology and even then use it to extract compliance…”I understand how you feel and I hate it that I’m such an asshole…please forgive me”) the dude understands that he can leverage previous connections…this really only works if the girl is… Read more »
@theasdgamer “solid game? lol” Rock solid. Watch past the first 5 minutes and see for yourself. Or do you also have ADHD in addition to ASD? “high pitched, whiny voice -1” yet Aaron voices is deep and manly and he gets nowhere with his girl. Focus on the big picture. “apologizes in his open -1 (shows lack of inner frame…low value)” There is a difference between a social “sorry”. and a legit “sorry”. Like how guys open with “excuse me (“WHAT??? ALPHA MEN NEVER SAY EXCUSE ME, THEY JUST TAKE WHAT THEY WANT!!!”) , do you guys have a cigarette?”… Read more »
I wonder what the average age of these guys that post these infield videos online is. This stuff is mostly targeted at young ( teens through early twenties) yes? It seems like infield vids are usually posted by guys in their 30’s or older, that have been into pua for a fairly long time, but by that age they should be better than their posting shows. All they are doing is talking to chicks and saying they got a same night lay. But there’s not much in the interaction related to take as far as I can see. What’s being… Read more »
yet Aaron voices is deep and manly and he gets nowhere with his girl. Focus on the big picture. You don’t get it. A man’s voice should be musical, not merely deep. Varying tones. Musical. Not whiny. Not monotonously deep tones. Musical. The same is true of a woman’s voice, although it will be an octave or two higher. A man’s voice should not be whiny. But obviously the dude’s voice wasn’t a turn off for the girl. The girl was likely DTF from the get go because he ignored her previously and she’s so insecure. Her perceived relative SMV… Read more »
Asd
Guys speak differently than they have in the past. It’s a function of feminized society. Like wearing tight skinny pants and shit.😁
Like wearing tight skinny pants
…cuts off circulation to the balls and they shrink…
” . . . tight skinny pants . . .” . . . which are more often than not hip huggers, which are more overtly feminine than skinny (and even skirts) is. Skinny, tight, hip hugging capris makes a man look like he’s been stealing clothes from his kid sister, and this isn’t merely an matter of fashion, but of anatomy and biology. Men and women are built differently and display different sexual cues. When women first started wearing shitkicker pants they were only made for men and the fit on women was horrible, so they demanded and got pants… Read more »
“It seems like infield vids are usually posted by guys in their 30’s or older, that have been into pua for a fairly long time, but by that age they should be better than their posting shows” Agreed. Most puas on youtube suck. All my wingmen (all of them under 7 years experience), would have recorded a far better infield than the one Aaron just posted. The best would have fucked her that same day (if she was his type). “All they are doing is talking to chicks and saying they got a same night lay. But there’s not much… Read more »
“It’s a function of feminized society. Like wearing tight skinny pants and shit”
haha yeah look at these feminine skinny pants wearing virgins:
@ j
that video is a perfect example of what I was talking about. These guys are fairly femine in their actions and dress, but it’s fairly accepted now and most young people don’t know anything but this ” style “. this has been a victory for feminism because those motherfuckers play a very long game.
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0KXQ9UknPQ&w=854&h=480%5D Marc Anthony is not particularly handsome, he’s not overly groomed, and he doesn’t do anything ” skinny ” besides the fact that he is extremely skinny himself. Every concert I’ve been to of his in the past 20 years, he has a real, full band that blows the roof off the building, and chicks scream until they lose their voices. A few years back I went to see Pitbull, with Enrique Iglesias as the opening act. I enjoyed Enrique because he can actually sing a little, but the contrast in masculinity between him and Pitbull was blinding….to me.… Read more »
@blax
Young guys dress this way (fuckboi style) and style their hair a certain way because young hot girls like it. And it’s far more aesthetically pleasing to the eyes than the baggy clothes of the 90s (I don’t wear skinny jeans FYI. Slim it due to my thunder thighs).
When this style goes out of fashion, the next generation of young guys will dress whatever is the new style. And then the old generation will predictable shit on the new generation. That’s how it’s always has been.
” When this style goes out of fashion, the next generation of young guys will dress whatever is the new style. And then the old generation will predictable shit on the new generation. That’s how it’s always has been” Lol. I agree. I am not as masculine as my father, and he is not as masculine as his father, nor his grandfather or great grandfather. Each generation seems to be ” less “. It takes a long time living to actually see this in action ( hence the ‘ shitting on ” ) and by then it’s too late to… Read more »
Interesting with Marc Anthony. He’s ugly according to several of my female family members but he was married to Jennifer Lopez while she was still in her prime. Now he’s dating some 21 year old, while 49 year old Lopez is with ARod (who notoriously dates older women…and was caught fucking escorts) who is far more handsome and masculine looking than Anthony.
[youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCRv72SKe20&w=1280&h=720%5D
I call Marc Anthony ” Skeletor “. I too have heard many women say that he’s not handsome, but it doesn’t matter.
But it’s a good study. A-Rod is a super beta chump that has zero personality ( and never has ). Even with a quarter billion bucks, his lack of masculinity still shines through.
J
I forgot, Marc was also married to a Miss Universe winner.
Ugly, skinny motherfucker…..lmao.
Only one man in the history of the world has been able to pull off skinny jeans:
https://giphy.com/gifs/robert-plant-rzoaXjptq6zIY
From Rollo’s twitter feed, “duckface” is over, the new thing for selfies is “sex dolling’.
Examples.
Who says there is no culture in the current year?
@j – Girl on the right your type or nah?
https://imgur.com/a/DjhgJvy
I approached her last night but I wasn’t remotely her type lol. (done the usual ignore then backturn thing). Living in a small town, I can find the facebook of every girl I try it on with really easily! Got a date tonight with a girl whose number I got a while back so fingers crossed
@scars
beautiful face, but it’s difficult without seeing her ass and body.
does it look like this?
or more like THIS?
https://www.instagram.com/p/BnSK4T4jfAd/?taken-by=christina_belanger
Also, don’t like her hairstyle.
Here’s a chick my buddy insta-dated a couple days ago with two different hairstyles:
shit hair: https://www.instagram.com/p/BnSXQy4FO4k/?taken-by=honeyandhotstuff
sexy hair: https://www.instagram.com/p/BVnLuocFzs8/?taken-by=honeyandhotstuff
J, I ran into one of those yes girls…she was quite drunk and hit me with a shit test about being old right away, then her hands were all over me and she was telling men who surrounded her that I was her date. Later, as I was leaving and she was less drunk, she was next to me at a light and waved enthusiastically at me and shone her flashlight at me. A hot girl I’ve danced with before asked me to dance after midnight and didn’t expect me to know her name. I noticed a redhead’s hair color… Read more »
@theasdgamer “we discussed men who stare all night but are too afraid to approach”. There was actually an interesting discussion on NextASF a couple days ago, of actually NOT approaching girls and just kind of standing next to them while ignoring them….looking aloof and unimpressed…which is what hot girls tend to do in clubs: https://nextasf.com/forum/nextasf/night-game/329009-the-strategy-of-purposely-ignoring-girls-in-nightclubs?p=329055#post329055 Whenever I’ve been in the same venue as a famous pickup artist, this is actually what I see them doing. It’s their bootcamp students, the ones who are actually going around mass approaching girls lol. It’s not my preferred strategy, but it’s worked for me… Read more »
Wow
https://www.instagram.com/p/BkS7ls6g_Y3/?hl=en
https://lookism.net/Thread-Rate-this-56-years-old-CHAD-Power-of-beard-hair-halo
“actually NOT approaching girls and just kind of standing next to them while ignoring them….”
See my posts on “forced opens”
Men ” hit the wall” @50 doe.😁 There are lots of guys that don’t take care of themselves regardless of age. I see 20 somethings that look like warmed over shit sometimes. I also see plenty of older guys holding up just fine. Watching young cats trying to figure it out is entertaining. Steroid talk and all that. Work out even semi regularly for 40 years and don’t eat shit good and see how you can look in your 50’s-60’s and even 70’s. It’s not hard nor is it magic nor does it cost money. You just have to love… Read more »
Scars
I approached her last night but I wasn’t remotely her type lol.
You were Not In Her League, eh?
Buffering. It’s not useful.
@j
“Lookism.net” is “The Forefront of the Coping movement“.
What is the “coping movement”? Words matter. “Coping” is a passive, rather feminine word.
Should men be coping, or should they be doing something else?
@Blaximus
I know some middle aged fat men. They started out as young fat men. Wonder what they’ll be 20 years from now?
@Anonymous Reader: if middle age means 50+… 20 years from now many of them will be dead.
@Anon
”You were Not In Her League, eh?”
Unfortunately not lol. She’s into handsome dudes! Very much my type, though.
That’s not a league, that’s a preference. Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really. The overriding preference is for masculinity.
If you can’t challenge them…
That ” back turning ” thing is harsh though. You get to choose whether to try and smash that ( sometimes not worth it because she’s telegraphing that she’s a hitch for whatever reason ) or to just keep it moving..
No harm, no foul, no loss.
Bitch, not ” hitch “.
That ” back turning ” thing is harsh though. You get to choose whether to try and smash that ( sometimes not worth it because she’s telegraphing that she’s a hitch for whatever reason ) or to just keep it moving.. …a teasing backturn isn’t harsh…and who’s to say that women don’t like a little harshness in a man?…on Stargate SG1, Amanda was saying goodbye to the geeky scientist and hugged him and he noticed that she liked him…and she responded that she actually was more attracted to him when she didn’t like him….a Red Pill nugget in a sitcom….… Read more »
Yeah but these guys are on the clock. They’re trying to condense and compress interactions to score a lay.
More generally though, the back turn isn’t a huge deal, if you are trying to meet and get to know chicks. But under time constraints it might be a different story depending on social skills level ( …. Damn, now I’m thinking like ‘ them ‘ ).
You can.hang bang a chick that night, but you can also bang half the town or more over the long haul.
scars
@Anon
”You were Not In Her League, eh?”
Unfortunately not lol.
Whoosh!
There’s part of your problem.
She’s into handsome dudes!
She’s “into” pinging for Alpha.
Paging Having A Bad Day. Paging HABD. Helpling call…
Very much my type, though.
Well, then…what?
Very much my type, though. Well, then…what? Very much up on a pedestal then, you place her. Good luck with that. Not that you can get everything you want. You can’t always get what you want… But if you try sometimes you just might find… You just might find…. You get what you need, oh yeah….–Rolling Stones Don’t you know how thirst works in someone with a fever? It is nothing like the thirst of a man in good health. He drinks and is no longer thirsty. The sick man is happy only for a moment, then is nauseous; he… Read more »
Couple of solid posts by @realrob (lookism’s top slayer) confirming my post-lay texting advice I discussed a couple OPs ago (https://therationalmale.com/2018/09/26/body-language/#comment-263108): – https://lookism.net/Thread-Interesting-statistics-from-my-lays-these-14-months – https://lookism.net/Thread-How-much-depression-in-males-due-to-females-breaking-their-heart-do-u-think-exist?pid=3645542#pid3645542 some quotes from the threads: “Rule: After sex, do not, ever, under and circumstances, be the one initiating contact after u have fucked her. I never put in work after the initial meet up, never. If we exchange number, I NEVER text first, I let them do it, and when they do, I know for 100% they are interested and after that they are super easy to get out. Dont pursue, attract. Look at it… Read more »
Wild Night Is Calling Van Morrison As you brush your shoes, stand before the mirror And you comb your hair, grab your coat and hat And you walk the streets trying to remember All the wild nights breezes in your memory ever And every thing looks so complete When you’re walking out on the streets And the wind, it catches your feet Sets you flying, crying Ooh wee, a wild night, is calling, alright Ooh wee, wild night, is calling All the girls walk by, dressed up for each other And the boys, do the boogie woogie On the corner… Read more »
@scars @j – Girl on the right your type or nah? https://imgur.com/a/DjhgJvy I approached her last night but I wasn’t remotely her type lol. (done the usual ignore then backturn thing). Living in a small town, I can find the facebook of every girl I try it on with really easily! do you ever actually SEE what’s right in front of you?…lol… that^^^ girl is REALLY insecure…lol… (and i’m assuming the ‘butterflies’ were photoshopped in…lol… otherwise, even MORE insecure…lol… think about how long it takes her to get ready…) did YOU even notice the 2 zits on her chin that… Read more »
@habd I know she’s not your type, but I thought she was hot, personally. (Lots of the guys ’10’s’ on rooshvforum are my 6’s and I guess it goes both ways lol). But yeah, she’s not amazing. I just posted it because it’s funny how i can easily find the pics of most girls that i approach due to living in a small town. I approached her with good sub coms and stuff but lots of young girls are just as superficial as us guys tbh. Was an opinion opener, and then a a tease when she basically said she… Read more »
@HABD Thank you for your comment allowing me to clarify a bit more. On what exactly I do with regards to texting girls after fucking them. @newly feel free to archive this, post-lay texting shit. “even if you text that second example AFTER she texts first, i’m betting she ghosts you ASAP…” “you will also tend to lose girls that you could have converted on… especially if she is a popular girl (high HB#, yo!…lol)” I thought that was obvious. I don’t (and I’m pretty sure @realrob doesn’t) send girls anything remotely close to your second example. That’s advice for… Read more »
“the 2 curls on her right side are likely to draw your eye away from that huge zit on her left cheek”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAQ8VLLkYm0
lol
@j I just happened to see your comment. I create a page for you, but just know that I miss a lot of stuff here at TRM. I only post and read when I can.
But it’s here:
https://newlyaloof.wordpress.com/2018/10/22/js-game-snippets/
@newly
lol thanks bro ❤❤❤
@scars @habd I know she’s not your type, who said THAT!?…not me!…lol… but I thought she was hot, personally. (Lots of the guys ’10’s’ on rooshvforum are my 6’s and I guess it goes both ways lol). i thought she was really cute…lol…my point was that YOU need to actually SEE what is right in front of you…lol… in spite of the FI propaganda to the contrary, girls are not some mystical creatures…lol… and none of my pointing out her flaws was denigrating her ‘hotness’…lol… just trying to give YOU some perspective…lol But yeah, she’s not amazing. don’t run down… Read more »
@j
So it’s a combo of not initiating contact first AND not hinting for a meet that gets me repeat business.
sooo, you’re saying that not hinting around at meeting her (not chasing/your frame) when you text her AND invoking leprechauns are effective at getting repeat bidness?… got it!…lol
good luck!
@Blax drops another jewel.
“Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really. ”
I hope y’all are taking notes even though the discussion seems to go to the typical places
It’s kinda typical for young girls to basically blank you if they don’t think you’re hot. You can try negging her or whatever, but they’ll tend to just walk away. I saw an article on the Guardian online talking about ‘how to beat a PUA’ or something, and it basically tells girls to just turn their back/walk away if some guy who they aren’t into approaches them. I think they’ve all read the article! lol
I saw an article on the Guardian online talking about ‘how to beat a PUA’ or something, and it basically tells girls to just turn their back/walk away if some guy who they aren’t into approaches them.
That’s funny stuff. Did they copy some old article from 25 year old teen girlzines?
That “backturn/walkway” is just an attempt to set frame; who chases whom?
“Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really.” Scenario: 1:30 A.M at Da Club 3 set of HB8s standing around the bar, holding their Vodka Tonics, while engaged in a meaningless discussion amongst each other. All secretly hoping somebody attractive approaches them: https://www.instagram.com/p/BRSCvFqgJ0u/?hl=en&taken-by=steephwef You: You: Thinking to yourself “Damn those girls look fire. Alright 3 second rule. Time to approach! Here we go” *roll up, and proceed to open over the shoulder like Mystery said you should, with strong vocal tonality and strong eye contact* Hey guys. Do you… 3 set: ?itemid=4728029… Read more »
3 second rule?
Over the shoulder?
Strong eye contact?
Nah. Game.
Should be –
You: Not thinking to yourself….anything specific. Stay out of your head!!
Just making fun of Mystery Method broski…. She may “prefer” tall muscular white men with blonde hair and blue eyes, like Hemingsworth, Pitt (in his prime), and Efron…..but she will give….lets say, the dude in my avatar, a chance to game her when he approaches her….because he passes her looks threshold….even tho he’s not her ideal/”preferred” option….If he fucks up or bores the fuck outta her (according to Gunwitch you need to hit 3 keys during an interaction in order to fuck a girl: social frame (“is this guy socially OK to fuck?”…he passed the looks threshold…so yeah) , sexual… Read more »
J “Just trying be real….” Keep trying? It’s actually a little painful to have to relate experiences to Autists who will ignore everything their hyperfocus isn’t focused on. For non Autists… Sitting at a resort bar recently, three trolls take stools. None over 5 8, all sporting various degrees of BELLY and that unmistakable “J” look… Early 30s… Large noses with scruffy beards etc… Not a muscle between them… Oh yeah and a Elisha Cuthbert in her prime look alike 20 YO in a thong… Lol She was so hot I had to observe the dynamic… When she got up… Read more »
@Sentient “Early 30s… Large noses with scruffy beards etc… Not a muscle between them…” Losers “She was so hot I had to observe the dynamic…” “he said “go ahead… I want to watch the guys” uhh????? “And she just sat out there 20 feet away and played with her phone all alone. Nobody approached…” come on now! Don’t you think you’re a little too old to still have Approach Anxiety? “a Elisha Cuthbert in her prime look alike 20 YO in a thong…” I mean if we’re talking Elisha in ‘House of Wax’ then you bet your ass I’d approach… Read more »
I’d take that bet.
The point you are trying to ignore remains however.
Focus on the exceptions, that’s where you run into Exceptionalism.
Not on retardism.com, where circle jerks jerk jerkily.
@Sentient lol ok ok, but seriously. “But you have some hypothetical so…” Hmm, I’ll take Social Circle game for $100. below average dudes with cute girlfriends: “They have friends/social circles and are reasonably NT (not autistic), can talk, have hobbies, are blue pilled and don’t know about their girls sexual fantasies – especially during ovulation. But they are just nice guys with decent connections so they usually end up with a girl, more often than not a cute slim one, at least in sweden where those girls are absolutely everywhere. I think some people here dont understand that women have… Read more »
@ j I actually wrote a couple of paragraphs after ” Nah. Game “, but decided against posting them. I do that often because I’m not a pua and a lot of what I’d say might go against whatever some pua dude has said – hence you won’t hear me like Hellen Keller. But sometimes, some of the stuff you relay that has been taught isn’t accurate about women. It’s a misleading generalization. Women get into LTR’s with ” bad boy ” types all the time. Chicks will bang an old fat guy in anonymity sometimes, because anonymous. On average… Read more »
her personal 10….she’ll look pass the fact that he’s kinda boring notreally and if she’s this hot….her friends will assist in making it happen with the former lol, no way in hell will her friends help with a boring dude…not what I see when I’m out…if he’s a 10 in looks, his game has to match or else it’s no sale…less game is required of less good looking guys…must be SMV+1 to her to even get her attention…your SMV is based on game, essentially… BUT! No point in getting upset over NO girls +1 lol. like Todd said….It’s better to… Read more »
Those dudes on lookism crack me up.
“I have a chick in my house crying over some tatted up thug that she thought she had a ” relationship ” with ( he had other thoughts, but played her like PlayStation ).” Woo! Playas 1 sloots 0. “best done before you approach using Preselection” I know homie. But wat if u spot an HB9 leaving Panera Bread heading toward her car, and you ugly as sin….how da fuck you gonna use “preselection” before you approach her??? “NO girl converted to Maybe girl…it’s simply because of Preselection…” what the fuck are you talking about? the only “conversion” that matters… Read more »
At any given moment I have a chick in my house crying over some tatted up thug that she thought she had a ” relationship ” with ( he had other thoughts, but played her like PlayStation ). I play them like a piano. Classier, with beautiful music. They are only dissatisfied that they don’t get ALL my attention. hehe Women get into LTR’s with ” bad boy ” types all the time. +1 (a woman prefers LTRs with Bad Boys ™, but can almost never manage to land one) If you are specifically talking about club pickups, then it… Read more »
missed this:
“no way in hell will her friends help with a boring dude…”
what I said: he’s kinda boring.
like not having an amazing personality. Just your typical good looking normie/NPC that likes all the popular stuff.
“not what I see when I’m out…”
lol. Talk to more chicks.
asd
there are no ” good girls “. There are only girls.
I agree that girls a ” wired ” the same, but they react differently in different settings. The thing is to understand how to get what you want from them regardless of where they might be or what they were initially thinking.
See, I’m not up on all that ” preselection ” and whatnot, but If you can talk to women, hold a decent unscripted conversation, you’d be surprised.
I know homie. But wat if u spot an HB9 leaving Panera Bread heading toward her car, and you ugly as sin….how da fuck you gonna use “preselection” before you approach her??? “Do you have the time? My cell died and I’m late to see my friend who’s a cashier…we’re supposed to go out with her friends Sat. night.” (smile your best shit eating grin) Obviously, in a club, in Panera’s, at parties, etc., it’s easy to generate Preselection…even your manner with women will carry over Preselection…me being married and going out solo messages Preselection…”How do you get away with… Read more »
“not what I see when I’m out…”
lol. Talk to more chicks.
I’m gonna let you in on a secret. Women have no idea what they like. Believe what women do, not what they say.
@theasdgamer
“But he was hot tho.” – something this sloot uttered as part of a conversation I was having with her about being disappointed when she finds out hot guys have boring personalities. And then she (undergraduate 19 yo student at FIT…a school where the vast majority of guys she interacts with on a daily basis are homos) told me she’s actually hooked up with a couple random hot boring guys she’s met at bars. She told me that it’s fine because she just won’t see those guys again. Zero strings attached.
@J October 23, 2018 at 2:28 pm “Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really.” Scenario: 1:30 A.M at Da Club 3 set of HB8s standing around the bar, holding their Vodka Tonics, while engaged in a meaningless discussion amongst each other. All secretly hoping somebody attractive approaches them: https://www.instagram.com/p/BRSCvFqgJ0u/?hl=en&taken-by=steephwef You: You: Thinking to yourself “Damn those girls look fire. Alright 3 second rule. Time to approach! Here we go” *roll up, and proceed to open over the shoulder like Mystery said you should, with strong vocal tonality and strong eye contact*… Read more »
”“Most women think they have solid unwavering preferences until someone shows them that they don’t really.” Scenario: 1:30 A.M at Da Club 3 set of HB8s standing around the bar, holding their Vodka Tonics, while engaged in a meaningless discussion amongst each other. All secretly hoping somebody attractive approaches them: https://www.instagram.com/p/BRSCvFqgJ0u/?hl=en&taken-by=steephwef You: You: Thinking to yourself “Damn those girls look fire. Alright 3 second rule. Time to approach! Here we go” *roll up, and proceed to open over the shoulder like Mystery said you should, with strong vocal tonality and strong eye contact* Hey guys. Do you… 3 set: ?itemid=4728029… Read more »
she’s actually hooked up with a couple random hot boring guys she’s met at bars. She told me that it’s fine because she just won’t see those guys again. …because the rest of the guys were even more boring…you just have to be the hottest (maybe just 1% hotter than the 2nd hottest) guy in the bar (std YaReally, btw)…a choice between ugly and boring or handsome and boring isn’t a great choice…that’s why she pumped and dumped them…I see this a lot…young PUAs getting P&D… …how many times have you been dumped and how many times have you had… Read more »
@Palmsailor,
Women are experiencing what it feels like to be a relegated beta males with the advent of these sex dolls.
Don’t even need the full doll either (NSFW) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lf9q7ZS1_os
And there’s even videos on how to make your own FleshLight out of a pringles can. lol!
All three versions don’t nag either.
“But wat if u spot an HB9 leaving Panera Bread heading toward her car, and you ugly as sin….how da fuck you gonna use “preselection” before you approach her???” Oh boy… what ever happened to “subcomms”? “…because the rest of the guys were even more boring…you just have to be the hottest (maybe just 1% hotter than the 2nd hottest) guy in the bar (std YaReally, btw)…” Yareally wept… lol but for real… J – now that you’ve erected an enormous monument of “limiting beliefs”, it’s time you set to work on demolishing them. Follow Ya’s advice and go out… Read more »
@newlyaloof
hahahaha ..I just died from laughing with the Fuck Me Silly video and the comments…
“This man is a god for keeping a straight face”
Hello Japan.
@theasdgamer “…how many times have you been dumped” I’ve been dumped plenty of times for fucking up the asshole/sweet guy balance, by tipping the scale a litttttle bit too much on the asshole/player side (no dates/no commitment). In my earlier years I’d be ghosted for wanting to hang out with them too much due to scarcity of girls. “how many times have you had to Next a girl because she was getting too bitchy?” I don’t next girls for being bitches. I lol. Now, If a girl sucks in bed or her personality doesn’t mesh well with my sense of… Read more »
That means that they’ll make everything you do, all the verbal game, state transfer, social proof, NLP, sex-talk, curiosity gambits, stacks or whatever, slightly more powerful.
yeah… image a slight improvement in powerfulness Wowza!!!
How about a few SD increase? Imagine that?
You can’t, sadly.
How many plates you take off the bar when you go to the gym?
The irony here is I’m telling you this as an above average looking guy (who beat Yareally soundly in the “looks don’t matter” debate – flat heads notwithstanding HABD lol) with twice your life experience…
smh
https://www.instagram.com/p/BpIsIPTAgRi/?hl=en&taken-by=steven_lyon
@Sentient
SD?
“How many plates you take off the bar when you go to the gym?”
https://lookism.net/Thread-Red-Pill-Reminder-about-gymcelling-in-order-to-be-more-attractive?pid=1568291#pid1568291
http://foxhoundstudio.com/blog/fitness-lifestyle/the-ideal-male-physique-%E2%80%94-what-girls-want-want-guys-want-to-be/
Aesthetics > strength, brah
standard deviation
How aesthetic is your frame?
Actually, if lay counts means much, Henry Kissinger’s obese body wins hands down.
Looks only make your game even more powerful:
…but only if your game keeps track…less game is expected of ugly guys…which explains Kissinger’s count…his status didn’t hurt…but he had awesome game…his game far exceeded his looks…
women looking at pitchers and saying shit…meh…doesn’t match what they actually do, based on what I’ve seen…
…and if you need a glass of water, take a pitcher, it’ll last longer…
@J – ”Aesthetics > strength, brah True for young girls. Mainly facial aesthetics. If you don’t reach their minimum threshold of handsome on a cold approach, then ‘game’ will never work on them. Doesn’t matter how much you try to neg and show that you have a stronger ‘frame’ etc. She doesn’t give a shit lol. She’ll just blank you or grab her friends are for her to save her If you are her idea of physical perfection, then you can get away with being extremely boring (no game) and still get the lay, most of the time. With older… Read more »
@J – ”Aesthetics > strength, brah
True for young girls.
“But just who is Leila George, the 24-year-old lover of Oscar winner Penn, 56?”
lol, Sean Penn the famous actor millionaire? haha!
@theasdgamer “his status didn’t hurt” “power was the ultimate aphrodisiac” – Kissenger. ”I just grabbed him by the pussy”, “When you’re a star they let you do it, you can do anything” – Trump. High Status (80%) + minimum game (20%), is how ugly fat fucks like Kissenger and your boy, Bob Hope, got laid so much. RSD Tyler: “50% of the people who go out in west hollywood are the same people week in and week out” “i’ve made friends with all the bartenders, bouncers, regulars, club owners, etc” “everyone knows me and my business and tons of girls… Read more »
Shouldn’t really use famous people as examples guys. It’s silly. Justin Bieber might be like an 8 in looks, but put him up against a 10/10 male model who isn’t very famous and the model wouldn’t stand a chance against Bieber due to his fame. Send mystery out into the crowd to try to bang one of the teenagers in the Beiber crowd when the possibility of banging Bieber is in the air, and mystery likely gets rejected by every single girl in the crowd! In Penn’s case, even if he wasn’t rich and famous, he still might be able… Read more »
”I just grabbed [them] by the pussy”
LMAOOO! just noticed the typo. Pulled the quote from here:
https://timothyrhaslett.wordpress.com/tag/henry-kissinger/
Echo Famous people are the whipping boy in pua-land. It’s got nothing to do with ” average joe palooka ” and it’s a tremendous waste of time to look at what famous dudes or rich dudes do. What’s better is when you watch them over time and see how the bulk of them wind up. Guys time would be better spent self improving and then paying attention to the how’s and why’s of women reacting to it. Many. Guys. Miss. This. Completely. they never develop that helpful skillset that is useful with everyone and not just chicks. Smart people already… Read more »
@Everyone: advice request. I have a hobby that leads to occasional hotties showing up from abroad to play in group settings. Yesterday someone on facebook showed up and on short notice it was just me, another local guy and the girl. Girl is fit and has quite an ok face. For you guys probably a 6 😛 Wasn’t dolled up. Would definitely bang. We spend some time alternating and it is something which naturally leads to kino, but between everyone so not necessarily man-woman vibe from there. At the end of the session I said I’m going to the supermarket… Read more »
@Palma: I confess, I legit thought about the only restaurant I knew in the area (need to do my homework so I know more) but I threw that option out because a) she already had a dinner plan b) insta-dinner is more than I should devote to someone I just met. Insta-drinks is a good move – but I don’t drink, didn’t occur to me (should have) and I don’t know places in the are (need to do my homework now before I miss another opportunity). Event (you know the activity, is that one I suggested to you several weeks… Read more »
You put fat fuck Kissenger and me in a random popular nightclub on a random night without anyone knowing who either of us are, I’d destroy him. Easily. Look how stupid this is. You’re never going to be in a club with Kissinger, unless you are a busboy… and you aren’t going to find a place where no one knows who he is… Which is the point. To the autistic moaning about “teh famous guys”… reflect upon “how” they got there… Few are born famous. Echo – ” Maybe bang 1 in 300 he approaches (with his look and with… Read more »
IAS Palma Should have bounced her for a ‘quick’ drink on the way to the store or better still lock her down immediately after the event you were at in the adjoining bar – I’ll bet there was one. This. Momentum. Always go with the momentum. Once she is walking with you it’s on YOU to LEAD her someplace… physically then mentally… This was the time to just say “I’m … [fill in the blank]. Come with me a minute” and BOOM! Off you go. You lead. Fill in the blank with anything, drink is always the best because it… Read more »
@Sentient, Palma: many thanks for the advice! I didn’t quite spot by myself the full extent of the thing. In real time, I got that I got her in isolation and that I was leading her (at least)… But I didn’t realize I was LEADING her and that I could have led her all the way into the “daylight” (the “daylight” is my cock). Still need to make that mental shift. My logical brain was all “damn, she already has dinner plans”. I even asked her the time she needed to be there (idiot). I only disagree with the alcohol… Read more »
If Kissinger didn’t have High status aka he was just your typical fat jew, and I were in a club he’d be dead. See the Prince Harry without High status vs with High status example above.
““how” they got there”
Born rich and with good genetics, viral video, sex tape, lucky break (right place at right time), slept with the “right people”, married someone famous…
IAS
Bitters have like 0.01% alcohol.
By the time Kissinger was 24, he’d done a hell of a lot… Early life and education Kissinger was born Heinz Alfred Kissinger in Fürth, Bavaria, Germany, in 1923 during the Weimar Republic, to a family of German Jews.[10] His father, Louis Kissinger (1887–1982), was a schoolteacher. His mother, Paula (Stern) Kissinger (1901–1998), from Leutershausen, was a homemaker. Kissinger has a younger brother, Walter Kissinger (born 1924). The surname Kissinger was adopted in 1817 by his great-great-grandfather Meyer Löb, after the Bavarian spa town of Bad Kissingen.[11] In youth, Heinz enjoyed playing soccer, and played for the youth wing of… Read more »